We all go through tough times in a relationship, some walk away (and that is ok) and some choose to stay… through our 28 years of marriage, we’ve had plenty to argue and fight about - why we didn’t quit? It’s a generalisation yes, but every couple fights… it’s HOW you fight that makes or breaks a relationship. Early on in our marriage, we rarely argued and we thought that was worth celebrating. As we grew up inside of our marriage, we realised we were storing up some pretty heated feelings and emotions that were undermining our “happy couple" status. Today we’re talking how to fight fair, keeping your love alive and a lid on your pepper spray.  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.