Gina Mellish is a self-proclaimed “ultimate tomboy” who says an exemplary role model inspired her to enter the world of pageantry. But while her life looked glamorous on the outside, Gina reveals that behind closed doors she was trapped in an abusive relationship. Hear firsthand how one life-changing day motivated Gina to take her power back, advocate for domestic violence victims, and teach young people to love well. In an honest and poignant conversation, Gina shares the hidden signs of abuse and how she empowered herself to leave an unhealthy relationship. Today, she’s made it her mission to help others do the same through her partnership with the “One Love Foundation” and her advocacy work with local government to help those suffering from dating violence. Dr. Judy gives actionable tips on how to catch subtle signs of physical and emotional abuse, why the risk of domestic violence is heightened during the pandemic, and what you can do if you feel unsafe. This episode will teach you to live your truth and uncover the surprising keys to fulfilling relationships that build you up instead of tear you down.In this episode, we discuss:1. Some surprising stats you might not know about domestic violence (2:00)2. Gina Mellish’s life-changing moment (4:30)3. The hidden signs of abuse (8:20)4. The incredible work of One Love (11:44)5. The signs of healthy relationships (12:00)6. Why Sharing Your Story is Healing (16:45)7. Crucial tips for an exit plan if you’re in an abusive relationship (19:00)8. The Code Word Initiative and roll-out in America (21:10)9. SuperCharged Secret of the Day (24:00)Drjudyho.comInstagram.com/drjudyhoTwitter.com/drjudyho            Facebook.com/doctorjudyhoInstagram.com/stage29podcastsTwitter.com/stage29podcastsFacebook.com/Stage29PodcastsInstagram.com/theginamellishInstagram.com/missnjusaJoinonelove.org  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices