The Amazing Clarks
Black Love Podcast Network
The Amazing Clarks are award winning certified life and love coaches and husband and wife. Having been featured by Dr. Drew and on Black Love the series, Melanie and Anthony are ready to bring their revolutionary approach to therapy to the people. Every week Melanie and Anthony will give listeners an invitation to join their Love Revolution. Whether it is sitting down with someone to try and get to the root of their issues, or giving the lowdown on their experiences, The Amazing Clarks will provide the tools to empower every listener to live the best version of their lives.
Tightening the Relationship Bolts
A perfect relationship is a nice thought but in reality, it doesn't exist. We all have trials and tribulations when it comes to being in a relationships. When those issues arise, some of us are quick to look for a reason to exit that situation, while in most relationships, you just need to tighten the bolts of your relationship. This week, The Amazing Clarks clue you in on how to make sure that a minor issue doesn't turn into a bigger issue, which could lead to disastrous consequences. Then, all
The Loyalty Test
Trust between partners is one of the most important things when you're in a relationship. But, what happens when that little voice in your head is whispering doubts about the loyalty of your significant other? Do you continue to trust that they are still being faithful or do you administer a loyalty test to quiet that very convincing whisper of doubt? This week on the podcast, The Amazing Clarks discuss why you feel the need to test your partner and if it's really about your boo or is there some
The Happy Marriage Myth
With so many myths in the world, it's hard to keep up with what is actual myth and what is truth. So, allow us to add another myth to your long list! Having a happy marriage is something all of us strive for when we get married, but perfection isn't possible. Sometimes looking for perfection in a marriage can be the very downfall of your marriage. But, there is a way to have a marriage that both you and our spouse can be proud of, and dare we say happy. This week on the podcast, The Amazing Clar
What is Your Fighting Style?
Ding! Ding! Everyone to their corners! Arguing with your partner can be one of the most frustrating things about being in a relationship. We know that trying to communicate your needs to a person who “doesn't seem to be picking up what you're putting down” can lead to something more heated. Here's the good news, fighting with your partner doesn't mean your relationship is ending. The way you and your partner argue can actually be productive. It can be the difference between your relationship A
Using Sex to Avoid Emotional Connection
We can all agree sex is one of the pillars of a good relationship. When the sex is good, sometimes it can be a distraction, but what if you are using sex to avoid truly connecting with your partner? Emotions can be complicated, and who's got time for that roller coaster. Sex can be used to avoid how you truly feel, and you convince yourself this is the best way to not get hurt. This week, The Amazing Clarks chat about the possible reasons you may be using sex to protect your heart and how the s
Everything Is Perfect: A Philosophy or a Way of Life
EVERYTHING IS PERFECT....A phrase we've all said to ourselves to will us through a situation that is the furthest from perfect. Everything Is Perfect, or EIP, can be more than a phrase to whisper to ourselves in a moment of need. EIP can be the very thing that can change your whole life. Adopting EIP as not just a saying but as the lens that you view and participate in the world can be the very thing your life needs to take you to that next level. The Amazing Clarks discuss this week how you can
Dating Younger Men
Have you ever considered dating a younger man?? We can all hear the collective groans as you think about that question. Ladies, the reality is that there is a shortage of men at the moment and sometimes you have to expand your expectations when looking for a partner. We know you have your list, but have you thought maybe your list is keeping you from finding that one young guy that could make you throw away the list and let you get your groove back? This week, The Amazing Clarks try to help you
The Pros and Cons of Watching Porn Together
Porn...the one word in the English language guaranteed to get you some looks if spoken in a group for sure. The truth is we've all watched porn at one point in our lives and most likely watching porn is a solo activity. But what if you didn't have to watch it alone and you could watch it with your partner? This week on the podcast, The Amazing Clarks discuss the pros and cons of watching porn with your partner. They dig deep into how you and partner can decided whether if it is right for you bot
The Body Count Debate
Do you have a Body Count? And no, we are not talking about an actual body count because that's when things can get a bit messy. When we say body count we mean what is the magic number of people that you've slept with in your history of doing the do? What ever that number is theres no judgement here. But, have you revealed that number to your partner and how did they take the news? This week, The Amazing Clarks talk about how to navigate the body count debate and whether it should matter. Melani
Boring Marriages
No one gets into marriage expecting to be bored. When you decide to get married, you have this fairytale made up in your head. Marriage can be a fairytale but you also have to be realistic about your marriage. Sometimes, being married is boring but you have to realize that if your marriage is a snooze-fest, it just might be you who is making your marriage boring. This week, The Amazing Clarks get into why your marriage is boring and, newsflash, it might not be your partners fault. Buckle up peo
Your Ego Doesn't Want You To Find Love
What if the one thing keeping you from find love is YOUR EGO!? That’s right, your ego could be the culprit for why you can't seem to find that diamond in the rough. We all have an ego and sometimes that ego can be your best friend and other times it can be the very thing that causes you to be alone. This week, The Amazing Clarks talk about how you can tame that out of control ego of yours and find the love that you not only want, but the one you need. If your ego doesn't want you to find love, t
The Spy Who Loved Me
Have you ever spied on a partner? Here's a better, question, does your partner know that you spied on them? While it's not the Cold War, spying on a partner can definitely cause a war between you two. You might have a good reason to spy, but what are your choices saying about your relationship? Melanie and Anthony discuss how they both have spied on a partner and what the fall out was after they did. Plus, they also give you some insight on why you feel the need to spy on your partner and tips o
Is Love A Construct?
Do you ever ask yourself, “is love a construct?” Yeah, us neither, but what if that butterfly feeling you get when you see that person you've been crushing on is just in your mind? Or ever wonder where that first kiss feeling is when you're 10 years into a relationship? In this episode, the Clarks discuss the differences between real, long-lasting love and love that just might be in your mind. Strap in, were gonna get deep with this one! Time to join the Love Revolution family! If you have any c
What Is Your Love Legacy?
When you think of the word legacy, what comes to mind? Some will say that their career is the legacy they wish to leave to the world and some may say how they treated others is their legacy. Today, the Clarks talk about how leaving a Love Legacy can be one of the most important things you can leave to yourself, your loved ones and your community. Melanie and Anthony dive deep into how they are leaving a love legacy for their family to remember and how you can begin to leave a legacy in love for
Our Little Girl is Getting Married
Do You hear those wedding bells? The time has come. Anthony's little girl is getting married, and he has BIG feelings about it. If you are a long time listener, you know that Anthony's papa heart is strong. He was a stay at home dad with Toni, and while he balled like a baby at their oldest daughter's wedding too, this shift in his role as a father is really hitting him. For all you parents out there, this episode is a reflection in who we are as teachers in love to our children AND a testament
Am I in Love or in Lust?
You know that feeling when you've talked to someone over and over and you can't stop thinking about them and all of a sudden you're wondering if they are the one? OR are you like pre-Anthony Melanie? Calling up dudes knowing that they are NOT they one but because they can throw it down in the bedroom? Do you wonder what makes you feel one way or another? There happens to be a science behind it! The Amazing Clarks are here to break down the difference between your lovey dovey and your lusty feeli
Reprogramming Your Relationship's Thermostat
Do you and your partner seem to be worlds apart? Chances are your thermostat is off! What is your thermostat? Well The Amazing Clarks are here to set you right. Your thermostat is what regulates what you get around you. Just like the thermostat in your house, if it's set at 70 it doesn't matter what you do your house is going to stay at 70 degrees. If you've convinced yourself that your partner can never change, then even if they do make small changes you're never going to see it because you're
Trapped in a Sexless Marriage
Is your partner starting to feel more like a roommate? We know that there are A LOT of reasons as to why you might have lost that loving feeling, but you don't have to stay trapped in that sexless marriage! (or sexless relationship) No, we're not telling you to leave your partner. The Amazing Clarks are here to break down how to get that spark back! Plus how do we get to the root of what caused the loss of that sexy feeling in the first place!Time to join the Love Revolution family! What questio
Batteries and BLTs with Anthony's Mama Jean
Mother's Day is fast approaching and Melanie has traveled back west to spend some time with her babies. That doesn't mean that doesn't mean that we can't celebrate moms while she's away! Anthony has invited his mom, Queen Jean, to the mic to get her thoughts on dating as an older woman, marriage (she's had three), and what she thinks about his and Melanie's marriage. PLUS, what does Mama Jean think about needing a man at her age? Does she want to be in a relationship AND what is she hoping Antho
Staying Patient During Your Waiting Season
Are you currently in your "Waiting Season" and feeling impatient for your happily ever after? Many of us have gone through periods of waiting, which can be challenging and cause doubts about whether our time will ever come. However, what we do during this season is crucial. In this episode, The Amazing Clarks provide valuable insight into how to make the most of your waiting season while your love story is still being written. We share practical tips on how to stay positive, patient, and motivat
That Amazing Spiritual Love
We've all been there, when you meet someone and they check every box externally. They're fine, they've got a good job, a nice place to live, they have a functional car, all of the things that make you say that this might be worth pursuing is there. Then... it happens. The connection just drops like internet in the 90s. You say something and they don't get it, or something they do just gets on you. But here's the thing...none of those things are new. You're just noticing their spirit. Spiritual
Compromise vs Consensus
Have you ever gone along to just get along? You know what we mean. Agreeing to do the dishes every day for a week even though you KNOW THAT YOUVE DONE THOSE DISHES EVERY DAY FOR THE LAST 13 DAYS EVEN THOUGH YOU HATE HATE DOING THE DISHES just to avoid a fight.... ok pause. We're good. Today The Amazing Clarks are breaking down compromising versus consensus. What are we as partners agreeing to without ever talking about? What do we need to do with potential partners BEFORE we commit to each other
Reprogramming Your Dating Thermostat
Do you keep attracting the things you don't want? Chances are your thermostat is off! What is your thermostat? Well The Amazing Clarks are here to set you right. Your thermostat is what regulates what you get around you. Just like the thermostat in your house, if it's set at 70 it doesn't matter what you do your house is going to stay at 70 degrees. If you've convinced yourself that online dating is trash and then go to try online dating, it's never going to work because you've convinced yoursel
Do You Believe in Love?
Do you believe in love? Not just love, but true love? Now a while back on the TikTok a video from Season 4 of Black Love Doc where Anthony & Melanie shared some of their love story had the people in the comments thinking it was a set up. The energy of love is what we're here to talk about today people. There's too much cynicism around love and The Amazing Clarks are here to remind all of you, whether you're in a relationship or not, that love is here for you. Love shows up in ways that you never
The Amazing 4 Components of Intimacy
Friendship, vulnerability, trust, and communication, these are the 4 components of intimacy that keep the Clarks love so strong. In this episode, the Clarks break down each one of these components and explain how each relate to one another. Listen in as they discuss how vulnerability is the connector to all things intimate. By the end of this episode, you'll understand how being in an intimate, close relationship, can be an invitation to being who you really are. Make sure you connect with us ov
The Amazing Act of Physical Touch
There's so much more to physical touch than we think. In this episode, the Clarks get into the fifth and last love language, physical touch. Listen in as Melanie expresses how she believes the impact of Covid-19 has enhanced our need for physical touch. While Anthony explains how his need for physical touch hasn't always been met. By the end of this episode, you'll better understand why it's our natural instinct to want to be touched, loved, and wanted. Make sure you connect with us over @theam
The Amazing Butt Tattoo
In this episode, the Clarks answer an important question. When is it time to commit? Well for Melanie, she knew Anthony was her's even after they broke up. So in Melanie fashion, she decided to get Anthony's named tattooed on her back side. Listen in as Melanie shares why she got this tattoo and how risk of love is worth taking. Because at the end of the day, we can't be afraid to get hurt in love. Make sure you connect with us over @theamazingclarks and let us know when you knew it was time to
The Amazing Act of Quality Time
Quality time means, when I'm with you, I'm going to be engaged with you, and present. In this episode, the Clarks get into the fourth love language, quality time. After being together for 31 years and listening to spirit and pouring into others, the Clarks learned how to be aware of others love languages. Listen in as the Clarks discuss how what's quality time for others may not be quality time for you, but sometimes it's not about you. We have 1 more love language to go. Make sure you connect w
Receiving Gifts in Love
In this episode, the Clarks get into the third love language, receiving gifts. Ultimately we all have our top 3 love languages, however, sometimes they change due to certain events. Listen in on how Anthony realizes and reflects on how gifts was once his love language and why it changed. While Melanie expresses that she typically showers herself with gifts and how that helps her love on herself. This is just the start though! We have 2 more love languages to go. Make sure you connect with us ove
The Amazing Acts of Service
In this episode, the Clarks discuss the second love language that can be best described as doing something for your partner that you know they would like. Whether that'd be filling up their gas tank, watering their plants, or even cooking them a meal, it's Acts of Service. Listen in as both share how having Acts of Service as your love language, or a partner with it, can often mean giving up your time. And although it can be time consuming and exhausting, it's what you or your partner needs, and
The Amazing Words of Affirmation
In this episode, the Clarks dig deep into the most common love languages, words of affirmation. Both express how words of affirmation are words that communicate your love, appreciation, and respect for another person. Not only does it help your partner feel a great sense of self worth but motivation as well. Listen in as both Melanie and Anthony share their stories on why they like and/or dislike this love language within their own relationship. This is just the start though! We have 4 more love
The Amazing 5 Love Languages
The Amazing Clarks are BACK! And they are ready to talk about everything love this month. Listen in as both Melanie and Anthony discuss what the 5 Love Languages are, how they work, and how they use them to assess themselves and show love to one another. This is just the start though! Make sure you connect with us over @theamazingclarks and let us know what your top love language is cause we are going to get deep this month! Click Here if you are interested in being coached for The Amazing Clark
Everybody Needs a Little Time Away
In this episode, The Amazing Clarks talk about Melanie's recent trip back to California and how important it was for both to have some time to themselves. Listen in as Melanie and Anthony teach you how to not lose yourself in love and to manage your thoughts, in order to not create fights or problems. Whether in a partnership or dating, it's okay to have time away and have individuality.Click Here if you are interested in being coached for The Amazing Clarks Podcast!========Do you have a questio
Try a Little Love and Tenderness
In this episode, The Amazing Clarks explore the ego and the spirit and how in relationships we tend to filter through one or the other. Listen in as Melanie and Anthony teach you how to stop reacting to each other through the filter of ego and start building a relationship with your spirit. It's about knowing which is guiding you in your partnerships. Because when you focus on love and tenderness, you'll attract love and tenderness.Click Here if you are interested in being coached for The Amazin
Horny Husbands
How can women manage having a horny husband or partner?In this episode, The Amazing Clarks explore sexuality and the differences between how men and women deal with their sexual urges. Listen in as Melanie and Anthony teach you how to be aware of the meanings behind your partners urges and how to give each other grace. Because when you pour into yourself enough you'll have more love and time with your partner. Click Here if you are interested in being coached for The Amazing Clarks Podcast!=====
Submissive Wives
In this episode, The Amazing Clarks explore being submissive in partnership and how you don't have to submit but you can be agreeable in love and dating. Listen in as Melanie and Anthony teach you how to play to your strengths and let go of the submissive mindset. Because each person has their own strengths and weaknesses, you just have to find the in between that works for the both of you.Click Here if you are interested in being coached for The Amazing Clarks Podcast!========Do you have a ques
Is It All About You or Love?
What should you be focused on when it comes to love and dating?In this episode, The Amazing Clarks answer that question and discuss the importance of not only focusing on the "me" in dating and relationships but the "we". Listen in as Melanie and Anthony share how men and women look at love differently and how this can benefit you and your partner. In order to get what you want out of love and dating, you have to stop thinking about yourselves and start thinking more about others. Click Here if
The Masturbation Situation
Does masturbating make you feel uncomfortable?In this episode, The Amazing Clarks discuss the stigma of masturbating and how much better it can make you feel. Listen is as Melanie and Anthony share how masturbation has actually made their relationship stronger and how masturbating can actually make you attract the love you're looking for. Ultimately, masturbation shouldn't be a situation, it should be what feels good to you when you want it to feel good to you. Click Here if you are interested i
Couples Karma
In this episode, The Amazing Clarks discuss couples karma, further recognizing how treating one another can impact your relationship. Listen in as Melanie and Anthony share how irritation towards your partner is often something in yourself you don't want to look at. Although these thoughts can trigger a passionate debate, it's all an opportunity to grow. And when you become the change, greatness, and goodness that you want to see, your couple's karma will always be positive. Click Here if you ar
Playing Hard To Get
Are you creating rules about love and dating? In this episode, The Amazing Clarks discuss how playing games while dating isn't going to do much but hurt you in the long run. Listen in as Melanie and Anthony share how not playing games and just exuding confidence can help your dating life. The fine balance between not playing hard to get and not being desperate while dating will change your life drastically.Click Here if you are interested in being coached for The Amazing Clarks Podcast!========D
Keeping Connected After Kids
You've met the love of your life and you've decided to start a family. You're in it! You've won! Now you've got this amazing bundle of joy, but what's this? Is it...resentment? All of a sudden your sexy date nights are all night diaper duties. Your weekend getaways are Saturdays at a theme restaurant. The romance is DEAD. You hate it here, and you think you might hate your spouse for convincing you to become a parent. Alright hold up, it's time to back up. The Amazing Clarks are here to help you
The Pillow Talk Trap
Ladies, tell us if you've heard this before: They say all the right things like, "Baby I love you. I want to spend the rest of my life with you. You're the only one for me." You drop your panties, maybe you just take off your dress (we're not judging). You have an incredible night of sex (AYYYE). You wake up the next day to text him about how you can't wait for this next chapter and nothing. SIL-LENCE. Now your mama warned you about this. That some man would smooth talk you into his bed and dro
Gray Divorce
Senior citizens have been getting divorced in record numbers. We're talking about people who have been together for 40, 50, and even 60 years! We know it's hard to think of Granny and Pops parting ways but look, it does happen. AND if you're older it's okay to go and find your happiness we are cheering you on! But we wouldn't be The Amazing Clarks if we didn't try to help y'all before you're older and miserable. We want you to be happy in your relationships now OR to feel empowered to leave if t
Stuck on You
Have you ever just KNOWN that you were destined to be with someone. Like you just know that that person is supposed to be your soulmate. It doesn't matter that they broke up with you ten years ago. It doesn't matter that they're dating someone else. You know that you two are meant to be! Well, The Amazing Clarks are here to tell you that you're wrong. It's time to get unstuck! The only way to find the one for you is to stop waiting for what isn't and The Amazing Clarks are here to help you thr
E.I.P and Dating
Do you live your life with an E.I.P. mindset? The Clarks do.E.I.P. means Everything Is Perfect! There are no accidents and there are no mistakes when it comes to this thing called life. This is the mantra that The Clarks live by and they're here to teach you how you can adapt an E.I.P. mindset.Listen in as Melanie and Anthony discuss how E.I.P. is related to the dating world. By the end of this episode, you'll be able to reprogram your mind to be aligned with the dating experience that you want
Managing Triggers
What happens before you get triggered? Triggers start with your mind and your thoughts and sometimes it's hard to stay consistent in life. That's what The Amazing Clarks are here for! You have to learn how to identify and get rid of your triggers yourself and learn how to stay in alignment no matter what.Listen in as Melanie and Anthony share ways to change your behaviors so you can remain in a good place. What triggers might be triggering you in life and in dating that is causing you to feel do
Single Sabotage
Singles! What's stopping you all from finding your love? Did you ever stop to think that it might just be.... you?We know you don't want you to be the problem but that's why we've got The Amazing Clarks here to help! Sometimes you don't even realize that you are setting yourself up for failure. It's time to right the ship and find yourself the amazing loving relationship you deserve!Listen in as Melanie and Anthony share just what might be going wrong in your love quest. What energies might you
The Freak Switch
So back when Anthony was just a young man back in the day he would hear from other guys that all ladies had a secret switch in them, and if a guy was able to find that switch, the freak switch, that chick would fall in love with them. Now Melanie has some other thoughts about this whole weird New York fairy tale. There is more to sex than just an on and off switch people! Listen in as the Amazing Clarks share what the "freak switch" REALLY is and how we all can benefit from understanding it.Cli
The Ultimatum Trap
Have you ever told your partner or just a person you were dating that they HAD to choose? It was you or the other person? Well, The Amazing Clarks are here to tell you that EVERYONE loses when given an ultimatum. The person giving it, the person receiving it, hell even the person who caused it. Why do we fall into these ultimatum traps? Listen in as Melanie and Anthony share why we feel like we have to make the other person choose, why we need to knock it off, and what we can do instead.Click He
The Amazing Soulful Love
In this episode, The Amazing Clarks talk about the importance of loving from your soul and loving someone else's soul. Melanie and Anthony share how trauma and bad experiences cause people to only listen to the voice of their ego, causing them to put up walls of destruction that only create physical world relationships. Listen in on how you can tell the difference between the voice of your ego and the voice of spirit, helping you to remain vulnerable, honest, and real with yourself and others.==
The State of the World
From a global pandemic to high gas prices, the world has been pretty hard to deal with for the past couple of years. In this episode, The Amazing Clarks discuss how to navigate through the state of the world without losing your mind. Melanie and Anthony share how being aware of what you're being dripped with can help you live a fulfilling life during these trying times. Listen in on how you can redirect your energy and move yourself from anger to hope.========Do you have a question for The Amazi
The Amazing Energetic Upgrade
In this episode, The Amazing Clarks talk about their experience with having Covid. Melanie and Anthony express how the sickness wasn't a negative experience. Ultimately, it was an energetic upgrade, a recalibration of their energy that allowed them to really enjoy the rest. Listen in on how The Clarks used E.I.P. and the law of assumption to further expand their consciousness after catching such a virus.========Do you have a question for The Amazing Clarks? Let us know by filling out our form!==
Celebrating Black Love
Melanie and Anthony appreciate Black Love the show and company as we prep for the premiere of the new and last season of Black Love. Listen in on fun stories about how The Clarks were given the platform to be who they are today through Black Love and what Black Love means to them.========Do you have a question for The Amazing Clarks? Let us know by filling out our form!========Are you interested in becoming a life coach or want more tips and tricks from The Amazing Clarks? Head over to the Law
Managing Expectations in Dating
Melanie and Anthony discuss why both men and women have to change their expectations in order to have a successful dating life. Listen in for some tools and tips on not settling, but instead being realistic, vulnerable, and humble about your dating decisions.========Do you have a question for The Amazing Clarks? Let us know by filling out our form!========Are you interested in becoming a life coach or want more tips and tricks from The Amazing Clarks? Head over to the Law of Attraction Life Coa
Keeping Your Balls in Relationships
Melanie and Anthony discuss why women prefer alpha males and how alpha males need a woman to back down a little bit. Listen in for some tools and tips on respecting your partners energy and not trying to control one another in your relationship.========Do you have a question for The Amazing Clarks? Let us know by filling out our form!========Are you interested in becoming a life coach or want more tips and tricks from The Amazing Clarks? Head over to the Law of Attraction Life Coach Academy!If
The Amazing Stories of Relationships
Melanie and Anthony discuss why the stories we tell about our partner and ourselves are so important. Listen in for some tools and tips on creating a positive story about yourself and manifesting all that you want and need in your relationship.========Do you have a question for The Amazing Clarks? Let us know by filling out our form!========Are you interested in becoming a life coach or want more tips and tricks from The Amazing Clarks? Head over to the Law of Attraction Life Coach Academy!If y
The Amazing Money Tsunami
Melanie and Anthony question why couples are fighting about money. Listen in for some tools and tips on figuring out what your money story is and having gratitude and appreciation for the money that you do have.========Do you have a question for The Amazing Clarks? Let us know by filling out our form!========Are you interested in becoming a life coach or want more tips and tricks from The Amazing Clarks? Head over to the Law of Attraction Life Coach Academy!If you want more tips and tricks from
Let Your Inner Child Run Wild
Melanie and Anthony unpack the true reasons why playing is so good for the soul. Listen in for some tools and tips on allowing yourself to be creative an have an imagination.========Do you have a question for The Amazing Clarks? Let us know by filling out our form!========Are you interested in becoming a life coach or want more tips and tricks from The Amazing Clarks? Head over to the Law of Attraction Life Coach Academy!If you want more tips and tricks from The Amazing Clarks, pick up your cop
Admitting When You're Wrong
Melanie and Anthony unpack the true reasons why it's so hard to admit when you're wrong. Listen in for some tools and tips on understanding how allowing yourself be wrong makes it easier to love and be kind to others.========Do you have a question for The Amazing Clarks? Let us know by filling out our form!========Are you interested in becoming a life coach or want more tips and tricks from The Amazing Clarks? Head over to the Law of Attraction Life Coach Academy!If you want more tips and trick
The Amazing Need To Know Why
Melanie and Anthony unpack the true reasons why women's "why's" give them closure and why men's "why's" are a sign of fixing an issue. Listen in for some tools and tips on being aware of your parenting energy and trying to understand one another's "why's". ========Do you have a question for The Amazing Clarks? Let us know by filling out our form!========Are you interested in becoming a life coach or want more tips and tricks from The Amazing Clarks? Head over to the Law of Attraction Life Coach
Getting Stuck in the Past
Melanie and Anthony unpack the true reasons why there's a power struggle with people wanting to be the same or evolving individuals. Listen in for some tools and tips on how you can turn on the music and get unstuck.========Do you have a question for The Amazing Clarks? Let us know by filling out our form!========Are you interested in becoming a life coach or want more tips and tricks from The Amazing Clarks? Head over to the Law of Attraction Life Coach Academy!If you want more tips and tricks
The Effects of Ghosting
Melanie and Anthony unpack the true reasons why people ghost one another. Listen in for some tools and tips on how you can communicate your needs without ghosting others.========Do you have a question for The Amazing Clarks? Let us know by filling out our form!========Are you interested in becoming a life coach or want more tips and tricks from The Amazing Clarks? Head over to the Law of Attraction Life Coach Academy!If you want more tips and tricks from The Amazing Clarks, pick up your copy of
The Amazing Listeners
Melanie and Anthony answer a few juicy questions from their amazing listeners. ========Do you have a question for The Amazing Clarks? Let us know by filling out our form!========Are you interested in becoming a life coach or want more tips and tricks from The Amazing Clarks? Head over to the Law of Attraction Life Coach Academy!If you want more tips and tricks from The Amazing Clarks, pick up your copy of Crack The Code: The Secret To Achieving Your Happily Ever AfterClick Here if you are inter
The Different Forms of Cheating
Melanie and Anthony continue to unpack why people cheat and the motivation that drives it in both men and women. Listen in for some tools and tips on understanding why people cheat and what cheating truly is.========Do you have a question for The Amazing Clarks? Let us know by filling out our form!========Are you interested in becoming a life coach or want more tips and tricks from The Amazing Clarks? Head over to the Law of Attraction Life Coach Academy!If you want more tips and tricks from Th
The Warning Signs of Cheating
Melanie and Anthony are here to show you how to spot if your partner is cheating on you. Listen in for some tools and tips on how to spot these warning signs and how sometimes these warning signs aren't cheating but cries for help.========Do you have a question for The Amazing Clarks? Let us know by filling out our form!========Are you interested in becoming a life coach or want more tips and tricks from The Amazing Clarks? Head over to the Law of Attraction Life Coach Academy!If you want more
Being In Business Together
Melanie and Anthony are here to tell you that building a business with your partner is about knowing your strengths and staying in your lane. Listen in for some tools and tips on how to do the ego work and keep forgiving one another in order to continue the growth in both your business and relationship.========Do you have a question for The Amazing Clarks? Let us know by filling out our form!========Are you interested in becoming a life coach or want more tips and tricks from The Amazing Clarks?
The Amazing Relationship
Melanie and Anthony are here to tell you that your relationship is precious and how you can get fulfillment out of not having a traditional relationship. Listen in for some tools and tips on choosing what you want in a relationship and turning it into a luxury experience.========Do you have a question for The Amazing Clarks? Let us know by filling out our form!========Are you interested in becoming a life coach or want more tips and tricks from The Amazing Clarks? Head over to the Law of Attrac
The Amazing E.A.R. Process
Melanie and Anthony are here to tell you why making peace with your past is important to rewriting your future. Listen in for some tools and tips on recreating what you want in your relationships. ========Do you have a question for The Amazing Clarks? Let us know by filling out our form!========Are you interested in becoming a life coach or want more tips and tricks from The Amazing Clarks? Head over to the Law of Attraction Life Coach Academy!If you want more tips and tricks from The Amazing C
Quickie: Pump up the Volume!
Let's Get PUMPED for the weekend! The Amazing Clarks are here to get your shine right before the week is up!Connect with us:@blacklove on Instagram@blacklovedoc on Facebook@blacklovedoc on Twitter
The Amazing Point Scale
Melanie and Anthony are here to tell you why following the point scale system is so important. Listen in for some tools and tips on going for your best and accepting who you are on the point scale.========Do you have a question for The Amazing Clarks? Let us know by filling out our form!========Are you interested in becoming a life coach or want more tips and tricks from The Amazing Clarks? Head over to the Law of Attraction Life Coach Academy!If you want more tips and tricks from The Amazing C
The Amazing Clarks Quickie: Smile
This week's Quickie is all about smiling! Let's get your energy right for the weekend!=======Connect with us:@blacklove on Instagram@blacklovedoc on Facebook@blacklovedoc on Twitter
Losing Yourself In Love
Melanie and Anthony are here to tell you why losing yourself in love can be a bad thing if you don't balance it. Listen in for some tools and tips on how to balance getting lost in love while simultaneously keeping space in your life to develop yourself.========Do you have a question for The Amazing Clarks? Let us know by filling out our form!========Are you interested in becoming a life coach or want more tips and tricks from The Amazing Clarks? Head over to the Law of Attraction Life Coach Ac
Stop Hating Love
Melanie and Anthony are here to tell you why hating on love can stop you from achieving it. Listen in for some tools and tips on how to love the love you see around you whether you are single, dating, or in a relationship.========Do you have a question for The Amazing Clarks? Let us know by filling out our form!========Are you interested in becoming a life coach or want more tips and tricks from The Amazing Clarks? Head over to the Law of Attraction Life Coach Academy!If you want more tips and
Trading Gifts
Are you and your partner complete opposites? Is this starting to hinder your relationship and you don't know why? The Amazing Clarks got you! Melanie and Anthony are here to tell you why trading these differences or gifts in your relationship can actually make your bond stronger. Listen in for some tools and tips to get your energy right as you navigate through these differences.========Do you have a question for The Amazing Clarks? Let us know by filling out our form!========Are you interested
The Love Mood
Welcome back to the Love Revolution! The countdown is on! Valentine's Day is right around the corner and you know the Amazing Clarks are all about it, right? Well, you'll have to listen in to hear all their thoughts about that. Nonetheless, if you are navigating all things red and pink as a single, in a relationship, or as a whole family, Melanie and Anthony are here to help you figure it out!========Do you have a question for The Amazing Clarks? Let us know by filling out our form!========Are y
Compatibility Check
Welcome back to the Love Revolution! Alright single people, today the Amazing Clarks are here for y'all. Are you stuck trying to find the one? Maybe you've been in a relationship that you thought had it all and it turned out you were dead wrong. Or maybe, just maybe, you're casually seeing someone and you can't tell if they're worth the effort. Well here's one tip that you must know: if you're trying to find the one you have to go deeper. You must be compatible. Here's the key (ready for it?)...
You Have to Be a Magnet of Love
Single Ladies step up to the Love Revolution! Ladies, are you trying to figure out why your dating life has been a dud? Tired of going on dates that go nowhere? Trying to get boo'd up before Valentine's Day? The Amazing Clarks got you! Melanie and Anthony are here to tell you why those dates never seem to work out. Listen in for some tools and tips to get your energy right as you navigate the single life. ========Do you have a question for The Amazing Clarks? Let us know by filling out our form!
The Amazing Intention Setting
Welcome back to the Love Revolution! We are back and we've missed you! How are those New Year's Resolutions holding up? Have you already moved on to hoping for the next best thing? We know that you're setting these goals with the hope of some new changes in your life, but what if you told you a better way of manifesting those goals? In today's episode The Amazing Clarks share what their intentions are for the new year and how they've set themselves up for success. ========Do you have a question
The Amazing Ghana part 2
Welcome back to the Love Revolution! Anthony and Melanie are back to continue their recap of their long trip to the motherland. In this part, The Amazing Clarks recount their visit to the slave dungeons (content warning) and what that experience meant to them, and how they view not only themselves but how it ties into their love. Also, they recount an experience with a broken-down car that showed them the true meaning of community. Plus, listen in to hear what the Clarks are doing to help Black
The Amazing Ghana part 1
Welcome back to the Love Revolution! Guess who's back but never left?! If you follow The Amazing Clarks on socials then you know that our favorite life coaches have spent the last month in Ghana. If you don't follow...well surprise! After an amazing time, Melanie and Anthony have come back with a new perspective on not only themselves but on love and life. What called them to go over to Ghana in the first place and is this something that might become permanent in the future? ========Do you have
Surviving the Holidays
Welcome back to the Love Revolution! We know that some of yall are absolutely dreading the holidays. Having to see family can be draining! This week the Amazing Clarks are back with tips and tricks to help you navigate situations that can be draining. If you're not sure about how you're going to make it through, this is the episode for you! Today's episode is sponsored by Target! Target is partnering with HBCUs to support the next generation of Black talent. One of the ways Target is teaming up
Aging Gracefully
Welcome back to the Love Revolution! Aging is something everyone does, but why do so many people fear it? Today Anthony and Melanie share their experiences with aging. From what they fear when thinking about age to the many perks they have learned over time. The Amazing Clarks have tips to help you age gracefully. Today's episode is sponsored by Target! Target is partnering with HBCUs to support the next generation of Black talent. One of the ways Target is teaming up with HBCUs is through Targe
The Amazing Art of Receiving
Welcome back to the Love Revolution! Have you ever thought about how well you receive or give energy? Today Anthony and Melanie share why it is hard for some people(including themselves) to receive anything in different types of relationships. Are you trying to figure out how to right your energy to live as your most true self? The Amazing Clarks have all the tips you need to build your best self.Today's episode is sponsored by Target! Target is partnering with HBCUs to support the next generati
The Power Of Appreciation
Welcome back to the Love Revolution! How can appreciation not only help yourself and the relationships in your life? The Clarks talk about how giving appreciation to others will ultimately be returned back to you. Using appreciation in your everyday life can also bring you the energy that you've been trying to receive. Practicing appreciation mentally will help show up physically and help you start attracting what you've always wanted. Today's episode is sponsored by Target! Target is partnering
The Amazing Life Template
Welcome back to the Love Revolution! Anthony is back with another amazing coaching technique. This time it's the Life Template! Have you ever just been unhappy with your life? Do you sit and ponder why that is? Anthony has just the tool you need to live the life you always wanted: The Life Template. As spiritual beings, everything we need to be successful and to be happy has already been provided for us. However, this is not necessarily a good thing. Oftentimes we find ourselves trying to fit in
Holding It!
Welcome back to the Love Revolution! Do y'all want to play a game? Today The Amazing Clarks have a fun way to help you get the most out of the Law of Attraction. It's the Holding It game! This is the best way to not only help you bring up the positive energy around you, but to attract positive things to you. So grab a friend and listen in as Melanie and Anthony break it down for you!Today's episode is sponsored by Target! Target is partnering with HBCUs to support the next generation of Black ta
More of the Amazing Law of Attraction!
Welcome back to the Love Revolution! The Amazing Clarks are back with an update on one of your favorite episodes: The Amazing Law of Attraction! This time around Melanie and Anthony share stories of the Law of Attraction in action, what tips you need to know to integrate it mindfully, and the TWO most important aspects of it. Today's episode is sponsored by Target! Target is partnering with HBCUs to support the next generation of Black talent. One of the ways Target is teaming up with HBCUs is
Ask the Amazing Clarks
The Amazing Clarks are answering more of your questions for the Love Revolution! In this episode The Amazing Clarks answer questions submitted by their amazing listeners centered around the Top 5, when to end the chase, and balancing parenting duties. Plus, one listener throws some shade at Melanie that took them both by surprise!Do you have a question for The Amazing Clarks? Let us know by filling out our form!====If you want more tips and tricks from The Amazing Clarks, pick up your copy of Cr
Infidelity & Cheating
Welcome back to the Love Revolution! Why are people unfaithful? What prompts them to cheat? Today Melanie and Anthony explore some of the causes behind infidelity and get into the why that often comes with cheating. Anthony and Melanie get candid about their experiences as former cheaters and share their motivations and what they've learned from infidelity. Do you have something to ask The Amazing Clarks? Let us know by filling out our form!====If you want more tips and tricks from The Amazing C
The Amazing Entanglement
Welcome back to the Love Revolution! Have you ever thought about someone and then had that person call you? Or do you have a friend that you're so close with that it's almost as if you two share a brain? Well The Amazing Clarks are here to tell you why! The simple answer: Entanglement! No not that type of entanglement! Listen in as Melanie and Anthony explain just what entanglement is and how you can use it to your advantage! What questions do you have? Let us know by filling out our form!====If
The Amazing Art of Catharsis
Welcome back to the Love Revolution! In this episode The Amazing Clarks talk about catharsis and explain how cathartic experiences can help your growth process. Listen as Melanie and Anthony tell stories about their cathartic moments and how these moments changed them not only mentally, but physically.Have you dealt with catharsis? What was your cathartic moment? Let us know over at @theamazingclarks====Ladies! The YOU Retreat is here and you do not want to miss out! The YOU Retreat is a loving
The Amazing Listeners
Welcome back to the Love Revolution! In this episode The Amazing Clarks answer questions submitted by their amazing listeners centered around communication, dating online, and physical appearance. Listen as Melanie and Anthony put their love coaching to play while answering these questions.What questions do you have? Let us know by filling out our form!====If you want more tips and tricks from The Amazing Clarks, pick up your copy of Crack The Code: The Secret To Achieving Your Happily Ever Afte
Navigating Through Land Mines
Welcome back to the Love Revolution! In this episode The Amazing Clarks talk about the land mines of love, how to get around and diffuse those land mines, and growing through these triggers. Listen as Melanie and Anthony tell stories about their triggers and how they move past them.What are your land mines and have you identifies your partners land mines? Let us know over at @theamazingclarks====Ladies! The YOU Retreat is here and you do not want to miss out! The YOU Retreat is a loving space f
The Art of Self Love
Welcome back to the Love Revolution! In this episode The Amazing Clarks talk about the process of self love, forcing yourself how to see the good in yourself, and realizing self care is more than just spa days and lighting candles. Listen as Melanie and Anthony tell stories about the exercises they use to tune into themselves and their cells.How are you learning how to love yourself? Let us know over at @theamazingclarks====Ladies! The YOU Retreat is here and you do not want to miss out! The YO
The Amazing Growth Process
Welcome back to the Love Revolution! In this episode The Amazing Clarks talk about the growth process and how getting to your desired destination requires you to grow through it. Listen as Melanie and Anthony tell stories about how they've grown into their relationship, through manifestation, patience, and trusting the process. Ultimately, to go there, you have to grow there.What are you growing through at the moment? Let us know over at @theamazingclarks====If you want more tips and tricks fro
The Amazing Art of Possibility
Welcome back to the Love Revolution! In this episode The Amazing Clarks talk about the possibilities of life and how you can turn your thoughts and ideas into a reality. Listen as Melanie and Anthony tell stories about how they've attracted their reality through physics, positive self talk, and mental exercises.What possibilities are you trying to attract into your life? Let us know over at @theamazingclarks====If you want more tips and tricks from The Amazing Clarks, pick up your copy of Crack
The Art of Navigating Death
Welcome back to the Love Revolution! In this episode The Amazing Clarks talk about the beauty of death and how it's not the end of life. Listen as Melanie and Anthony tell stories about losing loved ones, later connecting with them, and cherishing life after death. If you've lost a loved one and wondered about how you could get on the other side of it, this episode is for you.What has death taught you? Let us know over at @theamazingclarks====If you want more tips and tricks from The Amazing C
The Amazing Art of Manifesting Money
Welcome back to the Love Revolution! Have you ever wondered why you seem to attract the things on your mind? Maybe you've tried the power of positive thinking without the results you were looking for. Well in this episode The Amazing Clarks get into the nitty gritty of manifesting the money you deserve. Listen as Melanie and Anthony go into how they first learned about manifesting (by reciting a daily affirmation) and how they remained humble on their quest to better living.If you've always wond
Inheriting Your Parents Sins pt2
Welcome back to the Love Revolution! In our last episode The Amazing Clarks explained just what it meant to inherit your parents' sins. At the end of the episode Anthony came to a realization that there was a sin he had inherited from his father that he had never fully resolved: the loss of the twin boys he raised. This week, Anthony seeks Melanie's advice as to whether or not he should reach out to the twin boys he raised. Is there a possibility for closure or should he leave well enough alone?
Inheriting Your Parents Sins pt1
Welcome back to the Love Revolution! Have you ever thought to yourself "I'm never going to become my parents"? Have you realized that you have inherited some of their traits or actions? Today the Amazing Clarks explain just how pushing and judging the actions of your parents can push you into the same pattern. Homework Check In! What do you want to add to your memory museum? Let us know over at @theamazingclarks====If you want more tips and tricks from The Amazing Clarks, pick up your copy of
The Amazing Memory Museum
Welcome back to the Love Revolution! What moments are you creating in your lifetime? Are you taking the risks that you want? Are you doing the things you've always wanted to? Chasing your dreams? Failing? All of these things contribute to your memory museum: the moments that make up your lifetime. Listen in as Melanie and Anthony reflect on all of the moments that have filled their memory museums and how to ensure you are making the most of yours.Homework Check In! What do you want to add to you
The Amazing Energy Tool pt2
Welcome back to the Love Revolution! Two episodes ago The Amazing Clarks explained the presence and usage of energy in one's life. In this episode The Amazing Clarks explain how energy works with alignment and guides how one navigates their life. If you've ever felt off, but couldn't quite explain why The Clarks got you covered. In this episode the Clarks give you the details on how to harness energy to fix one's alignment. Have you ever felt out of alignment? Let us know over at @theamazing
The Amazing Papa Heart
Welcome back to the Love Revolution! With Father's Day right around the corner, The Amazing Clarks are zooming in on the fatherhood experience. Anthony gets real about his experience being a step-father and learning how to fit into a pre-existing family dynamic, and how his parenting style quickly came to compliment Melanie's. Anthony also shares was it was like to be a "Mr.Mom" and how deciding to be a stay at home dad was one of the best decisions of his life. Are you a father that has an Amaz
The Amazing Energy Tool
Welcome back to the Love Revolution! This week the Amazing Clarks break down a key philosophy to the Love Revolution: Energy. What is energy and how can you harness it to use it to your advantage? Are there different kinds of energy? Anthony and Melanie not only break it down for you, they explain the effect energy has had in their lives and how they are constantly aware and working with it..What is your energy like? Do you need more tips? Let us know over at @theamazingclarksDon't forget to j
The Amazing EIP
Welcome back to the Love Revolution! Have you ever had something happen to you that you thought just ruined your whole day? Maybe your babysitter unexpected cancelled on you? Or perhaps your car wouldn't start and you were late to work? Let's face it, unexpected setbacks always occur, but the Amazing Clarks are here to give you the best way to frame them. E.I.P: Everything is Perfect. Maybe that cancelled babysitter gave you an amazing family night? Or that car trouble kept you out of accident?
PTSD and Healing
CW: gun violence, death.Welcome back to the Love Revolution! In this episode, Anthony takes us back to a pivotal moment in his life that changed everything. How does mental health and the survival instinct change a man? What can a person do to help move forward so they don't get stuck in their trauma. Anthony shares what worked for him, and the basic necessities for healing.What do you need to redo in your pantry? Let us know over at @theamazingclarks====If you want more tips and tricks from Th
The Amazing Art of Allowing
Welcome back to the Love Revolution! In this episode, The Amazing Clarks ask "What are you willing to do for your partner?" What preconceived notions of love are holding you back from the alignment in your relationship? Melanie and Anthony discuss what the Art of Allowing is and how it effects your relationship and how adjusting can be the absolute gamechanger.What are you holding on to in your relationships that are holding you back? Let us know over at @theamazingclarks====If you want more t
Being Amazingly Relationship Active
Welcome back to the Love Revolution! Have you ever wondered what it takes to make a successful relationship? While there isn't one exact thing, The Amazing Clarks do know of one thing that you can't have a successful relationship without. That thing is being "Relationship Active". In this episode Melanie and Anthony not only tell you what being Relationship Active is, but how to make it happen. Plus learn how to recognize when someone is being Relationship Inactive! Being Relationship Active is
The Amazing Mama Heart
Welcome back to the Love Revolution! With Mother's Day right around the corner, Melanie is deep in her mama feelings. Even though her kids are grown, she never stops parenting. But parenting grown ass adults is way different than raising babies. How do you keep parenting effectively as your kids grow up? Melanie and Anthony have all of the tips and tricks when it comes to transitioning to "adult parenting" and how to adjust your expectations of your children as they start living their own lives.
The Amazing Law of Attraction
Welcome back to the Love Revolution! Have you ever wondered why you seem to attract the things on your mind? Maybe you've tried the power of positive thinking without the results you were looking for. Well in this episode The Amazing Clarks get into the nitty gritty of the Law of Attraction. What is it? How do you use it? Listen as Melanie goes into how she first learned about the Law of Attraction (and had a car repossessed in the process) and how Anthony is always reminded about it, even when.
The Amazing Inner Child
Welcome back to the Love Revolution! In this episode Melanie and Anthony give insight into the inner child. What is your inner child? Why are they important? What is the point in working on healing it? The Amazing Clarks tell you all of this and more in this episode. Have you been working on your inner child? Let us know over at @theamazingclarks====If you want more tips and tricks from The Amazing Clarks, pick up your copy of Crack The Code: The Secret To Achieving Your Happily Ever AfterClic
The Amazing Coaching Sessions - Mickey D
Thank you for joining the Love Revolution! In this episode the Amazing Clarks (virtually) sit down with Mickey D. - A young lady who is trying to get back into the dating pool, but is apprehensive as to where to start. Listen as the Clarks get to the bottom of her fear, and help her find exactly what she needs in order to move forward. Plus, before the Clarks get into helping Mickey, Melanie has a bone to pick with Anthony (uh-oh!)====If you want more tips and tricks from The Amazing Clarks, pic
Crack the Code
Thanks for joining the Love Revolution! In this episode, Melanie and Anthony introduce their latest project "Crack The Code: The Secret To Achieving Your Happily Ever After". In addition to giving the tidbits of the book, the Clarks tell us why the started the project in the first place, how they hope it will be received, and the plan for their coaching going forward. Plus a lesson on why you must always push forward. Make sure you pick up your copy of Crack The Code: The Secret To Achieving You
The Amazing Top 5
Welcome back to the Love Revolution! Today Melanie and Anthony talk sex(!) and how to make sex work the longer you're in a relationship. What does Melanie have to do in order to connect with Anthony? You definitely don't want to skip out on this technique that has helped them stay active in the bedroom. Plus! The Amazing Clarks break down their Top 5 exercise. How do your top 5 dominant thoughts effect your day to day life, and how does it effect how you might be interacting with your partner? T
The Amazing Love Report Card
Welcome back to the Love Revolution! Today, the Amazing Clarks break down their Love Report Card: Ten dimensions of love that help guide how your partner is receiving various aspects of your relationship. Melanie and Anthony not only tell you what every dimension means, but score each other! What will each other's grade be?Make sure you follow us to never miss an episode!Click Here if you are interested in being coached for The Amazing Clarks Podcast!Connect with The Amazing Clarks on social!Ins
Introducing The Amazing Clarks!
Meet Anthony and Melanie Clark! Husband and Wife duo who have been passionately in love for nearly 30 years and rock stars of the life and relationship coaching world. Learn how Anthony and Melanie became Anthony and Melanie! From a chance meeting in a club, to a life changing encounter with a stranger on an airplane, how these two came to be is a story you don't want to miss!Make sure you follow us to never miss an episode!Click Here if you are interested in being coached for The Amazing Clark
Meet The Amazing Clarks
Meet Anthony and Melanie Clark! Husband and Wife duo who have been passionately in love for nearly 30 years and rock stars of the life and relationship coaching world. Anthony and Melanie are going to bring their revolutionary approach to coaching to you! Original, no nonsense, progressive and spiritual... The Clarks believe in REAL transformation, not regurgitated fluff. Every week they will get down to the emotional, mental, and energetic causes that underlie the lack of success. Plus, they