If you’ve been watching Jay on camera over the years, you might find it hard to believe that, under the surface, he lives with an almost daily struggle with anxiety and depression.But he doesn’t let it keep him down or stop him dead in his tracks - instead he uses it as fuel for his relentless drive and motivation.In today’s interview, we go deep on the importance of loyalty, being of service, and the importance of learning to build yourself up from the inside out, rather than looking for validation only from the outside.If you’ve ever struggled with anxiety and depression and felt like you had to “fake it” to get through the day, this one’s for you.ORIGINAL AIR DATE: 1-25-22Likewise, I especially recommend that you check out Jay’s new book, Unbreakable: How I Turned My Depression and Anxiety into Motivation and You Can Too: https://amzn.to/33CWuXfSHOW NOTES:00:00 | Introduction01:22 | What Drove Jay to Endure Years of Hardship06:44 | Authenticity, Loyalty, and Helping Others09:52 | What “The Gray” and “The Blue” Mean to Jay19:52 | Jay’s Journey to Find Happiness27:59 | Merging Vets and Players34:04 | The Origins of Jay’s New Book39:39 | Helping Others Not Feel Alone in Their Struggle43:40 | The Balance Between Toughness and CaringCHECK OUT OUR SPONSORSRange Rover: Range Rover: Explore the Range Rover Sport at  https://landroverUSA.comAudible: Sign up for a free 30 day trial at https://audible.com/IMPACTTHEORY Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code IMPACT at check out.Goldback: Goldbacks are currency for now, and for the future, get yours at https://alpinegold.com/shop-precious-metals/ref/impact RoboForm: Protect yourself and get 60% off your first year with RoboForm at https://www.roboform.com/lp?frm=promo-discount-50&affid=tbily Follow Jay Glazer:Twitter: https://twitter.com/JayGlazerInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jayglazer/Support MVP (Merging Vets and Players) here: https://vetsandplayers.orgOrder your copy of Unbreakable here: https://amzn.to/3qrXhDaWhat's up, everybody? It's Tom Bilyeu here:If you want my help... STARTING a business: join me here at ZERO TO FOUNDER SCALING a business: see if you qualify here. Get my battle-tested strategies and insights delivered weekly to your inbox: sign up here.**********************************************************************If you're serious about leveling up your life, I urge you to check out my new podcast, Tom Bilyeu’s Mindset Playbook —a goldmine of my most impactful episodes on mindset, business, and health. Trust me, your future self will thank you.**********************************************************************Join me live on my Twitch stream. I'm live daily from 6:30 to 8:30 am PT at www.twitch.tv/tombilyeu**********************************************************************LISTEN TO IMPACT THEORY AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/impacttheory**********************************************************************FOLLOW TOM:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tombilyeu/Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@tombilyeu?lang=enTwitter: https://twitter.com/tombilyeuYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TomBilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices