Have you ever told your partner or just a person you were dating that they HAD to choose? It was you or the other person? Well, The Amazing Clarks are here to tell you that EVERYONE loses when given an ultimatum. The person giving it, the person receiving it, hell even the person who caused it. Why do we fall into these ultimatum traps? Listen in as Melanie and Anthony share why we feel like we have to make the other person choose, why we need to knock it off, and what we can do instead.Click Here if you are interested in being coached for The Amazing Clarks Podcast!========Do you have a question for The Amazing Clarks? Let us know by filling out our form!========Are you interested in becoming a life coach or want more tips and tricks from The Amazing Clarks?  Head over to the Law of Attraction Life Coach Academy!If you want more tips and tricks from The Amazing Clarks, pick up your copy of Crack The Code: The Secret To Achieving Your Happily Ever After======This month the groundbreaking series Black Love Doc is back for one final season. Black Love means the world to us and we are honored that so many couples have so vulnerably shared their highs and lows and lessons with us so we can bring them to you. Make sure you join us on the Black Love+ app and  @OWNtv every Saturday at 10p/9c  to celebrate and say goodbye to #BlackLoveDoc.Connect with us:@blacklove on Instagram@blacklovedoc on Facebook@blacklovedoc on Twitte