Experiencing Motherhood: Single & Black
Kim Williams
Experiencing Motherhood: Single & Black is a conversational podcast for single moms. Kim shares her experiences throughout her single mom journey along with tips to educate, inspire, and uplift other moms. Kim also brings on other moms (and sometimes dads) to talk about various topics related to single parenting in the black community.
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Interested in being a guest or have a topic to suggest, email Kim: singleblackmotherhood@gmail.com
Breaking the Check to Check Cycle as a Single Mom
In this episode, Kim shares how she was able to break the check to check cycle as a single mom.
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Mindset and Money with Tiffany
In this episode, Kim sits down to chat with Tiffany, the founder of Moms Money Mindset, about her financial journey, especially overemployment as a single mom and how she was able to save $30K in 3 months to build her emergency fund by working two remote jobs!
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Ep. 85: Choosing Benefits During Open Enrollment as a Single Mom with Crystal
In this episode, I sat down with Crystal to chat about things we should consider as single moms when choosing benefits during open enrollment.
Ep. 84: MTY Live Podcast: Lessons Learned
In this episode, I share some of the lessons I learned from attending Myleik's live podcast.
Ep. 83: Q & A + Single Moms Retreat Recap With Clarke
In this episode, I sit down with Clarke as he interviews me to discuss the retreat and what I have been up to.
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Ep. 82: 21 Lessons Learned In 2021
In this episode, Kim shares 21 lessons she learned in 2021.
1. Stop the shrinking thinking
2. Negotiation is powerful
3.God will take you places just so he can show you what’s possible for your life
4. Luxury looks different for everyone
5. Life is precious and should be celebrated
6. You may not get exactly what you desire but be open to having something close
7. Community is so powerful
8. You can be paid to share your own story
9. Mental strength goes hand in hand with physical strength
10. I
Ep. 81: Quick Update: Finding a new job + making the decision to relocate again
In this episode, I talk about why I decided to look for a job and make the decision to move with my daughter during this pandemic as a single mom. I hope that you find encouragement and motivation to ask for what you desire - whatever that is.
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Ep. 80: From Transitional Housing to Leaving Corporate America in a Pandemic with Audrey Renee
In this episode, I got to sit down and chat with Audrey Renee, founder of Dear Single Mommy and Curse Broken Collection.
We discuss:
-How she ended up in Transitional Housing and what it was like
-Why she made the decision to leave Corporate America
-How she prepared to leave Corporate America (saving at least 10K)
AND MORE
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Ep. 79: It's Time to Shift Your Mindset with Muffy Mendoza
In this episode, I sit down to chat with Muffy Mendoza, author of Brown Mama Mindset. We discuss:
-Where our thinking comes from
-Treadmill of life & juggling the day to day
-Perception of time & how it affects us
-Why self care should be a priority
-Mom Guilt
AND MORE!
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Ep. 78: Coping Strategies For Kids with Lakiesha Russell, LPC
In this episode, I sit down to chat with Lakiesha, the CEO and founder of The Evolving Chair Counseling & Consulting Agency. We discuss:
-How parents can help their kids manage their own emotions (even when they are struggling to manage their own)
-Signs of stress in kids
-Possible future mental effects of COVID on kids
-Activity suggestions
AND MORE!
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Ep. 77: Single Parenting And Virtual Learning - Part II
In this episode, we continue the conversation about virtual learning from part I. We discuss:
-Things you should consider when deciding whether to send your child back to school
-After school activities
-Creating a "bored" corner
-Decreasing anxiety
and more!!
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Ep. 76: Virtual Learning and Single Parenting: Making It Work
In this episode, I got a chance to chat with educator moms about virtual learning and parenting.
We discuss:
-Risks for in person learning
-Things parents should consider when making a decision
-The importance of education for parents
-Why routines, organization(for parents and children), and procedures are important at home
AND MORE
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Ep.75: How to Build Wealth as a Single Mom and Begin Legacy Planning with Siedah Garrett
In this episode, I sat down to chat with Siedah Garrett, founder of Young and Financially Lit. We discuss:
-Building your financial foundation
-Protecting your income
-Why you can pay off debt, save, and invest at the same time
-Financial planning
-Life insurance
-Estate planning
-Wills
AND SO MUCH MORE!!
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Ep. 74: What Age Should I Talk to My Child About Money?
In this episode, I share a breakdown of how to discuss money with your children by age groups.
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Ep. 73: Mental Health for Children with Alaina Lopez, LPC, RPT
In this episode, I sit down to chat with Alaina, a Licensed Professional Counselor and Registered Play Therapist. She is also the founder of Heart 2 Heart Counseling, a practice in Houston, Texas. We discuss:
-Definitions of mental health & mental health illnesses
-How parents can introduce mental health to their children
-How the emotions of parents play a role in the emotions of children
-Predisposition of mental health disorders
-Common mental health disorders in children i.e ADHD, anxiety, d
Ep. 72: Check-In + Life Update
In this episode, I give you an update on my life. I made it to see year 29. I share my thoughts, lessons learned, how you can incorporate them in your life, goals, and plans for the future. I discuss:
-Starting year 29 off with therapy and what I have discovered
-Self-care
-Parenting (Working from home & staying productive)
-Career (Approval to work from home 100% and what an interview for a promotion has taught me)
-Finances (Incorporating money Mondays & prioritizing debt payoff and savings)
Ep. 71: Saving Money on Grocery Shopping without Clipping Coupons w/Crystal
In this episode, I chat with Crystal about how she learned to feed her and her three kids with only $100 when she was a teacher and how she still uses some of those same principles today to help her save. We discussed:
-Having an actual grocery budget
-The importance of meal planning
-Making a grocery list
-Types of foods you should buy
-Cashback apps
-Single-serve items
-Stretching meals
AND MORE
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Ep. 70: Therapy: What it is and Why Moms Need it with Alaina Lopez, LPC
In this episode, I chat with Alaina Lopez, founder of Heart 2 Heart Counseling, about what therapy is and why moms need it. We discuss:
-What therapy really is
-Types of therapy
-Benefits of therapy and why everyone can benefit
-How to choose a therapist and where to find them
-Online therapy
-What to expect at your first session
-What trauma looks like
-The importance of self-improvement as it relates to motherhood
AND MORE!!
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Working From Home, Teaching, & Parenting During the Coronavirus Pandemic
In this episode, I got a chance to chat with educator moms about working from home, teaching, and parenting during the Coronavirus, or COVID-19 pandemic. We discuss:
-How life has changed for them
-Systems being used by schools for distance learning
-Whether parents should stress about their child's schoolwork
-Why parents shouldn't try to replicate a child's school schedule
-Why schedules are important
-What should be included in a schedule for Pre-K, Elementary, Middle School, and High School
Co-Parenting from a Single Dad's Perspective with David & Clarke - Part II
In this episode, David and Clarke, cohosts of Single Dad Why You Mad, answers questions from listeners about coparenting. We discuss:
-Coparenting with a former absent parent
-The importance of having conversations, no matter how uncomfortable they are
-How coparenting has impacted their life
-How my absent father impacted my life
-How to coparent when the other parent may be negative
AND MORE
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Co-Parenting from a Single Dad's Perspective With David & Clarke - Part I
In this episode I got to chat with David & Clark, cohosts of the Single Dad Why You Mad Podcast, about coparenting. We discuss:
-How they became single dads - marriage vs. non-marriage
-How they define coparenting
-Agreements
-Whether age plays a factor in the decision to coparent
AND MORE!!
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Best for You. Best for Baby. CDC's Pregnancy Tips.
In this episode, I gets to chat with Jazmyn Moore, MSc, MPH, a Public Health Scientist in the Division of Birth Defects and Infant Disorders of the National Center on Birth Defects and Developmental Disabilities (NCBDDD), Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. About one in every 33 babies is born with a birth defect. Not all birth defects can be prevented, but a woman can take steps to increase her own chance of having a baby with the best health possible. We discuss:
-Birth defects
-Discov
Pressing Reset: New Year, Better Me
In this episode, Kim shares 10 tips for becoming a better version of yourself:
1. Change your mindset
2. Make a decision regarding the person you want to become
3. Take care of your health - mentally, physically, and spiritually
4. Do better with your money
5. Hold yourself accountable more
6. Change your job if you are not happy
7. Make friends - single moms, married moms, and single women
8. Never stop learning
9. Be consistent
10. Celebrate your wins
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Balancing Work and Life as a Single Mom with Christine Michel Carter
In this episode I got to chat with Christine Michel Carter, known as the #1 global voice for working moms. We discuss:
-Communicating when you need help personally/professionally
-Building community
-Scheduling self-care
-Looking for companies that promote flexible work environments
-Advocating for other women/moms in the workplace
-Burn out
-Fear of using PTO
-Mom guilt
AND MORE!!
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How to End the Check to Check Cycle as a Single Mom: Budgeting, Saving, & Paying off Debt with Dyana
In this episode, I sit down to chat with Dyana, of Money Boss Mama, to talk about her journey of ending the check to check cycle. We discuss:
-How much debt she has paid off
-Creating a budget
-Setting financial goals
-Using cash/cash envelopes
-Side hustling
-Automating savings
AND SO MUCH MORE!!
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Transitioning from a Single Mom of 4 to a Married Mom of 5
In this episode, I got to sit down and have a conversation with Camille about her transition. We discussed:
-Getting pregnant at 15
-Dating an older man in high school
-Her parents divorce
-Raising boys on her own
-Getting her GED and going to culinary school
-How her family became her backbone and supported her through her single motherhood journey
-Utilizing government assistance
-Fighting a custody battle, getting her kids taken away, and dealing with depression
AND SO MUCH MORE
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Summer Check-In & Getting Back On Track
In this episode, I talk about what's going on in my life and share 10 ways for you to get back on track!
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Why Investing in Yourself is Important as a Single Mom with Kaywanda Lamb
In this episode, I got a chance to chance with Kaywanda Lamb, The Winning Single Mom. We discussed:
-What investing in yourself means
-Why you should take chances
-How you can invest in different areas of your life
-Learning how to say "no"
-Why you should take advantage of resources at your employer
-How to be strategic with what you have
AND MORE!!
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Why You Should Join A Mom Network With Nisha Hopkins
In this episode, I got to sit down and chat with Nisha Hopkins, founder of the Mogul Mom Network. We discuss:
-How losing her job caused her to have a desire to make an income for herself
-Why she invested in a coach
-The disconnect with having a non-mom coach
-Why she created the Mogul Mom Network
-Benefits of joining a mom network
AND MORE!!
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Why Mommy Matters with Antonia
In this episode I get to sit down and chat with Antonia, founder of Mommy Matters, about why she created it and how it relates to her story. We discuss:
-Her getting married young and divorcing after marriage counseling and separation did not work
-Her definition of what it means to be a single mom
-Why community is important
-Why she decided to create an app for moms specifically
AND MORE
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A Single Mom's Attempt To Commit Suicide With Torre White
In this episode I get to sit down and chat with Torre, who shares about her mental health journey. We discuss:
-Anger management treatment in high school
-Her diagnosis with anxiety which later led to postpartum depression with the last child
-Lack of friends/support
-Becoming a single mom twice
-Dealing with dads who weren't that supportive
-Why prayer isn't enough
-Coping strategies
-Medication and intense therapy
-Fear of guilt and being judged
AND MORE
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Social Anxiety and Why Every Single Mom Needs Community with Lakiesha Russell, LPC
In this episode, I got the chance to welcome back Lakiesha Russell, LPC to chat about social anxiety. We discuss:
-What social anxiety is
-Automatic negative thoughts (ANTs)
-What leads to anxiety and isolation
-Why trust starts with you
-Why it's important to have community or another single mom to talk to
-How your actions affect your child
-How therapy can help
AND MORE
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How to Create a Skincare Routine as a Busy Single Mom with Antinese
In this episode, I get to chat with Antinese, Licensed Esthetician and CEO of Glam Beauty Bar Spa, to discuss how busy moms can make time to take care of their skin. We discuss:
-How to create a three to five minute routine
-What type of products you should have in your day and night routine i.e. cleanser, toner, moisturizer, and serum
-How often you should exfoliate and use a mask
-How often you should get facials
-Why you should use products for your skin type
-Why you shouldn't use soap and l
Making Time to Exercise as a Single Mom with Kelma
In this episode, I sit to chat with Kelma about her fitness journey and how she's been able to make time to exercise. We discuss:
-Why she made the decision to take control of her health
-How depression and the loss of her husband led to emotional eating and weight gain
-Making a mindset shift
-Making time to prepare meals
AND MORE
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How a Single Mom Paid Off All Her Debt Making Less Than 50K per Year (And You Can Too) with Angela
In this episode, I got to chat with Angela about her journey to debt freedom.
We discuss:
-Her childhood
-Living check to check
-Using the debt snowball method
-What sacrifices she made
-The importance of having a budget
-Losing three jobs during the process
-How she started her emergency fund
-What she thinks about side hustles
-Funding her 6-month emergency fund after becoming debt free
AND MORE
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The Podcast Has Turned One, Now What?
The podcast turned one last year and I wanted to take time to let you know what's going on. I talk about:
-Why I started the podcast
-What I gained in 2018
-How the podcast has helped moms
-Ways to become active in the community
-Ways you can support
-What you can expect in the future
AND MORE
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Learning to Love Yourself as a Single Mom: The Valentine's Day Edition with Ta'Lor Pinkston
In this episode I sat down to chat with Ta'Lor Pinkston, founder of Ladyhood Journey. We discuss:
-Depression throughout pregnancy
-Starting on her self-love journey
-Self-care vs. self-love
-What self-love actually is
-Why Ta'Lor became a Self-Love Coach
-Self-Awareness
-How to prioritize self-care
-What body positivity is
-How we can change the way we think about Valentine's Day
AND MORE
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Income Tax for Single Moms with Rosalind
In this episode, I get to chat with Rosalind, who is very knowledgable about income from her years of working for the IRS. We discuss:
-What you should know before filing
-Filling out your W-4 form correctly
-Choosing between self preparation and using a tax preparer
-Tax breaks for single moms
-What to expect after filing
AND MORE
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Single Mom's Involvement In Their Child's Education with Evette Rawls
In this episode, I sit down to chat with Evette Rawls, educator of 20 years about what a single mom's involvement in education should look like. We discuss:
-Why it is important to be involved in your child's education
-What parental involvement looks like
-Why parents find it difficult to help the child with their homework
-Why parental involvement declines in middle and high school
-If growing up in a single parent home affects the child's education
AND MORE
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Homebuying For Single Moms with Ariesha Wilbert
In this episode, I sit down to chat with Ariesha Wilbert, a realtor who specifically works with single parents, about home buying. We discuss:
-What you should know before buying a home
-Why you should know your credit score and history before contacting a lender
-Homeownership vs renting a home
-How long you should plan to live in a home
-Homebuying programs
-What you can expect for closing costs
-Downpayment assistance programs
-How much you should save for a downpayment if you don't qualify f
Effective Planning For Single Moms with Kayla Shanai
In this episode, I got to chat with Kayla, creator of the Black Girl Magic Planner, about how to plan effectively.
We discuss:
-the parts of the Black Girl Magic Planner and why each one is important
-how Kayla plans for the year
-why using time blocks or an hourly schedule is effective
AND MORE
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An End of Year Reflection for 2018 with Bam
In this episode, I sit down to chat with Bam, creator of Bae Mama Podcast, about how we felt about 2018. We discuss:
-Our podcast's mission
-Most important goals achieved
-Skills acquired
-Biggest mistakes
-Challenges we overcame
-Things we learned about ourselves and other people
-Best memory
-Biggest time waster
-Goals for 2019
AND MORE
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Dani: Taking Control of Your Life as a Single Mom
In this episode, I got to chat with Dani, creator of the Milf Academy. We discuss:
-Her decision to not have a relationship with her son's father
-How she managed to continue on with graduate school while pregnant and finish
-How she utilizes her support system
-How she takes control of her life
AND MORE
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Tiara Caldwell: Single Mom and Doula
In this episode, I get to chat with Tiara Caldwell, founder of Crown and Cradled to discuss all things doula. We discuss:
-Her inspiration behind becoming a doula
-What a doula is
-The purpose of a doula
-Benefits of having a doula/postpartum doula
-How to search for a doula
-Why you should interview multiple doulas
-Cost of a doula
-Creating a birth plan and why it is important
-Educating yourself
and more!
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Jaleesa: Good Touch, Bad Touch - Talking to Your Kids About Sex
In this episode, I got to sit down to chat with Jaleesa to chat about the differences between good touch and bad touch.
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Ciera Young: Self-Care and the Holidays for Single Moms
In this episode, I get to sit down and chat with Ciera, founder of FanCee and author of Cheers to Him. We discuss:
-Alternating holidays with the other parent
-Dealing with divorced parents in addition to being a single parent during the holidays
-Building holiday traditions w/your kid(s)
-Learning to appreciate alone time
-Communicating with the other parent about creating a holiday schedule
-Different categories of self care: physical, emotional, relational, spiritual, & cognitive
-Why Ciera
Brianna Alford: Saving Money on Christmas Shopping as a Single Mom
In this episode, I get to sit down and chat with Brianna, founder of BLNA Financial Services, about saving on last minute Christmas shopping. We discuss:
-Why she got into accounting
-Setting a spending limit on Christmas shopping
-Overspending and getting into debt
-Making a list of people you have to buy for
-The feelings of guilt
-How you can save
-Planning for next year
AND MORE
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Brittany Kater: Choosing Healthcare Benefits for Single Moms
In this episode, I sit down to chat with Brittany and we use our experience in Healthcare to break down Open Enrollment. We discuss:
-Basic health insurance terminology
-How to choose a medical, dental, vision plan
-Why you shouldn't choose a plan just because someone else has it
-The benefits of enrolling in a FSA as a single mom
-Why you should consider your lifestyle when you are enrolling
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Dr. Alexea Gaffney: Divorced Mom & Breast Cancer Survivor
In this episode, I had the privilege of chatting with Dr. Alexea Gaffney, who is a triple board certified infectious disease specialist, about her breast cancer journey. We discuss:
-When she was diagnosed & how she felt
-How she broke the news about her diagnosis to her daughter
-Why it's important to have a good relationship with your Primary Care Physician (PCP) or Gynecologist
-How treatment makes her feels
-Getting second opinions
-Why it took cancer for her to prioritize herself
-How brea
Dee: Becoming a Single Mom after Domestic Violence
In this episode, I got a chance to chat with Dee about her Domestic Violence journey. We discuss:
-The stages of domestic violence
-How she experienced abuse from pregnancy until her daughter was two months
-How she broke the news to her family & friends
-Her fear of becoming a single mom and how that same fear affects other moms
-When she finally made the decision to join a support group
-Developing a support system and finding at least one person you can confide in
-Why it's important to under
Attorney Nasheia Conway: Child Support for Single Moms
In this episode, I got a chance to chat with Attorney Nasheia Conway about child support. We discuss:
-Why she continued to attend law school while pregnant and later became a single mom
-The importance of building a support system
-The biggest misconceptions of child support
-Why she made the decision to file for child support
-Things you should consider when asking for modifications in your child support order
-Non-custodial vs. Custodial parent
-Pro bono lawyers
-Finding information in law li
Brawley: The Determined Single Dad
In this episode, I got to chat with Brawley, founder of Above 500 & Single Fathers United. We discuss:
-why his personal experience led him to create Single Fathers United
-how women treat babies as possessions and use them against the fathers
-why a lot of men give up on their role as fathers
-what happened when he found out his child's mom was leaving
-how he was able to get an injunction (and later gained custody) without an attorney by being resourceful
-how the court views the parents
-wha
Maurice: Single, Divorced Dad of Multiples
In this episode, I get to sit down with Maurice and chat about his journey as a single, divorced dad of multiple children. We discuss:
-Communicating with his ex-wife
-Creating a safe space with his kids for them to be able to communicate
-Not following each other on social media
-How both of them pays child support
-How single dads tend to get more support from the community and are less stereotyped than single moms
-How helpful focus groups (for children whose parents have been deployed or div
Jeremy: Single Military Dad
In this episode, I get to sit down and chat with Jeremy about his challenges as a dad while being in the military. We discuss:
-why the relationship with his child's mother ended
-how often he sees his child
-his thoughts about child support
-why he feels that most men are not physically present
-why women should try and communicate with their child's father
-the relationship between his biological father
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Willie Mitchell, Jr: Co-Parenting in College as a Single Dad
In this episode, I get to chat with Willie about his journey coparenting while in college. We discuss:
-making the decision to co-parent for the betterment of the child
-his schedule and getting his school work done
-his support system
-the transition from seeing his son everyday to three days a week
-his biggest challenge as a new dad
-having his father as a role model
-his family's disappointment of him having a child without being married
-why faith is important
-what self care looks like fo
Tyrise Barker: Co-Parenting 50/50 as a Single Dad
In this episode, I get to chat with Tyrise, a co-host of The Absent Dad Podcast. We discuss:
-his lack of communication during his college years
-his understanding of where he went wrong
-why he thinks college is a fantasy world
-why he felt that he deserved 50% custody
-why men have to give up their selfishness when they have children
-his thoughts on the lack of responsibility of some dads
-why we should understand the outcome of not taking preventative measures when it comes to sex
-dating
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Lakiesha Russell - Dealing with School Behavior as a Single Parent
In this episode, I sit down to chat with Licensed Professional Counselor, Lakeisha Russell, to discuss:
-Forming a partnership and having conversations with your child's teacher
-How transitions can impact behavior
-Why modeling behavior is important
-Having conversations about behavior with your kids and using proper terminology
-Why building a support system is important
-Raising boys
-Behavioral disorders i.e. ADHD, Autism, & Anxiety
-How genetics play a part in behavior
-Choosing a family th
Sabrina: Keeping Your House Clean as a Busy Single Mom
In this episode, I get to chat with Sabrina of Simply Being Sabrina. We discuss:
-Keeping your house clean when you have a million things to do
-Teaching your kids how to clean so that you all share the responsibility
-Prioritizing what needs to be cleaned the most
-Sabrina's favorite household products
AND MORE
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Khadeejah Smith: Building a Routine That Works During the School Year for Single Moms
In this episode, I sit down to chat with Khadeejah of G.R.I.T. Mom and educator of 13 years. We discuss:
-what G.R.I.T is
-figuring out what duties you can pass on to your child
-why it's important to add meal prepping to your routine
-giving your kids to-do-lists
-coparenting after divorce
-making responsibilities a family thing so that your kids feel empowered like they do in the classroom
-why having structure and routines are important
-why you should show your kids an example of how you wa
Aisha Taylor: How to Save on Back to School Shopping as a Single Mom
In this episode, I sit down to chat with Aisha Taylor of FNPhenomenal. We discuss:
-what Aisha learned on her journey to manage her money better with twins
-creating a budget
-evaluating what you have so that you know what to buy
-couponing
-cutting back on expenses
-clothing exchanges
-back to school drives
AND MORE
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How to Earn More in Your Career as a Single Mom
In this episode, I share some tips that I've learned to help me earn more from applying for jobs and doing interviews to career development.
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21 and Pregnant: My Story
In this episode, I share my personal pregnancy story, why having a doula was beneficial, and lessons I've learned.
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Alaina Meyes: Pregnancy After Divorce as a Single Mom
In this episode, I got to chat with Alaina of Unashamed Growth. We discussed:
-Infertility
-Seeking counseling, quitting, and going back
-Coping with becoming pregnant after being divorced
-Experiencing shame
-Coparenting
-Work/life balance or the lack thereof
-What self-care looks like as a mom of twins
-Using supplements to maintain energy levels
AND MORE
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Moniqua Lashae: Making the Choice to Remain Pregnant as a Single Mom
In this episode I got to sit down and chat with Moniqua about her experience during pregnancy as a single mom.
We discuss:
-How her child's father initially wanted her to have an abortion
-How she felt in the beginning
-Decisions to coparent
-Being raised by a single mom and how her situation is different
-Her support system
-How she plans to manage her time
AND MORE
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Martine: Single Mother by Choice - A Look Into IUI & IVF
In this episode I got to chat with Martine about the start of her journey into Single Motherhood by choice! We discussed:
-Her WHY
-Methods she tried
-Out of pocket cost vs cost paid by insurance
-Support of her family
-Sacrifices made
-Choosing a fertility specialist
-Saving for the process
-Her biggest struggles
-What the donor process was like
AND MORE
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Dr. Sophia Reed: How the Behavior of Single Parents Affect Children
In this episode, I get to chat with Dr. Sophia Reed, National Certified Counselor. We discuss:
-Some common issues Dr. Sophia sees in her clients
-Why she decided to become a counselor and how it's helped her parent a bit different from most
-How our actions and decisions affect our children
-When and why she decided to actually apply Christian principles to her life
-Her decision to create a devotional, specifically for moms
AND MORE
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Kendria Johnson: Taking Control of Your Mental Health as a Single Mom
In this episode, I got a chance to sit down with Kendria Johnson, founder of Single Mom Legacy. We discussed:
-How she transitioned from a single mom to a married mom
-The distant relationship with her parents
-What depression looks like
-How your mistakes are not the end of the world
-Why you should think about the legacy you want to leave for your kids
-Why you should stop making excuses for yourself
-Learning to accept help
-How going to therapy has influenced her decision to become a counsel
Summit21 Recap: Self Development, Business, & Networking
In this episode, I share the ticket cost, some things I learned, and how the things I learned relate to my life.
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Dr. Michele Vaughn: Equipping Single Moms to Become Positive Role Models
In this episode, I got to chat with Dr. Michelle Vaughn (MV) who went from being a teen mom to an associate college dean to becoming an owner of a non-profit, The Teen & Single Mother Resource Center. We discuss:
-How she felt being a teen mom
-What inspired her on this journey to become passionate about helping single moms
-Common issues that she has seen
-How she is able to help single become gain the confidence to believe in themselves to seek degrees and become homeowners
-Why we are more th
Desirae Harper: Attending Graduate School as a Single Mom
In this episode, I get to chat with Desirae about attending graduate school. We discuss:
-Why she decided to attend
-How she's paying for it
-How she manages single motherhood and graduate school
-What her day-to-day life is like
-Why I don't want to attend graduate school just to say I have a degree
-How she keeps her sanity
AND MORE
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Terra Jackson: Running a Business as a Single Mom
In this episode, I get the chance to chat with Terra, founder of Respect the Queen, LLC, who pursued her passion and went from pain to purpose!
We discuss:
-why Terra left Corporate America
-why it's important for us to dig deep and gain clarity
-if there is a such thing as balance
-how she's able to run her business as a single mom of two
-what success should be defined as
-why single moms should have a coach or someone that they could go to
-why you can't seem to stay consistent and stop procr
Nakisha Wynn: Starting a Blog as a Single Mom
In this episode, I get the chance to sit down and chat with Nakisha Wynn, mother of four, who went from simply starting a blog to share her journey and build a community to actually monetizing it.
We discussed:
-how she became a single mom
-why she started the blog
-how she managed to get the blog up and running while working a traditional 9-5
-what kinds of income she's able to generate from the blog
-how she was able to get attracted by brands in her city
-who keeps her kids while she attends
Valencia Morton: From Side Hustles to Debt Freedom as a Single Mom
In this episode, I sit down to chat with Valencia, creator of Millionairess Mama, to talk about her journey from side hustles to debt freedom as a divorced single mom.
We discuss:
-sacrifices she made
-how many side hustles she had
-what her debt consisted of
-why she had to change her money mindset
-why we should focus on paying off high interest debt first vs paying off the accounts with low balances
-why we should have money talks with our children
-why forming personal boundaries is essentia
Birthday Q&A
In this episode, I decided to get questions from my listeners and answer for my birthday. The following questions are answered in this episode:
What is the most impactful advice you have heard from the moms you have interviewed?
What do you hope your podcast will do for other moms?
What made you start this blog/business helping single moms?
Were there any blocks when starting and how did you overcome them?
What advice would you give for someone wanting to start an online business/blog but don’t
Terri Timmons: Building Confidence as a Single Mom
In this episode, I sit down to talk with Terri, mother of three and founder of The Single Moms Universitee, to discuss building confidence as a single mom. We discuss:
-how she got over the pity party and developed several businesses
-what it was like to try and fail countless times
-getting rid of people who didn't benefit her
-how feeling defeated and broke led to the creation of the Single Moms Universitee
-how she built her confidence while feeling defeated
-why you should decide how YOU wan
Saving For Travel As A Single Mom
In this episode, I'm giving you tips on how to save for travel!
-Determine where you want to go
-Set a budget
-Create an online savings account and be specific with the name
-Automate your savings
-Book the trip and make monthly payments
-Travel during off seasons
-Save on baggage and travel light with a carry-on
-Consider splitting costs with another mom
-Use a travel card and earn miles **only if you're financially responsible
-Set a portion of your income tax aside for travel
-Find a side hus
Kelley Woods: Making Travel Inexpensive for Single Moms
In this episode, I sit down to chat with Kelley, founder of Traveling With Cute Luggage. We discuss:
-How depression & anxiety led her to travel
-What made her think about bringing her kids along
-Our first trip with the kids
-What a travel consultant does and the difference between a travel agent
-What a host agency is
-The best time to contact a travel consultant in your planning process
-Why there are deposits and fees
-Why deposits are nonrefundable
-Travel insurance
-Why you should travel w
Bionca Smith: Off the Grid with a Kid
In this episode, I sit down to chat with Bianca, a 29-year-old mom, who has been traveling full-time with her son for 11 months.
We discuss:
-how she's able to support their lifestyle financially
-paying off debt
-living in passion
-why she chose van life and how "Off the Grid with a Kid" began
-how she didn't plan to bring her son along to do van life
"I made a promise to prosper when my child was two weeks old..." -Bionca Smith
-why she decided to enroll him in homeschool
-what her daily life
Traveling On A Budget as a Single Mom
In this episode, I share my tips on traveling on a budget.
I talk about:
-Cost of a passport
-Favorite sites to check flight prices
-Signing up for various mailing lists
-Comparing Air BnB to a hotel
-Checking reviews
-Searching Instagram hashtags
-How to find activities
-How to determine what transportation will be like
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Forgot to mention:
Checking Groupon and talking to locals to find out where the best spots are
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Darcel White: Single Mom of Multiples and Special Needs
In this episode, I get the privilege to sit down and chat with Darcel Rivers, founder of The Mahogany Way, who believes that you should always give yourself some grace.
We discuss:
-What a typical day is like
-How Darcel is able to keep up with her day
-Using a planner
-The difference between Unschooling & Homeschooling
"You don't have to learn everything from a curriculum."
Unschooling sheds what you've learned with traditional schooling. No grades, no quizzes, no tests, no standardized tests..
Dominique De'Vazia: Dating As A Single Parent - Part II
In this episode, we pick up where we left off from part I.
We discuss:
-qualities one should posses when looking to date people of higher stature such as doctors, CEOs, engineers, etc.
-what influenced Dominique's decision to become a matchmaker, divorce mediator, and life/relationship coach
-why waiting until your toddler goes to college to date is a bad idea
-why you should forgive yourself for the bad relationship mistakes that you've made and vow not to make those mistakes again
"Who you a
Dominique De'Vizia: Dating as a Single Parent - Part I
In this episode, I get to sit down with Dominique, matchmaker, certified Divorce Mediator, and Life/Relationship Coach, to discuss dating for single parents.
Dominique had her first child at 23 and was with her children's father for five to seven years. She was single for about two years and dating was not even a thought. She returned to church and ended up meeting her significant other there.
We discuss:
-Why people claim they are okay with being single
-How you can prepare to date
-When you sh
Makasa Covin: From Engineer to Work at Home Mom
In today’s episode, I sit down to chat with Makasa, a former engineer, who is now a work at home mom.
Makasa found out she was pregnant one or two months after breaking up with her high school sweetheart and has been a single mom since pregnancy.
Her child’s father was very involved for the first two to three years of her daughter’s life. Before her third birthday, Makasa found out he was married.
She was working as a single mom as a manufacturer engineer 50-70 hrs a week, including weekends.
Relocating As a Single Mom
In this episode, I talk about what it was like relocating without family nearby.
If you are thinking about relocating alone with you and your child, I recommend:
1. Saving at least 3-6 months worth of expenses, if possible
2. Trying to get a job before moving (using someone's address in the area if possible)
3. Figuring out what area you want to live in and trying to visit
4. Researching the area and seeing what the cost of living is like
5. Connecting with some locals via social media, maybe ev
Co - Parenting From A Dad's Perspective
In this episode, I sit down to talk with my friend Ron about co-parenting.
We discuss:
-Types of co-parenting
-Benefits of co-parenting
-Working with the other parent
-Ron putting himself on Child Support
The Keys To Setting Goals For Single Moms
In this episode, I share 10 keys to setting goals.
1. Change Your Mindset
2. Reflect on the Previous Year
3. Set Goal Categories
4. Set SMART goals
SMART = Specific, Measure, Attainable, Relevant, Timely
5. Write your goals down.
6. Make actionable plans to reach those goals.
7. Prioritize.
8. Hold yourself accountable first.
9. Find an accountability partner, if needed.
10. Review your progress & celebrate.
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Welcome To Experiencing Motherhood
In this episode, I share a little bit of my story, why I decided to podcast, what the podcast is going to be about, and what you can expect.
If you know anyone that is interested in sharing their story or if you have suggestions for future topics, email Kim at singleblackmotherhood@gmail.com
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