In this episode, John gives advice and answers some listeners' questions including: "would you still be attracted to/be in love with your wife if she gained 100 pounds?" "Any tips on how to remain calm around toxic family during the holidays?" and "how do I heal from a toxic relationship and stop thinking about my toxic ex?"Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices