It can often be tempting to push through the uncomfortable feelings that come with loss and try to just keep calm and carry on. But is that what we’re called to as followers of Christ? If Christ Himself took time to grieve, shouldn’t we? Dr Greg and Erin Smalley join Juli on this episode of Java with Juli as they discuss the need to face and make sense of our pain so we can embrace real joy.  Guests: Dr. Greg Smalley and Erin Smalley   Greg and Erin on Instagram: @focusmarriage Greg and Erin on Youtube: @focusonthefamilymarriage Greg and Erin’s Podcast: Focus on Marriage Podcast Java with Juli: #173 Lessons I Learned from Grief Java with Juli: #265 The Hard (and Hopeful) Truth About Losing a Spouse