So, when you are an army brat you get to move around a lot. You get to see lots of different parts of the world, or lots of different parts of the country that you're in.  This is kind of a gift, but also kind of not a gift....  Because, you don't always feel grounded and like you belong. But, it's also easier to pick up and change scenes because you have so much experience of it already.  But, how do you know when the time is right to settle down?  Like. what sign do you need to be sure? Well, for this week's guest, the co-host of the With a Gay Twist podcast Mason Dixon, it was when he went ahead and fell in love!  And, where did he meet the apple of his eye? Well, it was at 140 Alex, a bar in Rochester, New York, and he is going to tell us all about it.   We talk all about being the outcast, packing up your drag gear (and your dreams!), and, I get some advice on what to do with your shirt after you've taken it off to shimmy on the dancefloor...  Do you have any memories of 140 Alex, or clubbing from your own queer scene that you want to share? Well, if you have please get in touch - I want to create the biggest online record of people's memories and stories - go to www.lostspacespodcast.com and find the section 'Share a Lost Space' and tell me what you got up to! Bonus points for embarrassing photos! You can also find me on Facebook (www.facebook.com/lostspacespod), Instagram (www.instagram.com/lostspacespod) and Twitter (www.twitter.com/lostspacespod) Find out more about Mason by listening to the With a Gay Twist podcast, or visiting their website https://www.withagaytwist.com/