Receiving oral sex isn't just about a tongue on a clit – it's about all the emotional and mental conversation happening at the same time. A chorus of voices answer "Do you enjoy receiving oral sex?" Leah answers. She opens up about the relationship dynamics in which her first experience of receiving oral took place, and how that impacted subsequent relationships. Leah suggests a new technique to her second partner, which works, but he doesn't stick to it. She shares how she's working on staying present with the physical sensation when her current partner goes down, and tracing the history of her hindered state of responsiveness to oral sex back to that first partner. A powerful, independent woman is confused by her desire to be dominated in the bedroom. Leah talks through common fantasies and the reasons why domination can feel so refreshing, as well as understanding masochism. Podcast recommendation: Biracial Unicorns with Dani and Dameca "Let's Talk About Sex-ualization" episode - https://biracialunicorns.pinecast.co/episode/31f5a12674034660/let-s-talk-about-sex-ualization Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/biracialunicorns/ Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/biracialunicorns/ Twitter - https://twitter.com/Biracialmagic Resources mentioned: How to propose a new sexual adventure to your lover, leahcarey.com/newadventure Update: Since this episode was released, the podcast has concluded. Here's how you can find me now: Book a FREE no-pressure intro consultation Keep up to date and get your FREE Three-Minute Game All my classes and downloads are at my store Any audio extras for this episode on the Good Girls Talk About Sex website Here's everything I'm up to today I no longer use Patreon — you can now support my work on Substack EPISODE CREDITS: Host / Producer – Leah Carey (email) Audio Editor – Gretchen Kilby Administrative Support - Lara O'Connor, Maria Franco Transcript creation – Jan Acielo Music – Nazar Rybak