In the beginning of their nearly 40 year relationship, it was a struggle for Colette to come to terms with being in a relationship with Laura -- because she was a woman. And then after being together for a couple years, the relationship got easier and Colette told Laura that she really wanted to have children. But the the idea of having kids also made Colette aware that her relationship would be even more in the limelight. And she wanted to be honest with her children and herself.Laura felt that "it was just an amazing stroke of luck that we had twins and it was really kind of wild because here we were two lesbians having a kid which would seemed wild enough but then it was twins and that just in some ways took the onus off the lesbian part because that's exciting in and of itself."This is the fifth chapter of a big story that takes up most of Rashomon Season 2. You will hear multiple families telling every side of multiple stories, all having to do with the early days of sperm banks and how it effected the lives of the families that used them. From Season 2, Episode 2 onward, it is important to listen to them in order to get the full story.Before you listen to this one, listen to:S2E02: Sharon and SammyS2E03: Emily, Cathy and NancyS2E04: Cara, Susan and Carol AnnandS2E05: Sammy, Emily and CaraRashomon is produced and hosted by Hillary ReaThank you to Laura Gold, Colette Doyle, Matthew Doyle and Rebecca Doyle.And a HUGE thank you to Anny Celsi for recording everyone in California. I accidentally left Anny out of the end credits of the show and feel terrible about it. Anny, I'm sorry! Please visit her website to learn about her music and her radio work!Music in this episode is by Paul DefigliaPodcast artwork is by Thom LessnerTheme music is by Ryan Culinane courtesy of the Free Music ArchiveThis episode of Rashomon is sponsored by Care/of. Head to https://takecareof.com/ and enter the code RASHOMON25 to get 25% your first order of vitamins, supplements and protein powders.Rashomon is an independent podcast. Become a supporting member of this podcast over on Patreon: https://patreon.com/rashomonpodCheck out our website: https://rashomonpodcast.comFollow the podcast on Twitter and Instagram: @rashomonpodPlease share this podcast episode with a friend and/or subscribe to us, rate and review on Apple Podcasts. Thank you for listening! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.