We've called in the cavalry this episode. Please welcome Presenter, Podcaster and Comedian, James Barr.  He co-hosts the podcast, A Gay and a Non-Gay and as an openly gay man and advocate for the LGBT+ community he's the perfect person to help us try to make sense of all these feelings and non-feelings in the world of gay dating. Plus Miri wants to know what this new trend of dating probations are? Are we all going to the slammer? And she reads your listener stories of Odd couples! Make sure you follow and subscribe so you never miss an episode, and of course, give us a cheeky five star rating.  To send us your listener stories, or if you just wanna say hi, drop us an email at smutdrop@metro.co.uk. This series is produced by Pineapple Audio Production.  You can also find us on Instagram; @miri_kane@MetroUK@imjamesbarr@pineappleaudioproduction  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.