Pirate Monk Podcast
Nate Larkin
A (mostly) weekly podcast produced by members of the Samson Society
459 | Storm Myer | "Looking for Comfort in What You Know”
On this episode: Aaron and Nate return from Florida separately. Aaron asks if girls or guys are better.Also, Updates on the walking retreat for 2025 as well as many other retreats. Sign-up now!This week, Nate and Aaron have a discussion with our very own pirate monk: Storm Myers. Storm isn’t an author or pedaling his wares. He’s a guy with a story inviting others to join with him to share their stories too. Storm discusses his journey of affairs, drugs, over working, seeking relationships to av
Apr 24, • 1:07:47
458 | Mike Novotny | Confess First, for Safety
On this episode: Aaron is in Texas or Mississippi, maybe, networking. Nate is solo and talks about “the great unplugging”. This week, Nate interviews Mike Novotny. Mike is an author, pastor, husband, and father. Mike serves from Appleton, WI, one of the top ten drunkest towns in the United States, where he is known for having sermon series’s that discuss the difficult things. Topics include, but are not limited to porn and its damages, transgender, confession, and masturbation. Mike talks about
Apr 17, • 51:46
457 | Ryan George | Healing From Abuse
On this episode: Nate provides tough support to extended family. Aaron asks how Jesus would show up. They also discuss an adventure Samson weekend and want your feedback.This week, Nate and Aaron talk to adrenaline junkie Ryan George. Ryan is the oldest of six siblings, a preacher's kid, a home school kid, traveler, wing walker, author, speaker, husband, and father, and is experienced in "cloisteration". He shares how his search for Jesus has taken him to over 30 countries. The guys discuss Rya
Apr 9, • 1:04:00
456 | Charlie Peacock | There is No Such Thing as a Solo Artist
On this episode: Aaron sees two sets of footprints in the sand and has weird thoughts about transitions. Nate thinks about going back in time.This week, Nate and Aaron talk to Charlie Peacock. Charlie was married at eighteen, has been a performing musician since 14, is an author, song writer, producer, and has played most types of music. Charlie talks about his northern California music influences that led him from blues, raw country, funk, soul, rhythm and blues, and many other genres. He
Apr 3, • 1:03:32
455 | Joel Burns | Question Everything with Joel Burns
On this episode: Aaron is missing someone to feed him grapes. Nate is home in Mount pleasant.This week, Nate and Aaron interview Joel Burns. Joel is a blogger and musician who is not a minister or college educated. He writes about and questions the journey of Christian manhood. Joel is a self professed skeptic and critic who helps ask why and leads others to question “church culture” and compare it to what the Bible actually says. Joel talks about lots of “myths” in the church that are disp
Mar 20, • 44:06
454 | Carl Lehenbauer | The Song of Songs with Carl Lehenbauer
On this episode: Aaron is late and compromised, and Nate forgot. They discuss crisis management and cold fish.This week, Nate and Aaron interview Carl Lehenbauer. Carl is an author and pastor in Wisconsin. He shares that churches are often prudish and avoid the book of the Song of Songs, so he studied and wrote about it. Carl guides us on the model we should use in pursuing one another in a relationship. The book teaches that we should eat, drink, and be drunk with the wife of your youth. He tal
Mar 10, • 53:42
453 | David Kerwin | Addiction Fueled by Underlying Trauma w/Davis Kerwin
On this episode: Nate is disjointed for southern migration. Aaron loves appetizers and dips. Both discuss limiting outrage porn and news.This week, Nate and Aaron interview Davis Kerwin. Davis is a registered nurse who became a certified health addiction counselor and uses internal family systems in his practice. He shares his background of multigenerational addiction, depression, and suicidality. His personal experiences include alcoholism from childhood and being caretaker for his dad, and fa
Feb 27, • 59:52
452 | Ron Williams & Rob Schettler | Iron Sharpening Iron
Nate enjoys a closed road. Aaron likes snow days and rocks his underwear. This week, Nate and Aaron interview returning guest Ron Williams and first timer Rob Schettler. Ron refreshes us on his story of over 20 years as a minister, prison time, and becoming an addiction recovery coach. He shared in more detail on episode 372. Rob shares about his journey as a Chaplain in pastoral care. They discuss how they assist others in healing from early childhood abuse through shepherdin
Feb 20, • 47:14
451 | Dr Jim Wilder | Neuro-Theology
On this fresh and Crunchy episode, Aaron likes soggy cereal. Nate gives instruction on the right way to approach cereal.This week, Nate and Aaron interview Dr Jim Wilder. Dr Wilder prefers to be called Jim. Jim is a neuro-theologian. Jim has studied the science of character change and given us the findings in his book, Renovated. He helps understand why thinking differently won’t change us, but connection will. Some of the other topics include: sugar is a distraction from the
Feb 6, • 59:06
450 | Art Blanchford | Transformation
Title: Transformation w/ Art Blanchford Aaron talks about the awkwardness of candy crushing your penis. Nate is Live. The guys discuss goals, resolutions, perfectionism, gamifying recovery, and increased success with community, support and feedback.This week, Nate interviews Art Blanchford. Art is a recovering workaholic, Tennessee local, and host of the Life in Transition Podcast. He is also a business consultant, coach, and leads midlife transformational retreats. They dis
Jan 30, • 56:50
449 | Juliane Taylor Shore | The Brain Wears History Colored Glasses
The Brain Wears History Colored Glasses w/ Juliane Taylor Shore Aaron recaps the 2024 Samson Summit. He shares his takeaways on vulnerability, storytelling and five senses activities. Then he has bad internet. Nate discusses the first ever Canadian retreat June 6-8, eh. This week, Nate interviews Juliane Taylor Shore. Juliane is an author, speaker, teacher, therapist, and leads online and in-person intensives and workshops. She nerds out (in a good way) on neuroscience as she shares ways with u
Jan 24, • 47:53
448 | Zack Brittle | Poetic and Mad Science Therapy
On this episode: Nate and Aaron talk about experiences at the 2024 Italian Samson Retreat with nuns. Our Guest: Zach Brittle, who is the only Gottman and RLT trained couples therapist in the world. He is also a cohost of Marriage Therapy Radio, a husband, father, teacher, and four years sober, recovering alcoholic. Zach discusses getting married at 23 and being happily married for 24 of the 27 years. He works for the Gottman Institute and tells us the origins of the Gottman method and why it's s
Jan 16, • 48:29
447 | Alexandra Repke | Father Forgive Them…
On this episode: Nate and Aaron are live and in color. Aaron says interesting things and swallows spit. Nate escapes the bitter cold of Tennessee, because he is old. Exciting News: Pure Desire, 7-Pillars is moving from Portland to the Nashville area, and there will be an Austria Samson retreat in 2025! Our Guest: Dr. Alexandra Repke has a background in criminology, correction, forensics, and personality disorders as they relate to addiction and recovery. She discusses her understanding of why ps
Jan 9, • 55:01
446 | Mark and Michelle Hollingsworth | From Knowledge to Experience
On this episode: Aaron interviews Mark and Michelle Hollingsworth. Our Guests: Mark and Michelle are trauma trained at the Allender Center and Art of Living Counseling Center in narrative focused healing as marriage counselors. They come from experience, navigating and recovering from an affair. They discuss offloading the burdens of trauma and secrets. Mark and Michelle talk about shame in the ministry, lack of Christian and church support, and navigating people that don’t know what to do with
Jan 2, • 1:04:49
445 | Tom Bellamy | Limerance
On this episode: Nate and Aaron end 2024 with hope. Aaron feels it in his chest. Nate revisits old recovery. Nate predicts the best national retreat ever, and Aaron may hula. Our Guest: Dr. Tom Bellamy is from the UK and an expert on the topic of limerence. He explains that limerence has properties similar to drugs and expires fairly quickly. He discusses the history and how to recognize the limerence type of love. Dr. Tom also gives help on how to end it, and even how to prevent it in the futur
Dec 26, 2024 • 55:07
444 | Kimberly Panganiban | The Sex “Need”
On this episode: This week, it's Friday to Aaron. Our Guest: Kimberly Panganiban is a Gottman-trained LMFT with a Filipino last name. She tells her story of being curious about people and her parent's divorce that led her to the therapy field. Kimberly shares that many sexual problems in marriage are simply misalignments and are repairable with the help of an outsider. She discusses the importance of sexual communication, so that a couple is connecting, not merely having a mechanical event. How
Dec 19, 2024 • 45:22
443 | Christine Baker | Learning to Fight a Bear, Run Away from a Bear, or Drop Dead
On this episode: Aaron is excited. Our Guest: Christine Baker is a PHD, CSAT, LPC, SEP, and a sex addiction therapist. She shares her journey from working at the Baptist Children’s home and attending a lecture that led her to pursue sex addiction therapy for women. Christine later transitioned into sex addiction therapy for men and women, stating the value and importance of helping men heal and relate to women in a healthy and appropriate way. She talks about why it's easier for males to get int
Dec 12, 2024 • 59:18
442 | Sam Jolman | Bless the Arousal
On this episode: Nate and Aaron talk about different seasons of life. They share how important it is to balance parts of life, including: work, friends, play, and scheduling. Our Guest: Sam Jolman shares how he asked his brother to clarify sexual questions for him. They discuss how many people are sexually awakened and then immediately shamed. Sam shows us how to welcome one's sexuality, learning to respond with awe instead of lust. He talks about the different experiences of coming to sexual in
Dec 5, 2024 • 59:01
441 | Shane Ramer | Sober Recreation
On this episode: Nate and Aaron talk about healthy play. Nate shares what it's like to attend 3 intensives in 2 months. He shares the joy and relief in attending intensives instead of leading them. Our Guest: Shane Ramer is an old school skater, recovery coach, and podcaster. They discuss recreation and fun in sobriety and fighting the boredom. Shane shares why community is important, even when we may have found it in the wrong places at times. How giving back and volunteering helps to heal and
Nov 28, 2024 • 56:16
440 | Carrie Cole | Re-Marriage
On this episode: Nate and Aaron are back for another episode of the podcast a few people will enjoy. This podcast took a year off of Aarons Life. Planning for the Italy and Germany retreats are discussed, as well as Octoberfest. Our Guest: Dr. Carrie Cole is director of research, training, and runs the “Love Lab” at the Gottman Institute. She performs analysis of relationships. Carrie shares through research that men are more emotional than women and stay that way longer. Discussion includes rea
Nov 21, 2024 • 59:27
439 | Vicky Easa | Time-Outs and Connection
On this episode: Nate and Aaron bring the podcast back. Aaron wears pants and a hat on Thursday. Nate is still swimming and reads Lonely All the Time. And Aaron goes to jail. Our Guest: Vickey Easa is a therapist and podcaster in Boston Mass via SoCal. She discusses the cultural challenges of how sarcasm is avoiding vulnerability and also blocks intimacy. Understanding how males use insults to show love, especially in the show Friends. Vickey helps couples work through why we keep reacting and n
Nov 14, 2024 • 58:59
438 | Andrea Ashley | Continued Growth
On this episode: Aaron interviews returning guest Andrea Ashley. Andrea is the host of the Adult Child podcast. She’s the only child from an alcoholic household who became sober at 19 years old. She shares her story of learning and implementing boundaries with her parents and others. Andrea shares how she has learned to see her inner child and stopped trying to correct it. She talks about how her friendships have grown over time as she has gotten healthier. They discuss the isolation of going de
Nov 7, 2024 • 58:17
437 | Nathaan Demers | Hope in Times of Need
On this episode: Rob eats turtles and recommends the MickeyD’s app. Pablito eats fair foods and illustrates safety in vulnerable discussions. Our Guest: Nate talks to Nathaan Demers. Nathaan is a psychologist and has a passion for getting quality mental health to the underserved. He has come up with a unique way to help men that engages through humor. Nathaan talks about the many free resources as well as the ability to connect to a real person for help in under 60 seconds. Links: Man Therapy
Oct 31, 2024 • 45:09
436 | Tim Timmons | In the Valley Where Joy Grows
Our Guest: Aaron dives right into the interview with Tim Timmons, musical guest for the 2024 Summit, pastor's kid, musician, worship leader, Tennessean by way of California, sporting a magnificent beard. He talks about growing up with the "husky" label, a home life that blew up as a young teenager, and his mother's intentionally taking the arrows to protect his relationship with his dad. Tim had a crisis of faith as a young adult, navigated with the help of incredible men who gave him permission
Oct 24, 2024 • 1:08:32
435 | Sam Louie | Ethnic Immigrant Shame
On this episode: Aaron gets out of bed to podcast and shares his “chesticles up” perspective. Jason shares what he looks forward to at the retreat and favorites from past retreats. Mark has some kind of ailment that Aaron can't pronounce and shares his experiences with Andrew Bauman. Our Guest: Nate talks with Sam Louie. Sam shares about the religion of work and his journey to becoming a counselor. Sam is a first-generation Chinese immigrant to the United States from Hong Kong. He shares his ina
Oct 17, 2024 • 1:23:24
434 | Tim Fletcher | Canadian Recovery
On this episode: Join Aaron as he talks to our guest Tim Fletcher. Tim’s journey includes pastorship, being on disability, and becoming a temporary counselor that has turned into a passion and career. Aaron and Tim discuss the history of trauma and therapy in Canada, the past, and even in the Bible. Tim shares that adapting to trauma (addiction), helps us survive childhood but messes up adult life. He also helps us understand and see less obvious addictions and escapes, such as: over-working, ov
Oct 10, 2024 • 54:58
433 | Chris Bruno | Transitions and Transformation
On this episode: Aaron talks to returning guest Chris Bruno. Chris leads story work counseling at Re-story Counseling, and guides groups of men at the Restoration Project. Aaron and Chris discuss the history of “rites of passage,” women raising boys, and consequences of boys going to approximations of manhood. Chris has written a new book called: Man Maker Project. This book helps guide males (and females), even without kids, in fatherhood, brotherhood, and sonship. Join along as they offer hope
Oct 3, 2024 • 1:07:50
432 | Ian and Tamara Dowling | Scholarships in the Healing Journey
On this episode: Aaron, Mark, and Jason start the show at 9:05pm Tennessee time. Mark talks about sharing his story in a co-ed setting. Our Guest: Nate and Aaron talk with Ian and Tamara Dowling. Ian gets excited and talks fast. He shares about how his childhood abuse and introduction to pornography shaped his view of relationships. They discuss the importance of seeking healing for yourself and not to save a relationship. Ian and Tamara share how their marriage has healed and grown as they have
Sep 26, 2024 • 1:04:24
431 | Matt Wade | Relational Healing in Being Known
Our Guest: This week, Aaron interviews Matt Wade. Matt’s life started as a small boy. He’s now a couples counselor specializing in EFT therapy. Matt discusses his journey of not being supported in becoming a pastor and how he had more of a passion for ministry than a passion for Jesus. He shares how his childhood abuse led to promiscuity to find acceptance and love. Matt encourages us with the healing that occurs in relationships once there is empathy for one another. Intimacy is established whe
Sep 19, 2024 • 48:41
430 | Trent Dollyhigh | Raising Up Leaders and Healers
Our Guest: Aaron has a talk with Trent Dollyhigh. Trent is from Mayberry. Yes, that Mayberry. He grew up with whistling, fishing, violence and pornography. Trent was also youth pastor to Andrew Bauman. He shares that Andrew was a student of his and now he is a student of Andrew. Trent discusses how unresolved trauma is usually repeated, and the value of understanding an abuser's history. In his ministry, Trent “helps men die a good death so they can live a good life.” Finally, he addresses why h
Sep 12, 2024 • 58:19
429 | Joel Roberts | Serving - From the Military to Therapy
On this episode: Pablito is not Nate, and Rob is back from retirement. Together, they compare improv to recovery. Our Guest: Aaron and Tim Ice interview Joel Roberts. Joel shares his transition from military career to becoming a therapist. He discusses how our culture and church are not characteristically raising men to be husbands and fathers, and how important it is to pursue growth in those areas. Understanding why it is important of share your story from the perspective of villain, victim, a
Sep 5, 2024 • 1:08:20
428 | Daniel Weiss and Josh Glaser | Parents Equipping Parents
On this episode: This week Aaron goes solo. Our Guests: Daniel Weiss and Josh Glaser. Josh is executive director at Regeneration Ministries where he works with parents, equipping them in the digital age with kids. Daniel comes from Focus on the Family, where he specialized in healthy sexuality for families and now, he equips leaders to promote Gospel-centered sexuality in the church. Together, these gentlemen co-authored a book to parents from parents titled: Treading Boldly Through a Pornograph
Aug 29, 2024 • 48:44
427 | Five Guys Talk about Andrew Bauman
On this episode: Nate and Aaron made it back from England. Aaron gets up at 2am. Our Guest: Aaron and Nate have a discussion with Justin, Jason, and Mark. Nate is anxious about going to a group intensive lead by Andrew Bauman and wants the guys to give him the lowdown. Justin, Jason, and Mark share what they experienced as they recently went through the retreat together. They share how recovery is more than an intellectual fix or sobriety. The group discusses why it's important to have multiple
Aug 22, 2024 • 58:42
426 | Joel Muddamalle | Humility for the Arrogant Masses
On this episode: Nate is travelling. Aaron hosts solo and has many sub points. Our Guest: Dr. Joel Muddamalle. Joel resides in North Carolina via Chicago. He co-hosts a podcast with Lysa TerKeurst and Jim Cress called Therapy and Theology. Joel shares his journey of trauma to arrogance then humility. He guides us to see how safe curiosity brings us to humility and back to our own humanity. Joel also shows us that we can have peace and rest via codependency on God. He gives some practical exercis
Aug 15, 2024 • 52:59
425 | Michael Johnson | You Are Worthy of Love
On this episode: Nate and Aaron talk about Father's Day in England and time zone challenges. Aaron smokes everything, even asparagus. Our Guest: Returning guest Michael Johnson became a marriage expert as a single person and felt led to start a marriage ministry after 10 years in his own marriage. The discussion includes seeing beyond the obvious by supplementing feelings with facts. How to reprogram your sex drive by keeping dating out in the open. Michael shares why its so easy to fall for the
Aug 8, 2024 • 59:23
424 | Matthew and Joanna Raabsmith | Hodge Podge of Recovery
On this episode: Aaron gets socks, and Nate just got back from recovery church. Our Guest: Matthew & Joanna Raabsmith are founders of Renewing Us Recovery, where they help couples renew and repair relationships affected by sexual addiction, infidelity, and betrayal. Matthew shares his journey from youth pastor back to seminary where he and Joanna learned of the connection between therapy, psychology, and faith. He also talks about his road to recovery from sexual addiction through the 12-step pr
Aug 1, 2024 • 52:14
423 | Fausto Estrada | Recovery Ambassador
On this episode: Aaron has been writing. He turns one book into several books. Nate and Aaron also discuss the gospel, recovery, and dealing with the internal parts. Our Guest: Fausto Estrada shares how his story of addiction took him from Honduras to a place of healing in Calgary, Alberta, Canada. He shares that reading more books, getting married and having kids did not cure his addiction. He became involved in Prodigals International. After much success, he translated the material to take to
Jul 25, 2024 • 59:24
422 | Leslie Vernick | Healthy Sinners
On this episode: Nate changed religions to pescatarian and Aaron talks about when he was vegan. They also discuss the podcast break and England long-walk. Our Guest: Leslie Vernick - host of Relationship Truth: Unfiltered podcast. They discuss the reality that new curtains don’t fix the termites in the basement of our relationships. Leslie explains the truth that we want people in our lives, but some people use each other as objects. She gives examples of many types of abuse that can happen in a
Jul 18, 2024 • 1:03:14
Announcement - Pirate Monk Podcast is taking a short break
The Pirate Monk Podcast will be taking a break for the next several weeks to give our volunteers a much-needed rest. We plan to resume posting new episodes again in July. If you can't live without your PMpod fix in the meantime, please take advantage of the 400+ episodes in our back catalogue to listen to some that you may have skipped or would like to revisit!
Jun 6, 2024 • 0:45
421 | Aundi Kolber | Honoring and Knowing Self
On this episode: Aaron is tired and cleans the fridge. Nate talks about the dragon of our age. Our Guest: Aundi Kolber - licensed professional counselor, author, speaker, wife, and mom. She shares her journey of being raised in the Catholic church and complex trauma. She encourages us to be present, loving, honoring, and respecting ourselves along the journey as she discusses her books Strong Like Water and Try Softer. Links: Aundi’s Website Aundi’s Instagram Psychology Today Aundi’s Books: Tr
May 30, 2024 • 58:36
420 | Michael Ayala-White | Recovery Paths
On this episode: Aaron rides an exercise bike and figures out how to get paid to exercise. Nate reconsiders his gym membership. Our Guest: Michael Ayala-White, a Buffalo NY native, is a Trauma Informed Certified Coach who is located in Buffalo, NY, but his certification is global and does remote coaching with clients all over the country. He specializes in addiction recovery, inner child work, and trauma informed coaching. He talks about the differences between toxic shame and everyday shame and
May 23, 2024 • 50:52
419 | Kim Evenson | Male Friendship
On this episode: Nate observes people starting to walk on sidewalks. Aaron shares his crush on Anne of Green Gables. Our Guest: Kim Evenson comes to us from Oslo Norway by way of Australia. He discusses the desire and need for close male relationships. Kim shares the foundation of friendship being love, and including compassion, vulnerability, comfort, hugs, and seeing each other face to face. He started Brothers first out of selfish need, along with the desire to help others. We also consider f
May 16, 2024 • 52:52
418 | Rachel Allen | Female Sexuality
On this episode: Nate and Aaron discuss ADHD, convergent and divergent thinking. How someone with ADHD isn’t broken. Our Guest: Rachel Allen has lived in Alabama and Tennessee, and now calls Utah her home. She is a CSAT who works with a lot of women and couples. She shares her fascination with human behavior and how she started explaining sexuality to women in college. Rachel urges women not to Google Women’s Sexuality, especially in considering rape and purity culture, women’s masturbation, and
May 9, 2024 • 58:55
400 | Andrew Bauman | Deep Work with Nate and Aaron
On this episode: Aaron and Nate each allow Dr. Andrew J. Bauman to lead them in some therapy work. This episode is subdivided into two parts: first with Aaron and then with Nate, where Dr. Bauman walks them through exercises to connect their mind, feelings, body, and spirit for healing. Andrew will be the lead speaker at the 2024 Samson Summit, sharing how we can be closer to God through engaging our secrets and shame. Links: Andrew J. Bauman Events: 2024 Samson Summit Sponsor: Life Works Cou
May 2, 2024 • 1:05:33
417 | Tamara Rosier | Focusing with ADHD
Our Guest: Aaron interviews our guest, Dr. Tamara Rosier. Dr. Tamara is an ADHD coach, and the founder of the ADHD Center in West Michigan. She shares her knowledge and history of ADHD going back to the 1800’s. Ways to cope with the thing that gives you reoccurring anxiety, including emotionally engineering your day. The fact that ADHD people are more susceptible to addiction, because dopamine makes them feel more “normal.” Other topics include ADHD in marriage, supporting kids with ADHD, Conver
Apr 25, 2024 • 58:52
416 | Layton and Chelsea Boeve | Couples on a Journey, Healing Together
On this episode: Nate and Aaron debate one day for p@rn. Nate updates us on his speaking engagements. Our Guest: Nate and Aaron interview our guests, Chelsea and Layton Boeve. Chelsea and Layton host the Liberator podcast. The Michiganders share their journey that brought them to their passion for strong and healthy relationships. Layton grew up without TV and became a voracious reader which started his journey into fantasy and later porn. Chelsea brings us to an understanding of how trust is br
Apr 18, 2024 • 54:57
415 | Joshua and Charlene Lewis | Support in Recovery
On this episode: Nate and Aaron discuss 13 foot, 5 inch Oscar. Nate builds a screened-in treehouse. Our Guest: Natives of Miami, Josh and Charlene share their real-life experiences with alcoholism and substance abuse. Josh also talks about sex and work addiction and trading one addiction for another as part of his recovery in 12-step. Charlene’s journey in recovery includes becoming a certified addiction professional and an IITAP certified sex addiction therapist (CSAT). Josh’s journey include
Apr 11, 2024 • 1:06:45
414 | Jeremy Morris | The F-Word and Jesus
On this episode: Pablito and Rob didn’t get fired. Rob feels different ages when he dances. Is dancing a metaphor for life? Our Guest: Nate and Aaron welcome Jeremy Morris. Jeremy is from Western Idaho and brings a majestic beard and loads of life experience. He engages the lie that if others really knew us, they wouldn’t love us. Talking about your story in the present, sharing where the battle IS. Discussing the differences of transparency and vulnerability. Rejoicing with those who rejoice, a
Apr 4, 2024 • 59:15
413 | Ashley Chesnut | Sit, Listen, & Engage - Helping Women Get Free from P0rn
On this episode: Pablito and Rob are impulsive. Rob shares how he engages his stories with the gospel. Our Guest: Nate welcomes this week’s guest, Ashley Chesnut. Ashley is an author, young adult minister, and PHD student in Birmingham, AL. She discusses her book: It's Not Just You, and how that helps women engage their stories and experience freedom from p0rn and m@sturbation. Ashley shares how the world of women’s recovery is developing and gaining more traction and resources. She also discuss
Mar 28, 2024 • 1:00:32
412 | Roy Smith | The Human Condition
On this episode: Nate and Aaron discuss how macho and competitive Valentines Day can be. Our Guest: Nate and Aaron interview our guest, Dr. Roy Smith. Roy is a speaker, psychologist and author. He discusses his books, Inside Fatherhood for men, and The Campfire Gang Series for youth. Roy shares how his difficult and traumatic growing up years shaped his path to becoming a psychologist. A discussion around thanking your abuser. The balance of work and family. And a shift from saving others to ser
Mar 21, 2024 • 56:40
411 | Tullian Tchividjian | Success is More Toxic than Failure
On this episode: Nate is rucking things up. Aaron doesn’t understand why the rucking ruckers would ruck their @sses off. Our Guest: Nate and Aaron welcome back Tullian Tchividjian to the podcast for the third time. Tullian shares the value of crashing and burning in his just released book: Carnage and Grace. Topics include giving ourselves grace for not knowing what we don’t know and the human propensity to fück things up. The guys also discuss earning your Pharisee certificate. The importance o
Mar 14, 2024 • 1:03:07
410 | David Murrow | Submission is Manly
On this episode: We catch up on sports ball roulette with Nate and Aaron. Aaron reveals that he looks sh!t in spandex. Also, updates on the Harbor House are sailing in. Our Guest: Nate and Aaron interview our guest, David Murrow. David is a preacher, coach, speaker and author. On this episode, we discuss David’s book: Why Men Hate Going to Church and how to overcome this challenge. David guides us down a path of healing and growth using another book, The Map: The Way of All Great Men. Understand
Mar 7, 2024 • 53:58
409 | Ray Ortlund | Starve the Beast
On this episode: Pablito and Rob host. Pablito shares man cave woes. Swifties and important sports snacks are also discussed. Our Guest: Aaron interviews our guest, Ray Ortlund. Ray is a husband of over 50 years, father, grandfather, author, and minister. Discussing “Death of P0rn” and how it's like a modern-day fight against slavery. Ray encourages us to use strong words when describing p0rn usage, encouraged that Jesus is big enough to cover our sins. The importance of confessing sin one-to-an
Feb 29, 2024 • 1:04:45
408 | Sheri Keffer | Intimate Deception
On this episode: Samson celebrates the 20th Anniversary of its first meeting! Nate, Aaron, and Erin host and interview this week. Erin updates us on the pillow fights at the Sarah Society (no really, its a therapeutic technique). She also discusses the meetings, members, summits and webinars of the Sarah Society. Our Guest: This week we get to know Dr. Sheri Keffer. Dr. Sheri is an author, speaker, talk-show host, and therapist with over 20 years experience. She provides personal and profession
Feb 22, 2024 • 56:24
407 | Greg Oliver | Sober Is More Than Behavior
On this episode: Nate and Aaron are back. Aaron drives 75 hours and has technology challenges. Nate and Aaron discuss anxiety and panic attacks. Our Guest: Aaron interviews Greg Oliver after a 9-year break. Greg is executive director at Awaken, a 12-step recovery group in Birmingham Alabama. He shares his background and story of what brought him into his personal recovery and the need for recovery groups in his area. Greg and Aaron discuss disappointment in someone and disappointment for someone
Feb 15, 2024 • 1:12:26
406 | Brant Hansen | Healing the World
On this episode: Pablito and Rob host. Pablito has a birthday and experiences connection. Our Guest: Aaron interviews our guest, Brant Hansen. Brant is an emcee, radio show host, author, hero, and philanthropist. He encourages removing the makeup from Jesus. Brant shares many stories of blessings, cures, love, and miracles. Debating the gift and blessings of time and financial contributions as he works with Cure to heal and equip the world. Links: Cure Brant Hansen Book: Brant on Amazon Sponso
Feb 8, 2024 • 1:03:27
405 | Chuck Degroat | Understanding Narcissism
On this episode: Pablito and Rob bumper. Nate and Aaron may be striking or joining SAG. Pablito considers mug shots. Our Guest: Nate and Aaron interview our guest, Chuck Degroat. His experience includes: Professor of pastoral care and Christian Spirituality and Executive Director of the Clinical Mental Health Counseling Program at Western Theological Seminary in Holland Michigan, author, pastor, therapist, spiritual director, husband, and father. Narcissism expert Chuck teaches us about the diff
Feb 1, 2024 • 59:57
404 | George Wehby | Misguided Children Seeking Approval
On this episode: Pablito (Paul) and Rob share holiday memories, hope, and gratitude. Our Guest: Aaron Interviews our guest, George Wehby. Alabama born and raised, George has an impressive resume: Marine, police officer, air marshal, Brazilian jiu-jitsu black belt, business owner, tv show host, and tactical firearms instructor. He was basically a guy trying to find himself in stereotypical masculinity and earn his dad’s approval. George discusses the Man on Purpose Blueprint, a course that is des
Jan 25, 2024 • 1:01:50
403 | Roy Wooten | Honesty, Healing, and Community in the Present
On this episode: Nate goes to a s#xy place. Nate and Aaron talk about the purity culture, damaged goods and integrity in the journey. Our Guest: Roy Wooten is the executive director of The Crucible Project, pastor, minister, coach, and counselor. He shares how his adolescence and family mental health challenges have shaped his desire to help others in his career and ministry. Roy discusses athletics and his connection to the movie “Friday Night Lights.” His journey of wholeness and healing with
Jan 18, 2024 • 51:04
402 | Hilarie Cash | Understanding Technology Influences
On this episode: Nate and Aaron keep you a-bosom of Harbor House renovations. Our Guest: Dr. Hilarie Cash. Her experience includes: co-founder and chief clinical officer at ReStart Life, CSAT, author, internet rehab therapist, educator, and mother. Discussions include how the internet has changed over time to become more addictive, augmented reality and virtual reality, and the right vs. privilege of use. How screens override our natural tendencies of hunger and the need for restroom breaks. Dr.
Jan 11, 2024 • 59:16
401 | Mark Mayfield | The Connection Between Mind, Body, and Spirit
IMPORTANT: In the original version of this episode, when our guest was discussing his suicide attempt, he stated that someone couldn't die from an overdose of Tylenol. This is inaccurate, so we removed this statement. If you are struggling with suicidal thoughts, please reach out to the National Suicide Hotline by dialing 988. On this episode: hosted by Aaron and Tom (T.C.) Ryan. Aaron gets a heater, and Tom feels useful. Tom also discusses Living Integrated, which includes free resources an
Jan 4, 2024 • 1:11:45
399 | Sam Serio | Putting People Above Beliefs and Ideology
On this episode: Pablito and Rob discuss burritos, other California food, and real estate. Our Guest: Nate Interviews our guest Sam Serio. Sam is a preacher, counselor, author, and speaker. In this episode, Sam discusses his book: Sensitive Preaching to the Sexual Hurting. He shares how he learned from his own failures. He teaches how to be invitational instead of condemnational. Sam advocates ministering to people instead of talking about topics. Links: Healing Sexual Hurt Sam’s email Book: S
Dec 28, 2023 • 53:20
398 | Drew Boa | Making Sense of Triggers
On this episode: Nate and Aaron discuss the cocktail approach to recovery and provide some details of the Long Walk in England in June 2024. Our Guest: Drew Boa - podcaster, YouTuber, founder of Husband Material, and coach. Defining triggers, how they work, the temptations, and the flight/fight/freeze reactions. Listening to the story the trigger is telling, befriending the little boy in the story. How to address what I’m feeling without projecting it onto others. Surfing the urge; triggers have
Dec 21, 2023 • 53:31
397 | Blaine Eldredge | Research, Struggle, and Pain
Our Guest: Nate and Aaron interview our guest, Blaine Eldredge. Blaine, the middle son of a mix between Elijah the prophet and Willy Wonka. He tells us about how he accidentally wrote a book on his path to understand God. Blaine shares his journey of not being “enough” and learning his identity and security. Discussing the value of being an outsider vs. and insider, and how everyone is an outsider. Identifying yourself by where you belong, not where you don’t belong. Links: Blaine Eldredge Boo
Dec 14, 2023 • 1:06:41
396 | Jonathan Daugherty | Invitation to the Recovery Lifestyle
On this episode: Nate and Aaron discuss the ups and downs of the holidays and encourage us to lean into community during these seasons. Our Guest: Jonathan Daugherty, founder and president of Be Broken Ministries, podcaster, and recovering addict. Be Broken Ministries includes help for men, women, and families. Jonathan shares his journey and need to start the ministry. The Story of how his wife left him and their marriage was able to be reconciled. Recovery is a process and journey, not a check
Dec 7, 2023 • 1:01:09
395 | Victor Marx | Setting Captives Free
On this episode: Guest hosts Rob and Pablito reflect on the Samson Summit. They also debate the important issue of In-N-Out Burger vs. Whataburger. Our Guest: Nate and Aaron interview our guest, Victor Marx. Victor is a survivor, veteran, husband, father, minister, and CEO of All Things Possible Ministries. He shares his stories of trauma and harm and how it has been turned around and used to help rescue over 45,000 people. His journey from “neutral emotions” to recovery including over 120 visit
Nov 30, 2023 • 1:01:03
394 | Tod Bolsinger | The Leader is the Person Taking Responsibility
On this episode: Nate expresses gratitude and shares the role his wife played in starting the Samson Society. Aaron reflects on the Samson Summit and requests listeners to send in questions, experiences, and thoughts. Our Guest: Tod Bolsinger: former pastor, associate professor of leadership at De Pree Center, and author. Tod discusses what happens when old best practices no longer work, adaptive leadership. The differences between adaptive and technical leadership, learning in real time. The th
Nov 18, 2023 • 50:55
393 | Sheila Paige Harkins | The Therapy of Art
On this episode: Nate and Aaron give Halloween updates. Our Guest: Sheila Paige Harkins is a missionary kid, missionary, artist, and author. She shares her story of missions, marriage, adoption and how life happened in those events. She cautions about giving more energy to her husband's healing than he was giving. The damages of “trickle disclosure” and why it happens. Sheila took to the therapy of painting to heal, release, and understand her relationship with God. She helps answer another Que
Nov 16, 2023 • 54:28
392 | Jenna Riemersma | IFS: Compassion, Not Control
On this episode: Nate and Aaron discuss how to deal with relapse including gentleness and curiosity. Our Guest: Jenna Riemersma is an IFS therapist and author of Altogether You. She explains how Internal Family System therapy practices work to help their clients. Jenna leads us though a very powerful exercise to examine, understand, and grow related to our escaping behavior. Understanding authentic-self-led power versus manager-led power. Links: Jenna Riemersma's Website Altogether You Book Sp
Nov 9, 2023 • 1:02:22
391 | Carver Brown | Making Amends
On this episode: Nate, Aaron and guest host Elijah Lloyd Jones cure all that ails you, explaining how to cast your burdens on Christ. Also, be careful “shoulding” on yourself. Our Guest: Carver Brown is a recovery coach, recovery coach trainer, structured family recovery counselor, love first interventionists, and Life Works coach. He comes to us with over 20 years of sober experience. Carver reminds us that recovery is messy, we will mess up, but we are getting better. He walks us through the f
Nov 2, 2023 • 58:02
390 | Bruce Hebel | Forgiveness: Applying the What of Jesus
On this episode: Nate and Aaron skip the intro and get right to the interview. Our Guest: Dr. Bruce Hebel is an author, pastor, pastor's kid, and speaker. He brings the freedom of the gospel through forgiveness, revolutionary transformative change. Bruce discusses why it's important to forgive, citing that it can help relieve depression, anxiety, paranoia, and addiction. The choice we have to forgive or hold grudges. Bruce discusses the 7-step process of forgiveness and healing. He shares storie
Oct 26, 2023 • 1:05:02
389 | Andy Gullahorn | It’s About the Journey, Not the Destination
On this episode: Nate and Aaron discuss delight in walking alongside others and seeing their growth and first-time experiences. Our Guest: Andy Gullahorn, singer/songwriter, musician, and musical guest at the 2023 Samson Summit in Van TX. Andy is also nearly an O.G. Samson brother! Discussing the benefits of sobriety, including creativity, being in your own body physically and emotionally, vulnerability, and the value of the recovery experience. Andy guides us to honor the experiences of what ac
Oct 19, 2023 • 52:38
388 | Rebekah Vickery | I Feel...But the Bible…
On this episode: Nate and Aaron answer questions about patience in recovery, and speculate about Paul maybe wanting to wack off. Our Guest: Rebekah Vickery: Therapist, Allender Center trained, and Trauma Specialist. Rebekah shares her work concerning church and sexual trauma. Discussing the fault of spiritual bypass: ignoring the situation, feelings, what’s wrong, and focusing on religion. Sharing the importance of connecting to others to repair shame. Repairing “purity culture”: learning to (re
Oct 12, 2023 • 54:28
387 | Phil Dvorak | Connecting the Gospel to the Addict
On this episode: Nate and Aaron discussing grieving and wailing, one step at time. Q from A: Why is it important to have separate men's and women’s sex addiction recovery groups? Our Guest: Phil Dvorak: pastor, therapist, clinical director and church planter. Considering “Night of Joy” vs. “MTV Spring Break.” Phil discusses his journey to and from alcoholism. The importance of community, coming clean, and mentorship. The story of how recovery and Christ were integrated to start Recovery Church a
Oct 5, 2023 • 59:51
386 | Adam Young | What If There’s Nothing Wrong with You?
On this episode: Nate and Aaron are in the ionosphere speculating. Q from A: How much detail is appropriate to disclose to your spouse? Our Guest: Adam Young: author, therapist, speaker and podcaster. Adam talks about writing his upcoming book: Your Life Makes Sense. When we are not connected emotionally, interpersonally, and emotionally, we isolate, our brain fragments, and we tend to do whatever it takes to get peace in our bodies, frequently in addiction. Discussing attunement, and parents
Sep 28, 2023 • 48:19
385 | Jason Mathew | A New Type of Accountability App
On this episode: Aaron is back with updates. Aaron introduces his new jingle. Questions from Albuquerque: I'm lying in bed and can't sleep and I know that acting out will "fix" the problem. What do I do? Our Guest: Jason Mathew: founder of Lead Me Not accountability software. Jason shares his story of porn, fantasy, and dating apps and his need for digital-wellness. The app tracks trends, sends alerts, syncs with calendars, promotes reflection, and introspection. It focuses on high levels of s
Sep 21, 2023 • 54:19
384 | Laura Connell | You Are On Your Side
On this episode: Nate and guest host Chris Inman talk about kids leaving the house and becoming P.O.R.K. Our Guest: Laura Connell: author and trauma informed coach. Laura discusses how adverse childhood experiences (A.C.E. test) affect life expectancy and how to get those years back. She talks about how self-sabotage relates to childhood trauma. How willpower is not enough to stop self-sabotage from trauma. Other topics include reparenting and self-parenting, not being the victim while acknowled
Sep 14, 2023 • 47:19
383 | Mari Lee | There Is No Addiction Without Trauma
On this episode: Nate and guest host Tom Moucka discuss the difference between a therapist, coach, and Silas. Our Guest: Mari Lee: author, speaker, therapist, CSAT, trained in Gottman, betrayal trauma, complex trauma, sexual addiction and recovery, EMDR, and mindfulness based therapy. Mari discusses how her pain became her passion. We don’t have to live in the past, but the past lives in us. She explains the importance of disclosure in creating trust when working with couples and individuals. Fo
Sep 7, 2023 • 1:02:42
382 | Michael Barta | Deprivation Trauma & Intimacy Disorder
On this episode: Nate and guest host Chris Inman discuss the awesomeness of Rob Chenoweth, retreats and new podcasts. Our Guest: Dr. Michael Barta: author, psychologist, therapist, CSAT, and 12-stepper. Michael discusses how to treat “what’s causing the rash” -- going deeper beyond the symptoms. Digging into the intimacy disorder, learning to co-regulate in community. The lack of stability, emotional security and mental safety that leads to the inability to regulate. An environment where mistake
Aug 31, 2023 • 56:56
381 | Michelle Mays | Recovery is a Rodeo
On this episode: Nate and guest host Chris Inman update everyone on Aaron and Erin Our Guest: Michelle Mays: author, counselor and innovator. Michelle guides couples through healing and recovery from betrayal. Helping couples understand betrayal through attachment. She reminds us of the four attachment styles and how they affect both partners before and during recovery. Michelle also defines the three core injuries that happen to the betrayed partner. Contact and Book: Michelle Mays Guest Host:
Aug 24, 2023 • 50:44
380 | Nate Geyer | When Being a Good Boy Doesn’t Work
On this episode: Aaron and guest-host/guest Nate Geyer discuss everything from Birkenstocks to stocks. Our Guest: Nate Geyer works for Begin Again Institute as an LPC and CSATC. He comes from a background of education as well as lots of personal experience. Nate shares his journey of therapy and story work to find healing and recovery. He discusses how he started at four years old and felt like just scenery in his own house. Sharing feelings of guilt while having done nothing wrong. Also sharing
Aug 17, 2023 • 1:06:17
379 | Kervins Clement | The Importance of YOUR Story in Recovery and Growth
On this episode: Aaron and guest host Rob discuss Soul Architecture and how it works. Nate is still on a cruise. Our Guest: Kervins Clement: therapist CSAT, PHD candidate, husband, former sex addict. Kervins shares how growing up as a black Haitian immigrant impacted his addiction and recovery. Embracing ADHD and dyslexia, athletics, Young Life, community, crime, and sharing secrets. Identifying your struggle to learn to fight like hell. The importance of understanding your family and sharing yo
Aug 10, 2023 • 1:12:52
378 | Jonathan Merritt | How to Let Your Heart Grow
On this episode: Aaron and guest host Rob discuss breaking down walls and curiosity about others’ stories. Nate is on a cruise. Our Guest: Jonathan Merritt is an author, journalist, coach, and speaker. Learning to understand how news and opinion differ and how they change the reader. Embracing and investigating fear. Not allowing fear to tear us apart, especially when considering fear and faith. Are you covering fear with joy? Learning to investigate the stories of fear in your life as you grow.
Aug 3, 2023 • 1:02:19
377 | Mary Archibeque | Intimacy vs Intensity
On this episode: Aaron with an A and Erin with an E host while Nate is in Alaska. Our Guest: Mary Archibeque - addiction therapist and CSAT. Recovered drug addict turned drug addiction therapist, then gambling addiction therapist, and finally sex addiction therapist. Connecting to others through vulnerability and authenticity; no one cares what you know if they don’t know you care. You can’t care or work harder than the person you are helping. Intensity is a version of false intimacy or trauma b
Jul 27, 2023 • 1:12:41
376 | Stephen McWhirter | Every Story Has a Purpose
On this episode: Nate fixes wiring. Aaron is stranded at home. They discuss emotions in the church and the shortcomings of online friends. Our Guest: Stephen McWhirter - musician, minister, husband, and father. Stephen shares his story of being a preacher's kid and recovered drug addict. Your story [of healing] matters. Jesus didn’t heal people the same way twice. Jesus is real, despite your experiences. Stories of redemption. Everyone has emotions. Everything is trying to emotionally manipulate
Jul 20, 2023 • 43:56
375 | Zachary Wagner | New Testament Masculinity
On this episode: Nate and Aaron don’t have time for buffoonery. Our Guest: Zachary Wagner, an American in England, writer, researcher, and ordained minister. We look at how was Jesus’ masculinity shaped the narratives of the church. Understanding myths about the need for sex. Replacing the purity paradigm with learning. Turning immature image of sex into mature understanding. Discussing sexual abuse crisis in culture and the church. Reflecting on how Jesus had intimate, nonsexual, relationships
Jul 13, 2023 • 1:04:26
374 | Cathy Loerzel | Transitions in Life
On this episode: Nate and Aaron are back from England. Aaron has realizations and understands his feet. And a mysterious guest host is on the show. Our Guest: Cathy Loerzel:, author, coach, speaker, wife, and mother. Cathy, Co-founder of the Allender Center, talks about her next steps in life. Discussing loyalty and false loyalty: staying due to fear of being alone. Francis Weller’s premise of grief: “everything you love will die”. Growing when there wasn’t a plan B, while honoring and grieving
Jul 6, 2023 • 53:41
373 | Craig Cashwell | Spiritual Bypass
On this episode: Aaron has end of high school anxiety. Nate is old enough to have a grandchild graduating college. Our Guest: Dr. Craig Cashwell is a professor at William and Mary College and trauma counselor. Competent and ethical integration of spirituality into the counseling process. Understanding spiritual bypass. What you resist, persists. Discussing “need shame” and toxic positivity. Underneath anger is fear. Undoing gender stereotypes. You can’t be real with a partner if you aren’t real
Jun 29, 2023 • 1:00:54
372 | Ron Williams | A Pirate Monk’s Story
On this episode: Aaron paints a challenging image of himself. Nate engineers again. Both discuss medicating with work. Our Guest: Ron Williams: a pirate monk and coach shares his story that landed him in prison; the healing and hope that resulted; how his experiences have helped himself and other men grow; helping churches with their internal policies related to sex offenders. Links: Ron's coaching site, Ron's email 2023 Samson Annual Retreat If you have thoughts or questions that you'd like t
Jun 22, 2023 • 1:00:14
371 | Blaine Hogan | Re-Integrating
On this episode: Aaron unfriends on facebook. Nate listens to a new book. Our Guest: Blaine Hogan: actor, director, author, husband, and father. You know you have succeeded as a parent, if your kids go to therapy for different reasons than you did. You can’t understand where you are going, if you don’t know where you have been. Free people free people! Composing your future is much like composing a song. Understanding your past, future, and present using narrative therapy. Renewing of the mind,
Jun 15, 2023 • 47:44
370 | Sam Black | The Healing Church
On this episode: Aaron markets the virtues of living in a sauna and learns about FOMO. Nate reads 6 books on an Alaskan cruise. Our Guest: Sam Black: a pirate monk, meeting host, author, journalist, and reporter. Sam educates pastors and church leaders on understanding pornography addiction, how it happens, early exposure, trauma and drama, and the volume of males and females consuming. How sharing your story opens the door to others opening up and sharing their stories. Explaining how Covenant
Jun 7, 2023 • 55:47
369 | Pascale Wright | Remember Your Story
On this episode: Nate and Aaron have a boring intro. Discussing cutting the grass and weather. Our Guest: Pascale Wright: facilitator, clinical and pastoral counselor. Giving an event a safe space. Where was God? Communing over shared suffering, we must have community to heal. It is important to go back and address “stuckness,” even if there is no major traumatic event. Forgive yourself first, to forgive others more deeply. Links: marriage intensives and contact info 2023 Samson Annual Retreat
Jun 1, 2023 • 55:54
368 | John Eldredge | Pursuing Whole-Heartedness
On this episode: Aaron is excited and gets to shop. Nate will pop in. Our Guest: John Eldredge: author, counselor, minister, husband, and father. Be cautious of the cascade effects of trauma. How to practice benevolent detachment and release. You can have freedom or control, control kills. Anxiety and depression rise in direct correlation to the use of social media and news. Be intentional! Links: Wild at Heart, Books, podcast, App 2023 Samson Annual Retreat If you have thoughts or questions t
May 25, 2023 • 52:26
367 | Russ Johnson | Rethinking Church
On this episode: Nate and Aaron provide updates and ask for help on “the redneck frat house” (The Harbor). Our Guest: Russ Johnson: former pastor, consultant, podcaster, author, husband, and father. Sharing the good news. If it can be quantified, it can be faked. “You are held by a love that will never let you go!” Allowing those you minister to determine the direction they need to go. The problem is never in the mirror, it's the “thems”. Links: Contact, Podcast, Call, etc. 2023 Samson Annual Re
May 18, 2023 • 46:35
366 | Paula Jauch | Cross-Addicted: Breaking Free from Trauma and Addiction
On this episode: Nate - McCreary’s Pub is stalking him. Aaron - own your own share. Our Guest: Paula Jauch, speaker, podcaster, trauma overcomer, survivor, author, wife, and mom. Overcoming with 2 addicted parents, eating disorder, addiction, gangs, and more. “Trauma is the greatest mission field of the 21st century, but the most misunderstood.” “Water seeks its own level." "Your picker is broken.” Links: Website, Contact, Podcast, Book 2023 Samson Annual Retreat If you have thoughts or q
May 11, 2023 • 54:22
365 | Cathy Loerzel | Trusting in Marriage and Story Work
On this episode: Nate and Aaron discuss the first ever event at the Harbor House. Our Guest: Cathy Loerzel: Co-founder of the Allender Center, author, urban farmer, coach, speaker, wife, mother. “Every single person causes harm, every single person causes delight.” Continue learning despite what degree you do or don’t have. Moving from danger to beauty. Links: Contact, Coaching, Speaking, etc. Books: Redeeming Heartache, Brain Talk If you have thoughts or questions that you'd like the guys
May 4, 2023 • 58:25
364 | John Pulley | Understanding and Preventing Human Trafficking
On this episode: Nate and Aaron reach into their sack and pull something out, answering mail. Our Guest: John Pulley, consultant. Vengeance is easier than grace. “I touched my wiener, so God can no longer love me.” The church has an honesty problem. “How’s your heart doing?” Learning to open up in a safe and healthy environment. There are consequences for your actions, even under grace. Links: John Pulley If you have thoughts or questions that you'd like the guys to address in upcoming epi
Apr 27, 2023 • 1:19:57
363 | Jarrett Samuels | Developing Friendships
On this episode: Nate continues to have low quality internet. Aaron discourages WEeing on each other. Our Guest: Jarrett Samuels, minister, podcaster, husband, father, friend. What is a man? All men are insecure and emotional. Becoming who God created us to be. Your presence matters. Taking Responsibility. Community not innovation. Links: Contact, Podcast, Events, Tribe, Etc. If you have thoughts or questions that you'd like the guys to address in upcoming episodes or suggestions for future g
Apr 20, 2023 • 47:48
362 | Mo Isom Aiken | Helping Women Realize They Aren’t Alone
On this episode: Nate enjoys Amelia Island with his grandkids. Aaron has an indefinite future. Our Guest: Mo Isom is an athlete, author, speaker, home coming queen, and LSU grad. She discusses growing up in a home with a sex addict. Childhood exposure to p*rn that started a 10 year addiction. How much can I get away with and not go to hell?. Healthy Sexual Conversation for Women and Families. Links: Books, contact, speaking, other resources If you have thoughts or questions that you'd like t
Apr 13, 2023 • 57:03
361 | Jason George | Learning Good, Healthy Pleasure & Replacement in Community
On this episode: Nate inquires about Aaron’s home repair updates. Aaron preaches about fake fruit. Our Guest: Jason George: minister, podcaster, life coach, husband, and dad. Jason shares his story of growing up in a broken family including abuse, being raised by siblings, early p*rn exposure and addiction. He also discusses being kinda Christian. Even believers can fall back into sin. Healing takes community. Learning good healthy pleasure and replacement. It's important to replace, not just st
Apr 6, 2023 • 1:03:26
360 | Joe Ryan | Having Compassion for Yourself
On this episode: Nate confesses his love for WhataBurger, and Aaron fills his jugs at his neighbors house. Our Guest: Joe Ryan. Podcaster, coach, Italian and Irish, New Yorker, former bartender and comedian. Sober from drugs and alcohol. Joe hosts a podcast: Its Not You, Its Your Trauma. Owning your actions and apologizing. Having Compassion for yourself. Links: Joe Ryan: Podcast, Youtube, Instagram, Contact, Coaching Book: The Body Keeps the Score If you have thoughts or questions that you'd
Mar 30, 2023 • 55:42
359 | Brody Holloway | Shared Experiences Strengthen Relationships
On this episode: Aaron is getting his home repaired. Nate holds Aaron accountable for going to England on The Path Retreat. Nate invites you to go on the Path Retreat too (deadline for signup Mar 31, 2023). Our Guest: Brody Holloway, co-founder and lead pastor of Snowbird Wilderness Outfitters in Andrews, NC. Adrenaline and fear break down walls. Shared experiences are critical for leading and investing in others. Sin management versus holiness. To live in Jesus is to live in the purity effect.
Mar 23, 2023 • 58:56
358 | Wendell Moss | Working Through Racial Trauma
On this episode: Nate is home, energized, and has internet. Aaron announces all the announcements. Our Guest: Wendell Moss: therapist, minister, educator, and speaker. There is not always a side to take - just listen. Sometimes the response to abuse is more abusive than the abuse itself. My feast will never fulfill you. Upcoming Events: 48 hours of Frankness (Illinois), Walking The Path in England (June 11-17, 2023) Links: Wendell at the Seattle School of Theology & Psychology, Wendell at the A
Mar 16, 2023 • 1:05:02
357 | Robby Angle | Growing in Relationships, as God Designed Us
On this episode: Aaron and Justin answer a listener's letter and offer support. Nate has junk internet in Florida. ***Silas training April 15, 2023. Look for more info soon.*** Our Guest: Robert Bruce Angle III, president & CEO, counselor, minister, achiever, striver, @$$hole, type A and enneagram 8. Former director and expert of small groups. We commonly experience love to the degree we can trust. Love: giving and receiving of needs being met. What love does: sees, soothes, is safe, is secure.
Mar 9, 2023 • 1:28:49
356 | Duane Osterlind | Healing Doesn’t Happen in Isolation
On this episode: Aaron tells an embarrassing story of his maturity. Justin takes his kids to the park. Our Guest: Duane Osterlind, therapist, podcaster, and husband. Duane brings many years of personal and professional experience to the addiction recovery community. When listening to others, the reply is never: “its worse for someone else”. Compassion for the human. We heal through the eyes of others; we need others to see us and lets us know its ok. You can be confused and have hope. The world
Mar 2, 2023 • 1:05:05
355 | Sathiya Sam | Prevention, Community, and Daily Recovery
On this episode: Nate and Aaron discuss the truths behind the 1985 book: Amusing Ourselves to Death. Our guest: Sathiya Sam, coach, author, podcaster, preacher’s kid. “If you are unaware, you cannot repair.” There’s no faith without unbelief. Knowledge is potential; knowledge with action is where real power comes from. He who is most vulnerable, heals the quickest. Learning to articulate your inner life. Prevention: confess a temptation before needing to confess a mistake. Community doesn’t brin
Feb 23, 2023 • 55:03
354 | Jean Masukevich | Guided Meditation
On this episode: Our THREE hosts: Erin, Nate, and Aaron. Erin takes a break from a road trip. Nate has a prophecy. Aaron gets butt dials. Our guest: Jean Masukevich, mom, yogi, spiritual director, trauma informed. Topics: Enjoy a guided relaxation exercise and meditation. Learning to connect the body to the mind. Listening to your body and responding with love. “What are you running from, and what are you running toward?” Links: Sow That, email If you have thoughts or questions that you'd like
Feb 16, 2023 • 1:06:35
353 | Michael Basta | Using Science to Grow Relationships
On this episode: Nate and Aaron discuss God’s will. Our Guest: Michael Basta, clinical social worker, certified Gottman method couples' therapist. Michael conveys hope for relationships, using science. History can predict the future of the relationship, but it is not set in stone. We can change the future, despite past wounds and trauma. The Four Horseman of the apocalypse, and the nine factors of relationship success. Forming a culture of appreciation. Links: Michael Basta The Gottman Institut
Feb 9, 2023 • 54:05
352 | Quincee Gideon | Working Through Religious Trauma
On this episode: McCreary’s follows Nate around. Aaron watches Hallmark movies. Our guest: Dr. Quincee Gideon, clinical psychologist. Topics discussed: Loading the language: creating language inside a group that separates and excludes. Being safe within yourself. Religious trauma, denial of human experience. Stepping into a larger life that isn’t filtered, or second guessed, is grander, is at peace, and is safer. Feeling generally safe within your body, relationships, and environment. Sharing sp
Feb 2, 2023 • 58:32
351 | Marnie Ferree | Hope for All Parties in Recovery
On this episode: Nate prepared for the greatest thanksgiving dinner of his life. Aaron loses 12 pounds. Our Guest: Marnie C. Ferree, recovering addict, director of Bethesda Workshop, therapist (CSAT, IITAP). Topics include: Reframing hope. Expertise, in helping others, from experience. It's never a bad thing to re-up with God. “Despite all the pain, anger, grief, I’m living my best life.” The importance of support systems. Women in sexual recovery (too). Bethesda Workshops, resources, and contac
Jan 26, 2023 • 57:37
350 | Dr. Juli Slattery | Equipping Husbands and Wives to bring out the Strengths of their Spouse
On this episode: Nate has a full house. Aaron shares expertise on Autobots and Decepticons. Our Guest: Dr. Juli Slattery, clinical psychologist, mom, wife, author, follower of Christ. God puts the resources in place when we follow His calling. God has given husbands and wives unique areas of power, and they are based on needs and desires. None of this is control, it is power; Influence, not control. The zone of power is understanding your spouse's needs. Hardness of heart will kill marriage
Jan 19, 2023 • 57:37
349 | Alex Avila | How to Have Intimate Conversations
On this episode: Nate and Aaron talk about their favorite kitchen gadgets and go-to meals. Our Guest: Author, Relationship Counselor, Speaker, Teacher Topics include: Listening is loving, hearing vs. listening, Emotional safety, evaluating trust. Listening: creating intimacy in a relationship. Learning what emotional intimacy looks like. What does it feel like to be connected? Intimacy specifics for males and females. Reflecting on what you are saying no to when you say yes to something else. Bo
Jan 12, 2023 • 54:46
348 | Andrew Susskind | Not Just Putting the Plug in the Jug
On this episode: Nate cleans before the house cleaner arrives. Aaron knew a fella. Our Guest: Andrew Susskind, clinical social worker, therapist, author, podcaster, and blogger. Discussion includes: not just sobriety, finding life. Reclaiming childhood longings. “Social media is basically lite porn,” or other ways we escape. Sexual blueprint, sexual health and sexual discussion. More connection and less shame. The masculinity of yearning. Book: Its Not About the Sex: Moving from Isolation to Int
Jan 5, 2023 • 57:00
347 | Tullian Tchividjian | The Gospel Is For Christians Too
On this episode: Nate is concerned about getting his @ss kicked. Aaron draws conclusions with Disney’s Pocahontas. Encouraged by the relapses of the saints. When and what qualifies you in ministry with returning guest Tullian Tchividjian. “If we aren’t attracting the same people as Jesus attracted, we aren’t preaching the same message Jesus preached.” The Sanctuary Church, Jupiter, FL Fallen and Free Conference Feb. 17-19, 2023 If you have thoughts or questions that you'd like the guys to addr
Dec 27, 2022 • 58:00
346 | Andrew Bauman | Becoming a Kung-Fu Master
On this episode: Aaron interrogates Nate. Nate sings a very heartfelt song. The guys talk to guest Andrew Bauman, speaker, therapist, writer, and author. “The owning of your *ssholeness doesn’t lead to toxic shame. It leads to humility not humiliation.” How to define narcissism. Addressing couples work AFTER a lengthy period of sobriety. Andrew J. Bauman Book: How Not to Be an *ss: Essays on Becoming a Good & Safe Man Film: A Brave Lament Christian Counseling Center for Sexual Health and Trauma
Dec 17, 2022 • 52:23
345 | George Bitar | Creating Patterns that Align with a Couple’s Goals
On this episode: Nate feels gratitude. Aaron remembers a super cool smoking trick learned during Shakespearean acting classes. The guys have a deep discussion with George Bitar about healthy couples' communication despite traumatic backgrounds. Learning to discuss disconnection cues and trigger moments in emotionally focused couples therapy work. How to repair and reconnect. Feeling delight and joy in the relationship. Tapping into emotions to point to our needs and values. Providing hope for he
Dec 7, 2022 • 1:00:02
344 | Chris Bruno | Becoming the Sage
On this episode: Aaron caps that. Nate shops Amazon. The guys interview Chris Bruno, counselor and author of Sage: A Man's Guide into His Second Passage and Man Maker Project: Boys are Born. Men are Made. Nate shares his experiences from the Italian Samson retreat. “The task of the second passage, is to find the boy within the man, and bring him home.” “When we are hijacked in this phallic state, we are not looking for sex, we are looking for connection.” “The more we dissociate, the more it’s
Nov 27, 2022 • 1:09:08
343 | Nate & Aaron | Live from the Samson Retreat
Q&A How did Jason Gray get chosen as the musical guest? Any worries about losing the mission of the Samson Society with the scope of ministry expanding? Can we have some focus for single guys at the next retreat? What alternate format meetings have you seen that have been successful? How do you handle a situation where someone abuses your trust or vulnerability within Samson? How can I cast a vision for a Samson group for guys who are not necessarily dealing with sexual brokenness? Is there a pl
Nov 17, 2022 • 57:05
Episode 342 * Opening Eyes and Freeing Lives w/ Ian Henderson
"Porn is like the junk food of healthy sex and relationships." Aaron and Rob interview Ian Henderson, founder of the Naked Truth Project. about how he got involved in this work of opening eyes and freeing lives from the damages of porn. While Naked Truth is based in Manchester, UK, they work with people all over the world. The "open eyes" aspect focuses on education to combat the normalization of porn by presenting in schools and elsewhere to raise awareness of the dangers of porn. The "freein
Nov 7, 2022 • 1:03:49
Episode 341 * The Disease of Family Dysfunction w/ Andrea Ashley
Nate and Aaron interview Andrea Ashley, host of the Adult Child podcast, about the trauma of growing up in a dysfunctional alcoholic family, the maladaptive coping mechanisms she chose, such as alcohol and unhealthy dating relationships, and her path to recovery. If you have thoughts or questions that you'd like the guys to address in upcoming episodes or suggestions for future guests, please drop a note to piratemonkpodcast@gmail.com. The music on this podcast is contributed by members of
Oct 27, 2022 • 58:39
Episode 340 * Happy, Joyous and Free w/ Juris S
Nate and Aaron interview Juris S, author of Happy, Joyous and Free: One Man's Journey and Guide to Ultimate Spiritual Health. Topics include: bullying, alcoholism, and integration of faith and recovery. If you have thoughts or questions that you'd like the guys to address in upcoming episodes or suggestions for future guests, please drop a note to piratemonkpodcast@gmail.com. The music on this podcast is contributed by members of the Samson Society. For more information on this ministry, pl
Oct 17, 2022 • 59:04
Episode 339 * Couple-Centered Recovery w/ Jake Porter
"I want to empower my partner to show up freely, not disempower her by withholding data that might affect the choices she makes and how she shows up." "If you don't have a shared understanding of the past, you cannot have a shared trajectory for the future." "The human brain is wired so that even a perceived threat to a primary attachment relationship registers as a survival issue." We welcome Jake Porter of Daring Ventures to the show. Topics include: secondary addictions, couple-centered reco
Oct 7, 2022 • 50:35
Episode 338 * Addiction and Attachment w/ Michael Cusick
We welcome back a great friend of the show, Michael Cusick to talk about trauma, whether addiction exists, and attachment in all areas of life. You can also check out more about Michael's Restoring The Soul Weekend Intensive. If you have thoughts or questions that you'd like the guys to address in upcoming episodes or suggestions for future guests, please drop a note to piratemonkpodcast@gmail.com. The music on this podcast is contributed by members of the Samson Society. For more informati
Sep 28, 2022 • 1:03:21
Episode 337 * Growing Up in Recovery w/ Roe Hunter
"You cannot become masculine until it's given to you." Aaron and Justin have a fun conversation with Roe Hunter, therapist and son of previous guest, Roane Hunter (Episode 330). We get to hear the other side of the story as they discuss topics like forgiveness and repair, family recovery, the critical nature of brotherhood, and the transition to manhood. (Note: the episode that Aaron referenced with Scott Dente is actually Episode 115.) For more on Roe's practice, visit https://lifeworks.ms/ro
Sep 17, 2022 • 1:07:55
Episode 336 * The Skill of Attuned Listening w/ Adam Young
Nate and Aaron have a fascinating conversation on topics of Story, Attachment, and Attunement with Adam Young, therapist and host of "The Place We Find Ourselves" podcast. If you have thoughts or questions that you'd like the guys to address in upcoming episodes or suggestions for future guests, please drop a note to piratemonkpodcast@gmail.com. The music on this podcast is contributed by members of the Samson Society. For more information on this ministry, please visit samsonsociety.com. S
Sep 3, 2022 • 53:22
Episode 335 * Bringing Light to the Darkness in our Story w/ Tony Ingrassia
"We have this work to do with God around our stories, around our hurt and our pain...Every person is in the pain management business whether they know it or not...If I don't have a relationship and walk with God where I can process that hurt and pain in a healthy way - an appropriate, truthful, redemptive, kingdom way - then I process my pain in unhealthy ways...We learned to use sex as a primary pain management tool of our life...using sex to seek emotional equilibrium." Nate and Aaron drop som
Aug 23, 2022 • 55:25
Episode 334 * The Resolution Movement w/ Ben Bennett
"We want to Re-Solution people with Biblically-based, research-informed answers to their hurts and struggles." The guys open the show with a great discussion about the importance of knowing and sharing our stories in community. Then guest Ben Bennett shares his story of faith, multiple addictions and the solutions that he has found. You can learn more about Ben and his ministry at resolutionmovement.org. If you have thoughts or questions that you'd like the guys to address in upcoming episod
Aug 13, 2022 • 56:49
Episode 333 * Sobriety is Not the Goal w/ Eli Machen
"We're shoving more knowledge into our heads and we're becoming more and more stupid. There's just no inner wisdom." Nate, Chris and Aaron have a great visit with guest Eli Machen, one of the pioneers in sex addiction recovery, as they discuss sobriety and its role in recovery, understanding the truths we already know, and how to rebuild trust in relationship. You can access Eli's videos on the Show Up 365 channel on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/Showup365. If you have thoughts or questio
Jul 27, 2022 • 54:59
Episode 332 * The Prisonhouse of Shame w/ Scotty Smith
"I don't know of a more discombobulating, imprisoning power on the earth than shame. To me, shame is personalized demonization." "Here's the good news: When you really get the proper diagnosis, Grace becomes all the sweeter. You're never going to shock the Father. You may know 4% of your sin - He's taken on the other 96% as well." We've got another Pirate Monk roundtable with Nate, Chris, Rob and Justin on the topic of emotional triggers, followed by an interview with a man who played a key role
Jul 18, 2022 • 52:08
Episode 331 * Healing Our Language w/ Jason Gray
We start the episode with a Pirate Monk roundtable with Nate, Chris, Rob and Justin going deep quickly using a couple of probing questions. Then Nate interviews singer/songwriter Jason Gray about his story of vulnerability through his speech handicap, divorce, and the importance of our language. Stay tuned at the end as Jason shares a couple of challenging songs with us. Jason joined us in person at the Annual Retreat in Eva TN in November 2022. You can share in that experience by attending t
Jul 8, 2022 • 1:11:18
Episode 330 * Treating ”Distress Reduction Behavior” w/ Roane Hunter
"The antidote for shame is chronic exposure to love and acceptance." "I get under emotional distress and I want to go back to the maladaptive coping behavior that I learned early on that works for me. And it's the emotional distress and the emotional dysregulation that we've got to begin to work with." - Roane Hunter Nate and Aaron speak with Roane Hunter, CSAT and co-author of Sex, God & the Chaos of Betrayal about a range of topics, including Roane's preferred term for addiction: "distress re
Jun 23, 2022 • 1:04:03
Episode 329 * Becoming a Grown-Ass Adult w/ Kaka Ray
"You can say, 'I look at porn 20 times a day', but that is inconsequential to me...The big question is 'Why?'" "You better damn well trust that therapist that you're sitting across from...You've got to feel safe to investigate shame." "In the context of relationships, we're all responsible to get our own needs met. That doesn't mean we go meet our own needs - we've seen how destructive that can be - but we do have to learn how to ask for those needs to be met." Kaka Ray returns to the podcast to
Jun 13, 2022 • 59:44
Episode 328 * Music, Faith, and the Sound of Silence w/ Steven Delopoulos
Nate is away, so Aaron spends an hour with Burlap to Cashmere's Steven Delopoulos talking about his story growing up in NY and NJ in a very Greek family, the nature of God, songwriting, storytelling, and his latest passion project related to Simon & Garfunkel. For more about Steven, visit his website. If you have thoughts or questions that you'd like the guys to address in upcoming episodes or suggestions for future guests, please drop a note to piratemonkpodcast@gmail.com. The music on this
May 24, 2022 • 57:58
Episode 327 * Overcoming Relational Blind Spots w/ Eddie Capparucci
In today's episode, Eddie Capparucci returns to talk with Nate about his most recent book, Why Men Struggle to Love. They discuss some of the relational blindspots that many men have in making connection. For more on Dr. Capparucci, please visit Abundant Life Counseling-Coaching. If you have feedback for the podcast, please drop a note to piratemonkpodcast@gmail.com. The music on this podcast is contributed by members of the Samson Society. For more information on this ministry, please visit s
May 14, 2022 • 55:59
Episode 326 * Conscious Masculinity w/ Dan Griffin
“Open men's hearts, heal the pain, and change the world.” In a world filled with talk of toxic masculinity, author and speaker Dan Griffin (dangriffin.com) talks to the guys today about what he calls "Conscious Masculinity" - where men make enlightened choices to pursue what it means to truly connect with the full spectrum of what it means to be a man. If you have feedback for the podcast, please drop a note to piratemonkpodcast@gmail.com. The music on this podcast is contributed by members of
May 5, 2022 • 1:03:22
Episode 325 * The Importance of Story w/ Chris Inman
"There aren't a lot of safe places in our world. There aren't a lot of places where people can come and say whatever they want to say and be loved." - Chris Inman In this episode, Aaron catches up with recovery coach Chris Inman to explore the benefits of doing the work to discover our own story and share it with safe people. Chris shares how he has experienced the importance of uncovering his own story and is now committed to helping others discover it for themselves. If you'd like to talk wi
Apr 25, 2022 • 49:08
Episode 324 * Samson Society Italia w/ Daniel Wiens
Today, we talk with Daniel Wiens, who has been the key person driving the growth of Samson Society in Italy about his story before getting into details of the International Samson Retreat October 7-9, 2022 in central Italy. If you have feedback for the podcast, please drop a note to piratemonkpodcast@gmail.com. The music on this podcast is contributed by members of the Samson Society. For more information on this ministry, please visit samsonsociety.com. Support for the women in our lives
Apr 14, 2022 • 49:29
Episode 323 * re:generation recovery w/ John Elmore
"When you confess your sin, you're not going to get stoned to death." Building on our recent discussions with churches that really get recovery, today we talk with John Elmore about the re:generation recovery ministry which began at Watermark Community Church in Dallas TX. If you have feedback for the podcast, please drop a note to piratemonkpodcast@gmail.com. The music on this podcast is contributed by members of the Samson Society. For more information on this ministry, please visit samson
Apr 4, 2022 • 45:29
Episode 322 * The Return of Dobberino w/ Matt Dobshuetz
The statute of limitations has finally expired, so it's time for another crossover episode of Pirate Monk/Porn Free Radio! Trying to write a summary of this discussion is an exercise in futility as the guys traverse lots of trails, including book writing, Matt's new book (Porn Free, Becoming the Type of Man Who Does Not Look at Porn) and skateboard life. For more info on Matt, please visit recoveredman.com. If you have feedback for the podcast, please drop a note to piratemonkpodcast@gmail.c
Mar 24, 2022 • 1:01:00
Episode 321 * Encountering the Person of God w/ Dudley Hall
"I love you right where you are...and I don't expect anything. I love you, and I won't quit." "You'll know you've heard the Gospel if one of your first responses is: 'That's too good to be true and I can't believe it yet.'" - Dudley Hall "It was easier for me to believe it for my son than to believe it for myself." - Nate Larkin "If...I open the Bible and find condemnation, then I'm still filtering Scripture through the branches of the bush I'm hiding behind in Eden, avoiding what I believe will
Mar 11, 2022 • 53:18
Episode 320 * Living a Confessional Life w/ Timo Strawbridge
"My story isn't my story without the brokenness of who I am." "It is only in their knowledge of the depth of my need of Jesus that gives them the confidence that I could be a help to them in describing a Jesus that could save them." - Timo Strawbridge In Episode 315, Nate spoke about a man that he had yet to meet - Timo Strawbridge. If you haven't listened to that episode yet, you might want to give it a listen first. In this episode, Nate and Aaron finally get to connect with Timo and his dau
Mar 1, 2022 • 50:22
Event Announcement - Sat Feb 26 - Augusta GA
Nate will be speaking at First Presbyterian in Augusta GA this Saturday. You can hear Nate and enjoy a Wild Game Dinner for the low, low price of $7.50. Register at the following link. Register Here
Feb 23, 2022 • 1:14
Episode 319 * They Lied to Us w/ Victoria Robinson
Our guest today has turned her own story of personal brokenness into her passion for ministry. Victoria Robinson chose abortion many years ago and today leads others -- both men and women -- toward post-abortive healing. If you or someone you know is carrying this burden, more information is available at reassemblelife.com. If you have feedback for the podcast, please drop a note to piratemonkpodcast@gmail.com. The music on this podcast is contributed by members of the Samson Society.
Feb 19, 2022 • 41:11
Episode 318 * A Hospital Church w/James Reeves
"We set out to create a safe church -- not just pockets of safety within the church." - James Reeves This conversation makes me want to move to DFW so that I can attend this church! Nate and Aaron talk with Pastor James Reeves about his church, City on a Hill in Fort Worth TX, and how it was intentionally created as a safe place for Christians to be real - kind of like Samson Society! He also discusses the Fearless Series for Women, a 5-session video series designed to be a tool for Christian
Feb 9, 2022 • 55:08
Episode 317 * The Harbinger of Revolution w/ Chandler Rogers
Nate and Aaron have a chat with Chandler Rogers, a man young in years but with insights far beyond his age. He understands the importance of connection, so he and some friends have developed Relay, an app that helps people stay connected and accountable along the road to recovery. It makes it easy to find and maintain tight-knit support in a team-based environment. Visit https://joinrelay.app to download the app or email chandler@joinrelay.app to reach out and learn more. If you have feed
Jan 29, 2022 • 54:25
Episode 316 * The Recovery Paradox w/ T.C. Ryan
Registration for this weekend's virtual retreat (January 14-15, 2022) is available at https://samsonhouse.regfox.com/samson-society-virtual-retreat-2022 Our guest for this episode is long-time friend of the program T.C. (Tom) Ryan. For more information about Tom and his ministry, please visit https://www.livingintegrated.org/ Tom's book, Ashamed No More, is available here. You can find out more about the 14-day intensive program that Tom mentioned at https://boulderrecovery.com/ If you have f
Jan 11, 2022 • 44:51
Episode 315 * Don‘t Decide to Become a Better Person w/ Nate Larkin
Today, we share Nate's closing chapel message from the 2021 National Samson Retreat. This is a challenging must-hear for everyone in recovery. If you have feedback for the podcast, please drop a note to piratemonkpodcast@gmail.com. The music on this podcast is contributed by members of the Samson Society. For more information on this ministry, please visit samsonsociety.com. Support for the women in our lives who have been impacted by our choices is available at sarahsociety.com.
Dec 4, 2021 • 47:40
Episode 314 * Live from the Samson Retreat w/ Jim Cress
To wrap-up the 2021 Annual Samson Retreat in Eva TN, Aaron sits down with our keynote speaker, Jim Cress, and takes questions from the audience of attendees. Find out more about Jim at jimcress.com. The music on this podcast is contributed by members of the Samson Society. For more information on this ministry, please visit samsonsociety.com. Support for the women in our lives who have been impacted by our choices is available at sarahsociety.com.
Nov 11, 2021 • 1:22:46
Episode 313 * Refocusing in the Dark Times w/ Michael Feighan
Today we interview Michael Feighan, formerly of Whitecross to talk about his formative years in music, the adoption of his daughter, working through depression and anxiety, and how all of these things contributed to his newly-released solo album, Someone Prayed. Michael graciously provided the music on this episode. For more information on this ministry, please visit samsonsociety.com. Support for the women in our lives who have been impacted by our choices is available at sarahsociety.com.
Oct 17, 2021 • 50:17
Episode 312 * Exploring Narcissism w/ Jeromy Deibler
In this episode, the guys discuss the subject of Narcissism, especially as it relates to groups, with Jeromy Deibler. Jeromy is a musician, certified Enneagram and life coach, and pastor. His goal is to help people build connections with others and with God and to show others what God is like. The music on this podcast is contributed by members of the Samson Society. For more information on this ministry, please visit samsonsociety.com. Support for the women in our lives who have been impact
Oct 12, 2021 • 1:05:16
Episode 311 * Reversing the Curse w/ Drew Boa
"While I don't want to advocate for indulging the urges, I want to champion the deeper desires and the longings and the aches that are behind those urges. With whatever type of porn you might find attractive or arousing, or whatever has been your particular version of it, underneath that is a good and holy beauty and strength that comes from God, and if we can tap into that, then we can bless it and we can express it in healthy ways and we can actually get what we were created for this whole ti
Sep 14, 2021 • 48:23
Episode 310 * Beyond the Battle w/ Noah Filipiak
"It is so much better to have sex with your wife for who she is -- having sex because you love her, not having sex because you love sex." Nate and Aaron interview friend and returning guest, Noah Filipiak, about the release of his new book - Beyond the Battle: A man’s guide to his identity in Christ in an over-sexualized world. The music on this podcast is contributed by members of the Samson Society. For more information on this ministry, please visit samsonsociety.com.
Sep 3, 2021 • 51:37
Episode 309 * Remembering a Samson Brother - Fr. Thomas McKenzie
In this special episode, Nate and Aaron remember Father Thomas McKenzie, an early member of the Samson Society in the Nashville area, who was killed along with his older daughter in a car accident a few days ago (Aug 23, 2021). They share some of their memories of Thomas, and then we hear from Fr. McKenzie himself in two homilies - first, his final message from this past Sunday, and then a 2014 message on grieving.
Aug 26, 2021 • 49:38
Episode 308 * Support for Spouses w/ Lyschel Burket and the Sarah Society
"He was never put on this earth to heal me -- the only one who was put on this earth to heal me is Jesus." Nate speaks with Lyschel Burket of hoperedefined.org., a ministry supporting women impacted by sexual betrayal through coaching, groups, intensive retreats and safe online community. Her contact email is support@hoperedefined.org. Then, a group of ladies from the Sarah Society join Nate to discuss what they gleaned from the interview. We hear from Erin, Heather, Brandy, Linda and Julie.
Aug 11, 2021 • 1:15:26
Episode 307 * The 5 Essentials to Change Your World w/ Jim Ramos
Aaron is back - and this time, he's pissed! OK, not really, but it's great to have the compadres back together again for a discussion of the journey into manhood. Nate interviews Aaron's buddy, Jim Ramos, author of Strong Men, Dangerous Times and host of the Men in the Arena podcast (meninthearena.org). They break down the Five Essentials Every Man Must Possess to Change His World. The music on this podcast is contributed by members of the Samson Society. For more information on this ministry
Aug 3, 2021 • 46:59
Episode 306 * Hope Out of Brokenness w/ Jasper Hall
Mini-meeting on the topic of "Surrender". Nate interviews Jasper Hall, president of Pure Hope about equipping believers to serve out of their brokenness in a sexually broken world and leading their families and communities to flourish. You can find more information at purehope.net. The music on this podcast is contributed by members of the Samson Society. For more information on this ministry, please visit samsonsociety.com.
Jul 13, 2021 • 59:49
Episode 305 * Soul Shepherding w/ Bill and Kristi Gaultiere
Mini-meeting on the topic of "Habits". Nate interviews psychologist and therapist Bill and Kristi Gaultiere about the six phases of spiritual growth and development. You can find more information at soulshepherding.org and journeyofthesoul.org. The music on this podcast is contributed by members of the Samson Society. For more information on this ministry, please visit samsonsociety.com.
Jul 2, 2021 • 1:06:10
Episode 304 * My Prison Became a Palace w/ John Alarid
Aaron has a fascinating conversation with John Alarid (johnalarid.com), a heroin addict who became a missionary, then imprisoned for attempted murder, and now a pastor ministering in Springfield MO at Freedom City Church (freedomcitychurch.org). To hear more of John's story, you can get his ebook (currently free) at myprisonbecameapalace.com. The music on this podcast is contributed by members of the Samson Society. For more information on this ministry, please visit samsonsociety.com.
Jun 14, 2021 • 1:14:44
Episode 303 * The Intersection of Church and Recovery w/ Teresa McBean
"Dignity believes, and respect believes, and unconditional positive regard believes that being fully human is a beautiful thing, and that the essence of a person agrees with all of the things that God says about them that's true." The Mini-Meeting returns on the topic of Abandonment. Then Aaron interviews Teresa McBean, who pastors Northstar Community, which blends recovery and faith in Richmond VA. Northstar was founded in 1999 to provide faith-based recovery and now offers adult education cla
Jun 5, 2021 • 54:34
Episode 302 * Childhood Sexual Abuse w/ Tim Rountree
"I honestly cannot tell you which decade was worse...Brokenness doesn't just end the second [the abuse] stops...The ramifications of that act ripple into decades later." Nate sits down to speak with Tim Rountree - a child abuse detective, a pastor, and a victim himself of childhood sexual abuse. He explores how hope emerges even in the wake of unspeakable evil. (outcryconcepts.com) Resources for online safety: bark.us covenanteyes.com x3watch.com leadmenot.org The music on this podcast is co
May 27, 2021 • 57:39
Episode 301 * Running Toward the Roar w/ Gary Wilkerson
Nate interviews Gary Wilkerson of World Challenge (an outgrowth of Teen Challenge), a ministry dedicated to helping the needy of the world in many different ways, including those caught in addiction and poverty. Topics include the pitfalls of performance-based religion, family history, parenting, and the importance of community. https://worldchallenge.org/ https://teenchallengeusa.org/ https://www.globaltc.org/ The music on this podcast is contributed by members of the Samson Society. For mor
May 19, 2021 • 59:43
EPISODE 300 CELEBRATION!!! Listener Questions for Nate & Aaron w/Tom Ryan
To celebrate 300 episodes, we get to know Nate and Aaron a little bit better. The host for this special episode is our good friend, Tom Ryan (known to some of you as T. C. Ryan) author of Ashamed No More: A Pastor's Journey Through Sex Addiction. Tom has just released two free recovery resource packages on his website: livingintegrated.org. Both packages have pdf content and homework with a companion video. The first package, "Four Tasks for Getting Your Life Back", is for folks who are b
Apr 30, 2021 • 1:09:29
Episode 299 * Trauma and Christ in Sexual Addiction Recovery w/ Matt Wenger
"I don't think that God's goal in the universe is to lessen the amount of sin. I think His primary goal is to increase the amount of connection between Him and His people." Today's guest is therapist Matt Wenger, who works with guys dealing with porn and sex addiction. In the course of that work, he recognized that Christian men have unique challenges in their journey to healing from this addiction. The result of that was the development of Boulder Recovery, which offers a new 14-Day Men's In
Apr 24, 2021 • 51:52
Episode 298 * Loving Someone with Mental Health Issues w/ Steve Zehr
Nate gives Aaron a PSA about severe weather before they are joined by Nate's long-time friend, Steve Zehr, who shares how he was shaped by his 35-year marriage to Susan, who struggled with mental illness. Steve's book is titled In Sickness and in Health and he can be reached at sd.zehr@gmail.com. The music on this podcast is contributed by members of the Samson Society. For more information on this ministry, please visit samsonsociety.com.
Apr 2, 2021 • 57:11
Episode 297 * Rewiring the Brain w/ Dan Larkin
Nate has an inspiring conversation with his brother, Dan. After a series of strokes, Dan was left unable to speak and was told by doctors that he would never speak again. But Dan didn't accept that prognosis. Through hard work and sheer determination, he discovered his own path for healing, proving the incredible resilience of the human brain. The parallels with the recovery journey are evident. The music on this podcast is contributed by members of the Samson Society. For more informatio
Mar 26, 2021 • 1:02:25
300 is almost here!
With our 300th episode right around the corner, the guys are requesting submission of questions (especially personal and embarrassing ones!), comments, memories and reflections of how the podcast has impacted you. Send your thoughts to piratemonkpodcast@gmail.com and the fellas will share them on the show. You can also record a short message at https://www.speakpipe.com/piratemonk that we might use on the show.
Mar 22, 2021 • 1:13
Episode 296 * Healthy Intimacy and Betrayal w/ Bonny Burns
First, a discussion of Nate's blog about Ravi Zacharias (https://natelarkin.net/ravi-and-me/) and some feedback he has received. Then, an interview with Bonny Burns - podcaster, coach and member of the leadership team for the Sarah Society - the sister organization which has grown out of a group of women impacted by the choices of Samson Society guys. Topics include healthy sexual intimacy, Bonny's experience as a betrayed spouse going through D-Day, the continuing quest toward community and i
Mar 19, 2021 • 57:26
Episode 295 * A Journey Through Pain w/ Seth Haines
How do we deal with the inevitable pain that comes into our life? Nate gives an update on recent struggles with Allie's health before having a discussion with Seth Haines, who shares his own season of severe anxiety related to the health of his infant son, the even deeper pain of a seemingly absent God, and his subsequent slide into alcoholism in an attempt to numb the pain. The music on this podcast is contributed by members of the Samson Society. For more information on this ministry, please
Mar 12, 2021 • 55:57
Episode 294 * Recovering All of What God Wants for Me w/ Morgan Snyder
The guys respond to a couple of notes from the mailbag before having a great discussion with Morgan Snyder (becomegoodsoil.com) about discovering the heart of Father as we discover our true sonship. Can we answer the questions - Where do I feel uncomfortable in the realm of masculinity? How do I recover ALL of what God wants for me? The music on this podcast is contributed by members of the Samson Society. For more information on this ministry, please visit samsonsociety.com.
Mar 5, 2021 • 50:31
Episode 293 * The God of Our Understanding w/ Brad Jersak
This is a refreshing discussion with theologian, author and professor Brad Jersak that spans a myriad of subjects - from interactions with people of diverse viewpoints, love addiction vs. sex addiction, the purpose of confession and repentance, and what "the God of our understanding" and "progress not perfection" really mean. www.bradjersak.com Featured song: "If Old is Grey" by Chad Land; used by permission (https://soundcloud.com/chad-land) Other music on this podcast is contributed by mem
Feb 8, 2021 • 59:57
Episode 292 * The Brain Science of Self-Discipline w/ Drew Dyck
Have you ever made a promise to yourself to create a new habit but gave it up after only a few weeks? How are those new year's resolutions holding up after a month? Drew Dyck noticed this pattern in his own life and decided to do some study into both the scientific and biblical principles related to self-control. Nate and Aaron have a great discussion with Drew about partnering with God and your community even in the small areas of our life. You can find even more details in his book, Your F
Feb 1, 2021 • 47:36
Episode 291 * Surviving Domestic Abuse w/ "Becky"
In part two of our series on domestic abuse, we talk with "Becky", an abuse survivor. Her story is one of pain, fear and redemption, but does point out how the Christian community can sometimes fall into the trap of excusing abusive behavior in the name of avoiding divorce. Can every marriage be saved? Should every marriage be saved? Abuse should never be tolerated in the name of statistics. The guys tackle this tough subject in light of the gospel in compassion, grace and love. The mus
Jan 16, 2021 • 1:05:00
Episode 290 * Control through Power in Relationship w/ Chris Moles
Before you immediately dismiss your need to listen to this episode, we'd challenge you to have an open mind. When we hear the words "domestic abuse", we often think of videos of athletes in elevators, but can we recognize more subtle forms of abuse? Use of Power to Control others through Fear or Intimidation is Abusive even if there are never any bruises or broken bones. Join us as we begin a two-part series on this important topic. We talk today with Chris Moles (chrismoles.org), a pastor and
Jan 8, 2021 • 1:02:32
Episode 289 * Teaching Intimacy Skills to the Intimacy Ignorant w/ Randy Turner
Nate and Aaron speak with Randy Turner, author of Rescuing the Rogue, about mentoring, learning intimacy the hard way, what intimacy truly is and how to root out the false beliefs we have about intimacy. If you'd like to explore this topic further, you can reach Randy at rturner@transformingfamilies.org. The music on this podcast is contributed by members of the Samson Society. For more information on this ministry, please visit samsonsociety.com.
Dec 22, 2020 • 48:31
Episode 288 * A Pastor Talking Openly About Porn w/ Noah Filipiak
Nate interviews Noah Filipiak, author of Beyond the Battle. Noah is a pastor who talks openly about his struggle with porn, the journey from entitlement to contentment through recognizing the true needs beneath the behavior, and the real definition of love. Noah also facilitates Beyond the Battle online 7-week zoom groups which focus on your identity in Christ in an oversexualized world. For more information, visit beyondthebattle.net or noahfilipiak.com. Nate and Aaron also discuss the imp
Dec 15, 2020 • 1:01:58
Episode 287 * From Manipulation to Connection to Resurrection w/ Clinton and Charity Munoz
Clinton and Charity Munoz of the Restored 2 More podcast share their winding path of addiction, discovery, missteps in finding help, and finally to the true redemptive help that they needed. They are now helping couples move from infidelity to intimacy. Learn more at restored2more.com. The music on this podcast is contributed by members of the Samson Society and also features the new song When You're Lying by Kristin Larkin. You can find her music at kristinlarkin.bandcamp.com. For more inf
Dec 8, 2020 • 1:04:10
Episode 286 * Addictions, Convictions, and Curiosity w/ Brian Tholstrup
In this follow-up to episode 280, Nate and Aaron talk with Brian Tholstrup, a fellow pirate monk whose primary drug of choice was alcohol. The guys discuss how recovery is not "one-size-fits-all" and how each of us has to assess what is helpful in our own journey while avoiding the lure of the "easier, softer way". Nate and Aaron also discuss how easy it is to get distracted by seemingly harmless pursuits, such as gaming. The music on this podcast is contributed by members of the Samson Soc
Dec 1, 2020 • 49:16
Episode 285 * Sharing the Gift of Recovery with Others w/ Chad and Angela Anderson
Today Nate interviews Chad and Angela Anderson as they share the story of Chad's pornography addiction, D-Day and their continuing redemption. Chad is now a certified recovery coach sharing what he has learned with other men. Chad's contact info is: 727integratedlife.com; phone 615-405-6152; email chad@727integratedlife.com Angela can be reached at angela@727integratedlife.com The music on this podcast is contributed by members of the Samson Society. For more information on this ministry, ple
Nov 27, 2020 • 1:01:48
Episode 284 * Combatting Loneliness w/Jack Eason
Our guest today is Jack Eason, author of The Loneliness Connection, which explores the power of community and togetherness, finding similarities instead of differences in the midst of a divisive world. Find out more about Jack and his work at https://www.jackeason.org/ Music on the podcast Little Jam by Stefan Kartenberg (c) copyright 2020 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/JeffSpeed68/61299 Ft: Javolenus Chronically
Nov 18, 2020 • 58:58
Episode 283 * Tullian Tchividjian
Tullian shares his history as both the prodigal and the older brother, and now as someone who simply recognizes his desperate need for Jesus! To learn more about Tullian's work, please visit: www.tullian.net Music on this podcast: That Kind of Love, PFR Sirens, ATTALUS 78 Eatonwood Green, Rich Mullins
Nov 10, 2020 • 1:12:33
Episode 282 * Jay & Lori Pyatt
Today the guys talk with certified mentors Jay and Lori Pyatt who get raw and vulnerable in sharing their redemptive story about God pulling them back from the brink of divorce, the impact of shame and deflection in marital communication, their ongoing recovery walk, and how their journey led them to helping others avoid the pitfalls along these rocky paths. Resources mentioned on the podcast: Bonds that Make Us Free, C. Terry Warner To learn more about Jay and Lori's work, please visit: htt
Oct 21, 2020 • 1:05:16
Episode 281 * Kaka Ray
Nate and Aaron again welcome one of our favorite guests, trauma specialist Kaka Ray, to discuss COVID fatigue, monopolizing conversations, and balance in recovery. Kaka will also be returning as a workshop speaker at the upcoming Fall retreat - both the in-person and the virtual versions. To learn more about her work, visit: http://www.kakaray.com/
Oct 9, 2020 • 54:04
Episode 280 * Brainwashing, the Good Kind (maybe)
Nate and Aaron sit down to chat about a book that sent Nate on some interesting journeys and ongoing self-discovery, Allen Carr's Easy Way to Stop Drinking Alcohol. You might not get any answers, but we sure hope today's episode raises a couple of questions.
Sep 21, 2020 • 59:16
Episode 279 * Carolyn Weyel
Today, Nate and Aaron talk with Carolyn Weyel about introversion. What does it mean? How does shame get attached to it? And how do those pesky extroverts make everything worse!!! Whether you are an introvert or just happen to be living on the planet earth, there is something in this conversation for you.
Sep 14, 2020 • 52:52
Episode 278 * Michael Brody-Waite
Sit back and get ready for a conversation with Michael Brody-Waite, author of Great Leaders Live Like Drug Addicts, as he unpacks some of the most important information you might hear about masks during these strange times. No...not those masks. To learn more about Michael and stay posted on what he's up to, log on to: https://michaelbrodywaite.com/
Sep 2, 2020 • 1:00:42
Episode 277 * John Lynch
Get ready for a gospelicious conversation with John Lynch. To hear more of John, head on over to his website and get encouraged. https://www.johnlynchspeaks.com/
Aug 20, 2020 • 1:04:54
Episode 276 * Michele and Tom Weaver
Nate and Aaron enjoy a great conversation with Michele and Tom Weaver as they explore their experience with "friends" who weren't helpful, betrayal, and hope. Don't miss this inspiring journey of hope and healing and coming to the table.
Aug 3, 2020 • 59:45
Episode 275 * Ray Cannata
Ever wondered what creole cooking, Presbyterians, and Elvis have in common? Find out today as Nate and Aaron chat with Pastor Ray Cannata of Redeemer Presbyterian Church in New Orleans.
Jul 21, 2020 • 1:05:12
Episode 274 * Curt Thompson
Today Nate sits down with Dr. Curt Thompson, author of books such as The Anatomy of the Soul, and The Soul of Shame, and talks about the profound connection between our spiritual formation and amazing neurological creation. It's all tied together and the answer to every question you've ever had, including this week's winning lottery numbers, will be revealed on today's episode of, the Pirate Monk Podcast. To check out what Curt is up to or to learn more about his practice, head on over to... ht
May 21, 2020 • 1:03:02
Episode 273 * Michael Card
Today Nate and Aaron sit down and chat with author, musician, theologian, Michael Card as he discusses his new book, Inexpressible: Hesed and the Mystery of God's Lovingkindness. Nate and Aaron also discuss how you can serve other men as a temporary Silas as they plug into the online Samson community. To get more information on that process, head over to... https://samsonsociety.com/what-is-a-silas/ and click "Register as an available temporary Silas."
Apr 30, 2020 • 1:05:52
Episode 272 * Tom Jackson & Dave Bunker
Get out your pen and paper, Aaron is chatting with a couple of Samson OGs who are deep in the world of music and are passionate about art and how it feeds the soul. You'll get their recommendations on listening choices and taking some purposeful time to let your heart be filled through the miracle of music. All that and more on today's episode of the Pirate Monk Podcast.
Apr 20, 2020 • 1:15:37
Episode 271 * Karen Ellison
It's deep, it's heavy, it's important. Today the boys chat with Karen Ellison about the heart wounds that occur after an abortion for both women and men. Karen works with the ministry Deeper Still and provides resources and free retreats to help people with tools to find healing for a pain that is often forced underground by our Christian culture. To check out more information on Deeper Still, go to: www.godeeperstill.org
Apr 17, 2020 • 1:08:55
Episode 270 * Christine Dente
Feeling fear during this strange time? Checking the news for reassurance and only experiencing further fear? Today Nate and Arron sit down with Christine Dente to try to unpack some solutions to engage information with better choices and more wisdom. Check out Christine's website Finding Life in the Bigger Story at https://christinedenteoutofthegrey.com Some of the proposed ideas to consider were: 1. Consider the message: does the headline incite fear? Does the information smell like clickba
Apr 1, 2020 • 1:02:39
Episode 269 * Brian Kay
The doctor is in. Our Samson friend from the Bay area is checking in for a conversation about dealing with fear during this strange time in our world, as well as taking responsibility for our healing process from past hurts.
Mar 17, 2020 • 57:06
Episode 268 * Todd Wermers
Pull up a chair and have a listen to Todd Wermers' inspiring story of hope, redemptions, and how God loves to show his glory through people in process. To check out what's happening in Todd's ministry check him out at... tinmanministries.org Or email him at... todd@tinman.life
Mar 10, 2020 • 49:56
Episode 267 * Steve Taylor & Scott Dente
On today's episode of the Pirate Monk Podcast, Nate and Aaron recruit OG Pirate Scott Dente to have a scintillating conversation with Christian Music Pioneer, Steve Taylor. This one will make you think. We'd love to hear your feedback on the episode, as well as your vote on the dance-off question found at the end of the show. Write to us at, piratemonkpodcast@gmail.com Here too are the lyrics that were discussed on the show from Steve's song, I Want to be a Clone. I'd gone through so much ot
Mar 5, 2020 • 1:01:04
Episode 266 * Mo Leverett
Today Nate and Aaron get to have a chat with long-time buddy Mo Leverett as he talks about life post-Hurricane Katrina, his passion for a fine cigar, and his upcoming album Autumn Years. Plus...just for you the faithful listeners, you'll get a sneak peek at two songs that will be on his new project. It's all here, it's all now, only on the Pirate Monk Podcast.
Feb 25, 2020 • 1:04:53
Episode 265 * Eddie Capparucci
On this episode, Nate and Aaron chat with Eddie Capparucci about how our past experiences shape our coping mechanisms and how to find hope and freedom through asking the "why" instead of just the "what." All that and more, today on the Pirate Monk Podcast. To check out what Eddie and his wife are up to, head on over to... https://abundantlifecounselingga.com/
Feb 18, 2020 • 1:05:25
Episode 264 * Vern Tompke
Today Nate has a chat with Pastor Vern Tompke about the dangers of isolation in the ministry and how true vulnerable community can serve both the pastors and the congregation. Everyone is included in this conversation on the Pirate Monk Podcast. If you want to check out Vern's podcast, Pastors on Porn, head on over to: https://www.listennotes.com/podcasts/pastors-on-porn-vern-tompke-AuMWGqJ_x1I/
Feb 17, 2020 • 1:10:15
Episode 263 * Jason Martinkus
Empathy. Who gives a crap... Today Nate has a conversation with Jason Martinkus about why we should, and how we can up our empathy IQs in our marriage. Jason is also teaching an online master class if you want to jump in the deep end of this topic and learn some vital skills. If you want to check it out take a mouse journey and click on - www.redemptiveliving.com/empathy
Jan 7, 2020 • 1:00:56
Episode 262 * Christmas Conversation
Today Nate and Aaron prepare for the holidays, talk about exponential relational growth when trust is demanded, and explore the idea of expectations.
Jan 2, 2020 • 41:05
Episode 261 * Jeff and Beth McCord
Today Nate talks about what being present means and Aaron sits down to have a chat with Jeff and Beth McCord, authors of Becoming Us. Ever thought your spouse made no sense at all? There's probably a reason, and Jeff and Beth are going to give you some options today. To check out more of their ministry and resources, head on over to: https://www.yourenneagramcoach.com/
Dec 25, 2019 • 1:08:44
Episode 260 * Samuel Maurice Porter
Today, Nate and Aaron hang out, answer a listener question with the help of Christine Leahy, and then chat with Aaron's son Samuel about what it was like to be on the kid side of the equation, growing up and navigating a world saturated with sex. To check out the Braveful Summit Christine was talking about, head over to: https://www.bravefulsummit.com/?ac=jl68jqHR
Dec 8, 2019 • 57:04
Episode 259 * Barbara Steffens, PhD
Ever heard of codependency? Today Dr. Barbara Stephes shed some new light on the subject as she explores the topic with Nate and Aaron. Also, Aaron apologizes to the city of Tustin. As a more specific aspect of his apology, here are some words from a fellow Pirate Monk on the Subject. And thanks to Josh Manifold for picking some of the tunes the today's broadcast. "On the Nov 8 edition of the PM podcast, you made some pretty strong statements about the beautiful town of Tustin, CA (as it rela
Nov 27, 2019 • 1:03:58
Episode 258 * Ben Sweeney
Today Nate and Aaron get Mondo back in the room, have a mini-meeting, and talk to Mondo's friend Ben about his journey into addiction and the path he found back to freedom.
Nov 18, 2019 • 1:01:26
Episode 257 * Integrating the Gospel
Today Nate and Aaron are taking a slice of the weekend from Eva Tennessee to explore how we can integrate the Gospel into our lives and recovery, specifically and powerfully. Nate opens up a vulnerable door so that the men can journey with him towards the love of his Abba. All that is happening today, on the Pirate Monk Podcast.
Nov 8, 2019 • 55:34
Episode 256 * Nick Stumbo
Today Nate & Aaron chat with Nick Stumbo of Pure Desire ministries about Nick's story and how to understand the difference between arrival mentality and journey mentality in recovery, as we search for deeper maturity and more honest...honesty. Check out the happenings at Pure Desire Ministries by clicking: https://puredesire.org/
Oct 29, 2019 • 56:22
Episode 255 * Matt Dobschuetz
Pull up a chair, start up your lawnmower, or rev up your engine and take a ride with Nate and Aaron as they have a chat with Matt Dobber Dobschuetz, host of Porn Free Radio, on this episode of the Pirate Monk Podcast. Check out more of what Matt is up to by clicking on: https://recoveredman.com/ Music on Today's Podcast: Randy Dandy-O; Radio Nowhere (Bruce Springsteen); White City (Pogues); When I'm Gone (Anna Kendrick)
Oct 23, 2019 • 1:07:00
Episode 254 * The Spectrum of Trauma
Today Nate and Aaron talk virtual meetings and follow up on some listener responses to last week's episode. You get that and a MINI MEETING, and it all happens today, on the Pirate Monk Podcast. Today's Music: Dive - Steven Curtis Chapman; Another Day - Steven Delopoulos; Said the Son to the Shine - Earth Suit; Blue Train - John Coltrane
Oct 15, 2019 • 56:36
Episode 253 * Kaka Ray
Today, Nate and Aaron sit down with trauma specialist Kaka Ray to learn about how trauma affects addiction and what we can do about it. Kaka will be a workshop teacher at the upcoming retreat. To learn more about what she's up to, check out, http://www.kakaray.com/
Oct 7, 2019 • 1:00:18
Episode 252 * Michael Leahy
Today, we've got it all! Unsolicited book reviews, witty banter, a mini-meeting, and the pièce de résistance, a conversation with BraveHearts Michael Leahy. He'll be chatting about his exciting new thoughts on how to use technology to put connection, recovery and growth on a steroid regimen that won't get you a 30 game suspension. We're talking about hacking the system today, on the Pirate Monk Podcast. https://www.bravehearts.org/michael-leahy
Sep 17, 2019 • 1:10:28
Episode 251 * Michael Johnson
We've got a mini-meeting, we've got updates, and we've got our old friend Michael Johnson talking about dating with a bigger picture in mind and guarding your heart in the process. You might not be dating, but if you've got little kids, trust me, you'll want to think through this stuff. Log on, stay tuned, plug in, the pirates are on the air. To connect with Michael and his work, head on over to: http://f-m-u.com/
Sep 10, 2019 • 57:48
Episode 250 * DIY Retreat Time
The boys are back in the same state and in the same room catching up...mini-meetings are rolling...and some lads from Texas describe how you can have an amazing retreat with your brothers without any permission from your mommies! It's all happening today, on the Pirate Monk Podcast.
Aug 26, 2019 • 1:12:56
Episode 249 * Pure Hope and Noel Bouche (with an accent over the "e")
This week Nate and Aaron discuss a blog about Game of Thrones, and read a question from a listener that needs your input. After that, Nate chats with Noel Bouche of Pure Hope. To find out more about Pure Hope or to check out Noel's podcast, head on over to: https://purehope.net/
Jul 29, 2019 • 1:11:38
Episode 248 * Troubadour Andrew Osenga
Sit back, put up your feet, or start your lawn mower (Tom), and enjoy a chat with Andrew Osenga of the Normals and Caedmon's Call. He'll be talking through some of Nate's favorite songs and their stories off his newest album. If you would like to keep tabs on what Andrew is up to, check him out at http://www.andrewosenga.com/ At the beginning of the episode, the boys listen to a modern adaptation of the poem The Hound of Heaven written by Francis Thompson produced by Emblem Media LLC. The boo
Jul 2, 2019 • 1:13:44
Episode 247 * Ladies Can Be Pirates Too
Today Nate & Aaron get answers to one of their most asked questions. "What about the women?" "How can my wife get this kind of community?" To answer that question they've enlisted a bevy of lady travelers to talk about their journies. To find out more about getting involved, contact Erin at: women.to.women2717@gmail.com The administration would like to apologize for the audio during the first segment and makes all promises necessary to ensure that listeners believe audio problems will NEVER
Jun 27, 2019 • 1:04:10
Episode 246 * The Scotland Recap
Nate and Aaron chat about the Scotland retreat and play some audio clips from the experiences of its participants.
Jun 11, 2019 • 1:00:36
Episode 245 * Dina Alexander
Today the boys chat with Dina Alexander MS, about how to talk with kids about technology and sex. Dina is the author of some great books that will help educate parents and get the conversations started. Check out her resources at: https://educateempowerkids.org/
May 29, 2019 • 1:11:38
Episode 243 * Disclosure
Nate is out of town, so Aaron conscripted one of our favorite buddies Tom Ryan (Ashamed No More) to hang with Kathy Reynolds for part two of the conversation on the practical side of disclosure. Kathy and Tom give some real-world advice and real-life experience on the good, the bad and the ugly...and the beautiful, of disclosure. Check out the ministry Kathy serves with at: http://www.daringventures.com/ Check out Tom's book Ashamed No More at: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0830837930/
May 20, 2019 • 1:23:56
Episode 242 * Kathy Reynolds
Today is part one of two conversations with coach Kathy Reynolds, who talks about her own journey of disclosure, loss, and redemption in her marriage. Stay tuned for part two when we get into the nitty gritty of what to do and not to do in the dangerous waters of full disclosure. As promised...a bit late, below is the poem Singing Warriors by Paige that was read a couple shows back. Singing Warriors By Paige The Lord your God is with you, the Mighty Warrior who saves. He will take great deligh
May 14, 2019 • 59:50
Episode 241 * Joshua Mast
Today EMT and firefighter Joshua Mast talks with the lads about brotherhood in the firehouse and how that translates to deeper community for us all. Every man is in a battle, but do we know how to support a brother in the fire?
Apr 30, 2019 • 1:01:19
Episode 240 * Randall Thomas
Ever get frustrated with the younger generation and feel like you can't relate? How about you younger folks who think older guys have little or nothing to offer and just want to change you? Well, today's episode is for you. Nate and Aaron sit down and chat with Randall Thomas to get some understanding and hopefully practical tools that will help communities of men find love and authenticity across generational divides.
Apr 23, 2019 • 1:06:24
Episode 239 * David Cassidy
Today Nate and Aaron Chat with David Cassidy, Pastor of Christ Community Church in Franklin Tennessee, to chat about his book Indispensable: The Basics of Christian Belief. They discuss the invitation to the common table that binds all Christians of every denomination together.
Apr 16, 2019 • 1:08:55
Episode 238 * Tony Kriz
The boys sit down with author, speaker, and Jesus pursuer Tony Kriz to look for some clarity about finding truth in a world bombarding us with truth tailored to suit our own desires. They also dip into the mailbag and answer a letter about relapses and slips.
Apr 10, 2019 • 1:09:02
Episode 237 * Tales From Both Sides
Today Nate & Aaron sit down to hear Bill Garner and Jeff Howard tell their stories from both sides of the addiction journey. Bill and Jeff work to help those struggling with addiction at Harvest Church in Germantown Memphis Tennessee.
Apr 2, 2019 • 1:02:39
Episode 236 * We All Need a Coach
Live and in person, Nate and Aaron sit down with Jeremy Slayden to talk about his experiences as a professional baseball player, and how his need for coaching in his athletic career helped him to dive into seeking coaching in recovery.
Mar 19, 2019 • 1:05:28
Episode 235 * Reconnecting
Aaron and Nate reconnect after Aaron's big move across the country to Nate's neck of the woods, and Nate leads a mini-meeting with Pirates around the world.
Feb 11, 2019 • 1:03:29
Episode 234 * Jim Cress
Welcome to today's amazing episode where Pirate Monks from around the world participate in a mini-meeting and Nate and Aaron converse with counselor and certified sex addiction therapist Jim Cress. To find out more about what Jim is into and up to head on over to jimcress.com
Nov 21, 2018 • 1:12:24
Episode 233 • Live at the Samson Society 2018 Retreat
Mondo joins Nate, Aaron, and a bunch of pirate monks for a special episode of the podcast recorded on Sunday morning at the 2018 "Another 48 Hours" fall retreat.
Nov 17, 2018 • 1:09:50
Episode 232 * Russ Taff
Today Nate & Aaron answer some mail and then run a conversation Nate and David Hampton had with CCM artist Russ Taff on his journey out of addiction and into forgiveness and healing.
Oct 26, 2018 • 1:44:12
Episode 231 * Jay Stringer
Today, Jay Stringer, author of Unwanted: How Sexual Brokenness Reveals Our Way to Healing, unpacks a story of great hope for those in the battle for victory. Check out Jay's website to learn more at: http://jay-stringer.com/
Oct 10, 2018 • 57:54
Episode 230 * Straight Privilege
Today the three-part series on privilege wraps up with a conversation about things heterosexual people may not consider in their day-to-day lives. Nate & Aaron hope that these conversations have been useful and informative, but more than that encouraged you to engage in conversations that help you to understand and love the people around you better.
Oct 3, 2018 • 1:13:18
Episode 229 * Curtis Zackery
Do you ever feel your soul needs rest, but you feel the push to do more for Jesus? Curtis Zackery might have something to say to you on today's conversation with the boys. Check it out. Listen. Learn. Enjoy...
Sep 29, 2018 • 1:14:56
Episode 228 * Male Privilege
Today the series on privilege continues as Nate and Aaron chat with a few experts on being women... and so the conversation continues. What do other people mean when the word privilege is used.
Sep 24, 2018 • 58:00
Episode 227 * White Privilege
Today Nate and Aaron begin a three-part series on privilege, a word that has taken on important and controversial new weight over the past few years. In this first installment, the boys speak with Pastor Kujanga Jackson and their old buddy Mondo to learn about what aspects of white privilege they have never considered before.
Sep 12, 2018 • 1:04:46
Episode 226 * Hangin' With Da' Boys
Tune in and hang out with some of the pirates leading virtual meetings. They might just answer a question you had running around in your mind.
Sep 3, 2018 • 52:05
Episode 225 * Michael John Cusick
Most Christians are caught in a belief that there are two poles in dealing with our flesh, master it, or indulge it. In this episode, Nate and Aaron chat with Michael about a third way to work through our flesh desires. Here is an Amazon link to the Lewis book on love that Aaron talked about. Included on the link is the audio version that was referred to. https://www.amazon.com/The-Four-Loves/dp/B0007OB5QM Free versions of the Four Loves are available on Youtube here: Storge. https://www.yout
Aug 29, 2018 • 1:12:00
Episode 224 * Jonathan Merritt
On this episode, Nate and Aaron sit down with columnist and author Jonathan Merritt, to talk about his newest book Learning to Speak God from Scratch: Why Sacred Words Are Vanishing -- and How We Can Revive Them. Strap in and put your helmets on, because this will be a wild ride.
Aug 22, 2018 • 1:10:58
Episode 223 • Daddy Issues
Aaron talks with Nate and his daughter Kristin about their recent father/daughter trip to Ireland and England.
Jul 26, 2018 • 1:10:57
Episode 222 * Caleb Davison
Nate and Aaron hear about a cool new ministry Caleb and Larry have been working on, which will bring leadership and pastoral mentorship to folks around the world who do not have access to traditional schools and tools. To find out more, head on over to: leading-well.com This Episode's Music: The Quilty Hornpipe - Skip Henderson Everyday People - Sly & The Family Stone Peace of God - Insyderz Don’t Tell Them Jesus Loves Them - Steve Camp Plush - Stone Temple Pilots
Jul 12, 2018 • 50:50
Episode 221 * Kirk Giles
Nate and Aaron touch base with Kirk Giles, president of Promise Keepers Canada and answer follow-up questions from a past podcast.
Jul 4, 2018 • 1:11:36
Episode 220 * David Bunker
Hang out with OP (original pirate) David Bunker as he explores the strange tension we experience in corporate worship and how to discover an authentic emotional experience with our Abba.
Jun 11, 2018 • 1:05:10
Episode 219 * Chad Bird
Ever wondered what a truckin' man thinks about during all that alone time in the cab of his rig? Find out today as Nate and Aaron talk with Chad Bird, author of Night Driving, Notes From a Prodigal Soul. To find more of Chad's resources, head over to: chadbird.com
May 30, 2018 • 52:09
Episode 218 * Virginia's Story
Today, Nate and Aaron sit down with Virginia and talk about her life and experiences as an exotic dancer and re-discovering the love of God.
May 23, 2018 • 1:04:02
Episode 217 * Bryan Craig
The extra piratey Nate and Aaron open the mail bag today to talk through listener questions (and piratey suggestions), and then sit down to chat with Bryan Craig of Influencers Global Ministries. (Yes, they were standing for the first segment.) The Influencers have created a process by which men and women all over the world are experiencing deeper walks as disciples of Jesus Christ. Tune in, get inspired, and head out into the great adventure. For more information on the Influencers' ministry,
May 16, 2018 • 1:01:06
Episode 216 * Lynn Cherry
Today Lynn Cherry, the wife of a recovering sex addict, talks about her own process of recovery from denial and anger. Lynn is the author of "Keep Walking: 40 Days to Hope and Freedom after Betrayal," a very helpful resource for anyone on a similar journey. Check out her website: https://lynnmariecherry.com/
May 9, 2018 • 55:43
Episode 215 * David Hampton
Today Nate and Aaron, who is sitting next to a river on his phone, get a check in from Michael Cusick about his upcoming Surfing For God Intensive, and have a conversation with David Hampton about his book, After the Miracle. To grab a copy of David's book head over to: https://www.amazon.com/After-Miracle-Illusions-Along-Restoration/dp/1683505778/ref=sr_1_2?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1525477794&sr=1-2&refinements=p_27%3ADavid+Hampton And to find out more about Michael's intensive click: https://resto
May 4, 2018 • 1:01:15
Episode 215 * Lisa Eldred
Today the boys sit down with Lisa Eldred, a staff writer with Covenant Eyes, to chat about her new book Hobbies and Habits. Lisa is passionate about helping folks find joy and life during the walk towards sobriety. If you've felt like your struggle against the flesh has been one big dark hole, this week's episode is for you. You can download Lisa's book for free at: https://learn.covenanteyes.com/hobbies-and-habits/ and there are many more books available from covenant eyes, including Lisa's bo
Apr 18, 2018 • 55:57
Episode 214 - Lance Ford
Catch up with the boys as they hang with Mondo, yes he's back, and then have a great conversation with author and all around smart guy Lance Ford. The discussion revolves around the dangers and development of hierarchical business model leadership structures in the western church, and how those models might not be the best way to foster community and the development of the gifts God gave His people. If you are happy sitting on the sidelines and accepting that pastors are the ones who should be i
Apr 11, 2018 • 1:00:40
Episode 213 - Robbyn Abedi
Today Pastor Robbyn Abedi, a coach with Tin Man Ministries, talks with the boys about his story of hope in shame and gives some great insight into learning to be present instead of hiding in life's performance. You might even learn some practical things about masturbation that you were too afraid to ask...not practical "how to's"...but practical...whatever, just listen to the podcast.
Mar 26, 2018 • 1:01:44
Episode 212 - Robert Beeson
Today, the lads sit down with Robert Beeson to talk about single parenting and his new book Going Solo. Robert has created a new format for creating support and community for single parents in your local church. Learn more at soloparentsociety.com.
Mar 22, 2018 • 56:40
Episode 211 * Ben & Ann Wilson
Today the boys talk with Ben and Ann Wilson who share their inspirational story of hope in betrayal and God's love that fills in all the gaps of shame and guilt. Grab their book on Kindle for a special limited time price: https://www.amazon.com/Betrayed-Betrayer-Rescuing-Marriage-Affair/dp/0692414053
Feb 14, 2018 • 55:58
Episode 210 * Needy Men
Today, Nate & Aaron answer some listener questions and chat about the manly act of being needy.
Feb 7, 2018 • 1:03:16
Episode 209 * Dr. Joe Beam
Join us for a facinating conversation with sexologist and marriage expert Joe Beam, with a special guest answering listerner mail.
Jan 12, 2018 • 1:03:22
Episode 208 * Learning to Let Go as a Parent
Merry Christmas to all aboard the good ship Pirate Monk. Today Nate & Aaron chat about the holidays, have a mini meeting and discuss the stages of their parenting adventures, learning to surrender along the road.
Dec 27, 2017 • 1:18:39
Episode 207 * Matt Mikalatos
Today Nate & Aaron have a great conversation with author, speaker, missionary, husband and dad Matt Mikalatos. Matt shares his thoughts on the ideas surrounding the "Alpha Male" and tells the touching story behind his latest book, Sky Lantern. Spoiler Alert: His wife was right. If you want to check out what's happening in the world of Matt Mikalatos or grab a book, check out these links below. www.mikalatos.com Twitter: twitter.com/mattmikalatos FB: facebook.com/mikalatosbooks Sky Lantern pos
Dec 7, 2017 • 1:07:12
Episode 206 * Michael Leahy
Pull up a beanbag chair and enjoy a post thanksgiving conversation with Nate and Michael Leahy as they discuss some new technology that is going to help educate folks on breaking the chains of porn addiction.
Nov 28, 2017 • 54:34
Episode 205 * This Episode Was Performed Before a Live Studio Audience Pt 2
Check out the rest of the boys' live conversatiion with some Pirate Monks at the Samson Recharge Weekend in Tennessee.
Nov 15, 2017 • 44:28
Episode 204 * This Episode Was Performed Before a Live Studio Audience pt. 1
Join us and 60 of our fellow pirates for a live conversation during the Samson Recharge weekend. Nate, Aaron and Mondo field questions from the crew of the good ship "We Have No Idea What's Going On."
Nov 2, 2017 • 54:50
Episode 203 * Ted "Million Dollar Man" DiBiase
Today Nate and Aaron sit down and have a conversation with WWE hall of fame wrestler Ted DiBiase about his journey back to his family and faith after he discovered the true price of fame. A documentary on his life and faith journey will be shown November 7th. To find out what theater near you will be showing "The Price of Fame," go to: https://www.fathomevents.com/events/the-price-of-fame?utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=the+price+of+fame&utm_term=87am&utm_content=textad&gclid=Cj0KC
Nov 1, 2017 • 1:06:06
Episode 202 * Chris Simning
Today national speaker Chris Simning shares about lessons he's learned about community through living with a physical dissability and the common threads that holds with every persons soul disabilities. Don't miss this exciting, tantalizing episode of the pirate monk podcast.
Sep 27, 2017 • 1:04:53
Episode 201 * Shane Claiborne
The boys tread in deep waters as they talk about social justice and capital punishment with Shane Claiborne. If this sounds too scary for you...don't listen. But we think you should!
Sep 19, 2017 • 1:02:28
Episode 200 * "Science" Mike McHargue
Mike talks with the boys about some of the neurological and social reasons we get entrenched in a way of thinking and can't / won't amend our views. This is also summarized as, "why I am a bad listener and only want you to change your mind." All that and more on today's episode of the pirate monk podcast.
Sep 14, 2017 • 1:04:00
Episode 199 - The Language of Emotion
Today Jeff Schulte of Tin Man Ministries unpacks some of what he will be teaching on at the Samson Recharge weekend coming up in October, the importance and role of emotions in a man's life. If you haven't signed up for the weekend, check it out at: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/pirate-monk-recharge-weekend-2017-tickets-36758342191 Nate has also published a new ebook on accountability which can be downloaded for free at: http://www.2lin.cc/beyondaccountability
Sep 13, 2017 • 1:03:43
Episode 198 - The Heart of Man
Pull up a chair, switch on that listening device and get into the back story of the new Movie, The Heart of Man, opening September 14th. Producer and Writer Jason Pamer tells us a little of what into this movie that searches for the heart of our Abba in the midst of personal struggles and pitfalls. To find out what city The Heart of Man will be playing in, go to: http://heartofmanmovie.com/ To watch the theatrical tralor, click: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3qJHd17RQeg
Aug 23, 2017 • 41:37
Episode 197 - Road Trip Episode
Nate and Dr. Tom Moucka call in from their Samson road trip visiting brothers down south. This stop, Don Waller's group in Jackson Mississippi.
Aug 17, 2017 • 57:19
Episode 196 - Binge Living
Today the boys talk with Tony Kriz about the miraculous gift of story, and the discipline of slowing down enough to engage the one God has put us in. MUSIC FROM TODAY'S EPISODE Song 1: Ben Folds - Zak & Sara Song 2: Five Iron Frenzy - Solidarity Song 3: Ibrahim Ferrer- Compositor Confundido Song 4: Kyle Matthews - The Way We Go About it Matters Song 5: Chagall Guevara - It All Comes True
Jul 26, 2017 • 59:45
Episode 195 - Coming Home
Today Nate & Aaron chat with old friend and Samson OG Scott Phillips about his journey away from home, through the unexpected wilderness and the deep discovery of a Father who loves us. You can find Scott's music with his band Good Little Giants at: goodlittlegiants.com The three songs played in the middle breaks of today's episode are from his album, "Arrows."
Jul 19, 2017 • 1:03:45
Episode 194 * A Journey to Manhood
Today Chad Robichaux, recon marine, mixed martial artist, husband & father, talks about his journey through battle, competition, ptsd and finding how much strength it takes to be a man of God. If you are in the mood for someone boring...skip this episode. To read more about Chad's program for soldiers, or to order his book, click the link below. http://www.mightyoaksprograms.org/
Jul 12, 2017 • 1:01:11
Episode 193 * The Good 'Ol Days
Today Nate & Aaron sit down and chat with CCM artist Matthew Ward and talk about the communal aspects of the Church in the late 60's and 70's when Matthew was singing with his two sisters in the band 2nd Chapter of Acts. They discuss some of the positive and negative aspects of a Church taking seriously the notion of living together as one body, a true community.
Jun 21, 2017 • 44:10
Episode 192 * Technical trouble - episode will be re-uploaded
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Jun 17, 2017 • 1:11:02
Episode 192 * Living Water
Today Aaron and guest co-host Brian Kay talk with Gary Weyel of Life Water and discuss the greatest killer on the planet. Stay tuned and get informed. If you want to learn more about Life Water, click the link below. https://lifewater.org/ Brian and Aaron also discussed his new album that was released on noisetrade this week. If you'd like to download a free copy, click: http://noisetrade.com/aaronporter/waiting-to-see
Jun 17, 2017 • 1:11:02
191 * Inviting Jesus to the Meal
Today Nate & Aaron sit down with their old friend Ken Chester to talk about Ken's "Rez Meals," a purposeful time for believers to meet over the body and blood of Christ and bring their authentic selves.
Jun 7, 2017 • 59:52
190 * Bravehearts & Mentoring
Today Nate & Aaron talk to Michael Leahy about his story and the Bravehearts ministry that mentors men from sexual addiction to powerful walks with Jesus. They also dip into the mail bag to answer some of your questions. To check out Michael's ministry, go to bravehearts.org
May 24, 2017 • 1:11:19
189 • Encouraging the Spouse of an Addict
Catherine Etherington is an empathetic and articulate mother-of-two from England who has helped hundreds of women come to terms with the news that they have been sleeping with a sex addict. Here's a taste of her wisdom: Nate: Some Christian women are told that their responsibility towards a repentant spouse (or even an unrepentant one) is to forgive and forget. Is that true? Is it even possible? Are there healthier alternatives that produce healing? Cat: That is such an important issue and one
May 17, 2017 • 48:54
188 • Behind '13 Reasons Why' with Jay Asher
Jay Asher is the author behind the bestselling book 13 Reasons Why which is now an original Netflix series. Subscribers have gone wild for the young adult mystery series about a girl who commits suicide and sends audio cassettes explaining why. Jay Asher wrote 13 Reasons Why after penning a number of other books. Aaron invited him into his studio for episode 51, which was posted on February 8, 2011, to talk about his life, background, and why he thinks the subject resonates. Nate, Aaron, and Mon
Apr 12, 2017 • 27:27
187 • Facing Failure featuring Dr. Brian Kay
How do you handle failure? Counselor and Pastor Brian Kay joins us to talk about stand up comedy and so much more. Bring your resentment list to talk about with the guys and enjoy a super-sized edition of the Pirate Monk Podcast. Brian has his own podcast. Check out Shot Put. Music Used on this Episode Get Back Up by TobyMac Miracle of the Moment by Steven Curtis Chapman Blessed Be Your Name by Tree63 Find out more about Mark's upcoming race or make a donation here: Watch the video.
Mar 28, 2017 • 1:12:29
186 • Understanding Yourself with Ian Cron
One of our favorite guests, Ian Cron, drops in for a swerving conversation about his latest book, The Road Back to You. It's his take on the enneagram so you know Aaron has a lot to say. His book His podcast His free assessment Mark's April Race: Please watch this video and join his effort. Music Used on the Episode: "Who am I" by Margaret Becker "Who am I" by Casting Crowns Please pray for Nate's wife Allie who is fighting pneumonia.
Jan 26, 2017 • 1:02:34
185 • A Royal Ruckus Christmas
If listening in your browser, scoll to the bottom of the notes to find the player controls. The Pirate Ship is decorated for Christmas today and full of suggestions for your Christmas Music pleasure. Nate gives an update on Allie and her challenges. Then we welcome an old friend and fellow Monk to the microphone: Jamey "Chunjay" Bennett, one half of the hip hop duo, Royal Ruckus. Royal Ruckus Click here to stream or download the 3-song Christmas EP, "Lonely Christmas". Also, find other Christmas
Dec 15, 2016 • 1:04:36
184 • Treating Depression and Addiction with Dr. Paul Corona
Aaron follows up on his promise from the last episode and invites Dr. Paul Corona to discuss treating depression and addiction with medicine. Have you been struggling for years with addiction, depression symptoms, physical pain, anxiety, or other related issues? For many, there has been no treatment, pill, or treatment plan able to solve the problem. Dr. Corona’s approach is different. He understands there’s only one solution per person, and that solution depends on a number of factors—your gen
Nov 18, 2016 • 55:47
183 • Willingness
Nate, Aaron, and Mark dive right into the topic: willingness in recovery. The Article on Willingness Discussed Today Scripture Used in this Edition "Watch and pray that you may not enter into temptation. The spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak.” Jesus speaking in Matthew 26:41 The Pool of Siloam, John 9 Great Quotes from this Episode "An expectation is a premeditated resentment." "Expectation does not equal hope." Music Used on this Episode "Answers Don't Come Easy" by Le
Nov 9, 2016 • 57:38
182 • Five Things Addicts Should and Shouldn't Say to Partners
Nate, Aaron, and Mark check in briefly. The guys discussed this article on this edition outlining the Five Things Addicts Should (and Should Not) Say to Partners. Do say, "I understand why you don't trust me." Do say, "What can I do to repair what I've done?" Do Lead with Agreement Don't say, "I've told you everything." Don't ask (or expect) your partner to congratulate you on your sobriety or recovery activities Books Mentioned on this Edition: Moving Beyond Betrayal by
Sep 27, 2016 • 1:04:05
181 • Legislating Morality
Australia is taking a governmental approach to protecting their citizens from pornography. But does legislating morality actually work? How about on a personal level? On this edition of the podcast, Aaron, Newton, and Mark talk about their opinions and observations. We kick off this edition with a look at pastors' resignations like these. Music on this Episode Aaron shares one of his original songs, "A Pastor's Thoughts on Pedestals". Enjoy exclusively on this podcast. Our
Sep 20, 2016 • 1:11:03
180 • The Afterglow of After the Miracle
The guys gather to discuss the outcome of "After the Miracle", the first National Samson Society retreat. Then we answer a question from a brother pirate who is concerned about how to keep your group safe for all members and how to squelch rumors. Music Used on this Episode: "Mountain Cathedrals" by Bob Bennett "Honesty" by Billy Joel
Sep 1, 2016 • 58:10
179 • The Love of Christ and the Hope for Your Marriage
If listening on your web browser, scroll to the bottom for the player controls. REGISTRATION OPEN until July 31: "After the Miracle: Building a Life of Positive Sobriety", the Samson Society National Retreat, is scheduled for August 19–21, 2016. Click here for more details and to register. As of 7/13/16, only 21 spaces remain. Only 18 days remain to register. This edition of the podcast was recorded on May 18, 2016 and first published on July 13, 2016 To keep you informed, you mu
Jul 14, 2016 • 54:32
178 • Handing a Scalpel to a Fellow Pirate
To listen in your web browser, scroll to the bottom of the notes and press play. REGISTRATION OPEN until July 31: "After the Miracle: Building a Life of Positive Sobriety", the Samson Society National Retreat, is scheduled for August 19–21, 2016. Click here for more details and to register. As of 7/6/16, only 33 spaces remain. We launch this podcast with an emotions check-in with Nate, Newton, and Mark. The heart of the episode circles around a recent experience Mark encountered. At a
Jul 7, 2016 • 52:05
177 • Who are the Samson Society? Is Everyone a Sex Addict?
If you are listening on your computer, please scroll to the bottom of the notes to find the player. REGISTRATION NOW OPEN: "After the Miracle: Building a Life of Positive Sobriety", the Samson Society National Retreat, is scheduled for August 19–21, 2016. Click here for more details and to register. As of 6/22/16, only 44 spaces remain. You've been there when a new man walked in the door for a first-time meeting. We get to know Lee Marcus who hesitated a little before sitting in our circl
Jun 22, 2016 • 59:18
176 • You Are There featuring Robert Campbell
REGISTRATION NOW OPEN: "After the Miracle: Building a Life of Positive Sobriety", the Samson Society National Retreat, is scheduled for August 19–21, 2016. Click here for more details and to register. As of 6/11/16, only 48 spaces remain. Nate, Aaron, and Mark welcome a pastor, Robert Campbell, to the microphones for a conversation about building community, creation care, and shepherding Christians towards discipleship that is all the way down to the dirt. What is the fruit of a redemptiv
Jun 15, 2016 • 58:54
175 • Questions About Porn
To listen to this episode online, please scroll to the bottom of the notes to see the player. REGISTRATION NOW OPEN: "After the Miracle: Building a Life of Positive Sobriety", the Samson Society National Retreat, is scheduled for August 19–21, 2016. Click here for more details and to register. We open our conversation with a mini-meeting about "Disappointment." We'd love to hear your observations. Use the tools at the bottom of this post to leave us your thoughts and feelings about "Disap
Jun 7, 2016 • 1:07:14
174 • A Couple of Regular Guys
If listening online, please scroll to the bottom of this entry for the player. You asked for it. We delivered. One of the most commonly asked for additions to the podcast line up is: "Can we hear from other Pirate Monks?" Today on the podcast, we sit down with two Samson brothers who have never met Nate. Paul Maxwell (@paulcmaxwell) is a PhD student at Trinity Evangelical Divinity School, and philosophy professor at Moody Bible Institute. He writes more at his blog, and pretends to like co
May 12, 2016 • 54:25
Episode 173 • Soul Architecture featuring Aaron Porter
Our own Renaissance Man, Aaron Porter, takes us on a guided tour of one of his life's great passions—applying the Gospel to the great why questions of our lives. Every week, Aaron coaches several Christ followers on the path to greater understanding of their selves and Abba God using the material in his latest book, Soul Architecture: Building Your Story on a Gospel Foundation. Using the ancient enneagram as a tool and the Scriptures as the roadmap, Aaron helps us understand: we need more than
Mar 26, 2016 • 1:11:43
Episode 172 • Embarassment, Guilt, and Shame
ANNOUNCING: Nate Larkin is hosting a national Samson Society weekend intensive focused on positive sobriety. Interested? Click here to provide your email address. You'll be the first to know all of the details when price and schedule are announced. All of the podcast Buccaneers will be there. Click here to sign up for information. Certified marriage & family therapist and author Ramon Presson takes us into the darkest days of his life and helps us all look out the window at God's answer fo
Mar 18, 2016 • 1:02:47
Episode 171 • After the Miracle
ANNOUNCING: Nate Larkin is hosting a national Samson Society weekend intensive focused on positive sobriety. Interested? Click here to provide your email address. You'll be the first to know all of the details when price and schedule are announced. All of the podcast Buccaneers will be there. Click to receive more information. Nate Larkin's own Silas, worship pastor and author David Hampton, climbs up into the treehouse for episode 171. They guys talk about what happens AFTER the pink cl
Mar 10, 2016 • 57:18
Episode 170 • Can Men Be Friends with Women? | Recovery Men's Ministry Samson Society 12-Step
In Episode 170, Nate, Newton, and Mark welcome Englishman Joshua Jones to the microphone. He discusses how we can build genuine relationships with the opposite sex that DON'T threaten marriage. Is it possible? Is it wise? The Book Forbidden Friendships: Retaking the Biblical Gift of Male-Female Friendship Forbidden Friendships presents the case for why Christian men and women not only can but need to engage one another in deep friendship and how to do so. In the name of integrity, walls a
Feb 25, 2016 • 58:47
Episode 169 • Questions from Listeners
In Episode 0169, Nate, Aaron, and Mark attend a mini-meeting then answer some questions from our listener survey. (1) Is there such a thing as casual porn use, like casual drinking? (2) How do I handle going to the beach? Watching TV? Mini-Meeting If you're looking for resources to start a Samson Society meeting in your area, check out these resources. Feel free to comment or leave a voicemail with any questions you have. Chess Aaron told a great story about his son, Elijah. Check out this pictu
Feb 12, 2016 • 58:28
Episode 168 • Confession and Healing
Do we have your feedback yet? Please take a few minutes and answer just a few questions in our listener survey. On episode 168 of The Pirate Monk Podcast, the guys welcome author, speaking agent, and fellow struggler on the path, Wes Yoder, Our conversation may meander, but we will touch on confession, sorrow, lament, healing, fathers, and Elvis. Show Notes Bond of Brothers by Wes Yoder Wes Yoder is the founder and President of The Ambassador Agency in Franklin, Tenn. He is also the local repr
Feb 1, 2016 • 1:04:23
Episode 167 • Step 1
We long for your feedback. Please take a few minutes and answer just a few questions in our listener survey. On episode 167 of The Pirate Monk Podcast, Nate and Mark go for a virtual walk with microphones on to discuss the first step of the 12 Steps. Show Notes Nate brought up three books worth having in your library. The Big Book: Alcoholics Anonymous [Free] [iPhone App] [Amazon] The Twelve Steps and the Twelve Traditions [Free] [iPhone App] [Amazon] Find Samson meetings here. Find AA meeti
Jan 27, 2016 • 58:43
Episode 166 • Cycles
On episode 166 of The Pirate Monk Podcast, Nate shares a personal challenge and we take two phone calls from listeners like you. Show Notes Aaron shared a quote by his co-pastor at Vintage Community Church. Nate also said, "Don't go toward isolation to get out of a cycle." If you feel stuck in a cycle, Nate offers these four ideas: Tracking your sobriety and serenity. Some groups use chips. Some individuals use a Sobriety Counter app [iOS] [Android] to track their "one day at a time." Keeping
Jan 19, 2016 • 51:58
0165 Gospelicious (aka Gospel Grace)
Nate Larkin and the guys welcome Erik Guzman, Vice President of Communications from Key Life, to discuss transformation by the gospel even in the midst of recovery. Show Notes Read more about Erik Read Erik's article series on addiction Drunk Believers Pain is Your Friend Beauty from Brutality The Gift of AddictionOrder Erik's new novel, The Seek: A True Myth Resources Discussed TED Talk: Everything You Think You Know about Addiction is WrongJohann Hari Delighting in the Trinity by Michael Ree
Jan 10, 2016 • 52:48
Ep164 • Best of 2015
Listen back to clips from the top three listened to podcast episodes of 2015. The number three most popular episode of 2015 was #161, "Cross Road" featuring Ken Snyder. Click here to listen to the entire episode #161 "Cross Road." Find out more or order Ken Snyder's book, Cross Road. In this clip, Ken addresses the spiritual benefits of recovery and how he brings the Gospel into the process. Nate, Aaron, and Newton talk about community and the standards in their recovery program. The numb
Jan 1, 2016 • 40:09
Ep 163 • Dating God
Show Notes:In this episode, a look at Stage 4 of The Path as expressed in the charter of The Samson Society. (Download the Charter here.) Encouraged by my Silas and others, I develop the daily disciplines of prayer, study, and self-examination. I abandon self-help, asking God instead to do for me what I cannot do for myself. Nate shared an article by Tim Challies. Read the article here. Download Psalm 23 in several translations here. Special Request:The guys are taking a break for Christmas an
Dec 17, 2015 • 55:20
Episode 162 • The Mailbag, Positive Sobriety, and To Drink or Not to Drink
Nate, Aaron, and Mondo are back after a too-long hiatus and welcome a new member of the team, Mark. On this Episode:1. What happened to Aaron in the hot tub?2. How can a man make sure he is fully known?3. What does Positive Sobriety look like?4. Should we go to the pub for the "meeting after the meeting?" Show Notes:Nate quoted this passage from the Alcoholics Anonymous Big Book. We began practicing a positive sobriety, taking the actions of love to improve our relations with others. We were lea
Dec 11, 2015 • 56:28
Episode 161• Cross Road
A conversation with author Ken Snyder.
Oct 20, 2015 • 47:28
Episode 160 • Fight Club!
An inspiring conversation with Kurt Graves of Warehouse 242.
Oct 20, 2015 • 1:01:37
Episode 159 * Where do I go from here...
Greg Oliver of Route 1520 and Adam Calvert, a certified sex addiction therapist call in to chat about the nuts and bolts of addiction, what diagnosis looks like, and what some first steps towards healing could be.
May 6, 2015 • 59:33
Episode 158 • Rod Tucker Uncovered
A refreshingly frank conversation about authenticity with Rod Tucker, author of Uncovered: The Truth About Honesty and Community.
Apr 30, 2015 • 1:12:13
Episode 157 * The Fatal Cubit
A cubit is a measurement from biblical times, roughly the distance from one's fist to their elbow, which is roughly the distance from your brain to your heart. Today Bill Delveux and the boys explore the journey to trust God's truths beyond the head until it sinks into the soul.
Apr 23, 2015 • 1:08:30
Episode 156 * Life Changes
Today the boys sit down with Dan Haseltine and talk about life seasons and the identity flexing struggle of transitioning through them.
Apr 8, 2015 • 1:03:35
Episode 155 * Crafting for Men
Today John Thompson explains what Jesus, a good loaf of bread and micro-brew have to do with Kingdom living and deep community. You'll also learn why Nate dressed like a dork during high school. This and much more on today's episode of...The Pirate Monk Podcast
Mar 19, 2015 • 53:34
Episode 154 * The Thad Man Cometh
The crew is back on the high seas after an extended time ashore, talking about Russell Brand, GQ surveys and having a conversation with Thaddeus Heffner about real intimacy and the ways we can cheat ourselves out of it. Climb aboard maties.
Mar 17, 2015 • 1:09:03
Episode 153 • The River of Denial
In this special co-hosted episode from his Walking Lessons podcast, Nate talks about our well-developed habit of ignoring unpleasant realities that threaten our self-esteem or sense of security.
Jan 22, 2015 • 51:41
Episode 152 - Grace For Living
Sit back and enjoy a conversation on real life grace with Scotty Smith.
Jan 7, 2015 • 58:32
Episode 151 - Compassion & Performance
This week the guys sit down at chat with performance director and speaker Tom Jackson. Nate also talks to Aaron about his new album which can be downloaded at http://noisetrade.com/aaronporter/of-the-ground
Dec 19, 2014 • 1:13:18
Episode 150 • When God Hides
An interview with Tony Kriz, author of "Aloof: Figuring Out Life with the God Who Hides"
Nov 15, 2014 • 41:43
Episode 149 • Big Heart, Big Mission
A conversation with Pastor Tim Harlow, author of "Life on Mission."
Nov 11, 2014 • 1:01:26
Episode 148 * Chatting with Frank Schaeffer
Today Nate & Aaron chat with author and speaker Frank Schaeffer about his newest book, "Why I am an Atheist Who Believes in God," as well topics ranging from growing up in the spotlight, to finding second chances and new depth views into love with grandkids.
Oct 31, 2014 • 1:04:25
Episode 147 • Questions and Faith with Science Mike
Science Mike is back addressing another tough topic...questions. Is it safe to ask questions in the Church? How do we respond to those whose questions threaten our feelings of security? These questions and more are answered today, on the Pirate Monk Podcast.
Oct 22, 2014 • 41:04
Episode 146 • Ultra-Man
A conversation with ultra-athlete Chris Isaakson.
Oct 10, 2014 • 56:30
Episode 145 • Homecoming (For Real This Time)
A conversation with Steve Dulaney, President of Prodigals International.
Oct 4, 2014 • 1:14:05
Episode 144 • This Is the Time
A conversation with artist, mentor, and ministry leader Mo Leverett
Sep 29, 2014 • 1:14:05
Episode 143 • A Chat With One Of Our Favorite Pirate Ladies, Author Tammy Maltby
A great conversation on the gift of hospitality and meal sharing and how God gives it to us to experience His love for us. Tammy also gives us men some ideas on how to pursue the miracle in manly...ish ways.
Sep 17, 2014 • 1:07:31
Episode 142 • Questions About "Certainty" pt. 1, With Mike McHargue
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Aug 28, 2014 • 56:06
Episode 141 • Sex Trafficking and Distraction
The guys shoot the breeze in Nate's living room.
Aug 19, 2014 • 1:02:50
Episode 140 • The Great Hunt for God
A conversation about men's ministry with Jim Ramos.
Aug 12, 2014 • 54:44
Episode 139 • Warning Signs of Relapse
A discussion of relapse prevention, news about the long-term effects of porn use, and reflections on the link between childhood sexual abuse and human trafficking.
Jun 19, 2014 • 52:58
Episode 138 • Jamey Bennett Drops By
A visit from a traveling Pirate Monk.
Jun 9, 2014 • 45:52
Episode 137 • Visit from a Podcast Listener
Listener Brian B. drops by the studio for a chat with the gang.
May 31, 2014 • 47:05
Episode 136 • The Pastor's Dilemma
A conversation with T.C. Ryan, author of "Ashamed No More."
May 6, 2014 • 58:05
Episode 135 • Teamwork and Social Entrepreneurship
A conversation with Rob Murray of the Hands and Feet Project
Apr 17, 2014 • 54:05
Episode 134 • Real Friends, Home Birth, and 80's Hip-Hop
A conversation with author Michael Reynolds.
Apr 16, 2014 • 1:07:40
Episode 133 • Storming the Stronghold
A conversation with CJ Stunkard, author of "Stronghold."
Mar 22, 2014 • 1:01:26
Episode 132 • Mondo and Newton Hang Out
Put a couple of Samson guys together in a studio without a guest, and here's what happens.
Mar 22, 2014 • 57:05
Episode 131 • From Shame to Authenticity
A conversation with writer, blogger, and speaker Bill Delvaux.
Feb 26, 2014 • 49:49
Episode 130 • I Was Wrong, I'm Sorry, and I Love You
An honest and reflective conversation with singer/songwriter Derek Webb.
Feb 2, 2014 • 1:29:05
Episode 129 • Escape from Legalistic Traditionalism
A conversation about faith with Matthew Paul Turner.
Dec 23, 2013 • 57:19
Episode 128 • The Return of Mr. X
A throwback to the very first episode of the Pirate Monk Podcast.
Dec 11, 2013 • 1:07:27
Episode 127 • The Post-Thanksgiving Special
Turkey-day memories, listener mail, and a conversation with Chad Griffin.
Dec 6, 2013 • 59:39
Episode 126 • Double Play
Independent filmmaker Nathan Lee discusses his current project "The Heart of the Matter," and Brian and Jenni Clayville talk about surviving infidelity.
Dec 5, 2013 • 1:08:31
Episode 125 • The Passion Principle
Mondo and Newton take over the show -- and have a fascinating discussion with Shannon Ethridge, author of "The Passion Principle: Celebrating Sexual Freedom in Marriage."
Nov 20, 2013 • 55:15
Episode 124 • A Man Among Men
An inspiring conversation with pirate monk Raleigh Clough.
Oct 30, 2013 • 1:07:45
Episode 123 • Tales of the Informant
An interview with Mark Whitacre, subject of the 2009 film "The Informant."
Oct 28, 2013 • 57:19
Episode 122 • Grace is for Sinners
A conversation with blogger/author Serena Woods.
Oct 16, 2013 • 1:00:44
Episode 121 • The Beat Poet
A conversation with Tony Kriz, also known as "Tony the Beat Poet" from Donald Miller's Blue Like Jazz.
Oct 16, 2013 • 1:00:32
Episode 120 • A Functional Sinner
Guest John Scherrer tells about his rude awakening from years of denial, and the benefits it brought him.
Oct 7, 2013 • 1:16:59
Episode 119 • Our Authentic Selves
A visit with original Pirate Monk David Hampton, author of the new book "Our Authentic Selves: Reflections On What We Believe And What We Wish We Believed."
Sep 26, 2013 • 1:04:37
Episode 118 • The Clearing Committee
Aaron, Nate, Mondo and Newton describe a clarifying tool for Christians facing difficult decisions.
Sep 23, 2013 • 1:02:56
Episode 117 • The Beauty of Broken
Mini-meeting about Fatigue, and an interview with Elisa Morgan, author of "The Beauty of Broken: My Story and Likely Yours Too."
Sep 12, 2013 • 1:00:04
Episode 116 • A Doctor Talks About God, Dying, and Heaven
A conversation with Reggie Anderson, M.D., author of "Appointments with Heaven."
Sep 6, 2013 • 53:26
Episode 115 • What You Wish Your Dad Had Done for You
A conversation with Scott Dente about initiating our sons into manhood.
Sep 3, 2013 • 1:06:43
Episode 114 • Church for Men
Rethinking church for men with David Murrow, author of "Why Men Hate Going to Church."
Aug 23, 2013 • 1:02:40
Episode 113 • The Magdalene Mission
Interview with Rev. Becca Stevens, founder of the Magdalene House and Thistle Farms.
Aug 16, 2013 • 1:04:01
Episode 112 • Blazing Grace
A conversation about money, and an interview with Mike Genung, author of "The Road to Grace."
Aug 8, 2013 • 1:04:06
Episode 111 • Intentional Warriors
A conversation with James Tarring Cordrey, author of "Intentional Warriors: Fighting for Purity and Freedom in a Sexually Saturated Society"
Aug 1, 2013 • 1:05:51
Episode 108 • Does Jesus Really Love Me?
A conversation with Jeff Chu, author of Does Jesus Really Love Me?: A Gay Christian's Pilgrimage in Search of God in America.
Jul 14, 2013 • 55:13
Episode 105 • Transparency and the Twelve Steps
An informative and inspiring conversation with Tal Prince.
Jun 19, 2013 • 1:09:15
Episode 104 • The Roots of Addiction
A revealing personal conversation with Dr. David Kyle Foster.
Jun 17, 2013 • 1:02:01
Episode 103 • The Very Worst Is Okay to Talk About
Conversation with author/blogger Jamie Wright -- "The Very Worst Missionary."
Jun 6, 2013 • 1:07:16
Episode 102 • Hardship and Hope
The show that never happened, with Aaron and Mondo.
Jun 1, 2013 • 37:38
Episode 101• The Devil in Pew Number 7
Rebecca Nichols Alonzo, author of "The Devil in Pew Number 7," shares her family's terrifying and inspiring story.
May 22, 2013 • 1:03:31
Episode 100 • The Man Code
With "America's Minister of Encouragement," Dennis Swanberg.
May 15, 2013 • 1:05:56
Episode 99 • Immortal Diamond
A conversation with speaker and author Richard Rohr.
May 8, 2013 • 1:05:24
Episode 98 • The Power of Words
With special guest podcaster Russ Shaw.
May 3, 2013 • 1:01:30
Episode 97 • The Porn Circuit
Guest host Tom Ryan joins Aaron and Mondo for a visit with Sam Black, author of "The Porn Circuit: Understand Your Brain and Break Porn Habits in 90 Days."
Apr 26, 2013 • 1:10:16
Episode 96 • Trauma and Toxic Shame
Conversation with singer, songwriter, missionary, and veteran pirate monk Matthew Creamer.
Apr 17, 2013 • 1:06:22
Episode 95 • Pillars of Purity
A conversation with Jonathan Daugherty of Be Broken Ministries.
Apr 10, 2013 • 1:01:15
Episode 94 • The Forgiveness Formula
A featured blog by Jamie Wright and a conversation with C.J. Hitz.
Apr 3, 2013 • 1:06:34
Episode 93 • Landmarks on the Journey
Conversation with Bill Delvaux, author of Landmarks: Turning Points on Your Journey Toward God.
Mar 27, 2013 • 1:02:50
Episode 92 • Beyond Ordinary
First episode of Pirate Monk Radio! The podcast is now interactive! Listen to our conversation with guests Justin and Trisha Davis, authors of "Beyond Ordinary: When a Good Marriage Just Isn't Good Enough."
Mar 20, 2013 • 59:39
Episode 91 • Trauma and EMDR
A mini-meeting about Wounds, and a conversation with therapist Kyle Rigsby
Dec 29, 2012 • 1:10:56
Episode 90 • Ashamed No More
An eye-opening conversation with T.C. Ryan, author of "Ashamed No More: A Pastor's Journey Through Sex Addiction.”
Dec 15, 2012 • 56:06
Episode 89 • Rocky Mountain High
A return visit with Michael John Cusick, author of "Surfing for God."
Nov 8, 2012 • 44:28
Episode 88 • Somebody's Daughter
We're back! Great conversation with Steve Siler of Music for the Soul, the man behind the Somebody's Daughter initiative.
Oct 10, 2012 • 51:36
Episode 87 • Extreme Risk
A visit with Ted Bruun, founder of the Extreme Tour.
Jul 10, 2012 • 59:02
Episode 86 • The Tattooed Preacher
Visit with Aaron Davis, the Tattooed Preacher. Heath McClure sits in.
Jul 5, 2012 • 52:53
Episode 85 • People Can Change
A visit with Rich Wyler, founder of People Can Change. Thaddeus Heffner sits in.
Jun 23, 2012 • 45:58
Episode 84 • Forgiveness and Route 1520
A Pirate Monk doubleheader with Michael Johnson and Traylor Lovvorn.
Jun 15, 2012 • 54:18
Episode 83 • Three Free Sins?
A stimulating conversation with author, teacher, and syndicated radio host Steve Brown.
May 24, 2012 • 49:02
Episode 82 • A Prodigal Returns
Former adult film actor and director Randy Spears (Greg Deuschle) recounts his descent into porn, and his reawakening.
May 18, 2012 • 49:03
Episode 81 • Social Responsibility and Duty-Free Sex
Updates on China, the SHE Rescue Home, Sex and Skinny — and a conversation with Tony Campolo.
May 10, 2012 • 57:34
Episode 80 • Restoring the Soul
Fascinating conversation with Michael John Cusick, author of Surfing for God: Discovering the Divine Desire Beneath Sexual Struggle.
Mar 15, 2012 • 1:06:14
Episode 79 • Faith, Brotherhood, and Same-Sex Needs
Thaddeus Heffner and Scott Murphree join Aaron, Nate, and Mondo for a visit with Tim Timmerman, author of "A Bigger World Yet."
Mar 6, 2012 • 58:10
Episode 78 • A Long Obedience
A revealing conversation with Steve Mason of Jars of Clay. Scott Dente sits in with Mondo, Aaron, and Nate.
Feb 27, 2012 • 1:04:45
Episode 77 • Alone with Ian Cron
A mini-meeting on the subject of Solitude, with Nate, Mondo, Aaron, Scott Dente, and Ian Cron, author of "Jesus, My Father, the CIA, and Me."
Feb 5, 2012 • 59:32
Episode 74 -- Pirate Monks in Cambodia
Mondo Grimes and John Hartman report on their recent trip to the SHE Rescue Home in Pnom Penh.
Dec 1, 2011 • 1:03:05
Episode 73 -- Breaking the Cycle
A conversation with Jeff Fisher of porntopurity.com, and an update from Mondo on his rescue mission to Cambodia.
Nov 2, 2011 • 56:09
Special Episode -- Yada Yada Yada
A message Nate delivered at Journey Church in Franklin, TN on October 9, 2011
Oct 27, 2011 • 50:49
Episode 72 -- Ladies' Day!
Report from Francie Brown on Rahab and the Naked Nuns, and a conversation about spouses and recovery with Constance Rhodes
Oct 26, 2011 • 56:59
Episode 71b -- Wonder and Brotherhood
A visit with songwriter, pastor, and community developer Scott Roley.
Oct 13, 2011 • 1:07:37
Episode 70 -- Guilt, Hipsters, and Refugees
A visit with Chicago radio personality and Samson guy Seth "Tower" Hurd.
Oct 10, 2011 • 58:58
Episode 69 -- 10 Seconds and Fantasy
Fascinating discussion with filmmaker David Perry, who wrote and directed "10 Seconds."
Sep 27, 2011 • 1:06:12
Episode 68 -- Rescuing a Troubled Relationship
A conversation with returning guest Joe Beam of LovePath Intenational.
Sep 21, 2011 • 41:26
Episode 67 -- Identity and EFT
A conversation about Emotionally Focused Therapy with therapist Rob Curwen.
Sep 15, 2011 • 1:02:48
Episode 66 -- Beyond Martyrdom
A mini-meeting and an interview with professional guitarist Rex Paul Schnelle.
Sep 7, 2011 • 56:56
Episode 65 • Prodigal Love
Mini-meeting on the subject of "comparison," and a conversation with Bill Lokey, Clinical Director of Onsite Workshops.
Jul 26, 2011 • 56:34
Episode 64 -- Living in God's Reality
A fantasy mini-meeting, and a conversation with Brian Hardin of the Daily Audio Bible.
Jun 22, 2011 • 1:03:44
Episode 63 -- Memory and Rage
A visit with therapist and Samson veteran Kyle Rigsby.
Jun 8, 2011 • 1:12:06
Episode 62 - Recreation and Recovery
A visit with life coach and recovery specialist John Edwards.
May 31, 2011 • 55:15
Episode 61 -- When Will My Life Not Suck?
A visit with author and therapist Ramon Presson.
May 25, 2011 • 57:57
Episode 60 -- The Shelter
A mini-meeting and conversation with Jars of Clay's lead singer and lyricist Dan Haseltine
May 18, 2011 • 56:29
Episode 59 -- God Thrice Holy
Special edition of the podcast features a sermon delivered by Aaron Porter at Vintage Community Church in Templeton, CA.
May 10, 2011 • 49:32
Episode 58 -- Journey to Freedom
A discussion of holiness and safe community, and a visit with author Chad Barrett.
May 3, 2011 • 55:48
Episode 57 -- The Addict and His Dad
Featuring an interview with Ian Morgan Cron, author of "Jesus, My Father, the CIA and Me."
Apr 21, 2011 • 58:20
Episode 56 -- The Anatomy of Relapse
An interview with Michael Dye of the Genesis Process (www.genesisprocess.org)
Apr 12, 2011 • 1:00:12
Episode 54 Repost -- Future Marriage University
A conversation with Michael Johnson of Future Marriage University and a mini-meeting with Nate, Mondo, and Steve Wyer.
Mar 30, 2011 • 52:30
Episode 55 -- The Christian Sexologist
A frank conversation with Joe Beam of LovePath.
Mar 12, 2011 • 55:08
Episode 53 -- Loneliness
A conversation with venerable pirate monk and new author Art DeArmond.
Mar 1, 2011 • 55:12
Episode 52 -- Young Men and Fathers
This special edition features a teaching by Nate Larkin.
Feb 17, 2011 • 1:20:54
Episode 51 -- Thirteen Reasons Why
A conversation with bestselling author Jay Asher.
Feb 8, 2011 • 53:42
Episode 50 -- Samson at the Movies
A conversation with one-minute movie reviewer Thomas McKenzie.
Feb 1, 2011 • 54:24
Episode 49 -- Attachment and Toxic Shame
A conversation with reparative therapist Thaddeus Heffner.
Jan 13, 2011 • 1:00:11
Episode 48 -- Pirate's Progress, Part II
A conversation with Ben Barczi, Pastor of Spiritual Formation.
Jan 3, 2011 • 1:06:02
Episode 47 -- A Better Life
A visit with folk, bluegrass, and gospel artist Buddy Greene.
Dec 28, 2010 • 1:11:10
Episode 44 -- Care for Pastors
Nate, Mondo, Aaron and Aaron's dad visit with the team from Care for Pastors.
Nov 15, 2010 • 57:44
Episode 43 -- Relational Healing
A conversation with Ken Graham and Lisa Gohmann from the Center for Relational Healing.
Nov 7, 2010 • 58:55
Episode 41 — The Gift of Brokenness
An unforgettable conversation with Mondo's mom and speaker Chris Simning.
Oct 26, 2010 • 1:05:57
Episode 40 - Disappointment and Mercy
Aaron, Mondo and Nate discuss disappointment and vist with Bull Chaney, founder of Griffin House.
Oct 21, 2010 • 1:14:32
Episode 39 -- Letters, Letters, and More Letters
Aaron, Nate and Mondo answer listener letters and chat with CCM pioneer Matthew Ward.
Oct 12, 2010 • 1:04:00
Episode 38 -- Sex and Skinny Recap
Nate and Constance Rhodes recount the first leg of the Sex and Skinny Tour.
Sep 28, 2010 • 58:24