Welcome back to **Impact Theory with Tom Bilyeu**. In today's compelling episode, we're joined by the renowned author and thinker, Robert Greene. We'll dive deep into personal development, the power of understanding oneself, and navigating the complex landscape of change and growth. Robert brings his expert insight into the emotional barriers like fear, impatience, and ego that hinder our progress, while Tom discusses the modern-day challenges that add to these struggles.We'll also explore the evolving perception of masculinity in culture today, social media's role as an engine of envy, and the critical skill of self-soothing in the face of criticism. Robert and Tom shed light on the timeless debate over fate versus self-improvement and the importance of following one's true passion despite life's adversities. From the influence of gender norms to mastering seduction through emotional presence, this episode is packed with wisdom and practical advice for living a fulfilled and purposeful life. So tune in as we break down these transformative ideas and inspire you to embrace change and personal growth with resilience and optimismSHOW NOTES00:00 Unhappy neuroscientist finds purpose in podcasting.17:59 Find energizing challenges to avoid feeling stale.35:04 Persistence and self-awareness are key for success.59:53 Protect yourself online with Aura cybersecurity service.01:07:23 Gender, history, and seduction affect energy today.01:25:07 Reacting to wife's triggering words with anger.01:39:32 Be aware, present ideas, act usefully, know thyself.01:49:34 Power is about having more options in life.02:16:04 Choose resistance or surrender, make a choice.02:22:01 Channel energy into solving real world problems.02:48:22 Self-absorption is crux of many issues.02:53:15 Repeated thoughts shape actions; beware of obsession.03:07:19 Fulfillment, craftsmanship, parenting, mastery as intelligence, satisfaction.03:28:10 Focus on the moment, listen and engage.SPONSORS:Head to https://netsuite.com/THEORY for Netsuite’s one-of-a-kind flexible financing program for a few more weeks! Get 5 free AG1 Travel Packs and a FREE 1 year supply of Vitamin D with your first purchase at https://drinkag1.com/impact.Secure your digital life with proactive protection for your assets, identity, family, and tech – Go to https://aura.com/IMPACT to start your free two-week trial.Take control of your gut health by going to https://tryviome.com/impact and use code IMPACT to get 20% off your first 3 months and free shipping.FOLLOW TOM:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tombilyeu/Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@tombilyeu?lang=enTwitter: https://twitter.com/tombilyeuYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TomBilyeuWhat's up, everybody? It's Tom Bilyeu here. If you're serious about leveling up your life, I urge you to check out my new podcast, Tom Bilyeu’s Mindset Playbook —a goldmine of my most impactful episodes on mindset, business, and health. Trust me, your future self will thank you.LISTEN AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/impacttheory Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices