That's Orgasmic with Sexologist Emily Duncan

That's Orgasmic with Sexologist Emily Duncan

Emily Duncan

A sex positive podcast that provides a shame free perspective on all things sex. Nothing is off bounds in this uncensored podcast, delving into all the juicy and taboo topics you can imagine. Most importantly this podcast aims to break down the stigmas surrounding sex and provide the tools to create a liberating sexual experience for everyone. Disclaimer: the educational information within this podcast does not take place of professional or medical advice. FOLLOW US on instagram @thatsorgasmic. Email your questions, stories and comments to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com This podcast is created on the land of the Wadawurrung people, the...

163 The worlds largest penis with Matt Barr

163 The worlds largest penis with Matt Barr

In this episode, Emily is joined with Matt Barr who has gained notoriety as the man with the world's biggest penis (according to multiple independent medical studies, measuring him at over 36cm/14.5), a title he humorously embraces while shedding light on the complexities of his life. His journey into the public eye began with a Channel 4 documentary entitled My Massive C**k. In his upcoming memoir, A Long Story: Life With The World’s Large, Matt delves into the physical and mental health

Feb 19, • 32:58

162 Twenty five things I have learnt about sex as a Sexologist

162 Twenty five things I have learnt about sex as a Sexologist

Welcome to season 6 of That's Orgasmic! This episode is being released on Emily's 25th birthday, so what better way to celebrate than discussing 25 things Emily has learnt about sex as a sexologist.   FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Em

Feb 12, • 32:48

161 How to have hard conversations, boundaries and anxiety with Dr. Nicole Cain - Part 2

161 How to have hard conversations, boundaries and anxiety with Dr. Nicole Cain - Part 2

In this episode, Emily is joined by Dr. Nicole Cain who is a clinical psychologist, holistic anxiety expert, and author of Panic Proof  Emily and Nicole discuss: How to have a scary conversation with someone  Boundaries How a lack of boundaries can impact anxiety relationship check-ins Flop and fracture response what to do if your partner is dissociating  What to do if your partner is overstimulated FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@

Oct 9, 2024 • 27:53

160 Four steps to overcoming anxiety in your relationship with Dr. Nicole Cain - Part 1

160 Four steps to overcoming anxiety in your relationship with Dr. Nicole Cain - Part 1

In this episode, Emily is joined by Dr. Nicole Cain who is a clinical psychologist, holistic anxiety expert, and author of Panic Proof  Emily and Nicole discuss: What is anxiety? Why do we experience anxiety? Difference between being diagnosed with anxiety and experiencing anxiety How does anxiety impact romantic relationships? Inner child work Communication between the brain and your body during an emotional response How to regulate during a fight with four steps The vagus nerve FOLLOW US on

Oct 9, 2024 • 29:12

159 Why you may be experiencing a lack of pleasure during sex, exploring the connection to fascia with Anna Rahe

159 Why you may be experiencing a lack of pleasure during sex, exploring the connection to fascia with Anna Rahe

In this episode, Emily is joined by Anna Rahe. Anna is the founder of GST Body and a somatic expert with over 25 years of professional experience.  Emily and Anna discuss: What is fascia/connective tissue system Why fascia is important and how it impacts our sex lives Sexual pain and fascia Why you may be experience a lack of pleasure during sex How to support the pelvic floor muscles Sexual trauma and pelvic pain Reflective systems in the body (throat to pelvic floor)   FOLLOW US on Instagram

Oct 2, 2024 • 54:31

158 Who you date doesn't define your sexuality - honouring bisexuality with Mim Kempson [REVISIT]

158 Who you date doesn't define your sexuality - honouring bisexuality with Mim Kempson [REVISIT]

This episode explores different ways that bisexual women in monogamous relationships can connect to their sexuality while respecting and honouring their partnership. Featuring Mim Kempson a dating and relationship coach. Emily and Mim discuss: What is a dating and relationship coach? When should you see a relationship coach? Biphobia  Common bisexual myths How can a bisexual woman honour her sexuality with a cis-gendered heterosexual man when polyamory and opening the relationship isn't on the

Sep 25, 2024 • 53:16

157 Lost in love: Navigating identity loss in relationships and reclaiming your individuality

157 Lost in love: Navigating identity loss in relationships and reclaiming your individuality

In this episode, Emily explores losing your sense of self while in a relationship and how you can reclaim your individuality. Emily explores six signs that you may be losing your sense of self and then provides six strategies to overcome this phenomenon.  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the

Sep 18, 2024 • 25:17

156 Supporting your penis and erections after cancer Melissa Hadley Barret - part two

156 Supporting your penis and erections after cancer Melissa Hadley Barret - part two

In this episode, Emily is joined by Melissa Hadley Barrett. Melissa Hadley Barret is a sexologist, nurse practitioner, podcast host, founder and clinical director of the Restorative Sexual Health Clinic and creator of programs such as the Penile Rehabilitation Program for Prostate Cancer and Peyronies program. All of Melissa’s programs go beyond addressing sexual well-being; they offer a solution for men to reclaim intimate connections and rediscover a part of themselves they may have thought wa

Sep 11, 2024 • 28:28

155 How to have a healthier penis, wonky willy’s and erectile difficulties Melissa Hadley Barrett - part one

155 How to have a healthier penis, wonky willy’s and erectile difficulties Melissa Hadley Barrett - part one

In this episode, Emily is joined by Melissa Hadley Barrett. Melissa Hadley Barret is a sexologist, nurse practitioner, podcast host, founder and clinical director of the Restorative Sexual Health Clinic and creator of programs such as the Penile Rehabilitation Program for Prostate Cancer and Peyronies program. All of Melissa’s programs go beyond addressing sexual well-being; they offer a solution for men to reclaim intimate connections and rediscover a part of themselves they may have thought wa

Sep 4, 2024 • 33:22

154 Is it normal to never orgasm? Do women like get dick pics? Why does it hurt to have sex? How to talk about non-monogamy? Answering your questions part 2

154 Is it normal to never orgasm? Do women like get dick pics? Why does it hurt to have sex? How to talk about non-monogamy? Answering your questions part 2

In this episode, Emily answers your sex and relationship questions.    Where does the line get drawn between respecting someone’s personal boundaries and expanding their sexual horizons? Do women like dick pics? Connection games for lovers What do I do if sex starts to feel dull? Why does it hurt when I have sex? Is it normal to have never orgasmed? How to bring up non-monogamy with a partner   FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thats

Aug 28, 2024 • 36:23

153 How much sex should you have? Vibrator recommendations. Anal tips. Is porn bad? Your questions answered -  part 1

153 How much sex should you have? Vibrator recommendations. Anal tips. Is porn bad? Your questions answered - part 1

In this episode, Emily answers your sex and relationship questions.  My vibrator recommendations I want to try anal, but it always hurts, what can I do? How much sex do people have? Can you desensitise your nerves (clitoris) from using vibrators? Is porn bad?   FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review

Aug 7, 2024 • 28:23

152 You don't need to suffer, the truth about menopause with Dr. Cathleen Brown

152 You don't need to suffer, the truth about menopause with Dr. Cathleen Brown

This episode features Dr. Cathleen Brown who is a board-certified OB/GYN from Philadelphia.  Emily and Dr. Cat discuss: What is menopause? What is Perimenopause? Menopause myths Vaginal atrophy  Sex and menopause How to support yourself to have a healthier menopause  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a r

Jul 31, 2024 • 33:55

151 Cuckolding, what it is and how to it

151 Cuckolding, what it is and how to it

In this episode Emily discusses Cuckolding.  Topics include: What is cuckolding? Why do people engage in cuckolding? How to practice cuckolding How to talk to your partner about cuckolding Things to think about in terms of cuckolding FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a

Jul 24, 2024 • 23:26

150 Why disabled folk need sex workers

150 Why disabled folk need sex workers

In this episode, Emily discusses NDIS minister Bill Shorten’s proposed changes in the NDIS to remove sex work. Emily discusses why this should not happen, the impact this would have on disabled people and why sex work should be a service that disabled people can access. This episode was posted early due to this being a current issue. Sign the petition: https://www.progressivetherapeutic.com.au/sex-work-counselling FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to:

Jul 15, 2024 • 24:09

149 So you want to increase your desire for sex?

149 So you want to increase your desire for sex?

In this episode Emily discusses what to first do if you want to increase your desire for sex.   FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website

Jul 10, 2024 • 19:24

148 Having sex in your sleep AKA sexsomnia

148 Having sex in your sleep AKA sexsomnia

Trigger warning this episode discusses sexual assault.  In this episode, Emily discusses having sex in your sleep AKA sexsomnia, Emily breaks down what sexsomnia is and what it can look like. She shares stories of people who have experienced sexsomnia, what can cause sexsomnia and how to support someone who lives with sexsomnia.    FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology

Jul 3, 2024 • 21:24

147 Exhibitionism, thrusting techniques and embracing your inner slut or alpha male with Stace and Ty from Under The Sheets

147 Exhibitionism, thrusting techniques and embracing your inner slut or alpha male with Stace and Ty from Under The Sheets

This episode features partners Stace and Ty. Stace is an intimacy coach and Ty a health coach. They both want to take the taboo and intimidation out of sex. They want people to embrace sexploration and kinksploration to fulfill their sexual potential. They have a kink for being watched and Only Fans is their means to fulfill this on demand.   Emily, Stace and Ty discuss: What is Under the Sheets How Under the Sheets support couples and individuals sex lives Exhibitionism and how Stace and Ty de

Jun 26, 2024 • 37:21

146 Navigating a sexless relationship with Irene Fehr

146 Navigating a sexless relationship with Irene Fehr

This episode features Irene Fehr, a Sex & Intimacy Coach who weaves together somatic sex coaching, mindfulness, and emotional communication work, Irene has developed and successfully applied her holistic Connection Sex approach with monogamous long-term couples struggling with a sexless marriage who come to her often as a last resort before divorce to turn things around towards deeper sexual intimacy and passion. She also works with single women on embodying their sexuality and working throu

Jun 19, 2024 • 49:47

145 Neurodivergent love languages, sensory needs during sex and sexuality dopamenus with Niamh Mannion

145 Neurodivergent love languages, sensory needs during sex and sexuality dopamenus with Niamh Mannion

This episode feature Niamh Mannion who is a Developmental Educator and Sexologist who loves all things disability and sexuality.  Emily and Niamh discuss: What is a developmental educator? What is neurodivergence? What are sensory needs? What is a sexuality sensory diet? What is a Sexuality Dopamenu? Emily and Niamh create a Sexuality Dopamenu Neurodivergent love langauges FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a

Jun 12, 2024 • 47:57

144 Why you don't need a bigger penis

144 Why you don't need a bigger penis

In this solo episode, Emily discusses why you don't need a bigger penis. Emily also shares tips for exploring pleasure and tips for overcoming body image concerns. FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my

Jun 5, 2024 • 22:10

143 Living in hell within your own mind with Dana Da Silva

143 Living in hell within your own mind with Dana Da Silva

This episode featured Dana Da Silva who is a single mum of two based in Sydney, Australia. She's a part-time media adviser and an indie author with big dreams. She considers putting pen to paper to be an exquisite art, free therapy, and a form of meditation. The Shift is her debut book. Emily and Dana discuss: Dana’s experience with OCD Paedophilic OCD How to support somebody with OCD BDSM Is BDSM spiritually good for you? Our experiences with orgasm becoming easier to obtain Dana’s experience

May 29, 2024 • 55:38

Borderline Personality Disorder, sex and relationships with Dr. Sarah Ashton

Borderline Personality Disorder, sex and relationships with Dr. Sarah Ashton

This episode features Dr. Sarah Ashton who is a registered psychologist (AHPRA), Board Approved Supervisor (AHPRA), training author, and the Director and Founder of SHIPS. Sarah created SHIPS because she saw a deep need for safe and inclusive spaces to talk about sex and connection. She sees liberating expression of sexuality from fear, isolation, and shame as her personal and professional purpose. In this episode Emily and Dr. Sarah Ashton discuss: What is Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)

May 22, 2024 • 48:02

141 Cam girls, sugar daddies and everything in between with Nova Hawthorne

141 Cam girls, sugar daddies and everything in between with Nova Hawthorne

In this episode, Emily is joined by Nova who is a live streamer, content creator and industry advocate. She owns a studio in Melbourne where she streams from, and also hosts other streamers. In 2023, she was voted Australia’s best porn newcomer. In 2024 she is nominated for a number of awards, including XBIZ Female Streamer of the Year and AAIA Industry Ambassador. Emily and Nova discuss: What is a cam girl Unique requests Nova has had What is sugaring Nova's experience falling in love with her

May 15, 2024 • 34:02

140 Why you aren't getting matches on dating apps

140 Why you aren't getting matches on dating apps

In this episode Emily goes solo and discusses why people may not be getting matches on dating apps and what you can do about it.  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatso

May 8, 2024 • 22:41

139 How to tell someone you have herpes with Bek Antonucci

139 How to tell someone you have herpes with Bek Antonucci

In this episode, Emily is joined by Bek Antonucci who is a women’s emotional well-being and confidence coach, workshop and retreat facilitator and podcaster. Emily and Bek discuss: Bek's experience of being diagnosed with herpes Should people disclose their herpes status? When to disclose your herpes status How to disclose your herpes status How to deal with rejection Tips for getting back into dating after a positive HSV diagnosis FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, quest

May 1, 2024 • 47:50

137 Navigating sex and dating with a disability with Oliver Morton-Evans Part One

137 Navigating sex and dating with a disability with Oliver Morton-Evans Part One

In this episode, I am joined by Oliver Morton-Evans who is a sexuality and disability advocate and educator who is currently studying to become a certified sex coach for men with disabilities. Emily and Oliver discuss: Oliver’s experience of growing up in Australia and learning about sex with Spastic Quadriplegic Cerebral Palsy  Oliver’s experience accessing masturbation and partnered sex Oliver’s experience of dating Infantilisation Oliver's tips for accessing sex with a disability  FOLLOW US

Apr 24, 2024 • 35:27

138 Exploring your sexual expression with disability with Oliver Morton-Evans Part Two

138 Exploring your sexual expression with disability with Oliver Morton-Evans Part Two

In this episode, I am joined by Oliver Morton-Evans who is a sexuality and disability advocate and educator who is currently studying to become a certified sex coach for men with disabilities. Emily and Oliver discuss: What is sexual expression How to create your sexual expression Advice for support workers in talking about sex with your client FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily

Apr 24, 2024 • 24:49

136 How to stop recurring Thrush, Bacterial Vaginosis (BV) and UTIs with Adrienne Rommel

136 How to stop recurring Thrush, Bacterial Vaginosis (BV) and UTIs with Adrienne Rommel

In this episode, I am joined by Adrienne Rommel also known as the Yoni Nutritionist who helps people get to the ROOT CAUSE of their chronic vaginal infections with holistic nutrition and wellness practices, so they can feel confident in their sex lives again! Emily and Adrienne discuss: What is vaginal health? What impacts vaginal health? How menstrual cycles affect vaginal health What is Bacterial Vaginosis (BV) and Thrush? Why do some people experience recurring infections? How to stop recurr

Apr 17, 2024 • 53:33

135 Jealousy isn't a bad emotion, navigating jealousy in your relationship with Dr. Joli Hamilton

135 Jealousy isn't a bad emotion, navigating jealousy in your relationship with Dr. Joli Hamilton

In this episode, I am joined by Dr. Joli Hamilton who is a relationship coach for couples who colour outside the lines. She is a research psychologist, TEDx speaker, best-selling author, and AASECT certified sex educator. Joli also co-hosts the Playing With Fire podcast with her anchor partner, Ken. Emily and Joli discuss: What is jealousy What is envy Is jealousy bad? What jealousy can teach you? When jealousy can be harmful How to experience jealousy in a healthy way How jealousy appears in m

Apr 10, 2024 • 57:31

134 How to eat pussy - Queer edition with Jordana Ezra

134 How to eat pussy - Queer edition with Jordana Ezra

In this episode, I am joined by Jordana Ezra, a somatic sexologist specialising in LGBTIA+ sex. She is a bisexual lesbian, host of MOIST a sell-out queer speed dating event and founder of the pussy frequency a method devoted to women and non-binary coming out later in life.  Emily and Jordana discuss: Performance anxiety to eat pussy How to eat pussy How to practice pussy worshipping How to get to know your pussy Getting out of your head and into your body FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmic

Apr 3, 2024 • 43:00

133  Consensual non-consent and Obsessive Complusive Disorder and Sex with Reed Amber Thomas-Litmas

133 Consensual non-consent and Obsessive Complusive Disorder and Sex with Reed Amber Thomas-Litmas

In this episode, I am joined by Reed Amber Litman-Thomas who is a UK sex educator, activist and co-host of an amazing podcast Come Curious.  Trigger warning this episode discusses consensual non-consensual (CNC) and there are trigger words in this conversation. Emily and Reed discuss: What is OCD Intrusive thoughts How to let thoughts go How OCD impacts sex What consensual non-consent (CNC) is What CNC can look like How to set up CNC How to talk about CNC to your partner Finding your sexual bou

Mar 27, 2024 • 48:30

132 Double penetration, dirty talk and butt plugs with Silvia Saige

132 Double penetration, dirty talk and butt plugs with Silvia Saige

In this episode, I am joined by Silvia Saige. Silvia is a comedian, writer, social media personality, and podcast host of Sexy Funny Raw. Silvia aims to change how people view - not only women and sex - but the conversation about sex in general. Trigger warning this episode discusses childhood sexual abuse. It is discussed at the end of the episode when Emily asks the final question ‘What’s something that is orgasmic to you?’ Emily and Silvia discuss: The porn industry Common misconceptions abo

Mar 20, 2024 • 35:01

131 Dealing with rejection

131 Dealing with rejection

In today's episode Emily discusses rejection. What it is? Why we experience it? and how to deal with it. Emily focuses on romantic rejection from people we are dating.  Emily gives 7 tips and pieces of advice on how to deal with rejection. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership) FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emil

Mar 7, 2024 • 24:43

130 How to pleasure a soft cock

130 How to pleasure a soft cock

In this episode, Emily discusses how to pleasure a flaccid penis in different ways. Join my sunroom ☀️ https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic Join via their website to get 30% off my Sunroom membership.   FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emil

Feb 28, 2024 • 13:57

129 Body image & dating, sensate focus and getting to know your genitals with Nadia Maxwell (BONUS EPISODE from Good Enough Nutrition Podcast)

129 Body image & dating, sensate focus and getting to know your genitals with Nadia Maxwell (BONUS EPISODE from Good Enough Nutrition Podcast)

This is a bonus episode from the podcast Good Enough Nutrition by Nadia Maxwell. Good Enough Nutrition podcast is a podcast discussing nutrition, wellbeing, intuitive eating and body image with a sprinkle of all things periods and hormones.  In this episode, we chat about: What is a Sexologist Why Emily became a Sexologist Why you should get to know your genitals How body image plays a role in dating and intimacy Strategies for improving body image and intimacy Sensate Focus How you can get to

Feb 21, 2024 • 1:00:16

128 How to get a harder and stronger erection. Discussing erectile health with Dr. Elliot Justin

128 How to get a harder and stronger erection. Discussing erectile health with Dr. Elliot Justin

This episode features Dr. Elliot Justin MD, FACEP, is the CEO and Founder of FirmTech, the first sex tech company dedicated to improving men's erectile fitness. Emily and Dr. Elliot discuss: What is erectile health? How to have a healthier erection The link between cardiovascular health and erections What is erectile dysfunction How to support erectile difficulties  Benefits of a cocking What Firm Tech cock rings tell you about erectile health Penis pumps What sex positions impact your erection

Feb 14, 2024 • 39:05

127 Burlesque: Navigating controversy, empowerment and wild performances with Evana De Lune

127 Burlesque: Navigating controversy, empowerment and wild performances with Evana De Lune

This episode features Evana De Lune, one of Australia's most sought-after Burlesque performers. Evana has over 20 years of dance experience covering jazz, tap, ballet, contemporary and commercial dance styles. As well as performing, Evana is a highly regarded burlesque teacher and mentor, who has shared her wealth of experience with students at Melbourne's, Maison Burlesque and now runs her own Burlesque Workshops around Australia. In this episode, Emily and Evana discuss: Burlesque, what it is

Feb 7, 2024 • 29:42

126 Cruising, lube, maintaining erections and queer sex with Drip founder Hugh Crothers

126 Cruising, lube, maintaining erections and queer sex with Drip founder Hugh Crothers

This episode features Hugh Crothers, who is the founder of drip, a sexual well-being brand he started in 2020 catering to people who are curious and diverse when it comes to sex. In this episode Emily and Hugh discuss: Why Hugh founded drip Where Hugh learnt about Queer sex as a gay man Shame attached to lube Erectile difficulties What makes sex orgasmic for Hugh What makes sex not so orgasmic for Hugh FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilydunc

Jan 31, 2024 • 45:46

0125 I walked in on my teenager having sex, what do I do? With Dr. Tina Schemer Sellers Part 2

0125 I walked in on my teenager having sex, what do I do? With Dr. Tina Schemer Sellers Part 2

This episode is part two of a two-part episode In this episode, Emily is joined with Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers who is a licensed sex and gender feminist psychotherapist, best-selling author, researcher, emeriti professor, and media personality whose expertise spans sex therapy, spiritual intimacy, parenting, medicine, and social justice. Emily and Dr. Tina break down typical scenarios parents find themselves in when it comes to talking about sex with their kids.  They discuss: Finding your teen

Jan 25, 2024 • 21:57

124 Talking to your kids about sex with Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers Part 1

124 Talking to your kids about sex with Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers Part 1

This episode is part one of a two-part episode. In this episode, Emily is joined with Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers who is a licensed sex and gender feminist psychotherapist, best-selling author, researcher, emeriti professor, and media personality whose expertise spans sex therapy, spiritual intimacy, parenting, medicine, and social justice. Emily and Dr. Tina discuss how to talk to your kids about sex. They discuss the below topics: Who’s responsibility is it to teach kids about sex? What does ag

Jan 24, 2024 • 51:30

123 My bladder fell into my vagina...living with a prolapse

123 My bladder fell into my vagina...living with a prolapse

Season 5 of That's Orgasmic is here. Today Emily shares a personal story on her experience with an Anterior Wall Prolapse AKA a Cystocele.  Emily discusses: Her personal story What prolapses are and the different types Why you may develop a prolapse Sex and a prolapse Treatment How to reduce your risk of prolapse The reality of living with a prolapse at age 23 FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with

Jan 17, 2024 • 36:19

122 From orgasmic music to orgasmic sex with Miss Kaninna

122 From orgasmic music to orgasmic sex with Miss Kaninna

This episode features Miss Kannina who is a proud Yorta Yorta, Djadja Wurrung, Kalkadoon and Yirendali woman who has taken the Australian live music landscape by storm. Miss Kaninna has most recently been awarded as the Triple J Unearthed Music Artist of the Year.  Her song ‘Blak Britney’ arrived in May to critical acclaim. An anti-establishment anthem written to amplify the voices of Blak women, the single landed full rotation and within a fortnight was the #1 most-played song on triple j. Miss

Nov 15, 2023 • 34:38

121 My vagina splits every time I have sex

121 My vagina splits every time I have sex

In this episode Emily answers a listener's question 'My Vagina tears every time I have sex, what can I do?' FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Nov 8, 2023 • 14:41

120 Embracing your hoe phase with Jenay

120 Embracing your hoe phase with Jenay

This episode features Jenay who is a certified relationship and life coach and host of her podcast ‘My Naked Mindset’ which is a sex and dating podcast.  Emily and Jenay discuss: How Jenay became a relationship and life coach Jenay’s experience in her hoe phase Why Jenay went on 20 first dates in 2019 What Jenay learned from her dating experiences Jenay’s worst date How to find people to date Advice for those wanting to date Advice for those with shame around hoe phases and dating  FOLLOW US o

Nov 1, 2023 • 44:11

119 Men, this is how to date with Celeste Moore

119 Men, this is how to date with Celeste Moore

This episode features Celeste Moore an image consultant and dating coach who helps midlife men who have forgotten how to date by providing discreet dating and image consulting to improve their appearance, relationships and confidence. Emily and Celeste discuss: How a dating and image consultant can help you Celeste’s client demographic The biggest dating issues Celeste sees in men Is appearance important? What are good first-date questions? How to overcome your fear of getting back into dating

Oct 25, 2023 • 51:06

118 Throatgasms, penis pumps and sexuality as we age with Susan Bratton

118 Throatgasms, penis pumps and sexuality as we age with Susan Bratton

This episode features Susan Bratton who is an intimacy expert to millions. Emily and Susan discuss: What Susan’s experience with her sexuality has been like throughout her life Semen retention Ejaculatory choice Vaginal Atrophy and what you can do about it Throat orgasms Penis pump benefits How to use a penis pump How to help men not be concerned about performance How to care for genitals as we age FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@t

Oct 18, 2023 • 54:59

117 Breastmilk play and ADHD & BDSM with Alice Lovegood

117 Breastmilk play and ADHD & BDSM with Alice Lovegood

This episode features Alice Lovegood who is a sex educator, life coach and spicy creator. Emily and Alice discuss: How Alice got into this field Alice’s favourite thing about creating spicy only fans content Alice’s favourite content to create Breastmilk play/erotic lactation/milk fetishism ADHD and BDSM How can kink support those who are neurodiverse What is subspace FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a sess

Oct 11, 2023 • 38:50

116 Can we orgasm without being touched? Exploring Tantra with Isiah McKimme

116 Can we orgasm without being touched? Exploring Tantra with Isiah McKimme

This episode features Isiah McKimme, a Couples Therapist, Sex Therapist, Sexologist and Coach who has been helping women and couples discover deeper intimacy and desire for over a decade. Emily and Isiah discuss: How Isiah got into her work What is Tantra What is Tantric sex How Tantra can benefit your sex life Practices to do to tap into your sexuality  Tantric practices for patterned people Can you orgasm without touching your body? What it is like to experience tantra FOLLOW US on Instagram

Oct 4, 2023 • 33:49

115 Mistakes we're making in our relationships with Samantha Manovski

115 Mistakes we're making in our relationships with Samantha Manovski

This episode features Samantha Manovski who is a relationship and intimacy coach. Emily and Sam discuss: What Sam thinks of society’s current expectations of romantic relationships Common mistakes Sam sees people make in relationships How to have better conflict in relationships with the Harmony method Attachment styles Imposter syndrome as a coach/therapist FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with E

Sep 27, 2023 • 44:41

114 Exploring your deeper desires LIVE SHOW with sexploration

114 Exploring your deeper desires LIVE SHOW with sexploration

This episode is the live show Emily hosted at Piano Bar Geelong in August 2023 with Bridget Scholes from Sexploration. Emily and Bridget discuss: Desire How to talk about your desires with your partner/s Kink vs Fetish Arse play Non-monogamy, threesomes and sex parties Emily and Bridget also answered the crowd's questions: In a libido-imbalanced relationship, how do you initiate/ask for sex and spontaneity in a sexy and unforced way? How do I approach girls as a bi girl with a fear of rejecti

Sep 20, 2023 • 1:05:19

113 I don't like to share bodily fluids with the men who fuck my girlfriend

113 I don't like to share bodily fluids with the men who fuck my girlfriend

In this episode, Emily responds to a listener's dilemma about sharing bodily fluids with the people who have sex with his girlfriend and spicing up cuckolding/voyeurism.  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology.See omnyst

Sep 10, 2023 • 11:19

112 Anal training, play and fissures with Marc from Happie Holl

112 Anal training, play and fissures with Marc from Happie Holl

This episode features Marc the founder of Happie Holl. Emily and Marc discuss all things butts and Happie Holl’s products: After Anal Cooling Cream Sore Butt Soothing Balm Topics included: Marc's relationship with his butt Emily’s relationship with her butt Anal fissures Anal training How Happie Holl’s products can benefit you What the response has been like creating a butt care product FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasm

Sep 6, 2023 • 31:39

111 What lube should I use?

111 What lube should I use?

In this episode, Emily answers the question 'What lubricant should I use?' FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Sep 3, 2023 • 8:43

110 Straps ons, scissoring & shame: unpacking queer sex with Cindra Banks

110 Straps ons, scissoring & shame: unpacking queer sex with Cindra Banks

This episode features Cindra Banks who is a sex coach and sexological body worker. She identifies as queer and polyamorous, and loves bringing "taboo" topics like sex, pleasure and non-traditional relationships into the light. Emily and Cindra discuss: Cindra’s journey with her sexuality What queer sex is What Cindra has learnt from her queer sexual experiences Advice for those wanting to explore queer sex Is lesbian sex just scissoring? How to explore intimacy Shame during sex How to bring up

Aug 30, 2023 • 43:50

109 How to become a sexologist or sex therapist

109 How to become a sexologist or sex therapist

This episode is answering the question ‘how do I become a sexologist?’ FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Society of Australian Sexologists: https://societyaustraliansexologists.org.au/See omnystudio.com/listener fo

Aug 28, 2023 • 13:08

108 How to impress somebody in the bedroom

108 How to impress somebody in the bedroom

In this episode Emily answers a listeners question 'Can you suggest some new things I could do in bed that would surprise my partner? I mean we have all heard about normal intercourse and oral sex. Apart from these what acts can I do to impress somebody?'   FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for th

Aug 23, 2023 • 11:30

107 How to find your sexual energy with Deborah Kagan

107 How to find your sexual energy with Deborah Kagan

This episode features Deborah Kagan who is a speaker, author, mentor and Mojo Recovery Specialist with years of practice being a turned-on woman. She supports entrepreneurs, small business owners, consultants, creatives and the career-oriented to tap into their innate power and connect with their mojo – a source of true self-esteem. Her methods combine over 25 years of experience in personal development, metaphysical studies and embodiment practices. She is the creator of the Rock Your Mojo™ pro

Aug 16, 2023 • 46:50

106 Is it ok for a girl to cum multiple times?

106 Is it ok for a girl to cum multiple times?

In this episode, Emily answers a listener's question about vulva owners having multiple orgasms. FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. To buy tickets to the live show at Piano Bar Geelong follow the link below:  https:

Aug 13, 2023 • 7:39

105 Are you happy with your life? with Nicole

105 Are you happy with your life? with Nicole

This episode features Nicole from Your Say Nicole. Nicole is a coach, leader and podcast host who teaches individuals to stop and embody their power to achieve limitless success and fulfilment in their life. Emily and Nicole discuss: Nicole's journey to becoming a coach How Nicole supports those who are feeling lost in their life direction Learning how to stop Decluttering your life What to look for in a coach Nicole’s coming out story and her journey with her sexuality Not feeling like you fit

Aug 9, 2023 • 1:01:02

104 Best sex toys for a submissive

104 Best sex toys for a submissive

In this episode, Emily is answering another listener's question. The question was 'What is the best sex toy for a submissive wife?' To buy tickets to the live show at Piano Bar Geelong follow the link below:  https://bookings.nowbookit.com/?accountid=c306271a-a403-461f-b7d1-229e79743113&theme=dark&accent=hex,000000,fafafa&venueid=10086&date=2023-08-24&serviceids=event_41HV35B61C089_1690515625027   FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@that

Aug 6, 2023 • 8:06

103 Does penis size matter? Debunking sex myths with Selina

103 Does penis size matter? Debunking sex myths with Selina

This episode features Selina, a relationship and sex therapist working from Gadigal land, Sydney. They work with individuals and couples to unpack everything under the sun about sex and relationships from desire discrepancy to communication issues to what even is monogamy these days. Emily and Selina discuss common myths and misconceptions surrounding sex and relationships. They discuss: The most common myth Selina sees when working with clients What does sex therapy actually look like? Should

Aug 2, 2023 • 47:39

102 Do's and don'ts for an orgy

102 Do's and don'ts for an orgy

Emily is bringing back two episodes a week, except this time Monday's episode will be answering your questions! This week's question was 'what to do and what not to do in an orgy?'. FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology

Jul 30, 2023 • 12:40

101 Zappos, sex tips and the Bachelor with Bella Johnston

101 Zappos, sex tips and the Bachelor with Bella Johnston

This episode features Bella Johnston an ex-reality star who featured on the Bachelors 2022. Emily and Bella discuss: Navigating life always horny Bella's best sexual experience The importance of foreplay Haemorrhoids  What make's sex orgasmic for Bella Dating people with a blue tick Bella's experience reviewing sex toys Bella's favourite sex toy Bella's sex tips Bella's experience on the Bachelor Can you masturbate while in the Bachelor mansion? FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your c

Jul 26, 2023 • 56:42

100 Talking about pegging with my Dad!?

100 Talking about pegging with my Dad!?

In the 100th episode, Emily's Dad features on the podcast.  We discuss: What his sex education was like growing up in the 70/80s What it has been like having a Sexologist as a daughter What he has learnt from Emily about sex and relationships His reflections on what he taught Emily about sex His green and red flags  What he thinks Emily's green and red flags are What he thinks Emily's ideal partner would look like FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories t

Jul 19, 2023 • 41:38

099 Is porn bad for you?

099 Is porn bad for you?

In this episode, Emily answers the question is porn bad for you? Emily discusses both the positives and potential harms of porn.  FREE returning to sex after a baby online masterclass sign up link: https://www.eventbrite.com.au/e/664262496007  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to re

Jul 12, 2023 • 20:11

098 My girlfriend wants to play with my belly button

098 My girlfriend wants to play with my belly button

In today’s episode, Emily answers a listener’s question about how to engage in belly button play AKA Alvinophilia. FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jul 5, 2023 • 11:52

097 July ins, period sex and sexting

097 July ins, period sex and sexting

This is part 2 to a 2-part episode. In this episode, Emily is joined by a friend and they discuss their July ins, period sex, kinks, masturbation, their sexual awakenings, turn-ons and so much more. FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book in a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a written review for your chance to receive a discounted individual ses

Jun 28, 2023 • 41:50

096 Orgasming in your sleep, icks and rim jobs

096 Orgasming in your sleep, icks and rim jobs

In this episode, Emily is joined by a friend and they discuss their icks, green flags, red flags, orgasming in your sleep, orgasmic sex and rim jobs. This is part 1 of a 2 part episode. FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book in a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/See omny.fm/listener for privacy information.

Jun 21, 2023 • 30:32

095 How to give a blowjob

095 How to give a blowjob

This episode is all about blowjobs. Emily provides different tips so that you can give your sexual partner or partners the best blowjob for them.  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Sexologist Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jun 7, 2023 • 20:57

094 Exploring non-monogamy with Sexologist Bridget Scholes

094 Exploring non-monogamy with Sexologist Bridget Scholes

This episode feature Sexologist Bridget Scholes discussing non-monogamy.  Emily and Bridget discuss: What is non-monogamy? Bridget's experience with non-monogamy. Common 'mistakes' in exploring non-monogamy. How to explore non-monogamy when you don't live in a city. Advice for bringing up the topic of non-monogamy with your partner. Tips for exploring non-monogamy.   FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book in a se

May 31, 2023 • 46:55

093 Reconnecting to your sexual desire with Psychologist Emma St John

093 Reconnecting to your sexual desire with Psychologist Emma St John

This episode features Psychologist Emma St John discussing low sexual desire. Emily and Emma discuss: What is sexual desire Spontaneous and responsive desire Our concerns with how high society thinks sexual desire should be What impacts our sexual desire How to begin to reconnect to our sexual desire Mindfulness techniques that could be used to reconnect to desire Emma's 8-week therapy sessions on reconnecting to low sexual desire FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questi

May 24, 2023 • 48:15

092 Is the G-Spot real?

092 Is the G-Spot real?

This episode answers a shaggers question “Is the G-Spot real?” Emily answers this question by unpacking the history, research and issues attached. FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a sex coaching session with Emily book online at www.emilyduncansexology.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

May 17, 2023 • 10:21

091 5 ways to spice up your sex life when you are single

091 5 ways to spice up your sex life when you are single

This episode gives you 5 different tips to spice up your sex life when you are single. There is so much information out there on how to spice up your sex life when in a relationship but not for when you are single. This episode addresses that gap.  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a sex coaching session with Emily book online at www.emilyduncansexology.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

May 10, 2023 • 16:42

090 10 ways to last longer in bed

090 10 ways to last longer in bed

This episode gives you 10 different tips to last longer during sex.  Emily discusses:  How long the average penis owner and vulva owner can take to orgasm How to delay orgasm for both penis owners and hula owners. 10 different tips to delay orgasm FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a sex coaching session with Emily book online at www.emilyduncansexology.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

May 3, 2023 • 17:03

089 BDSM, fire play and 24/7 dom/sub relationships with Eric Weinstein

089 BDSM, fire play and 24/7 dom/sub relationships with Eric Weinstein

This episode features Eric Weinstein from 69 Whiskey Podcast. Emily and Eric discuss kinks and BDSM. Topics include: Eric’s wildest/funniest sex story Eric’s experience in the kink community Fire play What are high protocol relationships? What do Eric’s high protocol relationships look? Tips for navigating a high protocol relationship Importance of boundaries How to begin exploring BDSM FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic

Apr 26, 2023 • 51:04

088 Body image and sex with Psychologist Laura Lee

088 Body image and sex with Psychologist Laura Lee

This episode features Laura Lee a Psychologist based in Geelong. Laura has her own private practice Blue Space Psychology. Emily and Laura discuss body image and sex. Topics include: What are the current conversations around body image? What contributes to our perception of our bodies? What is good body image? How to begin to rewrite the relationship we have with our bodies. How body image impacts sex. How to enjoy sex more without being concerned about our bodies.  Using sex for validation. F

Apr 19, 2023 • 1:01:46

087 Can you masturbate too much?

087 Can you masturbate too much?

This episode answers the question ‘can you masturbate too much?’ Emily discusses: How much masturbation is too much masturbation Can vibrators desensitise your clitoris Impacts of masturbating excessively    FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a sex coaching session with Emily book online at www.emilyduncansexology.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Apr 12, 2023 • 12:42

086 Bachelor & Spinster Balls - the country sex party

086 Bachelor & Spinster Balls - the country sex party

The latest episode is all about Bachelor and Spinster Balls (BNS) AKA country sex parties. Emily discusses what a BNS is, the history of BNS balls and what to expect when attending one. Emily also shares listeners’ stories who have attended a BNS.  BNS video link Emily mentions is below: https://video.vice.com/en_au/video/tits-tinnies-and-true-love/564cb3309e64b9ce7b03505c   FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book i

Apr 5, 2023 • 21:26

085 How to have a threesome

085 How to have a threesome

This episode is all about threesomes. Emily discusses what threesomes are and how to have them. Emily discusses:  What to do first if you want to have a threesome How to find people to have a threesome with How to discuss your desire to have a threesome with your partner What you need to communicate before, during and after a threesome Threesome tips FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book in a session with Emily

Mar 22, 2023 • 24:39

084 Is it anti-feminist to like giving blowjobs? with Indi Gage

084 Is it anti-feminist to like giving blowjobs? with Indi Gage

This episode features Indi Gage the co-host of Hot Girls Theory. Indi has a Bachelor of Arts in Gender, Sexuality and Diversity studies.  In this episode, Emily and Indi discuss Feminism and sex. Topics include: What is feminism? How does feminism interact with sex? Performative sex, is it ok to do? Is it anti-feminist to like blow jobs? Condoms during oral sex What condoms are good to use for blowjobs Will sex ever not revolve around penetration? FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your

Mar 15, 2023 • 49:53

083 Autism Spectrum Disorder and sex with Kate Duncan

083 Autism Spectrum Disorder and sex with Kate Duncan

This episode features Kate Duncan an Occupational Therapist who works with children and adults on the autism spectrum.  Trigger warning this episode does discuss sexual abuse.  In this episode, Emily and Kate discuss ASD and sex. Topics include: How ASD can interact with sex Navigating overstimulation Ableism and sex Navigating sexual relationship with ASD or dating somebody living on the spectrum  Abuse (TRIGGER WARNING) How can we better support those living with ASD FOLLOW US on Instagram @

Mar 8, 2023 • 45:48

082 How to find self-love with Marisa Jayne

082 How to find self-love with Marisa Jayne

This episode features Marisa Jayne the host of the podcast Selfish Sesh. Emily and Marisa talk all about self-love in this episode. Emily and Marisa discuss: What is self-love? What has Marisa’s journey with self-love been like? Maintaining self-love while dating Marisa’s experience stopping the use of dating apps How to begin your self-love journey Toxic positivity Building confidence FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.

Mar 1, 2023 • 45:45

081 How to date in your 20s with Jess Matthews from The Boy Detox

081 How to date in your 20s with Jess Matthews from The Boy Detox

This episode features Jess Matthews from The Boy Detox. Jess is a writer and dating & relationship expert. Jess has over 8 years of experience as a writer focusing on love, dating, sex and relationships. Over the years Jess has used her insights and observations to help educate men and women about how to navigate the ups and downs of dating. Jess coaches clients in a 1:1 capacity, regularly features on podcasts and contributes to various media pieces about the complexities of the modern dating w

Feb 22, 2023 • 37:51

080 How to squirt

080 How to squirt

In this episode Emily discusses squirting and how to do it. Emily also discusses how to try and avoid squirting if you don’t want to. FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a sex coaching session with Emily book online at www.emilyduncansexology.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Feb 15, 2023 • 16:06

079 23 things I have learnt about sex

079 23 things I have learnt about sex

In this episode, Emily celebrates her 23rd birthday by sharing 23 things she has learned in her 23 years of life.  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Feb 8, 2023 • 15:04

078 Penis owners, you have a pelvic floor too with Chloe Burger

078 Penis owners, you have a pelvic floor too with Chloe Burger

This episode features Chloe burger a Pelvic Floor Physiotherapist. Emily and Chloe discuss penis owners’ pelvic health Emily and Chloe discuss: What is a pelvic floor? Pelvic floor conditions penis owners experience  Incontinence and how to treat it Prostate cancer surgery and incontinence  Dyssynergic defecation Stress and your pelvic floor Pelvic pain Erectile difficulties When should you see a pelvic floor physio What to expect when seeing a pelvic floor physiotherapist  FOLLOW US on Instag

Feb 1, 2023 • 46:40

077 Foot fetishes and choking with Talisin Switch

077 Foot fetishes and choking with Talisin Switch

Trigger Warning this episode discusses strangulation and choking. This episode features Talisin Switch.  Emily and Talisin discuss: What is the difference between a kink and a fetish The most common fetishes Talisin sees as a sex worker How do feet fetishes form? What is choking/strangulation? How to practice choking more safely (there’s no safe way) The issues with choking during sex How to protect yourself if you are being choked when you don’t want to be Why you may experience chest pain aft

Jan 25, 2023 • 30:56

076 Exploring Queer identity and sexuality through sex work with Talisin Switch

076 Exploring Queer identity and sexuality through sex work with Talisin Switch

This episode features Talisin Switch a BDSM facilitator, kink and sexuality educator, and sex worker who specialises in queer exploration. Talisin considers themselves an academic practitioner and informs their work and teaching in both evidence-based practice and lived experience. Emily and Talisin discuss: How did Talisin get into sex work How people can explore their queer identity with sex workers Benefits of seeing a sex worker for exploring your sexuality Exploring sex with gender dysphor

Jan 18, 2023 • 34:08

075 The worst first date...ever

075 The worst first date...ever

The final episode of season 3. Emily discusses a personal story of her worst first date...ever. FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dec 21, 2022 • 23:59

074 Navigating your sex life as a Malaysian Indian woman with Natasha

074 Navigating your sex life as a Malaysian Indian woman with Natasha

This episode features Natasha AKA Lama who is a Malaysian-Indian sex-positive content creator.  Emily and Lama discuss: What the sexual culture is like in Malaysia  Lama’s experience as a Malaysian Indian woman in Australia navigating sex and sexuality Encouraging penis owners to use sex toys for their own pleasure Exploring pleasure with sex toys  Internalised shame and colourism Advice for those with a similar cultural background who want to further step into their sexuality How Lama got into

Dec 14, 2022 • 56:55

073 How do I know if I have orgasmed?

073 How do I know if I have orgasmed?

In this episode, Emily discusses the signs to know if you have orgasmed. This episode does have a focus on vulva owner orgasms.  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com Emily Duncan Sexology: www.emilyduncansexology.com  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dec 7, 2022 • 13:12

072 Eiffel towers, fish hooks and shame with Sarah Lajeunesse

072 Eiffel towers, fish hooks and shame with Sarah Lajeunesse

This episode features Sarah Lajeunesse, a certified and award-winning coach, speaker and shame healer who helps humans heal the areas of shame in their lives that prevent them from experiencing a greater and richer quality of life that's possible.  Emily and Sarah discuss: Effiel towers Shame and sex Fish hooks What contributes the most to shame  Having conversations about how you want to be respected in a relationship Being supported by others in moments of embarrassment and how that experienc

Nov 30, 2022 • 54:04

071 An introduction to sex clubs with Our Secret Spot

071 An introduction to sex clubs with Our Secret Spot

This episode features Jess and Lawerence the founders of Our Secret Spot, a sex club in Sydney.  Emily, Jess and Lawerence discuss: How they entered the swinging lifestyle and the experiences they have had What you can expect when you visit a sex club Are there more couples or singles? Why they are seeing more single women at these events What is the typical age at a sex club? How sex clubs can build your confidence in practising consent Their favourite experiences in sex clubs/parties Advice f

Nov 16, 2022 • 50:44

070 5 things I have learned from 2 years of podcasting

070 5 things I have learned from 2 years of podcasting

In this episode, Emily celebrates the podcast’s 2 year anniversary. Emily discusses 5 things she has learned from 2 years of podcasting. These 5 things include: Consistency is key Be passionate You may outgrow your content and that’s ok Networking is key Centring your podcast around your audience is great but centring it around what you want to know is even better FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.comSee omnystudio.com/

Nov 13, 2022 • 18:38

069 Harnessing the power of your period with Gem Campbell

069 Harnessing the power of your period with Gem Campbell

This episode features Sexologist, Nutritionist, Dietitian and Menstrual Blood Witch Gem Campbell (they/them). We discuss periods and how you can tap into your period's power. Topics discussed:  Prominent issues surrounding periods within society  What power do periods hold How we can tap into that power Healing your relationship with your period How your period can allow you to tap into your inner slut What needs to change in society to support those who menstruate  The programs Gem offers FOL

Nov 9, 2022 • 1:13:41

068 Bonus episode: Get comfortable being uncomfortable

068 Bonus episode: Get comfortable being uncomfortable

This episode is a recording from another podcast 'Get Comfortable Being Uncomfortable' that Emily was a guest on.  We discuss:     •    Being sexually expressed    •    How your sexual upbringing influences how you show up in sex    •    Shame & guilt around sex    •    Tips around feeling more confident in sex    •    How to empower yourself    •    Our take on cancel culture Get Comfortable Being Uncomfortable podcast link: https://open.spotify.com/show/4JtGyUSUSDJfzqYcjdxg1i?si=n_tt98EpTQKZjC

Nov 6, 2022 • 57:15

067 Pansexuality and living with Herpes as a Queer woman with Alysha

067 Pansexuality and living with Herpes as a Queer woman with Alysha

Alysha Oorjitham features in this episode.  Emily and Alysha discuss: Pansexuality, what is it and what does it mean to Alysha? Bisexuality vs Pansexuality vs Queer Alysha’s journey with her sexuality Internalised homophobia  Am I queer enough? Queer sexual and relationship scripts Advice for those wanting to explore their sexuality Alysha’s experience being HSV+ Sexual health in vulva and vulva sex Herpes testing process FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and s

Nov 2, 2022 • 58:02

066 Stepping into your power after a breakup

066 Stepping into your power after a breakup

This episode is about stepping into your power after a relationship to thrive.  Key points: Emily shares a personal experience Questions to ask yourself if you don’t think your relationship is serving you How you can step into your power FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Oct 31, 2022 • 20:48

065 Supporting sexuality through Occupational Therapy with Alysha

065 Supporting sexuality through Occupational Therapy with Alysha

Alysha Oorjitham features in this episode.  Emily and Alysha discuss Occupational Therapy, disability and sexual health.  Topics discussed: How Occupational Therapists can support an individual’s sexuality  The importance of people living with disabilities to be educated on sex, sexual health and sexuality What work still needs to be done within Occupational Therapy and sexual health Assumptions healthcare professionals make Being a token Queer in the workplace FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorg

Oct 26, 2022 • 33:06

064 Business launch: Emily Duncan Sexology

064 Business launch: Emily Duncan Sexology

In this episode, Emily shares all the details of her new business Emily Duncan Sexology launching the 22/11/22. Emily discusses: Being sexual and professional  What services are offered What to expect in a session The prices Another exciting announcement  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Oct 21, 2022 • 13:08

063 Dating with Vaginismus with Zoe

063 Dating with Vaginismus with Zoe

This episode features Zoe a woman in her 20s living with Vaginismus.  Emily and Zoe discuss: What is Vaginismus? Zoe's experience with getting diagnosed Tips for getting a diagnosis Zoe's treatment experience How has Vaginismus impacted dating for Zoe Casual sex and vaginismus  Tips for those who want to date casually with Vaginismus FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy informatio

Oct 19, 2022 • 43:22

062 The development of sexuality industry and letting go of your ego with Victoria Redbard

062 The development of sexuality industry and letting go of your ego with Victoria Redbard

This episode features Victoria Redbard the founder of The Institute of New Paradigm Intimacy. Emily and Victoria discuss: How the sexuality industry is developing When trauma-informed practice meets the cutting edge Letting go of your ego Clinical Sexology compared to the Self-Pleasure Certification FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com The Institute of New Paradigm Intimacy website: https://newparadigmintimacy.com/ Vic

Oct 12, 2022 • 45:08

061 Starting a sex toy company with Lanchi

061 Starting a sex toy company with Lanchi

This episode features Lanchi the founder of Buzz.selflove, discussing starting her own sex toy company. Emily and Lanchi discuss: Why Lanchi decided to create her own sex toys The process of designing sex toys How the people around Lanchi responded to creating her company What is something that is Orgasmic to Lanchi? FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com Lanchi's Website: https://buzzselflove.com/See omnystudio.com/list

Oct 5, 2022 • 23:13

060 How to choose a sex toy with Lanchi

060 How to choose a sex toy with Lanchi

This episode features Lanchi the founder of Buzz.selflove, discussing how to choose your first sex toy. Emily and Lanchi discuss: What makes a good sex toy? Looking at how you use your hand to masturbate to choose a sex toy  Popular first-time sex toys How to clean your sex toy How to store your sex toy FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com Lanchi's website: https://buzzselflove.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for priva

Sep 28, 2022 • 24:20

059 Masturbation for penis owners

059 Masturbation for penis owners

This episode is masturbating tips and tricks for those with a Penis. Emily discusses: Reflecting on how you masturbate How you can change your masturbation practice Different techniques Lube Sex toys Don’t focus on an erection Continuing to pleasure yourself after ejaculation FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Sep 21, 2022 • 18:51

058 Tips and tricks for vulva masturbation

058 Tips and tricks for vulva masturbation

This episode is masturbating tips and tricks for those with vulvas.  Emily discusses: Breathing Pleasure mapping Tips if you like the highest setting on your vibrator How to use masturbation if you struggle to orgasm with a partner   FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Sep 14, 2022 • 18:29

057 A beginner's guide to masturbation for vulva owners

057 A beginner's guide to masturbation for vulva owners

This episode is a beginner’s guide to Masturbation for vulva owners.  Emily discusses: Benefits of masturbation Unpacking the shame attached to masturbation How to get horny Techniques to touch your vulva What sex toy to first use Resources discussed: Dipsea (audio porn): https://www.dipseastories.com/ Bellesa (visual porn): https://www.bellesa.co/  OMG Yes! (Masturbation techniques for vulvas) : https://www.omgyes.com/ FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and sto

Aug 31, 2022 • 22:56

056 How orgasms affect your body

056 How orgasms affect your body

This episode is all about orgasms. Emily discusses: What orgasms are How orgasms affect the brain and neurotransmitters Post-nut clarity  Are there different types of orgasms? Crying after orgasm Orgasm facts See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Aug 17, 2022 • 21:09

055 Help! My libido doesn't match my partners

055 Help! My libido doesn't match my partners

This episode discusses the libido gap and what to do if your sex drive doesn't match your partner's.  Emily discusses:  What is your libido Questions to ask yourself if your libido is different to your partners Spontaneous and responsive desire How to try and match your libidos FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Aug 3, 2022 • 16:42

054 Situationships with Lily

054 Situationships with Lily

This episode is on situationships. Emily and Lily discuss their experiences in situationships: The pros and cons of a situationship Tips and tricks for navigating a situationship FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jul 20, 2022 • 46:16

053 Finding safety and sovereignty in your body after sexual assault with Vanessa Hook - Part 2

053 Finding safety and sovereignty in your body after sexual assault with Vanessa Hook - Part 2

Trigger warning: This episode discusses sexual assault This is part 2 of a 2 part episode featuring Vanessa Hook Emily and Vanessa discuss: How to feel safe in your body again after sexual assault Vanessa's experience with sex after sexual assault Dissociating during sex Tips for grounding yourself Holding shame in your body What needs to change in society  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com Vanessa's Podcast: https:

Jul 7, 2022 • 44:35

052 Finding safety and sovereignty in your body after sexual assault with Vanessa Hook - Part 1

052 Finding safety and sovereignty in your body after sexual assault with Vanessa Hook - Part 1

Trigger warning: This episode discusses sexual assault This is part 1 of a 2 part episode featuring Vanessa Hook. Emily and Vanessa discuss: Vanessa’s experiences of sexual assault How a person's response to your experience can affect your processing How did sexual assault affect Vanessa's mental health and sexuality Accessing support after sexual assault How to support somebody after sexual assault  FOLLOW US on instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan

Jul 7, 2022 • 36:47

051 Explaining Roe VS Wade

051 Explaining Roe VS Wade

Emily discusses the Roe VS. Wade ruling being overturned. It is a quick overview of what this means for people who have a uterus.  If you would like to help please donate to abortion organisations in America. Here is a link to one that will donate to 50 different abortion agencies:  https://secure.actblue.com/donate/genzforchoice FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jun 25, 2022 • 12:59

050 Honouring bisexuality with Mim Kempson

050 Honouring bisexuality with Mim Kempson

This episode explores different ways that bisexual women in monogamous relationships can connect to their sexuality while respecting and honouring their partnership. Featuring Mim Kempson a dating and relationship coach. Emily and Mim discuss: What is a dating and relationship coach? When should you see a relationship coach? Biphobia  Common bisexual myths How can a bisexual woman honour her sexuality with a cis-gendered heterosexual man when polyamory and opening the relationship isn't on the

Jun 1, 2022 • 51:27

049 Using sex for validation

049 Using sex for validation

This episode is all about using sex for validation.  Emily discusses her own experience using sex for validation and how it has impacted her and her relationships. Emily also discusses tips on how to address this issue (although she is only just starting this journey herself).  Tips include: Check in with yourself:  Why do you have sex? How does sex validate you? How does it make you feel? Is it the sex or other things that are attached to sex that make you feel validated? What keeps you in thi

May 18, 2022 • 23:05

048 Children, sexuality and shame with Steph from the Sexual Wellness Club

048 Children, sexuality and shame with Steph from the Sexual Wellness Club

This episode features Steph from The Sexual Wellness Club. Emily and Steph discuss experiencing pleasure and exploring your sexuality before puberty.  Key points: Children exploring their bodies Finding porn as children Exploring our bodies and pleasure with friends Emily’s experience sexting at a young age Navigating sexuality with children FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com Steph's Instagram: @sexualwellnessclubSee

May 4, 2022 • 43:28

047 Fake it till you make it with Chiara French

047 Fake it till you make it with Chiara French

This episode features Chiara French discussing confidence.  Key points: What does confidence mean to Chiara What helped both Chiara and Emily become confident  Confidence in different environments such as the workplace Drug and alcohol use Dating and body confidence How to practice affirmations in the mirror See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Apr 20, 2022 • 37:41

046 How to have the best sex of your life with Laura Ellen - Part 2

046 How to have the best sex of your life with Laura Ellen - Part 2

This episode features Laura Ellen who is a sex, love & relationship coach on a mission to empower & equip women to have the best sex of their lives through feminine well-being, sensual leadership and a (very) sexy dose of sexy self-care.  Emily and Laura discuss:  How to start working through sexual shame How to have the best casual sex of your life What to do if the sex in your relationship isn't what you want anymore FOLLOW US on instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stor

Apr 13, 2022 • 26:23

045 How to have the best sex of your life with Laura Ellen - Part 1

045 How to have the best sex of your life with Laura Ellen - Part 1

This episode features Laura Ellen who is a sex, love & relationship coach on a mission to empower & equip women to have the best sex of their lives through feminine well-being, sensual leadership and a (very) sexy dose of sexy self-care.  Emily and Laura discuss:  How women can have the best sex of their lives Pleasure based living and how we can implement it Sexy self-care FOLLOW US on instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com Laura El

Apr 6, 2022 • 28:07

044 Third times a charm

044 Third times a charm

The third season is finally here!!! Emily delves into the hot and not so hot sex she has been having since the last season in December. Emily also discusses the STI Chlamydia, internalised shame surrounding a Chlamydia diagnosis and the issue with trying to blame somebody when contracting the STI. FOLLOW US on instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Mar 30, 2022 • 25:25

043 Heres to another year of shagging

043 Heres to another year of shagging

We are finishing off the year reflecting on how the past year has been. Emily discusses the Sex Resolutions she set in the first episode of 2021 and how they went. Emily also discusses her mental health and partying.  FOLLOW US on instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dec 22, 2021 • 20:40

042 How to care for your vulva with Dr. Nicole Williams

042 How to care for your vulva with Dr. Nicole Williams

This episode features Dr. Nicole Williams a Gynaecologist from Chicago. Emily and Dr. Williams talk all about how to care for your Vulva.  Emily and Dr. Williams discuss: Common myths and misconceptions attached to caring for your vulva Feminine Hygiene washes Douching Pubic Hair The 3 things you need to care for your Vulva What to look out for in case something isn’t quite right Dr. Williams Website: https://www.gynecologyinstitute.com/about-us Dr. Williams book: https://www.amazon.com/This-H

Dec 15, 2021 • 26:50

041 A Transgender journey with Kai - Part 3

041 A Transgender journey with Kai - Part 3

Kai shares his journey of transitioning as a Transgender man. He has been on Hormone Replacement Therapy for 1 year. Emily and Kai discuss: Physical changes since they last spoke Top Surgery  Violence as a man How he is now treated as a man compared to when presenting as a woman Bathrooms FOLLOW US on instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thesealedsextion.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dec 8, 2021 • 38:47

040 Fertility Awareness with Madeleine

040 Fertility Awareness with Madeleine

This episode features Madeleine from KnowHQ discussing Fertility Awareness.  Emily and Madeleine discuss: What is Fertility Awareness? How can we practice it? (Cervical Mucus & Temperature) Madeleine's journey with hormonal contraception to Fertility Awareness Can I have penetrative heterosexual sex in my fertile window? Are tracking apps effective? FOLLOW US on instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com Madeleine's Instagram: https://ww

Dec 1, 2021 • 30:15

039 What the fuck am I doing

039 What the fuck am I doing

This episode is all about experiencing shame as a sex positive person. Emily discusses her recent holiday and how she realised how much shame she has attached to the podcast, her sexuality and her future career.  FOLLOW US on instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Nov 24, 2021 • 16:22

038 Bisexuality, breakups and dating sex positive people with Lily

038 Bisexuality, breakups and dating sex positive people with Lily

This episode features Lily who has a Sex Positive instagram Cherry Bomb (https://www.instagram.com/69cherry.bomb69/)  Emily and Lily discuss: Bisexuality and their own journey's with understanding their sexuality Having sex with women for the first time Sex and casual dating after a long-term relationship Normalising missing your ex Body count Feeling guilt when trying new things (especially when your family might not approve) Dating sex positive people (fairies) Sex parties Phone sex FOLLOW U

Nov 17, 2021 • 41:37

037 How to manage Endometriosis through your diet with Christie Lee

037 How to manage Endometriosis through your diet with Christie Lee

This episode features Christie Lee Austin-Hore who is an Accredited PractisingDietitian with dual specialisation in women’s health and IBS nutrition. This episode is all about managing Endometriosis and IBS with a Dietitian.  Emily and Christie discuss: What is Endometriosis? How does our diet affect Endometriosis? How can a Dietitian help? Are there certain foods that commonly poorly interact with Endometriosis? Diet tips for uncomfortable symptoms during your period.  Should we change our die

Nov 10, 2021 • 41:17

036 Religion, masturbation and radical honesty with Jocelyn Silva

036 Religion, masturbation and radical honesty with Jocelyn Silva

This episode features Jocelyn Silva a Sexual Empowerment Coach. Jocelyn and Emily discuss: Religion and sex (with a focus on Catholicism) How religion impacted Jocelyn’s sexuality and sexual experiences How to reduce sexual shame Common issues that interfere with pleasure How to get comfortable with masturbation Spontaneous VS responsive arousal Radical Honesty: What is it? How do we practice this? How do we help the people around us understand this? How to discover what you enjoy sexually Ins

Nov 3, 2021 • 50:26

035 Dating with anxiety and depression with Jess and Sav from Learnt My Lesson

035 Dating with anxiety and depression with Jess and Sav from Learnt My Lesson

This episode features Jess and Savanna from Learnt My Lesson Podcast. We talk all about the ins and outs of dating and relationships when you experience Anxiety and Depression. Jess and Emily discuss their experiences with Anxiety and Sav discusses her experiences with Anxiety and Depression.  Topics include: Why Jess and Sav started Learnt My Lesson Podcast How has their journey been with their mental health How has their mental health impacted their relationships and dating How Emily's mental

Oct 27, 2021 • 49:31

034 It's time to talk

034 It's time to talk

Trigger Warning: This episode discusses mental health, disordered eating and perceptions of our bodies. In this episode Emily opens up about her experiences with her mental health. The first half is recorded back in June of 2021 when Emily was really struggling and had just asked for help. Emily then checks back in and discusses how she now feels and the process of beginning Therapy. Emily discusses: Her negative perceptions of mental health and her internalised shame Her mental health in June

Oct 13, 2021 • 34:29

033 Contraception with Karen Freilich

033 Contraception with Karen Freilich

This episode is all about contraception. Emily is joined by GP Registrar Karen Freilich to answer all of your contraception questions.   Topics discussed include: Is there such thing as 'natural' contraception? What are Fertility Awareness Methods? What is the Billings method? The contraceptive pill, Implanon, IUD (Hormonal and Copper), The Depo Provera Shot, Vasectomy and condoms  Can I skip my period on the pill? Do I even need my period? Are there long-term side effects from taking hormonal

Oct 6, 2021 • 46:22

032 Let's talk cocks with Kristopher Lovestone

032 Let's talk cocks with Kristopher Lovestone

Todays episode is all about men, specifically men who engage in heterosexual relationships. Emily is joined by Kristopher Lovestone a Sex Educator and Intimacy Coach. They discuss: The biggest issue Kris sees in relationships Low sexual desire Celibacy  Penis size insecurity How men can discuss their sexual desires with their partner What is a conscious cock? How to use a vibrator on your cock FOLLOW US on instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thesea

Sep 29, 2021 • 40:57

031 Polyamory with Manu

031 Polyamory with Manu

This episode delves into all things Polyamory. What is Polyamory? Are there different types? How do I practice Polyamory? What if I am in a Monogamous relationship and want to explore Polyamory? Aren't Polyamorous people just cheaters? Do Polyamorous people hate Monogamy? All of these questions are discussed by Emily with the help of Manu who identifies as a Solo Polyamorist. Manu shares her own experiences and how she discovered Polyamory. Manu has an instagram page @polyamory_awareness dedicat

Sep 22, 2021 • 46:06

030 The big O with Dr. Laurie Mintz

030 The big O with Dr. Laurie Mintz

ORGASMS are the focus in todays episode, especially vulva owners orgasms. Dr. Laurie Mintz joins the host Emily to discuss: What is an orgasm? Are there different types of orgasms? How do we reach an orgasm? What is the orgasm gap? How can we close it? When should I seek help if I am concerned that I cannot orgasm? Dr. Laurie Mintz's website: https://www.drlauriemintz.com/ Dr. Laurie Mintz's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlauriemintz/  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy informatio

Sep 15, 2021 • 34:33

029 Periods, body confidence & slut shaming with Chiara French

029 Periods, body confidence & slut shaming with Chiara French

This episode features Chiara French. Chiara French promotes sex education and positivity on her Instagram @sexwithchi  Chi and Emily discuss all things periods, body positivity and social media, body hair, slut shaming and sex education in School. Chi loves to talk about periods and debunk the shame that is attached to periods. Unfortunately for too many uterus owners there is shame and unpleasant experiences that come with their periods. This conversation hopes to help more people feel comforta

Sep 8, 2021 • 48:12

028 Pash rash and pocket pussies

028 Pash rash and pocket pussies

The first episode of Season 2 delves into why the podcast has rebranded, as well as, an update on Emily's sex life. Emily discusses two stories, one in which she reached multiple new lows and was used as a pocket pussy and the second where she had one nasty case of pash rash (yes it's a real thing).    FOLLOW US on instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thesealedsextion.com  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Sep 1, 2021 • 24:22

027 Men, from performance to pleasure with Cam Fraser

027 Men, from performance to pleasure with Cam Fraser

This episode features Cam Fraser. Cam is a Certified Professional Sex Coach, Certified Sexologist, Registered Counselor, and Registered Tantric Yoga Teacher. His work integrates scientifically validated, medically accurate information about sexual health, with sacred sexuality teachings from the mystery traditions. As a coach, he helps men go beyond surface-level sex and into full-bodied, self-expressed, pleasure-oriented sexual experiences free of anxiety or shame.Emily and Cam discuss:- Cam's

Jun 2, 2021 • 57:00

026 How to become the school slut in 1 second

026 How to become the school slut in 1 second

This episode talks all about nudes. What not to do and how to take a sexy pic. Emily delves into her own experiences taking nudes and how taking one in her early teens left her with a whole lot of trauma. Emily discusses why it is important for those under 18 to not take naked pics and the consequences it can have. Emily then talks about how to take a sexy nude and provides some hot tips. We love nudes, however, we don't love unsolicited dick pics, or any unsolicited nudes for that matter. Pleas

May 19, 2021 • 32:50

025 Dating life of a dirty sex podcaster

025 Dating life of a dirty sex podcaster

Emily goes solo on this episode and celebrates 6 months of The Sealed SEXtion. Emily discusses how amazing this journey has been so far as well as the challenges she has faced. Emily discusses how having a sex podcast results in being instantly sexualised. They instantly ask and assume things about her sex life, assuming she has a whole lot of sex with a whole heap of different people (she wishes lol).  Emily also discusses dating and how terrible she is at goodbyes. She delves into her recent f

May 5, 2021 • 33:54

024 The Lady Physio with Chloe Burger

024 The Lady Physio with Chloe Burger

Chloe Burger features in this episode. Chloe is the founder of 'The Lady Physio & Pilates' in Port Fairy and is a Women's Health Physiotherapist. Topics Emily and Chloe discuss: What women's health physiotherapy is  Pelvic floors Pelvic floor exercises Vulvodynia Vaginismus Endometriosis PCOS Bladder pain/chronic UTIs Pelvic floor dysfunction and hypertonicity Incontinence Conditions that can affect those who have given birth Prolapse Birth trauma/injury  Post childbirth changes such as hormon

Apr 21, 2021 • 1:31:05

023 Life with Herpes featuring Laura Chakir

023 Life with Herpes featuring Laura Chakir

Laura Chakir features on this episode. Genital Herpes is the topic discussed within this episode. Laura Chakir has HSV1 on her genitals and discusses with Emily the impact that this has had on her life. Topics discussed:- What is Herpes?- The experience of being diagnosed- The signs and symptoms of Genital Herpes- The stigma of Herpes- Dating with Herpes- Treating Herpes- Testing for Herpes-Overcoming the stigma of HerpesFOLLOW US on instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stor

Apr 7, 2021 • 43:54

022 Living with sexual trauma, toxic relationships and embracing your sexuality with Amber-Shenae Daley - Part 2

022 Living with sexual trauma, toxic relationships and embracing your sexuality with Amber-Shenae Daley - Part 2

Amber-Shenae Daley features on this episode.*Trigger Warning* Domestic violence, sexual assault, sexual harassment and rape are discussed in this episode. Amber shares her own personal story of past domestic violent and toxic relationships. Amber also opens up about her own sexual traumas and the effect that the trauma has had on her life.In part 2 Emily and Amber discuss:- Ghosting- Sexual triggers- The concept of 'Daddy Issues'- Identifying red flags in other people- How to support someone wit

Mar 24, 2021 • 1:10:24

021 Living with sexual trauma, toxic relationships and embracing your sexuality with Amber-Shenae Daley - Part 1

021 Living with sexual trauma, toxic relationships and embracing your sexuality with Amber-Shenae Daley - Part 1

Amber-Shenae Daley features on this episode.*Trigger Warning* Domestic violence, sexual assault, sexual harassment and rape are discussed in this episode. Amber shares her own personal story of past domestic violent and toxic relationships. Amber also opens up about her own sexual traumas and the effect that the trauma has had on her life.In part 1 Emily and Amber discuss:- Domestic violence and Amber's experiences with DV relationships- How Amber used Sex Work as a tool to help heal herself aft

Mar 17, 2021 • 1:03:38

020 A transgender journey with Kai - Part 2

020 A transgender journey with Kai - Part 2

Kai, a transgender man, features on this episode. Kai shares his journey of transitioning. He has been on Hormone Replacement Therapy for four and a half months. Topics discussed:- How is his mental health and how has HRT affected it- What physical and mental changes has he experienced- What is Passing and how has he experienced it?- How is now perceived compared to when he identified as a woman?FOLLOW US on instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thesea

Mar 10, 2021 • 33:35

019 Swinging and Hotwifing with Cate from Wanderlust Swingers (Swinging Down Under) Podcast

019 Swinging and Hotwifing with Cate from Wanderlust Swingers (Swinging Down Under) Podcast

Cate from Wanderlust Swingers (Formerly known as Swinging Down Under) Podcast features on this episode. Emily and Cate discuss all things Swinging, Hotwifing and Ethical Non-Monogamy.Topics discussed include:- What is Swinging and Hotwifing- How Cate and Darrell came across this lifestyle- What does Cate love about this alternative relationship- What does Cate not love about alternative relationships- Swinging Clubs- Boundaries- How their relationship has been perceived - How ethical non-monogam

Mar 4, 2021 • 43:32

018 Consent, discrimination and decriminalisation of the Adult Industry with Charlie

018 Consent, discrimination and decriminalisation of the Adult Industry with Charlie

Charlie features on this episode.Emily and Charlie discuss various topics including:- Why Charlie entered the Adult Industry- What qualities help when entering the industry- The experience of coming out and showing her face publicly within the industry- Discrimination from corporate businesses - Safe sex- Consent- The Porn Industry - Rights of Sex Workers- Decriminalisation of Sex Work FOLLOW US on instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thesealedsextion

Feb 24, 2021 • 51:09

017 The ins and outs of arsing around with Miss Honey Analverkehr

017 The ins and outs of arsing around with Miss Honey Analverkehr

Miss Honey Analverkehr features on this episode. Emily and Miss Honey Analverkehr discuss all things butt stuff. Topics Discussed:- How Miss Honey Analverkehr got into the adult industry- How to approach arse play- Tips for prep- Different ways to approach butt stuff- What not to do- What to do if something doesn't go to plan- Clean up- Tips for arse play while giving a blowjob- How to approach anal training FOLLOW US on instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emily

Feb 3, 2021 • 58:35

016 Tinder Tuesdays - The boss

016 Tinder Tuesdays - The boss

This Tinder Tuesday episode discusses car sex. Tinder Tuesdays on The Sealed SEXtion, bringing you the funniest, juiciest and most scandalous Tinder hookups. FOLLOW US on instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and Tinder stories to: emilyduncan@thesealedsextion.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Feb 1, 2021 • 12:33

015 From Stripping to Porn to Full Service Sex Work with Lea Nights - Part 2

015 From Stripping to Porn to Full Service Sex Work with Lea Nights - Part 2

This is part 2 of 2 parts.Lea Nights features on this episode. Emily and Lea discuss the Sex Industry and what it means to be a Sex Worker. Topics discussed:- Female clients- Outcalls and why Lea does not like outcalls- Boundaries as a Sex Worker- Weird requests while working in a Brothel- Dating as a Sex Worker- Decriminalisation FOLLOW US on instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thesealedsextion.comLea Nights social media:Instagram:https://www.instag

Jan 27, 2021 • 50:47

014 From Stripping to Porn to Full Service Sex Work with Lea Nights - Part 1

014 From Stripping to Porn to Full Service Sex Work with Lea Nights - Part 1

This is part 1 of 2 parts.Lea Nights features on this episode. Emily and Lea discuss the Sex Industry and what it means to be a Sex Worker. Topics discussed:- How Lea got into sex work- Lea's experiences Stripping and how it impact her schooling- Lea's experiences in Porn- Lea's experiences in Full Service Sex Work- How working Brothels compares to going on tour- Dealing with shitty potential (actually totally not potential) clients- Groups of young males in BrothelsFOLLOW US on instagram @thats

Jan 20, 2021 • 46:23

013 Tinder Tuesdays - 2021, can it get any worse?

013 Tinder Tuesdays - 2021, can it get any worse?

This episode delves all into the risks of Tinder. Emily recently experienced a Tinder hookup that resulted in her finding out something that horrified her. Emily talks about how we can implement safety measures to try and avoid a situation like hers. Emily also discusses a Tinder story sent in from a listener that portrays a different side to one of the issues raised. Tinder Tuesdays on The Sealed SEXtion, bringing you the funniest, juiciest and most scandalous Tinder hookups. FOLLOW US on insta

Jan 18, 2021 • 32:53

012 Sex toys, measuring cocks and labelling gender with Elliana Pantazis

012 Sex toys, measuring cocks and labelling gender with Elliana Pantazis

Elliana Pantazis features on this episode. Emily and Elliana talk about everything Adult Stores and sex toys. Elliana has been working in an Adult Store for 5 years and creates content on Tik Tok that provides a humorous insight into working in a sex shop.Emily and Elliana discuss:- How Elliana began working at an Adult Store- What Elliana knew about sex before getting the job- How her friends and family responded  to her new career choice- Strange requests in store such as Cock Ring measurement

Jan 13, 2021 • 1:03:37

011 Make it Reign, an insight into the life of a Stripper with Reign Renoylds

011 Make it Reign, an insight into the life of a Stripper with Reign Renoylds

Reign Renoylds features on this episode. Reign is a Stripper form Brisbane, Australia. Reign and Emily discuss all things Stripping and Only Fans. Topics discussed:- How Reign got into Stripping- Reign's Only Fans - Reign delves into her experiences, good and bad, at work- Misconceptions and negative stigmas attached to Stripping- The physical and mental toll of Stripping- How to be a good customer at the Strip Club- How much money a Stripper makes- Periods Trigger Warning: sexual assault at the

Jan 6, 2021 • 1:21:58

010 A very kinky Christmas

010 A very kinky Christmas

Emily is joined by Vanessa and Nicole to talk all things sex and Christmas. They discuss Grinch Porn, Christmas lingerie, Santaphillia and more. Reddit reference link:https://www.reddit.com/r/IAmA/comments/er3a3/i_was_a_shopping_mall_santa_and_ill_bet_you_never/ FOLLOW US on instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thesealedsextion.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dec 23, 2020 • 27:17

009 Tinder Tuesdays - Always go the chick

009 Tinder Tuesdays - Always go the chick

Tinder Tuesdays on The Sealed SEXtion, bringing you the funniest, juiciest and most scandalous Tinder hookups. Emily discusses one of her own Tinder hookups that got very messy very quickly. Long story short, always go the chick.FOLLOW US on instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and Tinder stories to: emilyduncan@thesealedsextion.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dec 21, 2020 • 16:21

008 Orgasms, Sexting and Starfishing with Steph from the Sexual Wellness Club

008 Orgasms, Sexting and Starfishing with Steph from the Sexual Wellness Club

Steph from the Sexual Wellness Club features on this episode. Emily and Steph talk about all things pleasure, the female orgasm, virginity, consent, 'starfishing', sexting and more. Steph is studying in the hopes to become a Sexologist and has an instagram page "Sexual Wellness Club" aimed at de-stigmatising sex. Trigger warning: sexual coercion and consent Stephs instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sexualwellnessclub/FOLLOW US on instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and storie

Dec 16, 2020 • 56:05

007 Tinder Tuesdays - Blood Brothers

007 Tinder Tuesdays - Blood Brothers

Tinder Tuesdays on The Sealed SEXtion, bringing you the funniest, juiciest and most scandalous Tinder hookups. This week a listeners Tinder story sparks a conversation all about period sex. FOLLOW US on instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and Tinder stories to: emilyduncan@thesealedsextion.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dec 14, 2020 • 14:36

006 - Thriving with HIV featuring Sarah Feagan

006 - Thriving with HIV featuring Sarah Feagan

Sarah Feagan features in this episode. Sarah delves into her experiences being HIV positive and the dark path she took after her diagnosis. Sarah has come out the other side and is now a leader and advocate within the HIV community. Emily and Sarah discuss various issues such as pleasure, how HIV changed Sarah's sexual experiences and also advice for those who are newly diagnosed. Trigger Warning: Attempted suicide FOLLOW US on instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to

Dec 9, 2020 • 33:01

005 Tinder Tuesdays - shits and chicks

005 Tinder Tuesdays - shits and chicks

Tinder Tuesdays on The Sealed SEXtion, bringing you the funniest, juiciest and most scandalous Tinder hookups. Emily talks about shooting your shot and has a listener talk about how his tinder date came to a stop.FOLLOW US on instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and Tinder stories to: emilyduncan@thesealedsextion.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dec 7, 2020 • 15:35

004  A transgender journey with Kai - Part 1

004 A transgender journey with Kai - Part 1

Kai a transgender man, features on this episode. Kai shares his experiences with gender identity and sexuality.  Biological sex, gender identity, gender expression, cisgender, transgender, non-binary, agender, intersex and pronouns are all defined and explained. Kai shares his experiences with the first 6 weeks of Hormone Replacement Therapy. Kai also discusses how to talk to people about their gender and how to be active supporters of the trans community. FOLLOW US on instagram @thatsorgasmicSe

Dec 2, 2020 • 52:06

Tinder Tuesdays - 002 - Threesomes

Tinder Tuesdays - 002 - Threesomes

Tinder Tuesdays on The Sealed SEXtion bring you the funniest, juiciest and most scandalous Tinder hookups. A listener features on the podcast to share their Tinder story. They talk about a threesome that they experienced from a Tinder hookup. FOLLOW US on instagram @thesealedsextionSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thesealedsextion.com

Nov 30, 2020 • 0:00

003 Talking dirty with Mum

003 Talking dirty with Mum

Emily speaks with her Mother Yvonne.  Yvonne discusses how her marriage has evolved over 25 years. Topics such as having sex with endometriosis to the culture of sex in Europe in the 90's are discussed. FOLLOW US on instagram @thesealedsextionSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thesealedsextion.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Nov 25, 2020 • 49:27

002 Tinder Tuesdays - The Girlfriend

002 Tinder Tuesdays - The Girlfriend

Tinder Tuesdays on The Sealed SEXtion, bringing you the funniest, juiciest and most scandalous Tinder hookups.  FOLLOW US on instagram @thatsorgasmic Send your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thesealedsextion.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Nov 23, 2020 • 17:23

001 Chlamydia & PID

001 Chlamydia & PID

Emily delves into her own experiences with Chlamydia and Pelvic Inflammatory Disease. Emily covers how she coped with these experiences and what she learned along the way.Resources used:https://www.healthdirect.gov.au/chlamydiahttps://www.healthdirect.gov.au/pelvic-inflammatory-diseaseFOLLOW US on instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thesealedsextion.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Nov 18, 2020 • 31:35

000 The Introduction

000 The Introduction

An introductory episode, explaining what The Sealed SEXtion is and what it hopes to achieve. This episode also delves into the background of the host Emily Duncan.  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Nov 14, 2020 • 4:49

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