Unacceptable Behavior w/Jsin Graham
Jsin Graham
Author Jsin Graham dabbles in offering up his perspective on relationships and explaining why men in fact, MEN...when dealing with women.
The List: 1st date location icks
Guess who’s back? In a surprise episode, J.G. returns to the mic to talk about “the list.” #socialmedia finds a way to tell men where not to take women on a first date. Is the list valid or is it a telling sign of something else? | A copy of the list can be found here: https://www.instagram.com/p/CyyhZ4MONjp/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==
I Know You Hear Me, But Do You See Me
Coming off of a one-week hiatus, we have a jam-packed show. A quick update, leftover Q&A, and a conversation about vulnerability and the duality it creates within men are just a click away. Tap in!
Q&A...mailbag time!
We're opening up the mailbag on this episode. Who doesn't love a Q&A session?
Dudes Talk Too Much, to be Alphas
Let's talk about the present day overcommunication by wannabe #alphas. What are they really trying to tell you?
Divorce Says, Think Again!
F*ck being single! To settle or not to settle, that's the new question. The answer, you should already know but let your boy help you out in a different fashion. In the premiere episode of season three, we're talking about #divorce with a few individuals who have gone through the process firsthand. Come take a listen to those forced to learn the hard way, the ramifications of not listening to that little voice in their heads.
Y'all Don't Know What You Want
In the season/podcast finale, we wrap up the wants & needs discussion by explaining the genuine reality that single people are getting in their own way. Oh yeah, and social media, as usual, is still the devil.
Broken Women, Predators, & Monkey Pox
On this episode, we work off of a video making the rounds on social media that discusses the brokenness in women, and how men choose to respond/use it to our benefit. Does emotional intelligence drive those decisions? Is it a form of retribution? How do we fix it? And do you have the pox?
Do we really need what we want?
Is it possible that some of our wants/preferences are blocking us from meeting who we are meant to be with? In this episode, we look at two lists, needs and wants, for a healthy relationship. Liking what we like is understandable, but to what end? What wants do we actually need?
I Don't Want You to Need Me
On this episode, I jump into discussing something that has been on my brain a lot lately--a flaw in how men look at the modern-day woman.
Traditional Relationship Ideals...Kill that Notion
In a surprise episode of Unacceptable Behavior, I explain why basing your preferences for mates and relationships on traditional, "old school" ideals is a detrimental notion. Stop that shit! || "LVME4ME" - Kingpen Slim (closing audio)
When Does a Guy Know Its Real?
In a follow-up to a question brought to us last episode, we look at the difference between when a guy knows he has encountered a woman to get serious over and when he's ready to actually make it official. The present day ain't making anything easier on that front.
WTH is a good guy?
Every woman thinks they want a good guy, until a good guy falls in their lap...then what? On this episode I chat it up with Ant, host of the Off the Wall podcast, to discuss what exactly is a good guy, how they are perceived by women, the single life, and more.
(Male) Conservativesexuals...it's a thing!
People exist in varying levels of sexual experience and expression. When it comes to incompatibility, we more normally hear about experienced men and inexperienced women, but rarely do we hear about the reverse...until now. Erotic storyteller Seira Revol joins me on this episode to discuss.
Top 5 First Date Tips for Women
Licensed marriage and family wellness therapist, Nicole M. Ward, contributed to an article on therapyforblackgirls.com entitled "5 Tips for Navigating the First Date." On today's episode, we break down these tips from the male perspective to check they're validity.
Message Over Messenger
What do Derrick Jaxn, Kevin Samuels, and Steve Harvey have in common? They all owe at least some of their fame to talking to/or at women. But are they right, is the questions? Does a man's entanglements, delivery, and past ruin what he says?
We Talkin' About Confidence...not a game, not a game, confidence
Confidence, what is it and why is it important? Hell is it important? Let's take a look at this and the role it plays in the happily ever after, but more importantly the role it plays in getting to that point. #confidence | Music - #AnxiousAF by Mia Ariannaa
S2 Prequel: Q + A
Season 2 of Unacceptable Behavior kicks off with the Q&A talked about throughout last season. The ladies submitted relationship and man-specific questions and I did my best to knock'em down. Tap in!
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Ladies, Talk Yo'Shxt
Ladies, speak your truth! In the season finale of the show, I talk to three different women to get their perspectives on what men are doing wrong and need to do better to improve issues in dating and relationships.
Music: "Bare Wit Me" - Teyana Taylor x "Outta Time" - Bryson TIller f/Drake
W.A.P. (Women Ain't the Problem)
Unless you have been under a rock, you have heard Cardi x Meg's "W.A.P" by now. If you even loosely find yourself on social media, you have seen the faux-outrage over the song. So let's talk about it.
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Music: "W.A.P." - Cardi B x Meg Thee Stallion | "Drugs" - Lil Kim
Boundaries
Ladies & gentlemen, this is a PSA: boundaries are a necessary evil in all relationships. On this episode of UB, I'm throwing words around with my girl Nikki about the importance and benefits of boundary setting. Why it's important? Why you should do it? And why anything bad that happens when you don't...IS YOUR FAULT!
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Do Men Still Like Real Bodies?
This question is the perfect storm between reality, perception, and assumption. With so much access to excess, especially with the increased number of women that go under the knife to alter their physical makeups, the question remains...do men still like and appreciate natural body types.
Fellas, We're Winning...What Is Y'all Doing?
Contrary to the popular belief of some, men are still winning at damn near everything. Especially when it comes to non-platonic dealings with women. SO WHY IS IT THAT YOU ALL ARE PROVING THE WOMEN RIGHT, when they say you don't know what you want (cause they ain't talking to me)? We gotta do better. For our ancestors if not for yourselves.
Toxic Relationships...We Off Dat in 2020
I want us all to do a better job at choosing US, in the New Year!
Stop Lying to Yourself
"You and I both know you cant handle MY truth, so why bother?" There are few things worse than being proven right. Except for when you allow someone else to make you ignore the warning signs.
Connection vs Chemistry...that shxt ain't the same! Or is it?
In passing, dating, relationships or more, what roles do connection and chemistry play? Is there any real difference between the two? And does it even matter?
Truth Bomb...You Don't Really Want It
"What's on your mind", "talk to me" , "you can tell me anything baby" ... yeah okay. There are any number of reasons why women ask these or related questions of their men. I mean if you can't ask your man something you're curious about, who else can you ask. My retort, why are you asking things you don't really want to know or aren't prepared to handle?
Guess Whose Coming to Dinner (Thanksgiving)?
Situationships, relationships...call it what you want. The question is, what do you do when your new situation bumps up against a major holiday like Thanksgiving? We're talking about things to consider, remember and steer clear of. Plus, in this episode we talk to our first special guest. Tap in!
Can Men & Women Be Friends?
Yes, no, maybe so. This question has been debated and "conversated" over for years, and yet & still-- no clear answer exists. But why though?
The Press Up & the Moonwalk
In the beginning, everything was all starships and rockets...then the guy falls off for no reason. Why?
Unacceptable Behavior w/Jsin Graham (Trailer)
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Meeting Men Where They Are
With the scales of fairness being tipped even further out of a woman's reach...ladies need to be more deliberate and unapologetic about cherishing their own time and energy. Trust what you see over what's heard/promised.
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Lead in track - "L.A.N." by Kingpen Slim f/John Blu from the F*ck Love mixtape.
...this is Unacceptable Behavior
Get to know a little about Jsin Graham and some background on what went into the idea to create the Unacceptable Behavior (UB) Podcast.