Loving one another is Understanding One Another. I’ve been reminded of this recently from a lifelong friend. Her and I don’t agree on everything. And to be honest with you, i look forward to disagreeing with her. And I say that For selfish reasons, because she is gently yet firmly opinionated, and I get a different perspective. Usually because, out of lack of experiences I’m ignorant. We don’t have to agree with each other to understand each other. Understanding creates respect beyond congruent opinions. I was reminded this week of a fav quote of mine from Marie Forleo, who said “Clarity comes from engagement and not thought.”We gain understanding of others in active engagement with them. Learning of them, considering them, and in a healthy setting, being present with them. It is unfortunate that we ofttimes wait until we hear a eulogy before we start applying gentle consideration instead of church pew judgment? The gift of losing someone can be really life altering, and can raise your spiritual and emotional frequency to some very healthy levels. As my friend Russ Nelson once said “We are born to die, and we die to live.”I hope we strive to fully FEEL OUR OATS by understanding others a little more. I feel more complete when I am dismantled by humbling experiences and then reassembled by the considerate feelings of love that are inclusive of grief & sorrow. If we are fortunate we are made DIFFERENT by the depth experiences.The best way to celebrate another’s life is to learn from it. Become a better you because of them. If we aren’t able to glean something from one another, are we truly friends or are we just seriously not paying attention?============================INSTAGRAM:@FYO.Podcast @TravisM.Heaton PODCASTS: (click the link)>🍎Apple🍏<>>>Google<<<Operation Underground Railroad: https://OurRescue.orgPLEASE DONATE❤️Mama I’m Coming Home: https://youtu.be/K0siYUjV9UMBilly Crosby GoFundMe: https://www.gofundme.com/f/support-wife-of-sergeant-billy-crosby?qid=ece96801667585a8449576c9f8445697 PLEASE DONATE❤️This episode is dedicated to the memory of Billy Crosby 🏀👮‍♂️ 🕵️‍♂️ Find me at https://www.FamilyHistoryDrama.com📧 Email me at FamilyHistoryDrama@gmail.com🐦 Tweet the Podcast @FeelingYourOatsGenerational Healing Through Family HistoryMemories Are Passed Through DNA From Your Grandparents, Say Scientistshttps://www.buzzworthy.com/memories-dna-grandparents/Sound Credits: https://freesound.org INSTAGRAM:@FYO.Podcast @TravisM.Heaton