The Angry Therapist Podcast

The Angry Therapist

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John Kim is The Angry Therapist, delivering self-help and therapy in a shot glass - street level 3 x week roughly ten minutes an episode. With one longer interview or conversation on Mondays.

Love Off the Beaten Path: Unconventional Relationships That Work

Today, John challenges traditional relationships-- exploring relationship anarchy, living apart together, and co-creating love without labels. He also redefines the meaning of autonomy, mindfulness, and the ever-evolving nature of connection.Find out more about John’s six-week intensive writing course HEREOrder John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Vis

Mar 28, • 20:25

The Unfinished Man Series with Lair Torrent (Part 5): Is John Bypassing Grief?

Today, John and Lair explore the theme of being "unfinished" in life, touching on personal vision, manifestation, and the pursuit of authenticity. They discuss male loneliness, the importance of emotional vulnerability, and the need for deeper connections. They also dive into navigating modern masculinity, the role of humor in processing emotions, and how literature and content creation can support personal growth and healing.Find out more about Lair HEREFollow Lair on Instagram HEREBuy Lair's b

Mar 26, • 59:23

RE-RELEASE: Codependent No More with Melody Beattie

Today, John and Vanessa speak with the best selling author of Codependent No More, Melody Beattie. They define codependency, its roots in childhood experiences, practical steps for recovery, emphasizing the significance of understanding one's feelings and setting boundaries, and more.Melody Beattie is the best selling author of Codependent No More. Since its first publication 36 years ago, it has helped heal over seven million readers and continues to sell 100,000+ copies a year. Updated for th

Mar 24, • 58:06

After the Fire Series : Then the Tears Came

Tpday, John shares a transformative experience from a men’s group gathering at Justin and Emily Baldoni’s home. Using the striking metaphor of “burning down the house,” John explores what it means to shed past identities, embrace new beginnings, and lean into the discomfort of true emotional growth.Find out more about John’s six-week intensive writing course HEREOrder John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out

Mar 21, • 18:46

After the Fires: The Birth of a Memoir

Today, John shares his journey of finding happiness at 51 after years of struggle and self-discovery. He reflects on his life experiences, including his marriage, fatherhood, and the loss of his home to a fire which became a catalyst for writing his first memoir.Find out more about John’s six-week intensive writing course HEREOrder John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about

Mar 19, • 20:37

Stillness as a Path to Spirit

Today, John explores the themes of navigating life's uncertainties, the power of awakening through adversity, and the importance of finding calm amidst chaos. He also emphasizes the inevitability of suffering, the necessity of embracing uncertainty as a path to spiritual growth, and more. Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices

Mar 17, • 18:03

Risk > Regret: The Illusion of Safety

Today, John explores the tension between risk and regret, challenging listeners to rethink their fear of failure– because in the long run, it's regret that haunts us. He encourages taking small but meaningful steps toward the life we truly want and shares insights on how to break free from the illusion of safety.Find out more about John’s six-week intensive writing course HEREOrder John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram

Mar 14, • 14:35

After the Fire: Moving to Costa Rica

Today, John shares his reflections on moving to Costa Rica with his family. He discusses the challenges and joys of adapting to a new environment, travels and lessons learned, and the importance of community, and the value of embracing new experiences and the beauty of simplicity.Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adch

Mar 12, • 30:04

Mommy Issues and How They Play Out in Relationships

Today, John dives into the complexities of parental influence on adult relationships, particularly focusing on 'mommy issues' in men. He reflects on his own experiences with his parents, discussing how the emotional dynamics with his mother and father shaped his understanding of love, connection, attachment, and more. Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad

Mar 10, • 17:29

The Unfinished Man Series with Lair Torrent (Part 4): Dismantling Shame

Today, John and Lair discuss the implications of vulnerability for men, the experience of living in Costa Rica, and the societal pressures surrounding masculinity and shame. They talk about how men often struggle with expressing their emotions and the societal pressures that contribute to this, and emphasize the need for compassion towards oneself and others to foster deeper connections.Find out more about Lair HEREFollow Lair on Instagram HEREBuy Lair's book The Practice of Love: Break Old Patt

Mar 7, • 48:45

Rethinking Love Beyond the Highs & Lows

Today, John explores the allure of chaotic relationships, the transition to stability, and the need for growth in love. He also discusses the complexities of love and relationships, emphasizing the importance of understanding our past experiences, how they shape our romantic lives, and more.Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoic

Mar 5, • 18:52

The Vanishing Line (When Life’s Certainties Disappear)

Today, John reflects on the illusion of permanence in life, the necessity of letting go, and the invitation to love and live bravely. He emphasizes the urgency of embracing change, pursuing authenticity, recognizing the fleeting nature of time and to act on their desires without delay, and more. Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcast

Mar 3, • 17:46

The Slow Burn of Intimacy

Today, John explores the often misunderstood aspects of relationships and intimacy, emphasizing that while the initial spark is exciting, true intimacy develops over time through curiosity, emotional closeness, and embracing discomfort. He challenges listeners to cultivate a 'slow burn' in their relationships, focusing on continuous exploration and connection rather than chasing fleeting highs.Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow

Feb 28, • 19:30

Productive Procrastination: How to Turn Delay into Fuel for Growth

Today, John explores procrastination beyond its traditional association with laziness. He examines how it can serve as a tool for self-discovery and personal growth, offering a fresh perspective on how to integrate it productively into our lives.Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Feb 26, • 22:54

Unhooked with Dr. Adi Jaffe

Today, John speaks with Adi Jaffe, PhD, to discuss his new book, Unhooked, complexities of addiction, and the necessity of building resilience in relationships. They emphasize how shifting one's perception can lead to a more positive outlook on life, the importance of embracing challenges as transformative experiences, the often-overlooked concept of success addiction, and much more. Find out more about Dr. Adi Jaffe HERERead Dr. Adi Jaffe's new book, Unhooked, HERE Find freedom from addiction w

Feb 24, • 54:11

The Paradox of the Tortured Artist: Navigating Creativity & Addiction with Compassion

Today, John explores the complex relationship between creativity and suffering, the impact of addiction on creativity, the influence of generational patterns, and the importance of healing. He also emphasizes that creativity can thrive in a state of aliveness rather than chaos, advocating for a shift from crisis-driven creation to one rooted in curiosity.Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more abo

Feb 21, • 18:58

After the Fire, Facing Reality & Hitting Lows

Today, John Kim talks about grief, community support, and the emotional challenges that come with big life transitions. He reflects on the importance of grounding oneself in everyday activities and how technology alters our perception of reality.Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Feb 19, • 23:51

The Irony of Thought Suppression (Don't Think About the Pink Elephant)

Today, John discusses how trying to suppress thoughts can often lead to their resurgence and offers practical strategies for managing intrusive thoughts. He emphasizes the importance of acknowledging thoughts without judgment and provides actionable steps to help listeners navigate their inner thoughts more effectively.Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your a

Feb 17, • 13:09

Co-Regulation Through Love

Today, John explores the connection between love and the nervous system through the lens of Polyvagal Theory. He discusses how understanding the four states of the nervous system—ventral vagal, sympathetic, dorsal vagal, and play—can enhance emotional connection and emphasizes the importance of co-regulation, self-care, and creative actions to foster a deeper bond with partners. Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instag

Feb 14, • 33:50

After the Fire, We're Back in LA

Today, John shares his personal journey following the devastating loss of his home in a fire. He discusses the challenges of life after loss, finding temporary housing, and new life directions. He reflects on the importance of authenticity in rebuilding one's life and the necessity of processing your emotions.Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices.

Feb 12, • 25:16

RE-RELEASE: Directions For Life

Today, John hares the three key principles that have significantly impacted his life: seek nectar, love hard, and resist nothing. He emphasizes that joy is something we must actively produce in our daily lives, love is a powerful force that should be extended beyond ourselves, and resistance often indicates the areas where we need to grow. Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Le

Feb 10, • 19:39

RE-RELEASE: What To Look For in a Partner

Today, John shares his insights on what to look for in a partner, emphasizing the importance of 'ability' in building a meaningful relationship. He discusses the significance of creating a safe space for differences, building trust, the necessity of evolving together through life's challenges, and more. Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit

Feb 7, • 18:50

The Unfinished Man with Lair Torrent (Part 3): The New Masculine Frame

Today, John and Lair explore the evolving concept of masculinity, emphasizing the importance of vulnerability, emotional processing, and the need for male friendships. They also discuss the challenges men face in expressing emotions and the societal pressures that often lead to unhealthy competition, isolation, and more. Find out more about Lair HEREFollow Lair on Instagram HEREBuy Lair's book The Practice of Love: Break Old Patterns, Rebuild Trust, and Create a Connection That Lasts HEREOrder J

Feb 5, • 50:46

How Justin & Emily Baldoni Saved Us

Today, John shares his personal experience of losing his home to a devastating fire. He reflects on the significance of home, not just as a physical space, but as a representation of his journey and the memories created within its walls. He also expresses deep gratitude for the support he received from friends and strangers alike, highlighting the strength of human connection in the face of adversity.Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HER

Feb 3, • 46:14

RE-RELEASE: Stop Spinning In Negative Thoughts

Today, John talks about how daily life things (such as traffic or getting a tooth pulled) can set you down a negative thought spiral. He discusses the importance of gratitude, the power of intentional thinking in everyday challenges, and how to reframing negative thoughts. Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jan 31, • 18:13

Are You Dateable with Julie Krafchick & Yue Xu

Today, John talks with Yue and Julie, hosts of the podcast 'Datable' and authors of the book 'How to Be Datable,’ about the complexities of modern dating, how cultural differences come into play, and the evolution of relationships in the digital age. They also dive into evolving definitions of love, the challenges of healthy relationships, share practical advice for becoming more dateable, and much more. Learn more about Yue and Julie and their new book How to Be Datable HEREListen to their podc

Jan 29, • 56:45

RE-RELEASE: What You Should Be Doing If You're Going Through a Break Up

Today, John answers a listener's question: what should I be doing if I'm going through a break up I can't get over? He discusses the significance of looking inward, building a life beyond relationships, the value of social connections, and more. Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jan 27, • 24:32

RE-RELEASE: How You Know You're Already There

Today, John shares his personal journey of transformation and the lessons he has learned along the way. He emphasizes the importance of trusting one's body and encourages listeners to find calm and fulfillment in the present moment, rather than chasing after specific desires.Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John

Jan 24, • 18:33

RE-RELEASE: The Four Stages of a Relationship

Today, John talks about the four stages of a relationship: the honeymoon stage, discomfort, swimming past the breakers, and growth and healing. He emphasizes the importance of understanding these stages to navigate relationships more effectively and highlights the significance of self-awareness and personal growth within the context of love and connection.Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind ou

Jan 22, • 24:53

RE-RELEASE: Nothing is Promised with Dené Logan

Today, John interviews good friend, therapist, and mindfulness coach, Dené Logan. They talk about how Dene moved through her divorce, moving through anxiety, understanding our addictive patterns, communicating more effectively in our relationships, and much more. Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John

Jan 20, • 53:02

RE-RELEASE: Why We Run In Relationships

Today, John and Vanessa discuss the complexities of relationships, focusing on communication, attachment styles, and the importance of maintaining individuality. They touch on the dynamics of 'runners' and 'grabbers' in relationships, the significance of co-regulation, and give practical tips for sustaining a healthy partnership.Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more abo

Jan 17, • 30:07

Parenting Your Inner Parts to Manifest Abundance

Today, John Kim explores the concept of feeling incomplete and the importance of reparenting oneself to heal fragmented parts of our identity. He emphasizes the need for self-compassion, curiosity, and nurturing our inner child to create a sense of wholeness and alignment with our desires. Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices

Jan 15, • 27:25

Sex & Love Addiction with Sean Cardinalli

Today, John does a deep dive with Sean Cardinalli about sex, love, and porn addiction. They discuss the signs of what this looks like, how to address addiction, how to heal from it, and much more. Sean Cardinalli is a coach, writer, and activist who returned to coaching on sex & love addiction. Sean earned his local certificate through Linda Bark’s holistic coaching methodology and is pursuing his ICF certification and a degree in social work. Beyond sex & love addiction, Sean’s practice focuses

Jan 13, • 53:48

How Silent Disagreement Can Destroy Your Relationship

Today, John explores the concept of silent disagreements in relationships, emphasizing how unaddressed conflicts can lead to resentment and distance. He discusses the importance of open communication, the need for partners to express their expectations and desires, and the value of creating a safe space for dialogue.Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad ch

Jan 10, • 22:03

The Relationship Agreement: Ownership Isn't What You Think It Is

Today, John discusses the concept of a relationship agreement, emphasizing the importance of mutual understanding, conflict resolution, and personal responsibility. He highlights the necessity of fighting fair, taking ownership of one's actions, and navigating the delicate balance between control and invitation in relationships.Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more abo

Jan 8, • 20:03

A Dad's Message To His Daughter, Logan Bowie

Today, John reflects on his journey as a father, discusses the challenges and joys of parenting, his personal growth, and the legacy he wishes to create. Through candid reflections, he explores the complexities of fatherhood, the importance of connection, and the desire to be a better parent than his own father was to him.Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about you

Jan 6, • 16:07

How To Heal From Someone Who Hurt You

Today, John discusses the roots of hurt and the need for compassion, explaining that hurt often stems from unresolved personal issues. He provides insights on supporting partners dealing with depression, advocating for understanding and patience while navigating past relationship residues, and how boredom is a sign of disconnection from oneself. You can pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more

Jan 3, • 23:56

5 Questions You Should Ask Yourself For 2025

Today, John asks thought-provoking questions to help examine your own narratives and beliefs in the New Year. He also emphasizes the need to awaken from autopilot living, embrace change, and pursue personal goals without the fear of failure.You can pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jan 1, • 26:31

The Unfinished Man with Lair Torrent (Part 2): Men and Fatherhood: Embracing the Life Cycle Event

In part two of The Unfinished Man Series, John and Lair explore the complexities of fatherhood, identity, and emotional health. They discuss Lair's personal experiences growing up without a father, the impact of that absence on his adult relationships, the challenges of transitioning into fatherhood, and much more. Find out more about Lair HEREFollow Lair on Instagram HEREBuy Lair's book The Practice of Love: Break Old Patterns, Rebuild Trust, and Create a Connection That Lasts HERE

Dec 30, 2024 • 51:56

What is Alignment and How Can You Start the Process

Today, John explores the themes of self-discovery, alignment, and personal growth. He discusses the subtlety of alignment in everyday life, encouraging listeners to notice and trust their organic feelings and desires as they navigate their paths.You can pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John

Dec 27, 2024 • 17:31

My Break Up Revelations (A Nightcap Episode)

Today, John discusses the significance of timing in breakups, the need for healing, and how his current relationship with Vanessa has provided him with a corrective love experience. He emphasizes the importance of honesty, self-discovery, and the lessons learned from both healthy and toxic relationships.You can pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John

Dec 25, 2024 • 41:37

A Message to Anyone Who Had a Hard Childhood

Today, John discusses how the environment we grow up in shapes our sense of self and emotional intelligence. He emphasizes that those who have endured hardships often emerge as empathetic and creative individuals, possessing a unique resilience and capacity for growth, and encourages listeners to recognize the strength within their stories.You can pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about

Dec 23, 2024 • 16:21

The Unfinished Man with Lair Torrent (Part 1): What We’ve Learned About Relationships)

In this first episode of a five-part series, John and Lair Torrent (LMFT) explore the foundations of healthy relationships, the evolving role of men, and the impact of childhood experiences on adult relationships. They also discuss the importance of vulnerability, expressing emotional needs, reconnecting with one's authentic self, healing your inner child, and more. Find out more about Lair HEREFollow Lair on Instagram HEREBuy Lair's book The Practice of Love: Break Old Patterns, Rebuild Trust,

Dec 20, 2024 • 57:20

Uninitiated Men, Male Friendships, and Father Wounds with Bryan Reeves

Today, John and Brian Reeves do a deep dive into the depths of men's work. They discuss the impact of fatherhood on masculinity, the significance of rites of passage, men seeking connection, retreats, and more. Join Bryan's biweekly classes just for men in the SOP app HEREFind out more about Bryan HEREFollow Bryan on Instagram HEREFind out more about Elevate 2025 (An Initiation Journey For Men) HEREYou can pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREFollow John on Instagram

Dec 18, 2024 • 53:17

Reducing Anxiety Around Relationship Ruptures & What is Love Truly About?

Today, John talks about the necessity of repairing ruptures in relationships and how anxiety can serve as a marker for personal growth.  He also discusses the importance of openness in relationships, particularly when addressing issues like intimacy and connection, and more. You can pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John

Dec 16, 2024 • 22:46

How to Get Closure & Actionable Steps to Take

Today, John explores the concept of closure, challenging the traditional view that it is a definitive end. He emphasizes the importance of acceptance over resolution, self-generated closure, the messy, non-linear nature of healing, and provides actionable steps to take.You can pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adc

Dec 13, 2024 • 15:56

From Ashes To Us: Why Relationships Must Die To Live

Today, John shares a client story about a couple, Kayla and Mark, who faced a stagnant marriage. John explores themes of transformation, co-creation, and the cyclical nature of relationships, emphasizing that allowing a relationship to 'die' can lead to a stronger, more authentic partnership.You can pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit

Dec 11, 2024 • 19:34

How Do I Not Get Discouraged While Single?

Today, John addresses two significant questions from his Single On Purpose community regarding dating and relationships. He discusses the challenges of putting oneself out there after a long period of being single, the anxiety that often arises in relationships, particularly around the six-month mark, and emphasizes the importance of self-connection and personal growth while single. You can pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollo

Dec 9, 2024 • 20:53

How To Co-Create a Relationship (The New Model)

Today, John explores the concept of co-creation in relationships, emphasizing the importance of collaboration, mutual respect, and adaptability. He critiques traditional relationship models that rely on outdated dynamics and predefined roles, and concludes that the best relationships are built through intentional co-creation, rather than simply found.You can pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out

Dec 6, 2024 • 36:30

Love is a Drug

Today, John explores the concepts of healthy and unhealthy love, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness, communication, and personal growth in relationships. He also discusses the evolving nature of love and the complexities involved in navigating relationships, ultimately highlighting that love can be both challenging and healing.You can pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more abo

Dec 4, 2024 • 20:32

My Wedding Speech (What It Meant To Me)

Today, John reflects on his recent wedding in Mexico, sharing personal insights about love, relationships, and the importance of presence. He discusses the unconventional nature of his wedding, the significance of celebrating love authentically, the lessons learned from his journey, and more.You can pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit

Dec 2, 2024 • 24:49

Is Your Obsession a Gift or a Curse?

Today, John explores the complex nature of obsession, discussing its duality as both a gift and a curse. He reflects on his personal experiences with obsession, and dives into the importance of recognizing when obsession becomes unhealthy and the need for balance in life. You can pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/

Nov 29, 2024 • 18:02

The 8 Different Types of Break Ups (and What They Teach Us)

Today, John explores the eight different types of breakups, emphasizing that each type carries unique lessons and opportunities for personal growth. He discusses the emotional impacts of various breakups, from the initial heartbreak of 'the big one' to the complexities of divorce, and how to move on from each. You can pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about you

Nov 27, 2024 • 29:35

Unblock Your Purpose with Francesca Sipma

Today, John brings on Francesca Sipma to discuss the journey of unlocking one's purpose through self-discovery and healing. They explore the importance of addressing emotional barriers, understanding intuition versus ego, aligning with the present, the transformative power of breathwork, and much more. Francesca is a former New Yorker, who spent her career in advertising and marketing for top global brands, Google, Marriott and Bacardi. After 10 years of chasing an insatiable lifestyle, she expe

Nov 25, 2024 • 59:19

50, The Power of Presence, and Porch Swing Friends

Today, John talks to Buddy Wakefield about the importance of balance in life, clarity that can come from celibacy, and the creative process that navigates both light and dark experiences. They also touch on cultural identity, the impermanence of life, the responsibility we hold in the current societal landscape, and much more. Follow Buddy on Instagram HEREFind out more about Buddy HEREYou can pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREF

Nov 22, 2024 • 48:33

How To Reparent Yourself (Give Yourself What Your Parents Couldn't)

Today, John discusses the impact of parental relationships on self-worth and emotional development, emphasizing the importance of nurturing oneself in ways that may have been lacking in childhood. He dives into practical strategies for self-compassion, identifying emotional needs, transforming negative self-talk, and regulating emotions through body awareness. You can pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HER

Nov 20, 2024 • 26:50

Breaking Old Patterns: Why Your Breakup is a Wake Up Call

Today, John explores the profound impact of breakups on personal growth and self-discovery. He emphasizes that breakups serve as a mirror, reflecting our emotional patterns and unresolved wounds, and encourages listeners to view breakups as transformative opportunities for growth.You can pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John

Nov 18, 2024 • 24:17

It's Okay To Numb (Consciously)

Today, John explores the misconceptions surrounding heartbreak and breakups, emphasizing that our hearts do not break but stretch, allowing for personal growth and resilience. He also discusses the importance of understanding the pain of heartbreak, the necessity of coping mechanisms, the journey of self-discovery that follows a breakup, and much more. Pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more abou

Nov 15, 2024 • 18:25

How This Mindset Will Get You To Live Higher

Today, John reflects on his experiences as a parent and the generational differences in parenting styles. He emphasizes the importance of perspective in understanding one's life journey, the need to pull back to see the bigger picture, and how self-reflection can lead to emotional well-being.Pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John's Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastcho

Nov 13, 2024 • 24:03

A Life Changing Mindset

John talks about how wisdom is derived from lived experiences and how seeking new experiences can lead to personal growth and transformation. He emphasizes how by focusing on corrective experiences, individuals can challenge false beliefs and expand their understanding of love, relationships, and life itself.Pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices.

Nov 11, 2024 • 18:06

Why a Breakup Can Be Your Greatest Opportunity

Today, John explores the transformative power of breakups. He also encourages listeners to reframe their narratives around breakups, viewing them as invitations to evolve into better versions of themselves, and to lean into the discomfort of pain, so one can learn valuable lessons and shed limiting beliefs leading to a more fulfilling future. Pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John's Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HER

Nov 8, 2024 • 13:20

A Foundational Need To Live Higher (and Some of My Poems)

Today, John shares a series of poignant poems that delve into themes of creativity, personal growth, love, and relationships. He also explores how breakups can lead to breakthroughs, the ongoing journey of self-discovery, and the evolving nature of love. Pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Nov 6, 2024 • 12:48

An Uncommon Measure of Growth

Today, John recounts the excitement of having a free day, the mishap with his motorcycle keys, and the subsequent challenges he faced. He emphasizes the value of accepting life's unpredictability, recognizing personal growth in how we respond to setbacks, and more. Pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John

Nov 4, 2024 • 20:09

F*ck It Fridays, Gratitudes, and the Importance of Noticing Trees

Today, John discusses the concept of 'Fuck It Friday,’and emphasizes the importance of taking time for oneself without guilt, exploring the balance between self-love and self-indulgence. He also talks about the practice of gratitude, encouraging listeners to reflect on unique aspects of their lives they appreciate, and his new book, Break Up On Purpose.Pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram

Nov 1, 2024 • 19:25

Why "Happily Ever After" is Bullsh*t (And What To Believe Instead)

Today, John challenges the traditional fairy tale narrative of love and relationships, arguing that the myth of 'happily ever after' is unrealistic and damaging. He discusses the importance of commitment, self-reflection, resilience in relationships, and emphasizes that real love requires effort, growth, and the willingness to navigate struggles together.Pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choice

Oct 30, 2024 • 15:24

Steps To Co-Creating Sex & Intimacy

John shares his personal journey regarding sex, intimacy, early experiences, the shame he felt, and what he's learned from them. He also introduces the concept of co-creating intimacy with partners, emphasizing the importance of communication, mutual pleasure, adaptability in sexual relationships, and more.Pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Oct 28, 2024 • 28:10

Your Growth Soil is the Richest After a Break Up

Today, John discusses the emotional complexities involved in breakups, including the concept of secondary loss and the importance of understanding one's emotional responses. He also explores the transformative potential of breakups, emphasizing that they can serve as catalysts for personal growth and self-discovery. Pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/ad

Oct 25, 2024 • 20:18

The Lies We Were Sold (Our Definitions of Love)

Today, John discusses how most of our definitions of love are shaped by external influences leading to a disconnection from our true selves. He also explains how redefining our definitions, through personal experiences and emotional intelligence, will help advocate for a more authentic understanding of love and relationships in our lives. Pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcast

Oct 23, 2024 • 24:49

The Gift and Responsibility of Our Generation

Today, John reflects on his upbringing in a family restaurant, exploring themes of generational trauma, cultural identity, and personal growth. He also emphasizes the importance of understanding one's parents' backgrounds, so they can shift towards a more empathetic and responsive approach in the current generation.Pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Oct 21, 2024 • 16:44

Holding Up Half The Sky (A Client's Story)

Today, John explores the dynamics of relationships through the lens of a client's story. He highlights common struggles couples face, and encourages them to co-create their relationship dynamics by moving away from traditional roles to find what works best for them.Pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Oct 18, 2024 • 17:53

For Anyone Going Through a Break Up, Please Listen

Today, John discusses the emotional turmoil of losing not just a marriage but the life he envisioned, and how this experience led him to a path of self-discovery and personal growth. He also emphasizes the importance of understanding different types of breakups, how they require tailored approaches to healing, and more. Pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoic

Oct 16, 2024 • 18:20

Today's Top 5 Gratitudes

Today, John shares his reflections on gratitude, storytelling, and fitness. He emphasizes the importance of practicing gratitude, embracing one's life story, and discusses how his past experiences, including his divorce, have shaped his current perspective and practices.Pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Oct 14, 2024 • 20:19

How Kristen Bell Checked Me (Twice)

Today, John Kim reflects on the importance of authenticity in content creation that was inspired by Kristen Bell and Dax Shepard. He also dives into self-reflection regarding his own discipline, the significance of emotional intelligence, and the need for regular self-check-ins to ensure personal growth and alignment with one's values.Pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoi

Oct 11, 2024 • 21:43

In That Moment... (A Series of Real Life Moments)

Today, John reflects on childhood experiences, significant life events, and the impact of first impressions, while also discussing themes of sexual curiosity and shame. He also emphasizes the importance of exploring moments without judgment, how courage is often needed in difficult situations, and more. Pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Oct 9, 2024 • 20:38

Why The Barista Activated Me, Defensiveness, and How To Deal With Situationsh*ts

Today, John talks about a recent experience at a coffee shop that triggered him. He explores navigating defensiveness in relationships, the importance of personal accountability, and the concept of situationships.Follow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Oct 7, 2024 • 30:09

How To Save Your Day When It Starts Falling Apart

Today, John shares his experience of a day falling apart and provides steps to cope with such situations. He emphasizes the importance of allowing oneself to feel the frustration and anger, reframe the situation, and find a positive mindset.Follow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Oct 4, 2024 • 23:12

Happily Never After - A Client's Story

Today, John shares a client’s story about a woman, who after a long, unfulfilling marriage, finds herself drawn to a man from her past. As she navigates her feelings for him, she grapples with the reality of her emotional needs, the fantasy she has built around him, and how the experience became a catalyst for her personal growth and healing.Follow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Oct 2, 2024 • 14:00

My First Experience with MDMA

Today, John talks about his first experience using MDMA. He reflects on the emotional and physical effects of it, the highs and lows of his experiences, including the aftermath of using MDMA and the potential therapeutic benefits of psychedelics.Follow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Sep 30, 2024 • 22:18

A Recent Spiritual Experience Where I Felt Possessed

Today, John shares a profound spiritual experience he had while driving to an event, triggered by a podcast discussion about bullying and masculinity. He reflects on his own experiences with bullying, the emotional weight of inaction, the desire to understand physical conflict, and more. Follow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Sep 27, 2024 • 29:11

Codependency Series: Codependent Traits (Part 2)

In the final episode of The Codependency Series, Vanessa explores the difference between caretaking and caregiving. She discusses the repression of feelings, needs, and wants, and the challenge of knowing and expressing them. She also delves into the fear of loss of attachment, the need for control in relationships, addresses manipulative behavior, weak boundaries, poor communication, and more.Follow Vanessa on Instagram HEREFind out more about Vanessa HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out m

Sep 25, 2024 • 18:05

Codependency Series: Codependent Tendencies (Part 1)

In the second episode of The Codependency Series, Vanessa discusses various codependent tendencies and behaviors. She provides a laundry list of codependent tendencies, explains how these behaviors stem from a fear of losing attachment and a lack of trust in oneself and others, and emphasizes the importance of personal accountability and the need to develop a solid sense of self in order to overcome codependency.Follow Vanessa on Instagram HEREFind out more about Vanessa HEREFollow John on Insta

Sep 23, 2024 • 27:11

Codependency Series: Intro to Codepenecy & Self Quiz

In the first episode of The Codependency Series, Vanessa Bennett discusses the concept of codependency and explains that codependency is not limited to romantic relationships but extends to all types of relationships. She explores the connection between codependency and attachment, provides a quiz to help participants assess their own codependent tendencies, and more.Follow Vanessa on Instagram HEREFind out more about Vanessa HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HER

Sep 20, 2024 • 18:24

How I Found Myself Through Motorcycles, Donuts, and Barbells (Part 2)

In the second part of the Origin Story & Life Concepts series, John discusses three key concepts for personal growth and transformation: pulling from your solid self, returning what doesn't belong to you, and connecting to parts of yourself that you have disconnected with. He shares personal anecdotes and examples to illustrate these concepts, and emphasizes the importance of taking action and executing these ideas in daily life.Follow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn mo

Sep 18, 2024 • 17:10

How I Found Myself Through Motorcycles, Donuts, and Barbells (Part 1)

In the first part of the Origin Story & Life Concepts Series, John shares his personal journey of rebuilding his life after divorce and how he found his authentic self. He discusses the importance of living in solid self, emphasizes the need to listen to one's authentic voice to build a solid life container, and talks about the challenges and consequences of choosing to be true to oneself. Follow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastc

Sep 16, 2024 • 18:19

The Practice of Being Right in Front of You

Today, John talks about the practice of being present, the importance of setting intentions, and integrating these practices into daily life. He also discusses the power of unseen forces, reconditioning your nervous system, and the importance of injecting hope.Follow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Sep 13, 2024 • 23:40

Don't Ask Yourself What You've Learned From Your Relationships

Today, John talks about the transformative power of relationships. He explores different stages of personal development, the lessons learned from past relationships, the importance of self-reflection and growth within relationships, as well as the healing potential they offer.Follow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Sep 11, 2024 • 20:22

Friends Are Not Extra

Today, John does a deep dive on the importance of friendships in relationships. He talks about how fulfilling certain needs in friendships are essential, and emphasizes that there's so much more to life than just our romantic relationships.Follow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Sep 9, 2024 • 23:35

The Miracle of Love is The Healing

Today, John does a deep dive on how the miracle of love lies in the process of working through activation, trauma, and honest conversations. He talks about the importance of seeking partners who can help us heal our wounds, the ability to create a safe space and hold capacity for others, and how healing is a byproduct of working through our issues and repairing ruptures.Follow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoice

Sep 6, 2024 • 13:28

Why It's Okay To Think About Your Ex Sometimes

Today, John emphasizes the importance of giving yourself permission to revisit past events with exes, so you can gain new insights and perspectives. He also encourages listeners to be compassionate towards their past selves and to provide the support and understanding they needed but didn't receive at the time.Follow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Sep 4, 2024 • 20:41

How To Reset Your Nervous System with Jessica Maguire

Today, John explores the topic of the nervous system reset and its impact on our overall well-being and relationships with Jessica Maguire. They delve into the role of relationships in regulating our nervous system, how our attachment styles can influence who we choose to love, the concept of corrective experiences and how they can help rewire the nervous system.Follow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Sep 2, 2024 • 48:18

Thank You To Millennials (Let Me Explain)

Today, John talks about how millennials are facing unique challenges due to their desire for a different life than their parents. He talks about how millennials are breaking old blueprints, investing in themselves through therapy, and have the courage and willingness to defy societal expectations that reshape the definition of adulthood.Follow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Aug 30, 2024 • 24:44

Unconscious Maps That Manifest Your Reality

Today, John shares how his mantra shifted from 'who's coming with me?' to 'where am I going?' and the impact it had on his mindset and behavior. He also emphasizes the importance of focusing on personal growth and purpose, rather than solely searching for love.Follow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Aug 28, 2024 • 19:18

How Our Attachment Styles Impact Our Relationships

John does a deep dive on the four attachment styles: secure, anxious, avoidant, and fearful avoidant. He also talks about how understanding our own attachment style, and that of our partner and others, is crucial for fostering healthier relationships and more.Follow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Aug 26, 2024 • 21:08

How To Create Inner Sanctuary with Vanessa Bennett and Taune Lyons

Today, John, Vanessa, and Taune explore the idea of sourcing safety within ourselves and how it affects our relationships and overall well-being.They also emphasize how building a sanctuary within is a lifelong journey that requires compassion, curiosity, and a willingness to explore our experiences, and much more. Use the discount code SANCTUARY to get $200 off of Vanessa and Tune's upcoming retreat "Finding Sanctuary ​Within: Embodied ​Awareness Retreat" September 27th-29th HEREFollow John on

Aug 23, 2024 • 29:12

First Blow Job, Sweet and Spicy Korean Cookies, & Food For Your Soul with Meredith St John

Today, John and Meredith explore the connection between food and wellness, as well as the importance of home-cooked meals. They discuss the role of food in their lives and the connection between food and culture, and explore the emotional and nostalgic aspects of food, as well as the importance of self-care and conscious eating.Follow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Aug 21, 2024 • 53:51

Maybe You're Already There (Let Me Explain)

Today, John discusses the importance of seeing life through new lenses and the need for inner journeys to gain new perspectives. He also explores the idea of success, the impact of relationships and community on personal growth, and how to trust oneself and dream big.Follow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Aug 19, 2024 • 30:18

Why It's Okay To Send Your Parents To Voicemail

Today, John reflects on the relationship he has with his mother and the dynamics that exist between them. He discusses the challenges of evolving and growing with family members and old friends, and the resistance that can arise when trying to create new tracks in these relationships. Follow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Aug 16, 2024 • 21:40

My Coming to America Story

Today, John reflects on his personal journey and the sacrifices his parents made as immigrants. He shares stories of their hard work, determination, challenges, setbacks, and emphasizes the importance of embracing and sharing our own stories. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Aug 14, 2024 • 44:24

No Sexual Chemistry with My Ex Husband But I Want My Family Back

Today, John gives advice to a listener who is torn between wanting to get her family, but lacking sexual desire for her ex-husband. He explores the concept of customization in relationships and the importance of prioritizing self-connection before seeking a partner, the need to question old relationship models and create ones that feel honest, and more. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Aug 12, 2024 • 30:10

Marriage Was Never About Love (Let Me Explain)

Today, John does a deep dive on marriage and explains how it has evolved and transformed, influenced by religion, societal norms, and the concept of romantic love. He talks about how marriage should be about creating a partnership that is based on choice, growth, mutual respect, and more. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Aug 9, 2024 • 27:57

Leaving a Long Term Relationship

Today, John gives advice on how to emotionally prepare to leave a long-term relationship. He emphasizes the importance of building a better relationship with yourself, and creating a program or structure for yourself during this transition, including having a support system, engaging in somatic experiences, setting goals, and more. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Aug 7, 2024 • 27:16

How Do I Know If I'm Ready For a Relationship?

Today, John discusses the importance of looking at past memories through different lenses to gain a more accurate understanding. He also answers two listeners questions: how to know if you've done enough healing to be in a relationship? And how to accept that you and your partner may not be right for each other? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Aug 5, 2024 • 22:08

My Singlehood Journey

Today, ​​John shares his personal journey of being single and finding his authentic self after going through a divorce. He emphasizes the importance of connecting to one's solid self, living a life that feels honest, the significance of having a sense of purpose before entering another relationship, and more. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Aug 2, 2024 • 22:12

15 Tips On How To Be Happy While Single

Today, John shares 15 non-generic tips on how to be happy while being single which includes: creating a personal sanctuary, learning to enjoy solitude, practicing random acts of kindness, developing a daily ritual, engaging in a creative project, and much more. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jul 31, 2024 • 26:58

How Do You Know If Your Previous Relationship Is Worth Revisiting?

Today, John answers three relationship questions: how do you know if a past relationship is worth revisiting? What holds someone back in a new relationship after a divorce? And how to deal with feeling insecure about a partner's past relationship? He discusses the need for self-work, healing after a divorce to avoid repeating unhealthy patterns in new relationships, and more. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jul 29, 2024 • 19:45

Is It Wrong To Be Single at 38? Found Nudes In Boyfriend's Phone, Now What? How To Fight Healthy?

Today, John answers three listeners' questions: 1) Should I take it personally if I saw my boyfriend's ex's nudes on his phone? 2) Is it possible to be too comfortable being single at 38? 3) What to do when we love each other on every level but are toxic when things are bad? He gives advice on each question, emphasizing the importance of healthy repair in relationships and the value of discomfort in personal growth. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jul 26, 2024 • 32:05

The Importance of "Pecans" - Rewiring Yourself For Joy

Today, John explores the importance of finding joy in everyday moments and not putting too much weight on big things. He emphasizes the practice of rewiring oneself to focus on the present, appreciating the small things in life, and avoiding the trap of constantly wanting more. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jul 24, 2024 • 26:30

Healing & Repairing (The Self)

Today, John discusses the importance of healing and allowing the past to die in order to create new experiences and rewire the body and mind. He also emphasizes the significance of giving oneself corrective experiences to reparent the inner child, how to create a sense of safety, and provides examples of how this can be done in relationships and everyday life. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jul 22, 2024 • 20:24

How Curses Can Be Our Gifts

Today, John and Vanessa discuss various topics, including permission, late-night eating habits, ADHD, switching things up in relationships, and the concept of turning curses into gifts. They also explore the idea of self-acceptance, using their unique traits as superpowers, and more. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jul 19, 2024 • 36:15

5 Signs You're Settling In Your Relationship

Today, John and Vanessa discuss five signs you may be settling in your relationship. They also touch on the importance of personal growth, the impact of friends and family on relationships, overcompensating in other areas of life, subtle resentment, rationalizing mediocrity, and more.Click HERE to sign up for their next retreat August 9th-11th! Remember to use the discount code DEEPER to get $300 off! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jul 17, 2024 • 29:57

What If We're Still Living Together After We Broke Up?

In this episode, John answers two questions from listeners, and gives detailed advice on what they should do. What if I have feelings for someone who is now seeing someone else? Should I tell them? And how do I move on from my ex if I'm still living with them? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jul 15, 2024 • 17:19

Rad Dads 2: The Importance of Adventure

In this episode, John interviews rad dads and talks about their experiences growing up with single mothers, the influence of male figures in their lives, the joys and struggles of being fathers, societal expectations and judgments surrounding parenting. They also touch on the importance of creating a safe environment for their children to take risks and learn, the difficulty of letting go of their individual identities to fully embrace fatherhood, the impact of fatherhood on relationships and pe

Jul 12, 2024 • 1:37:22

How To Fight Without Fighting (Part 3)

In this episode, John and Vanessa explore the concept of repair in relationships, and the importance of understanding each other's needs. They dive into the dynamics of communication, the balance of power in repair, and the role of self-awareness in relationships. They also discuss the significance of apologizing, the need for validation and understanding, the impact of past hurts on current dynamics, and much more. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jul 10, 2024 • 53:25

How To Fight Without Fighting (Part 2)

In this episode, John and Vanessa answer questions from couples, and discuss the importance of open communication and intentionality in relationships. They emphasize the need for couples to understand each other's love languages, make intentional efforts to meet each other's needs, using curiosity to navigate conflicts / understand each other's perspectives, and so much more. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jul 8, 2024 • 37:46

How To Fight Without Fighting (Part 1)

In this episode, John and Vanessa discuss the value of fighting in relationships and how to fight without actually fighting. They emphasize the importance of understanding before trying to be understood, shifting from a combative approach to a more empathetic one, being aware of one's own triggers / reactions during conflicts, and so much more. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jul 5, 2024 • 21:04

The 12 Principles of a Healthy Relationship

In this episode, John and Vanessa host a workshop for couples, and read off a list of twelve principles every healthy relationship must have. They talk about the importance of protecting the safety and security of the relationship, transparency and communication, supporting each other in distress, never threatening the existence of the relationship, protecting each other from harmful behaviors, and so much more. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jul 3, 2024 • 34:25

Things To Look For When Investing In Someone (Part 3)

In this episode, John discusses the importance of investing in someone who has a life and the ability to rebuild it. He emphasizes that when two people have their own lives and passions, it creates a healthy boundary and stabilizes the relationship. He also highlights the significance of resilience, growth mindset, personal development in building a fulfilling life, and much more. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jul 1, 2024 • 12:11

Things To Look For When Investing In Someone (Part 2)

In this episode, John discusses the importance of finding someone with a fire in their belly when investing in a relationship. He emphasizes the need to know where you're going before asking who's going with you, and shares his personal journey of self-discovery and finding purpose. He also highlights the significance of having a passion, but to be cautious about dating someone who is solely focused on work and lacks balance in other areas of their life. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit p

Jun 28, 2024 • 12:21

Things To Look For When Investing In Someone (Part 1)

In this episode, John discusses the importance of taking ownership in relationships. He explains that someone who takes ownership is willing to accept responsibility for their actions and behaviors, rather than being defensive or blaming others. He shares personal experiences and client stories to illustrate how defensiveness can poison a relationship, and emphasizes that taking ownership is a key ingredient in resolving conflict and building trust. He ends with encouraging his listeners to refl

Jun 26, 2024 • 14:12

Turning Breakups Into Breakthroughs

In this episode, John discusses the process of turning a breakup into a breakthrough. He emphasizes the importance of reframing the story of a breakup, swimming past the breakers, healing emotional triggers, breaking up with oneself, letting go of attachments, and embracing rebirth. He shares personal insights and practical advice for navigating the emotional journey of a breakup and using it as a catalyst for personal growth. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jun 24, 2024 • 22:57

Is Pornography Cheating, Can Long Distance Work, and We Don't Play Sports with Shaun Galanos

In this episode, John brings on Shaun (The Love Drive) to talk about how hurtful ghosting can be, what "mommy issues" look like in relationships, whether long distance relationships can work or not, the inability to say "I love you," why you keep attracting unavailable partners, if watching pornography is cheating, and more. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jun 21, 2024 • 44:18

Things I'm Currently Struggling With

In this episode, John reflects things he's currently struggling with. He shares insights on finding joy in simple moments, the importance of self-awareness and self-acceptance, the struggle with sleep and the impact it has on daily life, challenges of parenting and the need for self-compassion, exploring and expanding sexuality later in life, the impact of career-related stress, the need for patience and trust in the process, and much more. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.

Jun 19, 2024 • 31:06

Relationships: The Grit, Not The Shine

In this episode, John discusses the four pillars of a healthy relationship, embracing the realities of a relationship, and the beauty in the struggle. He emphasizes the importance of chemistry, maintaining separate identities, aligning on a common vision, and building a connection in a relationship. He also highlights the significance of navigating challenges, learning from failed relationships, and finding beauty in the day-to-day struggles of a relationship. Learn more about your ad choices. V

Jun 17, 2024 • 9:17

My P*ssy Knows Things & My Wife Won't Give Me Blowjobs Anymore

In this episode, John reads a story, "My P*ssy Knows Things," that explores the impact of past relationships on present behavior and emotional well-being. He also dives into the concept of grieving the loss of a relationship, the importance of accepting and processing associated emotions, being resistant to therapy, the transformation that occurs when individuals confront their past, and more. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jun 14, 2024 • 11:09

Yoni Massages, Our Definition of Love, and Circumcision with Shaun Galanos

In this episode, John talks to Shaun Galanos (The Love Drive) about various topics including fear of missing out (FOMO), polyamory, dating rejection, and attachment styles. They highlight the importance of communication, emotional regulation, coping with dating rejection, and redefining what rejection means. They also touch on the current obsession with attachment styles and the danger of using labels and judgments. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jun 12, 2024 • 1:02:12

Complements Calm Our Nervous System

In this episode, John debriefs with Sarah and Meredith about the most recent TAT retreat on the drive home. They all talk about what their role is, their revelations running the retreats, the lessons they've learned in each retreat, the importance of breath work, how therapeutic cooking is, how to calm down your nervous system, and much more. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jun 10, 2024 • 30:02

How Do You Know If You Love Someone?

In this episode, John talks about love. He defines what his definition of love used to be, and what it is now. He also talks about ways to know if you love someone, feelings to look for, how real love is about embracing conflict - not jumping ship the second things start to feel hard, and much more. Follow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jun 7, 2024 • 15:09

How to Love Without Losing Your Mind with Todd Baratz

In this episode, John interviews Todd Baratz, a male sex therapist, about love and intimacy. They discuss the concept of 'losing your mind' when falling in love and the challenges that arise in relationships. They also touch on the importance of therapy and how childhood experiences shape our relationships. Todd shares his personal journey about how he became a therapist, talks about the changing attitudes towards sex and the stigma that still exists, emphasizes the importance of understanding o

Jun 5, 2024 • 38:06

Ask Angry: I Found My Husband's Tinder Account & Should I Kiss My Friend?

In this episode, John starts with a list of "Johnisms" before answering listener's questions. John gives advice on what to do if you have feelings for a friend, how to rebuild trust in a marriage after it's been broken, and how to handle finding your significant other's secret Tinder account. Follow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jun 3, 2024 • 30:52

A Private Message to my Break Up Peeps

In this bonus episode, John has an encouraging message for those going through a break up. He opens up about break ups he's been through, lessons he's learned from each, and gives tips on how to break through your break up if you're currently going through one. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

May 31, 2024 • 20:38

Needing an Escape v.s. Needing to Escape

In this episode, John talks about poor habits, how we all have them, and how taking small steps towards breaking the habits is more successful than stopping the habits cold turkey. He also talks about being depressed when life feels "boring," and how to that leads to feelings of wanting to escape. He dives into how those feelings can be linked more to wanting to run away from yourself rather than just needing a break, and how to tell the difference. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megap

May 31, 2024 • 18:39

Do a Life Audit

In this episode, John talks about how doing a life audit on yourself will help strengthen the relationship you have with your partner and others. He explains how the more you focus on yourself, the more you'll be able to bring to the table with others, and walks through the process of what giving yourself a life audit looks like. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

May 29, 2024 • 19:23

The Science Behind Joy and Why It Needs To Be a Daily Practice

In this episode, John brings on Dr. MC McDonald to discuss the concept of awe and the science behind joy. They explore the importance of finding joy in small moments, activating the hope circuit in the brain, and also debunk some misconceptions about what brings joy, such as affirmations. They emphasize that joy is not a silly or frivolous emotion, but a hardcore and gritty force. The conversation also touches on topics like trauma, imagination, flow states, the power of finding beauty in contra

May 27, 2024 • 39:00

Ask Angry: Am I Avoidant, or Just Not Really Into Them?

In this episode, John answers a listener's question after they've emailed him for advice about their current relationship. He dives into avoidant attachment styles, and gives advice on how to know if you're attachment style is to blame for feeling "suffocated" in the relationship, or if you're only feeling this way because deep down you know that your partner isn't right for you.

May 24, 2024 • 15:19

Divorce For Women in Their 40's, Conscious Uncoupling, and Self Pleasure as a Way to Expand with Luci Lampe

In this episode, John Kim and Luci Lampe discuss the concept of conscious self-pleasure and its impact on personal growth and relationships. They explore how shame and societal conditioning can hinder sexual expression and the importance of approaching self-pleasure with presence and mindfulness. They also touch on the differences between male and female sexual energy and the potential for sexual practices to expand into other areas of life. Luci Lampe is a mom of 4, trauma-informed sex & relati

May 22, 2024 • 46:14

How Tracing Old Love Definitions Destroys Our Relationships

In this episode, John explores the importance of redefining our definitions of love as we grow and change. He shares his old definition of love from his twenties and contrasts it with his current definition. He also highlights how our definitions of love are always changing, the challenges and beauty of love, and the importance of aligning definitions with our partners.

May 20, 2024 • 20:18

How To Show Up In Your Relationship

In this episode, John talks about how to express your needs, and show up in your relationship when you're fighting. He discusses the importance of knowing what is healthy vs unhealthy ways of showing up during conflict, and gives examples of what each looks like.

May 17, 2024 • 13:51

Is My Attachment Style Being Activated?

In this episode, John records a live podcast in his TAT Circle community where he answers listeners' questions, and does a deep dive on attachment styles. He talks about the honeymoon phase of a relationship, what's really happening when you feel like your attachment is being activated, and how to tell if it's your attachment style that's being triggered, or the relationship isn't right for you. If you want to hop into John's next live podcast episode, click HERE to join TAT Circle.

May 15, 2024 • 25:57

How To Want Loosely & Choose Better Thought Patterns

In this episode, John talks about thought patterns, and why we find ourselves stuck in negative thought patterns more than positive ones. He dives into different steps to take when you find yourself spiraling, and how to practice wanting things loosely.

May 13, 2024 • 19:43

Recovering From Codependency

In this episode, John and Vanessa talk about recovering from codependency. They talk about the steps you need to take, such as having awareness and setting boundaries, what recovering from codependency really looks like in your life and relationships, and how recovery doesn't happen overnight.

May 10, 2024 • 14:29

Common Reasons Why People Cheat

In this episode, John focuses on cheating and infidelity. He discusses common reasons why people cheat, including anger or revenge, falling out of love, feeling unappreciated, lack of commitment, sexual desire, and situational opportunity. He emphasizes the importance of taking ownership, processing emotions, drawing boundaries, seeking therapy, and ultimately growing from the experience.

May 8, 2024 • 19:49

3 Ways to Elevate Your Partner and Relationship

In this episode, John does a deep dive on three different ways you can elevate your partner and relationship by being curious about your partner and their experiences, championing their story, and asking them how you can work on fulfilling their needs.

May 6, 2024 • 27:11

Red & Green Flags in Dating (Part 3): Capacity

In the final episode of the Red & Green Flags in Dating series, John talks about how important having capacity for yourself and others is in your relationships. He defines what capacity is, gives examples and what it looks like in action, and explains the difference between having a healthy vs an unhealthy amount of capacity in dating and relationships.

May 3, 2024 • 13:26

Red & Green Flags in Dating (Part 2): Communication

In this episode, John does a deep dive on the second C of Red & Green Flags in Dating, communication. John discusses what healthy and unhealthy communication looks like in relationships, and what red flags you should look for that shows someone does not communicate well in the early stages of dating.

May 1, 2024 • 20:20

Red & Green Flags in Dating (Part 1): Connection

In the first episode of a three part series, Red & Green Flags in Dating, John breaks down the three most important C's in dating: connection, communication, and capacity. He defines what connection is, gives examples of what healthy and unhealthy forms of connection are, and discusses red and green flags to look for in connection when you're first dating someone.

Apr 29, 2024 • 17:35

How to Open Your Heart Again After a Breakup

In this episode, John talks about how to be open to love after your heart has been broken. He dives into how practicing opening your heart up in your relationships is an exercise you need to practice daily in order to create the opportunity to heal and grow from your break up. He also talks about forgiveness, treating yourself, closure, finding people who understand you, and much more.

Apr 26, 2024 • 17:08

Closure as a Bridge: Moving Forward

In this episode, John reflects on his 51st birthday and shares his revelations and insights about life. He discusses the importance of self-reflection, accepting oneself as a 'B-side', the value of movement and fitness, the power of asking for what you want, the significance of friendships, the importance of finding peace, the process of closure, the cumulative nature of life, and the need to let go of what no longer serves us. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Apr 24, 2024 • 26:32

Why Would She Cheat After Eight Years?!

In this episode, John answers a listener's question, and discusses the reasons why people cheat, including emotional disconnection, curiosity, and unhappiness within oneself. He also addresses the issue of ghosting, the fear of having difficult conversations, the importance of exploring patterns in relationships and understanding one's contribution to them, and provides insights on creating a safe space for partners to work through infidelity and rebuilding trust.

Apr 22, 2024 • 30:11

6 Ways To Love Deeper

In this episode, John explores the different dimensions of intimacy, including emotional, spiritual, mental, passionate, physical, and energy intimacy. He emphasizes the importance of creating a safe space for emotional vulnerability, engaging in meaningful conversations, and practicing empathy and compassion. He also highlights the significance of continuous self-examination and personal growth in building deep, true intimacy, and provides practical suggestions for cultivating a deeper level of

Apr 19, 2024 • 30:01

Liberated Love with Mark Groves

In this episode, John brings on Mark Groves to discuss his book 'Liberated Love' and the journey of relationships. Mark shares his personal experience of going through Relationship 1.0 and 2.0 with his partner. They discuss codependency, the importance of self-erasure in relationships, the role of the nervous system in relationships, and the signs of losing oneself in a relationship. They also touch on the considerations in deciding whether to stay or go in a relationship, the hierarchy of ideal

Apr 17, 2024 • 49:58

Unhealthy Behaviors We Mistake For Love

In this episode, John gives us a list of unhealthy behaviors we mistake for love in dating and our relationships. He talks about why we're attracted to unhealthy behavior, and does a deep dive on how we might exhibit some of these behaviors in current or past relationships without realizing it.

Apr 15, 2024 • 18:55

If You've Been Cheated On, Ask Yourself This

In this episode, John talks about the challenges people face when they stay in a relationship after infidelity. He encourages people who are in this situation to ask themselves a very important question: why are you staying in this relationship? Especially when there hasn't been any growth, or change on the other person's end.

Apr 12, 2024 • 13:20

Math, Kindness, and the Red Helicopter Story with James Rhee

In this episode, John talks to James Rhee about his journey as a Korean American and experiences in leadership. He shares the story of the red helicopter and how it impacted his perspective on kindness. James explains his philosophy of kindness in math, how he designs systems that reward true agency, the importance of joy and finding contentment in everyday moments, the significance of championing Asian-Americans in media, and the positive changes happening in representation.  James Rhee is a hi

Apr 10, 2024 • 50:14

In Bloom Panel: Answering Your Love & Relationship Questions

In this exciting episode, John hosts a panel with the speakers for the upcoming In Bloom: A Love and Relationships Summit. They talk about everything love and relationships including artificial intimacy, sex as a cultural and relational issue, emotional availability, and the practice of interdependence. The conversation also touches on communication in relationships, the challenges of navigating different attachment styles, the importance of understanding and empathy in relationships, rather tha

Apr 8, 2024 • 39:57

20 Things Men Should Have By 40

In this episode, John shares his thoughts on the twenty things every man should have or have done by age forty. He covers a wide range of topics including: finding purpose, developing personal style, maintaining good credit, experiencing heartbreak, expressing love for other men, setting boundaries with parents, saving and investing, practicing forgiveness, experiencing rebirth, and much more.

Apr 5, 2024 • 33:56

A Real Couples Session: Did We Move In & Get Married Too Quickly?

In this episode, John talks with Keila and Joe about their relationship history, communication issues, and recent conflicts. They also talk about the baggage from past relationships, the challenges of feeling safe and secure, external stressors, different social lives, and the pressure to be everything for each other. They also discuss the impact of living together and the pressure of time and fertility. John ends this episode with a little behind the scenes commentary on the reality of recordin

Apr 3, 2024 • 47:29

Cheating is Complicated

In this episode, John talks about how complicated the aftermath of cheating is. He talks about the importance of not taking things personally, forgiveness if you want to repair the relationship, why people cheat, how to heal if you've been cheated on, and more.

Apr 1, 2024 • 13:36

Reflecting on 15 Years of Posting on Social Media

In this episode, John reflects on his personal growth journey through social media and the power of documenting one's story. He shares how he found his voice and embodied his potential through podcasting. John also discusses the importance of building a local community and serving others. He explores themes of love, relationships, acceptance, and the need to surrender and let go. He also emphasizes the significance of dreaming and staying curious throughout life.

Mar 29, 2024 • 14:50

Is Non-Monogamy For Me? with Annie Undone

In this episode, John talks to Annie Undone about monogamous vs non-monogamous relationships. They talks about what non-monogamy is, what is looks like in a romantic relationship, what judgements surround non-monogamy, debunk myths about non-monogamy, how to be in a healthy non-monogamous relationships, and more. Annie is an artist and writer working to normalize diverse relationship styles and varied sexual experiences. She is a queer, kinky, relationship anarchist on a mission to incite indivi

Mar 27, 2024 • 41:24

Answering Vanity Fair's Proust Questionnaire

In this episode, John answers all of Vanity Fair's Proust questions, and does a deep with each answer. He shares vulnerable moments of his life by talking about his childhood, happiness and fears, his current state of mind and struggles, occasional lies he's told, and more.

Mar 25, 2024 • 47:31

Emotional Vampires, Much Needed Alone Time, and Getting Excited About Aging with Corinne Fisher and Christina Hutchinson

In this episode, John brings back the hosts of "Guys We Fucked," Corinne Fisher and Christina Hutchinson, to discuss the lasting influence of childhood on adult life, emotional vampires, the necessity of solitude for creativity, and their positive outlook on aging. They also delve into how childhood experiences shape self-worth and emotional health, with personal anecdotes about family dynamics, and more. You can find out more about Guys We F*cked HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind o

Mar 22, 2024 • 1:07:25

Personal Shares and Revelations From The Miserable F*cks Retreat March '24

In this emotional episode, John and his retreat members get vulnerable and share their experience attending March's Miserable F*cks Retreat. They dive into why they decided to attend this month's retreat, what fears they have going through with experience with strangers, what feelings were brought up that they had to work through, and much more.

Mar 20, 2024 • 47:10

Getting Schooled on Mental Load, "Nagging," and Lopsided Domestic Labor with Zachary Watson

In this episode, John talks with Zach Watson to discuss the topic of mental load and domestic labor distribution. They explore the challenges and controversies surrounding this topic, particularly in relation to men's responses. They explore the role of childhood experiences in shaping perspectives, the need for understanding and empathy, the challenges faced by breadwinners, and the concept of the default parent. They also touch upon the influence of a capitalist society on the perception of va

Mar 18, 2024 • 43:37

How To Be The Love You Seek with Nicole LePera

In this episode, John does a live podcast with Nicole LePera (The Holistic Psychologist) where they talk about breaking old patterns and generational cycles, how to open your heart to yourself and others, what manifestation really is, getting in touch with our nervous systems, finding peace within ourselves, having empathy for our parents, masculine and feminine energy, Nicole's new book "How To Be The Love You Seek," and more. You can purchase Nicole's book here: https://howtobethelove

Mar 15, 2024 • 1:22:18

There's Nothing To Figure Out (Let Me Explain)

In this episode, John discusses the importance of embracing singleness as a time for personal growth and self-discovery. He challenges the notion that everything in life needs to be figured out and emphasizes the value of exploring oneself during periods of singleness. He also highlights the misconception that happiness is dependent on being in a relationship and encourages individuals to redefine their concepts of singlehood.  Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking

Mar 13, 2024 • 16:59

Empowering Women to Play with Domme Colette Pervette, PhD

In this episode, John talks with Colette, a professional dominatrix, and discusses her work and the world of BDSM. She shares her definition of being a dominatrix and explains that her clients come to her to explore surrender and alternative sexuality. Colette also shares her immigrant story and how her upbringing influenced her career choice. She also discusses her journey into the dominatrix world, the evolution of her work, the difference between her professional and personal life and how she

Mar 11, 2024 • 44:09

SOP Book Reading & Commentary Series (The Intro)

In this episode, John introduces his series where he reads excerpts from his book 'Single On Purpose' and provides commentary. He explains that the goal of doing this series is a commitment to engage with his audience and not 'sneak out the back' like he tends to do. John shares his personal experiences with loneliness, rejection, and losing oneself in relationships. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage fam

Mar 8, 2024 • 10:50

How Codependency Impacts Our Relationships

In this episode, John and Vanessa talk about how codependency impacts our relationships with others along with the relationship we have with our selves. They talk about what codependency and enmeshment looks like in our relationships, how attachment styles come into play, and how they have healed from their codependency issues with each other and others. Want to dive more into these topics as a couple? John and Vanessa are hosting an in person couples retreat in Idyllwild, CA April 19-21st! You

Mar 6, 2024 • 19:54

From Love in Our 20's to Love in Our 50's

In this episode, John talks about how love evolves and changes as we grow older. In our 20s and 30s, love is about late-night conversations, romantic gestures, and finding self-value in another person. In our 40s and 50s, love becomes more about creating a shared space, being non-possessive, and prioritizing each other's well-being. He also talks about how the millennial generation is redefining love and relationships, prioritizing honesty, growth, and individuality. Roughly ten minutes of self

Mar 4, 2024 • 17:42

A Real Couples Session: How to Make It Work Against All Odds

On this real couples session, Brianna and Tanner come back to discuss the changes in their drinking habits and the positive impact it has had on their relationship. They express their desire to work on individual goals, such as better communication and overcoming fear. They explore the importance of taking a beat before responding and understanding each other's triggers. They also discuss the weight of not wanting to screw up the relationship and the fear of losing each other.Roughly ten minutes

Mar 1, 2024 • 39:01

The Road to Regulation with Sarah Baldwin

In this episode, John talks to Sarah Baldwin about the importance of regulating the nervous system and the nuances of regulation. They explore how functional fitness and various daily activities can help regulate the nervous system. Sarah shares her personal journey of healing from complex trauma and how it led her to become a trauma-informed therapist. She also discusses the effects of trauma on the nervous system and emphasizes the importance of somatic work for trauma resolution, and gives pr

Feb 28, 2024 • 58:38

How To Relationship Better with Vanessa Bennett

In this episode, John and Vanessa discuss various aspects of relationships and provide insights and strategies for building healthier connections. They draw from their personal experiences as licensed marriage and family therapists and individuals who have been in multiple relationships. They also cover topics such as codependency, loving without past baggage, attachment styles and love languages, fighting without fighting, and creating new experiences in relationships. Want to dive more into th

Feb 26, 2024 • 22:30

Stop Holding In Your Pee & Live a Heart Centered Life

In this episode, John talks about how how our hearts are always competing with our brains (logic). He also dives into how important living a heart centered life is, what that looks like in your every day, how to start living a heart centered life, and why you should stop holding in your pee (stop settling for discomfort).This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/angry and start building a better relationship with yourself.Roughly ten minutes of sel

Feb 23, 2024 • 15:17

A Real Couples Session: Fear The Relationship Will End & Self Soothing Childhood Wounds

In this real couples session, Brianna and Tanner discuss their communication challenges and the activations of their childhood wounds in their relationship. They explore how Brianna struggles with feeling heard and Tanner struggles with effectively communicating his feelings. John highlights the importance of taking ownership, creating a safe space, and self-soothing in order to overcome these challenges and build a stronger relationship.This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online

Feb 21, 2024 • 32:38

Priority List For 2024 (Deeper)

In this episode, John shares his priority list for 2024. He discusses the importance of living on a higher frequency and practicing positive thinking. He emphasizes the power of belief and the impact it can have on achieving personal goals, the significance of taking a beat before responding, continuously proving oneself wrong, the importance of getting stronger, seeking more adventures, and loving one's partner in new ways.  This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a t

Feb 19, 2024 • 31:55

A Real Couples Session - Trauma Bonds & "Wait, You Didn't Tell Him This Was Going To Be Recorded?!"

In this real couples session, John speaks with Bri about her on-and-off relationship with Doug. They discuss their trauma bond, the challenges they faced, and the possibility of giving their relationship another chance. Bri expresses her desire to heal past hurts, build trust, and set boundaries. John emphasizes the importance of open communication, understanding triggers, and creating new experiences to lay the foundation for a healthy relationship. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot gl

Feb 16, 2024 • 20:28

What Are Cognitive Distortions?

In this episode, John talks about negative thinking and gives examples of the different types of cognitive distortions everyone has, or have experienced. He also talks about his own experience with them, and gives tips on how to catch yourself spiraling down certain cognitive distortions and what to do to stop the spiral. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Ki

Feb 14, 2024 • 19:05

Passport to Shame with Sam Louie

In this episode, John brings on his old friend, Sam Louie, to discuss the topic of shame. They share their personal experiences growing up with shame, including racial discrimination and cultural differences. They also discuss the impact of early exposure to pornography, the coping mechanisms they developed, the role of shame in their adult lives, particularly in the context of divorce, and discuss strategies for working through shame and the importance of sharing one's story.   Sam Louie has a

Feb 12, 2024 • 47:10

A Real Couples Session - Married Young with 3 Kids and Allowing This Marriage To Die So a New One Can Be Born

In this real couples session, John explores the challenges faced by a couple in their marriage and their journey towards personal growth and rebuilding their relationship. The couple discusses their struggles with work-life balance, the impact of cultural and religious expectations, and the need for self-discovery and self-love. They share their experiences of moving back and forth between countries, the importance of taking time apart, and the process of reevaluating priorities. John highlights

Feb 9, 2024 • 58:29

What is Codependency?

In this episode, John and Vanessa do a deep dive on codependency. They define it, give examples on what it looks like in relationships, talk about how they struggle with codependency in their own and previous relationships, and end with a homework assignment for their listeners. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as w

Feb 7, 2024 • 21:06

Do You F*cking Mind with Alexis Fernandez

In this episode, John interviews Alexis, the host of the podcast 'Do You F*ckin' Mind?' They discuss Alexis' journey of personal growth and overcoming heartbreak. Alexis shares her struggle to switch off and find peace in her daily life. She also emphasizes the importance of managing social media use, being intentional about where we place our attention, and highlights the value of purpose, encouraging listeners to find small ways to make a positive impact on others. You can find more informatio

Feb 5, 2024 • 49:40

A Real Couples Session - Infidelity, Broken Trust, & Empty Nesters

In this couples session, John talks with Laura and Martin have been together for 22 years and have faced multiple betrayals and traumas in their relationship. Laura has been unfaithful on multiple occasions, while Martin had his own secret infidelity. The couple has spent years in secrecy and deception, leading to a lack of trust and respect. They are now working on rebuilding their relationship and changing their behavior. Laura emphasizes the need for Martin to prioritize showing respect and k

Feb 2, 2024 • 47:06

Ask Angry - How Do I Stop Being Sexually Upset With My Partner?

In this episode, John answers and gives advice on two listeners' questions: how do I stop being sexually mad at my partner, and should I tell her before we go on vacation? And how do I let go of a break up that I can't get over? Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the cur

Jan 31, 2024 • 19:18

Know Your Love Patterns

In this episode, John talks about how you can bring more to the table in your relationships by knowing what your love patterns are. He also talks about how loving with our past creates unhealthy behaviors and can subtly destroy our relationships, how to resolve conflict, and whether you're holding or grabbing in your relationship.  Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling autho

Jan 29, 2024 • 22:49

A Real Couples Session - Unseen / Unappreciated with Two Kids, & Helping with Mental Loads

In this powerful conversation, John does a live couples session with Jenny and Sean and discuss the challenges they face as parents and partners. They explore topics such as struggling with identity and grief, balancing work and parenting, communicating and resolving conflict, past trauma and insecurities, the impact of previous relationships, the desire for appreciation and validation, recognizing each other's needs, improving communication and understanding, feeling invisible and overlooked, s

Jan 26, 2024 • 42:10

The Good Gospel of Just Leave, the Art of the Slow Burn, & Hocking Loogies with Tanya Antonio

In this episode, John talks to Tanya Antonio, and they discuss the process of letting go of a passion and finding new paths in life. They also give advice on how to cope with a breakup, building chemistry in relationships, the importance of embracing new experiences, and being open to unexpected opportunities. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares hi

Jan 24, 2024 • 55:20

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Jan 22, 2024 • 18:30

My F*cking Feelings (12/27/23)

In this episode, John does a half century life check in inside of a sauna. He talks about the evolution of social media, how far he's come since writing his first Angry Therapist blog post titled "My F*cking Feelings," how therapeutic writing on Tumblr was for him, what he's currently struggling with, and how he continues to share his truth and state without any edits.  Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage

Jan 19, 2024 • 24:40

Discussing Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents

In this episode, John and Vanessa record a podcast episode on the go. They talk about how emotional immaturity and codependency are connected, what adult children of emotionally immature parents look like, and how to be aware of when you're being emotionally immature. They give real examples of how it shows up, and how to work through it, so it doesn't affect your relationships.  Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place.

Jan 17, 2024 • 22:46

Trauma in Relationships

In this episode, John and MC host a live workshop to talk about what trauma looks like in our relationships. They also talk about why it's so hard to leave a trauma bond, and how much shame someone can feel for not leaving sooner.  Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the

Jan 15, 2024 • 16:09

Urgent Message: Your Growth Soil Can Calcify

In this episode, John explores the importance of using singlehood as a chance to grow and develop yourself. He also highlights the dangers of running away from your pain, and filling it with distractions and other relationships which will "calcify" your growth.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights fro

Jan 12, 2024 • 18:47

Why We Cheat, Reflections of 23', & Sexless Marriages

In this episode, John and Vanessa discuss personal growth, the cost of living, supporting each other's growth, why people cheat in relationships, and what's happening behind closed doors in sexless marriages. They emphasize the importance of championing each other's stories and working through challenges in relationships, and conclude with reflections on the past year and the hope for new beginnings in the future.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glas

Jan 10, 2024 • 33:09

Redefining Trauma

In this episode, John and Dr. MC McDonald redefine trauma. They talk about what trauma is and isn't, examples of different types of trauma, how trauma rewires the brain, and what steps you can take to start healing your trauma. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curt

Jan 8, 2024 • 24:38

Healing From Trauma

In this episode, John and Dr. MC McDonald do a deep dive on how to heal from trauma and break free from trauma bonds. They talk about what healing looks like, how it doesn't happen overnight, examples of what healing looks like, how to let go of someone you are trauma bonded with, the difference between a "safe" and "unsafe" person, and more. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-se

Jan 5, 2024 • 12:18

Bonding Through Trauma

In this episode, John and Dr. MC McDonald talk about why people "bond through trauma." They also talk about trauma bonds, what they are, how to heal from them, and debunk a lot of myths and false information that's being spread about them on social media. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his

Jan 3, 2024 • 14:01

The New Year Episode: What's Gone & What's Now Here For Us

In this episode, John discusses the concept of letting go and embracing change. He emphasizes the importance of not holding onto things that don't belong to us, such as parental expectations or grudges from the past. He highlights the significance of being present, engaging in life, taking action instead of "trusting the universe," and connecting with one's true self. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage fa

Jan 1, 2024 • 16:48

Dear Future Self

In this episode, John reads an old letter he wrote to his future self. The letter contains reminders about what his past has taught him, how important practicing gratitude is, the difference between chasing your goals and pursing your goals, how to dream big, and more. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as ins

Dec 29, 2023 • 6:24

Shame Cakes & "Chasing Pigeons" with 8 Men at the Miserable F*cks Retreat

In this powerful and emotional episode, all eight men who attended John's most recent Miserable F*cks Retreat get extremely vulnerable about what revelations they had about themselves and their lives during the retreat. They all open up about their struggles with vulnerability, current relationships, divorce, loss of loved ones, addiction / getting sober, being homeless, letting go of shame, past behaviors that no longer align with them, and more. John's next Miserable F*cks Retreat is COED and

Dec 27, 2023 • 19:06

"Indigenous Brothers" - A Locker Room Term with Jeff Scarborough (Mr. Cum Clarity)

In this episode, John and Jeff discuss the concept of "indigenous brothers," which refers to two friends who have slept with the same person. They explore different scenarios and experiences related to this concept, highlighting both positive and toxic aspects. They also discuss the fear of being judged for past actions and the importance of open communication and mutual respect in friendships.  Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to

Dec 25, 2023 • 1:09:04

How Do I Know When I Should Trust and When I Shouldn't?

In this episode, John Kim and Vanessa Bennett discuss the topic of trust and self-worth in relationships. They explore the connection between insecurity and trust issues, emphasizing the importance of developing a strong relationship with oneself. They also discuss the role of external validation and the process of building self-worth through personal experiences and setting boundaries. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong

Dec 22, 2023 • 25:57

F The Fairy Tale - Rewrite The Dating Myths and Live Your Own Love Story with Damona Hoffman

In this episode, John Kim and Damona Hoffman discuss the concept of fairy tales and how it relates to love, dating, and relationships. They explore the myths and beliefs that often hold people back from finding true compatibility. They also discuss the role of self-help jargon, the rise of emotional intelligence in younger men, and the integration of best practices in dating. You can pre order Damona's book here: https://damonahoffman.com/f-the-fairy-tale/ and follow her on Instagram here: https

Dec 20, 2023 • 52:56

Turning Your Life Equalizer By Putting Weight On Different Things

In this episode, John talks about a journaling exercise he's been doing with his private TAT Circle community: for four days, journal about the worst thing that has ever happened to you. He talks about the revelations he and his members had during this challenge, how much time and energy we spend focusing on the future, how most people find issues in similar areas in their life, and how beneficial re-shifting your energy can be. You can sign up, or find out more about John' TAT Circle community

Dec 18, 2023 • 20:30

Hypnobreathwork for Relationships with Francesca Sipma of Mastry

In this episode, John talks with Francesca Sipma of Mastry about hypnobreathwork. They talk about how you can use hypnobreathwork to heal your relationships with your partner and others, heal your past relationship traumas, visualizing your dreams or discovering your purpose, and practicing hypnobreathwork as a couple and how that can heal issues you have with each other, and more. Francesca is a certified breathwork coach and hypnotherapist based in San Diego, CA. Helping others come into align

Dec 15, 2023 • 37:19

Anxious Attachment, New York Boys v.s. LA Boys, & Bathroom Stall Moments with Sabrina Zohan

In this episode, John sits down with the host of "Do The Work" podcast, Sabrina Zohan, and talk about attachment styles, healing from expired relationships, unhealthy childhoods, how different dating men is in New York and Los Angeles, catalyst life moments, and more. You can find out more about Sabrina and her work here: https://stan.store/sabrinazoharRoughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist a

Dec 13, 2023 • 53:13

Navigating Toxic Relationships

In this episode, John talks about toxic relationships: what are signs of a toxic relationship? How do you leave a toxic relationship? Why do you keep finding yourself in toxic relationships? How to heal from toxic relationships? And more. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pul

Dec 11, 2023 • 24:36

The 4 Stages of a Relationship

In this episode, John talks about the four stages of a relationship, why they're important to know when you're dating someone, and what to do in each stage when they come. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but mo

Dec 8, 2023 • 21:38

Let's Talk About Our Needs

In this episode, John talks about having needs in our relationships. What are our needs? How much of our needs are on us? How much are on our partners or others? How can we fulfill and ask for our needs to be met? Are my needs too much? And more.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions.

Dec 6, 2023 • 19:10

Guys We F*cked with Corinne Fisher and Krystyna Hutchinson

In this episode, John talks with the hosts of the "Guys We F*cked" podcast, Corinne Fisher and Krystyna Hutchinson. They talk about healthy and unhealthy childhoods, relationships, trauma bonds, the voices in our heads, and more. Krystyna is a regular in the New York City stand-up scene and has performed in clubs, colleges, bars, basements, laundromats and sushi restaurants all over the country. She is half of the comedy duo, Sorry About Last Night, with fellow stand-up, Corinn

Dec 4, 2023 • 1:06:41

Why Parenting Is So Hard For Our Generation & How to Keep Your Marriage "Spicy"

In this episode, John and Vanessa talk about the struggles of parenting in today's day and age. They also talk about how to keep your relationship/ marriage "spicy" after having kids, and have a healthy social life and identity outside of your children.  Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his

Dec 1, 2023 • 23:02

The Science Behind Saunas with SpiritualQuest

On this episode, John talks with Richard Ori (SpiritualQuest) about the science behind saunas and salt rocks. How it impacts hormones and can help change your state - from chase to attract. Learn how saunas can help reposition you.  Both Richard and John have personal stories of living in Los Angeles in their twenties and thirties, in a low frequency and being “miserable f*cks.”  They share how they pulled themselves out of that state, and now continue to with saunas. Interested in purchasing a

Nov 29, 2023 • 43:38

It's Okay To Not Know & Here's Why

In this episode, John talks about uncertainty and how to handle the anxiety of "not knowing" what's going to happen. He also talks about attracting vs chasing, and shares his own personal stories about training his nervous system to be okay with not knowing what's going to come, and trust that everything will work out as it should.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author

Nov 27, 2023 • 13:15

Redefining Love & Relationships with Vanessa Bennett

In this episode, John talks with his partner, Vanessa Bennett, about their relationship and recent engagement. They both do a deep dive on relationship stereotypes, and how they both have redefined what love and relationships mean to them. They also talk about their past struggles, fears, feelings of doubts, and how they pushed through the breakers and stayed together when things felt tough. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the

Nov 24, 2023 • 50:52

New Definition of Engagement & Owning Your Story

In this episode, John talks about break ups, being heart broken, and finding closure within yourself instead of seeking it from someone else. He also talks about engaging in new experiences, so you don't repeat past hurts and how to own your story and everything that has happened to you to feel more powerful. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his

Nov 22, 2023 • 14:43

The Fastest Way To Realign Yourself & Your Life

In this episode, John talks about alignment, signs you're not aligned with yourself and you life, and how to realign yourself by asking yourself and going deeper with these personal questions: are you expanding, or constricting yourself? Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pull

Nov 20, 2023 • 20:01

The Biggest Break Ups Misconceptions with Amy Chan

In this episode, John sits down with break up expert, Amy Chan, to talk everything about break ups. Why they happen, how to heal, what lessons to learn from them, how to move on, and more. Amy Chan is the Founder of Renew Breakup Bootcamp, a retreat that takes a scientific and spiritual approach to heal the heart. The Observer calls her  "A relationship expert whose work is like that of a scientific Carrie Bradshaw". She's the author of the book, Breakup Bootcamp - The Science of Rewiring Your H

Nov 17, 2023 • 39:07

When Therapy Stalls

In this episode, John talks about what to do when your therapy sessions don't feel like they're going anywhere, and how to do the work with your therapist to prevent your therapy from stalling. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and doc

Nov 15, 2023 • 23:34

What Are Trauma Bonds & How To Break Them with MC McDonald

In this episode, John and Dr. MC talk about trauma bonds and how to break from them. They break down what they truly mean, how they are formed, and how to rewire yourself to create new love tracks. Sign up for John and MC's video course, "Breaking Free From Trauma Bonds" here: https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/checkout/trauma-video-course Use the discount code TRAUMABOND to get 50% off. You can find MC on her website: https://alchemycoaching.life/mc-mcdonald-phd or her Instagram: https://www.i

Nov 13, 2023 • 45:07

Cum Clarity with Jeff Scarborough

In this episode, John invites his long time friend over for a raw conversation about growing up with a single mom, how upbringing impacts relationships, definitions of man, and “cum clarity.” Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey a

Nov 10, 2023 • 1:07:59

When Things Fall Apart

In this episode, John talks about what to do when everything in your life feels like it's falling apart. He also opens up about his own struggles and crisis he's currently going through to show that not everyone has it all together, and things falling apart is a part of the human experience. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love rev

Nov 8, 2023 • 16:23

Sitting In The Murkiness & What's On The Other Side

In this episode, John does a feelings check-in. He talks about aging, struggling with fight or flight, feeling uneasy with safety and stableness, feeling like he's going through the motions, his upcoming Miserable F*ck's retreat for men, and more. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his session

Nov 6, 2023 • 22:43

Summer Camp Magic with Flynn Skidmore

In this episode, John talks with Flynn Skidmore about how he runs his therapy practice like it's a summer camp. Flynn Skidmore spends his days like he’s at summer camp, running a therapy practice where he helps people understand and get what they want in relationships and business. He creates some of the simplest, clearest, most whoa-I-hadn’t-thought-of-it-like-that personal development content out there. What Flynn is most proud of is the way he cares for and listens to his online community, an

Nov 3, 2023 • 59:16

How To Build A Life Container

In this episode, John talks about how to redesign your life from the inside out by building yourself a life container.This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/angry and start building a better relationship with yourself.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insi

Nov 1, 2023 • 14:07

The Power of Having Empathy

In this episode, John talks about the power of having empathy for others, including those who have hurt you. He also shares a story about a past relationship, and talks about why he feels empathetic for his exes. This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/angry and start building a better relationship with yourself. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family t

Oct 30, 2023 • 14:47

Barbie Never Needed Ken

In this episode, John shares his long stretch of singlehood on purpose story, and talks about his revelations about what he's learned being single for a long period of time. This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/angry and start building a better relationship with yourself.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John K

Oct 27, 2023 • 20:54

Premium Bonus Sample: Relationship Workshop

Get full access to this and other bonus episodes of The Angry Therapist by becoming a subscriber today. You’ll get three bonus episodes every month and ad-free versions of all episodes — all in your podcast player of choice — for just $4/month (or $36/year). Sign up at www.theangrytherapist.com/premium. Listen to this teaser of The Angry Therapist's latest subscriber-only series: a 9.5-hour relationship workshop co-hosted with his partner Vanessa (also a therapist), covering attachment styles, c

Oct 26, 2023 • 4:14

Abundance vs Scarcity Mindset

In this episode, John talks about the difference between having an abundance mindset versus a scarcity mindset, and gives tips on how to have more of an abundant mindset in your every day life. This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/angry and start building a better relationship with yourself. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-

Oct 25, 2023 • 7:33

How To Unblock Our Energy (Heart Opening as a Practice)

In this episode, John talks about the importance of healing our energy by unblocking it. He also talks about the groundwork of how to open our minds and hearts to new experiences, love, and life after we've been hurt. This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/angry and start building a better relationship with yourself. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage fa

Oct 23, 2023 • 18:03

10 Signs You're Growing

In this episode, John dives into ten different signs you're growing as a person, and how hard it is so grow, heal, and change. This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/angry and start building a better relationship with yourself.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as wel

Oct 20, 2023 • 20:32

The Struggle and Strength of Single Parents

In this episode, John talks about parenting, but focuses on single parents. He talks about how much stress single parents undergo, the struggles they endure raising children without a support system, how hard dating can be for single parents, and more. This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/angry and start building a better relationship with yourself.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've com

Oct 18, 2023 • 19:10

Confessions from The Miserable F*cks Retreat

In this episode, John does a "pass the mic," and asks the people who attended his Miserable F*cks Trauma retreat to share what they learned and what promise they're going to make and keep for themselves. This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/angry and start building a better relationship with yourself.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist a

Oct 16, 2023 • 13:35

How Do I Stop Being Toxic?

In this episode, John dives into an important listeners' question: I feel like I can never stop my toxic behaviors. How do I change? This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/angry and start building a better relationship with yourself.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations

Oct 13, 2023 • 16:48

What's The Best Thing That's Never Happened To You?

In this episode, John does an Instagram live on the go, and talks to his followers about the best thing that's never happened to them. He dives into why, and also shares his stories about the best things that have never happened to him. This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/angry and start building a better relationship with yourself.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong p

Oct 11, 2023 • 11:31

3 Relationship Termites

In this episode, John talks about three subtle things that can slowly cripple, or end a relationship. He also talks about how to become aware when you're doing these things, and how to not do them to help mend or save your relationship before it's too late. This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/angry and start building a better relationship with yourself.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you'v

Oct 9, 2023 • 15:35

ET Creating Distance, PTSD From the Pandemic, & Questions For You with MC McDonald

In this episode, John and MC talk about the power of creating distance in our lives, their personal "cancels" on social media, how many people got PTSD from the pandemic, and end with questions you should ask yourself. You can attend John and MC's Trauma retreat here: www.tatretreats.com You can find MC on Instagram @mc.phd and on her website: https://alchemycoaching.life/mc-mcdonald-phdRoughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glas

Oct 6, 2023 • 42:31

Sheryl Crow, Shame, & Just Being Done with Paul Chamberlain

In this episode, John and shame coach Paul disclose the things they don’t want anymore as they have entered the “afternoon” of their lives. They also discuss the ridiculously haunting impact of a 90's Shery Crow song.  Paul Chamberlain, known as the Smart Funny Tortured coach, specializes in assisting individuals in processing their shame and discovering purpose. Paul is also a former creative executive who recently developed Shame: The Game, a transformative card game designed to h

Oct 4, 2023 • 35:59

The "Woo Woo" Episode

In this episode, John talks about the universe and how you can utilize that connect to your inner self/ spirit. He also talks about the importance of looking at things and exploring outside of self to help give you a new perspective on life.  Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He

Oct 2, 2023 • 14:10

7 Things Men Really Want

In this episode, John goes into detail about seven different things men want in their relationships. Some are similar to what women want, but others might surprise you. This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/angry and start building a better relationship with yourself.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, s

Sep 29, 2023 • 20:41

Astrotherapy with Christina Fitch

In today’s episode, John gets a real live “astrotherapy” session with psychotherapist and astrologer, Christina Fitch. They talk about how the stars reveal things about us, and help us in life and relationships. You can find Christina on Instagram @the.atypical.therapist and on her website: Christinamfitch@gmail.com. Christina is also offering a 50% off discount of one of her sessions to anyone who listens to this podcast episode! This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. G

Sep 27, 2023 • 1:06:37

Redefining What "Life's Work" Means

In this episode, John talks about the real definition of what your "life's work" means, and then does a deep dive into his own definition of what he thinks your "life's work" should mean. He also asks you to be true to yourself, and ask yourself what "life's work" means to you. This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/angry and start building a better relationship with yourself.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking fo

Sep 25, 2023 • 14:40

Experience is the Highest Authority

In this episode, John talks about self awareness, and how giving yourself new experiences will help heal you from the outside in and take your power back. This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/angry and start building a better relationship with yourself.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life

Sep 22, 2023 • 13:26

No BS with Kyle Cease

John does his first live podcast recording, and sits down with New York Times Best Selling author, Kyle Cease, who has a gift of merging comedy with personal transformation. As a comedian, Kyle had two #1 Comedy Central specials and was voted as #1 ranking on Comedy Central's Stand-up Showdown. After leaving his job as an award-winning comedian, Kyle dedicated his life to helping others and created Evolving Out Loud, which is a growing community with over 400 thousand members worldwide. Kyle has

Sep 20, 2023 • 1:20:08

The Truth About Parenting

In this episode, John gets real about the responsibilities and struggles that comes with being a parent. This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/angry and start building a better relationship with yourself.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his

Sep 18, 2023 • 33:44

The Anger Loop & How it Impacts Us

In this episode, John talks about anger and how it's linked to unhappiness. He also gives examples of what being stuck in an anger loop looks like, exercises to feel and release your anger, and important questions to ask yourself when you're angry. This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/angry and start building a better relationship with yourself.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine gla

Sep 15, 2023 • 14:44

Aliens, Divorce, and White Rats with Dr. MC McDonald

On today's episode, John and MC talk about aliens, what they would have changed about their divorce, and how we can be trained to be afraid - an experience from the 1920's - in John and MC's new segment called "Science of the Day." You can find MC's Instagram: @mc.phd and her website at: https://alchemycoaching.life/mc-mcdonald-phdThis episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/angry and start building a better relationship with yourself.Roughly ten minu

Sep 13, 2023 • 39:54

3 Signs Your Relationship Is In Trouble

In this episode, John talks about three big signs your relationship is in trouble, and how you and your partner can come together and fix them before it's too late.This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/angry and start building a better relationship with yourself.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares

Sep 11, 2023 • 13:34

Rupture & Repair, Nested Model of Attachment, and Big Dick Energy with Taune Lyons

In this episode, John interviews Taune Lyons, a licensed marriage family therapist, about attachment styles and how they impact our relationships of all kinds - not just romantic. They also start processing what was happening in real time during the interview, unintentionally demonstrating what happens in therapy rooms.  And finally, John hears the term "big dick energy" for the first time. You can find Taune on Instagram @taunelyons or her website: www.Taunelyons.com Roughly ten minutes of self

Sep 8, 2023 • 1:10:16

What It Really Means to "Find Yourself"

In this episode, John talks about how your sense of self is always changing, what connecting to yourself looks like, and how "finding yourself" is a never-ending journey. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but mor

Sep 6, 2023 • 12:17

How Do You Want To Be Celebrated?

In this episode, John and Vanessa talk about attachment styles and how they want to be celebrated in their relationships. They also answer a few listeners' questions about love, dating, and relationships. John and Vanessa are launching their second ever couples retreat on Sept 8-10th!   Escape to Idyllwild, California, for an unforgettable weekend retreat tailored exclusively for couples. Nestled amidst nature's tranquil embrace, this retreat promises an enriching experience designed to strength

Sep 4, 2023 • 26:17

My Perfect Day

In this episode, John describes what a "perfect day" would look like to him, and talks about how we should all start living and doing things each day that align with what our "perfect day" looks like to help improve our moods, mental health, and mindsets when life starts to feel challenging. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love rev

Sep 1, 2023 • 26:08

Pulling Themes From Our Relationships

In this episode, John and Vanessa talk about the revelations they have while writing a book together, and pulling themes from their past and current relationships. John and Vanessa are launching their second ever couples retreat on Sept 8-10th!   Escape to Idyllwild, California, for an unforgettable weekend retreat tailored exclusively for couples. Nestled amidst nature's tranquil embrace, this retreat promises an enriching experience designed to strengthen your bond and foster deep connection.

Aug 30, 2023 • 28:12

The Science of Joy with Dr. MC McDonald

In this episode, John and Dr. MC discuss the science behind joy and how they each thread it into their lives. They also discuss the science behind joy and hope and how important it is to practice to rewire your brain. Finally, they end with three off the cut questions to each other and decide to have these science behind the brain " conversations" as a series on The Angry Therapist.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong plac

Aug 28, 2023 • 56:16

Love Like Your Relationship Is Going To End

In this episode, John and Vanessa host a workshop and talk about what the definition of "a new love" is. They also talk about the importance of loving your partner as if your relationship is going to end, and asks listeners' what that means and looks like to them. John and Vanessa are launching their second ever couples retreat on Sept 8-10th! Escape to Idyllwild, California, for an unforgettable weekend retreat tailored exclusively for couples. Nestled amidst nature's tranquil embrace, this ret

Aug 25, 2023 • 50:49

Simple Things To Help You Live On a Higher Frequency

In this episode, John talks about the post travel blues, the importance of having a "life anchor," and gives examples on how you can live on a higher frequency and start appreciating more things in your life. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and docume

Aug 23, 2023 • 14:05

Expectations In Dating

In this episode, John and Vanessa answer listeners' questions about what healthy and unhealthy expectations are in dating, relationships, and marriage. John and Vanessa are launching their second ever couples retreat on Sept 8-10th!   Escape to Idyllwild, California, for an unforgettable weekend retreat tailored exclusively for couples. Nestled amidst nature's tranquil embrace, this retreat promises an enriching experience designed to strengthen your bond and foster deep connection.  You can sig

Aug 21, 2023 • 22:07

Late Night Cravings & Dumping on People

In this episode, John shares a personal story about feeling bad about himself after giving into late night cravings, and parenthood. He also talks about the stories we tell ourselves based on how we feel, limited beliefs, and how talk yourself out of repeating patterns that make you feel bad about yourself. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his l

Aug 18, 2023 • 14:14

Break Up Stories

In this episode, John shares his and his clients break up stories (with their permission), and gives advice on what to do if you're experiencing, or going through a break up. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but

Aug 16, 2023 • 38:19

Why We Run In Relationships

In this episode, John and Vanessa answer listeners' questions and talk about why people run in their relationships. John and Vanessa are launching their second ever couples retreat on Sept 8-10th!   Escape to Idyllwild, California, for an unforgettable weekend retreat tailored exclusively for couples. Nestled amidst nature's tranquil embrace, this retreat promises an enriching experience designed to strengthen your bond and foster deep connection.  You can sign up and find out more information h

Aug 14, 2023 • 26:52

How To Not Think About Your Ex Anymore

In this episode, John and Vanessa answer a listener's question while they're on the go: how do I stop thinking about my ex? Both John and Vanessa give advice on what to do if you're always thinking about an ex, explain what it means, and give personal examples of how they stopped thinking about their exes. John and Vanessa are launching their second ever couples retreat on Sept 8-10th! Escape to Idyllwild, California, for an unforgettable weekend retreat tailored exclusively for couples. Nestl

Aug 11, 2023 • 24:13

Needs Are Foundational

In this episode, John and Vanessa discuss the importance of having and expressing your needs in a relationship as they drive on the freeway. They discuss their needs, how they communicate them, how they figure out what their needs are, and end the episode with a homework assignment for their listeners. John and Vanessa are launching their second ever couples retreat on Sept 8-10th!   Escape to Idyllwild, California, for an unforgettable weekend retreat tailored exclusively for couples. Nestled a

Aug 9, 2023 • 29:47

Why You May Believe You're Unlovable

In this episode, John does a deep dive on why a lot of his clients (and people in general) believe they're unlovable whether that's from experiences from childhood, getting cheated on, being in multiple unhealthy relationships, and more. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pull

Aug 7, 2023 • 19:13

5 Ways To Cultivate Empathy For Your Partner

In this episode, John talks about how important having empathy for your partner is in your relationship (especially when you're frustrated with them), and gives you five examples of what having empathy looks like. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls t

Aug 4, 2023 • 14:11

How a Lacking Mindset Can Pause Your Life

In this episode, John talks about how we can easily get sucked into a "lacking mindset" which will delay us from our goals and enjoying the present. He also talks about how to catch yourself when you're "lacking," and pull yourself out of that head space. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his

Aug 2, 2023 • 16:45

The Mother & Son Dynamic

In this episode, John and Vanessa host a workshop for their book, It's Not Me, It's You, and dive into the mother and son dynamic in relationships. They also talk about how to have healthy relationships, what codependency looks like in relationships, and give advice to listener's who called in with their questions over Zoom. John and Vanessa are launching their second ever couples retreat on Sept 8-10th!   Escape to Idyllwild, California, for an unforgettable weekend retreat tailored exclusively

Jul 31, 2023 • 50:11

Trauma is Trash: Please Upcycle

John interviews Jennifer Silbert and Stephanie Choi of Rewilder - Like the wolves of Yellowstone,  We are here to upend the wasteful fashion ecosystem. Starting a cascade of environmental change.  Creating a positive feedback loop. All it takes is a shift in perspective. Small changes, big impacts. And we are bringing big names to the table. It can be done.  These complex problems don’t need complex solutions.  Simple, beautiful designs that Reverse the System.  https://www.rewilder.com/pages/ab

Jul 28, 2023 • 42:56

A Shit Story

In this episode, John gets vulnerable while telling a "shit" and "fart" story. He also talks about comparing yourself to others, and gives advice on what to do if you're going through a break up. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journ

Jul 26, 2023 • 24:06

Break Your Default (Stop Spinning In Negative Thoughts)

In this episode, John drives to the dentist and talks about how daily life things (such as traffic or getting a tooth pulled) can set you down a negative thought spiral. He gives advice on how to recognize these patterns, and stop them from taking over your every day life.  Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well a

Jul 24, 2023 • 14:58

Where In Your Life Do You Have Resting Bitch Face?

In this episode, John talks about how being dishonest with yourself shows in your facial expressions, and gives examples and what that might look like in your life. He also talks about the importance of being honest with yourself about the things you're doing that you dislike.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well

Jul 21, 2023 • 11:42

Embracing The Beauty of Life's Little Things

In this episode, John talks about how to embrace the beauty of life's little things (nectar) by: alluring the big, rediscovering the little things, finding happiness in the every day, and more. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey

Jul 19, 2023 • 11:12

How Changing Your Lenses Gives You The Ability To Live Higher

In this episode, John talks about asking yourself important life questions to help you attach meaning to things that are happening to you, and learn lessons to help you grow. He also talks about how creating meaning to your life will help you create purpose, and change your mindset from unhealthy to healthy.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his l

Jul 17, 2023 • 15:18

What Happened When I Went One Week No Sugar & No Fat Part 3

In this episode, John gives an update on how cutting out sugar and fat has effected his days, and his revelations of the week. He also talks about obsessive thoughts, addiction, the importance of being kind to yourself, and giving into his cravings. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insigh

Jul 14, 2023 • 18:45

5 Misconceptions About Love

In this episode, John talks about five common misconceptions about love and relationships such as: love conquers all, there's only one soulmate for you, the right relationship will not require hard work, and more. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and d

Jul 12, 2023 • 14:57

I Cheated Once

In this episode, John gets vulnerable and talks about how he cheated once in a past relationship. He goes into detail about what happened, the feelings that came after, the lessons he learned, and how therapists are human and make mistakes too.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights fro

Jul 10, 2023 • 14:17

When To Know When To Express Your Needs

In this episode, John and Vanessa talk about when it's the right time to express your needs to your partner. They give examples of what needs are, how to communicate a need in a healthy way, and how to sit down with your partner and tackle each others' needs as a team.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insi

Jul 7, 2023 • 16:22

Matt Wolcott - From Drug Dealer to Family Man

In this episode, John sits down with Matt Wolcott. They talk about Matt's struggle with addiction, and how he got sober in 2016. Matt grew up in Huntington Beach and moved to LA in 2005. He spends most of his time working on various projects, businesses, hanging with his wife and two daughters. He surfs, tends to bonsai trees, and rides motorcycles in his spare time.  Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage fa

Jul 5, 2023 • 47:06

What Happened When I Went One Week No Sugar & No Fat Part 2

In this episode, John talks about the results of what happened when he went one week no sugar and no fat. He also talks about holding space for making mistakes, and the importance of setting boundaries with yourself.  Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back a

Jul 3, 2023 • 15:27

A Simple But Life Changing Mindset

In this episode, John talks about healthy vs unhealthy mindsets, important things to focus on, and how to change your mind your view on life when you're stuck on the negative.  Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist b

Jun 30, 2023 • 14:46

Janine Jarman: CEO of Cult Curl, Entrepreneur, Mother, & Curl Queen

In this episode, John talks with his old friend and hairstylist, Janine Jarman. They talk about the perks and struggles of owning your own business, juggling careers while being a parent, and much more. Janine Jarman is founder of Curl Cult, the first ever Protein Perm and hair texture line, and Owner of Hairroin Salon in Los Angeles. A nationally renowned celebrity hair stylist, Jarman has been “hair-obsessed” for as long as she can remember. The self-proclaimed perm queen is bringing back the

Jun 28, 2023 • 42:23

What Happened When I Went No Sugar & No Fat For a Week

In this episode, John talks about his sugar addiction, and what cutting out sugar and fat from his diet for one week was like on his mental and physical health.  Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importa

Jun 26, 2023 • 16:42

Fatherhood: A Message To My Daughter & Logan's Song

In this episode, John talks about fatherhood: the pros, cons, and a heartfelt message to his daughter. He ends the episode with a song from his daughter, Logan.   Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more import

Jun 23, 2023 • 16:30

Single on Purpose Mantras- Going Deeper

In this episode, John does a deep dive into the mantras he wrote in his Single On Purpose workbook. He reads them, discusses their meaning, and gives examples of what living those mantras look like in your day to day life.   Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain

Jun 21, 2023 • 13:21

Seek Nectar with Sarah Williams

In this episode, John talks to Sarah Williams about what it means to seek nectar, being present in nature, the benefits of ice bath therapy, John's upcoming COED Miserable F*cks Retreat, and much more. Sarah Williams is a professional photographer, adventurer, and coach She believes that our connection to nature is vital and sets out to inspire others to discover and strengthen that relationship. She pushes the boundaries of her body and mind in the pursuit of unique life experiences: She was ma

Jun 19, 2023 • 44:49

3 Man Chat (Juggling Fatherhood, Fitness, Career, and Relationships)

In this episode, John sits down with three of his oldest friends (Andy, Charlie, and Nick), and talk about life, parenting, moving your body, changing careers, navigating relationships, and so much more. Andy is a dad, husband, an educator, a fitness guru, an entrepreneur, and a life long adventure enthusiast. He has been a fitness trainer and instructor since 2002, training A-list celebrities, professional athletes, as well as anyone who wants to improve their life with fitness. He opened the

Jun 16, 2023 • 1:07:27

Single On Purpose Workbook Day 3: Separating What You Feel From Who You Are

In this episode, John goes over Day 3 in his Single On Purpose Workbook. He talks about all of the different feelings you can feel when you're single, the importance of feeling those feelings, and how not to internalize those feelings, so you don't allow them to define your worth.  Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations a

Jun 14, 2023 • 14:33

What If This Is It? What If There Is No There?

In this episode, John talks about dreams, depression, and struggling to get to the other side of your goals. He also talks about what to do when you're stuck with the thoughts: Is this it? Is there more to life? What if I can't do more with my life than what I've already done? And more.  Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelat

Jun 12, 2023 • 17:03

What To Look For In A Partner

In this episode, John talks about healthy traits to look for in a partner when you're dating and looking for a relationship.  Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.    Meet him

Jun 9, 2023 • 14:35

Relief as Anchors & Looking at Yourself Through The Younger You with Buddy Wakefield

In this episode, John talks with Buddy Wakefield about pulling yourself out of the trenches, past versus present you, growth, healing, self sabotage, writing, and much more. Buddy Wakefield is an American poet, a three-time world champion spoken word artist, and the most toured performance poet in history. Buddy is currently living in Porto, Portugal. When not on tour or leading his online workshop called Writers Anonymous, he offers private sessions to people needing insights, direction and fe

Jun 7, 2023 • 45:34

4 Truths About Falling In Love For The Second Time

In this episode, John talks about four important things to think about when falling in love for the second time, how to push past the fear of getting your heart broken again, and why falling in love again will be a better experience than before. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights f

Jun 5, 2023 • 12:15

Single On Purpose Workbook Day 2: There's More To Life Than Love & Relationships

In today's episode, John goes through the exercises on Day 2 of his new workbook: 31 Days of Single On Purpose. He talks about how there's more to life than love and relationships, encourages you to have a life outside of dating, love, and your relationships, and gives you a homework assignment: what's one thing you can do today to prove that life is more than love and your relationships?   Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the w

Jun 2, 2023 • 15:56

What is Love and Conditions For Healing and Forgiveness with Danielle LaPorte

In today's episode, John talks about what love is, how to heal, and forgive yourself and others with Danielle LaPorte. Danielle LaPorte is a member of Oprah’s SuperSoul 100 a group who, in Oprah Winfrey’s words, “is uniquely connecting the world together with a spiritual energy that matters.” She is the former director of a future studies think tank in Washington, DC, where she managed a team creating global scenarios. Danielle now speaks about the intelligence of the heart.   Danie

May 31, 2023 • 58:32

Single On Purpose Workbook Day 1: Connection to Self Assessment

On today's episode, Vanessa Bennett and Dene Logan (Cheaper Than Therapy Podcast) join John as they go through the Day One exercise in John's new workbook: 31 Days of Single On Purpose. The questions act as a catalyst to a deeper conversation about connecting to self.  Here is the link to Vanessa and Dene's upcoming retreat: https://vanessa-bennett-dene-logan.myshopify.com/collections/reclaiming-audacity  And here's the link for Vanessa and Dene's new Cheaper Than

May 29, 2023 • 40:37

How To Create A Safe Space & Practice Active Listening

In this episode, John talks about how to create a safe space and practice active listening in your relationships using person centered theory. He talks about what is and how to practice unconditional positive regard, empathetic understanding, and congruence. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from

May 26, 2023 • 24:26

How You Know You're Already There

In this episode, John talks about gratitude, and how to trust your body to tell how you feel about your life. He also talks about how to let go of how you want your life to be, and be open to how life falls into place for you. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. H

May 24, 2023 • 15:18

How Are You Letting Go Of Your Ex?

In this episode, John reads a letter he wrote to one of his exes he feels has a lot of anger towards him. He also challenges you to think about what daily action you're taking to help you let go of an ex you're still not completely over. Is it healthy? Or not so much? Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insi

May 22, 2023 • 13:36

Rapid Fire: Answering 5 of Your Questions Under 15 Minutes

In this episode, John answers five listeners' questions as fast on topics about having sex on the first date, dealing with an emotionally unavailable partner, lingering feelings from previous relationships, and more. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back an

May 19, 2023 • 18:07

Nothing Is Promised with Dené Logan

In this episode, John interviews good friend, therapist, and mindfulness coach, Dené Logan. She talks about her previous marriage, how she moved through her divorce, and meeting her ex's new partner. Dené specializes in tools for reclaiming the self when we've been conditioned to abandon throughout our lives, moving through anxiety, understanding our addictive patterns, and communicating more effectively in our relationships. She is passionate about facilitating group immersive experiences and r

May 17, 2023 • 47:47

Going Through A Break Up: What Should I Be Doing?

In this episode, John gives advice and answers a listener's question: what should I be doing if I'm going through a break up I can't get over? Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human be

May 15, 2023 • 21:17

Do You Still Need Street Level Mindfulness?

In this episode, John brings mindfulness to street level. He explains what it is, how to do it, and why it's important to incorporate it into your everyday life. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapis

May 12, 2023 • 14:15

Masculine and Feminine Energy in Dating and Relationships

In this episode, John talks about the difference between masculine and feminine energy, and why it's important to pull from both when you're dating and in your relationships. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but

May 10, 2023 • 15:36

Taking The Power Back By Putting Weight On Different Things

In this episode, John talks about how to take your power back when you find yourself obsessing over something you want, and what to do if you've found you've lost yourself in the obsession.  Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as

May 8, 2023 • 16:42

Something I Haven't Done In A While That Scares Me

In this episode, John gets extremely vulnerable as he dives into some of his most impactful childhood memories.  Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.    Meet him at -> https:/

May 5, 2023 • 18:59

A Letter From My Future Self

In this episode, John reads a letter he wrote to his future self one year ago, and reflects on his growth. He also encourages you to write one to your future self, and put it away for you read in a year or two. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and docu

May 3, 2023 • 18:26

Angry My Ex Is Happy

In this episode, John talks about his past experience with insomnia, and gives advice on what to do if you're upset because your ex is happy. If you want to do 31 Days of Single on Purpose with 4400 other like minded singles, jump in here: https://tinyurl.com/3ky4rvjd Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insi

May 1, 2023 • 17:38

4 Signs You're The Problem

In this episode, John gives his four signs that you may be the problem in your relationship: the same thing keeps happening in your relationships, you keep dating the same person, you're always defensive, and you don't take ownership. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls t

Apr 28, 2023 • 15:08

What Do I Do If I'm In A Shitty Job?

In this episode, John talks about shitty jobs he's had in the past, how to find happy if you're currently in a shitty job, and what to do if you're in a shitty job and can't stand it anymore.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and docume

Apr 26, 2023 • 22:13

Anchoring Self To Allow Something Greater

In this episode, John talks about the difficulties of constantly being in your head, and how that can sabotage your relationships. He also challenges you to find activities that help get you out of your head, and start living in the present. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He

Apr 24, 2023 • 16:19

Ten Signs You Are Growing

In this episode, John talks about how growth is a dance, and we all snap back into old patterns no matter how much we've worked on ourselves. When that happens, it's hard to feel like we've grown at all. Luckily, John goes over ten different signs that you are growing, so you won't feel so hard on yourself whenever you snap back.   Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling autho

Apr 21, 2023 • 20:30

Three Things That Make Love Real

In this episode, John debunks a lot of myths on love, and what it is not. He then gives his definition on what he thinks makes love real with three very important things that you may least expect. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and

Apr 19, 2023 • 21:05

Three Signs Your Relationship Is In Trouble

In this episode, John talks about three potential signs your relationship might be in trouble: can't resolve conflict, disconnection with yourself, and feeling invisible.   Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but m

Apr 17, 2023 • 12:41

Two Relationship Game Changers

In this episode, John talks about two game changers that will help improve your relationship: 5 minutes of uninterrupted time with your partner, and the 6 second kiss.   Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more

Apr 14, 2023 • 14:45

A Crucial Part of Self Awareness

In this episode, John talks about one of the most crucial parts of practicing self awareness with yourself and in your life.  Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.    Meet him

Apr 12, 2023 • 10:29

Choosing Yourself

In this episode, John and Vanessa talk about how to choose yourself in a relationship, and give a few listeners advice on their relationships. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human be

Apr 10, 2023 • 42:28

How To Apologize For Reals

In this episode, John talks about apologizing: what it is, why it's important, and how to properly take ownership and apologize for your mistakes.   Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place.   Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a

Apr 7, 2023 • 11:29

My Own Therapy Session - Ego, Mid Life, and Being Fluid

In this episode, John gets extremely vulnerable in his recorded therapy session. Together, John and his therapist discuss healthy vs unhealthy ego, thoughts and feelings on being fifty, and being more fluid in life. Look, Just Tell Me What To Do. A podcast by Benjamin Russack, LMFT Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations

Apr 5, 2023 • 42:00

The Facilitators Prolog - Miserable F*cks Retreat

In this episode, John brings on the facilitators from his most recent Miserable F*cks Retreat. They each take a turn to introduce themselves, answer deep questions, and talk about how much of a success the first day of the COED Miserable F*cks Retreat was.   Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place.   Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights fro

Apr 3, 2023 • 36:41

3 Therapists, 3 Questions: Reclaiming Audacity & Depth Psychology

In this episode, John has Vanessa and Dene on the podcast to answer three listeners' questions. They also talk about what reclaiming your audacity looks like, and have a deep conversation on the benefits and dangers of depth psychology. Therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as he pulls the curtain back and documents his journey to humanize the therapist. Meet him at -> http://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangr

Mar 31, 2023 • 1:06:22

Understanding Attraction and Why

In this episode, John talks about attraction: what he used to be attracted to, what type of people used to be attracted to him, and how attraction for him has changed and grown over the years.  Meet him at https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

Mar 29, 2023 • 15:50

You Are Not Getting Over Anyone

In this episode, John talks about break-ups, and emphasizes how you're not actually getting over your ex. Instead, you're reestablishing a healthy relationship with yourself. Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Mar 27, 2023 • 10:47

The Five Stages Of A Relationship

In this episode, John talks about the five stages of a relationship: the discovery phase, the disappointment phase, the dancing phase, the development/ dedication phase, and back to the discovery phase. Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

Mar 24, 2023 • 10:48

What If I'm Not Feeling It Anymore?

In this episode, John talks about the steps to take if you're no longer feeling interested in your partner, or current relationship. Meet him at https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

Mar 22, 2023 • 28:13

How Relationships Are Like Sunsets

In this episode, John reads a relationship quote from Carl Jung, and talks about how and why you should start looking at your relationships like they're sunsets.   Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more impo

Mar 20, 2023 • 10:39

Toxic Single Behavior

In this episode, John talks about certain types of behavior that are toxic to do when you're single. Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

Mar 20, 2023 • 11:13

When To Break Up With Your Therapist

In this episode, John and Vanessa answer a listener's question: when should I break up with my therapist? Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

Mar 15, 2023 • 15:59

What is Life Alignment?

In this episode, John talks about life alignment and what it looks like in your daily life.  Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Meet him at -> http://www.theangrytherapist

Mar 13, 2023 • 11:36

Directions For Life: Seek Nectar, Love Hard, Resist Nothing

In this episode, John talks about how to seek nectar, love hard, and resist nothing.  Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

Mar 10, 2023 • 15:24

If You're Doing These Things, You'll Suffer

In this episode, John talks about a few things that will lead to suffering. Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

Mar 8, 2023 • 19:26

Things That Strip Joy

In this episode, John and Vanessa talk about things that strip joy. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> http://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private

Mar 6, 2023 • 25:35

Why We Project Onto Our Partner

In this episode, John and Vanessa talk about they project their "worst self" onto each other, and practice ways to stop projecting onto your partner. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a

Mar 3, 2023 • 29:31

Love Starts After The Fall

In this episode, John talks about how love really starts after you fall in love. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com Join his p

Mar 1, 2023 • 18:17

Interview with Humble The Poet

In this episode, John interviews Humble, The Poet. They talk about how they both started and got traction in their careers. The ups and downs and leaning into their becoming. And of course, they talk about love love love. Humble The Poet Instagram: @humblethepoet How To Love Yourself book on Amazon Therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as he pulls the curtain back and documents his journey to humanize the therapist. Jump into his live online com

Feb 27, 2023 • 53:15

A Conversation With a Woman I Almost Had Sex With

In this episode, John has a conversation with Alana about a sexual encounter they almost had years ago, what happened, and why they didn't sleep together. Here's a link to a Spotify playlist Alana made for John: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6ozIg4qkvvTT2fyvxVtXCd?si=c0962fea42d746cf . It's a good one. Enjoy! Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, sha

Feb 24, 2023 • 56:17

Reach Without Losing Footing

In this episode, John talks about how to reach for something you want in life (goals, dreams, etc.) without losing your footing (sense of self, living in the present, etc.). Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist bu

Feb 22, 2023 • 14:02

My First Ketamine Session

In this episode, John talks about his first experience using ketamine during a psychotherapy session. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  Meet him at -> www.theangrythera

Feb 20, 2023 • 25:32

Dating Someone One Year After Divorce. Too Early?

In this episode, John asks a listeners' question: is it too early to date someone one year after my divorce? Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Meet him at

Feb 17, 2023 • 18:57

Signs Your Relationship Will Last

In this episode, John lists three positive signs that your relationship will last. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com Join his p

Feb 15, 2023 • 18:53

Backing Away From The Edge - Why We Paused The SOP Festival

In this episode, John and Paul eat their feelings, and talk about why they made the difficult decision to cancel the Single On Purpose Festival. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a huma

Feb 13, 2023 • 28:51

Why Do I Call Breakups Expired Relationships?

In today's episode, John explains his reframe of "break up" to "expired relationship" and why it's helpful. He tried to explain on Dax Shepard's Armchair Expert Podcast but John mentioned the time he had sex with a plum when he was twelve, and of course that topic got side tracked. He assures he will not talk about plums in this episode. Instead, go deeper on the reframe and how to get to acceptance, the first step in starting the healing journey after an expired relationship.R

Feb 10, 2023 • 16:29

How To Find Out Your Partner's Attachment Style

In this episode, John gives his tips on how to find out your partner's attachment style. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Feb 8, 2023 • 23:05

Going Deeper On Attachment Styles

In this episode, John does a deep dive on attachment styles. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> h

Feb 6, 2023 • 26:53

Realign Your Relationship In 5 Steps

In this episode, John talks about how to realign your relationship in five steps. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com Join his pr

Feb 3, 2023 • 24:50

How You Show Up Are Brushstrokes of Your Life (Art)

In this episode, John gives advice on how to show up for the life you want to live.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapi

Feb 1, 2023 • 15:15

Rediscovering Your Partner

In this episode, John reads a story and gives tips on how to rediscover your partner. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com Join hi

Jan 30, 2023 • 19:03

Your Most Important Promise

In this episode, John talks about how to raise your self esteem/ confidence, and why raising it should be a daily promise to yourself. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Jan 27, 2023 • 12:42

Back In The Rehab Days with Joe Akira

In today’s episode, John interviews Joe Akira, a kid John treated years ago when he was working in non profit. Joe was a lost 13 year old but now a thriving 27 year old. They reflect on Joe’s troubled youth and awoling the program. And how John was fresh off a divorce and rebuilding his own life, which he hid from the kids. A heartfelt episode about our collisions and how they affect us.  Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wr

Jan 25, 2023 • 35:35

Do You Believe In Love At First Sight?

In this episode, John talks about his views and definition on "love at first sight." Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com Join hi

Jan 23, 2023 • 12:55

How To Grow Your Relationship

In this episode, John talks about and gives examples on how to grow your relationship. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com Join

Jan 20, 2023 • 33:41

What Does A Healthy Relationship Look Like?

In this episode, John answers a listener's question: what does a healthy relationship look like? Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.

Jan 18, 2023 • 19:05

The Difference Between Needs and Feeling Needy

In this episode, John answers a listeners' question, and explains the difference between having needs and feeling needy in your relationships. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human b

Jan 16, 2023 • 23:31

Taking Ownership: Why It's More For You Than For Them

In this episode, John explains how to take ownership, and why it's more for you than for the other person. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> www.theangry

Jan 13, 2023 • 23:24

My Personal Love Lessons

In this episode, John talks about the love lessons he's learned from his own experiences in relationships. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> www.theangry

Jan 11, 2023 • 33:56

Steps To Forgiving My Partner Who Cheated

In this episode, John talks about how to forgive a partner who cheated, and what steps it will take to make the relationship work. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Mee

Jan 9, 2023 • 17:40

The Pursuer and Distancer: Which One Are You?

In this episode, John talks about what the "pursuers" and "distancers" are in relationships, and encourages you to look at your behavioral patterns to determine which one you are in your relationships. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents hi

Jan 6, 2023 • 14:41

This Will NOT Be Your Year

In this episode, John explains his views on New Years resolutions, and talks about why it's not the New Years' job to "fix" you. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet

Jan 4, 2023 • 20:07

The Importance Of Having Your Own Life

In this episode, John talks about the importance of having your own life outside of your partner's. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapi

Jan 2, 2023 • 9:59

Residue From The Old

In this episode, John talks about how to love without your past and not allow your past relationships into your life and/or the new relationship you're in now. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importan

Dec 30, 2022 • 22:24

Personal Reflections of 22

In this episode, John reflects on 2022. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrythera

Dec 28, 2022 • 20:30

27 Life Lessons

In this episode, John shares his twenty seven life lessons. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> h

Dec 26, 2022 • 22:39

Love Is About Finding The Right You

In this episode, John does a reframe on love, and how it's more about finding the right you rather than finding the right "one." Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet

Dec 23, 2022 • 11:12

This Life Tool / Ability Is Foundational

In this episode, John talks about the importance of seeking nectar in life, and gives examples of what nectar in his life is. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him

Dec 21, 2022 • 16:14

Parking Tickets and Character Tests

In this episode, John talks about how something as little as a parking ticket can test your character. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> www.theangryther

Dec 19, 2022 • 14:17

Why It's Important To Change Our Definition Of Love

In this episode, John talks about why it's important to have new love experiences, and change our definition of love. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> w

Dec 16, 2022 • 35:11

Creating A Safe Space & Active Listening

In this episode, John talks about how to create and hold a safe space and practice active listening in your relationships. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at

Dec 14, 2022 • 24:20

The 12 Principles Of Secure Functioning Relationships

In this episode, John talks about his couples' session with Vanessa, and shares The 12 Principles Of Secure Functioning Relationships their therapist gave them. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importa

Dec 12, 2022 • 25:09

How Do I Find Happy?

In this episode, John gives his listeners' tips and advice on how to find and be happy. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com Join

Dec 9, 2022 • 18:10

Perpetrator Trauma

In this episode of The Trauma Tapes, a letter writer is coming from the other side of the table. After doing a lot of work to repair and understand their past, they are trying to let go of their shame at having traumatized other people. MC and Elizabeth talk about perpetrator trauma, good vs. evil, and what self-forgiveness actually looks like. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Dec 7, 2022 • 45:36

What is Self Abandonment?

In this episode, John is joined by Vanessa Bennett and Dene Logan to talk about self abandonment: what is it and what it looks like in your relationships. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly,

Dec 5, 2022 • 32:03

3 Ways To Treat Yourself Better After A Toxic Relationship

In this episode, John talks about three ways you can treat yourself better after leaving a toxic relationship. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> www.thea

Dec 2, 2022 • 16:52

ACEs & PCEs

In this episode of The Trauma Tapes, a letter writer asks MC and Elizabeth how to make sense of a life that contains both success and trauma. They talk about her story, run through the disorganized attachment style and then hone in on Adverse Childhood Experience (ACEs) and their opposite – Positive Childhood Experiences (PCEs).

Nov 30, 2022 • 55:01

How Do I Move On?

In this episode, John answers one of the most asked listeners' question: how do I move on? Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com Jo

Nov 28, 2022 • 19:28

3 Ways To Become a Better Partner

In this episode, John explains three ways you can be a better partner in your relationship. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com J

Nov 25, 2022 • 10:52

The Thanksgiving Episode (Putting Weight On The Why)

In this episode, John talks about why he's grateful / thankful for certain things in his life, and challenges you to think about the "why" instead of "what" you are grateful / thankful for this Thanksgiving. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and docume

Nov 23, 2022 • 19:07

John and Vanessa's Fight Last Night

In this episode, John and Vanessa talk about three things that change their state, and dive into a fight they had last night. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him

Nov 21, 2022 • 27:07

How Is Your Relationship Making You Stretch?

In this episode, John asks listeners to look at their relationships and ask themselves how their relationships are making them grow as a human. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human

Nov 18, 2022 • 19:28

The Mohawk of Self Awareness

In this episode of The Trauma Tapes, MC and Elizabeth talk to a letter writer about how to peel back the shame she feels when she goes back to an abusive ex, so she can reconnect with herself and move on. They explain how this is in part a neurobiological issue, and what she can do about it in order to begin a new life.

Nov 16, 2022 • 46:25

Fairplay with Eve Rodsky

In this episode, John and Vanessa interview Eve Rodsky, New York Times best-selling author of Fair Play and National Bestseller, Find Your Unicorn Space. Eve Rodsky transformed a “blueberries breakdown” into a catalyst for social change when she applied her Harvard-trained background in organizational management to ask the simple yet profound question: What would happen if we treated our homes as our most important organizations? Her New York Times bestselling book and Reese’s Book Club Pick, F

Nov 14, 2022 • 49:53

You Can Answer Hard Questions - Is There Hope In Our World?

In this episode, John brings three random people in the room to ask them hard questions. They each get a turn to ask a hard question. This ends up creating a meaningful dialogue and wasting no time to get deep fast. There is no shallow end of the pool here. Hope you enjoy.  Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well

Nov 11, 2022 • 35:41

Punching Back

In this week's episode of The Trauma Tapes, MC and Elizabeth talk about an exercise called "punching back." In it, you take the negative beliefs that you’re carrying around and put them on paper. Then you punch back by asking what the flip side of the negative beliefs is. If you say “I’m needy” for example, you might punch back by saying, “I’m also very loving.”

Nov 9, 2022 • 15:43

Free Session In The Park

In this episode, John convinces Vanessa to get on his Harley and do a free session in the park, helping a couple who emailed John from the internet (fell from the sky). They want to work on their relationship before they have their baby.  Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pu

Nov 7, 2022 • 42:36

You Can't Love Someone Until You Find Yourself Is A Myth

In this episode, John challenges and debunks a common quote: "you can't love someone until you find yourself." Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> www.thea

Nov 4, 2022 • 14:57

The Shattered Blueprint

In this episode of The Trauma Tapes, a letter writer is facing a difficult decision. Stay in her marriage when her husband wants to be polyamorous, or leave and lose him entirely. MC and Elizabeth talk about the trauma of a profound lack of a relational home.

Nov 2, 2022 • 40:39

3 Signs of an Emotionally Safe Relationship

In this episode, John talks about his three signs that you're in an emotionally safe relationship. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapis

Oct 31, 2022 • 12:44

Can Long Distance Work? Should I Get Back With My Ex? Can I Heal From Infidelity?

In this episode, John answers listeners' questions such as: can long distance work, should I get back with my ex, can I heal from infidelity, and more. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as

Oct 28, 2022 • 21:08

Simple vs. Complex Trauma

In today's episode of The Trauma Tapes, MC and Elizabeth talk to a letter writer about why trauma can pop up ten years later, and what to do about it. They revisit the definition of trauma that we use: unbearable emotional experience that lacks a relational home-- and talk about the difference between simple and complex trauma.

Oct 26, 2022 • 57:46

Codependent No More With Melody Beattie

Melody Beattie is the best selling author of Codependent No More. Since its first publication 36 years ago, it has helped heal over seven million readers and continues to sell 100,000+ copies a year. Updated for the first time, with a new chapter on trauma and anxiety, and Melody’s personal story revealed for the first time, this modern classic holds the key to understanding codependency and unlocking its hold on your life. You can find her book here: https://melodybeattie.com/ Roughly ten min

Oct 24, 2022 • 54:30

3 Things You Can’t Get Back In Life

In this episode, John talks about three things you can't get back in life. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private c

Oct 21, 2022 • 13:42

On Accepting, Radically

In today's episode of The Trauma Tapes Series, MC and Elizabeth talk to a letter writer about letting go, radically accepting, and moving on. They also talk a bit more about the fight, flight, or freeze response to clarify a previous question.

Oct 19, 2022 • 1:10:03

Love Is...

In this episode, John talks about what love really is and means in our relationships. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Oct 17, 2022 • 15:52

3 Reasons Why Your Partner May Be Pulling Away

In this episode, John talks about three possible reasons why your partner might be pulling away. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Oct 14, 2022 • 16:56

Triggers

In the first episode of The Trauma Tapes Series with Dr. MC McDonald and Elizabeth Meadows, a letter writer asks how to deal with triggers in an intimate relationship. Both MC and Elizabeth unpack triggers - what they are, how they work, and how to work around them.

Oct 12, 2022 • 46:36

Life After Life with Paul Chamberlain

In this episode, John talks with Paul Chamberlain about depression and suicidal ideation. Paul is also known as the Smart Funny Tortured Coach who has learned how to find the better part of our darker angels and shine a light on the unique gifts that make us powerful. Formerly a senior creative officer and serial entrepreneur for over 25 years, he contributed his award-winning expertise in branding, event/entertainment production, and pop culture to companies and industries that everyone know

Oct 10, 2022 • 52:30

How To Deal With Jealousy

In this episode, John talks about how to deal with jealousy and jealous behavior in a healthy way. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Oct 7, 2022 • 23:15

Four Things That Crumble Relationships

In this episode, John dives into the Gottmans' "Four Horsemen" theory. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Oct 5, 2022 • 21:19

Parenting Outside The Lines with Meghan Leahy

In this episode, John and Vanessa talk all about parenting with parent coach and author, Meghan Leahy. Meghan Leahy is the mother of three daughters. She practices Zen Buddhism, holds a bachelor’s degree in English and secondary education and a master’s degree in school counseling and she is a certified parent coach and Neufeld Institute Facilitator as well as the On Parenting Columnist at the Washington Post. You can follow Meghan on Instagram @mlparentcoach You can buy Meghan's book: Parenti

Oct 3, 2022 • 32:14

We Snap Back Sometimes

In this episode, John talks about how no matter how much work we've done on ourselves, we can still snap back to our old ways. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Sep 30, 2022 • 16:05

Anger is a Reaction To Your Past

In this episode, John talks about how feelings of anger has more to do with our past than our present. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Learn more about your

Sep 28, 2022 • 13:34

Anxiously Attached with Jessica Baum

In this episode, John talks all about anxious attachment style with psychotherapist and author of "Anxiously Attached," Jessica Baum. Jessica Baum, LMHC, is the founder of the Relationship Institute of Palm Beach, providing couples therapy, family counseling, and addiction therapy in South Florida for over 10 years. She has helped thousands of clients with her unique approach to healing, the Self-full® Method. Through her sister company, Be Self-full (beselffull.com), Jessica offers transformat

Sep 26, 2022 • 41:42

Miracles Happen In The Morning

In this episode, John wakes up early and talks about how productive you can be in the morning. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Sep 23, 2022 • 17:26

When People Trigger Us

In this episode, John talks about what to do when people trigger us. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Sep 21, 2022 • 11:46

Answering Personal Questions About Me

In this episode, John answers questions about his personal life from his listeners. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Sep 19, 2022 • 33:11

My Colonoscopy Gave Me a Reset

In this episode, John talks about getting his first colonoscopy and explains how it gave him a reset on life. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Sep 16, 2022 • 13:44

Friendships- Depth Over Width

In this episode, John talks about the importance of having authentic friendships. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Sep 14, 2022 • 14:38

It's Not Me, It's You: Our Needs Are Foundational

In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa talk about our needs in relationships and why they're important.

Sep 12, 2022 • 28:18

I Didn’t Want a Happy Ending

In this episode, John talks about getting a massage, and why things activate us on a deeper level. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Sep 9, 2022 • 15:45

The Box Set: It's Not About The Dishes

In this episode, John is joined by fellow therapists Vanessa Bennett, Dene Logan, MC McDonald, and Taune Lyons to talk about trauma, codependency, attachment styles, singlehood, and relationships. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Sep 7, 2022 • 40:05

Introducing: The Secret to Making Friends as an Adult from The Happiness Lab

Here’s a special preview of the new season of The Happiness Lab. You might think you know what it takes to lead a happier life… more money, a better job, or Instagram-worthy vacations. You’re dead wrong. Yale professor Dr. Laurie Santos has studied the science of happiness and found that many of us do the exact opposite of what will truly make our lives better. She’ll take you through the latest scientific research and share some surprising and inspiring stories that will change the way you thin

Sep 6, 2022 • 12:38

It's Not Me, It's You: More On Attachment Styles

In this episode, John and Vanessa talk about the different types of attachment styles you can have in your relationships.

Sep 5, 2022 • 49:19

The Second Half Of Your Life (Moon)

In this episode, John talks about the first half of your life (sun) versus the second half of your life (moon). Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Sep 2, 2022 • 15:00

3 Signs You May Be Dating The Wrong Person

In this episode, John does a deep dive on three signs you may be dating the wrong person. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Aug 31, 2022 • 12:39

It's Not Me, It's You: Our First Tantra Class

In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa talk about their experience taking their first tantra class.

Aug 29, 2022 • 14:12

What If I'm Not Feeling It Anymore?

In this episode, John talks about what to do if you're not feeling it anymore in your relationship. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Aug 26, 2022 • 15:29

How Do I Change Someone?

In this episode, John answers a listener's question: how do I change my partner without nagging them? Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Aug 24, 2022 • 17:31

It's Not Me, It's You: Love Like It's Going To End

In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa talk about the the idea of how to love like it's going to end.

Aug 22, 2022 • 49:32

The Simple Way Into Mindfulness

In this episode, John talks about a simple way to practice mindfulness. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Aug 19, 2022 • 13:12

6 Relationship Myths

After reading a blog post by Esther Perel, John has come up with 6 relationship myths he has come across. John's 6 relationship myths 1. If the sex isn't good the relationship isn't good 2. Once a cheater always a cheater 3. Your partner is your best friend 4. Fighting is a sign that something is wrong 5. People in a relationship don't flirt 6. Everything doesn't have to be revealed or told Here's a link to the original post, https://www.estherperel.com/blog/5-myths-we-tell-ourselves-when-we

Aug 17, 2022 • 21:55

It's Not Me, It's You: "The One" Is Damaging

In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa talk about how believing and looking for "the one" is more damaging than you think.

Aug 15, 2022 • 38:03

A Message In The Bottle To My Lab Peeps

In this special episode, John sends a message to all of our current and previous TAT Lab members. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Aug 14, 2022 • 15:13

Being Happy With What You Have

In this episode, John talks about things he struggles with and the importance of being happy with what you have right now. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Aug 12, 2022 • 16:02

There Are Four Things That I Believe You Will Regret

In this episode, John talks about the four things he believes you will regret if you don't start doing them now.

Aug 10, 2022 • 17:44

It's Not Me, It's You: Choosing Yourself

In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa talk about how they met and the importance of choosing yourself in your relationships.

Aug 8, 2022 • 48:17

Try This Just For Today

In this episode, John challenges you to not expect anything for an entire day, and why it's important not to put weight on expectations. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Aug 5, 2022 • 15:22

Connect To Self

In this episode, John talks about the importance of connecting to yourself. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoic

Aug 3, 2022 • 13:12

It's Not Me, It's You: Two Communication Extremes

In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa talk about two communication extremes in relationships. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Aug 1, 2022 • 33:53

Stop Dreading

In this episode, John talks about how to stop dreading the things you don't want to do. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Jul 29, 2022 • 19:53

If You Have A Shitty Job…

In this episode, John talks about the two shitty jobs he's had, and what to do if you have a shitty job. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Jul 27, 2022 • 22:52

You're Not Getting Over Anyone

In this episode, John does a deep dive on break-ups and shares his thoughts on what moving on really looks like and explains why you're not getting over anyone. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importa

Jul 25, 2022 • 14:43

Anything Is Possible

In this episode, John talks about the belief that anything is possible no matter where you're at in life. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  Learn more about your

Jul 22, 2022 • 18:51

Your Thoughts On Open Relationships?

In this episode, John answers a listener's question he gets asked often: what are your thoughts on open relationships? Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  AOspfhJ5gZgQ2yif

Jul 20, 2022 • 26:10

It's Not Me, It's You: Love Without Your Past

In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa discuss what loving with your past looks like and how important it is to love without your past in your current relationship. AOspfhJ5gZgQ2yifBKSw

Jul 18, 2022 • 17:11

Take Your Pleasure Seriously

In this episode, John encourages and talks about how to take your pleasure seriously. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Jul 15, 2022 • 15:13

How I Tackle My Day

In this episode, John breaks down how he starts, tackles, and finishes his day. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Jul 13, 2022 • 17:29

The 4 Food Groups of Life

In this episode, John talks about the four food groups of life. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Jul 11, 2022 • 19:53

I’m Going Through A Break Up. Help!

In this episode, John gives his step by step guide on what to do if you're going through a break-up. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Jul 8, 2022 • 13:43

Unbroken With MC

John Kim talks to Dr. MC McDonald about her new book, Unbroken. We talk all things trauma - the fact that we don't get to adulthood without some exposure to trauma, what the most common misconceptions are regarding trauma, what a trigger actually is, and what healing can look like.  Unbroken starts off with a very simple idea: What if instead of seeing traumatic experience as that which breaks our spirit, we see it as that which proves our spirit cannot be broken? With Unbroken, McDonald offer

Jul 6, 2022 • 52:56

It's Not Me, It's You: A Live Workshop

In this special episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa host a live workshop and dive into topics they cover in their upcoming book: It's Not Me, It's You. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jul 4, 2022 • 1:19:32

How Relationships Are Like Recovery

In this episode, John talks about how being in relationships are similar to being in recovery. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Jul 1, 2022 • 19:05

Dating With Damona Hoffman

In this episode, John interviews Celebrity Dating Coach Damona Hoffman who has been coaching singles on how to find love online and offline for over 15 years. Her articles appear regularly in The LA Times and The Washington Post. Plus, she’s a regular on-air contributor to The Drew Barrymore Show, NPR, and NBC’s Access Daily. Damona also starred in two A+E Networks’ TV shows: #BlackLove and A Question of Love. Her weekly podcast Dates & Mates has been featured in Cosmopolitan, Huff Post, Bustle

Jun 29, 2022 • 58:48

It's Not Me, It's You: Attraction After Motherhood

In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa talk about attraction after motherhood.

Jun 27, 2022 • 34:21

How To Build Your Relationship With You

In this episode, John explains how to build your relationship with you. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Jun 24, 2022 • 16:12

iMessage To My Exes

In this episode, John answers a listener's question: is it okay to peep our ex's social media? And is it okay if they peep ours? Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Jun 22, 2022 • 17:42

It's Not Me, It's You: Resetting Yourself For Your Relationship

In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa talk about what resetting your day looks like and why it's important for your relationship.

Jun 20, 2022 • 19:17

Calming Your Nervous System

In this episode, John explains how to calm your nervous system,. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Jun 17, 2022 • 19:10

The Polaroid Syndrome

In this episode, John talks about the Polaroid Syndrome: looking back at old snapshots of your past relationships. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Jun 15, 2022 • 12:04

It's Not Me, It's You: How Do You Want To Be Celebrated?

In this episode of It's Not You, It's Me, John and Vanessa host an Instagram live and answer viewers' questions.

Jun 13, 2022 • 27:25

It's Okay Not To Know

In this episode, John talks about how it's okay to not know what's going to happen in life. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Jun 10, 2022 • 12:53

Living Higher / Attracting More

In this episode, John talks about how to live in a high frequency and attract more of what you want out of life. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Jun 8, 2022 • 18:27

It's Not Me, It's You: Needs Are Foundational

In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa explain how important your needs are in your relationships.

Jun 6, 2022 • 28:21

Those Feelings Are From Who You Were, Not Who You Are

In this episode, John talks about past and current feelings that come up in our lives, and how they can make us feel stuck. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Jun 3, 2022 • 10:38

Our Fork In The Road Moments

In this episode, John talks about his own and having fork in the road moments. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Jun 1, 2022 • 14:10

It's Not Me, It's You: Underfunctioning vs Overfunctioning

In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa give you three reasons on why you should join their book club starting June 6th at 1:00 pm PST.

May 30, 2022 • 16:54

A Couples Session In The Car

In this episode, John does an Instagram live at home, and chooses a couple to have a session with as they're driving in the car. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

May 27, 2022 • 20:12

Stop Recreating What Was

In this episode, John shares some life tips and explores how to stop recreating what was. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

May 25, 2022 • 14:11

It's Not Me, It's You: The Practice of Love with Ashley and Lair Torrent

In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa speak with Ashley and Lair Torrent all about the practice of love.

May 23, 2022 • 54:23

We Fall In Love With Posters

In this episode, John talks about how important it is to stop hiding and be as honest as soon as possible when you're dating. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

May 20, 2022 • 13:34

The Imprint of New Experiences

In this episode, John talks about playing back old memories to recreate the amazing feeing it gave you back then today, and how memories and new experiences make an imprint in your life. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents

May 18, 2022 • 18:33

It's Not Me, It's You: Two Types of Relationship Energy

In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa talk about two types of relationship energy with special guest, Dene Logan.

May 16, 2022 • 1:00:14

A Letter From My Future Self

In this episode, John reads a letter he wrote to himself. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

May 13, 2022 • 11:47

Be Open to Everything. Attached to Nothing.

In this episode, John talks about the benefits of being open to everything in life while not attaching yourself to anything in life at the same time. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a

May 11, 2022 • 14:15

It's Not Me, It's You: A Couple's Therapy Session

In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa have a laser session with another couple.

May 9, 2022 • 32:38

What Are You Looking Forward To?

In this episode, John talks about encourages his listeners to pause and think about what they're looking forward to in life. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

May 6, 2022 • 8:18

Self Care vs Self Destruction

In this episode, John talks about the fine line between self care and self destruction. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

May 4, 2022 • 9:52

It's Not Me, It's You: Not Allowing Shame to Steal Your Happy

In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa have a laser therapy session with another couple.

May 2, 2022 • 32:00

How Do I Know If My Relationship Is Safe?

In this episode, John explains and gives his tips on how to know if your relationship is safe. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Apr 29, 2022 • 18:08

Seek The Barriers That Prevent Love

In this episode, John talks about the different types of barriers you should look for that prevents love. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Apr 27, 2022 • 9:52

It's Not Me, It's You: What's Running Underneath

In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa talk about having hard conversations and what's running underneath relationship conflicts.

Apr 25, 2022 • 37:09

The New Love

In this episode, John talks about a new type of love we should thread into all of our relationships. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Apr 22, 2022 • 8:02

No BS with Haylin Dennison

In this episode, John talks with a longtime friend, Haylin Dennison, about social work, trauma, growth, and life. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Apr 20, 2022 • 56:58

It's Not Me, It's You: Radical Responsibility

In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa have a conversation about radical responsibility in relationships.

Apr 18, 2022 • 40:54

How To Be More Productive

In this episode, John shares his advice on how to be more productive. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Apr 15, 2022 • 14:17

This Is The Kind Of Guy You Shouldn't Wait For

In this episode, John talks about the type of people you shouldn't wait around for. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Apr 13, 2022 • 14:42

Therapy Thursdays

In this episode, John hosts an Instagram live called "Therapy Thursdays" where he asks and answers listeners' questions live. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Apr 11, 2022 • 19:30

Revelations at 49

In this episode, John talks about his revelations he's learned at 49.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit pod

Apr 8, 2022 • 17:58

My Definition of a Good Life

In this episode, John talks about his definitions of what makes a good life. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Apr 6, 2022 • 14:41

What Should I Do If He Emotionally Cheated?

In this episode, John answers a listener's question: what should I do if he emotionally cheated on me? Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Apr 4, 2022 • 16:25

The Importance of Alone Time

In this episode, John talks about the importance of having alone time. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Apr 1, 2022 • 12:08

Ten Signs You Are Growing

In this episode, John talks about the ten signs you are growing. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Mar 30, 2022 • 20:27

It's Not Me, It's You: The Difference Between Breakers and Red Flags

In this episode, John and Vanessa talk about the difference between breakers and red flags in relationships.

Mar 28, 2022 • 19:37

How We Snap Back Sometimes

In this episode, John talks about how we can snap back in our old ways after we have started working on ourselves. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Mar 25, 2022 • 10:54

Playing Back Your Relationships (What To Do When You Do?)

In this episode, John plays back some of his relationships and previous experiences, and talks about what to do when you get down on yourself about them. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, a

Mar 23, 2022 • 10:30

No BS: Book Agent JL Stermer

In this episode, John talks with book agent JL Stermer all about writing books, getting published, and how to stand out on social media.

Mar 21, 2022 • 58:42

Is Love Blind?

In this episode, John talks about the TV show "Love is Blind," dating, relationships, love whether he believes love is blind or not. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Mar 18, 2022 • 15:04

Should I Leave My Marriage (Q&A)

In this episode, John answers a listener's question: should I leave my marriage? Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Mar 16, 2022 • 17:30

DATING: With Gabi Conti

In this episode, Gabi Conti talks with John about dating and serial killers? Gabi can give you something better. The first ten episode season of Gabi's "Am I Dating A Serial Killer?" is available only on audible  https://www.audible.com/pd/Am-I-Dating-a-Serial-Killer-Podcast/B09RGF92W3 Her book "Twenty Guys You Date In Your Twenties" is available wherever you buy or listen to books https://www.gabiconti.com/book-twenty-guys-you-date-in-your-twenties-by-gabi-conti more info on

Mar 14, 2022 • 55:02

How to Create New Love

In this episode, John explains and gives examples on how to create new love experiences. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Mar 11, 2022 • 11:24

What’s Your Life Swing Look Like?

In this episode, John talks about taking swings at life and what it means to live consciously. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Mar 9, 2022 • 11:15

Work / Love / Family with Charlie & Erika Curtis

In this episode, John and Vanessa talk work, love, life, and family with Charlie and Erika Curtis.

Mar 7, 2022 • 52:38

The Power of Empathy

In this episode, John talks about his dad and the importance of having empathy. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Mar 4, 2022 • 13:48

3 Tenets of a Life Anchor

In this episode, John talks about life anchors, what they are, and how to integrate them into your daily life. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Mar 2, 2022 • 15:45

It's Not Me, It's You: Someone With Tools, Oh Fuck!

In this episode, John and Vanessa read a chapter from their new book about how they first met, and talk about what they both experienced during the first few months of their relationship.

Feb 28, 2022 • 23:41

Single On Purpose: What Moving On Really Looks Like

In this episode, John pulls content from his book, Single. On Purpose, and talks about what moving on from your ex really looks like. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Feb 25, 2022 • 9:50

How to Build Yourself a Life Container

In this episode, John gives you steps on how to build yourself a new life container. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Feb 23, 2022 • 13:03

It's Not Me, It's You: What is Conscious Love and Why Now?

In this episode, John and Vanessa talks about conscious love and dive into the different love we experience in our 20's, 30's, and 40's.

Feb 21, 2022 • 20:59

You're Grieving More Than Just The Relationship

In this episode, John talks about the different types of grief you will experience after a break-up. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Feb 18, 2022 • 12:55

Five Things Needed For Relationship Soil

In this episode, John talks about the five things needed for your relationship to grow and thrive. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Feb 16, 2022 • 14:57

It's Not Me, It's You: Pulling Themes

In this episode, John and Vanessa talk about the revelations they have while writing a book together, and pulling themes from their past and current relationships.

Feb 14, 2022 • 30:18

Love In Our 30's

In this episode, John shares his opinion on the kind of love we look for in our 30's. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Feb 11, 2022 • 14:44

Live Like You're On Vacation (It's Not What You Think)

In this episode, John answers a listener's question about finding other people attractive while you're in a relationship, and the importance of living like you're on vacation. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist b

Feb 9, 2022 • 13:57

It's Not Me, It's You: Expectations in Dating

In this episode, John and Vanessa answer listeners' questions about different expectations in dating and relationships.

Feb 7, 2022 • 22:23

Two Relationship Game Changers

In this episode, John talks about two relationship game changers which might not be what you think. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Feb 4, 2022 • 16:51

Three Things Your Relationship Should Be Able To Survive

In this episode, John talks about the three things your relationship should be able to survive. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Feb 2, 2022 • 15:21

It's Not Me, It's You: What's Your Most Recent Revelation?

In this episode, John and Vanessa share what their most recent revelations are.

Jan 31, 2022 • 11:21

Pulling Yourself Out Of The Trenches

In this episode, John gives advice on how to pull yourself out of the trenches. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Jan 28, 2022 • 14:00

Tips On Holding On When You See The Island

In this episode, John gives his tips and examples on how to hold on and push through when you see the island. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Jan 26, 2022 • 16:59

It's Not Me, It's You: Navigating Growth and Differences

In this episode, John and Vanessa discuss ways to approach communicating your needs and desires with a partner. They also examine their still forming thoughts about balancing feminine and masculine energies through introspection, ownership and self-awareness.

Jan 24, 2022 • 32:28

Dad Life Series

In this episode, John shares some stories and revelations around raising a child in today's world. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Jan 21, 2022 • 16:32

Single On Purpose: Treat Your Mind Better

In this episode, John pulls from his book, Single. On Purpose, and talks about how to treat your mind better. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Jan 19, 2022 • 15:56

It's Not Me, It's You: Examining Ambivalence

In this episode, John and Vanessa record a live Q&A from inside a TAT Lab session. They discuss how self work can sometimes feel like 2 steps forward and 1 step back, and how when ambivalence shows up in ourselves and in relationships we need to examine and act on it.

Jan 17, 2022 • 30:51

These Two R's Will Change Your Life

In this episode, John talks about the importance of rewiring and processing your old residue. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Learn more about your ad choice

Jan 14, 2022 • 14:17

Relationship Better

In this episode, John talks about how to push yourself out of your comfort zone and be "relationships better."

Jan 12, 2022 • 9:20

It's Not Me, It's You: Fantasizing About Others

In this episode, John and Vanessa discuss how fantasy and jealousy can present themselves in relationships, and where the line between healthy and not healthy can be drawn for both. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jan 10, 2022 • 32:45

Things Technology Can't Take From Us

In this episode, John talks about all of the things technology cannot take away from us. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Jan 7, 2022 • 15:50

What Do You Want To Be When You Grow Up?

In this episode, John tackles and discusses an important question everyone is asked: what do you want to be when you grow up? Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Jan 5, 2022 • 13:30

It's Not Me, It's You: Letters to Our Exes

In this episode, John and Vanessa share letters that they've written to their partners of the past. They discuss the lessons gathered from those relationships, how they’ve transcended over time, and how they show up in their partnership today.

Jan 3, 2022 • 33:47

Year in Review

In this episode, John reviews 2021: what happened, the good, the bad, and the what he's learned along the way. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Dec 31, 2021 • 19:07

This Is Why I'm Letting You Go

In this episode, John plays a recording he made on his phone about reasons why one should let someone go. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Dec 29, 2021 • 9:15

It's Not Me, It's You: Equality in Partnerships

In this episode, John and Vanessa share some exciting news about a new project that they're working on together, and what it’s bringing up for them. They discuss how there tends to be power differentials in relationships and how they can cultivate a dynamic where they're true partners bringing their own unique things to the table.

Dec 27, 2021 • 38:51

I Think My Partner Is Having An Emotional Affair

In this episode, John answers and gives advice on a listeners question: what do I do when I think my partner is having an emotional affair? Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human bein

Dec 24, 2021 • 17:20

The New Generation of Crossfitters

In this one hour long episode, John hosts his first in-person podcast interview with fellow crossfitters to talk about fitness, and their stories. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a hu

Dec 22, 2021 • 1:08:42

It's Not Me, It's You: Answering Your Questions

In this episode, John and Vanessa answer questions submitted by the listeners. They talk through and sometimes disagree on questions around how to not be the toxic one in a relationship, how you can make a relationship with an Avoidant work, the reality of “getting over” a relationship, and when two people’s sexual drives aren’t aligned.

Dec 20, 2021 • 26:56

Nervous System vs Soul

In this episode, John talks about the difference between what your nervous system wants versus what your soul wants. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Dec 17, 2021 • 15:08

I Can't Stop Thinking About My Toxic Ex

In this episode, John gives advice and answers some listeners' questions including: "would you still be attracted to/be in love with your wife if she gained 100 pounds?" "Any tips on how to remain calm around toxic family during the holidays?" and "how do I heal from a toxic relationship and stop thinking about my toxic ex?" Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, Jo

Dec 15, 2021 • 17:30

It's Not Me, It's You: Needs Are a Two-Way Street

An extra hard day of parenting can test your relationship in many ways, especially in terms of having your needs met. Getting your needs met isn’t just about asking for them. Your partner should move toward you as well, especially if you have difficulty expressing your needs. Needs are a two-way street. Let John and Vanessa explain.

Dec 13, 2021 • 26:49

4 Factors That Make Singles Thrive

In this episode, John talks about four important things that make singles thrive. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Dec 10, 2021 • 18:40

Universal Law #27

In this episode, John talks about how to let your life unfold, trust the unfolding, and be open to what the universe presents to you. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Dec 8, 2021 • 12:23

It's Not Me, It's You: Our Top 3 Relationship Killers

In this episode, John and Vanessa go over what they think are their top 3 relationship killers. They discuss how they show up, how they can be more aware of them, and how they can work to ensure they don’t show up in their relationships, or how to work on them if they do.

Dec 6, 2021 • 31:28

I Got Into A Fight

In this episode, John talks about a fight he almost got into at the gym, what the experience reminded him of, how fast we can snap back to our "old selves," and the importance of responding instead of reacting. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and doc

Dec 3, 2021 • 16:54

Four Ways To Stay Attracted To Your Partner

In this episode, John sings a Madonna song and talks about the four ways to help you stay attracted to your partner. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Dec 1, 2021 • 14:06

It's Not Me, It's You: Two Types of Desire

Sexual Desire. It’s a topic that is always coming up for John, Vanessa, and their clients. How much sex is enough? How come I always want it and they don’t? What’s wrong with me / with them? John and Vanessa break down the two distinct types of desire and why understanding them both can be a massive shift in your relationship. This was a huge lightbulb moment for Vanessa. Please rate and review if you feel like this is valuable and want to help us help others.

Nov 29, 2021 • 40:13

My First EFT Session

In this episode, John records his first EFT session lead by TAT Lab instructor, Susheela Kundargi. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Nov 26, 2021 • 43:04

No BS With Nicholas Gonzalez

In this episode, John sits down and chats with actor, Nicholas Gonzalez. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Nov 24, 2021 • 1:00:30

It's Not Me, It's You: Love and Money

Money is one of those topics that can make or break a relationship. John and Vanessa discuss how their upbringings and personal beliefs about money shape them individually, but also as a partnership. Please rate and review if you feel like this is valuable and want to help us help others. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nov 22, 2021 • 37:17

Kind To You First

In this episode, John talks about the importance of being kind to you first. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Nov 19, 2021 • 15:41

How To Heal A Broken Heart

In this episode, John talks about his theory on how to heal a broken heart. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Nov 17, 2021 • 12:12

It's Not Me, It's You: The Relationship Dance

So many relationship dances, so little time: Avoidant/Anxious, Overfunctioner/Underfunctioner, CODA/Compulsive, Enabler/Enabled. John and Vanessa dive into how they are always trying to become more aware when the cycles start and old patterns take over, and how they can work to break them through naming them. Please rate and review if you feel like this is valuable and want to help us help others.

Nov 15, 2021 • 35:44

How To Express Your Needs

In this episode, John talks about how to properly express your needs in your relationships. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Nov 12, 2021 • 16:04

The Blindsided Break Up

In this episode, John talks about how being blindsided by a break up can be more difficult than other break ups, and how to heal from them. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human bein

Nov 10, 2021 • 19:02

It's Not Me, It's You: Rewiring Through Love

In this episode, John and Vanessa get into the importance of feeling an experience or a change in your habits, behaviors or needs in your body - having a full system experience - in order for you to eventually rewire your brain and make the change stick. They also talk about some personal examples where they have felt the integration happening in real time.

Nov 8, 2021 • 33:34

Destroy Your Default

In this episode, John talks about our unhealthy defaults and how to change them. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Nov 5, 2021 • 11:43

Take The Risk

In this episode, John talks about his dad and how to practice taking healthy risks. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Nov 3, 2021 • 18:28

It's Not Me, It's You: Our Love Lessons

In this episode, John and Vanessa each go through three love lessons they've learned on their journeys. Some learned through past love experiences and some new lessons learned with each other.

Nov 1, 2021 • 36:42

Hey, If You're Single...

In this episode, John discusses some helpful advice and tips on how to be single and connect back to yourself.

Oct 29, 2021 • 13:53

Three Love Poisons

In this episode, John discusses the three things that poisons love that he got from a book he's reading, "The Four Noble Truths of Love" by Susan Piver.

Oct 27, 2021 • 12:15

It's Not Me, It's You: Reflections 2020

In this episode, John and Vanessa review of all the crazy things that happened in 2020, the learnings that came from those experiences, and the excitement for what’s to come.

Oct 25, 2021 • 37:45

I Don't Know Where To Start

In this episode, John talks about what living in the light vs what living in the dark looks like, where you're pulling from, and how to change it.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more impor

Oct 22, 2021 • 15:03

Can Our Marriage Survive Affairs?

In this episode, John gives his insight on a question he's commonly asked: can our marriage survive affairs? Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Oct 20, 2021 • 17:10

It's Not Me, It's You: Finding Beauty In The Contrast

In this episode, John and Vanessa talk about the double edged sword that is their contrasting personalities. The things they love about each other are also the same things that can activate the shit out of them. How do they continue to remind themselves that their differences can actually be what helps them stretch and the relationship go deeper?

Oct 18, 2021 • 46:47

Answering Your Questions With Vanessa Bennett

In this episode, John and Vanessa talk about sending their daughter off to school, and answer live questions from people over Zoom.

Oct 15, 2021 • 32:44

A Mindfulness Tip

In this episode, John talks about practicing mindfulness while washing his car and gives you a piece of advice he learned about when he was a teenager. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Oct 13, 2021 • 13:49

It's Not Me, It's You: How Our Stars Line Up

In this episode, John and Vanessa take a look at their star charts and how they both align as well as conflict. They talk through how our inner emotional worlds are almost the exact opposite and how differences like this can make or break them depending on how much they understand, empathize, and adjust their expectations accordingly.

Oct 11, 2021 • 55:04

Chicken Sh*t

In this episode, John talks about overcoming his fears including his fear of small animals. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Oct 8, 2021 • 15:36

Three Signs Your Relationship Is In Trouble

In this episode, John talks about three possible signs your relationship might be in trouble and why. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Oct 6, 2021 • 14:07

It's Not Me, It's You Series: How Our Codependency Shows Up

In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You" series, John and Vanessa take a different approach with a deep dive into codependency and how it affects their relationship. In working through her own codependency, as well as with clients who almost all struggle in some way or another, Vanessa has made it a personal mission to speak openly with whoever will listen about the different ways it can show up.

Oct 4, 2021 • 37:01

A Crucial Part of Self Awareness

In this episode, John talks about what he believes is a crucial part of self awareness.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Oct 1, 2021 • 12:30

It's Not Me, It's You Series: The Whale Under Water

In the second episode of "It's Not Me, It's You" series, John and Vanessa explore what’s happening underneath their relationship. John not feeling desired, Vanessa not feeling good enough, and patterns they were not aware of.

Sep 29, 2021 • 49:24

Abundant v.s. Scarcity Mindset

In this episode, John explains the difference between those who have an abundant mindset vs a scarcity mindset.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Sep 27, 2021 • 16:42

We're Not Having Sex Anymore

In this episode, John reads and discusses a chapter from his new book "Single. On Purpose."Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Learn more about you

Sep 24, 2021 • 16:06

Three Green Flags You Should Look For

In this episode, John talks about the three green flags you should look for in a relationship. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Sep 22, 2021 • 14:14

It's Not Me, It's You Series: The Three Year Itch

In the first episode of "It's Not Me, It's You" series, John and Vanessa discuss their relationship and feelings around the three year itch.

Sep 20, 2021 • 33:41

Sparking Joy (On My Couch)

In this episode, John talks about how to soak up the moments and spark joy in your life. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Sep 17, 2021 • 14:32

Things I Find Beauty In

In this episode, John talks about the things he finds beauty in in his life. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Sep 15, 2021 • 18:07

Freedom Is Everything

In this episode, John talks about how to find freedom in your life. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Sep 13, 2021 • 17:41

Buy The Sliced Apples

In this episode, John talks about how to make things easier for yourself. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Sep 10, 2021 • 14:09

How Do I Change Someone?

In this episode, John answers a question he's most commonly asked: how do I change someone? Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Learn more about your ad choices.

Sep 8, 2021 • 21:30

Three Signs Your Relationship Is In Trouble

In this episode, John talks about the three most common signs you'll feel or see when your relationship is in trouble. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Sep 6, 2021 • 15:12

No BS with the Jaffe's

In this hour long episode, John and his partner, Vanessa, talk about therapy, trauma, relationships, childhood, parenting, and much more with another couple, the Jaffe's. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but mo

Sep 3, 2021 • 1:03:41

Does Easy Mean You're With The Right Person?

In this episode, John talks about whether being in an easy relationship means you're with the right person or not. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  Learn more ab

Sep 1, 2021 • 12:58

Redefining Productivity

In this episode, John talks about how to be productive in a healthy way.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit

Aug 30, 2021 • 16:51

Your Old Self Hangover

In this episode, John talks about the importance of growth and how it's a process. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Aug 27, 2021 • 14:21

We Must Create New Lenses

In this episode, John talks about the importance of creating new lenses after hardship. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Aug 25, 2021 • 13:55

Dear Future Self

In this episode, John reads a letter he wrote to his future self. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcas

Aug 23, 2021 • 16:50

Actively Seek Beauty

In this episode, John talks about how to actively seek beauty in your life. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Aug 20, 2021 • 13:10

Finding The Perfect Partner vs Finding Perfect In Your Partner

In this episode, John explains his take on "the one," and how to focus on finding the perfect in your partner rather than finding the perfect partner. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as

Aug 18, 2021 • 10:46

My Definition of Beauty

In this episode, John talks about his definition of beauty. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Aug 16, 2021 • 15:16

In Love vs In Lost

In this episode, John talks about the difference between feeling in love and feeling in lost, and how some people can mistake one for the other. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a huma

Aug 13, 2021 • 16:55

Hitting Pause On Life

In this episode, John talks the about the importance of hitting pause on life and taking the time to feel gratitude. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Aug 11, 2021 • 19:30

My Boyfriend is a Jealous Person

In this episode, John shares some advice and tips on how to deal with a jealous boyfriend, girlfriend, or partner. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Aug 9, 2021 • 21:00

Gratitude Series: Episode Two

In the second episode of the Gratitude Series, John talks about all of the things he is grateful for in his life right now. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Aug 6, 2021 • 14:01

How to Not Drift in Your Relationship

In this episode, John talks about how not to drift in your relationship. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Aug 4, 2021 • 13:40

Dissolving Worry

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Aug 2, 2021 • 14:33

How Important is Sex in a Relationship

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jul 30, 2021 • 19:45

One of the Greatest Life Tools

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jul 28, 2021 • 20:18

Soul Navigation

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Jul 26, 2021 • 18:11

Miserable Fuck Series #26 Don't Pee in the Shower (It's Not What You Think)

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Jul 23, 2021 • 13:31

No BS with Steve Dubbeldam

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jul 21, 2021 • 50:03

Daily Practices of Joy

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Jul 19, 2021 • 21:03

The 4 C's (In Relationships)

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Jul 16, 2021 • 13:36

My F*cking Feelings (At a Diner)

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Jul 14, 2021 • 13:38

Seed Model For Your Relationships

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Jul 12, 2021 • 14:39

Change Your Life? Start Here.

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Jul 9, 2021 • 12:55

A Self Interview

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Jul 7, 2021 • 24:32

How Do I Realign My Life

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Jul 5, 2021 • 17:56

Some Things to Finally Give Up

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Jul 2, 2021 • 23:34

Three Things Needed to Flourish

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Jun 30, 2021 • 22:50

Miserable Fuck Series (#9 Don't Pee Over the Metaphorical Urinal)

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Jun 28, 2021 • 16:29

Building Empathy

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jun 25, 2021 • 16:26

How to Build Self Esteem

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jun 23, 2021 • 13:23

Two Life Game Changers

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Jun 21, 2021 • 15:05

My Fucking Feelings (About Last Night)

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jun 18, 2021 • 12:24

Miserable Fuck Series (#36 Do Love Hard)

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jun 16, 2021 • 19:58

How You Know You're Changing

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Jun 14, 2021 • 26:58

Aliens, Sushi, and a Breathing Exercise

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jun 11, 2021 • 24:35

Practice This Powerful Mindset

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jun 9, 2021 • 16:07

5 Relationship Mistakes

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jun 7, 2021 • 28:09

If There's One Thing I've Learned

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jun 4, 2021 • 13:27

Stop The Chase

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jun 2, 2021 • 10:58

Don't Chase Happy. Instead Do This

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

May 31, 2021 • 15:59

Four Things That Can Cripple Your Relationship

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

May 28, 2021 • 18:57

Why a New Love Experience?

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

May 26, 2021 • 10:49

Musts For Your Everyday

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

May 24, 2021 • 18:07

The Buy In For Love

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

May 21, 2021 • 10:04

Stop Living In Time Machines

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

May 19, 2021 • 17:21

10 Love Lessons (In a Shot Glass)

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

May 17, 2021 • 13:39

Life is a Boomerang

John processes his past possibly coming back. Some potential tv projects has him feeling anxiety and powerlessness. He’s afraid he’s going to snap back to who he used to be.

May 14, 2021 • 53:01

The Day I Didn't Fit In

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

May 12, 2021 • 16:04

How to Find Your Personal Legend

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

May 10, 2021 • 14:27

How to Create a New Love Experience

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

May 7, 2021 • 16:35

Power in the Announcement

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

May 5, 2021 • 13:24

Flow Your Way Through

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

May 3, 2021 • 11:49

Interest vs Commitment

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Apr 30, 2021 • 14:50

No BS with Justin Baldoni

Justin Baldoni is an actor, director, and filmmaker. He is best known for portraying Rafael Solano on The CW satirical romantic dramedy Jane the Virgin as well as directing the films Five Feet Apart and Clouds. He is a husband and father with a passion in men’s work. John and Justin create a dialogue about toxic masculinity and his new book, “Man Enough.”  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Apr 28, 2021 • 54:36

You Can't Build Self Esteem Without This

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Apr 26, 2021 • 13:32

Things to Give Less Fucks About

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Apr 23, 2021 • 14:49

Love Beyond What Happened

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Apr 21, 2021 • 15:52

A Real Session About Closure

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Apr 19, 2021 • 14:27

No BS with Andre Hall

An amazing story of an addict who went from suicidal attempt to living in gratitude and helping others, just by being positive and seeing the world through new lenses. His story will give you chills and a new appreciation for life.

Apr 16, 2021 • 47:19

Revelations, Pro life tips, & Doppelbangers

John passes his phone around to his friends who share how they know him, a life revelation, and who their doppelbänger- someone they slept with who looks like a celebrity- is. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Apr 14, 2021 • 20:34

What If I'm Not Feeling It Anymore?

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Apr 12, 2021 • 17:59

48 (Birthday Revelations)

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Apr 10, 2021 • 28:09

Gratitudes Series: Episode One

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Apr 9, 2021 • 15:41

Communication For Dummies

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Apr 7, 2021 • 15:20

Am I A Fraud?

Therapists should see a therapist as well. John gets back into his own therapy, something he hasn’t done in a long time.  In this session he processes his greatest fear, people thinking he’s a fraud.

Apr 5, 2021 • 51:41

Relationship Residue

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Apr 1, 2021 • 15:47

Life Boomerangs

One of the great miracles of this life is it throws boomerangs. Your past comes back. In a good way. And allows you to connect dots. Believe there was a reason. Understand there is always something bigger happening. If you have 10 minutes, let me explain.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Mar 30, 2021 • 15:27

The New Love

In this episode, John Kim gives you his definition of the new love. Because old love can be residue and we can’t grow without new definitions. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Mar 25, 2021 • 9:50

The Little Things are Big

John Kim's newest book is OUT NOW! Single on Purpose. It hit #1 in Dating on Amazon, Order it now!  ___ John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____  Ready to try the Lab? Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.com Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change th

Mar 23, 2021 • 16:10

Get Your Own Life Already

John Kim's newest book is OUT NOW! Single on Purpose. It hit #1 in Dating on Amazon, Order it now!  ___ John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____  Ready to try the Lab? Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.com Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change th

Mar 18, 2021 • 10:27

The New Picket Fence

John Kim's newest book is OUT NOW! Single on Purpose. It hit #1 in Dating on Amazon, Order it now!  John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ___ BetterHelp.com -- Get 10% off your first month with code ANGRY BetterHelp is affordable, private online counseling. Anytime, anywhere. Talk with a licensed, professional therapist online. BetterHelp will match you to one of 13,000 licensed therapists. Get feedback, advice and guidance f

Mar 16, 2021 • 16:44

Finding Your Flow

John Kim's newest book is OUT NOW! Single on Purpose. It hit #1 in Dating on Amazon, Order it now!  ___ John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____  Ready to try the Lab? Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.com Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change th

Mar 11, 2021 • 13:17

When People Trigger Us

John Kim's newest book is OUT NOW! Single on Purpose. It hit #1 in Dating on Amazon, Order it now!  John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ___ Calm.com Sleep more. Stress less. Live better. Get 40% off your membership by visiting Calm.com/angrytherapist You can use Calm.com to reduce stress, better sleep, develop gratitude, increase happiness, improve performance, build self-esteem or reduce anxiety. Get 40% off your membershi

Mar 9, 2021 • 16:04

TAT LAB: Intimacy and Sexuality with Rena Martine

John Kim's newest book is OUT NOW! Single on Purpose. It hit #1 in Dating on Amazon, Order it now!  John Kim talks about intimacy and sexuality with TAT Lab instructor Rena Martine ___ John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____  Ready to try the Lab? Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.com Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangryth

Mar 4, 2021 • 40:17

I Don't Know Where to Start

John Kim's newest book is OUT NOW! Single on Purpose. It hit #1 in Dating on Amazon, Order it now!  ___ John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. BetterHelp.com -- Get 10% off your first month with code ANGRY BetterHelp is affordable, private online counseling. Anytime, anywhere. Talk with a licensed, professional therapist online. BetterHelp will match you to one of 13,000 licensed therapists. Get feedback, advice and guidance f

Mar 2, 2021 • 8:07

TAT LAB: Love in Your 20's with Tess Brewer

John Kim's newest book is OUT NOW! Single on Purpose. It hit #1 in Dating on Amazon, Order it now!  John Kim talks about love in your 20s with TAT LAB fellow Tess Brewer. ___ John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____  Ready to try the Lab? Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.com Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.co

Feb 25, 2021 • 35:25

This is Crucial for Self Awareness

John Kim's newest book is OUT NOW! Single on Purpose. It hit #1 in Dating on Amazon, Order it now! ___ KENCKO.COM -- Get 25% OFF with code: ANGRY Kencko is smoothies and real nourishment for busy people. Add organic fruits and veggies to your daily routine in under one minute. No added sugars or sweeteners. All the vitamins and fiber. Find the right smoothie box, personalized just for you. FIRST 100 LISTENERS GET 25% OFF  https://www.kencko.com/angry ---- PLUSHCARE -- Free 30 Day Trial Book a sa

Feb 23, 2021 • 13:29

TAT LAB: Breathwork with Brandon Groux

John Kim's newest book is OUT NOW! Single on Purpose. It hit #1 in Dating on Amazon, Order it now!  John Kim talks adventure, nomadic life and breathwork with TAT lab instructor Brandon Groux. ___ John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____  Ready to try the Lab? Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.com Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://ww

Feb 18, 2021 • 14:25

Lean Into the Power of Your Story

John Kim's newest book is OUT NOW! Single on Purpose. It hit #1 in Dating on Amazon, Order it now!  ___ John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ---- BetterHelp.com -- Get 10% off your first month with code ANGRY BetterHelp is affordable, private online counseling. Anytime, anywhere. Talk with a licensed, professional therapist online. BetterHelp will match you to one of 13,000 licensed therapists. Get feedback, advice and guida

Feb 16, 2021 • 16:45

TAT LAB: Rewiring with Jenn Reddy

John Kim's newest book is OUT NOW! Single on Purpose. It hit #1 in Dating on Amazon, Order it now!  John Kim goes deep on re-wiring with TAT lab instructor Jenn Reddy. ___ John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____  Ready to try the Lab? Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.com Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/t

Feb 11, 2021 • 46:38

Two Relationship Gamechangers

John Kim's newest book is OUT NOW! Single on Purpose. It hit #1 in Dating on Amazon, Order it now! ___ John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. THRIVE MARKET -- 25% off your first order and a FREE GIFT Buy healthy food from top-selling, organic brands at wholesale prices. Thrive Market makes healthy living easy. Your favorite organic & non-GMO brands, plus guaranteed savings—delivered to your door. Tailored to any diet! Visit ww

Feb 9, 2021 • 18:38

How Do You Know When to Love Someone?

John Kim's newest book is OUT NOW! Single on Purpose. It hit #1 in Dating on Amazon, Order it now! ___ John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____  Ready to try the Lab? Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.com Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the

Feb 4, 2021 • 5:58

The Feel Goods Can Change Your Life -- Here's How

John Kim's newest book is OUT NOW! Single on Purpose. It hit #1 in Dating on Amazon, Order it now! ____ BetterHelp.com -- Get 10% off your first month with code ANGRY BetterHelp is affordable, private online counseling. Anytime, anywhere. Talk with a licensed, professional therapist online. BetterHelp will match you to one of 13,000 licensed therapists. Get feedback, advice and guidance from your counselor. ___ Four Sigmatic Coffee Get 40% off and FREE shipping! USE CODE ANGRY -- http://foursigm

Feb 2, 2021 • 17:15

This is a Good Place to Start

John Kim's newest book is OUT NOW! Single on Purpose. It hit #1 in Dating on Amazon, Order it now! ___ Calm.com Sleep more. Stress less. Live better. Get 40% off your membership by visiting Calm.com/angrytherapist You can use Calm.com to reduce stress, better sleep, develop gratitude, increase happiness, improve performance, build self-esteem or reduce anxiety. Get 40% off your membership by visiting Calm.com/angrytherapist ____ John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy

Jan 28, 2021 • 17:50

Do You Believe in Love at First Sight?

Do you believe in love at first sight? John breaks down this common misconception about love. John Kim's newest book is OUT NOW! Single on Purpose. It hit #1 in Dating on Amazon, Order it now! _____ NordVPN Special Deal! Shield your Internet browsing from criminals and surveillance With NordVPN, all the data you send and receive online travels through an encrypted tunnel. This way, no one can get their hands on your private information. Every purchase of a 2-year plan will get you 1 additional m

Jan 26, 2021 • 16:22

TAT LAB: Singlehood with Dené Selkin

John Kim's newest book is OUT NOW! Single on Purpose. It hit #1 in Dating on Amazon, Order it now! John Kim goes deep on singlehood with TAT lab instructor Dene Selkin. ___ THRIVE MARKET -- 25% off your first order and a FREE GIFT Buy healthy food from top-selling, organic brands at wholesale prices. Thrive Market makes healthy living easy. Your favorite organic & non-GMO brands, plus guaranteed savings—delivered to your door. Tailored to any diet! Visit www.thrivemarket.com/angrytherapist to ge

Jan 21, 2021 • 50:40

How to Create a New Life For Yourself

John Kim's newest book is OUT NOW! Single on Purpose. It hit #1 in Dating on Amazon, Order it now!  _____ Skillshare -- Learn ANYTHING and thrive. The Angry Therapist listeners: Get 14 Day free trial of Skillshare Premium Membership! Click here to redeem  Use this code: https://www.skillshare.com/angry Explore more than 32,000 classes to fuel your curiosity, creativity, and career. -- Four Sigmatic Coffee Get 40% off and FREE shipping! USE CODE ANGRY -- http://foursigmatic.com/angry TRY MUSHROOM

Jan 19, 2021 • 16:15

How to Heal a Broken Heart

John Kim's newest book is OUT NOW! Single on Purpose. It hit #1 in Dating on Amazon, Order it now!  ____ John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____  Ready to try the Lab? Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.com Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change t

Jan 14, 2021 • 11:42

Single on Purpose: Treat Your Mind Better

John Kim's newest book is OUT TODAY! Single on Purpose. It hit #1 in Dating on Amazon, Order it now! John's doing a special series of episodes to dive deep into the concepts from the book. _____ NordVPN Special Deal! Shield your Internet browsing from criminals and surveillance With NordVPN, all the data you send and receive online travels through an encrypted tunnel. This way, no one can get their hands on your private information. Every purchase of a 2-year plan will get you 1 additional month

Jan 12, 2021 • 18:30

TAT LAB: Practical Buddhism with Coach Charlene

John and TAT Lab Instructor Charlene go deep on all things Buddhism and Charlene shares her hero's journey through domestic violence and how she became a shaman.____John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.____ Ready to try the Lab? Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.comSign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/textsWant t

Jan 7, 2021 • 41:01

Single on Purpose: Getting Over Someone

John Kim's newest book is almost here: Single on Purpose. It's already #1 in Dating on Amazon, Pre-order it now! John's doing a special series of episodes to dive deep into the concepts from the book!  ____  Skillshare -- Learn ANYTHING and thrive. The Angry Therapist listeners: Get 2 months free trial of Skillshare Premium Membership! Click here to redeem  Use this code: https://www.skillshare.com/angry Explore more than 32,000 classes to fuel your curiosity, creativity, and career. ___  THRIVE

Jan 5, 2021 • 13:32

Single on Purpose: Dealing with Loneliness

John Kim's newest book is almost here: Single on Purpose. It's already #1 in Dating on Amazon, Pre-order it now! John's doing a special series of episodes to dive deep into the concepts from the book!  ____  Ready to try the Lab? Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.com Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way other

Dec 31, 2020 • 10:09

Single on Purpose: Be With Yourself First

John Kim's newest book is almost here: Single on Purpose. It's already #1 in Dating on Amazon, Pre-order it now! John's doing a special series of episodes to dive deep into the concepts from the book! ____TRY HELLO FRESH and GET $80 OFF your first 5 boxes and FREE shipping with code: ANGRYTHERAPIST80Hello Fresh is quick, easy, delicious meal delivery kits sent straight to your door. Take dinner off your plate with 20 weekly meal choices.Get everything you need to cook delicious

Dec 29, 2020 • 19:01

Your Act Break Year

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____  Ready to try the Lab? Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.com Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach. ____ Music in

Dec 24, 2020 • 14:16

TAT LAB: 360 Degrees of Wellness with Barbara Haynes

John Kim goes deep on all aspects of wellness with TAT lab instructor Barbara Haynes. ____ NordVPN Special Christmas Deal! Shield your Internet browsing from criminals and surveillance With NordVPN, all the data you send and receive online travels through an encrypted tunnel. This way, no one can get their hands on your private information. Every purchase of a 2-year plan will get you 4 additional months free. Go to https://nordvpn.com/TheAngryTherapist and use the coupon THEANGRYTHERAPIST at ch

Dec 22, 2020 • 32:40

TAT LAB: What is Codependency? with Vanessa Bennett

John Kim goes deep on codependency within relationships with TAT lab instructor Vanessa Bennett.____John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.____ Ready to try the Lab? Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.comSign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/textsWant to change your own life, give back to others and

Dec 17, 2020 • 33:44

TAT LAB: How Attachment Styles Affect Our Relationships with Taune Lyons

John Kim goes deep on relationships and attachment styles with TAT lab instructor Taune Lyons. ___ Skillshare -- Learn ANYTHING and thrive. The Angry Therapist listeners: Get 2 months free trial of Skillshare Premium Membership! Click here to redeem  Use this code: https://www.skillshare.com/angry Explore more than 32,000 classes to fuel your curiosity, creativity, and career, and learn to make handmade gifts for Christmas! ___ Magic Spoon is healthy cereal that tastes too good to be true. Keto

Dec 15, 2020 • 33:48

TAT LAB: Astrology and Relationships with Milly Murillo

John Kim goes deep on astrology and relationships with coach and TAT lab instructor Milly Murillo, of AstroConsciousness.___John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.____ Ready to try the Lab? Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.comSign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/textsWant to change your own life,

Dec 10, 2020 • 35:58

How to Practice Kindness and Love

Reading Jack Kornfield teaches me a few things about love and kindness. ___ BetterHelp.com -- Get 10% off your first month with code ANGRY BetterHelp is affordable, private online counseling. Anytime, anywhere. Talk with a licensed, professional therapist online. BetterHelp will match you to one of 13,000 licensed therapists. Get feedback, advice and guidance from your counselor. __________ Calm.com Sleep more. Stress less. Live better. Get 40% off your membership by visiting Calm.com/angrythera

Dec 8, 2020 • 16:04

Personal Growth Comes in Waves

____ John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____  Ready to try the Lab? Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.com Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach. ____ Mus

Dec 3, 2020 • 12:31

You Thought it Was Love, But it Wasn't

What if you thought it was love, but what if it wasn't?John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____ BetterHelp.com -- Get 10% off your first month with code ANGRY BetterHelp is affordable, private online counseling. Anytime, anywhere. Talk with a licensed, professional therapist online. BetterHelp will match you to one of 13,000 licensed therapists. Get feedback, advice and guidance from your counselor. __________ United Harves

Dec 1, 2020 • 19:49

Giving Thanks for the Small Stuff

A re-broadcast from 2018, we goes into the small stuff and talks about handling difficult situations over the holidays. ____ John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____  Ready to try the Lab? Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.com Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to

Nov 26, 2020 • 16:38

3 Ways to Become a Better Partner

Everyone wants to be a better partner -- here's three ways to become one. John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____  United Harvest is the very best meats, delivered directly to you. Get rib-eye steaks, wagyu, lamb chops and so much more. United Harvest is rancher owned -- a community of like-minded and impassioned farmers, united in a direct-to-consumer food revolution.  USE CODE: ANGRY for 20% off your entire order of $50

Nov 24, 2020 • 16:04

TAT LAB: Sex and Love Addiction with Sean Cardinalli

John Kim goes deep on sex and love addiction with coach and TAT lab instructor Sean Cardinalli.  ____ John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____  Ready to try the Lab? Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.com Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the

Nov 19, 2020 • 30:51

How to Know if You're Ready for Commitment

Are you ready for real commitment in a relationship?  ___ Calm.comSleep more. Stress less. Live better. Get 40% off your membership by visiting Calm.com/angrytherapistYou can use Calm.com to reduce stress, better sleep, develop gratitude, increase happiness, improve performance, build self-esteem or reduce anxiety. Get 40% off your membership by visiting Calm.com/angrytherapist ____ Magic Spoon is healthy cereal that tastes too good to be true. Keto cereal that's High-Protein, Low-Sugar, Keto-Fr

Nov 17, 2020 • 16:47

Trauma Bonding vs.True Love

Is it real love, or just a trauma bond?John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____  Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.com Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coa

Nov 12, 2020 • 16:47

No BS with Mike Sagun

My guest today is Mike Sagun. He's incredible and we had an amazing conversation about men's mental health and self care and so much more.____ BetterHelp.com -- Get 10% off your first month with code ANGRY BetterHelp is affordable, private online counseling. Anytime, anywhere. Talk with a licensed, professional therapist online. BetterHelp will match you to one of 13,000 licensed therapists. Get feedback, advice and guidance from your counselor.____MIKE SAGUN -- Mike is a certified professional

Nov 10, 2020 • 55:39

The 6-Second Kiss Can Change Your Life

It's time to bring kissing back. John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____  Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.com Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach. __

Nov 5, 2020 • 14:16

Abundance vs. Scarcity

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. _____ BetterHelp.com -- Get 10% off your first month with code ANGRY BetterHelp is affordable, private online counseling. Anytime, anywhere. Talk with a licensed, professional therapist online. BetterHelp will match you to one of 13,000 licensed therapists. Get feedback, advice and guidance from your counselor. ________ Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way

Nov 3, 2020 • 17:31

Does Your Relationship Really Have a Chance?

Can your relationship last? John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____  Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.com Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach. ____ Mu

Oct 29, 2020 • 13:22

Redefining Love

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Oct 27, 2020 • 16:03

The Power of Slowing Down

"Just slow things down and it becomes more beautiful." - David Lynch John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____  Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.com Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI

Oct 22, 2020 • 16:06

How to Know When Your Relationship is Over

This is how you know. And you gotta be honest. John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____  TRY HELLO FRESH and GET $80 OFF with code: ANGRYTHERAPIST80 Hello Fresh is quick, easy, delicious meal delivery kits sent straight to your doo. Take dinner off your plate with 20 weekly meal choices. Get everything you need to cook delicious meals delivered to your door! Hello Fresh America's Most Popular Meal Kit✅ Most 5-Star-Reviews ✅

Oct 20, 2020 • 17:00

Negative Visualization

Ancient stoic technique for growth. Check it out. John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____  Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.com Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become

Oct 15, 2020 • 11:20

This Promise To Yourself Will Change Your Life

What's the biggest and most important promise you can make to yourself? ___ Magic Spoon is healthy cereal that tastes too good to be true. Keto cereal that's High-Protein, Low-Sugar, Keto-Friendly, Non-GMO, Gluten-Free, Grain-Free, Soy-Free, Wheat-Free! Now you can have your cereal and eat it too. Nothing Artificial. Try Magic Spoon with our 100% happiness guarantee and free shipping! MAGICSPOON.COM/ANGRYPROMO CODE: ANGRY ____ Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrythe

Oct 13, 2020 • 13:53

Are You With a Narcissist?

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____  Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.com Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Ke

Oct 8, 2020 • 14:48

The Great Divide

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____ Skillshare -- Learn ANYTHING and thrive. The first 1,000 people to use this link will get a free trial of Skillshare Premium Membership. Use this code: https://www.skillshare.com/angry Explore more than 25,000 classes to fuel your curiosity, creativity, and career. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke,

Oct 6, 2020 • 14:38

Chicken Sh*t

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____  Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

Oct 1, 2020 • 14:02

The Best Positive Psychology Concept I've Ever Heard

ohn Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ___ Magic Spoon is healthy cereal that tastes too good to be true. Keto cereal that's High-Protein, Low-Sugar, Keto-Friendly, Non-GMO, Gluten-Free, Grain-Free, Soy-Free, Wheat-Free! Now you can have your cereal and eat it too. Nothing Artificial. Try Magic Spoon with our 100% happiness guarantee and free shipping! MAGICSPOON.COM/ANGRYPROMO CODE: ANGRY ____ Sign up for texting with The Angr

Sep 29, 2020 • 19:41

The Law of Attraction

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.____ Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/textsWant to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach.____Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with suppor

Sep 24, 2020 • 22:18

Actively Seek Beauty in Your Partner

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____ Skillshare -- Learn ANYTHING and thrive. The first 1,000 people to use this link will get a free trial of Skillshare Premium Membership. Use this code: https://www.skillshare.com/angry Explore more than 25,000 classes to fuel your curiosity, creativity, and career. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke,

Sep 22, 2020 • 12:59

My Celebrity Crush

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zo

Sep 17, 2020 • 15:53

Hey, If You're Single...

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Sep 15, 2020 • 14:50

What's at Stake if You Don't Do It

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zo

Sep 10, 2020 • 9:40

How My Sex is Changing

Sex is different when you get a little older and wiser. John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____ Skillshare -- Learn ANYTHING and thrive. Get 2 months of unlimited classes for free!  Use this code: https://www.skillshare.com/angry Explore more than 25,000 classes to fuel your curiosity, creativity, and career. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Mey

Sep 8, 2020 • 16:47

Toxic Single Behavior (Pt. 2)

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zo

Sep 3, 2020 • 13:15

Toxic Single Behavior (Pt. 1)

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ___ Magic Spoon is healthy cereal that tastes too good to be true. Keto cereal that's High-Protein, Low-Sugar, Keto-Friendly, Non-GMO, Gluten-Free, Grain-Free, Soy-Free, Wheat-Free! Now you can have your cereal and eat it too. Nothing Artificial. Try Magic Spoon with our 100% happiness guarantee and free shipping! MAGICSPOON.COM/ANGRYPROMO CODE: ANGRY ____ Sign up for texting with The Ang

Sep 1, 2020 • 14:29

Your Most Important Promise

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zo

Aug 27, 2020 • 13:19

Three Green Flags You Should Look For

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____Skillshare -- Learn ANYTHING and thrive. Get 2 months of unlimited classes for free! Use this code: https://www.skillshare.com/angryExplore more than 25,000 classes to fuel your curiosity, creativity, and career.____Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zoccatell

Aug 25, 2020 • 15:36

The Four Horsemen and How to Defeat Them

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zo

Aug 20, 2020 • 12:18

10 Important Relationship Truths

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.  ____ The Blinkist app gives you the key ideas from more than 3,500 bestselling nonfiction books in just 15 minutes. Try Blinkist free for 7 days and get 25% off your subscription via this link: www.blinkist.com/angry ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zoccatelli. Want to chan

Aug 18, 2020 • 11:35

Building Empathy

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zo

Aug 13, 2020 • 14:56

The First Step to Building Happy

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____ Skillshare -- Learn ANYTHING and thrive. Get 2 months of unlimited classes for free!  Use this code: https://www.skillshare.com/angry Explore more than 25,000 classes to fuel your curiosity, creativity, and career. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zoccatelli. Want to ch

Aug 11, 2020 • 12:55

You Gotta Attract vs. Chase

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zo

Aug 6, 2020 • 12:46

The Lobster Shell

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.___ Drink Hydrant: meet the fastest way to rehydrate. Get 25% off your order with code ANGRYvisit http://drinkhydrant.com/angry  A refreshing hydration mix, created to hydrate you quickly. Lightly flavored with real fruit juice powder, our no-nonsense, versatile product contains the precise blend of electrolytes you need to own your day. -- Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: htt

Aug 4, 2020 • 14:28

Happily Ever After is BS

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zo

Jul 30, 2020 • 15:08

3 Love Poisons

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____ Skillshare -- Learn ANYTHING and thrive. Get 2 months of unlimited classes for free!  Use this code: https://www.skillshare.com/angry Explore more than 25,000 classes to fuel your curiosity, creativity, and career. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zoccatelli. Want to ch

Jul 28, 2020 • 13:23

You Don't Own Your Relationship

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zo

Jul 23, 2020 • 14:14

The 4 Stages of Love

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.___ Drink Hydrant: meet the fastest way to rehydrate. Get 25% off your order with code ANGRYvisit http://drinkhydrant.com/angry  A refreshing hydration mix, created to hydrate you quickly. Lightly flavored with real fruit juice powder, our no-nonsense, versatile product contains the precise blend of electrolytes you need to own your day. -- Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: htt

Jul 21, 2020 • 17:48

What Women Really Want

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zo

Jul 16, 2020 • 13:41

Toss Your Tight Jeans

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____ Skillshare -- Learn ANYTHING and thrive. Get 2 months of unlimited classes for free!  Use this code: https://www.skillshare.com/angry Explore more than 25,000 classes to fuel your curiosity, creativity, and career. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zoccatelli. Want to ch

Jul 14, 2020 • 13:41

How to Find the Right Partner

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zo

Jul 9, 2020 • 21:14

Smart Feet and Fast Elbows

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.___ THRIVE MARKET Buy healthy food from top-selling, organic brands at wholesale prices. Thrive Market makes healthy living easy. Your favorite organic & non-GMO brands, plus guaranteed savings—delivered to your door. Visit www.thrivemarket.com/angrytherapist to save $20 off your first order, and help out families struggling with COVID. ____ Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: ht

Jul 7, 2020 • 14:45

No BS with Margaret Cho

My guest today is actress, comedian and one of my favorites -- Margaret Cho. She's a stand-up comedian, actress, fashion designer, author and singer-songwriter who has done it all and seen it all. Cho is probably best known for her stand-up routines and we speak frankly about sexuality, race, racism and more during this conversation! --- John Kim is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. One hour, one guest, no filler. Interested in becoming a coach and making a bigger impact in the l

Jul 2, 2020 • 53:33

Why Apologies are Crucial

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ___ Magic Spoon is healthy cereal that tastes too good to be true. Keto cereal that's High-Protein, Low-Sugar, Keto-Friendly, Non-GMO, Gluten-Free, Grain-Free, Soy-Free, Wheat-Free! Now you can have your cereal and eat it too. Nothing Artificial. Try Magic Spoon with our 100% happiness guarantee and free shipping! MAGICSPOON.COM/ANGRYPROMO CODE: ANGRY ____ Sign up for texting with The Ang

Jun 30, 2020 • 14:08

How to Draw Boundaries

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zo

Jun 25, 2020 • 15:21

What is Micro Cheating?

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____ Skillshare -- Learn ANYTHING and thrive. Get 2 months of unlimited classes for free!  Use this code: https://www.skillshare.com/angry Explore more than 25,000 classes to fuel your curiosity, creativity, and career. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zoccatelli. Want to ch

Jun 23, 2020 • 14:47

True Beauty Isn't Obvious

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zo

Jun 18, 2020 • 12:01

Non-Obvious Signs of a Toxic Relationship

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ___ Magic Spoon is healthy cereal that tastes too good to be true. Keto cereal that's High-Protein, Low-Sugar, Keto-Friendly, Non-GMO, Gluten-Free, Grain-Free, Soy-Free, Wheat-Free! Now you can have your cereal and eat it too. Nothing Artificial. Try Magic Spoon with our 100% happiness guarantee and free shipping! MAGICSPOON.COM/ANGRY PROMO CODE: ANGRY ____ Sign up for texting with The An

Jun 16, 2020 • 15:28

Three Things to Look for in a Coach or Therapist

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zo

Jun 11, 2020 • 13:52

Life's Too Short...

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.  ____ The Blinkist app gives you the key ideas from more than 3,500 bestselling nonfiction books in just 15 minutes. Try Blinkist free for 7 days and get 25% off your subscription via this link: www.blinkist.com/angry ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zoccatelli. Want to chan

Jun 9, 2020 • 16:49

My Relationship Quiz

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zo

Jun 4, 2020 • 12:30

Black Lives Matter.

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____ Skillshare -- Learn ANYTHING and thrive. Get 2 months of unlimited classes for free!  Use this code: https://www.skillshare.com/angry Explore more than 25,000 classes to fuel your curiosity, creativity, and career. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zoccatelli. Want to ch

Jun 3, 2020 • 13:06

Maybe You're Already There

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zo

May 28, 2020 • 15:36

When Should I Fight for my Relationship?

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ___ THRIVE MARKET Buy healthy food from top-selling, organic brands at wholesale prices. Thrive Market makes healthy living easy. Your favorite organic & non-GMO brands, plus guaranteed savings—delivered to your door. Visit www.thrivemarket.com/angrytherapist to save $20 off your first order, and help out families struggling with COVID. ___ Magic Spoon is healthy cereal that tastes too go

May 26, 2020 • 16:49

Logan's Run -- The Shame Behind Sleep Training

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zo

May 21, 2020 • 19:45

Before You Text Your Ex, Listen to This!

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____ Skillshare -- Learn ANYTHING and thrive. Get 2 months of unlimited classes for free!  Use this code: https://www.skillshare.com/angry Explore more than 25,000 classes to fuel your curiosity, creativity, and career. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zoccatelli. Want to ch

May 19, 2020 • 21:14

My F*cking Feelings (The Return)

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zo

May 14, 2020 • 16:29

3 Relationship Killers

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ___ Magic Spoon is healthy cereal that tastes too good to be true. Keto cereal that's High-Protein, Low-Sugar, Keto-Friendly, Non-GMO, Gluten-Free, Grain-Free, Soy-Free, Wheat-Free! Now you can have your cereal and eat it too. Nothing Artificial. Try Magic Spoon with our 100% happiness guarantee and free shipping! MAGICSPOON.COM/ANGRY PROMO CODE: ANGRY ____ Sign up for texting with The An

May 12, 2020 • 16:37

6 Tips to Conquer Your Fears

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zo

May 7, 2020 • 13:15

The #1 Thing in Relationships

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____ Skillshare -- Learn ANYTHING and thrive. Get 2 months of unlimited classes for free!  Use this code: https://www.skillshare.com/angry Explore more than 25,000 classes to fuel your curiosity, creativity, and career. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zoccatelli. Want to ch

May 5, 2020 • 13:13

It's Never What's On the Surface

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zo

Apr 30, 2020 • 12:03

10 Relationship Truths

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ___ Magic Spoon is healthy cereal that tastes too good to be true. Keto cereal that's High-Protein, Low-Sugar, Keto-Friendly, Non-GMO, Gluten-Free, Grain-Free, Soy-Free, Wheat-Free! Now you can have your cereal and eat it too. Nothing Artificial. Try Magic Spoon with our 100% happiness guarantee and free shipping! MAGICSPOON.COM/ANGRY PROMO CODE: ANGRY ____ Sign up for texting with The An

Apr 28, 2020 • 12:54

How to Structure Your Day

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zo

Apr 23, 2020 • 16:26

A New Definition of New Experiences

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____ Skillshare -- Learn ANYTHING and thrive. Get 2 months of unlimited classes for free!  Use this code: https://www.skillshare.com/angry Explore more than 25,000 classes to fuel your curiosity, creativity, and career. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zoccatelli. Want to ch

Apr 21, 2020 • 13:30

No BS with Dr. Adi Jaffe

My guest this week is Dr. Adi Jaffe -- an amazing man with an incredible story of transformation, addiction, recovery and rebirth. Dr. Adi Jaffe holds a Ph.D. in psychology from the University of California, Los Angeles (UCLA). He teaches courses at UCLA that address addiction specifically, research statistics or biological psychology and behavioral neuroscience more generally. Well-known for his online and academic writing, Dr. Jaffe’s views on addiction and his research on the topic have been

Apr 16, 2020 • 1:05:31

Logan's Run (Pt. 1)

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.___ Magic Spoon is healthy cereal that tastes too good to be true. Keto cereal that's High-Protein, Low-Sugar, Keto-Friendly, Non-GMO, Gluten-Free, Grain-Free, Soy-Free, Wheat-Free! Now you can have your cereal and eat it too. Nothing Artificial. Try Magic Spoon with our 100% happiness guarantee and free shipping! MAGICSPOON.COM/ANGRYPROMO CODE: ANGRY ____ Sign up for texting with The Angr

Apr 14, 2020 • 16:08

Love Beyond What Happened

You are not your past. John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with su

Apr 9, 2020 • 15:01

Emotionally Abusive Relationships Pt. 2

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____ Skillshare -- Learn ANYTHING and thrive. Get 2 months of unlimited classes for free!  Use this code: https://www.skillshare.com/angry Explore more than 25,000 classes to fuel your curiosity, creativity, and career. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zoccatelli. Want to ch

Apr 7, 2020 • 16:05

The Reasons Why I Do What I Do

What's the WHY behind everything I do? John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda

Apr 2, 2020 • 14:41

Emotionally Abusive Relationships Pt. 1

Diving deep into the first part of this divisive topic! John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engi

Mar 31, 2020 • 15:20

No BS with Laura Yorke

Laura Yorke is my literary agent (and Erin Brockovich's too!) we sat down to talk all things publishing, transparency, sprirituality, the state of the world of self help books and the future of books and the people who write them. Tune in, Laura's one of my favorite people. --- John Kim is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. One hour, no filler. Interested in becoming a coach and making a bigger impact in the lives of others, while finding personal freedom? Learn more here. Want te

Mar 26, 2020 • 50:05

Be With Yourself First

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.___ Magic Spoon is healthy cereal that tastes too good to be true. Keto cereal that's High-Protein, Low-Sugar, Keto-Friendly, Non-GMO, Gluten-Free, Grain-Free, Soy-Free, Wheat-Free!Now you can have your cereal and eat it too. Nothing Artificial. Try Magic Spoon with our 100% happiness guarantee and free shipping! MAGICSPOON.COM/ANGRYPROMO CODE: ANGRY____ Sign up for texting with The Angry

Mar 24, 2020 • 21:16

What Should I Do Right Now?

Feeling fear over the state of the world?  John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Ama

Mar 19, 2020 • 11:57

Caretaking vs. Caregiving

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____ Skillshare -- Learn ANYTHING and thrive. Get 2 months of unlimited classes for free!  Use this code: https://www.skillshare.com/angry Explore more than 25,000 classes to fuel your curiosity, creativity, and career. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zoccatelli. Want to ch

Mar 17, 2020 • 15:11

Two Life Game Changers

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zo

Mar 12, 2020 • 13:17

Depth > Width

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zoccatelli.

Mar 10, 2020 • 13:14

No BS with Hilary Swanson

Hilary Swanson is my editor at Harper Collins. I loved our conversation about books, writing and so much more!She's an Editor acquiring prescriptive and narrative books in the areas of feminism & fresh female voices, smart & edgy humor, anti-self-help, memoir, mental health, and unique/emerging subcultures. Born and raised in the Bay Area, she studied publishing at Emerson College in Boston and wrote for Brooklyn-based Mass Appeal magazine before returning to San Francisco, where she worked in

Mar 5, 2020 • 55:46

Relationships Are Not 50/50

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____ Skillshare -- Learn ANYTHING and thrive. Get 2 months of unlimited classes for free!  Use this code: https://www.skillshare.com/angry Explore more than 25,000 classes to fuel your curiosity, creativity, and career. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zoccatelli. Want to ch

Mar 3, 2020 • 15:25

Eat the Marshmallow

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way people experience the world? Let's talk. Become a life coach. Join JRNI Coaching and learn from John Kim and other master coaches. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by

Feb 27, 2020 • 14:38

How Do I Get Closure?

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk.  Become a life coach with JRNI Coaching (www.jrni.co) ----- Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from S

Feb 25, 2020 • 12:29

No BS with David Meltzer

David Meltzer is the Co-founder of Sports 1 Marketing and formerly served as CEO of the renowned Leigh Steinberg Sports & Entertainment agency, which was the inspiration for the movie Jerry Maguire. He is a three-time international best-selling author, a Top 100 Business Coach, the executive producer of Entrepreneur‘s #1 digital business show, Elevator Pitch, and host of the top entrepreneur podcast, The Playbook. His newest book, Game-Time Decision Making, was a #1 new release, David has been r

Feb 20, 2020 • 53:32

The Relationship Agreement

It's okay to want things, but this is the most important aspect to that, that I've ever found. John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____ Skillshare -- Learn ANYTHING and thrive. Get 2 months of unlimited classes for free!  Use this code: https://www.skillshare.com/angry Explore more than 25,000 classes to fuel your curiosity, creativity, and career. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Prod

Feb 18, 2020 • 14:03

No BS with Dr. MC Mcdonald

Dr. MC Mcdonald is a trauma specialist, as well as a life coach. She believes that none of us make it to adulthood without some kind of trauma, and that we all need tools to better understand and cope with it. Once we have these tools, she believes that our traumas can become powerful spaces of growth and empowerment.Learn more about Dr. MC Mcdonald here. --- John Kim is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. One hour, no filler. Interested in becoming a coach and making a bigger impa

Feb 13, 2020 • 1:03:31

How to Have a Healthy Argument

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zoccatelli.

Feb 11, 2020 • 12:57

Why We Cheat

We cheat for some very real reasons, discover all about what drives human infidelity here. John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced an

Feb 6, 2020 • 12:17

Don't Want It So Bad

It's okay to want things, but this is the most important aspect to that, that I've ever found. John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____ Skillshare -- Learn ANYTHING and thrive. Get 2 months of unlimited classes for free!  Use this code: https://www.skillshare.com/angry Explore more than 25,000 classes to fuel your curiosity, creativity, and career. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Prod

Feb 4, 2020 • 13:35

Seed Model for Your Relationships

Bees, relationship drama and how to do things better.John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke,

Jan 30, 2020 • 12:30

Dissecting a Real Fight!

John Kim and Vanessa Bennett dissect a real fight and how they worked through it. John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio E

Jan 28, 2020 • 14:35

#10 Don't Be Nice, Be Kind

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zoccatelli. Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Become a life coach.

Jan 23, 2020 • 11:35

5 Signs Your Relationship is Toxic

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____ Skillshare -- Learn ANYTHING and thrive. Get 2 months of unlimited classes for free!  Use this code: https://www.skillshare.com/angry Explore more than 25,000 classes to fuel your curiosity, creativity, and career. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zoccatelli. Want to ch

Jan 21, 2020 • 13:55

What is Lateral Thinking?

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.  ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zoccatelli. Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Become a life coach.

Jan 16, 2020 • 12:17

5 First Date No's

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____ Skillshare -- Learn ANYTHING and thrive. Get 2 months of unlimited classes for free!  Use this code: https://www.skillshare.com/angry Explore more than 25,000 classes to fuel your curiosity, creativity, and career. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zoccatelli. Want to ch

Jan 14, 2020 • 15:14

Do Open Relationships Work?

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.  ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zoccatelli. Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Become a life coach.

Jan 9, 2020 • 19:03

The Four Horsemen of the Relationship Apocalypse

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. This episode is a rebroadcast from 2019. Enjoy!____ Skillshare -- Learn ANYTHING and thrive. Get 2 months of unlimited classes for free!  Use this code: https://www.skillshare.com/angry Explore more than 25,000 classes to fuel your curiosity, creativity, and career. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, wit

Jan 7, 2020 • 13:42

#1 Reason Relationships Fall Apart

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zoccatelli. Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Become a life coach.

Jan 2, 2020 • 12:19

2020 is Your "Act Break"

If there's one thing I've learned it's that you gotta be ready for the act break.John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.____ Skillshare -- Learn ANYTHING and thrive. Get 2 months of unlimited classes for free!  Use this code: https://www.skillshare.com/angry Explore more than 25,000 classes to fuel your curiosity, creativity, and career. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio

Dec 31, 2019 • 15:38

#66: Do Hold Up

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zoccatelli. Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Become a life coach.

Dec 26, 2019 • 14:07

The Three R's to Close Out the Year

Happy Christmas, if you don't celebrate then good tidings to you anyway. These are the three R's to close out the year.John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.____ Skillshare -- Learn ANYTHING and thrive. Get 2 months of unlimited classes for free!  Use this code: https://www.skillshare.com/angry Explore more than 25,000 classes to fuel your curiosity, creativity, and career. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Th

Dec 24, 2019 • 15:34

Question Your Perception

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zoccatelli.

Dec 19, 2019 • 13:02

How Do I Find Motivation?

Motivation is tough for all of us -- let's talk it out. John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.____ Hempfusion -- Not All CBD is the Same. Try a more Complete CBD and see the difference. 20% OFF your first order and free shipping -- use code ANGRYTHERAPIST Better Sleep. Stress Less. More Energy. Why is HempFusion® CBD better than others? Because it's about more than CBD. Just as nature made an Orange rather than a Vitamin C tab

Dec 17, 2019 • 14:29

Your Old Self Hangover

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.____ GET AUDIBLE for 53% OFF -- $6.95 a month for 3 Months! Audible has helped me so much -- I can now listen to books no matter what I'm doing and learn on the go. Visit Audible.com/ANGRY or text ANGRY to 500-500 for three months of Audible at $6.95 a month, a super holiday special.  I just listened to Ryan Holiday's Stillness is the Key, and it made a big impact on me. So, if you want th

Dec 10, 2019 • 10:46

Sexless Marriage Pt. 2: What to Do About It

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zoccatelli.

Dec 5, 2019 • 12:53

Sexless Marriage Pt. 1: How it Happens

Sexless marriages don't just happen -- there's a pattern, a reason. John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.____ Hempfusion -- Not All CBD is the Same. Try a more Complete CBD and see the difference. 20% OFF your first order and free shipping -- use code ANGRYTHERAPIST Better Sleep. Stress Less. More Energy. Why is HempFusion® CBD better than others? Because it's about more than CBD. Just as nature made an Orange rather than a V

Dec 3, 2019 • 18:00

Giving Thanks

I go deep this Thanksgiving -- I've got a lot to be grateful for. John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Ama

Nov 28, 2019 • 11:24

Walk and Pod (Love, Come at Me)

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zoccatelli.

Nov 26, 2019 • 11:53

No BS with Buddy Wakefield

In this special hour-long conversation, John Kim (The Angry Therapist) speaks with poet and friend Buddy Wakefield about the shape of life, the length of love and the metaphysics that hold us all together. This is a special one. ----  BUDDY WAKEFIELD is a three-time world champion spoken word artist featured on the BBC, HBO’s Def Poetry Jam, ABC Radio National and has been signed to both Sage Francis’ Strange Famous Records as well as Ani DiFranco’s Righteous Babe Records.  Buddy has been a busk

Nov 21, 2019 • 1:07:28

The Key to Life is Distance

Once we get some distance from things, we can see them clearly for once. John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.____ GET AUDIBLE for 53% OFF -- $6.95 a month for 3 Months!Audible has helped me so much -- I can now listen to books no matter what I'm doing and learn on the go. Visit Audible.com/ANGRY or text ANGRY to 500-500 for three months of Audible at $6.95 a month, a super holiday special. I just listened to Ryan Holiday's S

Nov 19, 2019 • 9:15

If There's One Thing I've Learned

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zoccatelli.

Nov 14, 2019 • 12:50

The Day I Didn't Fit In

What happens when you don't fit in? When things don't go the way you expect them to?John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.____ Hempfusion -- Not All CBD is the Same. Try a more Complete CBD and see the difference. 20% OFF your first order and free shipping -- use code ANGRYTHERAPIST Better Sleep. Stress Less. More Energy. Why is HempFusion® CBD better than others? Because it's about more than CBD. Just as nature made an Orange

Nov 12, 2019 • 15:13

A Real Session About Closure

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zoccatelli.

Nov 7, 2019 • 12:22

The Dependency Paradox

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.____ Hempfusion -- Not All CBD is the Same. Try a more Complete CBD and see the difference. 20% OFF your first order and free shipping -- use code ANGRYTHERAPIST Better Sleep. Stress Less. More Energy. Why is HempFusion® CBD better than others? Because it's about more than CBD. Just as nature made an Orange rather than a Vitamin C tablet, it made the Hemp plant rather than isolated CBD. He

Nov 5, 2019 • 14:01

How to Not Drift In Your Relationship

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.____   Sakara brings life-transforming, plant-rich super meals to your door, ready-to-eat. $60 OFF your first order at Sakara We deliver nationwide. Sakara meals and products are backed by cutting-edge nutrition science and traditional healing wisdom to give your body what it needs to thrive. click here --> sakara.com/angrytherapist ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therap

Oct 31, 2019 • 13:42

What If There Is No Island?

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.____ Hempfusion 20% OFF your first order and free shipping -- use code ANGRYTHERAPIST Why is HempFusion® CBD better than others? Because making the ECS work is about more than CBD. Just as nature made an Orange rather than a Vitamin C tablet, it made the Hemp plant rather than isolated CBD.  Try a more complete CBD today! ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast

Oct 29, 2019 • 12:34

No BS with Dr. Alex Katehakis

In this special hour-long conversation, John Kim (The Angry Therapist) speaks with Dr. Alex Katehakis about sex and love addiction, unhealthy patterns in relationships and why we do the things we do when looking for love.----  Alexandra Katehakis, Ph.D., MFT, CSAT-S, CST-S is a Marriage Family Therapist, Certified Sex Addiction Therapist/Supervisor and Certified Sex Therapist/Supervisor, and Clinical Director of Center for Healthy Sex in Los Angeles. Dr. Katehakis has extensive experience in wor

Oct 24, 2019 • 1:13:02

Brad Pitt, Thai Massage & Gratitude

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.____ This episode is brought to you by Hempfusion! 20% OFF your first order and free shipping -- use code ANGRYTHERAPIST Why is HempFusion® CBD better than others? Because making the ECS work is about more than CBD. Just as nature made an Orange rather than a Vitamin C tablet, it made the Hemp plant rather than isolated CBD.  Try a more complete CBD today! ____ Music in this episode is by

Oct 22, 2019 • 13:30

Stop the Chase

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zoccatelli.

Oct 17, 2019 • 11:21

Holy F*ck -- I'm a Dad, at 46!

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.____ Skillshare -- Learn ANYTHING and thrive. Get 2 months of unlimited classes for free!  Use this code: https://www.skillshare.com/angry Explore more than 25,000 classes to fuel your curiosity, creativity, and career. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zoccatelli. Want to cha

Oct 15, 2019 • 15:44

My Take on Pornography

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Oct 10, 2019 • 22:58

Why Relationships Are Hard

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Oct 8, 2019 • 22:29

Finding the Perfect Partner vs. Finding the Perfect in Your Partner

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zoccatelli.

Oct 3, 2019 • 9:34

Stop Living in What Was

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.____   Skillshare -- Get 2 months of unlimited classes for free! Use this code: https://www.skillshare.com/angryExplore more than 25,000 classes to fuel your curiosity, creativity, and career. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zoccatelli. Want to change your own life, give bac

Oct 1, 2019 • 11:45

Disqualifying the Positive

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zoccatelli.

Sep 26, 2019 • 11:53

Musts for Your Every Day

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.____ Get Simple Habit Today and learn how to meditate once and for all: Our mission is to empower humans to stress less, achieve more, and live better. Meditate today! To get 30% OFF a premium subscription, for the first 50 listeners: https://www.simplehabit.com/angry Meditate more, and stress less. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio

Sep 24, 2019 • 17:35

The 4 Things That Can Cripple Your Relationship

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.____ Get Simple Habit Today and learn how to meditate once and for all: Our mission is to empower humans to stress less, achieve more, and live better. Meditate today! To get 30% OFF a premium subscription, for the first 50 listeners: https://www.simplehabit.com/angry Meditate more, and stress less. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio

Sep 17, 2019 • 19:43

You Can't Build Self Esteem Without This

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zoccatelli.

Sep 12, 2019 • 12:57

The Buy-In for Love

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.____ Get Simple Habit Today and learn how to meditate once and for all: Our mission is to empower humans to stress less, achieve more, and live better. Meditate today! To get 30% OFF a premium subscription, for the first 50 listeners: https://www.simplehabit.com/angry Meditate more, and stress less. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio

Sep 10, 2019 • 11:50

The Essence of You

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zoccatelli.

Sep 5, 2019 • 12:02

You are Not Entitled to be Loved

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.____ Get Simple Habit Today and learn how to meditate once and for all: Our mission is to empower humans to stress less, achieve more, and live better. Meditate today! To get 30% OFF a premium subscription, for the first 50 listeners: https://www.simplehabit.com/angry Meditate more, and stress less. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio

Sep 3, 2019 • 14:23

No BS with Megan Bruneau

In this special hour long conversation, John Kim (The Angry Therapist) speaks with therapist and coach Megan Bruneau (https://meganbruneau.com/) about her experience with eating disorders, depression, finding her voice and helping others. John Kim is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. One hour, no filler. Want texts from Angry? https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyn

Aug 29, 2019 • 1:19:52

Are You Running Towards Yourself or Away?

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.____ Get Simple Habit Today and learn how to meditate once and for all: Our mission is to empower humans to stress less, achieve more, and live better. Meditate today! To get 30% OFF a premium subscription, for the first 50 listeners: https://www.simplehabit.com/angry Meditate more, and stress less. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio

Aug 27, 2019 • 15:00

How to Make Sense of Your Life

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zoccatelli. Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Become a life coach.

Aug 22, 2019 • 11:44

The 3 Things to Look For in a Life Coach or Therapist

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.____ Get Simple Habit Today and learn how to meditate once and for all: Our mission is to empower humans to stress less, achieve more, and live better. Meditate today! To get 30% OFF a premium subscription, for the first 50 listeners: https://www.simplehabit.com/angry Meditate more, and stress less. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio

Aug 20, 2019 • 14:41

What to Look For When Choosing to Love Someone

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zoccatelli. Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Become a life coach.

Aug 15, 2019 • 16:31

How We Fall So Quickly

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.____ Get Simple Habit Today and learn how to meditate once and for all: Our mission is to empower humans to stress less, achieve more, and live better. Meditate today! To get 30% OFF a premium subscription, for the first 50 listeners: https://www.simplehabit.com/angry Meditate more, and stress less. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio

Aug 13, 2019 • 14:35

Are Your Desires Healthy?

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zoccatelli. Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Become a life coach.

Aug 8, 2019 • 12:39

Maybe This is Why You're Depressed

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.____ Get Simple Habit Today and learn how to meditate once and for all: Our mission is to empower humans to stress less, achieve more, and live better. Meditate today! To get 30% OFF a premium subscription, for the first 50 listeners: https://www.simplehabit.com/angry Meditate more, and stress less. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio

Aug 6, 2019 • 13:01

#1 Thing to Do in a New City

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zoccatelli. Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Become a life coach.

Aug 1, 2019 • 16:20

Can You Answer This Big Question?

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zoccatelli. Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Become a life coach.

Jul 30, 2019 • 11:16

Dear Ex, I Have Something to Tell You

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zoccatelli. Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast. Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk.

Jul 25, 2019 • 6:26

The 3 Buddhist Temperaments (JohnKim-alized)

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.___ Get $60 off your first order of Sun Basket!  Choose your weekly menu - from vegan to paleo - and get delicious recipes featuring fresh, organic produce & clean ingredients delivered to your door. USE THIS LINK FOR YOUR OFFER: http://sunbasket.com/angry ---- Manscaped.comUse Code: ANGRY for 20% Off and Free Shipping! Proper manscaping requires precision-engineered tools. Not only does a

Jul 23, 2019 • 16:01

No BS with Vanessa Bennett

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zoccatelli. Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast. Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk.

Jul 18, 2019 • 1:00:59

Be With Yourself First

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.___ Get $60 off your first order of Sun Basket!  Choose your weekly menu - from vegan to paleo - and get delicious recipes featuring fresh, organic produce & clean ingredients delivered to your door. USE THIS LINK FOR YOUR OFFER: http://sunbasket.com/angry ---- Simple Habit: Our mission is to empower humans to stress less, achieve more, and live better. Meditate today! To get 30% OFF a pre

Jul 16, 2019 • 13:35

Live Like You're Already There

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zoccatelli. Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast. Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk.

Jul 11, 2019 • 11:52

Death of the "Badboy"

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.___ Get $60 off your first order of Sun Basket!  Choose your weekly menu - from vegan to paleo - and get delicious recipes featuring fresh, organic produce & clean ingredients delivered to your door. USE THIS LINK FOR YOUR OFFER: http://sunbasket.com/angry ---- Simple Habit: Our mission is to empower humans to stress less, achieve more, and live better. Meditate today! To get 30% OFF a pre

Jul 9, 2019 • 16:25

Your Love Buds Change

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.___ Simple Habit: Our mission is to empower humans to stress less, achieve more, and live better. Meditate today! To get 30% OFF a premium subscription, for the first 50 listeners: https://www.simplehabit.com/angry Meditate more, and stress less. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by A

Jul 4, 2019 • 14:05

It's Time to Start Attracting

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.___ Simple Habit: Our mission is to empower humans to stress less, achieve more, and live better. Meditate today! To get 30% OFF a premium subscription, for the first 50 listeners: https://www.simplehabit.com/angry Meditate more, and stress less. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by A

Jul 2, 2019 • 14:19

This is What Healthy Boundaries Look Like

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.___ Simple Habit: Our mission is to empower humans to stress less, achieve more, and live better. Meditate today! To get 30% OFF a premium subscription, for the first 50 listeners: https://www.simplehabit.com/angry Meditate more, and stress less. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by A

Jun 27, 2019 • 15:52

No BS with Lance Allred

In this special hour long conversation, John Kim (The Angry Therapist) speaks with Lance Allred (http://lanceallred41.com/) the first deaf NBA player in history, about his history growing up around polygamy and how his story has transformed his life and the lives of others. John Kim is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. One hour, no filler. ________________ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with prod

Jun 25, 2019 • 59:37

Resist Nothing

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.___ ATP Science: Get Gut Right! Visit https://atpscience.com/getgutright and Get 20% Off your first order and get FREE shipping when you use code: ANGRYTHERAPIST GutRight is a modbiotic supplement to restore the gut balance we once enjoyed when we ate a more natural diet. Just as we supplement our diet to replace the deficient micronutrients with a multi-vitamin formulation, we can supplem

Jun 20, 2019 • 13:56

Breakup Season

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Jun 18, 2019 • 16:53

Dear Dad

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.___ ATP Science: Get Gut Right! Visit https://atpscience.com/getgutright and Get 20% Off your first order and get FREE shipping when you use code: ANGRYTHERAPIST GutRight is a modbiotic supplement to restore the gut balance we once enjoyed when we ate a more natural diet. Just as we supplement our diet to replace the deficient micronutrients with a multi-vitamin formulation, we can supplem

Jun 13, 2019 • 16:46

This Could Be Ruining Your Relationships

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zoccatelli. Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast. Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others

Jun 11, 2019 • 14:13

4 Things That Make Him Marriage Material

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. ________________ ATP Science: Get Gut Right! Visit https://atpscience.com/getgutright and Get 20% Off your first order and get FREE shipping when you use code: ANGRYTHERAPIST GutRight is a modbiotic supplement to restore the gut balance we once enjoyed when we ate a more natural diet. Just as we supplement our diet to replace the deficient micronutrients with a multi-vitamin formulation, w

Jun 6, 2019 • 14:58

One of The Greatest Life Tools

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zoccatelli. Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast. Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others

Jun 4, 2019 • 14:58

Sex Toys, D*ck Pills, and Mindfulness

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zoccatelli. Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast. Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others

May 30, 2019 • 13:39

How to Know You're with a Narcissist

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zoccatelli. Music in this episode is by Keshco. Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast. Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Becom

May 28, 2019 • 20:47

No BS with Mark Groves

In this special hour long conversation, John Kim (The Angry Therapist) speaks with Mark Groves (www.markgroves.tv) a relationship and human connection specialist about all things relationships and beyond.John Kim is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. One hour, no filler. ________________ ATP Science: Get Gut Right! Visit https://atpscience.com/getgutright and Get 20% Off your first order and get FREE shipping when you use code: ANGRYTHERAPIST GutRight is a modbiotic supplement to

May 23, 2019 • 1:05:01

How to Make Friends as an Adult

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Find the right vitamins, protein, and more, personalized just for you with CareOf --> https://takecareof.com/. Get 50% off your first order, with code: ANGRYTHERAPIST50 The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zoccatelli. Music in this episode is by Keshco. Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and

May 21, 2019 • 16:44

We Must Create New Lenses

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. ________________ ATP Science: Get Gut Right! Visit https://atpscience.com/getgutright and Get 20% Off your first order and get FREE shipping when you use code: ANGRYTHERAPIST GutRight is a modbiotic supplement to restore the gut balance we once enjoyed when we ate a more natural diet. Just as we supplement our diet to replace the deficient micronutrients with a multi-vitamin formulation, w

May 16, 2019 • 14:56

The Perfect Day

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zoccatelli. Music in this episode is by Keshco.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast. Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Beco

May 14, 2019 • 13:31

What Are You Playing Back?

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zoccatelli. Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast. Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others

May 9, 2019 • 14:50

Big Revelations After Bali

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May 7, 2019 • 18:36

8 Things Men Really, Really Want

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. ________________ ATP Science: Get Gut Right! Visit https://atpscience.com/getgutright and Get 20% Off your first order and get FREE shipping when you use code: ANGRYTHERAPIST GutRight is a modbiotic supplement to restore the gut balance we once enjoyed when we ate a more natural diet. Just as we supplement our diet to replace the deficient micronutrients with a multi vitamin formulation, w

May 2, 2019 • 19:07

From Mouth to Nipple (Navigating Conflict in Relationships)

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. ________________ FREE AUDIBLE TRIAL: Get your 30 days free trial and one free audiobook and 2 Audible Originals with Audible --> use this link to claim your free book! http://audible.com/angry________________ Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with production support and

Apr 30, 2019 • 15:08

46 Things I Know at 46

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Get 7 days free with BLINKIST --> https://www.blinkist.com/angry 3,000+ bestselling nonfiction books, transformed into potent little packs you can listen to or read in just 15 minutes. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zoccatelli. Want a free

Apr 25, 2019 • 16:30

Life is Like Rock Climbing

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Get 7 days free with BLINKIST --> https://www.blinkist.com/angry 3,000+ bestselling nonfiction books, transformed into potent little packs you can listen to or read in just 15 minutes. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zoccatelli. Want a free

Apr 23, 2019 • 14:25

What if it Wasn't Love?

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Apr 18, 2019 • 14:47

Your Relationship's Greatest Enemy is You

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Find the right vitamins, protein, and more, personalized just for you with CareOf --> https://takecareof.com/. Get 50% off your first order, with code: ANGRYTHERAPIST50 The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zoccatelli. Music in this episode is by Keshco. Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and

Apr 16, 2019 • 14:42

You're Not Broken. This is Why

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Get 7 days free with BLINKIST --> https://www.blinkist.com/angry 3,000+ bestselling nonfiction books, transformed into potent little packs you can listen to or read in just 15 minutes. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zoccatelli. Want a free

Apr 11, 2019 • 12:29

BONUS: Holy Fuck, I'm 46 Years Old Today

Order John's book, "I Used to Be a Miserable F*ck" out now!  John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zoccatelli. Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast. Want to change

Apr 10, 2019 • 14:44

7 Love Lessons From a Therapist

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Get 7 days free with BLINKIST --> https://www.blinkist.com/angry 3,000+ bestselling nonfiction books, transformed into potent little packs you can listen to or read in just 15 minutes. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zoccatelli. Want a free

Apr 9, 2019 • 15:22

The Definitive List of Things to Give Less Fcks About

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Apr 4, 2019 • 15:28

10 Truths About Relationships (That No One Will Tell You)

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Apr 2, 2019 • 16:47

Episode 171: How to Create a New Life For Yourself

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Mar 28, 2019 • 13:53

Episode 170: Your Relationship is Not 50/50

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Mar 26, 2019 • 15:09

Episode 169: Disqualifying the Positive

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Mar 21, 2019 • 12:54

Episode 168: My F*king Feelings

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Mar 19, 2019 • 13:11

Episode 167: The Four Horsemen of the Relationship Apocalypse

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Mar 14, 2019 • 11:43

Episode 166: Love North of Posession

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Mar 12, 2019 • 13:28

Episode 165: My Love Braces Concept

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Mar 7, 2019 • 13:18

Episode 164: Self Help is Like Taco Bell

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Mar 5, 2019 • 15:05

Episode 163: Break the Pattern of Being You

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Feb 28, 2019 • 16:02

Episode 162: Making Mindfulness Sustainable

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Feb 26, 2019 • 15:11

Episode 161: Before the Red Flags, There Are Subtle Warning Signs

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Feb 21, 2019 • 17:27

Episode 160: How to Create a Thriving Online Business

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Feb 19, 2019 • 17:19

Episode 159: Valentines Day Special

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Feb 14, 2019 • 12:43

Episode 158: Where Are You Pulling From?

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Feb 12, 2019 • 13:21

Episode 157: How to Discover and Know Your Calling in Life

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Feb 7, 2019 • 15:02

Episode 156: Change the Temperature of the Room

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Feb 5, 2019 • 13:52

Episode 155: How to Deploy Empathy

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Jan 31, 2019 • 17:00

Episode 154: The Power in New Experiences + My Book is Out!

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Jan 29, 2019 • 15:49

Episode 153: Miserable F*ck Series - Do Love Hard Pt. 2

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zoccatelli. Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast. Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others

Jan 26, 2019 • 16:36

Episode 152: This is How You Treat Yourself Better

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zoccatelli. Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast. Want to become a life coach?

Jan 24, 2019 • 14:08

Episode 151: The Biggest Misconception about Therapy and What it Actually Is

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Jan 22, 2019 • 16:03

Episode 150: Miserable F*ck Series- The #1 Thing to Do to be Less of a Miserable F*ck

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Jan 19, 2019 • 15:21

Episode 148: The Best Thing That NEVER Happened to You

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Jan 15, 2019 • 14:05

Episode 147: Miserable F*ck Series- Don't Peer Over the Metaphorical Urinal

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Jan 12, 2019 • 13:42

Episode 146: Technology Truly Sucks

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Jan 10, 2019 • 14:16

Episode 145: What is a Beautiful Person?

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Jan 8, 2019 • 15:45

Episode 144: Miserable F*ck Series- Don't Drive Like a D*ck

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Jan 5, 2019 • 12:04

TAT 143: The Key to Life

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Jan 3, 2019 • 16:03

Episode 142: New Year's Day

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Jan 1, 2019 • 16:10

Episode 141: Miserable F*ck Series- Don't Pee in the Shower (it's not what you think)

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Dec 29, 2018 • 11:38

Episode 140: All The Men I Look Up To

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Dec 27, 2018 • 13:40

Episode 139: Happy Holidays from The Angry Therapist

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Dec 25, 2018 • 15:36

Episode 138: Miserable F*ck Series- Do Love Hard

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Dec 22, 2018 • 12:24

Episode 137: My Revelations of 2018

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Dec 20, 2018 • 13:40

Episode 136: Two Ways to Look at Life

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Dec 18, 2018 • 15:00

Episode 135: Miserable F*ck Series- Do Starve Your Ego

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Dec 15, 2018 • 11:21

Episode 134: True Beauty is Not Obvious

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Dec 13, 2018 • 13:59

Episode 133: The Miserable F-ck Documentary and Book Tour!

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Dec 11, 2018 • 13:41

Episode 132: Mid 80's

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Dec 6, 2018 • 20:14

Episode 131: Hate Letters From Exes

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Dec 4, 2018 • 13:52

Episode 130: Pornography and The Way Life's Like a Crossfit Workout

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Nov 29, 2018 • 17:27

Episode 129: Gratitude, Handling Family over the Holidays (and Belated Thanksgiving!)

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Nov 27, 2018 • 18:38

Episode 128: Message in a Bottle for Stephanie Reade

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Nov 22, 2018 • 20:32

Episode 127: How to Use Simple Life Events to Grow

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Nov 20, 2018 • 13:04

Episode 126: Does Your Relationship Have a Chance?

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Nov 15, 2018 • 15:23

Episode 125: Life is Like Ice on Your Lip

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Nov 13, 2018 • 13:59

Ep. 124: 3 Things to Work on for Singles (Pt. 2)

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Nov 8, 2018 • 15:58

Episode 123: 3 Things to Work on for Singles (Pt. 1)

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zoccatelli. Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast. Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Nov 6, 2018 • 14:21

Episode 122: You're Meant to Be Here

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zoccatelli. Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast. Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Nov 1, 2018 • 15:27

Episode 121: What Women Really Want

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support by Stephanie Zoccatelli. Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast. Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Oct 30, 2018 • 13:41

Episode 120: How to Hold Space for Others

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zoccatelli. Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast. Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Oct 25, 2018 • 11:31

Episode 119: Buy the Sliced Apples

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support by Stephanie Zoccatelli. Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast. Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Oct 23, 2018 • 12:38

Episode 118: What's Your Spin?

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast. Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Oct 18, 2018 • 15:14

Episode 117: Today is a Very Big Day for Me

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast. Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Oct 16, 2018 • 17:01

Episode 116: How to Pull Yourself Out of the Trenches

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast. Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Oct 11, 2018 • 15:22

Episode 115: Your Evolution

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast. Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Oct 9, 2018 • 13:21

Episode 114: TAT Book Club!

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast. Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Oct 4, 2018 • 13:00

Episode 113: Build the Bus While You're Driving It

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast. Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Oct 2, 2018 • 16:10

Episode 112: Make it About You

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast. Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Sep 27, 2018 • 12:03

Episode 111: The Power of Experience

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast. Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Sep 25, 2018 • 12:52

Episode 110: One of the Greatest Life Tools

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast. Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Sep 20, 2018 • 10:52

Episode 109: Message in a Bottle

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast. Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Sep 18, 2018 • 16:00

Episode 108: What's At Stake?

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast. Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Sep 13, 2018 • 10:21

Episode 107: Self Care Done Right

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast. Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Sep 11, 2018 • 18:57

Episode 106: Who Are You Doing It For?

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast. Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Sep 6, 2018 • 14:17

Episode 105: The Most Important Thing In Any Relationship

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast. Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Sep 4, 2018 • 15:12

Episode 104: Three Musts for Every Entrepreneur

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast. Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Aug 30, 2018 • 18:03

Episode 103: Love Braces

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast. Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Aug 28, 2018 • 16:18

Episode 102: How to Build Relationship Armor

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast. Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Aug 23, 2018 • 22:17

Episode 101: Living Heart Centered

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast. Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Aug 21, 2018 • 12:32

Episode 100: My 100th Episode!

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast. Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Aug 15, 2018 • 13:25

Episode 99: The Truth Behind the Law of Attraction

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast. Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Aug 13, 2018 • 20:30

Episode 98: You Don't Own Your Relationship

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast. Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Aug 10, 2018 • 15:55

Episode 97: The Importance of Having Your Own Life

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast. Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Aug 8, 2018 • 10:18

Episode 96: The Key to Motivation

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast. Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Aug 6, 2018 • 15:42

Episode 95: Mid Year Revelations of 2018

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast. Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Aug 3, 2018 • 30:02

Episode 94: F*ck Your Identity

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast. Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Aug 1, 2018 • 11:45

Episode 93: What Living in the Past Really Means

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast. Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Jul 30, 2018 • 11:38

Episode 92: How to Get Unstuck -- Survival vs. Creation

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast. Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Jul 27, 2018 • 22:01

Episode 91: A Quick Reboot

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast. Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Jul 25, 2018 • 12:08

Episode 90: How To Draw Boundaries

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast. Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Jul 23, 2018 • 14:35

Episode 89: The Answers are Within

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filter. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast. Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Jul 20, 2018 • 15:54

Episode 88: Things I Find Beauty In

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filter. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast. Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Jul 18, 2018 • 16:46

Episode 87: Dear Angry -- Dating Advice Needed

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filter. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast. Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Jul 16, 2018 • 11:28

Episode 86: Pushing Past Fear

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filter. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast. Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Jul 13, 2018 • 12:58

Episode 85: Where's Your Fork?

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filter. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast. Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Jul 11, 2018 • 13:47

Episode 84: Dating Fatigue

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Jul 9, 2018 • 16:42

Episode 83: The Two Types of People

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Jul 6, 2018 • 15:58

Episode 82: Freedom Is Everything

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filter. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast. Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Jul 4, 2018 • 16:21

Episode 81: Our Subconscious in Relationships

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Jul 2, 2018 • 11:57

Episode 80: How We Showed Up at a Wanderlust Festival

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast. Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Jun 29, 2018 • 17:50

Episode 79: The First Decision

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Jun 27, 2018 • 11:04

Episode 78: Love is Binary

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Jun 25, 2018 • 15:00

Episode 77: How to Find Your Own Personal Legend

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Jun 22, 2018 • 13:56

Episode 76: Redefining Work Love and Play

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Jun 20, 2018 • 12:11

Episode 75: The Good Life

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Jun 18, 2018 • 16:59

Episode 74: Father's Day Special

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Jun 15, 2018 • 16:43

Episode 73: Fleetwood Mac and Stomach Problems

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Jun 13, 2018 • 17:02

Episode 72: The American Nightmare

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Jun 11, 2018 • 16:10

Episode 71: Tapping Into Flow

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Jun 8, 2018 • 13:35

Episode 70: The Pistons of Love

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Jun 6, 2018 • 14:00

Episode 69: Happy vs. Pleasure

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Jun 4, 2018 • 14:14

Episode 68: The Sex Episode

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Jun 1, 2018 • 15:01

Episode 67: Mouth to Nipple

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

May 30, 2018 • 13:00

Episode 66: How Do You Know When to Love Someone?

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

May 28, 2018 • 6:47

Episode 65: Let's Bring Kissing Back!

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

May 25, 2018 • 14:07

Episode 64: Practicing Love and Kindness

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

May 23, 2018 • 14:07

Episode 63: Slingshot Yourself into the Present

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

May 21, 2018 • 15:43

Episode 62: What to Look for in a Partner

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

May 16, 2018 • 20:45

Episode 61: Happily Ever After is Bullsh*t

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast Want to become a life coach? Check it out here

May 14, 2018 • 14:46

Episode 60: Throw Your Stone

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

May 11, 2018 • 10:33

Episode 59: Three Ways to Kill Your Ego

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

May 9, 2018 • 14:39

Episode 58: Redefining Patience

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

May 7, 2018 • 12:51

Episode 57: Find Life in Your Life

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

May 4, 2018 • 12:51

Episode 56: What if It Wasn't Love?

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

May 2, 2018 • 18:05

Episode 55: The Connection to Our Former Selves

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Apr 30, 2018 • 12:36

Episode 54: This Is True Growth

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Apr 25, 2018 • 15:03

Episode 53: How to Bulletproof Your Day

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Apr 22, 2018 • 16:07

Episode 52: The Chili Story

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Apr 18, 2018 • 13:47

Episode 51: A Quick Love Check

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Apr 16, 2018 • 13:05

Episode 50: My First Therapy Session

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Apr 12, 2018 • 18:47

Episode 49: Just Do The Opposite

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Apr 9, 2018 • 15:46

Episode 48: Use This Concept for Everything

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want a free relationship toolkit to improve your relationships and yourself? Sign up here theangrytherapist.com/podcast Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Apr 4, 2018 • 13:31

Episode 47: This Will Change You

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. In this episode, John believes anything is possible, and that applies to you too! Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Apr 2, 2018 • 16:15

Episode 46: How to be Productive AF

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. In this episode, John goes extra long, deep diving on how to be productive AF. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want to help others live fuller, richer lives? Check it out here.

Mar 28, 2018 • 19:52

Episode 45: How to Build Self Esteem

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. In this episode, John talks self esteem and all the ways to build it up! Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Mar 26, 2018 • 11:16

Episode 44: Anything is Possible

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. In this episode, John believes anything is possible, and that applies to you too! Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Mar 21, 2018 • 15:04

Episode 43: If You Want Something, Let it Go

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. In this episode, John explains how to get what you want by letting go of it. Don't worry, he'll explain. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Mar 19, 2018 • 15:04

Episode 42: Your Defining Moment

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. In this episode, John explores what a defining moment looks like. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Mar 14, 2018 • 12:06

Episode 41: My First Therapy Session

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. In this episode, John goes deep on his first therapy session in a long time. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Mar 12, 2018 • 14:23

Episode 40: Dr. Dre, Tattoos, and Compassion

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. In this episode, John goes on a journey on the topic of what Dr. Dre, Tattoos and Compassion all have to do with one another. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Mar 7, 2018 • 13:52

Episode 39: Love Lesson #34

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. In this episode, John talks about one of the lessons of love. Number #34, of course. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Mar 5, 2018 • 12:28

Episode 38: Here's the Thing About Love

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. In this episode, John explores all things love, relationships and more. Bonus long episode! Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Feb 28, 2018 • 18:45

Episode 37: How to Apologize for Real

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. In this episode, John explores how to apologize, truly and sincerely.  Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke. Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Feb 26, 2018 • 10:18

Episode 36: Be the Basement Guy

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. In this episode, John discusses what it means to be "the basement guy". Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke. Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Feb 21, 2018 • 12:46

Episode 35: Nature, Fasting and Dating

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. In this episode, John processing intermittent fasting and his dating life. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke. Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Feb 19, 2018 • 16:49

Episode 34: Valentines Day My Way

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. In this episode, John talks a different perspective on Valentines Day. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke. Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Feb 14, 2018 • 14:14

Episode 33: Dear Future Self

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. In this episode, John writes a letter to his future self. Hopes, dreams and all. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke. Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Feb 12, 2018 • 13:06

Episode 32: Two Relationship Must-Haves

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. In this episode, John gives us a look at the most important relationship factors and how to create them. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke. Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Feb 7, 2018 • 12:46

Episode 31: What is "The Work"?

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. In this episode, John goes deep on what the work is and how to do the work. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke. Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Feb 5, 2018 • 12:23

Episode 30: My F*cking Feelings

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. In this episode, John walks through his feelings and what it all means. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke. Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Jan 30, 2018 • 12:00

Episode 29: Stop Sending D**k Pics!

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. In this episode, John talks about showing yourself, your whole self and nothing but yourself, but NOT in THAT way! Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke. Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Jan 29, 2018 • 11:10

Episode 28: How to Change Your Thoughts

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. In this episode, John talks about the mechanics of changing your thoughts. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke. Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Jan 24, 2018 • 14:16

Episode 27: My Definition of Beauty

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. In this episode, John talks about his changing definition of beauty. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke. Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Jan 22, 2018 • 13:28

Episode 26: Our 7 Basic Needs

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. In this episode, John talks about the seven basic human needs. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke. Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Jan 17, 2018 • 11:26

Episode 25: Beyond the Self Help Tools

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. In this episode, John talks about going beyond the standard self help tools. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke. Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Jan 15, 2018 • 14:23

Episode 24: Fixed vs. Growth Mindset

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. In this episode, John talks about the power of a fixed vs. growth mindset. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke. Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Jan 10, 2018 • 13:25

Episode 23: Making a Dent in the Universe

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. In this episode, John talks about how to redefine making a dent in the universe. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke. Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Jan 8, 2018 • 15:36

Episode 22: Men Need to Say This More

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. In this episode, John talks about the one thing men need to say more. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke. Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Jan 3, 2018 • 11:26

Episode 21: New Year, New Beginnings for You

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. In this episode, John talks about setting intentions and moving powerfully into 2018! Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke. Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Jan 1, 2018 • 14:47

Episode 20: How to Not See People as A**holes

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. In this episode, John talks about how to see inside people, past their a-hole exteriors. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke. Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Dec 27, 2017 • 12:05

Episode 19: Surviving Christmas with Family

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. In this episode, John talks about Christmas and surviving the holidays. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke. Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Dec 25, 2017 • 10:39

Episode 18: Relationship / Marriage Advice

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. In this episode, John talks relationship and marriage advice. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke. Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Dec 20, 2017 • 15:57

Episode 17: Love, Come at Me

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. In this episode, John goes on a walk and talk, Sorkin-style and discusses love. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke. Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Dec 18, 2017 • 11:11

Episode 16: The Power of Curiosity

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. In this episode, John talks about the power of curiosity. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.  Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Dec 13, 2017 • 12:23

Episode 15: Living a Spirit-filled Life

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. In this episode, John talks about living a spiritfilled life. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Dec 11, 2017 • 10:56

Episode 14: The 3 Things That Make You a Man

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. In this episode, John talks about what actually makes you a man. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke. Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Dec 6, 2017 • 12:18

Episode 13: Knowing Your Love Languages

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. In this episode, John talks about understanding your love languages Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke. Want to become a life coach? Check it out here.

Dec 4, 2017 • 10:34

Episode 12: A Happiness Exercise

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. In this episode, John talks about dissolving your fear of love. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

Nov 29, 2017 • 10:15

Episode 11: The 43 Things About Me

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. In this episode, John divulges the 43 things about himself he wants you to know. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

Nov 27, 2017 • 18:49

Episode 10: Internal Momentum

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. In this episode, John talks internal momentum. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

Nov 22, 2017 • 14:36

Episode 9: Dissolving Your Fear of Love

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. In this episode, John talks about dissolving your fear of love. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

Nov 20, 2017 • 13:43

Episode 8: Living Inside Out

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. In this episode, John relates how to live inside out, instead of outside in. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

Nov 15, 2017 • 15:25

Episode 7: Dissolving Fear of Failure

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. In this episode, John talks about how to dissolve the fear of failure Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

Nov 13, 2017 • 13:13

Episode 6: How to Get Over a Breakup

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. In this episode, John talks specifics on getting over a breakup in a powerful way. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

Nov 8, 2017 • 13:10

Episode 5: The Power of Your Story

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. In this episode, John talks the the pivotal and life changing power of your story. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

Nov 6, 2017 • 11:37

Episode 4: Building Your Container

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. In this episode, John wraps up his four part series on building a strong container. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

Nov 3, 2017 • 13:46

Episode 3: Attracting vs. Chasing

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. In this episode, John talks the importance of attracting vs. chasing and what that looks like in daily life. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

Nov 1, 2017 • 11:48

Episode 2: Finding Your Stance.

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. In this episode, John talks the importance of having a strong stance, and what that looks like. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

Oct 23, 2017 • 11:29

Episode 1: Everything Starts with Soil.

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler. In this episode, John talks soil for growth, transparency and containers. Music in this episode is by Keshco, used under a creative commons license. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

Oct 19, 2017 • 11:56