Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

Violet Benson

Immerse yourself in the BIGGEST self-love podcast and movement - your ultimate go-to for personal growth with a side of sass. We cover it all, from dating bootcamps to mental health moments, because self-love is the foundation of everything in your life – from your friendships to your own mental well-being and everything in between.I’m your host, Violet Benson, aka the Daddy Issues meme queen, comedian, and motivational speaker. But most importantly, I'm YOUR Russian big sister, dishing out that tough love you might not want to hear, but best believe you're gonna need!Get ready to feel empowered, libe...

We Listen and We DO Judge (ft. Laura Clery)

We Listen and We DO Judge (ft. Laura Clery)

🚨 Buckle up, tiny adults—this episode is PURE CHAOS. 🚨I’m joined by the one and only Laura Clery—host of Idiot podcast, author, comedian, and dear friend. Together, we’re spilling the most unhinged, hilarious, and WTF-worthy stories we’ve never dared to say out loud—until now. But you have to PROMISE not to judge. From moving in with a drug dealer she met once, to accidentally ruining a marriage, to getting away with illegal parking, meth (yes, really), and some other truly questionable life c

Feb 20, • 1:30:07

GET HIM OBSESSED - PISCES

GET HIM OBSESSED - PISCES

Welcome to our Monthly Zodiac Bonus Episode, dropping the third week of every month! This February, we’re giving you the ultimate guide to getting a Pisces man obsessed with YOU.Get ready to uncover:🔥 The secrets behind his compassionate and mysterious nature—and how to use them to your advantage.🔥 Foolproof ways to captivate his heart and keep him completely hooked.🔥 What he craves in a partner (and what will make him drift away).🔥 Subtle signs he’s losing interest—and how to turn things ar

Feb 17, • 20:31

Why You’re Obsessed with the Wrong People

Why You’re Obsessed with the Wrong People

Welcome to Dear Violetta - our monthly series airing every second week of the month! where I answer your toughest questions with the unfiltered advice you need to hear. If you've ever questioned a friendship, obsessed over a ghoster, or felt like you fall too fast in love—then today's episode is for you.Topics Covered:Ending a toxic friendship & signs your friendship is toxicShould you give a guy who ghosted you a second chance?The fastest way to get someone to do what you want (in work, love, &

Feb 13, • 38:03

How to Stop Being a F*cking Failure

How to Stop Being a F*cking Failure

What if I told you happiness isn’t the goal—and most people don’t actually want it? 🤯That’s why WE secretly keep self-sabotaging. That’s why we stay stuck. But here’s the truth: As corny as it may sound, rock bottom isn’t the end. It’s the launchpad.In this episode, we get real about:Part 1 -💥 How hitting rock bottom can be your biggest flex (if you know how to use it)💥 The real reason you keep self-sabotaging (and how to stop)💥 Why pain is actually part of your success storyPart 2 - (24:35:

Feb 10, • 45:34

Are You F*cked Up or Just Traumatized?

Are You F*cked Up or Just Traumatized?

Welcome back Tiny Adults! This month's BBC – Benson Book Club episode is all about trauma, your brain, and why you can’t just ‘get over it--because Your Body Keeps The Score ;)We’re covering:🧠 How trauma rewires your brain & nervous system🚨 Fight, flight, freeze, or dissociation—what’s your response?⚖️ Why some people heal and others stay stuck in the past⚠️ The part of trauma where therapy can actually make things worseTIMELINE:🔑 First 20 min: Brain basics—survival mode & stress responses.🔥

Jan 30, • 55:02

GET HIM OBSESSED - AQUARIUS

GET HIM OBSESSED - AQUARIUS

Welcome to our Monthly Zodiac Bonus Episode, dropping the third week of every month! This January, we’re giving you the ultimate guide to getting an Aquarius man obsessed with YOU.Get ready to uncover:🔥 The key traits that make Aquarius tick—and how to use them to your advantage.🔥 Foolproof ways to grab his attention and keep him coming back for more.🔥 What he secretly loves (and what will send him running).🔥 Warning signs he’s pulling away—and how to flip the script fast.🔥 The art of winni

Jan 26, • 27:03

HOW TO BE CONFIDENT

HOW TO BE CONFIDENT

Welcome to the official first Almost Adulting episode of 2025! Today, we’re breaking down what’s holding you back and how to rewire your brain to unlock unshakable confidence.Spoiler alert: Confidence isn’t something you’re born with—it’s a skill you can learn, and today I’ll teach you how to master it in 5 simple steps.In this episode, we'll unpack: The 4 Biggest Confidence Killers: (4:31)Confidence Killer #1: Caring too much Confidence Killer #2: Your #1 biggest haterConfidence Killer #3: The

Jan 24, • 39:06

I Thought I lost Everything in the LA Fires

I Thought I lost Everything in the LA Fires

In this raw and insane episode, I break down my wild two-week nightmare during the LA fires. From flames creeping toward my house and having to evacuate in chaos to my house getting broken into.Oh, and all those conspiracy theories? I’m spilling the truth—was it arson? Is State Farm really bailing on people? And why was LA so unprepared for this? Buckle up, because I’m sharing everything you didn’t know the LA fires and debunking/confirming the conspiracy theories everyone’s been talking about.

Jan 21, • 46:17

How to Manifest The One on NYE (Plus My 2024 Survival Guide/goodbye)

How to Manifest The One on NYE (Plus My 2024 Survival Guide/goodbye)

From frozen grapes under tables to dodging dating disasters to becoming a born-again virgin and reclaiming self-worth—this year was a journey. Tune in as I spill on heartbreaks, hilarious fails, and the glow-up moments that made it all worth it. Plus, the realest advice you'll ever hear if you think they're the one (spoiler: they probably hate you) and a step-by-step guide to manifesting your dream partner on New Year’s night for 2025. Grab your wine, bestie—it’

Dec 29, 2024 • 31:14

Stop Procrastinating - 2 Min Rule

Stop Procrastinating - 2 Min Rule

Ever wished procrastination was an Olympic sport because you’d definitely win gold? Well, it’s time to change that mindset, one tiny step at a time! In today's episode, we're diving into the genius of the 2-Minute Rule from Atomic Habits by James Clear. Discover how this bite-sized approach to habit-building can turn even the most persistent procrastinator into a productivity powerhouse. Learn from the greats like Twyla Tharp and the biggest procrastinator you know (me!) to transform those daunt

Dec 20, 2024 • 31:02

My Husband Won’t Touch Me: 10 Years of No Sex

My Husband Won’t Touch Me: 10 Years of No Sex

Ever felt like fear was running the show? In today's episode, I start by sharing my personal journey of how I went from eating lunch alone in the school bathroom to overcoming social anxiety. This pep talk is exactly what you needed to hear at this exact moment. You're welcome.Then, I answer calls from YOU my besties!!! We discuss:Is he the one or are you settling? Learn how to identify patterns and know when to walk away.Recovering after betrayal/cheating: What I learned from being cheated on,

Dec 13, 2024 • 38:20

From Chaos to Closure: You Called?

From Chaos to Closure: You Called?

This week, we kick off with a hilarious throwback to my 12-year-old self being an absolute menace (prepare for secondhand embarrassment!). Then, we dive into YOUR CALLS. Your heartfelt, hilarious, and jaw-dropping voicemail questions and stories. From navigating loneliness after moving to a new country to dealing with relationship resentment from a ruined vacation, and even the ultimate tale of reclaiming your power after infidelity—it’s all here. Oh, and what happens when your best friend choos

Dec 9, 2024 • 40:23

Are You Emotionally Intelligent? 10 Things Not to Do

Are You Emotionally Intelligent? 10 Things Not to Do

This week, Violetta shares the hilarity of being dumped by someone she didn’t even know she was dating and catching the gaze of a hot (but very taken) actor. She also dives into her DMs to give one of you advice on why your partner might be obsessing over your wild past—and spoiler: it’s all about their insecurities, not you.The episode wraps with 10 Things Emotionally Intelligent People Don’t Do. From managing emotions and embracing fear as growth to building trust and navigating happiness, Vio

Nov 30, 2024 • 37:07

The Art of Not Giving a F*ck

The Art of Not Giving a F*ck

Ever wonder how special you must think you are to believe you’re the victim in every story you tell? To assume that when you fall, all eyes are on you, and when you fail, everyone is laughing? Seriously, how special do you have to feel to believe that little old you is not just the center of your own world, but the focus of everyone else’s universe too?Are you Hey Besties! 🌟 Welcome to this week's episode where we’re diving deep into a mind-blowing chapter from Mark Manson's "The Art of Not Giv

Nov 23, 2024 • 30:50

Are You Being Needy?

Are You Being Needy?

Are you being needy or jumping through hoops Like a circus poodle to make someone's crusty a$$ son happy? then stop right there and listen to this episode sugar tits. Ever wondered why most women crave something from a man that they need to give themselves or where the key is keeping your rhythm intact to avoid creating a void in your life? Learn why lowering yourself to fit his criteria lowers the relationship value and why being the "nice girl" might not always be in your best interest.See Pr

Nov 19, 2024 • 29:38

Dating Nightmares: First Dates From Hell

Dating Nightmares: First Dates From Hell

In this wild episode, we share the unforgettable story of a disastrous elevator incident that turns hilariously messy, delve into dating horror stories like discovering a date is married, and a Tinder match nearly goes off a cliff (literally). From ex-girlfriend party ambushes to duffel-bagged sleepover assumptions, and the epic Taco Bell 100-taco fiasco—these are dating fails you won’t believe. We’ll laugh, cringe, and give you the lowdown on the absurd lengths people go to in the name of love

Nov 12, 2024 • 56:24

That’s Not What Makes You a Mother with Whitney Port

That’s Not What Makes You a Mother with Whitney Port

In this episode, I sit down with Whitney Port, beloved reality TV star from The Hills and The City, entrepreneur, and podcast host. Whitney opens up about her deeply personal journey with infertility, the pressure of public life, and the complexities of navigating anxiety and self-worth. Prepare for a candid, relatable, and incredibly inspiring conversation as we delve into her struggles and triumphs.We discuss:Navigating Infertility: Whitney shares her heartbreaking journey through fiv

Oct 31, 2024 • 1:29:18

How To Make Him Fall in Love

How To Make Him Fall in Love

They say men control the world, but I say that women control the men. On today's special episode, catch up with Violetta as she spill her latest intrusive thoughts and a halloween party gone sh*t—and then get ready for dating wisdom that flips the script on love and relationships. Get ready for insider secrets to the male's psych to get him obsessed.We discuss:The Power of Praise: Why giving a little ego boost makes him crave your attention.Be His Queen—Silently in Control: How to stay in contro

Oct 28, 2024 • 45:06

HE’S NOT YOUR PERSON SIS - LISTEN TO THIS

HE’S NOT YOUR PERSON SIS - LISTEN TO THIS

In this episode, we go all in on love, dating, and relationships—holding nothing back. If you're fed up with mixed signals, emotionally unavailable partners, or just feeling like you’re not getting what you deserve, this is the episode that will turn it all around for you.What we discuss:If you catch me doing THIS, then just KNOW I’m going through it and someone’s dusty a&& son p*ssed me the F off!The best advice my mum gave me when it comes to heartbreak3 questions to ask yourself in the beginn

Oct 24, 2024 • 38:06

October Tarot Reading - Pick A Card

October Tarot Reading - Pick A Card

Pick your colour, pick your path! In this special October tarot card reading, I’ve pulled out three different decks that predict the rest of your month—from your career to life to love! Each deck is tied to a colour that calls out to you. Timestamps:Green - 2:03Pink - 12:51Red - 21:16Each colour holds a unique reading packed with guidance for the month ahead. So, which one is speaking to you? For more premium extra episodes+ad free episodes, subscribe to the premium podcast hereDon't forget to s

Oct 15, 2024 • 28:11

HITTING ROCK BOTTOM

HITTING ROCK BOTTOM

If you're feeling lost, stuck at rock bottom, unloved, unheard, unmotivated, or unhappy in your current situation—if you feel completely defeated, like you've lost your sense of purpose, and that things will NEVER get better—this episode is for you!This is the wake-up call you've been waiting for.Today I get personal on what hitting rock bottom taught me and how I pulled myself out, and how you can too.We discuss:How everything feels like salt, when you walk around wounded.The truth abo

Oct 10, 2024 • 40:08

Decolonizing Trauma: Did You Choose Your Trauma? with Yemi Penn

Decolonizing Trauma: Did You Choose Your Trauma? with Yemi Penn

Instead of colonising why don't we DEcolonise today? Trauma that is!Join me in this transformative conversation with global thought leader and TEDx speaker, Yemi Penn, as we dive into alternative approaches to healing trauma. We explore powerful topics like:Decolonizing trauma: What it means and how it changes your healing journey.Bending your reality: How to rewrite your narrative and create a thriving life post-trauma.Facing adversity and why cultivating a mindset of curiosity and reb

Oct 3, 2024 • 54:50

ADHD Made Me Do It: My Worst Date Stories

ADHD Made Me Do It: My Worst Date Stories

My most unhinged episode yet or at least in the top 5!If you have ADHD or think you might or just want to laugh your a$$ off then this episode is for you. From my worst date stories to my doctor drug testing me for a snow habit at 9am, to giving you a tarot card reading for that one burning question on your mind—this episode has it all! Don’t forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Love ya!See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at htt

Sep 26, 2024 • 29:44

The Lie: YOU ARE NOT ENOUGH

The Lie: YOU ARE NOT ENOUGH

Have you ever caught yourself thinking, "I’m not enough?" Today, we’re calling that out for what it is—the biggest lie you’ve ever told yourself, and the one thing holding you back from living the life you’re meant for.This week, we’re kicking off a brand-new series! Every week, we’ll be debunking one LIE that’s been holding us back from living our best lives, and we’re starting with this episode.For ad free episodes + extra weekly episodes, subscribe

Sep 26, 2024 • 44:09

Stop Struggling: The Real Path to Business Success With Ret Taylor

Stop Struggling: The Real Path to Business Success With Ret Taylor

Ready to uncover the dark, dirty secrets of starting a business? But first, Violetta catches you up on her $95,000 dentist bill (yes, you read that right), and the mid dude that made her an offer she almost couldn't refuse... ALMOST."Violetta is joined by Ret Taylor, co-founder of the wellness brand Ned, as they dive into the often overlooked, not-so-glamorous realities of starting and growing a business. From how banks can put your business on a hidden blacklist that could kill your dr

Sep 12, 2024 • 36:28

WHY MEN PULL AWAY - The Psychology of a Man's Mind

WHY MEN PULL AWAY - The Psychology of a Man's Mind

Find out why this episode hit over 100,000 downloads on its first day—Tune in RIGHT NOW to learn the psychology of WHY MEN ALWAYS PULL AWAY IN RELATIONSHIPS!!! whether beginning, middle, or end--it seems to always happen at some point. That is why Violetta is bringing you part two of one of her most viral episodes to explain the reasoning behind this unavoidable phenomenon and a 3 step playbook that guarantees he'll come crawling back in NO time!In this episode, Violetta covers:Reasons he pulled

Sep 5, 2024 • 38:58

Transform Your Dating Life in 5 Steps - Bad B*tch University

Transform Your Dating Life in 5 Steps - Bad B*tch University

Do you want to stroll into any room like you own it and have people hanging on your every word? Do you want to be so magnetic that the partner of your dreams can’t resist being drawn to you like a moth to a flame? And how about finally standing your ground and making sure no one ever overlooks you again, so you can start living the fabulous life you’ve always deserved?Well, you’re in the right place because this episode is your ultimate guide to leveling up your confidence game in datin

Sep 2, 2024 • 39:17

Manifest Miracles I Law of Attraction 432 Hz I Elevate Your Vibration

Manifest Miracles I Law of Attraction 432 Hz I Elevate Your Vibration

Bonus episode - 3 hours of manifesting sound for anyone looking to elevate their vibrations and energy to better attract and manifest while sleeping or for anyone looking for frequency music to listen to while practicing gratitude or doing my manifesting techniques from last episode/other episodes.This powerful track uses the 432Hz frequency as a base and continuously builds on itself, allowing you to elevate your vibrations and focus your energy on manifestation. Listening to this audi

Aug 25, 2024 • 3:00:44

How to Keep Him Obsessed - Bad B*tch University

How to Keep Him Obsessed - Bad B*tch University

Welcome to BAD B*TCH UNIVERSITY, baby! This is the second of FOUR powerhouse episodes designed to change the way you've been dating, raise your standards, kick your self worth and self esteem into high gear, attract only the best, and unlock the NEW AND IMPROVED YOU!!!For ad free episodes + extra weekly episodes, subscribe to the premium podcast - https://almostadulting.supercast.com/TIMESTAMPS:0:00 - 13:12 - Catch up with Violetta:How to circumcise a manFemale circumcisionNipple piercings - goo

Aug 22, 2024 • 46:04

Are You Damaged Goods? - Bad B*tch University

Are You Damaged Goods? - Bad B*tch University

Welcome to BAD B*TCH UNIVERSITY, baby! This is the first of FOUR powerhouse episodes designed to change the way you've been dating, raise your standards, kick your self worth and self esteem into high gear, attract only the best, and unlock the NEW AND IMPROVED YOU!!!For ad free episodes + extra weekly episodes, subscribe to the premium podcast here TIMESTAMPS:First segment - Catch up with Violetta - 0:00 - 28:21Get ready to pee your pants with today’s segment! Violetta discuss a bizarr

Aug 15, 2024 • 54:25

How Men Fall In Love - A Step by Step Guide

How Men Fall In Love - A Step by Step Guide

Ever wonder what really makes a man fall head over heels? Well, what if I told you it wasn't through your looks or even bedroom moves but instead it has to do with how much you PISS HIM OFF.Well... kinda.On today's episode we cover:The Love Hormones: Women have oxytocin, the love hormone released during sex and cuddling. Men? They have vasopressin, their “monogamy hormone,” which kicks in when you stress him out!Stress Him Out: Discover why a little stress is good for making y

Aug 8, 2024 • 45:43

Jana Love Island PPG Tell All

Jana Love Island PPG Tell All

Join me as I sit down with Jana from Love Island US Season 6 for an exclusive tell-all episode where she spills secrets from inside and outside the villa that will surprise you!For ad free episodes + extra weekly episodes, subscribe to the premium podcast here TIMESTAMPS:SEGMENT 1 - Let’s catch up! - 0:00 - 12:04I discuss why stretching isn't for me, my childhood dream job, that time I applied for the CIA and helped the FBI with a case during the pandemic, and l

Aug 1, 2024 • 1:03:48

How to Detach in 24 Hours

How to Detach in 24 Hours

When your man doesn’t value you, then he DESERVES to lose you. Want to teach him a lesson? Then tune In!Sometimes detaching doesn’t mean goodbye forever; it means giving yourself the time to figure out what you want and deserve. Today’s episode is for anyone who:Needs to reassess their relationship and feelings.Wants to wake up a partner who's taking them for granted.Is ready to walk away from someone they love.Needs help with anxiety and detaching from stress over uncontrollable outcom

Jul 25, 2024 • 45:18

Manifest A New Life - LISTEN NOW

Manifest A New Life - LISTEN NOW

STOP RIGHT THERE AND LISTEN TO THIS EPISODE RIGHT NOW!! Today, August 8th, marks the MOST powerful manifesting day of the year—the rare 8/8/8 Lions Gate Portal. Don't walk, RUN to listen to this episode on how to manifest everything you've ever wanted!! I will be giving you FIVE manifesting techniques to do today and for the next full moon that will get you everything you ever wanted from goals to love. Please see below for timestamps for each one. TIMESTAMPS:0:00 - 6:06 - Int

Jul 18, 2024 • 30:46

The Effects of Casual Sex With Couples Therapist Dene Logan

The Effects of Casual Sex With Couples Therapist Dene Logan

Ready to uncover the truth about casual sex and reclaim your power? Tune in to get smarter in dating, reclaim your power and get back into your feminine goddess receiving energy. ✨TIMESTAMPS:First segment - Catch up with Violetta - 0:00 - 14:06 Get ready to pee your pants with today’s segment! Violetta dives deep into her most bizarre seggs dream that was so weird, she had to ghost the guy in real life. Then, she reveals her totally foolproof (or not) method for kicking boys o

Jul 11, 2024 • 1:22:16

Transform Your Situationship Into a Relationship

Transform Your Situationship Into a Relationship

You don't get brownie points for going the extra mile for a man you met two weeks ago. You don't get brownie points for putting up with his disrespect or cooking for him a five course meal on the second date, because you want to show him that you are wifey material, even though he has never once reciprocated your energy.So if you want someone to chase you, you have to treat them like a drug dealer treats their clients. You get them hooked and then you threaten to take it away -- Not wit

Jul 4, 2024 • 1:04:47

Love Island S6: Drama & Psychology Breakdown

Love Island S6: Drama & Psychology Breakdown

Privet besties!! Today we take a break from Violetta's Russian tough love and present you with a fun deep dive episode into the juicy world of Love Island US Season 6! We're spilling all the tea on the July 11th drama and everything that has unfolded up to it. We break down how we got here and unpack all the makeups and breakups from the psychology side of it all the way to their zodiac signs. Who’s vibing? Who’s clashing? And who will make it outside the villa?? Grab your popcorn becau

Jun 27, 2024 • 41:17

Date Smarter, Not Harder: 9 Game-Changing Rules

Date Smarter, Not Harder: 9 Game-Changing Rules

Ready to flip the dating game on its head? 🔄 In this episode of Almost Adulting, I dive into the 9 game-changing rules that transformed my dating life from a stress-fest to a worry-free zone! Whether it's saying 'yes' when you'd usually say 'no' or learning the fine art of flying solo, these tips are your new dating playbook. Tune in to discover why talking to multiple men isn't just fun—it's essential, and why waiting for sex could be the best move you make. Get ready, because it's time to mas

Jun 23, 2024 • 34:39

Do You Think I'm Special? The Price of Perfectionism & Betrayal with Kaitlyn Bristowe

Do You Think I'm Special? The Price of Perfectionism & Betrayal with Kaitlyn Bristowe

Ever been told you're special as a kid and now you're a hot mess of perfectionism and OCD? Welcome to the club! In this laugh-out-loud yet deeply relatable episode, Violet Benson gets real with Kaitlyn Bristowe about the rollercoaster ride of wanting to be chosen, fear of aging, and betrayal. In today's episode, we discuss:The Upsides and Downslides of Being Told You're Special as a kid: What it looks like as an adult in your relationships and work.Body Dysmorphia & Fear of Agi

Jun 13, 2024 • 48:50

10 Things Emotionally Healthy People Do

10 Things Emotionally Healthy People Do

In this episode, Violetta gives you the "dummy'' guide to emotional intelligence by sharing some insight from Brianna Wiest's 101 Essays That Will Change the Way You Think. Get ready for some tough love and practical wisdom to boost your emotional intelligence.What You'll Learn:Embrace Pain: Why avoiding pain is holding you back and how to let it flow through and pass.Pain’s Role in Happiness: Discover why pain is necessary for true happiness and personal growth.Emotional Heal

Jun 11, 2024 • 39:03

What He WON'T Tell You

What He WON'T Tell You

Hey Besties! Today, we’re diving into some of Violetta's favourite attraction principles from the ultimate dating bible - Why Men Love Bitches!Ever wondered if there was any truth to men knowing right off the bat if they want to date you or just sleep with you? well guess what, there is! Today we uncover all the truths men DON'T want you to know, including the two categories men put women into and how you can navigate these to not only snag your dream man but also transform into that irresistibl

Jun 6, 2024 • 31:13

Love Magic: Manifest Your Soulmate Using 369 Method

Love Magic: Manifest Your Soulmate Using 369 Method

Hey besties! Ready to attract the love of your life? In this juicy episode of Almost Adulting, Violetta is spilling the tea about her personal life and then diving into the manifesting secrets behind Project 369: The Key to the Universe - Final Edition. This isn’t just woo-woo talk; it’s a step-by-step guide to manifesting your soulmate and living your best life.Episode Highlights:Vibe High: Get on the right vibration level to attract your soulmate.Self-Love Magic: Learn why l

Jun 4, 2024 • 33:51

#1 Reason Why Couples Break Up

#1 Reason Why Couples Break Up

In today's episode of Almost Adulting, Violetta Benson dives deep into Chapter 8 of John Gray's Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus. Ever wondered why your relationship feels like a never-ending cycle of miscommunication? Well, it's time to uncover the juicy truths about the different emotional needs between men and women. Violetta dishes on:The #1 reason couples break up 💔Why you're failing at dating 😬why you're turning each other offThe six primary emoti

May 30, 2024 • 38:32

CBD Magic: Game Nights, Chocolate Shrooms & Life-Changing Transformations with CBDistillery's VP

CBD Magic: Game Nights, Chocolate Shrooms & Life-Changing Transformations with CBDistillery's VP

Ever wondered about the real difference between THC and CBD? Tune into this electrifying episode of Almost Adulting as Violetta Benson spills the beans on her unforgettable game night, featuring a magical mix of CBD and chocolate shrooms that made for the best night of her life. Violet sits down with Ellese Symons, the powerhouse VP of Marketing at CBDistillery, to uncover her inspiring journey from battling chronic fatigue and fibromyalgia to finding renewed vitality with CBD. They also dive in

May 28, 2024 • 43:05

Secrets, Lies, and Alibis: Alex Hall Breaks Her Silence

Secrets, Lies, and Alibis: Alex Hall Breaks Her Silence

Get ready for an unforgettable episode of Almost Adulting! This week, Violet Benson is joined by Alex Hall, the star of Selling the OC, who’s here to spill the juiciest tea and set the record straight once and for all. From the cheating allegations to what really happened in Dubai and everything in between, it's about to get frosty.In this exclusive interview, Alex reveals a side of the story that’s never been told before, dropping a bombshell about a mysterious third party. Whatever yo

May 23, 2024 • 1:02:36

Protect Your Energy: Avoid the Unhappy & Unlucky

Protect Your Energy: Avoid the Unhappy & Unlucky

It's time to do some summer cleaning and dump those energy vampires you've been keeping around!!In this eye-opening episode of Benson Bookclub on Almost Adulting, we dive deep into Law 10 from Robert Greene's "The 48 Laws of Power": "Avoid the Unhappy and Unlucky." Discover why the company you keep can make or break your life and success. I'll share not only the wisdom from the book but I also unpack the psychology behind this law and give you actionable tips to start TODAY to detox you

May 21, 2024 • 39:30

Love After Loss: A Journey of Hope and Healing

Love After Loss: A Journey of Hope and Healing

Anna hathaway who?!? Nicholas galitzine who!?!? This TRUE STORY that I share today is about to become your new 'The Idea of You' favourite love story. It will have you in tears before you finish listening.Join me in this heart-wrenching yet hopeful episode as we dive into the powerful TRUE STORY of a man who loses the love of his life in a tragic car accident. Battling the depths of depression and contemplating ending his own life, he is pulled back by the desperate plea of his young ni

May 16, 2024 • 33:34

Your Happiness Is a Problem

Your Happiness Is a Problem

On today's episode, Join your Russian big sis, Violetta as she unravels the tale of Buddha’s enlightenment and Disappointment Panda's brutal truths. She then explores if happiness is an algorithm we can crack or if we’re just wired to be a bit miserable.Why do we suffer? Is pain necessary for survival? Are we all just masochists in denial? and why blaming others is the perfect cop-out!! Violetta then delves into how dissatisfaction is baked into our DNA and why the greatest truths in life are th

May 14, 2024 • 28:36

The Reason He's Not Choosing You

The Reason He's Not Choosing You

Babes, stop trying to CHANGE HIM, did he poopy his pants??!? Girl chill.Dive into this explosive solo episode where Violetta unravels the secrets of dating with 7 Game-Changing Dating Tips that will Transform Your Love Life forever!! Learn why men pull away, how to spot early dating red flags, why he won't commit, and the real reasons he’s not choosing you. Violetta share personal stories of her recent dating experience, including why she cried at Stagecoach, and insights on how to tell where yo

May 9, 2024 • 33:39

BEST Advice You'll Ever Hear

BEST Advice You'll Ever Hear

Privet zychiky and welcome to a brand new PREMIUM episode on Wednesdays!Today Violetta shares some life changing advice that will get you thinking and touch your beautiful heart and mind. From a letter to your younger self to boundaries to dating advice.To listen to the rest of the episode, go to the premium ad free podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privac

May 8, 2024 • 13:11

Stagecoach Confessions: Stars, Drama, and Lana Del Ray

Stagecoach Confessions: Stars, Drama, and Lana Del Ray

Get ready to saddle up for an unforgettable adventure as your Russian big sis, Violetta, takes you through her first-ever Stagecoach experience on Almost Adulting! In this wild and insightful episode, Violetta shares:The Patron house Crew included: Violetta, Kat stickler, Jason tartick, Kelsey Anderson and Joey graziadei from the bachelor, Georgia v, Erin falter, Nick dio, Nick norcia, Polly B and Alex Hall from Selling OC, and last but not least Lana Del Ray and Nikki Lane.Meeting Musi

May 7, 2024 • 29:11

Is It Love or OCD? With Dr. Patrick McGrath

Is It Love or OCD? With Dr. Patrick McGrath

Unraveling Relationship OCD: A Deeper Look with Dr. Patrick McGrathIs it just a quirk or could it be Relationship OCD? This misunderstood form of OCD often masquerades as simple jealousy or relationship ups and downs, but there's much more beneath the surface. In this compelling episode, we dive into the intricacies of Relationship OCD, exploring:What exactly is Relationship OCD, and how does it differ from other types?The fine line between normal jealousy and this form of OCD.The impact of soci

May 2, 2024 • 45:54

9 Types of Codependency With Mark Groves

9 Types of Codependency With Mark Groves

Hey Besties! Today, we're diving into the full length of the second half of Violetta’s eye-opening interview with Mark Groves. Get ready for more insights and surprises!Are you more invested in your partner's life than your own Netflix queue? Do you find yourself constantly adjusting your mood thermostat based on someone else’s emotional weather? Buckle up as Violetta and Mark dissect what it means to be codependent, from obsessing over how others perceive us online to partnering up wit

Apr 30, 2024 • 58:37

Get Your Ex Back w/ Adrienne Everheart

Get Your Ex Back w/ Adrienne Everheart

Hey Besties! Today, Violetta welcomes Adrienne Everheart, a certified dating and relationship coach & feminine energy therapist who specializes in connecting women to their authentic self and creating the loving relationship they desire.In this sizzling session, Adrienne reveals the mystique of feminine allure and provides insightful strategies designed to empower women, whether they are healing from past heartaches or aiming to rekindle an old flame. Her advice is not just about attracting a pa

Apr 25, 2024 • 1:46:00

My Therapist Once Told Me...

My Therapist Once Told Me...

Hello and welcome to my PREMIUM PODCAST!! Today you will get a glimpse of the Wednesday premium episode!!! To listen to the FULL episode and get AD FREE weekly plus TWO EXTRA episodes a week, go subscribe on https://almostadulting.supercast.com/On today's episode I discuss, Stagecoach, OCD, and my favourite quotes from my therapist! I also give you some advice, my favourite Kdrama's and my experience with finally getting back on dating apps! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and C

Apr 24, 2024 • 18:08

In Case You Missed Me

In Case You Missed Me

Hey Besties! This episode is all about the highs, the lows, and the hilariously unexpected. Violet opens up about feeling a bit down and explores why sometimes, despite everything, it just seems like things won't get better. She discusses the simple joys of being happy and the importance of being present in those moments. But it’s not all about the downs; there’s an up when she talks about getting sponsored to go to Stagecoach—and yes, she’s going solo! Tune in for an episode filled wit

Apr 23, 2024 • 34:53

It's Okay to Not Be Okay

It's Okay to Not Be Okay

Hey Besties! Today, let's try something a little different. Violetta challenges AI to give intriguing insights it might offer on our everyday dilemmas. From practical tips on mustering the courage to reach out and effective breathing exercises to manage anxiety to quick mood-boosting activities, discovering happiness, and the best life advice ChatGPT can offer. Whether you're searching for a laugh, a cry, or a moment of inspiration, this episode promises to be as enlightening as it is e

Apr 18, 2024 • 45:29

How To Win An Argument

How To Win An Argument

Hey Besties! Welcome to Benson Book Club! Today, Violetta will be reading from Robert Greene’s The 48 Laws of Power - Law #9: Win Through Your Actions, Never Through Arguments. Discover why winning through your actions rather than arguments can lead to more meaningful victories and why saying less can actually get you more. Whether you're going through tricky social situations or just trying to get ahead in life, this episode is packed with wisdom to help you master the art of keeping i

Apr 16, 2024 • 29:11

20 Signs You're Doing Better Than You Think

20 Signs You're Doing Better Than You Think

Hey Besties! Today is another Benson Book Club Tuesday! Let’s take another look at 101 Essays That Will Change The Way You Think by Brianna Wiest - a collection of the author’s most beloved pieces of writing. Ever catch yourself thinking, "I don't know what I’m doing with my life"? You're not alone! In this episode, we dive into 20 signs that you're actually doing better than you think. We'll explore what it truly means to lead a good life, challenging societal metrics and embracing the

Apr 9, 2024 • 23:28

How to Handle Conflict

How to Handle Conflict

Hello and welcome to my PREMIUM PODCAST!! Today you will get a glimpse from Saturay's premium podcast episode where we discuss how to handle conflict, especially for people who struggle with it. Hope you enjoy!To listen to the FULL episode and get ad free episodes plus two extra episodes a week, go subscribe on https://almostadulting.supercast.com/See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Apr 7, 2024 • 14:20

Law of Attraction: Attract SUCCESS

Law of Attraction: Attract SUCCESS

Hey Besties! Today, we discuss the PSYCHOLOGY, the SCIENCE, and the SPIRITUALITY behind Success along with a few calls to actions to make it happen for you!!Let’s listen to some life lessons about what success truly means and unravel the paradox between failure and success, all with a dash of Violetta's flair. Discover actionable tips to halt self-sabotage and uncover traits common among successful people. We'll explore the synergy of passion and perseverance, why willpower isn't your o

Apr 4, 2024 • 38:44

P DIDDY & RAYA - Violetta's Diary

P DIDDY & RAYA - Violetta's Diary

Hello and welcome to the Violetta's diary series available on my PREMIUM PODCAST!! Where I share my random thoughts or CONFESSIONS with no cuts, no edits, no notes, no pre planning, no nothing. Just the two of us naked and honest with each other.Today we discuss some things I WOULD NEVER share on my regular podcast since I am afraid of a lawsuit or people coming for me so if you want to hear the full story, go listen and subscribe on https://almostadulting.supercast.com/See Privac

Apr 3, 2024 • 8:10

Get People to Like You Instantly

Get People to Like You Instantly

Hey Besties! Today, for another reading session of Benson Book Club, we will take a peek into How to Win Friends & Influence People written by Dale Carnegie - a book about ways to make people like you, how to win people to your way of thinking, and how to change people without arousing resentment.Together with Violetta, we get to hear practical tips on winning people over instantly, incredible stories of people who mastered the art of being likable, and how to arm yourself with six

Apr 2, 2024 • 26:08

The Psychology of Self-Sabotage – Why Do We Do It?

The Psychology of Self-Sabotage – Why Do We Do It?

Hey Besties! We're diving headfirst into the complexities of self-sabotage. Why do we often self-sabotage? How do we snap out of the self-defeat funk? Embrace the beauty of failure, kick negative thinking to the curb, and discover 18 tips to boost your spirits. It's all about flipping the script, surrounding yourself with positive vibes, and quitting the blame game. Get ready to transform your perspective and sprinkle some fab into your life! If you are looking to listen to today's

Mar 28, 2024 • 46:06

When to Have S*x

When to Have S*x

Hey Besties! Welcome to Benson Book Club! Today, Violetta will be reading a part of Chapter 19: When To Have Sex from the book Men Don’t Love Women Like You! by G.L Lambert, and will be sharing her thoughts on when to take things to the bedroom, decoding men's real dating agendas, and identifying the tell-tale signs of true romantic victory. Ever regretted going too far, too fast? We're breaking it all down and guiding you to date on your own terms. Let's get real about romance, empower

Mar 26, 2024 • 25:04

4 Confidence Hacks To Transform Your Life

4 Confidence Hacks To Transform Your Life

Hey Besties! Welcome to episode TWO of Dating University available ONLY on the PREMIUM podcast.Violetta is going to get real about everything from pimple patches to our 'pick me' girl pasts. It's all about embracing your fabulous self, finding that rock-solid confidence, and saying goodbye to people and habits that just don't spark joy anymore. And let's chat about relationships - why it's crucial to know what you want and how not to fall for those oh-so-tempting but totally empty flatt

Mar 24, 2024 • 17:12

What Your Attachment Style Says About You w/ Sarah Baldwin

What Your Attachment Style Says About You w/ Sarah Baldwin

Hey Besties! Today, we get to listen to the second half of Violetta’s conversation with Sarah Baldwin. Sarah is a Somatic Experiencing Practitioner and Trauma-informed Life Coach dedicated to supporting individuals in understanding their reactions, feelings, and patterns, emphasizing that these are not indicative of anything wrong, but rather everything being right with the person. Violetta and Sarah will dig deep into what it means to have an anxious or avoidant attachment style,

Mar 21, 2024 • 1:02:00

INTRUSIVE THOUGHTS

INTRUSIVE THOUGHTS

Hello and welcome to the Violetta's diary series available on my PREMIUM PODCAST!! Where I share my random thoughts with no cuts, no edits, no notes, no pre planning, no nothing. Just the two of us naked and honest with each other.Today we dive into sliding into dm's, my intrusive thoughts and lots more.This series lives EXCLUSIVELY on my premium channel, so to listen to the FULL episode, make sure to subscribe and catch it here - https://almostadulting.supercast.com/See Privacy Po

Mar 20, 2024 • 15:55

From Lovers to Strangers - What Went Wrong?

From Lovers to Strangers - What Went Wrong?

Hey Besties! Welcome to another Benson Book Club Tuesday! It’s been a favorite so we will discuss another chapter of 101 Essays That Will Change The Way You Think by Brianna Wiest - a collection of the author’s most beloved pieces of writing. Violetta dives into a heartfelt exploration of the transient nature of relationships, where we ponder the journey from being strangers to becoming lovers, and sometimes, strangers once again. This podcast delves into the gratitude we owe

Mar 19, 2024 • 33:05

5 Signs Your Friendship Is Toxic w/ Jordyn & Alex (Mean Girl Podcast)

5 Signs Your Friendship Is Toxic w/ Jordyn & Alex (Mean Girl Podcast)

Hey Besties! Let’s welcome Alex Bennett and Jordyn Woodruff, the duo behind the Mean Girl podcast. In the show, these two come together for honest conversations about sex, friendship, mental health, and living in the big city as outsiders.Violetta, Alex, and Jordyn didn’t hold back as they talked about what makes friendships last, setting boundaries (because, hello, we need space!), and why growing apart might just mean you're growing up. Ever wonder how to navigate friendships when lif

Mar 14, 2024 • 1:24:38

Use a Man’s Mind Against Him

Use a Man’s Mind Against Him

Hey Besties! In today’s Benson Book Club, Violetta will take inspiration from Men Don’t Love Women Like You! by G.L. Lambert - a manual on how to stop manipulation, command attention, and be seen as a must have by any man. Let's take a look into men's true intentions in romance, separating truths from "D*ck Lies," understanding sexual significance, and uncovering why men pursue new conquests. Learn why you might be unknowingly auditioning for a role you didn't choose in the complex

Mar 12, 2024 • 36:00

The Nervous System Explained w/ Sarah Baldwin

The Nervous System Explained w/ Sarah Baldwin

Hey Besties! Today, we welcome Sarah Baldwin. Sarah is a Somatic Experiencing Practitioner and Trauma-informed Life Coach dedicated to supporting individuals in understanding their reactions, feelings, and patterns, emphasizing that these are not indicative of anything wrong, but rather everything being right with the person. She focuses on showing individuals that they are safe and can get unstuck, which leads to thriving and living the life they're meant to live. Violetta and Sar

Mar 7, 2024 • 1:07:30

BE SUCCESSFULLY DELUSIONAL

BE SUCCESSFULLY DELUSIONAL

Hello and welcome to the Violetta's diary series available on my PREMIUM PODCAST!! Where I share my random thoughts with no cuts, no edits, no notes, no pre planning, no nothing. Just the two of us naked and honest with each other.Today we dive into the TEXT that ENDED my toxic friendship, vision board update, and how to be successfully delusional. This series lives EXCLUSIVELY on my premium channel, so to listen to the FULL episode, make sure to subscribe and catch it here -

Mar 6, 2024 • 13:43

What Motivates Men to Commit

What Motivates Men to Commit

Hey Besties! Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus: The Classic Guide to Understanding the Opposite Sex by John Gray. The book provides a practical and proven way for men and women to improve their communication and relationships by acknowledging the differences between them. Today, Violetta will talk about the dynamics of motivation and love as she unpacks the secrets to motivating the opposite sex and explores the balance between love, responsibility, and boundaries. From

Mar 5, 2024 • 35:36

Why He Doesn't Want You

Why He Doesn't Want You

Hello and welcome to the Violetta's diary series available on my PREMIUM PODCAST!! Where I share my random thoughts with no cuts, no edits, no notes, no pre planning, no nothing. Just the two of us naked and honest with each other.Today we dive into how to change your perspective when it comes to goodbyes, people, being ghosted and when he doesn't want you - from the why to the how to the moving on.This series lives EXCLUSIVELY on my premium channel, so to listen to the FULL episode, ma

Mar 3, 2024 • 9:34

Loving Those Who Can't Love Us Back

Loving Those Who Can't Love Us Back

Hey Besties! For another Benson Book Club session, we’re going to dive deep into Why We Hold On Tightest on the Things That Aren’t Meant for Us from Brianna Wiest’s 101 Essays That Will Change The Way You Think. Violet shares her candid insights on navigating the complexities of relationships - from moving on from unrequited love and why we often find ourselves drawn to those who can't reciprocate our feelings to invaluable advice on finding peace and self-love amidst the chaos of

Feb 29, 2024 • 29:23

Feeling Ungrateful

Feeling Ungrateful

Hello and welcome to the Violetta's diary series available on my PREMIUM PODCAST!! Where I share my random thoughts with no cuts, no edits, no notes, no pre planning, no nothing. Just the two of us naked and honest with each other.Today we discuss feeling ungrateful, creating a vision board, and large wieners jk maybe.This series lives EXCLUSIVELY on my premium channel, so to listen to the FULL episode, make sure to subscribe and catch it here - https://almostadulting.supercast.com

Feb 29, 2024 • 11:46

She's a Narcissist w/ Scheana Shay (Vanderpump Rules)

She's a Narcissist w/ Scheana Shay (Vanderpump Rules)

Hey Besties! Today, Vanderpump Rules cast Scheana Shay joins Violetta for an exciting and at the same time heart-tugging conversation. Throughout her time on "Vanderpump Rules," Scheana became known for her outgoing personality, dramatic relationships, and candid portrayal of her personal life on the show. In addition to her work on reality television, she has pursued acting and music endeavors. She has appeared in several television shows and films, as well as releasing her own mu

Feb 27, 2024 • 57:05

You’re Not My Person w/ Kamie Crawford

You’re Not My Person w/ Kamie Crawford

Hey Besties! Today, Violetta welcomes television host and producer Kamie Crawford. Kamie also hosts her successful podcast, Relationsh*t and MTV’s long-running reality-based documentary series “Catfish: The TV Show”.Get ready to dive into all things fun and fabulous with Violet and Kamie. They chat about everything from what's currently keeping them busy to the importance of staying hydrated (because, let's face it, we need to keep those vibes flowing!). Plus, we'll dish on some seriously spicy

Feb 22, 2024 • 1:05:56

Love is Blind - Matthew is a Serial Killer

Love is Blind - Matthew is a Serial Killer

Hey Besties! Today, Violetta will give us a quick recap of Love is Blind Season 6. Is Matthew just your average guy, or could he be hiding a dark secret? From navigating the rules of marriage with AD and Clay to exploring the dynamics of religious love with Brittany and Kenneth, we'll delve into the highs and lows of partnership. Buckle up as we dissect the correlation between love and lust with Jimmy and Jessica, and uncover the telltale signs of trouble in relationships. Whether it's

Feb 20, 2024 • 35:19

Love is Not Enough w/ Mark Groves

Love is Not Enough w/ Mark Groves

Hey Besties! The man behind the Create the Love is back! Mark Groves is a human connection specialist, speaker, writer, motivator, creator, connector and collaborator. As a bridge between the academic and the human, Mark invites people to explore the good, bad, downright ugly, and beautiful sides of connection.What does it truly mean to find liberation in love? How do we reclaim our worth after it's been taken from us? Today, Violetta and Mark explore these questions and more, delving i

Feb 15, 2024 • 1:21:49

16 Reasons You Don't Have Love

16 Reasons You Don't Have Love

Hey Besties! Ready to take a deep dive into the world of love and self-discovery? Today, for another episode of Benson Book Club, Violetta will read and ponder on the 16 Reasons Why You Still Don’t Have The Love That You Want from Brianna Wiest’s 101 Essays That Will Change The Way You Think. Whether you're relying on others to do the work for you or expecting love to change your life, we've got the insights to help you navigate the twists and turns of the heart. Discover how honoring y

Feb 13, 2024 • 23:36

Do This If He Takes You for Granted

Do This If He Takes You for Granted

Hey Besties! It's time for another eye-opening episode with Violetta! We're diving into the complexities of relationships and decoding the male mind. Find out why even when a man takes you for granted, he still craves reassurance from you. Discover the power of non-verbal communication in teaching a man how to treat you right, and why the sexiest thing about you should be your ability to swiftly leave him alone when necessary! Get ready for laughs, insights, and a whole lot of girl talk—Violetta

Feb 8, 2024 • 38:47

4 Ways To Self Love

4 Ways To Self Love

And no, not in the way you're thinking! Since this month is all about relationships, Violet decided to talk about the most important relationship you will ever have - the one with yourself. Today Violet gets super vulnerable and upacks some things of her own, while giving you guys her step by step guide she uses to practice self love. Besties, In order for us to have healthy relationships with others, we have to look inward and mend the relationship with ourselves. And remember, ne

Feb 8, 2024 • 45:16

3 Signs You're Being Needy

3 Signs You're Being Needy

Hey Besties! Today, Violetta dives into Chapter 5: Jumping Through Hoops Like a Circus Poodle from “Why Men Love B*tches” by Sherry Argov. Ever wondered why most women crave something from a man that they need to give themselves or where the key is keeping your rhythm intact to avoid creating a void in your life? Learn why lowering yourself to fit his criteria lowers the relationship value and why being the "nice girl" might not always be in your best interest.  If you are looking to listen to t

Feb 6, 2024 • 33:49

Why Loneliness is Worse Than Cigarettes w/ Dr. Guy Winch

Why Loneliness is Worse Than Cigarettes w/ Dr. Guy Winch

Hey Besties! Today, we welcome author, psychologist, and speaker Dr. Guy Winch. Guy specializes in the field of emotional health and well-being. He has gained recognition for his work in advocating for the importance of addressing emotional pain and mental health. He has given popular TED Talks on subjects such as "Why We All Need to Practice Emotional First Aid" and has authored books, including "Emotional First Aid: Healing Rejection, Guilt, Failure, and Other Everyday Hurts."Discover

Feb 1, 2024 • 1:21:07

Exceptions To Let Go In Ur 20’s

Exceptions To Let Go In Ur 20’s

Hey Besties! For another Benson Book CLub session, we are unpacking the fifteen expectations to let go of from the book, 101 Essays That Will Change The Way You Think by Brianna Wiest - a collection of the author’s most beloved pieces of writing. Some of these pieces have never been seen; others have been read by millions of people around the world. This week, we're shedding the weight of unrealistic expectations and embracing the beauty of imperfection. From the myth of being mean

Jan 30, 2024 • 23:55

You're A Prize - Dating University

You're A Prize - Dating University

Become everyone's dream girl by listening to my dating university starting with this FIRST episode available now on my PREMIUM podcast!!! subscribe below to get the rest of today's episode plus 4 extra episodes a month and more!! https://almostadulting.supercast.com/See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jan 28, 2024 • 10:13

Convince Him He's In Control

Convince Him He's In Control

Hey Besties! Today, Violetta spills the secrets to empowering your love life as she unveils how praise is the key to getting your man to treat you like the queen you are. Get ready to make friends with his ego, tapping into his need to feel essential. It's all about setting the tone from the beginning and letting him feel the power of protecting you. Don't waste time and learn the art of giving a man power, making him irresistibly drawn to safeguarding you. By mastering the art of convincing him

Jan 25, 2024 • 33:12

What He WON’T Tell You

What He WON’T Tell You

Today, we're picking back up Sherry Argov's "Why Men Love B*tches" book for another session of Benson Book Club. Violetta spills the beans on what men don't want women to know, and trust us, it's juicy! Ever wondered about the two things that can make a man fall madly in love with you? Violetta's got the scoop. And don't miss the attraction principles that explore the delicate dance between waiting for intimacy and creating a spark that goes beyond the physical. Tune in and get ready to unravel

Jan 23, 2024 • 30:10

The Truth About Brooke Schofield

The Truth About Brooke Schofield

In today's episode, we throw it back to when Violetta got real with Brooke Schofield, co-host of Cancelled with Tana Mongeau. They spill the tea on Matt Rife's questionable dating tactics (seriously, bro?), but the conversation takes a deep turn as Brooke opens up about her challenging childhood with two drug-addicted racist parents. Brooke shares her journey dealing with borderline personality disorder, revealing the power of self-healing and finding stability through medication. It's

Jan 18, 2024 • 1:14:53

Recreate Yourself in 3 Steps

Recreate Yourself in 3 Steps

Hey Besties! Ever wondered how to turn your life around when you're feeling rock bottom? Need a boost when it all seems bleak? Well, it's Benson Book Club time, and today, we're delving into Robert Greene's "The 48 Laws of Power," specifically Law #25 – Recreate Yourself. Violetta kicks off by reading the juicy core of the chapter, then dives into why it's perfectly okay to hit the reset button when everything feels stuck. Spoiler alert: You're totally allowed to shake things up, start anew, and

Jan 16, 2024 • 27:16

Law of Attraction: Make Him YOURS

Law of Attraction: Make Him YOURS

Hey Besties! It’s 2024 and we’re done being nice girls. Violetta breaks down the SECRET to dating men - getting him to commit and learning the difference between a nice girl and a b*tch.GIRLLL, all you ever did was take care of him, be nice to him, and put him on a pedestal, and now you don’t understand why you got dumped…well, maybe that IS the problem – you’re too nice! In this episode, Violetta teaches you how to stop being too available and how to become the b*tch that men will go c

Jan 11, 2024 • 34:41

From Doormat to Dreamgirl

From Doormat to Dreamgirl

Hey Besties! Wondering how to snag your dream man? Relationships can be tricky, especially if you're with the wrong person. In this episode, as we dive deeper into our Manifestation month and roll out another edition of the Benson Book Club, we're exploring "Why Men Love Bitches" by Sherry Argov – a guide for women on standing strong in a relationship. Violetta breaks down the eight attraction principles from the book, giving you a fresh perspective on each one and adding her own spin to what th

Jan 9, 2024 • 36:28

Why We Love Difficult People

Why We Love Difficult People

In the 3rd installation of Benson Bootcamp, Violet covers a topic that we often avoid. Why do we love difficult people? This discussion is difficult because it often forces us to look inwardly, and see what unresolved issues we have - that are allowing us to believe that allowing these people to stay in our lives is okay. But it’s okay Besties, we’re gonna get through it together, because we’ve ALL been there. This week on Almost Adulting, Violet starts off with the reasons why we

Jan 9, 2024 • 46:28

Manifest MONEY & SUCCESS with Hot High Priestess

Manifest MONEY & SUCCESS with Hot High Priestess

Hey Besties! Ready to level up and manifest some serious abundance this year? Violetta's got you covered as she dives into the magical world of manifestation, joined by the incredible Sarah Perl, aka @hothighpriestess on TikTok.In this episode, they unravel the secrets of successful manifestation, exploring different methods and powerful mantras that can pave the way to your riches. Sarah, the poetic genius behind "From Within," shares her wisdom on turning your life around by reshaping

Jan 4, 2024 • 38:44

How To Change Your Life (This Year)

How To Change Your Life (This Year)

Hey Besties! Can you believe it's 2024 already? Time really knows how to sprint! So, as we dive into this fresh year, what better way to kick things off than with a real talk about turning the resolution game into actual life change?In today's episode, Violetta serves up some serious wisdom on why that change we're craving might be playing hard to get. She unpacks the eight sneaky behaviors we unknowingly carry that slam the brakes on our success train. But don't worry, it's not al

Jan 2, 2024 • 25:39

Cult Survivor: Children of God

Cult Survivor: Children of God

YOU CALL IT OCTOBER, I CALL IT CULT MONTH ON ALMOST ADULTING PODCAST!This month focuses entirely on CULTS - where survivors of various cults will be sharing their stories and bringing awareness to the reality and prominence of these organizations. This week on Almost Adulting Violet speaks with Celeste, a former member of the Children of God (now called The Family International). Children of God was founded in Huntington Beach, California in 1968 by David Berg, and was eventually d

Dec 28, 2023 • 1:00:48

MAKE 2024 YOUR YEAR - Using these Manifesting Mantras

MAKE 2024 YOUR YEAR - Using these Manifesting Mantras

Welcome to the end of 2023 and the last episode of THE YEAR!! Today, Violetta says goodbye and helps you reflect on the past year that you had and figure out what you wish for next year. Violetta starts the episode with a huge announcement about more weekly episodes this coming year! She then discusses how to attract the energy you want, the signs to look out for from the universe, and angel numbers. Violetta ends the episode with manifesting mantras to say that will guarantee the best

Dec 26, 2023 • 30:32

Slutty Pregnancy Era w/ Jackie Schimmel

Slutty Pregnancy Era w/ Jackie Schimmel

Today, Violetta is joined by none other than THE Bitch Bible extraordinaire, Jackie Schimmel. Jackie, a podcast queen and certified professional asshole, brings her unfiltered charm to Almost Adulting, sharing how she turned a solo experiment into a top comedy podcast sensation.This dynamic duo doesn't hold back, getting raw and unfiltered in the nitty-gritty of handling hate comments without sacrificing self-esteem, the real deal behind manifestation (spoiler: it might not be what you think), a

Dec 21, 2023 • 1:19:22

SICK OF THIS SH*T

SICK OF THIS SH*T

Hey Besties! It's a trooper Tuesday here at Almost Adulting because, despite the sniffles and a touch of the flu, Violetta is here, powering through for all of you! She's got a pocket full of stories from the hills, where everyday encounters with crows, hawks, and even a rumored tiger (spoiler: it's a chubby cat) unfold.But wait, there's more! Violetta spills the tea on her pet love affair with Charles, with tales of Charles #1, #2, and #3’s tragic and heartbreaking end. The current sur

Dec 19, 2023 • 36:50

Hot Girls Have IBS w/ Katie Wilson

Hot Girls Have IBS w/ Katie Wilson

Hey Besties! Today, Violetta sits down with BelliWelli founder Katie Wilson. Katie shares how her love for chocolate cookies and not being able to eat them during her pregnancy led to the creation of her very first product. When she shared it with her community, she realized there were so many girls with gut issues, even hot girls have gut issues.Let's listen to Violetta and Katie go through the ups and downs of being a woman entrepreneur with gut issues dealing with growing a business,

Dec 14, 2023 • 1:04:40

Dirty Toilets & Harry Styles

Dirty Toilets & Harry Styles

Hey Besties! How delulu can one get in the name of true love? How far will you go to be with the man of your dreams? That’s what one brave girl did to get the attention of her man (well, maybe not yet, but nothing’s impossible, right?)Today, Violetta sits down for another Benson Knows Best. And what better way to start this episode than to interpret a dream about dirty toilets? Yep, there are people out there who dream about toilets, dirty bathrooms, and breaking down when they can’t fi

Dec 12, 2023 • 36:57

The Psychology of YOUR Dreams

The Psychology of YOUR Dreams

Hey Besties! Dreamtime has never been this juicy! Violetta's diving deep into the dreamscapes you've sent her way, decoding the mysteries of your most bizarre dreams. Picture this – a dream where things get a bit too cozy with your own mom. Yep, you read that right! Violet spills the beans on what this dream is really trying to tell you. And then there's that persistent stranger, popping up like a recurring character in your dream saga. Violet's got not one, not two, but three possible

Dec 7, 2023 • 31:24

Benson Knows Best - P*rn Addict

Benson Knows Best - P*rn Addict

Hey Besties! Ready for some real talk? You're in for a treat with today's Benson Knows Best, where Violetta goes through your emails and serves up wisdom like only she can.First up, we've got a complicated office romance that's leaving everyone tangled in emotions. Hold onto your hats for a guy who's just too nice for his own good, facing a string of heartbreaks. And, of course, we can't forget the spicy situation where a boyfriend's love for ahem adult content is causing relationship r

Dec 5, 2023 • 29:39

How to NOT Become a Bridezilla w/ Kelsey Kreppel

How to NOT Become a Bridezilla w/ Kelsey Kreppel

Kelsey is a comedian, actress, and content creator who gained popularity for her comedic sketches, vlogs, and collaborations with other influencers. She has a significant presence on platforms like YouTube and Instagram, where she shares a mix of humorous content, lifestyle vlogs, and insights into her daily life.Brace yourselves for a chat that's as spicy as your favorite latte because Violetta is sitting down with the sensational Kelsey Kreppel! Curious about the love story that unfol

Nov 30, 2023 • 1:04:43

My Scorpio Birthday Shenanigans

My Scorpio Birthday Shenanigans

Hey Besties! Guess what? Violetta just hit the big 3-5, and she's feeling fabulous! In today's episode, she's spilling all the tea about her unconventional birthday celebration. No Confession Corner or Benson Knows Best this time – it's all about Violetta and her epic birthday escapade.Picture this: a day at the Huntington Library with the parents, a series of unexpected hiccups, and a plot twist that turns everything around. Violetta shares the highs, the lows, and the heartwarming sur

Nov 28, 2023 • 34:08

The Psychology Behind Dreams

The Psychology Behind Dreams

Hey Besties! Ready to take a peek into the mysterious world of dreams? Violetta's got you covered in today's episode! From crazy coincidences to weird symbols, she's sharing her personal dream stories, including a surprise appearance by an estranged friend. Get ready for a wild ride as we break down the meanings behind those dreamy escapades.Ever wondered why you're dreaming about knives, houses, or even pregnancy? Violetta spills the tea on dream interpretation, giving you the lowdown

Nov 23, 2023 • 39:16

KEY LIME PIE S*X GONE WRONG - Confession Corner

KEY LIME PIE S*X GONE WRONG - Confession Corner

Hey Besties! Ready for another wild ride in the Confession Corner? Violetta's got the juiciest stories for you. Ever been on a date where you had to do some quick thinking, maybe tell a little white lie? Trust me, you're not alone! We're diving into those hilarious and awkward moments as they take unexpected turns. And, oh boy, get ready for some spice! We're talking about turning up the heat in the bedroom, and yes, it involves food. From a delightful encounter with key lime pie t

Nov 21, 2023 • 32:51

I Don’t Matter w/ Manon Mathews

I Don’t Matter w/ Manon Mathews

Hey Besties! Today, Violetta sits down with her good friend Manon Mathews. You know her – comedian, actress, social media maven, and soon-to-be mom! When you put two girlfriends with a penchant for humor together, what do you get? Pure comedic gold and a whole lot of real talk.Manon spills the beans on everything, from those awkward moments of mispronouncing names to the origins of their middle names. And oh boy, we dive into the adventure of pregnancy – the lessons, the laughs, and the

Nov 16, 2023 • 1:24:23

Benson Knows Best: WOMEN’S S*XUAL FANTASIES

Benson Knows Best: WOMEN’S S*XUAL FANTASIES

Besties, let's talk real for a sec. Has social media thrown a wrench in the dating game? We're bombarded with models and influencers flaunting their 'perfect' lives, making a regular relationship seem like a unicorn. Today, Violetta is back with the latest Benson Knows Best episode – and trust me, you're in for a ride! From a DM-sliding dilemma to a tangled love triangle, and even a happily married gal crushing on a gym buddy – we've got it all. Tune in for the tea, the laughs, and maybe a reali

Nov 14, 2023 • 27:48

MIND BLOWING Facts About Dreams

MIND BLOWING Facts About Dreams

Hey Besties! Although Halloween is over, we are not done yet with the spooky feels. Today, we will talk about dreams - the good ones, scary ones, and even the weirdest story while having a dream. Violetta shares how men and women experience and interpret dreams differently, facts about dreams that you have not heard of yet, and why one shouldn’t take anything from the dream world especially when it's handed over by a dead person. There are even fascinating inventions made from reca

Nov 9, 2023 • 31:21

Confession Corner: I LICKED HIS BUTTH*LE

Confession Corner: I LICKED HIS BUTTH*LE

Hey Besties! The juiciest, most jaw-dropping tales are about to unfold on the Almost Adulting podcast! In this episode, Violetta is sharing some of the wildest, most outrageous confessions she's ever come across. From office escapades with a ahem unconventional boss to movie dates gone hilariously wrong, these stories will leave you gasping, cringing, and laughing all at once. It's a rollercoaster of dating debacles and unexpected encounters that will have you both shocked and

Nov 7, 2023 • 27:51

10 Signs He's Cheating

10 Signs He's Cheating

Hey Besties! It’s November and we’re going to start the month with the most requested topic - CHEATING. In this episode, Violetta dives into the intriguing and often complicated world of relationships. She kicks it off by uncovering some intriguing signs that might indicate he's cheating on you. From suspicious behaviors to gut feelings, Violetta explores the clues that can leave you questioning your partner's fidelity.It's a captivating exploration of the various factors, from emotional gaps to

Nov 2, 2023 • 31:59

Confession Corner: THIEF OF JOY

Confession Corner: THIEF OF JOY

Prepare to be shocked because Violetta is diving deep into a collection of jaw-dropping confessions from the depths of Reddit. From the shocking tale of catching a girlfriend in the act with a so-called "friend" (on their own bed, no less!) to the heart-wrenching confession of accidentally causing harm to a best friend's baby, Violetta's reactions will keep you on the edge of your seat. But it's not all doom and gloom – she's got an eye-opening story of road rage that ended w

Oct 31, 2023 • 28:28

I’m Not Worth Anything w/ Tara Schuster

I’m Not Worth Anything w/ Tara Schuster

Get ready for a delightful and insightful episode of Almost Adulting with Violetta Benson as she chats with the wonderful Tara Schuster! You'll be intrigued by the backstory of Tara's book title, "Buy The F*cking Lilies," and how it resonated with countless readers. They dive into the contents of the book, exploring chapters like "When Life Hands You Lemons, Stick A Pen In It And Turn It Into A Bong." Tara candidly shares her journey, highlighting the challenges of writing about he

Oct 26, 2023 • 1:11:13

My Life Is a DUMPSTER FIRE

My Life Is a DUMPSTER FIRE

Hold onto your hats, Besties! It's been a rollercoaster of a week, and Violetta is here to spill the tea on all the wild and wacky adventures she's been on. From the quirks of getting paid in the entertainment biz (seriously, why does it take forever?), to some dental dilemmas involving root canals and plate implants (who knew teeth could be so eventful?), she's got stories that'll have you laughing, cringing, and shaking your head in disbelief.But it doesn't stop there! Ever wondered w

Oct 24, 2023 • 32:37

The Science of Anger: How To Move Past Resentment w/ Radhi Devlukia

The Science of Anger: How To Move Past Resentment w/ Radhi Devlukia

Besties! Buckle up, because today we're diving into all things love, personal growth, and relationships with Radhi Devlukia. Radhi is an influencer who shares recipes with her followers on social media and on her website.Radhi gets candid about her journey from being a Daddy's girl to discovering wisdom in the Bhagavad Gita. Together with Violetta, she shares some of the best advice her dad ever gave her and takes you on a heartfelt exploration of holding onto anger and resentment. Let'

Oct 19, 2023 • 1:15:52

LOVE IS BLIND REUNION

LOVE IS BLIND REUNION

Get ready for some juicy tea, because in this episode of Almost Adulting with Violet Benson, we're spilling all the Love Is Blind Reunion gossip! Violetta is serving up her unfiltered thoughts and hilarious commentary on the latest couple drama. With only two pairs making it down the aisle, she's questioning the notion of unconditional love and tackling the ever-important credit score conversation. From Lydia and Milton's heartwarming union to the surprising turn of events for Chris and Johnie,

Oct 17, 2023 • 33:40

Homie Hopper w/ Amanda McCants

Homie Hopper w/ Amanda McCants

Hey there, Besties! Well, we've got a treat for you today – and it's all about getting real and having a blast. Today, we welcome influencer and YouTuber Amanda McCants for a hilarious chat with Violetta.So, ever thought about the fakest thing people might have noticed about you? You're not alone! We'll get to hear about Amanda's cameo in a Key Glock music video and that memorable first meeting with Violetta. It's a whirlwind of empowerment and support for rising talents, coupled with s

Oct 12, 2023 • 1:12:51

Benson Knows Best: SENDING MY PARENTS TO ISRAEL

Benson Knows Best: SENDING MY PARENTS TO ISRAEL

Hey there, Besties! Ready to catch up on some fun and thoughtful moments from my life? Well, here we go! So, lately, I've been all about embracing spontaneity. I mean, life's too short to not do the occasional crazy thing, right? From wild adventures to trying out new hairstyles, it's been a whirlwind of excitement. But you know what they say, even your hair holds memories. It's like a little time capsule on top of your head!Now, speaking of memories, I've stumbled upon some pretty awes

Oct 10, 2023 • 32:19

It’s Okay to be Self-ish w/ Apryl Jones

It’s Okay to be Self-ish w/ Apryl Jones

Hey, Besties! It's a brand-new day and a fresh episode. Today, we've got a special treat for you as Violetta spills the beans on how she met the fabulous Apryl Jones, and let's just say, it's a story for the ages. But, it's not all fun and games – we're diving deep into the world of self-work and therapy. Ever wondered how to spot someone who's been on a journey of self-discovery? Violetta's got the inside scoop, and it's more insightful than you might think. But wait, there's more! We're explor

Oct 5, 2023 • 1:19:51

Love Is Blind S5 - GASLIGHTER UCHE

Love Is Blind S5 - GASLIGHTER UCHE

Hey there, Besties! Get ready to dive into another jam-packed review of Love Is Blind S5, Episode 5, 6, and 7. We're not just spilling the tea today; we're pouring a whole kettle of it! Violetta talks briefly about last weeks' Thursday episode, 4 Steps to Love Yourself where she shares steps to help you embrace and adore the amazing person you are, because who doesn't need a little extra self-love in their life, right?Love Is Blind fans, Violetta's got the latest scoop on who's wal

Oct 3, 2023 • 37:41

CHOOSE YOURSELF

CHOOSE YOURSELF

Alright, gather 'round, folks! We are ending September with this, "Choose to love yourself every single day." Yep, that's right, loving yourself should be as normal as your morning coffee. Today, Violetta will share the four steps to amp up that self-love game. There are four steps you need in your life: setting up boundaries, becoming self-aware, getting to know yourself more, and changing your perspective. You've always got a choice. So, whether you're on a self-discovery j

Sep 28, 2023 • 44:17

Love Is Blind S5 - WTF LYDIA

Love Is Blind S5 - WTF LYDIA

Hey there, Besties! Today, we are going to talk about the hype around Love Is Blind Season 5. It’s very unhinged so prepare yourself because we have a lot of catching up to do. Violetta shares her insights on the Season 5's casts and how they come off after binge-watching the episodes. From the insecurities of Jared, who's projecting his size anxieties, to Chris, the golden retriever of the group who oddly sees himself as a playboy, it's a rollercoaster ride of personalities and se

Sep 26, 2023 • 34:41

I’m a Tough B*tch w/ Katie Maloney

I’m a Tough B*tch w/ Katie Maloney

Hey there, Besties! We've got some intriguing insights as we welcome today's guest, Katie Maloney. Katie is an American television personality and actress who gained fame for her appearances on the reality TV show Vanderpump Rules. Throughout her time on Vanderpump Rules, Katie's personal life, including her relationships and friendships, has been a central focus of the show.Now, let's get real. Violetta sits down with Katie as she opens up about her past, navigating a high-profile divo

Sep 21, 2023 • 1:06:45

Confession Corner: HE SH*T HIMSELF

Confession Corner: HE SH*T HIMSELF

Hey Besties! It's Confession Corner Tuesday, and our OG social media girl Violetta is back with some juicy fan confessions. We got a guy who lied about his job and stopped communicating after they spent a night together and this guy accidentally sh*ting himself while getting a head. Surprise! Surprise! Men never learn. Buckle up, because when it comes to confessions, the drama never ends! If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to press@daddyissuesla.com or ca

Sep 19, 2023 • 31:53

4 Steps To Greatness

4 Steps To Greatness

They always say let go of your anger, let go of your pain, blah blah blah! But why doesn’t anyone talk about how using these “negative” feelings to your advantage to catapult you into your best season yet?Hello, Besties! September is all about checking in with ourselves, our mental health, and with our goals. To kick things off Violetta is back with another solo episode and she is NOT here to sugarcoat. In today’s episode Violetta admits life has its ups and downs and it hasn’t been eas

Sep 14, 2023 • 23:47

Benson Knows Best: SELLING OC

Benson Knows Best: SELLING OC

Hey Besties! Today's a little different. We're kicking things off with some juicy dating tips, including the absolute must-ask questions to gauge if you're with Mr. or Ms. Right. Then, we're diving headfirst into a fun chat where Violetta talks about how she sees the characters of the Selling The OC cast. It might not be everyone's cup of tea, but it's still got that 'worth-watching' vibe! If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to press@daddyissuesla.co

Sep 12, 2023 • 35:41

The Idiot Guide to Divorce w/ Laura Clery

The Idiot Guide to Divorce w/ Laura Clery

TW: Discussion about eating disorder, alcohol and drug abuse, sobriety, and self harmEver wondered why you're not happy all the time? Well, you're not supposed to be! It's okay not to feel the sunshine every day, and sometimes, the cloudy moments are what make the sunny ones shine even brighter.Today, Violetta welcomes Laura Clery, a comedian and influencer best known for her comedy sketches and vlogs about her day-to-day life on social media. Laura shares how she grew in popularity through her

Sep 7, 2023 • 1:13:31

Confession Corner - IT WAS HIS BEST FRIEND

Confession Corner - IT WAS HIS BEST FRIEND

Ever had those cringe-worthy moments that make you wish you could hit the rewind button on life? Well, we all do, and in this episode, we're diving headfirst into some hilariously embarrassing tales. From a power struggle in the education system to an intimate experience gone wrong that'll leave you in stitches. Oh, and don't forget the awkward moment you caught your dad staring through a slightly opened door while you were doing the deed. Yep, these stories are as real and relatable as

Sep 5, 2023 • 26:27

3 Reasons You're Stuck In Life

3 Reasons You're Stuck In Life

Changing your perspective is like putting on a new pair of glasses that reveals a whole new world. It's essential because our outlook shapes our reality. When we shift our viewpoint, we unlock fresh insights, untapped potential, and a realm of possibilities that were previously hidden. Today, Violetta shares the three reasons why we remain stuck with where we are as well as the action steps we can take to move forward. From how our actions create our reality, how our emotions affec

Aug 31, 2023 • 37:27

Benson Knows Best: MEN AREN’T DUMB

Benson Knows Best: MEN AREN’T DUMB

Breakups are tough but moving on can be even more challenging. Today, Violetta offers insights on becoming the IT girl when it comes to dating, post-breakup ways to move on from someone (based on real life experience), and some handy ghosting tricks for future use. WANT MORE EPISODES? SUBSCRIBE TO MY PREMIUM PODCAST HERE - https://almostadulting.supercast.com/Today’s Sponsor:Download Hinge and share your Dating Intentions to find someone worth deleting the app for. https://hinge.co

Aug 29, 2023 • 24:18

From Toxic to Soulmates w/ Fiachra "Figs" O'Sullivan

From Toxic to Soulmates w/ Fiachra "Figs" O'Sullivan

Have you considered the difference between what people want versus what they truly need in relationships, and how does this understanding impact your approach to forming connections? This introspective exploration can have a profound influence on how you approach building meaningful bonds. Today's guest is Fiachra "Figs" O'Sullivan. Figs is the creator of the Empathi method and the certification process for Empathi coaches. His life’s mission is to help couples feel more connected.

Aug 24, 2023 • 1:13:05

Confession Corner - BLAME THE KIDS

Confession Corner - BLAME THE KIDS

Ever wondered about the hidden stories that weave the tapestry of human existence? Brace yourselves, because in this episode, we're peeling back the layers and delving into stories that challenge our perceptions, tug at our emotions, and remind us of the complexities that make us undeniably human.Today, Violetta is back with another batch of Reddit confessions. From sacrificing parental rights to confronting the aftermath of a child's devastating lie about assault, and even exploring th

Aug 22, 2023 • 28:37

Body Shaming & Setting Boundaries w/ Sasha Pieterse

Body Shaming & Setting Boundaries w/ Sasha Pieterse

Welcome back, Besties! Have you ever wondered what lies behind the facade, the moments that define us beyond the spotlight? It's a natural curiosity to wonder about the authentic stories that unfold in the quieter corners of our lives. Beyond the glamorous exterior that we often project to the world, there are those raw, unfiltered moments that truly define who we are – the struggles, triumphs, and personal revelations that shape us in profound ways. Today, Violetta welcomes Sasha

Aug 17, 2023 • 56:40

Benson Knows Best: UR A PLACEHOLDER

Benson Knows Best: UR A PLACEHOLDER

And we're back! Hold onto your hats because we've got a whirlwind of exciting stories and insights to share with you in another Benson Knows Best episode.Violetta excitedly shares how she unexpectedly crossed paths with her 'future' husband just last weekend. But that's just the tip of the iceberg! And she's peeling back the layers of being a "placeholder" for someone else and learning how to read in between the pages and know your worth in your partner's future plans. Plus, men often c

Aug 15, 2023 • 24:09

Why Heartbreak Hurts So Much

Why Heartbreak Hurts So Much

How often do we find ourselves tangled in misconceptions about love, and what impact does this have on our relationships? Could redefining our understanding of love lead us to more fulfilling and authentic connections? As we navigate this emotional landscape, Violetta is up for a candid conversation that dismantles these misconceptions and leads us toward a more profound understanding of love's essence. It's time to bid farewell to those who don't see our value and make space for t

Aug 10, 2023 • 28:06

Confession Corner - I DARE YOU

Confession Corner - I DARE YOU

Hey there, gorgeous souls! Hold onto your seats as we unveil the raw and riveting stories for another Confession Corner. We're here to dish out the juiciest details and sizzling discussions.Violetta gets candid on the complexity of relationships and emotions with the intricacies of postpartum depression and its impact on a relationship, a confession involving sibling rivalry, perceptions, and the pursuit of fairness. But we're not stopping there! We're peeling back the layers on the int

Aug 8, 2023 • 24:36

UNHINGED w/ Hannah Berner

UNHINGED w/ Hannah Berner

As your go-to gal for all things fun and motivational, I'm sharing with you today the conversation I had with Hannah Berner in her podcast, Berning in Hell. In this episode, Hannah and I dive into the humorous world of pet allergies and discuss the empowered choice of not having s*x by choice. From navigating emotions around watching prn to the empowering journey of reclaiming virginity, we're here to embrace every aspect of ourselves! We'll share some vulnerable moments, from the

Aug 3, 2023 • 52:26

Benson Knows Best - WAKE UP

Benson Knows Best - WAKE UP

Welcome back, Besties! It's a brand new Benson Knows Best episode. Get ready for exciting announcements and juicy discussions as we dive into some burning questions from you guys! In this episode, Violetta is keeping it real with a candid conversation about hormones that haven't gone back to normal, the complexities of love and relationships as we address some questions you guys sent including how to get over a guy friend you developed feelings for – trust me, we've all been t

Aug 1, 2023 • 31:43

Manifest Him BACK with Hot High Priestess

Manifest Him BACK with Hot High Priestess

Welcome, lovely souls to an enchanting podcast episode filled with the captivating realms of manifesting and tarot card reading. From debunking misconceptions about manifesting to unlocking the secrets of a powerful practice, we'll delve into the art of embracing abundance and love in our lives.Today, Violetta is joined by Sarah Perl a.k.a. Hot High Priestess. Sarah is a tarot card reader, manifestation coach, TikToker, and an entrepreneur. The duo will show us how to properly manifest

Jul 27, 2023 • 51:07

Confession Corner - EMOTIONAL NEGLECT

Confession Corner - EMOTIONAL NEGLECT

Hey, Besties! Welcome to another Confession Corner episode! Let's talk about something important – emotional neglect. It's something many of us may have experienced without even realizing it. Emotional neglect happens when our feelings, needs, and emotions are consistently ignored or invalidated, leaving us feeling unheard and unseen. It can be tough, but remember, you are not alone in this.Violetta shares her personal story with her friend and how the act of opening up to that fr

Jul 25, 2023 • 27:07

Shadow Work: 5 Steps to Healing Yourself & Your Relationship

Shadow Work: 5 Steps to Healing Yourself & Your Relationship

Get ready for a transformative and heartwarming journey with your caring big sister, Violetta. In this empowering podcast episode, we'll explore the magical world of shadow work, where hidden thoughts and desires reside. Join us as we uncover the top three places to encounter your shadow self and learn how relationships serve as mirrors for personal growth. Embrace the power of self-awareness and engage in an inner dialogue to face your shadow with compassion and curiosity. We'll t

Jul 20, 2023 • 37:26

We got ROBBED in St Tropez

We got ROBBED in St Tropez

Surviving a break-in is like being catapulted into an action movie you never auditioned for. In that moment, time seems to stand still as you navigate a maze of emotions - fear, shock, and a newfound appreciation for every breath you take. It's like a wake-up call that shakes you to your core, reminding you of the fragility of life and the resilience that resides within you. Despite the chaos and uncertainty, surviving that harrowing experience empowers you like nothing else.Today, Viol

Jul 18, 2023 • 37:16

Let's Talk About It w/ Anna Kai

Let's Talk About It w/ Anna Kai

Step into a world of dating wisdom, gorgeous! In this eye-opening and empowering episode, we're diving headfirst into the realm of relationships, self-discovery, and personal growth. Get ready for a rollercoaster ride of emotions as we navigate the complexities of love. Today, Violetta sits down with dating expert Anna Kai. Anna's insights transcend the conventional narratives surrounding dating and offer a deeper understanding of the barriers to authentic connections. With a keen

Jul 13, 2023 • 1:06:59

Is Hookup Culture a Lie? w/ Farha Khalidi

Is Hookup Culture a Lie? w/ Farha Khalidi

Hey, Besties! Today, we welcome back Farha Khalidi for part two of the conversation I had with her last week. Get ready for candid conversations, personal stories, and the sparks of intellectual curiosity as we delve into the realms of love, self-worth, and communication. From debunking misconceptions surrounding OnlyFans to exploring the complexities of dating in the digital age, this episode dives into various intriguing chapters. It celebrates the power of communication, challen

Jul 11, 2023 • 1:13:40

Redefine Your Self-Worth w/ Farha Khalidi

Redefine Your Self-Worth w/ Farha Khalidi

Welcome, Besties, to an episode filled with thought-provoking discussions and empowering insights that'll leave you feeling empowered and ready to conquer the world. Introducing Farha Khalidi, a TikToker, comedian, and OnlyFans model known for her political comedy videos where she combines her comedic talents with a political edge to create content that challenges commonly held conservative beliefs. First up, Violetta and Farha talk about her gue

Jul 6, 2023 • 46:30

Are YOU Happy? w/ Adelaide Kane

Are YOU Happy? w/ Adelaide Kane

Hey there! We've got a lineup of juicy topics that'll leave you wanting more as we say goodbye to June. Adelaide Kane is back for a part 2 of the amazing conversation she and Violetta had last week. First up, Violetta asks Adelaide to reveal the one thing most people don't know about her. The duo also talk about what makes them happy these days, their egg freezing journey and the body changes that no one talks about after the egg extraction, the pros and cons of birth control, and so much more!

Jul 4, 2023 • 33:18

I AM GOD w/ Adelaide Kane

I AM GOD w/ Adelaide Kane

Get ready to close out the sizzling month of June, also known as Hookup Month, with a bang! We're bringing you a very special guest who's ready to spice up the conversation and take us on a journey of passion, connection, and unforgettable moments. The gorgeous Adelaide Kane joins Violetta today for heartfelt conversations and empowering messages. The pair talk about how you can chase your dreams while still making time for yourself and those special people in your life, how love evolves, grows,

Jun 29, 2023 • 1:17:10

Benson Knows Best: WHEN TO GIVE UP

Benson Knows Best: WHEN TO GIVE UP

Hey there, Besties! For our last episode of the hookup month, let's dive into the bittersweet journey of letting go. We know, it can be extra tough to let go when you're caught up in the heat of the moment. Trust your instincts and know that you deserve a love that ignites passion and brings you joy. It's all about finding the courage to embrace your worth, celebrate your fabulous self, and create space for the unexpected. Violetta shares a story of loss and heartache, where we exp

Jun 27, 2023 • 33:24

DATING SURVIVAL GUIDE

DATING SURVIVAL GUIDE

Your go to guide on how to survive the first 3 months of dating and turn it into a committed relationship!!What are the pros and cons of those thrilling first stages of dating? It's common to experience feelings of uncertainty, anxiety, and even fear of rejection. The pressure to make a good impression and the ambiguity of early intentions can also add to the mix. Well, let's take a closer look. Today, Violetta explores the mixed emotions that come with the exciting yet nerve-

Jun 22, 2023 • 32:01

Benson Knows Best: SOULMATES & VULNERABILITY

Benson Knows Best: SOULMATES & VULNERABILITY

Hey, Besties! Let's talk about the magic of vulnerability when you're diving into the world of dating. I know, it can be a little scary to let your guard down and show your true emotions, but trust me, it's worth it! Opening up and being vulnerable allows for a deeper connection and a chance for someone to see the real you. It's about sharing your fears, dreams, and even those adorable quirks that make you, well, you. Today, in another Benson Knows Best episode, Violetta it's impor

Jun 20, 2023 • 27:12

Act Like a Prize - Get Him OBSESSED

Act Like a Prize - Get Him OBSESSED

Hey there, Besties! Let's talk about something that's super important: knowing your worth and becoming the ultimate prize, not just some side chick. You deserve to be cherished, adored, and treated like the queen you are. So, girl, don't settle for being someone's afterthought or hidden secret. Today, Violetta is here to tell you that instead of wasting time telling guys about how badly you were treated by your ex, it's time to focus on yourself and your own value. Love yourself fi

Jun 15, 2023 • 24:11

Confession Corner: THE OTHER WOMAN

Confession Corner: THE OTHER WOMAN

Hey, Besties! Welcome to another Confession Corner stories. Today, Violetta shares another round of stories that tells how a woman’s childishness caused her boyfriend to leave her on the side of the road, another who’s blaming her bestfriend for her marriage falling apart, and lastly, a wife who’s guilty of cheating on her dying husband. Hear the stories fresh and be the judge!WANT MORE EPISODES? SUBSCRIBE TO MY PREMIUM PODCAST HERE - https://almostadulting.supercast.com/ETSY: Use code:

Jun 13, 2023 • 23:57

The Science of Orgasms: A Guide to Unlocking Your Pleasure w/ Emily Morse

The Science of Orgasms: A Guide to Unlocking Your Pleasure w/ Emily Morse

Loving your own body plays a crucial role in relationships and intimacy, especially when it comes to sex. When we struggle to embrace our bodies, it can create self-consciousness and insecurity in the bedroom. These feelings can hinder our ability to fully let go and enjoy intimate moments with our partners. However, when we cultivate self-love and acceptance, it empowers us to be more confident and comfortable in our own skin. This newfound confidence not only enhances our own pleasure

Jun 8, 2023 • 1:22:06

Benson Knows Best: MEN DON’T MARRY

Benson Knows Best: MEN DON’T MARRY

Welcome, Besties! June is Hookup month so we’re going to be talking a lot about relationships, relationship advice, and so much more!Today, Violetta is back with another episode of Benson Knows Best where she will answer some of your questions. First, she will talk about some of the personal questions she received over DM, and then she’s going to discuss why men come back after breakup, why they end up marrying someone else, and why some of the people that we meet are just lessons we ne

Jun 6, 2023 • 30:38

Energy Vampires w/ Daniela Melchior

Energy Vampires w/ Daniela Melchior

Why is it crucial to invest time and effort in individuals who recognize your true worth? The answer lies in the profound impact that such people can have on your personal growth and development. When you surround yourself with those who appreciate and understand your value, their presence serves as a catalyst for your own self-belief and confidence. Today on Almost Adulting, Violetta welcomes Portuguese actress and Suicide Squad star Daniela Mel

Jun 1, 2023 • 35:10

Confession Corner - I LIKE MY COUSIN

Confession Corner - I LIKE MY COUSIN

Welcome, Besties! We are back for another confession corner episode. And for the final episode of the mental health month, we will listen to another batch of reddit stories. Today, Violetta sits down to listen to and share a piece of her mind on some stories which includes a father who’s feeling resentful towards his children after divorce, a woman in her prime striking a deal with his boyfriend after she found out he cheated, and this girl who’s madly attracted to her already marr

May 30, 2023 • 29:45

5 Mind Games Narcissists Play - The Psychology of a Narcissist

5 Mind Games Narcissists Play - The Psychology of a Narcissist

Welcome to our closing episode for the mental health month! We are often drawn to narcissists due to a combination of complex psychological factors. Their charismatic charm, confidence, and seemingly larger-than-life presence can initially captivate us. Unfortunately, this attraction often leads to a painful cycle of manipulation, emotional abuse, and neglect, as narcissists prioritize their own needs above all else.Today, Violetta starts the episode by defining what is a narcissist and

May 25, 2023 • 35:39

Benson Knows Best: GET UR POWER BACK

Benson Knows Best: GET UR POWER BACK

Welcome to another Benson Knows Best! Dealing with a painful breakup can be an arduous and emotionally challenging experience. To navigate this difficult time, it is crucial to prioritize self-care and emotional healing.Today, Violetta is back and this time she’s going to talk about how to deal with a guy who used to make you smile but is now losing interest in you. She will also share a story from a caller who is grieving a massive breakup and what you can do to heal from the heartbrea

May 23, 2023 • 26:49

Our Pain is Our Purpose w/ Mari Llewellyn

Our Pain is Our Purpose w/ Mari Llewellyn

TW: Self harmWhy is self-love crucial for a fulfilling life? One answer lies in the transformative power of healthy living. Embracing self-love means nourishing our bodies, minds, and souls with the care they deserve. When we prioritize our well-being, engaging in regular exercise, consuming nutritious foods, and practicing mindfulness, we cultivate a profound connection with ourselves. Today on Almost Adulting, Violetta welcomes Pursuit of Wellness ho

May 18, 2023 • 45:02

Confession Corner - KENTUCKY DERBY

Confession Corner - KENTUCKY DERBY

Welcome back, Besties! Today, Violetta is back with another Confession Corner episode. But this time, she will be sharing her experience when she attended the Kentucky Derby 2023. From her flight, hotel accommodation, and getting some Influencer VIP experience to making out with two guys and not ending up having s*x with both of them because this girl decided to become a celibate. There’s more to this trip than just watching the race so tune in to find out more! &

May 16, 2023 • 50:55

Change UR Perspective: GHOSTED

Change UR Perspective: GHOSTED

Welcome back!! This is part 2 of the Change Your Perspective week, where we talk about changing your perspective as part of mental health month! This past Tuesday, we discussed how we can view 'situationships' differently. SO TODAY, we will be discussing GHOSTING. Today, Violetta gives us a different perspective on the question commonly asked, “WHY DID HE GHOST ME?” Aside from breaking down the reasons why ghosting happens in a lot of relationships, Violetta also shares tips to turn the

May 11, 2023 • 30:06

Change Your Perspective: SITUATIONSHIPS

Change Your Perspective: SITUATIONSHIPS

Welcome to a brand new Benson Knows Best episode!! This week is all about changing your perspective as part of the second week of mental health month! We're starting the week with discussing situationships and ending the week with ghosting. Today, Violetta talks about letting go and saying goodbye to the person you think was for you but was never the right person for you to love. We will hear the story of a 2-year relationship and how the woman struggled to let go of a man who love

May 9, 2023 • 23:16

How To Master Your Emotions w/ Jay Shetty

How To Master Your Emotions w/ Jay Shetty

We often project our limits onto other people because it can be difficult to recognize and confront our own limitations. By projecting our limitations onto others, we may feel a temporary sense of relief or justification for our own shortcomings. However, this type of behavior can be harmful both to ourselves and those around us, as it can limit our personal growth and prevent us from seeing the full potential in others. Today on Almost Adulting, Violetta we

May 4, 2023 • 1:13:34

Confession Corner - REDDIT INCEST

Confession Corner - REDDIT INCEST

What's the craziest Reddit story you've heard? There are so many wild tales on the platform, from heartwarming and uplifting to downright bizarre and unsettling. Whatever your taste is, there's no shortage of jaw-dropping stories to be found. Today, Violetta’s childhood bestie, Kylie, is back! And this time for another Confession Corner - Reddit stories. The girls sit down and react to stories about the accidental discovery of an 11-year old affair of a mom with her husband’s frien

May 2, 2023 • 31:02

WHY MEN PULL AWAY - The Psychology of a Man's Mind

WHY MEN PULL AWAY - The Psychology of a Man's Mind

WHY DO MEN ALWAYS PULL AWAY IN RELATIONSHIPS!?! whether beginning, middle, or end, it seems to always happen at some point. That is why Violetta did all the research written by men, re-read "Why Men Don't Love Women Like You" and "Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus" so you don't have to, TO GIVE YOU THE ANSWER YOU'VE BEEN WAITING FOR.Today, Violetta is set on discussing the psychology behind a man's mind, the three steps to deal with the situation when a man pulls away, and how dat

Apr 27, 2023 • 36:30

How I Stayed At A 50M Dollar House

How I Stayed At A 50M Dollar House

Staying at a billionaire's house? That's a dream come true! But girl, don't forget to show your finesse and charm while you're there. Today, Violetta shares a few updates about her life. She starts off with the post-surgery experience after she had her eggs extracted successfully, how it affected her mentally, and what no one tells you about post egg freezing. Then, she talks about her recent trip to Mexico where she stayed at James Packer’s $50M house for a weekend - the place, th

Apr 25, 2023 • 33:25

That Time I Did M*th with My Bestie

That Time I Did M*th with My Bestie

There's something special about growing up alongside someone who knows you so well and has seen you through all of life's ups and downs. Childhood best friends are the ones who stick with you through thick and thin, who know your secrets and your dreams, and who always have your back. Today, Violetta is joined by her childhood best friend, Kylie Gerber. The duo are all about good laughs and toothy grins as they reminisce childhood experiences, from dating the most toxic guys and cr

Apr 20, 2023 • 1:10:18

Confession Corner: FAMILY DRAMA

Confession Corner: FAMILY DRAMA

Life is like a game of Jenga, you never know which block is going to make the whole thing come crashing down. One minute you're on top of the world, and the next you're wondering how you ended up in a pile of rubble. But that's the beauty of life, isn't it? The unpredictability keeps things interesting and makes every day a new adventure, or in some instances, a misadventure. Today, Violetta listens to brand new stories from Reddit. One talks about falling in love with his student

Apr 18, 2023 • 26:48

The Effects of Casual Sex w/ Lainey Molnar

The Effects of Casual Sex w/ Lainey Molnar

Have you ever found yourself trapped in a cycle of self-hate, unable to escape the negative thoughts and feelings that consume you? It's a painful and difficult place to be, but it's not a permanent one. With time, patience, and effort, you can break free from the grip of self-hate and learn to love yourself fully and completely. Today on Almost Adulting, Violetta welcomes Lainey Molnar - a digital artist with thousands of followers online who draws women empowerm

Apr 13, 2023 • 1:10:31

MY EGG FREEZING JOURNEY

MY EGG FREEZING JOURNEY

Egg freezing is an increasingly popular option for women who want to preserve their fertility and have children later in life. By freezing their eggs, women can extend their reproductive lifespan and increase their chances of having a healthy pregnancy in the future. Today, Violetta shares her incredible egg freezing journey - from doing an extensive research about the pros and cons of the process and finding the right doctor to day one of prepping her body before egg collection an

Apr 11, 2023 • 30:31

Manifest Your Soulmate - Love Letter Method

Manifest Your Soulmate - Love Letter Method

Manifesting the love you deserve starts with knowing your worth and setting clear intentions. Take the time to reflect on what you truly want in a relationship and focus on the positive aspects you want to attract. Today, Violetta shares how she manifested the ideal guy she wanted to date through the love letter method. This method of manifesting what you want, although silly-sounding at first, is worth a shot. Who knows, the partner you’ve been looking for might be that guy you me

Apr 6, 2023 • 25:00

Confession Corner: REDDIT CHEATERS

Confession Corner: REDDIT CHEATERS

This month, we jumped into Reddit and picked out the most WTF confessions.  While the act of cheating can take many different forms, the underlying motivations and consequences of cheating remain consistent across all situations. One of the primary reasons why people cheat is a lack of satisfaction or fulfillment in their current situation.Violetta is back and ready as she sits down to listen to some of the most unbelievable and somehow outrageous relationship confessions on the internet. From m

Apr 4, 2023 • 24:04

EGG FREEZING - What You Need to Know w/ Dr. Shanin Ghadir

EGG FREEZING - What You Need to Know w/ Dr. Shanin Ghadir

Have you ever wondered what it's like to struggle with infertility? Infertility affects millions of people around the world and can be caused by a variety of factors, including age, genetics, medical conditions, and lifestyle choices. Coping with infertility can be a lonely and isolating experience, but it's important for those struggling to know that they're not alone. Today on Almost Adulting, Violetta welcomes Dr. Shahin Ghadir. As a founding partner of Souther

Mar 30, 2023 • 47:26

I'm Struggling

I'm Struggling

How can one navigate the difficult and emotional process of dealing with grief and family problems? Coping with grief, conflicts with family members, or other familial issues can be emotionally draining and can take a toll on an individual's mental health. Today, Violetta sits down to share a very personal situation that she and her family are currently going through. No light-hearted moments, no well-thought advice. Just raw and vulnerable moments with her during this difficult an

Mar 28, 2023 • 25:02

She's a 10 BUT... w/ Trevor Wallace

She's a 10 BUT... w/ Trevor Wallace

Have you ever wondered if height really matters? According to one wise mom, what men lack in height, they make up for in other ways. But is it enough to make a difference? Today on Almost Adulting, we welcome internet personality, comedian, and podcast host Trevor Wallace! Violetta and Trevor start their conversation with a random but hilariously funny game, the rapid fire questions. Then, the duo talk about situational dating scenarios where they pitch in their thought

Mar 23, 2023 • 1:13:43

Confession Corner: "LOVE" KINKS

Confession Corner: "LOVE" KINKS

WELCOME TO CONFESSION CORNER!Have you ever had a sexual experience that left you in stitches? Well, you're not alone! We're all about sharing the most hilarious and unforgettable tales of sexual misadventures. Today, Violetta is joined by her friend Steeven Zuleta for another round of funny sex stories. From a breakup s*x that turned out to be a weird kink your partner never told you about to accidentally farting on your partner’s face while he’s eating you up! We

Mar 21, 2023 • 39:27

Is Marriage Worth It? w/ Hannah Berner

Is Marriage Worth It? w/ Hannah Berner

Whether you're an introvert who needs alone time or a social butterfly who thrives on interactions, there's no one-size-fits-all approach to dating. Today on Almost Adulting,we welcome back internet personality, comedienne, and podcast host Hannah Berner! Violetta and Hannah explain why guys with addiction problems are the best partners because they love deeply and intensely but can be unhealthy and unsustainable in the long run and how emotional stress and pain will ev

Mar 16, 2023 • 48:37

Benson Knows Best: HE GHOSTED YOU, Now What?

Benson Knows Best: HE GHOSTED YOU, Now What?

Hey Besties! Welcome back to another Benson Knows Best Q&A session. What would you do if you were ghosted by the person you thought was into you?Today, Violetta discusses how clinging to one another is an important part of intimacy, but only if it's a two-way street, the importance of self-awareness in relationships and how our reactions can impact their outcome, and why you need to raise your standards and not settle for being valued solely for your looks.If you want to be featured

Mar 14, 2023 • 31:17

Overcome Shame, Having Kinkier S*x w/ Todd Baratz

Overcome Shame, Having Kinkier S*x w/ Todd Baratz

Why is talking about sex in the early stages of dating such a challenge? Could it be the fear of rejection or judgment? Or maybe it's those pesky societal norms telling us to keep things hush-hush. Today on Almost Adulting, sex and relationships therapist Todd Baratz is back! Violetta and Todd explores the ways to break down societal norms and overcome the shame associated with sex, practical tips for having open and comfortable conversations about sex with potential partners

Mar 9, 2023 • 1:07:13

Confession Corner: BAD S*X ft. Francesca Farago

Confession Corner: BAD S*X ft. Francesca Farago

WELCOME TO CONFESSION CORNER!This week, we are going to feature bad, worse, and funny s*x stories. And since we couldn’t get enough of the revelations and teas spilled last Thursday, Francesca Farago is joining us again today! Join Violet and Francesca as they react to fan stories about getting infection over a forgotten tampon, from getting embarrassed over v*ginal farts to getting horrified over your partner accidentally sh*tting on the bed, and finding out that pushy guy y

Mar 7, 2023 • 45:00

I’m NOT the Villain w/ Francesca Farago

I’m NOT the Villain w/ Francesca Farago

Hey Besties! We’re finally done with the love month where we sat down with known personalities and influencers in the dating and relationship realm as they shared tips, guides, and signs to look out for with your next partner. Today on Almost Adulting, we welcome model, content creator, businesswoman, and reality TV show Francesca Farago. Violetta and Francesca bares all by talking about Francesca’s truth and how she was portrayed as the ‘villain’, the conflicting relationshi

Mar 2, 2023 • 1:06:13

Benson Knows Best: HOLLYWOOD SECRETS

Benson Knows Best: HOLLYWOOD SECRETS

Welcome to another episode of Benson Knows Best!This week, due to public demand, we’re going to be sharing a few top Hollywood secrets you’d never find out through the media. The keyword being top secret, no name dropping anything. Just facts that are common in the industry but not open to the public.Today, Violetta sits down to answer questions you guys sent in. She’ll start with 8 Hollywood secrets that are so shocking you’ll start to wonder how they were able to keep them hidden from

Feb 28, 2023 • 40:12

Diet Culture Exposed w/ Sarah Landry

Diet Culture Exposed w/ Sarah Landry

Hey Besties! Love month is almost over. And as we come close to the end of February, let’s wrap it up with self love!Today on Almost Adulting, we welcome body confidence advocate, speaker, writer, and host of The Papaya Podcast, Sarah Landry. Violetta and Sarah focus on self-love as an essential aspect of our emotional, mental, and physical well-being. They share their thoughts on how we can develop a positive self-image, improve our relationships with others, and reduce stress and anxi

Feb 23, 2023 • 1:10:31

Confession Corner: HORRIBLE DATES 3

Confession Corner: HORRIBLE DATES 3

WELCOME TO CONFESSION CORNER - PART 3Hey Besties! this month's confession corner is all about your WORST first dates! We couldn’t get enough of last week’s drunken first date stories about hilarious, shocking, or just the worst ever you’re starting to have second thoughts about dating. Today, Violetta and her childhood friend Bree are back with another batch of horrible date stories. One includes giving the guy multiple chances despite the barrage of red flags in the hopes that it

Feb 21, 2023 • 1:00:47

Grow In Love w/ Nick Viall

Grow In Love w/ Nick Viall

Hey Besties! Happy Heart’s Day! It’s Valentine’s week so it’s only natural that we talk about being in love and experiencing these strong feelings with the right partner. Today on Almost Adulting, we welcome back celebrity heartthrob, best-selling author, esteemed host of The Viall Files podcast, and adored member of Bachelor Nation, Nick Viall. A year ago or so, Violet and Nick talked about dating advice from a man's perspective. This time, their conversation revolves around

Feb 16, 2023 • 1:02:17

Confession Corner: HORRIBLE DATES 2

Confession Corner: HORRIBLE DATES 2

WELCOME TO CONFESSION CORNER - PART 2Hey Besties! this month's confession corner is all about your WORST first dates where you call in with YOUR hilarious stories - Today, Violetta and her childhood friend Bree sit down to listen to some of your horrible date stories. Specifically the ones that include a drunk and/or drugged story that ended up in a failed date and for some, an actual relationship. Listen as these two besties from high school give their best drunk perspectives whi

Feb 14, 2023 • 42:41

Secure The Ring w/ Patti Stanger

Secure The Ring w/ Patti Stanger

Hey Besties! In the second week of the LOVE month, we will focus on dating - when to know when you’ve found the right man for you.Today on Almost Adulting, Violet is once again joined by Millionaire Matchmaker Patti Stanger. There is no stopping the two from going deep into the dating game. They discuss how success can affect the relationship depending on who’s more successful, turning casual dates into serious relationships (that can potentially lead to engagement, and eventually marri

Feb 9, 2023 • 1:26:25

Confession Corner: HORRIBLE DATES

Confession Corner: HORRIBLE DATES

WELCOME TO CONFESSION CORNER!This week we’re diving into our worst first dates ever because well…everyone has one.Join Violet as she listens and reacts to all of your most cringeworthy, hilarious, and unbelievable tales of dating disasters. From spending the night in the hospital to getting pegged with a pool ball, we've got it all. So grab a glass of wine, sit back, and be glad it wasn’t you who had to endure any of these disasters. If you want to be featured on the next Confessio

Feb 7, 2023 • 39:22

Why We Love Unavailable People w/ Mark Groves

Why We Love Unavailable People w/ Mark Groves

Hey Besties! Welcome to the month of LOVE! This month we will be diving into everything relationships so you know what that means…the good, the bad, and the unavoidable uglyTo kick off love month on Almost Adulting Violet is joined by human connection specialist and friend of the show, Mark Groves! Mark is the founder of Create The Love movement and is a self-described ‘emotional translator’. Together the two focus on the painful topic of why so many of us are not only consistently draw

Feb 2, 2023 • 52:32

Benson Knows Best: MIXED SIGNALS

Benson Knows Best: MIXED SIGNALS

Hey Besties! It’s the last Tuesday of the month, so you know what that means! To close this month Violet gives us a special Benson Knows Best episode, featuring a Q&A session where she reads messages from you all and gives the life changing advice that we all need. This week Violet channels her inner MUA influencer and finally lets everyone in on her skincare and hair routine. Next, Violet dives into the many questions you all sent in and does NOT hold back. From relation

Jan 31, 2023 • 31:33

TAP INTO YOUR DIVINE FEMININE

TAP INTO YOUR DIVINE FEMININE

Hey Besties! It is the fourth and final installation of Benson Bootcamp, and we’re ending on a note to set you up perfectly for the month of love coming up!This week on Almost Adulting, you and Violet are diving into your divine femininity. What does this mean you ask? The divine feminine is the feminine aspect of the divine power that connects and binds the earth together. It is something we all have within us, and something that if channeled correctly, can open us up to so many things

Jan 26, 2023 • 32:23

Confession Corner: SUGAR BABIES 2

Confession Corner: SUGAR BABIES 2

WELCOME TO CONFESSION CORNER!This week is a continuation of CC: SUGAR BABIES, where Violet will be sitting and reacting to ALL of your risque (and risky) sugar baby endeavors. Sit back and relax because things are about to get a little crazy besties. Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm Zocdoc: https://www.zocdoc.com/ADULTING What to Listen For:00:00 Introduction02:18 What if you are this guy’s karma?08:00 “Sir, I’m just trying to get paid!”09:13 “I knew his daugh

Jan 24, 2023 • 27:50

Get Him OBSESSED - Water Signs

Get Him OBSESSED - Water Signs

Today, due to popular demand, Violet starts the episode with the worst to easiest zodiac sign to date followed by everything you need to know on how to attract an AIR SIGN MAN and get him hooked!!She dives into how to attract a PISCES, CANCER, & SCORPIO (in that order) men. Signs this man likes you, what he’s looks for in a lady, what he dislikes, and the most n least compatible matches with him.Make sure to subscribe to Almost Adulting so you never miss an episode again!! NEW EPISO

Jan 17, 2023 • 47:07

Narcissists & Boundaries

Narcissists & Boundaries

Hey Besties! Welcome to the second week of Benson Bootcamp, a boot camp specifically designed to help you become the best version of yourself, no matter how bad it hurts. It’s called BOOTCAMP for a reason, duh!This week on Almost Adulting we’re having the difficult discussion about boundary setting. Though it may be hard, these realizations will not only be long-lasting, but also help you love yourself a little more. Violet tells an in depth story about her friend who possesses the fata

Jan 12, 2023 • 31:39

Confession Corner: SUGAR BABIES

Confession Corner: SUGAR BABIES

WELCOME TO CONFESSION CORNER!!! Hey Besties, Happy New Year! As promised, we are bringing back an exciting episode series this year. And so, the long wait is over. It’s finally here!Today, Violetta and Kiana sit down to listen to several fan stories. To spice things up a bit, we will be hearing from sugar babies and their experiences with their sugar daddy (or daddies, for those lucky enough to have more than one). From avoiding having s*xual contact and not getting reimbursed for a Bah

Jan 10, 2023 • 30:31

Being Delusional WORKS

Being Delusional WORKS

Happy New Year Besties! Welcome to another year of Almost Adulting! To kick off 2023 we’re starting the month with FOUR consecutive Benson Bootcamps. These boot camps are specifically designed so you start the year off strong with help from none other than your big sister, Violet! Now are you ready for your best year yet?In today's inaugural Benson Bootcamp, we’re setting the tone for this year! How are we doing that? By being DELUSIONAL. And no, not the kind of delusional that you

Jan 5, 2023 • 30:15

Get Him OBSESSED - Air Signs

Get Him OBSESSED - Air Signs

WELCOME TO THE FIRST TUESDAY EPISODE OF 2023!!Today due to popular demand, Violetta starts the episode with some breakup advice and the best revenge to take! Followed by everything you need to know on how to attract an AIR SIGN MAN and get him hooked!! Violetta dives into how to attract a LIBRA, GEMINI, & AQUARIUS (in that order) men. Signs this man likes you, what he’s looks for in a lady, what he dislikes, and the most n least compatible matches with him.Make sure to subscribe to

Jan 3, 2023 • 28:37

PETE DAVIDSON

PETE DAVIDSON

GOODBYE 2022 and hello a new promising and better year!! HELLO 2023Get inspired with this short episode by learning what do to manifest the best year of your life like I did.Fast forward to minute 35 for a quick one minute manifesting mantra to repeat to yourself every day to manifest the best year yet!!! THANK ME LATER BESTIES.Don't forget to subscribe to the podcast so you never miss an episode!! NEW EPISODES EVERY TUESDAY & THURSDAY.Get more content on:@almostadulting on Ins

Dec 29, 2022 • 37:28

DON’T Send That Text w/ Robert Greene

DON’T Send That Text w/ Robert Greene

Hey Besties! To conclude Mentor month, we have a continuation of last week's interview with the illustrious Robert Greene! Again, Robert is the author of 6 New York Times bestsellers including the infamous The 48 Laws of Power and The Art of Seduction. So get your pen and paper out, we’re taking notesThis week on Almost Adulting Robert takes a deep dive explaining the difference between deception and lying by telling us stories from his past and how through trial and error he learned so

Dec 21, 2022 • 58:42

Manipulation vs. Mastery w/ Robert Greene

Manipulation vs. Mastery w/ Robert Greene

Hey Besties! To continue mentor month, this week on Almost Adulting we are joined by yet another legend, Robert Greene! Robert is the author of 6 New York Times bestsellers including the infamous The 48 Laws of Power and The Art of Seduction. Together Violet and Robert go through some of the most important lessons in his iconic books and unpack the TRUE meanings behind them - regardless of any ‘bad press’ they may have received. Throughout the conversation Violet and Robert drop ge

Dec 15, 2022 • 57:32

Get Him OBSESSED - Earth Signs

Get Him OBSESSED - Earth Signs

WELCOME TO TUESDAY'S VAULT ARCHIVES!!Want to get an Earth sign obsessed with you???? Look no further than today's brand new episode of how to attract a Taurus, Capricorn, and a Virgo.On today's episode, Violet is presenting a zodiac series for the rest of the month! Every Tuesday this month, she will be introducing 3 new zodiac signs and how to date them. How to attract them. How to play them. What they like and not like and their best matches.LISTEN AND DOWNLOAD THIS EPISODE RIGHT

Dec 14, 2022 • 41:57

I Saw A UFO w/ Nick Pope

I Saw A UFO w/ Nick Pope

Hey Besties! We are officially kicking off mentor month! There’s no better way to end the year than with words of wisdom from icons to send us into the new year right, so let’s get into it!This week on Almost Adulting Violet is joined by Nick Pope. Nick Pope is a journalist, media commentator, and former lead of the British Government's Ministry of Defence, where he was responsible for investigating UFO phenomena. The two talk about EVERYTHING UFO’s! From places with the most sightings,

Dec 8, 2022 • 1:03:59

Get Him OBSESSED - Fire Signs

Get Him OBSESSED - Fire Signs

WELCOME TO TUESDAY'S VAULT ARCHIVES!!Want to get a fire sign obsessed with you???? Look no further than today's brand new episode of how to attract an Aries, Leo, and a Sagittarius.On today's episode, Violet is presenting a zodiac series for the rest of the month! Every Tuesday this month, she will be introducing 3 new zodiac signs and how to date them. How to attract them. How to play them. What they like and not like and their best matches.LISTEN AND DOWNLOAD THIS EPISODE

Dec 7, 2022 • 37:58

Are You Damaged Goods?

Are You Damaged Goods?

Damaged goods', 'Used goods', 'slut', 'spinster'...: Just few of the many ill sexist labels against women that we've all heard and been called before, by a man or society. Whether it's to infantalise, informalise or demote, these sexist terms against women only act to demean us.Has a man ever tried to make you feel like you're not worth a million dollars? News flash, YOU ARE! On today's solo episode, we are getting RID of the narratives that society places on women! No husband? Who cares. No kid

Dec 1, 2022 • 38:07

From Veganism to Vaginas w/ Sophia Miacova

From Veganism to Vaginas w/ Sophia Miacova

HEY BESTIES AND WELCOME TO TUESDAY'S VAULT ARCHIVES!!Did you know there are different types of vagina canals?? Listen to today's episode to learn which canal you have and which pecker is your perfect match.On this episode, Violet is joined by Sophia 'Miacova' Esperanza where they also discuss, being vegan & an environmentalist, vaginas, reasons why we stay in a controlling toxic relationships, and when it's time to let go.THIS WEEK’S PODCAST IS BROUGHT TO YOU BY: EVERLYWELL:&nb

Nov 29, 2022 • 50:43

Proof of Afterlife w/ Theresa Caputo

Proof of Afterlife w/ Theresa Caputo

Hey Besties! To conclude Scorpio month, we’re welcoming a very special guest. Today on Almost Adulting we are joined by Long Island Medium star, New York Times best-selling author, and the host of the Hey Spirit! podcast, Theresa Caputo. Theresa has been seeing, feeling, and sensing spirits since she was four years old. During today's episode Theresa explains that she is getting a certain feeling, which leads to Violet receiving a full reading where she gets to communicate with her gran

Nov 24, 2022 • 52:23

R U AN EMOTIONAL MASTURBATOR? ft. U Up? Jared & Jordana

R U AN EMOTIONAL MASTURBATOR? ft. U Up? Jared & Jordana

Are blowjobs really more intimate than sex?This week Violet is joined by Jared Freid and Jordana Abraham, the hosts of U-Up; a modern dating podcast presented by Betches. During this episode, they discuss all things relationships, sex, and how to get over an ex.This hilarious trio will dive into how the pandemic has changed the dating scene, dating 101 from a male's perspective like why do men text daily but don't try to see you??? the answer will surpise you!! and lastly, they even cov

Nov 22, 2022 • 53:50

Dancing With The Dead w/ Steve Gonsalves

Dancing With The Dead w/ Steve Gonsalves

Hey Besties! To continue Scorpio month we’re getting into some paranormal activity! Today on Almost Adulting we are joined by paranormal pioneer and main cast member of the hit series Ghost Hunters, Steve Gonsalves. Steve has over 20 years experience and has been an integral part of numerous successful paranormal shows, thus bringing paranormal activity to the forefront of the world. Together he and Violet dive into what it takes to make a career of ghost hunting while also uncovering s

Nov 17, 2022 • 1:25:53

Fake Butts & Anti Semitism w/ Dr. Nazarian

Fake Butts & Anti Semitism w/ Dr. Nazarian

IT'S VIOLET'S BIRTHDAY!! and on today's episode she is joined by award-winning plastic surgeon, Dr. Sheila Nazarian! They discuss all the celebs who are getting work done and lying about it, unrealistic beauty standards, recent trends, and the one procedure you SHOULD ABSOLUTELY NOT get done.They then dive into the rise of anti semitism, reasons behind it, and share their family history and different backgrounds on how they both immigrated to the US.THIS WEEK’S PODCAST IS BROUGHT TO YOU

Nov 15, 2022 • 1:08:11

We’re All Gonna Die

We’re All Gonna Die

Hey Besties, it’s SCORPIO MONTH! This month we’re getting into everything supernatural, keeping things a little spooky, and of course - we’re starting it off with an episode all about ME! AKA, your favorite Scorpio.This week on Almost Adulting we’re getting vulnerable. Today Violet is sharing some of her heaviest guilt she’s been carrying since her teenage years. She starts off with an Adderall horror story of what went from a quick self care moment, to a 2-hour long masturbation sesh leaving he

Nov 10, 2022 • 45:03

SIGNS HE'S CHEATING

SIGNS HE'S CHEATING

HOW YOU GET HIM IS HOW YOU LOSE HIM SIS PERIODTHHHHToday Violet dives into SIGNS he's cheating on you girlie, reasons he's cheating, what it feels like to get cheated on, why it's so hard to move on, and the reason why we stay.Violet ends the episode with reasons why he's so cold after he cheats, why cheaters keep in touch, the damaging emotional effect it has on future relationships, and tips to fixing a broken heart and moving on.Rate and subscribe! GO GIVE ME THAT 5 STAR REVIEW BESTI

Nov 8, 2022 • 42:19

I am NOT Joining Scientology

I am NOT Joining Scientology

As promised to finish up cult month/October, we are bringing back last week’s anonymous guest and Scientology survivor for a part 2 continuation of last week's episode! and this time, we are focusing on some of the negative aspects of it.Today, on Almost Adulting, we’re continuing where we left off, but diving into the most current conspiracies and rumors surrounding Scientology. Violet and the guest unpack the mystery of Shelly, the current leader of the Church of Scientology, David’s

Nov 3, 2022 • 33:08

You Were Inside of Me w/Nick Viall

You Were Inside of Me w/Nick Viall

WELCOME TO VAULT ARCHIVES TUESDAY!! With our special guest, NICK VIALL!Today, we pulled one of the first episodes Violet ever recorded that she kept hidden all this time but TODAY we decided it was time to share with the world.On this episode with Nick Viall, they discuss, what Nick looks for in a partner, being a Libra, their definition of love, finding love, soulmates, the rules of s*x, and going through a heartbreak. Consider taking a shot every time Violet breaks into a nervous laug

Nov 1, 2022 • 38:38

I AM JOINING SCIENTOLOGY

I AM JOINING SCIENTOLOGY

It’s finally the last week of October and to cap off the Cult month, we get an exclusive interview with a former member of Scientology who is related to Ron Hubbard, the CREATOR of Scientology.Today, on Almost Adulting, for security and personal reasons, we are keeping the guest’s identity anonymous. The guest talks about how she grew up in the church and lived her childhood in a compound that housed church members, the day to day experiences, and what it was truly like to be part of th

Oct 27, 2022 • 57:57

The Kardashian Kult Pt. 2

The Kardashian Kult Pt. 2

Hey, Besties! Today on Almost Adulting, we welcome back MJ Corey (@kardashian_kolloquium) to continue their conversation about the Kardashian family and how they continue to stay relevant to this day. Violet and MJ go straight into discussing how Kylie has emerged from her sisters' shadows and built an empire for herself. The pair also discuss the Kardashian's rebranding strategy centered around how they look and the power they have as a family rooting on their differing personalities a

Oct 25, 2022 • 53:28

The Kardashian Kult

The Kardashian Kult

For the third week of the cult month, we’re going to do things differently. In a special 2 part episode, this week we will be looking deeper into the Kardashian conglomerate with a different lens and focusing on how their success is anchored on controlling their narrative, building an ever-evolving empire, and remaining uniquely influential. Today on Almost Adulting we welcome MJ Corey! MJ, better known as kardashian_kolloquium on TikTok, is a writer and psychotherapist from

Oct 20, 2022 • 1:13:59

Why You've Been GHOSTED

Why You've Been GHOSTED

GHOSTED IN OCTOBER? HOW FESTIVE!!Today's Tuesday episode, Violet dives into winning a job interview, why people who hurt you pretend like you're the bad person, what to do when you've been ghosted, what it feels like, why you didn't see it coming and why it hurts so much, steps to move on, and the type of person that ghosting affects the MOST.Violet then ends the episode with some research behind this topic, a discussion about the effects of loneliness, getting rejected, ruminating, hav

Oct 18, 2022 • 40:26

Cult Survivors: NXIVM ft. Sarah Edmondson and Nippy

Cult Survivors: NXIVM ft. Sarah Edmondson and Nippy

Continuing with cult month, today we are diving into the world of NXIVM where we welcome two survivors turned whistleblowers of a very famous cult masked as an MLM company. NXIVM became widely known during their high profile RICO case involving celebrities, billionaire heiresses, and the FBI. This week on Almost Adulting, Violet speaks with Sarah Edmondson and Anthony “Nippy” Ames, hosts of A Little Bit Culty podcast and former members of NXIVM. Founded by Keith Raniere, NXIVM pose

Oct 13, 2022 • 1:07:17

Right Person, wrong Time - The Truth Behind It.

Right Person, wrong Time - The Truth Behind It.

Today, Besties, Violet is taking a break from discussing cults because ya'll couldn't even go 2 weeks without falling apart and needing your big sis for advice!! so Violet is here for the rescue with today's AMAZING episode all about the truth behind "right person, wrong time"Depending what you take from today's episode, for those who decide to walk away from their situationship, Violet softens the blow by finishing the episode, with 9 steps to get over someone, even if you never actual

Oct 11, 2022 • 35:43

CULTS: INTRO

CULTS: INTRO

WELCOME TO CULT MONTH ON THE PODCAST!!On today's short episode, Violet walks you through the cults we will be covering this month along with trigger warnings before we fully dive in starting this Thursday.Violet Covers NXIVM, Children of God, The Kardashians, and Scientology.GET READY FOR ONE CULTY MONTH AND COME TO MY SHOW AT THE HOLLYWOOD IMPORV!! - OCT. 24 - https://improv.com/comic/violet+benson/THIS WEEK’S PODCAST IS BROUGHT TO YOU BY:Shopify: Sign up for a free trial at shopify.co

Oct 4, 2022 • 24:25

Can A Player Change? w/ Neil Strauss

Can A Player Change? w/ Neil Strauss

Besties, throughout September we covered all things personal growth and really checked in with each other. So the best way to end this month is by talking to Neil Strauss, a ten-time New York Times best-selling author. His books, The Game and Rules Of The Game, for which he went undercover in a secret society of pickup artists for two years, made him an international celebrity and an accidental hero to men around the world. Though this sounds a little questionable, the topic here is GRO

Sep 29, 2022 • 51:09

Reality Is For Losers

Reality Is For Losers

BE DELUSIONAL.Today Violet teaches you to choose yourself first, whether it's being delusional that everything will work out or changing your perspective on what you reality is. Violet believes that every day you have a choice. So TODAY why not choose to be delusional??!! and choose to change your life.COME TO MY SHOW AT THE HOLLYWOOD IMPORV!! - OCT. 24https://improv.com/comic/violet+benson/Don't forget to subscribe to the podcast and our YouTube channel so you never miss an episode aga

Sep 27, 2022 • 25:02

Lies Our Brain Tells Us w/ Amy Morin

Lies Our Brain Tells Us w/ Amy Morin

When going through a tough time the most annoying thing in the world is everyone seems to have all the advice on what you “should” do, right? Well you’re not alone, but the reality is that sometimes these things recommended to us are actually things we should be doing - but before we can even fathom doing them, we have to drop our bad habits. Besties, welcome Amy Morin to Almost Adulting! Amy is a licensed clinical social worker, college psychology instructor and psychotherapist, a

Sep 22, 2022 • 1:00:33

Our Breakup Saved Us w/Nazanin Mandi

Our Breakup Saved Us w/Nazanin Mandi

Welcome to Tuesday's Vault Archives and to the 3rd week of September on the podcast!!On this episode, Nazanin comes on and shares things most people didn't know about her, from her insecurities, to how bad days, to how she overcame her eating disorder, and how being a child of divorce affected her outlook on love.They then dive into her definition of cheating, the ups and downs of her and singer/songwriter Miguel's relationship from a much needed breakup to how they make long distance w

Sep 20, 2022 • 56:06

Dreaming is a Privilege w/ Barrett Pall

Dreaming is a Privilege w/ Barrett Pall

Though we all come from different backgrounds and realities, we are all dreamers. No matter the hardships faced or the obstacles thrown in our way, that doesn’t mean we should be cruel and harsh to ourselves. We can dream multiple dreams even when we can only realize them one at a time.Today we welcome Barrett Pall to Almost Adulting! Barrett is a humanitarian and professional life coach to CEOs of fortune 500 companies, celebrities, Middle Eastern Royalty, and everyday incredible human

Sep 15, 2022 • 1:13:00

So You're an ALPHA Female... w/ Simone Milasas

So You're an ALPHA Female... w/ Simone Milasas

WELCOME TO TUESDAY'S VAULT ARCHIVES :DToday we cover navigating life as a strong woman, from getting that promotion to having the love that you deserve. Here's how you can have it all. This week Violet is joined by innovative business leader and author, Simone Melisas. Together they discuss how to dominate in both business and relationships. Simone shares her personal stories and how they’ve influenced her life not only professionally but also personally. She lets us in on her past

Sep 13, 2022 • 59:29

How To Manifest: A Guide w/ Robert Zink

How To Manifest: A Guide w/ Robert Zink

You might believe in it, you might not - but today you’re going to learn that manifestation is real.No, you’re not just gonna think about a million dollars and it’s gonna appear in your account, sorry. But you will learn the importance of daily practices and application of the art of manifestation, in order to receive the greatness you deserve in your life. Continuing the month of personal growth on Almost Adulting, today we welcome Robert Zink. Robert is a modern day businessman,

Sep 8, 2022 • 58:47

Let Your Rage Fuel You

Let Your Rage Fuel You

They always say let go of your anger, let go of your pain, blah blah blah! But why doesn’t anyone talk about how using these “negative” feelings to your advantage to catapult you into your best season yet?Hello, Besties! September is all about checking in with ourselves, our mental health, and with our goals. To kick things off Violet is back with another solo episode and she is NOT here to sugarcoat. In today’s episode Violet admits last month was very hard, filled with severed relatio

Sep 1, 2022 • 24:58

Attachment Theory w/ Mark Groves - Vault Archives

Attachment Theory w/ Mark Groves - Vault Archives

Welcome to TUESDAY'S VAULT ARCHIVES every other Tuesday!!Today we have a fan favourite join the show, fellow podcast host Mark Groves from Create The Love Podcast. He interviews Violet about her life as they discuss attachment styles, relationship, your inner child, self worth, dating, depression, and more!!!Sit back and enjoy because this is one interview you don't want to miss!New episode every Tuesday and Thursday!! Pls rate & subscribe so you never miss an episode again!! :) All

Aug 30, 2022 • 1:20:51

Trick Yourself Out Of Low Self Esteem w/ Guy Winch

Trick Yourself Out Of Low Self Esteem w/ Guy Winch

Sometimes the hardest part about dealing with a breakup, isn’t always the breakup. It’s figuring out how to overcome the feeling of failure and low self esteem that can come shortly after.To wrap up breakup month on Almost Adulting, today we welcome licensed psychologist Guy Winch! Guy is a leading advocate for integrating the science of emotional health into our daily lives, workplaces, and education systems. He is also the author and co-host of the popular podcast, Dear Therapist. In

Aug 25, 2022 • 54:12

Surviving A (Friendship) Breakup

Surviving A (Friendship) Breakup

WELCOME TO VAULT ARCHIVES EVERY OTHER TUESDAY!! Violet is backkkkk babyyy with another short solo brand new Tuesday episode!!On this episode Violet, discusses friendship breakups, why we struggle with them, and how to cope with losing a friend. We start with a Q&A on feeling lost, letting go, and a weird habit of Violet's that no one knows about but It sure is smelly! She then dives into why friendship breakups are so painful, tips on moving on, and a recent experience of

Aug 23, 2022 • 30:23

To The Ride or Die Besties (LIVE SHOW SPECIAL)

To The Ride or Die Besties (LIVE SHOW SPECIAL)

The ones who know more about you than your own family, the ones you call in an emergency and know they’re gonna pick up, and the ones that you know no matter what, they have your back for life. In today's special edition episode, Violet takes the stage for the first ever live recording of Almost Adulting. Recording live from The Hollywood Improv, Violet gets real about how she developed true confidence, the power of manifesting, and friendship breakups. Since Violet was joine

Aug 18, 2022 • 53:34

Ghosted Horror Stories - Confession Corner

Ghosted Horror Stories - Confession Corner

Get in besties, we’re getting ghosted. Welcome to TUESDAY'S CONFESSION CORNER! The Confession Corner is a bi-monthly installment where you guys get to anonymously call VIOLET, and have a chance to be featured on the show!For today's Confession Corner we’re getting GHOSTED. Don’t be shy, it’s happened to the best of us. Today you will hear Violet react and dissect your craziest ghosting stories - but don’t worry she made sure to include her own too and we promise it'll make you feel

Aug 16, 2022 • 27:12

There’s No Fairytale Ending w/ Todd Baratz

There’s No Fairytale Ending w/ Todd Baratz

It can be a hard pill to swallow, but you can’t also become the person you want to be if you’re stuck in the past. There’s no fairytale or storybook ending if you don’t fix what’s within, but that doesn’t mean you have to do it alone!Today we welcome sex and relationships therapist, Todd Baratz! Todd has devoted his entire life to wellness as he actively works against all formalities, traditions and diagnosis. Together Violet and Todd discuss the importance of intimacy negotiation in a

Aug 11, 2022 • 1:08:44

From Ghosted To Begging U Back

From Ghosted To Begging U Back

Welcome to another TUESDAY EPISODE!!! A short and sweet episode vault episode to get your week started! We are in the 2'ND WEEK of Breakups/cheating month so figured today we are diving into manifesting and getting ghosted!The first 15 minutes we'll dive into manifesting tips and methods of getting back the life you want with or without your ex while the rest of the episode, we'll briefly dive into why you've been ghosted, how to get him to beg for you back, how to get over it and how to move on

Aug 9, 2022 • 33:47

You Will Never Be Blessed w/ Kamie Crawford

You Will Never Be Blessed w/ Kamie Crawford

And sometimes…we just need to hear the cold hard truth. Kidding. But when you only focus on the negative things in life, you don’t realize that that’s all you’re allowing your life to be. We all deserve the most beautiful things in life, and sometimes tough love from your bestie is exactly what you needed to hear.Today we welcome TV host, podcaster, and Sports Illustrated model Kamie Crawford to Almost Adulting! Violet and Kamie, instant besties and Scorpio sisters, start off the conver

Aug 4, 2022 • 1:19:59

Winning a Breakup - Playbook

Winning a Breakup - Playbook

Welcome to another TUESDAY EPISODE!!! A short and sweet episode to get your week started!Today, Violet answers some of your silly questions and then dives into some tips on winning a breakup like the bad b*tch that you are!! From how to leave them dumbfounded when they try to dump you, like an actual step by step playbook, to what to do post breakup.Follow this guide, and they will be running back to you in no time!!! but hopefully by then, you won't even want their stinky a$$ back anyw

Aug 2, 2022 • 28:25

He’s Wasting Your Time w/ Patti Stanger

He’s Wasting Your Time w/ Patti Stanger

Read it and weep besties. It’s the truth. Stop wasting your time over a boy who just wants you around to boost his ego, to do his bidding, and to make himself more attractive to other women. Boys are just now learning how to live without their mom doing their laundry for them, let alone know a thing about commitment yet. Boys will keep you waiting and play mind games with you, and the LAST thing we’re doing is putting up with it any longer.Today, we welcome Patti Stanger back to Almost

Jul 28, 2022 • 1:25:28

Confessions of A Sugar Baby PT 2

Confessions of A Sugar Baby PT 2

Besties, you are in for a TREAT! PART TWO!!!!Welcome to the CONFESSION CORNER! The Confession Corner is a brand new installment where you guys get to anonymously call ME, and have a chance to be featured on the show! Today we are continuing with part 2 to last week's Confession Corner where we talked all about SUGAR DADDIES. Yep, the good, the bad, and the…wrinkly? Today you will hear me react and dissect your stories from ALL of your sugar daddy escapades. It is about to get WILD

Jul 26, 2022 • 27:16

Confessions of A Sugar Baby

Confessions of A Sugar Baby

Besties, you are in for a TREAT!Welcome to CONFESSION CORNER! The Confession Corner will be a bi-monthly installment where you guys get to anonymously call ME, and have a chance to be featured on the show! This is an entirely new concept and something I have been working on for a little bit now that will be released on Tuesdays bi-weekly!For our very first Confession Corner we’re talking all about SUGAR DADDIES. Yep, the good, the bad, and the…wrinkly? Today you will hear me react and d

Jul 19, 2022 • 29:41

Hoe Life 2 Wife Life w/ Hannah Berner

Hoe Life 2 Wife Life w/ Hannah Berner

They say you can’t turn a hoe into a housewife, but we’d like to think otherwise.At some point in our life, whether we are at the height of our career or living our best single lives, we all want to find that one person we can spend the rest of our life with, right? That one true love we all grew up hoping to find one day. I mean, at the very least, who doesn’t want to be with the best partner and have the best s*x at the drop of a dime?Besties, today we are joined by Hannah Berner! Han

Jul 14, 2022 • 1:23:09

Vault Archives - R U Emotionally Unavailable w/ Empathy Therapist Figs

Vault Archives - R U Emotionally Unavailable w/ Empathy Therapist Figs

WELCOME TO VAULT ARCHIVES EVERY OTHER TUESDAY!! Where I share previous episodes or never before aired episodes from the vault that never made it on the show. Good or bad, you decide!Your toxic relationsh*t may actually have a chance IF you listen to this episodeToday I have Empathy therapist Figs on the podcast where we discuss, Types of empathy, the importance of having empathy for yourself, becoming the one you've been waiting for, our coping mechanisms, what your partner is really feeling but

Jul 12, 2022 • 1:18:15

Define “Relationship” w/ See The Thing Is Podcast

Define “Relationship” w/ See The Thing Is Podcast

Hey, Besties! It’s the first Thursday of July and this month, we are celebrating relationships! My favorite topic because I am OBVIOUSLY so good at them! So get comfortable because we’re about to get uncomfortable! This entire month we’re discussing love, partnerships, the different types of partnerships, and unpacking all the good, bad, and the ugly that comes with them! But before we get into that, Violet gives a quick life update and tells us about her recent rendezvous to Greece, wh

Jul 7, 2022 • 1:20:27

Relationship to RelationSH*T ft. Jessica Baum

Relationship to RelationSH*T ft. Jessica Baum

Are things ever going TOO well so your brain forces you to mess it up?Trust me, you’re not alone! As part of our human nature, we yearn for genuine love and affection. We tend to gravitate toward relationships that will reinforce our need for affection and validate our feelings. We always search for someone who can be there with us when we feel lost and helpless, and someone who can embrace us even when we feel unworthy of love. Sounds simple enough right? But if all of that is true, wh

Jun 30, 2022 • 1:07:07

Vault Archives - The Hardest Part About Dating w/ Amy & Jack

Vault Archives - The Hardest Part About Dating w/ Amy & Jack

WELCOME TO VAULT ARCHIVES EVERY OTHER TUESDAY!! Where I share previous episodes or never before aired episodes from the vault that never made it on the show. Good or bad, you decide!On Today's episode, we close hookup month on the podcast and pride month with my favourite humans who are also part of the LGBTQ+ community, Amy Ordman and Jack Doge.We start the episode with coming out stories before diving right into zodiac signs, the rule of thumb for dating, how to not get affected with

Jun 28, 2022 • 58:34

I'm Single, You're a Father w/ Alex Papiccio

I'm Single, You're a Father w/ Alex Papiccio

What’s your craziest hookup story? And don’t leave out the juicy (or gross) details!It’s probably one that involves a first date, dinner, alcohol, and some intimate moments that are either hilariously funny or morbidly disastrous. Whatever your story is, I don’t think it can even come close to the one you’re about to hear today. What about the time your boyfriend cheated on you, only for the girl he cheated with to end up pregnant? Today we’re talking about the things that should definitely be t

Jun 23, 2022 • 56:13

Confession Corner - Netflix & Disappointment

Confession Corner - Netflix & Disappointment

HERE ARE 3 SIGNS The D Is Smol </3 AND 3 WAYS TO TELL THE D IS HUGE! / This is probably one of the most hilarious episodes yet, no cap.WELCOME TO CONFESSION CORNER BESTIES!!!! Your weekly short bonus episode every Tuesday where I will be featuring YOU GUYS, the listener's, wild stories or questions surrounding the current month's topic. (you can submit stories/questions weekly via a call in number on the podcast instagram that I will be sharing this week! don't miss it)Episode time s

Jun 21, 2022 • 25:43

Vault Archives - Single & Rejected w/ Remi & Alisha Marie

Vault Archives - Single & Rejected w/ Remi & Alisha Marie

WELCOME TO VAULT ARCHIVES EVERY SUNDAY!! Where I share previous episodes from the vault that never made it on the show. Good or bad, you decide!On this episode (from 2019), Remi Cruz and Alisha Marie join me to discuss being single, feeling rejected, getting cheated on, and how to win a breakup even if you never actually dated.We end this episode on a hilarious note where I share fan's first date horror stories from a pop Ziplock bag to sh*tting yourself in front of your date. lol. It's

Jun 19, 2022 • 40:59

Hollywood's Secret Sex Society w/ Biggest S*x Club Owner Lawner

Hollywood's Secret Sex Society w/ Biggest S*x Club Owner Lawner

Let's talk about sex baby! Sex PARTIES, that is…Sex parties, are they a common thing now? Or are they still considered ‘don’t ask don’t tell’ events that are exclusive to a VERY select community? We think we know what these parties are all about from the outside looking in, but you’re about to find out what really goes on behind the scenes. In today's episode Violet gets the inside scoop on Hollywood’s most elite members and what they do to fulfill some of their darkest fantasies. We’re

Jun 16, 2022 • 1:20:37

Surprise, I'm Not Perfect

Surprise, I'm Not Perfect

This just in... Violetta Elaia Benson isn't perfect!We all get tired. We all make mistakes. And we all mess up. It’s normal because it is in our nature to not get things right the first try. It’s okay to not be okay when you don’t feel okay. Hello, Besties! Today, I’m sharing an acupuncture session turned therapy session where I was told holding in my emotion is stressing my body out! And speaking of stress, the interview with Bella Thorne came out last week. Before the interview,

Jun 9, 2022 • 40:43

B*tch it's Bella Thorne

B*tch it's Bella Thorne

“Our society makes victims feel like villains.”Final Episode of May’s Mental Health MonthPeople deal with childhood trauma differently just as the horrible experience is different for every person, for every victim. The only consolation that victims have is a support system that is always there for them, that is present with them when their overwhelming feelings arise and when painful memories are triggered. It is in our support group that we can learn to accept what happened, live thro

Jun 2, 2022 • 1:04:02

What I Learned This Week - Toxic Friendships PT.2

What I Learned This Week - Toxic Friendships PT.2

WELCOME TO WHAT I LEARNED THIS WEEK - 5 SIGNS YOUR BESTIE IS TOXIC AFA 5 minute bonus episode for my besties that don't do podcasts or have the time! EVERY TUESDAY!!This week I give you 5 MORE signs it's time to let go of your TOXIC friendship. A 5 minute pep talk that will OPEN YOUR EYES about your BESTIE.Don't forget to subscribe to the podcast, share with your friends, and follow our new Almost Adulting youtube channel!!And tune in THIS Thursday, for a very special one hour episode

May 31, 2022 • 5:42

Life After Cancer w/ FabFitFun CEO Daniel Broukhim

Life After Cancer w/ FabFitFun CEO Daniel Broukhim

“What does worry do for you?”Episode #5 of May’s Mental Health MonthIt’s heartbreaking to learn that someone you know is battling cancer. But, there is nothing more devastating than finding out that you have it. Things begin to crumble and the future seems bleak. Uncertainties will haunt you and possibilities of the future will only bring sadness, anxiety, and depression. It’s a battle for your life, one that can make you feel like you’re on the losing end.Today’s guest is Co-CEO &

May 26, 2022 • 1:01:57

What I Learned This Week - TOXIC FRIENDSHIPS

What I Learned This Week - TOXIC FRIENDSHIPS

WELCOME TO WHAT I LEARNED THIS WEEK - 5 SIGNS YOU'RE IN A TOXIC FRIENDSHIPA 5 minute bonus episode for my besties that don't do podcasts or have the time! EVERY TUESDAY!!This week I give you pt.1 of 5 signs you're definitly in a toxic friendship. A 5 minute pep talk that will OPEN YOUR EYES.... from your big sis, aka me, Violet Benson. :)Don't forget to subscribe to the podcast, share with your friends, and follow our new Almost Adulting youtube channel!! And tune in this Thursda

May 24, 2022 • 5:38

Your Man Needs Therapy w/ Traver Boehm

Your Man Needs Therapy w/ Traver Boehm

“Emotion knows no time.”Episode #4 of May’s Mental Health MonthMen are emotional creatures too! They can cry, they can feel pain, they can be weak, and they can become vulnerable. BUT society is telling them not to do any of this. Society is telling them to hide their emotions to stay masculine. They are being deprived of the chance to properly process their emotions.Today’s guest is Traver Boehm, the man behind the UNcivilized Men’s Movement and the author behind Today I Rise and Man U

May 19, 2022 • 57:39

What I Learned This Week - He Ain't The One

What I Learned This Week - He Ain't The One

WELCOME TO WHAT I LEARNED THIS WEEK - He Ain't The OneA 5 minute bonus episode for my besties that don't do podcasts or have the time! This week I learned the truth about right guy, wrong time. So here's a 5 minute pep talk that will change your LIFE.... from your big sis, aka me, Violet Benson. :)Don't forget to subscribe to the podcast, follow our youtube chanel, and tune in this Thursday, as we cover why men need therapy. See you Thursday besties! <3See Privacy Policy at https://

May 17, 2022 • 5:00

Prioritize Ur Healing B*tch PT.2 w/ Mark Groves

Prioritize Ur Healing B*tch PT.2 w/ Mark Groves

"What makes love so valuable is the grief that is accompanied with the possibility of losing it."Episode #3 of May’s Mental Health Month.All right, Besties, it’s time for part 2, and the title says it all – today’s episode is all about healing! Breakups are never easy, but you need to stop chasing someone who doesn’t want you and choose yourself. Choose yourself first. Love yourself first. Mark Groves is back on the podcast today, and he shares his tips for recognizing when someone

May 12, 2022 • 55:15

Prioritize Ur Healing B*tch PT.1 w/ Mark Groves

Prioritize Ur Healing B*tch PT.1 w/ Mark Groves

Episode #2 of May’s Mental Health Month."It's always the people that never loved us that teach us the most about love."If you’ve lost yourself in your last relationship, let me hand you the roadmap to finding yourself again.In today’s episode, Human Connections Specialist, Mark Groves, teaches us all about prioritizing yourself and your healing after a breakup. If you’re not over the last guy that ghosted you, it’s okay because neither am I. The only thing that’s not okay is not loving

May 10, 2022 • 51:15

I Don’t Want To Be Sad Anymore

I Don’t Want To Be Sad Anymore

In honor of May's #MentalHealthMonth, we open the month with a dear episode of mine where I cover all sides of depression and my own battle with it.On today's episode, I share one of the darkest times of my life. As I choke up and cry, I share my painful story of shame, battling clinical depression 6 years ago, and how I almost didn't think I'd survive. I also discuss the difference between being sad, feeling depressed, and having actual clinical depression.PERSONAL MESSAGE TO MY BESTIE

May 5, 2022 • 49:04

I’M A BEAST PT.2 w/ Nicole Behnam

I’M A BEAST PT.2 w/ Nicole Behnam

Hey, Besties! Welcome to Part 2 with Nicole Behnam. Now that we’re done talking about CRYPTO, NFT, and the confusing jargon for dummies, let’s move on to how you can excel in a toxic, manipulative workplace and setting boundaries for yourself at work. And let’s not forget how having a good MENTOR can help improve your career. If you get the chance, get one! And then, we also cover the highs and lows of relationships, being okay with showing emotions and expressions of love, why LOV

Apr 28, 2022 • 1:05:08

NFT Crash Course PT.1 w/ Nicole Behnam

NFT Crash Course PT.1 w/ Nicole Behnam

And I’m back! Last week I talked about how Daddy Issues was created and how a career shift changed my life. Today, we’re pivoting to something interesting that most rich guys are investing in, CRYPTO currency! I sit down with Nicole Behnam, a Crypto, NFT, and Tech investor and advisor to discuss the very basic fundamentals of NFT and crypto, the jargons that are a bit confusing but totally cool when you learn and understand them, and the ins and outs of moving your money around the

Apr 26, 2022 • 1:00:51

How Daddy Issues Was Born

How Daddy Issues Was Born

Before anything else, let me put this out here, THIS episode talks about BULLYING in the office space and losing yourself in the process because the BULLIES made you believe that you’re supposed to take it all in.Last week, we talked about how to succeed in life and get THE dream job. Today, we will focus on WHY it’s okay to ditch your dream job when it’s making you miserable and unhappy. I started Daddy Issues because I was bullied and even though this alter ego is a completely differe

Apr 21, 2022 • 58:22

4 Lessons to Success

4 Lessons to Success

Hey Besties! We got another 2-part Solo episode. This time though, we will talk about serious stuff, like life lessons, getting a job, and having a career. Surprise! Surprise!High school didn’t have any notable academic achievements but I did have a degree in Accounting and studied business law undergrad. Why am I talking about this? Well, the LIFE LESSONS I’m going to talk about is to show you how a high school underachiever got an internship with the District Attorney’s office, got a

Apr 14, 2022 • 49:47

Identity Crisis

Identity Crisis

After the steamy 2-part episode with Dr. Emily Morse, let’s pivot a little bit and talk about life updates! Let’s talk serious, adulting stuff!So, I start the episode with finally answering why I had to leave behind TOO TIRED TO BE CRAZY for a new podcast name, the personal issues I had to address with my Daddy Issues persona, convo with my mom, and exciting DEALS and PROMOS in the podcast for you guys!Follow me on:InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Pr

Apr 7, 2022 • 54:19

Life’s Too Short For Bad Sex w/ Emily Morse (PT2)

Life’s Too Short For Bad Sex w/ Emily Morse (PT2)

It's time for PART 2, b*tches! :) We ended Part 1 with how to give your man a good head and the #1 Oral Method to make a girl cum. Now listen up as Emily shows me the best way to find the REAL G-Spot. We end the episode with tips to not c*m too fast, hilarious fan sex stories and how I ended up in the ER after fingering gone wrong.Connect with Dr. Emily Morse:WebsiteInstagramSex with Emily PodcastConnect with me on:InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and

Mar 31, 2022 • 55:53

Life’s Too Short For Bad Sex w/ Emily Morse (PT1)

Life’s Too Short For Bad Sex w/ Emily Morse (PT1)

From getting your taco licked to c*mming EVERY time, this week’s episode is SO good, I’m giving you TWO parts. Welcome to part 1 besties :)I begin the episode with Benny Blanco & lil dicky’s party, why it’s not cool to be a mean girl, and how to have a better week with my Better w/ Benson segment.I then have Renowned sex therapist Emily Morse join us to teach you how to cum over and over again, so take out your notepad and get ready to take some notes. We discuss how to, love your b

Mar 24, 2022 • 1:01:05

I Never Said That!? w/ Remi Bader

I Never Said That!? w/ Remi Bader

Women have been struggling with weight shaming and adapting body positivity because of the misconception that there is only one body type that’s perfect. Truth is, women are built differently and we all need to learn how to appreciate the body we have and wear it with utmost confidence! Today, we welcome Remi Bader. Remi went viral in 2020 for posting realistic trys and hauls that I used to watch, and they were hilarious, where she basically showed the reality of buying clothes onl

Mar 17, 2022 • 50:23

GOODBYE 2021

GOODBYE 2021

We're saying goodbye to 2021 and leaving it all behind.... including THIS PODCAST. xoxo Violet Benson I'll be back in JANUARY. BRAND NEW. GET READY B*TCHES.

Dec 25, 2021 • 33:32

How To Cum Every Time w/ Emily Morse

How To Cum Every Time w/ Emily Morse

Sex therapist / author / friend of the podcast EMILY MORSE returns to answer all of Violet's hard hitting questions LIKE: Do some guys cause UTIs? How do you awaken your vulva? Is not giving oral a deal breaker? Can anyone become a deep-throater? How do you reduce your gag reflex? Should you taste yourself before sex? AND How many orgasms can you have in one sitting??? Check out my amazing sponsors! Honey: Get Honey for free today at www.JoinHoney.com/violet  Better Help: Get 10% off

Dec 23, 2021 • 1:15:56

Life Changing Therapy Advice w/ Lori Gottlieb

Life Changing Therapy Advice w/ Lori Gottlieb

The advice I wish I got years ago… This hour will change your perspective baddies, I guarantee it.  Stop getting trapped in your own prisons, learn how to KNOW yourself, KNOW your partner, and make the right changes to start your new life chapter. Author and Therapist, Lori Gottlieb joins me this week with the most life changing adviced we ALL needed to hear. It's time to transform into the NEW YOU.  To learn more about Lori: https://lorigottlieb.com/  Click Here To Text me Your Podc

Dec 16, 2021 • 53:21

He's Not Toxic, He's Just A Libra

He's Not Toxic, He's Just A Libra

AS PROMISED, I am bringing on YOU BADDIES to hear your juciest most cringe most wtf stories. Today we have two of you podcast baddies on with such a mindf*ck of an episode that was followed by legal action, that we actually had to bleep out everyone's names. Ya...it be like that sometimes.  I'll just say there are FIVE women involved and ONE MAN. So grab some popcorn and enjoy the ride. If you want to be featured on future episodes just text me "crazy" with your crazy story to my free number (

Dec 9, 2021 • 53:15

I Got Ghosted On My BD

I Got Ghosted On My BD

Welcome BADDIES to a brand new solo episode of how I got ghosted & tips to move on :) MY PAIN, YOUR GAIN! Timeline: 0:00 - 17:00- How I got blindsided & ghosted on my bd ?? 17:01 - 21:27 - Baddie pep talk on why you NEED to move on 21:28 - 26:20 - Affirmations for you to say daily 26:21 - 34:58 - Research, logic, & scientific reasoning behind exactly why you've been struggling to move on (soulmate connection?) 34:59 - 38:10 - How to finally cut the cord 38:10 - 39

Dec 3, 2021 • 39:43

We're ALL Bad At Dating w/Mark Groves

We're ALL Bad At Dating w/Mark Groves

Ever wonder why you're SO bad at dating? you're not alone. We ALL are and on this episode we reveal why. Joined by human connection specialist, Mark Groves, Violet goes DEEP into the psychology of human behavior and relationships. This week we're going on an in-depth analysis unpacking as to why we do the things we do while in love and while looking for love. Don’t worry, it’s been scientifically proven that love is basically a drug - so remember that stupid thing you did for your awful

Dec 2, 2021 • 51:09

Love Languages & One night stands w/ The Stallone Sisters

Love Languages & One night stands w/ The Stallone Sisters

Find your true zodiac sign and take my quiz! CLICK HERE  Click Here To Text Me Your Podcast Question! OR just text me “Question” to my number (310) 510-6643 and I’ll get back to you! This is part two of my two part episode with the beautiful Stallone Sisters, Sistine and Sophia! We continue talking about who I liiiikkee right now and can’t stop thinking about, we also talk about who Sistine and Sophia are dating, plus a discussion on our zodiac signs, and why it's SO important to kno

Nov 25, 2021 • 53:48

Dating & Self Sabotage w/The Stallone Sisters

Dating & Self Sabotage w/The Stallone Sisters

Find your true zodiac sign and take my quiz! CLICK HERE  HEY BADDIES!! This is part one of my two part episode with the beautiful STALLONE Sisters, Sistine and Sophia! We cover all the practical skills for women looking to date, our dads, MY REAL NAME, setting my friends up with my leftovers, zodiac signs, signs if you’re actually into someone or not, and what your erotic blueprint says about you and your partner.  Thank you for listening and if you want to support the podcast, please

Nov 18, 2021 • 56:01

Blow & Intimacy Issues w/Hannah Berner

Blow & Intimacy Issues w/Hannah Berner

Click Here To Text Me Your Podcast Question! OR just text me “Question” to my number (310) 510-6643 and I’ll get back to you! Buckle up Baddies, this week we have Hannah Berner LIVE and IN-PERSON Crystals, Psychics, Cats, Intimacy issues, LA coke whores, Dating and Marriage…there’s nothing we can’t touch. Thank you for listening and if you want to support the podcast, please check out this weeks sponsors! Pill Club: thepillclub.com/violet  Credit Karma: creditkarma.com/loanoffers

Nov 11, 2021 • 54:49

What You Don't Know About Astrology w. Jessica Lanyadoo

What You Don't Know About Astrology w. Jessica Lanyadoo

Click Here To Text Me Your Question! OR just text me “Question” to my number (310) 510-6643 and I’ll get back to you! Think you know everything about astrology? THINK AGAIN For this week's episode, Violet is joined by astrologer, psychic, medium, intuitive counselor, and tarot card reader Jessica Lanyadoo. If you've always been into the world of astrology, this is an episode you won't want to miss. Together Violet and Jessica, dive deep into birth charts, compatibilities, and what the F all o

Nov 4, 2021 • 1:52:22

Sharing Their Strange Addictions w/ Devon & Sydney Carlson

Sharing Their Strange Addictions w/ Devon & Sydney Carlson

On this episode, Violet is joined by Devon & Sydney Carlson to discuss relationships, conquering depression, and strange addictions. Be sure to download now to hear how these two sisters went from having sibling rivalry to being BFFs, and of course, naked boyfriends! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Nov 4, 2021 • 2:05:23

Whiskey Dick is a Myth

Whiskey Dick is a Myth

Click Here To Text Me Your Craziest Dating Stories! OR just text me “DATING” to my number (310) 510-6643 and I’ll get back to you! Are women really to blame for men's erectile dysfunction? I THINK NOT For this week's episode, Violet is joined by Justin Dubin. Justin is a Urologist, specializing in men's health. During this episode, Violet and Justin dive deep into misconceptions revolving around sex, and some very interesting facts you probably didn't know about UTI's. This very int

Oct 21, 2021 • 50:01

Can A Cheater Change?

Can A Cheater Change?

HOW YOU GET HIM IS HOW YOU LOSE HIM SIS PERIODTHHHHI start this episode with some ass play, tips for a successful anal, my daddy issues and even share a poem I wrote my dad.I get into what love means to me, signs he's cheating on you sis, what's considered cheating, reasons he's cheating, what it feels like to get cheated on, why it's so hard to move on, and reasons why we stay.I end the episode with reasons why he's so mean to you after he's the one that cheated, why cheaters keep in touch,& th

Oct 15, 2021 • 52:12

Are You Emotionally Unavailable? W/ Empathy Therapist Figs

Are You Emotionally Unavailable? W/ Empathy Therapist Figs

Your toxic relationsh*t may actually have a chance IF you listen to this episode. On this episode we discuss, Types of empathy and having empathy for yourself, becoming the one you've been waiting for, coping mechanisms, what your partner is really feeling but not saying when you fight, and the type of lover that you are, We dive into turning your toxic relationship back into love, the type of love you're attractive, being emotionally unavailable and reaching true intimacy, self sabotag

Oct 7, 2021 • 1:15:50

Growth or Whatever Pt.2 w/ Gals On The Go

Growth or Whatever Pt.2 w/ Gals On The Go

Is dating in your 20s really that different than dating in your 30's? This week Violet is joined by your two favorite gals, Brooke and Danielle, the hosts of the popular podcast, Gals on The Go. During this episode, they go on to talk about horoscopes, how to be confident with a man, and how to get over an ex. This adorable trio will definetly give you a glimpse of what goes on into their dating lives, what zodiac signs they prefer or .... avoid, and funny stories that will keep you laughing

Sep 30, 2021 • 1:10:14

From Side Chick To Main Chick w/Patti Stanger

From Side Chick To Main Chick w/Patti Stanger

I don’t cook, I don’t clean, but let me tell you how I got this ring! This week Violet is joined by Millionaire Matchmaker Patti Stanger and she has A LOT to say about your dating game. Tired of being the side chick? Well, Patti teaches you how to become the main and only chick in his life. Patti teaches us specific words and tools you can use to secure the ring, the difference in love languages, and EXACTLY when you should know that it's time to MOVE ON. Ladies, stop wasting your time

Sep 30, 2021 • 37:49

Hi, I'm An Emotional Wh0re

Hi, I'm An Emotional Wh0re

Hi, my name is Violet Benson and I'm an Emotional Whore.  Violet's audio diaries are back by popular demand! Do you have a notebook ready? Because, you will WANT to take notes. Today Violet has three diary entries, where she dives deep into a personal story that she's NEVER TOLD BEFORE, how to keep a man, and when you should "hang up the phone" Whether you have been tied up in a toxic relationship, and just coming into the realization. Or you feel you are not being appreciated enough.

Sep 23, 2021 • 1:05:54

R U An Emotional Masturbator? w/ Jared & Jordana

R U An Emotional Masturbator? w/ Jared & Jordana

Are blowjobs really more intimate than sex? This week Violet is joined by Jared Freid and Jordana Abraham, the hosts of U-Up; a modern dating podcast presented by Betches. During this episode, they discuss all things relationships, sex, and how to get over an ex. This hilarious trio will dive into how the pandemic has changed the dating scene, dating 101 from a male's perspective like why do men text daily but don't try to see you??? the answer will surpise you!! and lastly, they even cover ho

Sep 16, 2021 • 54:29

Sugar Daddies & Low Standards w/ Alex Papiccio

Sugar Daddies & Low Standards w/ Alex Papiccio

Comedian / Influencer / YouTuber ALEX PAPICCIO shares how to get ALL the sugar without the daddy - dating older vs younger men - ignoring red flags - dumb things guys do on first dates - why liquid courage doesn't always help - and the craziest things we've ever done to impress a guy! Check out my amazing sponsors! Psychic Source: Go to Apple or Google Play and Download the Psychic Source App. Be sure to use Promo Code ‘VIOLET” when you sign up. Or call 1.800.355.9214 and mention prom

Sep 16, 2021 • 46:33

Never Lose An Argument Again  w/ Chris Voss

Never Lose An Argument Again w/ Chris Voss

In Los Angeles, the dedicated podcaster who investigates these vicious felonies are members of an elite squad known as Too Tired Too Be Crazy. These are their stories… JK - it’s just our fearless leader Violet. Today the queen is back and joined by former FBI lead international kidnapping negotiator, Chris Voss. Violet learns pretty much EVERYTHING there is to know about winning a negotiation. Turns out everything in life is negotiable, and we're here to teach you how to do it. This e

Sep 9, 2021 • 42:30

I Don't Wanna Be Sad Anymore

I Don't Wanna Be Sad Anymore

In honor of September's #SuicidePreventionMonth today's episode covers depression because doesn't it sometimes just feel like everyone's depressed??? Well... it's because everyone probably is. On today's episode I share one of the darkest times of my life. As I choke up and cry, I share my painful story of shame, battling with clinical depression 5 years ago and how I almost didn't think I'd survive it. I also discuss the difference between being sad, feeling depressed, and having act

Sep 2, 2021 • 57:31

Truth or Hoax n Stalker Ghosts w/ Chris Medina

Truth or Hoax n Stalker Ghosts w/ Chris Medina

Are love and success really in the future? Or is it all just a big hoax? Today Violet sits down with the self-proclaimed "Howard Stern of psychics" Chris Medina. They talk about how Chris knew he had a special gift, different types of magic, and stalker ghosts that end up watching you 24/7! CAN WE SAY SPOOKY!?! This episode obviously wouldn't be complete without a reading! Chris gives Violet a reading and there are many surprises in her very near future.... Let's just say that a new love intere

Aug 26, 2021 • 1:13:53

Bad B*tch Bootcamp - Used Goods

Bad B*tch Bootcamp - Used Goods

Has a man ever tried to make you feel like you're not worth a million dollars? News flash, YOU ARE! Welcome to Bad B*tch Bootcamp! Today we are getting RID of the narratives that society places on women! No husband? Who cares. No kids? That's one less bill to pay. No longer will we allow the world around us to control the type of life we should be living. We are owning our sh*t and being bosses while doing it. Women are NOT used goods once we hit a certain age, and we are most definitely not mis

Aug 19, 2021 • 31:56

I Am Transgender with Corey Rae

I Am Transgender with Corey Rae

On this episode we start with getting to know Corey Rae and her journey as the world’s first transgender prom queen, the movie she’s working on, the one thing you should NEVER ask a transgender person, and horror dating stories before and after transition, Corey then goes into a detailed explanation of her transition from her childhood to her transition physically and emotionally, (including hormone blockers, hormone replacement therapy, body dysphoria, sex therapy, gender dysphoria, su

Aug 13, 2021 • 1:22:46

How To Attract An Air Sign

How To Attract An Air Sign

Timestamps: 0 - 7:22 - breakup advice - what he means when he says you deserve better, changing your perspective on breakups and the best revenge. 7:25 - 14:07 - how each air signs are handling quarantine lol 14:11 - 19:15 - Signs a LIBRA man likes you - what he’s looks for in a lady n what he dislikes, and the most n least compatible matches with a LIBRA. 19:18 - 23:11 - Signs a GEMINI man likes you - what he looks for in a lady n what he dislikes, and the most n least compatible matches wi

Aug 12, 2021 • 33:07

Start Manifesting Your Life

Start Manifesting Your Life

Do you have the tissues ready? 'cause it's about to get EMOTIONAL. Today I present to you my three-part Manifestation audio diary. Each section is very close to my heart so listening carefully. Do you feel like you've lost track of your dreams? That your life has become so mundane that it doesn't bring you the joy you once had? If the answer is yes, this episode is made especially for you. During this episode, I talk about how important it is to never lose track of your dreams, how to

Aug 5, 2021 • 1:01:20

WHOREible Decisions In Ur 30's w/ WeezyWTF

WHOREible Decisions In Ur 30's w/ WeezyWTF

Sometimes you just have to speak your mind and let it all out... for your passion for cheese and eating out... not necessarily in that order. Violet is joined by Weezy, the cohost of the controversial and rebellious podcast, Whoreible Decisions. Together they dive into a HILARIOUS conversation from sex to cheese and everything in between.. This power duo will make you laugh, cry, and feel empowered to be in your 30's! They are 30, thriving, and comfortable in their own skin; fro

Jul 29, 2021 • 49:19

Bad B*tch Bootcamp - Game Changer

Bad B*tch Bootcamp - Game Changer

CONGRATULATION BADDIES!!! YOU'VE OFFICIALLY GRADUATED FROM DUMB BISH TO BAD BISH!!!! I'M PROUD OF YOU. I start this episode with the first 20 minutes discussing, my booty hole, anal bleaching, I reminisce on how I started Daddyissues, how I was able to turn the lowest point in my life to one of the best, and how I worked through my daddy issues and changed my whole family's dynamic. The other half of the episode is all about BOYZZZZ. I give you the 12 rules to follow after the first date so you

Jul 22, 2021 • 39:19

Is Your Vagina Normal? with Dr. Nazarian

Is Your Vagina Normal? with Dr. Nazarian

Today's episode is all about BIG P*SSY LIPS ENERGY!! Including my own since I share 22 pics of my taco with Dr. Nazarian to get her professional opinion on my beef curtains. On this episode, Sheila Nazarian joins me, an award-winning plastic surgeon and one of the top vaginal/ labiaplasty surgeons in Los Angeles, to discuss EVERYTHING VAGINA. We cover every myth and all of your questions; you'd be surprised by some of the answers.We get down and dirty on what is considered a "normal vagina", "ou

Jul 15, 2021 • 1:11:05

Blue Balls Crab Grabs n Commitment w/Emily  Miller & Cam Holmes

Blue Balls Crab Grabs n Commitment w/Emily Miller & Cam Holmes

Started with a crab grab now we're here... The couple we were all rooting for came out on top, and so did Emily last night, thanks to Cam being such a giver. Violet is joined by Emily Miller and Cam Holmes of Netflix's Too Hot To Handle S2 to spill ALL the tea of their newfound love, what Lana didn’t see, living together, blue balls, crying during sex, what REALLY happened with Chase, and everything in between. If you thought you were obsessed with them before… just wait till you finish this e

Jul 15, 2021 • 51:12

Too Hot To Handle w/Carly Lawrence

Too Hot To Handle w/Carly Lawrence

Cockroaches weren't the only thing drawn to Chase on this season of Too Hot To Handle.... Cue in, Carly Lawrence. Netflix star, Carly Lawrence, from Too Hot to Handle season 2, joins Violet on a tell all sit down on EVERYTHING that actually went down on camera and off camera. She spills the tea on being SINGLE(ISH), who she is currently dating (you heard it here FIRST), and whether or not the door is fully closed on Chase.  The girls also discuss body insecurities, overcoming them,

Jul 8, 2021 • 1:01:11

So You're An Alpha Female... w/ Simone Milasas

So You're An Alpha Female... w/ Simone Milasas

From getting that promotion to having the love that you deserve. Here's how you can have it all.

Jul 1, 2021 • 1:08:43

Why You're Not Cumming With Emily Morse

Why You're Not Cumming With Emily Morse

Emily Morse is back!!! And we start with, celebrating that I finally had sex!!!, why you're not cumming, why lube is everything, passing gas during sex, what's considered normal fluid in the bedroom, and how I realized I had a yeast infection in the middle of sex.We dig into period sex, hot tub sex, a method for great shower sex, tips for good sex for a smaller pipi, and the #1 ORAL method that gets your girl to cum every time.We end with masturbating, what it's like to date a boss ass

Jul 1, 2021 • 44:11

Emrata, Postpartum, and Buttholes w/ Claire Holt

Emrata, Postpartum, and Buttholes w/ Claire Holt

Rule Number 1: Never stalk your ex’s...unless it’s your friends ex and she needs your FBI skills.  Violet is joined by Australian actress, mom, and overall baddie Claire Holt! Together the two get DEEP (pro tip: never take a Polaroid of your butthole). Claire let’s us into her world elaborating on some of her darkest moments and how she saw the light at the end of the tunnel. We also find out that Emrata has Violet blocked on Instagram for no apparent reason and that Claire isn’t afra

Jun 24, 2021 • 52:27

Never Lose An Argument Again  w/ Chris Voss

Never Lose An Argument Again w/ Chris Voss

In Los Angeles, the dedicated podcaster who investigates these vicious felonies are members of an elite squad known as Too Tired Too Be Crazy. These are their stories… Kidding - it’s just our fearless leader Violet. Today the queen is back and joined by former FBI lead international kidnapping negotiator, Chris Voss. Violet learns pretty much EVERYTHING there is to know about winning a negotiation. Turns out everything in life is negotiable, and we're here to teach you how to do it. This episode

Jun 24, 2021 • 48:11

I Hate ALL Men, But... w/ Andrea Russett

I Hate ALL Men, But... w/ Andrea Russett

If you’re looking for a sign to move out of your small town and chase your dreams, this is IT.? Violet is BACK baddies! Joined by singer, actress, and YouTuber, Andrea Russett, this week the ladies get DEEP. Not THAT kind of deep, get your head out of the gutter! The girls get deep into sh*t we’ve ALL been through. From not-so-great “friends”, bad breakups, and crippling anxiety, the girls tell it ALL. Throughout the episode we see a beautiful friendship blossom, and even unpack parts of Andrea’

Jun 17, 2021 • 1:19:54

B*TCH MOVE ON

B*TCH MOVE ON

On this episode, Violet gives you 9 steps to get over that fuckboy that's ruining your life and answer some of your questions like, 5 things you don't know about her, being rejected, and how being 'Daddyissues' has actually affected her love life in a negative way.  GURL, If we are not best friends by the end of this episode and you don't feel empowered and deserving of love then bishhh DM ME because, you amazing, you are loved, and you are going to be OKAY.  CHECK OUT MY SPONSORS: A

Jun 17, 2021 • 48:09

The Life of a Porn Star w/ Pressure The Entertainer

The Life of a Porn Star w/ Pressure The Entertainer

BBC's, Double Penetration, feet fetish, and Creampies! Just normal conversation topic over here.  This week Violet is joined by adult film star Pressure! Together the two unpack ALL there is to know about the adult film industry from a black straight males perspective. They also discuss MANY different types of kinks, tips for you in bed, AND the perfect trick you may need to give head just a little bit better! P.S. If you need threesome advice, LISTEN NOW!  FIND MORE OF PRESSURE HERE:

Jun 10, 2021 • 47:58

CONFIRMED: Still Toxic w/ Harry Jowsey

CONFIRMED: Still Toxic w/ Harry Jowsey

And just like that…trouble in paradise! AGAIN. Are we shocked? Violet is joined by superstar Harry Jowsey and therapy is in SESSION! Violet gives us a NEVER before seen side of the heartthrob! In this week's episode Harry opens up and lets us into his entire life, FAR beyond Tik Tok. From rural Australia to internet stardom, Harry has had an INTENSE 24 years of life.  Of course, Violet gets to the juicy stuff where we hear HIS side of the drama regarding America’s favorite couple. Wil

Jun 3, 2021 • 55:55

Are We Still Toxic? W/ Francesca Farago

Are We Still Toxic? W/ Francesca Farago

Left my ex bish cuz’ HE toxic… This week Violet is joined by her beautiful bestie Francesca Farago! Together the two are tanned from their recent vacation to Mexico and ready to spill some MAJOR TEA. The girls take us on a minute by minute journey of their entire trip that is SO in-depth that you’re gonna feel like you were wasted (or on shrooms like Violet) on the beach with them.  Francesca fills us in on ALL the deets about her infamous relationship with Harry Jowsey, her relations

May 27, 2021 • 56:58

The Streets Are Calling w/ Alex Papiccio

The Streets Are Calling w/ Alex Papiccio

If you’re wondering if you’ll ever retire from the streets, have no fear! Alex is here! This week Violet is joined by not only a fan favorite, but one of her dearest friends, Alex Papiccio. Together these two are a HOT MESS. No seriously, things are getting chaotic. Alex gives us a major life update by announcing that she has OFFICIALLY retired from the streets. But don’t worry, she’s recounting ALL of her h*e memories, to ensure us that we’re not alone. With Violet and Alex, NO topic i

May 20, 2021 • 49:29

Dumb B*tch Bootcamp 2

Dumb B*tch Bootcamp 2

Welcome to the Dumb B*tch Bootcamp series!!! EPISODE 2 On today's episode, we cover why it's important to be selfish from dating to work, becoming more confident and staying that way, forgiving yourself for your past and the old you, and letting go of "the right guy wrong time" mind set. Don't forget to subscribe and write a review and I will see you next Thursday b*tches! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-in

May 14, 2021 • 30:37

CANCEL ME I DARE YOU w/Heather McDonald

CANCEL ME I DARE YOU w/Heather McDonald

So you’re considering leaving your entire life behind, packing all your stuff, and moving to LA to become the next Tana Mongeau…well you MAY want to reconsider. It’s not as easy as it seems. This week Violet is accompanied by pop culture connoisseur, Heather McDonald. Heather is famously known as an actress, comedian, author, and host of hit podcast Juicy Scoop with Heather McDonald. Together the two unpack ALL things problematic within Hollywood. Nepotism? Grooming? Creepy managers? Ca

May 6, 2021 • 42:59

Everyone's Annoying w/Nick Viall

Everyone's Annoying w/Nick Viall

On this episode sexy bachelor, Nick Viall joins me and gives us stellar dating advice from a man's perspective that we're all dying to know but are to afraid to ask!! from how to tell if he even likes you or is just using you, getting what you want in the relationship, finding the one, love bombing, getting over a breakup, and so much more! We also discuss The Bachelor Matt James, me sliding into Bachelor contestants dm's and getting rejected, to his turn on and offs in bed and other se

Apr 29, 2021 • 54:14

Sex Stories, Older Men, & STD's w/ Hannah Berner

Sex Stories, Older Men, & STD's w/ Hannah Berner

My guest this week is a standup comedian, cast member on Summer House on Bravo AND host of her podcast Berning in Hell, Hannah Berner! We kickoff the episode by talking about d*ck. Curved d*ck to be exact. She shares her experience with different d*ck sizes and why bigger isn't ALWAYS better! We discuss what marriage d*ck means, my wide set vageen, the one lie every man has told you that you fell for, and tips on dating an athlete. We then get into scorpios and Leos, why older men are t

Apr 22, 2021 • 1:01:04

90 Day Fiancé (BIRTHRIGHT CHRONICLES) w/ Loren Brovarnik

90 Day Fiancé (BIRTHRIGHT CHRONICLES) w/ Loren Brovarnik

Struggling to find the man of your dreams? He MIGHT just be halfway around the world. Joined by 90 Day Fiancé star Loren Brovarnik, the two relive their VERY unconventional Birthright experiences, which by the way…is NOT the place you want to experience your first black out. Loren also let us in on her trials and tribulations of motherhood and gives pro tips on how to make long distance relationships work (PSA: steal your neighbors wifi for Skype date night). Loren then takes us on a very des

Apr 15, 2021 • 53:00

I Can't Be Gay! With shannon beveridge

I Can't Be Gay! With shannon beveridge

On this episode I have Shannon come on and discuss everything LGBT from coming out, accepting herself, dating boys, when she realized she was gay, dealing with hate, We also confront myths and misconceptions about lesbians, we discuss sex from scissoring to anal to toys, battling depression, and being an ally for the LGBT communityFollow Shannon at @NowThisIsLiving on Instagram, Youtube and TwitterFollow me at @violetbenson & @Tootiredtobecrazy and don't forget to subscribe!! Watch this

Apr 15, 2021 • 1:33:12

Love, Sex, Boys & Feelings w/ Kiana Ledé

Love, Sex, Boys & Feelings w/ Kiana Ledé

“I know that you're superwoman but even superwoman is only one person. You need people sometimes… and that’s okay." On this episode, the talented Kiana Ledé joins me to discuss our zodiac signs, growing up mixed, her music and what inspires her, losing our virginity, sex, second chances, the harm in dating potential. We also address, what we look for in a man, masturbating, feelings, boys, payback on a cheating ex, and our first time opening up on our experience with sexual assault.

Apr 8, 2021 • 1:15:56

Meth Is A Hell Of A Drug

Meth Is A Hell Of A Drug

Usually when you hear that someone has tried meth AND that they know Vice President Kamala Harris personally, you'd assume they're a convict. NOPE! Not Violet! This week Violet delivers a VERY special solo episode that gets extremely personal. Taking us into her mind and elaborating on some of her recent battles she's been struggling with, Violet also takes us down memory lane, vividly retelling some of her wildest childhood stories. From being born in Russia with multiple birth defects, her si

Apr 1, 2021 • 48:29

Dumb B*tch Bootcamp - Change Your Perspective

Dumb B*tch Bootcamp - Change Your Perspective

Today I present to you the dumb b*itch bootcamp part 1!!! I used to be the ceo of dumb bish club, but I've changed and now Im here to teach you how to go from dumb bish to boss bish. On today's solo episode, I cover, a fan's sex story, tb to me getting fingered and ending up in the hospital, girls with nipple piercings are superior, and being a dumb bish no more. We also cover, why you're dating the same men, changing your perspective, becoming the leading role in your movie, start acting like a

Apr 1, 2021 • 36:05

I Married A Narcissist w/Manon Mathews

I Married A Narcissist w/Manon Mathews

Have you ever accidentally flew someone halfway around the world and bought a house for the two of you only to find out you didn’t even know his REAL name? You’re not the only one. Today Violet is joined by Internet personality, author, and comedian Manon Mathews! Together the two discuss their lives throughout the pandemic and how to handle internet trolls. Manon then tells us a VERY emotional tale about her ex-husband, revealing ALL of the signs of a classic narcissist and explains how easy i

Mar 25, 2021 • 56:17

Reasons We Date Toxic Ppl W/Demi Burnett

Reasons We Date Toxic Ppl W/Demi Burnett

Demi Burnett from The Bachelor Franchise joins me on this episode as we talk about everything from toxic relationships to childhood trauma to our love for masturbating! you're not gonna wanna miss this one! Timestamps: 0:00 - 25:00 - We discuss Demi’s breakup, our relationship fears, toxic relationships - our addiction to high n lows, why we stay, what draws us, our dating pattern, how to let go, and steps to loving yourself again. 25:00 - 47:43 - Demi opens up about her complicated rel

Mar 18, 2021 • 1:11:31

Get In Bed With Hasan Piker

Get In Bed With Hasan Piker

On this episode I have woke 6'4 bae, Hasan Piker open up on how he lost 80 pounds, found courage to talk to girls, overcame his insecurities, found love, and dated a porn star.We then discuss Leo traits, what men want, whether guys care about a girl's labia, sex, eating ass, open relationships, f*ck buddies, and toys, We end the podcast with fear of rejection, being vulnerable, coming off overbearing, and the struggle to find love with you don't love yourself. Follow Hasan at @HasanDPik

Mar 12, 2021 • 1:43:33

BLOCK HIM BYE w/ Olivia O'brien

BLOCK HIM BYE w/ Olivia O'brien

Were you expecting a fun night of netflix & chill but ended up with netflix & disappointment?? well Violet's got a solution for you!!! Violet is then joined by pop superstar Olivia O’Brien! Together the two discuss how NOT to go crazy over the guy you’re talking to, what their signs mean in regard to their romantic decisions, texting boys for your timid besties, the quarantine blues that we all faced and how deeply affected their mental health was by the pandemic. Olivia also lets Violet in o

Mar 11, 2021 • 54:02

THAT b*tch w/ Christine Quinn

THAT b*tch w/ Christine Quinn

This week I have Christine Quinn, the star of Netflix’s hottest show, Selling Sunset and you better listen up because she spills all the show’s tea, dick sizes, tricks for bagging a millionaire plus being cheated on?? We also get into the wedding drama you've been DYING to hear about, Christine’s issues with Chrishell, being blocked on socials, the real reason why her dad didn’t walk her down the aisle and why she doesn't like to watch her wedding on the show! I loved chatting with Chri

Mar 4, 2021 • 1:03:52

Big Boys DO Cry w/KFC Kevin Clancy

Big Boys DO Cry w/KFC Kevin Clancy

Sometimes you just have to let it all out...that means you too, boys. This week Violet is joined by Barstool Sports personality, Kevin Clancy, more popularly known as KFC. Together the two have a surprisingly intimate yet HILARIOUS conversation. The unlikely duo dissects the ins and outs of dating in your thirties, how to navigate the dating scene as a parent, and the difficulty men have expressing emotion. Violet also gives KFC a rapid fire dating quiz, only for him to reverse it and put HER

Feb 25, 2021 • 1:00:08

Give Love Without Fear w/Jojo

Give Love Without Fear w/Jojo

Today's guest is the beautiful and talented singer, JoJo!! We start the episode with the weirdest thing sbout us, my hookup with a girl this weekend, and her 3some experience, She relays an important message about the ugly side of the music industry that involves 'grooming' young girls and the importance of knowing the boundaries of consent. She then addresses why she cheated on her ex, the damage of cheating, why we cheat, and forgiving yourself. We end the podcast with, why the hell w

Feb 25, 2021 • 57:16

What's Your Move? w/Ellie Schnitt

What's Your Move? w/Ellie Schnitt

Wanna know the secret to being a hot girl? Of course you do! This week Violet is joined by Twitter aficionado Ellie Schnitt! Together the duo lets us in on ALL of their best tips and tricks about how to be the truest version of yourself in EVERY capacity. Violet teaches us the eight steps you should use to evaluate your friendships, how to set boundaries, and how friendship breakups actually aren’t all that bad. Ellie then gives us her secret formula to giving the best oral (hint: it’s not wh

Feb 18, 2021 • 1:08:41

Only Fans w/ Lena The Plug

Only Fans w/ Lena The Plug

She's just this ferocious slut that masturbates all the time or so you think.... She's actually so much more. Lena The Plug joins me as we discuss how she got into porn, being both a youtuber and a pornstar, f*cking her boyfriend on camera, origination of the name Lena The Plug, crazy fan stories, her childhood and growing up in a strict Armenian household. We the move into how she lost her virginity, the first time she watched porn, loving her body, the porn industry, her sexuality, wh

Feb 18, 2021 • 1:10:19

Bad B*tch Bootcamp - Bad Habits

Bad B*tch Bootcamp - Bad Habits

Roses are red, Violets are blue...the rest doesn’t matter because I’m spending Valentine’s Day with YOU! Welcome to Bad B*tch Bootcamp! This week we’re diving into how we view and shape our world around us. We’re focusing on removing bad habits from unhealthy beliefs about ourselves and others. We are no longer subscribing to the need of tricking and controlling people into loving us. Even if we think we’re being selfless, it’s actually selfish. Get your bff the gift that keeps on coming her

Feb 14, 2021 • 41:36

Living The American Dream w/Kristina Schulman

Living The American Dream w/Kristina Schulman

On today's episode I first discuss the power of manifesting and how I manifested my current life. I then have Kristina Schulman on, as she opens up about her childhood as an orphan in Russia and being adopted by an American family that took her in and moved her to the US. You will laugh, you will cry, this will be one inspiring episode. Follow Kristina on Instagram at @kristinaschulman and the podcast @tootiredtobecrazy See you next Thursday BADDIES!!! See Privacy Policy at https://art

Feb 12, 2021 • 1:00:15

Don’t Become Famous, It Sucks w/ Amanda Hirsch

Don’t Become Famous, It Sucks w/ Amanda Hirsch

Would you name your child Cricket? Busy Philipps did! This week Violet is joined by Amanda Hirsch, host of the Not Skinny But Not Fat podcast! Together the two Internet personalities discuss EVERYTHING pop culture from the latest Bachelor Nation drama, Halsey’s pregnancy (congrats!), Armie Hammer’s most recent controversy and why Violet believe he's the way he is, the reality of life of a celeb, pizza gate, and so much more. Violet puts both Amanda AND you guys to the test with her rapid fire

Feb 11, 2021 • 1:01:44

Being A Mother Changed Me With Milla Jovovich

Being A Mother Changed Me With Milla Jovovich

"It was like giving birth and having an abortion at the same time" Mila says during the interview. We first start the episode with speaking Russian, her current obsession, DIY home tips, the reality and struggles of being pregnant, and her marriage including breaking up for almost two years.We dive into growing up with an abusive alcoholic father, being an immigrant, the moment she had to grow up, keeping the romance alive by having sex in the closet and laundry room, how being a mother

Feb 4, 2021 • 1:35:35

Taking Control of Your Destiny With Adelaide Kane

Taking Control of Your Destiny With Adelaide Kane

I sit with this Aussie bombshell and we discuss everything from partying to how she started to what inspires her to when drinking becomes a problem and why she stopped to all the way to her regrets with her last relationship.Adelaide opens up for the first time about why her last relationship ended, her regrets, and her current love life as we cry and laugh through this episode. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#d

Jan 28, 2021 • 1:35:33

We Never Had Sex with Logan Paul

We Never Had Sex with Logan Paul

On this episode with Logan Paul, we discuss that time I tried to bang him, Logan's type, Japan, depression, James Charles, cancel culture, and my embarrassing drunk texts. We then get into a more serious discussion like the first time Logan touched a wiener, our most embarrassing sex stories, and what everyone's been dying to know...  who's d*ck is bigger - LOGAN or JAKE?!?! Which team are YOU on!?! Length or girth?We end the podcast with final thoughts on sending nudes, f*cking on the

Jan 21, 2021 • 1:07:53

Sex, Daddy Issues & Fetishes w/Sofia Franklyn

Sex, Daddy Issues & Fetishes w/Sofia Franklyn

On this episode, Sofia Frankly, host of Sofia With An F podcast joins me as one of the most requested guests! We cover reverse cow girl, and a "how to" guide to cum when on top and in the "cat" position. We get into the do's and dont's of dating apps, our daddy issues, thoughts on f*cking on the first date, fetishes, and the gluck gluck 9000. We end the episode with tips on eating the p$ssy, Jay Alvarez, bleaching our butth0le, biggest boner killer, and friendship breakups! Make sure

Jan 14, 2021 • 1:03:39

Surviving A (Friendship) Breakup

Surviving A (Friendship) Breakup

On this episode we discuss friendship breakup, why we struggle with them, and how to cope with losing a friend. We start with a Q&A on feeling lost, letting go, and a weird habit of mine that no one knows about. We then dive into how to spot a ride or die BFF, why friendship breakups are so painful, tips on moving on, and a recent experience of mine. New episode every Thursday. Pls rate & subscribe and don’t forget to follow me on IG at @violetbenson & @tootiredtobecrazy

Jan 11, 2021 • 34:08

Are you dating a F*ckboy?

Are you dating a F*ckboy?

Welcome to the first episode of Too Tired To Be Crazy - a hilarious podcast brought to you by me, Violet Benson (creator of @daddyissues_ )!!Today we're talking about my insane dating life and even crazier mind. So grab a bottle of wine and some tissues because you're about to get on an emotional rollercoaster called "He's wasting your time 2019". On this episode, we discuss our own f*ckboy experience, answer your questions, and give advice on how to end a toxic cycle and love yourself.

Jan 7, 2021 • 32:26

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