Just Between Us

Just Between Us

Allison Raskin, Gabe S. Dunn | Diamond MPrint Productions

Just Between Us is a comedic variety show where Allison Raskin and Gabe Dunn openly discuss everything from mental health to sex and all the stuff in-between. Each week, they’ll answer a question from a listener seeking advice, interview someone fascinating, participate in a rarely winnable game show and discuss a random topic affecting the world. Jump from highbrow to lowbrow in a single episode! Sometimes multiple times! Nothing is off limits for these New York Times best selling authors who are trying to destigmatize the world one hilarious episode at a time. Produced by Diamond MPrint Productions.

TLDRI: Hey Man, Light My Cheese On Fire!!

TLDRI: Hey Man, Light My Cheese On Fire!!

Melisa's dirty joke sparks a new ideology. r/relationshipadvice shockingly proves that sometimes getting a dog isn't the answer. r/confessions features an OP who is overlooking his new girlfriend's bad behavior because of her looks. r/nostupidquestions wonders if waiters can refuse certain orders. r/losangeles ask what it's like to be a regular. And finally, radioactive twinkies. Check out all of our content on Patreon, Ad Free! Watch the full episodes of TLDRI, listen to the full episodes of Th

Feb 19, • 37:02

Indigenous Journalism with Charly Edsitty, Obsessively Googling A Stranger and Working Retail

Indigenous Journalism with Charly Edsitty, Obsessively Googling A Stranger and Working Retail

Allison is loving being a relationship coach! A listener writes in because her partner won't stop googling a random girl--multiple times a day. Journalist Charly Edsitty joins the chat to share what's been going on in tribal communities that mainstream media misses--including a fight for water. And finally, Gabe dishes on his new day-job. Check out all of our content on Patreon, Ad Free! Watch the full episodes of TLDRI, listen to the full episodes of The Variety Show, watch the International Qu

Feb 12, • 21:47

TLDRI: We Could Have Solved A Murder But Instead It’s February

TLDRI: We Could Have Solved A Murder But Instead It’s February

Melisa explains the story of a husband who faked his own death. (After we recorded, he turned himself in.) What are our movie trope pet peeves? Then we head to r/whitepeopletwitter for a timeline of what it means to be progressive and counterculture. r/raisedbynarcissists brings us a story about a man who finally stands up to his mother. A female coworker asks a man to be her maid of honor for an offensive reason. And finally homemade umbrella-ella-ella eh eh eh!Check out all of our content on P

Feb 5, • 49:58

Modern Dating with The Dateable Podcast, Surface Level Friends, and Anxiety Triggers

Modern Dating with The Dateable Podcast, Surface Level Friends, and Anxiety Triggers

Gabe and Allison worry about their attention spans. Then, the duo gives advice to someone wondering about reconciling with a former friend and creative partner with whom they no longer want to be as close. Next, Julie and Yue of the Dateable Podcast join the show to nerd out about modern dating, ways to find more success on the apps, the misconceptions and why “icks” don’t allow for real relationships. In Hypotheticals, Gabe somehow manages to make it about blackmail. And finally, anxiety trigge

Jan 29, • 32:22

TLDRI: The Appropriate Level of Ethylene Glycol is Zero

TLDRI: The Appropriate Level of Ethylene Glycol is Zero

The group discusses candy--in depth. r/self features a lovely nighttime ritual. A long tangent about movie trailers. r/weirdlyspecific sparks an Allison rant. r/relationshipadvice has an OP who is in a tricky financial situation. r/doctorsofreddit asks what was the best self-diagnosis they've heard. r/movies shows how misinformation can transform one's viewing experience. And finally, what even counts as a vegetable these days? Check out all of our content on Patreon, Ad Free! Watch the full epi

Jan 22, • 48:33

Motherhood and Non-Monogamy with Molly Roden Winter, The Aftermath Of Gabe's Attack, and The Masculinity Crisis

Motherhood and Non-Monogamy with Molly Roden Winter, The Aftermath Of Gabe's Attack, and The Masculinity Crisis

Gabe shares his horrific road rage incident from the perspective of one day after it happened. (We recorded this episode in November!) Author Molly Roden Winter joins the chat to discuss opening her marriage and her life to public scrutiny through her memoir MORE. And finally, the masculinity crisis. Why (the heck) are men so angry? Check out all of our content on Patreon, Ad Free! Watch the full episodes of TLDRI, listen to the full episodes of The Variety Show, watch the International Question

Jan 15, • 45:10

TLDR: I Really Thought Birthday Bee Was Going To Take Off

TLDR: I Really Thought Birthday Bee Was Going To Take Off

Allison dives deep into the hit film The BeeKeeper. r/murderbywords asks some tough questions about humanity. r/fauxmoi exposes a celebrity for being serious. r/thingsmykidssaid features a hilarious misunderstanding of recent history. r/amitheasshole exposes some problematic grandparents. r/relationshipadvice features more horrible in-laws. And finally, Gabe is furious that Allison doesn't know more about Gambit??? Check out all of our content on Patreon, Ad Free! Watch the full episodes of TLDR

Jan 8, • 41:06

REPLAY: OUR FIVE YEAR ANNIVERSARY SPECTACULAR!!!

REPLAY: OUR FIVE YEAR ANNIVERSARY SPECTACULAR!!!

Original Air Date: March 13, 2025Welcome to the very special 5 year anniversary show!! Two former International Question writers give us INCREDIBLE updates. Then, our very first producer John Asante joins the show to reminisce about the podcast's origins and some dramatic, spicy behind the scenes tea. Plus, where will we be in five more years? Hopefully still here! Watch clips and the full TLDRI episodes AND listen to the full Wednesday episodes:https://www.patreon.com/justbetweenusThis has been

Jan 1, • 1:34:53

REPLAY: Moving In, Allison’s Mom and Weddings w/ Ruth Raskin

REPLAY: Moving In, Allison’s Mom and Weddings w/ Ruth Raskin

Original Air Date: July 24, 2019Trigger Warning: Suicide Allison and Gabe help a listener figure out when it’s kosher to move in with a new partner. They’re then joined by Allison’s mom, Ruth Raskin (ruthraskinphoto), who discusses the challenges of raising a child with mental illness and the importance of facing it head on. Later they give all their thoughts and feelings about weddings. SPOILER: Do not have it outside.  FOLLOW JUST BETWEEN US:https://www.instagram.com/jbupodcastOur Sponsors:* C

Dec 25, 2024 • 1:16:22

EMDR Therapy with Dr. Nicole Cain, Estranged From A Brother, and Liars

EMDR Therapy with Dr. Nicole Cain, Estranged From A Brother, and Liars

Allison doesn't want to predict the future and Gabe's facial hair is itching. First, a listener writes in asking for advice on a potential estrangement from a brother and Gabe shares his personal experience. Then, Dr. Nicole Cain joins the show for a gorgeous, gentle and soothing talk about Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), and the options for treating trauma somatically. Were Allison and Gabe... "child stars?" And finally, Allison doesn't like Ryan Reynolds. Check out all of

Dec 18, 2024 • 29:11

TLDR: So She Finishes School And Commits To God

TLDR: So She Finishes School And Commits To God

Allison officially loves witchy stuff. An OP has the perfect revenge for a woman who won't update her phone number. Next, a post prompts a discussion about the worst female protagonists. r/ask poses a question the trio can't resist. Gabe shares some funny name changes and then forgets the rules of Reddit Or Not. Check out all of our content on Patreon, Ad Free! Watch the full episodes of TLDRI, listen to the full episodes of The Variety Show, watch the International Question and Topix videos, jo

Dec 11, 2024 • 43:03

The Troubled Teen Industry with Meg Applegate, Therapy-Resistant Siblings and Losing A Parent

The Troubled Teen Industry with Meg Applegate, Therapy-Resistant Siblings and Losing A Parent

Allison looks like a grown-up girl now. A listener wonders how to help her brother who won't go to therapy despite showing signs of mania again. Next, Meg Applegate joins the conversation to talk about how the troubled teen industry takes advantage of parents' fears and traumatized kids, including her younger self. And finally, Allison shares what it was like to lose her mom. Check out all of our content on Patreon, Ad Free! Watch the full episodes of TLDRI, listen to the full episodes of The Va

Dec 4, 2024 • 27:37

TLDRI: You Blew Off Scarlett Johansson's Husband?!

TLDRI: You Blew Off Scarlett Johansson's Husband?!

Our election anxiety was correct. Then, Mark Ruffalo dreamed his own cancer diagnosis, we talk about taking sneaky photos of celebs at an event, and Gabe drops extensive Colin Jost dating lore. Next, Allison shares a post about a woman who overheard her fiance telling his boys he doesn't wanna get married and decided to let him off the hook. Gabe has an autistic question about why men complain about their wives. Then, cinnamon styrofoam and vanilla pods.Check out all of our content on Patreon, A

Nov 27, 2024 • 39:09

Toxic Productivity with Israa Nasir, A Partner's Poor Mental Health, and Soap Operas

Toxic Productivity with Israa Nasir, A Partner's Poor Mental Health, and Soap Operas

Gabe and Melisa are slap happy up top. Then, a listener writes in asking what to do when her boyfriend's mental health is so poor it's making her life miserable. Next, psychotherapist Israa Nasir joins the podcast to talk about toxic productivity, the push to monetize every hobby, and how poverty, comparison, and hustle culture create more suffering. Hypotheticals is run by Melisa and boy, do we miss Allison. And finally, Melisa's origin story of becoming an expert on soap operas. Check out all

Nov 20, 2024 • 29:24

TLDRI: I Think About Those Brooms All The Time

TLDRI: I Think About Those Brooms All The Time

Allison’s gone and it’s just the DEI hires from the South today! After a bunch of tangents, we talk r/tipping, where flavors come from and which surprising ones Melisa hates, and a man whose wife is accusing him of fathering her friend’s baby. Then, an OP ends up telling lots of tall tales, and another watches 72 Disney movies. Gabe and Melisa recount their problematic 90s show choir experiences. Could Gabe beat RuPaul in a Drag Race trivia contest? Check out all of our content on Patreon, Ad Fr

Nov 13, 2024 • 46:22

Gender with Dr. Lee Airton, Lying About Being Open and Posting Strangers Online

Gender with Dr. Lee Airton, Lying About Being Open and Posting Strangers Online

Gabe pretends to be Allison despite not doing any prep work. A listener writes in after being misled about the openness of a hook up's relationship status. Dr. Lee Airton then joins the chat to talk about all things gender. And finally, is posting strangers online kosher? (Not really!) Check out all of our content on Patreon, Ad Free! Watch the full episodes of TLDRI, listen to the full episodes of The Variety Show, watch the International Question and Topix videos, join us for a monthly livestr

Nov 6, 2024 • 19:04

TLDRI: Baby, Ghosts Are In The Ground

TLDRI: Baby, Ghosts Are In The Ground

Gabe and Melisa carry the torch without Allison. r/amitheasshole tests a friendship group. An important shout out to Lady Gaga for being ahead of the curve. Melisa shares an intricate alien/time travel post that poses some intriguing theories. Gabe discloses some #cool childhood memories. r/paranormal reveals that new construction won't save you from the supernatural. And finally, is there a grief group for ghosts? Check out all of our content on Patreon, Ad Free! Watch the full episodes of TLDR

Oct 30, 2024 • 43:10

Parenting while Disabled with Jessica Slice, Should Everyone Be In Therapy, and Our Favorite Songs

Parenting while Disabled with Jessica Slice, Should Everyone Be In Therapy, and Our Favorite Songs

Allison's having a lot of water problems. A listener writes in asking if everyone needs to be in therapy even though they've had a hard time with past therapists. Author Jessica Slice then joins the show to talk about disability and dating, and her new book on disabled people being deemed "unfit parents." In Hypotheticals, what is Flurfle? Who is Janet Cilantro? And finally, our favorite songs. Melisa has a list. Gabe has facts about Jason Mraz. Allison only likes lyrics and has a great movie id

Oct 23, 2024 • 32:00

TLDRI: Meatballs in a Styrofoam Cup

TLDRI: Meatballs in a Styrofoam Cup

Today an OP fucked up by wearing a hat to wash his hair. Then, we talk tattoos, pretzel bites, short haircuts, orange tic tacs, dental work, and writing comedy for others to read. What is this show about exactly? r/nostupidquestions asks why we bother working when we still can’t afford anything? (Welcome, comrade!) Gabe gets on a financial soapbox! Should he go to Peru? In r/accidentalally we see JK Rowling using the singular they and hear a conspiracy theory about transvestigators. Plus what we

Oct 16, 2024 • 43:47

Compersion with Dr. Marie Thouin, Saving A Friendship, and Allison's New Book

Compersion with Dr. Marie Thouin, Saving A Friendship, and Allison's New Book

Gabe's tracking his hairline and getting shots in the butt. A listener writes in asking if and how they can save a friendship where the other person doesn't seem interested in being friends. Then, Dr. Marie Thouin joins the show to talk about the history of compersion and how it can be used outside of a polyamorous context. And finally, Allison’s book all about Modern Marriage is about to come out! You can preorder it by clicking here!Check out all of our content on Patreon, Ad Free! Watch the f

Oct 9, 2024 • 25:45

Too Long Did Read [It]: I Came To This Panda Express For Cole Slaw

Too Long Did Read [It]: I Came To This Panda Express For Cole Slaw

We debate the heat of the Earth’s core before reading an r/AITH about a husband cheating with and impregnating the couple’s surrogate. Should the wife give up her parental rights? Then, a man complains that the woman he left his wife for is not a good girlfriend. Then we explore r/wellthatsucks and r/hypotheticalsituations for gas station antics, getting millions to go back to school Billy Madison style, and choosing to get ears and a tail, master pizza chef skills or 20 dollars. (It makes sense

Oct 2, 2024 • 42:52

Talking Episode: Things We Can Only Say Behind A Paywall

Talking Episode: Things We Can Only Say Behind A Paywall

It's a talking episode baby! No guest—other than Gabe's dog Beans. A listener writes in wanting advice on what to do now that their estranged father is sick. Melisa joins for Hypotheticals where a "no kissing" clause constitutes cheating. The trio debate their 4 favorite movies. (Allison's husband also weighs in.) And finally, conscious celibacy, whatever that means. Check out all of our content on Patreon, Ad Free! Watch the full episodes of TLDRI, listen to the full episodes of The Variety Sho

Sep 25, 2024 • 17:10

Too Long Did Read [It]: If It’s Sand I’m Gonna Lose It

Too Long Did Read [It]: If It’s Sand I’m Gonna Lose It

This week, would you shake an evil politician’s hand if you had to? Would you livestream your life for 10 years for 10 million dollars a year? Would you lie and tell a cheating partner you were also cheating to save face? Plus, good comebacks, presidential trivia, and sand pies.Correction: Gabe says the band who asked for NO brown M&Ms was Metallica. It was in fact Van Halen. Our apologies to Mr. Eddie Van Halen.Check out all of our content on Patreon, Ad Free! Watch the full episodes of TLDRI,

Sep 18, 2024 • 39:18

Talking To Kids About Sexism with Jo-Ann Finkelstein, Dating Someone Closeted, and Swimming

Talking To Kids About Sexism with Jo-Ann Finkelstein, Dating Someone Closeted, and Swimming

If Sugar the dog wanted to? She would. A lesbian listener writes in upset that she has to miss out on events with her closeted girlfriend's religious family. Author of Sexism & Sensibility Jo-Ann Finkelstein joins the pod to discuss how to speak to your children about sexism. Allison then gives Gabe and Jo-Ann one of Gabe's favorite hypotheticals ever. And finally, Allison finally has a hobby! It's swimming!Check out all of our content on Patreon, Ad Free! Watch the full episodes of TLDRI, liste

Sep 11, 2024 • 25:42

Too Long Did Read [It]: My Roommate Has Been Swallowing Toothpaste For 18 Years

Too Long Did Read [It]: My Roommate Has Been Swallowing Toothpaste For 18 Years

Allison is on a permanent Grecian vacation of the mind, while Gabe almost ruins it with gender dysphoria for cis people. Gabe presents Allison and Melisa with a conundrum from a sex and love addicts subreddit. A delusional driver with road rage doesn't understand car insurance. An OP in r/dreams asks for dream help because they spent 30 years inside a dream. What is the funniest or weirdest thing a doctor has ever said to you? People in r/AskReddit share what clued them into their partner being

Sep 4, 2024 • 38:16

A Viral Cheating Scandal with Jayna Marie, Living Alone For Your Mental Health and On-Screen Chemistry

A Viral Cheating Scandal with Jayna Marie, Living Alone For Your Mental Health and On-Screen Chemistry

Gabe explains how to use the term "punk" to Allison. A listener writes in wondering if it's a bad idea to not get a roommate post-separation (and spend more money) so she can live alone for her mental health. Next, the host of "Big Lash Energy" Jayna Marie joins the show to share a rollercoaster story about getting destroyed by the internet for an affair...that never happened. This is BANANAS. And finally, on-screen chemistry. Who has it? Who definitely does not?Check out all of our content on P

Aug 28, 2024 • 41:55

Too Long Did Read [It]: My Dad Was Hypnotized At A County Fair

Too Long Did Read [It]: My Dad Was Hypnotized At A County Fair

Gabe teaches Allison about actor Daniel Day Lewis. Melisa wants to cobble shoes. r/OddlySpecific features an OP who is interested in hiring a hitman. A kid with a horrible stepmom exposes her insane rules on r/teenagers. r/readitonwiki features a bride who wonders if she was wrong to reseat her exhibitionist sister during her wedding ceremony. And finally, building guitars from scratch!Check out all of our content on Patreon, Ad Free! Watch the full episodes of TLDRI, listen to the full episodes

Aug 20, 2024 • 40:00

Somatic Therapy with Karden Rabin, and Dominant Masculinity

Somatic Therapy with Karden Rabin, and Dominant Masculinity

Content Warning: SuicideGabe wants to be Ryan Gosling in "The Fall Guy" and has a long overdue shoutout for a fan on the Patreon. A listener writes in wondering how to have a relationship with the one person they want to be with after feeling responsible for someone else's suicide. Somatic therapist Karden Rabin joins to talk about the differences from talk therapy and why it's important to feel your feelings and confront what's going on in the body. And finally, dominant masculinity, Jerry Sein

Aug 14, 2024 • 22:21

TLDRI: Sex Cups Are For Night

TLDRI: Sex Cups Are For Night

Puzzles are not for Allison or Melisa. r/prorevenge brings us the story of Bob The Builder who can't build a house. r/millennials features a thank you from a Gen Z OP. r/bestofredditupdates is full of twists and turns that might end a marriage. And finally, your birthday party isn't unique enough.Check out all of our content on Patreon, Ad Free! Watch the full episodes of TLDRI, listen to the full episodes of The Variety Show, watch the International Question and Topix videos, join us for a mont

Aug 7, 2024 • 37:56

REPLAY: Olympic Superstar Simone Biles, Toxic Beauty Standards with Jackie Johnson and When We Feel Beautiful

REPLAY: Olympic Superstar Simone Biles, Toxic Beauty Standards with Jackie Johnson and When We Feel Beautiful

Original Air Date: March 25, 2020In celebration of Simone Biles' epic Paris Olympic performance, we're revisiting our incredible episode with her!Get ready for a special episode featuring Simone Biles and SK-II! Gabe and Allison answer a listener’s question about whether she actually enjoys her feminine presentation or if she’s a victim of societal beauty pressures. They then interview the greatest gymnast of our time, Simone Biles, about SK-II’s Beauty is #NOCOMPETITION campaign, toxic beauty s

Aug 5, 2024 • 52:03

Grief with Cody Delistraty, Forgiving Problematic Celebs, and Nepo Babies

Grief with Cody Delistraty, Forgiving Problematic Celebs, and Nepo Babies

Allison and Gabe contemplate helpful ghosts. A listener writes wondering if they can forgive two of their favorite celebrities for bad behavior. Next, Cody Delistraty joins the show to talk about his book "The Grief Cure," the speculative future of "deleting memories," and handling the loss of someone who is still alive. And finally, nepo babies and how we feel about them. Check out all of our content on Patreon, Ad Free! Watch the full episodes of TLDRI, listen to the full episodes of The Varie

Jul 31, 2024 • 26:13

Too Long Did Read [It]: TLDRI: It Sucks That I'm Trying To Be Nice Person

Too Long Did Read [It]: TLDRI: It Sucks That I'm Trying To Be Nice Person

Allison is gonna become a witch. Gabe is gonna join a fitness cult. r/rareinsults claps back at Nikki Haley. r/relationships features a groom's brother who is determined to steal the spotlight, causing the bride distress. /truecrimediscussion highlights really (really) bad police behavior. r/BuyItForLife recommends objects that can change your life for under 300 dollars -- sheets, shoes, mattress, and a nice toothbrush. And finally, matching friends. Check out all of our content on Patreon, Ad F

Jul 24, 2024 • 38:34

Fame with Greg Behrendt, Expressing Feelings For Someone Whose Heart You Broke and Microfeminism [Minisode]

Fame with Greg Behrendt, Expressing Feelings For Someone Whose Heart You Broke and Microfeminism [Minisode]

Gabe is hustling to...workout. A listener wonders if it's fair to share feelings for a friend after turning her down years earlier. Greg Behredt then joins the chat to discuss his rise and fall from fame following his hit book, He's Just Not That Into You. What happens when you lose control of your career and image? (Nothing good!) And finally, microfeminism. What is it and why does it matter? Check out all of our content on Patreon, Ad Free! Watch the full episodes of TLDRI, listen to the full

Jul 17, 2024 • 20:29

Too Long Did Read [It]: If I Have A Kid Then I'll Have Stuff To Do

Too Long Did Read [It]: If I Have A Kid Then I'll Have Stuff To Do

Allison hates art. Gabe hates dating.  r/datingoverthirty brings us confusion over the meaning of "exclusive" vs. "in a relationship". r/cemetaryporn has some fun tombstones and absolutely no kink! r/adulting is a window into Allison's ennui. And finally, r/jung explains pop culture figures and shadow selves including Gabe's favorite Eminem*.*Gabe accidentally says The Marshall Mathers LP was Eminem's first album, but it was his third. He regrets his mistake. He is not the real Slim Shady.This

Jul 10, 2024 • 40:40

Trans Vocal Training with Isabella Ferrari, Throuple Communication and Secret Divorce  [MINISODE]

Trans Vocal Training with Isabella Ferrari, Throuple Communication and Secret Divorce [MINISODE]

Allison can't smush her nose around. A polyamorous listener writes in because they are having difficulty having tough conversations with one of their partners. Vocal coach Isabella Ferrari then joins the chat to talk about feminizing and masculinizing voices through specific, trauma informed training. Gabe even does a voice exercise live! And finally, secret divorce. Are celebrities onto something?Check out all of our content on Patreon, Ad Free! Watch the full episodes of TLDRI, listen to t

Jul 3, 2024 • 23:56

Too Long Did Read [It]: I'm Going To Do My Drama Here

Too Long Did Read [It]: I'm Going To Do My Drama Here

Is AppleTV even real? r/nottheonion brings us bad labor laws, rat birth control, Harry Styles stalker, and space lasers. r/curatedtumblr asks the tough questions about bathrooms. r/BoomersBeingFools exposes a package thief. r/relationshipadvice features a man who is worried his actress girlfriend will cheat on him with a costar--again. And finally, rock, paper, scissors says shoot???Our Sponsors:* Check out Rosetta Stone and use my code TODAY for a great deal: www.rosettastone.com* Go to gobble.

Jun 26, 2024 • 48:13

Relationships and Mental Health with Todd Baratz, Insufferable Friends, and What Counts As Art [MINISODE]

Relationships and Mental Health with Todd Baratz, Insufferable Friends, and What Counts As Art [MINISODE]

Everyone's gums are receding. A listener writes in about a friend who won't stop talking in "therapy speak." Psychotherapist Todd Baratz joins the podcast to talk about how mental health has such a large impact on dating and relationships, good couples therapy, and how to love someone without losing your mind. Hypotheticals brings us a menage in Paris, a children's birthday bribe, and running a marathon as a date. And finally, what counts as "art?" (Other than Saved B

Jun 19, 2024 • 30:22

Too Long Did Read [It]: What is More Important!? Your Job or Your Wife?

Too Long Did Read [It]: What is More Important!? Your Job or Your Wife?

Sugar threw up on Allison's head. Gabe saw Titanique the Musical in New York and explains the wild plot. r/careerguidance proves companies are evil. r/relationships showcases parents who don"t understand that some people like to leave the house. r/badwomensanatomy brings a tale of a boyfriend who thinks women can mentally stop their periods. r/dating features a genius unlike any we've seen before! (JK.) r/sex is full of surprises--in a bad way. Check out all of our content on Patreon

Jun 12, 2024 • 44:59

Marketing Sex Work with Reina Del Mundo, Partner With Low Social Battery, and Do Not Disturb Setting [MINISODE]

Marketing Sex Work with Reina Del Mundo, Partner With Low Social Battery, and Do Not Disturb Setting [MINISODE]

Gabe was on Good Morning America. Allison still has an undercut. A listener writes in wondering how to explain to her friends and family that her boyfriend has a low social battery. Next, OnlyFans creator Reina Del Mundo joins the podcast to talk about online sex work, how to market to viewers and keep up a paying fanbase, and how queerness and warmth in the midst of isolation helps create connection with her clients. And finally, is the Do Not Disturb setting self-care? Check out all of our con

Jun 5, 2024 • 29:15

Too Long Did Read [It]: My Nipples Are Precariously Attached To My Body

Too Long Did Read [It]: My Nipples Are Precariously Attached To My Body

Horror movies, faking cancer, and a lazy man's mother tells his ambitious girlfriend to leave him. Why are parents so sneaky? A post about how to look photogenic leads to us to Allison's color analysis. Why would anyone use the subreddit r/roastme? Allison seems to be in love with actress Margaret Qualley and Gabe tells an intense story about how they almost choked to death (for real). Check out all of our content on Patreon, Ad Free! Watch the full episodes of TLDRI, listen to the full

May 29, 2024 • 33:28

Sobriety with Bruce W. Brackett, Women's Intuition, and Nice v. Kind

Sobriety with Bruce W. Brackett, Women's Intuition, and Nice v. Kind

New York! Concrete jungle where Gabe and Allison are and want everyone to know. The duo then discuss a listener's question about "women's intuition." Next, author and influencer Bruce W. Brackett joins the pod to chat about his sobriety story, family patterns, and pulling your life together after falling down multiple times. And finally, what's the difference between being nice and being kind? And which is better? Our Sponsors:* Check out Rosetta Stone and use my code TODAY f

May 22, 2024 • 26:55

Too Long, Did Read (It): The Boob Had To Be Big Enough To Cover The Hole

Too Long, Did Read (It): The Boob Had To Be Big Enough To Cover The Hole

Allison is rashy again. r/books reveals people cheating the system. r/kidsarefuckingstupid features a very thoughtful music lover. r/traumatizethemback teaches a teacher an important life lesson. r/tragedeigh proves not everyone should be parents. And finally, five year time lapses gets half a point. Check out all of our content on Patreon, Ad Free! Watch the full episodes of TLDRI, listen to the full episodes of The Variety Show, watch the International Question and Topix videos, join us for a

May 15, 2024 • 41:03

Supercommunicators with Charles Duhigg, Disclosing Psychosis, and Audiobooks

Supercommunicators with Charles Duhigg, Disclosing Psychosis, and Audiobooks

Have a problem? In IQ, a listener writes in wondering when to disclose schizoaffective disorder to new people in their lifeTurn it into something you can be an influencer about! Pulitzer prize-winning journalist and the author of "Supercommunicators" Charles Duhigg drops by the podcast to give tips on how to better communicate, facilitate difficult conversations, and create intimacy. Hypotheticals brings us a wild night at a bar with a player for the Giants. And finally, audiobooks. Alli

May 8, 2024 • 23:31

Too Long, Did Read [It]: I'm Not Convinced This Lady Has Cancer

Too Long, Did Read [It]: I'm Not Convinced This Lady Has Cancer

Gabe learns their lesson after getting a parking ticket. An office worker handles a food thief with a peanut allergy. The trio explores the idea of r/stoic through a post about failure. A woman must deal with a husband's ex who may or may not be dying. r/shitmomgroupssay brings us "alpha son" as a concept. A man accidentally donates thousands of dollars to an impoverished community in Bangladesh. And finally, webbed toes.Link: https://www.reddit.com/r/tifu/comments/13yo4zb/tifupdate_

May 1, 2024 • 40:48

Etymology with Adam Aleksic, Engagement Expectations, and Philanthropy [MINISODE]

Etymology with Adam Aleksic, Engagement Expectations, and Philanthropy [MINISODE]

Gabe hates glass mugs. A listener writes in because she is worried that her engagement won't be special because it is taking so long to happen. Tiktok's EtymologyNerd Adam Aleksic joins the pod to talk about the secret stories behind words, the historical evolution of slang and acronyms, and replacing words to make them more inclusive. And finally, what kind of philanthropy is actually useful? Check out all of our content on Patreon, Ad Free! Watch the full episodes of TLDRI, listen to t

Apr 24, 2024 • 24:09

Too Long, Did Read [It]: Detective Woof Woof and Sergeant Bow Wow

Too Long, Did Read [It]: Detective Woof Woof and Sergeant Bow Wow

Gabe shares his secret Halloween costume. Allison shares a story about a woman's husband's friend who keeps bringing up her husband's ex randomly. Is it weird for a husband to have female friends? A bouncer cuts a person's license in half even though it wasn't actually a fake. Dating advice for women vs. dating advice for men. Allison worries she will never have a hobby, which leads to a confusing book name. r/Unexplained gives a "talking dog." And finally, a snail&#3

Apr 17, 2024 • 35:28

Autism on Tiktok with Paige Layle, Religious Siblings, and Trad Wives [MINISODE]

Autism on Tiktok with Paige Layle, Religious Siblings, and Trad Wives [MINISODE]

tw: suicidal ideationAllison is excited to go on a vacation and not have to write! The duo then try to help a listener who is worried her sisters' religiousness is having a negative impact on their lives. Author and activist Paige Layle joins the pod to talk about letting herself be autistic, how being on Tiktok made her advocate for herself, stimming, food aversions, self diagnosis, and a pitch for an autism grocery store. And finally, trad wives. What are they exactly?? Check out all of ou

Apr 10, 2024 • 24:28

Too Long Did Read [It]:  Likable Villain Is My Whole Deal

Too Long Did Read [It]: Likable Villain Is My Whole Deal

Content Warning: Racism, Sexual harassmentEveryone is feeling chatty up top so there are a few detours into reality TV, Gabe's psychology and ageism. (Per usual.) r/datingadvice reveals the positive parts of rejection. Melisa shares her friends-to-lovers moves. r/askreddit wonders what is the most inappropriate thing anyone has ever said to you. And Melisa has a few stories that take the cake and will make your skin crawl! Check out all of our content on Patreon, Ad Free! Watch the full epis

Apr 3, 2024 • 35:45

Keith Haring with Brad Gooch, Getting Your Spouse To Go To Therapy, and Celebrity Interviews

Keith Haring with Brad Gooch, Getting Your Spouse To Go To Therapy, and Celebrity Interviews

New Yorkers v. The French. A listener wonders the best approach to get her husband to actually go to therapy. Historian Brad Gooch joins the podcast to fanboy radical queer artist Keith Haring and discuss the rule breaking 1980s art scene in New York. And finally, what's with all the unhinged celebrity interviews lately??Check out all of our content on Patreon, Ad Free! Watch the full episodes of TLDRI, listen to the full episodes of The Variety Show, watch the International Question and Top

Mar 27, 2024 • 39:09

Too Long Did Read [It]: Just Holler At Me If You Need Any More Info My Hombre

Too Long Did Read [It]: Just Holler At Me If You Need Any More Info My Hombre

Content Warning: Poopr/stories brings us a tragic bowel movement. It also reveals the trio's different approaches to office bathrooms. r/paralleluniverse shares a story about a wedding and a possibly supernatural traffic jam. An OP has some fun with r/chatgpt. And most shocking of all, Gabe still uses DVR. Watch clips and the full TLDRI episodes AND listen to the full Wednesday episodes:https://www.patreon.com/justbetweenusThis has been a Gallison ProductionProduced by Melisa D. Monts and Di

Mar 20, 2024 • 29:33

OUR FIVE YEAR ANNIVERSARY SPECTACULAR!!! [FULL EPISODE]

OUR FIVE YEAR ANNIVERSARY SPECTACULAR!!! [FULL EPISODE]

Welcome to the very special 5 year anniversary show!! Two former International Question writers give us INCREDIBLE updates. Then, our very first producer John Asante joins the show to reminisce about the podcast's origins and some dramatic, spicy behind the scenes tea. Plus, where will we be in five more years? Hopefully still here! Watch clips and the full TLDRI episodes AND listen to the full Wednesday episodes:https://www.patreon.com/justbetweenusThis has been a Gallison ProductionProduc

Mar 13, 2024 • 1:34:53

Special Announcement

Special Announcement

We're going back to once a week on the feed, switching off between full Wednesday episodes and expanded, longer TLDRI episodes. So there will be four episodes a month but longer.Our Sponsors:* Check out Rosetta Stone and use my code TODAY for a great deal: www.rosettastone.com* Go to gobble.com/JUSTBETWEENUS today for $120 off your first 4 boxes!Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/just-between-us/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https

Mar 8, 2024 • 1:50

Predicting Trends with Lilah Raptopoulos, Loving Yourself While Dating, and Sensory Sensitivity

Predicting Trends with Lilah Raptopoulos, Loving Yourself While Dating, and Sensory Sensitivity

Allison loves Olivia Rodrigo more than anyone. Next, Gabe and Allison answer a listener's complicated question about feeling good enough to date after coming from a racist hometown. Then, the Financial Times' Lilah Raptopoulos joins the show to answer the question of what culture is, what trends are coming in 2024, and what we're missing now that culture is so splintered. Finally, sensory sensitivity. What is it and why do we have it?Watch clips and the full TLDRI episodes AND listen

Mar 6, 2024 • 24:34

Too Long, Did Read [It]: A Squat Corrupted Flesh Sphere

Too Long, Did Read [It]: A Squat Corrupted Flesh Sphere

A discussion about movies and lawsuits inspired by a mouse. r/relationshipadvice explores the ICK. Melisa and Gabe reveal they are stalking Allison. r/coworkerstories proves people need to mind their own business. r/divorce_men tries (and fails) to make a sick burn. And finally, who doesn't like cotton???Watch clips and the full TLDRI episodes AND listen to the full Wednesday episodes:https://www.patreon.com/justbetweenusThis has been a Gallison ProductionProduced by Melisa D. Monts and Dia

Mar 4, 2024 • 34:48

Attachment Styles with Thais Gibson, Career Compromises, and Excited Delirium [MINISODE]

Attachment Styles with Thais Gibson, Career Compromises, and Excited Delirium [MINISODE]

Hold onto your pants. Gabe is going through it. A listener writes in wondering how to assuage her guilt around asking her partner to compromise his career so they can kids. Then, counselor Thais Gibson joins the show to talk about attachment theory and make Gabe emotional. And finally, Allison brings up a very important and enraging topic: excited delirium.Watch clips and the full TLDRI episodes AND listen to the full Wednesday episodes:https://www.patreon.com/justbetweenusThis has been a Gallis

Feb 28, 2024 • 33:43

Too Long, Did Read [It]:  I've Made Up With Almost All Of My Enemies

Too Long, Did Read [It]: I've Made Up With Almost All Of My Enemies

Always check under a rug. r/maincharacterenergy shows a really bad approach to activism. A brief foray into funeral planning. r/ohnoconsequences proves cousin jealousy won't get you anywhere. And finally, cast art!Watch clips and the full TLDRI episodes AND listen to the full Wednesday episodes:https://www.patreon.com/justbetweenusThis has been a Gallison ProductionProduced by Melisa D. Monts and Diamond MPrint ProductionsPost-Production by Coco LlorensProduction Assistance by Melanie D. Wa

Feb 26, 2024 • 31:14

Check Out Sex Ed with DB

Check Out Sex Ed with DB

Today we’re excited to share an episode preview from our friends at Sex Ed with DB! In this episode, DB sits down with queer content creator Alayna Joy to talk about her "late bloomer lesbian” coming out experience. Alayna opens up about the evolution of her queer identity, pandemic-induced gay awakenings, and the importance of centering mental health while embracing your queerness for the first time. Listen to Sex Ed with DB wherever you get your podcasts!Our Sponsors:* Check out Rosetta St

Feb 23, 2024 • 10:08

Feet For Free??? A JBU Talking Episode! [MINISODE]

Feet For Free??? A JBU Talking Episode! [MINISODE]

Allison's parents want her to start an OnlyFans. Next, a conversation about how we pick guests and why we canceled one. A listener writes in wondering how she can know if someone she went no contact with has changed or not. Gabe proposes a life of no hope. Hypotheticals causes a big debate over children, smart phones and cousins. And finally, Allison wants to keep talking about broken toe. Watch clips and the full TLDRI episodes AND listen to the full Wednesday episodes:https://www.patreon.c

Feb 21, 2024 • 19:05

Too Long, Did Read [It]: Cry Laughing Emoji, Cry Laughing Emoji

Too Long, Did Read [It]: Cry Laughing Emoji, Cry Laughing Emoji

Allison makes one of her best intros yet. r/marriage shows what makes a bad friend. r/badroommates features a cringe text conversion. r/decidingtobebetter has a big twist and some good advice. r/amitheasshole shows sometimes kids don't deserve cupcake. And finally, castles!Watch clips and the full TLDRI episodes AND listen to the full Wednesday episodes:https://www.patreon.com/justbetweenusThis has been a Gallison ProductionProduced by Melisa D. Monts and Diamond MPrint ProductionsPost-Prod

Feb 19, 2024 • 29:10

Polyamory with Dedeker Winston, How To Know If You're Moving On and the 2024 Elections [MINISODE]

Polyamory with Dedeker Winston, How To Know If You're Moving On and the 2024 Elections [MINISODE]

Melisa's bday is coming up (even though Allison has no sense of time)! A listener wants to know how they can tell if they are healing from heartbreak. Relationship coach, Dedeker Wilson, joins the chat to talk about all things polyamory including her own journey. And finally, how do we not spiral into despair as another general election approaches? Watch clips and the full TLDRI episodes AND listen to the full Wednesday episodes:https://www.patreon.com/justbetweenusThis has been a Gallison P

Feb 14, 2024 • 29:31

Too Long, Did Read [It]: Shards Of Your Soul Go To Hell And Have To Be Redeemed

Too Long, Did Read [It]: Shards Of Your Soul Go To Hell And Have To Be Redeemed

r/cults shows us some real terrible parents. r/youshouldknow puts casual liars on blast. Gabe has a new take on confrontation and codependency. And finally, the physics of dying. Watch clips and the full TLDRI episodes AND listen to the full Wednesday episodes:https://www.patreon.com/justbetweenusThis has been a Gallison ProductionProduced by Melisa D. Monts and Diamond MPrint ProductionsPost-Production by Coco LlorensProduction Assistance by Melanie D. WatsonOur Sponsors:* Check out Rosetta St

Feb 12, 2024 • 32:48

Boarding School with Jen Bashian, Using Your Privilege and Reviews [MINISODE]

Boarding School with Jen Bashian, Using Your Privilege and Reviews [MINISODE]

Gabe is out of town so Allison and Melisa go rogue. A listener writes in because he feels guilty for his success in a non profit. Allison's high school classmate, Jen Bashian, joins the chat to discuss what it was really like to go to boarding school and her thoughts on high school Allison. And finally, reviews. How much do they matter? Watch clips and the full TLDRI episodes AND listen to the full Wednesday episodes:https://www.patreon.com/justbetweenusThis has been a Gallison ProductionPr

Feb 7, 2024 • 29:27

Too Long, Did Read [It]: After The Last UFO Incident, The Government Reads My Mail

Too Long, Did Read [It]: After The Last UFO Incident, The Government Reads My Mail

Gabe, Allison and Melisa all have stories about crooked funeral home directors. Allison doesn't understand how anything works. A Redditor rightfully freaks out listening to their fiance cover for her cheating sister. It's really bad! On r/sadcringe, someone quitting their job writes an awkward short story instead of, you know... submitting their regular two weeks notice. Gabe reads UNHINGED letters they sent their friend from summer camp that are SO queer and trans. Was Gabe ever even in

Feb 5, 2024 • 33:31

Child Stardom with Danny Tamberelli, Cutting Out A Friend, and Romanticizing Your Life [MINISODE]

Child Stardom with Danny Tamberelli, Cutting Out A Friend, and Romanticizing Your Life [MINISODE]

Allison and Gabe didn't notice each other's hair changes. Are they even friends? A listener writes in asking what to do about a friend whose mental health and addiction is putting a huge strain on their friendship. Writer, comedian, and former child star Danny Tamberelli joins the podcast to talk about his life starring on Nickelodeon, his love story with his co-author wife, and the futures for child actors after the fame. Finally, what does it mean to romanticize your life??Watch clips

Jan 31, 2024 • 28:57

Too Long, Did Read [It]: Allison's Husband, WHO WE LIKE

Too Long, Did Read [It]: Allison's Husband, WHO WE LIKE

Allison shows off her hands without anyone asking. r/entitledparents brings a story of a nightmare father-in-law. r/changemyview causes an argument about flaking. r/love proves good partners are possible. And finally, stuff stuck in your teeth. Watch clips and the full TLDRI episodes AND listen to the full Wednesday episodes:https://www.patreon.com/justbetweenusThis has been a Gallison ProductionProduced by Melisa D. Monts and Diamond MPrint ProductionsPost-Production by Coco LlorensProduction A

Jan 29, 2024 • 31:22

Patient Centered Dementia Care with Katie and Jeffrey Norris, Relationship  Compromises, and Book Recommendations [MINISODE]

Patient Centered Dementia Care with Katie and Jeffrey Norris, Relationship Compromises, and Book Recommendations [MINISODE]

Allison shares an epic baby picture. A listener writes in to get some advice about whether it's unfair to ask her partner to move in before getting engaged even though it will upset his family. Mother-son duo, Katie and Jeffrey Norris join the chat to talk about Montessori-based dementia care and why so many people don't seem to understand it. Finally, book recommendations. Watch clips and the full TLDRI episodes AND listen to the full Wednesday episodes:https://www.patreon.com/justbetwe

Jan 24, 2024 • 26:24

Too Long Did Read [It]: Stop Giving Advice To Murderers

Too Long Did Read [It]: Stop Giving Advice To Murderers

Melisa and Gabe explain We Are The World to Allison. Who do each of them text the most? Why isn’t Gabe the favorite child, according to their dad? r/screenwriting asks a question about cops getting away with crime. A sassy sex worker on r/sadcringe exposes fake age gap relationships. Also, soldiers fight as drag queens in WWII, huge skeletons for Xmas, and tiny salads.Kardashian impersonator on Reels: https://www.instagram.com/yurilamasbellaWatch clips and the full TLDRI episodes AND listen to t

Jan 22, 2024 • 29:29

Sex For Life with Myisha Battle, Not Having Friends and Millennials [MINISODE]

Sex For Life with Myisha Battle, Not Having Friends and Millennials [MINISODE]

Allison fishes for compliments after getting her grad degree. A listener thinks they are a red flag because they don't have enough friends. Sex coach Myisha Battle joins the chat to talk about sexual desire, asexuality, fake dating rules and putting too much pressure on ourselves. And finally, being millennials in a Gen Z world. Watch clips and the full TLDRI episodes AND listen to the full Wednesday episodes:https://www.patreon.com/justbetweenusThis has been a Gallison ProductionProduced b

Jan 17, 2024 • 23:25

Too Long Did Read [It]: It Sounds Deep, But It's Not Real

Too Long Did Read [It]: It Sounds Deep, But It's Not Real

Some sex jokes set the mood off right. r/relationshipadvice pits a husband against a best friend. r/friendship poses some tough questions about human nature. r/cults provides some lovely support for an OP who doesn't want to talk about their past. r/im14andthisisdeep makes Gabe die laughing. And finally, dogs in dads. Watch clips and the full TLDRI episodes AND listen to the full Wednesday episodes:https://www.patreon.com/justbetweenusThis has been a Gallison ProductionProduced by Melisa D.

Jan 15, 2024 • 32:28

Art About Suicide with James III, Having Kids, and Modeling Behavior [MINISODE]

Art About Suicide with James III, Having Kids, and Modeling Behavior [MINISODE]

Content Warning: Suicide and Suicidal Ideation Allison is overwhelmed and everyone needs a cry. A listener wonders if they should have kids. Writer James III joins the chat to talk about his horror-comedy comic based on his father--who he never knew. And how he has processed his late father through different creative pursuits. Finally, how consciously modeling behavior can help your life! James III Website: https://www.ruleof3inc.com/Watch clips and the full TLDRI episodes AND listen to the full

Jan 10, 2024 • 22:48

Too Long Did Read [It]: Revenge Is Self-Care

Too Long Did Read [It]: Revenge Is Self-Care

Gabe is being inflammatory again. r/relationships is a jaw dropper that brings up some BIG questions about revenge and self-esteem. (Reminder, pee isn't sanitary.) r/confessions includes some iconic behavior in the workplace. r/writers gives a good tip on maintaining social order. And finally, r/noburp because apparently that's a thing. Watch clips and the full TLDRI episodes AND listen to the full Wednesday episodes:https://www.patreon.com/justbetweenusThis has been a Gallison Productio

Jan 8, 2024 • 29:48

The Baby Scoop Era with Sarah Reinhardt & Louise Browne, Wanting Different Things Than Your Crush, and Inside Jokes [MINISODE]

The Baby Scoop Era with Sarah Reinhardt & Louise Browne, Wanting Different Things Than Your Crush, and Inside Jokes [MINISODE]

Gabe is on a mission not to feel shame about his acne. A listener writes in to see if she can ethically pursue someone who wants different things than her long-term. Podcasters Sarah Reinhardt & Louise Browne join the chat to share their own adoption stories, the role of coercion in adoption and why adoption is so misunderstood. And finally, the etiquette of inside jokes. Heartbreak feels good in a place like this.Watch clips and the full TLDRI episodes AND listen to the full Wednesday episo

Jan 3, 2024 • 34:58

REPLAY: TLDRI: If You Can't Be Around Somebody's That Pregnant, That's Part Of The Problem

REPLAY: TLDRI: If You Can't Be Around Somebody's That Pregnant, That's Part Of The Problem

Original Air Date: May 8, 2023In r/relationship_advice, an UNBEARABLE man's best friend wants him to dump his girlfriend, a single mom who he's already broken up with numerous times. Allison admits she'll be terrible and demanding during pregnancy. Then, a Redditor finds creepy Post-its around his house. Allison loves pranks, Gabe loves revenge. Melisa wants to know if Allison's dad talks about her. In r/ProRevenge, a guy gets one over on a boss who is trying to underpay him. Plu

Jan 1, 2024 • 31:11

REPLAY: K-pop! with Denise Kim, A Co-Worker's Inappropriate Jokes, and Gabe's Top Surgery

REPLAY: K-pop! with Denise Kim, A Co-Worker's Inappropriate Jokes, and Gabe's Top Surgery

tw: surgeryOriginal Air Date: December 14, 2022Gabe and Allison start off with a lively discussion about Raskin pranks and bachelorette party fantasies. The duo then answer a listener's question about how to get over feeling uncomfortable about a co-worker's past inappropriate jokes. When do you need to move on and when do you need to address it? Next, K-pop star and Amateur Hour host, Denise Kim, joins the pod to talk about the cutthroat grind of being a South Korean pop star, the busin

Dec 27, 2023 • 1:27:58

REPLAY: Too Long, Did Read (It): Not My Cup Of Tea, But If My Friend Got It I'd Be Happy For Her

REPLAY: Too Long, Did Read (It): Not My Cup Of Tea, But If My Friend Got It I'd Be Happy For Her

ORIGINAL AIR DATE: February 13, 2023In a brand new weekly show, Gabe and Melisa attempt to teach Allison the ins and outs of the wonderful chaos that is Reddit. Our first episode includes a subreddit about Allison's engagement ring, incredible duck facts and a post about whether or not married people should have opposite sex best friends. Buckle up! It's time to explore!Listen Ad Free: https://www.patreon.com/justbetweenusThis has been a Gallison ProductionProduced by Melisa D. Monts an

Dec 25, 2023 • 26:02

Discovering Poetry with Maya Williams, Maintenance Therapy, and Working With Friends [MINISODE]

Discovering Poetry with Maya Williams, Maintenance Therapy, and Working With Friends [MINISODE]

Allison has some great ideas for Gabe's movie. A listener writes in to ask about no longer "needing" therapy but still wanting to go. Poet Maya Williams joins the show to talk about their new book "Refused A Second Date," intergenerational dating patterns and the process of writing very personal poetry. Finally, should you work with your friends? Or is that a disaster waiting to happen?  Watch clips and the full TLDRI episodes AND listen to the full Wednesday episodes:https:/

Dec 20, 2023 • 24:44

Too Long Did Read [It]: I'm A Buttercream Slut

Too Long Did Read [It]: I'm A Buttercream Slut

r/mystery brings us a person feeding a baby that isn't theirs. Why is this such a common problem? Then, why was pasta dumped in the New Jersey woods? r/teachers teaches us about coin boys. Melisa and Gabe share the pitfalls and quirks of causing chaos in middle school. And finally, beautiful slugs, seasonal fabric birds and fondant hate. Watch clips and the full TLDRI episodes AND listen to the full Wednesday episodes:https://www.patreon.com/justbetweenusThis has been a Gallison ProductionP

Dec 18, 2023 • 30:15

Dog Physical Therapy with Tanya Plaoude, Triggering Your Partner, and Loyalty [MINISODE]

Dog Physical Therapy with Tanya Plaoude, Triggering Your Partner, and Loyalty [MINISODE]

Allison and Gabe saw the same concert without realizing it. A listener writes in wondering how responsible partners need to be around each other's triggers. Then, Tanya Plaoude joins the show to talk about dog physical therapy and why dogs deserve the same care as their human parents. And finally, what does loyalty really mean? And can you have too much of it?Watch clips and the full TLDRI episodes AND listen to the full Wednesday episodes:https://www.patreon.com/justbetweenusThis has been

Dec 13, 2023 • 26:39

Too Long, Did Read (It): Have An Affair With HER Husband!

Too Long, Did Read (It): Have An Affair With HER Husband!

In r/marriage a woman wonders if she should put a stop to her husband's friendship with their neighbor. r/FauxMoi is looking for celebrity gossip and Gabe IS the gossip. THE TEA IS VERY HOT AND WE NAME NAMES. r/WholesomeMoments provides a cute baseball moment. And finally, r/MalePolish.Watch clips and the full TLDRI episodes AND listen to the full Wednesday episodes:https://www.patreon.com/justbetweenusThis has been a Gallison ProductionProduced by Melisa D. Monts and Diamond MPrint Product

Dec 11, 2023 • 27:11

Just Between Us Trailer!

Just Between Us Trailer!

Join us on Mondays for Too Long Did Read It and Wednesdays for our Variety Show.Our Sponsors:* Check out Rosetta Stone and use my code TODAY for a great deal: www.rosettastone.com* Go to gobble.com/JUSTBETWEENUS today for $120 off your first 4 boxes!Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/just-between-us/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Dec 8, 2023 • 0:58

Curiosity with Scott Shigeoka, Wedding Speeches and The What About Me Effect [MINISODE]

Curiosity with Scott Shigeoka, Wedding Speeches and The What About Me Effect [MINISODE]

Gabe and Allison share some medical stories no one wants to hear. A listener isn't sure what to say at her brother's wedding because she hates his fiancé. Scott Shigeoka then joins the chat to share his interest in curiosity and how it shapes our lives and relationships. And finally, what is the What About Me effect and why is it so annoying.Watch clips and the full TLDRI episodes AND listen to the full Wednesday episodes:https://www.patreon.com/justbetweenusThis has been a Gallison Pro

Dec 6, 2023 • 29:01

Too Long, Did Read (It): They’re Withholding Words From Me Because I Refuse to Pay?

Too Long, Did Read (It): They’re Withholding Words From Me Because I Refuse to Pay?

r/badroommates tells a tale of theft, pettiness and kitchen towels. r/riddles prompts Gabe and Allison to share some of their own favorites brain teasers. r/stories is not what you would think! r/dreams causes Allison to question her anger issues. And finally, the (disturbing) history of cereal. Watch clips and the full TLDRI episodes AND listen to the full Wednesday episodes:https://www.patreon.com/justbetweenusThis has been a Gallison ProductionProduced by Melisa D. Monts and Diamond MPrint P

Dec 4, 2023 • 34:10

Around The World in 80 Days with Adrien Behn, Your Partner's Other Partner and Body Hair [TEASER]

Around The World in 80 Days with Adrien Behn, Your Partner's Other Partner and Body Hair [TEASER]

Gabe collects mugs, Allison collects animal statues, and Melisa collects spoons. A very funny listener writes in about not liking their metamour (their partner's other partner). Then, travel podcaster Adrien Behn joins to talk about traveling alone as a woman, Nellie Bly's and Elizabeth Bisland's race around the world, and appreciating the world's beauty. And finally, body hair. Love it or hate it, we all have it! Watch clips and the full TLDRI episodes AND listen to the full Wed

Nov 29, 2023 • 36:01

Too Long, Did Read (It): You Can't Put Meat In An Unexpected Dessert

Too Long, Did Read (It): You Can't Put Meat In An Unexpected Dessert

r/unpopularopinion sparks a discussion about marital sex and audio notes. r/askreddit wonders how certain businesses stay in business. r/lifeprotips teaches us how to share properly. Potlucks are gross. And Gabe is easily impressed by slippery cards.Watch clips and the full TLDRI episodes AND listen to the full Wednesday episodes:https://www.patreon.com/justbetweenusThis has been a Gallison ProductionProduced by Melisa D. Monts and Diamond MPrint ProductionsPost-Production by Coco LlorensProduc

Nov 27, 2023 • 31:35

Eating Disorders with Shira Rosenbluth, Staying Friends With An Ex, and Beyonce [TEASER]

Eating Disorders with Shira Rosenbluth, Staying Friends With An Ex, and Beyonce [TEASER]

Gabe is dressed like Aaron Paul. How do celebrities make money outside of acting or music? Diversify! A listener writes in curious about if they should stay friends with their ex who they still have feelings for. Then, licensed clinical social worker Shira Rosenbluth joins the show to bust myths about eating disorders, the BMI, binge eating, and family dynamics. Then, Allison and Gabe grill Melisa about the magic of seeing Beyonce in concert in Houston. What celebs did she see while there?? What

Nov 22, 2023 • 32:52

Too Long, Did Read (It): Maybe In The Future There Are No Rules

Too Long, Did Read (It): Maybe In The Future There Are No Rules

Everyone loves to eat mayonnaise. r/damnthatsinteresting dives into the rules of time travel. r/future starts a discussion about revolutionizing work hours. Gabe had a dangerous encounter with an onion. r/unexplained reveals the magic of dimes. r/haircarescience tests our expectations. And finally, how many people get divorced on their honeymoon? Watch clips and the full TLDRI episodes AND listen to the full Wednesday episodes:https://www.patreon.com/justbetweenusThis has been a Gallison Produc

Nov 20, 2023 • 34:17

Mortuary Sciences with Kari Northey, Family Estrangement and Tough Love [TEASER]

Mortuary Sciences with Kari Northey, Family Estrangement and Tough Love [TEASER]

Gabe is still trying to impress Allison. A listener wonders how to explain her family estrangement. Funeral director and educator, Kari Northey joins the chat to answer all our questions about helping people through grief, funerals and the various options for our bodies after we die. And finally, tough love. Does it work?? This has been a Gallison ProductionProduced by Melisa D. Monts and Diamond MPrint ProductionsPost-Production by Coco LlorensProduction Assistance by Melanie D. WatsonOur Spon

Nov 15, 2023 • 37:11

Too Long, Did Read It: She Remembered Swans Can Be Gay

Too Long, Did Read It: She Remembered Swans Can Be Gay

Melisa loves when her lips vibrate. r/bestofreddit features a crying wife. r/unethicallifeprotips teaches us how to stay unrecognizable and match the vibes. r/nostupidquestions asks if you can date the boss's daughter. r/eceprofessionals wonders if only children are easy to spot. r/theydidthemath confuses Allison. And finally, the Hat Man. This has been a Gallison ProductionProduced by Melisa D. Monts and Diamond MPrint ProductionsPost-Production by Coco LlorensProduction Assistance by Mela

Nov 13, 2023 • 33:50

Deep Sea Mining with James Hita, Does Love Conquer All and Allison's Colonoscopy [TEASER]

Deep Sea Mining with James Hita, Does Love Conquer All and Allison's Colonoscopy [TEASER]

Watch clips and listen to the full episodes (including International Question and Topix) on Patreon.https://www.patreon.com/justbetweenusAllison and Gabe talk about scabbing during strikes. (We recorded this one a while ago! Eep!) An international listener wonders if love conquers all. Next, GreenPeace Aotearoa's James Hita joins the pod to explain the dangers of deep-sea mining and why we need to fight against it before it's too late. And finally, Allison describes her first colonoscopy

Nov 8, 2023 • 38:14

Too Long Did Read It: The Devil's Work Gets The Devil's Pay

Too Long Did Read It: The Devil's Work Gets The Devil's Pay

Watch this full episode on Patreon:https://www.patreon.com/justbetweenusThis episode devolves into MADNESS. Buckle up for the loopiest show yet! Melisa loves to be naked. Religious sayings are hilarious and mean. Gabe tells a long story about a great salesman he met. r/texts gets a dramatic reading that is UNFORGETTABLE. A man leaves a woman a devastating review of her kissing style. We learn what r/scambait is and it changes our lives forever. This has been a Gallison ProductionProduced by Meli

Nov 6, 2023 • 29:44

Reading Our Auras with Steffi Hill, Accepting A New Future, and Rom Com Books

Reading Our Auras with Steffi Hill, Accepting A New Future, and Rom Com Books

Watch clips and listen to the full episodes (including International Question and Topix) on Patreon.https://www.patreon.com/justbetweenusIs Gabe too dependent on coffee? Probably! A listener writes in wondering what to do now that she knows her mental health will limit her future options. Next, psychic medium Steffi Hill joins the chat to give Allison and Gabe readings and explain what it's like talking to the dead. (Allison is skeptical while Gabe is all in.) And finally, what makes a good

Nov 1, 2023 • 19:41

Too Long Did Read (It): It Is Chill Pill O'Clock!

Too Long Did Read (It): It Is Chill Pill O'Clock!

Watch the full video episode or listen ad free on Patreon.https://www.patreon.com/justbetweenusAllison had to quit a class because of dead cats. How many items are too many items to keep from your ex? Gabe finds an eyelash but can't touch it. r/traumatizethemback brings us a story about a catcaller who probably regrets his choices. Next, motorcycles, pregnancy and a chance for a spinster with first rate buckwheat. This has been a Gallison ProductionProduced by Melisa D. Monts and Diamond MPr

Oct 30, 2023 • 32:24

Putting Your Kids on Social Media with Sarah Uncharted, Asking Someone’s Pronouns, and Slow Living [TEASER]

Putting Your Kids on Social Media with Sarah Uncharted, Asking Someone’s Pronouns, and Slow Living [TEASER]

Watch clips and listen to the full episodes (including International Question and Topix) on Patreon.https://www.patreon.com/justbetweenusA listener writes in with a question about etiquette when it comes to someone’s new pronouns. Then, Sarah Adams from Mom Uncharted joins to talk about "sharenting," online child exploitation, and posting your kids online. (Maybe don’t do it!) And finally, what the heck is slow living? Clearly Allison is on a very different side of Tiktok than Gabe. This

Oct 25, 2023 • 30:33

Too Long Did Read (It): I Was Trapped In My Own Backyard

Too Long Did Read (It): I Was Trapped In My Own Backyard

Watch clips and listen to the full episodes (including International Question and Topix) on Patreon.https://www.patreon.com/justbetweenusGabe learns the word for a particular figure of speech. r/scarysigns brings the group a post about skiing that prompts a story about Allison stuck in the snow. A wife learns that her husband's non-verbal communication doesn't mean what she thinks it means. Don't trust r/legaladvice. A subreddit creates some heated debate about airline seating. r/Not

Oct 23, 2023 • 28:39

Queer Dating Apps with Michael Kaye, An Unusual Poly Lie and Core Memories [TEASER]

Queer Dating Apps with Michael Kaye, An Unusual Poly Lie and Core Memories [TEASER]

Watch clips and listen to the full episodes (including International Question and Topix) on Patreon.https://www.patreon.com/justbetweenusAllison jumps on a trampoline. A listener writes in because her fiance lied about a polyamory situation but not in the way you'd expect. Archer dating app's Michael Kaye talks about the future of dating for queer men, confronting discrimination on the apps, and his own adorable love story. Finally, Allison, Melisa and Gabe share their core memories. Wha

Oct 18, 2023 • 24:42

Too Long Did Read (It): That Condom Is Lost To The Gods

Too Long Did Read (It): That Condom Is Lost To The Gods

Watch the full video on Patreon.https://www.patreon.com/justbetweenusGabe's go-to mental breakdown place is Jamba Juice. Scientists found a golden egg and they have no idea what it is. Gabe explains what "sapphic" means and who Sappho is. Melisa and Gabe know a lot about the Bible. A Redditor wants to know how to answer her boyfriend who keeps asking if he's her best lover. Why can't men go through a woman's purse even if she asks him to? Then, tales of condoms and moms o

Oct 16, 2023 • 36:47

Conversion Therapy with Simon Kent Fung, Embracing Singlehood and Our Turn Offs [TEASER]

Conversion Therapy with Simon Kent Fung, Embracing Singlehood and Our Turn Offs [TEASER]

Watch clips and listen to the full episodes (including International Question and Topix) on Patreon.https://www.patreon.com/justbetweenusGabe and Allison meticulously share their morning routines. Then, a listener writes in to see if there is any way she can love being single. Next, podcaster Simon Kent Fun joins the chat to talk about his experience with conversion therapy and the Catholic Church. Finally, what are our turn offs? And why is it when people say they are empaths? This has been a G

Oct 11, 2023 • 25:08

Too Long, Did Read (It): You're Not Allowed To Experience Or Express Sadness

Too Long, Did Read (It): You're Not Allowed To Experience Or Express Sadness

Allison gets some test results back live on air. r/CasualConversation bans sadness. Gabe needs everyone to introduce themselves. An agoraphobe gets a win. Melisa witnessed a wild fight in high school. Gabe and Melisa loved Slingo. Allison can't think of anything to think about. Melisa might have synesthesia. Then, there's a threeway Reddit or Not. Hold onto your butts!Watch clips and listen to this podcast ad-freehttps://www.patreon.com/justbetweenusThis has been a Gallison ProductionPro

Oct 9, 2023 • 31:58

Intersex Advocacy with Alicia Roth Weigel, Going From Friends To Lovers, and Road Rage [TEASER]

Intersex Advocacy with Alicia Roth Weigel, Going From Friends To Lovers, and Road Rage [TEASER]

Allison got two book deals! Congratulate her!! Then, a listener writes in about the struggles of transitioning their relationship with their best friend back into a sexual and romantic one. "Inverse Cowgirl" author and intersex activist Alicia Roth Weigel joins to combat misconceptions about intersex identity, advocacy for trans and intersex children, and dating! In Hypotheticals, pastors, groupies, and "doctors." Finally, road rage. Who has it? Where does it come from? Gabe'

Oct 4, 2023 • 28:45

Too Long, Did Read (It): You Were The Ocean And I Was The Sky

Too Long, Did Read (It): You Were The Ocean And I Was The Sky

Melisa knows how to use tags and how long before a post is a spoiler. An ER nurse has a supernatural experience. Allison pissed her pants at the mall. A psychic gave Melisa a message from relatives who passed. Gabe is obsessed with r/Radiology and the freaky X-rays people post. Fish puns! Pool rules! Celine Dion! Everyone shares their playlists. Watch clips and listen to this podcast ad-freehttps://www.patreon.com/justbetweenusTake our surveyhttps://forms.gle/br7Acu3ykhJmpiTs6 This has been a Ga

Oct 2, 2023 • 34:41

The History of Drag with Elyssa Maxx Goodman, Personality Disorder Stigma, and Glimmers [TEASER]

The History of Drag with Elyssa Maxx Goodman, Personality Disorder Stigma, and Glimmers [TEASER]

Allison's (almost at the record time's) husband loves her eyelash extensions. A listener writes in to ask about the growing stigma against personality disorders. How are they being misunderstood and does it matter? Then, "Glitter and Concrete" author and Gabe's childhood friend Elyssa Maxx Goodman joins the pod to talk about the long history of drag, all the normalized parts of life that are drag, and what to do about the increasing drag backlash. Plus, drag queens, drag king

Sep 27, 2023 • 23:09

Too Long, Did Read (It): The Mazel Tov Slap

Too Long, Did Read (It): The Mazel Tov Slap

Allison is meant to be a female Raffi. A single dad wonders if he was wrong for giving his daughter a menstruation kit in case she gets her first period. Gabe was subjected to a strange Jewish tradition. Someone gets accused of having "ugly privilege." Allison explains what happened in her social skills class. The trio share their thoughts on pleasantries and small talk. Plus, what feels good or bad under your feet?Watch clips and listen to this podcast ad-freehttps://www.patreon.com/jus

Sep 25, 2023 • 29:46

Anti-Racism with Dr. Roxy Manning, Getting Engaged Again, and Funniest IRL Moments [TEASER]

Anti-Racism with Dr. Roxy Manning, Getting Engaged Again, and Funniest IRL Moments [TEASER]

Allison officially got her masters and is ready to retire. A listener writes in worried that after two failed engagements, the next one won't feel special for her or her partner. Then, Dr. Roxy Manning joins the pod to talk about how to facilitate anti-racism conversations and when and how to change people's hearts and minds. Finally, funniest IRL moments -- a lot of them involve falling in chairs.Watch clips and listen to this podcast ad-freehttps://www.patreon.com/justbetweenusTake our

Sep 20, 2023 • 30:57

Too Long, Did Read (It): I Will Vomit If You Don't Approve It

Too Long, Did Read (It): I Will Vomit If You Don't Approve It

Gabe and Allison continue to gross out Melisa. Then, a Redditor wants to know if anyone has ever been used for revenge? Allison is getting a colonoscopy, which leads to some (also gross) hospital stories. Gabe is losing their tolerance for toxic people (thank goodness). How do you know if a compliment is real? And r/MysteriousFacts brings Allison joy, even if the facts are not true. Join our patreon to listen ad free and/or watch the whole episode as a video!Watch clips and listen to this podcas

Sep 18, 2023 • 28:29

Copaganda and Media Literacy with Alec Karakatsanis, When Your Dad Ruins Your Wedding, and Death [TEASER]

Copaganda and Media Literacy with Alec Karakatsanis, When Your Dad Ruins Your Wedding, and Death [TEASER]

Allison and Gabe disgust Melisa with tales of their French kissing prank. Next, a listener writes in to ask how to move forward after her father ruined her wedding day. Civil rights lawyer Alec Karakatsanis joins the chat to discuss copaganda and the importance of media literacy. And finally, we get light and dark about death!To listen to the full episode ad free, and to see clips, subscribe to our Patreon: patreon.com/justbetweenusTake our surveyhttps://forms.gle/br7Acu3ykhJmpiTs6 This has been

Sep 13, 2023 • 25:52

Too Long, Did Read (It): I Almost Drowned In A Wave Pool At A Waterpark Too!

Too Long, Did Read (It): I Almost Drowned In A Wave Pool At A Waterpark Too!

Allison doesn't know what is good singing. A subreddit about names gets the trio riled up and sparks conversation about last names, name meanings and good old fashioned sexism. Melisa is a honeybee. Next, how to keep a free seat on a bus and a disastrous lunch. Finally, near death experiences and shoes that aren't shoes. Watch clips and listen to this podcast ad-freehttps://www.patreon.com/justbetweenusTake our surveyhttps://forms.gle/br7Acu3ykhJmpiTs6 This has been a Gallison Production

Sep 11, 2023 • 28:03

ALLISON'S WEDDING! (And A Very Important Announcement!)

ALLISON'S WEDDING! (And A Very Important Announcement!)

In this very special episode, the trio share an entire play by play of Allison's wedding weekend! Was it everything Allison wanted?? And were there enough animals? Also, there are some changes coming and we could REALLY use your help!Please support the show at patreon.com/justbetweenusP.S. Due to the strike, we bleeped a movie name, but if you know, you know. UNION STRONG!This has been a Forever Dog production Produced by Melisa D. MontsPost-Production by Coco Llorens Executive produced by Brett

Sep 6, 2023 • 1:04:27

ALLISON'S WEDDING! (And A Very Important Announcement!)

ALLISON'S WEDDING! (And A Very Important Announcement!)

In this very special episode, the trio share an entire play by play of Allison's wedding weekend! Was it everything Allison wanted?? And were there enough animals? Also, there are some changes coming and we could REALLY use your help! Please support the show at patreon.com/justbetweenus P.S. Due to the strike, we bleeped a movie name, but if you know, you know. UNION STRONG! This has been a Forever Dog production  Produced by Melisa D. Monts Post-Production by Coco Llorens Executive prod

Sep 6, 2023 • 59:57

Too Long, Did Read (It): For Three Weeks In The Eighth Grade???

Too Long, Did Read (It): For Three Weeks In The Eighth Grade???

Gabe's hips aren't cooperating. Ask Reddit digs up old rivalries--mostly for Gabe. Should dibs be allowed? Melisa manages to find a since deleted Am I The Asshole post that angers everyone. Next up, a shocking confession, bad family behavior and Marilyn Monroe's ghost!  This has been a Forever Dog production  Produced by Melisa D. Monts Post-Production by Coco Llorens Executive produced by Brett Boham, Joe Cilio, and Alex Ramsey. To listen to this podcast ad-free  Sign up for Forev

Sep 4, 2023 • 31:11

Too Long, Did Read (It): For Three Weeks In The Eighth Grade???

Too Long, Did Read (It): For Three Weeks In The Eighth Grade???

Gabe's hips aren't cooperating. Ask Reddit digs up old rivalries--mostly for Gabe. Should dibs be allowed? Melisa manages to find a since deleted Am I The Asshole post that angers everyone. Next up, a shocking confession, bad family behavior and Marilyn Monroe's ghost! This has been a Forever Dog production Produced by Melisa D. MontsPost-Production by Coco LlorensExecutive produced by Brett Boham, Joe Cilio, and Alex Ramsey.To listen to this podcast ad-free Sign up for Forever Dog Plus at forev

Sep 4, 2023 • 31:11

Guide Dogs with Katie McCoy, Telling Parents You Make Porn, and Ethical Wealth

Guide Dogs with Katie McCoy, Telling Parents You Make Porn, and Ethical Wealth

Gabe and Allison love candy and Greek food. A filmmaker listener writes in to ask if they need to tell their parents, who worry about their job security, that they're successfully making queer porn. Then, Southeastern Guide Dogs' Katie McCoy joins the show to talk about training dogs, what makes a dog a good service animal, and everything you've ever wanted to know about guide dogs! Which is a lot! And finally, ethical wealth? Is it even possible? This has been a Forever Dog product

Aug 30, 2023 • 1:12:50

Guide Dogs with Katie McCoy, Telling Parents You Make Porn, and Ethical Wealth

Guide Dogs with Katie McCoy, Telling Parents You Make Porn, and Ethical Wealth

Gabe and Allison love candy and Greek food. A filmmaker listener writes in to ask if they need to tell their parents, who worry about their job security, that they're successfully making queer porn. Then, Southeastern Guide Dogs' Katie McCoy joins the show to talk about training dogs, what makes a dog a good service animal, and everything you've ever wanted to know about guide dogs! Which is a lot! And finally, ethical wealth? Is it even possible?This has been a Forever Dog production Produced b

Aug 30, 2023 • 1:17:20

Too Long, Did Read (It): Hey, This Person Killed My Mom

Too Long, Did Read (It): Hey, This Person Killed My Mom

Melisa's home is a Skymall and Gabe is falling apart. r/youshouldknow teaches us about bar etiquette, which sparks a debate about Gabe's flirting practices. Also, what counts as revenge? Next r/history brings an adorable story from olden(ish) times. And finally, how did people survive without glasses? This has been a Forever Dog production Produced by Melisa D. MontsPost-Production by Coco LlorensExecutive produced by Brett Boham, Joe Cilio, and Alex Ramsey.To listen to this podcast ad-free Sign

Aug 28, 2023 • 29:45

Too Long, Did Read (It): Hey, This Person Killed My Mom

Too Long, Did Read (It): Hey, This Person Killed My Mom

Melisa's home is a Skymall and Gabe is falling apart. r/youshouldknow teaches us about bar etiquette, which sparks a debate about Gabe's flirting practices. Also, what counts as revenge? Next r/history brings an adorable story from olden(ish) times. And finally, how did people survive without glasses?  This has been a Forever Dog production  Produced by Melisa D. Monts Post-Production by Coco Llorens Executive produced by Brett Boham, Joe Cilio, and Alex Ramsey. To listen to this podca

Aug 28, 2023 • 29:45

Ambition with Rainesford Stauffer, Incompatibility, and Parasocial Relationships

Ambition with Rainesford Stauffer, Incompatibility, and Parasocial Relationships

Write in with your new merch ideas! A listener writes in to ask about what to do when they are their partner might grow in different directions, specifically when it comes to monogamy. Then, author Rainesford Stauffer joins the podcast to talk about OCD and ambition, reimagining striving for "all the gold stars," and walking the line between having a purpose and self-hatred over "failure." In Hypotheticals, Joan Sloane returns and there's obviously a corporate office for cat

Aug 23, 2023 • 1:16:51

Ambition with Rainesford Stauffer, Incompatibility, and Parasocial Relationships

Ambition with Rainesford Stauffer, Incompatibility, and Parasocial Relationships

Write in with your new merch ideas! A listener writes in to ask about what to do when they are their partner might grow in different directions, specifically when it comes to monogamy. Then, author Rainesford Stauffer joins the podcast to talk about OCD and ambition, reimagining striving for "all the gold stars," and walking the line between having a purpose and self-hatred over "failure." In Hypotheticals, Joan Sloane returns and there's obviously a corporate office for cat cafes. Then, our exp

Aug 23, 2023 • 1:16:51

Too Long, Did Read (It): We've Been Sold A Kangaroo Lie

Too Long, Did Read (It): We've Been Sold A Kangaroo Lie

A man pays to become a dog and our reactions are mixed. Gabe reveals what animal they hate. A friend rents a room to another friend who is using it for nefarious purposes. One subreddit asks, does a tourist have to stand for the American national anthem? Plus, stop asking Reddit for help with your homework!This has been a Forever Dog production Produced by Melisa D. MontsPost-Production by Coco LlorensExecutive produced by Brett Boham, Joe Cilio, and Alex Ramsey.To listen to this podcast ad-free

Aug 21, 2023 • 28:45

Too Long, Did Read (It): We've Been Sold A Kangaroo Lie

Too Long, Did Read (It): We've Been Sold A Kangaroo Lie

A man pays to become a dog and our reactions are mixed. Gabe reveals what animal they hate. A friend rents a room to another friend who is using it for nefarious purposes. One subreddit asks, does a tourist have to stand for the American national anthem? Plus, stop asking Reddit for help with your homework! This has been a Forever Dog production  Produced by Melisa D. Monts Post-Production by Coco Llorens Executive produced by Brett Boham, Joe Cilio, and Alex Ramsey. To listen to this podcast

Aug 21, 2023 • 28:45

A Show About Abortion with Alison Leiby, How To Flirt, and People Pleasing

A Show About Abortion with Alison Leiby, How To Flirt, and People Pleasing

In a shocking twist, Allison has a zit and Gabe has a water bottle! A listener writes in with a question about how to "properly" flirt. Then, comedian Alison Leiby joins the chat to discuss her experiences with doing a show about abortion, eliminating stigma (especially between generations), and the future of reproductive rights. And in Hypotheticals, a Marilyn Monroe clone causes chaos and political tension in a relationship. Finally, Melisa is a reformed people pleaser! Who would have

Aug 16, 2023 • 1:14:09

A Show About Abortion with Alison Leiby, How To Flirt, and People Pleasing

A Show About Abortion with Alison Leiby, How To Flirt, and People Pleasing

In a shocking twist, Allison has a zit and Gabe has a water bottle! A listener writes in with a question about how to "properly" flirt. Then, comedian Alison Leiby joins the chat to discuss her experiences with doing a show about abortion, eliminating stigma (especially between generations), and the future of reproductive rights. And in Hypotheticals, a Marilyn Monroe clone causes chaos and political tension in a relationship. Finally, Melisa is a reformed people pleaser! Who would have guessed?

Aug 16, 2023 • 1:14:09

Too Long, Did Read (It): I Hope He Enjoyed My Life More Than I Did

Too Long, Did Read (It): I Hope He Enjoyed My Life More Than I Did

What do you call your parents? And is it Mommy and Daddy? Another Allison writes in to explain the Reddit third party app drama. r/pettyrevenge brings us a beautiful karmic tale. Then, a listener sends in a malicious compliance story about flute lessons that asks are you a terrible parent? Gabe needs r/legaladvice and Allison reads a wild post about an ex making everyone's lives a living hell and then sending... nudes? Plus, how to be sneaky--a lesson by Gabe! This has been a Forever Dog product

Aug 14, 2023 • 30:15

Too Long, Did Read (It): I Hope He Enjoyed My Life More Than I Did

Too Long, Did Read (It): I Hope He Enjoyed My Life More Than I Did

What do you call your parents? And is it Mommy and Daddy? Another Allison writes in to explain the Reddit third party app drama. r/pettyrevenge brings us a beautiful karmic tale. Then, a listener sends in a malicious compliance story about flute lessons that asks are you a terrible parent? Gabe needs r/legaladvice and Allison reads a wild post about an ex making everyone's lives a living hell and then sending... nudes? Plus, how to be sneaky--a lesson by Gabe!  This has been a Forever Dog p

Aug 14, 2023 • 30:15

Moral Panics with Chelsey Weber Smith, Disagreeing With A Friend, and Unions

Moral Panics with Chelsey Weber Smith, Disagreeing With A Friend, and Unions

tw: celebrity rape trials, child abuse Gabe and Allison reminisce about the beginning of their friendship and Allison's acting debut. A listener writes in about a friend whose problematic take ruined their friendship. It raises the question, how much can you disagree with a friend? Then, podcast royalty Chelsey Weber Smith of American Hysteria joins to talk about all things moral panics and why they happen. And finally, union power! This has been a Forever Dog production  Produced by Melis

Aug 9, 2023 • 1:20:39

Moral Panics with Chelsey Weber Smith, Disagreeing With A Friend, and Unions

Moral Panics with Chelsey Weber Smith, Disagreeing With A Friend, and Unions

tw: celebrity rape trials, child abuseGabe and Allison reminisce about the beginning of their friendship and Allison's acting debut. A listener writes in about a friend whose problematic take ruined their friendship. It raises the question, how much can you disagree with a friend? Then, podcast royalty Chelsey Weber Smith of American Hysteria joins to talk about all things moral panics and why they happen. And finally, union power!This has been a Forever Dog production Produced by Melisa D. Mont

Aug 9, 2023 • 1:20:39

Too Long, Did Read It: Do You Have Pinky Toes?

Too Long, Did Read It: Do You Have Pinky Toes?

tw: infant death The trio start off by sharing some words they don't know how to pronounce. Then, a r/bridezilla is cruel af to her friend who just lost a baby. Why do people let brides act this way?? Gabe falls down a rabbit hole of people sharing horrible stories from working at the front desk of hotels. Then, a WILD cheating story from r/cakeeaters that causes the duo to continue their disagreement about whether someone who cheats can still love their spouse. Melisa refuses to pick a sid

Aug 7, 2023 • 38:32

Too Long, Did Read It: Do You Have Pinky Toes?

Too Long, Did Read It: Do You Have Pinky Toes?

tw: infant deathThe trio start off by sharing some words they don't know how to pronounce. Then, a r/bridezilla is cruel af to her friend who just lost a baby. Why do people let brides act this way?? Gabe falls down a rabbit hole of people sharing horrible stories from working at the front desk of hotels. Then, a WILD cheating story from r/cakeeaters that causes the duo to continue their disagreement about whether someone who cheats can still love their spouse. Melisa refuses to pick a side.  Le

Aug 7, 2023 • 38:32

Climate Solutions with Molly Wood, Trying To Get Pregnant and Alcohol

Climate Solutions with Molly Wood, Trying To Get Pregnant and Alcohol

tw: fatphobia, alcoholismGabe and Allison have queer and feminist book recommendations galore! A listener writes in worried about body image, fatphobia, infertility, and pregnancy. Then, climate change tech reporter Molly Wood joins the chat to provide a surprisingly optimistic view of our planet's future. Can technology really save us all? And finally, why did Gabe end their sobriety? This has been a Forever Dog production Produced by Melisa D. MontsPost-Production by Coco LlorensExecutive prod

Aug 2, 2023 • 1:26:39

Climate Solutions with Molly Wood, Trying To Get Pregnant, and Alcohol

Climate Solutions with Molly Wood, Trying To Get Pregnant, and Alcohol

tw: fatphobia, alcoholism Gabe and Allison have queer and feminist book recommendations galore! A listener writes in worried about body image, fatphobia, infertility, and pregnancy. Then, climate change tech reporter Molly Wood joins the chat to provide a surprisingly optimistic view of our planet's future. Can technology really save us all? And finally, why did Gabe end their sobriety?  This has been a Forever Dog production  Produced by Melisa D. Monts Post-Production by Coco Llorens Exe

Aug 2, 2023 • 1:26:39

Too Long, Did Read (It): Widow Is Gender Neutral

Too Long, Did Read (It): Widow Is Gender Neutral

The trio start off with a subreddit dedicated to people who can't follow cooking directions. It brings up everyone's strong beliefs around food. Next, what does main character energy even mean? And what the heck is a glue ball? Finally, SCAMS!  This has been a Forever Dog production  Produced by Melisa D. Monts Post-Production by Coco Llorens Executive produced by Brett Boham, Joe Cilio, and Alex Ramsey. To listen to this podcast ad-free  Sign up for Forever Dog Plus at foreverdogpodca

Jul 31, 2023 • 29:36

Too Long, Did Read (It): Widow Is Gender Neutral

Too Long, Did Read (It): Widow Is Gender Neutral

The trio start off with a subreddit dedicated to people who can't follow cooking directions. It brings up everyone's strong beliefs around food. Next, what does main character energy even mean? And what the heck is a glue ball? Finally, SCAMS! This has been a Forever Dog production Produced by Melisa D. MontsPost-Production by Coco LlorensExecutive produced by Brett Boham, Joe Cilio, and Alex Ramsey.To listen to this podcast ad-free Sign up for Forever Dog Plus at foreverdogpodcasts.com/plusAnd

Jul 31, 2023 • 29:36

Fantastic Fungi with Louie Schwartzberg, Friendship Closure and UFOs

Fantastic Fungi with Louie Schwartzberg, Friendship Closure and UFOs

Allison is about to graduate, but might also drop out. The duo then give advice to a listener who wants closure on a friendship that ended without reason. Allison and Gabe share their own stories of ended friendships and their infamous falling out in 2019. Then, Fantastic Fungi filmmaker Louie Schwartzberg joins for a spicy conversation about the importance of mushrooms to the cycle of life, and gets into it with Allison about psychedelics for mental health. And finally, Allison wants to talk ab

Jul 26, 2023 • 1:11:59

Fantastic Fungi with Louie Schwartzberg, Friendship Closure and UFOs

Fantastic Fungi with Louie Schwartzberg, Friendship Closure and UFOs

Allison is about to graduate, but might also drop out. The duo then give advice to a listener who wants closure on a friendship that ended without reason. Allison and Gabe share their own stories of ended friendships and their infamous falling out in 2019. Then, Fantastic Fungi filmmaker Louie Schwartzberg joins for a spicy conversation about the importance of mushrooms to the cycle of life, and gets into it with Allison about psychedelics for mental health. And finally, Allison wants to talk ab

Jul 26, 2023 • 1:10:29

Too Long, Did Read (It): I Guess Sissy's Growing Up

Too Long, Did Read (It): I Guess Sissy's Growing Up

No stupid questions is a perfect place for Allison to explore. Next, an r/oopsdidntmeanto post somehow leads the group to talking about people who are obsessed with Jesus. Followed by the long awaited deep dive into the Blink 182 subreddit, an adorable r/datingover30 post and tips for glitter removal! This has been a Forever Dog production Produced by Melisa D. MontsPost-Production by Coco LlorensExecutive produced by Brett Boham, Joe Cilio, and Alex Ramsey.To listen to this podcast ad-free Sign

Jul 24, 2023 • 29:41

Too Long, Did Read (It): I Guess Sissy's Growing Up

Too Long, Did Read (It): I Guess Sissy's Growing Up

No stupid questions is a perfect place for Allison to explore. Next, an r/oopsdidntmeanto post somehow leads the group to talking about people who are obsessed with Jesus. Followed by the long awaited deep dive into the Blink 182 subreddit, an adorable r/datingover30 post and tips for glitter removal!  This has been a Forever Dog production  Produced by Melisa D. Monts Post-Production by Coco Llorens Executive produced by Brett Boham, Joe Cilio, and Alex Ramsey. To listen to this podcast ad-fr

Jul 24, 2023 • 26:11

Stillbirth with Liz Glazer, Emotional Cheating and Risk

Stillbirth with Liz Glazer, Emotional Cheating and Risk

Gabe talks about some stuff we probably wouldn't have talked about if we knew SAG would be on strike! Next, the duo try to help a listener who has just discovered her partner has been having an emotional affair. Liz Glazer then joins the chat for a moving, vulnerable and funny discussion of how she has been able to move forward following a stillbirth--and what role comedy and creativity has played in her healing. Finally, risk! What's even worth it these days?  This has been a Forever D

Jul 19, 2023 • 1:31:22

Stillbirth with Liz Glazer, Emotional Cheating and Risk

Stillbirth with Liz Glazer, Emotional Cheating and Risk

Gabe talks about some stuff we probably wouldn't have talked about if we knew SAG would be on strike! Next, the duo try to help a listener who has just discovered her partner has been having an emotional affair. Liz Glazer then joins the chat for a moving, vulnerable and funny discussion of how she has been able to move forward following a stillbirth--and what role comedy and creativity has played in her healing. Finally, risk! What's even worth it these days? This has been a Forever Dog product

Jul 19, 2023 • 1:35:52

Too Long, Did Read (It): Jonah Hill Doesn't Think He Was Wrong

Too Long, Did Read (It): Jonah Hill Doesn't Think He Was Wrong

A traveler laments a r/mildlyinfuriating hotel door situation. Then, the trio talk about the Jonah Hill "therapized" text situation and Keke Palmer's controlling partner. Gabe reads a harrowing r/creepyencounters involving a babysitter, an arcade and a kidnapping attempt. Finally, the gang tries to stump Reddit with pigeon science and... kisses. This has been a Forever Dog production  Produced by Melisa D. Monts Post-Production by Coco Llorens Executive produced by Brett Boham, Joe

Jul 17, 2023 • 32:46

Too Long, Did Read (It): Jonah Hill Doesn't Think He Was Wrong

Too Long, Did Read (It): Jonah Hill Doesn't Think He Was Wrong

A traveler laments a r/mildlyinfuriating hotel door situation. Then, the trio talk about the Jonah Hill "therapized" text situation and Keke Palmer's controlling partner. Gabe reads a harrowing r/creepyencounters involving a babysitter, an arcade and a kidnapping attempt. Finally, the gang tries to stump Reddit with pigeon science and... kisses.This has been a Forever Dog production Produced by Melisa D. MontsPost-Production by Coco LlorensExecutive produced by Brett Boham, Joe Cilio, and Alex R

Jul 17, 2023 • 32:46

Black Culture with Sequoia Holmes, Not Loving Your Dad, and Surprises!

Black Culture with Sequoia Holmes, Not Loving Your Dad, and Surprises!

Allison loves IHOP, but hates when the menu changes. The duo try to help a listener who feels weird telling her emotionally absent dad she loves him when...she doesn't. Then, Sequoia Holmes of the podcast Black People Love Paramore joins to talk about appropriating Black culture, why there are so many underrepresented Black interests, and how Black culture IS culture. Finally, Allison gets a huge surprise but almost blows it by being naked. This has been a Forever Dog production  Produced b

Jul 12, 2023 • 1:06:15

Black Culture with Sequoia Holmes, Not Loving Your Dad, and Surprises!

Black Culture with Sequoia Holmes, Not Loving Your Dad, and Surprises!

Allison loves IHOP, but hates when the menu changes. The duo try to help a listener who feels weird telling her emotionally absent dad she loves him when...she doesn't. Then, Sequoia Holmes of the podcast Black People Love Paramore joins to talk about appropriating Black culture, why there are so many underrepresented Black interests, and how Black culture IS culture. Finally, Allison gets a huge surprise but almost blows it by being naked.This has been a Forever Dog production Produced by Melis

Jul 12, 2023 • 1:06:15

Too Long, Did Read (It): Three Pines Isn't On Any Maps

Too Long, Did Read (It): Three Pines Isn't On Any Maps

The trio try to figure out why Reddit went dark. They aren't great at it! Allison worries her memory is making her "lie." r/AskScience wants to know about loose hairs floating on the International Space Station. Good thing Melisa and Gabe actually know a lot about this! r/books roasts people who buy a bunch of books but don't read them. Allison won't stop talking about Louise Penny's Inspector Gamache. And finally, dogs on vacation and cats in Paris.This has been a Forever Dog production Produce

Jul 10, 2023 • 35:06

Too Long, Did Read (It): Three Pines Isn't On Any Maps

Too Long, Did Read (It): Three Pines Isn't On Any Maps

The trio try to figure out why Reddit went dark. They aren't great at it! Allison worries her memory is making her "lie." r/AskScience wants to know about loose hairs floating on the International Space Station. Good thing Melisa and Gabe actually know a lot about this! r/books roasts people who buy a bunch of books but don't read them. Allison won't stop talking about Louise Penny's Inspector Gamache. And finally, dogs on vacation and cats in Paris. This has been a Fore

Jul 10, 2023 • 35:06

Non-binary Sports with Kae Ravichandran, Situationships, and Hypermobility Spectrum Disorder

Non-binary Sports with Kae Ravichandran, Situationships, and Hypermobility Spectrum Disorder

Gabe and Allison discuss going grey and Allison hates when men wear cardigans. First, a queer listener writes in asking if it's unhealthy that she is okay with being in back to back situationships. Then, Gabe and Allison are joined by Kae Ravichandran who won the non-binary division of the Boston Marathon to talk about trans people and sports. And finally, Allison is looking into whether she has hypermobility spectrum disorder and what that means for her life. This has been a Forever Dog pr

Jul 5, 2023 • 1:19:26

Non-binary Sports with Kae Ravichandran, Situationships, and Hypermobility Spectrum Disorder

Non-binary Sports with Kae Ravichandran, Situationships, and Hypermobility Spectrum Disorder

Gabe and Allison discuss going grey and Allison hates when men wear cardigans. First, a queer listener writes in asking if it's unhealthy that she is okay with being in back to back situationships. Then, Gabe and Allison are joined by Kae Ravichandran who won the non-binary division of the Boston Marathon to talk about trans people and sports. And finally, Allison is looking into whether she has hypermobility spectrum disorder and what that means for her life.This has been a Forever Dog producti

Jul 5, 2023 • 1:16:26

Too Long, Did Read (It): To Put It Plainly, She Got Spat On By A Camel

Too Long, Did Read (It): To Put It Plainly, She Got Spat On By A Camel

A psychic subreddit brings questions about the ethics of predicting death. Next up, men get asked their (problematic) opinions about their wives. Do any of our real life friends listen to this show?! Plus, look out for these r/scams! Then, an r/AmITheAsshole post riles everyone up and includes a bad roommate and a camel. And finally, dumb birds and bald guys. (Justice for both!)  This has been a Forever Dog production  Produced by Melisa D. Monts Post-Production by Coco Llorens Executive produc

Jul 3, 2023 • 33:22

Too Long, Did Read (It): To Put It Plainly, She Got Spat On By A Camel

Too Long, Did Read (It): To Put It Plainly, She Got Spat On By A Camel

A psychic subreddit brings questions about the ethics of predicting death. Next up, men get asked their (problematic) opinions about their wives. Do any of our real life friends listen to this show?! Plus, look out for these r/scams! Then, an r/AmITheAsshole post riles everyone up and includes a bad roommate and a camel. And finally, dumb birds and bald guys. (Justice for both!) This has been a Forever Dog production Produced by Melisa D. MontsPost-Production by Coco LlorensExecutive produced by

Jul 3, 2023 • 33:22

Transphobia with Julia Serano, A Roommate with OCD, and Pride Month

Transphobia with Julia Serano, A Roommate with OCD, and Pride Month

Melisa is a coffee genius. The duo try to advise a listener who isn't sure how to handle a roommate's OCD. "Whipping Girl" author Julia Serano then joins the chat to discuss transmisogyny, moral panics, and biological sex misconceptions in the wake of the rise of transphobia. And finally, Pride! An Idina Menzel concert, (And all of Gabe's little outfits!)  This has been a Forever Dog production  Produced by Melisa D. Monts Post-Production by Coco Llorens Executive produced b

Jun 28, 2023 • 1:22:52

Transphobia with Julia Serano, A Roommate with OCD, and Pride Month

Transphobia with Julia Serano, A Roommate with OCD, and Pride Month

Melisa is a coffee genius. The duo try to advise a listener who isn't sure how to handle a roommate's OCD. "Whipping Girl" author Julia Serano then joins the chat to discuss transmisogyny, moral panics, and biological sex misconceptions in the wake of the rise of transphobia. And finally, Pride! An Idina Menzel concert, (And all of Gabe's little outfits!) This has been a Forever Dog production Produced by Melisa D. MontsPost-Production by Coco LlorensExecutive produced by Brett Boham, Joe Cilio,

Jun 28, 2023 • 1:27:22

Too Long, Did Read (It): It's A Good Lovemaking Song With Good Rhythm

Too Long, Did Read (It): It's A Good Lovemaking Song With Good Rhythm

A BANANAS cooking r/amItheasshole about 40 lbs of tomatoes and a sister-in-law who won't stop tweaking other people's cooking. Gabe wants to know what misconceptions people have about cooking including a surprise about couscous. Then, dating app bullshit that is uncommunicative at best and rude at worst. And finally, an iconic sex music post from r/TIFU, where a man laments that his girlfriend of two years admitted she hates a specific song from his playlist.  This has been a Forever Do

Jun 26, 2023 • 28:31

Too Long, Did Read (It): It's A Good Lovemaking Song With Good Rhythm

Too Long, Did Read (It): It's A Good Lovemaking Song With Good Rhythm

A BANANAS cooking r/amItheasshole about 40 lbs of tomatoes and a sister-in-law who won't stop tweaking other people's cooking. Gabe wants to know what misconceptions people have about cooking including a surprise about couscous. Then, dating app bullshit that is uncommunicative at best and rude at worst. And finally, an iconic sex music post from r/TIFU, where a man laments that his girlfriend of two years admitted she hates a specific song from his playlist.  This has been a Forever Dog produc

Jun 26, 2023 • 28:31

Dating Show Diversity with 2 Black Girls 1 Rose, Disappointing Your Parents, and Medical Discrimination in Florida

Dating Show Diversity with 2 Black Girls 1 Rose, Disappointing Your Parents, and Medical Discrimination in Florida

tw: suicide during the interview portion, transphobia Gabe finds out the hard way that they are allergic to cobalt. They also have an important message pushing back on criticism they got about their autism and transness. (It's a good one!) The duo then try to help a listener who doesn't want to be a lawyer--despite being in law school. Next, Justine and Natasha from 2 Black Girls 1 Rose, a dating show podcast with a social justice lens, join the pod to discuss Black contestants on the B

Jun 21, 2023 • 1:16:56

Dating Show Diversity with 2 Black Girls 1 Rose, Disappointing Your Parents, and Medical Discrimination in Florida

Dating Show Diversity with 2 Black Girls 1 Rose, Disappointing Your Parents, and Medical Discrimination in Florida

tw: suicide during the interview portion, transphobia Gabe finds out the hard way that they are allergic to cobalt. They also have an important message pushing back on criticism they got about their autism and transness. (It's a good one!) The duo then try to help a listener who doesn't want to be a lawyer--despite being in law school. Next, Justine and Natasha from 2 Black Girls 1 Rose, a dating show podcast with a social justice lens, join the pod to discuss Black contestants on the Bachelor,

Jun 21, 2023 • 1:21:26

Too Long Did Read (It): I Don't Have Any Emo Friends To Send This To

Too Long Did Read (It): I Don't Have Any Emo Friends To Send This To

tw: mention of suicide by Tylenol overdose Allison needs things to be explained to her like she's five years old. Lucky there's a Reddit for that! . r/exMormon brings us a rollercoaster ride with a story about a teenage daughter's new religious boyfriend--who hates Pride month and is also an asshole in general. Gabe doesn't like the new iOS update that warns users about unsolicited nudes. And finally, why we all need to respect the fountain pen community. This has been a Foreve

Jun 19, 2023 • 34:32

Too Long Did Read (It): I Don't Have Any Emo Friends To Send This To

Too Long Did Read (It): I Don't Have Any Emo Friends To Send This To

tw: mention of suicide by Tylenol overdose Allison needs things to be explained to her like she's five years old. Lucky there's a Reddit for that! . r/exMormon brings us a rollercoaster ride with a story about a teenage daughter's new religious boyfriend--who hates Pride month and is also an asshole in general. Gabe doesn't like the new iOS update that warns users about unsolicited nudes. And finally, why we all need to respect the fountain pen community. This has been a Forever Dog production

Jun 19, 2023 • 34:32

DOGS with Shannon Mioduszewski, When Your Partner's Friends Hate You and Guilt by Association

DOGS with Shannon Mioduszewski, When Your Partner's Friends Hate You and Guilt by Association

COME TO OUR BIRTHDAY PARTY: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/jbu-live-gabe-and-allisons-birthday-tickets-649524544397?aff=oddtdtcreator Allison has already ruined her engagement ring. The duo then try to help a listener whose partner's friends talk trash about her behind her back. They're then joined by dog trainer Shannon Mioduszewski to discuss positive reinforcement, reactivity and why your bond with your dog is the most important thing of all! And finally, guilt by association. Is it ever okay

Jun 14, 2023 • 1:23:38

DOGS with Shannon Mioduszewski, When Your Partner's Friends Hate You and Guilt by Association

DOGS with Shannon Mioduszewski, When Your Partner's Friends Hate You and Guilt by Association

COME TO OUR BIRTHDAY PARTY: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/jbu-live-gabe-and-allisons-birthday-tickets-649524544397?aff=oddtdtcreator Allison has already ruined her engagement ring. The duo then try to help a listener whose partner's friends talk trash about her behind her back. They're then joined by dog trainer Shannon Mioduszewski to discuss positive reinforcement, reactivity and why your bond with your dog is the most important thing of all! And finally, guilt by association. Is it ev

Jun 14, 2023 • 1:19:08

Too Long, Did Read (It): Whatever They Are, Here They Come Again

Too Long, Did Read (It): Whatever They Are, Here They Come Again

Allison starts off by deeply upsetting Melisa with a rat photo. In r/todayIlearned, the trio speculate on why birth rates have dropped so dramatically in the last few years-- which is pretty easy to do given current society! Then, a man blames his 1 year old grandson for his divorce. r/wheredidthesodago showcases infomercials both good and bad. Gabe shares a horror story about buying a child a gift off an Instagram ad. r/BadTeachers gives us schadenfreude for bad people being fired, and Melisa s

Jun 12, 2023 • 31:10

Too Long, Did Read (It): Whatever They Are, Here They Come Again

Too Long, Did Read (It): Whatever They Are, Here They Come Again

Allison starts off by deeply upsetting Melisa with a rat photo. In r/todayIlearned, the trio speculate on why birth rates have dropped so dramatically in the last few years-- which is pretty easy to do given current society! Then, a man blames his 1 year old grandson for his divorce. r/wheredidthesodago showcases infomercials both good and bad. Gabe shares a horror story about buying a child a gift off an Instagram ad. r/BadTeachers gives us schadenfreude for bad people being fired, and Melisa s

Jun 12, 2023 • 34:40

JBU Live - Gabe and Allison's Birthday! ANNOUNCEMENT

JBU Live - Gabe and Allison's Birthday! ANNOUNCEMENT

Join us for a Just Between Us bday live stream with our besties Rachel Retha Middleton and Cerise Castle! It's gonna get silly. Click for more details: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/jbu-live-gabe-and-allisons-birthday-tickets-649524544397?aff=oddtdtcreatorOur Sponsors:* Check out Rosetta Stone and use my code TODAY for a great deal: www.rosettastone.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/just-between-us/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out

Jun 8, 2023 • 1:19

JBU Live - Gabe and Allison's Birthday! ANNOUNCEMENT

JBU Live - Gabe and Allison's Birthday! ANNOUNCEMENT

Join us for a Just Between Us bday live stream with our besties Rachel Retha Middleton and Cerise Castle! It's gonna get silly. Click for more details: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/jbu-live-gabe-and-allisons-birthday-tickets-649524544397?aff=oddtdtcreator Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jun 8, 2023 • 1:19

The Art Of Giving Advice with Meredith Goldstein, Losing People to QAnon, and Life Hacks

The Art Of Giving Advice with Meredith Goldstein, Losing People to QAnon, and Life Hacks

Allison forces Gabe to share a fun fact that prompts a "deep" discussion about the human experience. The duo then try to help a listener who feels guilty over losing a former boyfriend to right-wing conspiracy theories. Then, Love Letters advice columnist Meredith Goldstein joins the pod to talk about why people don't listen to relationship advice and her own journey with opening herself up to the vulnerability of love. (Allison fangirls!) Finally, in Topixxx, Melisa destroys with a

Jun 7, 2023 • 1:16:59

The Art Of Giving Advice with Meredith Goldstein, Losing People to QAnon, and Life Hacks

The Art Of Giving Advice with Meredith Goldstein, Losing People to QAnon, and Life Hacks

Allison forces Gabe to share a fun fact that prompts a "deep" discussion about the human experience. The duo then try to help a listener who feels guilty over losing a former boyfriend to right-wing conspiracy theories. Then, Love Letters advice columnist Meredith Goldstein joins the pod to talk about why people don't listen to relationship advice and her own journey with opening herself up to the vulnerability of love. (Allison fangirls!) Finally, in Topixxx, Melisa destroys with a well-timed j

Jun 7, 2023 • 1:16:59

Too Long Did Read (It): I Think Men Might Be Bad

Too Long Did Read (It): I Think Men Might Be Bad

Melisa starts the episode off strong with a sick burn. The gang then clarifies the concept of malicious compliance through the help of two listeners. Next up, sex workers share some of their most cringe moments with clients. Allison then connects with the subreddit Out Of The Loop (for obvious reasons). And finally, pizza delivery drama, online dating bad behavior and terrible book covers!  Celebrate Our Birthday With Us! https://www.eventbrite.com/e/jbu-live-gabe-and-allisons-birthday-tickets-

Jun 5, 2023 • 37:09

Too Long Did Read (It): I Think Men Might Be Bad

Too Long Did Read (It): I Think Men Might Be Bad

Melisa starts the episode off strong with a sick burn. The gang then clarifies the concept of malicious compliance through the help of two listeners. Next up, sex workers share some of their most cringe moments with clients. Allison then connects with the subreddit Out Of The Loop (for obvious reasons). And finally, pizza delivery drama, online dating bad behavior and terrible book covers!  Celebrate Our Birthday With Us! https://www.eventbrite.com/e/jbu-live-gabe-and-allisons-birthday-tickets-

Jun 5, 2023 • 37:09

REPLAY: PRIDE LIVE PART TWO! Coming Out Advice with Lucy Dacus and Internalized Homophobia/Transphobia with Alexis Sanchez

REPLAY: PRIDE LIVE PART TWO! Coming Out Advice with Lucy Dacus and Internalized Homophobia/Transphobia with Alexis Sanchez

Original Air Date: June 25, 2021 In the final part of our Pride Live! show, Gabe and Allison are joined by musician Lucy Dacus to answer a listener's question about the best way to come out to her straight group of friends (and everyone else). Activist and educator Alexis Sanchez then stops by to discuss internalized homophobia/transphobia/biphobia. Alexis and Gabe share their own experiences of accepting themselves and offer advice for others struggling.  This episode contains conversation

May 31, 2023 • 42:59

REPLAY: PRIDE LIVE PART TWO! Coming Out Advice with Lucy Dacus and Internalized Homophobia/Transphobia with Alexis Sanchez

REPLAY: PRIDE LIVE PART TWO! Coming Out Advice with Lucy Dacus and Internalized Homophobia/Transphobia with Alexis Sanchez

Original Air Date: June 25, 2021 In the final part of our Pride Live! show, Gabe and Allison are joined by musician Lucy Dacus to answer a listener's question about the best way to come out to her straight group of friends (and everyone else). Activist and educator Alexis Sanchez then stops by to discuss internalized homophobia/transphobia/biphobia. Alexis and Gabe share their own experiences of accepting themselves and offer advice for others struggling.  This episode contains conversations ab

May 31, 2023 • 46:29

REPLAY: PRIDE LIVE PART ONE! Trans Rights with ACLU lawyer Chase Strangio and THE GAY OFFS with Kalen Allen

REPLAY: PRIDE LIVE PART ONE! Trans Rights with ACLU lawyer Chase Strangio and THE GAY OFFS with Kalen Allen

Original Air Date June, 23, 2021 It's our Pride episode! Hooray! First, a pronoun change for Gabe as an update on their continuing gender journey. Then, we're honored to be joined by the ACLU's Chase Strangio to talk about his work on fighting anti-trans legislation, why these laws have sprung up all over in the last few years, and what we can do to help stop these discriminatory, misinformed, and cruel laws. Gabe then takes over the game show portion of the podcast with THE GAY OFF

May 29, 2023 • 1:08:36

REPLAY: PRIDE LIVE PART ONE! Trans Rights with ACLU lawyer Chase Strangio and THE GAY OFFS with Kalen Allen

REPLAY: PRIDE LIVE PART ONE! Trans Rights with ACLU lawyer Chase Strangio and THE GAY OFFS with Kalen Allen

Original Air Date June, 23, 2021 It's our Pride episode! Hooray! First, a pronoun change for Gabe as an update on their continuing gender journey. Then, we're honored to be joined by the ACLU's Chase Strangio to talk about his work on fighting anti-trans legislation, why these laws have sprung up all over in the last few years, and what we can do to help stop these discriminatory, misinformed, and cruel laws. Gabe then takes over the game show portion of the podcast with THE GAY OFFS! Comedian

May 29, 2023 • 1:12:06

Other People's Secrets with Kimi Culp, Female Friendships, and Senator Feinstein

Other People's Secrets with Kimi Culp, Female Friendships, and Senator Feinstein

Gabe has no rhythm and wonders how do couples know when a song is "your song?" A listener writes in worried because she doesn't have female friends and isn't sure if that's a red flag. All The Wiser podcast host Kimi Culp joins the chat to talk about learning from the darkest moments of her and her guests' lives. And why it's important to have these conversations (responsibly). During Hypotheticals, Allison has some questions about how to handle a nervous flower girl.

May 24, 2023 • 1:05:27

Other People's Secrets with Kimi Culp, Female Friendships, and Senator Feinstein

Other People's Secrets with Kimi Culp, Female Friendships, and Senator Feinstein

Gabe has no rhythm and wonders how do couples know when a song is "your song?" A listener writes in worried because she doesn't have female friends and isn't sure if that's a red flag. All The Wiser podcast host Kimi Culp joins the chat to talk about learning from the darkest moments of her and her guests' lives. And why it's important to have these conversations (responsibly). During Hypotheticals, Allison has some questions about how to handle a nervous flower girl. And, finally, why won't Dia

May 24, 2023 • 1:05:27

Too Long Did Read (It): #BoyMoms Wanna Date Their Sons

Too Long Did Read (It): #BoyMoms Wanna Date Their Sons

Gabe shares how it's easy to get into anywhere while wearing a high visibility vest with posts from r/ActLikeYouBelong. Melisa is an expert at attending events she isn't supposed to be at. r/thanksImcured collects responses to people's mental illnesses and trauma that are insulting, condescending, and...obvious. A horrible hook up leaves a handwritten note with "constructive feedback." The trio all have different opinions on this tactic. Allison was called out for a "Not

May 22, 2023 • 29:34

Too Long Did Read (It): #BoyMoms Wanna Date Their Sons

Too Long Did Read (It): #BoyMoms Wanna Date Their Sons

Gabe shares how it's easy to get into anywhere while wearing a high visibility vest with posts from r/ActLikeYouBelong. Melisa is an expert at attending events she isn't supposed to be at. r/thanksImcured collects responses to people's mental illnesses and trauma that are insulting, condescending, and...obvious. A horrible hook up leaves a handwritten note with "constructive feedback." The trio all have different opinions on this tactic. Allison was called out for a "Not Like The Other Girls" po

May 22, 2023 • 33:04

Small Businesses With Steve Hall, Attachment Styles, and Anti-Semitism

Small Businesses With Steve Hall, Attachment Styles, and Anti-Semitism

tw: brief mention of pedophilia, racism, and Anti-Semitism Allison has a TV rec that you MUST watch. Shelly writes in to ask about attachment styles and how to know what that means for her relationships. Gabe has an unexpected emotional reaction to the question. Then, Steve Hall from the Local Initiatives Support Corp joins the podcast to talk about how to support small businesses and the importance of buying local. Plus, important tips for newly minted business owners. Is a 1970s record store

May 17, 2023 • 1:20:06

Small Businesses With Steve Hall, Attachment Styles, and Anti-Semitism

Small Businesses With Steve Hall, Attachment Styles, and Anti-Semitism

tw: brief mention of pedophilia, racism, and Anti-Semitism Allison has a TV rec that you MUST watch. Shelly writes in to ask about attachment styles and how to know what that means for her relationships. Gabe has an unexpected emotional reaction to the question. Then, Steve Hall from the Local Initiatives Support Corp joins the podcast to talk about how to support small businesses and the importance of buying local. Plus, important tips for newly minted business owners. Is a 1970s record store

May 17, 2023 • 1:15:36

TLDRI: I Don't Love It When It's Stinky Stinky

TLDRI: I Don't Love It When It's Stinky Stinky

tw: fatphobia and anti-fat bias Our trio's deep dive begins with a subreddit for long hair that provides loving support if you want your hair to touch the ground. Allison then reads a r/menwritingwomen post that is so cringey we'd understand if you can't listen or want to rip your ears off. Next, r/HelpMeFind brings us a fun cat toy that Gabe has actually contemplated buying and sparks a conversation about lost things. Finally, wholesome updates on a growing asparagus, Allison is the new cartoon

May 15, 2023 • 36:18

TLDRI: I Don't Love It When It's Stinky Stinky

TLDRI: I Don't Love It When It's Stinky Stinky

tw: fatphobia and anti-fat bias Our trio's deep dive begins with a subreddit for long hair that provides loving support if you want your hair to touch the ground. Allison then reads a r/menwritingwomen post that is so cringey we'd understand if you can't listen or want to rip your ears off. Next, r/HelpMeFind brings us a fun cat toy that Gabe has actually contemplated buying and sparks a conversation about lost things. Finally, wholesome updates on a growing asparagus, Allison is the

May 15, 2023 • 36:18

The Housing Crisis with Andreina Kniss, Trans Imposter Syndrome, and the WGA Writers Strike

The Housing Crisis with Andreina Kniss, Trans Imposter Syndrome, and the WGA Writers Strike

Allison fights through her discomfort to promote her Substack (please subscribe!). The duo (but mostly Gabe) then try to help a listener who is battling transgender imposter syndrome and isn't sure if they are "trans enough" for top surgery. K-Town for All's Andreina Kniss joins the chat to talk about misconceptions around unhoused populations, the housing crisis and the subtle tactics landlords use to continue discrimination. It's an incredibly important topic and we are so

May 10, 2023 • 1:24:58

The Housing Crisis with Andreina Kniss, Trans Imposter Syndrome, and the WGA Writers Strike

The Housing Crisis with Andreina Kniss, Trans Imposter Syndrome, and the WGA Writers Strike

Allison fights through her discomfort to promote her Substack (please subscribe!). The duo (but mostly Gabe) then try to help a listener who is battling transgender imposter syndrome and isn't sure if they are "trans enough" for top surgery. K-Town for All's Andreina Kniss joins the chat to talk about misconceptions around unhoused populations, the housing crisis and the subtle tactics landlords use to continue discrimination. It's an incredibly important topic and we are so thankful to get to d

May 10, 2023 • 1:29:28

TLDRI: If You Can't Be Around Somebody's That Pregnant, That's Part Of The Problem

TLDRI: If You Can't Be Around Somebody's That Pregnant, That's Part Of The Problem

In r/relationship_advice, an UNBEARABLE man's best friend wants him to dump his girlfriend, a single mom who he's already broken up with numerous times. Allison admits she'll be terrible and demanding during pregnancy. Then, a Redditor finds creepy Post-its around his house. Allison loves pranks, Gabe loves revenge. Melisa wants to know if Allison's dad talks about her. In r/ProRevenge, a guy gets one over on a boss who is trying to underpay him. Plus, malicious compliance! And f

May 8, 2023 • 31:51

TLDRI: If You Can't Be Around Somebody's That Pregnant, That's Part Of The Problem

TLDRI: If You Can't Be Around Somebody's That Pregnant, That's Part Of The Problem

In r/relationship_advice, an UNBEARABLE man's best friend wants him to dump his girlfriend, a single mom who he's already broken up with numerous times. Allison admits she'll be terrible and demanding during pregnancy. Then, a Redditor finds creepy Post-its around his house. Allison loves pranks, Gabe loves revenge. Melisa wants to know if Allison's dad talks about her. In r/ProRevenge, a guy gets one over on a boss who is trying to underpay him. Plus, malicious compliance! And finally, a WEIRD

May 8, 2023 • 35:21

A Secret Addiction with Laura Cathcart Robbins, Queerplatonic Partnership and Writing Workshops

A Secret Addiction with Laura Cathcart Robbins, Queerplatonic Partnership and Writing Workshops

tw: racism, addiction Allison worries she's a bad dog mom after Sugar has a paw injury. Gabe's name change went through and he shares why he chose the "male" gender marker. Next, a listener writes in to ask about how to platonically purchase a home with a close friend and still be able to date other people. The incredible Laura Cathcart Robbins joins to talk about what it's like to be a Black woman in the addiction space, her unconventional journey to sobriety, and the impor

May 3, 2023 • 1:31:48

A Secret Addiction with Laura Cathcart Robbins, Queerplatonic Partnership and Writing Workshops

A Secret Addiction with Laura Cathcart Robbins, Queerplatonic Partnership and Writing Workshops

tw: racism, addiction Allison worries she's a bad dog mom after Sugar has a paw injury. Gabe's name change went through and he shares why he chose the "male" gender marker. Next, a listener writes in to ask about how to platonically purchase a home with a close friend and still be able to date other people. The incredible Laura Cathcart Robbins joins to talk about what it's like to be a Black woman in the addiction space, her unconventional journey to sobriety, and the importance of representat

May 3, 2023 • 1:31:48

Just Between Us Trailer!

Just Between Us Trailer!

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May 2, 2023 • 1:06

Just Between Us Trailer!

Just Between Us Trailer!

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May 2, 2023 • 1:06

Too Long Did Read (It): Scared And Confused About My Wife's Belly Button

Too Long Did Read (It): Scared And Confused About My Wife's Belly Button

Allison starts off by sharing one of Reddit's longest inside jokes that leads to a discussion of what type of jokes are allowed. They then dive into a cheating story that is about...a woman's belly button. Which prompts Allison to share her concerns about her own belly button. Next up, strange laws regarding bagels, air and beards! Then, old people doing weird stuff on Facebook and Melisa's new business idea that stumps Reddit.  This has been a Forever Dog production  Produced by Melisa D. Mont

May 1, 2023 • 35:17

Too Long Did Read (It): Scared And Confused About My Wife's Belly Button

Too Long Did Read (It): Scared And Confused About My Wife's Belly Button

Allison starts off by sharing one of Reddit's longest inside jokes that leads to a discussion of what type of jokes are allowed. They then dive into a cheating story that is about...a woman's belly button. Which prompts Allison to share her concerns about her own belly button. Next up, strange laws regarding bagels, air and beards! Then, old people doing weird stuff on Facebook and Melisa's new business idea that stumps Reddit.  This has been a Forever Dog production  Produced by Me

May 1, 2023 • 35:17

Overcoming Sexual Shame with Zachary Zane, Weed As A Coping Mechanism and Allison’s Bachelorette

Overcoming Sexual Shame with Zachary Zane, Weed As A Coping Mechanism and Allison’s Bachelorette

Allison's dead grandma is emailing her. A listener writes in to ask if they can still use weed for their mental health even though their therapist doesn't approve. Gabe reveals the reasons they got a new therapist who specializes in autism. Then author Zachary Zane joins the pod to talk about his book Boyslut, his life as a bisexual polyamorous man, and his OCD. He is basically Gabe and Allison's son. And finally, all the sexy secrets and friendship fun from Allison's Bachelorett

Apr 26, 2023 • 1:31:42

Overcoming Sexual Shame with Zachary Zane, Weed As A Coping Mechanism and Allison’s Bachelorette

Overcoming Sexual Shame with Zachary Zane, Weed As A Coping Mechanism and Allison’s Bachelorette

Allison's dead grandma is emailing her. A listener writes in to ask if they can still use weed for their mental health even though their therapist doesn't approve. Gabe reveals the reasons they got a new therapist who specializes in autism. Then author Zachary Zane joins the pod to talk about his book Boyslut, his life as a bisexual polyamorous man, and his OCD. He is basically Gabe and Allison's son. And finally, all the sexy secrets and friendship fun from Allison's Bachelorett

Apr 26, 2023 • 1:31:42

Too Long, Did Read (It): My Entire Life Doctors Have Wanted My Tonsils

Too Long, Did Read (It): My Entire Life Doctors Have Wanted My Tonsils

Allison is still learning how this mysterious website works. Her investigation leads the group to clever comebacks, Court TV secrets and nose-breathing conspiracies! Glitch In The Matrix has a lot of rules. But they don't explain what happened to those razors! And finally, do you believe in the multiverse?? Because we sure do! Plus, a Grindr hook up with a reptile twist. Watch our 4/20 Live Show: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/video-only-jbu-goes-live-and-gets-high-tickets-622844734367 This

Apr 24, 2023 • 33:09

Too Long, Did Read (It): My Entire Life Doctors Have Wanted My Tonsils

Too Long, Did Read (It): My Entire Life Doctors Have Wanted My Tonsils

Allison is still learning how this mysterious website works. Her investigation leads the group to clever comebacks, Court TV secrets and nose-breathing conspiracies! Glitch In The Matrix has a lot of rules. But they don't explain what happened to those razors! And finally, do you believe in the multiverse?? Because we sure do! Plus, a Grindr hook up with a reptile twist. Watch our 4/20 Live Show: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/video-only-jbu-goes-live-and-gets-high-tickets-622844734367 This

Apr 24, 2023 • 33:09

The Fat Doctor with Dr. Asher Larmie, Relationship Baggage, and Fame

The Fat Doctor with Dr. Asher Larmie, Relationship Baggage, and Fame

Gabe shares a random night they had at a jazz club called The Baked Potato. The duo then try to help a listener whose past relationships have been negatively affecting her current one--especially with the pressure of her birthday coming up. Next, the Fat Doctor, Dr. Asher Larmie, joins the podcast to talk about weight stigma, anti-fat bias leading to treatment delay, the conspiracy to shell out damaging weight loss products and invent fatphobic medical conditions, and how we can rethink health,

Apr 19, 2023 • 1:29:00

The Fat Doctor with Dr. Asher Larmie, Relationship Baggage, and Fame

The Fat Doctor with Dr. Asher Larmie, Relationship Baggage, and Fame

Gabe shares a random night they had at a jazz club called The Baked Potato. The duo then try to help a listener whose past relationships have been negatively affecting her current one--especially with the pressure of her birthday coming up. Next, the Fat Doctor, Dr. Asher Larmie, joins the podcast to talk about weight stigma, anti-fat bias leading to treatment delay, the conspiracy to shell out damaging weight loss products and invent fatphobic medical conditions, and how we can rethink health,

Apr 19, 2023 • 1:33:30

Too Long, Did Read (It): You Name It, We Shame It

Too Long, Did Read (It): You Name It, We Shame It

Melisa and Gabe love winning people over. Allison doesn't have time for it. But she does have time to dive into international cigarette company conspiracies, pogs, Pokemon cards and a WILD 90s confession. How does one become a moderator on Reddit? Which celebrity got a bad rap for no reason? And what do you do if a bride doesn't want you to wear glasses at her wedding?? A variety of subreddits answer all these questions and more! Also, BUNNIES. This has been a Forever Dog production  Pr

Apr 17, 2023 • 35:43

Too Long, Did Read (It): You Name It, We Shame It

Too Long, Did Read (It): You Name It, We Shame It

Melisa and Gabe love winning people over. Allison doesn't have time for it. But she does have time to dive into international cigarette company conspiracies, pogs, Pokemon cards and a WILD 90s confession. How does one become a moderator on Reddit? Which celebrity got a bad rap for no reason? And what do you do if a bride doesn't want you to wear glasses at her wedding?? A variety of subreddits answer all these questions and more! Also, BUNNIES. This has been a Forever Dog production  Pr

Apr 17, 2023 • 35:43

DRAG IS GOOD! Livestream Benefit Show

DRAG IS GOOD! Livestream Benefit Show

Forever Dog's sister network MOM (Moguls of Media) is putting on a livestream drag benefit show this Thursday April 13th in Nashville, TN! All proceeds go to the ACLU Drag Defense Fund and mutual aid funds in Tennessee that benefit the queer and trans community.Streamed live from the iconic PLAY in Nashville, DRAG IS GOOD is a drag show ready to raise funds and raise hell in Tennessee. As politicians and puritans continue to attack drag queens, trans folks, and the entire queer community, Alaska

Apr 13, 2023 • 2:13

"Revenge Porn" with Leah Juliett, Calling Someone In, and Avoidance Draft Episode for Apr 12, 2023

"Revenge Porn" with Leah Juliett, Calling Someone In, and Avoidance Draft Episode for Apr 12, 2023

Content warning: rape, sexual abuse, child sexual abuse, non-consent Allison is wearing makeup and no one cares. Gabe and Allison then answer a listener's question about what to do when their family responds poorly to being called in. Next, survivor advocate and image based sexual abuse activist Leah Juliett joins the podcast for a very important conversation about "revenge porn," how to teach young people about consent, and what to do about the future of our images online. Finally,

Apr 12, 2023 • 1:15:00

"Revenge Porn" with Leah Juliett, Calling Someone In, and Avoidance Draft Episode for Apr 12, 2023

"Revenge Porn" with Leah Juliett, Calling Someone In, and Avoidance Draft Episode for Apr 12, 2023

Content warning: rape, sexual abuse, child sexual abuse, non-consent Allison is wearing makeup and no one cares. Gabe and Allison then answer a listener's question about what to do when their family responds poorly to being called in. Next, survivor advocate and image based sexual abuse activist Leah Juliett joins the podcast for a very important conversation about "revenge porn," how to teach young people about consent, and what to do about the future of our images online. Finally,

Apr 12, 2023 • 1:22:30

Too Long Did Read (It): Cocomelon Communist

Too Long Did Read (It): Cocomelon Communist

Allison needs magnets. Gabe feels connected to humanity through r/FoundPaper. Melisa hates looking weak. Do we keep letters from old lovers? Do we check Bibles for money? What is this show about? Gabe was hit by a bicycle once and then their relationship ended. We explore mom group shaming and a horrible post where a mother shares with the entire internet that her daughter lost her virginity and exactly how. Why is everyone obsessed with virginity? Especially your mother!! Plus, fighting the mob

Apr 10, 2023 • 42:26

Too Long Did Read (It): Cocomelon Communist

Too Long Did Read (It): Cocomelon Communist

Allison needs magnets. Gabe feels connected to humanity through r/FoundPaper. Melisa hates looking weak. Do we keep letters from old lovers? Do we check Bibles for money? What is this show about? Gabe was hit by a bicycle once and then their relationship ended. We explore mom group shaming and a horrible post where a mother shares with the entire internet that her daughter lost her virginity and exactly how. Why is everyone obsessed with virginity? Especially your mother!! Plus, fighting the mob

Apr 10, 2023 • 34:56

Salary Transparency with Maya Lau, Friend Fights, and Memoirs

Salary Transparency with Maya Lau, Friend Fights, and Memoirs

tw: mention of sexual assault in Hypotheticals, and mentions of shootings and violence in Topix Allison hates her insurance and Gabe hates their monotone testosterone voice. After complaining, the duo give advice to a listener who is concerned about a conflict between two friends and is wondering if she should meddle to try to fix things. Next, Maya Lau joins the podcast to explain the importance of salary transparency, the benefits of unionization, and eliminating shame around money. Plus, how

Apr 5, 2023 • 1:30:11

Salary Transparency with Maya Lau, Friend Fights, and Memoirs

Salary Transparency with Maya Lau, Friend Fights, and Memoirs

tw: mention of sexual assault in Hypotheticals, and mentions of shootings and violence in Topix Allison hates her insurance and Gabe hates their monotone testosterone voice. After complaining, the duo give advice to a listener who is concerned about a conflict between two friends and is wondering if she should meddle to try to fix things. Next, Maya Lau joins the podcast to explain the importance of salary transparency, the benefits of unionization, and eliminating shame around money. Plus, how

Apr 5, 2023 • 1:22:41

Too Long Did Read (It): Hey Baby, I Just Shit My Pants, Can I Get In Yours?

Too Long Did Read (It): Hey Baby, I Just Shit My Pants, Can I Get In Yours?

The show gets a boost from some listener submitted subreddits. (Please keep sending!) Including r/rectalstickers which prompts a very relevant story from Allison. Then a deep dive into r/lifeofnorman, a subreddit about the mundane life of a fictional character named Norman, makes Allison, Gabe and Melisa very cozy and inspired. And finally, FauxMoi and DeuxMoi and a ridiculous misunderstanding.  This has been a Forever Dog production  Produced by Melisa D. Monts Post-Production by Coco Llorens

Apr 3, 2023 • 44:05

Too Long Did Read (It): Hey Baby, I Just Shit My Pants, Can I Get In Yours?

Too Long Did Read (It): Hey Baby, I Just Shit My Pants, Can I Get In Yours?

The show gets a boost from some listener submitted subreddits. (Please keep sending!) Including r/rectalstickers which prompts a very relevant story from Allison. Then a deep dive into r/lifeofnorman, a subreddit about the mundane life of a fictional character named Norman, makes Allison, Gabe and Melisa very cozy and inspired. And finally, FauxMoi and DeuxMoi and a ridiculous misunderstanding.  This has been a Forever Dog production  Produced by Melisa D. Monts Post-Production by Coco Llorens

Apr 3, 2023 • 44:05

Suicide Awareness with Allison Herman, Recognizing Love and Vaginal "Health" Gummies

Suicide Awareness with Allison Herman, Recognizing Love and Vaginal "Health" Gummies

The duo start off with a heartfelt plea for everyone to leave Apple (and Spotify!) reviews. (Please!!) They then try to help a Muslim listener who is't sure how to determine if someone is right for her. Allison Herman, educational director of Hope For The Day, joins the chat to talk about what we get wrong about suicide, ethcial journalism, the importance of peer support and how education makes a big impact. And finally: vaginal health gummies. They shouldn't exist.  This has been a For

Mar 29, 2023 • 1:20:25

Suicide Awareness with Allison Herman, Recognizing Love and Vaginal "Health" Gummies

Suicide Awareness with Allison Herman, Recognizing Love and Vaginal "Health" Gummies

The duo start off with a heartfelt plea for everyone to leave Apple (and Spotify!) reviews. (Please!!) They then try to help a Muslim listener who is't sure how to determine if someone is right for her. Allison Herman, educational director of Hope For The Day, joins the chat to talk about what we get wrong about suicide, ethcial journalism, the importance of peer support and how education makes a big impact. And finally: vaginal health gummies. They shouldn't exist.  This has been a For

Mar 29, 2023 • 1:20:25

Too Long Did Read (It): I Left Shortly After She Started Crying

Too Long Did Read (It): I Left Shortly After She Started Crying

We continue to deep dive into the "medium" corners of Reddit. Subreddits explored include r/wewantplates, r/marijuanaenthusiasts and r/mildvandalism. We also read about a "Just No" Mother In Law who is a nightmare and...maybe a baby thief? We then share a revenge story worthy of popcorn and applause. And finally, Reddit Or Not ends on a technicality! Still counts! This has been a Forever Dog production  Produced by Melisa D. Monts Executive produced by Brett Boham, Joe Cilio, and Alex Ramsey.

Mar 27, 2023 • 45:45

Too Long Did Read (It): I Left Shortly After She Started Crying

Too Long Did Read (It): I Left Shortly After She Started Crying

We continue to deep dive into the "medium" corners of Reddit. Subreddits explored include r/wewantplates, r/marijuanaenthusiasts and r/mildvandalism. We also read about a "Just No" Mother In Law who is a nightmare and...maybe a baby thief? We then share a revenge story worthy of popcorn and applause. And finally, Reddit Or Not ends on a technicality! Still counts! This has been a Forever Dog production  Produced by Melisa D. Monts Executive produced by Brett Boham, Joe Cilio, an

Mar 27, 2023 • 45:45

Intimate Partner Violence with Hayley Yocum, Writing For Pleasure and Small Business Ideas

Intimate Partner Violence with Hayley Yocum, Writing For Pleasure and Small Business Ideas

Gabe And Allison start off by analyzing each other's laugh and granola bar preferences. They then try to help a listener who isn't sure if she is talented enough to finish writing her book or switch fields. Gender-based violence advocate Hayley Yocum joins the conversation to talk about domestic violence, how advocates help and what we misunderstand about IPV. And finally, what are our small business ideas? And is anyone willing to invest?  This has been a Forever Dog production  Produc

Mar 22, 2023 • 1:26:02

Intimate Partner Violence with Hayley Yocum, Writing For Pleasure and Small Business Ideas

Intimate Partner Violence with Hayley Yocum, Writing For Pleasure and Small Business Ideas

Gabe And Allison start off by analyzing each other's laugh and granola bar preferences. They then try to help a listener who isn't sure if she is talented enough to finish writing her book or switch fields. Gender-based violence advocate Hayley Yocum joins the conversation to talk about domestic violence, how advocates help and what we misunderstand about IPV. And finally, what are our small business ideas? And is anyone willing to invest?  This has been a Forever Dog production  Produced by Me

Mar 22, 2023 • 1:33:32

Too Long, Did Read (It): You'll Never Dance On My Grave, You Evil Bitch

Too Long, Did Read (It): You'll Never Dance On My Grave, You Evil Bitch

The trio start off by sharing fun facts about their breathing issues. Allison explores a "spooky" subreddit that is probably not based in truth. Gabe brags about being featured in a Neon Lighting subreddit. A relationship post sparks a conversation about whether some people are incapable of being broken up with. Next, everyone's favorite hobby drama: knitting wars! And finally, can you contact the partner of the person your partner cheated on you with?? (Try to say that five times fa

Mar 20, 2023 • 44:02

Too Long, Did Read (It): You'll Never Dance On My Grave, You Evil Bitch

Too Long, Did Read (It): You'll Never Dance On My Grave, You Evil Bitch

The trio start off by sharing fun facts about their breathing issues. Allison explores a "spooky" subreddit that is probably not based in truth. Gabe brags about being featured in a Neon Lighting subreddit. A relationship post sparks a conversation about whether some people are incapable of being broken up with. Next, everyone's favorite hobby drama: knitting wars! And finally, can you contact the partner of the person your partner cheated on you with?? (Try to say that five times fa

Mar 20, 2023 • 36:32

Male Friendship with Gabe Mollica, Compulsive Lying, and Material Possessions

Male Friendship with Gabe Mollica, Compulsive Lying, and Material Possessions

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1Q1w3LxR1wF2QsdzEtspr8VOVCrEf5F-IvSNr1aA3V6g/edit?usp=sharing Gabe announces (not for the first time) that he wants to get a degree in mortuary science and be a funeral director. The duo then try to help a listener whose best friend can't seem to stop lying. Writer and performer Gabe Mollica joins the podcast to talk about male friendships, male loneliness, and how he has learned to have deeper relationships through his one-man show. And fin

Mar 15, 2023 • 1:25:23

Male Friendship with Gabe Mollica, Compulsive Lying, and Material Possessions

Male Friendship with Gabe Mollica, Compulsive Lying, and Material Possessions

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1Q1w3LxR1wF2QsdzEtspr8VOVCrEf5F-IvSNr1aA3V6g/edit?usp=sharing Gabe announces (not for the first time) that he wants to get a degree in mortuary science and be a funeral director. The duo then try to help a listener whose best friend can't seem to stop lying. Writer and performer Gabe Mollica joins the podcast to talk about male friendships, male loneliness, and how he has learned to have deeper relationships through his one-man show. And fin

Mar 15, 2023 • 1:17:53

Too Long, Did Read (It): Still Leaning Toward This Not Being Aliens

Too Long, Did Read (It): Still Leaning Toward This Not Being Aliens

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/17nt0bTnB7n-Ynd8IKd_lfXKlLMmgkMp4mdq3JdFxO94/edit?usp=sharing The trio start off with a Reddit thread about animals that makes them question reality. Next, the r/regretfulparents subreddit has Gabe riveted. Allison learns what a sapiosexual is and the group is appalled by a post about mind-games in dating. A post leads Allison to wonder about alien conspiracy theories. And finally, disinfectant dicks!  This has been a Forever Dog production  Pr

Mar 13, 2023 • 40:45

Too Long, Did Read (It): Still Leaning Toward This Not Being Aliens

Too Long, Did Read (It): Still Leaning Toward This Not Being Aliens

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/17nt0bTnB7n-Ynd8IKd_lfXKlLMmgkMp4mdq3JdFxO94/edit?usp=sharing The trio start off with a Reddit thread about animals that makes them question reality. Next, the r/regretfulparents subreddit has Gabe riveted. Allison learns what a sapiosexual is and the group is appalled by a post about mind-games in dating. A post leads Allison to wonder about alien conspiracy theories. And finally, disinfectant dicks!  This has been a Forever Dog production  Pr

Mar 13, 2023 • 40:45

Making Movies with Producer Daniela Taplin Lundberg, Secret Relationships and ChatGPT

Making Movies with Producer Daniela Taplin Lundberg, Secret Relationships and ChatGPT

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/13WsA8sUJZg8N2-RJO-Aw7rzBl5qVronjMdTXsV1EGTY/edit?usp=sharing Melisa and Allison start off by sharing their intense lotion routines, which shocks Gabe to their core. Next, the duo have very different opinions about what to do when a guy you're sleeping with wants to keep your relationship secret for horrible reasons. Then, film producer Daniela Taplin Lundberg joins the pod to talk about the hard realities behind making movies, how much movi

Mar 8, 2023 • 1:10:08

Making Movies with Producer Daniela Taplin Lundberg, Secret Relationships and ChatGPT

Making Movies with Producer Daniela Taplin Lundberg, Secret Relationships and ChatGPT

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/13WsA8sUJZg8N2-RJO-Aw7rzBl5qVronjMdTXsV1EGTY/edit?usp=sharing Melisa and Allison start off by sharing their intense lotion routines, which shocks Gabe to their core. Next, the duo have very different opinions about what to do when a guy you're sleeping with wants to keep your relationship secret for horrible reasons. Then, film producer Daniela Taplin Lundberg joins the pod to talk about the hard realities behind making movies, how much movies a

Mar 8, 2023 • 1:17:38

Too Long, Did Read (It): Surely Pinball of All Things Should Be Egalitarian

Too Long, Did Read (It): Surely Pinball of All Things Should Be Egalitarian

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1z3lzbz_woH46EPiYKAVOBvBf9WxXF925iGLEkE_8sfg/edit?usp=sharing Today we take a deep dive into r/HobbyDrama, where we discuss the long and twisted tale of a HUGELY sexist moment in the world of competitive pinball, presented by u/Beagleinthesnow (Who knew there was competitive pinball!) Then, a post prompts Allison to share her existing knowledge about interspecies friendship. And just when you think the show is over.... there's more! This has be

Mar 6, 2023 • 34:13

Too Long, Did Read (It): Surely Pinball of All Things Should Be Egalitarian

Too Long, Did Read (It): Surely Pinball of All Things Should Be Egalitarian

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1z3lzbz_woH46EPiYKAVOBvBf9WxXF925iGLEkE_8sfg/edit?usp=sharing Today we take a deep dive into r/HobbyDrama, where we discuss the long and twisted tale of a HUGELY sexist moment in the world of competitive pinball, presented by u/Beagleinthesnow (Who knew there was competitive pinball!) Then, a post prompts Allison to share her existing knowledge about interspecies friendship. And just when you think the show is over.... there's more! This ha

Mar 6, 2023 • 34:13

Gay and Gen Z Tiktok with Mak Ingemi, Dog Parenting, and Awards Shows

Gay and Gen Z Tiktok with Mak Ingemi, Dog Parenting, and Awards Shows

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1iOGtTXAOcgKNipTKoDq3ZTza0DMzPvdEt_e3qtMtmPk/edit?usp=sharing Allison's one year post-knee surgery. Gabe wants to know if any movie injuries have ever seemed real. First, a listener writes in wondering if threatening their dog with nail clippers when it's to keep them safely out of the kitchen is the right thing to do. How can we help our animals when they don't understand we're helping? And is negative reinforcement the way to g

Mar 1, 2023 • 1:09:20

Gay and Gen Z Tiktok with Mak Ingemi, Dog Parenting, and Awards Shows

Gay and Gen Z Tiktok with Mak Ingemi, Dog Parenting, and Awards Shows

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1iOGtTXAOcgKNipTKoDq3ZTza0DMzPvdEt_e3qtMtmPk/edit?usp=sharing Allison's one year post-knee surgery. Gabe wants to know if any movie injuries have ever seemed real. First, a listener writes in wondering if threatening their dog with nail clippers when it's to keep them safely out of the kitchen is the right thing to do. How can we help our animals when they don't understand we're helping? And is negative reinforcement the way to go? Parenting is

Mar 1, 2023 • 1:16:50

Too Long, Did Read (It): If You Kill A Stranger, You Can Get Away With It

Too Long, Did Read (It): If You Kill A Stranger, You Can Get Away With It

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1SVUpq6ySIz-_QGLwEyM_qRNJ-kU6othabJwuJ5g5yRU/edit?usp=sharing We're back exploring the confounding corners of Reddit! The trio debate an Am I The Asshole about a man who doesn't want to take care of the dog his wife and kids have chosen to neglect. They then discuss an r/damnthat'sinteresting post that prompts a discussion on how to best kill your spouse. Also, why is the r/antiwork movement so controversial? Gabe, Allison and Melisa disagree on

Feb 27, 2023 • 40:20

Too Long, Did Read (It): If You Kill A Stranger, You Can Get Away With It

Too Long, Did Read (It): If You Kill A Stranger, You Can Get Away With It

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1SVUpq6ySIz-_QGLwEyM_qRNJ-kU6othabJwuJ5g5yRU/edit?usp=sharing We're back exploring the confounding corners of Reddit! The trio debate an Am I The Asshole about a man who doesn't want to take care of the dog his wife and kids have chosen to neglect. They then discuss an r/damnthat'sinteresting post that prompts a discussion on how to best kill your spouse. Also, why is the r/antiwork movement so controversial? Gabe, Allison and Melisa

Feb 27, 2023 • 40:20

Tabletop Role Playing Games with Eric Silver, Dating with ADHD and Expertise

Tabletop Role Playing Games with Eric Silver, Dating with ADHD and Expertise

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1hYGtt7GrRbWNwSRb0fFwKMjX_whm3aUBMkk2fniJ4Hs/edit?usp=sharing Allison finally likes her nail color! (Thank god!) The duo then address a listener with ADHD who is worried about getting hyper fixated on their crush. Game master, Eric Silver, then joins the chat to talk about Dungeons & Dragons controversies, the art of playing RPGs and why both cute and strong goats are useful. And finally, what makes someone an "expert?"  This has been a Forever

Feb 22, 2023 • 1:29:51

Tabletop Role Playing Games with Eric Silver, Dating with ADHD and Expertise

Tabletop Role Playing Games with Eric Silver, Dating with ADHD and Expertise

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1hYGtt7GrRbWNwSRb0fFwKMjX_whm3aUBMkk2fniJ4Hs/edit?usp=sharing Allison finally likes her nail color! (Thank god!) The duo then address a listener with ADHD who is worried about getting hyper fixated on their crush. Game master, Eric Silver, then joins the chat to talk about Dungeons & Dragons controversies, the art of playing RPGs and why both cute and strong goats are useful. And finally, what makes someone an "expert?"  This has be

Feb 22, 2023 • 1:22:21

Too Long, Did Read (It): If They Go Low, I'm Going To The Gutter

Too Long, Did Read (It): If They Go Low, I'm Going To The Gutter

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1nr3EgMDlGCaFr0ivoMrGZKJkvg1Ug9Iinw52kmM1ekM/edit?usp=sharing In our brand new weekly show, Melisa and Gabe teach Allison about "Today I Learned" where she finds a wild story about 1700s pirates hijacking the metric system from reaching the United States. Allison also misunderstands how to actually find a subreddit. Meanwhile, Gabe is skeptical of the authenticity of Reddit posts in r/movies and on Reddit in general. And Melisa, because

Feb 20, 2023 • 33:43

Too Long, Did Read (It): If They Go Low, I'm Going To The Gutter

Too Long, Did Read (It): If They Go Low, I'm Going To The Gutter

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1nr3EgMDlGCaFr0ivoMrGZKJkvg1Ug9Iinw52kmM1ekM/edit?usp=sharing In our brand new weekly show, Melisa and Gabe teach Allison about "Today I Learned" where she finds a wild story about 1700s pirates hijacking the metric system from reaching the United States. Allison also misunderstands how to actually find a subreddit. Meanwhile, Gabe is skeptical of the authenticity of Reddit posts in r/movies and on Reddit in general. And Melisa, because of her c

Feb 20, 2023 • 33:43

Compulsory Heterosexuality with Alayna Joy, Guilt Around Environmentalism and Boycotting Movies

Compulsory Heterosexuality with Alayna Joy, Guilt Around Environmentalism and Boycotting Movies

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1QxhRx0w-DRZk6NcHOf7GtqT8cu2wsPCM4IIvsQLnfac/edit?usp=sharing Gabe opens up about their recent medical and mental ailments. It is exhausting to be a human! The duo then try to help a listener who feels overwhelming guilt when they aren't able to be environmentally conscious all the time. Alana Joy then joins the chat to talk about her journey of coming out and having to break her engagement to man. Which begs the question, how does compulsor

Feb 15, 2023 • 1:18:34

Compulsory Heterosexuality with Alayna Joy, Guilt Around Environmentalism and Boycotting Movies

Compulsory Heterosexuality with Alayna Joy, Guilt Around Environmentalism and Boycotting Movies

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1QxhRx0w-DRZk6NcHOf7GtqT8cu2wsPCM4IIvsQLnfac/edit?usp=sharing Gabe opens up about their recent medical and mental ailments. It is exhausting to be a human! The duo then try to help a listener who feels overwhelming guilt when they aren't able to be environmentally conscious all the time. Alana Joy then joins the chat to talk about her journey of coming out and having to break her engagement to man. Which begs the question, how does compulsory he

Feb 15, 2023 • 1:26:04

Too Long, Did Read (It):  Not My Cup Of Tea, But If My Friend Got It I'd Be Happy For Her

Too Long, Did Read (It): Not My Cup Of Tea, But If My Friend Got It I'd Be Happy For Her

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1MyEtnPAge3WCzpYdKjoDm5G77wvyK6rrXxUSWzCYq4E/edit?usp=sharing In a brand new weekly show, Gabe and Melisa attempt to teach Allison the ins and outs of the wonderful chaos that is Reddit. Our first episode includes a subreddit about Allison's engagement ring, incredible duck facts and a post about whether or not married people should have opposite sex best friends. Buckle up! It's time to explore!  This has been a Forever Dog production

Feb 13, 2023 • 26:40

Too Long, Did Read (It):  Not My Cup Of Tea, But If My Friend Got It I'd Be Happy For Her

Too Long, Did Read (It): Not My Cup Of Tea, But If My Friend Got It I'd Be Happy For Her

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1MyEtnPAge3WCzpYdKjoDm5G77wvyK6rrXxUSWzCYq4E/edit?usp=sharing In a brand new weekly show, Gabe and Melisa attempt to teach Allison the ins and outs of the wonderful chaos that is Reddit. Our first episode includes a subreddit about Allison's engagement ring, incredible duck facts and a post about whether or not married people should have opposite sex best friends. Buckle up! It's time to explore!  This has been a Forever Dog production

Feb 13, 2023 • 34:10

Creating Apps with Tara Reed, When You're The Friend Who Plans Everything, and Gender Reveal Parties

Creating Apps with Tara Reed, When You're The Friend Who Plans Everything, and Gender Reveal Parties

Transcript: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1kobQdTmcl9l-4OcXiagLRl5mVVyceQLMgaMuwq41H9s/edit?usp=sharing Gabe shares how and why they picked their new name! The duo then respond to a listener who is feeling frustrated that they are always the one to reach out and make plans. This sparks a conversation about Allison and Gabe'e own friendship dynamic. They're then joined by Tara Reed the founder of Apps Without Code to talk about app design, the tech industry and what the hell it means to "co

Feb 8, 2023 • 1:29:52

Creating Apps with Tara Reed, When You're The Friend Who Plans Everything, and Gender Reveal Parties

Creating Apps with Tara Reed, When You're The Friend Who Plans Everything, and Gender Reveal Parties

Transcript: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1kobQdTmcl9l-4OcXiagLRl5mVVyceQLMgaMuwq41H9s/edit?usp=sharing Gabe shares how and why they picked their new name! The duo then respond to a listener who is feeling frustrated that they are always the one to reach out and make plans. This sparks a conversation about Allison and Gabe'e own friendship dynamic. They're then joined by Tara Reed the founder of Apps Without Code to talk about app design, the tech industry and what the hell it mean

Feb 8, 2023 • 1:29:52

The Future of TV with Ashley Ray, Weaponizing Therapy and Where We Grew Up

The Future of TV with Ashley Ray, Weaponizing Therapy and Where We Grew Up

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1ah8FEYFpKTjQl_0NhbFJCAYRwDZL6Spf1QDMX738qiM/edit?usp=sharing We're going back in time to another episode without Gabe! (Recorded before their name change.) Allison and Melisa start off with a discussion of Allison's new mortal nemesis. The duo then try to help a listener whose sister is using their therapist's opinion as ammunition to prove she is always right and being mistreated. They're then joined by TV critic, Ashley Ray, w

Feb 1, 2023 • 1:27:23

The Future of TV with Ashley Ray, Weaponizing Therapy and Where We Grew Up

The Future of TV with Ashley Ray, Weaponizing Therapy and Where We Grew Up

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1ah8FEYFpKTjQl_0NhbFJCAYRwDZL6Spf1QDMX738qiM/edit?usp=sharing We're going back in time to another episode without Gabe! (Recorded before their name change.) Allison and Melisa start off with a discussion of Allison's new mortal nemesis. The duo then try to help a listener whose sister is using their therapist's opinion as ammunition to prove she is always right and being mistreated. They're then joined by TV critic, Ashley Ray, who discusses the

Feb 1, 2023 • 1:27:23

How To Have A "Good" Life with Dr. Marc Schulz, Gabe's Broken Engagement, and George Santos

How To Have A "Good" Life with Dr. Marc Schulz, Gabe's Broken Engagement, and George Santos

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/16DmAgaQUA0w9JowmE_TYfYxAI3E4JNedbu03atvUCBM/edit?usp=sharing Gabe opens up about their broken engagement and why it's been so difficult to talk about publicly. The duo is then joined by Dr. Marc Schulz the associate director of the Harvard Study of Adult Development, which has studied human happiness and fulfillment over decades. What makes us truly happy? And why is talking to strangers on a train one way to get there? And finally, George

Jan 25, 2023 • 1:11:29

How To Have A "Good" Life with Dr. Marc Schulz, Gabe's Broken Engagement, and George Santos

How To Have A "Good" Life with Dr. Marc Schulz, Gabe's Broken Engagement, and George Santos

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/16DmAgaQUA0w9JowmE_TYfYxAI3E4JNedbu03atvUCBM/edit?usp=sharing Gabe opens up about their broken engagement and why it's been so difficult to talk about publicly. The duo is then joined by Dr. Marc Schulz the associate director of the Harvard Study of Adult Development, which has studied human happiness and fulfillment over decades. What makes us truly happy? And why is talking to strangers on a train one way to get there? And finally, George Sant

Jan 25, 2023 • 1:18:59

The Ethics of True Crime with Yvette Gentile, Disclosing A Death By Suicide and Confrontation

The Ethics of True Crime with Yvette Gentile, Disclosing A Death By Suicide and Confrontation

tw: suicide, light transphobia, racist language in context of time period, sexual assault, incest, violent crime Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1VcJAHssERzj7wlLLp3GUgLch4YBR1YZ0t0WF5kvR5yc/edit?usp=sharing Gabe (still going by Gaby in this episode) is a week out from top surgery and walks Allison through the whole vulnerable rollercoaster of a process! A listener writes in with a really tough question about how to explain a death by suicide in their family to other people.

Jan 18, 2023 • 1:34:45

The Ethics of True Crime with Yvette Gentile, Disclosing A Death By Suicide and Confrontation

The Ethics of True Crime with Yvette Gentile, Disclosing A Death By Suicide and Confrontation

tw: suicide, light transphobia, racist language in context of time period, sexual assault, incest, violent crime Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1VcJAHssERzj7wlLLp3GUgLch4YBR1YZ0t0WF5kvR5yc/edit?usp=sharing Gabe (still going by Gaby in this episode) is a week out from top surgery and walks Allison through the whole vulnerable rollercoaster of a process! A listener writes in with a really tough question about how to explain a death by suicide in their family to other people.

Jan 18, 2023 • 1:27:15

Family Secrets with Carmen Rita Wong, When Your Ex Gets Engaged and 2023 Predictions

Family Secrets with Carmen Rita Wong, When Your Ex Gets Engaged and 2023 Predictions

Transcription:  https://docs.google.com/document/d/15dZnWfgAy7S2idPHnc4CaUHkVK4-gWA5s992yVPtOco/edit?usp=sharing Gabe is missing but Allison and Melisa are doing their best without them goddamnit! They try to help a listener who isn't sure how to process their ex getting engaged. Carmen Rita Wong then joins the chat to discuss her new memoir about her mother's secrets and how they impacted Carmen's understanding of herself. And finally, predictions for 2023! Will we be right about a

Jan 11, 2023 • 1:24:17

Family Secrets with Carmen Rita Wong, When Your Ex Gets Engaged and 2023 Predictions

Family Secrets with Carmen Rita Wong, When Your Ex Gets Engaged and 2023 Predictions

Transcription:  https://docs.google.com/document/d/15dZnWfgAy7S2idPHnc4CaUHkVK4-gWA5s992yVPtOco/edit?usp=sharing Gabe is missing but Allison and Melisa are doing their best without them goddamnit! They try to help a listener who isn't sure how to process their ex getting engaged. Carmen Rita Wong then joins the chat to discuss her new memoir about her mother's secrets and how they impacted Carmen's understanding of herself. And finally, predictions for 2023! Will we be right about a

Jan 11, 2023 • 1:16:47

White QAnon Moms with Cristen Conger, Partner Won't Go Vegan, and Anti-Drag Legislation

White QAnon Moms with Cristen Conger, Partner Won't Go Vegan, and Anti-Drag Legislation

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1mquapHVIGLHLwuT7vw6FLyBZzrWk7XTBhCuFkJ2v9dc/edit?usp=sharing Allison finished the first draft of her book! Which leads to a discussion on work ethic and how the duo approach their various projects. Next, they answer a listener's question about how to get their non-vegan partner to better respect their veganism or at least stop half-promising to learn more about it without any follow through. Then, Unladylike host Cristen Conger joins the pod to

Jan 4, 2023 • 1:24:33

White QAnon Moms with Cristen Conger, Partner Won't Go Vegan, and Anti-Drag Legislation

White QAnon Moms with Cristen Conger, Partner Won't Go Vegan, and Anti-Drag Legislation

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1mquapHVIGLHLwuT7vw6FLyBZzrWk7XTBhCuFkJ2v9dc/edit?usp=sharing Allison finished the first draft of her book! Which leads to a discussion on work ethic and how the duo approach their various projects. Next, they answer a listener's question about how to get their non-vegan partner to better respect their veganism or at least stop half-promising to learn more about it without any follow through. Then, Unladylike host Cristen Conger joins the po

Jan 4, 2023 • 1:24:33

REPLAY: The Myth of Laziness with Dr. Devon Price, How To Talk To Your Family About OCD Tendencies and Found Family

REPLAY: The Myth of Laziness with Dr. Devon Price, How To Talk To Your Family About OCD Tendencies and Found Family

Original Air Date: January 27,2021 Allison and Gaby answer a listener's question regarding OCD tendencies and her family's (unfavorable) response to them. They're then joined by social psychologist Dr. Devon Price to talk about laziness (it doesn't exist) and the importance of context before judgement. And finally, found family! Who says you need to be related to be family? (Not us!)  Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/17mBt9rWtbbDFFZwXDS9uvzXdVDIxxWuEfHIPfy3gK9g

Dec 28, 2022 • 1:32:51

REPLAY: The Myth of Laziness with Dr. Devon Price, How To Talk To Your Family About OCD Tendencies and Found Family

REPLAY: The Myth of Laziness with Dr. Devon Price, How To Talk To Your Family About OCD Tendencies and Found Family

Original Air Date: January 27,2021 Allison and Gaby answer a listener's question regarding OCD tendencies and her family's (unfavorable) response to them. They're then joined by social psychologist Dr. Devon Price to talk about laziness (it doesn't exist) and the importance of context before judgement. And finally, found family! Who says you need to be related to be family? (Not us!)  Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/17mBt9rWtbbDFFZwXDS9uvzXdVDIxxWuEfHIPfy3gK9g

Dec 28, 2022 • 1:32:51

Midwifery and Conception with Liam Kali, Being There For A Young Relative and Compromise

Midwifery and Conception with Liam Kali, Being There For A Young Relative and Compromise

tw: mentions of dying/depression in the intro, ableism in the IQ Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1h-ofhpXbsNnjpz5N5_KrGEgCVj9d9zWrIL8shvzqwLY/edit?usp=sharing Allison is a winter, Gaby is a summer. And they each have problems with the other season's clothing options. Old Navy, please sponsor us. First, the duo answer a listener's very kind and thoughtful question about how to be there for a younger relative in crisis without overstepping their bounds. Then, midwife and "Queer

Dec 21, 2022 • 1:32:52

Midwifery and Conception with Liam Kali, Being There For A Young Relative and Compromise

Midwifery and Conception with Liam Kali, Being There For A Young Relative and Compromise

tw: mentions of dying/depression in the intro, ableism in the IQ Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1h-ofhpXbsNnjpz5N5_KrGEgCVj9d9zWrIL8shvzqwLY/edit?usp=sharing Allison is a winter, Gaby is a summer. And they each have problems with the other season's clothing options. Old Navy, please sponsor us. First, the duo answer a listener's very kind and thoughtful question about how to be there for a younger relative in crisis without overstepping their bounds. Then, midwife an

Dec 21, 2022 • 1:32:52

K-pop! with Denise Kim, A Co-Worker's Inappropriate Jokes, and Gaby's Top Surgery

K-pop! with Denise Kim, A Co-Worker's Inappropriate Jokes, and Gaby's Top Surgery

tw: surgery Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1hw4xrVQqJPrgNIzLnSG-HqP4JxeycehhwuAayrnlhEQ/edit?usp=sharing Gaby and Allison start off with a lively discussion about Raskin pranks and bachelorette party fantasies. The duo then answer a listener's question about how to get over feeling uncomfortable about a co-worker's past inappropriate jokes. When do you need to move on and when do you need to address it? Next, K-pop star and Amatuer Hour host, Denise Kim, joins the po

Dec 14, 2022 • 1:28:32

K-pop! with Denise Kim, A Co-Worker's Inappropriate Jokes, and Gaby's Top Surgery

K-pop! with Denise Kim, A Co-Worker's Inappropriate Jokes, and Gaby's Top Surgery

tw: surgery Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1hw4xrVQqJPrgNIzLnSG-HqP4JxeycehhwuAayrnlhEQ/edit?usp=sharing Gaby and Allison start off with a lively discussion about Raskin pranks and bachelorette party fantasies. The duo then answer a listener's question about how to get over feeling uncomfortable about a co-worker's past inappropriate jokes. When do you need to move on and when do you need to address it? Next, K-pop star and Amatuer Hour host, Denise Kim, joins the pod to tal

Dec 14, 2022 • 1:36:02

CATS (the animal) with Dr. Kristyn Vitale, Hating Your Mom, and Christmas Content

CATS (the animal) with Dr. Kristyn Vitale, Hating Your Mom, and Christmas Content

tw: cats killing mice  Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1NC3GkbSIt6yvRTNLej1RyStkV3099O3cYMJ9s1EFYns/edit?usp=sharing Gaby and Allison start off by brainstorming about Allison new fake sci-fi novel "Ooh, Spooky!" Next, they address a listener who wants to know how to not find their mom SO annoying. Then, an incredible interview with cat behavior specialist Dr. Kristyn Vitale all about feline-human relationships, wrongheaded myths about indoor and outdoor cats and the m

Dec 7, 2022 • 1:17:57

CATS (the animal) with Dr. Kristyn Vitale, Hating Your Mom, and Christmas Content

CATS (the animal) with Dr. Kristyn Vitale, Hating Your Mom, and Christmas Content

tw: cats killing mice  Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1NC3GkbSIt6yvRTNLej1RyStkV3099O3cYMJ9s1EFYns/edit?usp=sharing Gaby and Allison start off by brainstorming about Allison new fake sci-fi novel "Ooh, Spooky!" Next, they address a listener who wants to know how to not find their mom SO annoying. Then, an incredible interview with cat behavior specialist Dr. Kristyn Vitale all about feline-human relationships, wrongheaded myths about indoor and outdoor cats and the mystery o

Dec 7, 2022 • 1:17:57

Broadway! with Robert Hartwell, Hating To Exercise, and the Overton Window

Broadway! with Robert Hartwell, Hating To Exercise, and the Overton Window

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1pCu3CR3HvAMW3lwO2IPAKzmo_DB-fzM7jI2zoVA_gQ4/edit?usp=sharing Is Allison driving people away?? (Again?!) The duo then try to help a listener who HATES to exercise even though it's been so helpful for their mental health. Robert Hartwell then joins to talk about his years as a Broadway performer, how you keep the same show fresh and the inner workings of one of the most magical industries in the world. And finally, the Overton Window. What is it

Nov 30, 2022 • 1:25:54

Broadway! with Robert Hartwell, Hating To Exercise, and the Overton Window

Broadway! with Robert Hartwell, Hating To Exercise, and the Overton Window

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1pCu3CR3HvAMW3lwO2IPAKzmo_DB-fzM7jI2zoVA_gQ4/edit?usp=sharing Is Allison driving people away?? (Again?!) The duo then try to help a listener who HATES to exercise even though it's been so helpful for their mental health. Robert Hartwell then joins to talk about his years as a Broadway performer, how you keep the same show fresh and the inner workings of one of the most magical industries in the world. And finally, the Overton Window. What is

Nov 30, 2022 • 1:18:24

ALLISON'S ENGAGEMENT STORY! (And Some Other Stuff Too!)

ALLISON'S ENGAGEMENT STORY! (And Some Other Stuff Too!)

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1T4Ax6OTg_4z9A9VAjo6jtjrTjFakgfOvSRIoS1W7LNw/edit?usp=sharing Our guest had a power outage! So you know what that means: A TALKING EPISODE! Allison gets to share her FULL engagement story for the first time! (1000/10 proposal! Very good job, John!) Gaby, Allison and Melisa then address a listener who doesn't know how to handle people not liking them. (Gaby can relate!) We wrap it all up with a rousing game of hypotheticals! Turns out, being

Nov 23, 2022 • 1:10:38

ALLISON'S ENGAGEMENT STORY! (And Some Other Stuff Too!)

ALLISON'S ENGAGEMENT STORY! (And Some Other Stuff Too!)

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1T4Ax6OTg_4z9A9VAjo6jtjrTjFakgfOvSRIoS1W7LNw/edit?usp=sharing Our guest had a power outage! So you know what that means: A TALKING EPISODE! Allison gets to share her FULL engagement story for the first time! (1000/10 proposal! Very good job, John!) Gaby, Allison and Melisa then address a listener who doesn't know how to handle people not liking them. (Gaby can relate!) We wrap it all up with a rousing game of hypotheticals! Turns out, being a pa

Nov 23, 2022 • 1:10:38

Puppets! with David Bizzaro, Your Partner's Gender Identity, and Superstitions

Puppets! with David Bizzaro, Your Partner's Gender Identity, and Superstitions

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1WgK685jGTia-74m3ufSWPCHka-6THemrTHwJUZqzryY/edit?usp=sharing tw: drowning, child abuse Allison relives medical trauma regarding her knee while Gaby inquires as to what AV and JV means in Allison's relationship with her fiance John. A listener then writes into the show about her AMAB (assigned male at birth) partner wanting to wear women's clothes and how his gender identity is affecting her attraction to him. Next, puppeteer David Bizzaro join

Nov 16, 2022 • 1:27:02

Puppets! with David Bizzaro, Your Partner's Gender Identity, and Superstitions

Puppets! with David Bizzaro, Your Partner's Gender Identity, and Superstitions

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1WgK685jGTia-74m3ufSWPCHka-6THemrTHwJUZqzryY/edit?usp=sharing tw: drowning, child abuse Allison relives medical trauma regarding her knee while Gaby inquires as to what AV and JV means in Allison's relationship with her fiance John. A listener then writes into the show about her AMAB (assigned male at birth) partner wanting to wear women's clothes and how his gender identity is affecting her attraction to him. Next, puppeteer David Bizz

Nov 16, 2022 • 1:27:02

Parenting Mentally Ill Children with Kelli Richardson Lawson, When You Care More Than Your Partner and Marital Hatred

Parenting Mentally Ill Children with Kelli Richardson Lawson, When You Care More Than Your Partner and Marital Hatred

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1GOaKNW1i3l1EGYtgOVI4_slxraNfdNcpNerkibI34VI/edit?usp=sharing Huge reveal to start: Allison looks cute in a hat and Gaby owns a hat they never wear. The duo then address a listener who is afraid they are too emotionally dependent on their long distance partner. They're then joined by Kelli Richardson Lawson to talk about her SonRise Project which provides resources for parents of children who are struggling with mental wellness. She shares her o

Nov 9, 2022 • 1:24:19

Parenting Mentally Ill Children with Kelli Richardson Lawson, When You Care More Than Your Partner and Marital Hatred

Parenting Mentally Ill Children with Kelli Richardson Lawson, When You Care More Than Your Partner and Marital Hatred

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1GOaKNW1i3l1EGYtgOVI4_slxraNfdNcpNerkibI34VI/edit?usp=sharing Huge reveal to start: Allison looks cute in a hat and Gaby owns a hat they never wear. The duo then address a listener who is afraid they are too emotionally dependent on their long distance partner. They're then joined by Kelli Richardson Lawson to talk about her SonRise Project which provides resources for parents of children who are struggling with mental wellness. She shares h

Nov 9, 2022 • 1:24:19

Psychedelic Problems with Dr. Lily Kay Ross and Dave Nickels, Painful Sex, and Revenge

Psychedelic Problems with Dr. Lily Kay Ross and Dave Nickels, Painful Sex, and Revenge

tw: abuse, sexual abuse, medical abuse Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1EQX2crMQyv0v6QpA2ch21JTFuGLQRcJBWBUc-RF0UiI/edit?usp=sharing First up, Allison learns that way more people listen to this podcast than she thought! What great news for her! Next, a listener writes in needing advice about dating when penetration has been historically painful. Is it possible to date without knowing if sex is on the table? The duo is then joined by Dr. Lily Kay Ross and Dave Nickels of the P

Nov 2, 2022 • 1:32:41

Psychedelic Problems with Dr. Lily Kay Ross and Dave Nickels, Painful Sex, and Revenge

Psychedelic Problems with Dr. Lily Kay Ross and Dave Nickels, Painful Sex, and Revenge

tw: abuse, sexual abuse, medical abuse Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1EQX2crMQyv0v6QpA2ch21JTFuGLQRcJBWBUc-RF0UiI/edit?usp=sharing First up, Allison learns that way more people listen to this podcast than she thought! What great news for her! Next, a listener writes in needing advice about dating when penetration has been historically painful. Is it possible to date without knowing if sex is on the table? The duo is then joined by Dr. Lily Kay Ross and Dave Nickels of the P

Nov 2, 2022 • 1:40:11

Defining Feminism with Florence Given, When To Buy A House With Your Partner And Incongruous Parts Of Our Personalities

Defining Feminism with Florence Given, When To Buy A House With Your Partner And Incongruous Parts Of Our Personalities

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1VEQ2Bu4ytif7AWk9CSYKv22SgCq2y-oDQg6jaKbiD9o/edit?usp=sharing Gaby is stressed and Allison is doing pilates! They then address a question from a listener about how to know when you are ready to purchase a house with a partner. Writer and illustrator Florence Given joins the chat to talk about her book, Women Don't Owe You Pretty, and why feminism can be a hard topic to productively talk about. The male gaze, internalized misogyny and the ben

Oct 26, 2022 • 1:21:55

Defining Feminism with Florence Given, When To Buy A House With Your Partner And Incongruous Parts Of Our Personalities

Defining Feminism with Florence Given, When To Buy A House With Your Partner And Incongruous Parts Of Our Personalities

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1VEQ2Bu4ytif7AWk9CSYKv22SgCq2y-oDQg6jaKbiD9o/edit?usp=sharing Gaby is stressed and Allison is doing pilates! They then address a question from a listener about how to know when you are ready to purchase a house with a partner. Writer and illustrator Florence Given joins the chat to talk about her book, Women Don't Owe You Pretty, and why feminism can be a hard topic to productively talk about. The male gaze, internalized misogyny and the benefit

Oct 26, 2022 • 1:29:25

The Future of Reality Dating Shows with Claire Fallon and Emma Gray, Asexual Coming Out, and Quiet Quitting

The Future of Reality Dating Shows with Claire Fallon and Emma Gray, Asexual Coming Out, and Quiet Quitting

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1cCzxuVJKMPJ90oRHcEiwgBOAXlQUqe21ibSaipF51Qs/edit?usp=sharing Gaby spins a rollercoaster of a tale of how they and their partner found themselves on a stranger's yacht during a funeral that they were assured wasn't a funeral. Then, Allison and Gaby answer a listener's question about if they have to come out as asexual to everyone and why the queer community feels entitled to people's sex life details. Next, Claire and Emma from Love To See It jo

Oct 19, 2022 • 1:36:20

The Future of Reality Dating Shows with Claire Fallon and Emma Gray, Asexual Coming Out, and Quiet Quitting

The Future of Reality Dating Shows with Claire Fallon and Emma Gray, Asexual Coming Out, and Quiet Quitting

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1cCzxuVJKMPJ90oRHcEiwgBOAXlQUqe21ibSaipF51Qs/edit?usp=sharing Gaby spins a rollercoaster of a tale of how they and their partner found themselves on a stranger's yacht during a funeral that they were assured wasn't a funeral. Then, Allison and Gaby answer a listener's question about if they have to come out as asexual to everyone and why the queer community feels entitled to people's sex life details. Next, Claire and Emma from L

Oct 19, 2022 • 1:28:50

Buzzfeed and Mental Health with Ella Hart, Defining The Relationship, and The Fundamental Attribution Error

Buzzfeed and Mental Health with Ella Hart, Defining The Relationship, and The Fundamental Attribution Error

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1loIyup99cCltw6IEepM3LFsZ3E6PDgzE_gyTJFCXb3Y/edit?usp=sharing In a moving tribute, Gaby talks about their beloved uncle who passed away last week. The duo then answer a listener's question on whether the listener should ask for more in a situationship. (You don't ask! You don't get!) Ella Hart, digital producer and our old coworker from Buzzfeed, joins to spill all the tea about the mental health struggles that come with sharing you

Oct 12, 2022 • 1:39:48

Buzzfeed and Mental Health with Ella Hart, Defining The Relationship, and The Fundamental Attribution Error

Buzzfeed and Mental Health with Ella Hart, Defining The Relationship, and The Fundamental Attribution Error

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1loIyup99cCltw6IEepM3LFsZ3E6PDgzE_gyTJFCXb3Y/edit?usp=sharing In a moving tribute, Gaby talks about their beloved uncle who passed away last week. The duo then answer a listener's question on whether the listener should ask for more in a situationship. (You don't ask! You don't get!) Ella Hart, digital producer and our old coworker from Buzzfeed, joins to spill all the tea about the mental health struggles that come with sharing your life and l

Oct 12, 2022 • 1:47:18

Combating Negative Thoughts with Dr. Monica Vermani, Can You Tell Your Coworker You Like Them, and Sick Burns

Combating Negative Thoughts with Dr. Monica Vermani, Can You Tell Your Coworker You Like Them, and Sick Burns

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1F1O3gqJ5Yn4trBDefUFC4dYz-DF7igWdB5fRxIrMrLg/edit?usp=sharing Allison has trouble navigating her way...to the bagel shop. The duo then address a somewhat triggering question about sharing your feelings for a coworker despite being a polyamorous relationship that doesn't (yet) allow the listener to hook up with cis men. Clinical psychologist Dr. Monica Vermani joins to talk about finding balance, combating negative thinking and her own approach t

Oct 5, 2022 • 1:25:07

Combating Negative Thoughts with Dr. Monica Vermani, Can You Tell Your Coworker You Like Them, and Sick Burns

Combating Negative Thoughts with Dr. Monica Vermani, Can You Tell Your Coworker You Like Them, and Sick Burns

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1F1O3gqJ5Yn4trBDefUFC4dYz-DF7igWdB5fRxIrMrLg/edit?usp=sharing Allison has trouble navigating her way...to the bagel shop. The duo then address a somewhat triggering question about sharing your feelings for a coworker despite being a polyamorous relationship that doesn't (yet) allow the listener to hook up with cis men. Clinical psychologist Dr. Monica Vermani joins to talk about finding balance, combating negative thinking and her own approa

Oct 5, 2022 • 1:17:37

Not My Show. Not My Monkey. Brought to you by Betterhelp

Not My Show. Not My Monkey. Brought to you by Betterhelp

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1NYMgxt85lwcGsI0k7JJX7-O1DOJ_6ui-CFfYrrjlwX0/edit?usp=sharingThis podcast is sponsored by Betterhelp.Allison and Gaby discuss problem solving issues in their live. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Oct 3, 2022 • 3:07

Queer Paradise with Mitra Kaboli, Having No Romantic Experience and Safe Injection Sites

Queer Paradise with Mitra Kaboli, Having No Romantic Experience and Safe Injection Sites

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1G4bnk-GEYJbiTSzQsSwSgJiB6Nw5lZFfA80vxqfwB2w/edit?usp=sharing Gaby starts off by questioning their therapist's professionalism. What is and isn't allowed?? The duo then address a listener who worried their lack of romantic experience means they are doomed or broken. Podcaster Mitra Kaboli joins the chat to talk about spending a summer in Provincetown and what it taught her about queer community, queer hierarchies and her own needs. And

Sep 28, 2022 • 1:02:55

Queer Paradise with Mitra Kaboli, Having No Romantic Experience and Safe Injection Sites

Queer Paradise with Mitra Kaboli, Having No Romantic Experience and Safe Injection Sites

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1G4bnk-GEYJbiTSzQsSwSgJiB6Nw5lZFfA80vxqfwB2w/edit?usp=sharing Gaby starts off by questioning their therapist's professionalism. What is and isn't allowed?? The duo then address a listener who worried their lack of romantic experience means they are doomed or broken. Podcaster Mitra Kaboli joins the chat to talk about spending a summer in Provincetown and what it taught her about queer community, queer hierarchies and her own needs. And

Sep 28, 2022 • 1:10:24

SPIDERS with Catherine Scott, Gendered Wedding Dress Codes and Scandalous Dancing

SPIDERS with Catherine Scott, Gendered Wedding Dress Codes and Scandalous Dancing

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/13yCD5WYFXsFJ2h5Cz2iwTxgMIpXKNKAtWXjjvBRMJJ4/edit Gaby starts off by defending why it's okay that they don't respect their partner's boundaries. (Spoiler: it's not!) The duo then address a trans listener who isn't sure how to dress appropriately for their friend's wedding given their gendered instructions. Arachnologist, Catherine Scott, joins the chat to blow our mind about all things spiders! Did you know they can talk

Sep 21, 2022 • 1:18:00

SPIDERS with Catherine Scott, Gendered Wedding Dress Codes and Scandalous Dancing

SPIDERS with Catherine Scott, Gendered Wedding Dress Codes and Scandalous Dancing

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/13yCD5WYFXsFJ2h5Cz2iwTxgMIpXKNKAtWXjjvBRMJJ4/edit Gaby starts off by defending why it's okay that they don't respect their partner's boundaries. (Spoiler: it's not!) The duo then address a trans listener who isn't sure how to dress appropriately for their friend's wedding given their gendered instructions. Arachnologist, Catherine Scott, joins the chat to blow our mind about all things spiders! Did you know they can talk to each other through vi

Sep 21, 2022 • 1:18:00

Getting Unstuck with Britt Frank, When Your Friends Cheat and Niblings

Getting Unstuck with Britt Frank, When Your Friends Cheat and Niblings

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1APOGbMf6r8irSodFzbMQUpTuXCGKqcu1GkSUi2sFq5o/edit?usp=sharing tw: in IQ, discussion of cheating, attempted sexual assault Gaby is back in LA and reminiscing about their road trip to Allison's DREAM destination. The duo then address a listener who feels uncomfortable because their friends keep cheating on their significant others in front of her. Therapist Britt Frank joins the chat to talk about her balanced approach to mental health, the impor

Sep 14, 2022 • 1:30:39

Getting Unstuck with Britt Frank, When Your Friends Cheat and Niblings

Getting Unstuck with Britt Frank, When Your Friends Cheat and Niblings

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1APOGbMf6r8irSodFzbMQUpTuXCGKqcu1GkSUi2sFq5o/edit?usp=sharing tw: in IQ, discussion of cheating, attempted sexual assault Gaby is back in LA and reminiscing about their road trip to Allison's DREAM destination. The duo then address a listener who feels uncomfortable because their friends keep cheating on their significant others in front of her. Therapist Britt Frank joins the chat to talk about her balanced approach to mental health, the i

Sep 14, 2022 • 1:30:39

The Mental Toll of Knee Surgery with Kaegan Hadley , Hating Your Friend's Partner and Celebrity Breakups

The Mental Toll of Knee Surgery with Kaegan Hadley , Hating Your Friend's Partner and Celebrity Breakups

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/12gxaEGmE3DTVLd3g-k10f_qKa5rXuj_peRxLcYKYhE8/edit?usp=sharing Allison's new hair color sparks a surprising confession from Gaby. They then address a listener who hates their friend's boyfriend and doesn't know if they should say anything. (Relatable!) During this convo, a past incident comes up that DERAILS the podcast and is very much worth listening to even though Allison is mortified. (Gaby's fiance Mal joins the confrontation

Sep 7, 2022 • 1:29:01

The Mental Toll of Knee Surgery with Kaegan Hadley , Hating Your Friend's Partner and Celebrity Breakups

The Mental Toll of Knee Surgery with Kaegan Hadley , Hating Your Friend's Partner and Celebrity Breakups

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/12gxaEGmE3DTVLd3g-k10f_qKa5rXuj_peRxLcYKYhE8/edit?usp=sharing Allison's new hair color sparks a surprising confession from Gaby. They then address a listener who hates their friend's boyfriend and doesn't know if they should say anything. (Relatable!) During this convo, a past incident comes up that DERAILS the podcast and is very much worth listening to even though Allison is mortified. (Gaby's fiance Mal joins the confrontation

Sep 7, 2022 • 1:29:01

Friendship Coaching with Danielle Bayard Jackson, Sensory Problems, and Investigating A Former Head of State

Friendship Coaching with Danielle Bayard Jackson, Sensory Problems, and Investigating A Former Head of State

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1hzLM-qC4D0-u0dA_iydadNUoJ_i0ahEuXJAPcczf9Zw/edit?usp=sharing Gaby is six months sober! And Allison doesn't want to drink a mushroom! After these equally huge announcements, the duo answer a listener's question about what to do when her boyfriend wants the room hot, and she wants it cold. How do they sleep?! Plus what is fox fur? Next, they're joined by friendship coach Danielle Bayard Jackson who discusses navigating conflict in ad

Aug 31, 2022 • 1:21:30

Friendship Coaching with Danielle Bayard Jackson, Sensory Problems, and Investigating A Former Head of State

Friendship Coaching with Danielle Bayard Jackson, Sensory Problems, and Investigating A Former Head of State

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1hzLM-qC4D0-u0dA_iydadNUoJ_i0ahEuXJAPcczf9Zw/edit?usp=sharing Gaby is six months sober! And Allison doesn't want to drink a mushroom! After these equally huge announcements, the duo answer a listener's question about what to do when her boyfriend wants the room hot, and she wants it cold. How do they sleep?! Plus what is fox fur? Next, they're joined by friendship coach Danielle Bayard Jackson who discusses navigating conflict in adult friendsh

Aug 31, 2022 • 1:21:30

Keeping Romance Alive with Kristen Meinzer & Jolenta Greenberg, Leaving A Stressful Job and Updating Our Language

Keeping Romance Alive with Kristen Meinzer & Jolenta Greenberg, Leaving A Stressful Job and Updating Our Language

TW: In Topix, some slurs for gay people, disabled people, little people, and others are discussed Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1YcldSlYQGf4NF39s_iKEUgiAseKEPb9c6Bk508FJCpU/edit?usp=sharing First, Allison tries to explain to a newly engaged Gaby why marriages can bring out a lot of emotions and complicated family dynamics. (Gaby remains confused.) The duo then address a listener's question about potentially leaving a hard job behind for a lower salary but a happier existenc

Aug 24, 2022 • 1:27:32

Keeping Romance Alive with Kristen Meinzer & Jolenta Greenberg, Leaving A Stressful Job and Updating Our Language

Keeping Romance Alive with Kristen Meinzer & Jolenta Greenberg, Leaving A Stressful Job and Updating Our Language

TW: In Topix, some slurs for gay people, disabled people, little people, and others are discussed Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1YcldSlYQGf4NF39s_iKEUgiAseKEPb9c6Bk508FJCpU/edit?usp=sharing First, Allison tries to explain to a newly engaged Gaby why marriages can bring out a lot of emotions and complicated family dynamics. (Gaby remains confused.) The duo then address a listener's question about potentially leaving a hard job behind for a lower salary but a happier exis

Aug 24, 2022 • 1:27:32

Destroying the Path to Youth Incarceration with Armand King, Being Alone After A Break Up and Our Worst Takes

Destroying the Path to Youth Incarceration with Armand King, Being Alone After A Break Up and Our Worst Takes

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1WwD1AY4m_GcGMffJq7YyIP31YMDx5MZbqFpkQ6aWaik/edit?usp=sharing The duo comes out of the gate with some strong points on nihilism and the purpose of life. (NBD!) They then attempt to answer a listener who wonders if she needs to "be alone" in order to have a healthy relationship in the future. Armand King joins the conversation to talk about his work helping kids avoid going down bad paths by pulling from his own experience. What did he wi

Aug 17, 2022 • 1:32:35

Destroying the Path to Youth Incarceration with Armand King, Being Alone After A Break Up and Our Worst Takes

Destroying the Path to Youth Incarceration with Armand King, Being Alone After A Break Up and Our Worst Takes

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1WwD1AY4m_GcGMffJq7YyIP31YMDx5MZbqFpkQ6aWaik/edit?usp=sharing The duo comes out of the gate with some strong points on nihilism and the purpose of life. (NBD!) They then attempt to answer a listener who wonders if she needs to "be alone" in order to have a healthy relationship in the future. Armand King joins the conversation to talk about his work helping kids avoid going down bad paths by pulling from his own experience. What did he wish he kn

Aug 17, 2022 • 1:32:35

Bad Sex with Nona Willis Aronowitz, Being Uncomfortable Networking, and Gaby and Mal's Engagement Story

Bad Sex with Nona Willis Aronowitz, Being Uncomfortable Networking, and Gaby and Mal's Engagement Story

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1J0GFKGq2wzQFkVse4lawy2kPJjjZ83YWTo44_HGq-xo/edit?usp=sharing Gaby is engaged!!! Allison and Gaby are sad to not be in person for this monumental moment! But they carry on with gossiping about their families anyway. A listener asks a question about being uncomfortable networking post-college. Allison tells a wild story about working for a man who was in the Swedish mafia. The duo talk about running yourself ragged to meet the right people and ho

Aug 10, 2022 • 1:33:47

Bad Sex with Nona Willis Aronowitz, Being Uncomfortable Networking, and Gaby and Mal's Engagement Story

Bad Sex with Nona Willis Aronowitz, Being Uncomfortable Networking, and Gaby and Mal's Engagement Story

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1J0GFKGq2wzQFkVse4lawy2kPJjjZ83YWTo44_HGq-xo/edit?usp=sharing Gaby is engaged!!! Allison and Gaby are sad to not be in person for this monumental moment! But they carry on with gossiping about their families anyway. A listener asks a question about being uncomfortable networking post-college. Allison tells a wild story about working for a man who was in the Swedish mafia. The duo talk about running yourself ragged to meet the right people and ho

Aug 10, 2022 • 1:26:17

Finding The Funny In ADHD with Blaire Postman, Friends Who Won't Accept Help and Gifts

Finding The Funny In ADHD with Blaire Postman, Friends Who Won't Accept Help and Gifts

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1Pphc_yTebWCUAIiG84lKOeK4lpBq9eKwPU4oaLUQPgA/edit?usp=sharing The duo is LOOPY in the intro. Allison drinks blood. The anti-depressant pills are too big to swallow. And Mafioso names are discussed. Allison and Gaby eventually get it together to answer a listener's question about how to deal with a friend who won't accept help despite being in a bad situation. ADHD comedian Blaire Postman then joins the pod for a hilarious and insightful

Aug 3, 2022 • 1:28:14

Finding The Funny In ADHD with Blaire Postman, Friends Who Won't Accept Help and Gifts

Finding The Funny In ADHD with Blaire Postman, Friends Who Won't Accept Help and Gifts

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1Pphc_yTebWCUAIiG84lKOeK4lpBq9eKwPU4oaLUQPgA/edit?usp=sharing The duo is LOOPY in the intro. Allison drinks blood. The anti-depressant pills are too big to swallow. And Mafioso names are discussed. Allison and Gaby eventually get it together to answer a listener's question about how to deal with a friend who won't accept help despite being in a bad situation. ADHD comedian Blaire Postman then joins the pod for a hilarious and insightful conversa

Aug 3, 2022 • 1:35:44

Unlocking Your Sexuality with Katie Roberts, Fighting Moral Scrupulosity OCD and Brittney Griner's Detainment

Unlocking Your Sexuality with Katie Roberts, Fighting Moral Scrupulosity OCD and Brittney Griner's Detainment

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1wf_uHm6co9Bi8pwSHoMZj6zihuq2xZP1Ak0EimbUgPs/edit?usp=sharing First, Gaby and Allison discuss the state of their texting friendship. Then, they answer a listener's question about morality OCD and worrying about being a "good" person adhering to all of their morals all the time. Next, Clit Talk host and sex educator Katie Roberts joins the show to talk about her journey of sexual repression to focusing on her pleasure and increasing her emotional

Jul 27, 2022 • 1:33:51

Unlocking Your Sexuality with Katie Roberts, Fighting Moral Scrupulosity OCD and Brittney Griner's Detainment

Unlocking Your Sexuality with Katie Roberts, Fighting Moral Scrupulosity OCD and Brittney Griner's Detainment

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1wf_uHm6co9Bi8pwSHoMZj6zihuq2xZP1Ak0EimbUgPs/edit?usp=sharing First, Gaby and Allison discuss the state of their texting friendship. Then, they answer a listener's question about morality OCD and worrying about being a "good" person adhering to all of their morals all the time. Next, Clit Talk host and sex educator Katie Roberts joins the show to talk about her journey of sexual repression to focusing on her pleasure and increasing h

Jul 27, 2022 • 1:33:51

Sikh Wisdom with Dr. Simran Jeet Singh, Compulsively Checking Your Ex's Social Media, and Gaby's (Shocking!) Dating Life

Sikh Wisdom with Dr. Simran Jeet Singh, Compulsively Checking Your Ex's Social Media, and Gaby's (Shocking!) Dating Life

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/14xIY14KhC4Q8Ak4sZc-qTPWTCcGnDwj0J3t-oOjHuRg/edit?usp=sharing How do we get people to watch the full length YouTube videos?? Is it an earwax candle?? Should they each do one on camera? We'll try almost anything! First, Allison and Gaby discuss a listener who writes in upset that they still check their ex's social media daily, even though they're not still in love with him. What gives? Then, they're joined by author Dr. Simran Jee

Jul 20, 2022 • 1:23:39

Sikh Wisdom with Dr. Simran Jeet Singh, Compulsively Checking Your Ex's Social Media, and Gaby's (Shocking!) Dating Life

Sikh Wisdom with Dr. Simran Jeet Singh, Compulsively Checking Your Ex's Social Media, and Gaby's (Shocking!) Dating Life

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/14xIY14KhC4Q8Ak4sZc-qTPWTCcGnDwj0J3t-oOjHuRg/edit?usp=sharing How do we get people to watch the full length YouTube videos?? Is it an earwax candle?? Should they each do one on camera? We'll try almost anything! First, Allison and Gaby discuss a listener who writes in upset that they still check their ex's social media daily, even though they're not still in love with him. What gives? Then, they're joined by author Dr. Simran Jee

Jul 20, 2022 • 1:16:09

Facial Difference Equality with Phyllida Swift, When Your Family Doesn't Want A Relationship, and Unintentional Harm

Facial Difference Equality with Phyllida Swift, When Your Family Doesn't Want A Relationship, and Unintentional Harm

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1GCtezxO6Hhq5rxNgG12RHCgSsPZ_h4bqMnC4krPg6qI/edit?usp=sharing First, Allison shares her new diagnosis of SIBO, which has brought her so much relief (and many antibiotics!). The duo then answer a listener's question about how to handle her brother not wanting her to be as involved in his life as she wants to be. Next, facial equality activist Phyllida Swift joins to talk about her experiences with facial scarring, her fascinating advocacy work wi

Jul 13, 2022 • 1:14:00

Facial Difference Equality with Phyllida Swift, When Your Family Doesn't Want A Relationship, and Unintentional Harm

Facial Difference Equality with Phyllida Swift, When Your Family Doesn't Want A Relationship, and Unintentional Harm

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1GCtezxO6Hhq5rxNgG12RHCgSsPZ_h4bqMnC4krPg6qI/edit?usp=sharing First, Allison shares her new diagnosis of SIBO, which has brought her so much relief (and many antibiotics!). The duo then answer a listener's question about how to handle her brother not wanting her to be as involved in his life as she wants to be. Next, facial equality activist Phyllida Swift joins to talk about her experiences with facial scarring, her fascinating advocacy wor

Jul 13, 2022 • 1:06:30

Tune Up Brought To You By BetterHelp

Tune Up Brought To You By BetterHelp

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1tHt7UtP4IaU28Zdd0sTpuml8XLITR0bx1lbWjdsmGHw/edit?usp=sharingGaby and Allison discuss why therapy is important to them.Brought to you by BetterHelp.Our listeners get 10% off their first month at BetterHelp.com/JustBetweenUs Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jul 11, 2022 • 4:23

Queer Family Secrets with Gayla Turner, Wedding Drama, and the Jan 6th Hearings

Queer Family Secrets with Gayla Turner, Wedding Drama, and the Jan 6th Hearings

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1CKqgLktzJAUZUw_cy9EYKwwITfDFpJNfSXGdH87hJVs/edit?usp=sharing Gaby and Allison are BIG MAD about Roe v. Wade being overturned. But they get it together enough to address a listener who wants to feel more comfortable taking up space in her friendships. They then interview Gayla Turner about her new book which uncovers the secret queer life of her grandma in the '20s! And finally, the January 6th Hearings. Do they matter? And if so, how?  HU

Jul 6, 2022 • 1:16:38

Queer Family Secrets with Gayla Turner, Wedding Drama, and the Jan 6th Hearings

Queer Family Secrets with Gayla Turner, Wedding Drama, and the Jan 6th Hearings

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1CKqgLktzJAUZUw_cy9EYKwwITfDFpJNfSXGdH87hJVs/edit?usp=sharing Gaby and Allison are BIG MAD about Roe v. Wade being overturned. But they get it together enough to address a listener who wants to feel more comfortable taking up space in her friendships. They then interview Gayla Turner about her new book which uncovers the secret queer life of her grandma in the '20s! And finally, the January 6th Hearings. Do they matter? And if so, how?  HUGE N

Jul 6, 2022 • 1:24:08

Embracing The Bittersweet with Susan Cain, Saying Goodbye, and Liking Yourself

Embracing The Bittersweet with Susan Cain, Saying Goodbye, and Liking Yourself

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1cEV15XrqMFVMv-NMGW9xlWlCA2lWzxMP7jS7x0vL0qs/edit?usp=sharing First, Gaby addresses some dating gossip and DMs that have been hurtful regarding their transition. Then, Allison and Gaby answer a listener's question about how to deal with breaking down every time she has to leave her long distance boyfriend. Next, they interview best-selling author Susan Cain about the unifying force of longing and how to handle grief as well as some beautiful

Jun 29, 2022 • 1:29:58

Embracing The Bittersweet with Susan Cain, Saying Goodbye, and Liking Yourself

Embracing The Bittersweet with Susan Cain, Saying Goodbye, and Liking Yourself

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1cEV15XrqMFVMv-NMGW9xlWlCA2lWzxMP7jS7x0vL0qs/edit?usp=sharing First, Gaby addresses some dating gossip and DMs that have been hurtful regarding their transition. Then, Allison and Gaby answer a listener's question about how to deal with breaking down every time she has to leave her long distance boyfriend. Next, they interview best-selling author Susan Cain about the unifying force of longing and how to handle grief as well as some beautiful

Jun 29, 2022 • 1:29:58

Getting A Late Autism Diagnosis with Demi Burnett, Being Wrong For Your Partner, and Feedback on Our Guests

Getting A Late Autism Diagnosis with Demi Burnett, Being Wrong For Your Partner, and Feedback on Our Guests

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1PUb6E381ZkI-yrIpEXC-4NL1JT1y21zj6HQTPULLe1U/edit?usp=sharing First, an update on Gaby's testosterone journey and the problem of comparing themselves to others on T. Allison and Gaby then give their thoughts on a listener who worries they're not right for their partner and wonders if they should break up before causing any more harm. Next, the duo talk to Bachelor star and DemiGoddess host Demi Burnett about her late in life autism diagn

Jun 22, 2022 • 1:30:51

Getting A Late Autism Diagnosis with Demi Burnett, Being Wrong For Your Partner, and Feedback on Our Guests

Getting A Late Autism Diagnosis with Demi Burnett, Being Wrong For Your Partner, and Feedback on Our Guests

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1PUb6E381ZkI-yrIpEXC-4NL1JT1y21zj6HQTPULLe1U/edit?usp=sharing First, an update on Gaby's testosterone journey and the problem of comparing themselves to others on T. Allison and Gaby then give their thoughts on a listener who worries they're not right for their partner and wonders if they should break up before causing any more harm. Next, the duo talk to Bachelor star and DemiGoddess host Demi Burnett about her late in life autism diagnosis, th

Jun 22, 2022 • 1:30:51

Drag! with Monet X Change, Bipolar Bestie, and Allison's Vegetarianism

Drag! with Monet X Change, Bipolar Bestie, and Allison's Vegetarianism

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1LV1QAy8zAb_-R9h2OyITd_PZ4NCPQcEY39B6vozJyxk/edit?usp=sharing First, Gaby shares the passing of their neighbor and friend Dita, celebrates her unique and interesting life, and talks about all she brought to them and their partner's lives. Then, Allison and Gaby answer a listener's question about how to handle their bipolar bestie, with examples from Gaby's real diagnosis. Next, they talk to All Stars 7 star and drag queen legend Mone

Jun 15, 2022 • 1:17:05

Drag! with Monet X Change, Bipolar Bestie, and Allison's Vegetarianism

Drag! with Monet X Change, Bipolar Bestie, and Allison's Vegetarianism

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1LV1QAy8zAb_-R9h2OyITd_PZ4NCPQcEY39B6vozJyxk/edit?usp=sharing First, Gaby shares the passing of their neighbor and friend Dita, celebrates her unique and interesting life, and talks about all she brought to them and their partner's lives. Then, Allison and Gaby answer a listener's question about how to handle their bipolar bestie, with examples from Gaby's real diagnosis. Next, they talk to All Stars 7 star and drag queen legend Mone

Jun 15, 2022 • 1:09:35

Good News with Upworthy's Alison Rosen, Not Feeling Heard and Gaby's Hatred of Comedy

Good News with Upworthy's Alison Rosen, Not Feeling Heard and Gaby's Hatred of Comedy

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1h8ydsjzYCZM7AptmRCPo9-ni8tfNdKMSnjxrs50JxGo/edit?usp=sharing Allison starts off strong by BEGGING everyone to leave a review of her new book on Amazon and Goodreads. (PLEASE!!!) The duo then tackle a listener's question about how to move forward without feeling heard following a falling out with a friend. Alison Rosen then joins the chat to talk about covering good news (for once!) and why bad news often overshadows it in the media. And fin

Jun 8, 2022 • 1:30:32

Good News with Upworthy's Alison Rosen, Not Feeling Heard and Gaby's Hatred of Comedy

Good News with Upworthy's Alison Rosen, Not Feeling Heard and Gaby's Hatred of Comedy

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1h8ydsjzYCZM7AptmRCPo9-ni8tfNdKMSnjxrs50JxGo/edit?usp=sharing Allison starts off strong by BEGGING everyone to leave a review of her new book on Amazon and Goodreads. (PLEASE!!!) The duo then tackle a listener's question about how to move forward without feeling heard following a falling out with a friend. Alison Rosen then joins the chat to talk about covering good news (for once!) and why bad news often overshadows it in the media. And fin

Jun 8, 2022 • 1:30:32

Disinformation with Bridget Todd, Friend Crushes, and the Supreme Court

Disinformation with Bridget Todd, Friend Crushes, and the Supreme Court

Transcript: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1I6YTf6ZYpQOca9Q118Ne7TG4p46Q9qm1k0uqWZ0OL7A/edit?usp=sharing First, Gaby and Allison answer a listener's question about having an unwanted crush on their friend and co-worker by revisiting their own pasts, current friend-crushes, and that one time they made out as a prank. They then interview Bridget Todd, the host of "There Are No Girls on the Internet" and "Disinformed," about the spread of misinformation, social media's

Jun 1, 2022 • 1:26:35

Disinformation with Bridget Todd, Friend Crushes, and the Supreme Court

Disinformation with Bridget Todd, Friend Crushes, and the Supreme Court

Transcript: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1I6YTf6ZYpQOca9Q118Ne7TG4p46Q9qm1k0uqWZ0OL7A/edit?usp=sharing First, Gaby and Allison answer a listener's question about having an unwanted crush on their friend and co-worker by revisiting their own pasts, current friend-crushes, and that one time they made out as a prank. They then interview Bridget Todd, the host of "There Are No Girls on the Internet" and "Disinformed," about the spread of misinformation, social media's pros and cons for margin

Jun 1, 2022 • 1:26:35

Jewish Identity with Ginna Green and Lynn Harris, Navigating Male Coworkers, and First Impressions

Jewish Identity with Ginna Green and Lynn Harris, Navigating Male Coworkers, and First Impressions

tw: mention of rape and sexual harassment during IQ, discussion of anti-Semiticism in the interview portion Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1B6ZV6Y9zxaNtjjcIcoxPYQZZk7A2Qg85-Q9lzaX_R_8/edit?usp=sharing First, Gaby and Allison try accents. The results are mixed. (But do listen to their new AMP radio shows on Wednesday and Thursday mornings anyway!) The duo then answer a listener's question about the ability to trust male co-workers as mentors and friends after they've

May 25, 2022 • 1:29:49

Jewish Identity with Ginna Green and Lynn Harris, Navigating Male Coworkers, and First Impressions

Jewish Identity with Ginna Green and Lynn Harris, Navigating Male Coworkers, and First Impressions

tw: mention of rape and sexual harassment during IQ, discussion of anti-Semiticism in the interview portion Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1B6ZV6Y9zxaNtjjcIcoxPYQZZk7A2Qg85-Q9lzaX_R_8/edit?usp=sharing First, Gaby and Allison try accents. The results are mixed. (But do listen to their new AMP radio shows on Wednesday and Thursday mornings anyway!) The duo then answer a listener's question about the ability to trust male co-workers as mentors and friends after they've been bur

May 25, 2022 • 1:29:49

Presenting Make It Up As We Go

Presenting Make It Up As We Go

Introducing a new scripted country musical that is executive produced by Miranda Lambert.The show follows a young female singer-songwriter named Charlotte Sayles as she navigates the world of Nashville and the cutthroat songwriting rooms in which she is suddenly thrust. Cast includes Garrett Hedlund, Elle King, Abby Anderson, Chord Overstreet, Shooter Jennings, and many more.Check out “Make it Up As We Go” from Audio Up and Sirius XM wherever you get your podcasts. Learn more about your ad choic

May 24, 2022 • 4:52

The Business of Medicine with Dr. Efrat LaMandre, Going Out Alone, and Villains Draft Episode for May 18, 2022

The Business of Medicine with Dr. Efrat LaMandre, Going Out Alone, and Villains Draft Episode for May 18, 2022

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1SUZNxjsoeoKNKnvgkNXdhSb3CkkXu24P1aEmPTwU2xo/edit?usp=sharing First, Gaby and Allison admit that they are overwhelmed and in yucky moods! (It happens!) They then answer a listener's question about how to become more comfortable going out and doing things alone in public. Dr. Efrat LaMandre joins the chat to talk about opening a practice as an autonomous nurse practitioner to fill in a healthcare gap and how to concentrate healthcare and doct

May 18, 2022 • 1:32:56

The Business of Medicine with Dr. Efrat LaMandre, Going Out Alone, and Villains Draft Episode for May 18, 2022

The Business of Medicine with Dr. Efrat LaMandre, Going Out Alone, and Villains Draft Episode for May 18, 2022

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1SUZNxjsoeoKNKnvgkNXdhSb3CkkXu24P1aEmPTwU2xo/edit?usp=sharing First, Gaby and Allison admit that they are overwhelmed and in yucky moods! (It happens!) They then answer a listener's question about how to become more comfortable going out and doing things alone in public. Dr. Efrat LaMandre joins the chat to talk about opening a practice as an autonomous nurse practitioner to fill in a healthcare gap and how to concentrate healthcare and doctors

May 18, 2022 • 1:32:56

Benevolent Sexism with Celeste Headlee, Trusting Your Decisions, and Student Loans

Benevolent Sexism with Celeste Headlee, Trusting Your Decisions, and Student Loans

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1ok-D11D1qqeC9BRRZBR4ukZFtGjq4SD9Ebfe0x1UH3A/edit?usp=sharing We start off with Gaby freaking Allison out with Conspiracy Corner. They then answer a listener's question regarding going back and forth about breaking up with their boyfriend when their thoughts fluctuate so wildly. Next, the duo talk to Celeste Headlee, author of, "You're Cute When You're Mad," about casual and benevolent sexism, examining our own unconscious/im

May 11, 2022 • 1:29:20

Benevolent Sexism with Celeste Headlee, Trusting Your Decisions, and Student Loans

Benevolent Sexism with Celeste Headlee, Trusting Your Decisions, and Student Loans

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1ok-D11D1qqeC9BRRZBR4ukZFtGjq4SD9Ebfe0x1UH3A/edit?usp=sharing We start off with Gaby freaking Allison out with Conspiracy Corner. They then answer a listener's question regarding going back and forth about breaking up with their boyfriend when their thoughts fluctuate so wildly. Next, the duo talk to Celeste Headlee, author of, "You're Cute When You're Mad," about casual and benevolent sexism, examining our own unconscious/implicit bias, why sha

May 11, 2022 • 1:29:20

THE FIRST OFFICIAL TALKING EPISODE THAT EVERYONE ASKED FOR

THE FIRST OFFICIAL TALKING EPISODE THAT EVERYONE ASKED FOR

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1uuyTwcQ3w0xQs3viDXQ9cQG8_mKOPrWbJZetT7_LBq4/edit?usp=sharing Allison, Gaby and Melisa are bringing you an episode where they're just chatting. We talk dry eyes, Melisa's sexy voice, Gaby's skills as a manager, why viral videos are fake, growing cynicism, Melisa's desire to scam, Hollywood parties, work meetings gone awry, making social justice change in your industry, being an ally to someone not in your marginalized group, Gaby

May 4, 2022 • 1:08:31

THE FIRST OFFICIAL TALKING EPISODE THAT EVERYONE ASKED FOR

THE FIRST OFFICIAL TALKING EPISODE THAT EVERYONE ASKED FOR

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1uuyTwcQ3w0xQs3viDXQ9cQG8_mKOPrWbJZetT7_LBq4/edit?usp=sharing Allison, Gaby and Melisa are bringing you an episode where they're just chatting. We talk dry eyes, Melisa's sexy voice, Gaby's skills as a manager, why viral videos are fake, growing cynicism, Melisa's desire to scam, Hollywood parties, work meetings gone awry, making social justice change in your industry, being an ally to someone not in your marginalized group, Gaby

May 4, 2022 • 1:08:31

Disability Rights with Imani Barbarin, Uneven Sex Drives, and Sharing Your Opinion

Disability Rights with Imani Barbarin, Uneven Sex Drives, and Sharing Your Opinion

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1r1iIX0u1tyhQS6hAhvWU2ryY52o3OvCcJNwp9HsPFAg/edit?usp=sharing Allison's back on coffee!! Watch out!! First, the duo answer a listener's question about them and their partner's uneven sex life and what to do about it when they move in together for the first time. They then talk to the brilliant and charming Imani Barbarin about disability rights and how COVID will have a long term impact on everyone. And finally, sharing your opinion.

Apr 27, 2022 • 1:31:16

Disability Rights with Imani Barbarin, Uneven Sex Drives, and Sharing Your Opinion

Disability Rights with Imani Barbarin, Uneven Sex Drives, and Sharing Your Opinion

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1r1iIX0u1tyhQS6hAhvWU2ryY52o3OvCcJNwp9HsPFAg/edit?usp=sharing Allison's back on coffee!! Watch out!! First, the duo answer a listener's question about them and their partner's uneven sex life and what to do about it when they move in together for the first time. They then talk to the brilliant and charming Imani Barbarin about disability rights and how COVID will have a long term impact on everyone. And finally, sharing your opinion. When? Why?

Apr 27, 2022 • 1:31:16

The Importance of Reading with Glory Edim of Well-Read Black Girl, Dating Your Friend's Ex and Gaby's Gender Journey

The Importance of Reading with Glory Edim of Well-Read Black Girl, Dating Your Friend's Ex and Gaby's Gender Journey

Trigger warning: gender and transphobia Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1s537-BEofHpl4ow_rPkLMeQHiXWLbCNRob93ZEDfpdA/edit?usp=sharing   Allison is going on a book tour! And Gaby has some great jokes about it! The duo then attempt to answer a listener's question about feeling guilty for dating her friend's ex--even though she has her blessing! Next, Glory Edim of Well Read Black Girl joins the pod to have a very charming conversation about why people love book clubs, making sp

Apr 20, 2022 • 1:38:13

The Importance of Reading with Glory Edim of Well-Read Black Girl, Dating Your Friend's Ex and Gaby's Gender Journey

The Importance of Reading with Glory Edim of Well-Read Black Girl, Dating Your Friend's Ex and Gaby's Gender Journey

Trigger warning: gender and transphobia Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1s537-BEofHpl4ow_rPkLMeQHiXWLbCNRob93ZEDfpdA/edit?usp=sharing   Allison is going on a book tour! And Gaby has some great jokes about it! The duo then attempt to answer a listener's question about feeling guilty for dating her friend's ex--even though she has her blessing! Next, Glory Edim of Well Read Black Girl joins the pod to have a very charming conversation about why people love book clubs, m

Apr 20, 2022 • 1:38:13

Small Farming with Jake Hunt, Navigating a YouTube Addiction, and Allison's Book

Small Farming with Jake Hunt, Navigating a YouTube Addiction, and Allison's Book

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1uB5iiU69YPxHK9jey2Bhtmn7rc15N7qXsL6xraUnHGI/edit?usp=sharing First, Allison gives an update on her knee and what it's like learning how to walk again! Wild! Then, a listener writes in wondering what to do about their boyfriend trying to control their intense YouTube consumption. Next, the duo talk to small farmer Jake Hunt about the trials and tribulations of running an independent family farm, how climate change affects his business, and why p

Apr 13, 2022 • 1:11:11

Small Farming with Jake Hunt, Navigating a YouTube Addiction, and Allison's Book

Small Farming with Jake Hunt, Navigating a YouTube Addiction, and Allison's Book

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1uB5iiU69YPxHK9jey2Bhtmn7rc15N7qXsL6xraUnHGI/edit?usp=sharing First, Allison gives an update on her knee and what it's like learning how to walk again! Wild! Then, a listener writes in wondering what to do about their boyfriend trying to control their intense YouTube consumption. Next, the duo talk to small farmer Jake Hunt about the trials and tribulations of running an independent family farm, how climate change affects his business, and w

Apr 13, 2022 • 1:11:11

Dealing With Our Stress

Dealing With Our Stress

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1DyATntWpRXsZout4sERPLgVaYodP00lcdZ-9_sgzmMc/edit?usp=sharingAllison and Gaby discuss the current stress they have in their lives. Brought to you by Betterhelp. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 12, 2022 • 6:16

Sex and Dating Over 50 with Laura Stassi, Having A Transphobic Mentor, and the Zeitgeist

Sex and Dating Over 50 with Laura Stassi, Having A Transphobic Mentor, and the Zeitgeist

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1sCtMB-qKocctRqAxBMCgwPYiIBvryvxaMgG4wbBp6a0/edit?usp=sharing Gaby starts off by trying to convince Allison to have a gallery showing of her watercolor paintings at Gaby's house! (But refuses to showcase any of Allison's cartoons. Rude!) The duo then answer a non-binary listener's question about how to handle finding out their mentor is a transphobe on the Internet. Dating While Gray's Laura Stassi joins the chat to talk all abou

Apr 6, 2022 • 1:31:59

Sex and Dating Over 50 with Laura Stassi, Having A Transphobic Mentor, and the Zeitgeist

Sex and Dating Over 50 with Laura Stassi, Having A Transphobic Mentor, and the Zeitgeist

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1sCtMB-qKocctRqAxBMCgwPYiIBvryvxaMgG4wbBp6a0/edit?usp=sharing Gaby starts off by trying to convince Allison to have a gallery showing of her watercolor paintings at Gaby's house! (But refuses to showcase any of Allison's cartoons. Rude!) The duo then answer a non-binary listener's question about how to handle finding out their mentor is a transphobe on the Internet. Dating While Gray's Laura Stassi joins the chat to talk all about sex and dating

Apr 6, 2022 • 1:39:29

Saving Yourself with Cameron Esposito, Letting Go of a Toxic Ex and Comfort Food

Saving Yourself with Cameron Esposito, Letting Go of a Toxic Ex and Comfort Food

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1EpcmpAKSnuLkQXV-_AaJK_4YdA8up1k17Ze1fSQSVKA/edit?usp=sharing Following some classic acid reflux talk, Gaby and Allison offer some insight for a listener who is having trouble moving on from a toxic ex, despite not having talked to them in years. They're then joined by Cameron Esposito to discuss her memoir, her ever-changing relationship with religion and how she's learned to take better care of herself over the years. The episode wraps

Mar 30, 2022 • 1:27:11

Saving Yourself with Cameron Esposito, Letting Go of a Toxic Ex and Comfort Food

Saving Yourself with Cameron Esposito, Letting Go of a Toxic Ex and Comfort Food

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1EpcmpAKSnuLkQXV-_AaJK_4YdA8up1k17Ze1fSQSVKA/edit?usp=sharing Following some classic acid reflux talk, Gaby and Allison offer some insight for a listener who is having trouble moving on from a toxic ex, despite not having talked to them in years. They're then joined by Cameron Esposito to discuss her memoir, her ever-changing relationship with religion and how she's learned to take better care of herself over the years. The episode wraps up with

Mar 30, 2022 • 1:27:11

Whale Conservation with Jared Towers, Lack of Motivation, and Boredom (Part Two)

Whale Conservation with Jared Towers, Lack of Motivation, and Boredom (Part Two)

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1K2fFG_tWgwq3bKzDc0BP6GYjvhhnuYqXx7vd7Ga92gQ/edit?usp=sharing Gaby is struggling with emotional regulation and Allison is struggling with...her hair color. They then answer a listener's question about determining if you're actually burned out or just unmotivated. Allison shares a similar problem she's had in regards to her graduate degree. Jared Towers then joins the chat to talk about his job as a whale researcher, whale behaviors a

Mar 23, 2022 • 1:32:29

Whale Conservation with Jared Towers, Lack of Motivation, and Boredom (Part Two)

Whale Conservation with Jared Towers, Lack of Motivation, and Boredom (Part Two)

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1K2fFG_tWgwq3bKzDc0BP6GYjvhhnuYqXx7vd7Ga92gQ/edit?usp=sharing Gaby is struggling with emotional regulation and Allison is struggling with...her hair color. They then answer a listener's question about determining if you're actually burned out or just unmotivated. Allison shares a similar problem she's had in regards to her graduate degree. Jared Towers then joins the chat to talk about his job as a whale researcher, whale behaviors and why whale

Mar 23, 2022 • 1:32:29

From Well-Read Black Girl: Min Jin Lee on Being a Student of bell hooks

From Well-Read Black Girl: Min Jin Lee on Being a Student of bell hooks

We're sharing a special preview of the new podcast, Well-Read Black Girl from Pushkin Industries. Well-Read Black Girl is the literary kickback you never knew you needed. Glory Edim, author and founder of the Well-Read Black Girl community, sits in deep, honest and close conversation with authors like Tarana Burke, Anita Hill, Gabrielle Union, Brit Bennett and more. You’ll also meet book club members, literacy advocates, and Black booksellers to hear what they’re reading and what it means to be

Mar 21, 2022 • 7:06

From Well-Read Black Girl: Min Jin Lee on Being a Student of bell hooks

From Well-Read Black Girl: Min Jin Lee on Being a Student of bell hooks

We're sharing a special preview of the new podcast, Well-Read Black Girl from Pushkin Industries. Well-Read Black Girl is the literary kickback you never knew you needed. Glory Edim, author and founder of the Well-Read Black Girl community, sits in deep, honest and close conversation with authors like Tarana Burke, Anita Hill, Gabrielle Union, Brit Bennett and more. You’ll also meet book club members, literacy advocates, and Black booksellers to hear what they’re reading and what it means to

Mar 21, 2022 • 6:52

LGBTQ+ Youth with Camp Brave Trails,  Anti-Vax Partner, and Boredom Part 1

LGBTQ+ Youth with Camp Brave Trails, Anti-Vax Partner, and Boredom Part 1

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1Q8xsdzcqqsocYiJFnJjQrXfGoRh9xqEG_UZ7QKrgYw8/edit?usp=sharing Is Allison lying about her ant named Martin? Is this like Teresa the Turtle all over again? Who is Bob-Fred? First, a listener writes in and asks for advice about handling her boyfriend, who comes from an adamantly anti-vax family. Then, the duo is joined by Kayla Weissbuch of Camp Brave Trails, an organization with programming for LGBTQ+ youth including a summer camp. They talk about

Mar 16, 2022 • 1:19:28

LGBTQ+ Youth with Camp Brave Trails,  Anti-Vax Partner, and Boredom Part 1

LGBTQ+ Youth with Camp Brave Trails, Anti-Vax Partner, and Boredom Part 1

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1Q8xsdzcqqsocYiJFnJjQrXfGoRh9xqEG_UZ7QKrgYw8/edit?usp=sharing Is Allison lying about her ant named Martin? Is this like Teresa the Turtle all over again? Who is Bob-Fred? First, a listener writes in and asks for advice about handling her boyfriend, who comes from an adamantly anti-vax family. Then, the duo is joined by Kayla Weissbuch of Camp Brave Trails, an organization with programming for LGBTQ+ youth including a summer camp. They talk about

Mar 16, 2022 • 1:19:28

Fighting Fast Fashion with Ayesha Barenblat, Dating With A Disability and Changing Your Name

Fighting Fast Fashion with Ayesha Barenblat, Dating With A Disability and Changing Your Name

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1hEyP0rgiYF6ek7sL2QvQ_KZSxcAinVsyWezXysmuNHs/edit?usp=sharing Allison is having a rough recovery from knee surgery and would like to be magically better please! The duo then answer a listener's question about dating despite having to be financially dependent on her parents due to a disability. They're then joined by activist Ayesha Barenblat to talk about fighting fast fashion, promoting sustainability and helping garment workers get fair pay. A

Mar 9, 2022 • 1:21:50

Fighting Fast Fashion with Ayesha Barenblat, Dating With A Disability and Changing Your Name

Fighting Fast Fashion with Ayesha Barenblat, Dating With A Disability and Changing Your Name

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1hEyP0rgiYF6ek7sL2QvQ_KZSxcAinVsyWezXysmuNHs/edit?usp=sharing Allison is having a rough recovery from knee surgery and would like to be magically better please! The duo then answer a listener's question about dating despite having to be financially dependent on her parents due to a disability. They're then joined by activist Ayesha Barenblat to talk about fighting fast fashion, promoting sustainability and helping garment workers get fai

Mar 9, 2022 • 1:21:50

Burnout with Dr. Shelly Bhowmik, Your Partner's Financial Literacy and Surgery

Burnout with Dr. Shelly Bhowmik, Your Partner's Financial Literacy and Surgery

Transcription? https://docs.google.com/document/d/1yBjfE21eWi9lZv6fp1-mCz4IrLv65xPE22udHkcbWNU/edit?usp=sharing Allison had major knee surgery and she is ....not okay. More importantly, she wants to talk about how Gaby and their partner introduced their parents to each other! Love! The duo then answer a listener's question about navigating financial differences with a partner who isn't interested in talking about money. Dr. Shelly Bhowmik then joins the chat to talk all about burnout; w

Mar 2, 2022 • 1:23:13

Burnout with Dr. Shelly Bhowmik, Your Partner's Financial Literacy and Surgery

Burnout with Dr. Shelly Bhowmik, Your Partner's Financial Literacy and Surgery

Transcription? https://docs.google.com/document/d/1yBjfE21eWi9lZv6fp1-mCz4IrLv65xPE22udHkcbWNU/edit?usp=sharing Allison had major knee surgery and she is ....not okay. More importantly, she wants to talk about how Gaby and their partner introduced their parents to each other! Love! The duo then answer a listener's question about navigating financial differences with a partner who isn't interested in talking about money. Dr. Shelly Bhowmik then joins the chat to talk all about burnout; what it i

Mar 2, 2022 • 1:23:13

Progressive Politics with City Council Candidates Hugo Soto-Martinez and Eunisses Hernandez, Your Partner Wanting to Break Up and Technology

Progressive Politics with City Council Candidates Hugo Soto-Martinez and Eunisses Hernandez, Your Partner Wanting to Break Up and Technology

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1tgbArAKVM8xm5pbcBr3lWUcJaHIW1b_GeLJZ-xWrJWI/edit?usp=sharing Gaby and Allison start off by sharing some misadventures with duvet covers. (Very scandalous!) They then try to help a listener whose partner wants to break up with her because he needs to focus on his mental health. City council candidates Hugo Soto-Martinez and Eunisses Hernandez then join the chat to talk grassroots movements, failing our citizens and the power of organizers. And f

Feb 23, 2022 • 1:13:43

Progressive Politics with City Council Candidates Hugo Soto-Martinez and Eunisses Hernandez, Your Partner Wanting to Break Up and Technology

Progressive Politics with City Council Candidates Hugo Soto-Martinez and Eunisses Hernandez, Your Partner Wanting to Break Up and Technology

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1tgbArAKVM8xm5pbcBr3lWUcJaHIW1b_GeLJZ-xWrJWI/edit?usp=sharing Gaby and Allison start off by sharing some misadventures with duvet covers. (Very scandalous!) They then try to help a listener whose partner wants to break up with her because he needs to focus on his mental health. City council candidates Hugo Soto-Martinez and Eunisses Hernandez then join the chat to talk grassroots movements, failing our citizens and the power of organizers. And f

Feb 23, 2022 • 1:21:13

Multi-Level Marketing with Anti-MLM Activist Roberta Blevins, Revealing Your Mental Health Symptoms to a Partner and Facing Your Fears

Multi-Level Marketing with Anti-MLM Activist Roberta Blevins, Revealing Your Mental Health Symptoms to a Partner and Facing Your Fears

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1JzeNliWUvW3nww00UfKtYsu21np3HhenQ4H3jTNq9a0/edit?usp=sharing First, Gaby shares their experience partying at gay bars with the Lebanese queer metal band Slave To Sirens and how it made them appreciate being openly queer again. The duo then answer a listener's question about hiding her flaws and mental health symptoms from her "perfect" long distance boyfriend. Next, Roberta Blevins, star of the LulaRich documentary, joins the show t

Feb 16, 2022 • 1:24:38

Multi-Level Marketing with Anti-MLM Activist Roberta Blevins, Revealing Your Mental Health Symptoms to a Partner and Facing Your Fears

Multi-Level Marketing with Anti-MLM Activist Roberta Blevins, Revealing Your Mental Health Symptoms to a Partner and Facing Your Fears

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1JzeNliWUvW3nww00UfKtYsu21np3HhenQ4H3jTNq9a0/edit?usp=sharing First, Gaby shares their experience partying at gay bars with the Lebanese queer metal band Slave To Sirens and how it made them appreciate being openly queer again. The duo then answer a listener's question about hiding her flaws and mental health symptoms from her "perfect" long distance boyfriend. Next, Roberta Blevins, star of the LulaRich documentary, joins the show t

Feb 16, 2022 • 1:24:38

Sexological Bodywork with Dolly Josette, Falling For Broken People, and Moving

Sexological Bodywork with Dolly Josette, Falling For Broken People, and Moving

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/195iXMwEVpUJYPaJL5K5xoALyuLzAIFiee3TihXbpGkA/edit?usp=sharing First, Gaby and Allison respond to a listener who is concerned that they always fall for "broken people." They then interview Dolly Josette about sexological bodywork, how touch can be healing and the importance of connecting with your body. And finally, Melisa joins to talk about all the emotions and stress tied to everyone's least favorite activity: moving!  This has be

Feb 9, 2022 • 1:25:30

Sexological Bodywork with Dolly Josette, Falling For Broken People, and Moving

Sexological Bodywork with Dolly Josette, Falling For Broken People, and Moving

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/195iXMwEVpUJYPaJL5K5xoALyuLzAIFiee3TihXbpGkA/edit?usp=sharing First, Gaby and Allison respond to a listener who is concerned that they always fall for "broken people." They then interview Dolly Josette about sexological bodywork, how touch can be healing and the importance of connecting with your body. And finally, Melisa joins to talk about all the emotions and stress tied to everyone's least favorite activity: moving!  This has been a Forever

Feb 9, 2022 • 1:25:30

The Future of Veganism with Roanne Van Voorst, the Pressure of Societal Beauty Standards and Nostalgia

The Future of Veganism with Roanne Van Voorst, the Pressure of Societal Beauty Standards and Nostalgia

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1sZMhHjHARh0V_Uof2ILq0sj_z8nMUXrOgNM4Fn2Ex1E/edit?usp=sharing Gossip! Good, bad or feathers? Wait, what? Who is someone you really like? First, the duo answer a listener's question about their close relationship with their father being impacted by how often he comments on women's beauty and pushes beauty standards on her. It opens up a huge conversation about our looks-based society. Then, they interview future-anthropologist Roanne Van

Feb 2, 2022 • 1:27:42

The Future of Veganism with Roanne Van Voorst, the Pressure of Societal Beauty Standards and Nostalgia

The Future of Veganism with Roanne Van Voorst, the Pressure of Societal Beauty Standards and Nostalgia

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1sZMhHjHARh0V_Uof2ILq0sj_z8nMUXrOgNM4Fn2Ex1E/edit?usp=sharing Gossip! Good, bad or feathers? Wait, what? Who is someone you really like? First, the duo answer a listener's question about their close relationship with their father being impacted by how often he comments on women's beauty and pushes beauty standards on her. It opens up a huge conversation about our looks-based society. Then, they interview future-anthropologist Roanne Van Voost ab

Feb 2, 2022 • 1:27:42

Writing Cult Classics with Kiwi Smith, Accepting Anxiety, and Celebrity Deaths

Writing Cult Classics with Kiwi Smith, Accepting Anxiety, and Celebrity Deaths

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1d4bgG0TOOIYK4EZD7sCxBP8TI5VMvvC2sNjxnB7cTU8/edit?usp=sharing Gaby starts off by sharing some hot tips from their couples therapist. The duo then tackle a listener's question on how to accept that their anxiety will be a constant in their life. Screenwriter Kiwi Smith then joins in to talk about her work on early 00s female-led rom coms including 10 Things I Hate About You, Legally Blonde, and She's The Man. What is it like to have writt

Jan 26, 2022 • 56:43

Writing Cult Classics with Kiwi Smith, Accepting Anxiety, and Celebrity Deaths

Writing Cult Classics with Kiwi Smith, Accepting Anxiety, and Celebrity Deaths

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1d4bgG0TOOIYK4EZD7sCxBP8TI5VMvvC2sNjxnB7cTU8/edit?usp=sharing Gaby starts off by sharing some hot tips from their couples therapist. The duo then tackle a listener's question on how to accept that their anxiety will be a constant in their life. Screenwriter Kiwi Smith then joins in to talk about her work on early 00s female-led rom coms including 10 Things I Hate About You, Legally Blonde, and She's The Man. What is it like to have written such

Jan 26, 2022 • 1:04:13

Journaling and Therapy - Brought To You By Betterhelp

Journaling and Therapy - Brought To You By Betterhelp

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1lDlf5czjXVsRaSuAihvoJFfDPFHRf6OMeJQK8z18wuU/edit?usp=sharingGaby and Allison discuss some of the stigmas about therapy and share their own experience.This podcast is sponsored by BetterHelp and Just Between Us listeners get 10% off their first month at betterhelp.com/justbetweenus. That's betterhelp.com/justbetweenus. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 24, 2022 • 3:41

Resolving Twitter Beefs with YA Author Becky Albertalli, Crushing On Your Roommate, and Big Life Changes

Resolving Twitter Beefs with YA Author Becky Albertalli, Crushing On Your Roommate, and Big Life Changes

TW: Brief mentions of suicide during the interview Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1X4iamS349L2kjNL8LBCQz56Ffv0gy0OvpaFFF12fKp4/edit?usp=sharing First up, doggie DNA tests! Are they reliable? And is Sugar even a dog at all? Gaby and Allison then shift gears to give a listener advice on how to approach her romantic feelings for her roommate who has a new boyfriend. They then interview YA superstar Becky Albertalli about book fandom, her own queerness, and the reconciliation of

Jan 19, 2022 • 1:17:56

Resolving Twitter Beefs with YA Author Becky Albertalli, Crushing On Your Roommate, and Big Life Changes

Resolving Twitter Beefs with YA Author Becky Albertalli, Crushing On Your Roommate, and Big Life Changes

TW: Brief mentions of suicide during the interview Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1X4iamS349L2kjNL8LBCQz56Ffv0gy0OvpaFFF12fKp4/edit?usp=sharing First up, doggie DNA tests! Are they reliable? And is Sugar even a dog at all? Gaby and Allison then shift gears to give a listener advice on how to approach her romantic feelings for her roommate who has a new boyfriend. They then interview YA superstar Becky Albertalli about book fandom, her own queerness, and the reconciliation of

Jan 19, 2022 • 1:17:56

Romance Novels with Jackie Kashian, Dating Again After A HORRIBLE Breakup, and Family Loyalty

Romance Novels with Jackie Kashian, Dating Again After A HORRIBLE Breakup, and Family Loyalty

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/16bQpQ4VDE3uvNeFGDon4qfcJfMolLdtX6dO1s2WDFF8/edit?usp=sharing First, Gaby calls a motel and finds that the front desk people are not very good liars. Then, the duo respond to a listener who is trying to date again after being left in a horrible manner by her ex-fiance--something Allison has a lot of experience and advice about. Next, they talk to comedian and romance novel aficionado Jackie Kashian all about romance novels as a genre, how women

Jan 12, 2022 • 1:20:28

Romance Novels with Jackie Kashian, Dating Again After A HORRIBLE Breakup, and Family Loyalty

Romance Novels with Jackie Kashian, Dating Again After A HORRIBLE Breakup, and Family Loyalty

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/16bQpQ4VDE3uvNeFGDon4qfcJfMolLdtX6dO1s2WDFF8/edit?usp=sharing First, Gaby calls a motel and finds that the front desk people are not very good liars. Then, the duo respond to a listener who is trying to date again after being left in a horrible manner by her ex-fiance--something Allison has a lot of experience and advice about. Next, they talk to comedian and romance novel aficionado Jackie Kashian all about romance novels as a genre, how women

Jan 12, 2022 • 1:20:28

Side Hustles with Daniella Flores, Suddenly Wanting Children, and Reboots

Side Hustles with Daniella Flores, Suddenly Wanting Children, and Reboots

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1aJ41fV_-w14sFysVMAEC1DXBDBWnREdDOReuRKMchDA/edit?usp=sharing First, Allison will be in grad school forever. Then, the duo answer a listener's question about suddenly wanting children when their partner thought they did not. Will this blow up their life or make their life better? Only they can decide! Next, we have Daniella Flores, founder of ILikeToDabble.Com, on to discuss side hustle productivity culture, ideas for making money outside of a 9

Dec 22, 2021 • 1:19:26

Side Hustles with Daniella Flores, Suddenly Wanting Children, and Reboots

Side Hustles with Daniella Flores, Suddenly Wanting Children, and Reboots

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1aJ41fV_-w14sFysVMAEC1DXBDBWnREdDOReuRKMchDA/edit?usp=sharing First, Allison will be in grad school forever. Then, the duo answer a listener's question about suddenly wanting children when their partner thought they did not. Will this blow up their life or make their life better? Only they can decide! Next, we have Daniella Flores, founder of ILikeToDabble.Com, on to discuss side hustle productivity culture, ideas for making money outside of

Dec 22, 2021 • 1:19:26

Side Hustles with Daniella Flores, Suddenly Wanting Children, and Reboots

Side Hustles with Daniella Flores, Suddenly Wanting Children, and Reboots

First, Allison will be in grad school forever. Then, the duo answer a listener's question about suddenly wanting children when their partner thought they did not. Will this blow up their life or make their life better? Only they can decide! Next, we have Daniella Flores, founder of ILikeToDabble.Com, on to discuss side hustle productivity culture, ideas for making money outside of a 9 to 5, and why side hustles have become so normalized. And of course, the danger of multi-level marketing schemes

Dec 22, 2021 • 1:11:56

Reimagining Nutrition with Vanessa Rissetto, Getting A Pet When You're Afraid of Animals and Professionalism

Reimagining Nutrition with Vanessa Rissetto, Getting A Pet When You're Afraid of Animals and Professionalism

Gaby and Allison start off by answering a listener's question about whether or not to get a pet to help with their mental health despite a fear of animals. (Yes! Yes! A thousand times yes!) They're then joined by registered dietician Vanessa Rissetto to talk about how she is disrupting her field and how we can reimagine our thoughts around nutrition and food. And finally, professionalism. Does it still exist? And if so, do we need it?  Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1zXuLXpjA

Dec 15, 2021 • 1:22:34

Reimagining Nutrition with Vanessa Rissetto, Getting A Pet When You're Afraid of Animals and Professionalism

Reimagining Nutrition with Vanessa Rissetto, Getting A Pet When You're Afraid of Animals and Professionalism

Gaby and Allison start off by answering a listener's question about whether or not to get a pet to help with their mental health despite a fear of animals. (Yes! Yes! A thousand times yes!) They're then joined by registered dietician Vanessa Rissetto to talk about how she is disrupting her field and how we can reimagine our thoughts around nutrition and food. And finally, professionalism. Does it still exist? And if so, do we need it?  Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1

Dec 15, 2021 • 1:15:04

Reimagining Nutrition with Vanessa Rissetto, Getting A Pet When You're Afraid of Animals and Professionalism

Reimagining Nutrition with Vanessa Rissetto, Getting A Pet When You're Afraid of Animals and Professionalism

Gaby and Allison start off by answering a listener's question about whether or not to get a pet to help with their mental health despite a fear of animals. (Yes! Yes! A thousand times yes!) They're then joined by registered dietician Vanessa Rissetto to talk about how she is disrupting her field and how we can reimagine our thoughts around nutrition and food. And finally, professionalism. Does it still exist? And if so, do we need it? This has been a Forever Dog production Pr

Dec 15, 2021 • 1:15:04

Tattoos with Artist Brittny Abad, BF Hanging With Ex, and Democracy

Tattoos with Artist Brittny Abad, BF Hanging With Ex, and Democracy

Allison quits the show. But then sticks around to answer a listener's question about whether or not she should be concerned that her boyfriend is still a support system for his ex. The duo are then joined by tattoo artist Brittny Abad to talk about tattoo school, how tattooing actually works and why people love them so much! And finally: democracy. Is America doing it right? (Not really.) This has been a Forever Dog production Produced by Melisa D. MontsExecutive produced by Brett Boha

Dec 8, 2021 • 1:10:56

Tattoos with Artist Brittny Abad, BF Hanging With Ex, and Democracy

Tattoos with Artist Brittny Abad, BF Hanging With Ex, and Democracy

Allison quits the show. But then sticks around to answer a listener's question about whether or not she should be concerned that her boyfriend is still a support system for his ex. The duo are then joined by tattoo artist Brittny Abad to talk about tattoo school, how tattooing actually works and why people love them so much! And finally: democracy. Is America doing it right? (Not really.)  Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1aEszh0Q83_YM3gSh9gtXBehZmwuQsSYIQzXBOEWMSTk/edit?usp=sh

Dec 8, 2021 • 1:18:26

Tattoos with Artist Brittny Abad, BF Hanging With Ex, and Democracy

Tattoos with Artist Brittny Abad, BF Hanging With Ex, and Democracy

Allison quits the show. But then sticks around to answer a listener's question about whether or not she should be concerned that her boyfriend is still a support system for his ex. The duo are then joined by tattoo artist Brittny Abad to talk about tattoo school, how tattooing actually works and why people love them so much! And finally: democracy. Is America doing it right? (Not really.)  Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1aEszh0Q83_YM3gSh9gtXBehZmwuQsSYIQzXBOEWMSTk/edit?us

Dec 8, 2021 • 1:10:56

Holiday Check-In (Brought To You By Betterhelp)

Holiday Check-In (Brought To You By Betterhelp)

Gaby and Allison check-in about holiday stress. Brought to you by Betterhelp. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Dec 6, 2021 • 4:40

Utopian Lifestyles with Avery Trufelman, Sibling-Parent Conflicts, and Love Songs

Utopian Lifestyles with Avery Trufelman, Sibling-Parent Conflicts, and Love Songs

Gaby's gone full Trekkie in the last year, but Allison has her own ideas about what aliens actually look like. After much debate about this, the duo answer a listener's question about getting involved in their siblings' volatile relationship with their parents. Next, Avery Trufelman joins the pod to talk all about lifestyle utopia, the world of home, and the various inventions that have changed our day to day. Finally, love songs! Why do we all get emotional about them? How does Gaby

Dec 1, 2021 • 1:14:52

Utopian Lifestyles with Avery Trufelman, Sibling-Parent Conflicts, and Love Songs

Utopian Lifestyles with Avery Trufelman, Sibling-Parent Conflicts, and Love Songs

Gaby's gone full Trekkie in the last year, but Allison has her own ideas about what aliens actually look like. After much debate about this, the duo answer a listener's question about getting involved in their siblings' volatile relationship with their parents. Next, Avery Trufelman joins the pod to talk all about lifestyle utopia, the world of home, and the various inventions that have changed our day to day. Finally, love songs! Why do we all get emotional about them? How does Gaby feel when t

Dec 1, 2021 • 1:14:52

Lolita with Jamie Loftus, Friends At Different Life Stages, and Prevention

Lolita with Jamie Loftus, Friends At Different Life Stages, and Prevention

Tw: Lolita, pedophilia, childhood sexual assault (CSA) Taylor Swift owns our lives. That's right. It's "Gaby and Allison's Lives (Taylor's Version)." Then, the duo answer a listener's question about what to do when your friends want you to be at the exact same life stage they are. Next, they talk to podcaster extraordinaire Jamie Loftus, creator of the Lolita Podcast, all about what we've all gotten wrong about Nabakov's controversial book and the ways it affected generations of young women

Nov 24, 2021 • 1:06:28

Lolita with Jamie Loftus, Friends At Different Life Stages, and Prevention

Lolita with Jamie Loftus, Friends At Different Life Stages, and Prevention

Tw: Lolita, pedophilia, childhood sexual assault (CSA) Taylor Swift owns our lives. That's right. It's "Gaby and Allison's Lives (Taylor's Version)." Then, the duo answer a listener's question about what to do when your friends want you to be at the exact same life stage they are. Next, they talk to podcaster extraordinaire Jamie Loftus, creator of the Lolita Podcast, all about what we've all gotten wrong about Nabakov's controversial book and the ways it affe

Nov 24, 2021 • 1:13:58

Teaching Our Youth with Joe Dombrowski, Changing Your Own Mind and Manifesting

Teaching Our Youth with Joe Dombrowski, Changing Your Own Mind and Manifesting

TW: pedophilia, homophobia, transphobia, child abuse, gun violence Are you looking for a great joke to tell at a dinner party? Don't worry, Allison has you covered. The duo then address a brave listener's question about how to change her own mind after being radicalized online. They're then joined by elementary school teacher turned stand up comic, Joe Dombrowski, to talk about the flaws in our education system and why our hilarious children deserve better. And finally, manifesting.

Nov 17, 2021 • 1:21:09

Teaching Our Youth with Joe Dombrowski, Changing Your Own Mind and Manifesting

Teaching Our Youth with Joe Dombrowski, Changing Your Own Mind and Manifesting

TW: pedophilia, homophobia, transphobia, child abuse, gun violenceAre you looking for a great joke to tell at a dinner party? Don't worry, Allison has you covered. The duo then address a brave listener's question about how to change her own mind after being radicalized online. They're then joined by elementary school teacher turned stand up comic, Joe Dombrowski, to talk about the flaws in our education system and why our hilarious children deserve better. And finally, manifesting. One of us bel

Nov 17, 2021 • 1:13:39

Introducing Love to See It with Emma and Claire

Introducing Love to See It with Emma and Claire

A weekly recap podcast about The Bachelor franchise and beyond, Love to See It is a snarky but affectionate dissection of dating reality shows — and what they say about all of us — hosted by Emma Gray and Claire Fallon. They laugh, we cry, we break down every episode in obsessive detail, and we unpack all the weird messages pop culture sends us about love. This Fall they’ll be watching along, and covering Season 18 of The Bachelorette with Michelle Young. Love to See It is out now! Listen t

Nov 10, 2021 • 7:25

Cannabis Advocacy with Ellen Scanlon, Defining Romance, and If We Were President

Cannabis Advocacy with Ellen Scanlon, Defining Romance, and If We Were President

First, Gaby tells the story of an amazing/super spooky Halloween party they went to in their new rural county. It has LAYERS. The duo then address a listener's question about what qualifies as romance as they, asexual, get ready to marry their aromantic friend. Next, they interview host of, “How To Do The Pot,” Ellen Lee Scanlon, about the various and glorious uses of cannabis. And finally, what would we change if we were president? Hint: more monorails? This has been a Forever Dog producti

Nov 10, 2021 • 1:03:36

Cannabis Advocacy with Ellen Scanlon, Defining Romance, and If We Were President

Cannabis Advocacy with Ellen Scanlon, Defining Romance, and If We Were President

First, Gaby tells the story of an amazing/super spooky Halloween party they went to in their new rural county. It has LAYERS. The duo then address a listener's question about what qualifies as romance as they, asexual, get ready to marry their aromantic friend. Next, they interview host of, “How To Do The Pot,” Ellen Lee Scanlon, about the various and glorious uses of cannabis. And finally, what would we change if we were president? Hint: more monorails? Transcription: https://docs.google.c

Nov 10, 2021 • 1:11:06

Mommying While Muslim with Zaiba Hasan and Uzma Jafri, Different Arguing Styles and Changing Ourselves with a Magic Wand

Mommying While Muslim with Zaiba Hasan and Uzma Jafri, Different Arguing Styles and Changing Ourselves with a Magic Wand

First, Allison regales us with the ups and downs of her days-long human sexuality workshop. Then, an International Question about what to do when your partner has a different style of arguing than you. Next, they talk to the co-hosts of the Mommying While Muslim podcast Zaiba Hasan and Uzma Jafri about the American Muslim experience and how to raise brown children in a post 9/11 world. And finally, what would we change about ourselves with a magic wand? Veggies, friendliness, OCD therapy, and te

Nov 3, 2021 • 1:22:06

Mommying While Muslim with Zaiba Hasan and Uzma Jafri, Different Arguing Styles and Changing Ourselves with a Magic Wand

Mommying While Muslim with Zaiba Hasan and Uzma Jafri, Different Arguing Styles and Changing Ourselves with a Magic Wand

First, Allison regales us with the ups and downs of her days-long human sexuality workshop. Then, an International Question about what to do when your partner has a different style of arguing than you. Next, they talk to the co-hosts of the Mommying While Muslim podcast Zaiba Hasan and Uzma Jafri about the American Muslim experience and how to raise brown children in a post 9/11 world. And finally, what would we change about ourselves with a magic wand? Veggies, friendliness, OCD therapy, and te

Nov 3, 2021 • 1:14:36

Halloween Can Be Scary Without Being Triggering  (Brought to You By Betterhelp)

Halloween Can Be Scary Without Being Triggering (Brought to You By Betterhelp)

Gaby and Allison discuss their triggers and fears during the Halloween Season. Brought to you by Betterhelp. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Oct 29, 2021 • 4:37

Psychedelics and Mental Health with Researcher Matthew W. Johnson, Forgiveness in Sobriety, and Brand Deals

Psychedelics and Mental Health with Researcher Matthew W. Johnson, Forgiveness in Sobriety, and Brand Deals

Coming in hot with two reality show pitches about dogs: "Romance or Rescue" and "The Right Pooch." Allison's is a wholesome affair, while Gaby's...not so much. The duo then answer a listener's question about how to forgive themself for their drunk behavior now that they are sober and have made amends. They're then joined by an extremely exciting guest, Matthew W. Johnson, a researcher on the forefront of the use of psychedelics for medical and mental health treatm

Oct 27, 2021 • 1:12:20

Psychedelics and Mental Health with Researcher Matthew W. Johnson, Forgiveness in Sobriety, and Brand Deals

Psychedelics and Mental Health with Researcher Matthew W. Johnson, Forgiveness in Sobriety, and Brand Deals

Coming in hot with two reality show pitches about dogs: "Romance or Rescue" and "The Right Pooch." Allison's is a wholesome affair, while Gaby's...not so much. The duo then answer a listener's question about how to forgive themself for their drunk behavior now that they are sober and have made amends. They're then joined by an extremely exciting guest, Matthew W. Johnson, a researcher on the forefront of the use of psychedelics for medical and mental health treatment. Are psychedelics the future

Oct 27, 2021 • 1:12:20

Living for Content with Connor Franta, Dating After Sexual Trauma, and Sibling Dynamics

Living for Content with Connor Franta, Dating After Sexual Trauma, and Sibling Dynamics

Allison might go blonde? Gaby is shaving off their hair. HUGE TRIGGER WARNING for sexual assault and "revenge porn:" First, they answer a listener's very delicate question about an ex-partner who betrayed her trust by posting sexual videos of her without her consent. How can she feel safe dating again? (For more on this experience, we recommend videos by YouTuber Chrissy Chambers about her fight against "revenge porn.") Then, they interview internet royalty Connor Franta all

Oct 20, 2021 • 1:17:39

Living for Content with Connor Franta, Dating After Sexual Trauma, and Sibling Dynamics

Living for Content with Connor Franta, Dating After Sexual Trauma, and Sibling Dynamics

Allison might go blonde? Gaby is shaving off their hair. HUGE TRIGGER WARNING for sexual assault and "revenge porn:" First, they answer a listener's very delicate question about an ex-partner who betrayed her trust by posting sexual videos of her without her consent. How can she feel safe dating again? (For more on this experience, we recommend videos by YouTuber Chrissy Chambers about her fight against "revenge porn.") Then, they interview internet royalty Connor Franta all about his new book,

Oct 20, 2021 • 1:10:09

Interviewing Skills with LBGTQ&A's Jeffrey Masters, Hating Your Friend's Awful Boyfriend and Our Comedic Voices

Interviewing Skills with LBGTQ&A's Jeffrey Masters, Hating Your Friend's Awful Boyfriend and Our Comedic Voices

The introduction to this episode contains discussions of transphobia. This entire show is JUST about Gaby's gender and Allison's ex-fiance! Despite this holy truth, the duo attempt to answer a listener's email about a friend's obnoxious boyfriend. (To intervene or not to intervene! That is the question!) They're then joined by interview expert extraordinaire Jeffery Masters to dissect the art of interviewing and how to get guests comfortable enough to open up. Meta! And final

Oct 13, 2021 • 1:18:24

Interviewing Skills with LBGTQ&A's Jeffrey Masters, Hating Your Friend's Awful Boyfriend and Our Comedic Voices

Interviewing Skills with LBGTQ&A's Jeffrey Masters, Hating Your Friend's Awful Boyfriend and Our Comedic Voices

This entire show is JUST about Gaby's gender and Allison's ex-fiance! Despite this holy truth, the duo attempt to answer a listener's email about a friend's obnoxious boyfriend. (To intervene or not to intervene! That is the question!) They're then joined by interview expert extraordinaire Jeffery Masters to dissect the art of interviewing and how to get guests comfortable enough to open up. Meta! And finally: our comedic voices. What's shaped them? What's changed them? And are we even funny any

Oct 13, 2021 • 1:10:54

Abortions and Poltical Comedy with Lizz Winstead, Supporting Partner's Self-Criticism, and Oversharing

Abortions and Poltical Comedy with Lizz Winstead, Supporting Partner's Self-Criticism, and Oversharing

This conversation contains mentions of rape, rape threats, incest, and death threats. Topix mentions transphobia. Please take care while listening.  First: bad dreams, sleep paralysis and lizards because...who knows! What is this show about exactly? Then, the duo answer a listener's question about supporting their boyfriend when he complains about not liking his body. And next, they talk to comedian and abortion activist Lizz Winstead about how comedy can help deliver political messages. And fin

Oct 6, 2021 • 1:26:41

Abortions and Poltical Comedy with Lizz Winstead, Supporting Partner's Self-Criticism, and Oversharing

Abortions and Poltical Comedy with Lizz Winstead, Supporting Partner's Self-Criticism, and Oversharing

This conversation contains mentions of rape, rape threats, incest, and death threats. Topix mentions transphobia. Please take care while listening. First: bad dreams, sleep paralysis and lizards because...who knows! What is this show about exactly? Then, the duo answer a listener's question about supporting their boyfriend when he complains about not liking his body. And next, they talk to comedian and abortion activist Lizz Winstead about how comedy can help deliver political message

Oct 6, 2021 • 1:19:11

Cults with Dr. Steve Hassan, Determining "The One" and Family Traditions

Cults with Dr. Steve Hassan, Determining "The One" and Family Traditions

TW: This interview contains a brief reference to sexual assault in regard to the kidnapping of heiress Patty Hearst.Gaby's gonna get contacts before dysphoria trumps the fear of touching their eyeball. Then, the duo answer a listener's question about knowing someone is the one even if you feel too independent. (Hint: the person IS overthinking!) Then, they talk to the most famous cult expert and former "Moonie" Dr. Steven Hassan all about the cult of Trump, the misconceptions about the people in

Sep 29, 2021 • 1:25:28

Cults with Dr. Steve Hassan, Determining "The One" and Family Traditions

Cults with Dr. Steve Hassan, Determining "The One" and Family Traditions

TW: This interview contains a brief reference to sexual assault in regard to the kidnapping of heiress Patty Hearst. Gaby's gonna get contacts before dysphoria trumps the fear of touching their eyeball. Then, the duo answer a listener's question about knowing someone is the one even if you feel too independent. (Hint: the person IS overthinking!) Then, they talk to the most famous cult expert and former "Moonie" Dr. Steven Hassan all about the cult of Trump, the misconceptions about the people i

Sep 29, 2021 • 1:32:58

Major Life Transitions (Brought To You By Betterhelp)

Major Life Transitions (Brought To You By Betterhelp)

Gaby and Allison chat about changes in their lives. Brought to you by BetterHelp.If you're looking for another way to support your mental health, why not check out BetterHelp, a professional online counseling service. Get 10% off your first month at betterhelp.com/JustBetweenUs.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Sep 24, 2021 • 5:09

Edgar Allan Poe with Catherine Baab-Muguira, Gaby's History With Polyamory and Traveling

Edgar Allan Poe with Catherine Baab-Muguira, Gaby's History With Polyamory and Traveling

We start off with some Abercrombie and Limited Too nostalgia. Gaby then addresses a listener's question about exploring polyamory by sharing their own history naivating non-monogamy over the last decade. The duo are then joined by Edgar Allan Poe expert and author of Poe for Your Problems Catherine Baab-Muguira to discuss Poe's life, legacy and unusual approach to self-help. And finally, travel. Should we prioritize it? Or is it overrated? This has been a Forever Dog production Produce

Sep 22, 2021 • 1:12:25

Edgar Allan Poe with Catherine Baab-Muguira, Gaby's History With Polyamory and Traveling

Edgar Allan Poe with Catherine Baab-Muguira, Gaby's History With Polyamory and Traveling

We start off with some Abercrombie and Limited Too nostalgia. Gaby then addresses a listener's question about exploring polyamory by sharing their own history naivating non-monogamy over the last decade. The duo are then joined by Edgar Allan Poe expert and author of Poe for Your Problems Catherine Baab-Muguira to discuss Poe's life, legacy and unusual approach to self-help. And finally, travel. Should we prioritize it? Or is it overrated?  Transcription: https://docs.google.com/documen

Sep 22, 2021 • 1:12:25

"Dirty" Vaginas with Dr. Jen Gunter, Estranged Parents and Foster Pets

"Dirty" Vaginas with Dr. Jen Gunter, Estranged Parents and Foster Pets

Gaby and Allison start off with a BRIEF discussion of sportz. They then address a listener's question about whether or not a new mom should be upset that her father isn't talking to her. World famous gynecologist Dr. Jen Gunter then joins the conversation to discuss misinformation about vaginas, the feminine hygiene industry, public hair and how to effectively talk with your doctor. And finally, fostering pets! The cutest type of volunteer work available! It's so hard but so rewarding. Trigger w

Sep 15, 2021 • 1:16:05

"Dirty" Vaginas with Dr. Jen Gunter, Estranged Parents and Foster Pets

"Dirty" Vaginas with Dr. Jen Gunter, Estranged Parents and Foster Pets

Gaby and Allison start off with a BRIEF discussion of sportz. They then address a listener's question about whether or not a new mom should be upset that her father isn't talking to her. World famous gynecologist Dr. Jen Gunter then joins the conversation to discuss misinformation about vaginas, the feminine hygiene industry, public hair and how to effectively talk with your doctor. And finally, fostering pets! The cutest type of volunteer work available! It's so hard but so rewarding.TW: The in

Sep 15, 2021 • 1:08:35

Delivery Apps Exposed with Ahmed Ali Akbar, Dating Your First Queer Hook Up, and Aging

Delivery Apps Exposed with Ahmed Ali Akbar, Dating Your First Queer Hook Up, and Aging

Tw: The Topix conversation involves discussions of ageism and fatphobia. Please take care while listening. First, Allison explains pickleball because she is very hip and ready to join a retirement community. The duo then answer a listener's question about whether it's limiting or cliche to start seriously dating the first woman she's ever slept with. Next, they have a fascinating conversation with Ahmed Ali Akbar about the messy world behind the food delivery apps we all use. How muc

Sep 8, 2021 • 1:11:47

Delivery Apps Exposed with Ahmed Ali Akbar, Dating Your First Queer Hook Up, and Aging

Delivery Apps Exposed with Ahmed Ali Akbar, Dating Your First Queer Hook Up, and Aging

First, Allison explains pickleball because she is very hip and ready to join a retirement community. The duo then answer a listener's question about whether it's limiting or cliche to start seriously dating the first woman she's ever slept with. Next, they have a fascinating conversation with Ahmed Ali Akbar about the messy world behind the food delivery apps we all use. How much do we really know about where our convenient food delivery is coming from? (Not much, apparently!) And, finally, agin

Sep 8, 2021 • 1:11:47

Home Renovation with This Old House's Kevin O'Connor, Adjusting To Mental Stability and Compatibility

Home Renovation with This Old House's Kevin O'Connor, Adjusting To Mental Stability and Compatibility

Big news! Gaby and their partner bought a house together! This brings up obvious questions about commitment and a possible engagement! Allison then shares some juicy tea about her own failed engagement. (Very juicy! Would recommend!) The duo then answer a listener's question about feeling purposeless now that they're healing from self-harm and other mental health struggles. Next up, guest Kevin O'Connor, host of PBS's “This Old House,” joins the chat to talk about the stress and

Sep 1, 2021 • 1:22:19

Home Renovation with This Old House's Kevin O'Connor, Adjusting To Mental Stability and Compatibility

Home Renovation with This Old House's Kevin O'Connor, Adjusting To Mental Stability and Compatibility

Big news! Gaby and their partner bought a house together! This brings up obvious questions about commitment and a possible engagement! Allison then shares some juicy tea about her own failed engagement. (Very juicy! Would recommend!) The duo then answer a listener's question about feeling purposeless now that they're healing from self-harm and other mental health struggles. Next up, guest Kevin O'Connor, host of PBS's “This Old House,” joins the chat to talk about the stress and joy of home impr

Sep 1, 2021 • 1:14:49

Harm Reduction with Monique Tula, Worrying Your Partner Is A "Bad Person," and Nudity

Harm Reduction with Monique Tula, Worrying Your Partner Is A "Bad Person," and Nudity

First, Gaby and Allison get into baby names and weird name stories. Then, the duo disagree on a listener's email about how to express to her boyfriend that she worries he's a bad person. Next, they're joined by The National Harm Reduction Coalition's Executive Director Monique Tula for a fascinating conversation about what harm reduction is, society's warped framing of drugs and sobriety, and how we can change our perception of what drug users need. And lastly, nudity! Melisa and Allison love it

Aug 25, 2021 • 1:21:49

Harm Reduction with Monique Tula, Worrying Your Partner Is A "Bad Person," and Nudity

Harm Reduction with Monique Tula, Worrying Your Partner Is A "Bad Person," and Nudity

First, Gaby and Allison get into baby names and new neighbors. The duo then (heavily) disagrees on a listener's email about fearing her boyfriend is a bad person. Next, they're joined by The National Harm Reduction Coalition's Executive Director Monique Tula for a fascinating conversation about the concept of harm reduction, society's warped framing of drugs and sobriety, and how we can change our perception of what drug users need. And lastly, nudity! Melisa and Allison love it. Gaby is... mixe

Aug 25, 2021 • 1:14:19

Uncertainty (Brought To You By Betterhelp)

Uncertainty (Brought To You By Betterhelp)

Gaby and Allison chat about these uncertain times. Brought to you by Betterhelp.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Aug 21, 2021 • 4:33

The Science of Change with Maya Shankar, Entitled Men, and Burnout

The Science of Change with Maya Shankar, Entitled Men, and Burnout

This week is filled with scheduling snafus and strong emotions! Then, the International Question makes Gaby so mad they could -- and do -- start screaming. Cognitive scientist, Maya Shankar, then joins the show to discuss the power of change, group identity and how a better understanding of behavioral science can positively influence public policy! And finally, burnout. We'd say more but we're too tired.    Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1JHI2k-58_zvzuIA8p-LJjTMXL4uTg9

Aug 18, 2021 • 1:09:23

The Science of Change with Maya Shankar, Entitled Men, and Burnout

The Science of Change with Maya Shankar, Entitled Men, and Burnout

This week is filled with scheduling snafus and strong emotions! Then, the International Question makes Gaby so mad they could -- and do -- start screaming. Cognitive scientist, Maya Shankar, then joins the show to discuss the power of change, group identity and how a better understanding of behavioral science can positively influence public policy! And finally, burnout. We'd say more but we're too tired. This has been a Forever Dog production Produced by Melisa D. MontsExecutive

Aug 18, 2021 • 1:09:23

Criminal Injustice with Public Defender Olayemi Olurin, The Creative Process and Social Media and Celebrity Couples

Criminal Injustice with Public Defender Olayemi Olurin, The Creative Process and Social Media and Celebrity Couples

In this HIGH TENSION episode, Gaby and Allison disagree about the creative process and the role social media play in their careers. They're then joined by public defender Olayemi Olurin to discuss the rigged criminal justice system and our skewed interpretation of crime. And finally: Bennifer and our overwhelming interest in celebrity couples! Why do we care so much?? This has been a Forever Dog Production Produced by Melisa D. MontsExecutive produced by Brett Boham, Joe Cilio an

Aug 11, 2021 • 1:15:27

Criminal Injustice with Public Defender Olayemi Olurin, The Creative Process and Social Media and Celebrity Couples

Criminal Injustice with Public Defender Olayemi Olurin, The Creative Process and Social Media and Celebrity Couples

In this HIGH TENSION episode, Gaby and Allison disagree about the creative process and the role social media play in their careers. They're then joined by public defender Olayemi Olurin to discuss the rigged criminal justice system and our skewed interpretation of crime. And finally: Bennifer and our overwhelming interest in celebrity couples! Why do we care so much?? Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1cage8U--5F0wAu8Kh_v29sBS3uW5cPNROArfqIwx_wk/edit?usp=sharing   This has b

Aug 11, 2021 • 1:15:27

New Things with Michelle Khare, Friend Avoidance, and Being Wrong About

New Things with Michelle Khare, Friend Avoidance, and Being Wrong About

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/11gJ5NBlxa7_961e4fGz-HXPJ-QNmUozVLoaCkSJ-MeY/edit?usp=sharingGaby starts by bragging about their surfing skills and encouraging people to go outside! The duo then answer a listener's question about a friend who seems to be avoiding them. (Who isn't avoiding someone?!?) They're then joined by former B*zzf**d co-worker and absolute badass, Michelle Khare, to talk about her YouTube series Challenge Accepted, pushing yourself and her mortal enemy: ch

Aug 4, 2021 • 1:13:14

New Things with Michelle Khare, Friend Avoidance, and Being Wrong About

New Things with Michelle Khare, Friend Avoidance, and Being Wrong About

Gaby starts by bragging about their surfing skills and encouraging people to go outside! The duo then answer a listener's question about a friend who seems to be avoiding them. (Who isn't avoiding someone?!?) They're then joined by former B*zzf**d co-worker and absolute badass, Michelle Khare, to talk about her YouTube series Challenge Accepted, pushing yourself and her mortal enemy: chess. And finally, things we've been wrong about! (Not to brag but it's a pretty hefty list.

Aug 4, 2021 • 1:13:14

Couples As Co-Workers with BenDeLaCreme and Gus Lanza, Making Therapy Effective, and Politicized Language

Couples As Co-Workers with BenDeLaCreme and Gus Lanza, Making Therapy Effective, and Politicized Language

Gaby grills Allison on a relationship update! (It's going well! Don't worry!) Then, the duo answer a listener's question about wanting a therapist who pushes her more. With the added bonus of a father's movie blog and film critic "Robert" Ebert. Next, drag queen icon BenDeLaCreme and their partner producer Gus Lanza join the pod to talk all about working together as a couple, healthy communication, and any roadblocks they've had in their 6 year relationship. Finally, politicized language and why

Jul 28, 2021 • 1:16:49

Couples As Co-Workers with BenDeLaCreme and Gus Lanza, Making Therapy Effective, and Politicized Language

Couples As Co-Workers with BenDeLaCreme and Gus Lanza, Making Therapy Effective, and Politicized Language

Gaby grills Allison on a relationship update! (It's going well! Don't worry!) Then, the duo answer a listener's question about wanting a therapist who pushes her more. With the added bonus of a father's movie blog and film critic "Robert" Ebert. Next, drag queen icon BenDeLaCreme and their partner producer Gus Lanza join the pod to talk all about working together as a couple, healthy communication, and any roadblocks they've had in their 6 year relationship. Finally,

Jul 28, 2021 • 1:16:49

Migraines with Dr. Teshamae Monteith, Defining Love and Citizen Space Travel

Migraines with Dr. Teshamae Monteith, Defining Love and Citizen Space Travel

First, Gaby is now using they/them pronouns! Get into it! The duo then answer a complicated listener's question that boils down to "what is love?" and how do you know what type of love you need in a romantic relationship. They're then joined by migraine and headache specialist Dr. Teshamae Monteith to discuss triggers, treatments and why we need to better understand migraines in general. Science! And finally, billionaires in space! Is it a waste of money? Or an exciting opportunity for private c

Jul 21, 2021 • 1:18:19

Migraine Headaches with Dr. Teshamae Monteith, Defining Love and Citizen Space Travel

Migraine Headaches with Dr. Teshamae Monteith, Defining Love and Citizen Space Travel

First, Gaby is now using they/them pronouns! Get into it! The duo then answer a complicated listener's question that boils down to "what is love?" and how do you know what type of love you need in a romantic relationship. They're then joined by migraine and headache specialist Dr. Teshamae Monteith to discuss triggers, treatments and why we need to better understand migraines in general. Science! And finally, billionaires in space! Is it a waste of money? Or an exciting opportuni

Jul 21, 2021 • 1:18:19

#FREEBRITNEY with Babs Grey and Tess Barker, Cultural Differences and Active Listening

#FREEBRITNEY with Babs Grey and Tess Barker, Cultural Differences and Active Listening

Allison and Gaby start off by answering a listener's question on how to bring up cultural differences when it comes to marriage timelines. They then interview Free Britney activists Tess Barker and Babs Gray about Britney Spears' conservatorship legal battle, conservatorship abuse, and their journey of bringing attention to this human rights issue. (They were in the courtroom and saw it all!) Plus, hypotheticals! Beware of twins and Marc Anthony. And finally, active listening. Why does

Jul 14, 2021 • 1:03:28

#FREEBRITNEY with Babs Grey and Tess Barker, Cultural Differences and Active Listening

#FREEBRITNEY with Babs Grey and Tess Barker, Cultural Differences and Active Listening

Allison and Gaby start off by answering a listener's question on how to bring up cultural differences when it comes to marriage timelines. They then interview Free Britney activists Tess Barker and Babs Gray about Britney Spears' conservatorship legal battle, conservatorship abuse, and their journey of bringing attention to this human rights issue. (They were in the courtroom and saw it all!) Plus, hypotheticals! Beware of twins and Marc Anthony. And finally, active listening. Why does G

Jul 14, 2021 • 1:10:58

The Beauty Industry with Gabrielle Korn, The Other Woman And Going Off Your Meds

The Beauty Industry with Gabrielle Korn, The Other Woman And Going Off Your Meds

We're back to once a week, y'all, so this episode is jam packed!! Allison and Gaby start off by answering a listener's question about the return of the co-worker who her boyfriend cheated on her with. Uh-oh! Next, the duo interview author Gabrielle Korn about the hypocrisy of the beauty and fashion industry and the impact of social media. And finally, Allison explains her decision to go off her meds and her more recent decision to go right back on!  TW: This interview contains conver

Jul 7, 2021 • 1:20:34

The Beauty Industry with Gabrielle Korn, The Other Woman And Going Off Your Meds

The Beauty Industry with Gabrielle Korn, The Other Woman And Going Off Your Meds

We're back to once a week, y'all, so this episode is jam packed!! Allison and Gaby start off by answering a listener's question about the return of the co-worker who her boyfriend cheated on her with. Uh-oh! Next, the duo interview author Gabrielle Korn about the hypocrisy of the beauty and fashion industry and the impact of social media. And finally, Allison explains her decision to go off her meds and her more recent decision to go right back on! TW: This interview contains conversa

Jul 7, 2021 • 1:13:04

Artificial Intelligence with Ash Fontana and HYPOTHETICALS

Artificial Intelligence with Ash Fontana and HYPOTHETICALS

Today on the show, Allison and Gaby interview Artificial Intelligence expert Ash Fontana, who explains how our data is being gathered and used, whether or not technology is going to take all of our jobs, and the (scary yet exciting) future and present of AI. We wrap up with a rowdy game of Hypotheticals--even AI can't save you from America's Favorite Game Show!  Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1oZgYJSVovc6xSEt_yRE5XYd4g1YpvSVxZLWNV8v6RWs/edit?usp=sharing   This has bee

Jul 2, 2021 • 54:02

Artificial Intelligence with Ash Fontana and HYPOTHETICALS

Artificial Intelligence with Ash Fontana and HYPOTHETICALS

Today on the show, Allison and Gaby interview Artificial Intelligence expert Ash Fontana, who explains how our data is being gathered and used, whether or not technology is going to take all of our jobs, and the (scary yet exciting) future and present of AI. We wrap up with a rowdy game of Hypotheticals--even AI can't save you from America's Favorite Game Show! This has been a Forever Dog production Produced by Melisa D. MontsExecutive produced by Brett Boham, Joe Cilio and Alex

Jul 2, 2021 • 54:01

Should You Lend Your Partner Money and If Therapy "Worked"

Should You Lend Your Partner Money and If Therapy "Worked"

First, Allison shares too much with her dermatologist about her boyfriend's beard on her face. The duo then answers a listener's question about lending money to her partner of one month. (YIKES!) And finally, if therapy was as successful as possible, what in your life would be different? Gaby and Allison get VULNERABLE.  Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1B_rTXigeApYWW-2WUERAR6-gxqhIlEKK5-uEvR4yvTk/edit?usp=sharing   This has been a Forever Dog production  Produced by Me

Jun 30, 2021 • 45:16

Should You Lend Your Partner Money and If Therapy "Worked"

Should You Lend Your Partner Money and If Therapy "Worked"

First, Allison shares too much with her dermatologist about her boyfriend's beard on her face. The duo then answers a listener's question about lending money to her partner of one month. (YIKES!) And finally, if therapy was as successful as possible, what in your life would be different? Gaby and Allison get VULNERABLE. This has been a Forever Dog production Produced by Melisa D. MontsExecutive produced by Brett Boham, Joe Cilio and Alex RamseyTo listen to this podcast ad-free&nb

Jun 30, 2021 • 37:46

PRIDE LIVE PART TWO! Coming Out Advice with Lucy Dacus and Internalized Homophobia/Transphobia with Alexis Sanchez

PRIDE LIVE PART TWO! Coming Out Advice with Lucy Dacus and Internalized Homophobia/Transphobia with Alexis Sanchez

In the final part of our Pride Live! show, Gaby and Allison are joined by musician Lucy Dacus to answer a listener's question about the best way to come out to her straight group of friends (and everyone else). Activist and educator Alexis Sanchez then stops by to discuss internalized homophobia/transphobia/biphobia. Alexis and Gaby share their own experiences of accepting themselves and offer advice for others struggling.  This episode contains conversations about homophobia and transphobia

Jun 25, 2021 • 50:29

PRIDE LIVE PART TWO! Coming Out Advice with Lucy Dacus and Internalized Homophobia/Transphobia with Alexis Sanchez

PRIDE LIVE PART TWO! Coming Out Advice with Lucy Dacus and Internalized Homophobia/Transphobia with Alexis Sanchez

In the final part of our Pride Live! show, Gaby and Allison are joined by musician Lucy Dacus to answer a listener's question about the best way to come out to her straight group of friends (and everyone else). Activist and educator Alexis Sanchez then stops by to discuss internalized homophobia/transphobia/biphobia. Alexis and Gaby share their own experiences of accepting themselves and offer advice for others struggling. This episode contains conversations about homophobia and trans

Jun 25, 2021 • 42:59

PRIDE LIVE PART ONE! Trans Rights with ACLU lawyer Chase Strangio and THE GAY OFFS with Kalen Allen

PRIDE LIVE PART ONE! Trans Rights with ACLU lawyer Chase Strangio and THE GAY OFFS with Kalen Allen

It's our Pride episode! Hooray! First, a pronoun change for Gaby as an update on their continuing gender journey. Then, we're honored to be joined by the ACLU's Chase Strangio to talk about his work on fighting anti-trans legislation, why these laws have sprung up all over in the last few years, and what we can do to help stop these discriminatory, misinformed, and cruel laws. Gaby then takes over the game show portion of the podcast with THE GAY OFFS! Comedian and icon Kalen Allen g

Jun 23, 2021 • 1:08:36

PRIDE LIVE PART ONE! Trans Rights with ACLU lawyer Chase Strangio and THE GAY OFFS with Kalen Allen

PRIDE LIVE PART ONE! Trans Rights with ACLU lawyer Chase Strangio and THE GAY OFFS with Kalen Allen

It's our Pride episode! Hooray! First, a pronoun change for Gaby as an update on their continuing gender journey. Then, we're honored to be joined by the ACLU's Chase Strangio to talk about his work on fighting anti-trans legislation, why these laws have sprung up all over in the last few years, and what we can do to help stop these discriminatory, misinformed, and cruel laws. Gaby then takes over the game show portion of the podcast with THE GAY OFFS! Comedian and icon Kalen Allen goes head to

Jun 23, 2021 • 1:08:36

Race Chaser Presents: A Brief History Of Drag Pageants (sponsored by BetterHelp!)

Race Chaser Presents: A Brief History Of Drag Pageants (sponsored by BetterHelp!)

For this mini-sode sponsored by BetterHelp, Willam and Alaska - hosts of the Forever Dog podcast, Race Chaser - give us brief history of drag pageants and their importance to the Queer community right in time for Pride! Having a sense of community is so important to your mental health. And if you're looking for another way to support your mental health, why not check out BetterHelp, a professional online counseling service. Get 10% off your first month at betterhelp.com/JustBetweenUs.P

Jun 23, 2021 • 7:12

Anti-Asian Racism with SuChin Pak and HYPOTHETICALS

Anti-Asian Racism with SuChin Pak and HYPOTHETICALS

Gaby starts off the episode by yelling at Allison for taking hot showers. They're then joined by former MTV VJ and all around badass journalist SuChin Pak to talk about her rise in media and how the last 15 months have shifted her view of the world. She discusses anti-Asian hate and her personal reckoning with her own history. It's powerful and intimate and followed by a rousing game of hypotheticals that is neither. This episode contains discussions of anti-Asian racism, sexual

Jun 18, 2021 • 59:06

Anti-Asian Racism with SuChin Pak and HYPOTHETICALS

Anti-Asian Racism with SuChin Pak and HYPOTHETICALS

Gaby starts off the episode by yelling at Allison for taking hot showers. They're then joined by former MTV VJ and all around badass journalist SuChin Pak to talk about her rise in media and how the last 15 months have shifted her view of the world. She discusses anti-Asian hate and her personal reckoning with her own history. It's powerful and intimate and followed by a rousing game of hypotheticals that is neither.   This episode contains discussions of anti-Asian racism, sexual harass

Jun 18, 2021 • 1:06:36

How To Get Over Heartbreak And Forced Adult Friendships

How To Get Over Heartbreak And Forced Adult Friendships

Gaby opens the episode by sharing highlights from their road trip through the beautiful weirdness of America. Allison and Gaby then answer a listener's question about healing from abrupt heartbreak--something Allison is unfortunately an expert on. And finally: forced adult friendships! Do you have to stay friends with people you no longer relate to or never really liked? Maybe??? Also! June 18 at 11 AM pst is our LIVE Pride show so check @jbupodcast on Instagram for more info on how to watch

Jun 16, 2021 • 53:44

How To Get Over Heartbreak And Forced Adult Friendships

How To Get Over Heartbreak And Forced Adult Friendships

Gaby opens the episode by sharing highlights from their road trip through the beautiful weirdness of America. Allison and Gaby then answer a listener's question about healing from abrupt heartbreak--something Allison is unfortunately an expert on. And finally: forced adult friendships! Do you have to stay friends with people you no longer relate to or never really liked? Maybe??? Also! June 18 at 11 AM pst is our LIVE Pride show so check @jbupodcast on Instagram for more info on how t

Jun 16, 2021 • 46:13

Understanding ADHD with Jak Levine-Pritzker and HYPOTHETICALS

Understanding ADHD with Jak Levine-Pritzker and HYPOTHETICALS

Jak Levine-Pritzker of Authentically ADHD (@authenticallyadhd) joins Allison and Gaby to discuss all things ADHD. Jak insightfully covers the variety of symptoms people experience, who gets overlooked when it comes to diagnosis, what part shame and rejection play, and how someone with ADHD can reframe their disorder in a capitalist world that’s stacked against them. (Small ask, we know!) Plus, Hypotheticals! Should you break up with your partner just to emotionally listen to Olivia Rodrigo? Yes,

Jun 11, 2021 • 52:58

Understanding ADHD with Jak Levine-Pritzker and HYPOTHETICALS

Understanding ADHD with Jak Levine-Pritzker and HYPOTHETICALS

Jak Levine-Pritzker of Authentically ADHD (@authenticallyadhd) joins Allison and Gaby to discuss all things ADHD. Jak insightfully covers the variety of symptoms people experience, who gets overlooked when it comes to diagnosis, what part shame and rejection play, and how someone with ADHD can reframe their disorder in a capitalist world that’s stacked against them. (Small ask, we know!) Plus, Hypotheticals! Should you break up with your partner just to emotionally listen to Olivia Rodrigo? Yes,

Jun 11, 2021 • 52:58

When To Say I Love You And Athletes Prioritizing Their Mental Health

When To Say I Love You And Athletes Prioritizing Their Mental Health

First, Allison has a hilarious “I love you” mishap with her new beau which leads Into a listener’s question about whether to say it to her girlfriend of two months. (Turns out, they completely disagree on the answer! Shocking!) And finally, a discussion about Naomi Osaka's groundbreaking decision to not speak to the media in order to prioritize her mental health. We love to see it!  Trigger warning: Mild references to racism and sexism during Topix. Please take care while listening. Transcr

Jun 9, 2021 • 52:16

When To Say I Love You And Athletes Prioritizing Their Mental Health

When To Say I Love You And Athletes Prioritizing Their Mental Health

First, Allison has a hilarious “I love you” mishap with her new beau which leads Into a listener’s question about whether to say it to her girlfriend of two months. (Turns out, they completely disagree on the answer! Shocking!) And finally, a discussion about Naomi Osaka's groundbreaking decision to not speak to the media in order to prioritize her mental health. We love to see it! Trigger warning: Mild references to racism and sexism during Topix. Please take care while list

Jun 9, 2021 • 44:46

When Your Partner Gets An HIV Diagnosis with Michele Dunn Baker

When Your Partner Gets An HIV Diagnosis with Michele Dunn Baker

First, Gaby wants to be Allison's "momager." Allison is not into it. The duo then talk to Gaby's beloved aunt, writer Michele Dunn Baker, about her husband getting diagnosed with HIV one year into their marriage. Michelle shares their journey since learning the news in 1987 which includes saving his life with alternative medicine and brand new treatments, and how their love continues to thrive despite hardship. If you are a book agent or publisher interested in Michele's book about this experien

Jun 4, 2021 • 46:58

When Your Partner Gets An HIV Diagnosis with Michele Dunn Baker

When Your Partner Gets An HIV Diagnosis with Michele Dunn Baker

First, Gaby wants to be Allison's "momager." Allison is not into it. The duo then talk to Gaby's beloved aunt, writer Michele Dunn Baker, about her husband getting diagnosed with HIV one year into their marriage. Michelle shares their journey since learning the news in 1987 which includes saving his life with alternative medicine and brand new treatments, and how their love continues to thrive despite hardship. If you are a book agent or publisher interested in Michele's book

Jun 4, 2021 • 54:28

Converting To Judaism And Gaby Buying A House

Converting To Judaism And Gaby Buying A House

Allison and Gaby are off to a strange start but then again it's Gemini season! Allison and Gaby do their best to tackle a listener's question about whether someone can convert to Judaism even if they don't believe in a traditional, all-powerful god. Gaby then shares their recent adventures in real estate as they attempt to buy a house with their partner! Mortgage before marriage? Why not! This has been a Forever Dog production  Produced by Melisa D. Monts Executive produced by Brett

Jun 2, 2021 • 48:57

Converting To Judaism And Gaby Buying A House

Converting To Judaism And Gaby Buying A House

Allison and Gaby are off to a strange start but then again it's Gemini season! Allison and Gaby do their best to tackle a listener's question about whether someone can convert to Judaism even if they don't believe in a traditional, all-powerful god. Gaby then shares their recent adventures in real estate as they attempt to buy a house with their partner! Mortgage before marriage? Why not! This has been a Forever Dog production Produced by Melisa D. MontsExecutive produced by Brett Boham, Jo

Jun 2, 2021 • 41:27

MENTAL HEALTH 101: What Can You Do If You Can't Afford Therapy with Therapist Whitney Goodman (@sitwithwhit)

MENTAL HEALTH 101: What Can You Do If You Can't Afford Therapy with Therapist Whitney Goodman (@sitwithwhit)

In our final episode of MENTAL HEALTH 101, Allison and Gaby are joined by LMFT Whitney Goodman to talk about how you can prioritize your mental health even if you don't have access to therapy. She explains the importance of setting boundaries, how to safely consume mental health content, getting in touch with your values and how to make social media a positive (instead of a negative) in your life. Plus, mindfulness and noticing explained! Turns out, you can check in with yourself TOO much.

May 28, 2021 • 1:00:11

MENTAL HEALTH 101: What Can You Do If You Can't Afford Therapy with Therapist Whitney Goodman (@sitwithwhit)

MENTAL HEALTH 101: What Can You Do If You Can't Afford Therapy with Therapist Whitney Goodman (@sitwithwhit)

In our final episode of MENTAL HEALTH 101, Allison and Gaby are joined by LMFT Whitney Goodman to talk about how you can prioritize your mental health even if you don't have access to therapy. She explains the importance of setting boundaries, how to safely consume mental health content, getting in touch with your values and how to make social media a positive (instead of a negative) in your life. Plus, mindfulness and noticing explained! Turns out, you can check in with yourself TOO much.

May 28, 2021 • 52:41

Mental Health 101 Tips (sponsored by BetterHelp!)

Mental Health 101 Tips (sponsored by BetterHelp!)

As you know, Allison and Gaby have been covering the basics of mental health during Mental Health Awareness Month. And in this mini-sode, sponsored by BetterHelp, they share some of their favorite mental health 101 tips that they learned from all the wonderful experts that were guests in May. So give this is a listen & feel free to check out the Mental Health 101 episodes right here on Just Between Us!And of course, one way to take care of your mental health is to check out BetterHelp for yo

May 28, 2021 • 6:59

MENTAL HEALTH 101: Do Diagnoses Matter with Dr. Shelly-Ann Collins Rawle

MENTAL HEALTH 101: Do Diagnoses Matter with Dr. Shelly-Ann Collins Rawle

In this episode of MENTAL HEALTH 101, psychologist Dr. Shelly Shelly-Ann Collins Rawle of The Black Girl Doctor joins Allison and Gaby to discuss a surprisingly complicated topic in the mental health field: diagnoses. Do people need them? Are they helpful or harmful? How often do people get misdiagnosed? What role does insurance play? Is it okay to self-diagnose? Turns out, some questions are more easily answered than others! Trigger warning: Discussion of personality disorders, menta

May 26, 2021 • 1:04:12

MENTAL HEALTH 101: Do Diagnoses Matter with Dr. Shelly-Ann Collins Rawle

MENTAL HEALTH 101: Do Diagnoses Matter with Dr. Shelly-Ann Collins Rawle

In this episode of MENTAL HEALTH 101, psychologist Dr. Shelly Shelly-Ann Collins Rawle of The Black Girl Doctor joins Allison and Gaby to discuss a surprisingly complicated topic in the mental health field: diagnoses. Do people need them? Are they helpful or harmful? How often do people get misdiagnosed? What role does insurance play? Is it okay to self-diagnose? Turns out, some questions are more easily answered than others!  Trigger warning: Discussion of personality disorders, mental health s

May 26, 2021 • 1:11:42

MENTAL HEALTH 101: The Importance of Sleep with Dr. Courtney Bancroft

MENTAL HEALTH 101: The Importance of Sleep with Dr. Courtney Bancroft

It wouldn't be MENTAL HEALTH 101 without an episode dedicated to sleep! Sleep specialist and clinical psychologist Courtney Bancroft joins us to explain why humans need a certain amount of sleep, the intersection of anxiety and insomnia, helpful tips for sleeping better and how society gets in the way of us all getting the sleep we need. Damn you, Capitalism! Hopefully this episode will put you right to sleep--after you listen to it!Trigger warning: Brief discussions of PTSD nightmares.This has

May 21, 2021 • 59:41

MENTAL HEALTH 101: The Importance of Sleep with Dr. Courtney Bancroft

MENTAL HEALTH 101: The Importance of Sleep with Dr. Courtney Bancroft

It wouldn't be MENTAL HEALTH 101 without an episode dedicated to sleep! Sleep specialist and clinical psychologist Courtney Banscroft joins us to explain why humans need a certain amount of sleep, the intersection of anxiety and insomnia, helpful tips for sleeping better and how society gets in the way of us all getting the sleep we need. Damn you, Capitalism! Hopefully this episode will put you right to sleep--after you listen to it! Trigger warning: Brief discussions of PTSD nightmares. T

May 21, 2021 • 59:41

MENTAL HEALTH 101: People Of Color and Therapy with Melissa Moya-Brinkman (LPC)

MENTAL HEALTH 101: People Of Color and Therapy with Melissa Moya-Brinkman (LPC)

Mental Health 101 continues! First generation Cuban-American therapist Melissa Moya-Brinckman joins Gaby and Allison for a conversation on the specific therapy needs of POC, how therapy can be normalized in these communities, how racism contributes to trauma, and how to check your biases when it comes to other cultures and mental health. Plus Three Questions!  Trigger warning: This interview includes discussion of racism, xenophobia, and trauma. Please take care while listening. Transcription:

May 19, 2021 • 48:37

MENTAL HEALTH 101: People Of Color and Therapy with Melissa Moya-Brinkman (LPC)

MENTAL HEALTH 101: People Of Color and Therapy with Melissa Moya-Brinkman (LPC)

Mental Health 101 continues! First generation Cuban-American therapist Melissa Moya-Brinckman joins Gaby and Allison for a conversation on the specific therapy needs of POC, how therapy can be normalized in these communities, how racism contributes to trauma, and how to check your biases when it comes to other cultures and mental health. Plus Three Questions! Trigger warning: This interview includes discussion of racism, xenophobia, and trauma. Please take care while listening.This has been

May 19, 2021 • 48:37

MENTAL HEALTH 101: Bad Therapy with Therapists Caroline Wiita and Ben Fineman

MENTAL HEALTH 101: Bad Therapy with Therapists Caroline Wiita and Ben Fineman

This episode of MENTAL HEALTH 101 we are exposing an important truth: there is such a thing as bad therapy! But how the heck can you spot it?! Therapists and hosts of the podcast, Very Bad Therapy, Caroline Wiita and Ben Fineman join Gaby and Allison to talk about what constitutes bad therapy, why people don't know what good therapy is and how to bring up problems with your therapist. Plus, should your therapist ever touch you? (Not really!) Does everyone even need therapy? Wow! Feedback! It

May 14, 2021 • 1:03:05

MENTAL HEALTH 101: Bad Therapy with LMFTs Caroline Wiita and Ben Fineman

MENTAL HEALTH 101: Bad Therapy with LMFTs Caroline Wiita and Ben Fineman

This episode of MENTAL HEALTH 101 we are exposing an important truth: there is such a thing as bad therapy! But how the heck can you spot it?! Therapists and hosts of the podcast, Very Bad Therapy, Caroline Wiita and Ben Fineman join Gaby and Allison to talk about what constitutes bad therapy, why people don't know what good therapy is and how to bring up problems with your therapist. Plus, should your therapist ever touch you? (Not really!) Does everyone even need therapy? Wow! Feedback! It's a

May 14, 2021 • 1:03:05

MENTAL HEALTH 101: Finding The Right Therapist For You with LMFT Esther Boykin

MENTAL HEALTH 101: Finding The Right Therapist For You with LMFT Esther Boykin

It's Mental Health 101, baby! And this week we're answering the question on everyone's mind: How the heck do you find the right therapist?! Marriage and Family Therapist Esther Boykin joins us to provide some helpful tips and tricks. We discuss everything from different theoretical orientations to whether or not your therapist should be from the same cultural background as you. She also gives some money saving suggestions before diving into our new segment, Three Questions! Turns out

May 12, 2021 • 1:09:36

MENTAL HEALTH 101: Finding The Right Therapist For You with LMFT Esther Boykin

MENTAL HEALTH 101: Finding The Right Therapist For You with LMFT Esther Boykin

It's Mental Health 101, baby! And this week we're answering the question on everyone's mind: How the heck do you find the right therapist?! Marriage and Family Therapist Esther Boykin joins us to provide some helpful tips and tricks. We discuss everything from different theoretical orientations to whether or not your therapist should be from the same cultural background as you. She also gives some money saving suggestions before diving into our new segment, Three Questions! Turns out, putting yo

May 12, 2021 • 1:09:36

MENTAL HEALTH 101: Medication with Dr. Pooja Lakshmin

MENTAL HEALTH 101: Medication with Dr. Pooja Lakshmin

We're back with MENTAL HEALTH 101! This episode we are asking Dr. Pooja Lakshmin all sorts of questions about psychotropic medication! Do you have to be on medication forever? Can you be on medication while pregnant? When is therapy not enough!? We finish up with our new segment: Three Questions! Because even mental health professionals need to attend to their mental health! Tw: This interview contains conversation about suicide, depression, anxiety, hospitalization and sexual side ef

May 7, 2021 • 59:15

MENTAL HEALTH 101: Medication with Dr. Pooja Lakshmin

MENTAL HEALTH 101: Medication with Dr. Pooja Lakshmin

We're back with MENTAL HEALTH 101! This episode we are asking Dr. Pooja Lakshmin all sorts of questions about psychotropic medication! Do you have to be on medication forever? Can you be on medication while pregnant? When is therapy not enough!? We finish up with our new segment: Three Questions! Because even mental health professionals need to attend to their mental health!  Tw: This interview contains conversation about suicide, depression, anxiety, hospitalization and sexual side effects

May 7, 2021 • 1:06:45

MENTAL HEALTH 101: Trauma with Dr. Shaili Jain

MENTAL HEALTH 101: Trauma with Dr. Shaili Jain

Welcome to our mental health focused mini-season for the month of May! Our inaugural episode focuses on trauma--Big T and little t. Trauma specialist Dr. Shaili Jain joins us to talk about how untreated trauma impacts our daily lives, historical trauma, the most effective treatments and how to live our lives through a trauma informed lens. Plus, a brand new segment Trigger warning: This interview is about massive traumas including sexual assault/rape, violence, and PTSD. Minor mention

May 5, 2021 • 1:08:58

MENTAL HEALTH 101: Trauma with Dr. Shaili Jain

MENTAL HEALTH 101: Trauma with Dr. Shaili Jain

Welcome to our mental health focused mini-season for the month of May! Our inaugural episode focuses on trauma--Big T and little t. Trauma specialist Dr. Shaili Jain joins us to talk about how untreated trauma impacts our daily lives, historical trauma, the most effective treatments and how to live our lives through a trauma informed lens. Plus, a brand new segment. Trigger warning: This interview is about massive traumas including sexual assault/rape, violence, and PTSD. Minor mention of binary

May 5, 2021 • 1:16:29

All Things Autism with Amythest Schaber and HYPOTHETICALS

All Things Autism with Amythest Schaber and HYPOTHETICALS

Gaby is battling a migraine but that doesn't stop the duo from having one of their most informative interviews ever! Amethyst Schaber, of the YouTube channel Neurowonderful, joins the pod to talk about all things autism including popular misconceptions, how to be more accommodating, the impact of misleading media portrayals and the harmful effects of ABA therapy on Autistic children.Plus, a world in which the rules always change and seem arbitrary? Amethyst has been preparing for HYPOTHETICA

Apr 30, 2021 • 1:02:38

All Things Autism with Amythest Schaber and HYPOTHETICALS

All Things Autism with Amythest Schaber and HYPOTHETICALS

Gaby is battling a migraine but that doesn't stop the duo from having one of their most informative interviews ever! Amethyst Schaber, of the YouTube channel Neurowonderful, joins the pod to talk about all things autism including popular misconceptions, how to be more accommodating, the impact of misleading media portrayals and the harmful effects of ABA therapy on Autistic children.Plus, a world in which the rules always change and seem arbitrary? Amethyst has been preparing for HYPOTHETICALS t

Apr 30, 2021 • 1:02:38

How To Tell If Your Relationship Concerns Are Valid and Vaccines

How To Tell If Your Relationship Concerns Are Valid and Vaccines

Allison and Gaby start off with an age old debate: what is the difference between murder and assassination? They then try to help a listener who can't tell if she is self-sabotaging her relationship OR if her concerns about her boyfriend are valid. And finally, Melisa joins in to discuss the controversy surrounding Covid vaccines and what messaging needs to change to get us all to herd immunity.tw:Intro includes conversation of murder, violence, and assassinationTopix includes talk of racism and

Apr 28, 2021 • 39:26

How To Tell If Your Relationship Concerns Are Valid and Vaccines

How To Tell If Your Relationship Concerns Are Valid and Vaccines

Allison and Gaby start off with an age old debate: what is the difference between murder and assassination? They then try to help a listener who can't tell if she is self-sabotaging her relationship OR if her concerns about her boyfriend are valid. And finally, Melisa joins in to discuss the controversy surrounding Covid vaccines and what messaging needs to change to get us all to herd immunity.  tw: Intro includes conversation of murder, violence, and assassination Topix includes talk of ra

Apr 28, 2021 • 39:26

Sex Work, Kink, And Creativity with Bree Essrig

Sex Work, Kink, And Creativity with Bree Essrig

First, Gaby and Allison discuss when it's appropriate to ask marginalized people questions about the correct terminology and how to do that in a thoughtful and appropriate way. Then, they have a delightful conversation with comedian and sex worker Bree Essrig all about making content for OnlyFans and Patreon, getting into kink, foot modeling, and Bree and Gaby's joint experiences in sex work. Plus, Gillian Anderson is dating your partner in a dream. What would you do? tw: all of this int

Apr 23, 2021 • 1:01:22

Sex Work, Kink, And Creativity with Bree Essrig

Sex Work, Kink, And Creativity with Bree Essrig

First, Gaby and Allison discuss when it's appropriate to ask marginalized people questions about the correct terminology and how to do that in a thoughtful and appropriate way. Then, they have a delightful conversation with comedian and sex worker Bree Essrig all about making content for OnlyFans and Patreon, getting into kink, foot modeling, and Bree and Gaby's joint experiences in sex work. Plus, Gillian Anderson is dating your partner in a dream. What would you do? tw: all of this interv

Apr 23, 2021 • 1:01:22

Should Gaby And Allison Get Married, OCD, and Behaviors Vs. Beliefs

Should Gaby And Allison Get Married, OCD, and Behaviors Vs. Beliefs

Insurance forms! Electricity bills! Plants! Are we adults? Should Gaby and Allison just marry each other at this point? We're on the fence. Then, Gaby and Allison give a listener advice about helping a friend who has severe OCD. And finally, beliefs vs. behaviors. What says more about who you are? tw: suicide 19:05- 00:19:30 suicide 20:29 - 30:00 repeating thoughts re: pedophilia 21:42 - 22:14 brief mentions of "elder abuse, dependent abuse, child abuse," suicide, homocide 33:42 - 34

Apr 21, 2021 • 58:29

Should Gaby And Allison Get Married, OCD, and Behaviors Vs. Beliefs

Should Gaby And Allison Get Married, OCD, and Behaviors Vs. Beliefs

Insurance forms! Electricity bills! Plants! Are we adults? Should Gaby and Allison just marry each other at this point? We're on the fence. Then, Gaby and Allison give a listener advice about helping a friend who has severe OCD. And finally, beliefs vs. behaviors. What says more about who you are?tw: suicide 19:05- 00:19:30suicide 20:29 - 30:00repeating thoughts re: pedophilia 21:42 - 22:14brief mentions of "elder abuse, dependent abuse, child abuse," suicide, homocide 33:42 - 34:00suicide 35:41

Apr 21, 2021 • 50:59

Handwriting Analysis with Graphologist Elaine Charal and HYPOTHETICALS

Handwriting Analysis with Graphologist Elaine Charal and HYPOTHETICALS

This is one for the books! Allison and Gaby have their handwriting analyzed by graphologist Elaine Charal, which is a 10/10 experience! They then learn all about the theories behind handwriting analysis and how it can help people better understand themselves. And finally, a rousing game of hypotheticals with even more alien talk than normal!  Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1Zu3sJ67db-vCksg1WYZPXKJ7GGMUTUCqgfStlZpSSfc/edit?usp=sharing   This has been a Forever Dog production

Apr 16, 2021 • 59:35

Handwriting Analysis with Graphologist Elaine Charal and HYPOTHETICALS

Handwriting Analysis with Graphologist Elaine Charal and HYPOTHETICALS

This is one for the books! Allison and Gaby have their handwriting analyzed by graphologist Elaine Charal, which is a 10/10 experience! They then learn all about the theories behind handwriting analysis and how it can help people better understand themselves. And finally, a rousing game of hypotheticals with even more alien talk than normal! This has been a Forever Dog production Produced by Melisa D. MontsExecutive produced by Brett Boham, Joe Cilio and Alex RamseyTo liste

Apr 16, 2021 • 52:05

The "Right" Response to Heartbreak and Trigger Warnings

The "Right" Response to Heartbreak and Trigger Warnings

We are loopy in the intro to this one! Gaby and Allison get it together in time to discuss a listener's question about whether or not it's strange she isn't more upset following a breakup. Do you grow more cynical about love as you get older? Is it bad not to be devastatingly heartbroken by a break up? And finally, a listener writes in to call Gaby in about trigger warnings and the duo breaks down the need for them and how they'll be using them in the future. (Content warning: in Topix, we get i

Apr 14, 2021 • 48:08

The "Right" Response to Heartbreak and Trigger Warnings

The "Right" Response to Heartbreak and Trigger Warnings

We are loopy in the intro to this one! Gaby and Allison get it together in time to discuss a listener's question about whether or not it's strange she isn't more upset following a breakup. Do you grow more cynical about love as you get older? Is it bad not to be devastatingly heartbroken by a break up? And finally, a listener writes in to call Gaby in about trigger warnings and the duo breaks down the need for them and how they'll be using them in the future. (Content warning: in

Apr 14, 2021 • 55:38

Fertility Awareness and Natural Birth Control with Megan McNamara and HYPOTHETICALS

Fertility Awareness and Natural Birth Control with Megan McNamara and HYPOTHETICALS

First, lots of food, acid reflux, and coffee talk--we are a couple of Jews about all. Then, we talk to Megan McNamara (@famtasticfertility) about fertility awareness, natural birth control, being in control of your body, and how to effectively do the Fertility Awareness Method. Plus, charting your cervical mucus and understanding your cervical mucus using cervicalmucus.org. (We love saying cervical mucus!) And lastly, erotic hand-holding and panic at a cruise ship buffet.   Transcription: https:

Apr 9, 2021 • 1:03:05

Fertility Awareness and Natural Birth Control with Megan McNamara and HYPOTHETICALS

Fertility Awareness and Natural Birth Control with Megan McNamara and HYPOTHETICALS

First, lots of food, acid reflux, and coffee talk--we are a couple of Jews about all. Then, we talk to Megan McNamara (@famtasticfertility) about fertility awareness, natural birth control, being in control of your body, and how to effectively do the Fertility Awareness Method. Plus, charting your cervical mucus and understanding your cervical mucus using cervicalmucus.org. (We love saying cervical mucus!) And lastly, erotic hand-holding and panic at a cruise ship buffet.TW:0-1:15 - talking of f

Apr 9, 2021 • 55:35

Dealing With Confrontation and Love At First Sight

Dealing With Confrontation and Love At First Sight

First, Gaby and Allison talk about vaccines, lip fillers, gender dysphoria and not putting yourself into a box. (Love to ease you in!) They then give a listener advice on being conflict avoidant and what to say when you're being called in or confronted. And lastly, Melisa, Gaby and Allison break down love at first sight and why it makes Gaby so riled up. She really hates it!  tw: 1:16 - C word 4:05 to 6:45 - gender dysphoria Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1oy7ONwdFpNsNQcd

Apr 7, 2021 • 1:01:10

Dealing With Confrontation and Love At First Sight

Dealing With Confrontation and Love At First Sight

First, Gaby and Allison talk about vaccines, lip fillers, gender dysphoria and not putting yourself into a box. (Love to ease you in!) They then give a listener advice on being conflict avoidant and what to say when you're being called in or confronted. And lastly, Melisa, Gaby and Allison break down love at first sight and why it makes Gaby so riled up. She really hates it! tw:1:16 - C word4:05 to 6:45 - gender dysphoriaThis has been a Forever Dog production Produced by Melisa D. Mont

Apr 7, 2021 • 53:40

Finance, Work, and Mental Health with Tony Verheyen and Hypotheticals

Finance, Work, and Mental Health with Tony Verheyen and Hypotheticals

First, a fan makes an incredibly accurate parody video of the Just Between Us podcast that really tickled us. (Go check it out on @serenapalmer_ on Instagram.) PS: Make us more fan art! Then, Tony Verheyen, author of In Our Reach, joins us to talk about mental health at work and employee benefits for your physical, mental, and financial life. Plus, how the heck do you ask for a raise? Lastly, hypotheticals! Tony is very zen about whether or not his mother-in-law is an alien or rude. Very zen.Con

Apr 2, 2021 • 48:11

Finance, Work, and Mental Health with Tony Verheyen and Hypotheticals

Finance, Work, and Mental Health with Tony Verheyen and Hypotheticals

First, a fan makes an incredibly accurate parody video of the Just Between Us podcast that really tickled us. (Go check it out on @serenapalmer_ on Instagram.) PS: Make us more fan art! Then, Tony Verheyen, author of In Our Reach, joins us to talk about mental health at work and employee benefits for your physical, mental, and financial life. Plus, how the heck do you ask for a raise? Lastly, hypotheticals! Tony is very zen about whether or not his mother-in-law is an alien or rude. Very zen. Co

Apr 2, 2021 • 48:11

Handling Academic Rejection and Our Goals For The Future

Handling Academic Rejection and Our Goals For The Future

First, some adorable stories about Allison and Gaby's attention-loving grandmothers and the tributes they deserve. They then offer advice to a listener whose self-identity is tied to her academic achievements. And finally, goals! Melisa joins in for a lively discussion of what all three hope to accomplish some day soon. The list includes paying off debt, buying a bow and arrow and not being so loud. tw: loss of a family member, AIDS, domestic violence, weight, gun mention. This h

Mar 31, 2021 • 48:30

Handling Academic Rejection and Our Goals For The Future

Handling Academic Rejection and Our Goals For The Future

First, some adorable stories about Allison and Gaby's attention-loving grandmothers and the tributes they deserve. They then offer advice to a listener whose self-identity is tied to her academic achievements. And finally, goals! Melisa joins in for a lively discussion of what all three hope to accomplish some day soon. The list includes paying off debt, buying a bow and arrow and not being so loud.  tw: loss of a family member, AIDS, domestic violence, weight, gun mention.  Transcription:

Mar 31, 2021 • 56:00

The Intersection of Food and Mental Health with Cookbook Author Julia Turshen and HYPOTHETICALS

The Intersection of Food and Mental Health with Cookbook Author Julia Turshen and HYPOTHETICALS

What have you been reading lately? What is time? Weren't we all babies yesterday? The girls are feeling philosophical today! Allison and Gaby are then joined by cookbook author Julia Turshen to talk about the connections between food, mental health, social justice and body image. And finally, hypotheticals! Is that a snake in your toilet?! Maybe! tw: domestic violence, body image/weightThis has been a Forever Dog production Produced by Melisa D. MontsExecutive produced by Brett B

Mar 26, 2021 • 52:28

The Intersection of Food and Mental Health with Cookbook Author Julia Turshen and HYPOTHETICALS

The Intersection of Food and Mental Health with Cookbook Author Julia Turshen and HYPOTHETICALS

What have you been reading lately? What is time? Weren't we all babies yesterday? The girls are feeling philosophical today! Allison and Gaby are then joined by cookbook author Julia Turshen to talk about the connections between food, mental health, social justice and body image. And finally, hypotheticals! Is that a snake in your toilet?! Maybe!  tw: domestic violence, body image/weight Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1RgU_rUppBMDxxpqG36WUsq84KKevNn8YS4V7a_07a5Y/edit?usp=

Mar 26, 2021 • 52:28

A Timeline of Achievement and Re-Entering Society

A Timeline of Achievement and Re-Entering Society

Gaby starts the episode by bringing up some nuance they'd previously ignored regarding mental illness and the pandemic, especially when it comes to high school and college students. Allison and Gaby then answer a listener's question about obsessing over a timeline of achievement and feeling like a late bloomer compared to others. And finally: re-entering society and all the anxiety, stress, and excitement that comes with it. (Allison worries about her contamination OCD raging out of cont

Mar 24, 2021 • 45:08

A Timeline of Achievement and Re-Entering Society

A Timeline of Achievement and Re-Entering Society

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1DdsI78Ty2tWg4DZYozYdTsDIkp_uUOWAIdn-2NOU7f0/edit?usp=sharingGaby starts the episode by bringing up some nuance they'd previously ignored regarding mental illness and the pandemic, especially when it comes to high school and college students. Allison and Gaby then answer a listener's question about obsessing over a timeline of achievement and feeling like a late bloomer compared to others. And finally: re-entering society and all the anxiety, str

Mar 24, 2021 • 37:38

How To Be Sexually Fulfilled During a Pandemic with Planned Parenthood's Dr. Sarah Flowers and HYPOTHETICALS

How To Be Sexually Fulfilled During a Pandemic with Planned Parenthood's Dr. Sarah Flowers and HYPOTHETICALS

Gaby's dog Beans has been acting out! Turns out dogs can get bored too! Allison and Gaby are then joined my Planned Parenthood's sex educator Dr. Sarah Flowers to discuss all things pandemic and sexual health. We're talking skin hunger, sex toys and decreased libido. And finally, HYPOTHETICALS. Sometimes your kid deserves toilet paper hanging out of their pants.  Transcriptions: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1jjBBag6unI2n_dZT-9gmyUxtOEBKBtNx3fnAi1o84xY/edit?usp=sharing This ha

Mar 19, 2021 • 53:46

How To Be Sexually Fulfilled During a Pandemic with Planned Parenthood's Dr. Sarah Flowers and HYPOTHETICALS

How To Be Sexually Fulfilled During a Pandemic with Planned Parenthood's Dr. Sarah Flowers and HYPOTHETICALS

Gaby's dog Beans has been acting out! Turns out dogs can get bored too! Allison and Gaby are then joined my Planned Parenthood's sex educator Dr. Sarah Flowers to discuss all things pandemic and sexual health. We're talking skin hunger, sex toys and decreased libido. And finally, HYPOTHETICALS. Sometimes your kid deserves toilet paper hanging out of their pants. This has been a Forever Dog production Produced by Melisa D. MontsExecutive produced by Brett Boham, Joe Cilio and Alex Ramse

Mar 19, 2021 • 53:46

MINISODE: LIGHT AT THE END OF THE TUNNEL

MINISODE: LIGHT AT THE END OF THE TUNNEL

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Mar 18, 2021 • 6:11

Allison's Big Injury, Problematic Faves, and the Kindness of Strangers

Allison's Big Injury, Problematic Faves, and the Kindness of Strangers

Storytime! Allison suffered a massive knee injury in an airport bathroom and learned the extent of her resilience. A listener then asks for advice on whether they can continue watching The Bachelor despite its racism and toxicity. This causes Gaby, Allison and Melisa to go over their own problematic faves and whether or not to keep watching, listening or reading art by problematic people. Finally, the kindness of strangers and the thrilling conclusion of Allison's terrible, horrible, no-go

Mar 17, 2021 • 46:08

Allison's Big Injury, Problematic Faves, and the Kindness of Strangers

Allison's Big Injury, Problematic Faves, and the Kindness of Strangers

Storytime! Allison suffered a massive knee injury in an airport bathroom and learned the extent of her resilience. A listener then asks for advice on whether they can continue watching The Bachelor despite its racism and toxicity. This causes Gaby, Allison and Melisa to go over their own problematic faves and whether or not to keep watching, listening or reading art by problematic people. Finally, the kindness of strangers and the thrilling conclusion of Allison's terrible, horrible, no-good

Mar 17, 2021 • 46:09

Online Dating with Relationship Coach Damona Hoffman and HYPOTHETICALS

Online Dating with Relationship Coach Damona Hoffman and HYPOTHETICALS

First, personality tests. What's our enneagram number? What's our Myers-Briggs? Are personality tests even useful? Then, they're joined by relationship expert, columnist, and love coach Damona Hoffman who talks all about what makes a great, effective online dating profile, the skills you need to go from pre-date to pre-marriage, the racial biases of dating app data, and how to find exactly what you're looking for. Plus, hypotheticals starring a girlfriend in a coma and an alien who needs to make

Mar 12, 2021 • 57:17

Online Dating with Relationship Coach Damona Hoffman and HYPOTHETICALS

Online Dating with Relationship Coach Damona Hoffman and HYPOTHETICALS

First, personality tests. What's our enneagram number? What's our Myers-Briggs? Are personality tests even useful? Then, they're joined by relationship expert, columnist, and love coach Damona Hoffman who talks all about what makes a great, effective online dating profile, the skills you need to go from pre-date to pre-marriage, the racial biases of dating app data, and how to find exactly what you're looking for. Plus, hypotheticals starring a girlfriend in a coma and an alien w

Mar 12, 2021 • 57:17

What To Do If You Don't Feel Comfortable Around Your Partner's Kid And Judgement

What To Do If You Don't Feel Comfortable Around Your Partner's Kid And Judgement

Bangs or no bangs, that is the question? The girls start off the show with a VERY important hairstyle discussion. Allison and Gaby then advise a listener who feels guilty that she doesn't enjoy being around her partner's nine year old. And the episode wraps up with a lovely discussion of who we should or shouldn't judge. (Basically only people who aren't taking Covid seriously. WEAR A MASK PEOPLE.)  Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1jy-ik0N3yZazGNVvm8tUqsi70LlrS

Mar 10, 2021 • 44:30

What To Do If You Don't Feel Comfortable Around Your Partner's Kid And Judgement

What To Do If You Don't Feel Comfortable Around Your Partner's Kid And Judgement

Bangs or no bangs, that is the question? The girls start off the show with a VERY important hairstyle discussion. Allison and Gaby then advise a listener who feels guilty that she doesn't enjoy being around her partner's nine year old. And the episode wraps up with a lovely discussion of who we should or shouldn't judge. (Basically only people who aren't taking Covid seriously. WEAR A MASK PEOPLE.) This has been a Forever Dog production Produced by Melisa D. MontsExecutive produced by Brett

Mar 10, 2021 • 37:00

Destigmatizing Bats with Merlin Tuttle and HYPOTHETICALS

Destigmatizing Bats with Merlin Tuttle and HYPOTHETICALS

Allison and Gaby are joined by bat expert and lover Merlin Tuttle. Merlin shares his own experiences with these incredible animals and explains why they don't deserve their bad reputation. He then plays an epic game of hypotheticals, which is almost as shocking as his bat facts!  Merlin's famous bat portraits: https://merlintuttle.smugmug.com/Low-Resolution/Portraits/ Here's the video of a little woolly bat trying to train Merlin: https://youtu.be/zRSZjjubVe0 Of Agaves and Bats Film

Mar 5, 2021 • 1:04:55

Destigmatizing Bats with Merlin Tuttle and HYPOTHETICALS

Destigmatizing Bats with Merlin Tuttle and HYPOTHETICALS

Allison and Gaby are joined by bat expert and lover Merlin Tuttle. Merlin shares his own experiences with these incredible animals and explains why they don't deserve their bad reputation. He then plays an epic game of hypotheticals, which is almost as shocking as his bat facts! Merlin's famous bat portraits: https://merlintuttle.smugmug.com/Low-Resolution/Portraits/ Here's the video of a little woolly bat trying to train Merlin: https://youtu.be/zRSZjjubVe0 Of Agaves and Ba

Mar 5, 2021 • 57:25

How To Compassionately Break Up With Someone And Our Best Advice

How To Compassionately Break Up With Someone And Our Best Advice

It's our 100th episode of the podcast, baby!!Gaby and Allison give a listener their thoughts on how to compassionately break up with someone who is still in love with them AND how to get back in touch with an old flame. Then, in honor of this special milestone, they share the best advice they've given and received and how that advice has allowed them to grow and change over time. Plus, Allison bought Melisa a Hinge Premium account for her birthday and we're all too invested in Melisa's lov

Mar 3, 2021 • 46:50

How To Compassionately Break Up With Someone And Our Best Advice

How To Compassionately Break Up With Someone And Our Best Advice

It's our 100th episode of the podcast, baby!! Gaby and Allison give a listener their thoughts on how to compassionately break up with someone who is still in love with them AND how to get back in touch with an old flame. Then, in honor of this special milestone, they share the best advice they've given and received and how that advice has allowed them to grow and change over time. Plus, Allison bought Melisa a Hinge Premium account for her birthday and we're all too invested in Meli

Mar 3, 2021 • 54:20

Education Reform with former teacher and activist Fatima Iqbal-Zubair and HYPOTHETICALS

Education Reform with former teacher and activist Fatima Iqbal-Zubair and HYPOTHETICALS

A second hit of JBU?! How did you get so lucky! This Friday, we interview our highly esteemed guest, education activist Fatima Iqbal-Zubair. We discuss the history of inequalities in schools, the continued unfair disadvantages of schools in low-income communities, and what we can do to desegregate schools. Fatima then joins us for HYPOTHETICALS and RATINGS! That's right, we are making the guest rate the episode and it is uncomfortable!  This has been a Forever Dog production  Produced by Me

Feb 26, 2021 • 50:35

Part Two: Education Reform with former teacher and activist Fatima Iqbal-Zubair and HYPOTHETICALS

Part Two: Education Reform with former teacher and activist Fatima Iqbal-Zubair and HYPOTHETICALS

A second hit of JBU? How did you get so lucky! This week, we interview our highly esteemed guest education activist Fatima Iqbal-Zubair for Tough Questions, Hypotheticals and our newest segment where our guest rates us and their time on the show. Gaby, Allison and Fatima discuss the history of inequalities in schools, the disadvantages (police brutality to poison water) in the schools in low-income communities, and what we can do to desegregate schools.This has been a Forever Dog production&nbsp

Feb 26, 2021 • 50:35

Part One: Being Friends With A Friend's Ex And Narrative Therapy

Part One: Being Friends With A Friend's Ex And Narrative Therapy

Surprise! Just Between Us is now on both Wednesdays and Fridays. Twice a week, baby! On Wednesdays, we have international questions and topix. On Friday, our interview with a highly esteemed guest. Amazing! In this inaugural Wednesday episode, Gaby and Allison give advice to a listener who wants to maintain a friendship with her friend's ex and they get way too personal about their own break ups. Then, they talk about narrative therapy, the language we use to describe ourselves, and reframing ou

Feb 24, 2021 • 49:11

Being Friends With A Friend's Ex And Narrative Therapy

Being Friends With A Friend's Ex And Narrative Therapy

Surprise! Just Between Us is now on both Wednesdays and Fridays. Twice a week, baby! On Wednesdays, we have international questions and topix. On Friday, our interview with a highly esteemed guest. Amazing! In this inaugural Wednesday episode, Gaby and Allison give advice to a listener who wants to maintain a friendship with her friend's ex and they get way too personal about their own break ups. Then, they talk about narrative therapy, the language we use to describe ourselves, and reframin

Feb 24, 2021 • 56:41

Career Counseling with Brian Hutchison, How To Not Carry Your Old Baggage Into New Relationships and Happiness

Career Counseling with Brian Hutchison, How To Not Carry Your Old Baggage Into New Relationships and Happiness

How do you know what to do with your life? How does work affect mental health? Are we more than JUST our jobs and education? Global Career Guy Brian Hutchison joins Gaby and Allison to discuss modern job counseling, prioritizing your health, and crossing your skills over into multiple career paths. But first, they give advice to a listener who is worried about bringing old baggage into new relationships. And finally, happiness! Does it exist?! Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1

Feb 17, 2021 • 1:36:14

Career Counseling with Brian Hutchison, How To Not Carry Your Old Baggage Into New Relationships and Happiness

Career Counseling with Brian Hutchison, How To Not Carry Your Old Baggage Into New Relationships and Happiness

How do you know what to do with your life? How does work affect mental health? Are we more than JUST our jobs and education? Global Career Guy Brian Hutchison joins Gaby and Allison to discuss modern job counseling, prioritizing your health, and crossing your skills over into multiple career paths. But first, they give advice to a listener who is worried about bringing old baggage into new relationships. And finally, happiness! Does it exist?!This has been a Forever Dog production Produced

Feb 17, 2021 • 1:28:44

How To Be An Ethical Slut With Janet Hardy, Different Forms of Therapy and Facts Vs. Opinions

How To Be An Ethical Slut With Janet Hardy, Different Forms of Therapy and Facts Vs. Opinions

Allison and Gaby try to help a listener who thinks she might be too self-aware for therapy to be helpful. They're then joined by Janet Hardy, the coauthor of The Ethical Slut, to talk all about kink, polyamory and word choice. And finally, fact vs. opinion. Why can no one seem to tell the difference anymore? (tw: d*ke and f*g usage during interview discussion) THIS EPISODE IS SPONSORED BY BETTERHELPFor 10% off, visit https://www.betterhelp.com/justbetweenus This has been a

Feb 10, 2021 • 1:07:37

How To Be An Ethical Slut With Janet Hardy, Different Forms of Therapy and Facts Vs. Opinions

How To Be An Ethical Slut With Janet Hardy, Different Forms of Therapy and Facts Vs. Opinions

Allison and Gaby try to help a listener who thinks she might be too self-aware for therapy to be helpful. They're then joined by Janet Hardy, the coauthor of The Ethical Slut, to talk all about kink, polyamory and word choice. And finally, fact vs. opinion. Why can no one seem to tell the difference anymore? (tw: d*ke and f*g usage during interview discussion). Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1CjVv8nXxQTQvLRJwowUzWIkrG0YbM-ZbOFQoG5M3k8M/edit?usp=sharing This has been a Fo

Feb 10, 2021 • 1:15:07

MINISODE: VALENTINE'S DAY

MINISODE: VALENTINE'S DAY

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Feb 8, 2021 • 5:34

LGBTQ Music History with Darryl W. Bullock, Balancing Work/Activism and Memory

LGBTQ Music History with Darryl W. Bullock, Balancing Work/Activism and Memory

Allison and Gaby answer a listener's question regarding workplace activism and burnout. They're then joined by music writer Darryl W. Bullock (David Bowie Made Me Gay, The Velvet Mafia) to discuss queer music history and the impact queer people have had on all things music (in front and behind the scenes). And finally, memories! What do we remember and what do we wish we could forget?  Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1kmqHT6RlQgk_yGFr_cSeSMxNWvE-0rllfMFXUBXFPvo/edit?usp=sharin

Feb 3, 2021 • 1:28:38

LGBTQ Music History with Darryl W. Bullock, Balancing Work/Activism and Memory

LGBTQ Music History with Darryl W. Bullock, Balancing Work/Activism and Memory

Allison and Gaby answer a listener's question regarding workplace activism and burnout. They're then joined by music writer Darryl W. Bullock (David Bowie Made Me Gay, The Velvet Mafia) to discuss queer music history and the impact queer people have had on all things music (in front and behind the scenes). And finally, memories! What do we remember and what do we wish we could forget? Transcriptions coming soon!THIS EPISODE IS SPONSORED BY BETTERHELPFor 10% off, visit https://www.betterhelp

Feb 3, 2021 • 1:21:08

The Myth of Laziness with Dr. Devon Price, How To Talk To Your Family About OCD Tendencies and Found Family

The Myth of Laziness with Dr. Devon Price, How To Talk To Your Family About OCD Tendencies and Found Family

Allison and Gaby answer a listener's question regarding OCD tendencies and her family's (unfavorable) response to them. They're then joined by social psychologist Dr. Devon Price to talk about laziness (it doesn't exist) and the importance of context before judgement. And finally, found family! Who says you need to be related to be family? (Not us!)  Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/17mBt9rWtbbDFFZwXDS9uvzXdVDIxxWuEfHIPfy3gK9g/edit?usp=sharing This has been a F

Jan 27, 2021 • 1:25:21

The Myth of Laziness with Dr. Devon Price, How To Talk To Your Family About OCD Tendencies and Found Family

The Myth of Laziness with Dr. Devon Price, How To Talk To Your Family About OCD Tendencies and Found Family

Allison and Gaby answer a listener's question regarding OCD tendencies and her family's (unfavorable) response to them. They're then joined by social psychologist Dr. Devon Price to talk about laziness (it doesn't exist) and the importance of context before judgement. And finally, found family! Who says you need to be related to be family? (Not us!) THIS EPISODE IS SPONSORED BY BETTERHELPFor 10% off, visit https://www.betterhelp.com/justbetweenus This has been a Forever Dog

Jan 27, 2021 • 1:25:21

Beekeeping with Jessica Gonzalez, Red Flags In A Relationship and Cultural Identity

Beekeeping with Jessica Gonzalez, Red Flags In A Relationship and Cultural Identity

Gaby and Allison answer a listener's question on how to spot and avoid toxic people. They're then joined by beekeeper and small business owner Jessica Gonzalez to talk about her CBD honey company and the intricacies of bee colonies. Finally, we discuss cultural identity, where producer Melisa D. Monts comes on to chat about how we see ourselves. tw: cheating, relationship abuse Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/13b_soXkwObYPPI7Dkpz4cAlfLIrcjfrnn4V38LM0Q7k/edit?usp=sharin

Jan 20, 2021 • 1:22:43

Beekeeping with Jessica Gonzalez, Red Flags In A Relationship and Cultural Identity

Beekeeping with Jessica Gonzalez, Red Flags In A Relationship and Cultural Identity

Title: Beekeeping with Jessica Gonzalez, Red Flags In A Relationship and Cultural IdentityGaby and Allison answer a listener's question on how to spot and avoid toxic people. They're then joined by beekeeper and small business owner Jessica Gonzalez to talk about her CBD honey company and the intricacies of bee colonies. Finally, we discuss cultural identity, where producer Melisa D. Monts comes on to chat about how we see ourselves. tw: cheating, relationship abuse THIS EPISODE IS SPONSORE

Jan 20, 2021 • 1:15:13

Accepting A Bipolar Diagnosis with Ellen Forney, Unsupportive Partners and Reframing Exercise

Accepting A Bipolar Diagnosis with Ellen Forney, Unsupportive Partners and Reframing Exercise

Allison and Gaby try to help a listener who fears her partner isn't able to provide her the emotional support she needs. They're then joined by writer and cartoonist Ellen Forney to discuss her experience writing about and living with Bipolar I. And finally, exercise! How can we reframe it as something that nurtures our mind and body vs. a way to change how our bodies look? (tw: addiction, crime, weight, suicide)  Transcript: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1rmtSR7FbrIIdhhEJZE6_bnjNK

Jan 13, 2021 • 1:32:07

Accepting A Bipolar Diagnosis with Ellen Forney, Unsupportive Partners and Reframing Exercise

Accepting A Bipolar Diagnosis with Ellen Forney, Unsupportive Partners and Reframing Exercise

Allison and Gaby try to help a listener who fears her partner isn't able to provide her the emotional support she needs. They're then joined by writer and cartoonist Ellen Forney to discuss her experience writing about and living with Bipolar I. And finally, exercise! How can we reframe it as something that nurtures our mind and body vs. a way to change how our bodies look? (tw: addiction, crime, weight, suicide) THIS EPISODE IS SPONSORED BY BETTERHELPFor 10% off, visit https://www.betterhe

Jan 13, 2021 • 1:24:37

TALKING IT OUT

TALKING IT OUT

You hear it all the time. If you’re comfortable, you’re not growing. And that goes for everything – from your career, to your relationships, to the people you meet, to the conversations you have. Talking It Out is a new podcast hosted by Bachelor alums Mike Johnson and Bryan Abasolo where they’ll dive into a variety of topics. They’ll talk about love and relationships -- and as former Bachelor contestants, they’re kind of experts. They’ll cover the ins and outs of dating, marriage, family, caree

Jan 11, 2021 • 6:21

Disability Visibility with Alice Wong, Harmful Therapy and Compliments

Disability Visibility with Alice Wong, Harmful Therapy and Compliments

Transcription: Coming ShortlyHappy 2021 Everyone! To start off the New Year, Allison and Gaby discuss a listener's email that brings attention to the existence of harmful therapy and institutionalization. They're then joined by one of the podcast's greatest guests of all time (in our humble opinion), disability activist Alice Wong to discuss ableism, covid and the importance of filling your bookshelf with diverse voices. And finally, compliments! The good, the lovely and the harmful! Also

Jan 6, 2021 • 1:35:23

Disability Visibility with Alice Wong, Harmful Therapy and Compliments

Disability Visibility with Alice Wong, Harmful Therapy and Compliments

Happy 2021 Everyone! To start off the New Year, Allison and Gaby discuss a listener's email that brings attention to the existence of harmful therapy and institutionalization. They're then joined by one of the podcast's greatest guests of all time (in our humble opinion), disability activist Alice Wong to discuss ableism, covid and the importance of filling your bookshelf with diverse voices. And finally, compliments! The good, the lovely and the harmful! Also Allison reveals how she

Jan 6, 2021 • 1:35:23

Politics and Parents with Caroline Rose Guiliani, Navigating Friendships While Bipolar and Schemas

Politics and Parents with Caroline Rose Guiliani, Navigating Friendships While Bipolar and Schemas

Gaby and Allison give advice to a listener who feels they can't make or keep friends because of their mental illness. Then, they chat with Caroline Rose Guiliani about being open about her liberal politics, her complicated relationship with her father Trump lawyer Rudy Guiliani, and growing up a politician's kid. And lastly, schemas. And how do they limit us? tw: suicide, transphobiaThis has been a Forever Dog production Produced by Melisa D. MontsExecutive produced by Brett Boham, Joe Cili

Dec 23, 2020 • 1:08:57

Politics and Parents with Caroline Rose Guiliani, Navigating Friendships While Bipolar and Schemas

Politics and Parents with Caroline Rose Guiliani, Navigating Friendships While Bipolar and Schemas

Gaby and Allison give advice to a listener who feels they can't make or keep friends because of their mental illness. Then, they chat with Caroline Rose Guiliani about being open about her liberal politics, her complicated relationship with her father Trump lawyer Rudy Guiliani, and growing up a politician's kid. And lastly, schemas. And how do they limit us? tw: suicide, transphobia Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/11xJxlvPjjPNh5meaXg417nTCYOxFCW3NuHe2PLYmH5Q/edit?usp=

Dec 23, 2020 • 1:08:57

Occupational Therapy With Vanessa Gorelkin, Gender Identity Disclosure and Education

Occupational Therapy With Vanessa Gorelkin, Gender Identity Disclosure and Education

Allison reads a listener's question about navigating and sharing her gender identity with her partner and Gaby takes the opportunity to share her own gender journey. They're then joined by occupational therapist Vanessa Gorelkin to explain what the hell occupational therapy is (and provide some much needed support to Allison). And finally, education! What's wrong with it and how can we reimagine what it means to learn? TW: transphobia

Dec 16, 2020 • 1:21:11

Occupational Therapy With Vanessa Gorelkin, Gender Identity Disclosure and Education

Occupational Therapy With Vanessa Gorelkin, Gender Identity Disclosure and Education

Allison reads a listener's question about navigating and sharing her gender identity with their partner and Gaby takes the opportunity to share her own gender journey. They're then joined by occupational therapist Vanessa Gorelkin to explain what the hell occupational therapy is (and provide some much needed support to Allison). And finally, education! What's wrong with it and how can we reimagine what it means to learn? TW: transphobia  Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1zRwnpa

Dec 16, 2020 • 1:28:41

Satanic Panic With Sarah Marshall, Working From Home and Our Divided Nation

Satanic Panic With Sarah Marshall, Working From Home and Our Divided Nation

Gaby and Allison answer a listener's question on how to battle the monotony of working from home. They're then joined by podcasting icon, Sarah Marshall, to discuss the Satanic Panic of the 1980's and its connection to QAnon. And later: can we fix the divisions in this country? Or are there more important things to worry about? Trigger warnings: homophobia, child abuse.  Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1bbEcnNaZLl6CK69MKQEDEs3OsvfDi2O7rf8Yr-c0N8M/edit?usp=sharing

Dec 9, 2020 • 1:28:19

Panic With Sarah Marshall, Working From Home and Our Divided Nation

Panic With Sarah Marshall, Working From Home and Our Divided Nation

Gaby and Allison answer a listener's question on how to battle the monotony of working from home. They're then joined by podcasting icon, Sarah Marshall, to discuss the Satanic Panic of the 1980's and its connection to QAnon. And later: can we fix the divisions in this country? Or are there more important things to worry about? Trigger warnings: homophobia, child abuse. Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Forever Dog Plus:http://foreverdogpodcasts.com/plus FOLLOW JUST BETWEEN US

Dec 9, 2020 • 1:20:49

A Broken Engagement, Stripper Stories with Chloe, Hating Yourself and Emotional Support Animals

A Broken Engagement, Stripper Stories with Chloe, Hating Yourself and Emotional Support Animals

Just Between Us is back, baby! And things are...not good. To start off, Allison shares some devastating news--her (former) fiancé decided to leave--and how she is handling it. Gaby and Allison then answer a listener's question regarding self-judgement and not feeling worthy of joy. They're then joined by Chloe from Stripper Stories to discuss sex work from many different angles. And finally: emotional support animals! Joy does still exist! (TRIGGER WARNING: Discussion of kink, murder) T

Dec 2, 2020 • 1:29:22

A Broken Engagement, Stripper Stories with Chloe, Hating Yourself and Emotional Support Animals

A Broken Engagement, Stripper Stories with Chloe, Hating Yourself and Emotional Support Animals

Just Between Us is back, baby! And things are...not good. To start off, Allison shares some devastating news--her (former) fiancé decided to leave--and how she is handling it. Gaby and Allison then answer a listener's question regarding self-judgement and not feeling worthy of joy. They're then joined by Chloe from Stripper Stories to discuss sex work from many different angles. And finally: emotional support animals! Joy does still exist! (TRIGGER WARNING: Discussion of kink, murder)Listen to J

Dec 2, 2020 • 1:21:52

We're Back December 2nd!

We're Back December 2nd!

We're bringing Just Between Us to Forever Dog! New Episodes Start December 2nd!Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Forever Dog Plus:http://foreverdogpodcasts.com/plusFOLLOW JUST BETWEEN US:https://www.instagram.com/jbupodcast/JUST BETWEEN US IS A FOREVER DOG PODCAST:https://foreverdogpodcasts.com/podcasts/

Dec 1, 2020 • 0:57

Breaking Boundaries in Sports with Mirna Valerio, Imposter Syndrome and Sexism in the Media

Breaking Boundaries in Sports with Mirna Valerio, Imposter Syndrome and Sexism in the Media

Gaby and Allison give a listener advice about battling imposter syndrome in the male-dominated field of quantitative finance. They then have a delightful discussion with Allison’s former middle school music teacher Mirna Valerio, who has since become a FAMOUS RUNNER due to her blog Fat Girl Running. Lastly, sexism in the media. How are female politicians, celebrities and astronauts treated differently? Also, we released this early because of the election. Oof. Good luck, America! (tw: fatphobia,

Nov 2, 2020 • 1:11:24

Transracial Adoption with Angela Tucker, Making Assumptions and Trust

Transracial Adoption with Angela Tucker, Making Assumptions and Trust

Hold onto your butts, this one is a wild ride! Allison and Gaby start off by answering a listener’s question about people making assumptions that she is gay when she identies as straight. Gaby’s partner, Mal Blum, also pops in to help by sharing their similar personal experience! They’re then joined by podcaster Angela Tucker to discuss transracial adoption and why we might need to rethink hypotheticals. And finally, trust! Followed by Allison sobbing. We told you it was a wild ride! (tw: mentio

Oct 28, 2020 • 1:29:31

Political Drag with Bob The Drag Queen, Disclosing Your Bipolar Diagnosis and Cognitive Dissonance

Political Drag with Bob The Drag Queen, Disclosing Your Bipolar Diagnosis and Cognitive Dissonance

Gaby and Allison give advice to a listener newly diagnosed with bipolar disorder that worries about disclosing it to the people in their life. They then talk to BOB THE DRAG QUEEN, of HBO’s We’re Here -- and one of Gaby’s favorite people -- about political drag, online cancellation, queers turning on each other and overcoming fear in order to do on-the-ground activism. (Omg!!! So exciting!!) Lastly, cognitive dissonance. What is it and how is it affecting the election? (tw: sexual assault mentio

Oct 21, 2020 • 1:02:49

Breaking Bachelor Nation Stereotypes with Bekah Martinez, Having A White Roommate and OnlyFans

Breaking Bachelor Nation Stereotypes with Bekah Martinez, Having A White Roommate and OnlyFans

Gaby and Allison (and Tomeka!) advise an indigenous Mexican college freshman who is worried about her white roommate that only has white friends. They then talk to Bachelor Nation’s Bekah Martinez all about being a liberal on a conservative show, knowing when to speak up and what happens when you become famous very quickly. And finally, OnlyFans, celebrities and Gaby’s past experience with sex work. Let’s get into it!  Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Forever Dog Plus: http://foreverdogpodc

Oct 14, 2020 • 1:03:50

Healthcare with Andy Slavitt, Secretly Being In Love With Your Friend and Birthdays!

Healthcare with Andy Slavitt, Secretly Being In Love With Your Friend and Birthdays!

Allison and Gaby encourage a listener to tell her friend about her romantic feelings, even if it’s a risk. They’re then joined by healthcare expert Andy Slavitt to discuss Medicare vs. Medicaid, Biden’s health care plan and why America is struggling in it’s response to COVID-19. And finally, birthdays! Are they worth celebrating? (Short answer: YES!)  Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Forever Dog Plus: http://foreverdogpodcasts.com/plus FOLLOW JUST BETWEEN US: https://www.instagram.com/jbup

Oct 7, 2020 • 1:10:17

Tough Love: Finding Love After Divorce with Jackie Johnson

Tough Love: Finding Love After Divorce with Jackie Johnson

Gaby and Allison interview beauty influencer and actress Jackie Johnson about finding love after her traumatic divorce. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Oct 1, 2020 • 18:13

LGBTQ and Religion with Phillip Picardi, Setting Boundaries with A Partner and QAnon

LGBTQ and Religion with Phillip Picardi, Setting Boundaries with A Partner and QAnon

Gaby and Allison give advice to a listener who wants to set boundaries around her boyfriend’s friendship with a girl who tried to sabotage their relationship. (YIKES!) They then speak to journalist Phillip Picardi about his new religion podcast, Unholier Than Thou, being queer and spiritual and how his relationship to God has changed over the years. Lastly, QAnon! What the actual fuck?!  Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Forever Dog Plus: http://foreverdogpodcasts.com/plus FOLLOW JUST BETWE

Sep 30, 2020 • 1:03:35

Local Politics with Nithya Raman, Confronting Grief and Examining Our Values

Local Politics with Nithya Raman, Confronting Grief and Examining Our Values

This week, Gaby and Allison help a listener who wants to speak more openly to her family about grief following her mother’s passing. They then speak to community advocate and city council candidate Nithya Raman about running for office as a woman of color, defunding the police and why it’s so important to care about local politics. And finally, a look at our values. Is it possible for them to align with our daily life? What are our values? (Mostly dogs.) (JK.) Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free

Sep 23, 2020 • 1:04:38

How To Handle A Narcissist with Dr. Ramani, Bad Tinder Dates and Body Hair

How To Handle A Narcissist with Dr. Ramani, Bad Tinder Dates and Body Hair

Gaby and Allison give advice to a listener who is wondering if she should give up on dating apps. They then interview narcissism expert and author of “Should I Stay Or Should I Go?” Dr. Ramani Durvasula about the red flags of dating a narcissist, how to survive the toxic patterns of doing so and why expecting them to change is a waste of time and energy. And finally, body hair! Did you stop shaving during quarantine? Why did something so personal become so political? (Content Warning: Discussion

Sep 16, 2020 • 1:15:02

The History Of Segregation With Richard Rothstein, Letting Down A Date And Billionaires

The History Of Segregation With Richard Rothstein, Letting Down A Date And Billionaires

Gaby and Allison answer a listener’s difficult question about how to let a date know you’re not interested in seeing them again. They then speak to Richard Rothstein, author of The Color of Law, about the long lasting ramifications of housing segregation by the American government. And finally, they discuss billionaires and boy, do they have a bone to pick! Plus, Allison’s dad, Ken Raskin, joins the podcast for Hypotheticals. Finally! (Content Warning: Discussion of racism) Listen to Just Betw

Sep 9, 2020 • 1:08:39

Why Representation Matters with Stephanie Beatriz, Medication Anxiety and Normal Versus Common

Why Representation Matters with Stephanie Beatriz, Medication Anxiety and Normal Versus Common

During the first live streamed episode of the podcast, Gaby and Allison give advice to a listener who is hesitant to start medication for her mental health. They’re then joined by Brooklyn 99 star and all around bicon Stephanie Beatriz to discuss everything from wedding planning to representation inside families. And finally, normal versus common: Why word choice matters! Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Forever Dog Plus: http://foreverdogpodcasts.com/plus FOLLOW JUST BETWEEN US: https://

Sep 2, 2020 • 1:18:40

The Unhoused Community with Theo Henderson, The Liberal Elite and Our Writing Process

The Unhoused Community with Theo Henderson, The Liberal Elite and Our Writing Process

Allison and Gaby advise a listener who thinks her “feminist” mom is stuck in the second wave and won’t accept asexuality. They’re then joined by Theo Henderson to talk about his experience being unhoused in Los Angeles and how we can all help the unhoused community. And finally, writing tips and tricks! (Content Warnings: Discussion of food issues, transphobia, acephobia and violence against the unhoused)  Donate to Theo and his podcast, We The Unhoused, below!  Theo's Patreon: https://www.

Aug 26, 2020 • 1:14:50

Asexuality with Angela Chen, Mandatory Friendship At Work and Reframing Your Thoughts

Asexuality with Angela Chen, Mandatory Friendship At Work and Reframing Your Thoughts

Gaby and Allison give advice to a listener who doesn’t want to feel obligated to make friends at work. They then talk to author Angela Chen about asexuality, her journey toward the label and how asexuality can inform us about consent. Lastly, reframing your thoughts! How hard is it to do? How can it help you make healthier choices and have better self-worth? Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Forever Dog Plus: http://foreverdogpodcasts.com/plus FOLLOW JUST BETWEEN US: https://www.instagram.

Aug 19, 2020 • 1:14:22

Storytelling with LeVar Burton, Finding A Support Group and Emotional Intelligence

Storytelling with LeVar Burton, Finding A Support Group and Emotional Intelligence

Gaby and Allison give advice to a listener wondering how to find the right support group for herself and maybe her daughter. They then talk to legendary storyteller and superstar from Reading Rainbow, Roots and Star Trek, LEVAR FREAKING BURTON, all about storytelling, politics, social media and just... everything. And finally, emotional intelligence. What is it? And how to build it? DID WE MENTION LEVAR BURTON IS ON?!  Subscribe to LeVar Burton Reads: https://www.stitcher.com/podcast/stitcher/le

Aug 12, 2020 • 1:25:04

Documentary Filmmaking with Erin Carr, How to Fight with Friends and Working From Home

Documentary Filmmaking with Erin Carr, How to Fight with Friends and Working From Home

Gaby and Allison answer a listener’s question about how much conflict is normal in friendships. Then, they talk to documentary filmmaker Erin Carr (Mommy Dead and Dearest, Heart of Gold) about her filmmaking process, how to spot a liar and whether documentaries are entertainment or journalism. Lastly, working from home! Let’s keep doing it even after the pandemic is over. Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Forever Dog Plus: http://foreverdogpodcasts.com/plus FOLLOW JUST BETWEEN US: https://

Aug 5, 2020 • 1:02:46

Portland Protests with Tuck Woodstock, Rich Privilege and Cohabitating

Portland Protests with Tuck Woodstock, Rich Privilege and Cohabitating

Allison and Gaby attempt to help a listener whose wealthier friends refuse to talk about money and privilege. They’re then joined by journalist Tuck Woodstock to discuss the horrors of federal troops in Portland. And finally, Gaby shares what it’s been like to officially be living with her partner! Content Warning: Discussion of race, class and police violence. Resources: Tuck on Twitter: https://twitter.com/tuckwoodstock  Tuck on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/gender  Tuck on Venmo: https://

Jul 29, 2020 • 1:18:25

Social Media with Hank Green, When You Disagree with Your Friend’s Life Choices and Microaggressions

Social Media with Hank Green, When You Disagree with Your Friend’s Life Choices and Microaggressions

Allison and Gaby offer advice to a listener who wants to be supportive of her friend’s upcoming wedding... but thinks she's way too young to get married. They’re then joined by Hank Green to discuss all things social media. And later, microaggressions! How to spot them and how to stop doing them! Content Warning: Discussion of racism and transphobia Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Forever Dog Plus: http://foreverdogpodcasts.com/plus FOLLOW JUST BETWEEN US: https://www.instagram.com/j

Jul 22, 2020 • 1:16:45

The Constitution with Ben Sheehan, Your Therapist’s Politics and Societal Responsibility

The Constitution with Ben Sheehan, Your Therapist’s Politics and Societal Responsibility

In this week’s episode, Allison and Gaby answer a listener’s question about whether or not it’s kosher to ask your therapist if they support Trump. (Who would want a Trump supporting therapist?! Not us!) They’re then joined by "OMG WTF Does the Constitution Actually Say?" author, Ben Sheehan, to discuss... you guessed it... the constitution, and what it really says. And finally, why won’t people wear their damn masks?! WEAR YOUR MASKS!!! Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Forever Do

Jul 15, 2020 • 1:17:09

Sex Therapy with Stephanie Hunter Jones, Working For A Bigot and Self-Confidence

Sex Therapy with Stephanie Hunter Jones, Working For A Bigot and Self-Confidence

EPISODE 69. And it’s all about sex, BABY. Okay, maybe not allll. Gaby and Allison start off by giving advice to a listener who is distraught that her father has taken a job working for a prominent Trump supporter and donor. They then break down sexuality and sex shaming with clinical sexologist Stephanie Hunter Jones. And finally, self-confidence! Where’s the line between confidence and arrogance? Gaby thinks she knows. Content Warning: Sex and trauma Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Forev

Jul 8, 2020 • 59:55

Covering Black Lives Matter with Cerise Castle, Ignoring Parental Criticism and Biden

Covering Black Lives Matter with Cerise Castle, Ignoring Parental Criticism and Biden

Gaby and Allison give advice to a listener whose parents constantly criticize their weight and skin. How do you ignore toxic words from your parents? They’re then joined by KCRW producer, Cerise Castle, to discuss BLM protests, the treatment of the press by police and her own experience getting shot by a rubber bullet while holding her press badge. Finally, the girls discuss Biden as the democratic candidate and what that means for progressives who don’t like him. Content Warning: Mention of eat

Jul 1, 2020 • 1:07:26

Being Related To A Serial Killer with Rasha Pecoraro, Moving Too Fast and the Anti-Diet Movement

Being Related To A Serial Killer with Rasha Pecoraro, Moving Too Fast and the Anti-Diet Movement

Gaby and Allison answer a listener’s question regarding relationship timelines and the subsequent judgement. They then speak to Rasha Pecoraro, co-host of the podcast ‘Root of Evil,’ about her family and their involvement in The Black Dahlia / Elizabeth Short murder. Rasha’s great-grandfather was George Hodel, the main suspect in one of the most infamous “unsolved” murders of all time. They also get into the anti-diet movement and the toxicity of the weight loss industry. It’s a dark, but ultima

Jun 24, 2020 • 1:06:54

The Science of Stress with Dr. Rajita Sinha, Being Too Picky When Dating and Loneliness

The Science of Stress with Dr. Rajita Sinha, Being Too Picky When Dating and Loneliness

Allison and Gaby offer advice to a listener who doesn't like anyone who likes them back. They’re then joined by Dr. Rajita Sinha of the Yale Stress Center to break down the science of stress and how it affects our bodies. And finally, some tips on how to feel less lonely. Spoiler: Get a dog! Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Forever Dog Plus: http://foreverdogpodcasts.com/plus FOLLOW JUST BETWEEN US: https://www.instagram.com/jbupodcast JUST BETWEEN US IS A FOREVER DOG PODCAST: https:

Jun 17, 2020 • 1:15:55

The Power of Political Speech with Jon Lovett, Fighting With Your Partner and Exposure Therapy

The Power of Political Speech with Jon Lovett, Fighting With Your Partner and Exposure Therapy

Gaby and Allison give a listener advice about whether it’s healthy to fight with her partner. Then, they talk to Jon Lovett -- Crooked Media co-founder, host of Lovett or Leave It and co-host of Pod Save America -- about the power of language and the ways political speeches can sway, comfort or incite. And to wrap it all up, they discuss the pros and cons of exposure therapy while Gaby freaks out about ants. Stay safe. We love you.  Also, Black Lives Matter. Here's where you can learn more:

Jun 10, 2020 • 1:21:48

Meet Allison’s New FIANCÉ, Teletherapy and Perspective

Meet Allison’s New FIANCÉ, Teletherapy and Perspective

BREAKING NEWS: Allison is engaged! But first, Gaby and Allison give advice to a listener who is struggling to feel comfortable with teletherapy. Then, they talk to Allison’s new fiancé, Jake Hirsch, all about proposing TO ALLISON during a pandemic! Then, they discuss the power of perspective and how it can help your mental health. ALSO ALLISON IS ENGAGED! See omnystudio.com/policies/listener for privacy information.

Jun 3, 2020 • 1:04:31

Comic Book Writer Greg Pak, Not Enjoying Penetrative Sex and Bucket Lists

Comic Book Writer Greg Pak, Not Enjoying Penetrative Sex and Bucket Lists

Gaby and Allison tackle the conundrum of a newly married woman who realizes she does not enjoy penetrative sex. Then, they talk to comic book writer Greg Pak about indie presses vs. working for Marvel, Asian representation in comics and the collaboration between storyteller and artist. Also bucket lists! What’s on them? Why do people make them? What’s stopping us from both getting pet rabbits? Come nerd out with us! Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Forever Dog Plus: http://foreverdogpodcas

May 27, 2020 • 1:08:30

Brain Scoop’s Emily Graslie, Marriage Anxiety and Childhood Memories

Brain Scoop’s Emily Graslie, Marriage Anxiety and Childhood Memories

Gaby and Allison give advice to a listener worried about bringing up marriage to her boyfriend who went through a nasty divorce. They then discuss anti-science sentiment with “Brain Scoop” host and museum curiosity correspondent Emily Graslie. And finally, they break down some defining childhood moments. Also, penis bones??? Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Forever Dog Plus: http://foreverdogpodcasts.com/plus FOLLOW JUST BETWEEN US: https://www.instagram.com/jbupodcast JUST BETWEEN US IS

May 20, 2020 • 1:06:54

Hood Feminism with Mikki Kendall, Forgiving Yourself For Past Mistakes and What To Ask A Potential Partner RIGHT AWAY

Hood Feminism with Mikki Kendall, Forgiving Yourself For Past Mistakes and What To Ask A Potential Partner RIGHT AWAY

On this week’s episode, Allison and Gaby grapple with a listener’s question about self-forgiveness. They’re then joined by Hood Feminism author, Mikki Kendall, to discuss intersectionality, inequality and what it truly means to be a feminist. The girls end the episode with a lively discussion about what you need to know about a potential partner from the get go. Mainly, are they a republican who hates their job? If so, pass. Content Warning: Mention of rape See omnystudio.com/listener for privac

May 13, 2020 • 1:19:55

Climate Change with Jessica Wilson, Getting A New Diagnosis and Unemployment

Climate Change with Jessica Wilson, Getting A New Diagnosis and Unemployment

Allison and Gaby try to help a listener deal with a potential new mental health diagnosis. They’re then joined by Fire Drill Fridays activist Jessica Wilson to discuss climate change and how to help during and after a pandemic. And finally, a tough discussion about the realities of unemployment. Is it a “fun” episode? Maybe not! But you’ll definitely learn something! (We hope.) See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Forever Dog Plus: http://for

May 6, 2020 • 1:11:04

Planned Parenthood’s Alexis McGill Johnson, Seeking Reassurance and Sleep Habits!

Planned Parenthood’s Alexis McGill Johnson, Seeking Reassurance and Sleep Habits!

Allison and Gaby help a listener who wants to learn to communicate with her partner without constantly seeking reassurance. They’re then joined by Planned Parenthood’s Alexis McGill Johnson to discuss conservatives' sneaky attack on reproductive rights during the pandemic. And finally, sleep. Goodnight! Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Forever Dog Plus: http://foreverdogpodcasts.com/plus FOLLOW JUST BETWEEN US: https://www.instagram.com/jbupodcast JUST BETWEEN US IS A FOREVER DOG POD

Apr 29, 2020 • 1:05:12

Investigative Journalism with Natasha Del Toro, Zoom Hangouts with Friends and Our Perfect Life

Investigative Journalism with Natasha Del Toro, Zoom Hangouts with Friends and Our Perfect Life

Allison and Gaby offer advice to a listener who can’t seem to find joy in Zoom Hangouts with her friends. They’re then joined by investigative journalist, Natasha Del Toro, to discuss an investigation that involved 14 women and the many people who didn't believe them. And, finally, Allison and Gaby describe their perfect lives. (It involves animals for Allison and multiple partners for Gaby. Shocking!) Content Warning: Discussion of rape and sexual assault during the interview portion List

Apr 22, 2020 • 1:07:54

Examining Grief with Nora McInerny, Choosing A Major and Aliens

Examining Grief with Nora McInerny, Choosing A Major and Aliens

Allison and Gaby start off by helping a listener decide between passion and practicality when it comes to choosing a college major. They’re then joined by writer and podcaster Nora McInerny for a frank discussion about grief and how to keep living when you lose someone you love. And later, aliens. (With a little bit of ghosts and cryptids!) This show is wild, y’all! Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Forever Dog Plus: http://foreverdogpodcasts.com/plus FOLLOW JUST BETWEEN US: https://www.in

Apr 15, 2020 • 1:13:22

Online Extremism with Journalist Andrew Marantz, Staying Sane During the Pandemic and Sexism in Politics

Online Extremism with Journalist Andrew Marantz, Staying Sane During the Pandemic and Sexism in Politics

How are we holding up under self-quarantine? Allison and Gaby offer (conflicting) advice to a listener about staying sane during the pandemic. They then discuss the hazards of social media and the spread of misinformation with Andrew Marantz, author of “Antisocial: Online Extremists, Techno-Utopians and the Hijacking of the American Conversation.” And later, the girls chat about sexism in politics. Light, fun stuff for a comedy show! Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Forever Dog Plus: http:

Apr 8, 2020 • 1:12:33

Interracial Love with Ashley C. Ford, Proving Mental Illness is Real and Understanding Social Skills

Interracial Love with Ashley C. Ford, Proving Mental Illness is Real and Understanding Social Skills

Happy self-quarantine, everyone! Allison and Gaby discuss how they’re handling the coronavirus crisis (lots of games). They then offer advice to a listener whose mom won’t take their mental illness seriously. They’re also joined by writer Ashley C. Ford, who shares a heartwarming story about real love. And later, we analyze and dissect our own social skills in possibly the nerdiest way ever. Chef’s Kiss! Content Warnings: self harm, suicide, mention of an eating disorder Listen to Just Between

Apr 1, 2020 • 1:16:26

Olympic Superstar Simone Biles, Toxic Beauty Standards with Jackie Johnson and When We Feel Beautiful

Olympic Superstar Simone Biles, Toxic Beauty Standards with Jackie Johnson and When We Feel Beautiful

Get ready for a special episode featuring Simone Biles and SK-II! Gaby and Allison answer a listener’s question about whether she actually enjoys her feminine presentation or if she’s a victim of societal beauty pressures. They then interview the greatest gymnast of our time, Simone Biles, about SK-II’s Beauty is #NOCOMPETITION campaign, toxic beauty standards and her involvement in SK-II Studios’ six-part animated series “VS.” They’re also joined by beauty expert and the host of the podcast Nat

Mar 25, 2020 • 59:33

Being There When It Matters w/ Hospice Nurse Cathy Campbell, When Your Boyfriend’s Friends Hate You and Work-Life Balance

Being There When It Matters w/ Hospice Nurse Cathy Campbell, When Your Boyfriend’s Friends Hate You and Work-Life Balance

Allison and Gaby offer advice to a listener now and forever dubbed QUEEN EMILY. No spoilers, but it’s a can’t miss International Question involving an exploding bag of chips! They’re then joined by Cathy Campbell, a University of Virginia nurse who sheds light on the much needed support for our transgender senior citizens. And later, Allison and Gaby discuss maintaining a healthy work-life balance! Content Warnings: Mentions of domestic violence, transphobia and elder abuse Find out more about o

Mar 18, 2020 • 1:00:15

Maybe You Should Talk To Someone’s Lori Gottlieb, Different Financial Backgrounds and Past Misconceptions

Maybe You Should Talk To Someone’s Lori Gottlieb, Different Financial Backgrounds and Past Misconceptions

Why are we SO UNCOMFORTABLE talking about money? Allison and Gaby offer advice to a listener dating someone who is having a tough time with his finances. They’re then joined by Lori Gottlieb, a best-selling author and therapist, who talks about her own journey through therapy. And later, we share some of our biggest misconceptions! Hindsight is 2020! (Pun alert!) Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Forever Dog Plus: http://foreverdogpodcasts.com/plus FOLLOW JUST BETWEEN US: https://www.insta

Mar 11, 2020 • 1:10:13

The Cult of Wellness with Dr. Abdul El-Sayed, Internalized Homophobia and Having Kids While the World Is Burning

The Cult of Wellness with Dr. Abdul El-Sayed, Internalized Homophobia and Having Kids While the World Is Burning

Allison and Gaby offer advice to a queer listener struggling with internalized homophobia after her brother came out. They’re then joined by host of the podcast America Dissected, Dr. Abdul El-Sayed, to talk about the dangers of supplements, wellness crazes and other untested cure-alls being sold for our health. And later, we get super personal! How do Gaby and Allison feel about having kids in the age of climate change? Trigger Warnings: Disordered eating and infertility See omnystudio.com/list

Mar 4, 2020 • 1:13:04

RIP Medical Debt Founder Craig Antico, Managing Bipolar II and The Possibility of Change

RIP Medical Debt Founder Craig Antico, Managing Bipolar II and The Possibility of Change

Some days, you’re so happily in love that you could cry. And others… you feel nothing at all. Allison and Gaby offer advice to a listener struggling to make sense of her conflicting emotions after recently being diagnosed with Bipolar II Disorder. They’re then joined by Craig Antico, a former debt collector who turned his life around and started a charity to help those drowning in medical debt. And later, we debate whether people can truly change. (Good news! They can!)   Watch how RIP Medical D

Feb 26, 2020 • 1:16:11

The 2020 Candidates with Negin Farsad, Balancing Friends & Your Relationship and Prioritizing Kindness

The 2020 Candidates with Negin Farsad, Balancing Friends & Your Relationship and Prioritizing Kindness

Gaby and Allison discuss how to balance your friendships and partnership after a listener writes in to say her roommate feels neglected now that she has a girlfriend. Then, they welcome Fake The Nations’ Negin Farsad to muse on the 2020 Democratic candidates. And finally, kindness! When and where can we extend it and why it is so important to prioritize. Unless of course, someone asks you to get in their van. Trigger Warning: Discussion of sexual assault Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Fo

Feb 19, 2020 • 1:11:47

Immigration Lawyer Marko Maglich, What If You Can’t Afford Therapy and Healthy Relationships

Immigration Lawyer Marko Maglich, What If You Can’t Afford Therapy and Healthy Relationships

Gaby and Allison offer some mental health alternatives to a listener who can’t afford therapy. They’re then joined by immigration lawyer, Marko Maglich, to discuss Trump’s disastrous policies and roadblocks in the American immigration system. And to round it all out, what the heck is a healthy relationship? And how do you maintain it? We definitely know! Trigger Warnings: xenophobia, racism Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Forever Dog Plus: http://foreverdogpodcasts.com/plus FOLLOW JUST B

Feb 12, 2020 • 1:09:28

The Trevor Projects’ Dr. Amy Green, Dealing With Ghosting and Our Favorite Content

The Trevor Projects’ Dr. Amy Green, Dealing With Ghosting and Our Favorite Content

Allison and Gaby offer solace to a listener who has been ghosted after an international love affair. They’re then joined by The Trevor Project’s Director of Research, Dr. Amy Green, to discuss advocacy and crisis prevention tools for suicidal queer and trans youth. And finally, the girls give all the content recommendations you never asked for! Meow! (You’ll get that later.) Trigger Warning: Suicide, homophobia, transphobia, brief mention of assault. Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Foreve

Feb 5, 2020 • 1:12:12

Gaby’s Partner Mal Blum, Upsetting Art and Queer Baiting

Gaby’s Partner Mal Blum, Upsetting Art and Queer Baiting

Allison and Gaby offer advice to a listener wondering if they should tough it out and consume media even when it’s difficult and upsetting. (Yes? No? Maybe?) They’re then joined by Gaby’s partner, musician Mal Blum, who shares all the dirty details of Gaby’s attempts at seduction. And later, queer baiting and why we hate it! Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Forever Dog Plus: http://foreverdogpodcasts.com/plus FOLLOW JUST BETWEEN US: https://www.instagram.com/jbupodcast JUST BETWEEN US IS

Jan 29, 2020 • 1:18:17

Getting Diagnosed with Annie Segarra, Romantic Jealousy and Going Back To School

Getting Diagnosed with Annie Segarra, Romantic Jealousy and Going Back To School

Allison and Gaby offer advice to a listener whose jealousy is out of control! They’re then joined by disability rights activist, Annie Segarra, to discuss her fight to get properly diagnosed with a rare genetic syndrome. And later, Allison opens up about her highly personal (and scary!) decision to go back to school. (OH GOD!) Trigger Warning: Medical Malpractice / Abuse Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Forever Dog Plus: http://foreverdogpodcasts.com/plus FOLLOW JUST BETWEEN US: https://w

Jan 22, 2020 • 1:10:26

Polyamory with Shannon Watters, Medical Side Effects and Death!

Polyamory with Shannon Watters, Medical Side Effects and Death!

Allison and Gaby offer advice to a listener on how to love your body when you gain weight or experience other physical changes. They’re then joined by Gaby’s ex-girlfriend, comic book editor Shannon Watters, who reveals surprising details about their past relationship -- plus she shares a best practice guide to polyamourous relationships! And later, we’re getting real about death. SPOOKY! Trigger Warning: weight gain. Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Forever Dog Plus: http://foreverdogpodc

Jan 15, 2020 • 1:16:19

Letting Go of Resentment, Erin Gibson’s Aging Parents and N00dz!

Letting Go of Resentment, Erin Gibson’s Aging Parents and N00dz!

How do you move on? Allison and Gaby offer advice to a listener struggling to let go of complicated and spiteful feelings towards a former friend. They’re then joined by “Throwing Shade” podcaster Erin Gibson to discuss aging parents and how to make them listen (to reason). And later, a long overdue chat about sending nudes, baby! Trigger Warnings: Revenge porn, rape and assault. Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Forever Dog Plus: http://foreverdogpodcasts.com/plus FOLLOW JUST BETWEEN US:

Jan 8, 2020 • 1:04:42

Scam Goddess Laci Mosley, How To Know If You’re Ready For Love and All About Porn

Scam Goddess Laci Mosley, How To Know If You’re Ready For Love and All About Porn

Are you ready to be in love? Allison and Gaby offer advice to a listener wondering how to tell when a “lust crush” could become something more. They’re then joined by “Scam Goddess” Laci Mosley, who shares some of her most hilarious scams, plus tips to avoid getting scammed yourself! And later, Allison and Gaby debate the pros and cons of porn, fanfiction and graphic romance novels! Trigger Warning: Assault. Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Forever Dog Plus: http://foreverdogpodcasts.com/p

Jan 1, 2020 • 1:10:43

Coming Out with Kathy Tu, Cosmetic Surgery and Instagram’s Likes Policy

Coming Out with Kathy Tu, Cosmetic Surgery and Instagram’s Likes Policy

Allison and Gaby offer advice to a listener considering cosmetic surgery. They’re then joined by “Nancy” podcast co-host Kathy Tu, who had to come out over and over… and over again to her conservative mother. She’s got some tips if you’re going home to an unaccepting family this holiday season! And later, Allison and Gaby look back at how social media has impacted their careers, as Instagram makes a major change. Trigger warning: homophobia. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dec 18, 2019 • 1:04:59

Esmé Weijun Wang and Living with Schizophrenia, Anti-Feminist Friends and Guilty Pleasures

Esmé Weijun Wang and Living with Schizophrenia, Anti-Feminist Friends and Guilty Pleasures

Allison and Gaby offer advice to a listener whose friend is proudly anti-feminist. They’re then joined by writer Esmé Weijun Wang, who shares revealing details about living with a schizophrenic and schizoaffective disorder. And later, all the guilty pleasures that you should TOTALLY NOT feel guilty for! Trigger warnings: schizophrenia, mental illness and mass shootings Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Forever Dog Plus: http://foreverdogpodcasts.com/plus FOLLOW JUST BETWEEN US: https://www

Dec 11, 2019 • 1:05:00

Sperm Donation with Sabrina Jalees, Initiating Sex and Rejection

Sperm Donation with Sabrina Jalees, Initiating Sex and Rejection

Allison and Gaby offer advice to a listener on how to initiate sex. They’re then joined by comedian Sabrina Jalees, who shares her story of meeting the man who would become her and her partner’s sperm donor on a beach in Mexico. And later, how to cope with rejection! (Or at least how to try!) Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Forever Dog Plus: http://foreverdogpodcasts.com/plus FOLLOW JUST BETWEEN US: https://www.instagram.com/jbupodcast JUST BETWEEN US IS A FOREVER DOG PODCAST: https://f

Dec 4, 2019 • 1:02:12

Cherokee Writer Rebecca Nagle, Starting Therapy and Gratitude

Cherokee Writer Rebecca Nagle, Starting Therapy and Gratitude

Allison and Gaby offer advice to a teenage listener afraid to get help for anxiety. They then discuss the complicated symbolism of Thanksgiving with Rebecca Nagle, a writer, podcaster, and member of the Cherokee Nation. And later, it’s all about gratitude, baby! Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Forever Dog Plus: http://foreverdogpodcasts.com/plus FOLLOW JUST BETWEEN US: https://www.instagram.com/jbupodcast JUST BETWEEN US IS A FOREVER DOG PODCAST: https://foreverdogpodcasts.com/podcasts/

Nov 27, 2019 • 58:30

Herpes Activist Ella Dawson, Gender Dysphoria and Adulthood

Herpes Activist Ella Dawson, Gender Dysphoria and Adulthood

Trigger Warnings: gender dysphoria, relationship abuse, sexual assault Allison and Gaby offer advice to an androgynous listener anxious about having to wear a dress to her friend’s wedding. They’re then joined by writer and STD activist Ella Dawson, who answers everything you were too afraid to ask about genital herpes. And later, at what point do you finally feel like a real adult? (Um. Never?) Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Forever Dog Plus: http://foreverdogpodcasts.com/plus FOLLOW J

Nov 20, 2019 • 1:02:30

Recent Divorcée Adrienne Airhart, Roommate Homophobia and Murder!

Recent Divorcée Adrienne Airhart, Roommate Homophobia and Murder!

Trigger warnings: homophobia, assault Allison and Gaby offer advice to a listener dealing with a (possibly) homophobic roommate. They’re then joined by comedian Adrienne Airhart, who is healing from a traumatic divorce by rediscovering herself. And later Allison and Gaby talk murder and vigilantes! Is it controversial? You betcha! Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Forever Dog Plus: http://foreverdogpodcasts.com/plus FOLLOW JUST BETWEEN US: https://www.instagram.com/jbupodcast JUST BETWEEN

Nov 13, 2019 • 50:58

Disability Activist Eva Sweeney, Being Alone Forever and Comedy vs. PC Culture

Disability Activist Eva Sweeney, Being Alone Forever and Comedy vs. PC Culture

Allison and Gaby offer advice to a listener anxious they’ll never find a lasting relationship. They’re then joined by Eva Sweeney, a groundbreaking sex educator with cerebral palsy. And later, Allison and Gaby chat about comedy in PC culture. (Groan!) It’s also producer Melisa’s last show. Cry with us! Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Forever Dog Plus: http://foreverdogpodcasts.com/plus FOLLOW JUST BETWEEN US: https://www.instagram.com/jbupodcast JUST BETWEEN US IS A FOREVER DOG PODCAST:

Nov 6, 2019 • 47:13

Wags And Walks’ Founder Lesley Brog, Your Partner’s Family and How To Flirt

Wags And Walks’ Founder Lesley Brog, Your Partner’s Family and How To Flirt

Allison and Gaby try to help a listener determine whether their partner’s annoying family should be a deal breaker. They’re then joined by Lesley Brog, founder of the fabulous dog rescue Wags and Walks where both girls got their beloved pooches. (We love you Sugar and Beans!) And later, Allison and Gaby share best tips for flirting with a new crush! Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Forever Dog Plus: http://foreverdogpodcasts.com/plus FOLLOW JUST BETWEEN US: https://www.instagram.com/jbupo

Oct 30, 2019 • 55:36

Little Person Activist Sinead Burke, Getting Over Your Ex and New Year’s Resolutions

Little Person Activist Sinead Burke, Getting Over Your Ex and New Year’s Resolutions

Allison and Gaby offer advice to a listener struggling to get over her ex while in a relationship with someone else. (Uh oh!) They’re then joined by disability activist Sinead Burke, who is breaking ground in the fashion industry for little people. And later, Allison and Gaby get into the hype surrounding New Year’s resolutions even though it’s October. Whoops! Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Forever Dog Plus: http://foreverdogpodcasts.com/plus FOLLOW JUST BETWEEN US: https://www.instagr

Oct 23, 2019 • 1:04:37

Book Editor Sara Goodman, Confrontation and Our Unhealthiest Relationships

Book Editor Sara Goodman, Confrontation and Our Unhealthiest Relationships

Allison and Gaby offer advice to a listener who is afraid of conflict, despite Allison also being afraid of conflict. They’re then joined by book editor Sara Goodman of Wednesday Books, who published the girls' two novels and sheds light on her somewhat mysterious industry. Later they discuss their unhealthiest relationships and thank god they're not in them anymore. Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Forever Dog Plus: http://foreverdogpodcasts.com/plus FOLLOW JUST BETWEEN US: https

Oct 16, 2019 • 1:12:35

Mob Expert Jess Bendinger, Self-Harm Stigma and Hope

Mob Expert Jess Bendinger, Self-Harm Stigma and Hope

Trigger Warnings: Self-Harm and Suicide Allison and Gaby share advice on if a listener should show their self-harm scars in order to gain self-confidence. They’re then joined by Jess Bendinger (the writer of “Bring It On”) to talk about her new podcast “Mob Queens.” (It's about the mob AND drag queens!) Later they discuss if hope is delusional, detrimental or a super power. What do you think? LEAVE A COMMENT WE LOVE COMMENTS! Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Forever Dog Plus: http://fo

Oct 9, 2019 • 1:07:46

Pet Psychic Jessica Lanyadoo, Changing Your Sexuality, and Being Transparent Online

Pet Psychic Jessica Lanyadoo, Changing Your Sexuality, and Being Transparent Online

Allison and Gaby try to help a listener who is second guessing defining herself as a lesbian. They’re then joined by animal communicator, Jessica Lanyadoo, who talks with their dogs, Sugar and Beans. What they learn will shock the bone right out of your dog's mouth! Later they intensely debate whether or not fans deserve total transparency online. Woof! Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Forever Dog Plus: http://foreverdogpodcasts.com/plus FOLLOW JUST BETWEEN US: https://www.instagram.c

Oct 2, 2019 • 1:18:28

Drag King Vico Ortiz, Friends In Need and Food

Drag King Vico Ortiz, Friends In Need and Food

Allison and Gaby answer a listener’s question about how to confront a mentally unstable friend. They’re then joined by Vico Ortiz to discuss the Drag community. Later they share their thoughts on their weird relationships with food. What a delicious episode! Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Forever Dog Plus: http://foreverdogpodcasts.com/plus FOLLOW JUST BETWEEN US: https://www.instagram.com/jbupodcast JUST BETWEEN US IS A FOREVER DOG PODCAST: https://foreverdogpodcasts.com/podcasts/Our

Sep 25, 2019 • 1:04:35

OCD Specialist Sheva Rajaee, Self-Love and Conspiracy Theories

OCD Specialist Sheva Rajaee, Self-Love and Conspiracy Theories

Allison and Gaby give a listener tips and tricks on building their self confidence. (Be nice to yourself, goddammit!) They’re then joined by Cognitive Behavioral Therapist Sheva Rajaee (@theshrinkwrap) to discuss all things OCD including Allison's intrusive thoughts. And later they share their favorite conspiracy theories while arguing about all sorts of stuff. You know, typical episode! Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Forever Dog Plus: http://foreverdogpodcasts.com/plus FOLLOW JUST

Sep 18, 2019 • 1:22:35

Linguist Amanda Montell, Keeping the Spark Alive, and Abortion

Linguist Amanda Montell, Keeping the Spark Alive, and Abortion

Trigger Warnings - Rape and Transphobia Allison and Gaby answer a listener’s question on how not to get bored in a long-term relationship. They’re then joined by linguist and author of “Word Slut,” Amanda Montell, to talk about discrimination...in language. And later they discuss abortion. (Spoiler: We're pro-choice.) Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Forever Dog Plus: http://foreverdogpodcasts.com/plus FOLLOW JUST BETWEEN US: https://www.instagram.com/jbupodcast JUST BETWEEN US IS A

Sep 11, 2019 • 1:22:48

Introducing We Love You (and So Can You)!

Introducing We Love You (and So Can You)!

Here’s a new podcast for you! We Love You (and So Can You) is part reality show, part self-love school, and the best makeover podcast out there. Hosts Kristen Meinzer and Jolenta Greenberg (from By the Book) draw on their extensive knowledge of self-help to provide guests with a prescription for their next life challenge, whether it’s getting back into dating or starting a new career. The goal: for the guest to find the outstanding person who was there all along, and learn to love themselves mor

Sep 9, 2019 • 6:07

LIVE FROM CHICAGO - Platonic Intimacy, Circus Tricks and Apologies with Symphony Sanders

LIVE FROM CHICAGO - Platonic Intimacy, Circus Tricks and Apologies with Symphony Sanders

This episode was recorded in Chicago while on tour and may or may not be the funniest episode yet! (We swear we're not biased!) Allison attempts to answer a a listener's question about platonic intimacy while also explaining the concept of platonic intimacy to Gaby. They’re then joined by actor, acrobatist, and star of "Welcome to Nightvale," Symphony Sanders who shares all the dirty details of the aerial arts. And later they discuss the complexities of apologizing. Quick Questio

Sep 4, 2019 • 1:12:00

Ratting Out Cheaters, Chimpanzees, And Reclaiming Slurs with Primatologist Kate Gilmore

Ratting Out Cheaters, Chimpanzees, And Reclaiming Slurs with Primatologist Kate Gilmore

Allison and Gaby give a listener advice on what to do if a married older man hits on you (and you don't want to use violence). They’re then joined by the Los Angeles Zoo’s Kate Gilmore and lose their primate minds! Later they discuss taking back slurs and using them to feel powerful. This episode is actually wild. Get it?! Primates! Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Forever Dog Plus: http://foreverdogpodcasts.com/plus FOLLOW JUST BETWEEN US: https://www.instagram.com/jbupodcast JUST B

Aug 28, 2019 • 1:15:24

Asking For Nudes, Queer Muslims, and Day To Day Mental Illness with Fawzia Mirza

Asking For Nudes, Queer Muslims, and Day To Day Mental Illness with Fawzia Mirza

This week Allison and Gaby answer a listener’s question on what to do when your long distance partner won’t share photos of themselves. (Bummer!) They’re then joined by actress, writer, creator (and former lawyer) Fawzia Mirza to discuss being queer AND being Muslim. Later Allison and Gaby discuss how they live their lives with mental illness. Spoiler: It involves a lot of Clorox Wipes and positive thinking. Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Forever Dog Plus: http://foreverdogpodcasts.com/p

Aug 21, 2019 • 1:23:34

Finding the Right Therapist, A Mystery Guest and All Kinds of Advice

Finding the Right Therapist, A Mystery Guest and All Kinds of Advice

Allison and Gaby answer a listener’s question on how to figure out if you’re compatible...with your therapist. They’re then joined by a special mystery guest and we won’t spoil it for you here, so you have to listen! They wrap up the episode with an examination of advice—when to give it, when to listen and when to shut up.  Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Forever Dog Plus: http://foreverdogpodcasts.com/plus FOLLOW JUST BETWEEN US: https://www.instagram.com/jbupodcast JUST BETWEEN US IS

Aug 14, 2019 • 1:15:33

When to Murder Your Husband, All Americans Are Stupid and Tape Worms - LIVE IN PHILLY WITH FEMINISTA JONES

When to Murder Your Husband, All Americans Are Stupid and Tape Worms - LIVE IN PHILLY WITH FEMINISTA JONES

Straight from Philadelphia comes the first LIVE recording of Just Between Us! Riled up by the audience, Allison and Gaby give some harsh advice regarding a husband who won't stick up for his wife. They're then joined onstage by author, activist and advocate, Feminista Jones, who shares her mind-changing political views (Spoiler: we're all morons!). Finally the girls try to talk about what scares them and instead spiral into tangent about luring a tape worm out of your butt hole. You

Aug 7, 2019 • 1:16:17

Giving All The Information, Walking Out of E! And Losing A Best Friend with Catt Sadler

Giving All The Information, Walking Out of E! And Losing A Best Friend with Catt Sadler

Allison and Gaby tell/yell at a listener to be honest with their partner about what they want in the future. They’re then joined by journalist Catt Sadler (iamcattsadler) to discuss equal pay and publicly leaving your job. Later they talk about the fall out from Allison’s falling out with one of her best friends. (She’s gonna be okay, don’t worry!) Check out Catt’s podcast: http://www.thecattwalk.com/naked  Follow Just Between Us on Instagram at @jbupodcast, and email your International Question

Jul 31, 2019 • 1:23:33

Moving In, Allison’s Mom and Weddings w/ Ruth Raskin

Moving In, Allison’s Mom and Weddings w/ Ruth Raskin

Trigger Warning: Suicide Allison and Gaby help a listener figure out when it’s kosher to move in with a new partner. They’re then joined by Allison’s mom, Ruth Raskin (ruthraskinphoto), who discusses the challenges of raising a child with mental illness and the importance of facing it head on. Later they give all their thoughts and feelings about weddings. SPOILER: Do not have it outside.   Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Forever Dog Plus: http://foreverdogpodcasts.com/plus FOLLOW JUST B

Jul 24, 2019 • 1:23:52

Sharing Your Needs, Hitting Your Kids and Advice For Your Younger Self w/ Charla Lauriston

Sharing Your Needs, Hitting Your Kids and Advice For Your Younger Self w/ Charla Lauriston

Allison and Gaby tell a listener to speak up in their relationship to avoid losing their partner. Comedian Charla Lauriston (@charlalauriston) then joins the girls to talk about some controversial stuff. Later, A & G give advice to their younger selves and it’s a doozie! Follow Just Between Us on Instagram at @jbupodcast, and email your International Questions to justbetweenuspod@gmail.com. Tickets for our upcoming live shows are available on our website: https://www.gabyandallison.com/tour-

Jul 17, 2019 • 1:19:36

Love Bombing, Pharmaceuticals, and Toxic Fandom w/ Georgia Hardstark

Love Bombing, Pharmaceuticals, and Toxic Fandom w/ Georgia Hardstark

Allison and Gaby help a listener avoid the same dating mistakes (over and over). Then they’re joined by “My Favorite Murderer’s” Georgia Hardstark (@hardstark) to talk about mental health, pharmaceuticals, and why she participates in #myfavoritemeds. Later, they discuss the good, the bad and the ugly of fandoms. (It's you're a fan of this podcast, you're one of the good ones!) Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Forever Dog Plus: http://foreverdogpodcasts.com/plus FOLLOW JUST BET

Jul 10, 2019 • 1:23:06

Relationship Expectations, Type I Diabetes, and Self-Identity with Dave Holmes

Relationship Expectations, Type I Diabetes, and Self-Identity with Dave Holmes

Allison and Gaby jump to a listener's defense after learning their partner doesn't want to have sex anymore.They’re then joined by writer Dave Holmes (@DaveHolmes) to discuss being misdiagnosed with diabetes for eight years and how his correct diagnosis led him to become a better gay person. And the ladies close out this well-rounded episode with an introspective look at the importance of self-identity. (Spoiler: It's sort of important!) Follow Just Between Us on Instagram at @jbupod

Jul 3, 2019 • 1:14:44

Work/Life Balance, Cuban American Culture, And All Sorts of Sexism with Raiza Licea

Work/Life Balance, Cuban American Culture, And All Sorts of Sexism with Raiza Licea

This week Allison and Gaby get riled up answering a listener’s question on internalized capitalism. They’re then joined by comedian Raiza Licea to discuss what it was like growing up Cuban in Florida and then Los Angeles. And later we talk about sexism - how it personally affects us, how it manifests in society and how we can destroy it. Follow Just Between Us on Instagram at @jbupodcast, and email your International Questions to justbetweenuspod@gmail.com. Tickets for our upcoming live shows ar

Jun 26, 2019 • 1:17:18

Workplace Harassment, Sex Education, and Toxic Families with Melissa Strype

Workplace Harassment, Sex Education, and Toxic Families with Melissa Strype

Allison and Gaby answer a listener’s question on if she should quit her job because she’s in love with her boss. Then, educator, comedian, and sexual rights activist Melissa Strype (@thebiglissa) join them and discuss sex education. Later, they share their stories on Toxic Family Members.  Follow Just Between Us on Instagram at @jbupodcast, and email your International Questions to justbetweenuspod@gmail.com. Tickets for our upcoming live shows are available on our website: https://www.gabyandal

Jun 19, 2019 • 1:03:25

Toxic Friends, Home Schooling, and Imposter Syndrome with Joel Kim Booster

Toxic Friends, Home Schooling, and Imposter Syndrome with Joel Kim Booster

Coming in hot this week with Allison recovering from getting walked in on the bathroom moments before recording. Allison and Gaby then answer a listener's question about how to dump friends when any other option is "not on the table at all." They’re later joined by actor, comedian, and writer Joel Kim Booster (@ihatejoelkim) who explains the pros and MANY cons of homeschooling. And later, Allison loses her cool, again, while discussing imposter syndrome in Topixxx. (Tough episode for

Jun 12, 2019 • 1:06:04

BONUS: Introducing Unladylike

BONUS: Introducing Unladylike

Here’s a podcast Gaby and Allison were on that you should check out! Unladylike is a show about gender rules and the people who break them. Cristen Conger and Caroline Ervin tackle life’s important questions through their trademark obsessive research, stories from rule-breakin’ ladies, and a solid dose of delightful feminist rage. Find Unladylike now in your favorite podcast app. See omnystudio.com/policies/listener for privacy information.

Jun 7, 2019 • 17:45

Losing Your Virginity, Star Charts, and Gaby’s Mental Health w/ Sarah Paasch

Losing Your Virginity, Star Charts, and Gaby’s Mental Health w/ Sarah Paasch

Trigger Warning: Suicide and self-harm is discussed during this week’s topix. This week, Allison and Gaby help answer a listener’s question about when (and maybe how) to have sex for the first time. Then, this Gemini duo learn what’s in the stars for them with a birth chart reading from the cosmically delightful, Sarah Paasch (@sarah_paasch). Later, Allison shares her new mental health hashtag #JustCheckingIn leading to a bigger conversation about the state of Gaby's mental health. A friendl

Jun 5, 2019 • 1:27:17

Your Friends vs. Your Boyfriend, Gaby’s Ex, and Making Friends w/ Josh Gondelman

Your Friends vs. Your Boyfriend, Gaby’s Ex, and Making Friends w/ Josh Gondelman

In the friendliest episode yet, Allison and Gaby dish some sage advice about having to choose between your S.O. and your friends. Then, Gaby’s favorite Ex, Josh Gondelman (@joshgondelman) sits in the hot seat answering tough questions and playing along in hypotheticals. In conclusion, if you struggle making friends as an adult, you don’t want to miss this week’s topixxx. Free friendship bracelet included, minus shipping and handling. Trigger Warning: Domestic abuse is discussed during this week’

May 29, 2019 • 1:02:10

Deleting Your Ex, Lying To Your Kids, and How To Be An LGBTQ Ally w/ Jamie Denbo

Deleting Your Ex, Lying To Your Kids, and How To Be An LGBTQ Ally w/ Jamie Denbo

Unfollow, delete, block. What’s your method when it comes to exes and social media? Allison and Gaby get brutally honest in this week’s International Question from South Africa! Then they get hypothetical with the brilliant and marvelous, Jamie Denbo (@jamiedenbo) who also happens to be a mom (the show’s first parent! Wahoo!) And finally, Pride is upon us, but being an ally to the LGBTQ community is a year-round thing, so learn more about how to be an ally in this week’s topixxx. Is that enough

May 22, 2019 • 59:29

Anime Kink, 2020 Candidates, and Missing Your Best Friend with Amir Blumenfeld

Anime Kink, 2020 Candidates, and Missing Your Best Friend with Amir Blumenfeld

This week Allison and Gaby share their thoughts on aliens, masturbation, friendship, and what they’re looking for in a 2020 president. If that’s not enough they also encourage a listener to navigate the complexities of kinks, porn, and feminism with their partner. Then, the dynamic duo interview the recently lasik-ed, Amir Blumenfeld (@amir) about maintaining a friendship with his bi-coastal bestie, Jake. And during Topixxx, we learn 20/20 is a type of perfection we cannot expect for our eyes...

May 15, 2019 • 1:00:30

Setting Boundaries, A Dog Named Alan, and Dating Online (w/ Emily Heller)

Setting Boundaries, A Dog Named Alan, and Dating Online (w/ Emily Heller)

It’s tiring being there for everyone... ALL OF THE TIME. So this week, Allison and Gaby share their advice on how to thwart off emotional Vampires. Then, they talk with awe-inspiring and prolific writer Emily Heller (@mremilyheller) about balancing her new dog and her new husband. Plus: are you more like Allison or Gaby when it comes to swiping left and right on dating apps? Find out for free by listening to this episode! (Please like, subscribe and comment using only emojis.) Follow Just Betwee

May 8, 2019 • 1:04:52

You Will Be Fine (w/ Miles McKenna)

You Will Be Fine (w/ Miles McKenna)

This week, all the way from Canada, comes a listener question wondering if it’s worth the risk to break up a perfectly healthy and loving monogamous relationship for some polyamorous fun. Then, Allison and Gaby are blown away by shining star, Miles McKenna (@themilesmckenna) who shares thoughtful advice for people considering coming out and discusses his transition in the public eye. A few key hints for this week’s hypotheticals involve: a potato chip, tickling, and Ambien. What could possibly g

May 1, 2019 • 51:49

Doing Weed (w/Brian Jordan Alvarez)

Doing Weed (w/Brian Jordan Alvarez)

In the HIGHEST rated episode to date, Allison and Gaby “puff, puff, pass” along their knowledge by demonstrating how to gently turn down a friend during this week’s International Question. Then, the duo get swept off their feet by the talented and effervescent Brian Jordan Alvarez (The Gay and Wondrous Life of Caleb Gallo; Will & Grace). And, if you haven’t guessed it already, this week’s Topix is all about weed. More than your average stoner talk, Gaby and Allison dissect what it means to n

Apr 24, 2019 • 56:36

Intimacy, Baby! (w/ Kara Brown)

Intimacy, Baby! (w/ Kara Brown)

Serious question: where do you put your anger? Allison and Gaby dissect how anger manifests for them and what they do about it. They also answer Tamara's International Question about corporations profiting off of mental illness and where they draw the line. Then, the marvelous Kara Brown (@KaraRBrown), writer and co-host of Keep It! shares how she made her career transition from critiquing TV shows to writing for them. Plus, find out if you’re a terrible parent in a rousing round of Hypothet

Apr 17, 2019 • 1:03:34

Now You Understand The Game (w/ Jon Gabrus)

Now You Understand The Game (w/ Jon Gabrus)

Are you dom, sub, or vers? Do you have to choose? Do you even understand what any of that means? Listen in on this week’s informative International Question about kinks and how to make the first move in your sexual relationships. Plus, Allison does her very best to befriend king of podcasts, Jon Gabrus, and both girls open up about managing mental illness. It’s a wild ride, but someone has to do it! (We hope.) Trigger warning: there is some conversation about suicide. If you’re finding yourself

Apr 10, 2019 • 1:00:01

The Fight (w/Kelsey Darragh)

The Fight (w/Kelsey Darragh)

Are you supposed to tell your best friend EVERYTHING? This week, Allison and Gaby take a cold hard look at their friendship, boundaries, and expectations of one another. Friend of the show and ray of sunshine, Kelsey Darragh (@kelseydarragh), shares her insights on what it’s like to measure success on your own terms and plays along in some spellbinding rounds of Would You Stay With This Cheater? and Is This A Date? What an emotional rollercoaster! Also, none of this was planned… just ask Senior

Apr 3, 2019 • 1:05:08

Look Who’s Bringing Up The Patriarchy! (w/ Dan De Lorenzo)

Look Who’s Bringing Up The Patriarchy! (w/ Dan De Lorenzo)

Searching for a way to cope with failure? So are we! This week, Allison and Gaby talk through how to work past the low points in life, help a listener figure out how to share finances with her partner, and grill one of Allison’s ex-boyfriends (Dan De Lorenzo) on their past, failed relationship. Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Forever Dog Plus: http://foreverdogpodcasts.com/plus FOLLOW JUST BETWEEN US: https://www.instagram.com/jbupodcast JUST BETWEEN US IS A FOREVER DOG PODCAST: https:/

Mar 27, 2019 • 55:06

If It’s Not Flawed, It’s Not Fun (w/ Jazzmyne Robbins)

If It’s Not Flawed, It’s Not Fun (w/ Jazzmyne Robbins)

Do you ever find yourself wondering if you’re…settling? Wonder no more -- this week, Allison reveals her patented & proven scientific method for determining if you’re settling (or not). Plus, Allison and Gaby discuss the finer points of non-monogamy, play a riveting round of hypotheticals, and learn all about power clashing as a strong woman with body positivity model and style icon Jazzmyne Robbins (@jazzmynejay). Follow Just Between Us on Instagram at @jbupodcast and email in your Internat

Mar 20, 2019 • 59:14

Dump That Guy, Write a Book (w/ Maggie West)

Dump That Guy, Write a Book (w/ Maggie West)

Would you stay with this cheater? Should you break up with your pro-life boyfriend? How do you combine porn and art? All this and more on the debut episode of Just Between Us! Allison and Gaby are hopping off YouTube and into podcasting with their weekly comedic variety show featuring games, interviews, and brutally honest conversation. This week, they answer a listener’s international question, share their personal thoughts and experiences about body image, and play mind-boggling rounds of hypo

Mar 13, 2019 • 57:55

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