In this episode, Gabor Mate explains how easily unconscious traumas from childhood can be identified. He shares years of experience and wisdom with Tom in this conversation that explores the depths of truth and meaning in life, and how that fits in with our physical and behavioral manifestations of broken adult expectations and stressors. Gabor Mate, is a deep thinker, childhood development expert, and expert of addiction. He shares his unique insights on how to deal with severe trauma and how to get the most out of life by moving beyond mere survival. SHOW NOTES: Reality | Gabor on how people view reality and the Johnny Cash song, In Your Mind [1:14]Stress Defined | Gabor explain the terminology of stress and its triggers [5:40]Emotional Work | Ongoing emotional work that takes consciousness and awareness [9:13]Trauma | Gabor discusses severe trauma, how it shows up physically and in behavior [10:12]Being Sensitive | Advantage and disadvantage of being highly sensitive [12:18]Empathetic Support | Gabor talks about empathetic support for persons with trauma [12:43]Beyond Mental | Gabor reveals makes life more profound beyond the mental experience [20:04]Feeling vs. Being | Gabor presents difference between feeling and a state of being [22:11]Self-Isolation | Gabor explores self-isolation and the state of pain versus enlightenment. [22:32]Broken Society | how modern society is dysregulating us and how broken our society is [30:31]Child Development | Gabor reveals what healthy child development [41:04]Meaning & Purpose | Gabor pushes on Tom’s value for meaning equated with hard work [51:20] Truth Not Facts | Gabor explains difference between truth and facts [59:54]Life after 70 | Gabor shares what keeps him going in his seventies is just who he is [1:07:58]Palliative Care | Gabor share his experience and perspective with palliative care [1:14:18]Marriage | Lessons from 51 years of marriage [1:35:23]Suffering From Past |Gabor shares a quote to explain how suffering isn’t always labeled [1:43:19]Dissociated from suffering | Gabor explains pain suppressed and misinterpreted [1:45:54] Check out our SponsorsButcher Box: Ground beef for life is back! For a limited time, new members can get 2 pounds of free ground beef in every Butcher Box order by signing up today at ButcherBox.com/impactAthletic Greens: Go to athleticgreens.com/impact and receive a FREE 1 year supply of Vitamin D AND 5 free travel packs with your first purchase!Indeed: Get a FREE $75 CREDIT to upgrade your job post at indeed.com/IMPACTThe New Yorker: For a limited time, you can get 12 weeks of The New Yorker for just $6. Go to NewYorker.com/IMPACTAre You Ready for EXTRA Impact?If you’re ready to find true fulfillment, strengthen your focus, and ignite your true potential, the Impact Theory subscription was created just for you.This is not for the faint of heart. This is for those who dare to learn obsessively, every day, day after day.Subscription Benefits: New episodes delivered ad-free Exclusive access to Tom’s AMAs, keynote speeches, and suggestions from his personal reading list You’ll also get access to an 5 additional podcasts with hundreds of archived Impact Theory episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists covering health, mindset, business, relationships, and more: Legendary Mindset: Mindset & Self-Improvement Money Mindset: Business & Finance Relationship Theory: Relationships Health Theory: Mental & Physical Health Power Ups: Weekly Doses of Short Motivational Quotes  Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/3PCvJazSubscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices