The Monica Swanson Podcast - boy mom, build strong families, Biblical worldview, women's wellness
Monica Swanson and Christian Parenting
Monica Swanson, author of Boy Mom and Raising Amazing , and blogger at monicaswanson.com, shares encouragement and inspiration for raising amazing kids and building strong families. Monica shares practical advice and biblical wisdom through honest conversations, interviews with experts, and light-hearted humor.
The Monica Swanson Podcast is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org
Let’s Talk about Kids and Dating, with JP Pokluda
*I am re-sharing this episode with JP Pokluda as it was a favorite on the podcast and it is a perfect fit for my Feb. 2025 series on all things Love and Marriage! Hope you enjoy!Dating has never been simple (who remembers?!) but today it is more complicated than ever. The world offers all kinds of mixed messages to young adults and teenagers and our Christian culture isn’t giving a lot of alternatives. In such crazy times our kids need a voice of reason and a lot of Biblical wisdom to help them
Perspectives on kids and dating, with Dave and Monica
We continue this February series talking about all things love and marriage by talking parenting on the topic of dating. My husband, Dave, joins me to share Biblical perspectives and how we handled the topic of dating from the time our boys were young. Note: Dave and I spoke as a married couple, to married couples. We did not mean to leave out single parents (we love you!) so we hope you are able to apply the biblical principles we share to your parenting as well. Find more on this topic in my
Four Decisions to Make Marriage Easier, with Arlene Pellicane
As we continue in this February series of all things “Love and Marriage” on the podcast, I am thrilled to share one of my favorite people with you. Arlene Pellicane is funny and smart, and her most recent book, “Making Marriage Easier” is a must-read! Many people today are pessimistic about marriage. Some of the data about divorce rates can be downright discouraging. However, research tells us that the happiest people on the planet are those in healthy marriages! In this episode Arlene walks u
Lessons on Love, Dating, and the Rewards of Waiting, with Rebecca St. James and Cubbie Fink
We are kicking off a full month of “love and marriage” on the podcast with a beautiful, honest, and inspiring conversation with Rebecca St. James and her husband, Cubbie Fink. Rebecca and Cubbie just released a new book, “Lasting Ever: Faith, music, family, and being found by true love” and in today’s episode you will get a sneak peek into their story and their deep faith. Last fall I loved watching the movie, “Unsung Hero”, which depicted the early years of Rebecca St. James’s family life and
How to Survive the “February Slump”
Last year I finally discovered a name for the very real experience I've had, well, pretty much every year since I can remember. It hits when the holidays are over, and summer break seems like an eternity away...When life feels one part exhausting and one part super boring. It’s often rainy and cold, (at least where I grew up, and sometimes even in Hawaii!) the house tends to be a bit extra cluttered (spring cleaning hasn’t happened yet.) I typically want to quit homeschooling, New Years resoluti
Practical Help for Picky Eaters and the Importance of Nutrition for our Kids, with Katie Kimball
How has it taken me so long to get to a topic that I am SO passionate about? I am beyond excited to open up the conversation of kids’ health with my friend, Katie Kimball (of Kitchen Stewardship and Kids Cook Real Food.) Katie is an author, podcaster, and Ted Talk Speaker. She loves to encourage parents to introduce their kids to a wide variety of foods, teach kids about nutrition, and get kids in the kitchen to cook real food! In today’s conversation, Katie shares some eye-opening statistics
8 Reasonable Habits that will Make a Big Difference this Year
Hey Friends! We’re still working our way into this new year (that’s ok, right?) and today I am sharing straight from my honest life about 8 things I’m currently working on to make 2025 the very best year possible. I’m keeping this super real and raw, and hoping you feel like we’re chatting over coffee (or in beach chairs, if you come to my neck of the woods!) The first four our indeed health related (it is New Years after all!) but I also touch on parenting topics (fresh chore charts anyone?) as
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Monica Swanson, author of Boy Mom and Raising Amazing, and blogger at monicaswanson.com, shares encouragement and inspiration for raising amazing kids and building strong families. Monica shares practical advice and biblical wisdom through honest conversations, interviews with experts, and light-hearted humor. The Monica Swanson Podcast is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianP
Growing closer to God in 2025, with Jeannie Cunnion
We are still chatting New Years around here, and this podcast episode is one I don’t want you to miss! My friend, Jeannie Cunnion, is with us to talk about how we can pursue God’s personal presence this year…and the good news is: It’s not about OUR performance, because He is already pursuing us!Jeannie and I chat about her recent trip to Hawaii, her journey to being an author, and how God helped her overcome a works-based mindset to discover His amazing love and grace! Jeannie has such a humble
Bob Goff and Catching Whimsy in 2025
Happy New Year!! Today we get to kick off the New Year with an inspiring (and funny as always!) chat with Bob Goff. Bob is sharing the heart of his brand new book, Catching Whimsy: 365 Days of Possibility, and how it applies to all of us – no matter how normal and routine our lives may seem! Bob is a master story teller, yet manages to weave spiritual truths and wisdom nuggets into everything he does. If you’ve got some hurt, or need a fresh perspective on your circumstances, tune in and be enc
3 Things to do before the New Year! (& Merry Christmas!)
Mele Kalikimaka! Merry Christmas from Hawaii! Whether you catch this on Christmas day (I’m so honored!) or a bit later, in this episode you will find some fun facts regarding that strange week between Christmas and New Years, as well as THREE THINGS I suggest we all do before the New Year begins!I’m keeping this short and sweet, but I think the tips in this episode will prepare you well for an intentional, faith-filled start to your new year. Find show notes with the three tips as well as the Sc
10 Do’s and Don’ts for a Happy Family Christmas with Dave and Monica
We are officially one week away from Christmas! This is a replay from a fun “date-night” style episode my husband Dave and I shared a few days before Christmas in 2023. Dave and I are passing along wisdom we have gleaned over 29 Christmases together, most with a house full of boys. You'll find some important “do’s” as well as a few “don’t”’s! Hopefully a few will be encouraging reminders and a few will make you laugh. We imagine some of you might listen together with your spouse while wrapping g
5 Tips for Less Stress this Christmas
If you’ve ever let the stress of the season steal the JOY of the season, you know what inspired this episode. I’ve been there, and I don’t want to go back! Today’s episode is all about facing the reality of the holiday season with intentionality, and ending it with no regrets! Today I share five very simple and do-able tips that will decrease our stress, and help us be more present, patient, and peaceful this season. Hoping you can catch this while running errands, wrapping presents, or foldi
Restoring Your Joy, with Asheritah Ciuciu
Did you know that you were created for delight? It’s true! Though, if you are not feeling the fullness of that right about now you are not alone. We live in a fallen world and life can feel complicated and hard. Sometimes even turning to the Bible can feel like another task on our to-do list. Most of us don’t like to admit these things, especially in the midst of what is supposed to be the happiest season of all. (right?) Today’s guest, Asheritah Ciuciu, is no stranger to this reality. After a
Master Your Holiday Mindset, with Krista Gilbert
I am so excited to officially kick of the holiday season here on the podcast with this incredibly practical and fun conversation! Krista Gilbert is an executive and personal life coach who helps people and companies “design a life they love” (how cool is that!?) She’s also a personal friend who I enjoy and respect so much! In this conversation Krista and I talk about the realities of the holidays: They are magical and wonderful but can also be tricky. Expectations sneak in, things don’t always g
How to make Biblical decisions, with Emily Jensen of Risen Motherhood
We all know there is no formula for good motherhood (bummer!) Yet, the Bible does offer plenty of wisdom to help us navigate well. By understanding the gospel story and considering how God has made each of our families uniquely, Christian moms have access to the very best guide. Every day, moms must make decisions...so many decisions! The Bible has clear guidelines for some, but others are less clear and require wisdom and discernment. Today, Emily Jensen, co-founder of Risen Motherhood, joins u
Mommy overwhelm, anger, and guilt, with Natalie Hixson
If you’ve been a mom for more than a minute, you have dealt with difficult emotions. Destructive mommy anger has been one of the hardest issues for me personally, and I am so grateful for God’s grace in offering me forgiveness, grace, and a new way to parent. Now I am passionate about helping other moms overcome the cycle of overwhelm, anger, and guilt. Today’s guest, Natalie Hixson shares my passion, and has dedicated the past 8 years to coaching moms who struggle with anger. In today’s episod
The Why and How of Disciplining Our Kids, with Dr. Dave
As we near the end of this fall series on the most frequently-asked-parenting questions, today we come to the topic that I have probably been asked the very most about: DISCIPLINE! I am grateful to have my husband with me to cover this challenging and potentially divisive, but incredibly important topic! Dave and I begin this episode with the WHY of discipline. We share Scripture and common sense reasons for disciplining our kids, ideally starting at a very young age. We spend the second part of
Sibling Squabling, competition, and other FAQs, with Jessica Smartt
I am so excited to get to share this honest Mom-chat with my friend Jessica Smartt. I have loved Jessica’s books (links to them over in my show notes) and getting to know her in real life a couple years ago, and I appreciate her wisdom, conviction, and humor. I think you'll enjoy getting to know her too!In today’s episode Jessica shares three helpful parenting “goals” for sibling relationships, and then we go on to cover questions I have received from Instagram messages and emails. We cover a lo
Parenting Gold Nuggets from 7 Experts!
I’m so excited to get to share a sneak peek, — some special clips from 7 of the interviews which are a part of the Character Training Course. And the fun news is: The Character Training Course is finally open (only until next Monday!) I hope you can go over to the COURSE PAGE to see what’s in there and join over a thousand families who are saying YES to raising kids of character! Whether or not you are a part of the course, today’s guests will inspire you in the areas of: Raising kids with a s
Teach Character, Watch Kids Succeed, with Dennis Trittin
We all want our kids to have good character, but we don’t always consider how crucial character is to our kids’ future success. In today’s interview, former multi-billion-dollar investment manager, Dennis Trittin, helps us connect the dots and find even more motivation for raising kids of character.After over 30 years managing investments and studying successful leaders all over the world, Dennis shifted his focus to sharing what he had learned with the next generation. Writing books and speakin
Parenting without Panic in an LGBT+ Affirming World, with Rachel Gilson
Welcome to week 2 of this fall series focused on “Most-asked-about” Parenting topics. Today we tackle a hot topic in our culture which I think is incredibly important for parents to tune into. My guest, Rachel Gilson, has an amazing testimony (I can’t wait or you to hear it!) From her background as an atheist and a lesbian, to being confronted with the reality of Jesus’ love for her (at Yale, no-less!) Rachel’s story is powerful. Now as a wife, Mom, and Christ-follower, Rachel is in a unique po
Raising Mentally Unshakeable kids, with Lauren Gaines
This week we kick off a month + of “most-requested” parenting topics. We’re going to cover some hard topics and some hot topics. Today we kick it all off with a topic important for every parent: Raising mentally strong kids! My guest, Lauren Gaines, has a background in school psychology and has taught at the University level. More recently Lauren began wearing the title of “homeschool Mom”. In today’s interview Lauren tells us about the cognitive triangle, how to help kids “take captive their
A girlfriend/Doctor chat about Pelvic Floor Health, with Sierra Rehrer
Welcome to part 4 of my September Women’s Wellness Series. Today we get to talk about the common, yet often-confusing topics related to pelvic floor health! My good friend, Doctor of Physical Therapy, Sierra Rehrer, is with us to help us understand the various women’s health issues related to the pelvic floor. She shares the most common pelvic floor problems, what we can do at home to strengthen the pelvic floor, and when it is time to see a doctor or physical therapist. Sierra has a strong bac
When it's More than just PMS, with Greta Eskridge
Welcome to part 3 of my September Women’s Wellness Series. As we go through these topics, I am very aware that we are just scratching the surface, and I am already working on plans for more of these in the future! The topic of hormones alone could be a month-long series (if not more!) but I think this honest chat with my friend, Greta Eskridge, is a great start. Greta has had a long and challenging journey with hormones, from PMS to perimenopause. While her story may not offer a solution or sp
My personal journey overcoming struggles with food, exercise, and the scale.
In this, my most vulnerable episode to date, I share my personal journey overcoming obsessions with food, exercise, and the scale. Beginning with my background as a competitive gymnast, to typical teenage insecurities, to dieting and obsessing as a lifestyle, to laying it all down in surrender to the Lord, and the amazing (though very practical) path He led me to when everything changed! (Including landing at my ideal weight without following any plan!) Perhaps most importantly, I am convinced
Becoming Happy and Healthy, with Jeanine Amapola
Jeanine Amapola is a popular influencer for Gen Z, but even more, she is wise beyond her years! After a long season of straddling the fence between sincere faith and hidden sin, Jeanine faced the truth: Only a true surrender to God would truly satisfy. Jeanine joins us to chat through some of the topics in her recent book, Becoming Happy and Healthy. We cover friends (good ones and the toxic type,) adventure, career, and the power of habits. Jeanine opens up about secret sins and the importance
Becoming the Prayer Warrior your Kids Need, with Brooke McGlothlin
We do a lot for our kids, but nothing is more powerful or effective as praying for them. Yet, many of us feel intimidated or inadequate in our prayer lives. Life is busy. We are tired. What is the best way to pray for our kids? Brooke McGlothlin is here to help! In today’s episode she shares her unexpected journey to becoming a praying mom, and steps that anyone can take to elevate their prayer lives. I love Brooke's focus on praying Scripture for our kids, and I’ll be including a few of the pr
A (back-to-school) Parenting Pep-Talk, with Leslie Nunnery
I thought we could all use a little “parenting pep talk” right about now…As we wrap up a busy summer and prep for the new school year, we need reminders of how important our role is as parents, the job description God has given us, and the difference we can make in our kids’ lives through our involvement, support, and prayers. In this episode I am chatting with Leslie Nunnery, author, podcaster, and host of the popular “Teach Them Diligently” homeschool conference. I love Leslie’s passion for p
The 5 Building Blocks of a Well-Rounded Student
We all have unique interests and strengths, and then other areas that, well, don’t come so naturally. (right?) That’s perfectly normal. Yet, being well-rounded is important for navigating every area of life. I think it is a good idea to zoom out occasionally and take inventory of how we and our kids are doing in the way of being well-rounded, and balanced! In this episode I am sharing what I call the “Five Building Blocks” of a well-rounded student. Whether your kids go to a traditional school,
Creating the best preschool years, with Lindsey Mimnaugh of Treehouse Schoolhouse
Lindsey Mimnaugh has grown a huge online following for her beautiful curriculums, nature studies, and always-inspiring social media posts (See: Treehouse Schoolhouse online) I love her book suggestions and all of her ideas for training little ones with good habits, life skills, and open-ended play! Beginning her homeschooling journey before she had kids of her own (by homeschooling other people’s kids!) Lindsey has experience and wisdom to share. In today’s episode we talk about five ways to set
5 Family Things to Do Before Summer is Through!
Summertime is so special, yet the days are fleeting (right?) And without some intentionality it’s easy to wrap up summer, wondering where the days have gone. Whether your kids are about to start back to school already (like here in Hawaii!) or you still have a few weeks, you’ll be glad to make the most of these days while summer is still in the air! In today’s episode I suggest FIVE things families can do, for a no-regrets summer. These are not difficult, but they won’t happen on their own! I’
Luke’s Surf Journey and Competitive Mindset, with my son, Luke
This is part 3 of my summer mini-series on parenting and youth sports. Be sure to tune into the last two episodes if you have missed them! In today’s episode, my son Luke (20,) joins me talk about his experience pursuing a professional surf career. For context he explains a bit about how competitive surfing works, where he is now in the process, and his ultimate goals. He talks about how he got started surfing competitively, some of his early inspiration, and the twists and turns of youth surfin
3 Faith Principles for Navigating Youth Sports, with Dr. Dave.
Welcome to part II of our summer series on parenting and youth sports. Be sure to catch last week’s (packed!) episode if you missed it! Today my husband Dave is with us to consider 3 important FAITH PRINCIPLES that impact our kids’ athletic endeavors. Background: Dave played soccer through the collegiate and professional level, and we are both super competitive people. We have navigated parenting our four sons through all kinds of recreational sports, and now our son, Luke, is a professional su
Can we Make Youth Sports Fun Again? With John O’Sullivan
Note: This is the first of a 3-part summer series on Youth Sports. (I'm so excited about this!) I hope you’ll spread the word and comment over in show notes to keep the conversation going. According to recent research, 70% of kids drop out of organized athletics by the age of 13. Today’s guest, John O’Sullivan, suggests that this is because youth sports have become adult-centered, ultra-competitive, and crazy-expensive. I don’t think he’s wrong. Since my husband and I have shared conversations
How to Give Your Kids What Technology Can’t, with Erin Loechner
"We’ve all heard the mind-boggling statistics about technology and social media use. The numbers don’t lie; our obsession with smartphones and social media is slowly eroding the very essence of our homes and families. We see it. We feel it. We know it.So what do we do about it? "... - Erin Loechner, today's guest.Erin Loechner walked away from over a million online followers to choose a different way of life for her family. Since then, she has done a lot of research and discovered the possibilit
How to Have a Better Relationship with Your Phone, with Joey Odom
When Joey Odom missed his son’s first soccer goal because he was looking at his phone, he had a realization: his phone was getting in the way of his best intentions as a Dad and a husband. Since then, he has been on a journey to change his relationship with his phone so that he can change the most important relationships in his life. I heard about Joey from our mutual friend (and a favorite podcast guest,) Justin Whitmel Earley who recommended I share Joey’s message with my listeners. I am so g
Simple rules for decorating any space, with Myquillyn Smith
Whether you’re a natural at home decorating or, (like me) feel a little lost on the topic, Myquillyn Smith (aka “the nester”) is the friend you need. When I got my copy of “House Rules” with 100 simple, memorable tips for decorating any space, I knew this would be a fun topic for the podcast this summer! I think you’ll enjoy Myquillyn’s laid back (but clearly educated) approach to making your space minimal, yet cozy. We cover a lot in this chat! From the “trinity” of rugs, drapes, and lighting,
The 3 Best Things I Did as a Dad, with Andrew Pudewa
Happy Father’s Day week everyone! Today my friend Andrew Pudewa, is with us to offer some lessons and encouragement for all of the dads out there! (Ladies, you'll enjoy this too!)Andrew is the founder and director of the Institute for Excellence in Writing (IEW), father of seven, and grandpa to a whole bunch of kids! Andrew travels and speaks around the world, addressing issues related to teaching, writing, thinking, spelling, and music with clarity, insight, practical experience, and humor. He'
Parent Differently, with Kathy Koch
A child’s character reflects their convictions, establishes their reputation, and ultimately determines their destiny. In the world today it may seem like a big job to raise kids with biblical character, but today’s conversation should offer a lot of HOPE! Kathy Koch, child development specialist, author, and sought-after speaker, is here to help us understand how to guide children to develop biblical character. We talk about the connection between character and obedience, the essential foundat
Why We are So Tired and What to do About it, with Jess Connolly
Women are mostly all tired, aren’t we? For women today, fatigue has become the norm, and busyness is often worn as a badge of honor. Jess Connolly has lived in that bone-weary place, even to the point of developing chronic panic-attacks, battling anxiety and an autoimmune disease. But with wise practices and a new way of living, Jess discovered the path to a realistic rest that is available to every Christ follower. Jess is sharing practical wisdom to guide women into a lifestyle of sustainabl
Being a Mission-Minded Family, with Ann Dunagan
For Christian families in the thick of it, the thought of world missions can seem unrealistic and overwhelming. Many of us feel like we are in survival mode, just taking care of our families and trying to protect our kids from the crazy world. (and that’s all so important!) Yet, in light of the fact that 1/3 of our world has not yet heard the Gospel, Jesus’ words in the Great Commission are still relevant: We are to make disciples of all nations. What do busy families do with that? Ann Dunagan
The Juggle is Real, with Sarah Molitor of Modern Farmhouse Family
When I come across a wildly popular influencer who is also raising (and homeschooling) 7 children, and keeping their home and marriage in (seemingly) great order, I can’t help but wonder: HOW DOES SHE DO IT ALL? Sarah Molitor is one of those people, and in this interview with Sarah, I dive right into my honest questions: When do you sleep? Do you have time for devotions? How about exercise? And really: Do you have help? Sarah is the author of Well Said (as well as 2 darling children’s books)
Highs and Lows from 25 years of Motherhood (and celebrating a BOOK RELEASE!)
My husband Dave is with me today for a special Mother’s Day/book release interview! Dave and I are reflecting on the last 25 years of my motherhood journey...highs and lows, what I have learned, and my advice for younger moms. I share about some of my biggest joys of motherhood, (the laughter and fun, and much more!) and some of my greatest challenges (overwhelm, anger, and loneliness.) We also get to talk about my book that released yesterday (May 7th!) - Becoming Homeschoolers. I share a bit
Parenting, Homeschooling, and Friendships with Grown Kids, with Sally Clarkson
Sally Clarkson’s books and podcast have inspired me for years. Living between England and Colorado, Sally’s writing and voice is like a trusted mentor who puts everything in perspective. I have always hoped to meet Sally so this interview was really special. I got to ask Sally about her heart for parenting, what the rhythms in her home were as her kids grew up, and what led her to homeschooling. (Some of her answers might surprise you!) I asked Sally about her great relationship with her now-
Raising Spiritual Champions with George Barna
Renowned researcher and bestselling author, Dr. George Barna is with us to share some startling data, along with a passionate call-to-action for Christian parents. This may be the most important episode you could listen to, and I pray that what we talk about inspires you to a deeper level of commitment in your parenting. (Don’t run away – I promise you'll be encouraged!) Dr. Barna’s recent book, Raising Spiritual Champions, focuses on the importance of raising kids with a Biblical Worldview, and
The Fruit of a Purposeful Family, with Melissa Brown
When you come across a family with a bunch of young adults thriving in their faith, work, and passions, you can’t help but want to ask the parents: “Ok! What is the secret?” (Right?) And for good reason: Yes we can learn through mistakes and struggles, but I vote that it is even better to learn from those who have had successes! Melissa and Jonathan Brown are some of those people. They have raised, discipled, and homeschooled 7 children, most of whom are now adults. They have also worked with C
Hard is Not the Same as Bad, with Abbie Halberstadt
Our most trying moments as a parent can quickly spiral into discouragement, hopelessness, and sometimes even resentment toward God or your family—partly because our culture has conditioned us to believe that anything this hard can’t possibly be good for us. If you’ve ever found yourself asking, “Why me, Lord?” today’s podcast guest will resonate with you. Abbie Halberstadt, (homeschooling) Mom to 10…with two sets of twins in the mix – understands toddler tantrums, mealtime melees, and the backs
Raising Boys to Men, with Durenda Wilson
This one is especially for the boy moms out there! I know you'll love hearing from Durenda Wilson -- Mom to 8 (five boys!) author, podcaster, and someone I consider a virtual mentor -- as she shares from her new book, Raising Boys to Men. Durenda has homeschooled all of her kids, and now with grown children (and a bunch of grandchildren) she has a lot of wisdom to share. In today’s interview, Durenda addresses our culture’s masculinity crisis with encouragement for moms to celebrate and approp
Setting the First Tracks: Talk to Your Kids about Everything
Who do you want to set the first impressions on your kids on topics like: identity and self worth, sexuality and gender, politics, and other cultural hot topics? I vote YOU DO, Mom and Dad. I think most of us would say that we, the parents, are the best people to begin these conversations. Yet, it is easy to put these (sometimes awkward!) conversations off. But, when we do, our kids are likely learning about them from somebody else (or the internet!)In today’s episode I am encouraging you to “S
How to Experience REAL JOY in a world gone mad, with Brant Hansen
Would you say that joy (a deep sense of well-being, regardless of circumstances) is something you live with daily? Brant Hansen joins us to tell us that this is not only possible, but promised to all who follow Jesus. In fact, through Christ, we can start to see the world in a more childlike, humble, and optimistic way. Brant and I are talking about his book: Life is Hard, God is Good, Let’s Dance, and I absolutely LOVE this conversation. We talk about how we can “outsource our worries”, what i
Life is Messy, God is Good, with Cynthia Yanof
Today’s guest, Cynthia Yanof is the friend we all need. She is honest, encouraging, and hilarious. She shoots straight and stays humble. I am so glad she poured all of these things into her new book: Life is Messy, God is Good: Sanity for the Chaos of Everyday Life. In today’s conversation Cynthia and I talk about parenting (she has college age down to first-grade children!) fostering and adoption (so much respect!) church life (Cynthia knows her stuff!) Mom-friends, and so much more. We talk ab
Practicing The Way, with John Mark Comer
Best selling author, teacher and Pastor, John Mark Comer, is here to talk about his newest book: “Practicing the Way”, which explores the concept of being an apprentice of Jesus. John Mark explains that to practice the way of Jesus, we must: “Be with Jesus, become like him, and do as he did” (the subtitle to the book.💥) In this conversation we talk about the difference between being merely a “Christian” (which can mean all kinds of things today!) and an apprentice. John Mark points out that we
Screentime and Other Ways Kids Spend their Days
If screentime is a challenge in your home (pretty sure that is most of us!) then this episode is for you! Today we’re talking about how we can be intentional about screens, sports, hobbies, and all the ways kids spend their days! - From Chapters 12 and 13 of my book: Raising Amazing: Bringing up Kids Who Love God, Like Their Family, and Do the Dishes Without Being Asked! We start by zooming out on our kids’ days, and considering the time they spend at school, in sports, doing other activities.
No Regrets Parenting in Difficult Cultural Times, with Rhonda Stoppe
Having a solid mentor in your life is a true gift; mentors offer us wisdom from their life experience and help us navigate all that we face. If you don’t have a mentor in your life, I encourage you to pray for, and seek one out. But I am also thankful that we live in a time when we can have “virtual mentors”, people we may not know in real life but who we can glean wisdom from all the same! Rhonda Stoppe is one such mentor, and today she is on the podcast offering a whole lot of wisdom and grace
7 Attitudes that will Sabotage Your Marriage (and 7 to Replace them with) with Dave
Happy Valentine’s Day! My husband Dave is with me as we celebrate our 28th Valentine’s Day together. ☺ In this episode we are talking through a blog post that has been very popular for many years now on my website: “7 Attitudes that Will Sabotage Your Marriage, and 7 to Replace them with.” Dave and I are sharing from our own experience -- as we’ve been guilty of all 7 bad attitudes…but we’ve also experienced God’s grace in helping us learn to replace them. Dave shares a reminder from 1 Corinthia
Let’s Talk about Kids and Dating, with JP Pokluda
Dating has never been simple (who remembers?!) but today it is more complicated than ever. The world offers all kinds of mixed messages to young adults and teenagers and our Christian culture isn’t giving a lot of alternatives. In such crazy times our kids need a voice of reason and a lot of Biblical wisdom to help them navigate. Pastor Jonathan “JP” Pokluda is the voice we all need and one that young people actually like to listen to. In today’s conversation JP and I are drawing from his book,
Helping Siblings Become Friends, with Luke and Jonah
Since last March, at the end of each month I have been covering highlights from a chapter of my book, Raising Amazing: Bringing up Kids Who Love God, Like Their Family, and Do the Dishes Without Being Asked! Today we get to cover the topic of sibling relationships from Chapter 11, with the help of my two sons, Jonah (22) and Luke (19). I know sibling relationships can be challenging, and they are obviously not entirely in our control as parents. (far from it!) However, in Raising Amazing I share
The Sacredness of Secular Work, with Jordan Raynor
Jordan Raynor is back with us (he’s been a favorite guest in the past!) with an encouraging message about the eternal value of our work. All of it!As Christians we often talk about how our workplace can be our mission field (and that is so true!) but Jordan suggests that is only part of the story. And he is passionate that we – and our kids, hear the whole story. Jordan talks about how our daily jobs – from baristas and entrepreneurs to stay-at-home parents and coaches – have intrinsic and etern
What is Christian Deconstruction? (And how should we respond to it?) with Alisa Childers
Alisa Childers is back with a conversation I want every Christian parent to hear! A movement called “spiritual deconstruction” is sweeping through our culture, our churches, and (maybe especially) our universities. It is confusing and complex. It is leading young people away from the church and dividing families. In today's interview, Alisa offers us Biblical and historical context for deconstruction, and a truth-centered, loving way to respond to it.I first heard of the term “deconstruction” fr
Monica’s (work and life!) Updates for 2024
Hey friends! Today I hope you can grab a cup of coffee (or your tennis shoes!) and join me for a more personal chat. I’m sharing updates from my podcasting and writing life, as well as personal reflections as I look at the year ahead.From my next book release (May 7!) to my fitness plans (💪🏼), from podcast topics, to skin-care in my 50’s (🤗) it’s all in there! You’ll find more updates, photos, links, and a GIVEAWAY – over in my COFFEE DATE BLOG POST, so I hope you can visit me there and say h
The Value of Just Showing Up, with Drew Dyck
Happy New Year! Whether you are heading into 2024 with goals and resolutions, a word-of-the-year, and a whole lot of confidence, or you are just barely…plodding your way into it, this episode is for you! Drew Dyck, author of JUST SHOW UP, is with us to offer some encouragement and perspective. Drew reminds us that there is great value in every small act of faithfulness. That some of the people we respect the most have never done anyting famous or noteworthy. That heaven will be full of those who
3 Ways to naturally instill character into your kids every day
With a little intentionality, we can develop character in our kids’ throughout the natural rhythms of our days. Whether your kids are toddlers or teenagers, this episode will equip you with some great tools for practical character development! Today I am pulling from chapters 9 and 10 of my book, Raising Amazing: Bringing up Kids Who Love God, Like Their Family, and Do the Dishes Without Being Asked! This episode also comes with two free resources: A printable list of character-rich books and Bi
10 Do’s and Don’ts for a Happy Family Christmas, with Dave and Monica
Happy Christmas week everyone! 🎄Join my husband Dave and I for a fun and hopefully helpful “date-night” style conversation! Dave and I are sharing wisdom we have gleaned over 28 Christmases together, most with a house full of boys...Some important “do’s” as well as a few “don’t”’s! Hopefully a few will be encouraging reminders and a few will make you laugh. 🥰We hope some of you can listen together with your spouse while wrapping gifts, running last-minute errands, or in front of the fire for a
6 Discipline Mistakes to Avoid During the Holidays
One of the most important and challenging jobs we have as parents is that of disciplining our kids. Most of us wish it weren’t necessary (and a lot of parents today mostly ignore it!) but I have learned that good discipline is one of the greatest keys to raising amazing kids!Back when my oldest sons (now 24 and 22 years old) were very young, I read a book that challenged and inspired me in how to discipline well. The book was called, “Don’t Make me Count to 3” by Ginger Hubbard.All these years l
Be a Memory Making Mom this Christmas, with Jessica Smartt
As moms we want to fill the holidays with all kinds of magic and meaning for our families. We want to celebrate Advent, bless our kids with good food, special gifts, and then come out of it all with great memories, right? Yet, all of our best intentions often lead to a lot of overwhelm and frustration. (it’s not just me, is it?) If you feel any of that, today’s episode is just what you need! I am re-sharing a favorite interview from 2 years ago, with Jessica Smartt, author of The Memory Making M
The Power of Parenting with Yeses and Nos
I am so happy to be back with another monthly podcast covering highlights from my book, Raising Amazing: Bringing up Kids Who Love God, Like Their Family, and Do the Dishes Without Being Asked! Today we get to cover Chapter Eight: All about the importance of saying YES…and NO…to our kids.This is one of my personal favorite chapters/topics and I think it holds the key to some of the game-changing parts of parenting. Join me as I acknowledge that most of us tend to be more “yes-loving” parents t
Happy Thanksgiving with Luke and Levi: Q&A, Gratitude, and Giggles
Happy Thanksgiving week! Today I am sharing a very real, laughter-infused episode with my two youngest sons, Luke and Levi. Though it is a replay from 2 years ago, it’s still a listener favorite. Invite your kids to join as Luke and Levi answer a few questions, share what they are grateful for, and keep it all very real. Basically, this offers a sneak peek (listen) into our home during a holiday week! Find links and show notes on my website:Today’s episode: www.monicaswanson.com/Thanksgiving-202
How to be Unoffendable, with Brant Hansen
Head’s Up: This may be the most important thing you listen to before your holiday gatherings this year! I am so excited to share this conversation with Brant Hansen – radio show and podcast host, author, and truly amazing (/self-proclaimed quirky) man, with all of you!It turns out giving up your “right” to be offended can be one of the most freeing, healthy, simplifying, relaxing, refreshing, stress-relieving, encouraging things you can do. It’s a radical, provocative idea; We’re not entitled to
Finding Hope and Healing after Marriage Ends, with Brandi Wilson
While no one goes into a marriage imagining it will ever end, we know that divorce is a reality for approximately half of Americans. And while I will always be pro-marriage and encourage those of you in difficult marriages to seek help and fight to save your marriage, I know that sometimes there are no other options than divorce. Today’s guest, Brandi Wilson, knows the pain of divorce. In today’s episode she shares her story of being married to a megachurch pastor, who in 2016 walked away from t
How To Support Students Standing Strong in the Public Schools
Public school parents, this episode will be a huge inspiration to you! Terry Ann Kelly is with us to talk about how God is working in the public school system through Students Standing Strong (S3). These are student-led Clubs held in public schools all across the nation which are completely legal and opening the door for amazing ministry opportunity in our public schools. Terry Ann is the President and Founder of S3, and she has a wealth of experience and God-sized stories that will blow your mi
Making Your Home the Hub!
I am so happy to be back with another monthly podcast episode covering highlights from my book, Raising Amazing: Bringing up Kids Who Love God, Like Their Family, and Do the Dishes Without Being Asked! Today we get to cover Chapter Seven: How we can make our homes the hub -- a welcoming place for our kids…and their friends. Many of us have always imagined having a home that our kids love to be in, and a place their friends might want to gather in as well. Yet, making the idea become a reality ca
God Never Gives Up On You, with Max Lucado
Max Lucado, America’s bestselling inspirational author, has always been a dream podcast guest of mine. I started reading Max’s books back in the 90’s when my faith journey was just beginning, and I’ve always admired his winsome ability to bring deep theological truths down to earth. In this interview I also found him to be incredibly warm, funny, and conversational. We talk about his brand new book, God Never Gives Up On You: What Jacob’s story teaches us about grace, mercy, and God’s relentless
How to Experience God’s Strength When You Feel Weak, with Emily Jensen
Emily Jensen, cofounder of the wildly popular Risen Motherhood, joins us today to talk about the very relatable experience of...feeling weak. 😌Whether we are in the midst of big hard things (a child with a disability, marriage or financial stress, etc.) or we’re just staring at the laundry pile in front of us, we have times of feeling overwhelmed, undisciplined, or just not very good at life. Emily’s beautiful new devotional “He is Strong” just released. In today’s interview Emily shares what l
The Power of Our Words, with Sarah Molitor
If you’ve had moments when your words have gotten the better of you (who hasn’t?) then this episode will encourage, challenge, and inspire you! Sarah Molitor -- best known for her darling 6-boy + 1 girl family on her super popular @modernfarmhousefamily Instagram account – is with us to share her honest journey learning to use her words for good.I loved getting to know Sarah, and I think you will, too. Sarah opens up about how her words have hurt others, especially her husband. But she also shar
Your Best Weapon or the Greatest Danger: Raising Amazing Chapter 6
I am so happy to be back with another monthly podcast covering highlights from my book, Raising Amazing: Bringing up Kids Who Love God, Like Their Family, and Do the Dishes Without Being Asked! Today we get to cover Chapter Six: All about the importance of surrounding your kids with helpful influences…and protecting them from bad ones!There is no denying: We all become like the company we keep. Your child will grow up to be much like the people and other influences that surround them each day. I
Using Influence for Good (Good), with YouTuber, Matt Scharff
How would you respond if one of your kids told you they wanted to drop out of college and become a YouTuber? In case that topic has already come up in your home (or if, like me, you have just wondered how in the world you’d respond if it did!) today’s episode will give you a ton of insight…wand encouragement!My son Levi is a huge fan of the YouTube Golf sensation (and brand) “GoodGood Golf.” (GoodGood might compare to Dude Perfect in the world of golf.) In that group, Levi’s favorite golfer is M
Losing Their Home (but not Their Perspective) in the Maui Fire, with my friend Jes Claydon
People all over the world have been shocked and saddened by the tragic fire that recently destroyed the iconic town of Lahaina, on Maui. This is the deadliest fire in US history to date, and there is a long road ahead of healing and rebuilding. Yet, in the midst of all of the news, blaming, and politics, I think it is helpful to hear from real families who have been affected by the fire. And I happen to know an incredibly special family who was willing to share their story.Our friends, the Clayd
Coffee Date, with Announcements, Updates, and Questions for YOU!
Welcome to my first ever “Coffee Date” Podcast episode! (Hopefully not the last!) If you’ve been around long, you might know how much I love a good coffee date with a friend. I’ve done many virtual coffee dates on my blog and via weekly emails (You can sign up for those at monicaswanson.com/subscribe) but today I hope you can join me on the podcast for some really exciting announcements, updates, and some things I hope you’ll give me feedback on!!In this episode I am announcing my next book (and
Give Your Kids a Secure Foundation: Raising Amazing Chapter 5 with Monica and Dave
I am so happy to be back with another monthly podcast covering highlights from my book, Raising Amazing: Bringing up Kids Who Love God, Like Their Family, and Do the Dishes Without Being Asked! Today we get to cover Chapter Five: All about offering your kids a secure foundation through a healthy marriage.Most of us would agree that building a strong, healthy, and lasting marriage is one of the most important and beautiful, as well as one of the hardest things we will do in this lifetime. Yet, th
How to be a Worry-Free Parent, with Sissy Goff
Are you a worrier? Do your kids worry too? Sissy Goff, best-selling author and child-therapist (for over 30 years) wants to help parents overcome their tendency to worry. Because: worry is contagious – and an anxious, worry-prone parent is likely to raise kids who also worry. Fortunately, Sissy has good news. She has help for uncovering the roots of anxiety and suggestions for processing your anxiety rather than passing it on. With practical tools and helpful perspectives, Sissy helps will help
Why We Drift into Loneliness and How to Fight for a Life of Friendship with Justin Whitmel Earley
We were made for people. Yet, most of us are living a dangerously lonely life. In fact, loneliness is perhaps the least talked-about epidemic in our culture today. Justin Whitmel Earley, lawyer, #boydad, and one of my favorite authors is here to share a cure for this loneliness problem. This is a conversation I hope some men can tune into as well as us ladies!Drawing from his brand new (amazing) book, Made for People, Justin suggests that we cannot live the life we were made for without authenti
The Secret Art of Confident Motherhood with Alli Worthington
By now you probably know that I consider parenting and family life some of the highest privileges on earth; it is Kingdom work. Yet, often in our season of raising kids, we tend to “lose ourselves”, right? I hear from women who don’t remember what they used to enjoy before kids… “Did I have any hobbies?...What do I like to do/eat, etc?” As these Moms prepare for their kids to launch, they can begin to feel a little bit lost. Alli Worthington wants to help moms avoid this! She coaches women to lo
3 Steps to a Successful Back-to-School Season!
It’s back-to-school season, and whether your kids go to school, are homeschooled, or do some combination of the two, change is in the air! This transition can be more stressful on all of us than we anticipate, and it’s easy to feel caught off guard in the midst of it all. Taking the time to be intentional as a family can make a world of difference! In today’s episode I am offering 3 simple steps that can help your family be back-to-school ready. These steps will ease anxieties and motivate a goo
The Most Important Thing: Raising Amazing Chapter 4
I am so happy to be back with another monthly podcast covering highlights from my book, Raising Amazing: Bringing up Kids Who Love God, Like Their Family, and Do the Dishes Without Being Asked! Today we get to cover Chapter Four: The Most Important Thing. This is all about making faith your highest priority. While every chapter of this book is important, I believe this topic truly is…the most important. The way I see it, if our kids grow up to love God and follow His ways, we have little else t
The Proverbial Man: The Example our Kids Really Need, with Josiah Swanson
Gather your kids and join Josiah and I for part III of my summer Proverbs mini-series!The Book of Proverbs is packed full of wisdom and has incredibly practical help for all the things kids (and adults) face today. I am so excited to share this 3rd and final episode of my summer mini-series as Josiah (turning 24 on the day this episode releases!) brings everything together with an insightful look at perhaps the greatest reason our kids should be reading Proverbs!In today’s episode, Josiah shows
What Your Kids Should Know about the Book of Proverbs, with Jonah Swanson
Gather your kids and join Jonah and I for part II of my summer Proverbs series!The Book of Proverbs is packed full of wisdom and has incredibly practical help for all of the things kids (and adults) face today. The Swanson boys have all grown up reading a lot of Proverbs and it has shaped them into the (wise) young men they are today.In today’s episode, Jonah (22) joins us teach us a bit more about the book of Proverbs…Who wrote it, how to read it, why it matters, and more. Your kids will learn
What Your Kids Should Know about the Book of Proverbs, with Jonah Swanson
Gather your kids and join Jonah and I for part II of my summer Proverbs series!The Book of Proverbs is packed full of wisdom and has incredibly practical help for all of the things kids (and adults) face today. The Swanson boys have all grown up reading a lot of Proverbs and it has shaped them into the (wise) young men they are today.In today’s episode, Jonah (22) joins us teach us a bit more about the book of Proverbs… Who wrote it, how to read it, why it matters, and more. Your kids will learn
Favorite Proverbs for Life, with Luke Swanson
Gather your kids and join Luke and I for part I of my summer Proverbs series! The Book of Proverbs is packed full of wisdom and has incredibly practical help for all of the things kids (and adults) face today. The Swanson boys have all grown up reading a lot of Proverbs and it has shaped them into the (wise) young men they are today. In today’s episode, Luke (19) updates us on his life as a professional surfer and college student, and then shares some of his favorite Proverbs, and how they have
Parentamorphosis!: Living an Amazing Life in Front of Your Kids
I am so happy to be back with another monthly episode covering highlights from my book, Raising Amazing: Bringing up Kids Who Love God, Like Their Family, and Do the Dishes Without Being Asked! Today we get to cover Chapter Three: Parentamorphosis. This is all about modeling an amazing life for your kids! We want so many good things for our kids’ future: From a strong faith to a healthy lifestyle to a great marriage or success in their work. And the best way to we can help our kids grow up to
Raising Prayerful Kids, with Steph Thurling
Summer is a great time to help our kids develop spiritual habits that might stick with them through the year. But sometimes that is easier said than done, right? Steph Thurling, executive director of Christian Parenting, co-founder of Raising Prayerful Kids ministry, and super-fun mom is with us to offer some practical help! Steph offers encouragement for every mom – the one who is new to faith (and prayer!) as well as the mom who is trying to get her kids on board with praying. I think you’ll
Pursuing Creativity in the Margins of Motherhood, with Ashlee Gadd
A lot of women trade in their personal passions and hobbies when motherhood takes over. Motherhood is so important and there is no doubt -- some seasons require just about all of us (right!?) Yet, what if we can be great moms, and nurture our creative side too? Ashlee Gadd is on the podcast today to give listeners permission to pursue their creative gifts alongside motherhood! And I think you’re going to be inspired! Ashlee is the Founder of the very popular website: Coffee + Crumbs, and she is
Summer and Screentime! 7 Steps that Might Save Your Kids (and your sanity!)
Technology does not have to steal your summer! Every summer I hear from parents who are frustrated, trying to navigate screen time with their kids. How much is too much? How can we keep them safe? Why do we have to have these battles!? I get it. And I’m here to help! I am sharing a blog post with 7 steps that literally could save your kids (and your sanity!) this summer. Over in show notes you’ll find a printable checklist to use as you go through each of these steps. I hope this is helpful
How to Lead Your Family on an Intentional Trajectory: Raising Amazing Chapter 2
Join Monica for chapter Highlights and a free download! I am so excited to be back with another monthly podcast covering highlights from my book, Raising Amazing: Bringing up Kids Who Love God, Like Their Family, and Do the Dishes Without Being Asked! Today we get to cover Chapter Two: Welcome Aboard: Lead Your Family on an Intentional Trajectory. This has been a favorite chapter for a lot of people, as I get really practical about intentional family life. I talk about identifying your fam
Everything You Need for Great Summer Reading with Your Kids, with Sarah Mackenzie
The benefits of reading aloud, audio books, and so many inspiring tips and lists for you this summer! Sarah Mackenzie is with us today to talk about all things summer reading! Sarah is the author of Teaching from Rest and The Read-Aloud Family, and I have been a fan of Sarah’s for many years. Sarah is so much fun to talk to, and an absolute wealth of information and inspiration when it comes to families and reading! In today’s conversation Sarah offers some super motivating facts about the power
What We Should All Know (and teach our kids) about Children and Disabilities, with Laura Wifler of Risen Motherhood.
How understanding disabilities makes us better family, friends, and neighbors This is such a special conversation and I hope you can listen and share it with all of your friends. Laura Wifler of Risen Motherhood has so much profound wisdom and grace that will impact every listener! Laura is sharing from her experience raising a daughter with a rare chromosome disease, which led to her new children’s book, Like Me: A Story About Disability and Discovering God’s Image in Every Person. Laura offers
What Moms Need Most (+Mother’s Day Giveaway) with Dear Mushka’s Katie Lewis!
What do Moms' need most? Mother's Day flowers? Or chocolate? Or beautiful jewelry perhaps!? Katie Lewis of the much-loved brand, Dear Mushka, is with us to talk about what moms truly need most! Katie shares some of the difficult story of tragically losing her mother, and through that finding God's Word to be her lifeline. Her brand, Dear Mushka, grew out of this experience. Katie shares about her story and we agree that more than all the other stuff (as good as it is) what us moms need most
Helping Your Child Prepare to Meet their Future Spouse, with Tricia Goyer
Questions and Prayers to prepare kids’ hearts Tricia Goyer, author of a lot of books :), and Mom to ten (!!) is with me today to talk about her new book (co-written with Robin Jones Gunn) called “Before You Meet Your Future Husband: 30 Questions to Ask Yourself and 30 Heartfelt Prayers” Tricia shares from her own experience facing a teenage pregnancy, and how that shaped her heart to raise her own children. Though the book we are drawing from is for girls/young women, (12 and up, approximately)
How to be an All-In Parent: Raising Amazing Chapter 1
I am so excited to be diving into the new monthly podcast feature where I am sharing highlights from my book, Raising Amazing: Bringing up Kids Who Love God, Like Their Family, and Do the Dishes Without Being Asked! Today we get to cover Chapter One: All-In! – Fully Embrace Your Role as Parent. This chapter opens with my scary experience of nearly losing my first son right after birth, as well as my honest experience with mommy-burnout. I talk about perspective, and how being all-in is a decisi
How to Teach Your Kids to Mind Their Mindset, with Megan Hyatt Miller
Hopefully you caught last week’s episode where Megan Hyatt Miller gave us a little “Brain Science 101”. We talked about what it means to “Mind Your Mindset” (from her book with that title!) and the three steps to embrace a better mindset. Understanding this process can be an absolute game changer for your business, family, and every area of life. In today’s episode, Megan tells the story of her parenting challenges with two of her adopted sons, and how that led her to learning more about brain
How to Mind Your Mindset, with Megan Hyatt Miller
If you feel stuck in just about any area of life -- from parenting, to business or finances, to your health, this interview may be just what you need! Today I am talking with Megan Hyatt Miller -- President and CEO of Full Focus, a best-selling author, and mom to 5 kids! Through challenges she faced after adopting two of her sons, Megan discovered life-changing truths about the power of our thoughts...and our ability to change our thoughts -- and therefore, our lives! Megan and her Father, Mic
Parenting Principles to Bring out the BEST in Your Kids!
Family life is busy, and parenting can be downright overwhelming. Oh how we need the sound wisdom of successful parents who are a step ahead of us to encourage us along the way. Today's guest, Miles Mettler is exactly that! Miles is an ambassador with Focus on the Family, and he has raised 4 amazing kids into adulthood. He has so much wisdom to share! Miles is the author of 52 Parenting Principles: How to bring out the BEST in your kids which we are drawing from in this episode! In today’s conv
What I Want You to Know About Raising Amazing, with Monica
Welcome to the FIRST episode of my new monthly podcast feature where I’ll be sharing highlights, nuggets, and free downloads and resources from my book, Raising Amazing: Bringing up Kids Who Love God, Like Their Family, and Do the Dishes Without Being Asked. I am so excited to walk through these chapters with you on the last Wednesday of each month of 2023! This might be a good time to gather some friends to meet up with each month for coffee + podcast listen to chat through the chapters of Rai
Kids, Character, and their Future Success, with Dennis Trittin.
We all want our kids to have good character, but we don’t always consider how crucial character is to our kids’ future success. In today’s interview, former multi-billion-dollar investment manager, Dennis Trittin, helps us connect the dots and find even more motivation for raising kids of character. After over 30 years managing investments and studying successful leaders all over the world, Dennis shifted his focus to sharing what he had learned with the next generation. Writing books and spe
Raising Relational Kids in a Screen-Driven World, with Arlene Pellicane
If you are like 100% of the parents I know, 😉, your kids' relationship with screens causes you some amount of stress (and likely a good amount!) This is a difficult issue and one we might feel we will never catch up on. (and we're right.) Arlene Pellicane is a great help on this topic! She has done a lot of research and written a number of books to support parents raising kids in this screen-driven world. Two of her books were co-written with Gary Chapman (of the 5-Love Languages!) and in today
Becoming a Time-Saving Mom, with Crystal Paine
Crystal Paine, known for years as “The Money-Saving Mom” knows a thing or two about balancing time. Balancing a busy career with raising six kids, and being a passionate advocate for foster-and-adoption, Crystal is still able to prioritize her walk with God, her marriage, and…even some rest! In the midst of the busiest season of her life, Crystal was writing “The Time-Saving Mom: How to Juggle a Lot, Enjoy Your Life, and Accomplish What Matters Most”. She has lived her message and in today’s con
The Adventure Your Kids Were Made For! With Greta Eskridge
Today’s guest has inspired me from a distance for a long time. Greta Eskridge is a homeschool grad – and now homeschool Mom to 4, and she and I share a passion for offering our kids healthy adventures growing up! Greta has written two books about adventuring with kids, and her enthusiasm is contagious! If the idea of adventure sounds complicated, dangerous, or overwhelming to you, I think you’ll be relieved by this conversation! Greta and I hope to inspire you to realize that adventure may be c
Luke Interviews the Authors! Raising Amazing Release Episode, with Luke, Dave, and Monica
Today our son Luke, (19) takes the microphone and interviews his parents! Raising Amazing released on February 21st, and we are celebrating the release with a fun, but heart-felt conversation about the book. Luke asks us about the title (“Is Amazing a little over-the-top?”), the heart of the book, what Dave enjoyed about his first author-experience (and what was the hardest part) and more. I hope you feel like you’re at a release party and this interview should give you a little more insight
Raising Amazing Kids with Korie Robertson
Korie Robertson, author of Strong and Kind, and star of A&E’s Duck Dynasty, joins us as we count down the final days to the release of my new book, Raising Amazing! Korie was so kind and generous to team up with me as the Foreward writer for the book, and I love sharing her heart for the message of Raising Amazing with all of you. Korie has raised 6 children and is now entering the grandparent stage of life, and she has so much experience, wisdom, and healthy perspectives to share with parents.
Raising Kids Who Stay Grounded in Truth on Cultural Issues, with Sean McDowell
Sean McDowell is an author, speaker, seminary professor, and father to teenagers! He has a heart to educate and empower students to think Biblically, communicate effectively, and stand strong in the midst of the noise of our world. Today we are chatting about Sean’s most recent book: A Rebel’s Manifesto: Choosing Truth, Real Justice, and Love amid the Noise of Today’s World. This book is written for teens but I think parents will benefit from it greatly as well! I have followed Sean for years,
Helping Teens Navigate Through Life’s Toughest Issues.
Teens today are growing up in a confusing world, and they are facing things we couldn’t have imagined when we were young. From mental health issues, to the internet (cyberbullying, access to pornography, and social media to name a few,) to vaping, increased suicide rates and more, it is not an easy time to navigate the teenage years. Or to parent a teenager! Enter Jessica Peck! Jessica has a Doctor of Nursing Practice degree, she is a professor at Baylor, and she is a mom to FOUR teenagers! In
A Rebellion Against Mediocre Motherhood, with Abbie Halberstadt.
I am so excited to share this encouraging (and perhaps a bit convicting – in the best sort of way) – conversation with you! Abbie Halberstadt believes that Christ has so much more to offer you and your family than the empty validation of fist bumps for surviving another day that worldly culture bring to the table. Her book, M is for Mama, resonated with me deeply, and I am so glad I get to share her with all of you! Raising and homeschooling her ten kids (including two sets of identical twins—an
An Intentionally Amazing Year for Your Family, with Emily Ley
If you want your family to have an amazing year ahead, this episode will give you some practical tools to help make that happen! Emily Ley -- owner of Simplified Planners, best-selling author, and dedicated mom -- is with us to offer 5 ways to kick-start an amazing year ahead. (Personally,) I am a fan of starting off the new year slowly – taking my time to set goals and develop a vision for the new year. Whether you catch this episode in January or later in the year, the good news is, God’s mer
It’s Time for Bible Believers to become Bible Readers, with Wendy Speake
Happy New Year and Welcome to the Monica Swanson podcast! If you missed last week’s episode, I hope you can go back and have a listen (it’s SHORT!) In this new year I am rebranding the podcast with a new name and a broader scope, but the heart of the podcast has not changed. I am SO excited to dive into some great topics and interviews ahead. (Also: Welcome to the girl moms joining us!) Today’s interview is special for so many reasons. First, Wendy Speake was my very first guest over 3.5 years
Welcome to the Monica Swanson Podcast {Trailer!}
A New Season with Monica! Happy New Year and Welcome to the Monica Swanson podcast! For over 3.5 years I have been sharing episodes on the Boy Mom Podcast, and you can still revisit all 190 episodes any time. (I recommend you do! – there’s some good stuff in there!) But in this new year and new season, we are broadening our scope (and welcoming our girl moms – and all of the dads!) as we rebrand as the Monica Swanson Podcast!! (imagine the confetti!) Today’s very short episode is a quick intro
Episode 190: The Last Chapter of Boy Mom and the Last Episode of the Boy Mom Podcast!
Welcome to the FINAL episode of the Boy Mom Podcast! Wait! Let me explain. Beginning next week (New Year's, 2023) this podcast will be called The Monica Swanson Podcast! In this very special, final episode of the Boy Mom Podcast, I am sharing highlights from the final TWO chapters of Boy Mom! This wraps up my monthly series which began in January of 2022! If you’ve missed any of the previous book highlights, be sure to go back and catch previous episodes from the last Wednesday of each month o
Episode 189: A Merry Christmas catch-up with Luke and Levi
Merry Christmas! Join Luke (18), Levi (12), and I for a Merry Christmas chat…and also catch up on Luke's world travels since he was last with us back in June. If you’re busy you can skip to 20 minutes for a brief Christmas greeting, but if you have the time/enjoy surf stories or listening to Luke (☺) then grab some cocoa and enjoy this conversation! (Your kids might enjoy it too!) Sending hugs and love to all of you and praying you have a most wonderful Christmas week ahead! www.monicaswanson.
Ep. 188: Loving Your Actual Christmas, With Alexandra Kuykendall
True confession: This is about the exact week when I typically find myself morphing from the happy, care-free, "I love Christmas everything!!!!" Mom, to the stressed out, feeling behind, "I just want to get Christmas over with" Mom. Yep. Anyone with me? As much as I love (truly, adore!) this season, I have learned that Christmas can bring up all kinds of hard emotions and dashed expectations, leaving us moms weary and worn. If you relate to this a little or a lot, today's episode (a replay f
Ep. 187: Sharing Jesus with Your Kids by Sharing Your Own Story, with Asheritah Ciuciu
I am so excited to share this special conversation with my (now, in-real-life) friend, Asheritah Ciuciu. Asheritah has been on the podcast before as we talked about her amazing Advent devotional, Unwrapping the Names of Jesus. Now, with a beautiful Children’s Book newly released, Asheritah joins me to talk about the power of sharing our own stories with our kids, as we point to what Jesus has done in our lives. I loved learning a bit more about Asheritah and her husband (both Romanian) and the a
Episode 186: Preparing our boys for dating and future relationships
In this episode we are talking about how we can approach the topic of dating and relationships as our sons grow up. I talk about how we have handled things with our sons, focusing on Biblical values and wisdom principles, not a set of rules. I share some resources we use for teaching our kids about sexuality, and the importance of having many conversations about even the awkward topics as our kids grow up. Many more highlights found in this episode and in Chapter 12 of Boy Mom. Be sure to get th
Ep. 185: Practicing Presence during the Holidays (and everyday) with Kate Merrick
Today I am sharing a podcast episode that could transform your holiday season…maybe even your whole life. Seriously, that’s a big claim, but have a listen and I think you’ll agree — it’s that powerful. I’m so happy to bring back this conversation I had with Kate Merrick in 2019. If you aren’t familiar with Kate yet, you’ll fall in love with her quickly. In this episode I get to tell the funny story of how Kate and I met, and all of the wild ways our lives now intersect. Kate shares her story
Ep. 184: Holidays with Boys, and More - with Ruth Chou Simons
If you're like me, you always intend to keep the holidays Christ-centered, but in reality it isn't easy. In the busyness of the holidays, we often finish the Christmas season feeling defeated and depleted. Today’s guest, Ruth Chou Simons knows the hectic nature of the holidays; raising 6 sons and running a retail business that is thriving over the holidays, the Simons family has to be intentional to keep Christ at the center. Pour a cup of coffee (or some holidays cider!) and join Ruth and I a
Ep. 183: Good Boundaries and Goodbyes with Lysa Terkeurst
Come join this conversation about setting healthy boundaries, which seems especially timely as we head into the holiday season. Boundaries can be challenging – in marriage, in family, work, church, and all relationships. Lysa Terkeurst, best-selling author and founder of Proverbs 31 ministries, joins us to talk about a biblical understanding of boundaries. She offers helpful guidelines for recognizing when and where we need to set boundaries, and she shares a bit of her own difficult story that
Ep. 182: Preparing for a Grace-Filled Holiday Season, with Lana Stenner
This week's guest ushers us into the holidays with wisdom, grace, and laughter. Grab a cup of coffee and join Lana Stenner and I for a fun chat about raising goats and chickens, the joy of grown kids who still gather around the table, and perspectives that will lead us into the holidays embracing a slower, simpler rhythm. (How good does that sound!?) Lana Stenner is a homesteading, goat-and-chicken raising, garden-growing mom who doesn’t take herself too seriously. Her new book, The Grace-Fille
Ep. 181: Your Son Needs an Emotionally Healthy Foundation
This is the 10th part of the 2022 monthly feature on the podcast, covering the “12 Things Your Son Needs Most from You” from my book, Boy Mom. Today I am sharing some snippets from Chapter 11 – A Lot Going On. In this chapter I focus on the things we can do as parents to prepare our sons for an emotionally healthy future. I talk about the importance of an emotional vocabulary, how to communicate with our sons about their feelings, and the surprising value of family togetherness. I talk about h
Ep. 180 Live Your Truth and other Lies We Need to Prepare our Kids For, with Alisa Childers
“Live your truth,” “Follow your heart”, “God wants you to be happy”…the list goes on of popular cultural messages that sound so good…but do not line up with Scripture. As harmless as these memes and messages may seem, they have great potential to lead our kids down a very dangerous path. These cultural messages are not only all over on social media and the world of entertainment, but many of them have found their way into Christian communities. Alisa Childers, once known for her role in the p
Ep. 179 Big announcements + Parenting Q & A!
This is an episode I have been so excited to share! I begin with a few announcements, one of which is about a big decision I am asking for your help with (see link to a short survey in show notes!) With my new book, Raising Amazing, coming out in February, I will also be making some changes in the podcast. I can’t wait to share them with you! Next I dive into as many questions from podcast listeners as I can. I cover everything from helping a tween/teen to take responsibility for things to work
Ep. 178: Take Back Your Joy, with Nicole Jacobsmeyer
Life can be incredibly challenging, and pain and suffering are a part of the human experience. (I wish they were not.) We will all face difficult times, and when you are a parent, the way you respond to difficulties has an impact on the generations that follow you. Today’s guest, Nicole Jacobsmeyer has faced her fair share of difficulties. From being a medical residency spouse (that’s hard, I know from experience!) to miscarriage, to cancer – all in a short time frame with three little boys in h
Ep. 177: Raising (Physically) Healthy Boys, with Monica
This is the ninth part of the 2022 monthly feature on the podcast, covering the “12 Things Your Son Needs Most from You” from my book, Boy Mom. Today I am sharing some snippets from Chapter 10 – Body Wise. This chapter covers some of the ways we can help our boys to grow up to be active, healthy, and motivated to take care of themselves for a lifetime. When our kids are young they depend on us for all of their health choices, and that is no small responsibility. As they grow up, we can still t
Ep. 176. Navigating Video Games with Your Kids
This week I am bringing back an episode from the past on a topic that is on a lot of parents' minds. I get asked about kids and video games, a lot, and have never felt qualified to give a comprehensive answer. We are not much of a video game family, but I am not fully anti-video game, either. So, I have always wanted to bring someone on who has an educated, balanced approach. Boy did this conversation exceed my expectations!! Liz Busby, a researcher and writer for the Protect Young Minds webs
Ep. 175: Growing up to Love God and His Word, with Josiah Swanson
I hear from a lot of parents who want to raise their kids to know and love God’s Word but are afraid of pushing too hard, or worried their kids might rebel against church and faith. My oldest son, Josiah (23) joins us today to share his faith journey, from his earliest years, through some years of doubt and questioning, and on to where he is today: A young man who loves God and cherishes the Word of God. Josiah answers questions sent in by listeners, including how he suggests responding to a tee
Ep. 174: Raising Kids without the (Emotional) Baggage
None of us want to imagine our kids carrying emotional baggage into adulthood, but…it happens. 😢 Wounds from people and experiences, from their own mistakes, (and sometimes even their own parents) grow into baggage that can impact the rest of our kids' lives… Chris Sasser (“Sass”) has been in family ministry for a long time, and through meetings with young adults, he recognized the problem of emotional baggage which so often impacts young marriages, jobs, and the future generations of families.
Ep. 173: Inspiring Kids to Learn and Discover their Passions
This is #8 of the 2022 monthly feature on the podcast, covering the “12 Things Your Son Needs Most from You” from my book, Boy Mom. Today I am sharing some snippets from Chapter 9 – Inspiring Young Minds! This chapter is all about motivating boys to learn and helping them discover what will fuel their soul (and hopefully stick with them into adulthood!) We cover a lot in this episode – from creating a rich learning environment in the home, to small shifts that might help kids learn better (getti
Ep. 172: 4 Social Milestones Your Son Needs to Reach. With David Thomas
This is part II of a listener-favorite conversation with David Thomas which first aired nearly two years ago! In these episodes we are drawing from a book that David co-authored: “Are Your Kids on Track: 12 Emotional, Social, and Spiritual Milestones Your Kids Needs to Reach.” David’s insights and experience from counseling are relatable and encouraging! This week we are talking about 4 social milestones our sons need to reach, as well as the main stumbling blocks that get in the way. (If you mi
Ep. 171: 4 Emotional Milestones Your Son Needs to Reach. With David Thomas
This week and next I am sharing listener favorite-conversations with David Thomas which first aired nearly two years ago. David is a counselor at Daystar Counseling Center in Nashville, TN., and the author of several books. In these episodes we are drawing from his book: “Are Your Kids on Track: 12 Emotional, Social, and Spiritual Milestones Your Kids Needs to Reach.” David’s insights and experience from counseling are relatable and so helpful! This week we are talking about 4 emotional mileston
Ep. 170 College Readiness for Moms and Sons. With Jonah Swanson
My 2nd son Jonah, (21) joins us to chat about his first two years of college, and the years leading up to that. From being homeschooled, to taking a gap year, to navigating friend groups, spiritual questions and more – we cover a lot! This is a great episode for high school kids to listen to. Jonah offers encouragement for securing your identity before college, knowing what you believe, and making your college (or wherever you launch to) feel like “home”! I love what Jonah shares and I chime in
Ep. 169 Raising Young Creators, with Jordan Raynor
Jordan Raynor has always been passionate about creativity and productivity, and he's written a number of best-selling books on these topics. In his new book, The Creator in You, Jordan's goal is to inspire our children to start young! He helps kids to understand that work existed from the very beginning – even before sin entered the world...He reminds kids that God is a creative, working God, who invites them to create alongside Him! Jordan and I talk about work as a spiritual theme, how we as
Ep. 168: Wisdom for Raising Boys in a Screen-Saturated World
This is the seventh part of the 2022 monthly feature on the podcast, covering the “12 Things Your Son Needs Most from You” from my book, Boy Mom. Today I am sharing some snippets from Chapter 8 – Navigating the Digital Age. There is a lot to cover, but I think this is one of the greatest parts of our job as parents in today's world! Be sure to check show notes to find two free downloads: A Technology Contract, and a list of helpful resources! (filters and accountability software.) I hope this ep
Ep. 167: Raising Tiny Theologians, with Amy Gannett
Amy Gannett of Tiny Theologians has inspired me with her incredible knowledge of Scriptures and her heart to bring up children who know and love God’s Word. Many people have ideas about who God is – based on their feelings or wishes, or what the culture has to say (scary!) But our kids need to know who God says He is, and what He says about them! Amy creates resources to share Truths from Scripture, and practical ways we can teach our children to be…tiny theologians. Be sure to check show note
Ep. 166: The Journey to being World Jr. Champ, with Luke Swanson
My third son Luke (18) joins us today to talk about his journey from being a little boy on a surfboard with his dad, to recently winning the Jr. World Championships of surfing in El Salvador! Luke shares some of the ups and downs of his journey, his experience with sponsors and surf brands, and faith + character lessons he’s learned along the way. We recorded this interview just two days before Luke left to surf in Indonesia for the rest of the summer. This might be a great interview to share w
Ep. 165: Hope for the Mom at the End of her Rope, with Stacey Thacker
At some point in parenting, I think we all feel weary, worn out, and yes…at the end of our rope! (Some of us have felt that way for very long seasons!) Ten years ago Stacey Thacker and Brooke McGlothlin wrote a book to encourage moms who were feeling that way. (It was called, “Hope for the Weary Mom.”) Because of the great response to that book, their publisher asked them to update the book and re-release it under a new name: Unraveled: Hope for the Mom at the End of Her Rope. In today’s interv
Ep. 164: Influences, Role Models, Lonely Seasons. Helping our Sons Navigate Well
This is the sixth part of the 2022 monthly feature on the podcast, covering the “12 Things Your Son Needs Most from You” from my book, Boy Mom. Today I am sharing some snippets from Chapter 7 – Forces at Work: Influences and Role Models. This is an incredibly important topic that I urge parents to pay close attention to! The influences in your child’s life will mold and shape them into who they grow up to become. In this episode, we’re talking about the greatest influence on kids – their own par
Ep. 163: The Resilience We Need Now, with John Eldredge
I am so excited to share this conversation with John Eldredge, who I’ve been a fan of since reading his book, Wild at Heart, so many years ago. John’s wisdom and depth of insight have inspired people all over the world, and his newest book, Resilient: Restoring Your Weary Soul in these Turbulent Times is sure to do the same. In today’s interview, John talks about the importance of recognizing the traumatic nature of the pandemic on all of us, and the need to intentionally heal and move forward w
Ep. 162: Raising Emotionally Strong Boys, with David Thomas
When it comes to understanding boys, David Thomas is someone I have learned so much from. With over 25 years of counseling experience, and having co-authored multiple books, David has a heart for helping boys build the “emotional muscles” that are an essential, yet often-neglected part of a boy’s journey to manhood. Today we get to talk about the practical help he offers parents in his brand-new book, “Raising Emotionally Strong Boys”, and in the companion guide (for boys) “Strong and Smart: A
Ep. 161: Choosing our (Parenting) Words Well
Wendy Speake, long-time friend of the Podcast, (she’s my most frequent, and probably most-requested guest!) is back with us for another great Mom-to-Mom chat this week. Wendy and I are talking about a topic from one of the books she has co-authored with Amber Lia, “Parenting Scripts.” I think you would agree that a universal parenting challenge is that of finding yourself in a moment of frustration, with the need to correct or discipline, but the “right words” simply don’t come. In moments like
Ep. 160: Helping Your Kids Know and Love the Word of God, with Hunter Beless
Hunter Beless, host of the Journeywomen Podcast, Mom to four (#4 is coming later this year!) and author of the new kids’ book, Read it, See it, Say it, Sing it! Joins us with the most encouraging message. Hunter’s love of God’s Word is absolutely contagious, and her heart to pass it down to our kids is so beautiful. In today’s conversation, Hunter talks about why we need to read, memorize, and talk about God’s Word in our own lives as parents. She offers some tips for reading the Bible with your
Ep. 159: Raising Boys of Character
This is the fifth part of my new monthly feature on the podcast, covering the “12 Things Your Son Needs Most from You” in my book, Boy Mom. Today I am sharing some snippets from Chapter 6 – Aiming High: Teaching Noble Character. I’ve received more feedback on this chapter than any other. This chapter also inspired me to create my online Character Training Course (which will be opening its doors again on June 15th!) This is one of my very favorite things to talk about and I believe with all of m
Ep. 158: You are More than a Mom, with Kari Kampakis
What if taking care of yourself was the first step to helping your family thrive? I’m sure you would agree that in the crazy season of motherhood, it is easy to lose a sense of your self and your self worth. We juggle so many things as moms, and we often find our own needs as a last priority. Kari Kampakis joins us to share some highlights from her new book, “More than a Mom: How Prioritizing Your Wellness Helps You (and Your Family) Thrive. Kari is a wealth of wisdom, practical advice, and so
Ep. 157: What if it’s Wonderful? With Nicole Zasowski
Are you quick to celebrate the big and small things in life? Or do you hesitate – feeling like celebration must be earned, or like the minute you celebrate, things might take a turn for the worst? Nicole Zasowski, marriage and family therapist, and author of newly released book, What if it’s Wonderful, joins us to talk about the gift, and discipline of celebration! Sharing from a research perspective, as well as personal experience, Nicole’s voice is honest, relatable, and endearing! After walki
Ep. 156: Sis, Take a Breath this Mothers’ Day, with Kirsten Watson
I’m so excited to share this special Mothers’ Day episode with Kirsten Watson! As a mom to seven kids, wife to NFL veteran - Benjamin Watson, and cohost of a popular podcast, Kirsten Watson knows what it’s like to feel overwhelmed and exhausted. She has also learned what it takes to thrive, even in the busiest seasons; it all begins with taking a breath. Taking a breath is about inhaling the Word of God so we can exhale peace. Taking a breath is about recognizing our gifts and our limits…it is l
Ep. 155: Helping Your Son Develop a Secure Identity
This is the fourth part of the new monthly feature on the podcast, covering the “12 Things Your Son Needs Most from You” found in my book, Boy Mom. Today I am sharing from Chapter 5, “Secure Foundations: Affirming Significance and Identity.” This topic is so relevant to all the things are kids face today. How can we help our sons develop a self-worth that is not dependent on their performance or other people’s opinions? How can we help our sons know that while many things will describe them, no
Ep. 154: The Unexpected Journey of Raising a Son with Autism
Today’s guest, Kate Swenson, shares her honest, difficult, but inspiring journey of raising a son with severe autism. We can learn a lot about autism through her story, and I think we can all relate to facing unexpected challenges in parenting. Approximately 1/54 kids in America are diagnosed with autism, and I know many of you are affected in one way or another by this diagnosis. Kate shares candidly about the pain and isolation she has experienced, her divorce -- and remarriage (a story of i
Ep. 153: An Easter/Anniversary Chat with Monica and Dave
Hey Friends! Happy Holy Week! This week I have my husband, Dr. Dave, with me to celebrate our 26th anniversary, answer some questions, chat about parenting and marriage, and offer some Easter reflections. Though he is a much more behind-the-scenes type of guy, Dave has so much wisdom to offer, and I love getting to share him with all of you! Invite your men to join us for this fun and encouraging chat! Have a wonderful Easter and thank you for being a part of this podcast community. *Reminder:
Ep. 152: Raising Kids to be Strong and Kind, with Korie Robertson
I am so excited to be bringing back the most-downloaded episode of 2021 this week! I loved this chat with Duck Dynasty star, Korie Robertson, who has raised a number of amazing kids (her daughter, Sadie Robertson, is one of my top-recommendations for role models for young women!) I have admired Korie and her entire family for years, so this interview with a special honor! Korie shares stories about ways she focused on character in her kids when they were growing up, and she also answers quest
Ep. 151: Raising Boys to Know and Love God
This is the third part of the new monthly feature on the podcast, covering the “12 Things Your Son Needs Most from You” found in my book, Boy Mom. Today I am sharing from Chapter 4 – “The Beginning of Wisdom: Nurturing Faith.” This chapter is what I would consider the heart of the book! It’s the best I have to give! I get a lot of questions from people about what we did to raise sons who all love God and choose to follow Him, even as they launch and live independently. While I would never sug
Ep. 150: Foster the Family, with Jamie Finn
Whether or not you've ever considered being a foster family, this conversation with Jamie Finn will inspire you. Her heart for children and family is contagious and her message is for all of us. After reading Jamie’s book, Foster the Family, I was so inspired to learn more. In today’s conversation we cover Jamie's story of becoming a foster parent and starting a super creative and brilliant ministry. I ask some total beginner questions, and Jamie so humbly answers! She is so real and honest, an
Ep. 149: Let’s Talk About Youth Sports, with Carla Hanes
Do you love youth sports, or dread them? Are you an enthusiastic fan, or would you rather avoid every gym, field, and court possible? Do you get excited to see your kids growing in strength and character through sports, or do you see competition bringing out their dark side? Let’s face it – If your kids play sports, they will likely be a big part of your life! There is a lot we can talk about on this topic! After I shared a series of Instagram Stories asking for your experience and feedback abo
Ep. 148: Finding Identity in a Culture of Loneliness, with Bonnie Gray
Growing up as an American-Chinese daughter of a mail-order bride and a busboy working in San Francisco’s Chinatown, Bonnie Gray has a story that will capture your attention and win your heart. In her Memoir, Sweet Like Jasmine, Bonnie shares her grown-up journey of revisiting her childhood memories, uncovering family secrets, and witnessing brokenness made beautiful. (She’s such a good writer!) In today’s interview, Bonnie and I talk about her amazing story, how she has shared the hard parts of
Ep. 147: Habits of the Household, with Justin Whitmel Earley
We all have habits that fill our parenting, but are they the ones we choose? Justin Whitmel Earley says that “Our routines become who we are, good or bad, and over time they become the story and culture of our families.” If we do not carefully choose our habits, we end up falling back on rhythms that are forming us to be distracted, overstimulated, too busy, and lonely. Justin Whitmel Earley is a lawyer, author, speaker, and father to four boys! I have quickily become a huge fan of his new book,
Ep. 146: Raising Boys with Boundaries and Freedoms
This is the second part of my new monthly feature on the podcast, covering the “12 Things Your Son Needs Most from You” from my book, Boy Mom. Today I am sharing some snippets from Chapter 3 -- Training Grounds: Boundaries, freedoms and discipline. This chapter has been a reader favorite and a most-requested topic for radio and podcast interviews. I love this topic so much and I hope it offers you some helpful perspective on: setting limits and saying no, giving kids a chance to stretch their w
Ep. 145: Ep. 145: What parents should know about kids and substance abuse, with Richard Capriola
Parenting a child through substance abuse is one of the most difficult experiences imaginable; something none of us could have fathomed when our kids were young. Yet the statistics on teens and substance abuse is startling. The percentage of teens vaping (nicotine or marijuana) has increased in recent years, and many parents are either totally unaware or don’t realize the extent of the problem. Today’s guest, Richard Capriola, spent years working as an addiction counselor at the Menninger Clini
Ep. 144: Intimacy in Marriage, with Debra Fileta
Valentine’s Day is just around the corner, and what better time to have a counselor, relationship expert, and author of “Married Sex” join us to talk about the importance of intimacy in marriage. Debra Fileta is so much fun to talk to, and even if I’m blushing throughout this interview, she totally is not! Debra talks about why women need to see sex as a gift for them as well as for their husbands as well as the importance of communicating about our sex lives. We also talk about how we can t
Ep. 143: Redeeming Your Time, with Jordan Raynor
If you're starting off the new year feeling just as hurried and hectic as you ended last year. (um, 🙋🏼♀️) then this episode is for you and me both. Today we get to talk to Jordan Raynor, serial entrepreneur and national bestselling author. Jordan offers a refreshing, biblical antidote to swamped to-do lists and hurried schedules. Jordan’s energy is contagious and I love that he focuses on meaningful and lasting lifestyle changes which we can practically implement right away! Small changes ma
Ep. 142: 4 Building Blocks of a Healthy Relationship with Your Son
This is the first of a new monthly feature I plan to do covering the “12 Things Your Son Needs Most from You” from my book, Boy Mom. Today I am sharing some snippets from Chapter 2: A Connection that Lasts, and expanding on the topic of growing a strong and healthy relationship with our sons. Though all relationships go through challenging seasons, I believe that a focus on these four building blocks will be very helpful. In show notes find a link to a (free!) download "20 Ways to Make Your S
Ep. 141: Finding Goodness Right Where You Are, with Alexandra Kuykendall
While the past few years have put a spotlight on the divisive, contentious, darkness of our world, it is good to remember that God has not changed. And, His goodness and light are still there. The question is: Do we see it? Alexandra Kuykendall joins us today to point us to the practical truth of Philippians 4:8 – and a reminder that we can choose to shift our focus from the messy, hard things of our current culture, to all that is true, noble, and good right now. (hint: There’s a lot.) Alex t
Ep. 140: Moms, we Need Each other! With Heather MacFadyen
There is so much pressure on moms to do everything right, and asking for help along the way often feels like defeat. Heather MacFadyen, host of the popular “Don’t Mom Alone” podcast, joins us today with a refreshing reminder that we were never meant to do this on our own! We need community. And community is available to all of us – if we look for it! Heather and I talk about how to find and foster the key relationships you need to be the mom you want to be. I think you’re going to love Heath
Ep. 139: 30 Days to Make or Break any Habit, with Mark Batterson
As we kick off 2022, Mark Batterson offers us practical ways to make habits, break habits, and get serious about reaching our dreams. Mark says that “Destiny is not a mystery…Destiny is daily habits”. He believes that our lives are built on our patterns of behavior: both constructive and counterproductive habits. He also tells us the good news that “Each person is just one habit away from a totally different life!” I love this topic, especially as we kick off a new year. These are all ideas to
Ep. 138: Building Family Culture and Habits for the Best New Year, with Kimberly Amici
Kimberly Amici is a Family Culture Coach and the host of the Build Your Best Family Podcast. She is passionate about relationships and family life. Today Kimberly shares some ways we might shift our focus from short-term goals to lifestyle habits that will shape our destiny. As we go into the new year we could all use some inspiration for setting an intentional family culture, with habits and routines that support our truest values. I hope you enjoy this topic as much as I do! Find show n
Ep. 137: A Prayer for the week of Christmas
Merry Christmas everyone…or as we say around here: Mele Kalikimaka! In this week’s episode I am checking in briefly to say hello and to read a special prayer from the Every Moment Holy book of prayers. I hope it offers you a moment of quiet and reflection in the midst of a busy season! Have a wonderful Christmas, and please know that I am so grateful for your part in my podcast community! www.monicaswanson.com/episode-137 Podcast page (for all episodes) www.monicaswanson.com/podcast
Ep. 136: Help and Hope for Grief during the Holidays, with Marci Pecora
I am so grateful to introduce you to my friend, Marci Pecora. Marci is a licensed marriage and family therapist, well-acquinted with grief. After a nearly 5-year battle with cancer, Marci’s husband went to heaven 10 years ago, leaving behind Marci and their two children. Through grief groups and with the support of family and friends, Marci has not only survived, but discovered a gift in walking others through their unique stories of grief. I am so grateful that Marci would join us to share so
Ep. 135: Finding Wonder in every Season, with Singer-Songwriter, JJ Heller
When I first listened to JJ Heller’s song, “A Hand to Hold”, I had to pause the music and get tissues! JJ’s music captures the wonder of childhood and the love between parents and children in such a magical way! Today, JJ joins us to talk about her journey…from college basketball player, to crippling anxiety attacks, to finding her voice and place in the music industry (and 10 million streams of Hand to Hold!) And now “Hand to Hold’ is also the sweetest children’s book! I love JJ’s honesty and
Ep. 134: Simplifying Christmas, with Tama Fortner
Yay! We made it to December, and I am so excited for the Christmas season ahead! Today’s guest, Tama Fortner is helping us simplify Christmas, reclaim peace, and ENJOY all the best parts of Christmas without any unnecessary stress! Tama and I chat about so many great ideas tucked into her new devotional book, Simply Christmas – from practical ways to simplify your decorating, to some creative (and simpler!) gift-giving ideas...and more! Join us for this fun conversation as we kick off what I
Ep. 133: Happy Thanksgiving with the Swanson boys
I love sharing my sons with all of you, and this week my two youngest – Luke, 17, and Levi, 11, are with me to answer some listener questions and share some Thanksgiving holiday cheer. The boys were fighting a case of the giggles and our dog fell off the bed in the middle of our chat, but this should give you a pretty realistic look at life at the Swansons real life! (This is a great one for your kids to listen to as well!) Don’t miss it!! --- The Character Training Course doors are now open f
Ep. 132: Gratitude Training, with Kristen Welch
Entitlement has become an epidemic among our kids. We are raising children in a quick-fix society, where everything they want seems to be available at the touch of a button (or a holler out to Alexa!) Many of us (me included!) have grown frustrated with this issue, and wonder if there is some way to fight against it. Kristen Welch, founder of Mercy House Global, and author of “Raising Grateful Kids in an Entitled World” (among other awesome books) joins us today to talk about gratitude, which
Ep. 131: God Made YOU to be YOU, with Jamie Ivey
Jamie Ivey, popular podcast host and author, joins us today to talk about helping our kids discover and enjoy their God-given identity. Jamie and I talk about the story behind her book for women -- You Be You, and how that led to her new children’s book, God Made You to be You. Our culture today offers plenty of messages about who our kids are and what gives them value. As parents we have an awesome opportunity to teach our kids the Truth – helping them establish a foundation in their unique
Ep. 130: “When You Don’t Feel Good about the Girl Your Son is Dating” with Kari Kampakis
Today I am excited to share a “guest podcast” from Kari Kampakis, host of the Girl Mom Podcast. In this episode Kari shares some helpful perspectives to keep in mind if your son is dating someone you don’t feel good about, as well as some sound wisdom to share with your teens or young adults when they enter the dating season of life. (It’s not easy – rememeber!?) Be sure to go to show notes to find and follow Kari Kampakis, her awesome blog (with many viral posts) her podcast, and her books. I
Ep. 129: Inspiring Boys to “Run Toward the Roar” with Levi Lusko
Levi Lusko, Pastor, best-selling author, husband, and Dad -- joins us to chat about his heart for tackling real issues kids face with compassion, grace, and biblical authenticity. Pastor Levi’s newly released children’s devotional, Roar Like a Lion, helps parents open up conversations and bring Biblical truth into relevant topics including peer pressure and bullying, faith, fears, friendships, and finding the courage to try new things. Levi and I talk about his family’s healing process after
Ep. 128: God has Good Plans for You, with Megan Fate Marshman
When life is difficult, it can be hard to believe that God is for you – that He is truly working all things together for your good. If you have ever wrestled with these thoughts, then this interview with Megan Fate Marshmann -- gifted Bible teacher, storyteller, and writer is just for you. I recorded this interview in early 2021 to talk about the message in her incredible book, Meant for Good, but days before the interview was scheduled to release, Megan’s husband Randy had a sudden heart attac
Ep. 127: Simplifying Family Life with 3 Key Routines
Whether you work outside the home or not, moms have a way of filling their days and then some...The overwhelm of rushed mornings, exhausting evenings, or the dreaded #mondaymorning are so very real! Today we get to hear from a working mom who definitely understands! Toni-Ann Mayembe is a family dentist, a reservist in the Navy, a blogger and podcaster, and an intentional, involved #boymom and wife, and yet, she is holding it all together with style! And even more, Toni-Ann is on a mission to
Ep. 126: Raising Jesus Followers, with Rachel-Ruth-Lotz-Wright
Billy Graham was one of (if not the) most impactful evangelists of all time, and now we get to hear from his daughter and granddaughter as they share stories from their family legacy. Billy’s granddaughter, Rachel-Ruth joins us today to share some of those stories and the heart behind the book, Jesus Followers: Real-Life Lessons For Igniting Faith in the Next Generation. (co-written with her mom, Anne Graham Lotz.) Parents today are raising what has been called the “least religious generatio
Ep. 125: The 4-Hour School Day, with Durenda Wilson
We want our kids to have the best education, but less-than-ideal school environments as well as more recent inconsistencies in schools due to the pandemic have left parents uncertain about traditional schooling. Durenda Wilson, Mom to eight kids with over 25 years of homeschooling experience, joins us today to offer a refreshing approach to all things family and education. Durenda has so much wise counsel for parents looking for fresh ideas to ensure their children have a quality education suit
Ep. 124: The Hard Good, with Lisa Whittle
Life is full of hard things, we all know that. But how we choose to see those hard things – our perspective on all that life gives us -- can make a radical difference in how we come through our trials. When bestselling author and Bible teacher Lisa Whittle lost her beloved father in 2017, she found herself on a journey to learn the hard good. Years later Lisa combines the lessons she learned with counsel from Scripture to create a roadmap that will help readers navigate their own hard good. In
Ep. 123: Helping Teens Navigate Social Media with Integrity
There is no doubt, parenting in the age of social media can be tricky. Whether or not your kids are currently using social media, it is never too early to start thinking about how you might coach your kids in their use of it. In today’s episode I am sharing a blog post I wrote about a shift my oldest son made in his approach to social media that was a game changer! I am also sharing clips of an interview with that son about his journey with social media from age 13 to 22. I am happy to announc
Ep. 122: How to Declutter Like a Mother, with Allie Casazza
Allie Casazza is on a mission to eradicate the "hot mess mom" stereotype by empowering other women. Today she joins me to talk about her proven, family-oriented approach to minimalism. Allie shares the very real and raw story of how her journey began, and why she believes we can all find more peace by simplifying our stuff. Whether you’re a working mom, overwhelmed by kids and responsibilities or already on your minimalism game, I think you’ll be inspired (and empowered) by this conversation.
Ep. 121: Q and A with my College Boys!
Sharing a fun chat with Josiah (22) and Jonah (20) who are answering questions listeners have sent in. In this interview we cover their relationship as siblings (“Did you always like each other?”...“Did you ever fight?”) as well as how/when they made their faith their own. They talk about how they feel about homeschooling now, in light of how it prepared them for college. Finally, they talk a bit about their relationship with their mom. (aww) I love all that they share, and they even have some
Ep. 120: Helping Kids Recognize God's Truth from the Enemy's Lies.
What our kids believe will create a roadmap for the choices they will make for the rest of their lives. Teaching kids to discern God's voice from the enemy's lies is one of the greatest ways we can help them form right beliefs which will lead to good choices. After a traumatic life experience, Charity Rios learned what it means to "tend her heart", replacing the enemy's lies with God's Truth. Now that she has four sons, Charity is teaching them these same concepts. Charity shares how to do this
Ep. 119: Don’t Miss Out! With Jeannie Cunnion
Mom to five boys, Jeannie Cunnion has written two parenting books which very well may be on your shelf. ;) Recently, Jeannie narrowed in on the greatest parenting tool she has discovered: The power of the Holy Spirit! And now she doesn't want any of us to miss out on all that is available to us through the Holy Spirit! Today Jeannie joins us to talk about the benefits of having the Holy Spirit’s daily presence in our life. I love how understandable and practical Jeannie makes things, and I love
Ep. 118: Growing Slow, with Jennifer Dukes Lee
In a culture that embraces hurry, and “busy” is the norm, today’s episode with Jennifer Dukes Lee invites us an alternative…one of strategically “growing slow.” Jennifer discovered these lessons after years of fast-paced, high stress living – a season that led her to a breaking point. Jennifer says that the lessons she shares in her book, Growing Slow, are the result of unlearning what the world taught her about success and finding the courage to walk in a world that asked her to never stop run
Ep. 117: What a Teenage Boy Needs Most from His Mom
7 years ago I wrote a blog post that was read by nearly 2 million people in 2 weeks. (that was a huge surprise!!) That blog post led to many opportunities, including the chance for me to publish my book, Boy Mom: What Your Son Needs Most from You, and...launch the BOY MOM PODCAST!! This week the Boy Mom Book turns two, and I’m full of thankfulness and a bit of nostalgia. ❤️ On the podcast today I reflect on all of the steps that led to the book, and for the first time ever, I read the blog post
Ep. 116: Equipping Your Kids to Understand and Defend their Faith, with Natasha Crain
Research suggests that at least 60% of kids who grow up in a Christian home walk away from Christianity by their early twenties, largely in response to the intellectual challenges to their faith. 😮 In light of the specific challenges kids will encounter in today's world (especially in college, I can tell you from my boys' experience) it has never been more important for our kids to know what they believe and why they believe it. The good news is, parents are uniquely positioned to equip their
Ep. 115: What it Means to Live Freely and Lightly, with Emily Lex
Emily Lex – watercolor artist and popular blogger, joins me today for a candid conversation about her journey from insecurity and anxiety, to quiet confidence and peace. Facing many of the emotions and struggles common to all of us, Emily found the reward in a renewed sense of identity and strength. This conversation inspired me so much, and I think you’ll find so many golden nuggets that will bless you, wherever you are in your faith and personal journey! Show notes: www.monicaswanson.com/e
Ep. 114: The Most Important Thing a Parent Can Do. With Brooke McGlothlin
Brooke McGlothlin has become one of our favorite resources for all things praying for your kids. Her interviews in episodes 27 and 42 were some of the most listened to here on the Boy Mom Podcast, and she is back with more inspiration today. Brooke’s brand new book, Praying Mom: Making Prayer Your First and Best Response to Parenting, is about to come out and we get a sneak peek into some of the awesome content in the book. Brooke has such a friendly, encouraging tone, I know you’re going to
Ep. 113: Treading Boldly through a Pornographic World, with Daniel Weiss and Joshua Glaser
Friends this is such an important podcast episode! As we are wrapping up my summer mini-series on Boys and Technology, today we dive into the most concerning issue related to boys and devices: Pornography. Josh Glaser and Daniel Weiss, authors of Treading Boldly through a Pornographic World, join me to talk about how we can help our kids navigate in this hypersexualized, porn-friendly world we are raising them in. We talk about how parents can protect their kids, as well as how to handle it if
Ep. 112: Everything You Need to Navigate Video Games with Your Kids, with Liz Busby
I am beyond thrilled to finally have some answers for everyone who asks me about kids and video games! Liz Busby, a researcher and writer for the Protect Young Minds website, dedicated mom to four, and enthusiastic gamer, joins us today to talk all about kids and video games! Liz shares the pros and cons of allowing our kids to use video games, precautions to take, resources to turn to, and so much more (including her top recommendations for games families can play together and how they might w
Ep. 111: What Most Parents Don’t Know about Internet Filters, with Sean Clifford
If your kids are on devices of any kind, then this is one episode you do not want to miss! We continue our summer mini-series, “Boys and Technology”, with a chat that had me on the edge of my seat. Sean Clifford shares some eye-opening statistics, and also helps us understand what most internet filters do…as well as what they do NOT do (hold on, this might surprise you!) He also shares a new type of filter that uses cutting edge technology (artificial intelligence!) to prevent porn (or sexting
Ep. 110: Empowering Kids to Make Good Choices Online, with Kristen Jenson
This episode kicks of my summer series talking about boys and technology. I want to come at this topic from many angles, and today’s conversation is foundational. Kristen Jenson, author of Good Pictures Bad Pictures (check out episode 44) is back to talk about equipping our kids with what they need to make good choices online. The new Brain Defense Digital Safety Curriculum is an entertaining, video-based curriculum for students which covers everything from cyber-bullying, to pornography, to int
Ep 109: Lots of Q & A, with my son, Jonah
It is so much fun to have my son, Jonah, home from college and here to co-host this all Q & A episode! I've been saving questions for some time now, and I've still only scratched the surface. In today's chat Jonah and I cover everything from how to decide if your family is a good fit for homeschooling, to whether or not Dr. Dave recommends we (and our kids) should get the vaccine, to a list of parenting questions about everything -- from toddlers to teenagers, from purity to influences, to fath
Ep. 108: Where the Magic Happens {2 year Podcast Birthday + Character Course Doors open!}
This week we celebrate two years of the Boy Mom Podcast! Even more, this week the doors to the Character Training Course are open – for a (first-ever!) SUMMER SALE! In today’s episode I read a blog post from the archives -- sharing a story…of a regular Wednesday night in my home. This is a little glimpse into what I believe is the heart of character training. I hope you enjoy, and I hope it reminds you that your work matters…Every moment of pressing in, pressing on, holding high standards and
Ep. 107: Timeless Parenting Wisdom, with Chrys Howard
My recent interview with Korie Robertson on the Boy Mom Podcast was a favorite episode for a lot of listeners! Now today, Korie’s own mom, (also seen on Duck Dynasty!) Chrys Howard joins us to share all kinds of timeless parenting wisdom. Chrys has so much wisdom to share and inspires me in so many ways! I love that true parenting Chattinwisdom does not come and go with trends…it is timeless! This episode has some great encouragement for mom and grandparents alike. I think you’re going to lov
Ep. 106: Help for Destructive Mommy Anger, with Natalie Hixson
Whether or not you’ve ever had anger issues before, Motherhood seems to reveal our hidden anger issues. While anger is a normal emotion, it can be handled in negative and destructive ways which can hurt our kids and our relationship with them. This was a big struggle for me when my kids were young, and I’ve heard from so many moms who feel shame and sadness over how this has affected their parenting. Today’s guest, Natalie Hixson, shares her story of overcoming destructive mommy anger, and ho
Ep. 105: Create Family Adventures - Around the World or Around Your Table with Liz Yeboah
When I met Liz Yeboah through a homeschool roundup on Instagram, I immediately became a fan of her and her intentional family life! Though the Yeboahs live in England, they have created a culture of curiosity, exploration, and globe-trotting adventures with their four sons and one daughter. In this episode, Liz shares some of the most magical trips her family has taken (hello South of France, and Shanghai...) as well as the most meaningful (visiting her husband’s roots in a village in Ghana.) Sh
Ep. 104: How to Avoid Mothers’ Day Disappointment
There is no doubt, Mothers’Day can be a mixed bag...While we often go into the holiday thinking we have low expectations, part way through the day we often realize that we had really just stuffed our expectations. ;) Moms are the orchestrators of all-things-family-and-celebration, so a holiday that is all about US...? Well, it can be tricky! In today’s episode I share a blog post that went viral years ago and has since then been shared all over the world and even on the Today Show website. It is
Ep. 103: Mother’s Day Starts Now! Join the Celebration...
This episode is all about celebrating you, Moms. I wanted to kick off Mother's Day a bit early this year because history has proven (to me, at least) that a holiday like this comes and goes only too quickly...and if we aren’t thinking and planning ahead then we are likely to all but miss it! Today my online assistant, Morgan, joins me to share fun Mothers’ Day and Motherhood Facts, best parenting advice, and some special clips from Boy Mom readers who are sharing how the book and podcast have im
Ep. 102: Unexpected Heartbreak, Ambiguous Loss, and Trusting God for Hope, with Pat and Tammy McLeod
After their teenage son’s traumatic brain injury from a hard hit in a football scrimmage, Pat and Tammy McLeod’s world turned upside down. In this powerful interview, they share about the months and years that followed their unexpected heartbreak, how they came to understand “ambiguous loss” and some of the things that helped keep their marriage, family, and faith together through the hardest of times. I believe the McLeod’s story, and the concept of ambiguous loss is so important for all of us
Ep. 101: Wake Up Calls, Knowing Our Identity, and Love-Centered Parenting, with Crystal Paine
After a frightening wake-up call with one of her children, Crystal Paine began to explore where things went wrong and how she might fix it. When a therapist suggested she take a different approach – one of focusing more on her relationship with her children than trying to fix them – everything began to change. Crystal discovered root issues – lies she had believed about herself and her parenting. In her new book, Love-Centered Parenting, Crystal writes about this journey, and in this episodes,
Ep. 100: Celebrating 100 Episodes with Show Highlights and Giveaways
I am so grateful to all of you who have listened to The Boy Mom podcast, spread the word about it, and helped make this community so special. In today’s show, we look back over the last 99 episodes, sharing clips from the 7 most downloaded episodes, and giveaways from each of the authors featured. I hope you enjoy this celebration and I hope you know how grateful I am for all of you!! Join the party, listen and be sure to enter to win the goods over at: www.monicaswanson.com/episode-100 Podcas
Ep. 99.5: Holy Week Check-in and Poem by my son, Josiah
I decided to delay on sharing Episode #100 because that is going to be a big party-of-an-episode, with giveaways, clips from the most popular episodes, maybe some dancing and 🎉 confetti. (we’ll see 😉 ) But this week happens to be HOLY WEEK…and it just felt wrong to put a bunch of hype on anything but...Jesus. So, today I’m keeping things brief, and I’m inviting you all to join me for this short chat with my son, Josiah, who also shares an Easter poem he wrote as a teenager. (Maybe your kid
Ep. 99: Bible Devotions for Boys of all Ages, With Christie Thomas
Recently I did some Instagram stories talking about Bible Devotions and I had a lot of people ask me to share recommendations for boys’ devotionals. I put together a list and shared it with my email subscribers, but I knew there was a lot more to talk about on this subject! Moms asked how to best get started doing devotions with their sons. Some had never read the Bible with their kids and wanted to start. Moms asked at what age my boys started spending time with God on their own. I love t
Ep.98: Raising Differently Wired Boys to be Emotionally Intelligent and Resilient
This episode is for every mom who wants to raise her son to be emotionally intelligent and resilient…boys who are strong and empathetic, who are self-aware, and also…aware of others. While every boy is unique, they all need our help growing up to embrace these qualities in the world today. Today's guest, Colleen Kessler, shares from her extensive research, as well as raising her own four, differently wired kids. Colleen is an award-winning educator, educational coach, and consultant, internati
Ep.97: Raising Kids to be Strong and Kind, with Korie Robertson
If you have followed the Robertson family since Duck Dynasty became a major hit, you might have wondered, “How did they do it?” - How have they raised such amazing children and stayed so close as a family while being in the crazy spotlight of reality television? In today’s conversation, Korie Robertson answers that question with honesty and humility. Korie shares a bit from her book, “Strong and Kind: Raising Kids of Character”, and then she answers fun questions sent in from my Instagram foll
Ep. 96: Disrespectful Kids, Body Talk, Gardening and More: Q and A with Dave and Monica
I'm excited to kick off quarterly Q and A episodes this week, and I'm especially excited to have my husband, Dave, join me for this one! It's a casual chat covering all kinds of things -- from how to handle eye rolling/disrespect, to helping kids develop their own faith, updates on Dave's tropical garden, fitting workouts into busy homeschool days, and much more. You can always send questions in to aloha@monicaswanson.com (and write "Q &A" in the subject line) for future episodes! Find all sho
Ep. 95: Taming Your Child’s Tongue with Ginger Hubbard
Ginger Hubbard is a best-selling author and sought-after speaker, and her books, “Don’t Make me Count to Three” and “I Can’t Believe You Just Said That!” shaped my early parenting years. It is so great to have Ginger on the Podcast this week to share practical advice and encouragement on redirecting our kids’ behavior, from the heart. This chat focuses on verbal frustrations (whining, lying, complaining, tattling…) and Ginger offers a simple three-step plan to deal with it all in a way that wi
Ep. 94: Every Boy is Unique! Personality types and more with Heather MacFadyen
After such great feedback on the recent mini-series on Birth Order (Episodes, 90, 91, and 92) I wanted to continue the conversation about all of the things that make our boys unique. So, I invited my friend, Heather MacFadyen - host of the Don't Mom Alone Podcast, and four-boy-momma, to join me for today’s episode. Heather and her husband Bruce have a lot of experience with the Strength Finders test (aka: Clifton’s Strengths Test) so Heather gives us a little insight into how that works. We als
Ep.93: Kids, Character, and their Future Success, with Dennis Trittin
We all want our kids to have good character, but we don’t always consider how crucial character is to our kids’ future success. In today’s interview, former multi-billion-dollar investment manager, Dennis Trittin, helps us connect the dots and find even more motivation for raising kids of character. After over 30 years managing investments and studying successful leaders all over the world, Dennis shifted his focus to sharing what he had learned with the next generation. Writing books and spe
Ep. 92: Let’s Talk about the Baby of the Family! With my sons, Luke and Levi {Part 3 of my Birth Order Series}
I love talking about birth order, and today’s episode had me smiling and laughing throughout. Youngest kids are known for some unique character qualities – from being the comedians of the family, to getting off easy compared to their older siblings, and more. They are fun to love, but they still need our intentional parenting! In today’s episode, I share fun facts and helpful information about “What Our Youngest Sons Need Most from us", including a short interview with each of my (2) youngest s
Ep. 91: Let’s Talk Middle Children! With my son, Jonah {Part II in my Birth Order Series}
This is the 2nd in a series looking at how birth order affects our sons. You’ve probably heard the term, “Middle Child Syndrome”, and if you have a middle child you will probably agree that this can be a complex position in the family. I began studying birth order to better understand my own middle son, and what I learned helped our family so much. After sharing what I learned on my blog, I heard from a lot of families who were encouraged by what they read! In today’s episode, I share that bl
Ep. 90: Let’s Talk Firstborns! With my son, Josiah {Part 1 in my Birth Order Series -}
This is the first in a short series looking at how birth order affects our sons. I love to study personalities, love languages, birth order, and anything else that can help us better understand and relate to our kids. Today I am sharing a blog post I wrote a few years ago about firstborns, as well as a short interview with MY firstborn, Josiah. Josiah offers some encouragement to the moms and kids listening and I think you will enjoy what he shares. Be SURE to check show notes for links to th
Ep. 89: Reading and Understanding the Bible with the Bible Recap {with Tara Leigh Cobble}
I am over-the-moon excited to share this interview with the author of the resource I have always dreamed of, but now hold in my hands…(happy tears!) The Bible Recap: A One-Year Guide to Reading and Understanding the Entire Bible. Perhaps you are familiar with the Bible Recap Podcast (with over 20 million downloads in the first year!) but my 2021 is starting off extra special because of this new tool to help me read through (and understand!) the Bible in a year! Tara Leigh is so much fun to tal
Ep. 88: The God Contest, with Carl Laferton
Carl Laferton, best-selling author of The Garden, the Curtain, and the Cross, joins us today to talk about his brand-new book, The God Contest. I have such passion for this topic because my four sons’ early years were impacted so deeply by good stories. Bible stories, stories about heroes of the faith, and other creative, even silly stories -- shaped my boys’ character, faith, and interests. This new book by Carl Laferton tells the story of Elijah up against the prophets of Baal up on Mt. Car
Ep. 87 Daily Habits to Help Families WIN every Day - with Mark Batterson
Prominent Pastor and New York Times best-selling author, Mark Batterson joins us for such an inspiring interview to prepare us all for the new year. I love talking about positive habits, goal-setting, and, well – winning just about anything, and this chat just hit the sweet spot for all of that! Mark is sharing from his brand new book (releasing today! -- December 29th!) called Win the Day: 7 Daily Habits to Help You Stress Less and Accomplish More. In this episode we talk about some of the hab
Ep. 86: Christmas Memories and Traditions with the Swanson Boys
Merry Christmas!! In today's short episode Josiah and Luke join me to talk story (as we say in Hawaii) about Christmas memories and traditions. We talk Christmas music, (look for this year's playlist in show notes) favorite movies, the most memorable gifts, and what they each love most about the true Christmas story. This is a fun episode to share with your kids! Sending much love and Mele Kalikimaka, from our family to yours! Show notes: www.monicaswanson.com/podcast Today's episode: www.m
Ep. 85: Loving Your Actual Christmas, with Alexandra Kuykendall
Alexandra Kuykendall joins us today with such a refreshing, endearing message about Loving Your Actual Christmas. Drawing from her book (by that name,) Alex reminds us that Christ did not come for the people who have it all together, but for the weary, grieving, and hurting. He came for us real people who sometimes struggle our way through the holidays. When we don’t have our act together, Jesus meets us in the most real way. Alex talks about the meaning of Advent as well as Christmastide (t
Ep. 84: Practical Tips for a Tech-Smart Holiday with Your Kids
Over the past years, I have heard from countless families about their greatest challenges in parenting during the holidays. One thing I hear every year is the frustration of kids being on screens and feeling like technology is stealing their precious family time. In today's episode I offer some practical ideas about being proactive and making a tech-smart plan for your family this holiday season. For those listening this week (Dec. 8-11th) I have a brand new, helpful resource available called
Ep. 83: (Not Your Typical Gift Guide) with Kate Merrick
Kate Merrick and I wanted to share a chat about gifts in the holiday season. Because, as Kate said, "There are a lot of gift guides out there, but not a lot of guidance on gifts." So true. So join us for a fun conversation where we share favorite holiday memories, expectations for the season ahead, and some guidance for choosing gifts that last this season. Kate shares memories of being raised by divorced parents and has some encouraging words for single moms. We talk about the most importan
Ep. 82: Getting Practical about Gratitude in Your Home with Krista Gilbert
Krista Gilbert, author of Reclaiming Home, joins me for a practical and inspiring conversation about gratitude. Krista and I share ways we can teach our kids to be grateful -- from ideas for Thanksgiving day, to things we can do throughout the holidays (and into the New Year!) Krista shares some awesome ways we can show our appreciation to others-- from service workers to cleaning staff, to our friends and neighbors. I think this episode will inspire you and give you some awesome ideas for thi
Ep. 81: Raising Siblings to be Strong Together, and Strong Individuals with Amy Carney
My guest today is Amy Carney - author ("Parent on Purpose"- an excellent book) speaker, content creator, product maker, and Mom to five. Amy knows a thing or two about sibling relationships! Shortly after her triplet sons were born (*gulp*), she had a daughter, and a couple years later, adopted another son. Amy and her husband have made some upstream choices to parent their children with great intention in many ways -- including establishing intentional bonds with one another, while intentional
Ep. 80: 4 Social Milestones Your Son Needs to Reach with David Thomas
David Thomas joins us again for part 2 of our conversation drawing from his book, “Are My Kids on Track? The 12 Emotional, Social and Spiritual Milestones Your Child Needs to Reach.” In Episode 78 David and I talked about the 4 emotional milestones our sons need to reach, and today we cover the 4 social milestones they need to reach. David offers such valuable insight into boys’ development and how we, as their moms, can help them reach the most important milestones. I love this topic so much,
Ep. 79: Where do You Run on Your Hardest BOYMOM Days? With Wendy Speake
Wendy Speake’s new book, The 40-Day Social Media Fast, is an invitation to exchange your online distractions for real-life devotion. Today, Wendy joins us to talk about all of the things we Moms tend to run to on hard parenting days -- social media being a big one in today’s culture, but not the only one! So, if you (like me) ever catching yourself mindlessly scrolling…turning to Facebook or Instagram, Amazon Prime or Netflix, (just to name a few) to numb you or distract you from the things (and
Ep. 78: Is Your Son on Track? 4 Emotional Milestones Your Son Needs to Reach. With David Thomas
David Thomas, counselor, speaker and author (not to mention dad to one daughter and twin sons!) joins us for the first of a two-part conversation about milestones our sons need to reach. Today we talk about emotional milestones (in two weeks we’ll cover social milestones.) David touches on the four milestones boys should reach as well as some of the stumbling blocks that get in the way. David has so much wisdom, insight, and sensitivity to the needs of boys and their families, I think you’ll
Ep. 77: Q&A Birthday Edition {Luke Swanson interviewing his Mom}
To celebrate my upcoming (significant 😯 ) birthday 😉, this week my son Luke takes the role of interviewer, firing me a list of questions sent in by listeners. Some of the questions are more serious parenting questions (challenges with tweens, keeping toddlers in their beds, etc.) and some are just for fun (how is my bang-grow-out process going?) But they are all good conversations, with my son Luke adding his input as well! Thank you for helping me celebrate my birthday week on the podcast, a
Ep 76: The Gift of Adoption and the Pro - Life Kids Movement, with Bethany Bomberger
Bethany and Ryan Bomberger have been a great inspiration to my family. Today, Bethany shares her family's story, and what led she and her husband to start the Radiance Foundation. Bethany also talks about (and reads an excerpt from) her book, Pro-Life Kids. I believe this conversation will offer hope and inspiration to families everywhere! **Sign up today for the Perfectly Imperfect Event hosted by Christian Parenting! I’ll be sharing a talk titled: “What our Sons Need Most from Us, Now” and th
Ep 75: Moms Standing Strong, with Alli Worthington
Alli Worthington, author, speaker, business coach, and BOY MOM to five sons (!!) joins us today with an encouraging and empowering message for all moms. Just listening to Alli speak made me feel stronger! Be sure to check show notes to find out more about Alli and get links to her new book, Standing Strong! Show notes: www.monicaswanson.com/podcast Today's episode: www.monicaswanson.com/episoe-75 Don't miss the upcoming ONLINE Parenting event I will be speaking at! The Perfectly Imperfect di
Ep. 74: A Father's Role in Character Training, with my husband, Dave.
Dad's are hugely important in the character development of their kids. My husband joins me to talk about some of the most important things a dad can do to be intentional about his kids' character training and development. Find a video interview with my husband and lots of other encouragement for dads and moms in the Character Training Course - which just opened its doors for purchase from now until Friday, Oct. 2nd!! (Then will close until a future date) Learn more at: www.monicaswanson.com/cha
Ep. 73: Parenting Wisdom from 7 Inspiring Interviews
I'm so excited to share sneak peeks from 7 interviews which are part of the brand new Character Training Course which will be launching on Sept. 28th! 😁 I think you'll be encouraged and inspired by these 7 nuggets of parenting wisdom from: Jonathan Pitts, Ruth Chou Simons, Dennis Trittin, Kari Kampakis, Maile Higashi, Wendy Speake, and my son Jonah. Find out more about the Character Training Course and leave your name and email address to be notified as soon as doors open over at: www.monic
Ep. 72: Help for When Kids Worry, with Sissy Goff
If you have a child who worries a lot, the season we are in is likely especially stressful. After hearing from many of you who have an anxious child, I knew just who I wanted to bring on to help! Sissy Goff is a counselor, author, and speaker who helps kids find confidence in who they are and hope in who God is making them to be. I’ve read many of Sissy’s books and have so much respect for her! I am so grateful that Sissy could join us to offer encouragement, tools and practical advice for paren
Ep. 71 : Parenting Boys into their College/Life Launch, with Gwen Smith
This is the final episode in our summer series exploring The Joys and Challenges of Every Stage of Raising our Sons. And this is one of my very favorite stages to talk about (maybe because two of my sons are in it now!) No matter the age of your son(s), I think you’ll be encouraged and inspired by this conversation! Author, podcaster, speaker, and musician, Gwen Smith, joins me to talk about preparing ourselves, and our boys, for the day they launch into independence – whether that is college,
Ep. 70. A Refreshing Approach to School, Family, and Life. With Corinne Gold
This episode is a big breath of fresh air for all...of...us. Whether you have boys or girls, whether you homeschool, distance school, (or aren't sure what you're doing for school! 😊) Just hearing my guest, Corinne Gold, share perspectives from her life will be incredibly refreshing to everyone! I know that a lot of people are stressed out right now, and it is my hope that listening to Corinne's story of family time, beach days, great books, and confidence in it all -- will inspire you to consid
Ep. 69: Intentional Parenting in The Teenage Years {with Krista Gilbert}
Word on the street is that all the fun of raising boys ends when they become teenagers...that boys will pull away from their parents...rebel..experiment, and on and on. But does it have to be that way? Krista Gilbert - author, podcaster, and mom of 3 teenage boys (as well as one daughter!) and I dive in deep to discuss our experience raising teen boys. We talk about what an absolute blast teen boys can be, as well as some of the harder stuff. We cover friendships, dating, substance abuse, an
Ep. 68 Navigating the News with Your Kids {with World Watch}
In light of so many difficult and controversial news stories in 2020, I think you'll find this episode incredibly encouraging. Nick Eicher and Brian Basham join me to talk about helping our tweens and teens navigate the news today. We cover news literacy, critical thinking, and Biblical discernment -- and how the brand new World Watch 10-minute Daily News Program can help! Whether you homeschool or not, the World Watch daily video segments will teach your kids (and the whole family) about worl
Ep. 67 Talking Middle School Boys!! With Maggie John
If you've been around my site for long, you know I'm a big fan of boys in the sweet, awkward, hilarious middle school years! As we continue on in this series celebrating all of the seasons of raising boys, I'm so happy to have Maggie John with me for this conversation! Maggie is a Television host (!) as well as a two-boy momma who lives in Canada. One thing I love about this series is getting to know new friends and learning how different families' lives look in each season. I think you'll fi
Ep 66: The gift of Imagination, with my son, Josiah.
It is such an honor to share this episode with all of you! My first-born son, Josiah, joins me to celebrate the one-year birthday of the release of my book, Boy Mom, for one of my favorite interviews ever! I let Josiah chose the topic for this episode and he did not hesitate to choose the topic of IMAGINATION! Josiah's imagination played a huge role in his childhood, and still to this day, Josiah taps into his imagination in some very practical and inspiring ways (he'll share about that in ou
Ep. 65: Homeschool Made Simple, with Jenn Bryant
This episode is for anyone feeling overwhelmed by the idea of a homeschooling your kids (whether you're already homeschooling or just thinking about it!) My friend Jenn Bryant joins me, as we share the very good news: It doesn't have to be that hard! You really can simplify your approach, and Jenn is sharing 7 ways to do that. It's easy to overcomplicate things, and I love Jenn's reminder to slow down, focus on the things that really matter, and ultimately -- enjoy the ride! Jenn and I have a
Ep. 64 Let them be Kids! Celebrating the Elementary years, with Jessica Smartt
Jessica Smartt, author, speaker, and mom to 3 elementary-age kids (2 boys, 1 girl) joins us today to talk about the joys and challenges of raising elementary-age boys. Jessica's new book, Let Them be Kids, is one of my favorite books of 2020, and we get to talk about some highlights of the book, as well as the magic, mischief, and madness of raising little boys. We also touch on some of the challenges parents of elementary kids face -- many of which fall under the category of technology. I hope
Ep. 63: Two Big Announcements! And a chat about our Youth Culture Today. With my Son, Jonah.
My son Jonah is back with me to help me celebrate the announcement of my BRAND NEW CHARACTER TRAINING COURSE (doors to the Beta Group open July 15th!) and to share his own announcement that he is kicking off his own TRUTH FOR YOUTH PODCAST on July 18th! Jonah and I dive into a fun chat, sharing some of the points from one of his first podcast episodes which is about "Problems Kids Face Today -- and the Solutions for those Problems". I am truly honored to have this just-turned-19-year-old with
Ep. 62: Bethany Hamilton, on Life with her Preschool Boys.
I'm so excited to share this super fun conversation with Bethany Hamilton with you! Bethany has been one of our family's greatest inspirations. After losing her arm to a shark attack at age 13, Bethany went on to become one of the greatest female surfers in the world. In this interview, I loved getting to know a grown up Bethany, who surfs better than ever, but is now also a wife and #BOYMOM to her two preschool-age sons! Bethany shares some of the joys and honest-challenges of raising rambu
Ep. 61: Skincare! From Acne to Aging, with Dermatologist, Heidi Foster
This episode is such a treat! My friend, a mom to six, and dermatologist joins me to talk about all things skin care! Heidi shares her best advice for adolescent skin, sunscreen, acne prevention and treatment, as well as anti-aging and more. This is like a free visit to a dermatologist who has the time to talk to you about anything and everything! Heidi has a long list of recommendations (most are over-the-counter!) and I've placed links to everything in show notes! This also happens to be t
Ep. 60 Favorite Books for Boys with Wendy Speake
Join Wendy Speake and I as we chat over our favorite books for boys of all ages. This is a conversation we've wanted to have for a long time, and I hope it offers you some new inspiration for reading with your boys this summer! We cover some classics, some inspirational stories, a few great series, and more -- then, at the end we touch on favorite movies to inspire boys as well. Hope you can grab some coffee and pull up a chair (or imagine we're walking/driving/folding laundry...alongside you
EP. 59 Motivating Boys to Read and Write with Andrew Pudewa
Andrew Pudewa is the Director of the Institute for Excellence in Writing (IEW), and my boys have used his curriculum for over 10 years. We are huge fans of Andrew's fun teaching style, quirky nature, and use of great vocabulary! Andrew teaches and speaks all over the world, and in this interview I invite him to share from a specific teaching I heard that changed my approach to schooling (and parenting!) my boys! It's so good. In this interview Andrew shares some of his best tips for motivati
Ep. 58. Thunderstorm Artis, on NBC's The Voice, and What He Learned from His Parents
This episode is a dream come true for me. Thunderstorm Artis has been a favorite young man of mine for years; ever since he brought my sons on board with him to lead worship for our local church youth group, I have been a fan of both his music and his heart. In today's episode, Thunder shares his story of growing up as one of 11 children in a musical family, losing his Dad to a sudden heart attack when he was just thirteen, then going on to pursue a career in music as a young adult. This last
Ep. 57. Facing Seasons of Anxiety, with Ruth Schwenk
Ruth Schwenk has walked through seasons of anxiety as she went through multiple miscarriages and her husband's cancer diagnoses. But she has also learned that sometimes anxiety comes through more daily battles -- including the unknowns we all face due to the Coronavirus pandemic. After all she has been through Ruth loves to encourage women to face their own anxious seasons with the loving help of our faithful God. I know this episode will be a great encourage to you if you feel a little (or a
Ep. 56. Supporting our Friends who have Kids with Special Needs. With Sandra Peoples
This episode is for anyone who either has a child with special needs, or knows someone who does. (pretty sure that is everyone!) This topic was born out of my own desire to be a better friend; to not let my lack of knowledge or awkwardness get in the way of better supporting my friends who have kids with special needs. I'm pretty sure I am not not alone in all of this, and I'm so grateful Sandra Peoples was willing to come on to guide us from her experience, and with so much grace. Sandra has
Ep 55: Encouragement for "Solo-parenting" boys, with Jen McDonald, Military Spouse
Jen McDonald, author, host of Milspousematters podcast and super encourager to all women (especially military spouses and anyone doing the hard work of parenting mostly on their own) joins me for this awesome episode. I loved talking to Jen, and appreciate all of her hard-earned wisdom and refreshing perspective. I know you'll love her too! Jen is giving away two copies of her book, "You are not Alone: Encouragement for the heart of a military spouse" so be sure to see show notes and enter t
Ep. 54: 27 Tips for Finishing the School Year STRONG {with Robert Bortins}
For every weary mom (and student) out there, this list of 27 ways to finish the school year strong will be a huge encouragement. Robert Bortins, CEO of Classical Conversations, joins us to cheer us to the finish line. Robert was the oldest of four boys, and his mom was developing Classical Conversations homeschool curriculum while he was growing up. Now Robert is all grown up and the CEO of Classical Conversations (CC). CC is in over 42 countries and it is one of the most popular, respected
Ep. 53. Happy Mothers' Day: A reading, an announcement and a GIVEAWAY!
Hey Friends! Happy Mother's Day week! This week I am sharing a short reading from one of my favorite chapters of Boy Mom (I might cry a little, oops) and some reminders to help you savor this sweet occasion. Also, I have an announcement to share, AND a GIVEAWAY!! Be SURE to check out show notes at: www.monicaswanson.com/podcast and for this episode: www.monicaswanson.com/episode-53
Ep. 52. Q & A: Quarantined Boys, Why We Homeschool, about Video Games (Luke answers) and MORE!
This episode just scratches the surface on so many questions I've been saving...Let me know if you love it, and we'll do more of these! Today I tackle the story of how our family started homeschooling, what we love about it, and tips for inspiring boys to read. I talk about boys' need for adventure, and how you can help meet that need -- outside or in! I answer a question from a mom who is reluctant in the kitchen, sharing a mindset shift that is good for all of us. THEN, my 16 yr. old, Luke
Ep. 51. Your Family Was Made to Move Mountains, with Kristen Welch
I'm so happy to have Kristen Welch on with me to talk about her experience going from being a mom-blogger, to a world changer. After a 2010 trip to Kenya with Compassion International, Kristen's world was rocked, and she hasn't looked back since. In her recent book, Made to Move Mountains, Kristen talks about the various mountains we face -- the mountains we dream of climbing, as well as those we would never choose, but God puts in front of us. As we're all facing various mountains related to
Ep. 50: A Healthy Marriage that Blesses your Sons. With Ashley Willis
Marriage is an awesome gift from God, but it can also be really challenging. When we are in the thick of raising kids, marriage can feel even more stressful. Today's guest, Ashley Willis understands this well. She is a mom to four boys, and alongside her husband, Dave, she writes and speaks all over the country about marriage and parenting! Ashley and Dave are authentic, funny, and super encouraging. We hope that today's conversation will inspire you to keep it real, and stay intentional as
Ep. 49 How Jesus Changed my Sons' Lives
My sons Josiah (20) and Luke (16) join me for this special Easter episode. When kids are raised in a Christian home, sometimes they hesitate to share their personal testimonies. They might feel like they've "always been Christians" because they've heard about God or gone to church since they were young. My boys join me to share that even though they were raised in a Christian home, they each have a story of how Jesus changed their life. I hope this inspires some of the listeners' kids to con
Ep. 48 You Have What it Takes to Homeschool, with September McCarthy
September McCarthy, homeschool Mom to 10 kids (yes, 10!) joins me to share from her wisdom and experience. September has a huge heart for family, and she is such an encouragement to me as a homeschool mom. In today's conversation, September shares life-giving perspectives as well as some of the simple methods she uses to make her day run smoothly. In light of the Coronavirus and most people currently being "locked in" with kids, I think this conversation will be incredibly practical and encou
Ep. 47_ Gap Year, SATs, and the Journey to College, with my son, Jonah
My son Jonah has worked incredibly hard to pursue his college dream. In today's episode Jonah shares what he did as a high school student to put himself in the best situation possible to get accepted to his dream college, and even more -- to receive an honors scholarship to that college. We talk about the things Jonah thinks matter most in high school (I promise I didn't tell him what to say! ) as well as coursework, internships, community involvement, and so much more. Jonah talks about his c
Ep 46_ An Invitation to STAY (especially now) with Anjuli Paschall
Today's episode is especially timely in light of so much unrest in the world due to the Coronavirus Pandemic. Anjuli Paschall (Pastor's wife and mom to 5, as well as the founder of the Moms we Love Club on Instagram) joins us to discuss the topic from her new book, Stay. Stay is an invitation to sit with God at the table of your soul...to resist the urge to run, avoid, or ignore the hard parts of our life...and to instead stay with it all, and invite Jesus to stay with you. (we need this righ
Ep 45. Moms Need to Find what Fuels their Souls. With Stefanie Gass
In this episode we are talking about finding that thing...or those things, that "fuel our souls"...The hobbies, passions, work or play that light us up and keep us going when the days are long. During the busy season of motherhood it is easy to neglect the things that used to make us come to life, and today's guest, Stefanie Gass, is here to inspire us all to return to those things -- or find something new to fuel our souls. Stefanie is a podcaster, business coach, and "Mompreneur" who inspire
Ep 44. Protecting Young Minds, Online. With Kristen Jenson
If you only listen to one episode of the Boy Mom Podcast, I hope it is this one! Kristen Jenson, author of the best-selling book, Good Pictures Bad Pictures, is with me to talk about the importance of teaching our kids about pornography, BEFORE they stumble upon it. We live in a world where our kids WILL eventually see "bad pictures" and it is up to us to equip them with the tools to respond well when they do. Kristen shares the three things we must teach kids before they ever get on the inte
Ep. 43: Discovering the Gift of Lent as a Family. With Asheritah Ciuciu
In today's podcast episode we are talking about the 40 days leading up to Easter...The season we call Lent! Asheritah Ciuciu, the author of "Uncovering the Love of Jesus" -- a newly released Lent devotional, shares the most beautiful and inspiring message, I got emotional during the interview! Asheritah tells us about the tradition and history of Lent, and the blessings for those who slow down to take in this season. Asheritah also shares practical ways families can draw near to Christ togethe
Ep 42. How to Fight for (not against) Your Son, With Brooke McGlothlin
If you have what Brooke McGlothlin refers to as a "hard to handle" son, this episode is for you! Brooke shares her story of feeling like she was always fighting against her 2 sons, when God laid it on her heart to learn to fight FOR them instead. Brooke and I go over a list of ways we can fight for our sons, and Brooke offers a free download with 10 ways to fight for your hard-to-handle son in show notes. Find show notes for today's episode at: www.monicaswanson.com/episode-42. Find all p
Ep. 41. Diets, Freedom, and Becoming a Naturally Skinny Mom.
Today's episode is an extension from my blog series: "What Moms Need Most" and this week's post: "Moms Need to Feel Good in their Skin." My friend, personal trainer, Cassie Phillips joins me as we each share our journey to freedom from diets and obsessing over food, exercise, and our bodies. We also invite everyone to join us for a (Free!) online group beginning on Feb. 17th called the "3-Week Jumpstart to the Naturally Skinny YOU." Get link to the group and show notes at: www.monicaswanson
Ep. 40: Nurturing Self Control in Boys. With Drew Dyck
In today's episode we get to hear from Drew Dyck, author of "Your Future Self Will Thank you: Secrets to Self Control from the Bible and Brain Science". When I read this book I immediately knew it would be an excellent resource for parents! I'm so happy Drew could join me to talk about the importance of self control in our sons. He shares the connection between our kids' level of self control and how that correlates to future success in life, (gulp!) as well as some interesting research on th
Ep. 39: Talking to an Expert Girl Mom about Raising Boys Today, With Kari Kampakis
In today's episode Kari Kampakis, author and speaker (and soon-to-be "Girl Mom Podcaster"!) joins me to chat about raising boys today. We cover a lot of ground, like: What are her teenage girls looking for in a boy? Why is it important for teenagers to build friends with the opposite sex? What would she want a son to know? I think you'll gain insight and inspiration for raising amazing sons from this conversation! Find show notes for all podcast episodes at: www.monicaswanson.com/podcast
Ep. 38: "What Moms Need Most" Part I: Intentional Perspective
I'm really excited today, to be reading you the first blog post in my brand new "What Moms Need Most" series over at my blog. (monicaswanson.com.) This message is so much of my heart, and I hope it brings you a ton of encouragement. This is the first post of many in my new series, yet it is foundational to all the rest. Find show notes with links to the Introduction to the series and this very post in show notes. Show notes: www.monicaswanson.com/podcast Today's show: www.monicaswanson.com/
Unleash Your Kids' Genius! With Jean Harville
Today I have Jean Harville on the podcast with me. Jean has worked as a Reading Strategist for kids with learning challenges for many years. She also adopted and raised 2 kids from China. Now that her kids are grown, Jean is taking her passion for kids and learning to the online community as she coaches and encourages parents who want to help their kids learn to love reading and overcome learning difficulties. At the end of January (2020) Jean will be launching a FREE online MASTERCLASS with
Happy New Year, and a Fun (Boy-Approved) Approach to Family Mission Statements
Aloha and Happy New Year! I'm stopping in to wish you all a happy 2020, and share some of the things I plan to do in the New Year -- both on the Podcast and over at my blog (www.monicaswanson.com.) I also share a new approach our family is using to create a family mission statement, based on 3 elements of story. Your boys will love developing a mission statement when they realize they are part of a counterattack against a villain, when the stakes are high. :) Hope this inspires your family
Merry Christmas with Monica and her Boys
Monica's four sons join us today to celebrate the Christmas season. We are reflecting on Christmases past -- from favorite family traditions to favorite Christmas movies, cookies and more. We are also talking about what we are currently doing to intentionally focus on Christ in this season. Get to know each son (Josiah, 20, Jonah, 18, Luke, 15, and Levi, 9) as they share an honest conversation with their mom in today's episode. Find Boy Mom Show notes at: www.monicaswanson.com/podcast Toda
Ep. 34: Advent (and year-round) Family Devotions with Asheritah Ciuciu
In today's episode best-selling author, Asheritah Ciuciu joins us to talk about the Advent season and family devotions. Asheritah has written a number of books, including the Advent devotional, "Unwrapping the Names of Jesus" which my family is going through as we prepare for Christmas. Asheritah encourages moms to bring kids into their devotions as they make the Word of God a beautiful part of every day. She also shares the brain science behind how to establish new habits and how that can hel
Ep. 33 Making Family Memories this Christmas, with Jessica Smartt
Jessica Smartt, author of Memory Making Mom, joins us today to share some simple inspirations for making holidays memories to last a lifetime. Making memories doesn't have to mean more work or more stress, and this episode will give you confidence that you have what it takes to make great memories in every season. Find links to al of the great resources Jessica shares, including a downloadable "Memory Making Bullet Journal" over at show notes! All podcast show notes: www.monicaswanson.com/podc
Ep. 32 Cultivating Gratitude as a Family with Dave
My husband Dave joins me in this episode to talk about Thankfulness, Gratitude, and... is there a difference? Dave and I chat about how we can cultivate a heart of gratitude, and how we might inspire the same in our kids. We talk about some practical mindsets that help us to be more grateful and we discuss why we can be grateful even in the hardest times. Find Podcast notes at: www.monicaswanson.com/podcast this episode at: www.monicaswanson.com/episode-32
Ep. 31: Practicing Presence over the Holidays (and everyday!) with Kate Merrick
Kate Merrick joins me for today's episode and she has a story and message you don't want to miss! Kate learned to be present while fighting for her daughter's life in a battle with cancer. Kate made some radical decisions in order to be more present then, and she's never regretted it. Now, Kate inspires the rest of us in this no-nonsense (hilarious) conversation about living with intention, getting over the FOMO and embracing gratitude. Kate also shares some wisdom for both moms of young kids
030: Are you the Right Mom for the Job? With Becky Keife
Becky Keife, author of the new book, No Better Mom for the Job, joins us for today's conversation. Becky, who was raised mostly by her mom and alongside sisters, once wrestled with feeling inadequate as a mom to her three, "spirited" boys. God used her experiences to stretch and grow her, and now she encourages moms all over the world! In today's interview she shares from her experience embracing her boy-mom role, finding her "mom-strengths" and working within her sons' and her natural wiring.
029: Let's Talk about Moms and Sugar, with Wendy Speake
Wendy Speake, author of the 40-Day Sugar Fast joins us for this conversation about moms and sugar. Wendy has been leading tens of thousands of women through an annual online sugar fast, and now she has put the best of her daily devotions and inspiration into a book. Wendy tells the story of how all of this came to be as well as testimonies from those of who have taken a break from sugar to lean into God. We all run to something! Whether you have a tendency to run to sugar, or Netflix, wine,
028: Let's Talk about Mom Guilt
Mom Guilt! Ever experienced it? :) As this episode releases I'll be taking off for 3 weeks of travel with (1) of my sons for surf contests in Texas and Portugal. (leaving two other sons at home.) Today I'm talking about Mom guilt in all of its forms-- from trivial things to more serious...and how to decide when to listen to the guilt and when to brush it off. I talk about the difference between condemnation (from the enemy) and conviction (from the Holy Spirit.) I ALSO point to a free dow
027: The Why, What, and How of Praying for Boys (with Brooke McGlothlin)
In today's episode Brooke McGlothlin joins me to talk about the importance of praying for our sons. Brooke shares the story of how she began to pray for her ("250% boy"-) boys and how it changed her parenting. Moms are busy and time is short, but with a little intention, we can add some life-changing, power-packed prayers to our days. It is so worth it! Hope you are encouraged by our conversation! Please spread the word, leave a rating and review, and find show notes at: www.monicaswanson.co
026: Practical Parenting Q & A with Wendy Speake (part II)
In today's episode Wendy Speake is back on with me as we tackle a few more important (and challenging) questions about raising boys. We talk about siblings who do NOT get along, and offer some suggestions for handling that. We also talk about how we can help our boys make better health choices. And we dive into some practical thoughts on boys and technology. This episode is packed and I hope you enjoy! FIND SHOW NOTES: www.monicaswanson.com/episode-26 and all podcast show notes: www.monica
025: What I Have Learned from my Sons. {Aloha Friday...}
This is the last Aloha Friday Episode of 2019! in this episode I share about some exciting travels coming up for me with my son Luke (for surf contests in Texas and Portugal!) I also talk about how God uses our kids to teach us so much -- to grow us, stretch us, and develop our character! I'm linking to a brand new blog post and encouraging parents to slow down this weekend to ENJOY your kids and to learn about them and from them! SHOW NOTES (With a BOY MOM BOOK GIVEAWAY!) over at SHOW NOTE
024: Practical Parenting Q & A with Wendy Speake (part I)
My friend, Wendy Speake, is back with me (she was my first guest in episodes #3 and #4) as we respond to questions sent in by listeners. This is part one of a two-part Q & A, and today Wendy and I answer questions related to: 14 year-old disobedience... 6 year olds with BIG FEELINGS, bedtime issues, argumentative kids, and all kinds of topics that springboard off of these! I think you'll find this episode super practical and encouraging and I hope you hop over to the show notes at: www.monic
023: Books and Podcasts for Teenagers {Aloha Friday with my son, Jonah}
For this Aloha Friday episode my son Jonah (18) joins me to talk about some of his recent favorite books and podcasts. I add a few of the books my fifteen year old son has been reading as well, and we link to all of them in the show notes. Jonah loves to read and it's fun to hear him talk about all of these things! I hope your tween or teen might get to listen and be inspired to read (the Bible and other books) and listen to some inspiring podcasts! SHOW NOTES: www.monicaswanson.com/episod
022: Raising Boys with Sensory Processing Challenges with Heather MacFadyen
I am thrilled to have my friend,podcaster, and fellow (4-)boy mom, Heather MacFadyen on with me in today's episode. Heather and I are talking about sensory processing issues in boys, and how we can best help our boys in this area. Heather has a professional background which introduced her to this subject, but she also has had experience personally and with her sons to make her really understand and care about this topic. Whether or not your son has sensory processing issues, I think you will
021 Teaching boys Life Skills by age (with free download guide) and Q & A on sibling bullying
This Aloha Friday Episode springboards off of Episode 020 where my husband, Dave, and I talked about all of the things we can do NOW, to prepare for the day our children launch into independence one day. Dave and I mentioned the importance of teaching our kids life skills, and in today's episode I offer a free download (LIFE SKILLS BY AGE) and encourage parents to teach their kids ONE new Life Skill this weekend! I also tackle a Q & A about sibling bullying: What to do when one of our kids is
020: Raising Boys who will be Ready to Launch, with my Husband, Dave.
This is a special episode because we are covering the final chapter from my book, Boy Mom. My husband Dave joins me for this conversation, as we go over the "7 Things parents can do now, so they are ready to launch their kids later." This is really the heart of this Podcast and my Boy Mom book! This episode is applicable to daughters as well, and I hope some of the men out there will listen as I think Dave has a lot of wisdom to share. Dave is a family-practiced-trained physician, (who works
019: Wisdom in Choosing Friends: Aloha Friday with my Son, Luke.
My 15 year old son Luke joins me in today's episode as he shares a quote from George Washington which says: "It's better to be alone than in bad company." Luke shares his thoughts on this, as well as a couple Bible verses, and his own personal experience seeking good friendships. This is a great episode to have your kids listen in on, and I hope it inspires some conversations this weekend about friendships, loneliness, and being wise while you wait. SHOW NOTES: www.monicaswanson.com/podcast
Ep. 018: Boys: Relationships, Dating, and Beyond
Rhonda Stoppe is joining me in today's packed episode where we talk about helping our sons navigate relationships, dating, sex, and marriage. Rhonda has four grown children and a TON of wisdom and experience to share. She has written books on topics related to romance and marriage, as well as one just for moms raising sons. This episode is a bit longer than the others but I hope you can listen to the end because Rhonda's encouragement and wisdom go all the way to the end. :) Find show notes
017: Family Dinner Chat: Back to School with a Growth Mindset {Aloha Friday Episode}
In this Aloha Friday Episode I am encouraging families to gather around the dinner table to chat about the new school year. I cover the topic of MINDSET and the difference between a fixed mindset and a growth mindset. I love this topic and I hope you'll find it super practical and encouraging for your family! I also cover a Q and A about boys and reading. I share a helpful tip I learned to get boys to want to read more. Find show notes and links to anything I mentioned at: www.monicaswanso
016: Boys, Learning, and Discovering Passions: With Amber Lia
Amber Lia joins me in this episode as we springboard off of Ch. 9 in my book, Boy Mom: "Inspiring Young Minds: Learning and Discovering Passions." Amber is a (homeschooling) mom to four boys, and was a teacher for many years before having children. She shares inspiration for inspiring young minds, stimulating curiosity, and pointing kids to God in all things. We also talk about motivating older kids to learn and ways we can work with an unmotivated teenager. I think you'll get a lot out of t
015: Boys and Perseverance: An Aloha Friday Episode with my son Jonah.
For our 2nd ALOHA FRIDAY Edition of the Boy Mom Podcast, my son Jonah joined me to chat about the character quality of PERSEVERANCE. Jonah has impressed me in the past year with his ability to persevere in work, studies, and life. I ask Jonah about his SAT studies and his job as a dish washer while he waited to be promoted to busser (for the past year! :)) Jonah shares his perspective on it all. I share some fun quotes on perseverance, and there will more quotes and Bible verses over at my s
Raising Boys Who Value Work and Money Management
Today's interview is packed with practical ideas from my friend and guest, Kristi Clover. Kristi is so much fun to talk to -- and she is a master at organization for families. You'll love her advice on how to "set kids up for success" in their chores, and her family's approach to earning and stewarding money. Kristi shares principles that every family can put into practice and I think you'll enjoy this conversation! Kristi's new book, M.O.M. (Master Organizer of Mayhem) releases early in Sept
(New!) Aloha Friday Episode: 2 Free Resources for you, and a Q&A about When you and Your Spouse Disagree on Parenting Issues.
I'm so excited to introduce this new "Aloha Friday Edition" of the Boy Mom Podcast! I hope to keep these short and sweet, mostly solo (or with one of my guys!) and to focus each of these episodes on connecting with your family as you head into the weekend. Today I am also answering a frequently-asked question about how to handle it when you and your spouse are not on the same page with parenting issues. Hope you are encouraged. Podcast page: www.monicaswanson.com/podcast. Blog homepage: www.
Raising (Emotionally) Healthy Boys, With Christie Thomas
Christie Thomas joins me for today's episode as we talk about raising emotionally healthy sons. Christie is the mom to three boys and she has a background in children's ministry. She faced some personal trauma years ago that has given her a deeper understanding of anxiety, and she has helped her sons through childhood anxiety as well. Christie has written two beautiful children's books to help kids cope with topics like fear, loss, and anxiety; she approaches these topics with a balanced comb
Raising (Physically) Healthy Boys, With Erin Mohring
Erin Mohring joins me in today's episode to talk about raising sons to embrace a healthy lifestyle. Like me, Erin is married to a physician, and in today's episode she is sharing her family's experience of transitioning to a healthier lifestyle. Erin and her husband became runners, cleaned up their diet, and now their three sons are following in their footsteps. Erin is the real deal, a ton of fun, and she shares practical and actionable steps towards raising a healthy family, even if you hav
Boy Mom Book Release Day with the Swanson Boys
Today we're having a Boy Mom Book Launch party on the podcast. The Swanson boys (ages 9 up to 20) are hosting the podcast, and asking ME questions! We are all in the mood to celebrate the release of Boy Mom, and I think you'll enjoy the boys' interesting, fun, and silly questions. We are also offering a Boy Mom Book giveaway! Be sure to follow instructions, and we'll choose a winner on Friday, August 9th, 2019! Spread the word and please continue to leave your ratings and reviews. Link to
Raising Boys in a Digital World, with Ruth Chou Simons
I am so excited to share this conversation with Ruth Chou Simons, mother of 6 boys (!!), best-selling author, and incredibly gifted artist. Ruth and I chat about raising boys in a digital world...trying to keep the focus on principles, rather than hard, fast rules. This is not an easy topic, but Ruth's wisdom is deep, and she encourages us to focus on the heart behind the issues. ("We become what we behold".) We talk about keeping the conversation open with our sons, and setting expectations as
Raising Boys with Intentional Influences
In today's episode, I am joined by Jeannie Cunnion: Mother of four sons, author, speaker, and a truly grace-filled friend. Jeannie and I have a great conversation about raising our sons with intentional influences. I am convinced that my two oldest sons are who they are today much because of the influences that have shaped them. We can do our best as parents, but we are also wise to surround our sons with positive outside influences, and ultimately help them learn to choose good influences f
Raising Boys of Noble Character
Today I am sharing from Chapter 6 of Boy Mom, and this is a topic I am passionate about. (It's also a topic I'm spending a lot of time focusing on with my youngest son.) I am talking about the heart of character, and how we can focus on raising kids of character at all ages. When they are young we focus on manners (and the heart behind manners!) and as they grow up we can attach more meaning to they WHY behind the behaviors we are teaching. I share a story of something I did with one of my t
Raising Boys with a Secure Identity with Gwen Smith
In today's episode, Gwen Smith joins me as we continue to cover the main topics in my book, Boy Mom: What Your Son Needs Most From You. (releasing on August 6, 2019!) Today we come to the topic of raising a son with a secure identity. This is a big, important topic! In a world that judges you and labels you based on performance, popularity, looks, wealth, likes, follows, and on and on...how can we raise a son who does not find his identity in ANY of those things? How do we cheer on our kids
Raising a Son Who Loves God, with My Son Jonah
I am so happy to share this conversation with my 17 year-old son, Jonah with all of you. Jonah shares about his experience growing up in a Christian home, when he made his faith his own, and how he has developed his faith over his teenage years. This may be a good episode to invite your son (and husband!) to listen in on. I also get to ask Jonah some fun questions at the end of the episode; listen in and find out what War and Peace, a rifle, and a surfboard have in common. :) ALSO: Don'
Boys and Discipline with Wendy Speake
Wendy Speake joins me again as we discuss boys and discipline. Wendy and I talk about how discipline is (unfortunately) a big part of parenting, and how being prepared to discipline is actually a key to NOT losing your cool as a mom. We talk about the purpose of discipline and what it means to understand -- and use -- your sons' "currency." Wendy and I cover a whole lot, and I hope you enjoy this episode! Find show notes at Podcast page, and please don't forget to SUBSCRIBE
Raising Boys with Boundaries and Freedoms, With Wendy Speake
I'm excited to have my good friend, Wendy Speake, as my first podcast guest. Wendy joins me as we chat about what boundaries and freedoms look like for each of our families...How sometimes we use a rule for one boy that is different from the other kids. How life isn't always "fair." (and much more!) We also talk about boys and their need for freedoms and adventure...how important it is to offer boys healthy freedoms as they grow up. There's a lot of great stuff in this c
Building a Healthy Relationship with your Son
Today I begin a series which will cover all of the main topics in my new book, Boy Mom: What Your Son Needs Most from You. In these first episodes we will be covering the 12 things your son most needs from you...These are areas moms can equip their sons so that they are ready to face the world once they leave the nest. In today's episode we are going over chapter two of the BOY MOM BOOK, and it's all about building a healthy relationship with our sons. We all want to feel connected
Welcome to the Boy Mom Podcast with Monica Swanson and Friends 001
Aloha, and welcome to the first episode of the Boy Mom Podcast with Monica Swanson and Friends! In this first episode I will be telling you a little more about me and my family, my blog (and the viral post which you might be familiar with) AND my new book -- Boy Mom!! (releasing on August 6th, 2019!) I am sharing my hopes for this podcast, and what I have planned for future episodes, and asking you for your thoughts on what you'd like me to cover here as well. Subscribe to get future episod