A Gentleman's Guide
Alex
A Gentlemen's Guide: psychology, male-female dynamics & dating. Hosted by Audion. Visit https://www.audion.fm/privacy-policy for more information.
A Gentleman's Guide - Episodio 37 - From Playboy to Papa: Paul Janka on why he left the player life
Paul Janka didn’t just play the dating game, he basically wrote the cheat codes! Back in the mid-2000s, Paul Janka shook things up with his bold, no-BS approach to meeting women in New York City — an approach so wild it landed him on The Today Show and Dr. Phil.In this follow-on episode we talk about why he finally let go of his player lifestyle, and what made him commit to his now wife.Paul's book 'Attraction Formula: Dating Technology for the Modern Man':https://tinyurl.com/Attraction-FormulaP
Mar 27, • 14:23
A Gentleman's Guide - Episodio 36 - Real talk with Paul Janka: the days of NYC street pickup
Paul Janka didn’t just play the dating game, he basically wrote the cheat codes! Back in the mid-2000s, Paul Janka shook things up with his bold, no-BS approach to meeting women in New York City — an approach so wild it landed him on The Today Show and Dr. Phil.In this episode, we’re going behind the scenes. If you’ve ever wondered what separates the guys who ‘get it’ from those who don’t—this one’s for you.Paul's book 'Attraction Formula: Dating Technology for the Modern Man':https://tinyurl.co
Mar 13, • 13:15
A Gentleman's Guide - Episodio 35 - Why are people having less sex than ever before?
Recent studies have shown a decline of all kinds of romantic relationships, and it seems to be a worldwide trend. More alarmingly, people also seem to engage in less casual sex than they did before. In this episode, Alex offers an explanation for this phenomenon.Link to Spotify (please rate): https://open.spotify.com/show/0dkJAQmtJzMfondNqEhXnz?si=9537e66f8919481dDo you have a question about dating or relationships? Do you have interesting insights into the subject? Why not become a guest on my
Feb 27, • 7:11
A Gentleman's Guide - Episodio 34 - Understanding Female Language (part 2)
In this episode, Alex dives deeper into the reasons why men and women tend to have different communication styles. In the second part of the episode, he gives examples and ideas on how to improve how you engage with women to get better outcomes.Link to Spotify (please rate): https://open.spotify.com/show/0dkJAQmtJzMfondNqEhXnz?si=9537e66f8919481dDo you have a question about dating or relationships? Do you have interesting insights into the subject? Why not become a guest on my podcast? Get in to
Feb 13, • 9:38
A Gentleman's Guide - Episodio 33 - The Manslator. Decoding female language.
In this episode, Alex takes a semi-humorous, semi-serious jab at understanding female expressions. Gentlemen, if you've ever been left scratching your head after talking to your girlfriend or date, this episode's for you.Link to Spotify (please rate): https://open.spotify.com/show/0dkJAQmtJzMfondNqEhXnz?si=9537e66f8919481dDo you have a question about dating or relationships? Do you have interesting insights into the subject? Why not become a guest on my podcast? Get in touch at: alex@polyglotrad
Jan 30, • 8:00
A Gentleman's Guide - Episodio 32 - Blessing or curse?
Seriously guys! 2025 is going to be an amazing year, full of new possibilities and exciting dates. In the first episode of the year, I go over some lessons that I learnt over the past 12 months, and share an ancient tale of zen wisdom with you at the end. Please dive in!Please rate the episode on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0dkJAQmtJzMfondNqEhXnz?si=9537e66f8919481dDo you have a question about dating or relationships? Do you have interesting insights into the subject? Why not become a
Jan 16, • 11:25
A Gentleman's Guide - Episodio 31 - The story of how I got robbed in Colombia
The city of Medellin in Colombia has become very popular in the last few years, not least amongst men looking to meet Latinas and have a good time. But looking for love in this city can potentially be dangerous. Let my story be a cautionary tale of what can happen if you're not careful enough.Do you have a question about dating or relationships? Do you have interesting insights into the subject? Why not become a guest on my podcast? Get in touch at: alex@polyglotradio.com Hosted by Audion. Visit
Dec 12, 2024 • 12:18
A Gentleman's Guide - Episodio 30 - No text back? How to deal with unresponsive women...
What do you do if a girl doesn't respond to your first text or doesn't agree to go out on a date? In this episode, we'll go into some troubleshooting and show a fun and playful way to help you recover the interaction.This is the last episode in our series on texting (started with episode Nr. 26).Here's the link to the podcast on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0dkJAQmtJzMfondNqEhXnz?si=d7ebc6534835437dAre you facing an issue in your dating life or relationship? Feel free to send in your q
Nov 14, 2024 • 7:43
A Gentleman's Guide - Episodio 29 - How to ask her out by text
In this episode, Alex offers some examples of good initial text messages to send her, and how to ask her out in an attractive way. It builds on the previous episode (Nr 28), so make sure to check it out! Here's the Spotify link to it:https://open.spotify.com/episode/0niMzCDi55z6RGMne0lnJe?si=e50e8af877f34075You've been texting this girl for a couple of days now, but suddenly she stops responding? You went out last weekend, got 3 promising phone numbers, but for some reason you can't seem to get
Oct 31, 2024 • 8:01
A Gentleman's Guide - Episodio 28 - The 3 ingredients to improve women's response to your texts
You've been texting this girl for a couple of days now, but suddenly she stops responding? You went out last weekend, got 3 promising phone numbers, but for some reason you can't seem to get any of the girls out on a date? It's time to take a step back and look at the basics of good texting. It's become a vital tool in modern dating, and you can stand out from the crowd if you observe a couple of principles and rules. This series of episodes will be dedicated to the art of good messaging.Are you
Oct 24, 2024 • 7:46
A Gentleman's Guide - Episodio 27 - What does successful texting look like? (part 2)
You've been texting this girl for a couple of days now, but suddenly she stops responding? You went out last weekend, got 3 promising phone numbers, but for some reason you can't seem to get any of the girls out on a date? It's time to take a step back and look at the basics of good texting. It's become a vital tool in modern dating, and you can stand out from the crowd if you observe a couple of principles and rules. This series of episodes will be dedicated to the art of good messaging.Are you
Oct 17, 2024 • 7:46
A Gentleman's Guide - Episodio 26 - What does successful texting look like? (part 1)
You've been texting this girl for a couple of days now, but suddenly she stops responding? You went out last weekend, got 3 promising phone numbers, but for some reason you can't seem to get any of the girls out on a date? It's time to take a step back and look at the basics of good texting. It's become a vital tool in modern dating, and you can stand out from the crowd if you observe a couple of principles and rules. This series of episodes will be dedicated to the art of good messaging.Are you
Oct 10, 2024 • 6:35
A Gentleman's Guide - Episodio 25 - What to do if she never texts you first
You've met this woman a couple of weeks ago, and things got off to a great start. But there's only one issue: you're always the one initiating contact. Somehow, this doesn't feel right. What should you do? Is there a way to get her to pursue you more? Listen in and find out.Are you facing an issue in your dating life or relationship? Feel free to send in your questions to alex@polyglotradio.com Hosted by Audion. Visit https://www.audion.fm/privacy-policy for more information.
Oct 3, 2024 • 6:26
A Gentleman's Guide - Episodio 24 - Real talk with Justine … Younger women dating older guys (part 2)
First and foremost, a disclaimer. When we talk about young women dating older guys, we mean relationships between adults.We're certainly not promoting illegal activities here. With that in mind, here's the low down of what you can expect in this episode: This is the second part of an interview which I did with Justine (25). If you missed the first part, listen to episode 22. In this one, we dive deeper into relationships with a big age gap. Justine will also give some advice about how to approac
Sep 26, 2024 • 11:03
A Gentleman's Guide - Episodio 23 - Real talk with Umberto … What's dating like as a gay man?
As you know on this podcast we like unfiltered conversations, and we also like to open our minds. I was curious what dating's like if you're a gay male. That's why I invited my friend Umberto on the show. Amongst others, Umberto will talk about the peculiarities of finding and keeping love as a gay male, and some differences to heterosexual relationships.Are you facing an issue in your dating life or relationship? Feel free to send in your questions to alex@polyglotradio.com Hosted by Audion. Vi
Sep 19, 2024 • 9:18
A Gentleman's Guide - Episodio 22 - Real talk with Justine… Younger women dating older guys
First and foremost, a disclaimer. When we talk about younger women dating older guys, we mean relationships between adults. We're certainly not promoting illegal activities here. With that in mind, here's the low down of what you can expect in this episode: If you're a young guy and you've always wondered why your crush wants to date an older man, this episode's for you. I invited my friend Justine (25) on the podcast to talk about this subject. She used to date someone who was 26 years her seni
Sep 12, 2024 • 7:33
A Gentleman's Guide - Episodio 21 - Kissing on the first date? A woman's perspective
It's a question that many men face when taking a woman on the first date. Should you kiss her, or should you wait for a better moment on the next date? Let's ask a woman! I invited my friend Cris again, let's see what she has to say on the subject.Are you facing an issue in your dating life or relationship? Feel free to send in your questions to alex@polyglotradio.com Hosted by Audion. Visit https://www.audion.fm/privacy-policy for more information.
Jul 25, 2024 • 8:01
A Gentleman's Guide - Episodio 20 - Special guest Cris: are you being a gentleman?
Do good manners still matter in our day and age? I invited a female friend of mine on the podcast. Listen to her advice about first dates and courteous behaviour. It might help you stand out from the sea of men that are trying to get a second date with the woman of your dreams.Are you facing an issue in your dating life or relationship? Feel free to send in your questions to alex@polyglotradio.com Hosted by Audion. Visit https://www.audion.fm/privacy-policy for more information.
Jul 18, 2024 • 7:42
A Gentleman's Guide - Episodio 19 - Marketing psychology and approaching women … how to improve your results
How can marketing psychology help you reduce the amount of flaky numbers you get from women you approach? Listen in, and find out.Are you facing an issue in your dating life or relationship? Feel free to send in your questions to alex@polyglotradio.com Hosted by Audion. Visit https://www.audion.fm/privacy-policy for more information.
Jul 11, 2024 • 5:58
A Gentleman's Guide - Episodio 18 - Do’s and don’ts of approaching women IRL (part 3)
So you approached a woman you like and had a great conversation? But how do you actually end it? Will you see her again? How do you ask for her contact details? Let's find out.Are you facing an issue in your dating life or relationship? Feel free to send in your questions to alex@polyglotradio.com Hosted by Audion. Visit https://www.audion.fm/privacy-policy for more information.
Jul 4, 2024 • 6:07
A Gentleman's Guide - Episodio 17 - Do’s and don’ts of approaching women IRL (part 2)
You managed to approach a woman that you're interested in? But how do you manage the conversation that follows? Don't stress, because Alex has some helpful tips to increase your chances of success.Are you facing an issue in your dating life or relationship? Feel free to send in your questions to alex@polyglotradio.com Hosted by Audion. Visit https://www.audion.fm/privacy-policy for more information.
Jun 27, 2024 • 9:05
A Gentleman's Guide - Episodio 16 - Do’s and don’ts of approaching women IRL (part 1)
Approaching women that you're interested in requires some skill. In this first episode of a series of 2, Alex talks about ideas and concepts for the beginning of the interaction. How do I go up to her? What should I say?Are you facing an issue in your dating life or relationship? Feel free to send in your questions to alex@polyglotradio.com Hosted by Audion. Visit https://www.audion.fm/privacy-policy for more information.
Jun 20, 2024 • 10:44
A Gentleman's Guide - Episodio 15 - The lost art of approaching women in real life.
Alex, in this episode, reveals why it's important to practice approaching women you like in real life situations, as opposed to via dating apps or your social circle. A skill that can potentially improve your romantic life dramatically. Hosted by Audion. Visit https://www.audion.fm/privacy-policy for more information.
Jun 6, 2024 • 7:46
A Gentleman's Guide - Episodio 14 - So you found the one! Questions to manage relationship risk for men.
In this episode, Alex gives examples of important questions to ask yourself before you enter into a long term commitment with a woman. Is she really the one you need? Hosted by Audion. Visit https://www.audion.fm/privacy-policy for more information.
May 30, 2024 • 8:46
A Gentleman's Guide - Episodio 13 - How do you vet a woman for good character? Part.3
In this last episode of a series of 3, Alex highlights yet another quality to look for in a woman that you are considering for a long-term relationship. Can you spot the signs of mental health early on? Hosted by Audion. Visit https://www.audion.fm/privacy-policy for more information.
May 23, 2024 • 7:10
A Gentleman's Guide - Episodio 12 - How do you vet a woman for good character? (Part 2)
In this 2nd episode of a series of 3, Alex will highlight another quality to look for in a woman that you are considering for a long-term relationship: maturity. But how do you spot it early on? Listen in and find out. Hosted by Audion. Visit https://www.audion.fm/privacy-policy for more information.
May 16, 2024 • 7:32
A Gentleman's Guide - Episodio 11 - How do you vet a woman for good character? (Part 1)
How do you vet a woman for good character? Pleasant looks alone don't make for a good long-term partner. But what does? In this first episode of a series of 3, Alex will highlight what good communication skills look like in a woman for a successful partnership Hosted by Audion. Visit https://www.audion.fm/privacy-policy for more information.
May 9, 2024 • 6:38
A Gentleman's Guide - Episodio 10 - The winning mind set to get more results in your dating life
Could it be that we've been trained to think about dating in the wrong way? Listen in, and learn how a change in mindset can help you get more success in dating, whether you're a guy or a girl. Hosted by Audion. Visit https://www.audion.fm/privacy-policy for more information.
May 2, 2024 • 3:47
A Gentleman's Guide - Episodio 9 - A few hacks to become more confident
From Alex a few hacks to become more confident when you date. If you have a doubt or a personal problem to ask Alex, e-mail to alex@polyglotradio.com Hosted by Audion. Visit https://www.audion.fm/privacy-policy for more information.
Apr 25, 2024 • 5:49
A Gentleman's Guide - Episodio 8 - Listener's question.
What to do when your girlfiend says: "I want to take a break". Hosted by Audion. Visit https://www.audion.fm/privacy-policy for more information.
Apr 18, 2024 • 5:51
A Gentleman's Guide - Episodio 7 - How to improve your self-esteem
In this episode Alex suggests some tips to increase your self-esteem. Hosted by Audion. Visit https://www.audion.fm/privacy-policy for more information.
Apr 11, 2024 • 5:06
A Gentleman's Guide - Episodio 6 - How self esteem impacts our relationships
Alex will talk about how self esteem impacts our relationships Hosted by Audion. Visit https://www.audion.fm/privacy-policy for more information.
Mar 28, 2024 • 6:48
A Gentleman's Guide - Episodio 5 - Embrace Rejection Change your Life
A new episode of Alex's podcast. Rejection is a common sense of fear when you date, his tip is:"embrace rejection and change your life". Let's listen how. Hosted by Audion. Visit https://www.audion.fm/privacy-policy for more information.
Mar 14, 2024 • 7:10
A Gentleman's Guide - Episodio 4 - Start with You
Another basic tip from Alex to guys and girls on the point of dating: start with you. Don't try to be someone different and don't expect to find in her/him someone who she/he's not!Being honest is the best way to start dating. Hosted by Audion. Visit https://www.audion.fm/privacy-policy for more information.
Feb 29, 2024 • 9:02
A Gentleman's Guide - Episodio 3 - Why often dating...
Alex in this new episode wants to answer the question: "Why often dating makes one feels frustrating?" Hosted by Audion. Visit https://www.audion.fm/privacy-policy for more information.
Feb 15, 2024 • 10:27
A Gentleman's Guide - Episodio 2 - What are your beliefs about dating and relationships?
After the Pilot, Alex starts with his personal view about male and female datings and relations, searching for the love of your own life... Hosted by Audion. Visit https://www.audion.fm/privacy-policy for more information.
Feb 1, 2024 • 8:39