The Power of Empathy in Leadership with Doug NollIn this episode of The Thoughtful Entrepreneur, host Josh Elledge speaks with Douglas E. Noll, owner of DougNoll.com, emotional intelligence expert, mediator, and award-winning author. Doug brings decades of insight into how empathy—often misunderstood as weakness—is in fact the foundation of strong, effective leadership. With a background that spans law, neuroscience, and international peacebuilding, Doug shares transformative tools for emotionally intelligent leadership in today’s complex world.Leading with Empathy: Why Emotions Matter More Than EverDoug opens by dismantling the myth that emotions have no place in leadership. In reality, empathy is one of the oldest and most powerful human tools for communication and connection—far older than language itself. For over a million years, humans relied on nonverbal emotional signals to form social bonds and navigate conflict. That legacy is still with us today.Through his work, Doug has developed affect labeling, a neuroscience-backed technique that helps leaders de-escalate tension by naming and reflecting others' emotions. This method calms the brain’s emotional centers, creating space for rational thought, trust, and clarity. Whether you're managing a team, facing conflict, or navigating change, Doug’s approach makes emotional intelligence both teachable and tactical.Doug also warns leaders about relying on “gut instinct” during high-stakes decision-making. Gut feelings are often just pattern recognition—and without emotional clarity, those patterns can be misleading. The best leaders, Doug argues, are emotionally attuned, vulnerable when needed, and skilled in human behavior—not authoritarian by default.About Doug NollDouglas E. Noll, JD, MA, is the owner of DougNoll.com. After leaving a successful 22-year career as a trial lawyer, Doug became a full-time peacemaker. He is an award-winning author, mediator, teacher, and trainer whose work ranges from international conflict resolution to helping life-sentenced inmates become mediators inside maximum-security prisons. He is the co-founder of the Prison of Peace project and the creator of the Noll Affect Labeling System. His fourth book, De-Escalate: How to Calm an Angry Person in 90 Seconds or Less, has been published in multiple languages and is now in its second printing.About DougNoll.comDougNoll.com is the home of Doug’s consulting, speaking, and training work. He helps leaders, educators, mediators, and organizations master emotional intelligence to build trust, resolve conflict, and foster stronger relationships in any setting. Through keynotes, workshops, online resources, and his best-selling books, Doug equips people with science-based strategies to lead with clarity and connection.Links Mentioned in this Episode:DougNoll.comDoug Noll on LinkedInDe-Escalate: How to Calm an Angry Person in 90 Seconds or LessPrison of Peace ProjectEpisode Highlights:Why empathy is one of the oldest human leadership traitsThe neuroscience behind affect labeling and how it calms conflictHow military leadership prioritizes emotional intelligenceThe flaws of gut-instinct leadership under stressSimple tools to de-escalate tension and build trust as a leaderConclusionDoug Noll reframes leadership for today’s world: it’s not about control, bravado, or instinct. True leadership is about listening, emotional mastery, and creating connection in every conversation. By integrating empathy into your leadership style, you can reduce conflict, strengthen teams, and make better decisions. Doug’s insights and tools are a game-changer for founders, executives, and changemakers alike.Apply to be a Guest on The Thoughtful Entrepreneur: https://go.upmyinfluence.com/podcast-guestMore from UpMyInfluence:We are actively booking guests for our The Thoughtful Entrepreneur. Schedule HERE.Are you a 6-figure consultant? I’ve got high-level intros for you. Learn more here.What is your #1 Lead Generation BLOCKER? Take my free quiz here.Want to learn more about all the podcasts managed by UpMyInfluence? Opt in here.Don’t forget to subscribe to The Thoughtful Entrepreneur and thank you for listening. Tune in next time!