CW: This episode contains discussion of domestic abuse. If you, or someone you know, is in immediate danger, call 000. Narcissism, love bombing, and gaslighting are terms that are thrown around liberally, but what do they actually mean? And when should we start worrying about these behaviours and traits? Dr Amelia Kelley, co-author of What I Wish I Knew: Surviving and Thriving After an Abusive Relationship, joins Cam and Ali in the bathroom to offer advice from years of experience working with survivors of domestic abuse. If this episode has raised any issues for you, call 1800RESPECT on 1800 737 732, or visit 1800respect.org.au.  LINKS  Buy the book - What I Wish I Knew: Surviving and Thriving After an Abusive Relationship. Learn more about Dr Amelia Kelley on her website https://www.ameliakelley.com/  Follow Dr Amelia Kelley on Instagram. Follow Dr Amelia Kelley on Facebook. Follow Dr Amelia Kelley on Twitter. Listen to Dr Amelia Kelley's appearances on the podcast High Heels and Heartache. How Does Trauma Affect Your Body? What is Repeat Traumatization? Learn more about RizeUp Australia https://www.rizeup.com.au/.  Follow Cam on Instagram @camerondaddo.  Follow Ali on Instagram @alidaddo.  Follow Nova Podcasts @novapodcastsofficial.  Got a question for Cam & Ali? You can email them at separatebathrooms@novapodcasts.com.au.  CREDITS  Hosts: Cameron Daddo and Alison Brahe-Daddo. Managing Producer: Elle Beattie. Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball.  Find more great podcasts like this at novapodcasts.com.au.  Separate Bathrooms would like to acknowledge the Gadigal people of the Eora nation, the First Peoples of the land on which we work. We acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded, and recognise their enduring connections to country, knowledge and stories. We pay our respects to Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all First Nations people listening. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.