On this episode of Impact Theory with Tom Bilyeu, Jewel explains how she taught herself to be addicted to positive behavior, describes what constitutes real change, and shares the fascinating question she learned to ask herself that transformed her whole life. This episode is brought to you by: WHOOP: For 15% off your order, go to https://www.whoop.com and use discount code IT at checkout. Women of Impact Podcast hosted by Lisa Bilyeu: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/women-of-impact/id1435217865 Skillshare: Explore your creativity at skillshare.com/impacttheory for 2 free months of Premium Membership. Audible: Get 1 credit to pick any title and 2 Audible Originals from a monthly selection. Visit audible.com/impact or text IMPACT to 500-500 SHOW NOTES: When Jewel was homeless, she decided to change her life one thought at a time [1:40] If we can be addicted to negative things, then we can become addicted to positive actions [6:34] Jewel describes some of her simple methods of controlling her thoughts and emotions [11:15] What do you do if your nurturing was so bad that you lost your true nature? [12:55] Practicing every day is the key to dramatic life change [17:14] Tom and Jewel discuss the importance of diet and exercise [19:31] Jewel defines exactly what constitutes change [22:33] Jewel shares what she learned after being adopted by Native Americans at 15 [25:46] What if you’re not broken? What if you don’t need to be fixed? [29:22] Jewel explains how she learned to tell the truth instead of being positive or negative [35:28] The point of spirituality is not to control your environment [37:30] Jewel and Tom discuss the experience of grief and letting go [39:55] Jewel describes forgiveness as she sees it [41:12] Jewel talks about growing up in very rural Alaska [43:52] Jewel shares her story of touring as a folk singer during the heydey of grunge [47:27] Perfectionism and having a point to prove are rocket fuel, but they also limit you [49:32] Jewel shares the impact she wants to have on the world [54:32]  FOLLOW: WEBSITE: jeweljk.com INSTAGRAM: https://bit.ly/2RO3c3v FACEBOOK: https://bit.ly/34IxAkY TWITTER: https://bit.ly/34HAZkf   BOOKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: “Never Broken”, Jewel, https://amzn.to/3cxDicp Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact?If you’re ready to find true fulfillment, strengthen your focus, and ignite your true potential, the Impact Theory subscription was created just for you.Want to transform your health, sharpen your mindset, improve your relationship, or conquer the business world? This is your epicenter of greatness. This is not for the faint of heart. This is for those who dare to learn obsessively, every day, day after day.Subscription Benefits: Unlock the gates to a treasure trove of wisdom from inspiring guests like Andrew Huberman, Mel Robbins, Hal Elrod, Matthew McConaughey, and many, many, more New episodes delivered ad-free Exclusive access to Tom’s AMAs, keynote speeches, and suggestions from his personal reading list You’ll also get access to an 5 additional podcasts with hundreds of archived Impact Theory episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists covering health, mindset, business, relationships, and more: Legendary Mindset: Mindset & Self-Improvement Money Mindset: Business & Finance Relationship Theory: Relationships Health Theory: Mental & Physical Health Power Ups: Weekly Doses of Short Motivational Quotes  Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/3PCvJazSubscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices