I stayed at a comics how in Fresno Ca at the tower district we talk with rick rixon also with Nicholas ceppaglia  https://www.amazon.com/Modern-Mentality-Mating-Rix-Rixon-ebook/dp/B07JVHVQ9P/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=a+modern+mentality+for+mating&qid=1602606494&sr=8-1