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Modern Dating: Consent, Boundaries, and Respect

The Man Enough Podcast
The Man Enough Podcast
Episode • Jun 26, 2023 • 59m

Join Liz and Jamey as they dive deep into the complexities of consent, boundaries, and the often tumultuous landscape of modern dating. With vulnerability and honesty, Liz shares her most harrowing dating stories, shining a light on the lack of boundaries and consent many women face when dating. They fearlessly explore topics such as abuse, assault, coping mechanisms, and the harm of labeling all men as abusers. By emphasizing increased communication between men and women, Liz and Jamey offer a hopeful path toward healing, understanding, and mutual empowerment.

TW: Sexual Assault, Abuse, Consent 


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Timecodes: 

03:09 - Liz's dating story 

05:20 - People pleasing can deter consent

10:08 - Normalizing assault as a coping mechanism

14:39 - Dating and entitlement

19:24 - How can women approach issues of consent with more autonomy?

2​​2:21 - Abuse is not black and white

25:37 - Being empowered to respond to abuse

28:40 - Liz reflects on her Man Enough experience thus far 

31:21 - Distinguishing hardships between men and women

38:31 - As a society, men's intentions and actions may not align

45:16 - Negative labels help women and hurt men


Quotes:

"This [abuse] is something that you have had to learn to negotiate and that's wrong." - Jamey Heath

“We can't discuss men's hardships the same way we discussed women's oppression." - Liz Plank

"Most men would not say they blame women outright, but I'm not interested in men's intentions, I'm looking at Men's actions." - Liz Pank


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