Daily Boost Motivation and Coaching
Scott Smith - Motivation and Coaching
Since 2006, host Scott Smith has been delivering life-changing motivation and practical advice in the time it takes to enjoy your morning coffee. Combining powerful storytelling with real-world wisdom, The Daily Boost helps you overcome life's obstacles and achieve your goals - all while keeping things fun and actionable.Scott's unique approach transforms everyday challenges into opportunities for growth. Each episode delivers bite-sized, actionable strategies for:
Building better habits and increasing productivity
Mastering time management and personal discipline
Developing stronger relationships and communication skills
Discovering your purpose and living with gratitude
Growing your business and achieving professional success
Whether you want...
Why Happiness Happens When You Stop Chasing It
In this thought-provoking episode, Scott Smith dives into Viktor Frankl's timeless wisdom from "Man's Search for Meaning," sharing insights that challenge conventional views on success and happiness. Scott reveals why chasing success often leads to missing it entirely, and how true fulfillment comes as a byproduct of dedicating yourself to something greater.Drawing from personal experiences and philosophical insights, Scott explains the evolution of his own understanding about motivation and wha
3 Questions That Break Through Any Mental Block
In this motivating Monday episode, Scott Smith tackles the challenge of feeling stuck and shares his world's simplest success recipe: stand up, take a step, and repeat. He introduces three powerful mindset questions that can transform your approach to achieving goals, regardless of where you are in life right now.Scott emphasizes that massive and perfect action is the universal solution to any situation, whether your life is going well, poorly, or somewhere in between. With his signature blend o
Spotlight or Supporting Role: Which Are You?
In this thought-provoking episode, Scott Smith tackles the age-old question of whether you're meant to be in the spotlight or play a different role. Through personal stories and insights from his own journey and his son's musical aspirations, Scott explores the internal conflict many face between wanting to be "the star" and finding their true calling.Drawing from his experience as an "introverted extrovert," Scott challenges listeners to examine their authentic desires versus societal expectati
Why Just Showing Up Isn't Enough
In this energetic episode, Scott Smith challenges the common belief that "showing up is half the battle." Drawing from personal experiences, including a profound pre-wedding conversation with a pastor, Scott reveals why 50% effort isn't enough for true success. He explains why full commitment—giving 100% consistently—is essential for achieving your goals, whether in relationships, career, or personal growth.Through engaging storytelling and practical wisdom, Scott shares why stepping out of your
Stability to Success: Your Personal Bridge
In this engaging episode, Scott Smith shares his powerful "Bridge Concept" for achieving personal transformation. Drawing inspiration from the Hoover Dam bypass construction, Scott reveals how successful people approach their goals with both optimism and realism. Through colorful analogies and real-world examples, Scott explains why having a solid foundation in your current life is crucial before building toward your dreams. He emphasizes the importance of being honest about where you are today
Breaking Free from Permission Prison
In this powerful episode of The Daily Boost, Scott Smith tackles the common habit of waiting for permission to pursue our dreams. Drawing from his personal experience as a pilot, Scott reveals how many of us unconsciously seek approval before taking action on our goals. Through engaging storytelling and practical wisdom, he demonstrates why this mindset holds us back from achieving our full potential.The episode kicks off with Scott sharing his proven workout routine for functional fitness, emph
Stop Taking Action And Do This Instead
In this energizing episode of The Daily Boost, Scott Smith dives into the four essential D's of creating lasting change in your life. With his signature straight-talk approach, Scott breaks down why aimless wandering isn't serving you and introduces a practical framework for making real progress.Through personal insights and authentic examples, Scott challenges common misconceptions about decision-making and introduces a powerful perspective on commitment. He explains why finding your "what" mat
Simple Wisdom for a Complex Life
Scott Smith shares practical wisdom gained from 19 years of podcasting and coaching. Through personal stories and observations, he reveals how understanding life's fundamentals leads to greater success and satisfaction.Featured Story:Scott reveals his simple but powerful podcast preparation technique: leaning back and asking "What do they need?" This approach has guided over 5,000 episodes of authentic, valuable content.Key Takeaways:
Life is long enough when lived intentionally
True wisdom come
The Mirror of Life: Finding Your North Star
Scott Smith explores the profound concept that we've never seen our true face - only reflections. Through personal stories and insights, he reveals how genuine self-reflection leads to discovering your life's purpose. Scott challenges listeners to look beyond surface-level personal development and confront their authentic selves in the mirror of life.Featured Story:Scott shares how a 6:40 AM text from his pastor containing a powerful quote sparked a deeper discussion about self-awareness and per
Break Free from Your Groundhog Day Life
Scott Smith explores the power of daily fresh starts, drawing parallels to the movie "Groundhog Day." He reveals how understanding life's repeating patterns can lead to positive change, discussing the role of brain chemistry, discipline, and awareness in breaking free from negative cycles. Through personal insights and practical wisdom, Scott shows how viewing each day as a do-over opportunity can transform your approach to life's challenges.Featured Story:Scott shares how his early business con
Why Life is like a Jigsaw Puzzle
In this engaging episode, Scott Smith explores the fascinating parallel between life and jigsaw puzzles. Unlike puzzles that come with a picture on the box and all the pieces inside, life doesn't provide us with such clear instructions. Scott shares personal stories about his grandson's puzzle competition and his father's paint-by-numbers hobby to illustrate how we approach life's challenges.Through these analogies, Scott reveals that success isn't about racing to finish first or staying perfect
3-Step Rule That Ends Text Arguments Instantly
Scott Smith reveals a game-changing approach to modern communication in this engaging episode. Drawing parallels between dogs' straightforward communication style and humans' complex interactions, Scott introduces his "Rule of Three" for better communication. Through personal anecdotes and coaching experiences, he demonstrates how switching from asynchronous messaging to real-time conversation can transform day-long debates into five-second solutions.Featured Story:During a Face Your Passion coa
Success Principles That Actually Work
Scott Smith explores timeless success principles, drawing from Jack Canfield's work and his own experience. He emphasizes emotional control, honest self-reflection, and the value of time while challenging listeners to embrace real change and brutal honesty.Featured Story:Scott reflects on recommending Jack Canfield's "The Success Principles" over the years, using this as a springboard to share his own essential principles for daily success.Key Takeaways:
All emotions come from within and can be
MAPSS Secret: Navigate Life Like a Pro
Scott Smith shares a powerful story about following GPS navigation in Colorado that led him down a dangerous road, using this as a metaphor for life's navigation systems. He introduces his proven MAPSS framework - Motivation, Accountability, Planning, Systemization, and Sustainability - offering practical insights for creating reliable personal guidance systems.Featured Story: A harrowing detour in Colorado teaches Scott the dangers of blindly following GPS navigation, despite a warning sign. Th
Break These Rules, Break Your Dreams
Scott Smith tackles the timeless rules of motivation that should never be broken. Drawing from his podcast analytics, he delves into why his "rule-bending" episode went viral and explores which motivational principles are truly non-negotiable for success. Scott challenges both traditional and modern perspectives on personal development, offering practical insights on values, goals, and authentic transformation.Featured Story: After discovering his "rule-bending" episode's popularity, Scott explo
Are You Tired of Living Other People's Dreams?
Scott Smith tackles a powerful topic: the importance of prioritizing yourself in a world driven by others' agendas. Through a compelling story of his friend's 60-day social media detox, Scott illustrates how stepping back from constant digital noise can lead to unprecedented mental clarity and wellbeing. He challenges listeners to examine how external agendas and propaganda might be derailing their authentic selves, offering practical insights on maintaining boundaries while staying informed.Fea
Unlock Your Perfect Day Formula
Episode Description:In this enlightening episode, Scott Smith explores the profound difference between goals and intentions, leading to a powerful discussion about creating an "average perfect day." He introduces a groundbreaking tool - the Daily Awareness Diary template - that helps listeners identify blind spots in their journey to personal fulfillment.Scott delves into the science behind why some motivational techniques fail while others succeed, offering practical insights into aligning your
Break Free from Productivity Prison
Scott Smith challenges the traditional pursuit of productivity, advocating instead for efficiency and effectiveness. Drawing from decades of entrepreneurial experience, he shares five practical rules for getting more done with less effort, emphasizing automation and pattern recognition over complex productivity systems.Featured Story:Scott shares how his radio DJ experience and business philosophy led him to develop a "automate everything repeatable" approach, demonstrating how simplifying proce
Thursday Planning Magic: Transform Your Week
Scott Smith reveals his proven system for creating the perfect work week. Drawing from years of experience, he shares how he transformed from being dragged around by his schedule to mastering it through a unique Thursday planning approach and strict time boundaries.Featured Story: Scott shares how he structures his work week into just 16.5 focused hours across Tuesday-Thursday, demonstrating how intentional scheduling leads to greater productivity and freedom.Key Takeaways:
Plan your week on Thu
Simple Secret to Being Understood
Scott Smith tackles the crucial topic of clear communication in today's noisy world. Drawing from his experience in radio and Donald Miller's teachings, Scott reveals why making your message easy to understand is essential for success. Through personal stories and practical insights, he shares how reducing "mental calories" in communication leads to better connections and results.Featured Story:Scott shares a humorous yet insightful story about his five-year-old son attempting to tell him about
The Boundary Blueprint That Changes Everything
In this episode, Scott Smith shares how feeling stuck led him to develop a powerful vision framework. Drawing from his TV production career, he reveals the "keeper of the vision" concept that transforms goals into reality. Scott provides actionable steps to create, validate, and maintain your vision for lasting success.Featured Story:A client struggling with career transition learns to bridge the gap between their current position and retirement using Scott's vision framework. The story demonstr
Master Your Vision, Master Your Destiny
In this enlightening episode of The Daily Boost, Scott Smith tackles the universal challenge of feeling stuck and shares his proven method for breaking free. Drawing from his 20-year experience as a television and film producer, Scott introduces the powerful concept of being the "keeper of the vision" - a strategy that transformed his approach to both business and personal growth.Scott reveals his three-step framework for creating and maintaining a clear vision that pulls you toward your goals,
Napoleon Hill Meets Modern Success
In this engaging Friday episode, Scott Smith weaves together personal anecdotes (including a humorous William Shatner comparison) with timeless motivational wisdom from Napoleon Hill. Scott explores the power of 30-day sprints and major definite purpose, while offering a fresh perspective on taking "massive imperfect action." Through his signature storytelling style, he breaks down how life's messiest moments often lead to our greatest discoveries of passion and purpose, encouraging listeners to
Life’s Essential Questions: Your Guide To Growth
In this thought-provoking episode, Scott Smith shares a touching and humorous conversation with his 93-year-old mother, who asks him if he's figured out what he'll be when he grows up. This leads to a deeper exploration of life's fundamental questions that can guide personal growth and fulfillment. Through his signature blend of wisdom and warmth, Scott presents ten essential questions that he's been asking his audience for 19 years, demonstrating how these timeless inquiries can help shape a mo
The Freedom Paradox: Structure Sets You Free
In this powerful episode, Scott Smith explores the counterintuitive relationship between structure and freedom, weaving together insights about sobriety as a superpower (referencing Brené Brown) with deeper truths about how discipline creates true liberation. Through engaging storytelling and real-world examples, Scott challenges the common misconception that freedom means living without structure, demonstrating how the most successful and genuinely free people often have the most structured liv
Bridging The Gap Between Dreams and Reality
In this energizing episode, Scott Smith unpacks his powerful "Bridge of Life" concept, drawing inspiration from his visit to the Hoover Dam. He explains why having a solid foundation – what he calls a "peaceful base" – is crucial before making major life changes. Through his signature blend of wisdom and humor, Scott shows how rushing into change without proper preparation is like trying to cross a bridge that's only half-built. He shares practical insights on how to build both your current and
Daily Boost Podcast Trailer
Since 2006, Scott Smith has been transforming lives in the time it takes to drink your morning coffee. Through his signature "Words, Wisdom, and Wisecracks" approach, Scott delivers bite-sized motivation and actionable strategies that help you tackle life's challenges head-on. From boosting productivity and mastering time management to strengthening relationships and finding your purpose, each episode provides real-world solutions you can use immediately.Join Scott daily for a perfect blend of m
Are You Working ON Your Life or IN It?
The Daily Boost - Episode 5011Are You Working ON Your Life or IN It?Host: Scott SmithEpisode DescriptionIn this thought-provoking episode, Scott Smith tackles the universal challenge of procrastination with his signature blend of humor and wisdom. He weaves personal anecdotes, timely observations about Inauguration Day 2025 and Martin Luther King Day, and robust business insights from "The E-Myth" to deliver a compelling message about taking control of your life. Through engaging storytelling, S
Finding Your Pocket in Life
In this introspective episode, Scott Smith explores the concept of finding your "pocket in life" - that sweet spot where everything flows naturally despite life's chaos. Through personal stories and analogies from music and football, Scott reveals how being in life's pocket leads to contentment and resilience amidst daily challenges.Show Sponsors:Audible: http://Audible.com/Boost or text “BOOST” to 500-500Smartypants Vitamins on AmazonKey Takeaways:
The question "What do you do when you're doing
The Secret Process of Transformational Change
In today’s episode, Scott Smith breaks down the essential process of transformational change, explaining why searching for motivation alone doesn't work. He shares his professional insights from thousands of hours of coaching, revealing a proven framework that starts with inspiration and leads to lasting change.Show Sponsors:Audible: http://Audible.com/Boost or text “BOOST” to 500500Kinsta: https://kinsta.comKey Takeaways:
Inspiration naturally leads to motivation, not the other way around
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How to Say NO Without Losing Your Friends
Daily Boost Show NotesHow to Say NO Without Losing Your Friends - Episode 5008Host: Scott SmithEpisode DescriptionScott shares powerful communication techniques from his background in improv, teaching listeners how to better handle difficult conversations and maintain a growth mindset. He weaves these lessons through a touching story about his 93-year-old mother's decision to give up her driver's license, demonstrating how acceptance and positive framing can make life's transitions easier.Key Ta
Clearing Your Life's Clutter
Clearing Your Life's ClutterDaily Boost Podcast - Episode 5007Host: Scott SmithEpisode DescriptionScott Smith explores the concept of simplifying life by addressing both physical and mental clutter. Using wisdom from Stoic philosophy and Brian Tracy's "Eat the Big Frog First," he explains why taking inventory of your life's complexities is crucial for personal growth and achieving your goals in 2025.Key TakeawaysLife's basics (sleep, food, hydration, bodily functions) form the foundation of well
Living an Imperfectly Perfect Life
Living an Imperfectly Perfect Life - Episode 5006Host: Scott SmithEpisode DescriptionScott Smith explores the concept of living an imperfectly perfect life, discussing how life's natural peaks and valleys affect our journey. He shares insights about human adaptation, the challenge of maintaining New Year's resolutions, and the importance of mastering life's basic fundamentals before pursuing complex goals.Key TakeawaysLife naturally flows between peaks and valleys due to hedonic adaptation, and
Are You a Rule Bender?
Daily Boost Podcast - Are You a Rule Bender? - Episode 5,005Host: Scott SmithEpisode DescriptionScott Smith explores the complex relationship between following rules and bending them, sharing personal experiences from his high school days and radio career. Through engaging storytelling, he reveals how sometimes we unconsciously follow the rules while thinking we're breaking them and the importance of understanding when rule-bending crosses the line.Key Takeaways- Rules in jobs, relationships, an
Why You Shouldn't Trust Your Brain
The Daily Boost - Episode 5,004"Why You Shouldn't Trust Your Brain"Host: Scott SmithEpisode DescriptionScott explores the fascinating relationship between our brain's chemical rewards system and decision-making. He explains why our brains, while essential for survival and success, shouldn't always be trusted blindly due to their addiction to neurotransmitters like dopamine, serotonin, and oxytocin. Scott shares his unorthodox yet practical approach to managing this relationship for better decisi
Monkey Effect: When Others Dump Their Problems on You
Daily Boost Podcast - Episode 5003Monkey Effect: When Others Dump Their Problems on YouHost: Scott SmithEpisode Description:Scott explores how people try to burden us with their problems (their “monkeys”) and how this affects our ability to pursue our goals. Through a personal story from his fifth grade, he illustrates why we should be mindful of taking on others' responsibilities while managing our challenges, especially during New Year's resolution season.Key Takeaways:- External influences an
Love vs Grind: Counterintuitive Path to Success
Love vs Grind: Counterintuitive Path to SuccessHost: Scott SmithEpisode Description:Scott explores wanting success "bad enough" through personal experiences and an enlightening interview with Ann Beiler, founder of Auntie Anne's Pretzels. He discusses the reality of "the grind" and how passion transforms challenging work into meaningful pursuits.Key Takeaways:- True desire for success requires embracing difficulty rather than seeking easy paths- Sometimes, not knowing the challenges ahead can be
When Resolutions Meet Bathroom Breaks
The Daily Boost - Episode 5,001When Resolutions Meet Bathroom BreaksHosted by Scott SmithEpisode DescriptionJoin Scott for this milestone 5,000th episode, where he shares a hilarious road trip story that perfectly illustrates the difference between goals and resolutions. Through bathroom breaks, Bucky's stops, and visiting his 92-year-old mom, Scott reveals powerful insights about setting and achieving your biggest dreams.In This Episode- Celebrating 18 seasons and 5,000 episodes of The Daily B
Don’t Break Your Success Chain
Don’t Break Your Success ChainI’ll never forget the day a friend called and made me an offer I couldn’t refuse - and I didn’t.Rob was an event promoter who had snagged the chance to book an up-and-coming comedian named Jerry Seinfeld into a local venue. He needed somebody to warm up the audience and introduce Jerry. I was all in when he agreed to cover my drink tab and let me hang out with Jerry before the show.It was 1986, and Jerry’s television series about nothing was still in development. I
How To Make Change in 2025
How To Make Change in 2025As we get into the New Year, I've noticed that people are getting back to their old ways.That's okay. It's a journey.But what is that journey?Winston Churchill said, "To improve is to change, so to be perfect is to have changed often." And it helps if you understand the stages of change:1) Pre-Contemplation. You may intend to take action but are unaware that your behavior is the problem. 2) Contemplation. You recognize the problem and start to debate the pros and cons o
Mapping Your Success
Wouldn’t it be great to have a plan to help you get what you want? What you need is MAPSS. - a system that gets thinking out of the way and focuses on actions in four areas:Motivation: Everything begins with motivation and knowing ‘WHY’ you set your goals. Stay motivated.Accountability: Being accountable and accepting responsibility for your results will empower your success. Saying, ‘If it’s to be, it’s up to me,’ is a great way to get started.Planning: Plan your work, work you plan. It’s simp
4 Steps to Change Your Life
Creating a difference in your life is a non-stop process that requires simple actions to help you get what you want. And it is, after all, about getting what you want and keeping what you love.You’ll always go through these steps:1) Decide. Everything begins with your decision to head off in a new direction. While sometimes you may feel like you’ve made a decision, if you’re not moving, you haven’t.2) Define. Aimless wandering is fun when that’s what you’ve decided to do. Otherwise, it’s frustra
Are Smart Goals The Secret?
I'm a big fan of setting big-ass goals. Dreaming BIG is my natural state - which is why S.M.A.R.T. goals are not all that smart.S.M.A.R.T. stands for Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Realistic, and Time-Bound.While it may seem like a good plan, I can't wrap my head around not setting goals because they don't seem achievable or realistic.Excuse me?When did big goals seem achievable and realistic? If that were true, you would already be doing them. Anytime you are moving from dreaming into doing
Are You Choosing a Word For The Year?
Around this time every year, people begin to declare to me the WORD they have chosen to guide their lives for the following year. I like words - especially when combined with wisdom and a few wisecracks - but that might be just me. Still, I'm always amazed at how excited people get and how much they believe their WORD will guide them into the next year.I'm jealous. I need a WORD, too - and that's where the trouble begins.I can't imagine choosing a word to represent 365 days of getting after it.
Rules For a Happy Life
In 300 BC, political life was driving people crazy. To calm the masses, several schools of philosophy popped up. Stoicism still resonates powerfully today.1. Don't enslave yourself to annoying people.2. Choose reasonable expectations.3. Pre-meditate those expectations.4. You are a mind that is operating a bag of chemicals you call a body.5. Stop pretending you know that things are bad.6. You were put here to reason, so use it already.7. Life is NOT too short.8. Feel your emotions like a Stoic wo
The Gift of Free Will
When will you get to do what you want to do? More people than you know lose sleep over that question. If that sounds like something you have experienced, you’re not alone. Almost everybody begins their journey when a thought pops into their mind. Then, day-to-day life keeps them busy, and they spend frustrating months fixin’ to get ready. You know, starting to prepare… so you can begin to do… so you can do… and say you did. If that doesn’t work, you summon your friend, Will Power. Will is not a
Are You Listening To Your Calling
I’m not sure how you feel about the Universe and how things work in the world, but does the Universe speak to you?I can’t tell you if the ‘Universe’ stands alone or if ‘God’ created the ‘Universe’ and runs the show. That’s above my pay grade. What I can say is this. We live and breathe every day in a world that is ganging up on us and trying to get our attention. The question is, are you listening?While there are many ways people seek to receive messages of guidance as we make life decisions, my
Living Your 9-Year Life Cycle
A few years ago, my friend Louis Gates taught me about the nine-year life cycle. It's an easy way to get what you want using the Law of Attraction. 9-year cycles begin the day you are born and repeat throughout your life. Happiness is as simple as paying attention to your cycle - and asking for what you want.In year 1, start asking for a new purpose in life. It will reveal itself in year 2. Your focus will tighten.Things start moving in year 3. You'll enjoy the changes happening in your life. Yo
The Best To-Do List EVER!
I'm sure you have a lot to do today. You’re probably in for a busy day if you use a traditional To-Do list. If I may, I’d like to pass on some advice to make your days much more fun.LOSE your "To-Do List." Replace it with a "Did I Do It List." Of course, a traditional To-Do list will get the job done. But it’s far too easy to focus entirely on your list of things to do instead of what you're supposed to be doing.Don’t get me wrong, when you are inside any project, you may need a list. I can’t i
How to Make The Law of Attraction Work
The Law of Attraction should be called the Law of What You Think About Most.Like attracts like, what you think about, you get. If you think, "I won't get it because I never do," - you are correct.Dreaming of something new while focusing on current problems is a sure way to keep spinning your wheels.The secret is to focus your attention and actions on what you want to attract. That will require a dedicated effort. Vision Boards, lists of goals, and daily journaling are all great ways to stay on t
It’s Time To Explore What’s Possible
It’s Time To Explore What’s PossibleI’ve spent the last couple of days saying things like —“What do you do when you are doing you, and your purpose is to find your purpose?”Now, I realize that something so simple is also something most people will ignore. I also realized that for some people, as soon as they begin reading and realize they’ve already heard it, tune out and open the next email. That’s unfortunate.Studies have long ago proven that repetition is the Mother of all skills. Yes, it tak
Say YES to Yourself More This Year
Say YES to Yourself More This YearDo you ever wish you had a less complicated life? Even if your job and life are overcomplicated out of necessity, like launching a rocket or performing brain surgery, you can still simplify everything.How do you do it?Your actions in your life and your job are probably not causing the overwhelm. It's the people and the results that are causing you to feel that way.The easier way to under-complicate is to begin saying "No" to the arbitrary and unattainable deman
Happiness Doesn't Require Permission
My friend Sid called to tell me he had found his next big thing. He decided to take flying lessons and couldn't wait to get started.After hearing my Mom's stories over the years, I have always wanted to learn to fly. Her father was a contractor in Wilmington, North Carolina. When an airport client couldn't pay, he offered lessons. She was 15 years old.Her stories of landing on the beaches of North Carolina were thrilling. Flying solo before an arriving hurricane was captivating. We'll forget tha
Morning Routines Power
One thing that I'm always going to do is refine my morning routine — it's a never-ending process. You hear a lot about using morning rituals to get more done. But what if you could use your mornings to get more done for YOU?In the fast-paced world we live in today, there seem to be two groups when it comes to how to use mornings — personal and productive. Once folks remove themselves from the craziness of jumping out of bed, taking care of the kids, and hitting the drive-through, they choose one
Unlock Your Goals with Accountability
Over the years, I've witnessed dozens of people set themselves up for failure by following seemingly wise advice -"When you set a goal, make it public and tell everybody you know so they can support you."In my experience, that could have worked better - especially on long-term goals. The reason is that nobody outside my close relationships knows me well enough to understand why I'm doing what I'm doing. That makes it challenging to provide support in meaningful ways, difficult for me to accept,
Steps to Getting What You Want — and Keeping It.
Creating a difference in your life is a non-stop process that requires simple actions to help you get what you want. And it is, after all, about getting what you want and keeping what you love.You’ll always go through these steps:1) Decide. Everything begins with your decision to head off in a new direction. While sometimes you may feel like you’ve made a decision, if you’re not moving, you haven’t.2) Define. Aimless wandering is fun when that’s what you’ve decided to do. Otherwise, it’s frustra
Clear Your Clutter, Clear Your Mind
I’ve noticed in my life that humans are hoarders when it comes to keeping stuff that works and doesn’t. They keep hanging on; their life depends on it.Now, before I go on, I think there are two situations at play here:1) Hanging on to what has worked well but needs to go so you can do more of what you want to do.2) Hanging on what doesn’t work in hopes that it will work well someday.Both can go on for years, leading to frustration as you long for something else. I was on the phone with a client
10 Daily Rules for a Happier You
Every day, we all jump into the craziness of life with little thought to the basic rules we use to run our day. Here are a few of mine. You can borrow them if you would like:1) Do what makes your heart sing. You'll always feel better when you are dancing down your path.2) Believe anything is possible. As soon as you believe - everything IS possible.3) Be nice to others. Expect them to do the same. No further explanation is required.4) Believe in people and encourage their dreams. When you do, th
The Gift of Making a Decision
The Gift of Making a DecisionAs we approach the most spiritual time of year, I find more and more of my thoughts are focused on what my future will bring. But instead of drafting a list of goals, my mind seems to settle into a different place—What if I could give myself a gift that instantly gives me what I want?What if I don't have to chase my dreams and start living them instead?What if there was nothing in my way - ever?While that way of thinking may seem out of touch today, it's not. It happ
All You Need is ONE Goal
All You Need is ONE GoalLet me start by saying that goal setting is powerful, and you should be doing it - but there is a good chance that you are overdoing it.It's human nature to set goals; you do it daily without thinking. That's why it's so powerful. It's also why it's so easy to set so many goals that you can never get any of them done. Let me define how I see goals.No matter what distracts me, I've come to think of goals in two ways:1) Legacy Goals that I will spend my entire life
Why Slow is Fast and Fast is Slow.
Why Slow is Fast and Fast is Slow.I was riding my Harley-Davidson Road King a few days ago when my mind suddenly thought -“The Chinese Philosophical concept of Yin and yang describes how opposite or contrary forces may be complementary, interconnected, and interdependent in the natural world.”What? What? Huh?It happened right before the Daytona Speedway and got me thinking about the advice I give my clients about slowing down. It goes like this -“You must slow down to get what you want.”Advice l
Expectations in Love And Everything
Expectations in Love And EverythingWhen I first met my wife, Joi, I knew we would be married and live happily ever after. But there was a problem. Joi didn’t see it that way - at least not right away.If life has taught me anything, almost nobody is on the same page when they first meet. We might be in the same book but not on the same page. In the early weeks of our relationship, I was in full-on action mode and on a mission to achieve my goal as quickly as possible. I was also frustrated since
Exploring Your Possibilities
Exploring Your PossibilitiesWhat do I want to be when I grow up? The first time you ask yourself that question is when you are very young - if you ever asked it at all. Frankly, somebody else usually asks you, and you probably don't have an answer, so you just take off running with this thing called life. And then it happens —Forty or fifty years later, people start asking themselves that question again after a family and career. The smart ones in the crowd don’t wait either; they question who t
Gift of a Wonderful Life
Wouldn't it be great if you received the gift of a wonderful life this year? What if you could have lots of free time, less stress, more money, and great relationships? In my years of coaching folks all over the world, I've learned a few things about lifestyle design:1) It all begins when you become aware of what you want and accept that it's up to you.2) It would be best to believe your dreams could be real as soon as you start living them.3) You are the Boss of you, so there's no reason for
Happy Thanks-Living!
Happy Thanksgiving!These days, most folks don't remember what Thanksgiving is all about - other than big sales all over Amazon.The Pilgrims celebrated the first Thanksgiving after a successful harvest in October 1621. The feast lasted three days. The federal holiday began in 1863 when President Abraham Lincoln proclaimed a national day of "Thanksgiving." Thanksgiving is about being grateful. I think a statement from Stoic Philosopher Epictetus is fitting, "He is a wise man who does not grieve f
Setting The Stage For 2025
With a new year almost upon us, it’s time to crank up those 2025 goals.One of the most natural methods of achieving success is to stick to tried and true. That doesn’t mean you can’t move toward something more meaningful. It means that you forgo new knowledge and skills and leverage what you already understand.No-brainer success assumes:1) You already have experience and wisdom. You will learn any new skill if, and only if needed. 2) You will choose the path of least resistance. The goal is to
Monkey in the Middle
Have you ever found yourself stuck in the middle?I was speaking with a client who was trying to be everything to everybody. His business was not growing. His life was not happy. He couldn’t seem to find a way to make progress. That’s when I said…“My friend, you are stuck in the middle. Nothing good happens when you are in the middle.”In business and life, it’s okay to have a low expectation and be surrounded by like-minded folks. It’s also okay to reach for your dreams, have high expectations,
Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs
Your best life is built sequentially, one level at a time. Forget the elevator, climb all the stairs to the top, and you’ll have lasting success.In 1954, Abraham Maslow released Motivation and Personality. His Hierarchy of needs theory is all about climbing to the top.Maslow suggested that to reach your full potential:1) You must provide for your physiological needs: food, clothing, shelter, money, and more. 2) You must feel safe. Personally, emotionally, financially, with health and well-being
Be Your Own Cheerleader
Do you remember what it was like to be in 1st grade?It was a time when everybody lavished you with encouragement for being YOU - and because you finished your art project without eating the glue.Those were beautiful times. But you may have noticed things have changed since you were okay to take a nap in the middle of class. You grew up.Yes, growing into an adult brings many mentors your way. They do their best to motivate and inspire you. But you know in your heart that they can only do so much.
Improve Your Communication Skills
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ONE Important Thing
ONE Important Thing
I have a question for you.
What is your ONE most important activity?
What is the ONE core activity that, if you do, everything else is fine?
What is the ONE core activity that, if you don’t do it, causes everything to fall apart?
Many people focus on anything but the most critical activity in their lives. They are usually surprised when things fall apart.
Is it showing up for work on time or doing a great job?
Could it be your unflinching attention to your family?
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Three Step Productivity
Three Step Productivity
Not a day goes by when somebody doesn't ask me how to manage their time and be more productive. I wanted to share my simple, non-AI approach to getting things done.
It's crucial to understand that productivity systems are not one-size-fits-all. They should be tailored to your unique needs and goals, which can evolve with your changing roles and responsibilities in life.
I'm now living in the wisdom role and not the get a thousand things done a day role. Still, no matter w
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Reinvent Yourself With No Plan
In the last couple of years, I made a decision that changed everything about my life.
And no, when I began personal Operation Reinvention, I didn't have much of a plan. I wouldn't say I was winging it, but sometimes you have no idea what kind of plan you need. What I did have was a mindset.
I wondered -
"What single change can I make - a change that would automatically and positivity disrupt everything in my life and put me in a better place?"
I followed that wi
Non-Optional Time Suckers
Non-Optional Time Suckers
It happens to all of us.
We're going about our day, hot on the trail of checking off items on our never-ending To-Do list. Then, we discovered that we didn't get everything done before time ran out.
When my son was entering the workforce, we would often find time to catch up on weekends. He was trying to navigate the business world while balancing his life. He had a fast-paced job and had become a productivity ninja. He was proud of his color-coded To-Do list and calen
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How to Set Expectations and Get Results
I can’t remember a time in my life when expectations didn’t significantly impact every minute and hour of every day of my life. No matter who you are, you have a million expectations inside your mind — and don’t get me started about expectations that others have for you.
Years ago, I developed an awareness of how expectations control our lives and settled on an engineering model to guide me along my path. The model is called the Feed-Forward/Feedback Mode
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Two Words That Will Change Your Life: Slow Down
While recovering from Total Hip Replacement, I engaged with a client on a Zoom call. He shared one of his favorite sayings, “Slow is fast, fast is slow,” which made me angry.
Why?
First Responders practice “Slow is fast, fast is slow” all the time, so you never see them running to the scene. Pacing themselves is simply safer, more effective, and faster.
A more real-life example of why it’s a good idea to experience a risk-taking, lane-shifting driv
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Total Control: Pre-Planned Responses
Imagine if you could always know what to say in any situation.
Having the right thing to say is possible. The trick is to think about all the possible ways a conversation may go and create a Pre-Planned Response.
The secret is to work it from every angle until you have covered everything possible. Leave no stone unturned.
So, what happens when the conversation arrives?
1) You will be calm and collected.
2) You will not be surprised.
3) You will have the righ
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Mapping Your Success
Have you ever heard people preach, "Get out of your comfort zone, try new things, always stretch!"
While true, it's only part of the story.
Look at anybody who has achieved goals and maintained success over a period, and you'll find:
1) Motivation. Successful people do whatever they can to stay motivated. It's not an occasional thing. It's an always thing.
2) Accountability. Successful people accept responsibility and ask others to hold them to their plan.
3) Planning. Succ
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Productivity Efficiency
I think it’s time we stop seeking more productivity. It’s too much work! I prefer being more efficient and effective.
Here are a couple of ideas that will help:
1) Say “No” to meetings if possible. If you must, keep them short and sweet.
2) Delay paying attention to incoming communication. It’s nothing more than somebody else’s to-do list. Do your stuff first.
3) Daily interruptions will never go away. You may as well expect and plan for them.
4) Only schedule up to 50%
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How To KNOW You Are a Success
Have you ever had a crazy day that involved putting out fires and wondering when it would be time to go home?
And did I mention you were doing what you love and want to be doing successfully?
Why is it that life gets crazier when things go well?
There’s a simple answer.
No matter what you do, your life will change when enough people begin paying attention to you.
Some folks will love you. Some will hate you.
Others won’t have an opinion but will say something anywa
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Stop Driving Yourself Crazy
Whatever you desire in your life, everything starts as a thought. It will demand your attention.
You have three options:
1) Deny it and keep moving.
2) Do it - put it into action.
3) Delay it and drive yourself crazy.
Deny it. Do with it. Delay it. The quality of your life will be a result of your choice.
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You Don’t Need Plan B
Have you ever wondered how the most successful people in the world get that way?
Could it be their timing is right?
Do they “know” somebody?
Luck? That’s it. They get lucky!
Maybe, but I think there is more to it.
Every person I’ve ever known who achieved remarkable success did three things:
1) They recognized what they wanted and envisioned themselves living that life.
2) At some point, they commit and go all in. Their dream IS going to happen. There is no “Plan B.”
3)
There is Always a Way
There is Always a Way
When life gets in the way, do you get frustrated about being blocked?
I used to be that way. Something changed.
I learned long ago that getting blocked would be an everyday occurrence. And, the bigger my goals, the more blocks would arrive. I could live with endless frustrations - or find a better way. It came down to this:
1) Blocks have nothing to do with who I am. They could be self-inflicted or caused by others, but they still have nothing to do with me.
2) If you wa
Living Your Default Mode
Living Your Default Mode
Would you like to make life easier for yourself and everybody around you?
It’s time to establish a “Personal Default Mode.”
Success in all areas of life smooths out when you know what to expect of yourself. It gets better when others know what to expect of you.
A “Personal Default Mode” is a consistent way of acting in different areas of your life. For example:
1) How do you respond to stress?
2) What happens when you don’t get what you want?
3) Is there a behavior you e
Never Triggered Again
Never Triggered Again
Have you ever caught yourself doing or saying something you swore you would never do?
You are TRIGGERED!
It can be frustrating when you set and don't follow the rules. Sometimes, you put your foot in your mouth. Sometimes, you put the pizza in your mouth. In any case, your emotional habits usually trigger your actions before you can do anything about them.
Controlling behaviors that have been on auto-pilot for years takes:
1) Catch yourself after the fact. Notice your mis
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Are You The Monkey in The Middle?
Have you ever found yourself stuck in the middle?
I was speaking with a client trying to be everything to everybody. His business was not growing. His life was not happy. He couldn’t seem to find a way to make progress.
That’s when I said…
“My friend, you are stuck in the middle. Nothing good happens when you are in the middle.”
In business and life, having low expectations and being surrounded by like-minded folks is okay.
It’s also okay to reach for your dr
5 Words To Succeed at Anything
5 Words To Succeed at Anything
When I was a baby DJ in broadcast school, I spent a lot of time learning the rules of journalism. While that subject fills books, almost everything we needed to know was -
Who? What? When? Where? Why?
If you know that information, you can tell a complete story.
Years later, I re-arranged the formula for personal growth. Every time I set goals and consider a different direction, I ask -
What? Why? When? Where? Who?
Occasionally I need to ask HOW I will accomplish m
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Let Your Greatness Shine
Whether in business, having a job, going to school, or living your life, your ability to present well will supercharge your success.
Here are five tips I use every day:
1) Understand that most folk only expect you to wow them. They are not expecting bad. You shouldn't either.
2) Join the conversation THEY already have inside their head, not the one YOU are having.
3) You'll move faster if you drop the small talk and dig into the meat of your communication. You can fill
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Focusing on YOUR Important
As a child, I remember heading out the door for a day in an endless adventure. It usually concluded with a game of Hide-And-Seek.
Those days seemed to last forever.
These days, most of us are still running until the sun goes down. But there's so much to do that we rarely have time to ponder the bigger picture.
Remember-
You will always find time for your most important tasks. You will eat, sleep, pay bills, feed the dog, and take care of your children - no matter how
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The Will and Way of Change in 30 Days
Only a silly person thinks you can change everything about your life in 30 days - right?
Call me silly, but everything I've ever done was rooted in a 30-day sprint - even if I didn’t know it.
Here's how you do it:
1) Set what Napoleon Hill calls a Major Definite Purpose or a Big Ass Goal.
2) Stop negative self-talk. Others may throw sticks and stones; don't throw them at yourself.
3) List all the reasons you CAN be successful. Make it a long list.
4) Decide
Interpreting Your Calling
Interpreting Your Calling
Is the Universe whispering and nudging you to move in a specific direction?
Before I go on, I must admit that I am certainly not an expert in the Universe or if it works in our life. The magic of gravity is enough to blow my mind, and the only Secret I know is that you are the only one in charge of getting what you want in your life.
But what if you know that Universe is speaking to you? Calling you, compelling you to get off the sofa and do what you say you want to do
10 Daily Rules for a Happier You
10 Daily Rules for a Happier You
Every day, we all jump into the craziness of life without much thought of the basic rules we use to run our day.
Here are a few of mine. You can borrow them if you would like:
1) Do what makes your heart sing. You'll always feel better when you are dancing down your path.
2) Believe anything is possible. As soon as you believe - everything IS possible.
3) Be nice to others. Expect them to do the same. No further explanation is required.
4) Believe in people and
7 Stoic Rules for Happiness
7 Stoic Rules for Happiness
I'm a fan of Stoic Philosophy. While it may be over 2,000 years old, its practicality is still valid.
These rules to live by will help you have a happier life:
1. If you're going to learn and succeed, be humble. There is always someone more intelligent, more successful, and wiser.
2. Find the right scene. Choose your friends and situations. If you want to rise in life, you can't allow yourself to be held down by others.
3. Protect your time. Seneca said, "We're tigh
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Opening New Doors Fuel Your Dreams
One of my favorite questions is, “What CAN I Do?”
No matter how challenging a situation.
Answering that question always reveals a clear path.
As they navigate our new world, I hear my clients ask me that question, too.
My answer usually goes something like this -
“Can you do it? When you open a new door, you will find a new opportunity. Start opening more doors.”
Feeling empowered in a world that is draining your energy is like Tesla on a cross-country trip
Do This Instead of Setting Goals
Do This Instead of Setting Goals
Do you still dream of what you will be when you grow up?
Do visions still keep popping into your head?
Is there a mission that seems to be calling you?
What’s your BAM?
What’s your BIG - AWESOME - MOTIVATING - MISSION?
What gives you pleasant dreams and a feeling of happiness?
What scares yet excites you?
What makes you smile and say, “If I could only get myself to…”
Stand up? Take a step? Repeat?
There’s no need to wait. You can start right now. Really! Ri
Focusing on Your Twenty Percent
Focusing on Your Twenty Percent
If you’re like many folks, you have so much on your plate that it’s challenging to keep up— forget about moving closer to your goal.
There’s good news: you are not alone.
Everyone lives according to the 80/20 rule, which almost everybody has heard about. The Pareto Principle states that 80% of outcomes result from 20% of all causes of any event.
However, to get what you want in life, there is a slight twist to the equation that says,
80% of the things you focus o
Using Natural Law to Be Your Best
Using Natural Law to Be Your Best
Personal growth is a journey. It can be a lot of work. It’s also more fun to follow the rules of ‘Natural Law.’
1) The Law of Vibration states that thoughts are things. They are one of the most potent forms of energy. What you think about, you bring about. Pay attention to your thoughts.
2) According to the Law of Polarity, nothing exists without an opposite. Love, hate, hot, cold, yin, and yang. Opposites are different forms of the same thing. Embrace them.
3)
Your Desire Comes From Their Desire
Your Desire Comes From Their Desire
Not a day passes by without someone asking, "How do I get another person to help me get what I want?"
Persuading others is one key to getting what you want in life—and here's a big secret: It's NOT about you!
You'll get what you want faster by focusing on how you can help others solve their problem - and "Ladder of Desire."
This is how it works:
1) Most folks lecture others. That's a low level of communication and rarely builds a real connection.
2) A more pra
Why Next Week Begins This Week
Why Next Week Begins This Week
I have a saying -
“Next year begins THIS year. Next month begins THIS month. Next week begins THIS week.”
If you want to stay on track, accomplish your goals, and enjoy life more - you MUST take control of your calendar. It’s easier than you think:
1) Life will come at you FAST! Schedule any significant and can’t-miss life events at least one year in advance. Put it on the calendar and block it out. You can always change your mind.
2) Hold your space. Decide in adv
Happy No Matter What
Happy No Matter What
Would you like to be happy every day of the week?
Maybe it's time to start thinking like a happy person.
There's no magic to being happier.
Rose-colored glasses are not required.
Just start looking at your day-to-day life the way a happy person does.
Give this a try:
1) Accept that merely being alive means encountering occasional challenges.
2) Realize that dealing with challenges is a privilege that comes with being alive.
3) Welcome frustration. That means that you are no
Prioritize Yourself First
Prioritize Yourself First
If you spend any time listening to me, it won’t take long before you hear me screaming from the top of the mountains to ignore the agenda and propaganda-filled world we live in and focus on yourself.
Here’s the truth...
Nobody is thinking about you and what you do. That means you need to pay attention to yourself because everybody else is busy with themselves.
Some folks find that way of thinking difficult because society makes you believe you must do what everybody el
Hope, Fear, Faith, and Courage
Hope, Fear, Faith, and Courage
Have you ever paid attention to the process that moves you forward - or stops you in your tracks?
All change begins with Hope, a feeling of expectation, and a desire for a certain thing to happen.
Right after hope comes fear, an unpleasant emotion caused by the belief that someone or something is dangerous and likely to cause pain or a threat.
When you commit to making your dreams come true, you move into Faith; you have complete trust or confidence in someone or s
Stop Waiting to Get What You Want
Stop Waiting to Get What You Want
I was sitting at the dining room table of a friend. We had been solving the problems of the world in an hours-long conversation when she asked,
“What are you talking about on tomorrow's podcast?"
When I told her that I hadn't thought about it yet, she said,
"Why don't you talk about why people don't take big chances and stay in their comfort zone for their entire life?"
My mind did an instant review of my life and all the areas I had stumbled before I got out o
Are Good Intentions Enough?
Are Good Intentions Enough?
Do you get out of bed every day, plant your feet on the ground, and start getting things done?
Do you do it with intention?
If you take a minute, you’ll notice the happiest, most successful, and content people live a life of intention. But having an intention is not a magical force reserved for the special few. It implies little more than what you plan to bring about in your life - something I was about to do.
In the months after meeting my future wife, I realized an
Automatically Motivate Yourself
Automatically Motivate Yourself
Over the years, I’ve learned there is one trait responsible for holding people back. While it lives at the front of your mind and affects everything you do, it is also invisible.
You are too vague in your vision.
When most people build a successful life, they often do so with a lack of clarity or precise vision of their future. They have a vague idea. The Universe kicks in gear, an opportunity arrives, and life is good and satisfying—until it’s not.
A day will co
Are You Focused on The Wrong Things?
Are You Focused on The Wrong Things?
Have you ever found yourself setting out on a big mission yet not being able to define what you want?
When I was a young man, I trained in journalism as part of my broadcast career. Radio stations would send me to the local town meetings and political events. Anything newsworthy. My job was to write a story and deliver it on the air, and I thought I was doing a great job - until my boss called me into his office. He wanted to know why I wasn't getting to the
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One Thing Turns Dreams Into Reality
Do you have long-held dreams and goals that require little motivation to get yourself moving?
Laura and I have worked together for over a decade on various projects. Her latest was a move from a long-time career into something she was in which she was more passionate. After several months, her dream transformed into a goal. The roadmap was in place. Action was the only thing needed to turn dreams into reality, and nothing happened.
Months passed by with little
Remove Your Fear of Change
Remove Your Fear of Change
I woke up this morning with the realization that a life-changing event was looming in my future. I needed to wrap my head around the mindset adjustments I would need to make before changing my mind and running the other way.
All of us have made decisions that, if we did, would change our world overnight.
Are you heading off to school for the first time? Are you getting married after being single forever? Could it be accepting a new job in a strange town?
It doesn't m
Calculating Your Success
Calculating Your Success
You have big dreams, and you've set your goals. Filled with excitement and setting your fears aside, you are off and running toward your success, but it's more complicated than you thought it would be.
What's going on?
That was the question on my client's mind when I stopped by for a visit. His new business was growing but slower than expected, and he was beginning to wonder if his dreams would come true. Stress was high, and time and money were running out.
Having seen
Identify Opportunities From Obstacles
Identify Opportunities From Obstacles
When you boil it down, all the activities that keep you busy every day lead to one destination—happiness.
It doesn't take a scientist to figure out that none of us are chasing misery.
But what happens when you have too many options and keep choosing those that throw you off course?
My dog, Levi, and I have had a standing appointment with Mindy for years. She's a dog agility world champion and knows a thing or two about training champions. She's also very g
Life Changes When You Are Most Tired
Life Changes When You Are Most Tired
Many have said, "Life is a marathon, not a sprint."
But what happens when you find yourself doing both at the same time?
If you've been living on this planet for any length of time, you've figured out life is a long game made of day-to-day sprints.
If you want a big bank balance, you make small deposits over time.
If you want to lose weight, you make small reductions over time.
If you want to get a promotion at your job, you do well every day.
The challen
Recovering When You Feel Lost
Recovering When You Feel Lost
When life gets in the way, it can be challenging to know what to do next. No matter how motivated you are to achieve your goal.
Thinking like a Pilot can save the day when that happens.
A few years ago, I was a 150-hour pilot. I was flying a Cessna 172 to pick up my daughter for a weekend visit from the University of Florida—a trip I've made a dozen times. It had been an uneventful flight, then, about 15 minutes from landing, it happened…
Maybe it was the heat of t
A Different Way of Planning
A Different Way of Planning
I was on the phone with a client this morning when he said, ”I don’t know why I have such a hard time planning my day-to-day stuff. I want my day to be easier!”
I get it. Everybody does. And to make that happen, you need a mindset shift.
First to consider is that non-stop and continuous planning of every task every day is exhausting. It only adds another level of stress to your day.
Instead, planning should be done occasionally with a broader focus on the short, mediu
Setting Your Rules of Success
Setting Your Rules of Success
If you study people who have succeeded in any area of their lives, you will find they have much in common.
Not only do they follow a set of rules, they follow those rules no matter how much life gets in the way.
What are those rules?
The person who has the strongest "Why" wins.
The person who shows up wins.
The person who shows up on time wins.
The person who is most persistent wins.
The person show never assumes wins.
The person who is the best at what they do win
Who is Your Future Self?
Who is Your Future Self?
I’ll never forget the day a mentor of mine said to me —
“You have to become the person you want to be before becoming the person you want to be.”
What?
So, do I have to fake it until I make it?
Heck no! I’m not going to change who I am - no way!
“No. You’re not changing who you are. It’s just that you have to understand that in the future, you will have a different set of beliefs than you hold right now. That’s called growth. Whatever you believe, you will become.”
At f
How to be Effortlessly Creative
How to be Effortlessly Creative
Over the years, I have produced over 12,000 podcasts; everyone begins with the written word. Even though that makes my mouth and fingers my most exercised body parts, it has also given me many opportunities to learn to keep my words flowing.
If you're like most people, you have found yourself sitting in front of a blank screen, praying for inspiration. It could be writer's block, procrastination, or maybe you watched Netflix late. In any case, a simple solution ca
Mindset For Happiness
Mindset For Happiness
I spend most of my days finding ways to keep tens of thousands of people worldwide motivated and moving - and that always comes down to a strategy for mindset.
Here are a few things you can do - today!
1) Remind Yourself of Your Gratefulness
Who or what are you most grateful to have in your life?
Sometime today, pause, close your eyes, and fill your mind with the people and things that make your life good.
Remember, reminding yourself of why you are grateful makes you unsto
Motivational Laws You Should Respect
Motivational Laws You Should Respect
Specific actions, thoughts, and feelings have revealed themselves to be the truth.
If you want to better yourself, here are my Top 10:
10) Purpose And Passion Come From Clarity of Thought.
9) Purpose And Passion Begin With Acceptance.
8) Faith and Courage Power Transformation.
7) The Secret Lies Within You.
6) Some Doors Must Close Before Others Open.
5) Strong Values Create Strong Passions.
4) Goals Are The Heartbeat of Your Life.
3) Emotions + Logic = Chan
Strangest Secret For Success
Strangest Secret For Success
Earl Nightingale produced “The Strangest Secret” to motivate his insurance company sales force. It is now a motivational standard.
The secret is simple:
1) You become what you think.
2) You must pay the prices.
3) You must control your thoughts.
4) Cut away the limitations of your mind.
5) Set a clearly defined goal.
6) Act promptly when your path is clear.
7) Save at least 10% of every dollar.
What do you want more than anything else?
Do more than you must. Do m
How To Figure Out Your Purpose
How To Figure Out Your Purpose
Over the years, the most popular question I get from the MOVERS around here is -
“How do I find my purpose and face my passion?”
If I were to expand on that question, it would be -
“What can I do today to find my purpose and overcome the fear of living my passion?”
In other words, it’s one thing to find it; it’s another thing to get yourself to do it.
Today, we’ll focus on finding it.
In my quest to live passionately, I always follow a 5-step process for discoverin
How Do You Feel Sessions
How Do You Feel Sessions
How much better would your day be if you knew what surprises lurked around the corner?
While you can’t predict everything, you can prepare for most things using “How Do I Feel Strategy Sessions.”
Here’s how it works:
1) Once a month, take a few minutes and review what’s going on in your life. Your job. Your vacations. Your relationships. Your goal is to recognize what is likely to require your attention.
2) As you form your list, consider every possible scenario and expe
Seize Control With No More Waiting
Seize Control With No More Waiting
When you feel in control, are you happier?
I created 'Do What Makes Your Heart Sing a few years ago.' While it was about being happy, it's core teaching became my best practice.
1) Stop fixin' to get ready. If you want something, there is no reason to put it off. Could you go out and get it today?
2) Ask for help. We all need help. Millions of people are waiting for you to ask them.
3) Slow down when it gets bumpy. Going after big goals will lead you down roug
Decisions Made Easy
Decisions Made Easy
Have you ever noticed how forward momentum completely stops when you can't make a decision? There's no doubt; that the ability to make a decision is a power skill worth developing. I learned mine from my Mom.
I grew up in the small town of Manassas, Virginia and I couldn't wait to graduate and begin my life adventure. My focus was on becoming a top-rated morning radio host, making lots of money in a big market. But I had a problem...
The day came for me to decide how to begin
Create Your Average Perfect Day
Create Your Average Perfect Day
How would you feel if every day, on average, was as you wanted?
It's time to make your dreams come true and create your "Average Perfect Day."
Here's how it works:
1) Find a quiet spot and write a detailed description of your perfect day. Let your fantasies flow onto paper until you've mapped out morning until night.
2) Focus on your daily experiences, not material goods. In other words, if you want a sports car, focus on how you feel in the driver's seat.
3)
10 Daily Rules for a Happier You
10 Daily Rules for a Happier You
Every day, we all jump into the craziness of life with little thought to the basic rules we use to run our day.
Here are a few of mine. You can borrow them if you would like:
1) Do what makes your heart sing. You'll always feel better when you are dancing down your path.
2) Believe anything is possible. As soon as you believe - everything IS possible.
3) Be nice to others. Expect them to do the same. No further explanation is required.
4) Believe in people and e
Power of Stop, Think, Think Again
Power of Stop, Think, Think Again
With everything happening in the world, it isn’t easy to make good decisions. Being a former fat guy living in a relatively thin body, I learned a life lesson I still use daily that helps.
As a kid, going out to eat was a special occasion. One weekend my parents introduced me to the concept of an all-you-can-eat Steak House! From that day forward, I knew I would live in my Husky pants until I found a solution. Years later, I did.
In the beginning, I adopted a ph
Change Everything With a Magic Wand
Change Everything With a Magic Wand
So you know you want something different than what you have. You can’t seem to put your finger on what you want. And, the big one, you don’t know where to begin.
In my years of helping others reach their dreams, I’ve learned a couple of things -
For most of us, our lives are pretty good. They could be more exciting, and you could make more money. Your relationships could sparkle a bit more.
Still, you may feel frozen from a fear of what you might lose. It may
Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs
Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs
Your best life is built sequentially, one level at a time. Forget the elevator. Climb all the stairs to the top, and you’ll have lasting success.
In 1954, Abraham Maslow released Motivation and Personality. His Hierarchy of needs theory is all about climbing to the top.
Maslow suggested that to reach your full potential:
1) You must provide for your physiological needs. Food, clothing, shelter, money, and more.
2) You must feel safe. Personally, emotionally, financi
Never Miss a Good Opportunity
Never Miss a Good Opportunity
Getting what you want always comes down to knowing what it is, deciding to go after it, and not stopping until you get it.
But what happens when you need somebody's help to get it, and they won't step up?
I'll never forget that warm September day I made up my mind to get a membership at a new gym. They had been in pre-sale for months, and I had finally decided to drag myself off the sofa and grab a pre-opening special before it was gone.
When I walked through the d
Are You Stuck in The Middle?
Are You Stuck in The Middle?
Have you ever found yourself stuck in the middle?
I was speaking with a client who was trying to be everything to everybody. His business was not growing. His life was not happy. He couldn’t seem to find a way to make progress.
That’s when I said…
“My friend, you are stuck in the middle. Nothing good happens when you are in the middle.”
Having low expectations and being surrounded by like-minded folks is okay in business and life.
It’s also okay to reach for your
Six Mindset Shifts For Better Results
Six Mindset Shifts For Better Results
On your last day on earth, the person you became will meet the person you could have become." — Anonymous
You're smart. You're not going to let that happen to you - right?
Here are six mindset shifts to make sure you are living on purpose right now -
1) Live a good lifestyle. Eat good stuff and exercise.
2) Think long-term. Find your groove and stick with it.
3) Play BIG. Small thinking is not why you were born.
4) Be responsible. No more excuses. That’s th
Behavior Hacks For a Better Day
Behavior Hacks For a Better Day
Your mind is the most potent super-computer ever created. Here are a few ways to hack it and transform your life.
1) Start using a "Good Enough" approach. Perfectionism is doing nothing to move you forward.
2) Use your ONE mind to do ONE thing. Multitasking is splitting your focus and energy. It's also delaying your success.
3) Let go of control. Some things are up to someone else. Figure out what they are and move on.
4) Say NO to anything that does not directly
Clear Your Clutter, Clear Your Mind
Clear Your Clutter, Clear Your Mind
I’ve noticed in my life that humans are hoarders when it comes to keeping stuff that works and doesn’t.
They keep hanging on; their life depends on it.
Now, before I go on, I think there are two situations at play here:
1) Hanging on to what has worked well but needs to go so you can do more of what you want to do.
2) Hanging on what doesn’t work in hopes that it will work well someday.
Both can go on for years, leading to frustration as you long for somethin
Why a Balanced Life is a Myth
Why a Balanced Life is a Myth
I always hear, "My goal is to balance my life better." It's as if balancing is static and can be achieved and maintained once you have it.
Balance is dynamic, fleeting, ever-changing, and always challenging. Sure, it feels good when you reach equilibrium, but what about all that fun you had on your way there?
I learned about balance when I worked in radio.
My job was to balance the new music everyone wanted to hear, and the old music folks loved to remember. We bala
Imperfect Steps to Perfect Dreams
Imperfect Steps to Perfect Dreams
Do you love the feeling you get when an exciting idea pops your head?
The most appealing aspect of anything new in your life always happens initially -when it’s still a dream inside your head. It’s when it’s time to take actual action that folks slow down - fast!
Here’s how to break free:
1) Dreams only come true when you take massive action and establish momentum.
2) Fear of the unknown will stop you. What do I do? Where do I start? Will it work? No worries. O
Endure to Earn. Questions For Resilience
Endure to Earn. Questions For Resilience
A few years ago, I was chatting with a friend about business. He owned a struggling martial arts school and was crafting a master plan to grow in the coming year.
I had four questions:
1) How long do you think it will take to learn what it takes to succeed?
2) How long are you willing to work to reach your goal?
3) How long will your money last?
4) When will you begin earning - and how much?
Be prepared before you begin. Consider those questions befor
Rough Roads Smooth Successes
Rough Roads Smooth Successes
Life is a long and winding road. It has many ups and downs and a few surprises along the way.
Here's what you can expect:
1) Follow your passion, and the money will arrive. It may take longer than you think. It may be less than you believe. It doesn't matter. You'll be happy.
2) Nothing will happen until you move from daydreaming to daily action.
3) The road will be rough. Then, it will smooth out. Then, it will be rough again.
4) Whatever path you thought you woul
Becoming Aware of Your Passions
Becoming Aware of Your Passions
Are you aware of your passions?
If not, I have a question for you -
What do you do when you are doing YOU?
Why spend your days searching your mind to figure out your purpose when you are most likely living it daily?
When you take a minute to inventory how you spend your time, you will see what you enjoy doing.
Do you read, write, exercise, or work?
How about walking, talking, playing, fighting, laughing, or watching television?
Do you quilt, garden, voluntee
Filter, Focus, and Prioritize Your Path
Filter, Focus, and Prioritize Your Path
My wife and I were having dinner this weekend. She finally asked, “Are you going to tell me what you’re doing for Operation Reinvention this Summer? I want to help.”
I said, “I won’t need your help. I need your support.”
She had a puzzled look. I don’t blame her. But, I am locked in on my Goal - and that needs two things:
1) The ability to filter out what doesn’t matter and prioritize what does.
2) Accept 100% responsibility for reaching your Goal. As they
The Art of Moving Past Frustration
The Art of Moving Past Frustration
When life gets in the way, do you get frustrated about being blocked?
I used to be that way. Something changed.
I learned long ago that getting blocked would be an everyday occurrence. And, the bigger my goals, the more blocks would arrive. I could live with endless frustrations - or find a better way. It came down to this:
1) Blocks have nothing to do with who I am. They could be self-inflicted or caused by others, but they still have nothing to do with me.
It’s All About ONE Important Thing
It’s All About ONE Important Thing
I have a question for you.
What is your ONE most important activity?
What is the ONE core activity that, if you do, everything else is fine?
What is the ONE core activity that, if you don’t do it, causes everything to fall apart?
Many people focus on anything but the most critical activity in their lives. They are usually surprised when things fall apart.
Is it showing up for work on time or doing a great job?
Could it be your unflinching attention to your fa
Freedom and Growth Between the Lines
Freedom and Growth Between the Lines
Are you a fun-loving, carefree person who prefers to drift with the wind?
Are you happier following the rules and staying within the lines?
Whichever you are, happiness and success will arrive when you combine both:
1) Too much flexibility in life doesn’t allow for compounding your life experience. Like money in the bank, leave it alone once you know what works.
2) Too much structure will limit your ability to discover growth opportunities. Don’t get stuck.
D
Navigating Life with Your Who I Am Document
Navigating Life with Your Who I Am Document
Do you have a roadmap for how you operate in your world?
A few years ago, I decided I needed a guide to ensure my daily actions matched my values. I ended up calling it my ‘Who I am' Statement.
Who I am - this is not a mission statement.
Who I am - this is not a list of affirmations.
Who I am - is not a value statement.
Who I am is a personal cheat sheet to establish how I act and respond to the day's challenge.
You should have one, too.
Why do you
Achieve More with the 70% Strategy
Achieve More with the 70% Strategy
Have you figured out what you want to do with your life but can’t build momentum?
One of two things is happening:
1) You have decided to wait and see what happens with something else before committing to your new plan.
2) You need more information before moving forward, making it the same as the first.
The secret to gaining momentum is the ’70% Rule’ in every decision.
Once you have an idea, begin researching and resourcing whether you have the ability and the
Defend Your Happiness With Strategies That Work
Defend Your Happiness With Strategies That Work
Have you been running full speed ahead - knowing you’re not heading in the right direction?
It’s easy to get caught up in the business of life and find yourself off track.
Could your experience be better?
It comes down to awareness and decisions:
1) Everything begins when you recognize that something needs to change and admit it to yourself. Is the time now?
2) Driving forward will only add to unhappiness. Instead, keep up with life and push the p
Massive Action for Massive Success (Part Two)
Massive Action for Massive Success (Part Two)
Yesterday, we spent a few minutes on practical ways to succeed.
Here are a few “very natural” actions that will provide a HUGE advantage over almost everybody.
Oh, you may not like these no-brainer daily practices - but they will make you a peak performer:
1) Eat right. 67% of the population eats fast food daily. 60% are obese. Simply eating a better diet will deliver an energetic and mindset boost.
2) Exercise. 77% of the population only exercises w
Massive Action for Massive Success (Part One)
Massive Action for Massive Success (Part One)
Today, I wanted to give some motivational tough love.
Before I get going -
No matter what you desire, remember that life and business are about solving problems. The bigger your dreams, the bigger your problems. If you want what nobody else has, you must solve problems nobody else will.
So, how do you begin with a bang?
1) Decide what you want. Be specific. Anything less is what ordinary people do.
2) Decide to pay the price of your success. You’ve
Unlock Your Goals with Personal Accountability
Unlock Your Goals with Personal Accountability
Over the years, I've witnessed dozens of people set themselves up for failure by following seemingly wise advice -
"When you set a goal, make it public and tell everybody you know so they can support you."
In my experience, that could have worked better - especially on long-term goals. The reason is that nobody outside my close relationships knows me well enough to understand why I'm doing what I'm doing. That makes it challenging to provide support
Capture Ideas, Unleash Potential
Capture Ideas, Unleash Potential
Over the years, I have produced over 10,000 podcasts, and every one begins with the written word. Even though that makes my mouth and fingers my most exercised body parts, it has also given me many opportunities to learn to keep my words flowing.
If you're like most people, you have found yourself sitting in front of a blank screen, praying for inspiration. It could be writer's block, procrastination, or you stayed up late watching Netflix. In any case, there's a
Mindset of a Master Negotiator
Mindset of a Master Negotiator
I've always believed that life is a series of presentations we continually make throughout our day.
The progress we make, the success we enjoy, and the happiness we experience directly result from our presentation skills, including negotiation.
Yes, whether you like it or not, you negotiate for everything. Once you know about a natural feeling that all parties experience during negotiation, you'll never feel like an underdog again.
Always remember-
Whenever two or
Vision Quest for a Life on Your Terms
Vision Quest for a Life on Your Terms
Do you have an image of what you would like your life to be - except when life gets in the way?
There's no doubt that daily life events have a funny way of distracting us from reaching goals. It's just too easy to put them on the back burner. That's why you need to become the keeper of your vision.
Thousands of opportunities will arrive on your path daily and detour you from what you want. That's why it's up to you to guard your vision by asking a simple que
Fuel Your Fire For Sustained Motivation
Fuel Your Fire For Sustained Motivation
As a child, I wondered why I couldn't always have my way. Mom and Dad were so mean! I couldn't wait to grow up, move out, and experience being an adult. Everything would be different - or so I thought.
After stepping into the adult world, it didn't take long to realize that not much had changed. It turns out it wasn't my parents. It was like turning down my requests. Life was getting in the way. What was even worse was that I was getting in my way.
I've jo
Happiness Doesn't Require Permission
Happiness Doesn't Require Permission
My friend Sid called to tell me he had found his next big thing. He decided to take flying lessons and couldn't wait to get started.
After hearing my Mom's stories over the years, I have always wanted to learn to fly. Her father was a contractor in Wilmington, North Carolina. When an airport client couldn't pay, he offered lessons. She was 15 years old.
Her stories of landing on the beaches of North Carolina were thrilling. Flying Solo before an arriving hurr
How to Make The Law of Attraction Work
How to Make The Law of Attraction Work
The Law of Attraction should be called the Law of What You Think About Most.
Like attracts like, what you think about, you get.
If you think, "I won't get it because I never do," - you are correct.
Dreaming of something new while focusing on current problems is a sure way to keep spinning your wheels.
The secret is to focus your attention and actions on what you want to attract. That will require a dedicated effort. Vision Boards, lists of goals, and daily
10 Perspective Changing Questions
10 Perspective Changing Questions
Long ago, I realized that life is nothing more than a giant scavenger hunt. Yes, life is full of questions, and it’s long enough for you to figure out all the essential answers. And the winners are the people who figure out the solution you seek.
Here are a few that I use regularly to get me thinking:
1) What do you want to do?
2) What do you want to have?
3) Where do you want to go?
4) What contribution do you want to make?
5) What do you want to become?
6) Wha
The Power of Expectations
The Power of Expectations
Imagine how your life would improve if everybody understood what to expect.
Expectations are powerful. Pay attention to these three:
1) What do you expect of yourself? You get to decide how you approach the world.
2) What do you expect of others? Clearly, understand what you expect of others. That allows you to avoid surprises - and toxic relationships.
3) What do others expect of you? When you let others know what they can expect of you - and walk your talk - you are l
Scripted Goal Setting
Scripted Goal Setting
In the world of Scott Logic, I’ve always fought my advice that said -
When life is predictable, scripted, and process-oriented - BORING - life gets as excited as you ever dream it could be.
As a guy who likes excitement in my day, you can see why I would prefer to ignore that wisdom - and I’m not alone. Still, I don’t miss it. I prioritize that way of thinking at all costs.
Let’s talk about that ‘scripted’ part of living.
While I love a good spontaneous day, I’ve learned t
The Best To-Do List EVER!
The Best To-Do List EVER!
I'm sure you have a lot to do today. You’re probably in for a busy day if you use a traditional To-Do list. If I may, I’d like to pass on some advice to make your days much more fun.
LOSE your "To-Do List." Replace it with a "Did I Do It List."
Of course, a traditional To-Do list will get the job done. But it’s far too easy to focus entirely on your list of things to do instead of what you're supposed to be doing.
Don’t get me wrong, when you are inside any project, y
Are You Listening to Yourself?
Are You Listening to Yourself?
Growing up, I was an energetic, enthusiastic, and excitable child. I never let a day go by without challenging something - usually with my mouth. Thanks to those responsible for turning me into a good person, I learned a valuable lesson when they said-
“Listen twice as much as you speak. You have two ears and one mouth for a reason.”
You’ve heard that before, and in today’s fast-paced world, knowing when to put a zipper on your lips is critical. But I’ve also learn
Churchill's Steps For Change
Churchill's Steps For Change
As we enter the New Year, I've noticed that people are returning to their old ways.
That's okay. It's a journey.
But what is that journey?
Winston Churchill said, "To improve is to change, so to be perfect is to have changed often."
And it helps if you understand the stages of change:
1) Pre-Contemplation. You may intend to act but must be made aware that your behavior is the problem.
2) Contemplation. You recognize the problem and start to debate the pros and cons
Living in Default Mode
Living in Default Mode
There is a myth floating around that life is more fun when you are spontaneous. That can be true some of the time, but not all of the time.
If you want to be happier, more successful, and make life easier, it’s time to live in Default Mode.
In other words, figure out what works and keep doing it.
Living in Default Mode makes life predictable for you and everybody around you. It limits decision-making and establishes continuity. It’s a behavior that reduces stress and impr
Succeeding The Lazy Way
Succeeding The Lazy Way
I have an admission to make.
I can be a bit lazy. Yes, I also like to work harder than most people. Still, I'm lazy when doing things I don't want to be doing.
It's been said that when you do what you love, you will never work another day. Frankly, I've found it to be quite the opposite. What I do is difficult and takes a lot of time and effort. But I enjoy it.
Still, I'm lazy. I want everything to be easy, and I want it now. I'm not different than anybody else. I'm lazy
Say YES to Yourself More This Year
Say YES to Yourself More This Year
Do you ever wish you had a less complicated life?
Even if your job and life are overcomplicated out of necessity, like launching a rocket or performing brain surgery, you can still simplify everything.
How do you do it?
Your actions in your life and your job are probably not causing the overwhelm. It's the people and the results that are causing you to feel that way.
The easier way to under-complicate is to begin saying "No" to the arbitrary and unattainable
4 Steps to Getting What You Want — and Keeping It.
4 Steps to Getting What You Want — and Keeping It.
Creating a difference in your life is a non-stop process that requires simple actions to help you get what you want. And it is, after all, about getting what you want and keeping what you love.
You’ll always go through these steps:
1) Decide. Everything begins with your decision to head off in a new direction. While sometimes you may feel like you’ve made a decision, if you’re not moving, you haven’t.
2) Define. Aimless wandering is fun when tha
Questions Before You Begin Anything
Questions Before You Begin Anything
Everybody has dreams. Daydreams, dreams while you sleep, and dreams of what you wish for the future.
I’ve always believed that dreams are goals you have nurtured to become real.
But how do you know if the voice speaking to your heart will lead you in the right direction?
Brant Pinvidic’s book, The 3-Minute Rule, has four questions that will help:
1) What is it? Do you understand precisely what you want?
2) How does it work? How will you go about reaching you
Morning Routines Power
Morning Routines Power
One thing that I'm always going to do is refine my morning routine — it's a never-ending process.
You hear a lot about using morning rituals to get more done. But what if you could use your mornings to get more done for YOU?
In the fast-paced world we live in today, there seem to be two groups when it comes to how to use mornings—personal and productive. Once folks remove themselves from the craziness of jumping out of bed, taking care of the kids, and hitting the drive-t
Jerry Seinfeld’s Success Secret
Jerry Seinfeld’s Success Secret
It’s the time of the year when I always remember the lesson I learned from Jeff Seinfeld.
I’ll never forget the day a friend called and made me an offer I couldn’t refuse - and I didn’t.
Rob was an event promotor who had snagged the chance to book an up-and-coming comedian, Jerry Seinfeld, into a local venue. He needed somebody to warm up the audience and introduce Jerry. I was all in when he agreed to cover my drink tab and let me hang out with Jerry before the s
It’s Time To Explore What’s Possible
It’s Time To Explore What’s Possible
I’ve spent the last couple of days saying things like —
“What do you do when you are doing you, and your purpose is to find your purpose?”
Now, I realize that something so simple is also something most people will ignore.
I also realized that for some people, as soon they begin reading and realize they’ve already heard it, tune out and open the next email.
That’s unfortunate.
Studies have long ago proven that repetition is the Mother of all skills. Yes, it
Your Purpose is to Find Your Purpose
Your Purpose is to Find Your Purpose
This time of year most people are setting Big Ass Goals and working on the daily baby steps it takes to achieve those goals. It’s an activity that has proven effective ever since humans figured out that we are hard-wired to seek purpose in our lives.
Let’s pause for a light-hearted lecture, shall we?
If you are not setting goals that excite you and establishing small habits that make them a reality, you may as well skip into a Las Vegas casino and trust that
You Were Born to Do YOU
You Were Born to Do YOU
Can you imagine what might happen if you dared to think like your true self, act your true self, and share your true self?
That makes you smile - right?
Or maybe you feel that living from the inside out and being fully authentic with the world is self-centered, egotistical, and not how you should be.
Still, I bet you’re smiling, at least a little, at the thought.
You were born with two things that are yours, and you alone to use as you see fit - or not.
The first is Free
Stoic Rules For a Happy Life
Stoic Rules For a Happy Life
300 BC, political life was driving people crazy. To calm the masses, several schools of philosophy popped up. Stoicism still resonates powerfully today.
1. Don't enslave yourself to annoying people.
2. Choose reasonable expectations.
3. Pre-meditate those expectations.
4. You are a mind operating a bag of chemicals you call a body.
5. Stop pretending you know that things are bad.
6. You were put here to reason, so use it already.
7. Life is NOT too short.
8. Feel you
Mapping: Your Success System
Mapping: Your Success System
Wouldn’t having a plan to help you get what you want would be great?
What you need is M.A.P.S.S. - a system that gets thinking out of the way and focuses on actions in four areas:
Motivation: Everything begins with knowing ‘WHY’ you set your goals. Stay motivated.
Accountability: Being accountable and accepting responsibility for your results will empower your success. Saying, ‘If it’s to be, it’s up to me,’ is a great way to get started.
Planning: Plan your work,
Thriving in Modern Times. It’s Easy.
Thriving in Modern Times. It’s Easy.
I can't tell you how many times I've heard somebody say—
"If I knew I would live this long, I would have cared for myself better and saved more money."
True or true?
Modern times are exciting, and when it comes to living a long life, people either think life is too short or long. If you do things correctly, long enough is the best answer, but 200 years ago, most folks didn't have the luxury of thinking about things like that.
If you lived during those times,
Building Your Bridge to Happiness
Building Your Bridge to Happiness
Changing something about your life is pretty straightforward.
Figure out what you want and change it.
Are you done laughing?
Most folks fall on the way to their dreams because they don't move, move at the wrong time, or move too fast. That's why it's time to build your bridge once you know what you want.
Here's how:
1) Fortify your current foundation. Save money, pay bills, and do whatever it takes to build a firm and peaceful base.
2) Begin constructing the fo
Sometimes You Need to Be Someone Else
Sometimes You Need to Be Someone Else
Have you allowed yourself to become the person you are on the inside?
We all make decisions that change our life trajectory without much thought. That can lead to feelings of being lost on your life path.
Maybe it's time to create a new way of seeing yourself.
Using a Transitional Identity is a great way to feel confident when you can’t believe in your future.
The trick is to focus on the smaller steps to your destination. That will allow you to move awa
Life is Happier With Values
Life is Happier With Values
An immense frustration for most folks is feeling like other people are getting in the way. That will stop the very instant you begin to live according to your Values as you work toward your Goals.
Here's the simple recipe for enjoying every minute of the day:
1) Know, understand, and practice living your Values. While it's difficult, you will feel happier and in control.
2) Be sure only to set Goals that allow you to practice your Values along the way. Doing otherwise
Creating Your Average Perfect Day
Creating Your Average Perfect Day
How would you feel if every day, on average, was as you wanted?
It's time to make your dreams come true and create your "Average Perfect Day."
Here's how it works:
1) Find a quiet spot and write a detailed description of your perfect day. Let your fantasies flow onto paper until you've mapped out morning until night.
2) Focus on your daily experiences, not material goods. In other words, if you want a sports car, focus on how you feel in the driver's seat.
Traditions Are Happiness
Traditions Are Happiness
Are you a person who always does things the same way or prefers to change things at every chance?
If you're lucky, you are both.
Traditions are the secret sauce behind our emotional connection at this time of year. Family get-togethers, office gatherings, crazy shopping crowds?
The traditions make our lives unique and are always present, never forgotten, and form the fabric of our lives. They are very human, and they are essential.
But let's return to my earlier comment
Escaping Your Past
Escaping Your Past
My mind is constantly searching for a simple process for anything that will help me get what I want, and that usually comes down to something I talk about a lot: making a decision.
I speak about decision-making much of my day because it’s the most dynamic tool in your personal growth tool kit.
It should be easy —
Almost everything you will ever want to do in life has already been done. The solution to getting what you wish to should be based on logic and proven steps. In ot
The Gift of YOU
The Gift of YOU
As we approach the most spiritual time of year, I find more and more of my thoughts are focused on what my future will bring. But instead of drafting a list of goals, my mind seems to settle into a different place—
What if I could give myself a gift that instantly gives me what I want?
What if I don't have to chase my dreams and start living them instead?
What if there was nothing in my way - ever?
While that way of thinking may seem out of touch today, it's not. It happens daily
Happy and DON’T Know it?
Happy and DON’T Know it?
I can’t remember her name, but I can tell you she was not a happy person.
I arrived for a class reunion on a hot, hazy, and humid Virginia day. As I stepped toward the check-in table, a friend of more than thirty years locked eyes with me, broke into tears, and screamed—
“Oh, Scott… can you help me?”
Next, she bolted out of her seat, ran around the table, and hugged me… and hugged me… and hugged me… and hugged me.
This is not the first time this has happened, and as
What Do You Want For Christmas?
What Do You Want For Christmas?
Last year, sometime between Halloween and Thanksgiving, I found myself finishing leftover candy and biting into a Jolly Rancher - a recipe for disaster for anybody with a mouth full of dental work.
As you might have predicted, it wasn't long before I was at the dentist. I don't like dentists much. Maybe it was because, as a kid, our family dentist was Dr. PAIN… uh… Dr. Payne. Still, there I was with the sound of drilling and suction filling the room, along with t
How to Live an ALL IN Life
How to Live an ALL IN Life
I want to become the person I am meant to be.
That’s something that I hear daily in my life from people all over the world. Frankly, beyond living a joyful life, I can’t think of anything more important than growing to become who you know you are.
Most people tend to work in different areas of their life. All will say that family and friends are the most important, but they tend to focus on their career and legacy - especially after the kids move out. But here is a pro
From Scarcity To Abundance
From Scarcity To Abundance
I will let it rip and admit that I have a personality trait that doesn’t always serve me. Well, maybe I have several? Still, there is a big one that I’m always working to eliminate.
I’m a thinker, and I like to ponder ideas, take my time, and know my path before I get to it.
I’m also a guy who locks in on what works and holds on like a Pit Bull with a Ribeye—holding on tends to favor iteration but gets in the way of a more significant change.
Now, it’s entirely possibl
It's Time to Get Off The Fence
It's Time to Get Off The Fence
Okay, I'm feeling a little bit lazy today, so I will cut to the chase and bestow upon you the secret to success you've been seeking.
Success requires that you do the hard work.
It doesn't take a scientist to figure out that if you want more, you will have to do something to get it. Still, we live in a world that makes it seem like it should be easier, and it's not. Success takes a lot of hard work - even if you don't see it.
Successful YouTubers make it look easy
Universe Whispering In Your Ear
Universe Whispering In Your Ear
Does the Universe whisper to you?
Before I go on, you need to know that I can go pretty deep into the world of woo-woo in my beliefs. Still, the real-world dude in me makes me realize that while it may be fun to ride a unicorn to the coffee shop, I haven’t yet been able to request one from Uber.
You may believe that your life is already planned for you or that you can ask for what you to manifest. In any case, you can’t deny that something is whispering direction
Empowering Emotional Triggers
Empowering Emotional Triggers
I love it when we miraculously put together the perfect day, and life decides to get in the way.
Well, it's not life, and maybe I don't love it, but occasionally, something or someone will cross your path get in your way.
I don't know anybody who doesn't get hit smack in the face with a situation that triggers a feeling deep inside their soul, stirs emotion, and results in a reaction or response that makes you say, "Why did I say that?"
Of course, we are emotional
Too Many Choices Mean No Choice
Too Many Choices Mean No Choice
My wife and I were looking for something on Netflix and found ourselves repeating the scroll several times. Finally, the screen changed, and the graphic offered us a choice. It said, "just play something?"
Yes, please. Just play something so I can put the remote control down and get back to petting my dog. Thinking back on the moment, I was reminded of a book I read long ago.
In 2005, Barry Schwartz wrote Paradox of Choice. It challenged the traditional thinking t
Clearing Your Clutter
Clearing Your Clutter
I’ve noticed in my life that humans are hoarders when it comes to keeping stuff that works and doesn’t. They keep hanging on; their life depends on it.
Now, before I go on, I think there are two situations at play here:
1) Hanging on to what has worked well but needs to go so you can do more of what you want to do.
2) Hanging on what doesn’t work in hopes that it will work well someday.
Both can go on for years and lead to frustration as you long for something else.
I was
Slow Dow To Speed Up
Slow Dow To Speed Up
I was riding my Harley-Davidson Road King a few days ago when my mind suddenly thought -
“The Chinese Philosophical concept of Yin and yang describes how opposite or contrary forces may be complementary, interconnected, and interdependent in the natural world.”
What? What? Huh?
Okay. I wasn’t that details until a bit later and some Googling. Still -
It happened right before the Daytona Speedway and was thinking about the advice I give my clients about slowing down. It goes l
Success From Habitat
Success From Habitat
"You need to get out of your comfort zone to succeed!"
I can't tell you how many times I've heard that. Thankfully, that silly advice is something I've only accepted a couple of times. I wouldn't say I liked every second of it; I ran right back into what makes me comfortable as soon as I could, and I have never told anybody to leave their comfort zone.
"But, Scott? Isn't getting out of your comfort zone how you get what you want?"
Yes, and no.
Don't get me wrong. I firmly be
Secret to Find Your Passion
Secret to Find Your Passion
What do I want to be when I grow up?
The first time you ask yourself that question is when you are very young - if you ever asked it. Frankly, somebody else usually asks you, and you probably didn't have an answer and just took off running with this thing called life.
And then it happens —
Forty or fifty years later, people start asking themselves that question again after a family and career. The lucky ones don't confine it until they retire; they question who they
Relative Time Management
Relative Time Management
In my entire life, I've always found it interesting that there never seems to be enough time in the day. Still, most days, everything seems to get done. If it doesn't, the world didn't end, and I survived to check off another item from my to-do list tomorrow.
I know I'm not the first human on the planet to face the problem of time, but I think I'm one of those smartypants who have figured out how our time works in real life. And it was 180 degrees from what I felt that
Positive, Practical, and Peaceful
Positive, Practical, and Peaceful
I must admit that I get in trouble because some of the ScottLOGIC that comes out of my mouth doesn’t sit well with many folks these days - and they let me know.
One of the biggest comments…
“You seem like such a positive guy, and then it’s like something clicks in your head and goes negative and ruins my day.”
While I don’t think I ever go negative, I’ve heard that many times.
Here’s the thing…
It would be easy for me to get caught in the feel-good trap of ch
Diving Face-First Into Your Dreams
Diving Face-First Into Your Dreams
“Please! Can somebody stop the world? I want to get off!”
Okay. Just for you, I pressed the magic button, and the world stopped.
What are you going to do now?
If you don’t have an answer, there’s no need to freak out. It’s common for people to get slowed down and think about what their life could be like, and I have no idea.
But let’s say you are one of the few who decide the time to turn directly into the challenge.
Many years ago, I adopted a philosophy that
Why Will Power Will Wear You Out
Why Will Power Will Wear You Out
When will you get to do what you want to do?
More people than you know lose sleep over that question. If that sounds like something you have experienced, you’re not alone.
Almost everybody begins their journey when a thought pops into their mind. Then, day-to-day life keeps them busy, and they spend frustrating months fixin’ to get ready. You know, starting to prepare… so you can begin to do… so you can do… and say you did.
If that doesn’t work, you summon you
Joyful Leftovers Happiness
Joyful Leftovers Happiness
When I began training and competing with my dog in agility, I made a rookie dog trainer mistake. I wasn't consistent, and my dog was getting confused. One day, my trainer said,
"For a dog, one time means all the time. They will keep doing something new every time you let them do something new."
As silly as it sounds, that came to mind a couple of weeks ago when my wife, a creature of routine and habit, did the same thing.
We held Thanksgiving for our family at our hom
Creating a Wonderful Life
Creating a Wonderful Life
With the holiday season on its way, wouldn't it be great if you received the gift of the wonderful life of your dreams?
What if you could have lots of free time, less stress, more money, and great relationships?
In my years of coaching folks all over the world, I've learned a few things about lifestyle design:
1) Everything begins when you become aware of what you want and accept that it's up to you.
2) If you believe your dream can be real as soon as you start livi
Wisdom to be Thankful For
Wisdom to be Thankful For
I woke up this morning with a zest to expand my feeling of gratefulness. Well, is not so much to grow as to recognize all the things I am grateful for but haven’t thought about lately.
That’s the thing about living in a fast-paced world where our daily activities, big and small, fly by and are quickly forgotten. It’s always been that way. There is nothing new in the world. That got me thinking about some of my favorite quotes —
“Enjoy the little things, for one day you
Did Your Motivation Get Lost?
Did Your Motivation Get Lost?
Where the heck did my week go?
With a long weekend in sight, I’m a bit worn our from projects I’ve been working on, but my mind I moving to eating turkey and riding the motorcycle mode.
Monday is coming - right? We can get going again.
Wait.
How will we stay focused, progress toward our goals, and get important stuff done if we run out of juice before the week is over?
Why does that early week motivation that has our hair on fire run out before I finish everything
Stop Dreaming of Retirement
Stop Dreaming of Retirement
A few days ago, I stumbled into a conversation with a young man working behind the counter at a store I visited. It didn't take long before we knew a lot about each other.
He was a student at Emory Riddle Aeronautics University here in Daytona Beach. I run into a lot of those kids. Being a pilot myself, we instantly bonded. Then he asked a question that caused me to pause…
The Daytona area population is very diverse - with more than a few retired. Since I'm a guy wit
You Don’t Need a WHY
You Don’t Need a WHY
A friend and I were chewing the fat a while back about getting what we wanted out of life. It’s a common topic among my friends and should be among yours. It makes sense; what you focus on is what you get - right?
As we talked, I realized that as I’ve bumbled and stumbled through a very colorful life, I’ve also stumbled upon a simple idea.
Getting what you want in life requires that you know what you want. But what happens when you have no idea how the best things arrived in
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Reach Your Goal By Staying in The FLOW
Reach Your Goal By Staying in The FLOW
I need to pass along a way to achieve your goals faster than you thought possible.
If you are ready for success to arrive, here are three simple rules to help you realize your dreams:
1) Play to your strength. Do what is comfortable for you. Stay in the FLOW.
2) Only commit to activities that will lead you to your goal. Stay in the FLOW.
3) Never let a day pass without reminding yourself of your strengths. Consciously direct your focus. Stay in the FLOW.
Yo
Why Thursday is The Best Planning Day
Why Thursday is The Best Planning Day
I have a saying -
“Next year begins THIS year, next month begins THIS month, next week begins THIS week, and that happens on a Thursday.”
If you want to stay on track, accomplish your goals, and enjoy life - you MUST take control of your calendar.
It’s easier than you think:
1) Life will come at you FAST! Schedule any significant and can’t-miss life event at least one year in advance. Put it on the calendar and block it out. You can always change your mind
Reach Your Dreams By Avoiding Resistance
Reach Your Dreams By Avoiding Resistance
Does this happen to you?
A great idea pops into your head. Your heart fills with excitement. Nothing can stop you - except that you feel like you are stuck in quicksand. The more you fight, the deeper you sink. The only way out seems to be to give up on your dream - again.
Let’s not do that this time.
Feeling inspired to make a change in your life is terrific. It can also be scary. The result is nearly always feeling a sense of resistance as you move forw
Practicing the Focus-Finish-Focus Model
Practicing the Focus-Finish-Focus Model
Wouldn’t it be great if you could create more time in your day?
One way to think about it is to prioritize the projects already on your plate.
That requires a simple understanding:
1) Working on multiple products simultaneously only delays completing all the projects. Your mind can only focus on one thing at a time.
2) What makes this such a great practice is that when you complete a project, not only is it off your plate, but it begins producing your
Opportunity Cost Decision Making
Opportunity Cost Decision Making
Do you have too many options and are having difficulty choosing?
You may have heard of a concept called "Opportunity Cost." Some consider it a fancy term for "trade-off." In other words, every time you choose, there is a trade-off to consider.
I find it easier to use extreme discrimination to weed out less-than-ideal opportunities. And you can do that with one question -
"Does this opportunity provide the fastest and most direct path to reach my goals?"
Before
Letting Mentors Find YOU
Letting Mentors Find YOU
You've set a goal and are working hours to get what you want.
Why is everything moving so slowly?
Larry was a mentor of mine when I was in my twenties. He owned a business, made an exceptional living, and, after hiring me to work for him, took me under his wing. It was a relationship that lasted for years - although I'm sure I didn't make it easy.
That's the thing about being a young, bright-eyed dreamer with lots of talent and little patience. It's easy to see what oth
Don't Become a Negotiating Underdog
Don't Become a Negotiating Underdog
I was rushing through Atlanta Airport after an entire day of negotiating with a client. My flight was in 30 minutes, so I was beginning to think the deal would not happen.
That's when things got interesting.
I've spent many days negotiating over the years and have grown confident in closing deals. I always think I'm going to win. Still, today's game wasn't over.
As we approached the Gate area, my client guided me into the Food Court. He pulled out the contrac
Leadership in Times of Conflict
Leadership in Times of Conflict
I know that you want to be a better leader. I also know that you hate and don't want anything to do with conflict - especially since I can hear you saying —
"Why can't we all get along?"
I get it. Saying the word "No" is hard enough. Sometimes, saying "Yes" when others agree or disagree with your choice can be even more difficult.
"Why can't we all get along?"
The answer is that we can. However, the truth is that conflict will always happen whenever more than two
Happiness Is Learning Something New
Happiness Is Learning Something New
In my work, it's not unusual for somebody to seek guidance. Most are contemplating a change or frustrated with the status quo.
Every conversation begins with me asking —
"What are you trying to figure out?"
To which people say, "I don't know, that's why I'm talking to you! I want to start over."
Now, there’s a funny thing about living inside of your own head for your entire life. You probably already know what you want and just won’t admit it.
Usually a comb
How Passion Creates Motivation
How Passion Creates Motivation
Motivation is always lurking in our minds. Even if we're not thinking about it.
My wife, Joi, is a good example.
Take one look at her, and it's easy to see Joi takes care of herself. She gets up every day and eats a healthy breakfast. Then, she dresses in her workout clothes and, without exception, exercises. No matter how late she went to bed or how late I slept in, Joi gets out of bed and heads to the gym.
Since it's evident that Joi walks her walk, it's not unc
Some Things Are Not Optional
Some Things Are Not Optional
It happens to all of us.
We're going about our day, hot on the trail of checking off items on our never-ending To-Do list. Then, we discovered that we didn't get everything done before time ran out.
When my Son was entering the workforce, we would often find time to catch up on weekends. He was trying to navigate the business world while balancing his life. He had a fast-paced job and had become a productivity ninja. He was proud of his color-coded To-Do list and ca
Are You Pushing Too Hard?
Are You Pushing Too Hard?
Have you ever found yourself in a motivated state of mind and pushing through the day?
Do you feel like everybody is hitting you with everything they have?
Blocked. Stalled. Frustrated. It is easy to want to push harder.
When I was a teenager, I liked to play football, not with the school team. Uniforms and protective equipment made that too easy. It was more fun to get together after school for a rough and tumble. A game of shirts and skins with the same guys who typ
Self-Inflicted Changes ROCK
Self-Inflicted Changes ROCK
A couple of years ago, the world changed when we were all introduced to Coronavirus. It was as if we were racing down the Interstate at 75 miles per hour, slammed on our breaks, and directed off the nearest exit on an undefined detour. It all seemed to happen in an instant.
The pandemic caused real pain and loss for some. Fear and stress for others. Still, as surreal as it was, it wasn't long before most people began to notice the craziness of our previous lives repla
Powerful and Purposeful Goal Setting
Powerful and Purposeful Goal Setting
I've always believed goal setting is the heartbeat of our lives.
Goal setting is one of the most powerful tools you have to create your best life. My question to you is… do you know what your best life is supposed to be?
I came upon my belief not from a book or a guru but from a realization I had many years ago. I found I was happy when I was chasing something bigger than myself that was also in alignment with how I felt on the inside. I was unhappy when I
What? The Best Death Ever?
What? The Best Death Ever?
You are a goal-setting machine.
That’s not to say you are setting, working toward, and accomplishing more goals than anybody else. It’s the way your brain is wired. If that’s the case, why is it that reaching your goal can leave you feeling lost?
In 2006, I had a life-changing moment that happened in the middle of the night. My wife, Sheryl, was diagnosed with terminal cancer, and my world crashed. Even worse, they told me there wasn’t anything I could do about it.
In
Knowing Your Why AND Why Not
Knowing Your Why AND Why Not
Getting what you want in life will be two things…
It will be easier than you can imagine or harder than you ever thought possible.
The journey will be exciting and scary.
Looking back, you will be glad you did it, yet wonder if you will ever do it again.
That's why WHY is so important.
You must know WHY you are doing anything to sustain your efforts.
And it must be YOUR why, not somebody else's.
You must own your WHY, understand your WHY, and live your WHY.
Many folk
Leveraging Life Cycles
Leveraging Life Cycles
My friend Louis Gates introduced me to his Life Cycle theory years ago. I’m in an inspiring year.
Where are you?
Cycles begin at birth and advances every nine years like this:
Year 1: You decide what you want and start asking for it.
Year 2: As the pieces come together, you narrow your focus.
Year 3: The resources you need begin to arrive.
Year 4: You find yourself moving toward your purpose in life.
Year 5: Re-evaluation begins. Toss out what you don’t need and keep
Life-Changing Success Habits
Life-Changing Success Habits
Whatever results you want in your life will be produced by your thoughts, actions, and daily habits.
Most people work hard every day to make their world better. But, no matter how hard you work, life will get in the way. That’s life. That’s life’s job. That will always be life’s job.
No matter how much you try, life will get in the way - and you may have noticed - you can’t think your way out of it.
But what if you didn’t have to?
What if you could stop life from g
Focusing ON Focus
Focusing ON Focus
Here we are, entering the most distraction-filled time of the year.
How can you keep moving toward your goals when everything else is in the way?
With Singular Focus.
Singular means extraordinary, remarkable, and exceptional.
Focus is a central point of attraction, attention, or activity.
It’s time to focus on one activity that will move you forward. You simply won’t have time for everything else.
How do you get Singular Focus?
1) Reduce your things-to-do Universe. Choose an
9 Success Principles You Need
9 Success Principles You Need
You may have heard that you will elevate your station in life to the degree that you elevate yourself.
Since you are reading this today, consider yourself elevated.
Even more so if you do these:
1) Acknowledge that all emotions come from within you.
2) Seek out someone you respect. Let them keep you honest.
3) Recognize there is life after failure.
4) Read purposefully. Apply your knowledge.
5) Challenge yourself to be brutally honest in everything you do.
6) Reflec
Waking Up With Gratitude
Waking Up With Gratitude
I woke up this morning with an incredible zest to expand my feeling of gratefulness. Well, there is not so much to expand as to recognize all the things I am grateful for but haven’t thought about lately.
That’s the thing about living in a fast-paced world where our daily activities, big and small, fly by and are quickly forgotten. It’s always been that way. There is nothing new in the world. That got me thinking about one of my favorite quotes —
“Enjoy the little things
You Will Change When You Wear Yourself Out
You Will Change When You Wear Yourself Out
Many have said, "Life is a marathon, not a sprint."
But what happens when you find yourself doing both at the same time?
If you've been living on this planet for any time, you've figured out life is a long game made of day-to-day sprints.
You make small deposits over time if you want a big bank balance.
If you want to lose weight, you make small reductions over time.
If you want to get a promotion at your job, you do well every day.
The challenge ha
Why You Should Set Impossible Goals
Why You Should Set Impossible Goals
I recently attended a conference where I enjoyed a presentation by Psychologist Dr. Benjamin Hardy. Honestly, I’ve been a fan of his work for a couple of years and am familiar with most of his working concepts.
This time… one stood out.
In my day-to-day work, it’s not uncommon for clients to struggle with narrowing a goal to one with enough meaning to propel them into action.
In most cases, it’s a struggle between the important and the impossible.
A goal must
How Purpose and Passion Make a Better Life
How Purpose and Passion Make a Better Life
From the time I was very young, I've been drawn to living a passionate life - no matter what gets in the way.
I've also had a solid purpose to impact people's lives while living a passionate life positively. Something can be challenging to archive 100% of the time. But isn't that the point of Passion and Purpose? Isn't it something that you just DO?
Amazingly, for all the focus on living a purposeful and passion-filled life, there has been very little
Start With Definiteness of Purpose
Start With Definiteness of Purpose
The more days that I leave footsteps on this planet, the more I realize that everything we need to know to become a better version of ourselves has already been invented.
Not only that, but everything that you could use to improve yourself has been tested by millions over thousands of years. It has either proven to be effective… or not.
Napoleon Hill’s The Law of Success is one of those that works. While it is filled with action steps to achieve whatever succ
Unleash Your Potential with Anticipation
Unleash Your Potential with Anticipation
I love how kids live in the moment while also getting excited about the next fun thing coming. Maybe it’s time we all begin acting like kids again.
Since you were young, special events excited you enough that sheer anticipation would drive you all day and keep you up at night. Would you like that back in your life?
The trick to harness the power of anticipation is to keep a steady stream of exciting moments in your future. I call this the Anticipation En
Embrace the Power of Goals and Live with Purpose
Embrace the Power of Goals and Live with Purpose
Are you feeling excited to be alive today? It might be an excellent opportunity to become an intentional goal-setter.
Goals are the heartbeat of your life.
They are tangible expressions of your Values. There's nothing more satisfying. You will always enjoy pursuing goals that align with the most significant Values.
Goals are also automatic. Others will set them for you if you don't set them for yourself.
You haven't set meaningful goals if you'r
Invisibility to Prominence By Tooting Your Own Horn
Invisibility to Prominence By Tooting Your Own Horn
When I was a teenager, I was a weekend moviegoer. It was the age of Rocky and Star Wars, after all. While the experience was fun, something has stuck with me.
The movie theatre always ran a commercial during the previews before the film. They wanted local business owners to buy an ad before every show. It went -
"What happens when you don't advertise? NOTHING!"
Yes, that's a great lesson for business owners. But what about YOU?
If you want some
You Should be Unapologetically Unreasonable
You Should be Unapologetically Unreasonable
Are you a reasonable person? Maybe it is time for you to change.
A reasonable person settles for the mundane and says, "It IS what it IS!"
An unreasonable person says, "That's fine, but I don't like it that way, and I don't accept it!" They change people's perception of what is. They create a different reality. They don't accept the norms.
Someone once told an off-color joke at a dinner party being held by Maya Angelou.
She stopped the party and sai
Proven Methods for Maximum Productivity
Proven Methods for Maximum Productivity
With only so many hours in the day, let’s start the week with a few ideas for being more productive.
1) Avoid meetings if possible. If you must, keep them short and sweet.
2) Incoming communication is nothing more than somebody else’s to-do list. Do your stuff first.
3) Organize your daily interruptions. They will never go away. You might as reasonably expect them.
4) Never schedule more than 50% of your day. That way, you can finish what you started.
5) N
An Uncomplicated Life The Easy Way
An Uncomplicated Life The Easy Way
Do you ever wish you had a uncomplicated your life?
If you are a normal person and are NOT flying an airplane or performing brain surgery right now, there’s a good chance that you are are overcomplicating everything.
These rules will help:
Rule #1: Practice the rule of "Good Enough." Perfectionism is overrated.
Rule #2: Say No. Repeat it. Say NO a lot!
Rule #3 - When you find yourself so busy that you can't keep up, resolve to complete what you are doing,
How to Accept Your True Purpose
How to Accept Your True Purpose
Today, I predict that there is a question floating deep within your mind that’s going to pop up and demand your attention very soon.
What’s the question?
Is this all there is?
Isn’t my life supposed to be more?
Am I destined for something bigger than myself?
Okay. That’s three questions… and you may be hearing all of them.
Always remember -
Discovering YOU is not so much a search. It's more of an acceptance.
It's about accepting WHO you are by being honest abo
Are You Causing Your Own Challenges?
Are You Causing Your Own Challenges?
Are you the kind of person who is always running around putting out fires - fires you set?
I think it is time that we take away your matches and lighter fluid.
Keep these tips in mind:
1) If your life is non-stop drama, stress, and craziness, there is a good chance that YOU are the cause. There is also a good chance you won’t see it that way.
2) Living with your hair on fire will keep you so busy and you will spend years wondering why you can’t get what you
Why Learning is Holding You Back
Why Learning is Holding You Back
Have you ever felt as if something is holding you back?
Maybe you are spending too much time learning.
The challenge begins when your mind gets confused and you start searching for answers.
The problem is that learning feels like doing. Your mind can't distinguish between perception and reality. Yes, you may be getting more intelligent, but you're not moving forward.
Here are some simple truths:
1) Learning new skills is fun and required for a better life.
2) Le
How To Help Others
How To Help Others
Have you ever felt the desire to help others?
Do you want to help them figure things out? Make more money? Recover from a bad experience?
Maybe you want to make a difference in the world yourself.
I’ve always believed that our power to help others is a side benefit of being ourselves - and having a structure to follow -
1) A person in need desires an outcome. It makes no sense to offer advice until we know what they seek. That puts us on the same page.
2) Next, find out their
Why You Should REST More
Why You Should REST More
Steven Covey called it sharpening the saw. If you take a break to sharpen the blade, you will always cut more wood. The same applies to life.
My formula is Ritual, Rest, Rejuvenate, Reactivate. Repeat:
1) Success comes when you perform ritual actions every day. Figure out what works and do it.
2) Running full-out all the time is not sustainable. You must stop and rest.
3) Resting allows your body and mind to rejuvenate and become healthy again.
4) When you are ready, it'
Jerry Seinfeld’s Success Secret
Jerry Seinfeld’s Success Secret
I’ll never forget the day a friend called and made me an offer I couldn’t refuse - and I didn’t.
Rob was an event promotor who had snagged the chance to book an up-and-coming comedian named Jerry Seinfeld into a local venue. He needed somebody to warm up the audience and introduce Jerry. I was all in when he agreed to cover my drink tab and let me hang out with Jerry before the show.
It was 1986, and Jerry’s television series about nothing was still in development
Are S.M.A.R.T. Goals Really SMART?
Are S.M.A.R.T. Goals Really SMART?
I’m a big fan of setting big-ass goals. Dreaming BIG is my natural state - which is why S.M.A.R.T. goals are not all that smart.
S.M.A.R.T. stands for Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Realistic, and Time-Bound.
While it may seem like a good plan, I can't wrap my head around not setting goals because they don't seem achievable or realistic.
Excuse me?
Since when did big - goals seem achievable and realistic?
If that were true, you would already be doing them.
Your Rules of Success
Your Rules of Success
If you study people who have had success in any area of their life, you will find they have much in common.
Not only do they follow a set of rules, they follow those rules no matter how much life gets in the way.
What are those rules?
The person who has the strongest "Why" wins.
The person who shows up wins.
The person who shows up on time wins.
The person who is most persistent wins.
The person show never assumes wins.
The person who is the best at what they do wins.
The
What’s Your Word?
What’s Your Word?
Around this time every year, successful people are planning next year and many, declare to me the WORD they have chosen to guide their life.
I like words - especially when combined with wisdom and a few wisecracks - but that might be just me.
Still, I'm always amazed at how excited people get and how much they believe their WORD will guide them into the next year.
I'm jealous. I need a WORD, too - and that's where the trouble begins.
I can't imagine choosing a single word to
Run Your Life Like a Business
Run Your Life Like a Business
Not a day goes by without someone asking how to get what they want. I almost always say, "It's all about return on investment."
After all, it would be a shame to work hard toward your goals and end up with less than you started - right?
That's why you should run your life like a business:
1) Decide what you do when you are living a happy life. Be very specific.
2) Be flexible in your approach. When you find what works, lock it in, refine your method, and keep doing
How to Overcome Bad Experiences
How to Overcome Bad Experiences
Do you ever get stuck on memories from the past? Bad memories? Unpleasant memories?
Focusing on the good is good for the soul. Dwelling on bad is terrible for everything.
The other day, my wife asked, “How do you completely disconnect from bad experiences? It’s as if you don’t see them.”
Trust me. I do.
A long time ago, I made a couple of distractions that guide me:
1) If you dwell on the past, you bring those experiences into your life. They become real again
Surviving Holidays with Family
Surviving Holidays with Family
It’s that time of the year!
Millions of folks will soon be heading over the river and through the woods, hoping for a special celebration in the coming months.
In the spirit of good times, here are a few ideas on surviving upcoming conversation bombs:
1) It’s a stressful time of the year. Money. Kids. Travel. Show empathy. It’ll go a long way.
2) If Uncle Bob speaks his mind, it’s time to practice self-control. There is no need to add fuel to the fire by adding yo
Stay Focused on Your Goals in 5-Minutes
Stay Focused on Your Goals in 5-Minutes
It's the world's most straightforward recipe for success: Stand up, take a step, REPEAT!
A member wrote asking the best use of that simple advice:
1) Stop what you are doing. Block out everything. Focus on YOU.
2) Find a place where nobody will interrupt you for 5 minutes.
3) Ask yourself, "How is my life going?" Open your mind and let your thoughts flow into your life's different areas and roles. Bring them into focus.
4) For things to go well, continue
How to Define Your Life Values
How to Define Your Life Values
As you stroll through life, you will find opportunities that will present you with a VALUE choice. Your response speaks volumes about your character.
There's no right or wrong. Only your inner voice guides you in your destiny's direction. One selection moves you away. Another moves you closer to the person you want to be.
Values are your GPS to navigate life—rules you choose to follow. Honesty, integrity, family-focused life, and work-life balance are all examples
Breaking Bad Habits the Easy Way
Breaking Bad Habits the Easy Way
Have you struggled to break a habit?
Bad habits are not good. They will mess up your day. They are also not permanent. You weren’t born with bad habits and are not required under penalty of law to keep bad habits.
Since there’s no real reason to keep bad habits, let’s replace them easily.
Nobody likes to give up what’s comfortable - even if it’s not serving you. Instead, start a new behavior and replace the bad before it messes up your life again.
Breaking bad
Success From Doing Nothing
Success From Doing Nothing
Before I begin, I want to define what I mean by doing nothing.
I don’t see doing ‘nothing’ as something unproductive. Instead, I see ‘nothing’ as a protected personal space between your thoughts and actions.
It is a place that provides a contemplation and planning opportunity before launching into massive and focused action design to reach your outcome and achieve your goal.
It is a holding space where inspiration, desperation, motivation, and even intimidation bubble
Change Anything in 3 Steps
Change Anything in 3 Steps
Is a title like "Three Steps Required to Change Anything" an oversimplification of what it takes to get what you want?
Or… is it the acceptance that everything is simple - until we complicate it?
If you guess the second, you will get along just fine.
So, what are those three steps?
The first step to getting anything you want is to KNOW what you want. Many will argue that the first step is the most difficult. Like they say, "work with the outcome in mind." I don't see i
Believing in Your Future Self
Believing in Your Future Self
I’ll never forget the day a mentor of mine said to me —
“You have to become the person you want to be before becoming the person you want to be.”
What?
So, do I have to fake it until I make it?
Heck no! I’m not going to change who I am - no way!
“No. You’re not changing who you are. It’s just that you have to understand that in the future, you will have a different set of beliefs than you hold right now. That’s called growth. Whatever you believe, you will become.”
Is Your Morning Routine Focused
Is Your Morning Routine Focused
You hear a lot about using morning rituals to get more done. But what if you could use your mornings to get more done for YOU?
In the fast-paced world we live in today, there seem to be two groups when it comes to how to use mornings—personal and productivity. Once folks remove themselves from the craziness of jumping out of bed, taking care of the kids, and hitting the drive-through, they choose one of the two.
But what if there was a third group that was more s
The Secret to Taking Action
The Secret to Taking Action
Is today the day that you self-activate and step into your power? After all, your dreams are waiting.
Feeling intimidated and unsure of the next step on your life journey is easy. Nobody likes leaving their comfort zone - even if it will someday make them feel more comfortable.
Remember this.
Everything in life happens when you realize that you control your destiny. Even if you do nothing at all, you are in control.
Deciding to walk your true path is a simple act
Traveling From Intention to Success
Traveling From Intention to Success
An epidemic infecting dreamers worldwide is nothing more than a dream buster.
Living a happy life, enjoying excellent relationships, and making more money? It seems that everyone has intention.
Some intentions are good. Some intentions are bad. In any case, moving from having intentions to succeed requires two steps:
1) Intention becomes actionable when you DECIDE to follow through on your intention. If not, nothing will happen. When you do, move on to the nex
Where You Should Put Your Focus
Where You Should Put Your Focus
I was speaking with a young man who was doing something familiar. He was living in two realities:
1) He had finished school; one reality was pursuing his dream career.
2) While he worked toward his dream, he earned a job certification to pay the bills.
During our conversation, he said something that got my attention. “I’m hoping I can get a good job supporting my dream.”
My ears perked up. Years of Coaching allow me to hear de-focused and dream-erasing thoughts l
Motivation to Always Reach Your Goals
Motivation to Always Reach Your Goals
You’ve heard if you want success, you must go after your goals with consistency and dedication. You must want it for yourself—more than anybody wants it for you.
YOU are the engine that drives your dreams.
Others will help, but in the end, your actions are the only thing that will lead to the reward.
I remember when my kids got older. I had a talent for manifesting what I wanted in life, and my Son asked, “Dad, how do you always seem to create what you want?
How to Succeed at Your Job
How to Succeed at Your Job
Have you ever wondered how to become one of those happy and successful people you see everywhere?
You might say, “Hmm… what are they doing that I’m not doing?”
You might find a clue if you listen to Bill Belichick, the Coach of the New England Patriots.
He says, “DO YOUR JOB!”
It’s a simple Manta that means you have an assignment and need to execute it.
If you have dreams and aspirations, your assignment is to go after it. You need to execute it.
If you want a bette
Disappear Yourself
Growing up, I was an energetic, enthusiastic, and excitable child. I never let a day go by without challenging something - usually with my mouth. Thanks to those responsible for turning me into a good person, I learned a valuable lesson when they said-
“Listen twice as much as you speak. You have two ears and one mouth for a reason.”
You’ve heard that before, and in today’s fast-paced world, knowing when to put a zipper on your lips is critical. But I’ve also learned to take that advice to a new
Asking For Permission is Silly
My friend Sid called to tell me he had found his next big thing. He decided to take flying lessons and couldn't wait to get started.
I have always wanted to learn to fly after hearing my Mom's stories over the years. Her father was a contractor in Wilmington, North Carolina. When an airport client couldn't pay, he offered lessons. She was 15 years old.
Her stories of landing on the beaches of North Carolina were thrilling. Flying Solo before an arriving hurricane was captivating. We'll forget th
Momentum Freight Train
Have you ever found yourself stalled?
I had big plans a few years ago, and nothing was moving forward. When I said nothing, others didn't seem to get the memo that I was on a mission.
We've all been in situations where nobody will return your call. Your email gets ghosted. You can't seem to get support or commitment for your future world-saving plans.
That's what happened to me and caused me to decide to create my momentum. I called it my "Momentum Freight Train."
My first use of my new mindse
Goals Are Like Hot Donuts
Have you noticed that airplanes fly crooked?
Heading to their destination, winds attempt to blow them off course. That’s why pilots turn their aircraft into the wind. They call it Wind Correction.
The same thing happens when you set a Goal. While you prefer the straight path, you will likely run into winds that will blow you off course.
Your spouse disagrees with your plans. Your boss demands more hours. Your kids, friends, and responsibilities keep blowing you further away from your dreams.
It
STOP Being Triggered
STOP Being Triggered
Do you ever feel emotionally triggered and tossed off track for the entire day?
You are an emotional person. When emotions keep you from logically navigating your day, problems begin.
How do you control being triggered?
1) Identify what triggers a response you want or don’t want to experience.
2) Decide how you want to feel when triggered. Make a plan to respond.
3) The next time you are triggered, recognize what is happening and execute your plan.
Identify. Decide. Respon
10 Truths That Change Everything
10 Truths That Change Everything
Certain actions, thoughts, and feelings have revealed themselves to be true.
If you want to better yourself, here are my Top 10:
10) Purpose And Passion Come From Clarity of Thought.
9) Purpose And Passion Begin With Acceptance.
8) Faith and Courage Power Transformation.
7) The Secret Lies Within You.
6) Some Doors Must Close Before Others Open.
5) Strong Values Create Strong Passions.
4) Goals Are The Heartbeat of Your Life.
3) Emotions + Logic = Change.
2) Mom
One BAD Question That Will Make You Happy
One BAD Question That Will Make You Happy
Do you ever feel stuck?
Is there something you want but don’t know HOW to get it?
Worse - everybody is giving you the same advice?
What’s your WHY?”
Getting what you want is simpler than that.
You will always get what you want when you want it bad enough.
Do you want to be happier? How bad do you want it?
Do you want more money? How bad do you want it?
Do you want better relationships? How bad do you want it?
Nothing can stop you when you want it bad e
Daily Disciplines
Daily Disciplines
Have you noticed how successful people keep getting what they want in life?
No matter how life gets in the way, they continue.
What is their secret?
Daily Disciplines.
Daily Disciplines are consistent, intentional, tried-and-true actions and thoughts that are never missed.
It could be getting a good night's sleep, exercising, or saying "I love you" to your spouse.
It could also be focusing on your goals and intentions, avoiding negative thoughts, and having an attitude of gr
Dealing With Any Crisis
Dealing With Any Crisis
When I fly little planes, everything is about safety. When things go wrong, I have a simple rule:
Fly the plane. Navigate the plane. Communicate with somebody who can help.
The same applies to life.
When things get challenging, most folks go directly to asking for advice.
What they get is -
“Tell me what is happening in your life. Where are you? What’s going on?”
If you don’t have control of the basics, it’s difficult for anybody to help.
The next time life gets wild, k
Why You Should Act 16 Again
Why You Should Act 16 Again
Growing up sure can get in the way of your dreams. It’s sad how so many goals get pushed aside for daily responsibilities.
Think about this -
When you were 16, the only freedoms you enjoyed were what your parents allowed. When you grow up, you have total freedom and complete control.
If you could live today like you were 16, it might look like this -
You would go to school and educate yourself.
Your friends would be real friends. Not just people you met at the offic
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Strangest Secret For Success
Strangest Secret For Success
Earl Nightingale produced “The Strangest Secret” to motivate his insurance company sales force. It is now a motivational standard.
The secret is simple:
1) You become what you think.
2) You must pay the prices.
3) You must control your thoughts.
4) Cut away the limitations of your mind.
5) Set a clearly defined goal.
6) Act promptly when your path is clear.
7) Save at least 10% of every dollar.
What do you want more than anything else?
Do more than you must. Do m
Embracing Your Natural Flow
Embracing Your Natural Flow
Getting things done isn’t always about a to-do list. More often, it’s your body clock.
Scientists have discovered that we all experience productivity peaks and valleys throughout our day.
Does this sound familiar?
1) Maximum focus happens in the morning. After waking up, your body temperature slowly rises, and your ability to focus with it. Mornings are excellent for detailed work - until around noon.
2) The slump begins. Yes, the slump is real. After noon, your body
Work. Life. Balance. Really?
Work. Life. Balance. Really?
A long time ago, you found yourself graduating high school and thrust into real life.
I’m sure you gave lots of thought to your future. Then again, you were young. Twenty years later, things can look very different.
Over the years, I’ve learned something about working for a living:
1) Chasing money, advancement, and being significant will keep you busy. It will also close your eyes to other areas of life you would enjoy.
2) Pursuing passion and mission without consi
How To Be Honest With Yourself
How To Be Honest With Yourself
There's a truth about getting what you want in your life.
If you don't know where you are, you can't know how to get where you want to go.
Do you know where you are?
One of the quickest ways to find out is, to be honest with yourself. It's time to take inventory and look at every aspect of your life: the good, the bad, the ugly, and the awesome.
Taking the time to inventory everything before pushing off in a new direction is often to only way to free yourself from
Does the Law of Attraction Work?
Does the Law of Attraction Work?
I've always believed the Law of Attraction should be called the Law of What You Think About Most.
Like attracts like, what you think about, you get.
If you think, "I won't get it because I never do" - you are correct.
Dreaming of a new life while focusing on your current problems is a sure way to keep spinning your wheels.
The trick is to focus your attention and actions on what you want to attract. That will require a dedicated effort. Vision Boards, lists of G
Get Motivated ON DEMAND
Get Motivated ON DEMAND
As a child, I wondered why I couldn't always have my way. Mom and Dad were so mean! I couldn't wait to grow up, move out, and experience being an adult. Everything would be different - or so I thought.
After stepping into the adult world, it didn't take long to realize that not much had changed. It turns out it wasn't my parents. It was like turning down my requests. Life was getting in the way. What was even worse was that I was getting in my way.
I've joked over the yea
One Question Procrastination Elimination
One Question Procrastination Elimination
Are you a member of the Procrastination Club?
Procrastination is the intentional and habitual postponement of an essential task that you should be doing.
Is that what you are doing?
In my view, two things could happen if you procrastinate -
It may be possible that you are not procrastinating at all. Instead, you may be forcing yourself to do something you don't need to do anyway.
The other possibility is that it simply doesn't mean enough to you to sta
Shake Up Your Life and Thrive
Shake Up Your Life and Thrive
Growth and change are what most people strive for in their life. It’s what drives you before you create your amazing life. It’s also what drives you to step up to the next level.
In the last 17 years, I’ve produced the Daily Boost podcast, and I’ve spoken to thousands of people. All of them were in various stages of change, and most aimed to be happy.
But, there is an issue that keeps popping up.
As people live and enjoy the life they’ve built, the natural desire f
Sharing Your Plans Slows You Down
Sharing Your Plans Slows You Down
In the last few years, it has become increasingly popular for people to share every little aspect of their lives with others. But, when it comes to getting what you want, keeping your plans to yourself is a powerful tool.
Independent's Day weekend has just passed, and when I arrived at my desk on Tuesday, I had two client messages that made me smile.
The first said, "I decided to spend my weekend practicing what I do in private so that I will be praised in publi
Living Your ALL IN Life
Living Your ALL IN Life
I want to become the person I am meant to be.
That’s something that I hear daily in my life from people all over the world. Frankly, beyond living a joyful life, I can’t think of anything more important than growing to become who you know you are on the inside.
Most people tend to work in different areas of their life. All will say that family and friends are the most important, but they tend to focus on their career and legacy - especially after the kids move out.
But h
Find Your Passion - Be Yourself
Find Your Passion - Be Yourself
A few years ago, I recognized that many folks are unaware of how to find their real passion.
I often ask this question.
"What do you do when you are doing YOU?"
I usually hear crickets. Lots of crickets.
Most folks spend their days figuring out their purpose and passion - when it's usually right in front of them. All you have to do is look at how you spend your time, and you'll see what you enjoy.
Do you read, write, exercise, work, walk, talk, play, fight, la
Living Your 9-Year Lifecycle
Living Your 9-Year Lifecycle
My friend, Louis Gates, taught me about the 9-year life cycle a few years ago. It's an easy way to get what you want using the Law of Attraction.
9-year cycles begin the day you are born and repeat throughout your life. Happiness is as simple as paying attention to your cycle - and asking for what you want.
In year 1, start asking for a new purpose in life. It will reveal itself in year 2. Your focus will tighten.
Things start moving in year 3. You'll enjoy the chan
Activity Creates Activity
Activity Creates Activity
Have you noticed? When you initiate action toward a goal - a million other distractions arrive.
Etch this into your mind: Activity creates activity.
No matter what you choose to take on, your energy will attract attention. You will discover everything you need to succeed. It will also attract everything needed to through you off track. That's okay. You can harness this power to get what you want.
Don't get stuck in neutral. Shift gears and accelerate yourself into massi
The Evil of Good Enough
The Evil of Good Enough
How much is good enough?
I received an email from an MTMer who changed careers to become a Surgical Assistant. He did it at an age most folks start thinking about retirement.
Mike shared a useful saying he's heard many times in the operating room.
He said," The evil of good enough is better."
Once you've accomplished your goal, stop messing around and move on. The more you poke around, the better your chance of doing more harm than good.
A simple concept. I like simple. S
Journey. Destination. Repeat.
Journey. Destination. Repeat.
Life is a long and winding road. It has many ups and downs and a few surprises along the way.
Here's what you can expect:
1) Follow your passion, and the money will arrive. It may take longer than you think. It may be less than you think. It doesn't matter. You'll be happy.
2) Nothing will happen until you move from daydreaming to daily action.
3) The road will be rough. Then it will smooth out. Then it will be wild again.
4) Whatever path you thought you would tr
Leadership Skills From Leaders
Leadership Skills From Leaders
There is nothing new in life. To be a great leader, learn from those who know how to lead. Do what they do.
"Good leaders take a little more than their share of the blame, a little less than their share of the credit." - Arnold H. Glasgow
"Lead from behind and put others in front, especially when celebrating. Take the front line when there is danger. People will appreciate your leadership." - Nelson Mandela
"A genuine leader is not a searcher for consensus but a m
Understanding the 4 Kinds of Clarity
Understanding the 4 Kinds of Clarity
Understanding what you want in life is the foundation of all success. There are 4 types of Clarity:
1) Clarity of Purpose: Knowing what drives your heart and soul is the fuel that will propel you to your dreams.
2) Clarity of Task: What tasks fulfill your purpose? Knowing will reduce stress and create daily satisfaction.
3) Clarity of Process: Ritualistic and consistent dedication to your proven process leads to happiness. Learn what works. Do more of it.
4)
Habits That Will Transform Your Day
Habits That Will Transform Your Day
Daily success is a habit. When you figure out what works and do it every day, the success you deserve is around the corner.
1) Daily Top 3: We all have tons to do. Make sure at least 3 items are Goal and Dream oriented - not to-dos.
2) Triage Your List: Because you put it on the list last week doesn’t mean it still needs to be done. Be brutal.
3) Block Your Time: What gets scheduled gets done.
4) Allow Unschedule Time: Leave space on your calendar for unexpect
Power of Simple With Adequate Information
Power of Simple With Adequate Information
Is your head constantly spinning with information overload?
It’s easy to do in today’s busy world. It can also be paralyzing and dream-stopping.
Instead of soaking in every piece of information and confusing yourself, the secret is -
1) Know your outcome. Knowing where you are heading makes it easier to see which road to travel.
2) Commit to tossing out 80% of the noise and clutter that currently fills your day.
3) Choose to act only on information tha
How to be Endlessly Creative
How to be Endlessly Creative
Over the years, I have personally produced over 10,000 podcasts, and every one of them begins with the written word. Even though that makes my mouth and my fingers my most exercised body parts, it has also given me lots of opportunities to learn to keep my words flowing.
If you're like most people, you have found yourself sitting in front of a blank screen, praying for inspiration. It could be writer's block, procrastination, or maybe you stayed up late watching Netf
No Permission Needed For Happiness
No Permission Needed For Happiness
You do not need permission to live life according to your terms.
It’s okay to ask for advice and guidance. Researching your direction and path is smart. It’s even okay to persuade others to take the journey with you.
You don’t need permission to be yourself and live your life.
You don’t need a big storyline.
You don’t need approval from anyone else.
You can start whenever you choose.
Here’s a secret that will help you adjust your mindset.
Most folks don’t
MAPPING Your Success
MAPPING Your Success
Have you ever heard people preach, "Get out of your comfort zone, try new things, always stretch!"
While true, it's only part of the story.
Look at anybody who has achieved goals and maintained success over a period, and you'll find:
1) Motivation. Successful people do whatever they can to get and stay motivated. It's not an occasional thing. It's an always thing.
2) Accountability. Successful people accept responsibility and ask others to hold them to their plan.
3) Plann
Productivity Hacks
Productivity Hacks
I think it’s time we stop seeking more productivity. It’s too much work! I prefer being more efficient and effective.
Here are a couple of ideas that will help:
1) Say “No” to meetings if possible. If you must, keep them short and sweet.
2) Delay paying attention to incoming communication. It’s nothing more than somebody else’s to-do list. Do your stuff first.
3) Daily interruptions will never go away. You may as well expect and plan for them.
4) Never schedule more than 50%
Time to go ALL IN
Time to go ALL IN
Have you ever wondered how the most successful people in the world get that way?
Could it be their timing is right?
Do they "know" somebody?
Luck? That's it. They get lucky!
Maybe, but I think there is more to it.
Every person I've ever known who achieved remarkable success did three things:
1) They recognized what they wanted and envisioned themselves living that life.
2) At some point, they commit and go all in. Their dream IS going to happen. There is no "Plan B."
3) No m
Improving Your Financial Situation
Improving Your Financial Situation
When it comes to improving their lives, most people say money is their top concern.
Tony Robbins said, “Making money won’t solve all of your problems - but at least you will arrive at your problems in style.”
The truth is, making more money, no matter how little, will solve most of your problems. It is also the magic juice that will fuel your dreams.
If you want enough money to create the life of your dreams:
1) KNOW what kind of life you desire. Be realistic
How To Figure Out Your Purpose
How To Figure Out Your Purpose
Over the years, the most popular question I get from the MOVERS around here is -
“How do I find my purpose and face my passion?”
If I were to expand on that question, it would be -
“What can I do today to find my purpose and overcome the fear of living my passion?”
In other words, it’s one thing to find it; it’s another thing to get yourself to do it.
Today we’ll focus on finding it.
In my quest to live passionately, I always follow a 5-step process for discovering
How Do You Feel Sessions
How Do You Feel Sessions
How much better would your day be if you knew what surprises lurked around the corner?
While you can’t predict everything, you can prepare for most things using “How Do I Feel Strategy Sessions.”
Here’s how it works:
1) Once a month, take a few minutes and review what’s going on in your life. Your job. Your vacations. Your relationships. Your goal is to recognize what is likely to require your attention.
2) As you form your list, consider every possible scenario and expe
Interpret Your Calling
Interpret Your Calling
Is the Universe whispering and nudging you to move in a specific direction?
Before I go on, I must admit that I am certainly not an expert in the Universe or it works in our life. The magic of gravity is enough to blow my mind, and the only Secret I know is that you are the only one in charge of getting what you want in your life.
But what if you know that Universe is speaking to you? Calling you, compelling you to get off the sofa and do what you say you want to do? But
Scripting Your Life
Scripting Your Life
In the world of Scott Logic, I’ve always fought my advice that said -
When life is predictable, scripted, and process-oriented - BORING - life gets as excited as you ever dreamed it could be.
As a guy who likes excitement in my day, you can see why I would prefer to ignore that wisdom - and I’m not alone. Still, I don’t miss it. I prioritize that way of thinking at all cost.
Let’s talk about that ‘scripted’ part of living.
While I love a good spontaneous day, I’ve learned th
Reinvent Yourself EVEN Without a Plan
Reinvent Yourself EVEN Without a Plan
In the last couple of years, I made a decision that changed everything about my life.
And no, when I began personal Operation Reinvention, I didn't have much of a plan. I wouldn't say I was winging it, but sometimes you have no idea what kind of plan you need. What I did have was a mindset.
I wondered -
"What single change can I make - a change that would automatically and positivity disrupt everything in my life and put me in a better place?"
I followed
Be the Leader that Sets the Pace for Success
Be the Leader that Sets the Pace for Success
Is your hair on fire for success?
There's a phrase that sums up what it takes to get whatever you're seeking.
"The faster the speed of the leader, the faster the pack's speed."
It's a simple truth; success likes speed. It's very sexy and beautiful to others.
Knowing your goals and taking massive imperfect action always speed up success.
Why?
People get caught up in the belief their leaders cast. When you crank up your energy and urgency, others fee
Transform Your Relationships with 4 Essential Steps
Transform Your Relationships with 4 Essential Steps
Every day we navigate the world - which usually involves other people depending on how you process relationships, which can be good or bad.
The quality of life is dependent on the quality of relationships. It makes sense that we follow 4 steps to making them great:
1) Curiosity - Everybody is curious about the people they meet. If you want to meet great people, be engaging. The more curious they are about you, the better.
2) Enlightenment - Onc
Unlocking Your Inner Child With The Power of Anticipation
Unlocking Your Inner Child With The Power of Anticipation
I love how kids live in the moment while also getting excited about the next fun thing coming.
Maybe it’s time we all begin acting like kids again.
Since you were young, special events made you so excited that sheer anticipation would drive you all day and keep you up at night.
The trick to harness the power of anticipation is to keep a steady stream of exciting moments in your future. I call this my Anticipation Engine.
Keep these two
10 Daily Rules for a Happier You
10 Daily Rules for a Happier You
Every day we all jump into the craziness of life without much thought to the basic rules we use to run our day.
Here are a few of mine. You can borrow them if you would like:
1) Do what makes your heart sing. You'll always feel better when you are dancing down your path.
2) Believe anything is possible. As soon as you believe - everything IS possible.
3) Be nice to others. Expect them to do the same. No further explanation is required.
4) Believe in people and e
Escaping Life's Holding Pattern and Breaking Free
Escaping Life's Holding Pattern and Breaking Free
When I learned to fly little airplanes, my training took me into Holding Patterns.
Holding Patterns slow aircraft traffic and keep things safe. When a pilot is told to enter a Hold, that’s where they stay—flying in circles until Air Traffic Control releases them.
That sure sounds a lot like regular life these days.
I remember flying a Holding Pattern with my instructor. We were there longer than usual, so I asked, what is taking so long? He said
Discover the Power of a Personal Constitution
Discover the Power of a Personal Constitution
I was on the phone with a client when she mentioned she uses a personal constitution to guide her life. She wrote the document 25 years ago and has never changed it.
She’s not very happy either.
Yes, by definition, a Constitution never changes. But that didn’t stop me from asking if she had ever considered amending her Constitution.
Let me be clear -
Your most important beliefs and core values should not change easily or quickly. Yet, as you grow wi
Seize Control Now With No More Waiting
Seize Control Now With No More Waiting
When you feel in control, are you happier?
I created 'Do What Makes Your Heart Sing a few years ago.' While it was about being happy, it's core teaching became my best practice.
1) Stop fixin' to get ready. If you want something, there is no reason to put it off. Could you go out and get it today?
2) Ask for help. We all need help. Millions of people are waiting for you to ask them.
3) Slow down when it gets bumpy. Going after big goals will lead you down
7 Stoic Rules for a Happier Life
7 Stoic Rules for a Happier Life
I'm a fan of Stoic Philosophy. While it may be over 2,000 years old, its practicality is still valid.
These rules to live by will help you have a happier life:
1. If you're going to learn and succeed, be humble. There is always someone more intelligent, more successful, and wiser.
2. Find the right scene. Choose your friends and situations. If you want to rise in life, you can't allow yourself to be held down by others.
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No matter how challenging a situation.
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As they navigate our new world, I hear my clients ask me that question too.
My answer usually goes something like this -
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1)
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Who? What? When? Where? Why?
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Occas
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Sometimes you have no choice.
If you have been thinking about tweaking your life, I have some suggestions to get you started:
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It turns out she spent the entire day pondering my comment. Then she realized that I was referring to a moment along her journey.
Let me put it another way.
No matter how long you live, how much yo
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It’s common for me to run into someone working to get what they want. As momentum builds, they decide to take a shortcut. They take a leap of faith and go for it - only to see the dream slip through their fingers and fade.
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Are you a Rock Star or a member of the band?
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I remember talking with my son after graduation. He had set his sights on becoming a Rock Star. Now, as a Dad who has BIG dreams and hard-won experience, I knew I had to give him perspective. So I asked -
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Yes. I’m still MOtivated, MOving, and in MOmentum.
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In journalistic terms, these folks are burying the lead. Instead of getting to the point, they begin with secondary details.
How does this relate to improving your life?
Many say, "I can't focus on anything." No. You are focusing on the wrong things.
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3) Deploy - Putting your plan into action is the only way to make progress.
4) Defend - Your goal should be to make life better. When you find what you love - defend it so you never lose
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Do visions still keep popping into your head?
Is there a mission that seems to be calling you?
What’s your BAM?
What’s your BIG - AWESOME - MOTIVATION - MISSION?
What gives you pleasant dreams and a feeling of happiness?
What scares yet excites you?
What makes you smile and say, “If I could only get myself to…”
Stand up? Take a step? Repeat?
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Let's start with:
1) Anything you want in this world is owned or controlled by somebody else.
2) If you want their help, you will have to get their attention.
It always comes down to three things. In this order:
1) What problem are they having? No, it may not relate to you. It doesn't matter. If you can help,
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2) Running full-out all the time is not sustainable. You must stop and rest.
3) Resting allows your body and mind to rejuvenate and become strong again.
4) When
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2) Enthusiasm. Living life with the excitement of feeling is PASSION. Only involve yourself in activities that you are enthusiastic.
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"Is this all there is? Am I destined for something bigger?"
You are.
Here's how to discover your path:
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2) Accept WHAT you do when you are doing you. It's not a thing; it's a feeling.
3) Accept WHEN when you want to begin living. Now is a good time.
4) Accept WHERE yo
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Please don’t fall for it.
Overall, the world has always consisted of billions of people choosing from a 50/50 split of negative and positive options. Since everything in the Universe is balanced, it makes sense that half of our choices are negative and the ofter half positive.
It’s also why everybody can choose — but there’s a secret.
Peop
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Everyone lives according to the 80/20 rule that almost everybody has heard about. The Pareto Principle means that 80% of outcomes result from 20% of all causes for any event.
However, to get what you want in life, there is a slight twist to the equation that says,
80% of the things you focus on i
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Living a meaningful life is about knowing where you are heading while dodging the millions of others who are drifting. If you're not careful, you'll get caught up in their aimless journey.
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What if the future or your past didn’t matter?
Imagine if you didn’t worry about the possessions, success, or drama of others.
What would happen if you believed that YOU were in control?
Now you are starting to think like a Stoic Philosopher.
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More people than you know lose sleep over that question. If that sounds like something you have experienced, you’re not alone.
Almost everybody begins their journey when a thought pops into their mind. Then, day-to-day life keeps them busy, and they spend frustrating months fixin’ to get ready. You know, starting to prepare… so you can begin to do… so you can do… and say you did.
If that doesn’t work, you summon your frien
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Do those visions keep popping into your head?
If that’s the case, what’s your BIG, AWESOME, MOTIVATING MISSION?
BAM!
What dreams excite you and give you a feeling of happiness?
BAM!
What scares you - and excites you?
BAM!
What makes you smile and say, “If I could only get myself to…”
BAM!
Take a few minutes and figure out your BAM! Then stand up, take a step, and repeat! Keep going until you get what
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In the fast-face world, we live in today, there seem to be two groups when it comes to how to use mornings—personal and productivity. Once folks remove themselves from the craziness of jumping out of bed, taking care of the kids, and hitting the drive-through, they choose one of the two.
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I've thought about that quote many times over the years. There was something about its logic that didn't match up with my day-to-day experience.
Don't get me wrong, no matter what you want to do in your life, showing up is the first step in getting it. But I've shown up many times and went home without the prize I so much wanted.
I've also seen others convinced they'll advance toward their goals if they show up. Inst
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Probably Not. That's why it's so important today that you pay attention today.
Being a good quitter isn't an excuse. It should never be an option for making things easier. Instead, quitting is a wise choice. You choose to quit when your progress has you going around in circles or has stopped.
That's when things get interesting.
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The secret is how you prioritize the projects that are already on your plate. That requires a simple understanding:
1) Working on multiple products simultaneously only delays completing all the projects.
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The next tim
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I think it is time that we take away your matches and lighter fluid.
If your life is non-stop drama, stress, and craziness, there is a good chance that YOU are the cause. There is also a good chance you won’t see it that way.
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When you stop doing anything that re
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I wondered -
"What single change can I make - a change that would automatically and positivity disrupt everything in my life and put me in a better place?"
If you don't know exactly how to get where you want, you will recognize success when you see it.
Goals are cool. You should use them. Sometimes, you must follow your gut, go with the flow, and figure things out along the way.
What sing
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You might be spending too much time learning.
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Here are some simple truths:
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2) Learning alone will not produce results.
3) You don’t ha
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Maybe you should treat your life the same?
I've long known that everything has an expiration date. Nothing goes on forever. Everything will come to an end.
What's good may become not so-good.
What's bad may become great.
Life will be born; life will die.
This incredible ebb and flow is just the way of the Universe.
Chang
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They don't wear rose-colored glasses either.
They have a better way:
1) They realize that if you are alive, you will have problems.
2) They accept that dealing with problems is a privilege of being alive.
3) They don't get frustrated. They know problems mean you are shaking up life and living.
4) Happy people accept responsibility for solving problems. They never run from them.
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It seems like everybody is beating around the bush instead of asking for what they want.
I have news for you.
People can't read your mind. If you want something, you will have to ask for it. But it's not all about you.
Before I continue, I have a warning.
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While most techniques are still very valid - the rules have changed for just about everything.
Does that mean you must get out of your box and think differently?
Maybe, but there are other choices:
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You can toss out the old entirel
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His answer?
No matter what you do, you're only doing it for money.
Don't believe me?
What would you do if you didn't have to work? I guarantee it would be different.
Here are three kick-starting questions:
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Figure out what you want and change it.
Are you done laughing?
Most folks fall on the way to their dreams because they don't move, move at the wrong time, or move too fast. That's why it's time to build your bridge once you know what you want.
Here's how:
1) Fortify your current foundation. Save money, pay bills, and do whatever it takes to build a firm and peaceful base.
2) Begin constructing the
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It’s time for a Goal-Setting refresher.
Goals work like this:
1) State precisely WHAT you want.
2) State WHY you want it.
3) Imagine how you will feel when you reach your goal.
4) Plan the steps you will take.
5) Take continuous action.
6) Measure your progress.
7) Be flexible in your approach.
8) Celebrate and repeat.
Success comes to people who set goals. Be one of those people.
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In the next 60 seconds, you can harness the most potent and easy-to-use decision-making tool I have ever found.
Forget the old "Pro and Con" list your Mom and Dad taught you. It's time for a new approach.
The next time you find yourself challenged, use Quantum Linguistics. Ask yourself these four simple questions to solve your problem:
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Every mentor I’ve ever had made sure that I possessed three characteristics for success before they agreed to work with me.
Would you pass their test?
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2) Are you a coachable person and prepared to accept the wisdom and guidance of others?
3) Are you willing to undertake all actions to achieve your success?
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Here are a few things you can do - today!
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Who or what are you most grateful to have in your life?
Sometime today, pause, close your eyes, and fill your mind with the people and things that make your life good.
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Over the years, I have produced over 12,000 podcasts, and every one began with the written word. Even though that makes my mouth and fingers my most exercised body parts, it has also given me many opportunities to learn to keep my words flowing.Like most people, you have sat before a blank screen, praying for inspiration. It could be writer's block, procrastination, or maybe you stayed up late watching Netflix. In any case, there's a simple solution to always having a starting point.Any
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It happens to all of us.We're going about our day, hot on the trail of checking off items on our never-ending To-Do list. Then, we discover that we didn't get everything done before time ran out. When my son entered the workforce, we often found time to catch up on weekends. He was trying to navigate the business world while balancing his life. He had an exceptionally fast-paced job and had become a productivity ninja. He was proud of his color-coded To-Do list and calendar, but he had
Focusing Your Focus
A client asked me, "What do you pay attention to most of the day to keep yourself on track?" I said, "I pay attention to MY agenda first. When I cross paths with the agendas of others, it doesn't have to be my way or the highway, but I must continue to live the life I desire and get the results I want without delay and distraction. The truth is, I want us both to do that."As long as you know what you want in life, getting it is a matter of moving forward daily and staying on track.Since
Happiness is a Game
Would you like to be happy every day of the week? Maybe it's time to start thinking like a happy person.There's no magic to being happy; rose-colored glasses are not required.Just start looking at your day-to-day life the way a happy person does.Give this a try:1) Accept that being alive means you will run into occasional challenges.2) Realize that dealing with challenges is a privilege of being alive.3) Welcome frustration. It only means adjustments are required. Figure out what to cha
You Must Prioritize Yourself First
If you spend any time listening to me, it won’t take long before you hear me screaming from the top of the mountains to ignore the agenda and propaganda-filled world we live in and focus on yourself.
Here’s the truth...
Nobody is thinking about you and what you do. That means you need to pay attention to yourself because everybody else is busy with themselves.
Some folks find that way of thinking difficult because society makes you believe you must do what everybody else does to be successful.
Get What You Want By Being LAZY
I have an admission. I'm a bit lazy. Yes, I also like to work harder than most people. Still, I'm lazy when doing things I don't want to be doing.It's been said that when you do what you love, you will never work another day. Frankly, I've found it to be quite the opposite. I love what I do, but it is challenging and takes time and effort. Still, I'm lazy. I want everything to be easy, and I want it now. I don't think I'm different than anybody else. I'm lazy. Yes, I'm driven. I'm also
5 Word Path to Success
When I was a baby DJ in broadcast school, I spent a lot of time learning the rules of journalism. While that subject fills books, almost everything we needed to know was -
Who? What? When? Where? Why?
If you know that information, you can tell a complete story.
Years later, I re-arranged the formula for personal growth. Every time I set goals and consider a different direction, I ask -
What? Why? When? Where? Who?
Occasionally I need to ask HOW I will accomplish my goal - but that usually takes
9 Success Principles You Need
9 Success Principles You NeedYou may have heard that you will elevate your station in life to the degree that you elevate yourself.Personal Development is how you do that.Here are some easy ideas to move you forward:1) Acknowledge that all emotions come from within you.2) Seek out someone you respect. Use them to stay honest.3) Recognize there is life after failure.4) Read purposefully. Apply your knowledge.5) Challenge yourself to be brutally honest.6) Reflect on what you spend the mos
Stop Letting Your Emotions Sabotage Your Life
Stop Letting Your Emotions Sabotage Your Life
Do you ever feel emotionally triggered and tossed off track for the entire day?
You are an emotional person. When emotions keep you from logically navigating your day, problems begin.
How do you control being triggered?
1) Identify what triggers a response you want or don’t want to experience.
2) Decide how you want to feel when triggered. Make a plan to respond.
3) The next time you are triggered, recognize what is happening and execute your plan.
Motivational Laws You Shouldn’t Break
Motivational Laws You Shouldn’t BreakSpecific actions, thoughts, and feelings have revealed themselves to be the truth. If you want to better yourself, here are my Top 10:10) Purpose And Passion Come From Clarity of Thought.9) Purpose And Passion Begin With Acceptance.8) Faith and Courage Power Transformation.7) The Secret Lies Within You.6) Some Doors Must Close Before Others Open.5) Strong Values Create Strong Passions.4) Goals Are The Heartbeat of Your Life.3) Emotions + Logic = Chan
How Bad Do You Want to Live Your Dreams?
How Bad Do You Want to Live Your Dreams?Do you ever feel stuck?Is there something you want but don’t know HOW to get it?Worse - everybody is giving you the same advice? What’s your WHY?”Getting what you want is simpler than that.You will always get what you want when you want it bad enough.Do you want to be happier? How bad do you want it?Do you want more money? How bad do you want it?Do you want better relationships? How bad do you want it?Nothing can stop you when you want it bad eno
Live Longer Being an Optimistic Realist
Live Longer Being an Optimistic RealistAre you an "Optimist" or a "Realist" who is optimistic?It makes a difference. Studies have shown that Optimists don't live as long and Optimistic Realists.Why?Being blindly optimistic today can lead to massive disappointment and stress. There is too much noise in the world trying to bring you down.When you choose to be an optimistic Realist, you look at the world with a much clearer lens. Occasionally you will be surprised by an outcome. You will
Creating Your Perfect Day - Every Day.
Creating Your Perfect Day - Every Day.What if every day was perfect for the rest of your life?Your subconscious mind is a beautiful thing. You can use its power to design your life exactly how you imagine. Here’s how:1) Write down an event-by-event vision of your perfect day. Yes, it’s a fantasy - for now.2) There are no rules. No limitations. No consequences. Be honest about what you want. Don’t be shy.3) Believe it can be yours! You deserve it.If you follow these steps, your subconsci
Are You Missing Your Future?
Are You Missing Your Future?
Have you noticed how everybody is running so fast these days?
Are they living in the moment? Are they dwelling on the past? Are they dreaming of the future - and waiting for it to arrive?
Any human would experience a combination of all three every day. That's normal as long as it doesn't get in the way of living.
A decade and a half ago, my first wife passed away from Cancer. She was 46 and too young to die. I was too young to be a widower. My children are too young
Billionaire Habits You Can Steal
Billionaire Habits You Can StealWhatever you get in life is a result of your daily habits. What is a habit?According to the dictionary, it is a settled or regular tendency or practice. It is also, especially, one that is hard to give up.Good habits or bad - they are hard to give up. If that's the case, you may as well choose good habits.In a survey of 233 self-made millionaires, here's what they did that lower-income earners didn't -Get up early, read a LOT, and spend 15 - 30 minutes ea
How Success Follows Intention
How Success Follows IntentionAn epidemic infecting dreamers worldwide is nothing more than a dream buster.Living a happy life, enjoying amazing relationships, and making more money? It seems that everyone has intention.Some intentions are good. Some intentions are bad. In any case, moving from having intentions to succeed requires two steps:1) Intention becomes actionable when you DECIDE to follow through on your intention. If not, nothing will happen. When you do, move on to the next s
How to Focus and Achieve Your Goals
How to Focus and Achieve Your Goals
I was speaking with a young man who was doing something familiar. He was living in two realities:
1) He had finished school; one reality was pursuing his dream career.
2) While he worked toward his dream, he earned a job certification to pay the bills.
During our conversation, he said something that got my attention. “I’m hoping I can get a good job supporting my dream.”
My ears perked up. Years of Coaching allow me to hear de-focused and dream-erasing though
How to Change Your Life in 30 Days or Less
How to Change Your Life in 30 Days or Less
Only a silly person thinks you can change everything about your life in 30 days - right?
Call me silly, but everything I've ever done was rooted in a 30-day sprint - even if I didn’t know it.
Here's how you do it:
1) Set what Napoleon Hill calls a Major Definite Purpose or a Big Ass Goal.
2) Stop negative self-talk. Others may throw sticks and stones; don't throw them at yourself.
3) List all the reasons you CAN be successful. Make it a long list.
4) De
Permission is Not Required For Happiness
Permission is Not Required For Happiness
You do not need permission to live life according to your terms.
Researching your direction and path is smart. It’s okay to ask for advice and guidance. It’s even okay to persuade others to take the journey with you.
You don’t need permission to be yourself and live your life.
You don’t need a big storyline.
You don’t need approval from anyone else.
You can start whenever you choose.
Here’s a secret that will help you adjust your mindset -
Most folk
Setting Boundaries and Expectations
Setting Boundaries and Expectations
Imagine how your life would improve if everybody understood what to expect.
Expectations are powerful. You get to decide how you approach the world. Pay attention to these three questions:
1) What do you expect of yourself?
2) What do you expect of others? Clearly, understand what you expect of others. That allows you to avoid surprises - and toxic relationships.
3) What do others expect of you? When you let others know what they can expect of you - and walk
Unavoidable Stages of Competence
Unavoidable Stages of Competence
When I was young, stupid, and wondering when I would understand life, I often turned to Zig Ziglar for a road map.
Zig's Stages of Competence was what I needed:
1) Stage One is where we begin. We are "Unconscious Incompetent." We don't know what we don't know.
2) Stage Two is called "Conscious Incompetent." I spent a lot of time there. I used to say, "I have no idea what I'm doing - but at least I admit it."
3) Stage Three is "Unconscious Competent." People who
Purpose Based Goals
Purpose Based Goals
Are you a goal-setter?
Goals are the heartbeat of your life. Without Goals, life tends a meander with no real direction.
Goals are GOOD.
But what happens when you miss your Goal?
Yes, you might want to give up, but it’s not the end of the world.
Missing a deadline doesn't always mean you missed your Goal.
Missing a Goal only means that you are using a particular result to define achievement.
You might consider using outcome-based goal setting when your Goal doesn't need
Life Changing Questions
Life Changing Questions
I'll keep it quick today. Besides, you'll be busy thinking after you read these questions.
(Now would be a good time to pull out your journal and make a few notes.)
1) What do I want to do?
2) What do I want to have?
3) Where do I want to go?
4) What contribution do I want to make?
5) What do I want to become?
6) What do I want to learn?
7) Who do I want to spend my time with?
8) How much money do I want to earn, save, and invest?
9) How much time do I want off?
10) What
How To Create More Time in Your Day
How To Create More Time in Your Day
How would you like more time in your day - or at least to feel that way?
I hope to enjoy a fantastic weekend that will feel like a month. Like a vacation as a child that seemed to last forever.
Wouldn't it be cool to capture that feeling every day?
It is possible to enjoy your own time machine when you understand that time is relative. Your perception of time will determine how you experience your day.
Try this:
1) Embrace anticipation. Focus your excitement
Behavior Hacks That Change Everything
Behavior Hacks That Change Everything
Your mind is the most powerful super-computer ever created. Here are a few ways to hack it and transform your life.
1) Start using a "Good Enough" approach. Perfectionism is doing nothing to move you forward.
2) Use your ONE mind to do ONE thing. Multitasking is splitting your focus and energy. It's also delaying your success.
3) Let go of control. Some things are not up to you. Figure out what they are and move on.
4) Say NO to anything that does not direct
Mindset Shifts for a Better Life
Mindset Shifts for a Better Life
"On your last day on earth, the person you became will meet the person you could have become." — Anonymous
You're smart. You're not going to let that happen to you - right?
Here are seven mindset shifts to make sure you are living on purpose right now -
1) Live a good lifestyle. Eat good stuff and exercise.
2) Think long-term. Find your groove and stick with it.
3) Play BIG. Small thinking is not why you were born.
4) Be responsible. No more excuses. That’s the
You Don't Need Failure For Success
You Don't Need Failure For Success
Have you ever wondered how to succeed in a long-term Goal?
Without endless nights of crying yourself to sleep?
It won't help to remind you that everything is hard before it gets easy. Or that if it were easy, everybody would do it - right?
Try this:
1) Know what you want. Easy peasy.
2) Find a Coach and train, train, train. Get a real Coach. Counting on Google to help you master your new skill is not a good plan.
3) Trust your training while you practice, prac
How Big Do You Dream?
How Big Do You Dream?
How big do you dream?
I hope it's not tiny. That would be a bummer.
Dreaming big is not really what you think. Please don't feel like you must save the world or be a Rock Star. Making millions of dollars doesn't always fit into that category, either.
Don't believe me?
Why are so few folks unable to do that?
Living a stress-free life, spending time with family, or doing an excellent job for your employer is pretty big - right?
Dreaming big is about imagining something impor
Get What You Want… FAST!
Get What You Want… FAST!
Would you like a shortcut to getting anything you want in life?
Would you like to get there quicker, faster, and easier?
Since you're a mover and a shaker, you know the value of using goals in your day-to-day life. Goals are those magical gems that give you the power to turn your dreams into reality.
Here's the simple secret to achieving massive success with your goals.
Commit yourself ONLY to take action that moves you closer to your goal. Period.
Stay focused, say "No,
Why Others See Your Greatness
Why Others See Your Greatness
Whether in business, having a job, going to school, or living your life, your ability to present well will supercharge your success.
Here are five tips I use every day:
1) Understand that most folk only expect you to wow them. They are not expecting bad. You shouldn't either.
2) Join the conversation THEY already have inside their head, not the one YOU are having.
3) You'll move faster if you drop the small talk and dig into the meat of your communication. You can
Why Do You Procrastinate?
Why Do You Procrastinate?
Are you a member of the Procrastination Club?
If so, you participate in one of the most popular groups ever devised. Everybody joins eventually.
So, what is procrastination?
"The intentional and habitual postponement of an important task that you should do now."
Is it possible that you are not procrastinating?
Maybe you're just forcing yourself to do something you don't need or want to do anyway?
Maybe you're getting caught up in the caught up? Making busy, keeping up
Stop Letting Others Control You
Stop Letting Others Control You
This morning I received an email from a member I haven't heard from in years. Many years. He wanted to update me on his life.
This kind of thing happens all the time.
Folks jump into the Personal Development game and hang out for a while. Eventually, they disappear. I never worry about it because it means they must put what they've learned in place.
In his note, he thanked me for giving him a nugget that turned that was the catalyst he needed to begin his journey.
Primary Morning Focus
Primary Morning Focus
I love the quiet, peaceful mornings, but I'm not too fond of mornings happening so early.
Still, the focus, creativity, and feeling of momentum that comes with getting up before the chickens have such value that I needed getting up a bit easier. My solution is to drop the complicated and establish a simple routine.
I begin by deciding the area I'm currently prioritizing and choosing a "first thing" task to move me closer to my goal.
Next, I set myself up for success the ni
Get Yourself to Take Action
Get Yourself to Take Action
People often ask what steps are needed to increase productivity and get more done. That’s easy. It always comes down to understanding how the action moves you forward.
Like any good story, life IS a story. All actions have a beginning, middle, and end. Anything else is stumbling along - which is easy to do if you’re not paying attention.
Here’s how you sum up actions in three steps:
The beginning is “Access Actions,” which determine the steps needed to get your projec
Diagnosing How To Help Others
Diagnosing How To Help Others
Have you ever felt the desire to help others?
Do you want to help them figure things out? Make more money? Recover from a bad experience?
Maybe you want to make a difference in the world yourself.
I’ve always believed that our power to help others is a side benefit of being ourselves - and having a structure to follow -
1) A person in need desires an outcome. It makes no sense to offer advice until we know what they seek. That puts us on the same page.
2) Next, fin
Happiness Walks
Happiness Walks
For years, I've built a reputation for being a guy that never misses a chance for a good conversation. Sometimes I head out the door for a good old-fashion "Talkabout" - an ode to Crocodile Dundee's "Walkabout."
I'm not sure when it began, but since exploring life's possibilities is a core value, I know why; there is no better way to learn something new than striking up a random conversation with another human.
But there are rules:
1) You must be focused on exploring and open to
What's Your Life Vision?
What's Your Life Vision?
Do you have an image of what you would like your life to be - except when life gets in the way?
There's no doubt that daily life events have a funny way of distracting us from reaching goals. It's just too easy to put them on the back burner. That's why you need to become the keeper of your vision.
Every day thousands of opportunities will arrive on your path and detour you from what you want. That's why it's up to you to guard your vision by asking a simple question -
Living a Curated Life
Living a Curated Life
Sometimes I wonder if it’s possible to live an authentic life that looks the same from the inside and outside. In other words, can you walk your talk and have everybody understand what you are saying?
My wife and I visited St. Augustine a few weeks ago and spent several hours in the Lightner Museum. On the surface, it was an interesting collection of stuff that didn’t seem to go together - except that it did. Like all good museums and lives, it was well curated.
Our day-to
So, What Do You Do?
So, What Do You Do?
Two people came into a restaurant and walked up to the bar. While it sounds like the setup for a joke, what's about to happen is much more serious.
My friend and New York Times Best Selling Author, Joel Comm, has a favorite question for times like these -
So, What Do You Do?
Asking that simple question can propel hours of conversation - as proven by my client.
While attending an event, she was standing at a bar when the gentleman next to her asked, "So what do you do?"
Her qu
Practice Makes Greatness
Practice Makes Greatness
It’s been said that Practice makes perfect.
That might be true if you were able to practice perfectly. If that were the case, why would you need to practice?
Practice does not make perfect. Practice makes permanent.
Practice bad thinking, and you will get all the bad thoughts you could ever want.
Practice makes permanent.
Practice bad manners and are sure to get better at being rude.
Practice makes permanent.
Practice bad relationship skills, and you are guaranteed to
Your Happiness Equation
Your Happiness Equation
Is there a magic formula for happiness?
Yes. It comes down to how you look at the world.
Most folks do one of two things:
1) They view everything from an emotional place. When life is good, everything is excellent. When things go wrong, life is terrible. Remaining stuck in the emotional zone is like writing a letter in the sand with a rising tide; it will never stick around long enough to make you happy.
2) Others view the world from a black-and-white and logical perspect
Raising Your Self-Confidence
Raising Your Self-Confidence
I got off the phone with a client who told me I insulted her with a comment on a recent call. I said, “Your self-confidence is low, and that’s okay. Everybody has low self-confidence - even if they walk with a swagger that says otherwise.”
It turns out she had spent the entire day thinking about my comment. She didn’t realize that I was only referring to a moment in time along her journey.
We had a short conversation and sorted things out. Afterward, I sent this -
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No More Fear of Change
What if everything you did today came with no limitations and good consequences?
What could you do with your life?
Limitations can be helpful. Staying within speed limits keeps you from getting tickets. That's good.
Limiting yourself to a job that doesn't serve you? That's bad.
Fear of change usually creates limitations. Or is it the fear of harmful consequences?
What would happen if all consequences were good?
Asking someone on a date may cause fear and hold you back. That all goes away th
Formula For Taking Action
There is a simple formula that you can apply to get what you want, enjoy the process, and ensure that it will last for a lifetime.
1) Get clarity. You must clearly define what you want. When you don’t know your path, you will drift with frustration.
2) Accurate Thinking. Assume that you are not getting the correct information. Double-check and confirm. Then move forward. The more accurate your understanding of your plan, the more comfortable and quicker it will be to get there.
3) Leverage. You
Focusing on Important
As a child, I remember heading out the door for a day in an endless adventure. It usually concluded with a game of Hide-And-Seek.
Those days seemed to last forever.
These days, most of us are still running until the sun goes down. But there's so much to do that we rarely have time to ponder the bigger picture.
Remember-
You will always find time for your most important tasks. You will eat, sleep, pay bills, feed the dog, and take care of your children - no matter how crazy life gets.
When life
Replace Your To-Do List
I'm sure you have a lot to do. If you use a To-Do list, I'd like to pass on advice to make your days much more fun.
LOSE your "To-Do List." Replace it with a" Did I Do It List."
To-Do Lists make you a slave to the checkmark. They cause more stress the longer they get.
A" Did I Do It List" assumes you know what must be done. Instead of chasing, you are checking to make sure you did it.
An un-focused path produces additional tasks to fill your day. Using a "Did I Do It List" will focus you on y
Be Your Own Cheerleader
Do you remember what it was like to be in 1st grade?
It was when everybody lavished you with encouragement for being YOU - and because you finished your art project without eating the glue.
Those were beautiful times. But you may have noticed things have changed since you were okay to take a nap in the middle of class. You grew up.
Yes, growing into an adult brings many mentors your way. They do their best to motivate and inspire you. But you know in your heart that they can only do so much. It'
Mapping Your Success
Mapping Your Success
Wouldn’t it be great if you had a plan to help you get what you want?
What you need is M.A.P.S. - a system that gets thinking out of the way and focuses on actions in four areas:
Motivation - Everything begins with motivation and knowing ‘WHY’ you set your goals. Stay motivated.
Accountability: Being accountable and accepting responsibility for your results will empower your success. Saying, ‘If it’s to be, it’s up to me’ is a great way to get started.
Planning: Plan your w
Planner Your Next Perfect Week
I have a saying -
“Next year begins THIS year. Next month begins THIS month. Next week begins THIS week.”
If you want to stay on track, accomplish your goals, and enjoy life more - you MUST take control of your calendar. It’s easier than you think:
1) Life will come at you FAST! Schedule any significant and can’t-miss life event at least one year in advance. Put it on the calendar and block it out. You can always change your mind.
2) Hold your space. Decide in advance what you will be doing with
Turn Obstacles Into Opportunity
Turn Obstacles Into Opportunity
Have you ever wondered how much easier things would be if you didn’t have to think so much?
What if the future or your past didn’t matter?
Imagine if you didn’t worry about the possessions, success, or drama of others?
What would happen if you believed that YOU were in control?
Now you are starting to think like a Stoic Philosopher.
Stoicism is about paring down and simplifying. They eliminate unproductive traits that define the majority of the population. One of
Listening to Yourself First
Listening to Yourself First
Growing up, I was an energetic, enthusiastic, and excitable child. I never let a day go by without challenging something - usually with my mouth. Thanks to those responsible for turning me into a good person, I learned a valuable lesson when they said-
“Listen twice as much as you speak. You have two ears and one mouth for a reason.”
You’ve heard that before, and in today’s fast-paced world, knowing when to put a zipper on your lips is critical. But I’ve also learned
Hungry Pilots, Hot Donuts, And Your Goals
Hungry Pilots, Hot Donuts, And Your Goals
Have you noticed that airplanes fly crooked? It makes you wonder how the Pilot ever gets where they want to go. Hmm… they must have a great goal!
Here’s what happens when you set a goal or fly an airplane.
In an airplane heading to a destination, winds will do their best to blow you off course. That’s why pilots turn their aircraft into the wind. They call it Wind Correction.
The same thing happens when you set a Goal. While you may prefer a straight pa
Multi-tasking is Stupid
How To Create More Time
Wouldn’t it be great if you could create more time in your day without giving anything up?
The secret is how you prioritize the projects that are already on your plate. That requires a simple understanding:
1) Working on multiple products at the same time only delays the completion of all the projects.
2) When you complete a product not only is it off your plate, it begins producing your expecting results. It also frees up time to move on to your next project.
The next t
Face Your Passion: Building Your Bridge
Face Your Passion: Building Your Bridge
Changing something about your life is pretty straightforward.
Figure out what you want and change it.
Are you done laughing?
Most folks fall on the way to their dreams because they don't move, move at the wrong time, or move too fast. That's why, once you know what you want, it's time to build your bridge.
Here’s how:
1) Fortify your current foundation. Save money, pay bills, do whatever it takes to create a firm and peaceful base to build.
2) Begin const
Winston Churchill’s Steps For Change
Winston Churchill’s Steps For Change
As we get into the New Year, I've noticed that people are getting back to their old ways.
That's okay. It's a journey.
But what is that journey?
Winston Churchill said, "To improve is to change, so to be perfect is to have changed often."
And it helps if you understand the stages of change:
1) Pre-Contemplation. You may intend to take action but are unaware that your behavior is the problem.
2) Contemplation. You recognize the problem and start to debate th
Wisdom Starter Thoughts
Wisdom Starter Thoughts
Everything you do is guided by what you think is logical in your mind. Just like everything I do is directed by my Scott LOGIC.
Is it common sense? Is it experience-based? Is it how you choose to live? Yes. But mostly, it is the filter in your mind at work.
Here are a few of my filters:
Life is long enough. But not for everybody.
Life goes quickly. But not if you're bored.
Life passes slowly when you are fishing.
Some people are too serious. Others are not serious enough.
Life in Default Mode
Life in Default Mode
There is a myth floating around that life is more fun when you are spontaneous. That’s true, but not all the time.
Happiness and success are most common among folks who live in a Default Mode.
In other words, they figure out what works for them and keep doing it.
Living in Default Mode makes life predictable for you and everybody around you. It limits decision-making and establishes continuity. It’s a behavior that reduces stress and improves happiness.
Living your life in
How to Get Lazy Success
How to Get Lazy Success
I have an admission to make.
I'm a bit lazy. Yes, I also like to work harder than most people. Still, I'm lazy when doing things I don't want to be doing.
It's been said that when you do what you love to do, you will never work another day in your life. Frankly, I've found it to be quite the opposite. What I do is difficult and takes a lot of time and effort.
But I enjoy it?
Still, I'm lazy. I want everything to be easy, and I want it now. I don't think I'm different t
Ritualistic Success
Ritualistic Success
Steven Covey called it sharpening the saw. If you take a break to sharpen the blade, you will always cut more wood. The same applies to life.
My formula is Ritual, Rest, Rejuvenate, Reactivate. Repeat:
1) Success comes when you perform ritual actions every day. Figure out what works and do it.
2) Running full-out all the time is not sustainable. You must stop and rest.
3) Resting allows your body and mind to rejuvenate and become healthy again.
4) When you are ready, it's tim
You Deserve to Say YES to Yourself
You Deserve to Say YES to Yourself
Do you ever wish you had a less complicated life?
Even if your job and life are overcomplicated out of necessity, like launching a rocket or performing brain surgery, you can still simplify everything.
How do you do it?
The fact is, the actions you are taking in your life and your job are probably not causing the overwhelm. It's the people and the results that are causing you to feel that way.
The easier way to under-complicate is to begin saying "No" to the a
4 Steps to Change Your Life
4 Steps to Change Your Life
Creating a difference in your life is a non-stop process that requires simple actions to help you get what you want. And it is, after all, about getting what you want and keeping what you love.
You’ll always go through these steps:
1) Decide. Everything begins with your decision to head off in a new direction. While sometimes you may feel like you’ve made a decision, if you’re not moving, you haven’t.
2) Define. Aimless wandering is fun when that’s what you’ve decided
Questions To Ask Before You Begin
Questions To Ask Before You Begin
Everybody has dreams. Daydreams, dreams while you sleep, and dreams of what you wish for the future.
I’ve always believed that dreams are goals you have nurtured to become real in your life.
But how do you know if the voice speaking to your heart will lead you in the right direction?
Brant Pinvidic’s book, The 3-Minute Rule, has four questions that will help:
1) What is it? Do you understand exactly what you want?
2) How does it work? How will you go about rea
Morning Routines That Work For You
Morning Routines That Work For You
You hear a lot about using morning rituals to get more done. But what if you could use your mornings to get more done for YOU?
In the fast-face world, we live in today; there seem to be two groups when it comes to how to use mornings—personal and productive. Once folks remove themselves from the craziness of jumping out of bed, taking care of the kids, and hitting the drive-through, they choose one of the two.
But what if there was a third group that was more
Don’t Break Your Success Chain
Don’t Break Your Success Chain
I’ll never forget the day a friend called and made me an offer I couldn’t refuse - and I didn’t.
Rob was an event promotor who had snagged the chance to book an up-and-coming comedian named Jerry Seinfeld into a local venue. He needed somebody to warm up the audience and introduce Jerry. I was all in when he agreed to cover my drink tab and let me hang out with Jerry before the show.
It was 1986, and Jerry’s television series about nothing was still in development.
Are Smart Goals The Secret?
Are Smart Goals The Secret?
I'm a big fan of setting big-ass goals. Dreaming BIG is my natural state - which is why S.M.A.R.T. goals are not all that smart.
S.M.A.R.T. stands for Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Realistic, and Time-Bound.
While it may seem like a good plan, I can't wrap my head around not setting goals because they don't seem achievable or realistic.
Excuse me?
Since when did big- goals seem achievable and realistic?
If that were true, you would already be doing them. Anytime
Your Rules of Success
Your Rules of Success
If you study people who have had success in any area of their life, you will find they have much in common.
Not only do they follow a set of rules, but they also follow those rules no matter how much life gets in the way.
What are those rules?
The person who has the strongest "Why" wins.
The person who shows up wins.
The person who shows up on time wins.
The person who is most persistent wins.
The person show never assumes wins.
The person who is the best at what they do w
Are You Choosing a Word For The Year?
Are You Choosing a Word For The Year?
Around this time every year, people begin to declare to me the WORD they have chosen to guide their life for the following year.
I like words - especially when combined with wisdom and a few wisecracks - but that might be just me.
Still, I'm always amazed at how excited people get and how much they believe their WORD will guide them into the next year.
I'm jealous. I need a WORD, too - and that's where the trouble begins.
I can't imagine choosing a single
Rules For a Happy Life
Rules For a Happy Life
300 BC, political life was driving people crazy. To calm the masses, several schools of philosophy popped up. Stoicism still resonates powerfully today.
1. Don't enslave yourself to annoying people.
2. Choose reasonable expectations.
3. Pre-meditate those expectations.
4. You are a mind that is operating a bag of chemicals you call a body.
5. Stop pretending you know that things are bad.
6. You were put here to reason, so use it already.
7. Life is NOT too short.
8. Feel y
The Strangest Secret
The Strangest Secret
Earl Nightingale created one of the great motivational works of history. “The Strangest Secret” began as a tool to motivate his insurance company sales force. It is now a motivational standard.
What is the Strangest Secret?
1) You become what you think.
2) You must pay the price.
3) We must control our thoughts.
4) Cut away all limitations of the mind.
5) Set a clearly defined goal.
6) Act promptly when your path is clear.
7) Save at least 10% of every dollar.
What do you w
Giving Up What You Are Not
Giving Up What You Are Not
Are you striving for something different and confused about where to begin?
I have a client who, after years of poor eating habits, had become over 100 pounds overweight. She decided to get healthy. She also had no idea how.
My advice was simple.
If your mind is telling you something you are doing is NOT who you are - just give up what you are NOT.
In her case, she knew lousy food because she had been eating it for years. She gave it up.
She didn’t have time to go to
Accepting Your Passion
Accepting Your Passion
No matter what activities you do in life, the goal of every road you travel should lead to happiness. After all, we don’t pursue ambitions, so we can be unhappy - right?
With that in mind, your journey will be more pleasant and the outcome more predictable if you:
1) Begin by accepting WHO you are right now. It’s okay to desire change, but you begin where you are today.
2) Clearly understand WHAT you are doing when you are authentically being YOU. The core of who you are i
Make The Year About Experience
Make The Year About Experience
Happy New Year… almost.
As we begin a brand new year, I have a question for you -
What experiences will you have this year?
Life is more fun when you choose a conscious experience. That requires planning, awareness, and setting expectations.
As you set and achieve your goals, be sure to pay attention to your focus. While you take action, dial in your direction and create the authentic experience, you desire. It’s your choice, after all.
Jumping to the destination
What's Your Big Ass Goal for 2023?
What's Your Big Ass Goal for 2023?
A new year is about to begin, and you may be setting goals.
Is it time for a refresher?
1) Goals should be more significant than where you are today. They should stretch you to reach another level. Items on your To-Do list are not goals.
2) Goals should be timely. While you may have many goals, only a few can demand your attention at any one time. Attempting to focus on too many goals simultaneously slows progress.
3) Big goals begin with decisive clarity and
Christmas Day, Every Day
Christmas Day, Every Day
The season is filled with excitement, wonder, and stress.
Our tribe comes together and reminds each other it's time to celebrate.
This is the most spiritual time of year.
I find a calmness in Christmas Eve that allows me to soak in the true meaning of Christmas...
If I give it a chance.
And... on Christmas Day I always get lots of gifts.
But my favorite gift - is the gift of dreaming.
As a child, I used to imagine what Christmas would bring... and I still do.... and you
Secret to Doing What You Love
Secret to Doing What You Love
Have you ever heard anyone say, “Do what you love, and you’ll never work another day in your life?”
You’ll work harder than you ever have - but you will LOVE every minute of it. Most people never have that experience because they miss the one thing they must do to live on their terms.
“If you want to do what makes your heart sing, you have to do what makes the bell ring!”
Yes. Making the bell ring means making money. After all, you must fund your fun - right?
Have y
Setting The Stage For 2023
Setting The Stage For 2023
With a new year almost upon us, it’s time to crank up those 2023 goals.
One of the most natural methods of achieving success is to stick to tried and true. That doesn’t mean you can’t move toward something more meaningful. You forgo new knowledge and skill and leverage what you already understand.
No-brainer success assumes:
1) You already have experience and wisdom. You will learn any new skill if, and only if needed.
2) You will choose the path of least resistance.
Committed to Your Goals in 2023
Committed to Your Goals in 2023
Woody Allen said, "Half of success is showing up."
I've thought about that quote many times over the years. There was something about its logic that didn't match up with my day-to-day experience.
Don't get me wrong, no matter what you want to do in your life, showing up is the first step in getting it. But I've shown up many times and ended up going home with the prize that I so much wanted.
I've also seen others convinced that they'll advance toward their goals
Power of ONE Idea
Power of ONE Idea
Are you the kind of person who is searching high and low for anything that will make you happy, get you married, bring in more money, or allow yourself to ignore the crazy world we live in today?
If I may, it’s time that stop searching and do this -
Accept that ONE good idea, ONE good realization, or ONE good action can and will change your life instantly.
Before I continue, I'm not saying to focus on ONE thing as you'll find in Gary Keller's book. Nope. The ONE thing I'm tal
Gift of Making a Decision
Gift of Making a Decision
As we approach the most spiritual time of year, I find more and more of my thoughts are focused on what my future will bring. But instead of drafting a list of goals, my mind seems to settle into a different place—
What if I could give myself a gift that would instantly give me what I want?
What if I don't have to chase my dreams and start living them instead?
What if there was nothing in my way - ever?
While that way of thinking may seem out of touch in today's world,
How to Be More Positive
How to Be More Positive
Have you ever logged into your Facebook account and said, “Huh?” To yourself?
Last night, I checked in at our https://dailyboostpodcast./facebook page, and there was a question. It was short, sweet, and made me pause…
“Hi, Scott. How do you stay so positive all the time?”
Now, I don’t think I’m positive ALL the time… but because of a choice I’ve made, I get there pretty fast. My reply was -
“I believe that being positive is a choice and decision you make, and the commitme
One Goal is All it Takes
One Goal is All it Takes
Let me start by saying that goal setting is powerful, and you should be doing it - but there is a good chance that you are overdoing it.
It's human nature to set goals, and you do it daily without thinking. That's why it's so powerful. It's also why it's so easy to set so many goals that you can never get any of them done.
Let me define how I see goals.
No matter what distracts me, I've come to think of goals in two ways:
1) Legacy Goals that I will spend my entire life
Slow is Fast. Fast is Slow.
Slow is Fast. Fast is Slow.
I was riding my Harley-Davidson Road King a few days ago when my mind suddenly thought -
“The Chinese Philosophical concept of Yin and yang describes how opposite or contrary forces may be complementary, interconnected, and interdependent in the natural world.”
What? What? Huh?
It happened right in front of the Daytona Speedway and got me thinking about the advice I give my clients about slowing down. It goes like this -
“You must slow down to get what you want.”
Advi
Advice For Better Relationships
Advice For Better Relationships
When I first met my wife, Joi, I knew we would be married and live happily ever after. But there was a problem. Joi didn’t see it that way - at least not right away.
If life has taught me anything, it’s that almost nobody is on the same page when they first meet. We might be in the same book but not on the same page.
In the early weeks of our relationship, I was in full-on action mode, and I was on a mission to achieve my goal as quickly as possible. I was also g
The Trick is The Click
The Trick is The Click
If there is anything we learn in life, there is always something to figure out. You would think after a lifetime of figuring things out; we wouldn’t need to do it anymore. But every day, another mystery pops up. It can feel like you are on the South Rim of the Grand Canyon looking for a shortcut to the North Rim.
Since showing up and going for it every day always serves up challenges. But experience teaches us to trust that something will click. The answer we are seeking
Exploring Your Possibilities
Exploring Your Possibilities
What do I want to be when I grow up?
The first time you ask yourself that question is when you are very young - if you ever asked it at all. Frankly, somebody else usually asks you, and you probably didn't have an answer and just took off running with this thing called life.
And then it happens —
Forty or fifty years later, people start asking themselves that question again after a family and career. The smart ones in the crowd don’t wait either; they begin to ques
Is Your Life is Repeating Itself
Is Your Life is Repeating Itself
My friend Louis Gates introduced me to his 9-Year Life Cycle to understand how we progress through life.
Cycles begin at birth and advance every 9 years and go like this:
Year 1: You decide what you want and start asking for it.
Year 2: As the pieces come together, you narrow your focus.
Year 3: The resources you need begin to arrive.
Year 4: You find yourself moving toward your purpose in life.
Year 5: re-evaluation begins. Toss out what you don’t need and
What’s Your Personal Ideology?
What’s Your Personal Ideology?
There’s a lot of talk about “ideology” these days, and it’s usually not in a good way.
But what about YOUR ideology?
Do you know who you are?
Before I go on, ideology is simply a creed, culture, dogma, outlook, philosophy, theory, or view. And let’s not forget ideas, principles, and tenants.
At the end of the day, an ideology is what you stand for in this world. And, if you do it well, it’s also how other people know what you stand for in this world. It’s also up
Do You Act Like a Happy Person?
Do You Act Like a Happy Person?
If you were to ask my wife if I was always a happy and positive person, she would likely say, "Hmm… it's complicated… but yes."
As a proud high-maintenance man who has never met a conversation, I didn't want to see how deep we could go. I would have to agree. It isn't straightforward. But the answer is yes. I'm happy every day of the week. Not because I was born that way. Nope. As my Italian friends would say, "I had a good learning."
Many years ago, right after h
A Different Look at Time Management
A Different Look at Time Management
In my entire life, I've always found it interesting that there never seems to be enough time in the day. Still, most days, everything seems to get done. If it doesn't, the world didn't end, and I survived to check off another item from my to-do list tomorrow.
I know I'm not the first human on the planet to face the problem of time, but I think I'm one of those smartypants who have figured out how our time works in real life. And it was 180 degrees from what I
Being Positive, Practical, and Peaceful
Being Positive, Practical, and Peaceful
I must admit that I get in trouble because some of the Scott logic that comes out of my mouth doesn’t sit well with many folks these days - and they let me know.
One of the biggest comments…
“You seem like such a positive guy, and then it’s like something clicks in your head and goes negative and ruins my day.”
While I don’t think I ever go negative, I’ve heard that many times.
Here’s the thing…
It would be easy for me to get caught in the feel-good tra
Daring Yourself To Live Your Dreams
Daring Yourself To Live Your Dreams
“Please! Can somebody stop the world? I want to get off!”
Okay. Just for you, I pressed the magic button, and the world stopped.
Whatcha gonna do now?
If you don’t have an answer, there’s no need to freak out. It’s common for people to get slowed down, and think about what their life could be like, and I have no idea.
But let’s say you are one of the few who decide the time has come to turn directly into the challenge.
Many years ago, I adopted a philosophy t
Do Leftovers Make Happiness?
Do Leftovers Make Happiness?
When I began training and competing with my dog in agility, I made a rookie dog trainer mistake. I wasn't consistent, and my dog was getting confused. One day, my trainer said, "For a dog, one time means all the time. Every time you let them do something new, they're just going to keep doing it."
Now, as silly as it sounds, that came to mind a couple of weeks ago when my wife, a creature of routine and habit, did the same thing.
We were invited to attend Thanksgiving
Success With No Will Power Required
Success With No Will Power Required
When will you get yourself to do what you say you want to do?
More people than you know lose sleep over that question. If that sounds like something you have experienced, you’re not alone.
Almost everybody begins their journey when a thought pops into their mind. Then, day-to-day life keeps them busy, and they spend frustrating months fixin’ to get ready. You know, starting to prepare… so you can begin to do… so you can do… and say you did.
If that doesn’t
Somebody Need You Right Now
Somebody Need You Right Now
When I was a teenager, I was a weekend moviegoer, and it was the age of Rocky, Star Wars, and Jaws. Besides, with only three channels on television, getting out of the house was the top item on my to-do list.
As a kid with big dreams, it was easy for me to slip into the fantasy world of films and let my mind run for a couple of hours. By the end of the film, I was always excited to get on with life and become like the folks I watched in movies.
That’s when life got in
Wisdom of Gratitude
Wisdom of Gratitude
I woke up this morning with an incredible zest to expand my feeling of gratefulness. Well, there is not so much to expand as to recognize all the things that I am grateful for but haven’t thought about lately.
That’s the thing about living in a fast-paced world where our daily activities, big and small, fly by and are quickly forgotten. It’s always been that way. There is nothing new in the world. That got me thinking about one of my favorite quotes —
“Enjoy the little things
Be The Change You Wish To See
Be The Change You Wish To See
People have always sought change for themselves, their life, or the world.
There is a constant truth if you want to change; you must change before anything else changes.
Many intelligent folks agree -
Mahatma Gandhi said, “Be the change that you wish to see in the world.”
Leo Tolstoy, “Everyone thinks of changing the world, but no one thinks of changing himself.”
What about Albert Einstein?
“The world, as we have created, is a process of our thinking. It cannot b
The Freedom Formula - Choice and Means
The Freedom Formula - Choice and Means
Every time I walk into the gym, I pump myself up to exercise my body and have somebody else exercise my brain.
This morning I found myself in a conversation when Ron asked me a question…
“Since you’re a Coach, tell me if I’m right. Your most important goal is always to have freedom in your life - right?”
You should have seen his face when I said, ‘Nope.’
Don’t get me wrong, I’m an American, and freedom rings in my bones - but there is a cost to getting th
Why Instant Gratification is The Secret to Success
Why Instant Gratification is The Secret to Success
Russ, from North Carolina, is asking for help with an instant gratification issue. He wrote-
So many people want everything now, thanks to modern technology. Educating people is becoming more difficult because they are looking for instant gratification. If their empty void is not filled quickly enough, they get easily frustrated and give up.
Please do a podcast on converting from instant gratification to goal-driven.
My take on this is probably
Ugly Sweaters Make Good Conversation
Ugly Sweaters Make Good Conversation
With the arrival of ugly sweaters and too much egg nog, the holiday season is upon us, which means that you may find yourself involved in more conversations with more people than you do at any other time of the year.
To make sure you enjoy every conversation you have, I want you to remember two things…
First, unless you live under a rock, you will find yourself in the middle of a calorie and alcohol-induced conversation that, as Dave Ramsey would say, 'That'
Where Did Your Motivation Go?
Where Did Your Motivation Go?
Today is the day I use my Perfect Week Planner to figure out where I will spend my time next week. And, like every week, I have the same realization…
Where the heck did my week go? And now, with the weekend in sight, my mind moves to riding the motorcycle mode and all best are off. Oh well, Monday is coming - right?
More on that in a minute.
Wait, Scott!
How the heck are we going to stay focused, progress toward our goals, and get important stuff done if we run ou
Why You Don’t Need a WHY
Why You Don’t Need a WHY
A while back and friend and I were chewing the fat about getting what we wanted out of life. It’s a common topic among my friends and should be among yours. It makes sense; what you focus on is what you get - right?
As we talked, I realized that as I’ve bumbled and stumbled my way through a very colorful life, I’ve also stumbled upon a simple idea…
Getting what you want in life requires that you know what you want in life. But what happens when you have no idea how the b
Scared, Excited, or Something Else
Scared, Excited, or Something Else
A few days ago, I stumbled into a conversation with a young man working behind the counter at a store I visited. It didn't take long before we knew a lot about each other.
He was a student at Emory Riddle Aeronautics University here in Daytona Beach. I run into a lot of those kids. Being a pilot myself, we instantly bonded. Then he asked a question that caused me to pause…
The Daytona/Port Orange area population is very diverse - with more than a few retired.
Creating Your Wonderful Life
Creating Your Wonderful Life
With the holiday season on its way, wouldn't it be great if you received the gift of the wonderful life of your dreams?
What if you could have lots of free time, less stress, more money, and great relationships?
In my years of coaching folks all over the world, I've learned a few things about lifestyle design:
1) Everything begins when you become aware of what you want and accept that it's up to you to get it.
2) If you believe your dream can be real as soon as you
Are You Stuck in The Middle?
Are You Stuck in The Middle?
Have you ever found yourself stuck in the middle?
I was speaking with a client trying to be everything to everybody. His business was not growing. His life was not happy. He couldn’t seem to find a way to make progress.
That’s when I said…
“My friend, you are stuck in the middle. Nothing good happens when you are in the middle.”
In business and life, having low expectations and being surrounded by like-minded folks is okay.
It’s also okay to reach for your dreams,
Fake it Until You Make It (Really?)
Fake it Until You Make It (Really?)
Have you allowed yourself to become the person you are on the inside?
We all make decisions that change our life trajectory without much thought. That can lead to feelings of being lost on you your life path.
Maybe it's time to create a new way of seeing yourself.
Using a Transitional Identity is a great way to feel confident when you can't believe in your future.
The trick is to focus on the smaller steps to your destination. That will allow you to move a
Promote. Prevent. Protect.
Promote. Prevent. Protect.
Every day I hear from folks living in a state of suspended animation. The light at the end of the tunnel is unclear. Life has paused.
In times like these, three items should be on the to-do list of every individual or business owner:
1) Promote yourself or your business. It’s time to go on the offensive and seek opportunities to move you in a positive direction.
2) Have a prevention focus. The game of life is played in two directions. Go on defense to avoid losses and
You Can Always Find a Way
You Can Always Find a Way
When life gets in the way, do you get frustrated about being blocked?
I used to be that way. Something changed.
I learned long ago that getting blocked would be an everyday occurrence. And, the bigger my goals, the more blocks would arrive. I could live with endless frustrations - or find a better way.
It came down to this:
1) Blocks have nothing to do with who I am. They could be self-inflicted or caused by others, but they still have nothing to do with me.
2) If yo
Law of Large Numbers
Law of Large Numbers
Do you ever get out of bed and wonder when you will achieve your desired success?
Better yet, what if it was predictable and up to you?
Here’s how it works.
Take action toward your dreams once a week, and you will see results. Do it for a year, and the “Law of Averages” will tell you what to expect - but it’s wrong.
Limited action over an extended period is no more accurate than flipping a coin 10 times and believing you’ve spotted a trend. You haven’t. The sample is too sma
Framework For More Energy
Framework For More Energy
Steven Covey called it sharpening the saw. If you take a break to sharpen the blade, you will always cut more wood. The same applies to life.
My formula is Ritual, Rest, Rejuvenate, Reactivate, Repeat:
1) Ritual: Success comes when you perform ritual actions every day. Figure out what works and do it.
2) Rest: Running full-out all the time is not sustainable. You must stop and rest.
3) Rejuvenate: Resting allows your body and mind to rejuvenate and become active again.
How to Achieve Your Most Ambitious Goals
How to Achieve Your Most Ambitious Goals
Have you ever wondered how the most successful people in the world get that way?
Could it be their timing is right?
Do they "know" somebody?
Luck? That's it. They get lucky!
Maybe, but I think there is more to it.
Every person I've ever known who achieved remarkable success did three things:
1) They recognized what they wanted and envisioned themselves living that life.
2) At some point, they commit and go all in. Their dream IS going to happen. There
What You Need to Feel Safe and Happy
What You Need to Feel Safe and Happy
Success in life happens on top of a solid foundation of basic needs.
In 1954, Abraham Maslow released Motivation and Personality. He expanded on his Hierarchy of Needs theory.
Maslow suggested that to reach your full potential:
1) You must provide for your physiological needs. Food, clothing, shelter, money, and more.
2) You must feel safe. Personally, emotionally, financially, health and well-being, and against accidents and illness.
3) Socially, you need
How to Better Connect With Others
How to Better Connect With Others
Every day I spend time on the phone with excited folks who know they are close to getting what they want. They can't figure out how to get their hands on it.
Let's start with the following:
1) Anything you want in this world is owned or controlled by somebody else.
2) If you want their help, you must get their attention.
It always comes down to three things. In this order:
1) What problem are they having? No, it may not relate to you. It doesn't matter. If you
Your Happiness Begins Today
Your happiness begins today
Do you ever wake up in the morning and jump straight into your To-Do list and forget about what you want?
With so much on our plates, it can be easy to lose track of the big picture and lose track of where you were heading.
That’s why we always do our Homework on Monday. It’s a powerful way to ‘Overlay’ what is essential in your life while you get the day-to-day stuff done.
Here’s how I do it:
1) Check in with the ‘Roles’ and ‘Goals’ you have in your life. Do you lik
Make Your Own Motivation
Make Your Own Motivation
As a child, I wondered why I couldn't always have my way. Mom and Dad were so mean! I couldn't wait to grow up, move out, and experience being an adult. Everything would be different - or so I thought.
After stepping into the adult world, it didn't take long to realize that not much had changed. It turns out it wasn't my parents. It was life turning down my requests. Life was getting in the way. What was even worse was that I was getting in my way.
I've joked over the ye
Helping Others in 3 Steps
Helping Others in 3 Steps
Have you ever felt the desire to help others?
Do you want to help them figure things out? Make more money? Recover from a bad experience?
Maybe you want to make a difference in the world yourself.
I’ve always believed that our power to help others is a side benefit of being ourselves - and having a structure to follow -
1) A person in need desires an outcome. It makes no sense to offer advice until we know what they are seeking. That puts us on the same page.
2) Next,
Must-Have Life Habits
Must-Have Life Habits
Motivating yourself to reach your goals is a never-ending process that kicks into high gear this time of year. Most folks have a long list of new routines and habits they want to put into place - it may be too long.
Many years ago, I decided to control my mornings by establishing actions that I would take upon waking. While I had great intentions, I found myself floundering and eventually losing focus.
Why?
I realized that the habits I was trying to establish had no real m
#1 Thing You Must Do For Success
#1 Thing You Must Do For Success
Steve Harvey is a funny guy. He's also a wise man.
You may have seen his video teaching the one thing you must do if you want to be successful.
You must jump.
If you want to be successful, you must jump into your dreams, take a leap of faith, and go for it.
Often, we stand on the cliff of life and watch others fly by, enjoying the life you desire. They jumped, their parachute opened, and life is good.
You must jump.
When you finally decide to jump, your parachu
How to Reach Goals - 3 Steps Goal Setting
How to Reach Goals - 3 Steps Goal Setting
There are so many choices in front of us every day. Each has the power to determine when and whether you will achieve your goals. Once you know the outcome you desire, these questions will help:
1) What CAN you do today that will lead directly and quickly to achieving your goal?
2) What SHOULD you do today that will lead directly and quickly to achieving your goal?
3) What MUST you do today that will lead directly and quickly to achieving your goal?
It’s
How to Reduce My Stress Levels
How to Reduce My Stress Levels
Unless you are living in a cave, you may have more Stress and less Hope in your life today than you did a short time ago. Pandemics can do that. So can life.
Over the years, I’ve learned that Stress is usually a result of fear.
Feeling Stress of never getting off the hamster wheel.
Feeling Stress and fear from uncertainty.
Feeling Stress from a lack of adequate information.
It doesn’t matter where your fear originates. The solution is re-framing your mindset to s
Stop Procrastination The Easy Way
Stop Procrastination The Easy Way
Are you a member of the Procrastination Club?
Procrastination is the intentional and systematic postponement of an essential task.
Is that what you are doing?
Even if you are putting things off, is it possible that you are not procrastinating? You may force yourself to do something you don't need or want to do.
Yes, you must complete tasks to get ahead in life. That's being responsible.
However, if your list of un-done keeps getting longer, it might be ti
Always Say The Right Thing
Always Say The Right Thing
How much better would your day be if you always knew what surprises were lurking around the corner?
While you can’t predict everything, you can prepare for most things using “How Do I Feel Strategy Sessions.”
Here’s how it works:
1) Once a month, take a few minutes and review what’s going on in your life. Your job. Your vacations. Your relationships. Your goal is to recognize what is likely to require your attention.
2) As you form your list, think through every possi
How to Stay Motivated Automatically
How to Stay Motivated Automatically
Have you ever wondered why some things and not others motivate you? The Evolving Science of Motivation has your answer.
In a nutshell, motivation is complicated and layered. You have felt it many times if you didn’t already know that. But it all begins with four kinds of motivation:
1) Extrinsic motivation comes from outside of you. You do it because you are compelled to - usually by someone else.
2) Intrinsic motivation is done for internal and personal reaso
Stop Embarrassing Yourself Now
Stop Embarrassing Yourself Now
Have you ever caught yourself doing or saying something you swore you would never do?
You have been TRIGGERED!
It can be frustrating when you set the rules and don't follow them. Sometimes you put your foot in your mouth. Sometimes you put the pizza in your mouth. In any case, your emotional habits are triggering your actions before you can do anything about them.
Controlling behaviors that have been on auto-pilot for years takes:
1) Catching yourself after the fa
Happiness Magic Formula
Happiness Magic Formula
Is there a magic formula for happiness?
Yes. It comes down to how you look at the world.
Most folks do one of two things:
1) They view everything from an emotional place. When life is good, everything is excellent. When things go wrong, life is terrible. Remaining stuck in the emotional zone is like writing a letter in the sand with a rising tide; it will never stick around long enough to make you happy.
2) Others view the world from a black-and-white and logical perspect
Path to Greatness
Path to Greatness
With the craziness of life, are you having difficulty breaking through to the greatness that is YOU?
What does greatness take?
1) Imagination. Your ability to form images, ideas, and sensations in your mind. Without help from anything or anybody. Use yours. Trust yours.
2) Enthusiasm. Living life with the excitement of feeling is PASSION. Only involve yourself in activities that you are enthusiastic about.
3) Persistence. Life is long. Things take time. Learn to love being do
Why Wisdom is Your Superpower
Why Wisdom is Your Superpower
There are lots of folks in the world who are seeking change in their life. They usually say - “I want something entirely new! I’m tired of how things have been! I want to start over!”
Please don’t do it!
Change doesn’t mean getting a do-over. It’s more of an iteration or course correction. Starting at the beginning has two problems:
1) It has taken you a long time to earn the wisdom and momentum you already have. Giving it up will mean losing your most potent tool.
4 Requirements of a Good Relationship
4 Requirements of a Good Relationship
Every day we navigate the world - which usually involves other people. Depending on how you process relationships, that can be good or bad.
The quality of life is dependent on the quality of relationships. It makes sense that we follow four steps to making them great:
1) Curiosity - Everybody is curious about the people they meet. The more curious they are about you, the better. If you want to meet great people, be engaging.
2) Enlightenment - Once curiosity
How to Create a Morning Routine
How to Create a Morning Routine
Every successful person has a morning routine. The use it to ground themselves before the day gets in the way.
There are many morning routines you can follow, but you should make sure that -
1) Morning time is sacred. It is your first and only priority.
2) It should be purposeful. Your actions should support your needs.
3) Be consistent and ritualistic. Create peace.
What kind of routines work for most?
1) Wake up on your time.
2) Hydrate, eat well and move.
3) R
Things You Should Do Everyday For Success
Things You Should Do Everyday For Success
I have a question for you.
What is your ONE most important activity?
What is the ONE core activity that, if you do, everything else is fine?
What is the ONE core activity that, if you don’t do, causes everything to fall apart?
Many people focus on anything but the most critical activity in their life. They are usually surprised when things fall apart.
Is it showing up for work on time or doing a great job at work?
Could it be your unflinching attention
How to get Unstuck and Find New Opportunity
How to get Unstuck and Find New Opportunity
Do you sometimes feel stuck and overwhelmed? Feeling as if there is nothing you can do?
It happens to everybody. You are not alone. However, people who break free understand three things:
1) Everything in life is temporary. Good or bad, nothing last forever.
2) No matter how stuck you feel, there is always more opportunity. More than one person could ever take advantage of in a lifetime.
3) Even though you don’t feel it, successful people start shaking
How To Be a Good Leader - It's Simple
How To Be a Good Leader - It's Simple
Is your hair on fire for success?
There's a phrase that sums up what it takes to get whatever you seek.
"The faster the leader's speed, the faster the pack's speed."
It's a simple truth; success likes speed. It's very sexy and desirable to others.
Knowing your goals and taking massive imperfect action always speed up success.
Why?
People get caught up in the belief their leaders cast. When you crank up your energy and urgency, others feel your passion
What To Do If You're In A Rut - Nothing?
What To Do If You're In A Rut - Nothing?
I live by a mantra that says -
"Almost everything in day-to-day life should be routine. Consistent. Predictable. Between the lines. Boring. But, occasionally, it's good to get out of the box, a little on edge, a bit scared, and excited."
The truth is, you need both. There is also another truth.
Most things that make you happy and successful are pretty mundane — taking care of your home, paying bills on time, spending time with family. Consistent routines
How to Influence Yourself
How to Influence Yourself
Did you know that the power of Influence is ruling your day?
Your subconscious mind is listing. Opinions are formed. Actions begin. It usually happens without your awareness.
The dictionary definition of Influence is; the capacity or power of persons or things to be a compelling force on or produce effects on the actions, behavior, opinions, etc.
The degree of success you have in life results from who influences you. How you influence others. The Influence you have on y
How to be Happy and Excited Every Day
How to be Happy and Excited Every Day
I love how kids live in the moment while also getting excited about the next fun thing. Maybe it’s time we all begin acting like kids again.
Since you were young, special events excited you enough that sheer anticipation would drive you all day and keep you up at night. Would you like that back in your life?
The trick to harnessing the power of anticipation is to keep a steady stream of exciting moments in your future. I call this the Anticipation Engine.
Are Your Goals YOUR Goals?
Are Your Goals YOUR Goals?
Are you feeling excited to be alive today? It might be an excellent opportunity to become an intentional goal setter.
Goals are the heartbeat of your life.
You will always enjoy pursuing goals that align with the most significant Values. They are tangible expressions of your Values. There's nothing more satisfying.
Goals are also automatic. Others will set them for you if you don't set them for yourself.
If you're not enjoying your life, you haven't set meaningful goa
Three Big Success Principles
Three Big Success Principles
Where do you begin when you want success?
What's your first step?
Over 2000 years ago, the philosophy of Stoicism led the way in creating success.
Their lessons still apply today:
1) Clarity. You must see where you are heading. Anything less, and you will spend more time figuring things out than moving forward.
2) Clear The Clutter. Once you know where you are heading, you'll need to make space. Finish old projects, pay off debt, and organize the garage. Adding m
Friends Holding You Back
Friends Holding You Back
The success and happiness that you have in your life is a direct result of something your Mom was always asking -
Who are your friends?
If they are positive, you will be positive. Are they negative? You will be negative. If they have money, you will have money. Are they broke?
You get my point.
Your life will become exactly like the people that are closest to you. Choose wisely.
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Turning Obstacles Into Opportunity
Turning Obstacles Into Opportunity
Have you ever wondered how much easier things would be if you didn’t have to think so much?
What if the future or your past didn’t matter?
Imagine if you didn’t worry about the possessions, success, or drama of others.
What would happen if you believed that YOU were in control?
Now you are starting to think like a Stoic Philosopher.
Stoicism is about paring down and simplifying. They eliminate unproductive traits that define the majority of the population. One
Get Things Done (GTD)
Get Things Done (GTD)
I’m a fan of David Allen’s Getting Things Done. His book spawned an entire industry. It also causes a lot of stress.
A few years ago, David was speaking at a conference, and folks asked how he managed to get things done:
1) Nothing gets done until I process everything. No cheating.
2) I process everything into a single “trusted” place when I have time. Some folks use a journal. Others use software or an app.
3) I review my potential work weekly and decide if I still need
Specific, Time-based, Goals
Specific, Time-based, Goals
It’s the time of the year when people want more success in their life and start setting goals. Frankly, it doesn’t matter if you achieve your goal. The mere act of setting a goal will drive you closer to what you want - but you need to be careful:
1) Goals should be painfully specific. I say “painfully” because most people find difficulty in choosing a particular outcome. They don’t want to limit their options. But isn’t that why you set goals?
2) Goals should be outc
Year-End Success Hacks (Part Two)
Year-End Success Hacks (Part Two)
Yesterday we spent a few minutes on practical ways to succeed in the future.
Here are a few actions that will provide a HUGE advantage over almost everybody.
Oh, you may not like these no-brainer daily practices - but they will make you a peak performer:
1) Eat right. 67% of the population eats fast food daily. 60% are obese. Simply eating a better diet will deliver an energetic and mindset boost.
2) Exercise. 77% of the population does not exercise beyond dail
Year-End Success Hacks (Part One)
Year-End Success Hacks (Part One)
As we move toward the end of the year, how about a bit of motivational tough love?
Before I get going -
No matter what you desire in the future, remember that life and business are about solving problems. The bigger your dreams, the bigger your problems. If you want what nobody else has, you need to solve problems nobody else will.
So, how do you begin with a bang?
1) Decide what you want in the future. Be specific. Anything less is what ordinary people do.
2)
Success at The Highest Level
Success at The Highest Level
No matter your life goals, there is a good chance you are striving to be the best at something.
Whether it’s the best Mom or Dad, excelling in your career, or winning at the game or sport of your choice. Being the best always comes down to:
1) Do what you love and are good at naturally. You’ll have the edge over others. Stay in your wheelhouse.
2) Commit your focus toward mastery. Being a Jack-of-all-trades won’t work. Specialists always win over generalists.
3) Spen
Do Anything for 30 Days
Do Anything for 30 Days
Call me crazy, but everything I've ever done had its roots in a 30-day sprint - and it's a long time.
A week is easy, crossing several weekends and life events will make it seem like forever.
Here’s how you do it:
1) Set what Napoleon Hill calls a Major Definite Purpose, otherwise known as a big-ass goal.
2) Stop that silly negative self-talk. Others may throw sticks and stones; don't throw them at yourself.
3) Start thinking of all the reasons you CAN be successful.
Another Day Another Chance
Another Day Another Chance
Is it me, or does living life these days make you feel like Bill Murray in the movie Groundhog Day?
When it comes to working toward goals, that can be a tremendous asset. It's also something that will break you free when things don't feel like they are going your way.
Everybody has ups and downs. Up days are lots of fun. Down days make you want to crawl under a rock. But like the movie, with the right mindset, you always get another chance to try again.
How would you
Operation Reinvention Without a Plan
Operation Reinvention Without a Plan
Last year I made a decision that changed everything about my life.
And no, when I began "Operation Reinvention," I didn't have much of a plan. I wouldn't say I was winging it, but sometimes you have no idea what kind of plan you need. What I did have was a mindset.
I wondered -
"What single change can I make - a change that would automatically and positivity disrupt everything in my life and put me in a better place?"
I followed that with…
"I don't know wha
Courage to Be Yourself
Courage to Be Yourself
It's incredible how many people say they want to be their authentic selves yet are waiting for permission to begin.
Here's the truth:
1) You are already yourself. If you want something different - do it.
2) Nobody is going to give you permission. They are too busy waiting for it themselves.
3) Everything changes the minute you take your first step.
I want to save you lots of time and frustration.
YES. You have permission to be yourself.
Let me know if you need me to wr
Courage to Be Yourself
Courage to Be Yourself
It's incredible how many people say they want to be their authentic selves yet are waiting for permission to begin.
Here's the truth:
1) You are already yourself. If you want something different - do it.
2) Nobody is going to give you permission. They are too busy waiting for it themselves.
3) Everything changes the minute you take your first step.
I want to save you lots of time and frustration.
YES. You have permission to be yourself.
Let me know if you need me to wr
Instant Better Communication
Instant Better Communication
What if three words could allow you to communicate better and reach your goals faster?
Here’s how to stay on track no matter who wants to pull you off course:
1) When others ask to help them reach their goals, it’s time to agree and defer. For example, say, “Yes, I can help, AND let’s talk about it later when I finish what I’m doing. Watch how folks leave you alone.
2) Inserting the word ‘Yet’ into any conversation will allow you to stay positive and keep your momen
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Learn. Churn. Burn. Earn.
Learn. Churn. Burn. Earn.
I was chatting with a friend about his business a few years ago. He owned a struggling martial arts school and was crafting a master plan to grow in the coming year.
Based on my that every worthy goal requires learning, churning, burning, and earning - I had four questions:
1) How long do you think it will take to LEARN what it takes to succeed?
2) How long are you CHURN away while you work to reach your goal?
3) Do you have resources to BURN? How long will your money
Success People Know This
Success People Know This
Mark Cuban is a pretty successful guy with some good advice:
“Work like someone is working 24 hours a day to take it away from you.
“It’s not the dreaming; it’s the doing. If you spend your time dreaming, you will never grant yourself the opportunity to see what you are capable of accomplishing.”
“It doesn’t matter if the glass is half-empty or half-full. All that matters is that you are the one pouring the water.”
“Wherever I see people doing something the way it’s alw
Focus on What’s Important. Ignore The Rest.
Focus on What’s Important. Ignore The Rest.
Are you the kind of person always running around putting out fires - fires you set? I think it is time that we take away your matches and lighter fluid.
For the remainder of the year, keep these tips in mind:
1) If your life is non-stop drama, stress, and craziness, there is a good chance that YOU are the cause. There is also a good chance you won’t see it that way.
2) Living with your hair on fire will keep you so busy you will spend years wondering w
Proven Success Mindset
Proven Success Mindset
Have you ever wondered how the most successful people in the world get that way?
Could it be their timing is right?
Do they "know" somebody?
Luck? That's it. They get lucky!
Maybe, but I think there is more to it.
Every person I've ever known who achieved remarkable success did three things:
1) They recognized what they wanted and envisioned themselves living that life.
2) At some point, they commit and go all in. Their dream IS going to happen. There is no "Plan B."
3)
Live Your Passion Starting Now
Live Your Passion Starting Now
Are you aware of your passion?
If not, I have a question for you -
What do you do when you are doing YOU?
Why spend your days searching your mind to figure out your purpose when you are most likely living it daily?
When you take a minute to inventory how you spend your time, you will see what you enjoy doing.
Do you read, write, exercise, or work?
How about walking, talking, playing, fighting, laughing, or watching television?
Do you quilt, garden, volunteer
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Focusing on Positive Self-Talk
Focusing on Positive Self-Talk
I've been listening to clients tell me the story of their life. I can't help but wonder why they keep beating around the bush.
In journalistic terms, these folks are burying the lead. Instead of getting to the point, they begin with secondary details.
How does this relate to improving your life?
Many say, "I can't focus on anything." No. You are focusing on the wrong things.
Sometimes I hear, "I can't get myself get moving." Truth? You are moving - in the wrong dir
Somebody Needs You
Somebody Needs You
When I was a teenager, I was a weekend moviegoer, and it was the age of Rocky, Star Wars, and Jaws. Besides, with only three channels on television, getting out of the house was the top item on my to-do list.
As a kid with big dreams, it was easy for me to slip into the fantasy world of films and let my mind run for a couple of hours. By the end of the film, I was always excited to get on with life and become like the folks I watched in movies.
That’s when life got in the way
Why You Should Skake Up Your Good Life
Why You Should Skake Up Your Good Life
Growth and change are what most people strive for in their life. It’s what drives you before you create your amazing life. It’s also what drives you to step up to the next level.
In the last 16 years, I’ve spent producing the Daily Boost podcast, I’ve had the chance to speak to thousands of people. All of them were in various stages of change, and most had the goal of being happy.
But, there is an issue that keeps popping up.
As people go about living and
Success Lessons From a Dog
Success Lessons From a Dog
We all live in a competitive world that makes getting what we want a challenge. If you've ever found yourself missing out because somebody else beats you to the punch, there may be a simple reason.
I've always been a competitive person. Once I set my mind to accomplishing a goal, I will always do whatever is required to win. Still, I've often tripped on my way to winning by others who wanted the same thing but had a different approach.
When I decided to enter the world
Change When You Wear Yourself Out
Change When You Wear Yourself Out
Many have said, "Life is a marathon, not a sprint."
But what happens when you find yourself doing both at the same time?
If you've been living on this planet for any length of time, you've figured out life is a long game made of day-to-day sprints.
If you want a big bank balance, you make small deposits over time.
If you want to lose weight, you make small reductions over time.
If you want to get a promotion at your job, you do well every day.
The challenge
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Make Your Life Feel Longer
Make Your Life Feel Longer
I want to live forever! Well, that’s what I used to say when I was a kid. As I passed a few birthdays and dealt with life’s challenges, I started thinking differently with a realization —
My life, all of our lives are spent learning and figuring things out. While it can be tiring, it’s also what pours energy and meaning into our days. As we age, our knowledge deepens, our day-to-day get less attractive, and we lose our youthful drive. But Scott doesn’t do that. I’m way
Why a Boring Life is a Great Life
Why a Boring Life is a Great Life
I live by a mantra that says -
“Almost everything in my day-to-day life should be routine. Consistent. Predictable. Between the lines. Boring. But, occasionally, it’s good to get out of the box, a little on edge, a bit scared, and a lot excited.”
The truth is, you need both. There is also another truth.
Most things that make you happy and successful are pretty mundane.
Improving and enjoying your home…
Paying bills, investing, and saving…
Spending time with fami
Is Your Real Purpose Waiting For You?
Is Your Real Purpose is Waiting For You?
There's an idea floating within your mind. Soon it will demand your attention.
Is this all there is?
Am I destined for something bigger?
Your real purpose will arrive in your life when you:
1) Accept WHO you are and have always been. You are beautiful just the way you are.
2) Accept WHAT you do when you are doing you. Life is far more enjoyable when you spend most of your time in your comfort zone - and step out occasionally.
3) Accept WHEN when you wan
Prioritize Yourself First
Prioritize Yourself First
'If you spend any time listening to me at all, it won’t take long before you hear me screaming from the tops of the mountains to ignore the agenda and propaganda-filled world we live in and focus on yourself.
Here’s the truth...
Nobody is thinking about you and what you do. That means that you need to pay attention to yourself because nobody else will.
Some folks find that way of thinking difficult because society would make you believe that you must do what everybody
Who is Influencing You?
Who is Influencing You?
Did you know that the power of Influence is ruling your day?
Your subconscious mind is listing. Opinions are formed. Actions begin. It usually happens without your awareness.
The dictionary definition of Influence is; the capacity or power of persons or things to be a compelling force on or produce effects on the actions, behavior, opinions, etc..
The degree of success you have in life results from who influences you. How you influence others. The Influence you have on y
Keep What You Have and Get What You Want
Keep What You Have and Get What You Want
If you’re going to drive across a bridge, it’s best if there is a solid foundation on both sides.
The same happens when you cross a metaphorical bridge to the next chapter in your life. Having a solid foundation on both sides is the goal.
But what happens when you get stuck in your foundation before you cross?
It’s common for folks to build such a solid foundation in their current life that it becomes difficult to move forward. If you’re happy, the bi
What Life Used to Be Like
What Life Used to Be Like
Can you remember when you filled your thoughts with dreams and ambitions?
That’s how most of us live our early lives - until the real world splits into two distinct periods:
1) BEFORE life gets in the way. Anything IS possible. It’s a beautiful time when you run as fast as you can toward your goals. Even if your parents disagree.
2) AFTER life gets in the way. Anything WAS possible. Life is good, but it’s not what you expected. Your parents would have said, “I told yo
Clutter-Free Living
Clutter-Free Living
Now that 2022 is well underway, it's time to get busy making room for all the success you will have this year.
The simple fact is that you will never have time to get ahead when you live a chaotic life: work clutter, home clutter, and emotional clutter. Something will always get in the way.
Here's how you can get control:
1) Schedule a time and begin tossing out the old. It may take months. Don't stop until it's gone. I promise you will know when that day arrives.
2) Fight t
More Productive One Week at a Time
More Productive One Week at a Time
What if you could maintain never-ending momentum while you work toward your goals? No matter how long it took?
The 'MTM Rolling 7' is the solution you need to get the life you've always said you wanted.
It works like this:
1) Set your short-term and long-term goals.
2) Decide what past achievements you enjoy and that you want to defend. Many current successes must be maintained while you pursue your new adventures.
3) Decide what future goals you are ready
Getting What You Desire
Getting What You Desire
Not a day passes by without someone asking, "How do I get another person to help me get what I want?"
Persuading others is one of the keys to getting what you want in life - and here's a big secret; it's NOT about you!
You'll get what you want faster by focusing on how you can help others solve their problem - and "Ladder of Desire."
This is how it works:
1) Most folks lecture others. That's a low level of communication and rarely builds a real connection.
2) A more pract
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Faster Goal Achievement
Faster Goal Achievement
I need to pass along a way to achieve your goals faster than you thought possible.
If you are ready for success to arrive, here are three simple rules to help you realize your dreams:
1) Play to your strength. Do what is comfortable for you.
2) Only commit to activities that will lead you to your goal.
3) Never let a day pass without reminding yourself of your strengths. Consciously direct your focus.
You can reach your goals faster when you avoid distractions stranding e
Replace Your To-Do List
Replace Your To-Do List
I'm sure you have a lot to do. If you use a To-Do list, I'd like to pass on advice that will make your days much more fun.
LOSE your "To-Do List." Replace it with a" Did I Do It List."
To-Do Lists make you a slave to the checkmark. They cause more stress the longer they get.
A" Did I Do It List" assumes you know what must be done. Instead of chasing, you are checking to make sure you did it.
An un-focused path produces additional tasks to fill your day. A "Did I Do
Too Many Choices Paralysis
Too Many Choices Paralysis
Do you have too many choices in your life? Is it confusing and making you feel distressed?
In 2005, Barry Schwartz wrote Paradox of Choice and challenged traditional thinking. He said the way to maximum freedom in your life was to minimize choice.
Too many choices are not a good thing and can create paralysis. Not to mention, no matter what you choose, you'll always wonder if you could have done better.
Distractions are your enemy, and focus is your friend: Here's ho
4-Step Success System
4-Step Success System
Wouldn’t it be great to have a plan to help you get what you want?
What you need is M.A.P.S. - a system that gets thinking out of the way and focuses on actions in four areas:
Motivation - Everything begins with motivation and knowing ‘WHY’ you set your goals. Stay motivated.
Accountability: Being accountable and accepting responsibility for your results will empower your success. Saying, ‘If it’s to be, it’s up to me’ is a great way to get started.
Planning: Plan your wo
Taming Your Crazy Life
Taming Your Crazy Life
Are you finding yourself distracted and unfocused?
If you look around, there is an epidemic of craziness. It's so bad even the squirrels have started chasing shiny objects.
Imagine if they had a Facebook account like you?
If you're ready to stop the insanity, remember this:
1) Getting caught up… in the caught up… will catch up with you when you least expect it. Can you feel it coming?
2) While it doesn't feel like it, the pre-crazy world you miss still exists. Nothing ha
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How to Be Your Own Cheerleader
How to Be Your Own Cheerleader
Do you remember what it was like to be in 1st grade?
It was a time when everybody lavished you with encouragement for being YOU - and because you finished your art project without eating the glue.
Those were beautiful times. But you may have noticed things have changed since you were okay to take a nap in the middle of class. You grew up.
Yes, growing into an adult brings many mentors your way. They do their best to motivate and inspire you. But you know in your he
Focus and Inspiration Without Resistance
Focus and Inspiration Without Resistance
Does this happen to you?
A great idea pops into your head. Your heart fills with excitement. Nothing can stop you - except that you feel stuck in quicksand. The more you fight, the deeper you sink. It seems that the only way out is to give up on your dream - again.
Let’s not do that this time.
Feeling inspired to make a change in your life is terrific. It can also be scary. Think of it as survival.
Your mind is wired to survive. That means avoiding anythi
Stress-Free Weekly Productivity
Stress-Free Weekly Productivity
I have a saying -
“Next year begins THIS year. Next month begins THIS month. Next week begins THIS week.”
If you want to stay on track, accomplish your goals, and enjoy life more - you MUST take control of your calendar. It’s easier than you think:
1) Life will come at you FAST! Be sure to schedule any significant and can’t miss life events at least one year in advance. Put it on the calendar and block it out. You can always change your mind.
2) Hold your space. D
The Best Kind of Relationship
The Best Kind of Relationship
The quality of your life is a direct result of your relationships. Tony Robbins said that.
There are three ways to play the relationship game, whether it's a personal, professional, or business relationship. There is only one way to win.
1) All relationships begin with two independent individuals. If you remain independent, you will never connect.
2) Some relationships become co-dependent. Developing this kind of relationship means losing individuality. Isn't that
Being a Good Quitter
Being a Good Quitter
Has anybody ever said to you, "it's good to be a quitter?”
Probably Not. That’s why it’s so important today that you pay attention today.
Being a good quitter isn’t an excuse. It should never be an option for making things easier. Instead, quitting is a wise choice. You choose to quit when your progress has you going around in circles or has stopped.
That's when things get interesting.
Once you are committed to an idea that is important to you, it can be difficult to allow y
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Simple Question For Success
Simple Question For Success
It's the world's simplest recipe for success; Stand up, take a step, REPEAT!
A member wrote asking how to best use such simple advice:
1) Stop whatever you are doing. Find a place where nobody will interrupt you for at least 5-minutes.
2) Focus on YOU.
3) Ask, "How is my life going?" Open your mind and let your thoughts flow to the different roles of your life. Bring them into focus.
4) For areas going well, continue your momentum. For areas of concern, ask," What C
How To Multiply Your Time
How To Multiply Your Time
Wouldn’t it be great if you could create more time in your day without giving anything up?
The secret is how you prioritize the projects already on your plate. That requires a simple understanding:
1) Working on multiple products simultaneously only delays completing all the projects.
2) When you complete a product, not only is it off your plate, it begins producing your expecting results. It also frees up time to move on to your next project.
The next time that you a
How to Live Joyfully No Matter What
How to Live Joyfully No Matter What
Would you like to be happy every day of the week? Maybe it's time to start thinking like a happy person?
There's no magic to being happier.
Rose-colored glasses are not required.
Just start looking at your day-to-day life the way a happy person does.
Give this a try:
1) Accept that merely being alive means you will run into occasional challenges.
2) Realize that dealing with challenges is a privilege that comes with being alive.
3) Welcome frustration. That me
Common Characteristics of Highly Successful People
Common Characteristics of Highly Successful People
Do you wish you could find a mentor to help you along the way?
Every mentor I’ve ever had has made a point of validating that I possessed three characteristics for success.
Would you pass their test?
1) Do you have a burning desire to achieve your goal?
2) Are you a coachable person and prepared to accept the wisdom and guidance of others?
3) Are you willing to undertake all actions to achieve your success?
Wouldn’t you want this in someone th
Practice Makes Greatness
Practice Makes Greatness
It’s been said that Practice makes perfect.
That might be true if you were able to practice perfectly. If that were the case, why would you need to practice?
Practice does not make perfect. Practice makes permanent.
Practice bad thinking, and you will get all the bad thoughts you could ever want.
Practice makes permanent.
Practice bad manners and are sure to get better at being rude.
Practice makes permanent.
Practice bad relationship skills, and you are guaranteed to
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Life Altering Questions
Life Altering Questions
A long time ago, it occurred to me that life is nothing more than a giant scavenger hunt. Yes, life is full of questions, and it’s long enough for you to figure out all the essential answers. And the winners are the people who figure out the solution for what you are seeking.
Here are a few that I use on a regular basis to get me thinking:
1) What do you want to do?
2) What do you want to have?
3) Where do you want to go?
4) What contribution do you want to make?
5) What
My Friends are Jealous of My Success
It doesn’t matter what you do. You will know when you have succeeded when the lovers and the haters all come out to play at the same time. Focus on the lovers.
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My Friends are Jealous of My Success
Have you ever had a crazy day that has you putting out fires and wondering when it will be time to go home?
And, did I mention, you were doing what you love and want to be doing - successfully?
Why is it that life gets crazier when things go well?
There’s a simple answer.
No matter what you do, when
Knowing Who I Am
Superman lives for Truth, Justice, and the American Way. You’re pretty super too! What's driving you?
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Do You Have a ‘Who I Am’ Statement?
Do you have a roadmap for who you are and how you operate in the world?
You need a ‘Who I am’ document.
Who I am - is not a mission statement.
Who I am - is not a list of affirmations.
Who I am - is not a value statement
Who I am is a personal cheat sheet that reminds you why you do what you do.
How do you see yourself?
How do others see you?
How do you ac
Taking Action in Your Life Easily
Get what you want by using CALLS to action: Clarity. Accurate Thinking. Leverage. Systemization. Life is about to get much more relaxed.
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Taking Action in Your Life Easily
There is a simple formula that you can apply to get what you want, enjoy the process, and ensure that it will last for a lifetime.
1) Get clarity. You must clearly define what you want. When you don’t know what path you are heading, you will drift with frustration.
2) Accurate Thinking. Assume that you are not getting the c
The Secret to Setting The Right Goals
Success comes to people who set goals. Be one of those people.
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The Secret to Setting The Right Goals
Since we're in the middle of the year and vacations will end soon, it's time for a Goal-Setting refresher to be ready to go when you are done playing.
Here's how you can set and accomplish any goal:
1) State precisely WHAT you want.
2) State WHY you want it.
3) Imagine how you will feel when you reach your goal.
4) Plan the initial steps you will take.
5) Launch into massive imperfect action.
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Courage to Face Your Passion
Success arrives when you move from a solid TODAY to a stronger TOMORROW. Don't leap too soon, but don't delay either.
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Courage to Face Your Passion
Changing something about your life is pretty straightforward.
Figure out what you want and change it.
Are you done laughing?
Most folks fall on the way to their dreams because they don't move, move at the wrong time, or move too fast. That's why it's time to build your bridge once you know what you want.
Here's how:
1) Fortify your current foundat
How to Improve Your Communication Skills Today
You will always get more of what you want when your communication moves toward a common goal.
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How to Improve Your Communication Skills Today
Today you are going to have opportunities to communicate.
Here’s how to create conversations that connect:
1) Meet folks where they are. Please pay attention to how their day is going. Step into their NOW.
2) Establishing something in common. “Wow! Has this day been crazy for you too?”
3) Establish an undeniable truth. “I promise it’s going to get crazi
One Question When You Are Stuck
Are you feeling stuck? Ask yourself, WHAT CAN I DO? The honest answer will pop into your head. Then - stand up, take a step, REPEAT!
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One Question When You Are Stuck
I have a favorite question;" What Can I Do?"
I ask it when I'm unsure about the following action. It always delivers.
Getting what you want in life sometimes includes random and vague goal setting - something that is not likely to help you make progress. What you need is to be targeted and specific.
But what do you do when targe
Another Chance to Succeed
Another Chance to Succeed
Is it me, or does living life these days make you feel like Bill Murray in the movie Groundhog Day?
When it comes to working toward goals, that can be a tremendous asset. It's also something that will break you free when things don't feel like they are going your way.
Everybody has ups and downs. Up days are lots of fun. Down days make you want to crawl under a rock. But like the movie, with the right mindset, you always get another chance to try again.
How would you f
You Don't Find Happiness. You Create It.
Every characteristic of life is essential. When you balance them into synchronicity, your Happiness rises, and you become the person you were meant to be.
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You Don't Find Happiness. You Create It.
If you've struggled to stay on track every day, your happiness creation skill is out of balance.
Before I go on, let me say that happiness creation is more than a slogan; it is not automatically activated upon birth.
Rising into your Happiness is a personal choice. It is a decision followed by disc
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How to Become a Thought Leader
The view from the top is always beautiful - even if your legs hurt getting there. It’s also less crowded; start. Be different. Start climbing now!
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How to Become a Thought Leader
Have you ever received an email that scrambled your brain, made you scratch your head, and got you thinking more than most days - about thinking.
I had been working with a client to fine-tune her leadership skills. Things were going well, others noticed, and people outside of her immediate circle were beginning to rea
Steps for Success in Life
The view from the top is always beautiful - even if your legs hurt getting there. It’s also less crowded; start. Be different. Start climbing now!
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Steps for Success in Life
I remember standing in a parking lot in the Great Smokey Mountains surrounded by tourists and the smell of hot engines. We were about to hike to the Clingmans’ Dome observation tower - 6,644 feet above sea level.
There is a sign at the beginning of the trail that warns hikers that the hike is considered strenuous, the ave
How to Stay Motivated All The Time
Focus fuels your fire. That's why that call it being FIRED UP! I like you when you're FIRED UP!
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How to Stay Motivated All The Time
I wondered why I couldn't always have my way as a child. Mom and Dad were so mean! I couldn't wait to grow up, move out, and experience being an adult. Everything would be different - or so I thought.
After stepping into the adult world, it didn't take long to realize that not much had changed. It turns out it wasn't my parents. It was a life turning down my reque
How to Get Your Brain to Focus
Minor stuff is going to get done. If not, it probably doesn’t matter. Big stuff does matter. Imagine the impact you will have when you focus on big?
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How to Get Your Brain to Focus
The older I get, the more I realize I’m fiddling with small things that drive me crazy but keep me busy. And I do it with the full knowledge it’s not the best use of my time, below my pay grade, and distracting from big stuff I should be doing.
Over the years, I’ve noticed almost everybody I know does the same thin
Productive Morning Routine
If you make your primary focus the first do you do in the morning, the rest of the day is more fun. You do like having fun - right?
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Productive Morning Routine
I love the quiet peacefulness of mornings, but I'm not too fond that mornings happen so early.
Still, the focus, creativity, and feeling of momentum that comes with getting up before the chickens have such value that I needed to make getting up a bit easier. My solution is to drop the complicated and establish a simple routine.
I begin
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Stop Trying to Be Perfect
Once you've accomplished your goal, stop messing around and move on. The more you poke around, the better your chance of doing more harm than good.
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Stop Trying to Be Perfect
How much is good enough?
I received an email from an MTMer who changed careers to become a Surgical Assistant. He did it at an age when most folks start thinking about retirement.
Mike shared a useful saying he's heard many times in the operating room.
He said," The evil of good enough is better."
Once you've accomplished
The Secret to Setting The Right Goals
Are today's opportunities moving you closer to your goal - or further away?
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The Secret to Setting The Right Goals
Some goals happen quickly. Others take longer. A lot longer.
How can you keep your goals alive while you make them a reality?
1) Stop falling for someone else's goals. Everybody has something they want to achieve. It's not bad. It could be helpful. In any case, it is a distraction. Know what you want and why you want it.
2) Once you listen to yourself, be sure to commit to your pl
Easy Good Habits
Life is much simpler when you keep it simple. A wise person would spend time on the fewest number of actions that provide the most significant results.
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Easy Good Habits
Motivating yourself to reach your goals is a never-ending process that kicks into high gear several times a year. Most folks have a list of new routines and habits they want to put into place - but it may be too long.
Many years ago, I decided to control my mornings by establishing actions I would take upon waking. While I h
How to Be More Creative at Work
Collect. Compile. Create. You'll never sit in front of a blank screen again.
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How to Be More Creative at Work
Over the years, I have personally produced over 10,000 podcasts, and of them begin with the written word. Even though that makes my mouth and fingers my most exercised body parts, it has also given me many opportunities to learn to keep my words flowing.
Like most people, you may have found yourself sitting in front of a blank screen, praying for inspiration. It could be writer's block
Universal messages. Hear Them Now.
Listen to the messages that are floating around in your mind. They are trying to get your attention.
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Universal messages. Hear Them Now.
I’m not sure how you feel about the Universe and how things work in the world, but does the Universe speak to you?
I can’t tell you if the ‘Universe’ stands alone or if ‘God’ created the ‘Universe’ and runs the show. That’s above my pay grade.
What I can say is this.
We live and breathe every day in a world that is ganging up on us and trying to get our att
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Does Your Life Have a Happy Ending
If the book you would write about yourself isn’t who you are, you can start making changes today. That’s how you get a happy ending.
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Does Your Life Have a Happy Ending
If you could write a book about the person you have become today, would it have a happy ending?
A good portion of my day is interacting with clients around the world. They are usually upbeat, open to problem-solving, and seeking my advice to help them. Or, as they would say, “help me get out of my way and get my act together. T
Stop Living Somebody Else's Dreams
If the book you would write about yourself isn’t who you are, you can start making changes today. That’s how you get a happy ending.
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Stop Living Somebody Else's Dreams
All I have ever wanted to do is have fun, impact people in a mostly positive way, make them laugh, have a great family and friends, make some money, and not take life too seriously.
Simple enough.
But in the over-complicated and widely distracting monkey-see-monkey-do world we live in, it's easy to get what you want and stil
Levels of Competence
You will become who you were meant to be when you learn how to get there, do the work, and recognize your achievement.
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Levels of Competence
When I was young, stupid, and wondering when I would understand life, I often turned to my friend, Larry, for a road map. He always seemed to have what I needed - until the day he passed the torch. He knew I needed more. That’s when he introduced me to Zig Ziglar’s States of Competence:
1) Stage One is where we begin. We are “Unconscious Incompetent.” We
Understanding and Eliminating Frustration
Removing blocks takes nothing more than commitment and action. That’s called passion. Nothing can stand in the way of your passion.
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Understanding and Eliminating Frustration
When life gets in the way, do you get frustrated about being blocked?
I learned a long time ago that getting blocked is an everyday occurrence. The bigger my goals, the more blocks would arrive. I could either live with endless frustrations or find a better way. It came down to understanding:
1) Blocks have nothing to d
What Successful People Do
The actions you take automatically become the life you experience. It's essential to be mindful of where you are heading.
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What Successful People Do
If you study people who have had success in any area of their life, you will find they have much in common.
Not only do they follow a set of rules, but they also follow those rules no matter how much life gets in the way.
What are those rules?
The person who has the strongest "Why" wins.
The person who shows up wins.
The person who shows up on t
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Live a Simple Life Even if Your is Complicated
What's the ONE Thing you can do such that by doing it, everything else will be easier or unnecessary?
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Live a Simple Life Even if Your is Complicated
Way back in 2005, when Motivation To Move began, I found myself focused on creating the world's simplest success recipe when I said, "Stand up. Take a step. REPEAT!" My way of thinking told me that everything else would take care of itself if that's all I did. It has proven me correct again and again.
But, say that you get yourself moving and are
Never Let a Good Crisis Go to Waste
Anything can and will change in an instant. Knowing that grants you immense power over your destiny - especially if it's self-inflicted with you in control.
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Never Let a Good Crisis Go to Waste
A few years ago, the world changed when we were introduced to CorinaVirus. It was as if we were racing down the Interstate at 85 miles-per-hour, slammed on our breaks, and directed off the nearest exit on an undefined detour. It all seemed to happen in an instant.
The pandemic caused real pain and loss
Getting What You Want
You can do whatever you want with your life; you don't need anybody's permission or approval to make it happen. Your destiny is 100% up to you.
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Getting What You Want
In the last few years, people have become increasingly popular for sharing every little aspect of their lives with others. But, when it comes to getting what you want in life, keeping your plans to yourself is a powerful tool.
Memorial Day has just passed, and when I arrived at my desk on Tuesday, I had two client messages that m
How to Increase Momentum in Your Life
Everything good begins with YOU. There's no need to wait for others. Create your momentum, and others won't be able to stay away.
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Have you ever found yourself stalled?
I had big plans a few years ago, and nothing was moving forward. Other people didn't seem to get the memo that I was on a mission when I said nothing.
We've all been in situations where nobody will return your call. Your email gets ghosted. You can't seem to get support or commitment for your future, world-saving plans.
That's
Increase Work Productivity
"What’s your ONE most important activity for today? Brian Tracy says, “Eat the BIG frog first!” Yummy!"
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Increase Work Productivity
I have a question for you.
What is your ONE most important activity?
What is the ONE core activity that makes everything else okay?
What is the ONE core activity that, if you don’t do, causes everything to fall apart?
In Brian Tracy’s book Eat The Big Frog First, he recognized that many people focus on anything but the most critical activity in their life. They
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Jealous of Friends Success
Have you ever had a crazy day that has you putting out fires and wondering when it will be time to go home?
And, did I mention, you were doing what you love and want to be doing - successfully?
Why is it that life gets crazier when things go well?
There’s a simple answer.
No matter what you do, when enough people begin paying attention to you, your life will change.
Some folks will love you. Some will hate you.
Others won’t have an opinion but will say something anyway.
Many will be jealous.
Better Communication Skills
Unless you live in a cave, effective communication is something you need to master to get what you want in life.
Have you ever been in a conversation and felt you were not being heard?
It's time to step around to their side of the table and see things from their point of view.
Everybody has a different way of hearing and processing conversation. If you consider altering your style to match how THEY communicate, you will arrive on the same page.
Some people consider this to be giving up control.
How to Be a More Positive and Happy
Did you know that happy people are regular people that look at the world differently?
They don't wear rose-colored glasses either. They have a better way:
1) They realize that if you are alive, you will have problems.
2) They accept that dealing with problems is a privilege of being alive.
3) They don't get frustrated. They know problems mean you are shaking up life and living.
4) Happy people accept responsibility for solving problems. They never run from them.
5) A good day for a happy person
Absolute Focus
My wife and I were having dinner this weekend. She finally asked, “Are you going to tell me about what you’re doing for the summer? I want to help.”
I said, “I won’t need your help. I need your support.”
She had a puzzled look. I don’t blame her. But, I am locked in on my goal - and that needs two things:
1) The ability to filter out what doesn’t matter and prioritize what does.
2) Accept 100% responsibility for reaching the goal. As they say, “If it’s to be, it’s up to me.” Anything less will r
How to Succeed at a Higher Level
No matter your goals in life, there is a good chance you are striving to be the best at something.
Whether it’s the best Mom or Dad, excelling in your career, or winning at the game or sport of your choice. Being the best always comes down to:
1) Do what you love and are good at naturally. You’ll have the edge over others. Stay in your wheelhouse.
2) Commit your focus toward mastery. Being a Jack-of-all-trades won’t work. Specialists always win over generalists.
3) Spend more time doing than lea
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Building Your Side Hustle
Every day I spend time on the phone with excited folks who know they are close to getting what they want. They can't figure out how to get their hands on it.
Let's start with:
1) Anything you want in this world is owned or controlled by somebody else.
2) If you want their help, you will have to get their attention.
It always comes down to three things. In this order:
1) What problem are they having? No, it may not relate to you. It doesn't matter. If you can help, you will get their attention.
Stopping Burnout
Steven Covey called it sharpening the saw. If you take a break to sharpen the blade, you will always cut more wood. The same applies to life.
My formula for stopping burnout is Ritual, Rest, Rejuvenate, Reactivate, Repeat
1) Success comes when you perform ritual actions every day. Figure out what works and do it.
2) Running full-out all the time is not sustainable. You must stop and rest.
3) Resting allows your body and mind to rejuvenate and become strong again.
4) When you are ready, it's time
Create a Perfect Day
What if every day was perfect for the rest of your life?
If you build it, they will come!
Your subconscious mind is a beautiful thing. You can engage its power to create your Average Perfect Day.
Here’s how:
1) Write down a clear, event-by-event vision of your perfect day. Yes, it’s a bit of a fantasy - for now.
2) There are no rules. No limitations. No consequences. Don’t be shy. Be honest about what you want.
3) Believe it can be yours. You deserve it. You must believe it is possible.
If y
Preparing For Greatness
With the craziness of life, are you having difficulty breaking through to the greatness that is YOU?
What does greatness take?
1) Imagination. Your ability to form images, ideas, and sensations in your mind. Without help from anything or anybody. Use yours. Trust yours.
2) Enthusiasm. Living life with the excitement of feeling is PASSION. Only involve yourself in activities that you are enthusiastic.
3) Persistence. Life is long. Things take time. Learn to love being doggedly persistent. It wil
How To Live Your Purpose
There's an incredible idea floating within your mind. It will soon demand your attention.
"Is this all there is? Am I destined for something bigger?"
You are.
Here's how to discover your path:
1) Accept WHO you are on the inside by reviewing your past choices. The good ones are a clue. Do more of them.
2) Accept WHAT you do when you are doing you. It's not a thing; it's a feeling.
3) Accept WHEN when you want to begin living. Now is a good time.
4) Accept WHERE you are in your life. You CAN get
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Getting Others to Give You a Chance
Not a day passes by without someone asking, "How do I get another person to help me get what I want?"
Persuading others is one of the keys to getting what you want in life - and here's a big secret; it's NOT about you!
You'll get what you want faster by focusing on how you can help others solve their problem - and "Ladder of Desire."
This is how it works:
1) Most folks lecture others. That's a low level of communication and rarely builds a real connection.
2) A more practical solution is showing
Reaching Your Goals Faster
I feel the need to pass along a way to achieve your goals faster than you thought possible.
If you are ready for success to arrive, here are three simple rules to help you realize your dreams:
1) Play to your strength. Do what is comfortable for you.
2) Only commit to activities that will lead you to your goal.
3) Never let a day pass without reminding yourself of your strengths. Consciously direct your focus.
You can reach your goals faster when you avoid the distractions that are stranding eve
Here's a Better To-Do List
I'm sure you have a lot to do. If you use a To-Do list, I'd like to pass on advice that will make your days much more fun.
LOSE your "To-Do List." Replace it with a" Did I Do It List."
To-Do Lists make you an employee of your checkmarks. They cause more stress the longer they get.
A "Did I Do It List" assumes you know what must be done. Instead of chasing, you are checking to make sure you did it.
An un-focused path produces additional tasks to fill your day. Using a "Did I Do It List" wil
Natural Law to Be Your Best
Personal growth is a journey. It can be a lot of work. It’s also more fun to follow the rules of ‘Natural Law.’
1) The Law of Vibration states that thoughts are things. They are one of the most potent forms of energy. Pay attention to your thoughts. What you think about, you bring about.
2) According to the Law of Polarity, nothing exists without an opposite. Love. Hate. Hot. Cold. Yin. Yang. Opposites are different forms of the same thing. Embrace them.
3) The Law of Rhythm states life is a pen
Why You Hold Back
I was sitting at the dining room table of a friend. We had been solving the problems of the world in an hours-long conversation when she asked,
"What are you talking about on tomorrow's podcast?"
When I told her that I hadn't thought about it yet, she said,
"Why don't you talk about why people don't take big chances and stay in their comfort zone for their entire life?"
My mind did an instant review of my life and all the areas I had stumbled on before getting out of my way. I also remembered c
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The Productivity Secret You Should Do
I have a saying -
“Next year begins THIS year. Next month begins THIS month. Next week begins THIS week.”
If you want to stay on track, accomplish your goals, and enjoy life more - you MUST take control of your calendar. It’s easier than you think:
1) Life will come at you FAST! Be sure to schedule any significant and can’t miss life events at least one year in advance. Put it on the calendar and block it out. You can always change your mind.
2) Hold your space. Decide in advance what you will b
Motivational Teaching Method
Mrs. Etheridge was a 5th-grade teacher at Westgate Elementary in Manassas, Virginia. She had a special knack for motivating her most free-spirited student.
Now, I wouldn't be honest if I were to you, I remember how she tamed a young boy who saw the world as a place to explore - mostly between the lines. But I will say that when you begin teaching and motivating others to reach their full potential, you quickly find ways to get them out of the own way, fire them up, and enjoy more success.
When y
Before Life Got in The Way
Can you remember when you filled your thoughts with dreams and ambitions?
That’s how most of us live our early lives - until the real world splits into two distinct periods:
1) BEFORE life gets in the way. Anything IS possible. It’s a beautiful time when you run as fast as possible toward your goals. Even if your parents disagree.
2) AFTER life gets in the way. Anything WAS possible. Life is good, but it’s not what you expected. Your parents would have said, “I told you so.”
What if it was poss
Doing Nothing Gives You More
Before I begin, I want to define what I mean by doing nothing.
I don’t see doing ‘nothing’ as something unproductive. Instead, I see ‘nothing’ as a protected personal space that lies between your thoughts and your actions.
It is a place that provides a contemplation and planning opportunity before launching into massive and focused action design to reach your outcome and achievement of your goal.
It is a holding space where inspiration, desperation, motivation, even intimidation, bubble up into
Focusing on Positive Self-Talk
I've been listening to clients tell me the story of their life. I can't help but wonder why they keep beating around the bush.
In journalistic terms, these folks are burying the lead. Instead of getting to the point, they begin with secondary details.
How does this relate to improving your life?
Many say, "I can't focus on anything." No. You are focusing on the wrong things.
Sometimes I hear, "I can't get myself get moving." Truth? You are moving - in the wrong direction.
They may say, "I don't
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Four Steps to Change
Creating a difference in your life requires simple actions. It’s all about getting what you want and keeping what you love.
1) Decide - Everything begins with your decision to transform.
2) Define - Aimless wondering is no fun. Defining your path will get you there.
3) Deploy - Putting your plan into action is the only way to make progress.
4) Defend - Your goal should be to make life better. When you find what you love - defend it so you never lose it.
Simple. I like simple Simple works!
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What if Nothing Could Stop You?
What if everything you did today came with no limitations and no consequences?
What could you do with your life?
Limitations can be helpful. Staying within speed limits keeps you from getting speeding tickets. That's good.
Are you limiting yourself to a job that doesn't serve you? That isn't good.
Fear of change usually creates limitations. Or is it the fear of bad consequences?
What would happen if all consequences were good?
Asking someone on a date may cause fear and hold you back. That
From Stuck to Motivated
As a child, I wondered why I couldn't always have my way. Mom and Dad were so mean! I couldn't wait to grow up, move out, and experience being an adult. Everything would be different - or so I thought.
After stepping into the adult world, it didn't take long to realize that not much had changed. It turns out it wasn't my parents. It was life turning down my requests. Life was getting in the way. What was even worse was that I was getting in my way.
I've joked over the years that if I'm the Boss
How to Be a Happy Person
Did you know that happy people are regular people that look at the world differently?
They don't wear rose-colored glasses either. They have a better way:
1) They realize that if you are alive, you will have problems.
2) They accept that dealing with problems is a privilege of being alive.
3) They don't get frustrated. They know problems mean you are shaking up life and living.
4) Happy people accept responsibility for solving problems. They never run from them.
5) A good day for a happy person
Productivity Efficiency
I think it’s time we stop seeking more productivity. It’s too much work! I prefer being more efficient and effective.
Here are a couple of ideas that will help:
1) Say “No” to meetings if possible. If you must, keep them short and sweet.
2) Delay paying attention to incoming communication. It’s nothing more than somebody else’s to-do list. Do your stuff first.
3) Daily interruptions will never go away. You may as well expect and plan for them.
4) Never schedule more than 50% of your day. That w
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Friends Holding You Back?
The success and happiness that you have in your life is a direct result of something your Mom was always asking -
Who are your friends?
If they are positive, you will be positive. Are they negative? You will be negative. If they have money, you will have money. Are they broke?
You get my point.
Your life will become exactly like the people that are closest to you. Choose wisely.
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Don’t Be The Monkey in The Middle
Have you ever found yourself stuck in the middle?
I was speaking with a client who was trying to be everything to everybody. His business was not growing. His life was not happy. He couldn’t seem to find a way to make progress.
That’s when I said…
“My friend, you are stuck in the middle. Nothing good happens when you are in the middle.”
In business and life, it’s okay to have low expectations and surround by like-minded folks.
It’s also okay to reach for your dreams, have high expectations, a
How To Succeed With Any Goal
Setting Goals is the most powerful method of getting what you want. It is the power of mind activation.
Here’s how:
1) Decide what you want and when you want to get it.
2) Decide when you will start and when you will finish.
3) Decide how you will begin and maintain your momentum.
Then you must get to work.
Limit anything and anybody that has a distracting influence on you. You must get to work.
Commit to overcoming any obstacle that gets in your way. You must get to work.
The path is long. Star
Today Not Possible. Tomorrow Possible.
Today Not Possible. Tomorrow Possible.
American Taekwondo Grand Master H.U. Lee gave volumes of advice during his life of service. In my view, his best was also his shortest:
“Today Not Possible. Tomorrow Possible.”
Today is a new day. Yesterday prepared you for today. If today doesn’t go as planned - you always have tomorrow.
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4 Questions For Better Decision Making
Do you ever have difficulty making decisions?
In the next 60 seconds, you can harness the most potent and easy-to-use decision-making tool I have ever found.
Forget the old "Pro and Con" list your Mom and Dad taught you. It's time for a new approach.
The next time you find yourself challenged, use Quantum Linguistics. Ask yourself these 4 simple questions to solve your problem:
What would happen if I DID?
What would happen if I DIDN'T?
What wouldn't happen if I DID?
What wouldn't happen if I DI
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Your Hierarchy of Needs
Your best life is built sequentially, one level at a time. Forget the elevator; climb all the stairs to the top, and have lasting success.
In 1954, Abraham Maslow released Motivation and Personality. His Hierarchy of needs theory is all about climbing to the top.
Maslow suggested that to reach your full potential:
1) You must provide for your physiological needs. Food, clothing, shelter, money, and more.
2) You must feel safe. Personally, emotionally, financially, health and well-being, and aga
Positively Controlling Your Life
Wouldn’t it be great to start your week with a positive attitude and be in total control?
I’m a guy who likes little airplanes. I’ll never forget the first time my instructor commanded me to blow off a great landing. He wanted me to GO AROUND and try again.
Over the years, I’ve learned that the same thing happens in life. In day-to-day life, you can bet that somebody or something will mess up with your plans.
Pilots handle it this way:
1) Hit the gas and apply full power to the engine.
2) Pull
How To Explode Your Momentum
There's a truth in life; nothing happens until something happens.
Life happens when you take massive imperfect action and move closer to your goal.
But how do you begin when your to-do list is a mile long?
There's a simple equation: Start + Next = Results.
Once you get moving, the trick is to focus on the to-do item that is the best use of your time. The one that will move you closer to your goal right now.
After completing that task, move to the next and now the most critical item on your lis
Why You Should Limit Your Choices
Do you have too many choices in your life?
In 2005, Barry Schwartz wrote The Paradox of Choice. It challenged the traditional thinking that the way to maximum freedom is to maximize choice.
Too many choices are not necessarily a good thing. They can create paralysis. No matter what you choose, you'll always wonder if you could have done better.
Here's my advice to you:
1) Limit choices. Narrow your list to items you have already experienced. Having every option won't serve you.
2) Be sure to p
What Do You Do For Fun?
It's such a simple question that it causes people to get a blank look in their eyes.
A few years ago, I visited friends who lived and worked on the Grand Canyon's South Rim. Yes, people live there - thousands of them. The drive into town is too far to commute - but that was okay with my friends. They had recently switched careers, packed up, and moved to become Park Rangers. They were right where they wanted to be.
It was late in the day when we settled into the guest room of their home and head
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Stop Being Who You Are NOT
Are you striving for something different but don’t know where to begin?
I have a client who is 100 pounds overweight and decided to get healthy. She had no idea how.
My advice was simple.
If your mind is telling you something you are doing is NOT who you are - it’s time to make an easy change:
If you know lousy food is NOT who you are - give it up.
If your lack of exercise is NOT who are you - give it up.
If lack of focus is NOT who you are - give it up.
Give up anything that is NOT who you feel
Don't Wear Yourself Out With Worry
Many have said, "Life is a marathon, not a sprint."
But what happens when you find yourself doing both at the same time?
If you've been living on this planet for any time, you've figured out life is a long game made of day-to-day sprints.
If you want a big bank balance, you make small deposits over time.
If you want to lose weight, you make small reductions over time.
If you want to get a promotion at your job, you do well every day.
The challenge happens when you have not defined the marath
Somebody Needs You
When I was a teenager, I was a weekend moviegoer, and it was the age of Rocky, Star Wars, and Jaws. Besides, with only three channels on television, getting out of the house was the top item on my to-do list.
As a kid with big dreams, it was easy for me to slip into the fantasy world of films and let my mind run for a couple of hours. By the end of the film, I was always excited to get on with life and become like the folks I watched in movies.
That’s when life got in the way.
Like many young fo
Do You Have a ‘Who Am I’ Document?
Do you have a roadmap for who you are and how you operate in the world?
If not, you need a ‘Who Am I’ document.
Who Am I is not a mission statement.
Who Am I is not a list of affirmations.
Who Am I is not a value statement
Who Am I is a personal cheat sheet that reminds you who you are and why you do what you do.
How do you see yourself?
How do others see you?
How do you act in situations?
When life gets in the way, you can always turn to your pre-determined ‘Who Am I,’ and you’ll always know h
Systemize Your Success
Wouldn’t it be great if you had a plan to help you get what you want?
What you need is M.A.P.S. - a system that gets thinking out of the way and focuses on actions in four areas:
Motivation: Everything begins with motivation and knowing ‘WHY’ you set your goals. Stay motivated.
Accountability: Being accountable and accepting responsibility for your results will empower your success. ‘If it’s to be, it’s up to me’ is a great way to get started.
Planning: Plan your work and work you plan. It’s si
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Why You MUST Be a Good Quitter
Has anybody ever said to you, "it's good to be a quitter?"
Probably Not. But it turns out to be very good advice.
Being a good quitter isn't an excuse. It should never be an option for making things easier. Instead, quitting is a wise choice. You choose to leave when your progress has stopped and you are going around in circles.
That's when things get interesting.
Once you are committed to an important idea, it can be challenging to allow yourself to quit. Are you stuck in a lousy job, terrible
Magically Create More Time and Productivity
Wouldn’t it be great if you could create more time in your day without giving anything up?
The secret is how you prioritize the projects that are already on your plate. That requires a simple understanding:
1) Working on multiple projects simultaneously only delays the completion of all the projects.
2) When you complete a project, not only is it off your plate, it begins producing your expecting results sooner. It also frees up time to work on your next project.
The next time that you are tryi
How to Be Happy All The Time
Would you like to be happy every day of the week?
Maybe it's time to start thinking like a happy person?
There's no magic to being happy, and rose-colored glasses are not required.
Just start looking at your day-to-day life the way a happy person does.
Give this a try:
1) Accept that being alive means you will run into occasional challenges.
2) Realize that dealing with challenges is a privilege of being alive.
3) Welcome frustration. It only means adjustments are required. Figure what to chang
Getting a Mentor For Success
Do you wish you could find a mentor to help you along the way?
Every mentor I’ve ever had has made sure that I possessed three characteristics for success before they agreed to work with me.
Would you pass their test?
1) Do you have a burning desire to achieve your goals?
2) Are you a coachable person and prepared to accept the wisdom and guidance of others?
3) Do you have the willingness to undertake all actions to achieve your success?
If the shoe were on the other foot, you would want those t
Stop Procrastination With One Question
Are you a member of the Procrastination Club?
Procrastination is the intentional and habitual postponement of an essential task that you should be doing.
Is that what you are doing?
In my view, two things could be happening if you procrastinate -
It may be possible that you are not procrastinating at all? Instead, you may be forcing yourself to do something that you don't need to do anyway.
The other possibility is that it simply doesn't mean enough to you to start the process. Or, said anoth
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Waking Up to Gratitude
I woke up this morning with an incredible zest to expand my feeling of gratefulness. Well, there is not so much to expand as to recognize all the things that I am grateful for but haven’t thought about lately.
That’s the thing about living in a fast-paced world where our daily activities, big and small, fly by and are quickly forgotten. It’s always been that way. There is nothing new in the world. That got me thinking about one of my favorite quotes —
“Enjoy the little things, for one day you ma
Steps of Change
Creating a difference in your life is a non-stop process that requires simple actions to help you get what you want. And it is, after all, about getting what you want and keeping what you love.
You’ll always go through these steps:
1) Decide. Everything begins with your decision to head off in a new direction. While sometimes you may feel like you’ve made a decision, if you’re not moving, you haven’t.
2) Define. Aimless wandering is fun when that’s what you’ve decided to do. Otherwise, it’s frus
Success Happens When You…
I want to become the person I am meant to be.
That’s something that I hear daily in my life from people all over the world. Frankly, beyond living a joyful life, I can’t think of anything more important than growing to become who you know you are on the inside.
Most people tend to work in different areas of their life. All will say that family and friends are the most important, but they tend to focus on their career and legacy - especially after the kids move out. But here is a problem…
For man
What’s Your Goal Setting Purpose?
I've always believed goal setting is the heartbeat of our lives.
Goal setting is one of the most powerful tools you have to create your best life. My question to you is… do you know what your best life is supposed to be?
I came upon my belief not from a book or a guru but from a realization I had many years ago. I found I was happy when I was chasing something bigger than myself that was also in alignment with how I felt on the inside. I was unhappy when I was checking items off my list and not
How To Find Your Purpose
Over the years the most popular question I get from the MOVERS around here is -
“How do I find my purpose and face my passion?”
If I were to expand on that question, it would be -
“What can I do today to find my purpose and overcome the fear of living my passion?”
In other words, it’s one thing to find it; it’s another thing to get yourself to do it.
Today we’ll focus on finding it.
In my quest to always be passionately living, I always turn to a 5-step process for discovering and facing your pa
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Become The Person You Are Meant to Be
People have always sought change for themselves, their life, or the world. If you want to change something about your life, there is a constant truth; you must change before anything else changes.
Many smart folks agree -
Mahatma Gandhi said, “Be the change that you wish to see in the world.”
Leo Tolstoy, “Everyone thinks of changing the world, but no one thinks of changing himself.”
What about Albert Einstein?
“The world, as we have created, is a process of our thinking. It cannot be changed w
How To Stop Putting Your Foot in Your Mouth
Do you ever find yourself answering the phone, responding to an email, or posting to Social Media before your brain is fully engaged?
If you’re like me, you can’t count the number of times you put your foot or your fingers in your mouth and regretted it.
So what’s the fix?
I worked with a client a few minutes ago in the same situation, and his response was brilliant!
STOP.
He stopped in his tracks and didn’t respond at all.
THINK.
He pondered how he was feeling and why he was about to make a m
5 Success Mindset Tips
I spend most of my days finding ways to keep tens of thousands of people worldwide motivated and moving - and that always comes down to a strategy for mindset.
Here are a few things you can do - today!
1) Remind Yourself of Your Gratefulness
Who or what are you most grateful to have in your life?
Sometime today, pause, close your eyes and fill your mind with the people and things that make your life good.
Remember, reminding yourself of why you are grateful makes you unstoppable.
2) Your Actions
How to Turn Obstacles Into Opportunity
Have you ever wondered how much easier things would be if you didn’t have to think so much?
What if the future or your past didn’t matter?
Imagine if you didn’t worry about the possessions, success, or drama of others?
What would happen if you believed that YOU are in control?
Now you are starting to think like a Stoic Philosopher.
Stoicism is about paring down and simplifying. They eliminate unproductive traits that define the majority of the population. One of the most common is by turning ob
Why Will Power is Not Your Friend
When will you get yourself to do what you say you want to do?
More people than you know lose sleep over that question. If that sounds like something you have experienced, you’re not alone.
Almost everybody begins their journey when a thought pops into their mind. Then, day-to-day life keeps them busy, and they spend frustrating months fixin’ to get ready. You know, starting to prepare… so you can start to do… so you can do… and say you did.
If that doesn’t work, you summon your friend, Will P
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Why You Shouldn’t Share Your Plans
In the last few years, it has become increasingly popular for people to share every little aspect of their lives with others. But, when it comes to getting what you want in life, keeping your plans to yourself is a powerful tool.
Presidents weekend has just passed, and when I arrived at my desk on Tuesday, I had two messages from clients that made me smile.
The first said, "I decided to spend my weekend practicing what I do in private so that I will be praised in public." That's something I’ve s
How to Amp Up Your Creative Productivity
Over the years, I have personally produced over 10,000 podcasts, and every one of them begins with the written word. Even though that makes my mouth and my fingers my most exercised body parts, it has also given me lots of opportunities to learn to keep my words flowing.
If you're like most people, you have found yourself sitting in front of a blank screen, praying for inspiration. It could be writer's block, procrastination, or maybe you stayed up late watching Netflix. In any case, there's a s
What’s Your Motivating Mission?
Do you still dream of what you will be when you grow up?
Do those visions keep popping into your head?
If that’s the case, what’s your BIG, AWESOME, MOTIVATING MISSION?
BAM!
What dreams excite you and give you a feeling of happiness?
BAM!
What scares you - and excites you?
BAM!
What makes you smile and say, “If I could only get myself to…”
BAM!
Take a few minutes and figure out your BAM! Then stand up, take a step, and repeat! Keep going until you get what you want.
Oh - there’s no need to wai
Why You Should Skake Up Your Good Life
Growth and change are what most people strive for in their life. It’s what drives you before you create your amazing life. It’s also what drives you to step up to the next level.
In the last 16 years, I’ve spent producing the Daily Boost podcast, I’ve had the chance to speak to thousands of people. All of them were in various stages of change, and most had the goal of being happy.
But, there is an issue that keeps popping up.
As people go about living and enjoying the life they’ve built, the na
Is The Spotlight Shining on YOU?
Is The Spotlight Shining on YOU?
A funny thing happens when we graduate from High School and enter the real world; dreams change.
When my Son was in his early 20's, he announced that he was heading to Los Angles to pursue his dream of becoming a Rock Star. He would be a singer in a rock and roll band, and he was on a mission to achieve his goal. When I heard his idea, I had a question -
"What happens if you become a member of the band instead?"
He had a perplexed look on his face. I'm not sure
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Ditch The Crazy World and Keep it Simple
During the Great Pandemic Pause, most folks found themselves in a simpler world.
With a few exceptions, everything was slower. There was more time in the day. The rush of what used to be our day-to-day seemed distant.
Is that such a bad thing?
When the storm passes, as we reignite our lives, why not consider lessons from a few smart people of the past.
"Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication." ~ Leonardo da Vinci
"Life is simple, but we insist on making it complicated." ~ Confucius
"The art
How To Plan For Changing Times
So you’ve decided it’s time to make a change. Good for you. Making the decision is the most challenging thing you can do.
Now, how do you figure out how to make it work?
In most situations, you can get clarity by taking an inventory of where you are and where you are heading.
There are three areas of focus:
1) Do the math. What is the cost of your change? Can you do it now? Do you need to save some cash? How much will you need to complete your transition?
2) Factor in the timing? Are you able t
It’s Time To Start Being Yourself
Are you striving for something different?
I have a client who, after years of poor eating habits, had gained over 100 pounds. She decided to get healthy - and had no idea where to begin.
My advice was simple.
If your mind is telling you something you are doing is NOT who you are - give up what you are NOT.
In her case, not exercising was making her somebody she didn’t want to be. Going to the gym wasn’t top of mind; it was just the first choice in the path to becoming herself.
Are you not makin
Three Stages of Relationships
The quality of your life is a direct result of your relationships.
Whether it's a personal, professional, or business relationship. There are three ways to play the relationship game. There is only one way to win.
1) All relationships begin with two independent individuals. If you remain independent, you will never connect.
2) Some relationships become co-dependent. Developing this kind of relationship means losing individuality. Isn't that what attracted you in the first place?
3) The correct
Simple Productivity Strategies
Are you find yourself needing to get more done? You might consider creating more productivity.
The first rule of being more productive is deciding what is important to you. The second rule is to take control of your day.
A few simple adjustments can change everything:
1) Say, “Yes” to yourself before you say it to others. Meetings, phone calls, casual conversations. If that doesn’t work, say “No” to anything not currently on your list.
2) Control where you focus your attention. Including incom
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Here’s What is Sucking Up Your Time
It happens to all of us.
We're going about our day, hot on the trail of checking off items on our never-ending To-Do list. Then, we discover that we didn't get everything done before time ran out.
When my son was entering the workforce, we would often find time to catch up on weekends. He was trying to navigate the business world while balancing his life. He had an exceptionally fact-paced job and had become a productivity ninja. He was proud of his color-coded To-Do list and calendar, but he h
Why Your Morning Routine Isn’t Working
You hear a lot about using morning rituals to get more done. But what if you could use your mornings to get more done for YOU?
In the fast-face world, we live in today; there seem to be two groups when it comes to how to use mornings—personal and productivity. Once folks remove themselves from the craziness of jumping out of bed, taking care of the kids, and hitting the drive-through, they choose one of the two.
But what if there was a third group that was more satisfying?
Before I go on, I nee
Are You Committed to Your Goal?
Woody Allen said, "Half of success is showing up."
I've thought about that quote many times over the years. There was something about its logic that didn't match up with my day-to-day experience.
Don't get me wrong, no matter what you want to do in your life, showing up is the first step in getting it. But I've shown up many times and ended up going home with the prize that I so much wanted.
I've also seen others convinced that they'll advance toward their goals if they show up. Instead, they
How To Become a Champion
We all live in a competitive world that makes getting what we want a challenge. If you've ever found yourself missing out because somebody else beats you to the punch, there may be a simple reason.
I've always been a competitive person. Once I set my mind to accomplishing a goal, I will always do whatever is required to win. Still, I've often tripped on my way to winning by others who wanted the same thing but had a different approach.
When I decided to enter the world of dog agility competition
Building Your Bridge To Passion
How do I get from here to where I want to go?
That's a question you may find yourself asking - especially for the big adventures of life.
What you need is a dam bridge!
A few years ago, I was standing atop the Hoover Dam. It's awe-inspiring—Lake Mead views in one direction and the Colorado River in the other. Below is one of the great engineering marvels in history. But there was something more exciting. New bridge construction high above the canyon walls caught my attention.
Construction was
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Mission Beyond Your Why
Since the beginning of time, successful people have given this sage advice; you must set goals.
In the human mind, setting goals are the heartbeat of your life. Setting a goal will harness your focus, give you meaning and purpose, and drive you forward. It gets even better if you place a deadline. If your goal is essential, timely, urgent, you will likely do anything possible to get it.
Yes, likely.
You may have also heard that understanding WHY you want to achieve your goal is critical to you
Listening To Yourself More Than Others
When I was growing up, I was an energetic, enthusiastic, and excitable child. I never let a day go by without challenging something - usually with my mouth. Thanks to those responsible for turning me into a good person, I learned a valuable lesson when they said-
"Listen twice as much as you speak. You have two ears and one mouth for a reason."
You’ve heard that before, and in today's fast-paced world, knowing when to put a zipper on your lips is critical. But, I've also learned to take that adv
You Don’t Need To Ask For Permission
My friend Sid called to tell me he had found his next big thing. He decided to take flying lessons and couldn't wait to get started.
I have always wanted to learn to fly after hearing my Mom's stories over the years. Her father was a contractor in Wilmington, North Carolina. When an airport client couldn't pay, he offered lessons. She was 15-years old.
Her stories of landing on the beaches of North Carolina were thrilling. Flying Solo before an arriving hurricane was captivating. We'll forget th
You Will Change When You Wear Yourself Out
Many have said, "Life is a marathon, not a sprint."
But what happens when you find yourself doing both at the same time?
If you've been living on this planet for any length of time, you've figured out life is a long game made of day-to-day sprints.
If you want a big bank balance, you make small deposits over time.
If you want to lose weight, you make small reductions over time.
If you want to get a promotion at your job, you do well every day.
The challenge happens when you have not defined
How To Stop Letting People Get in Your Way
Have you ever found yourself stalled?
A few years ago, I had big plans, and nothing was moving forward. When I say nothing, other people didn't seem to get the memo that I was on a mission.
We've all been in situations where nobody will return your call. Your email gets ghosted. You can’t seem to get support or commitment for your future, world-saving plans.
That's what happened to me and caused me to decide to create my momentum. I called it my "Momentum Freight Train."
My first use of my new
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Goals Are Like Pilots and Donuts
Have you noticed that airplanes fly crooked?
Heading to their destination, winds attempt to blow them off course. That’s why pilots turn their aircraft into the wind. They call it Wind Correction.
The same thing happens when you set a Goal. While you prefer the straight path, you will likely run into winds that will blow you off course.
Your spouse disagrees with your plans. Your boss demands more hours. Your kids, friends, and responsibilities keep blowing you further away from your dreams.
It
Why The Law of Attraction Doesn't Work
The Law of Attraction should be called the Law of What You Think About Most.
Like attracts like. What you think about, you get.
If you think, "I won't get it because I never do," - you are correct.
Dreaming of something new while focusing on current problems is a sure way to keep spinning your wheels.
The secret is to focus your attention and actions on what you want to attract. That will require a dedicated effort. Vision Boards, lists of goals, daily journaling are all great ways to stay on t
How ONE Thing Made Me More Productive
I have a question for you.
What is your ONE most important activity?
What is the ONE core activity that makes everything else fine?
What is the ONE core activity that, if you don’t do, causes everything to fall apart?
In Brian Tracy’s book Eat The Big Frog First, he recognized that many people focus on anything but the most critical activity in their life. They are usually surprised when things fall apart.
Is it showing up for work on time or doing a great job at work?
Could it be your unflinch
Secret to Being Accountable
Over the years, I've witnessed dozens of people set themselves up for failure by following seemingly wise advice -
"When you set a goal, make it public and tell everybody you know so that they can support you."
In my experience, that hasn't worked so well - especially on long-term goals. The reason is that anybody outside of my close relationships doesn't know me well enough to understand why I'm doing what I'm doing. That makes it challenging to provide support in meaningful ways, difficult for
10 Common Sense Laws of Success
Everything we do is guided by what we think is logical in our minds. I call my way of thinking Scott LOGIC.
Is it common sense? Is it experience-based? Is it how I choose to live? Yes. But mostly, it is an endless list of thoughts that make my day better. Here are a few that will no doubt do the same for you.
Life is long enough. But not for everybody. Recognize the difference.
Life goes quickly unless you are bored. Stay busy.
Life passes slowly when you are going fishing tomorrow.
Some people
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How To Make Your Life Longer
I want to live forever! Well, that’s what I used to say when I was a kid. As I passed a few birthdays and dealt with life’s challenges, I started thinking differently with a realization —
My life, all of our lives are spent learning and figuring things out. While it can be tiring, it’s also what pours energy and meaning into our days. As we age, our knowledge deepens, our day-to-day get less attractive, and we lose our youthful drive. But Scott doesn’t do that. I’m way too stubborn.
So what have
You Can Do Anything for 30 Days
Call me crazy, but everything I've ever done had its roots in a 30-day sprint - and it's a long time.
A week is easy, crossing several weekends and life events will make it seem like forever.
Here’s how you do it:
1) Set what Napoleon Hill calls a Major Definite Purpose, otherwise known as a big ass goal.
2) Stop that silly negative self-talk. Others may throw sticks and stones; don't throw them at yourself.
3) Start thinking of all the reasons you CAN be successful. Make a list.
4) Decide
Why Blowing Up Your Lifestyle is The Fix
Do you ever feel like there are a thousand things that must line up before you can get what you want?
It may feel safer to wait until the stars align to take the next step toward your goals.
Another choice would be blowing up, tearing down, and blasting away what you don't want.
Hmm - it seems that we are living in a time that did that job for us - right?
I’m talking about Creative Destruction.
Creative Destruction is like demolishing an old kitchen. Instead of taking months and making things
Are You Following These Steps For Changing Your Life?
As we get closer to the endemic phase of the pandemic we've been living in for the last couple of years, I've noticed that people are getting back to their old ways.
Now that we're not being forced to evaluate our daily lives, confused about what you want - and how to get there. That's okay. It's a journey.
But what is that journey?
Winston Churchill said, "To improve is to change, so to be perfect is to have changed often."
And it helps if you understand the stages of change:
1) Pre-Contemplat
Warning: You Don’t Need a Plan B
Have you ever wondered how the most successful people in the world get that way?
Is their timing is right?
Do they know somebody?
Did they get lucky?
Every person I’ve ever known who achieved remarkable success did three things:
1) They accepted what they wanted and believed it could be theirs.
2) They decided that their dream IS going to happen.
3) There is no Plan B.
When you know what you want, decide to go after it, and don’t give yourself any other options, you are more likely to get wh
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Living a Scripted and Process Oriented Life
In the world of Scott Logic, I’ve always fought my advice that said -
When life is predictable, scripted, and process-oriented - BORING - life gets as excited as you ever dream it could be.
As a guy who likes excitement in my day, you can see why I would prefer to ignore that wisdom - and I’m not alone. Still, I don’t miss it. I prioritize that way of thinking at all cost.
Let’s talk about that ‘scripted’ part of living.
While I love a good spontaneous day, I’ve learned that the more scripted a
Who is Your Mastermind?
I get the pleasure of advising dozens of people every week in one-on-one interactions. When you factor in my podcast distribution, I interact with hundreds of thousands of people every week. And there's one question I always get.
Who advises you?
Who is your coach?
Who is your mastermind?
The simple answer may be broader than you'd like, especially if you are looking for a specific solution to apply to yourself.
The number one member of my mastermind is the person I listen to most. The person
10 Questions You Should Answer
A long time ago, it occurred to me that life is nothing more than a giant scavenger hunt. Yes, life is full of questions, and it’s long enough for you to figure out all the essential answers. And the winners are the people who figure out the solution for what you are seeking.
Here are a few that I use on a regular basis to get me thinking:
1) What do you want to do?
2) What do you want to have?
3) Where do you want to go?
4) What contribution do you want to make?
5) What do you want to become?
6
Why You Must Prioritize Yourself First
If you spend any time listening to me at all, it won’t take long before you hear me screaming from the tops of the mountains to ignore the agenda and propaganda-filled world we live in and focus on yourself.
Here’s the truth...
Nobody is thinking about you and what you do. That means that you need to pay attention to yourself because nobody else will.
Some folks find that way of thinking difficult because society would make you believe that you must do what everybody else is doing to be success
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It's Good To Be Lazy
I have an admission to make.
I'm a bit lazy. Yes, I also like to work harder than most people. Still, I'm lazy when doing things I don't want to be doing.
It's been said that when you do what you love to do, you will never work another day in your life. Frankly, I've found it to be quite the opposite. What I do is difficult and takes a lot of time and effort.
But I enjoy it?
Still, I'm lazy. I want everything to be easy, and I want it now. I don't think I'm different than anybody else. I'm la
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Setting Expectation And Getting What You Want
Imagine how your life would improve if everybody in your world understood what to expect.
Expectations are powerful. Pay attention to these three:
1) What do you expect of yourself? You get to decide how you approach the world.
2) What do you expect of others? Clearly, understand what you expect of others. That allows you to avoid surprises - and toxic relationships.
3) What do others expect of you? When you let others know what they can expect of you - and walk your talk - you are living in int
One Word Questions For Success
When I was in broadcast school, we spent a lot of time learning the rules of journalism. While that subject fills books, most everything we needed to know was -
Who? What? When? Where? Why?
If you know that information, you can tell a complete story.
Years later, I re-arranged the formula for my personal growth. Every time I set goals and consider a different direction I ask -
Why? What? When? Where? Who?
Occasionally I need to ask HOW I’m going to accomplish my goal - but that usually takes ca
How to Keep Moving Toward Your Goal
Steven Covey called it sharpening the saw. If you take a break to sharpen the blade, you will always cut more wood. The same applies to life.
My formula is Ritual, Rest, Rejuvenate, Reactivate. Repeat
1) Success comes when you perform ritual actions every day. Figure out what works and do it.
2) Running full-out all the time is not sustainable. You must stop and rest.
3) Resting allows your body and mind to rejuvenate and become healthy again.
4) When you are ready, it's time to reactive into ac
The Magic of Habits
Whatever you get in life is a result of your daily habits. What is a habit?
According to the dictionary, it is a settled or regular tendency or practice. It is also something that is especially one that is hard to give up.
Good habits or bad - habits are hard to give up. If that’s the case, you may as well choose good habits.
In a survey of 233 self-made millionaires, here’s what people who are successful at anything have in common:
They get up early, read, a lot, spend 15 - 30 minutes each day
Say Goodbye to Frustration
When life gets in the way, do you get frustrated about being blocked?
I learned a long time ago that getting blocked is an everyday occurrence. The bigger my goals, the more blocks would arrive. I could either live with endless frustrations or find a better way. It came down to understanding:
1) Blocks have nothing to do with who you are. Self-inflicted or caused by others, they still have nothing to do with you as a person.
2) If you want something, there is always a way to get it. Always. Yo
Joyful No Matter What
I speak about being joyful often and get lots of questions about making it happen.
First, there is no magic to being joyful, and rose-colored glasses are not required. In fact, the more precise you see the world, the more joyful you will be.
When you accept that merely being alive means you will run into occasional challenges, you will be more joyful.
When you realize that dealing with challenges is a privilege of being alive, you will be more joyful.
When you accept that frustration is part of
Where You Should Put Your Focus
A client asked me, "What do you pay attention to most of the day to keep yourself on track?"
I said,
"I pay attention to MY agenda first. When I cross paths with the agendas of others, it doesn't have to be my way or the highway, but I must continue to live the life I desire and get the results I want without delay and distraction. The truth is, I want us both to do that."
As long as you know what you want in life, getting is a matter of moving forward a little bit every day and staying on tra
Why a Boring Life is a Boss Life
I live by a mantra that says -
“Almost everything in my day-to-day life should be routine. Consistent. Predictable. Between the lines. Boring. But, occasionally, it’s good to get out of the box, a little on edge, a bit scared, and a lot excited.”
The truth is, you need both. There is also another truth.
Most things that make you happy and successful are pretty mundane.
Improving and enjoying your home…
Paying bills, investing, and saving…
Spending time with family…
Yes, regular life is a boring
Say "Yes" To Yourself
Do you ever wish you had a less complicated life?
Even if your job and life are overcomplicated out of necessity, like launching a rocket or performing brain surgery, you can still simplify everything.
How do you do it?
The fact is, the actions you are taking in your life and your job are probably not causing the overwhelm. It's the people and the results that are causing you to feel that way.
The easier way to under-complicate is to begin saying "No" to the arbitrary and unattainable demands o
4 Steps to Change Anything
Creating a difference in your life is a non-stop process that requires simple actions to help you get what you want. And it is, after all, about getting what you want and keeping what you love.
You’ll always go through these steps:
1) Decide. Everything begins with your decision to head off in a new direction. While sometimes you may feel like you’ve made a decision, if you’re not moving, you haven’t.
2) Define. Aimless wandering is fun when that’s what you’ve decided to do. Otherwise, it’s frus
Mindfulness Starter Thoughts
Everything you do is guided by what you think is logical in your mind. Just like everything I do is directed by my Scott LOGIC.
Is it common sense? Is it experience-based? Is it how you choose to live? Yes. But mostly, it is the filter in your mind at work.
Here are a few of my filters:
Life is long enough. But not for everybody.
Life goes quickly. But not if you're bored.
Life passes slowly when you are fishing.
Some people are too serious. Others are not serious enough. Both disagree with the
4 Questions Before You Begin
Everybody has dreams. Daydreams, dreams while you sleep, and dreams of what you wish for the future.
I’ve always believed that dreams are goals you have nurtured to become real in your life.
But how do you know if the voice speaking to your heart will lead you in the right direction?
Brant Pinvidic’s book, The 3-Minute Rule, has four questions that will help:
1) What is it? Do you understand exactly what you want?
2) How does it work? How will you go about reaching your goal? What will likely
Today is Another Chance to Succeed
Is it me, or does living life these days make you feel like Bill Murray in the movie Groundhog Day?
When it comes to working toward goals, that can be a tremendous asset. It's also something that will break you free when things don't feel like they are going your way.
Everybody has ups and downs. Up days are lots of fun. Down days make you want to crawl under a rock. But like the movie, with the right mindset, you always get another chance to try again.
How would you feel if every day was a cha
How To Break Bad Habits
How To Break Bad Habits
Have you struggled to break a habit?
Bad habits are not good. They will mess up your day. They are also not permanent. You weren’t born with bad habits, and you are not required under penalty of law to keep bad habits.
Since there’s no real reason to keep bad habits, let’s replace them the easy way.
Nobody likes to give up what’s comfortable - even if it’s not serving you. Instead, start a new behavior and replace the bad before it mucks up your life again.
Breaking bad
The Path All Relationships Follow
When I first met my wife, Joi, I knew we would be married and live happily ever after. But there was a problem. Joi didn’t see it that way - at least not right away.
If life has taught me anything, it’s that almost nobody is on the same page when they first meet. We might be in the same book but not on the same page.
In the early weeks of our relationship, I was in full-on action mode, and I was on a mission to achieve my goal as quickly as possible. I was also getting frustrated since Joi did
Real Purpose is Waiting For You
There's an idea floating within your mind. Soon it will demand your attention.
Is this all there is?
Am I destined for something bigger?
Your real purpose will arrive in your life when you:
1) Accept WHO you are and have always been. You are beautiful just the way you are.
2) Accept WHAT you do when you are doing you. Life is far more enjoyable when you spend most of your time in your comfort zone - and step out occasionally.
3) Accept WHEN when you want to start living in the moment. Now is a
Get What You Want By Doing Nothing
Before I begin, I want to define what I mean by doing nothing.
I don’t see doing ‘nothing’ as something unproductive. Instead, I see ‘nothing’ as a protected personal space that lies between your thoughts and your actions.
It is a place that provides a contemplation and planning opportunity before launching into massive and focused action design to reach your outcome and achievement of your goal.
It is a holding space where inspiration, desperation, motivation, even intimidation, bubble up into
3 Steps Required to Change Anything
Is a title like "Three Steps Required to Change Anything" an oversimplification of what it takes to get what you want?
Or… is it the acceptance that everything is simple - until we complicate it.
If you guess the second, you will get along just fine.
So, what are those three steps?
The first step to getting anything you want is to KNOW what you want. Many will argue that the first step is the most difficult. Like they say, "work with the outcome in mind." I don't see it this way and believe it's
Morning Routines That Work For You
You hear a lot about using morning rituals to get more done. But what if you could use your mornings to get more done for YOU?
In the fast-face world, we live in today; there seem to be two groups when it comes to how to use mornings—personal and productivity. Once folks remove themselves from the craziness of jumping out of bed, taking care of the kids, and hitting the drive-through, they choose one of the two.
But what if there was a third group that was more satisfying?
Before I go on, I nee
How Not To Put Your Foot in Your Mouth
Have you ever caught yourself doing or saying something you swore you would never do?
You have been TRIGGERED!
It can be frustrating when you set the rules and don't follow them. Sometimes you put your foot in your mouth. Sometimes you put the pizza in your mouth. In any case, your emotional habits are triggering your actions before you can do anything about them.
Controlling behaviors that have been on auto-pilot for years takes:
1) Catching yourself after the fact. Notice your mistake and se
Rules of Success
If you study people who have had success in any area of their life, you will find they have much in common.
Not only do they follow a set of rules, they follow those rules no matter how much life gets in the way.
What are those rules?
The person who has the strongest "Why" wins.
The person who shows up wins.
The person who is most persistent wins.
The person show never assumes wins.
The person who is the best at what they do wins.
The person who plans and documents their journey and interaction
Are You The Monkey in The Middle?
Have you ever found yourself stuck in the middle?
I spoke with a client trying to be everything to everybody. His business was not growing. His life was not happy. He couldn’t seem to find a way to make progress.
That’s when I said…
“My friend, you are stuck in the middle. Nothing good happens when you are in the middle.”
In business and life, it’s okay to have low expectations and surround yourself with like-minded folks.
It’s also okay to reach for your dreams, have high expectations, and e
Believing in The Person You Will Become
I’ll never forget the day a mentor of mine said to me —
“You have to become the person you want to be before becoming the person you want to be.”
What?
So I have to fake it until I make it?
Heck no! I’m not going to change who I am - no way!
“No. You’re not changing who you are. It’s just that you have to understand that the future, you will have a different set of beliefs than you hold right now. That’s called growth. Whatever you believe, you will become.”
At first, I thought he meant I would
Why Reaching a New Goal is Difficult
It's the time of the year when it seems almost everybody is setting new goals. It's also the time of year most folks will quickly give up on those goals.
There has been a lot of research about how long New Year's Resolutions last. On the short end, most folks give up at 12 days, the most committed stay in the game for an entire month.
Now, since it takes 66 days to set a new behavior, it's no wonder people have such a difficult time changing.
Here's an exciting way to think about that problem.
Build Your Chain of Success
I’ll never forget the day a friend called and made me an offer I couldn’t refuse - and I didn’t.
Rob was an event promotor who had snagged the chance to book an up-and-coming comedian named Jerry Seinfeld into a local venue. He needed somebody to warm up the audience and introduce Jerry. I was all in when he agreed to cover my drink tab and let me hang out with Jerry before the show.
It was 1986, and Jerry’s television series about nothing was still in development. I know that because it’s what
Toss Your To-Do List
Toss Your To-Do List
This is the time of year when people start thinking about getting more productive in their life.
Over time, I've learned there is a significant benefit of growing older and wiser, figuring out what works in most areas of life, and learning to avoid the school of hard knocks.
I'm always amazed at how much time people fritter away deciding how to be more productive— trying to keep up with their never-ending daily list of things. Eventually, though, we all learn that a good li
You Have Arrived. Now What?
I can't tell you how many times I've heard somebody say—
"If I knew I was going to live this long, I would have taken better care of myself and saved more money."
True or true?
Modern times are interesting times, and when it comes to living a long life, people either think life is too short or long. If you do things correctly, long enough is the best answer, but 200 years ago, most folks didn't have the luxury of thinking about things like that.
If you lived during those times, you lived at a sl
Passion Gets in The Way of Money
My friend sent a note on a subject that profoundly resonates with me.
He asked me, "What's more important, passion or money?"
Ask any person who knows me, and they will tell you that I am all about doing what makes my heart sing - PASSION!
After all, you know what they say —
"Do what you love, and the money will follow!"
I bet you've heard that most of your life. I will also bet that you have personal experience that would suggest otherwise, and there are millions of starving artists, writers,
One Goal is All it Takes
Let me start by saying that goal setting is powerful, and you should be doing it - but there is a good chance that you are overdoing it.
It's human nature to set goals, and you do it every day without thinking. That's why it's so powerful. It's also why it's so easy to set so many goals that you can never get any of them done.
Let me define how I see goals.
No matter what distracts me, I've come to think of goals in two ways:
1) Legacy Goals that I will spend my entire life achieving.
2) Living
The Anti-Routine Morning
When my wife and I were first married, it wasn’t long before I learned that waking up at 5:45 AM, and every step after that, seemed to be programmed into her DNA - and I was not too fond of it.
Over the years, I had grown to dislike mornings. Mostly because I found myself doing one of two things; the hustle and bustle of the daily grind or what the self-help gurus were telling me I “should” be doing with my mornings.
Sometimes it worked. Sometimes it didn’t.
My wife, on the other hand, doesn’t
Traditions Are The Way to Happiness
Are you a person who always does things the same way or prefers to change things up at every chance?
If you’re lucky, you are both.
Traditions are the secret sauce behind the emotional connection we feel at this time of year. Family get-togethers, office gatherings, crazy shopping crowds?
Yes. I know we’re in a pandemic, and not everything is as it used to be - but it is in our minds.
The traditions make our lives unique and are always present, never forgotten, and form the fabric of our lives.
Escape Your Past, Accelerate Your Future
My mind is constantly searching for a simple, three-step process for anything that will help me get what I want, and that usually comes down to something I talk about a lot; making a decision.
I speak about decision-making much of my day because it’s the most dynamic tool you have in your personal development tool kit.
It should be easy —
Almost everything you will ever want to do in life has already been done. The solution to getting what you want should be based on logic and proven steps. In
The Gift of Making a Decision
As we approach the most spiritual time of year, I find more and more of my thoughts are focused on what my future will bring. But instead of drafting a list of goals, my mind seems to settle into a different place—
What if I could give myself a gift that would instantly give me what I want?
What if I don't have to chase my dreams and start living them instead?
What if there was nothing in my way - ever?
While that way of thinking may seem out of touch in today's world, it's not. It happens every
Are You Happy And You Don’t Know It?
I can’t remember her name, but I can tell you she was not a happy person.
It was a hot, hazy, and humid Virginia day when I arrived for a class reunion. As I stepped toward the check-in table, a friend of more than thirty years locked eyes with me, broke into tears, and screamed—
“Oh Scott… can you help me? I’m not happy!”
Next, she bolted out of her seat, ran around the table, and hugged me… and hugged me… and hugged me… and hugged me.
This is not the first time this has happened, and being
All I Want For Christmas is a New Tooth
Sometime between Halloween and Thanksgiving, I found myself finishing leftover candy and bit into a Jolly Rancher - a recipe for disaster for anybody with a mouth full of dental work.
As you might have predicted, it wasn't long before I was at the dentist. I don't like dentists much. Maybe it was because as a kid, our family dentist was Dr. PAIN… uh… Dr. Payne. Still, there I was with the sound of drilling and suction filling the room, along with the occasional mumbled answer coming from my mou
Are You The Leader or a Tribe Member?
Over the past few years, there has been a trend in business toward an open, communicative, friendly, and supportive environment. While I believe that’s the way it should be, there has also been confusion amongst everybody in the company and customers.
Who’s in charge? Who’s the leader? Where are we heading?
Without a strong vision applied to the entire momentum of the company, there will be no momentum. And while ideas percolate from everybody involved, somebody needs to gather them into a visio
The 180 Degree Rule
Is the Universe whispering to you and nudging you to move in a specific direction?
Before I go on, I need to admit that I am certainly not an expert in the Universe or it works in our life. The magic of gravity is enough to blow my mind, and the only Secret I know is that you are the only one in charge of getting what you want in your life.
But what if you know that Universe is speaking to you? Calling you, compelling you to get off the sofa and do what you say you want to do? But you still won
Do Leftovers Make Happiness?
When I began training and competing with my dog in agility, I made a rookie dog trainer mistake. I wasn't consistent, and my dog was getting confused. One day, my trainer said, "For a dog, one time means all the time. Every time you let them do something new, they're just going to keep on doing it."
Now, as silly as it sounds, that came to mind a couple of weeks ago when my wife, a creature of routine and habit, did the same thing.
We were invited to attend Thanksgiving with family, and Joi's tr
How To Get Something Going On in Your Life
I was on the phone with a client that was in a bit of a rut with her Real Estate business. It had been a good year, yet she found herself coasting and feeling like nobody wanted anything to do with her.
“What should I do? I know I can do more? I don’t know what to do?”
I think most people feel like that from time to time. When that happens to be me, I always remember two things:
“What you practice in private you will be praised for in public.”
“The fortune is in the follow-up.”
While that sound
Why Does Life Get in The Way?
If you knew me as a child, one thing would be true; that I was 100% a non-adult and would maximize my time getting away with being cute and funny. That’s what kids do - and I love it.
Children don’t generally ask for permission or forgiveness. That’s has nothing to do with what they want to do. It never enters their mind. It doesn’t matter if it’s a good or bad decision. Once a child decides on their path, nothing will stop them. Most times, exploring Life isn’t an issue. Unless it is dangerous
Limited Choice is Good
My wife and I were looking for something on Netflix and found ourselves repeating the scroll a couple of times. Finally, the screen changed, and the graphic offered us a choice. It said, "just play something?"
Yes, please. Just play something, so I can put the remote control down and get back to petting my dog. Thinking back on the moment, I was reminded of a book I read a long time ago.
In 2005, Barry Schwartz wrote Paradox of Choice. It challenged the traditional thinking that said the way to
If You Stay You Can’t Go
I’ve noticed in my life that humans are hoarders when it comes to keeping stuff in their life that works and doesn’t work. They keep hanging life their life depends on it.
Now, before I go on, I think there are two situations at play here:
1) Hanging on to what has worked well but needs to go so you can do more of what you want to do.
2) Hanging on what doesn’t work in hopes that it will work well someday.
Both can go on for years and lead to nothing but frustration as you continue to long for s
Yin and Yang of Fast and Slow
I was riding my Harley-Davidson Road King a few days ago when my mind suddenly thought -
“The Chinese Philosophical concept of Yin and yang describes how opposite or contrary forces may be complementary, interconnected, and interdependent in the natural world.”
What? What? Huh?
It happened right in front of the Daytona Speedway and got me thinking about advice I give my clients about slowing down. It goes like this -
“You must slow down to get what you want.”
Advice like that is why I get the bi
Success Comes in Your Native Habitat
"You need to get out of your comfort zone if you want to succeed!"
I can't tell you how many times I've heard that. Thankfully, that silly advice is something I've only accepted a couple of times. I hated every second of it, ran right back into what makes me comfortable, and have never told anybody to get out of their comfort zone.
"But, Scott? Isn't getting out of your comfort zone how you get what you want?"
Yes, and no.
Don't get me wrong. I firmly believe that you should continually be expan
How High is Your Ceiling
Sometimes, I scratch my head when people say something that I can’t believe is true. That has happened over the years when my wife, Joi says silly things like -
“I like to paint. It’s fun. I don’t like to do it all the time, but I like to paint.”
I guess it’s a perspective thing.
I’m not particularly eager to paint and would prefer to pay someone to paint. Joi likes to paint and chooses not to pay something to paint. So, if it makes her happy, I let her paint, which leaves me in an awkward situ
Do You Know Who You Are?
There’s a lot of talk about “ideology” these days, and it’s usually not in a good way.
But what about YOUR ideology?
Do you know who you are?
Before I go on, ideology is simply a creed, culture, dogma, outlook, philosophy, theory, or view. And let’s not forget ideas, principles, and tenants.
At the end of the day, an ideology is what you stand for in this world. And, if you do it well, it’s also how other people know what you stand for in this world. It’s also up to you to decide that for your
Do You Think Like a Happy Person?
If you were to ask my wife if I was always a happy and positive person, she would likely say, "Hmm… it's complicated… but yes."
As a proud high-maintenance man who has never met a conversation I didn't want to see how deep we could go, I would have to agree. It's complicated. But, the answer is yes. I'm happy every day of the week. Not because I was born that way. Nope. As my Italian friends would say, "I had a good learning."
Many years ago, right after high school and just after entering the a
Positive, Practical, and Peaceful
I have to admit that I get in trouble because some of the Scott logic that comes out of my mouth doesn’t sit well with lots of folks these days - and they let me know.
One of the biggest comments…
“You seem like such a positive guy, and then it’s like something clicks in your head and go negative and ruin my day.”
While I don’t think I ever go negative, I’ve heard that many, many times.
Here’s the thing…
It would be easy for me to get caught in the feel-good trap of chasing positivity - if on
Daring To Face Your Dreams
“Please! Can somebody stop the world? I want to get off!”
Okay. Just for you, I pressed the magic button, and the world stopped.
Whatcha gonna do now?
If you don’t have an answer, there’s no need to freak out. It’s common for people to get slowed down, think about what their life could be like, and I have no idea.
But let’s say you are one of the few who decide the time has come to turn directly into the challenge?
Many years ago, I adopted a philosophy that became the driver that would change
Success With No Will Power Required
When will you get yourself to do what you say you want to do?
More people than you know lose sleep over that question. If that sounds like something you have experienced, you’re not alone.
Almost everybody begins their journey when a thought pops into their mind. Then, day-to-day life keeps them busy, and they spend frustrating months fixin’ to get ready. You know, starting to prepare… so you can begin to do… so you can do… and say you did.
If that doesn’t work, you summon your friend, Will P
Somebody Need You Right Now
When I was a teenager, I was a weekend moviegoer, and it was the age of Rocky, Star Wars, and Jaws. Besides, with only three channels on television, getting out of the house was the top item on my to-do list.
As a kid with big dreams, it was easy for me to slip into the fantasy world of films and let my mind run for a couple of hours. By the end of the film, I was always excited to get on with life and become like the folks I watched in movies.
That’s when life got in the way.
Like many young fo
Wisdom of Gratitude
I woke up this morning with an incredible zest to expand my feeling of gratefulness. Well, there is not so much to expand as to recognize all the things that I am grateful for but haven’t thought about lately.
That’s the thing about living in a fast-paced world where our daily activities, big and small, fly by and are quickly forgotten. It’s always been that way. There is nothing new in the world. That got me thinking about one of my favorite quotes —
“Enjoy the little things, for one day you ma
Yes, Your Life is Repeating Itself
My friend Louis Gates introduced me to his 9-Year Life Cycle to understand how we progress through life.
Cycles begin at birth and advance every 9 years and go like this:
Year 1: You decide what you want and start asking for it.
Year 2: As the pieces come together, you narrow your focus.
Year 3: The resources you need begin to arrive.
Year 4: You find yourself moving toward your purpose in life.
Year 5: re-evaluation begins. Toss out what you don’t need and keep what works.
Year 6: Your fo
Long Game of Success
Many years ago, a friend passed along a pearl of wisdom that has served me well.
Larry was a mentor. I was an eager young man who wanted everything now. I'll never forget sitting in the chair in front of his desk discussing all the ways I would dominate the world during my life. I still remember the look in his eyes as he pondered what advice he was going to give. That's when Larry said -
"Scott, sometimes you have to hang around long enough for folks to see that you are the real thing before t
One Question Makes Goal Setting Easy
As we enter the holiday season, have you taken a few minutes to consider what you would like to do in 2022?
Getting started now will allow you to relax and enjoy the next few months.
It begins by asking yourself, "What can I do?” But this time of year, we need to reach deeper by asking, "What can I do in a year?"
Most people overestimate what they can do in a few weeks. They underestimate what they can do in a year. The difference is enormous.
Focusing on the short-term picture can lead to lot
Are You Tired Yet?
Many have said, "Life is a marathon, not a sprint."
But what happens when you find yourself doing both at the same time?
If you've been living on this planet for any length of time, you've figured out life is a long game made of day-to-day sprints.
If you want a big bank balance, you make small deposits over time.
If you want to lose weight, you make small reductions over time.
If you want to get a promotion at your job, you do well every day.
The challenge happens when you have not defined
Be The Change You Wish To See in The World
People have always sought change for themselves, their life, or the world.
There is a constant truth if you want to change; you must change before anything else changes.
Many intelligent folks agree -
Mahatma Gandhi said, “Be the change that you wish to see in the world.”
Leo Tolstoy, “Everyone thinks of changing the world, but no one thinks of changing himself.”
What about Albert Einstein?
“The world, as we have created, is a process of our thinking. It cannot be changed without changing our
Exploring Your Possibilities
What do I want to be when I grow up?
The first time you ask yourself that question is when you are very young - if you ever asked it act all. Frankly, somebody else usually asks you, and you probably didn't have an answer and just took off running with this thing called life.
And then it happens —
Forty or fifty years later, people start asking themselves that question again after a family and career. The lucky ones don't confine it until they retire; instead, they begin to question who they a
Exploring Your Possibilities
What do I want to be when I grow up? The first time you ask yourself that question is when you are very young - if you ever asked it act all. Frankly, somebody else usually asks you, and you probably didn't have an answer and just took off running with this thing called life. And then it happens — Forty or fifty years later, people start asking themselves that question again after a family and career. The lucky ones don't confine it until they retire; instead, they begin to question who they a
Time Management That Focuses on YOU
"I never have time to work on what's important to me!"
I hear that every day from people all over the world. Every one of them is so busy attempting to master the latest productivity hack they end up spending most of their time running like a hamster on a wheel.
Frankly, I was doing the same thing when my new business was sucking the life out of me and demanding all of my focus. One day, I realized my focus was in the wrong place.
The problem was that I ran my day based on events on my calen
What Kind of Motivation Do You Need?
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Have you ever wondered why some things and not others motivate you? The evolving Science of Motivation has your answer.
In a nutshell, motivation is complicated and layered. If you didn’t already know that, you have felt it many times. But it all begins with 4 kinds of motivation:
1) Extrinsic motivation comes from outside of you, and you do it because you are compelled to - usually by
Painting Your Way to Success
Painting Your Way to Success
My wife and I are settling into our new home, and she has assigned herself the job of painting every inch in the house. Not because we couldn’t hire somebody to do the job. Strangely, it’s because she loves to paint.
I’ll admit that I’ve felt a little guilty leaving her with a rolling brush and a couple of gallons while I find something more interesting to do - which is pretty much anything. Still, last weekend I offered to join the painting party and speed up pro
Relative Time Management
Relative Time Management
In my entire life, I've always found it interesting that there never seems to be enough time in the day. Still, most days, everything seems to get done. If it doesn't, the world didn't come to an end, and I survived to check off another item from my to-do list tomorrow.
I know I'm not the first human on the planet to face the problem of time, but I do think I'm one of those smartypants people that have figured out how our time works in real life. And it was 180 degrees
Leaders Look For Conflict
Leaders Look For Conflict
I admit the title, "Leaders Look For Conflict," might a little over-the-top. But I know that you want to be a better leader. I also know that you hate and don't want anything to do with conflict - especially since I can hear you saying —
"Why can't we all get along?"
I get it. Saying the word "No" is hard enough. Saying "Yes" when others agree or disagree with your choice can be more difficult.
"Why can't we all get along?"
The answer is that we can. However, the t
Stoic Happiness
Stoic Happiness
I'm a fan of Stoic Philosophy. While it may be over 2,000 years old, its practicality is still useful.
These rules to live by will help you have a happier life:
1. If you're going to learn and succeed, be humble. There is always someone smarter, more successful, and wiser.
2. Find the right scene. Choose your friends and situations. If you want to rise in life, you can't allow yourself to be held down by others.
3. Protect your time. Seneca said, "We're tight-fisted with p
Get Off The Fence And Get What You Want
Get Off The Fence And Get What You Want
Okay, I'm feeling a little bit lazy today, so I'm going to cut to the chase and bestow upon you the secret to success you've been seeking.
Are you ready?
Success requires that you do the hard work. Bam!
Hmm… I think I'll take my advice and rethink that lazy thing. I want to set a good example.
It doesn't take a scientist to figure out that if you want more, you will have to do something to get it. Still, we live in a world that makes it seem like it
Is The Universe Whispering to You?
Is The Universe Whispering to You?
I’m not sure how you feel about the Universe and how things work in the world, but does the Universe whisper to you?
Now, before I go on, you need to know that I can go pretty deep into the world of woo-woo in my beliefs. Still, the real-world dude in me makes me realize that while it may be fun to ride a unicorn to the coffee shop, I haven’t yet been able to request one from Uber.
You may believe that your life is already planned for you or that you can as
Empower Your Emotional Triggers
Empower Your Emotional Triggers
I don't know about you. I love it when we miraculously put together the perfect day and then life decides to get in the way.
Well, not life, and maybe I don't love it, but occasionally something or someone will cross your path and cross your wires.
I don't know anybody who doesn't get hit smack in the face with a situation that triggers a feeling deep inside their soul, stirs emotion, and results in a reaction or response that makes you say, "Why did I say tha
Talking Trash About Yourself is Good
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I have an admission to make on your behalf. If I may -
You and everybody on the planet talks bad about themselves. Heck, some folks do it every day. If you are really good, you might fall into the category of a professional self-trash talker and even dream bad stuff about yourself. Yes, are THAT good!
I have another admission.
I do it too. I’m good at it. Better than you. Not only that, I like it when I dig deep and bury
Good Habit Generator
There is not a single day that I don’t end up saying to myself, “What are you doing, Dude?” The only thing that makes me feel better is there seems to be a pandemic of that kind of thing going around these days.
In my case, I usually have decided what bad habits are getting in my way and have at least a small clue as to what good habits I should be doing every day but…
I’m the BOSS OF ME! Why would I tell myself what to do and not do it? Hmm… I’ll have to get back to you on that.
Nope. Why wa
Power of ONE Idea
Are you the kind of person who is searching high and low for anything that will make you happy, get you married, bring in more money, or allow you to ignore the crazy world we live in today?
If I may, it’s time that stop searching and do this -
Accept that ONE good idea, ONE good realization, or ONE good action can and will change your life instantly.
Before I continue, I'm not saying to focus on ONE thing as you'll find in Gary Keller's book. Nope. The ONE thing I'm talking about comes wa
Are You Standing On The Edge of Your Dreams?
Are you standing on the edge of your dreams that haven’t become reality?
Steve Harvey is a funny man. He is also a wise man.
He says, "You must jump.
If you want to be successful, you must jump into your dreams, take a leap of faith, and go for it."
Many times we stand on the cliff of life and watch others enjoying the success you deserve.
They jumped, their parachute opened, and life is good.
You must jump.
When you finally decide to jump, your parachute will not open right away, and you
Change Your Stories, Change Your Life
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Change Your Stories, Change Your Life
Today we begin with a truth that on the surface may not seem very motivational. However, accepting this truth will be the singularly most freeing and motivating thing you can do for yourself.
We live in a world dominated by agendas. These 'plans of others' are broadcast to propagandize your mind into believing in a way that will pull you off your path and pu
Responding To Your Inner-Voice
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Responding To Your Inner-Voice
Inside all of you right now are dreams, desires, and visions of your future. If you pay attention, you can hear your inner voice nudging you in that direction. Something it’s been doing for years.
Whether your inner voice is whispering for you to begin moving toward your dreams or stop a behavior that’s holding you back, it will never stop re
Formula For Finding Purpose
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Over the year’s the most popular question I get from the MOVERS around here is -
“How do I find my purpose and face my passion?”
If I were to expand on that question, it would be -
“What can I do today to find my purpose and overcome the fear of living my passion?”
In other words, it’s one thing to find it; it’s another thing to get yourself to do it.
Today we’ll focus on finding it.
In my quest to always be passionately living
Are You Self-Sabotaging Your Success
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Are You Self-Sabotaging Your Success
When I started my first real business 20 years ago, I found myself stressed, working long hours, missing workouts, sleep, and family. I was determined to be a success - even if it killed me.
I'm not sure it would have done that, but I was a least on my way to wearing myself out since I was in my office at 2 AM on a Saturday, with a big bottle of wine.
Frankly, I was mad that day and was thinki
How To Rid Yourself of Burnout
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From time to time, almost everybody will feel as if they can't do IT anymore - whatever IT is. Something has to change, and they have no idea how. It's called burnout.
The good news is that you don't ever have to get burned out. The better news is that it's easy to keep yourself motivated, energized, and looking forward to every new day.
But what happens if you feel burned out today?
Let's start with someth
Two Hour Project Productivity Rule
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If you're spending any time trying to create a more fulfilling life, have you ever found yourself unable to work on meaningful projects?
Of course, we all have. Here's what usually happens:
1) We make a decision, conscious or unconscious, to spend an entire day or week charging through your project.
2) We "chunk" our project into 15-30 segments that we work on throughout the day.
The challenge happens when we never seem to be abl
How To Get Motivated Again
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As a child, I wondered why I couldn't always have my way. Mom and Dad were so mean! I couldn't wait to grow up, move out, and experience being an adult. Everything would be different - or so I thought.
After stepping into the adult world, it didn't take long to realize that not much had changed. It turns out it wasn't my parents. It was life turning down my requests. Life was getting in the way. What was even worse was that
Does Change Happen Instantly?
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You’ve likely heard that “Changes happens in an instant” - which is entirely accurate. But…
Is there one ‘instant’, and when will it happen?
Are there more than one ‘instants” required to get what you want? If so, when will they happen?
If you’ve ever worked toward a goal, you’ll find there are usually a series of small changes that happen in sequence. Whether they are slight shifts in your
How To Keep Things Simple
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Last week in Daytona Beach, I noticed the seasons were changing. It may be too early for the leaves to change colors, but the license plates of our winter residents are beginning to take over the roads - and they sure are busy.
I like to keep life simple, so I notice when, even while beginning an exciting adventure, people seem to lose all common sense, embrace complexity, and lose track of how simple life can be.
M
Mission-Focused Influence
How are you going to influence the world today?
What do you think about starting with yourself?
Getting what you want in life begins when you know what you want and believe that you can accomplish your goal.
Does that sound like you?
Simon Sinek calls it "The Golden Circle."
If you're like most folks, you spend a reasonable amount of time focusing on "What" you want and "How" you're going to get it.
Your "Why" tends to arrive last.
When you think that way, you'll find yourself wandering i
What Matters in Life
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Have you noticed how few things in life require absolute attention?
Sure, occasionally, you will be served a little more than you think you can handle, but you always manage it.
Sometimes you will worry a little more about things than you should. No matter how detailed you cook up and plan your worry in your mind, you always get through it.
Does somebody looks at you the wrong way or, worse, say something that hurts your feelings?
Planning Your Life Like a Business
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For most of the last two decades, I've made my living my passion - a dream most people have. That doesn't mean it's been easy, but it does mean that I've learned a few things about how to create what you want.
Let me begin by saying that most folks have difficulty breaking free from past limiting beliefs and creativity, creating a compelling future. I believe that happens because all of us are thrust into being "
S.M.A.R.T Goals Are Not Realistic
I'm a big fan of setting big-ass goals. Dreaming BIG is my natural state - which is why S.M.A.R.T. goals are not all that smart.
S.M.A.R.T. stands for Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Realistic, and Time-Bound.
While it may seem like a good plan, I can't wrap my head around NOT setting goals because they don't seem achievable or realistic.
Excuse me?
Since when did big-ass goals seem achievable and realistic? If that were true, you would already be doing them. Anytime you're moving from
Purpose and Happiness
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You might not be surprised to hear me say that everybody I know has moments when they ponder their purpose in life and wonder if they are on the right track.
You might also agree with me that everybody wants more happiness in their life.
There’s no doubt, the twin pursuits of searching for purpose and happiness are baked into our DNA, but there is a better way to think about it. A better
Balance of Personal Power
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If you've ever found yourself struggling to stay on track every day, your personal power is out of balance.
Before I go on, let me say that personal power is more than a slogan and, it is not automatically activated upon birth.
Rising into your personal power is a personal choice. It is a decision followed by discipline to become a complete person instead of a narrowly focused human stumbling through life.
It is a power that arrive
Productivity. Your Number One Success Tool
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If you talk to any successful person and ask how they got that way, it boils down to three things:
1) They decided what they wanted life and success to be.
2) They decided to say “No” to everything else and “Yes” to themselves.
3) They decided to embrace and practice maximum productivity toward their goal.
I suppose that if I said it another way, it would be that life always lead
Returning To Your Dreams
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Returning To Your Dreams
Can you remember a time when you filled your thoughts with dreams and ambitions?
That’s how most of us live our early lives - until the real world splits into two distinct periods:
1) BEFORE life gets in the way. Anything IS possible. It’s a beautiful time when you run as fast as you can toward your goals. Even if your parents disagree.
2) AFTER life gets in the way. Anything WAS possible. Life is good,
Breaking Bad Habits Now or Later
How many times have you heard it takes 21 days to create or break a habit? Probably as many times as you've tried to make a change to your life.
Creating a new lifestyle is nothing more than applying a different set of actions day-to-day. In doing so, you are forming a mental link that strengthens each time you repeat the action.
The guys in the white coats call this "context-dependent repetition." It's a dynamic automatic behavior that saves your brainpower in a busy world. Research has also
Steps to fulfillment
I often run across a lesson that makes a difference in my life. This one came from the time I spent with Tony Robbins in 2006. When it comes to building Momentum, it's still relevant today:
1) Get Clear. Confusion creates paralysis.
2) Get Certain. You must believe it is possible.
3) Get Excited. Light your hair on fire, kick yourself in the butt and take on your life.
4) Get Focused. Distraction is the result of a lack of focus. Avoid it at all cost.
5) Get Committed. You are going to do i
Is it Time to MOVE Faster?
Is your hair on fire for success?
There's a phrase that sums up what it takes to find whatever you're looking for. The faster the speed of the leader, the faster the speed of the pack.
It's a simple truth; success likes speed. It's very sexy and especially attractive to others.
Knowing your goals and taking massive imperfect action always speed up success. Why?
People get caught up in the belief their leaders cast. When you crank up your energy and urgency, others will follow and support yo
Choosing Good People in Your Life
With over 7 billion people on the planet, how many will you need to meet to get the success you desire?
That's a trick question. You should be asking…
How few people can you meet to get what you want as fast as possible?
It's less than you think.
You can speed your progress by refining your target. Seek to attract people and opportunities that you believe would be a good match. Then, sift and sort until only those relationships that are a perfect match remain. Let all others go on their merr
Mindset for Success (Part Two)
Let's continue with a few more mindsets for success:
1) Start using a "Good Enough" approach. Perfectionism is doing nothing to move you forward.
2) Use your ONE mind to do ONE thing. Multitasking is splitting your focus and energy. It's also delaying your success.
3) Let go of control. Some things are not up to you. Figure out what they are and move on.
4) Say NO to anything that does not directly support your goals. Don't do something in hopes of getting what you want. Do what you KNOW wil
Mindset for Success (Part One)
“On your last day on earth, the person you became will meet the person you could have become.” — Anonymous
Here are a few ideas to help you rise to your full potential:
1) Live a good lifestyle. Eat good stuff and exercise. Simple.
2) Think long-term. Find your groove. Stick with it.
3) Play BIG. Small thinking is not why you were born.
4) Be responsible. No more excuses. They are not helping you be happy.
5) Learn to be more flexible. Stop being hard-headed. Go with the flow to get what y
Why You Need WHY
As I arrive at 4,000 episodes of the Daily Boost on my way to my goal of 5,000, I've been thinking about WHY I do this program instead of what I initially planned.
You have no doubt heard that grand goals require that you completely understand WHY you're going after a goal to succeed.
Folks in my world tend to simplify it by asking, "What's your why?"
The first reason to know WHY you want to do something is that everything is always more complicated than you initially imagine it would be to a
Doing Nothing is Better Than Doing Something
Before begin, I want to define what I mean by doing nothing.
I don’t see doing ‘nothing’ as something unproductive. Instead, I see ‘nothing’ as a protected personal space that lies between your thoughts and your actions.
It is a place that provides a contemplation and planning opportunity before launching into massive and focused action design to reach your outcome and achievement of your goal.
It is a holding space where inspiration, desperation, motivation, even intimidation, bubble up i
Aiming For Success
Victor Frankl’s ‘Man’s Search for Meaning’ is one of the books that I read every couple of years as a reminder of what is important in life. This passage is one reason why -
“Don’t aim for success—the more you aim at it and make it a target, the more you are going to miss it. For success, like happiness, cannot be pursued; it must ensue that it only does so as a side-sect of one’s personal dedication to cause greater than oneself or as a by-product of one’s surrender to a person other than ones
How to Find Your Purpose and Passion
“If you don’t know your purpose, your purpose is to find your purpose.”
That simple piece of advice has freed thousands of frustrated people and allowed them to move toward their dreams without fear and anxiety.
“You already know what your purpose feels like and are probably living much of it out right now.”
Another piece of advice that simply requires a look inside for clues that will make you happy.
So, how do you do that?
There are many actionable steps you could take, but I believe what
Purposeful Goal Setting
I've always believed goal setting is the heartbeat of our lives.
Goal setting is one of the most powerful tools you have to create your best life. My question to you is… do you know what your best life is supposed to be?
I came upon my belief not from a book or a guru but from a realization I had many years ago. I found I was happy when I was chasing something bigger than myself that was also in alignment with how I felt on the inside. I was unhappy when I was checking items off my list and no
Is The Universe Ganging Up on You?
I’m not sure how you feel about the Universe and how things work in the world, but does the Universe speak to you?
I can’t tell you if the ‘Universe’ stands alone or if ‘God’ created the ‘Universe’ and runs the show. That’s so far above my pay-grade that it amounts to a pile of cash bigger than Mount Everest.
What I can say is this.
We live and breathe every day in a world that is ganging up on us and trying to get our attention. The question is, are you listening?
While there are many w
Does Your Book Have a Happy Ending
If you could write a book about the person you have become today, would it have a happy ending?
A good portion of my day is interacting with clients around the world. They are usually upbeat, open to problem-solving, and seeking my advice to help them. Or, as they would say, “help me get out of my way and get my act together. That’s where writing a book comes to mind and a good question from me -
“Okay. Before we begin, if you were to write a book about yourself in the future, would it have a
Why Live Your Life in Somebody Else's Dreams?
All I have ever wanted to do is have fun, impact people in a mostly positive way, make them laugh, have a great family and friends, make some money, and not take life too seriously.
Simple enough.
But in the over-complicated and widely distracting monkey-see-monkey-do world we live in, it's easy to get what you want and still end up with a superficially satisfying life. In fact, I would suggest such a life is easy to achieve and perfect for anybody willing to get out of bed and join the wo
Don't Let Simple Get Complicated
Way back in 2005, when Motivation To Move began, I found myself focused on creating the world's simplest success recipe when I said, "Stand up. Take a step. REPEAT!" My way of thinking told me that everything else would take care of itself if that's all I did. It has proven me correct again and again.
But, say that you get yourself moving and are having challenges maintaining forward momentum?
In The One Thing, Gary Keller writes, "Success is sequential, not simultaneous." In other words, i
The Best Change is Self-Inflicted Change
A year and a half ago, the world changed when we were all introduced to something called CorinaVirus. It was as if we were racing down Interstate 95 at 75 miles-per-hour, slammed on our breaks, and directed off the nearest exit on an undefined detour. It all seemed to happen in an instant.
The pandemic caused real pain and loss for some. Fear and stress for others. Still, as surreal as it was, it wasn't long before most people began to notice the craziness of our previous lives replaced with a
Time to Focus Bigger?
The older I get, the more I fiddle with small things that drive me crazy but keep me busy. And I do it with the full knowledge it’s not the best use of my time, below my pay grade, and distracting from big stuff I should be doing.
Over the years, I’ve noticed almost everybody I know does the same thing. I’ve also learned it doesn’t have to do with procrastination as much as getting a quick win and a short-term payoff. Yes, the reward for more significant projects is getting what you want, but c
How To Make Your Luck
Have you noticed that some people seem to get luckier than others?
Have you also noticed that they are not just sitting around collecting luck?
Getting lucky is almost always the result of taking action on an opportunity that presents itself. Even finding a twenty-dollar bill on the sidewalk resulted from having the chance to take a walk - and doing it.
There are three rules to attracting more luck into your life:
1) Get in the habit of seeking and recognizing opportunities that cross your p
Manufacturing More Time to Reach Your Goals
What if I were to tell you "the thing" you want to do or be will happen when you do something else?
With so much happening in everyday life, it's easy to get caught up in the rhythm of the day. It's like engaging the auto-pilot and sitting back and enjoying the flight called life.
But what happens when things get bumpy, and you need to change your trajectory? That's what happened to a client recently.
The first question I asked and somebody seeks advice is, “What are we working on today?”
Are Emotional Triggers Getting The Best of You?
Have you ever caught yourself doing or saying something you swore you would never do?
You are TRIGGERED!
It can be frustrating when you set the rules and don't follow them. Sometimes you put your foot in your mouth. Sometimes you put the pizza in your mouth. In any case, your emotional habits are triggering your actions. Usually, before you can do anything about it.
Controlling behaviors that have been on auto-pilot for years takes:
1) Catching yourself after the trigger, notice your mis
Prepare For Greatness
With the craziness of life, are you having difficulty breaking through to the greatness that is YOU?
What does greatness take?
1) Imagination. Your ability to form images, ideas, and sensations in your mind. Without help from anything or anybody.
2) Enthusiasm. Living life with the excitement of feeling is PASSION. Only involve yourself in activities that you are enthusiastic about.
3) Persistence. Life is long. Things take time. Learn to love being doggedly persistent. It will serve you wel
Start Living Your Perfect Day
What if every day, for the rest of your life, was perfect?
If you build it, they will come!
Your subconscious mind is a beautiful thing. You can engage its power to create your Perfect Day.
Here’s how:
1) Write down a clear, event-by-event vision of what your perfect day would be. What will you do today?
2) There are no rules. No limitations. No consequences. Don’t be shy. Be honest about what you want.
3) Believe it can be yours. You deserve it. You must believe something is possible bef
What if Today Was Your Last
If you only had 24 hours to live, what would you do today?
How about a week, month, or year?
What would be necessary for you?
The truth is that we all will move on from this world in the coming days, weeks, months, or years. You can’t escape the escape.
How will you live today?
Will you spend more time with family, write, travel, get famous, make money?
Whatever your answer, you should begin as soon as possible.
Live like tomorrow will never come, and you will always be happy today.
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Keep Your Plans a Secret
In the last few years, it has become increasingly popular for people to share every little aspect of their lives with others. But, when it comes to getting what you want in life, keeping your plans to yourself is a powerful tool
The 4th of July has just passed, and when I arrived at my desk on Monday, I had two messages from clients that made me smile.
The first said, "I decided to spend my weekend practicing what I do in private so that I will be praised in public." That's something I’ve said
Keeper of the Vision
Do you have an image in your mind of what you would like your life to be - except when life gets in the way?
There's no doubt that daily life events have a funny way of distracting us from reaching goals. It's just too easy to put them on the back burner. That's why you need to become the keeper of your vision.
Every day thousands of opportunities will arrive on your path and detour you from what you want. That's why it's up to you to guard your vision by asking a simple question -
Will this
Don’t Be Who You Are Not
Are you striving for something different but don’t know where to begin?
I have a client who is 100 pounds overweight and decided to get healthy. She had no idea how.
My advice was simple.
If your mind is telling you something you are doing is NOT who you are - it’s time to make an easy change:
If you know lousy food is NOT who you - give it up.
If your lack of exercise is NOT who are you - give it up.
If lack of focus is NOT who you are - give it up.
Give up anything that is NOT who yo
How to Maintain Momentum
Steven Covey called it sharpening the saw. If you take a break to sharpen the blade, you will always cut more wood. The same applies to life.
My formula is Ritual, Rest, Rejuvenate, Reactivate. Repeat
1) Success comes when you perform ritual actions every day. Figure out what works and do it.
2) Running full-out all the time is not sustainable. You must stop and rest.
3) Resting allows your body and mind to rejuvenate and become healthy again.
4) When you are ready, it's time to reactivate
Removing Blocks That Get in Your Way
When life gets in the way, do you get frustrated about being blocked?
I learned a long time ago that getting blocked is an everyday occurrence. The bigger my goals, the more blocks would arrive. I could either live with endless frustrations or find a better way. It came down to understanding:
1) Blocks have nothing to do with who you are. Self-inflicted or caused by others, they still have nothing to do with you as a person.
2) If you want something, there is always a way to get it. Always.
Good Habits Good Life
Whatever you get in life is a result of your daily habits. What is a habit?
According to the dictionary, it is a settled or regular tendency or practice. It is also something that is especially one that is hard to give up.
Good habits or bad habits are hard to give up. If that’s the case, you may as well choose good habits.
In a survey of 233 self-made millionaires, here’s what people who are successful at anything have in common:
They get up early, read a lot, and spend 15 to 30 minutes eac
Stages of Changing Your Life
As we get closer to Independence Day, I've noticed two kinds of people crossing my path. Those who are contemplating making change, and those who are taking action toward change.
Winston Churchill said, "To improve is to change, so to be perfect is to have changed often."
If that's the case, it's time to get moving. That means accelerating your progress through the stages of change:
1) Pre-Contemplation. You may are intending to take action but are unaware that your behavior is the problem.
Creative Productivity
Over the years, I have personally produced over 10,000 podcasts, and every one of them begins with the written word. Even though that makes my mouth and my fingers my most exercised body parts, it has also given me lots of opportunities to learn to keep my words flowing.
If you're like most people, you have found yourself sitting in front of a blank screen, praying for inspiration. It could writer's block, procrastination, or maybe you stayed up late watching Netflix. In any case, there's a sim
Minimum Viable Actions
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Motivating yourself to reach your goals is a never-ending process that kicks in several times a year. Most folks have a long list of new routines and actions they want to put into place. But, it may be too long.
Many years ago, I decided to control my mornings by establishing actions that I would take upon waking. Unfortunately, while I had great intentions, I found myself floundering and eventually losing focus.
Why?
I realized that the actions I was trying to e
3 Question Goal Setting
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There are so many choices in front of us every day. Each has the power to determine when and whether you will achieve your goals. Once you know the outcome you desire, these questions will help:
1) What CAN you do today that will lead directly and quickly to achieving your goal.
2) What SHOULD you do today that will lead directly and quickly to achieving your goal?
3) What MUST you do today that will lead directly and quickly to achieving your goal
Life is About Experience and Time
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Over the years, I’ve learned that success in any area of life is more about failure than winning. Getting what is essential to you in life is always on the other side of the lessons taught by failing. That’s why I like to fail often and do it as fast as I can.
After over a year, I recently enjoyed the old-fashioned fun of attending a stand-up comedy performance. I’m not sure if the comedian or the audience was more nervous and rusty about how the evenin
Calm. Cool. Kind.
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I was an Ass, and I was the last to notice. I'm sure that kind of thing has never happened to you - right?
In the world we live in today, it seems everything moves so quickly that we all do our best to keep up. 24-hour news, high-speed internet, grocery delivery in an hour. And who cares if an Amazon delivery driver has to pee in a bottle, I want my stuff, and I want it now!
After living several years in a rural setting, I thought I was heeding the advice I give m
Big. Awesome. Motivating. Mission.
Do you still dream of what you will be when you grow up?
Do those visions keep popping into your head?
If that’s the case, what’s your BIG, AWESOME, MOTIVATING MISSION?
BAM!
What dreams excite you and give you a feeling of happiness?
BAM!
What scares you - and excites you?
BAM!
What makes you smile and say, “If I could only get myself to…”
BAM!
Take a few minutes and figure out your BAM! Then stand up, take a step, and repeat! Keep going until you get what you want.
Oh - there’s n
There's Always Another Chance
Is it me, or does living life these days make you feel like Bill Murray in the movie Groundhog Day?
When it comes to working toward goals, that can be a tremendous asset. It's also something that will break you free when things don't feel like they are going your way.
Everybody has ups and downs. Up days are lots of fun. Down days make you want to crawl under a rock. But like the movie, with the right mindset, you always get another chance to try again.
How would you feel if every day was a c
Choosing To Thrive
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Thriving in chaos is something we hear a lot about these days. Few words hold the power to ignite fear, excite hope, and get you to click a link like thrive and chaos.
It's time to release yourself from all of that external drama.
As a human, you have something magical inside. It will allow you to ground yourself, stay steady, and move forward.
You can choose how you feel, chart your path, and take any action you desire.
When you were born, you were hard-wired t
Why Change When Things Are Good?
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Growth and change are what most people strive for in their life. It’s what drives you before you create your amazing life. It’s also what drives you to step up to the next level.
In the 15 years, I’ve spent producing the Daily Boost podcast, I’ve had the chance to speak to thousands of people. All of them were in various stages of change, and most had the goal of being happy.
But, there is an issue that keeps popping up.
As people go about living and enjoying t
Cycles of Life
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Been there, done that. It's not my first time at the rodeo, and I have the T-shirt to prove it.
I've been known to say those words often. But, it's another way of saying life is a series of repeating experiences if you think about it. But that doesn't mean you have to do the same thing over and over again.
I spoke with a client recently, and he noticed we were both living in a year of change. There are many. My friend Louis Gates calls
Creating Momentum
Have you ever found yourself stalled?
A few years ago, I had big plans, and nothing was moving forward. When I say nothing, other people didn't seem to get the memo that I was on a mission.
We've all been in situations where nobody will return your call. Your email gets ghosted. You can’t seem to get support or commitment for your future, world-saving plans.
That's what happened to me and caused me to decide to create my momentum. I called it my "Momentum Freight Train."
My first use of my new m
Goals Always Drift With The Wind
Have you noticed that airplanes fly crooked?
Heading to their destination, winds attempt to blow them off course. That’s why pilots turn their aircraft into the wind. They call it Wind Correction.
The same thing happens when you set a Goal. While you would prefer the straight path, you will likely run into winds that will blow you off course.
Your spouse doesn’t agree with your plans. Your boss demands more hours. Your kids, friends, and responsibilities keep blowing you further away from you
Law of Attraction Made Simple
The Law of Attraction should be called the Law of What You Think About Most.
Like attracts like. What you think about, you get.
If you think, "I won't get it because I never do" - you are correct.
Dreaming of something new while focusing on current problems is a sure way to keep spinning your wheels.
The secret is to focus your attention and actions on what you want to attract. That will require a dedicated effort. Vision Boards, lists of goals, daily journaling are all great ways to stay o
Are You Eating The Big Frog First?
I have a question for you.
What is your ONE most important activity?
What is the ONE core activity that makes everything else fine?
What is the ONE core activity that if you don’t do causes everything to fall apart?
In Brian Tracy’s book Eat The Big Frog First he recognized that many people focus on anything but the most critical activity in their life. They are usually surprised when things fall apart.
Is it showing up for work on time or doing a great job at work?
Could it be your unfli
Your Accountability Partner
Over the years, I've witnessed dozens of people set themselves up for failure by following seemingly wise advice -
"When you set a goal, make it public and tell everybody you know so that they can support you."
In my experience, that hasn't worked so well - especially on long-term goals. The reason is that anybody outside of my close relationships doesn't know me well enough to understand why I'm doing what I'm doing. That makes it challenging to provide support in meaningful ways, difficult f
Thinking That Will Make Your Day Better
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Everything we do is guided by what we think is logical in our minds. I call my way of thinking Scott LOGIC.
Is it common sense? Is it experience-based? Is it how I choose to live? Yes. But mostly, it is an endless list of thoughts that make my day better. Here are a few that will no doubt do the same for you.
Life is long enough. But not for everybody. Recognize the difference.
Life goes quickly unless you are bored. Stay busy.
Don’t Sweat The Small Stuff
The older I get, the more I fiddle with small things that drive me crazy but keep me busy. And I do it with the full knowledge it’s not the best use of my time, below my pay grade, and distracting from big stuff I should be doing.
Over the years, I’ve noticed almost everybody I know does the same thing. I’ve also learned it doesn’t have to do with procrastination as much as getting a quick win and a short-term payoff. Yes, the reward for more significant projects is getting what you want, but c
Slam The Door Behind You Before Opening The Next
People miss one challenge when they decide to pursue the “get what I want life” of their dreams. It’s going to be difficult. That’s the bad news. The good news is that once you accept difficulty, everything else gets easier.
Over the years, I’ve noticed deciding to change creates two pressure points. The first is the circumstances that drive you to do something different. It could be people or situations. Frustration or boredom. Even good-old-fashion fear of missing out. In any case, something
Roadmap For Success
Call me crazy, but I've always believed life should be simple - and there's no better way than to follow an uncomplicated structure in everything you do.
I call it MAPSS.
Motivation. Everything begins with the motivation that comes from the inside out. Know your "WHY," get excited, and get moving.
Accountability. The next step is to put benchmarks in place that allow you to keep track of your progress, providing more motivation.
Planning. Plan your work, work your plan. Never begin until you
Stop. Think. Think Again. Act.
With everything going on in the world these days, it isn’t easy to make good decisions. Being a former fat guy living in a relatively thin body, I learned a life lesson I still use every day that helps.
As a kid, going out to eat was a special occasion. One weekend my parents introduced me to the concept of an all-you-can-eat steak house! I knew that I would be living in my Husky pants from that day forward until I found a solution. Years later, I did.
In the beginning, I adopted a philosophy
4-Questions For Goal Success
Do you have dreams of what you want for the future? Have you ever wondered your inner voice will lead you in the right direction?
These four questions will help sort out everything for you:
1) What is it? Do you understand exactly what you want?
2) How does it work? How will you go about reaching your goal? What will likely be the outcome?
3) Can you do it? Is your plan reasonable? Do you have the time, skills, money?
4) Are you sure? If you are willing to put in the effort, are you confide
How Happy People View The World
Did you know that happy people view the world differently?
They don't wear rose-colored glasses. They have a better way:
1) Happy people accept that life brings problems.
2) Happy people recognize that problems are a privilege that comes with being alive.
3) Happy people get frustrated but don't give up. Problems are normal.
4) Happy people accept responsibility for solving problems.
5) Happy people deal with anything life throws at them, get a good night's sleep, and do it all over again
Invisible Appointments With Yourself
Productivity is a big deal for any high-performance person in today's fast-paced world. Almost everybody's life revolves around how much they can squeeze into their calendar. Something I don't agree with at all.
I was chatting with a client recently when he commented that I must be swamped. He wondered how I kept up with everything I had to do. I decided to share my calendar with him and asked, "So, what do you see?"
"Well, I see that you only have three appointments on most days. That surpris
What’s Your Morning Focus
I love the quiet peacefulness of mornings, but I'm not too fond that mornings happen so early.
Still, the focus, creativity, and feeling of momentum that comes with getting up before the chickens have such value that I needed getting up a bit easier. My solution to drop the complicated and establish a simple routine.
I begin by deciding the area I’m currently prioritizing and choosing a "first thing" task to move me closer to my goal.
Next, I set myself up for success the night before. Depend
No Plan B
Over the years, most of us have heard that anything is possible. Our mentors say, "If somebody else is doing it, you can too!"
When Roger Bannister broke the "four-minute mile barrier" in 1954, 1,400 other runners followed in his footsteps.
I was watching American Ninja Warrior recently, female after female climbed the 14-foot warped wall. Something impossible before Kacy Catanzaro did it in 2014.
This past week as we attended the Medical School graduation of my step-daughter. I was reminded
How To Be Your Own Motivator
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Have you ever had one of those days when it would be nice if somebody would pat you on the back and pump you up? The only problem is, nobody seems to be stepping up?
Relying on others for motivation is a great way to get what you want. We all need the external encouragement of our peers. However, your internal motivation is stronger. Having a quick way to cheer yourself on is even more powerful.
My friend, Terry, owns a martial arts school in Memphis, Tenn
Be The Change You Want
People have always sought change for themselves, their life, or the world. If you want to change something about your life, there is a constant truth; you must change before anything else changes.
Many smart folks agree -
Mahatma Gandhi said, “Be the change that you wish to see in the world.”
Leo Tolstoy, “Everyone thinks of changing the world, but no one thinks of changing himself.”
What about Albert Einstein?
“The world, as we have created, is a process of our thinking. It cannot be chan
You Are Already a Rock Star!
A funny thing happens when we graduate from High School and enter the real world; dreams change.
When my Son was in his early 20's, he announced that he was heading to Los Angles to pursue his dream of becoming a Rock Star. He would be a singer in a rock and roll band, and he was on a mission to achieve his goal. When I heard his idea, I had a question -
"What happens if you become a member of the band instead?"
He had a perplexed look on his face. I'm not sure if he was angry or confused. I
Decision Making With Emotions
One of the most potent and respected skills you can own is the ability to make a decision. Having a clear mind is essential. This means using your emotions is not something most people would recommend. However, since you're going to use your emotions anyway, you may as well harness the power of your heart.
If you're like most people, your most important and fun decisions have been very emotional. Whether to get married, move to a new home, or buy a new car, emotions are always the first step in
The Day You Decide Everything Must Change
Choosing to take a different path in life can take years and happens in stages. But there is one stage that is always present before you succeed.
One joy of doing my work is the relationships I have with thousands of people - many on a one-on-one basis. In most cases, these folks have decided to move away from their old life. They are heading off in a new direction, and most have begun their journey. And that's when things get complicated.
Their decision to change is usually the result of repe
Practice Makes Perfect?
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Over the years, many teachers have told me that I needed to practice more. They said, “Practice makes perfect!” Yet, the more I practiced, the more I noticed that something else happened instead.
Practicing, it turns out, only produces perfection when you practice perfectly.
When everything is correct, you know what you are doing and can catch your mistakes. But, if that were the case, why would you need to practice?
Practice does not make perfect. Practice
Hollywood Dogs Have it Right
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There’s a saying among dog trainers that for a dog, one time is all the time. Whether it’s good behavior or bad, once a dog learns what it can get away with, it’ll do it forever.
A couple of weeks ago, I visited a friend who is also a big-time animal trainer for film and television. While I was at her home, she introduced me to her Golden Retriever. I recognized his expressive eyes. It was Duke from the Bush Beans commercials we’ve all seen so many times.
M
Expanding Your Comfort Zone
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One of the most empowering mindsets you can own is knowing that you are never alone in this world. I received an email I wanted to share with you.
Hi, Scott -
I got something so positive from your message today. You talked about getting out of your comfort zone. I thought that all I have ever wanted was to experience a little Comfort Zone!
I realized from today's podcast, people who have enjoyed living in their Comfort Zone have
Are You Burying The Lead in Your Life
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Have you ever found yourself setting out on a big mission yet not being able to define what you want?
When I was a young man, I trained in journalism as part of my broadcast career. Radio stations would send me to the local town meetings and political events. Anything newsworthy. My job was to write a story and deliver it on the air, and I thought I was doing a great job - until my boss called me into his office. He wanted to know why I wasn't gettin
Mission Beyond Your Why
Since the beginning of time, successful people have given this sage advice; you must set goals.
In the human mind, setting goals are the heartbeat of your life. Setting a goal will harness your focus, give you meaning and purpose, and drive you forward. It gets even better if you place a deadline. If your goal is essential, timely, urgent, you will likely do anything possible to get it.
Yes, likely.
You may have also heard that understanding WHY you want to achieve your goal is critical to
What Is Your Intention?
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Do you get out of bed every day, plant your feet on the ground, and start getting things done?
Do you do it with intention?
If you take a minute, you’ll notice the happiest, most successful, and content people live a life of intention. But having an intention is not a magical force reserved for the special few. It implies little more than what you plan to bring about in your life - something I was about to do.
In the months after me
Formula For Automatic Motivation
Get the Daily Boost commercial-free and more. Visit MotivationToMove.com. Over the years, I’ve learned there is one trait responsible for holding people back. While it lives at the front of your mind and affects everything you do, it is also invisible.
You are too vague in your vision.
When most people build a successful life, they often do so with a lack of clarity or precise vision of their future. They have a vague idea. The Universe kicks in gear, an opportunity arrives, and life is good
Acting On Your Dreams and Goals
Do you have long-held dreams and goals that you need a little motivation to get yourself moving?
Laura and I have worked together for over a decade on various projects. Her latest was a move from a long-time career into something she was in which she was more passionate. After several months, her dream transformed into a goal. The roadmap was in place. Action was the only thing needed to turn dreams into reality—then nothing happened.
Months passed by with little or no action. It seemed that l
Listening To Yourself Twice as Much as Others
When I was growing up, I was an energetic, enthusiastic, and excitable child. I never let a day go by without challenging something - usually with my mouth. Thanks to those responsible for turning me into a good person, I learned a valuable lesson when they said-
"Listen twice as much as you speak. You have two ears and one mouth for a reason."
You’ve heard that before, and in today's fast-paced world, knowing when to put a zipper on your lips is critical. But, I've also learned to take that a
Toss Your To-Do List. This is Better.
There is a significant benefit of growing older and wiser, figuring out what works in most areas of life. The school of hard knocks is a great place to master most areas of life - including productivity.
I'm always amazed at how much time people fritter away deciding how to be more productive—always trying to keep up with their never-ending daily list of things. Eventually, though, we all learn that a good life will always offer more opportunities than you can ever use. The day will come when i