Send us a textLinks to things mentioned:Our survey link! Couples are invited to take our marriage survey (you take it individually and it’s confidential): https://baremarriage.com/grim/Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month and help support our research and our work! https://patreon.com/baremarriageThe article where you can find the Elisabeth Elliot quote on the essence of femininity: https://www.crossway.org/articles/the-essence-of-femininity/Holly Furtick’s reel on being grumpy: https://www.instagram.com/reel/CtnHKVJOOOI/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==Holly Furtick’s reel on not fussing and just praying:https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cm1oSdNBGB3/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==The study on why sweating the small stuff is important:https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/18361676/Get help for religious OCD at NOCD.com -- Licensed therapists using evidence-based techniques.https://nocd.comJohn Gottman’s book The 7 Principles for Making Marriage Work:https://amzn.to/3Mxzc8hSupport the showJoin Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.