On this episode of Impact Theory, Tom Bilyeu joins psychotherapist and author Lori Gottlieb to discuss such matters and more as they explore the power of therapy, how to move on from your past and forwards towards change, and why self-compassion is crucial to leading a happy life. They discuss how to become unstuck in your negative ways, how to truly achieve change in your life, why it’s crucial you need to have self-compassion, the freedom in knowing you have choices, how to see things from other people’s perspectives, how forgiveness is truly achieved, and ways to overcome trauma and pain.Check out our amazing sponsors! Butcher Box: New members get 6 FREE grass-fed, grass-finished steaks at ButcherBox.com/impactAudible: Get 1 credit to pick any title and 2 Audible Originals from a monthly selection. Visit audible.com/impact or text IMPACT to 500-500Panasonic HomeCHEF 4-in-1 Multi-Oven: To receive special offers, go to PanasonicKitchen.com and become a Panasonic Kitchen Insider. Order Lori’s Book, ‘Maybe You Should Talk To Someone’: lorigottlieb.com/books/maybe-you-should-talk-to-someoneSHOW NOTES: Stories | Lori shares the power of stories and why she chose that approach for her book. [0:10]Unstuck | Lori discusses the power of therapy and its ability to move you forward in life. [1:23]Approach | Lori shares her approach as a therapist to encourage her patients to change. [4:41]Choice | Lori discusses why people face such challenges when trying to make change. [6:35]Comfort | Lori shares how she makes her patients comfortable with the idea of change. [9:10]The List | Lori shares the guideline that can help you begin moving towards change. [10:05]Self-Compassion | Lori discusses how to develop self-compassion in your life. [14:29]Cognitive | Lori shares her approach in relation to cognitive behavioral therapy. [15:57]Freedom | Lori discusses the power of taking a breath and feeling the freedom of choice. [17:56]Perspectives | Lori shares the power of putting yourself in other people’s shoes. [20:59]Betrayal | Lori shares how she approaches cases of patients with hurting relationships. [23:41]Cheating | Lori discusses what could really have been going on when a partner cheats. [25:35]Patterns | Lori shares examples of unfinished business brought into relationships. [27:00]Forgiveness | Lori discusses the true nature of forgiveness and how it’s achieved. [29:50]Overcome | Loris discusses how a couple can come back together after betrayal. [35:43]The Sexes | Lori shares the similarities between both men and women in therapy. [38:23]Trauma | Lori discusses pain and how it shapes our personalities if we don’t heal. [41:53]Reframe | Lori discusses how you should frame your mind to let go and move forward. [46:36]Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact?If you’re ready to find true fulfillment, strengthen your focus, and ignite your true potential, the Impact Theory subscription was created just for you.This is not for the faint of heart. This is for those who dare to learn obsessively, every day, day after day.Subscription Benefits: New episodes delivered ad-free Exclusive access to Tom’s AMAs, keynote speeches, and suggestions from his personal reading list You’ll also get access to an 5 additional podcasts with hundreds of archived Impact Theory episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists covering health, mindset, business, relationships, and more: Legendary Mindset: Mindset & Self-Improvement Money Mindset: Business & Finance Relationship Theory: Relationships Health Theory: Mental & Physical Health Power Ups: Weekly Doses of Short Motivational Quotes  Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/3PCvJazSubscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices