Understanding Today's Narcissist

Understanding Today's Narcissist

Christine Hammond, MS, LMHC

Understanding Today's Narcissist is a podcast dedicated to separating fact from fiction when it comes to dealing with a narcissist in your life. Your host is Christine Hammond, MS, LMHC, a licensed psychotherapist, speaker and author. For more information, visit www.growwithchristine.com Looking for help with dealing with the narcissist in your life? Visit https://growwithchristine.com to sign up for online support!

Dr. Crystal Hollenbeck - The Truth About Narcissistic Traits and Denial in Sex Addiction

Dr. Crystal Hollenbeck - The Truth About Narcissistic Traits and Denial in Sex Addiction

Christine Hammond interviews Dr. Crystal Hollenbeck, a licensed mental health counselor, about sexual addiction and narcissistic traits. They discuss the signs of sex addiction, how narcissistic traits show up in denial, and the difference between being an actual narcissist and somebody who's an addict with narcissistic traits. They also talk about what it's like to be in a relationship with somebody who might have a sex addiction with narcissistic traits. Dr. Hollenbeck emphasizes that

Apr 28, 2023 • 11:25

Dr. Crystal Hollenbeck - Sexual Narcissism: How to Identify and Protect Yourself

Dr. Crystal Hollenbeck - Sexual Narcissism: How to Identify and Protect Yourself

Dr. Crystal Hollenbeck, a guest expert, explains what sexual narcissism is and how it differs from regular narcissism. She also discusses the behaviors of sexual narcissists in relationships, such as lack of empathy, pushing for sexual encounters, and gaslighting. The episode emphasizes the importance of mutual consent, emotional connection, and respect for boundaries in healthy sexuality. It is part one of a two-part series on sexual narcissism.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brand

Apr 14, 2023 • 13:45

Part 3 of an interview with Dr. Nadine Macaluso, LMFT

Part 3 of an interview with Dr. Nadine Macaluso, LMFT

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Mar 4, 2022 • 21:25

Part 2 of an interview with Dr. Nadine Macaluso, LMFT

Part 2 of an interview with Dr. Nadine Macaluso, LMFT

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Feb 18, 2022 • 20:28

Part 1 of an interview with Dr. Nadine Macaluso, LMFT

Part 1 of an interview with Dr. Nadine Macaluso, LMFT

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Feb 4, 2022 • 20:04

The Narcissistic Cycle of Abuse Among Siblings

The Narcissistic Cycle of Abuse Among Siblings

As sisters, Nicole and Sofi grew up in a two-parent, middle class family. From the outside looking in, things appeared normal and healthy. But for Sofi, life was very difficult. Her sister bullied her, stole prized possessions, would lie and blame Sofi for things that went wrong, physically hit her, and destroyed some of Sofi’s things. Yet, Nicole seemed to charm their parents, constantly making Sofi out to look like the dangerous one. Read more... Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/br

Oct 29, 2021 • 11:26

5 Ways to Survive Narcissistic In-Laws

5 Ways to Survive Narcissistic In-Laws

It was a second marriage for Clark and Claudia so they were both prepared for a difficult first couple of years as they blended their families together. But what they did not expect was the added difficulty of Clark’s parents. He knew that they were narcissistic and even prepared Claudia for their limited encounters. However, the holidays brought out an intensity that Clark did not expect. It also was Clark’s birthday and his mother invited them by saying, “Only I know how to properly celebrate

Oct 15, 2021 • 13:42

Christine Hammond Interviews Chris and Lisa, Part 2

Christine Hammond Interviews Chris and Lisa, Part 2

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Jul 30, 2021 • 18:37

Christine Hammond Interviews Chris and Lisa, Part 1

Christine Hammond Interviews Chris and Lisa, Part 1

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Jul 23, 2021 • 19:49

How to Talk to your Narcissistic Boss

How to Talk to your Narcissistic Boss

After years of speculation, you have finally come to the realization that your boss is a narcissist.  Since this is not the type of economy where you can just leave your job and expect to get another one quickly, you find yourself stuck and miserable in a job that normally you would like except for your narcissistic boss.  Read more... Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Jul 16, 2021 • 17:36

12 Traits of a Narcissistic Boss

12 Traits of a Narcissistic Boss

There are bad bosses. The type that gets promoted without any managerial, interpersonal, or organizational skills. There are even scary bosses. The type that is unnecessarily threatening, overly aggressive, or ignorant to the point of causing others harm. But then there are the dark, sinister, or ominous bosses. This type is in a category all by themselves. Read more...  Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Jul 9, 2021 • 19:19

12 Traits of a Narcissistic Boss

12 Traits of a Narcissistic Boss

There are bad bosses. The type that gets promoted without any managerial, interpersonal, or organizational skills. There are even scary bosses. The type that is unnecessarily threatening, overly aggressive, or ignorant to the point of causing others harm. But then there are the dark, sinister, or ominous bosses. This type is in a category all by themselves. Read more...

Jul 9, 2021 • 19:19

Narcissistic Mirroring

Narcissistic Mirroring

Try to point out a narcissist’s mistakes and the attack is likely to be returned with force. Expect a narcissist to show understanding during a difficult time and the conversation will quickly be turned back towards the narcissist. Ask a narcissist to forgive an error in judgement and a detailed accounting of all blunders will be recounted. Read more... Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Apr 30, 2021 • 12:41

How to Counteract Parental Alienation

How to Counteract Parental Alienation

Since writing an article about parental alienation (What Parental Alienation Is and Is Not), several readers have asked for a follow-up article on how to prevent to minimize the damage of any alienation they have experienced. While others have said that parental alienation doesn’t happen, that it is pop-psychology, and it is not real. Read more.... Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Apr 16, 2021 • 13:40

The Love-Bomb Entrapment of Narcissism

The Love-Bomb Entrapment of Narcissism

Katrina couldn’t believe how her friend was treating her husband at dinner. She was demanding, controlling, domineering, belittling, unrelenting, sarcastic, and unnecessarily rude. For some time now, Katrina suspected that her friend was narcissistic and after the evening they spent together, she was even more convinced. Read more... Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Apr 9, 2021 • 14:06

Don’t Argue: Use These 9 Rules of Engagement

Don’t Argue: Use These 9 Rules of Engagement

It was clear that after 7 years of marriage, Jack and Jill still loved each other. But they way they solved problems, or rather, the way they didn’t solve problems, was destroying their marriage. The last argument ended in a physical altercation and a wrestling match that left them ashamed and humiliated. Neither had ever engaged in this manner before so the shock of how quickly they escalated took them by surprise. Read more... Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Ou

Mar 19, 2021 • 17:22

7 Steps to Emerging from the Abuse Fog

7 Steps to Emerging from the Abuse Fog

It finally hit. After years of wondering what was wrong, who was crazy, and how this could have happened, the reality of abusive behavior hits like a ton of bricks. The insight is simultaneously overwhelming, shocking, frustrating, disgusting, and demeaning. But there it is the answer that was longed for but may never have been fully considered until this moment. Then everything became clear. Read more... Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com

Mar 5, 2021 • 11:42

How a Narcissist Treats a COVID-19 Spouse

How a Narcissist Treats a COVID-19 Spouse

Kathy woke-up startled to hear her phone ring so at 5 am, with COVID-19 and a stay-at-home order in place, she was immediately worried. On the line calling her was her narcissistic dad, which he hadn’t done since she left home, so she was immediately on high alert. Read more... Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Feb 19, 2021 • 12:18

17 Deceptive Excuses for Abusive Behavior

17 Deceptive Excuses for Abusive Behavior

Having grown up in an abusive family and now in a relationship with an abusive wife, Bradon believed the excuses constantly dished out to him by his abusive mother and wife. Beaten down, confused, hazy, and exhausted, he sought out help from a therapist. At first, he could not comprehend that he was the victim of abuse. He believed the lies that he was to blame. He thought abuse was only physical. But then Brandon learned it could also be verbal, emotional, mental, sexual, spiritual, and financi

Nov 19, 2020 • 13:58

Lies Abusers Tell Their Victims

Lies Abusers Tell Their Victims

Ever wondered what abuse sounds like? What do abusers say to their victims to get them to acquiesce? Some of the statements listed below might even sound acceptable in certain environments, but they are not. Abusive behavior is pervasive and without awareness, it will continue. Read more Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Nov 5, 2020 • 11:22

10 Traits That May Indicate a Personality Disorder

10 Traits That May Indicate a Personality Disorder

As a general rule, people with personality disorders can be difficult to get along or maintain a healthy relationship with. They can be argumentative, stubborn, and frustrating if there is a lack of understanding about what a PD really means or how it manifests itself in an individual. A person with a PD has an inaccurate perception of reality which is pervasive in every environment and is not diagnosed until 18 years old. However, there always is a previous history of five years giving indicati

Jul 2, 2020 • 10:55

What is a personality disorder?

What is a personality disorder?

Eventually, as is the case in everyone’s life, whether it be a family member, co-worker, neighbor, or friend, you will come across a person with a personality disorder (PD). Although it can usually be hard to discern if a person has a PD at the beginning of the relationship, its presence will soon come to light. Having an accurate understanding of both what a personality disorder is and where it may be coming from is essential to keep the frustration of navigating them to a minimum.Read moreAdve

Jun 16, 2020 • 13:57

How to Survive When Quarantined with a Narcissist

How to Survive When Quarantined with a Narcissist

After being married to a narcissistic wife for over 10 years and quarantined at home with her for the last several weeks, Ben had enough. His whole body started to reject his spouse’s self-centeredness by plaguing him with intense pain and repeated anxiety attacks that he could no longer ignore. He wanted to go to the doctor but his symptoms didn’t constitute an office visit. Instead via Telehealth, his doctor concluded that the pain and anxiety were psychosomatic. This, of course, infuriated hi

May 21, 2020 • 10:08

How a Narcissist Treats a COVID-19 Spouse

How a Narcissist Treats a COVID-19 Spouse

Kathy woke-up startled to hear her phone ring so at 5 am, with COVID-19 and a stay-at-home order in place, she was immediately worried.  On the line calling her was her narcissistic dad, which he hadn’t done since she left home, so she was immediately on high alert. He skipped any niceties and immediately started with what a terrible daughter she was. He explained that her mother was sick with COVID-19 and it was all her fault. He gave no details about her mom’s illness and when Kathy tried to i

May 7, 2020 • 12:01

6 Ways a ‘Silent Treatment’ Is Abusive

6 Ways a ‘Silent Treatment’ Is Abusive

Matt knew he messed up but he wasn’t sure how. His wife’s complete silence towards him over the last few days was a signal that he made some sort of mistake. The problem was, according to his wife, Matt made daily errors in judgment, so he was completely in the dark. Did he drink too… (more…)Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Apr 16, 2020 • 11:43

What is gaslighting?

What is gaslighting?

A man obsessed with stealing valuable jewels murders one woman and attempts to drive the other one (his wife) crazy. His single-mindedness, driven by selfish motives, caused him to deceive and manipulate in order to obtain what he wanted regardless of the cost to others. Bit by bit, he torments his wife until she believes… (more…)Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Apr 2, 2020 • 14:20

Am I Becoming a Narcissist?

Am I Becoming a Narcissist?

Alice woke up crying. The reality of a previous night of fighting, slamming doors, and breaking plates came into full view. The house was a mess, her husband of eight years was gone, and she felt as broken as the plates. She could hardly recognize herself anymore. In the middle of the screaming last night,… (more…)Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Mar 18, 2020 • 11:42

Should I Stay or Should I Go?

Should I Stay or Should I Go?

David wondered if it was time for his relationship with Stephanie to end. In the beginning, things were great, and he thought that he found the love of his life. She was charming, helpful, generous, and gentle. But as time passed, new problems emerged. The ease of their relationship was now tumultuous. The excitement and… (more…)Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Mar 5, 2020 • 13:47

Can Narcissism Be Fixed?

Can Narcissism Be Fixed?

Stacey was frustrated by her adult 35-year-old son with two failed marriages (everything was the ex’s fault), five career changes (his bosses hated him and wanted to get rid of him), a couple of DUIs, and now living back at home. No matter what happened, other people were to blame for his relationship and career failures. Stacey was sympathetic but exhausted from the constant drama in her son’s life. Read more...Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcir

Feb 20, 2020 • 13:57

5 Ways to Survive Narcissistic In-Laws

5 Ways to Survive Narcissistic In-Laws

It was a second marriage for Clark and Claudia so they were both prepared for a difficult first couple of years as they blended their families together. But what they did not expect was the added difficulty of Clark’s parents. He knew that they were narcissistic and even prepared Claudia for their limited encounters. However, the holidays brought out an intensity that Clark did not expect. It also was Clark’s birthday and his mother invited them by saying, “Only I know how to properly celebrate

Feb 6, 2020 • 11:30

13 Types of Relationship Affairs

13 Types of Relationship Affairs

What is an affair? It is a sexual encounter, romantic comrade, or obsessive attachment between two people without a significant other’s knowledge. It can come in many forms but all of them have the underlying issue of a betrayal of trust, unfaithfulness to a commitment, and infidelity of the relationship. Sometimes it destroys the initial relationship and other times the relationship can survive. Read more...Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.

Dec 5, 2019 • 13:26

My Spouse is a Narcissist, Now What?

My Spouse is a Narcissist, Now What?

After reading several articles on narcissism, Kaitlyn realized that her husband was one. She knew that something was off for years but couldn’t put her finger on it. She fell in love immediately with him and within months, they were married. She thought she met the perfect person, he was charming, attentive, and sensitive. But shortly after the marriage, things changed. Read more...Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Nov 21, 2019 • 14:36

Narcissistic Abuse: Cyberbullying and Cyberstalking

Narcissistic Abuse: Cyberbullying and Cyberstalking

Shirley thought that the abuse from her narcissistic husband would be over after the divorce was finalized. But it wasn’t. Instead, he found a new way to harass, embarrass, and torment her. He began to cyberbully and cyberstalk. Read more...Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Nov 21, 2019 • 13:44

The Rules of Living in a Narcissistic Family

The Rules of Living in a Narcissistic Family

Every family has unspoken rules like: don’t wake mom when she is taking a nap, no matter what it tastes like say dad’s cooking is good, or always clean before grandma comes to the house. These guidelines are followed without question to keep the family running smoothly. However, when a narcissist is added to the mix, the rules take on more intensity. Read more...Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Nov 7, 2019 • 12:56

How Do Deceptive People Get Away with It?

How Do Deceptive People Get Away with It?

David was the charismatic leader of a large not-for-profit organization which gave aid and care for the homeless. Over the past ten years, his organization, under his energetic leadership, grew substantially as donations increased, new shelters were formed, and thousands of people were assisted. On the surface, things seemed to above board and working well. But it wasn’t. Read more...Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Oct 3, 2019 • 11:37

Narcissistic Rescuers: Beware of the Backlash

Narcissistic Rescuers: Beware of the Backlash

The narcissist appears at the optimal time. A grieving family is destroyed over the death of a parent and is in desperate need of emotional stability. A spouse is torn apart by divorce and is starved for normal amounts of positive attention. A friend is destroyed by the betrayal of another and is craving a close relationship for support. Now, enter the narcissist.  Hidden by a veil of perfection, the narcissist immediately endears themselves to the needy person (pets included) and navigates any

Sep 19, 2019 • 13:14

7 Indicators of a Narcissistic Friend

7 Indicators of a Narcissistic Friend

Dawn ran into the grocery store to grab a few things after a long day of work when she bumped into a friend. “Where have you been? It’s so good to see you?” her friend inquired. “You know … work, family, kids. We’ve been so busy lately,” Dawn quickly replied while knowing that what she said was wrong. Unable to examine it at that moment she put the thought out of her head until she was alone in her car. Read more...Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://re

Sep 5, 2019 • 11:42

Narcissists and Their Flying Monkeys

Narcissists and Their Flying Monkeys

Art imitates life and so it is with “Flying Monkeys”. The term was coined from the movie “The Wizard of Oz” in which the Wicked Witch dispatches monkeys to fly and get Dorothy and her dog. The monkeys obey her command, doing her dirty work for her, taunting and terrorizing Dorothy as she tries in vain to get back home. And so it is with narcissists and their flying monkeys. Read more...Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Aug 16, 2019 • 11:05

7 Ways to Protect Your Kids from Your Narcissistic Ex

7 Ways to Protect Your Kids from Your Narcissistic Ex

Sabrina was at her wit’s end. Her narcissistic ex-husband hit an all-time low. During their marriage, she was the target for his angry rants, verbal assaults, gaslighting, and guilt-tripping. But now his attacks seemed to center around just one of their two kids. Unfortunately, it was their ten-year-old child who most resembled Sabrina’s personality that was his new target. Their twelve-year-old child seemed to escape his scrutiny despite the recent in-school suspension and two failing grades. B

Jul 3, 2019 • 13:15

Who is the Most Narcissistic Generation?

Who is the Most Narcissistic Generation?

Millennials are known as the most narcissistic generation of our time. The overindulge attention, special treatment for nothing special, and excessive emotional tolerance that parents gave their kids have not resulted in a more productive generation but rather one that seems apathetic. It’s a toss-up between who is more confused: Millennials because the world does not work the way they envision it should or other generations because they don’t understand how Millennials think. How did this happe

Jul 3, 2019 • 11:15

What It’s Like to be the Daughter of a Sociopath

What It’s Like to be the Daughter of a Sociopath

“I hate him, with every fiber of my being, I hate him,” Marie said as she looked back on her day. “But while I hate him for this moment, I won’t let the hate linger because I’m not going to give him that power over me.” After years of silence, her bio dad sent a package of weight loss tea to her work. It was his way of saying, “Happy Mother’s Day, I see you. I’m watching you. You need to lose weight.” This was not the first package of its kind. Over the 30 years of no contact, he would periodica

Jun 7, 2019 • 16:04

7 Steps of Change for a Positive Narcissistic Mid-Life Crisis

7 Steps of Change for a Positive Narcissistic Mid-Life Crisis

Chuck knew he was a jerk. He cheated on his wife several times, put his work before his family, rarely went to his kid’s activities, drank heavily on the rare occasions that he was home, and verbally berated anyone who challenged him. And yet, he was a highly successful businessman, intelligent about a wide range of topics, had numerous friends, and was charming (when he wanted to be). Nonetheless, despite getting his way most of the time, Chuck was miserable. He toyed with counselors in the pas

Jun 7, 2019 • 15:46

Road to Recovery from Narcissistic Parenting

Road to Recovery from Narcissistic Parenting

Ida realized her mother was a narcissist in her early 20’s. But what she didn’t expect was the developmental impact on her childhood. Normally, a child is given the freedom to explore and express their individuality so they can develop into a confident and well-balanced adult. This nurturing environment prioritizes the needs of the child over the parent without overindulgence. But this did not happen for Ida. Instead, Ida is hypersensitive to what other people might think about her. Her mother e

May 9, 2019 • 14:55

11 Signs of a Toxic Relationship

11 Signs of a Toxic Relationship

Looking back, Jack could see that his relationship with Amanda was over several months ago, perhaps even years. But he was in denial and didn’t want to confront the painful issues that were left unresolved. What was once overlooked, minimized, explained away, or discounted is now an obvious sign of his deteriorating relationship. At first, she seemed so charming, helpful, generous, innocent, and gentle but then things turned, and an entirely different picture became apparent. Charming converted

May 8, 2019 • 13:41

How to Talk about Narcissism without Saying Narcissism

How to Talk about Narcissism without Saying Narcissism

It was during Tim’s divorce from his wife of 18 years that he realized she had Narcissistic Personality Disorder. She had been a vindictive woman towards others in the past, cutting people off permanently when they accidentally or intentionally embarrassed her. But for some reason, he thought his 18-year marriage commitment would inoculate him from similar treatment. It did not. Even though she agreed to get a divorce, Tim’s filings of the papers seemed to set her off to an entirely different le

Mar 26, 2019 • 14:28

The Addiction of Narcissism

The Addiction of Narcissism

One of the hardest types of people to deal with is a narcissist in the middle their addiction. They are completely exhausting. The combined selfishness of narcissism and addictive behavior is overpowering, relentless, callous, and frequently abusive. This destructive blend of arrogant thinking in that they are always right and that they do not have a problem leads to devastating consequences. There are many parts to the addicted narcissist and their road to recovery. The point of this article is

Mar 26, 2019 • 13:04

How Narcissists Keep You from Grieving

How Narcissists Keep You from Grieving

Margie was devastated when her mother passed away. Her mom was diagnosed with cancer one month and then gone by the next. She had a close relationship with her mom and frequently leaned on her for support in her marriage, parenting her kids, and balancing family and work. The loss left a huge hole in her heart that she tried to grieve but couldn’t. The day of her mom’s funeral, her husband complained about being sick and asked Margie to go to the pharmacy for him. His “sickness” prevented him

Mar 18, 2019 • 13:10

How to Deal with Narcissistic Grandparents

How to Deal with Narcissistic Grandparents

At a family gathering, Susie’s 2-year-old son was happily running around until her mother-in-law pulled out her cane and tripped him. Susie looked on in horror as the grandmother laughed while her son cried from the fall. Then the grandmother yelled at the boy for crying, calling him a crybaby. Susie swept up her son and took him away. Later her husband asked what happened. Apparently, his mother reported that Susie was being overprotective of their son, she was coddling him, and even gave the m

Mar 18, 2019 • 11:24

Obsessed: Narcissists and Their Food

Obsessed: Narcissists and Their Food

It wasn’t until Tabitha had dinner at a friend’s house as a teenager that she realized there was something odd about how her family handled food. At her friend’s, there was food with a variety of healthy and even some unhealthy snacks. Her mother didn’t have a lock on the “special food” so no one could have access. Their mealtime was engaging and fun with everyone participating in the conversation. There were no snide remarks about eating too much or being forced to eat seconds. It was an enjoya

Jan 29, 2019 • 15:30

The Dark Tetrad: Possibly THE Scariest Boss

The Dark Tetrad: Possibly THE Scariest Boss

No matter what the profession, if a boss has this personality combination, they are terrifying. The Dark Tetrad is composed of four parts: narcissism, Machiavellianism, psychopathy, and sadism. Sadism is the addition to the Dark Triad which has narcissism, Machiavellianism and psychopathy. For either condition, this means a person possesses the characteristics of all of these personalities. The Dark Tetrad shares two major characteristics: extreme selfishness and a lack of empathy for others. Th

Jan 29, 2019 • 16:04

The Dysfunctional Bond Between Narcissists and Co-Dependents

The Dysfunctional Bond Between Narcissists and Co-Dependents

Megan and Ryan decided to go to marriage counseling after their last fight resulted in the police being called. After being married for 7 years, the marriage was falling apart, and Ryan now had a police record for domestic violence as a result. The conflict did not start with Ryan hitting his wife, as the arrest record portrayed. Rather Megan was aggressive towards him – throwing things, hitting him, and physically blocking his only exit.  In an effort to defended himself and get away from her,

Dec 7, 2018 • 16:58

Parental Alienation

Parental Alienation

There is hardly a day that doesn’t go by in my counseling practice where someone brings up the concept of parental alienation. The problem is that the term is frequently misused. For some, it is a catch phrase used to describe any and all poor parent/child relationships. After all, it is far easier to blame the ex-spouse for the child’s poor behavior than it is to look at one’s self. This article is an attempt to clear up some confusion and answer some basic questions about alienation. What is p

Dec 7, 2018 • 15:12

5 Tips for Surviving Narcissistic In-Laws over the Holidays

5 Tips for Surviving Narcissistic In-Laws over the Holidays

As the holidays approached, Heather began to worry about the next encounter with her in-laws. Last Thanksgiving was a complete disaster. After spending days getting their new house ready for the visit, her narcissistic mother-in-law walked in the house and announced, “It’s not that bad.” Heather tried to brush it off, but the comments kept coming. “Let me help you fix the table,” she said next. Then she proceeded to reorganize the silverware, napkins, and other accessories.  She grabbed the flow

Nov 7, 2018 • 17:26

The Sociopathic Art of Deception

The Sociopathic Art of Deception

As a science teacher in a public high school, Amanda was well liked by her students. Not only was she young, beautiful, and a good communicator, but she also had a way of interacting with the students that was a bit different yet very effective. Everyone loved her – teachers, administrators, students, and parents – which, in many ways, made her feel like she was above following the rules. Then one day, when a parent accused her of improper texting with their teen son, some of her comments were f

Oct 31, 2018 • 20:16

Stockholm Syndrome

Stockholm Syndrome

What is Stockholm Syndrome? Usually the term is reserved for hostage situations referencing a bank robbery that occurred in 1973 in Stockholm Sweden. After spending 6 days in a bank vault, the four hostages refused to testify against their captors and instead raised money for their defense. The term refers to the trauma bond developed between the captor and the hostages in which the hostages feel positive feelings such as empathy for the person that is causing them harm. This allows the captor t

Oct 17, 2018 • 14:36

Healing from a Narcissistic Parent

Healing from a Narcissistic Parent

The moment Brian first really understood the term Narcissistic Personality Disorder, a light bulb went off in his brain. He spent most of his life thinking he was crazy, lazy, and stupid – three words his father often said about him to other family members and friends. His father also severely and harshly disciplined him, set-up unnecessary competitions in which his dad was the winner, never apologized, showed no empathy even when Brian was hurt, and treated everyone like they were inferior. For

Oct 10, 2018 • 15:26

Strategies for Coping with an Adult Narcissist Child

Strategies for Coping with an Adult Narcissist Child

Christine reviews the tips and techniques for coping with an adult narcissist child.   Live in the present. One of the biggest temptations is to look backwards and wonder, “what if,” or “if only”. Second to that is to look too far ahead and try to predict the action of the ANC. Neither of these is productive. Narcissism is part biology, environment, and choice, so as circumstances change, so can the shape of the narcissist. Living in the present requires a bit of disciple but it is worth it. Ev

Sep 20, 2018 • 16:38

How Not to be Your Boss' Scapegoat

How Not to be Your Boss' Scapegoat

Understand what a scapegoat is. The purpose of a scapegoat is to pass responsibility onto someone else. Usually this person is unsuspecting at first and agrees because they are trying to get along with others. This technique of passing the buck is very common with narcissists, sociopaths, and addicts. Narcissists can’t allow their ego to be tarnished by an error. Sociopaths do it for the sport of it. And addicts do it because accepting fault in one area of their life means being accountable in

Sep 20, 2018 • 16:08

Narcissist Awareness Grief

Narcissist Awareness Grief

Christine introduces the concept of "NAG" with a story of her own client, Sam. She unpacks the symptoms and the 6 stages of NAG which all need to be faced and understood. www.growwithchristine.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Aug 5, 2018 • 15:10

What You Can Do If Your Teen Seems Narcissistic

What You Can Do If Your Teen Seems Narcissistic

Chistine makes suggestions - What You Can Do If Your Teen Seems Narcissistic www.growwithchristine.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Aug 3, 2018 • 15:26

Shame Based Parenting

Shame Based Parenting

Christine talks about "shame-based" parenting. www.growwithchristine.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Jun 26, 2018 • 17:36

Parents of Narcissist? - It's Not Your Fault

Parents of Narcissist? - It's Not Your Fault

Christine explores the challenges facing parents of narcissistic children, and how to cope. www.growwithchristine.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Jun 26, 2018 • 13:14

Passive Aggressive Personality Trait

Passive Aggressive Personality Trait

On this edition, Christine unpacks the Passive-Aggressive Personality Traits - they are much like a personality disorder and often show up similar to narcissism www.growwithchristine.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Mar 28, 2018 • 14:30

Abuse Fog

Abuse Fog

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Mar 22, 2018 • 16:28

Trauma Bonding

Trauma Bonding

Christine covers trauma bonds, what they are, how to identify them,  and how they can effect us in a relationship with a narcissist.   www.growwithchristine.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Mar 15, 2018 • 18:36

Dating Apps and Narcissism

Dating Apps and Narcissism

Christine visits with her colleague Nate Webster to discuss dating apps and narcissists, the relationship between this social technology and the behavior of them, and what to watch out for if you are using these apps to find a mate.   www.growwithchristine.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Mar 7, 2018 • 11:52

Shaming tactics

Shaming tactics

Narcissists use shame to control people around them. It is a very real form of emotional abuse. By recognizing these tactics (there are 11 different examples) you will be better equipped to manage through these tactics.   www.growwithchristine.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Mar 6, 2018 • 15:54

Smear Tactics

Smear Tactics

How does a narcissist control you? Christine covers the 5 ways, the tactics they use in a relationship to smear you - understanding these tactics can help you out-maneuver the narcissist.   www.growwithchristine.com    Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Feb 27, 2018 • 16:26

Hidden Shame

Hidden Shame

Hidden shame can show up in the strangest ways, and at unexpected times in any relationship. Christine shares how an individual might lie to cover up their own hidden shame, bury the truth in an effort to protect themselves. www.growwithchristine.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Feb 20, 2018 • 14:58

Abuse Part 8-Legal

Abuse Part 8-Legal

In this ongoing series, Christine Hammond reveals the toxic ways that narcissists can be abusive in relationships and how you can protect yourself from these tactics. www.growwithchristine.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Feb 8, 2018 • 8:24

Abuse Part 7-Spiritual

Abuse Part 7-Spiritual

In this ongoing series, Christine Hammond reveals the toxic ways that narcissists can be abusive in relationships and how you can protect yourself from these tactics. www.growwithchristine.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Feb 1, 2018 • 11:04

Abuse Part 6 -Financial

Abuse Part 6 -Financial

In this ongoing series, Christine Hammond reveals the toxic ways that narcissists can be abusive in relationships and how you can protect yourself from these tactics. www.growwithchristine.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Jan 25, 2018 • 11:18

Abuse Part 5-Sexual

Abuse Part 5-Sexual

In this ongoing series, Christine Hammond reveals the toxic ways that narcissists can be abusive in relationships and how you can protect yourself from these tactics. www.growwithchristine.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Jan 18, 2018 • 22:04

Abuse Part 2-Physical

Abuse Part 2-Physical

In this ongoing series, Christine Hammond reveals the ways that narcissists can be abusive in relationships and how you can protect yourself from these tactics.   www.growwithchristine.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Jan 6, 2018 • 14:04

Abuse Part 3-Verbal

Abuse Part 3-Verbal

In this ongoing series, Christine Hammond reveals the ways that narcissists can be abusive in relationships and how you can protect yourself from these tactics. www.growwithchristine.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Jan 6, 2018 • 13:48

Abuse Part 4-Emotional

Abuse Part 4-Emotional

In this ongoing series, Christine Hammond reveals the ways that narcissists can be abusive in relationships and how you can protect yourself from these tactics. www.growwithchristine.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Jan 6, 2018 • 15:48

Abuse Part 1-Mental

Abuse Part 1-Mental

In this ongoing series, Christine Hammond reveals the ways that narcissists can be abusive in relationships and how you can protect yourself from these tactics.   www.growwithchristine.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Jan 6, 2018 • 15:20

Working with a Narcissist

Working with a Narcissist

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Nov 30, 2017 • 12:06

Smear Attacks

Smear Attacks

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Nov 30, 2017 • 13:04

The Addict Narcissist

The Addict Narcissist

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Nov 30, 2017 • 14:10

Male & Female Narcissists: What are the Differences?

Male & Female Narcissists: What are the Differences?

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Nov 30, 2017 • 11:48

The Holidays with a Narcissist

The Holidays with a Narcissist

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Nov 30, 2017 • 13:00

10 Tips for Working with a Narcissist

10 Tips for Working with a Narcissist

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Nov 30, 2017 • 14:34

E011: Mommie Dearest -  Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers

E011: Mommie Dearest - Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers

Mommie Dearest: Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers: The 1981 movie, Mommie Dearest, has the infamous wire hanger scene where Joan rages over a single wire hanger in her daughter’s closet caused a stir with Joan’s physically abusive behavior. Daughters of narcissistic mothers report similar rages over small incidents. The constant shifting standards of perfectionism designed to elevate the narcissistic mother at the expense of the child defies the customary nurturing maternal instincts.  www.groww

Nov 22, 2017 • 17:40

E010: Danger Ahead - The Delusional Narcissist

E010: Danger Ahead - The Delusional Narcissist

Danger Ahead: The Delusional Narcissist: How does a narcissist go from appearing so charming and innocent to becoming harmful and dangerous? Most narcissists utilize verbal abusive tactics to get what they want in fits of rage, some do long-term mental and emotional abuse, and still fewer escalate to murderous acts. Yet, there is a very small population of narcissists that do commit heinous acts of violence like homicide, murder/suicide, mass murder, or familicide. So how does this happen? www.g

Nov 22, 2017 • 16:00

E09: How to Survive a Divorce with a Narcissist

E09: How to Survive a Divorce with a Narcissist

Divorce is difficult. But divorcing a narcissist can feel impossible. The surprise abusive attacks followed by the desperate pleas to remain together create confusion, frustration, and anxiety.  Here are a few of their tactics. For more help, join us for a 4 week live webinar on how to Survive a Divorce with a Narcissist. Register here: http://growwithchristine.com/narcissism/narcissism-copy-2/. Sponsored by www.psychcentral.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out

Nov 7, 2017 • 14:58

E08: Ways Narcissists Retaliate Through Children

E08: Ways Narcissists Retaliate Through Children

Divorcing a narcissist doesn’t solve everything. The next party on the victimization list is often the children. But really, the narcissist is just using the children to attack the ex-spouse. Learn how. For more help, join us for a 4 week live webinar on how to Survive a Divorce with a Narcissist. Register here: http://growwithchristine.com/narcissism/narcissism-copy-2/.  Sponsored by www.psychcentral.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/

Nov 7, 2017 • 14:44

E07: How to Divorce a Narcissist

E07: How to Divorce a Narcissist

Divorcing a narcissist is grueling because they refuse to be on the receiving end of someone leaving them. It takes careful planning to avoid complete exhaustion. Follow these steps before confronting your narcissistic spouse. For more help, join us for a 4 week live webinar on how to Survive a Divorce with a Narcissist. Register here: http://growwithchristine.com/narcissism/narcissism-copy-2/. Sponsored by www.psychcentral.com.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out

Nov 7, 2017 • 15:06

E06: Can A Narcissist Be Remorseful?

E06: Can A Narcissist Be Remorseful?

Have you ever wondered if narcissists are capable or remorse and even empathy? Discover the answer in this episode. To learn more, visit www.growwithchristine.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Jul 17, 2017 • 16:16

E05: Covert Narcissists

E05: Covert Narcissists

What is a covert narcissist? And how do they differ from other types of narcissists? Discover the answer in this episode. For more information, visit www.growwithchristine.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Jun 8, 2017 • 14:24

E04: What's In A Name?

E04: What's In A Name?

Discover the different personality disorders and how they are different and similar to narcissistic personality disorder.  To learn more, visit www.growwithchristine.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Jun 7, 2017 • 15:16

E03: Narcissistic Mothers and Their Daughters

E03: Narcissistic Mothers and Their Daughters

Narcissistic mothers are often portrayed in popular culture and Disney movies. Discover the hallmark traits of narcissistic mothers and their daughters, and a case study that illustrates the dynamic between them.  For more information, visit www.growwithchristine.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Feb 25, 2017 • 13:36

E02: Narcissistic Cycle of Abuse

E02: Narcissistic Cycle of Abuse

In this episode, you'll discover the narcissist cycle of abuse; what it is and how to deal with it effectively. Learn how to avoid verbal assaults and how the narcissist uses the cycle of abuse for their own benefit.  To learn more, visit www.growwithchristine.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Feb 25, 2017 • 13:44

E01: What Is Narcissism?

E01: What Is Narcissism?

Narcissism is not going away- we see in our political environment and in society in general. In this episode you'll discover what narcissism is, the origin of the term narcissism and what motivates a narcissist.  For more information, visit www.growwithchristine.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Feb 25, 2017 • 11:00

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