Gayish Podcast
Gayish Media
Featured in Buzzfeed, Oprah Magazine, Esquire, and Queerty, Gayish is an award-nominated podcast that breaks down one gay stereotype each week. Mike and Kyle bring humor, honesty, and irreverence to topics like the hanky code, depression, and open relationships.
Past guests have included Jinkx Monsoon, YouTuber Davey Wavey, gay porn star Calvin Banks, disability activist Andrew Gurza, a gay priest, a trans atheist, and Mike’s wildly supportive mom.
Gayish: 426 Rome
…if you want to. In this Patreon-requested episode, Mike and Kyle talk about the history of Rome, ancient Roman words that mean gay, Roman emperors, and Vatican City, all to uncover just how gay Rome really is.
In this episode: News- 3:44 || Main Topic (Rome)- 15:14 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:11:14
Buy our book, You’re Probably Gayish, available right now at www.gayishpodcast.com/book! Each chapter dissects one gay stereotype ranging from drugs to gaydar to iced coffee. At that same link, you ca
Gayish: 425 Meth
Oh, what a meth we’ve made. Kyle gets personal as he and Mike talk about meth use within the gay community.
In this episode: News- 9:46 || Main Topic (Meth)- 20:29 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:17:56
Buy our book, You’re Probably Gayish, available right now at www.gayishpodcast.com/book! Each chapter dissects one gay stereotype ranging from drugs to gaydar to iced coffee. At that same link, you can see our full 2025 live show tour schedule!
On the Patreon bonus segment, Kyle shares with Mike answer
Gayish: 424 Barbra Streisand
As Duck Sauce said…. mmm cha mmm cha mmm cha mmm… Barbra Streisand.
In this episode: News- 2:41 || Main Topic (Barbra Streisand)- 14:00 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:05:56
Buy our book, You’re Probably Gayish, available right now at www.gayishpodcast.com/book! Each chapter dissects one gay stereotype ranging from drugs to gaydar to iced coffee. At that same link, you can see our full 2025 live show tour schedule!
On the Patreon bonus segment, Kyle shares with Mike more info on the Streisand effect.
Gayish: 423 Dieting
There are heavy (or light) expectations placed on gay men’s bodies, and dieting is one of the ways we use to strive towards our goals. But is it healthy? Mike and Kyle talk about their experiences with dieting and body image.
In this episode: News- 3:52 || Main Topic (Dieting)- 15:57 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:12:41
Buy our book, You’re Probably Gayish, right now at www.gayishpodcast.com/book! Each chapter dissects one gay stereotype ranging from drugs to gaydar to iced coffee. At that same link
Gayish: 422 Books
What’s the first gay book? What’s the latest on gay book bans? Which books pass the Vito Russo test? All this, plus a heavy amount of self-promotion, are covered on this episode on books. (There are some audio issues on Kyle’s side, but not too much to make it unlistenable. Sorry in advance.)
In this episode: News- 3:43 || Main Topic (Books)- 20:15 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:17:33
Pre-order our book, You’re Probably Gayish, right now at www.gayishpodcast.com/book! Each chapter dissects one gay s
Gayish: 421 Sniffies
Sniffies has emerged as a major competitor to Grindr, but what is it all about? Where did the name Sniffies come from? What’s the difference between Sniffies and Grindr, Scruff, and other platforms? Mike and Kyle sniff out the fun and talk about their experiences with Sniffies.
In this episode: News- 3:33 || Main Topic (Sniffies)- 19:09 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:20:45
Pre-order our book, You’re Probably Gayish, right now at www.gayishpodcast.com/book! Each chapter dissects one gay stereotyp
Gayish: 420 Two-Spirit (w/ Rebecca Nagle)
What does “two-spirit” mean? Two-spirit guest Rebecca Nagle joins us to talk about her experience, the Cherokee language, coming out, and more.
In this episode: News- 6:21 || Main Topic (Two-Spirit)- 17:58 || Guest (Rebecca Nagle)- 21:32 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:01:06
To get more from Rebecca Nagle, listen to her podcast This Land and read her book By The Fire We Carry. You can also follow on X, BlueSky, or Instagram @rebeccanagle.
Pre-order our book, You’re Probably Gayish, right now at www.g
Gayish: 419 Walking Fast
The idea that gays walk fast came around as part of a new wave of gay stereotypes. But is it really new? Mike and Kyle dig into the history, the walking speeds, Reddit, and even the Olympics to figure out where this stereotype came from.
In this episode: News- 2:14 || Main Topic (Walking Fast)- 13:05 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:00:15
Pre-order our book, You’re Probably Gayish, right now at www.gayishpodcast.com/book! Each chapter dissects one gay stereotype ranging from drugs to gaydar to iced co
Gayish: 418 Roller Derby
How lesbionic is roller derby? We’ve got the gayta to quantify it. Mike John-stun and Kyle Getz-her are ‘bout to circle the track with this jam.
In this episode: News- 2:23 || Main Topic (Roller Derby)- 14:37 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:08:30
Pre-order our book, You’re Probably Gayish, right now at www.gayishpodcast.com/book! Each chapter dissects one gay stereotype ranging from drugs to gaydar to iced coffee.
On the Patreon bonus segment, Mike talks about Roller Derby: The Musical. If you want t
Gayish: 417 Misogyny
Is the gay community misogynistic? All the way back to Adam and Eve, women have been treated as if they’re the reason for the downfall of society. Mike and Kyle talk about gay men’s relationship with misogyny, the path from misogyny to homophobia, misogyny on Urban Dictionary, drag queens, and incels. Plus, Mike announces the winner of the Dickbag Fuckface Asshole Award for 2024.
In this episode: News- 4:44 || Main Topic (Misogyny)- 18:42 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:23:40
Pre-order our book, You’
Gayish: 416 Blacksmiths
Blacksmiths are kinda hot, right? But are they gay, too? Mike and Kyle delve into Urban Dictionary, InclusiveBlacksmiths.com, The Simpsons, Reddit, and more to try to find the answer.
In this episode: News- 2:34 || Main Topic (Blacksmiths)- 13:53 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:01:52
Pre-order our book, You’re Probably Gayish, right now at www.gayishpodcast.com/book! Each chapter dissects one gay stereotype ranging from drugs to gaydar to iced coffee.
On the Patreon bonus segment, Mike talks about a
Gayish: 415 Interior Decorating
Gays are supposed to be experts at interior decorating, but does that stereotype hold true for everyone? Is it a helpful stereotype because it’s a positive one? Mike and Kyle break down their own failures as gay men given their lack of skill in the interior decorating department.
In this episode: News- 9:48 || Main Topic (Interior Decorating)- 17:58 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:07:36
Pre-order our book, You’re Probably Gayish, right now at www.gayishpodcast.com/book! Each chapter dissects one gay
Gayish: 414 Humanism (w/ Sarah Ray)
What even is humanism? Along with guest co-host Sarah Ray, Kyle defines humanism, and then talks about its gay history, its overlap with religion, the gayta, and humanism’s support for LGBT people.
In this episode: News- 1:43 || Main Topic (Humanism)- 14:06 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:07:35
Learn more about Sarah Ray at callmesarah.com, and take a listen to Humanist Trek (humanisttrek.com) on your favorite podcatcher.
Pre-order our book, You’re Probably Gayish, right now at www.gayishpodcast.com/
Gayish: 413 Japan
Producer Derek joins as a guest co-host to talk with Kyle about the (gay) history of Japan, LGBT acceptance in Japan, geishas, gay Japanese dating show The Boyfriend, and more!
In this episode: News- 2:33 || Main Topic (Japan)- 13:07 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:03:17
Pre-order our book, You’re Probably Gayish, right now at www.gayishpodcast.com/book! Each chapter dissects one gay stereotype ranging from drugs to gaydar to iced coffee.
On the Patreon bonus segment, Derek shares some of the customs
Gayish: 412 Funerals
This episode is to die for! Mike and Kyle talk about the gayest funeral traditions, gay people’s experience with funerals and bereavement, funerals during AIDS, our personal funeral wishes, and Elton John. Lots about Elton John.
In this episode: News- 2:38 || Main Topic (Funerals)- 12:26 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:03:17
Pre-order our book, You’re Probably Gayish, right now at www.gayishpodcast.com/book! Each chapter dissects one gay stereotype ranging from drugs to gaydar to iced coffee.
On the
Gayish: 411 Crochet (w/ Crochet Me Zaddy)
Zac Doar, aka Crochet Me Zaddy, joins us to talk about his experience crafting as a male in a female-dominated space, how his gay identity plays into crochet, and what he loves about crochet.
In this episode: News- 3:14 || Main Topic (Crochet)- 15:54 || Guest (Zac Doar)- 18:32 || Gayest & Straightest- 56:00
On the Patreon bonus segment, Kyle and Mike discuss an Ask Reddit where a straight 18-year-old guy decides he wants to crochet. If you want to support our show while getting ad-free episodes
Gayish: 410 Vampires
Vampires. So gay? So gay. Mike and Kyle talk about Bram Stoker's Dracula, Interview with a Vampire, Anne Rice, and True Blood. Technically, we also talk about Buffy the Vampire Slayer, What We Do in the Shadows, The Lost Boys, Carmilla, and Vampire Weekend.
In this episode: News- 5:00 || Main Topic (Vampires)- 19:14 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:11:34
On the Patreon bonus segment, Kyle and Mike delve into more reasons vampires are gay. If you want to support our show while getting ad-free episodes
Gayish: 409 Rugby
Hookers and thighs, it’s rugby time! Mike and Kyle talk about the history of rugby, homophobia in sports, the Israel Folau incident, and alllll the different positions.
In this episode: News- 2:08 || Main Topic (Rugby)- 13:43 || Gayest & Straightest- 58:28
On the Patreon bonus segment, Kyle tells Mike about first openly gay professional rugby player. If you want to support our show while getting ad-free episodes a day early, go to www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 408 Conversion Therapy
Conversion “therapy” is the disproven practice of attempting to make a gay person straight (or a trans person cis) through a variety of potential means. Mike and Kyle talk about the history of conversion therapy, the studies showing the negative health impacts of conversion therapy, ex-gay ministries, survivors’ stories, and more.
In this episode: News- 5:28 || Main Topic (Conversion Therapy)- 18:54 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:12:39
On the Patreon bonus segment, Kyle asks Mike some thought-provok
Gayish: 407 Pennsylvania (w/ Brian Sims)
Former Pennsylvania State Rep. Brian Sims joins us to talk about the importance of Pennsylvania in the upcoming presidential election.
In this episode: News- 2:39 || Main Topic (Pennsylvania)- 13:14 || Guest (Brian Sims)- 19:42 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:09:05
On the Patreon bonus segment, Kyle and Derek share LGBT facts about Pennsylvania with each other. If you want to support our show while getting ad-free episodes a day early, go to www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 406 Candy
What is the gayest candy? Is candy gay? Are Mike & Ike a couple? Mike and Kyle tackle these any many more hard-hitting questions on this episode candy.
In this episode: News- 2:39 || Main Topic (Candy)- 11:07 || Gayest & Straightest- 57:24
On the Patreon bonus segment, Mike and Kyle eat some candy while talking about Strangers with Candy. If you want to support our show while getting ad-free episodes a day early, go to www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 405 Gin
Mike and Kyle talk about one of the more disgusting of the alcohols: gin. Is it gay? Is it straight? We look at the history, the gayta, and the internet to try to figure it out.
In this episode: News- 3:18 || Main Topic (Gin)- 13:48 || Gayest & Straightest- 56:59
On the Patreon bonus segment, Mike instructs Kyle on how to make a gin drink, and Kyle decides if it makes him reconsider his stance on gin. If you want to support our show while getting ad-free episodes a day early, go to www.patreon.c
Gayish: 404 Kamala Harris
Mike and Kyle finally announce the official Gayish endorsement for President of the United States for the 2024 election.
In this episode: News- 3:50 || Main Topic (Kamala Harris)- 14:03 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:10:17
On the Patreon bonus segment, Mike and Kyle talk about whether they think the US is ready for a gay president. If you want to support our show while getting ad-free episodes a day early, go to www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 403 Orgasms
Mike and Kyle talk about the thing that gives you the feeling of “ahh” when you jerk off.
In this episode: News- 2:16 || Main Topic (Orgasms)- 13:08 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:08:06
On the Patreon bonus segment, we share tips on how to have better orgasms and how to fake orgasms better. If you want to support our show while getting ad-free episodes a day early, go to www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 402 Queer Youth (w/ Jorge Valencia)
Jorge Valencia, the Executive Director and CEO of Point Foundation, joins us to talk about his experience as a queer youth, working with queer youth, and his unique insights on queer youth.
Learn more about the Point Foundation at PointFoundation.org.
In this episode: News- 2:05 || Main Topic (Queer Youth)- 13:03 || Guest (Jorge Valencia)- 14:56 || Gayest & Straightest- 54:10
On the Patreon bonus segment, Mike and Kyle get personal while talking about their own queer youth. If you want to suppo
Gayish: 401 Steroids
We’re here to pump you up! Mike and Kyle talk about whether steroids are gay, whether they came from gays, and if they make you gay.
In this episode: News- 3:42 || Main Topic (Steroids)- 11:49 || Gayest & Straightest- 56:59
On the Patreon bonus segment, Kyle shares another Ask Reddit with Mike to figure out just how pervasive steroids are in the gay community. If you want to support our show while getting ad-free episodes a day early, go to www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 400 Fantastic 400 Q&A
To celebrate our 400th episode, we livestreamed our Q&A episode, and we were joined by Fucking Dan and our producer Derek. It’s a Fantastic 400!
In this episode: News- 2:21 || Main Topic (Q&A)- 12:45 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:15:59
On the Patreon bonus segment, we alll A more of your Qs. If you want to support our show while getting ad-free episodes a day early, go to www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 399 Gay-for-Pay
You mean I’ve been gay for free this whole time when I could have been getting paid? Mike and Kyle talk about the earliest known gay for pay from history, Urban Dictionary definitions, undercover cops, religious sex work, and straight-for-pay.
In this episode: News- 2:09 || Main Topic (Gay-for-Pay)- 12:20 || Gayest & Straightest- 57:09
On the Patreon bonus segment, Kyle talks about “gay" porn star Geordie Jackson and his girlfriend’s thoughts on being gay-for-pay. If you want to support our show
Gayish: 398 Glory Holes
An entire hole of glory?! Mike and Kyle fill their holes with discussions of glory hole court cases, urban legends, glory hole connoisseurs, glass blowing, and straight dudes who use glory holes.
In this episode: News- 1:24 || Main Topic (Glory Holes)- 14:28 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:09:17
On the Patreon bonus segment, we talk about a smattering of stuff we didn’t have time to cover in the main episode. If you want to support our show while getting ad-free episodes a day early, go to www.patreo
Gayish: 397 Threesomes III
Herem we are again. In our final time covering threesomes, Mike and Kyle talk about symbiosexuality, Kinsey, the guy who invented Wonder Woman, bisexuality, Hanson, and more.
In this episode: News- 4:12 || Main Topic (Threesomes)- 18:40 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:07:21
On the Patreon bonus segment, we give you all the tips you need to know to have a good threesome. If you want to support our show while getting ad-free episodes a day early, go to www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 396 Olympics
From the Grecian Olympics to the modern, Mike and Kyle talk about the LGBTQ+ people that have participated in, and won, the Olympics, including the gay Olympics.
In this episode: News- 2:26 || Main Topic (Olympics)- 11:35 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:02:36
On the Patreon bonus segment, we talk about the one and only Caitlyn Jenner. If you want to support our show while getting ad-free episodes a day early, go to www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 395 Costco
But seriously, is Coscto gay or not?
In this episode: News- 1:46 || Main Topic (Costco)- 10:38 || Gayest & Straightest- 56:43
On the Patreon bonus segment, we talk about the gayest things you can find at Costco. If you want to support our show while getting ad-free episodes a day early, go to www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 394 Cats (w/ Ma Johnson)
Meow. Meow meow meow. Mew mew meow, meow meow meow. Meow meow.
In this episode: News- 2:59 || Main Topic (Cats)- 13:42 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:08:32
On the Patreon bonus segment, CATBOYS! If you want to support our show while getting ad-free episodes a day early, go to www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 393 Washington, D.C.
How gay is D.C.? Did George Washington love gays? What about the marches on Washington? We get into all things Washington, D.C.!
In this episode: News- 1:38 || Main Topic (Washington, D.C.)- 11:06 || Gayest & Straightest- 52:21
If you want to support our show while getting ad-free episodes a day early, go to www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 392 Gay Marriage
It’s like marriage, but it’s gay! Where did gay marriage come from? What are the easiest examples? How many people are in one? Are lesbians bad at it?
In this episode: News- 3:02 || Main Topic (Gay Marriage)- 14:26 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:08:22
On the Patreon bonus segment, Kyle shares the top reasons gay marriage shouldn’t be legal. If you want to support our show while getting ad-free episodes a day early, go to www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 391 Bi-curious
Why do we have the term bi-curious? Does it kill the bisexual cat? Mike and Kyle talk etymology, gayta, and bi erasure in this episode about bi-curiousity.
In this episode: News- 3:53 || Main Topic (Bi-curious)- 14:42 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:05:10
On the Patreon bonus segment, Mike and Kyle do an Ask Reddit segment to learn more about bisexual people’s view of the term bi-curious. If you want to support our show while getting ad-free episodes a day early, go to www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 390 U-Haul
It’s hard to date as a queer woman, so why do they move in so quickly? Shana and Kris from the Bad Queers podcast join us to talk about the lesbian stereotype of U-Hauling.
In this episode: News- 1:37 || Main Topic (U-Haul)- 12:32 || Guests (Bad Queers)- 18:35 || Gayest & Straightest- 54:24
On the Patreon bonus segment, Kyle and Derek talk about tips on moving in together. If you want to support our show while getting ad-free episodes a day early, go to www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 389 Gold Star Gay
What’s a gold star gay? How many gays are actually gold star gays? How does performative disgust play into it? Mike and Kyle talk about why you should try to give up the whole gold star gay joke.
In this episode: News- 4:19 || Main Topic (Gold Star Gay)- 15:55 || Gayest & Straightest- 54:25
On the Patreon bonus segment, Mike and Kyle talk about gold star lesbians. If you want to support our show while getting ad-free episodes a day early, go to www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 388 Public Sex
Like Kelis said, let’s get it on in public!
In this episode: News- 5:06 || Main Topic (Public Sex)- 12:44 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:01:27
On the Patreon bonus segment, Kyle reads a list of reasons you should try public sex. If you want to support our show while getting ad-free episodes a day early, go to www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 387 Country Music
Yeehaw, y’all. Let’s get country! Mike and Kyle talk about the Sweet Violet Boys, Lavender Country, k.d. lang, Beyoncé, Wilma Burgess, Orville Peck, Steve Grand, and more.
In this episode: News- 4:08 || Main Topic (Country Music)- 16:40 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:09:27
On the Patreon bonus segment, Mike shares 20 country stars that are LGBTQ+ allies. If you want to support our show while getting ad-free episodes a day early, go to www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 386 Kilts
Whatcha got underneath that kilt? Mike and Kyle take a peek at kilts, their history, and whether or not they’re gay.
In this episode: News- 2:04 || Main Topic (Kilts)- 12:20 || Gayest & Straightest- 52:16
On the Patreon bonus segment, Kyle shares with Mike ten secret kilt facts. If you want to support our show while getting ad-free episodes a day early, go to www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 385 Otters
We otter have a good time with this episode! What exactly is an otter? Like a good top, Mike and Kyle try to get to the bottom of otters.
In this episode: News- 2:50 || Main Topic (Otters)- 13:04 || Gayest & Straightest- 56:34
On the Patreon bonus segment, Mike and Kyle interview producer and self-described otter Derek about his otterdom. If you want to support our show while getting ad-free episodes a day early, go to www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 384 Mexico
Hola todos! In celebration of Cinco de Mayo, Mike and Kyle talk about the LGBT history of Mexico, the acceptance of LBGT people, the number 41, and machismo.
In this episode: News- 6:43 || Main Topic (Mexico)- 17:55 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:09:58
On the Patreon bonus segment, Kyle reads a letter from a student about what it’s like to grow up in Mexico. If you want to support our show while getting ad-free episodes a day early, go to www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 383 Memoirs (w/ Stan Zimmerman)
Stan Zimmerman, who has written for the Golden Girls, Gilmore Girls, Roseanne, and the Brady Bunch, joins us to talk about his memoir, “The Girls: From Golden to Gilmore.”
In this episode: News- 4:41 || Main Topic (Memoirs)- 13:51 || Guest (Stan Zimmerman)- 15:27 || Gayest & Straightest- 58:37
Find out more about Stan by visiting his website, zimmermanstan.com or follow him on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/zimmermanstan/.
On the Patreon bonus segment, Mike and Kyle talk more about G
Gayish: 382 Boy Scouts
Always be prepared… for a great episode about gay stereotypes!
In this episode: News- 1:03 || Main Topic (Boy Scouts)- 13:43 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:09:22
On the Patreon bonus segment, Kyle shares some (mostly) good tips from the Boy Scouts on coming out. If you want to support our show while getting ad-free episodes a day early, go to www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 381 Playboy
Is Playboy toxic or revolutionary? Did Hugh Hefner promote unhealthy images of women or did he break down sexual barriers? And what’s gay about Playboy?
In this episode: News- 1:04 || Main Topic (Playboy)- 9:22 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:00:15
On the Patreon bonus segment, Kyle shares one more piece of gayta about men’s experience reading Playboy. If you want to support our show while getting ad-free episodes a day early, go to www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 380 Seven
In celebration of our seventh birthday, Mike and Kyle talk about gay things related to seven. Plus, announcements, gifts, and lots of news!
In this episode: News- 4:45 || Main Topic (Seven)- 16:50 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:18:26
On the Patreon bonus segment, Mike reads a couple stories to Kyle and Kyle talks about more seven-related gayta he didn’t get a chance to share on the main episode. If you want to support our show while getting ad-free episodes a day early, go to www.patreon.com/gay
Gayish: 379 Makeup (w/ Felix Palafox)
Felix Palafox, makeup expert and owner of Adonis Arcana, joins Mike and Kyle to talk about the stereotypes of makeup and men’s makeup.
In this episode: News- 3:21 || Main Topic (Makeup)- 15:15 || Guest (Felix Palafox)- 28:57 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:04:31
Learn more about Adonis Arcana at https://www.adonisarcana.com/, on Instagram at https://instagram.com/adonis_arcana or on TikTok at https://www.tiktok.com/@adonis_arcana.
On the Patreon bonus segment, Felix helps Mike and Kyle do their m
Gayish: 378 X-Men
In honor of X-Men ’97, Mike and Kyle talk about the superheroes (and villains) themselves. We cover their history, the Comic Code Authority, the Legacy Virus, Northstar, Mystique, and Goldballs, all to try to come to the conclusion of whether the X-Men are gay.
In this episode: News- 1:02 || Main Topic (X-Men)- 11:35 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:07:11
On the Patreon bonus segment, Mike and Kyle talk about more queer X-Men. If you want to support our show while getting ad-free episodes a day ea
Gayish: 377 FWB
Booty call. Fuck buddy. Situationship. There are lots of ways we describe the people we hook up with. Mike and Kyle talk about friends with benefits (FWBs), including what it means, where the term came from, gayta, and some famous FWBs from history.
In this episode: News- 1:57 || Main Topic (FWB)- 11:15 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:10:41
On the Patreon bonus segment, Mike shares the sociosexual orientation inventory test, used in actual psychological research. If you want to support our show w
Gayish: 376 Mukbang
Mike and Kyle slurp up the delicious topic of mukbang.
In this episode: News- 1:35 || Main Topic (Mukbang)- 13:19 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:12:41
On the Patreon bonus segment, Mike talks about the online drama between three of the most popular mukbangers. If you want to support our show while getting ad-free episodes a day early, go to www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 375 Penis Problems (w/ Davey Wavey)
I got 99 problems and a penis is one. Davey Wavey joins us once again to talk about erectile disappointment, how porn stars stay hard, and more.
In this episode: News- 4:31 || Main Topic (Penis Problems)- 15:36 || Guest (Davey Wavey)- 18:14 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:06:46
Check out the next evolution of gay porn at himeros.tv (NSFW).
On the Patreon bonus segment, Kyle shares with Mike 10 other penis problems you should be on the lookout for. If you want to support our show while getting ad-
Gayish: 374 Internalized Homophobia
Let’s get heavy and talk about internalized homophobia. What are the types of internalized homophobia? Who has it? How does it affect us? Mike and Kyle get deep on the shame and self-hatred that comes along with being gay.
In this episode: News- 4:54 || Main Topic (Internalized Homophobia)- 16:18 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:18:21
On the Patreon bonus segment, Mike administers the homophobia quiz to Kyle. If you want to support our show while getting ad-free episodes a day early, go to www.pat
Gayish: 373 Board Games
Gaymes, gaymes, gaymes!
In this episode: News- 4:42 || Main Topic (Board Games)- 15:25 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:12:08
On the Patreon bonus segment, we jump into heated Reddit debate about gay board games. Plus, Mike and Kyle play some Homogenius. If you want to support our show while getting ad-free episodes a day early, go to www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 372 Super Bowl
It’s almost time for The Big Game! Are you ready for some football or nah?
In this episode: News- 6:37 || Main Topic (Super Bowl)- 19:08 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:03:12
On the Patreon bonus segment, Mike ranks the gayest Super Bowl halftime shows. If you want to support our show while getting ad-free episodes a day early, go to www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 371 Pubic Hair
Put on your merkins because it’s time to talk about pubic hair! Mike and Kyle get deep into the pubes while talking about lice, pubarche, literature, gayta, trimming, full bush, pheromones, and plenty more.
In this episode: News- 1:56 || Main Topic (Pubic Hair)- 13:18 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:03:43
On the Patreon bonus segment, Mike talks about a man whose life was particularly impacted by pubes. If you want to support our show while getting ad-free episodes a day early, go to www.patreon.
Gayish: 370 Bigfoot
We’re not talking about Smallhand this episode. We’re talking Bigfoot. In this episode, Mike and Kyle try to uncover whether Sasquatch is a little bit gay.
In this episode: News- 2:13 || Main Topic (Bigfoot)- 10:41 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:00:13
On the Patreon bonus segment, Mike reads a story about the Bigfoot Wookums and true(?) love. If you want to support our show while getting ad-free episodes a day early, go to www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 369 Exhibitionism
Is podcasting verbal exhibitionism? Mike and Kyle show off publicly by talking about exhibitionism. We cover where it started, when it becomes a disorder, and the different types of exhibitionism.
In this episode: News- 5:07 || Main Topic (Exhibitionism)- 16:17 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:10:00
On the Patreon bonus segment, Mike talks about the wild man known as John Wilmot, the Second Earl of Rochester, who might have had sex with a sun dial. If you want to support our show while getting ad-
Gayish: 368 Voting (w/ Brian Derrick)
Does your vote matter? Brian Derrick, Founder and CEO of Oath, joins us to talk about the optimistic side of politics and voting.
In this episode: News- 1:16 || Main Topic (Voting)- 8:48 || Guest (Brian Derrick)- 15:19 || Gayest & Straightest- 58:36
On the Patreon bonus segment, Mike talks about that time he ran for office in Washington. If you want to support our show while getting ad-free episodes a day early, go to www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Follow Brian Derrick on Instagram (https://
Gayish: 367 Resolutions
Happy 2024! Mike and Kyle resolve to talk resolutions as they figure out where resolutions came from and share some of their own.
In this episode: News- 1:48 || Main Topic (Resolutions)- 9:29 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:00:39
On the Patreon bonus segment, Kyle shares tips on making New Years resolutions. If you want to support our show while getting ad-free episodes a day early, go to www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 366 Hosting
Host or travel?
In this episode: Dickbag Fuckface Asshole Award- 1:09 || Main Topic (Hosting)- 10:59 || Gayest & Straightest- 48:34
If you want to support our show while getting ad-free episodes a day early, go to www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 365 Elves
Santa’s elves. Tolkien’s elves. Video game elves. D&D elves. Germanic elves. Mike and Kyle talk about all the elves and whether they’re gay.
In this episode: News- 2:48 || Main Topic (Elves)- 14:38 || Gayest & Straightest- 55:42
On the Patreon bonus segment, Mike and Kyle talk about the silly rules to elf on a shelf. If you want to support our show while getting ad-free episodes a day early, go to www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 364 Gooning
You goon, bro?
In this episode: News- 2:48 || Main Topic (Gooning)- 11:06 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:02:46
On the Patreon bonus segment, Mike and Kyle talk about solosexuals and how they relate to gooning. If you want to support our show while getting ad-free episodes a day early, go to www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 363 Gay Best Friend
Gay best friends. They’re fabulous, funny, catty, and nonsexual. Where did they come from? Are they helpful or hurtful? And are we finally done with this tired trope?
In this episode: News- 5:08 || Main Topic (Gay Best Friend)- 14:39 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:10:21
On the Patreon bonus segment, we talk about stories from the internet about gay best friends. If you want to support our show while getting ad-free episodes a day early, go to www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 362 Pap Smears
Should gay and bi men get pap smears? We break down where pap smears came from, doctors’ advice on anal pap smears, and why they’re controversial.
In this episode: News- 2:46 || Main Topic (Pap Smears)- 12:25 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:00:19
On the Patreon bonus segment, we talk about some analogies for what it’s like to get a pap smear. If you want to support our show while getting ad-free episodes a day early, go to www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 361 Baking
If I knew you were comin’, I’d have… made an episode about baking! Mike and Kyle talk about why baking is so gay, including the history, the Great British Baking Show, the best local bakeries, and quotes from people in the industry.
In this episode: News- 5:39 || Main Topic (Baking)- 17:22 || Gayest & Straightest- 59:49
On the Patreon bonus segment, Mike and Kyle talk about which baked goods ChatGPT suggests for famous queer celebrities. If you want to support our show while getting ad-free
Gayish: 360 Tea
Is tea just gay coffee? Who drinks it the most? Where did tea dances come from? Mike and Kyle spill the tea on tea.
In this episode: News- 4:56 || Main Topic (Tea)- 15:46 || Gayest & Straightest- 56:25
On the Patreon bonus segment, Mike tells Kyle about the health benefits of tea. If you want to support our show while getting ad-free episodes a day early, go to www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 359 Shopping
Let’s go to the mall today! Or not, because this episode is all about why we hate shopping.
In this episode: News- 3:22 || Main Topic (Shopping)- 15:40 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:02:53
On the Patreon bonus segment, we read what an internet forum says about whether shopping is gay. If you want to support our show while getting ad-free episodes a day early, go to www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 358 Yoga (w/ Jessamyn Stanley)
Who is yoga for? Yoga expert Jessamyn Stanley joins us to share the stereotypes of yoga, her journey with yoga, polyamory, weed, nudity, and more.
In this episode: News- 4:43 || Main Topic (Yoga)- 14:58 || Guest (Jessamyn Stanley)- 18:44 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:06:26
On the Patreon bonus segment, Mike and Kyle talk about yoga poses that will make you better at sex. If you want to support our show while getting ad-free episodes a day early, go to www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 357 Werewolves
Why are werewolves so gay? Is it because they’re throbbing, shirtless, hairy men fighting for dominance? Well, yeah.
In this episode: News- 2:22 || Main Topic (Werewolves)- 14:25 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:03:51
On the Patreon bonus segment, Mike gives Kyle the werewolf name quiz. If you want to support our show while getting ad-free episodes a day early, go to www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 356 Leather: Live in Houston
Mike and Kyle get into leather. Literally. Guest Woodja Flanigan joins us during our Houston live show to help explain the intricacies of the leather community.
In this episode: News- 9:00 || Main Topic (Leather)- 15:12 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:13:02
On the Patreon bonus segment, Kyle shares with Mike info about San Francisco’s Leather & LGBTQ Cultural District. If you want to support our show while getting ad-free episodes a day early, go to www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 355 Jeeps
Do Jeeps give masc4masc energy, or are they a gay stereotype? Mike shares with Kyle why his Jeep Wrangler is the love of his life.
In this episode: News- 1:46 || Main Topic (Jeeps)- 12:54 || Gayest & Straightest- 58:25
Come see us live in Houston! Visit www.gayishpodcast.com/live for tour dates, details and tickets. We can’t wait to see you!
Want to support the show and what we create? Join our Patreon for as little as $2/mo and get ad-free episodes a day early. Visit www.patreon.com/gayishp
Gayish: 354 Houston
What’s up Bayou City! It’s Space City’s time to shine when Mike and Kyle talk about the 713 in a very obvious ploy to sell live show tickets. See you at the show, H-Town!
In this episode: News- 4:52 || Main Topic (Houston)- 17:24 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:11:51
Come see us live in Houston! Visit www.gayishpodcast.com/live for tour dates, details and tickets. We can’t wait to see you!
On the Patreon bonus segment, Mike shares Houston's performance on HRC's LGBT friendly city rankings. If you
Gayish: 353 Circuit Parties
Why are they called circuit parties? Where did they come from? Why do people attend? Mike and Kyle talk about whether there stereotypes of circuit parties are true.
In this episode: News- 1:41 || Main Topic (Circuit Parties)- 15:51 || Gayest & Straightest- 58:28
Come see us live in Houston! Visit www.gayishpodcast.com/live for tour dates, details and tickets. We can’t wait to see you!
On the Patreon bonus segment, we revisit Gays Over Covid to see if time has given us any new insight on thei
Gayish: 352 Kylie Minogue
Does Kylie Minogue deserve her gay icon status? From Pride48’s final livestreaming weekend, Mike and Kyle talk about the worldwide pop sensation herself, Kylie (Minogue, not Jenner).
In this episode: Main Topic (Kylie Minogue)- 4:54 || Gayest & Straightest- 53:03
Come see us live in Houston! Visit www.gayishpodcast.com/live for tour dates, details and tickets. We can’t wait to see you!
On the Patreon bonus segment, Mike share more LGBTQ firsts from soap operas around the world. If you want t
Gayish: 351 Fingering: Live in Los Angeles
Mike and Kyle talk about fingering tips, why giving the finger is gay, gay finger sizes, and whether fingering qualifies as sex.
In this episode: News- 9:01 || Main Topic (Fingering)- 15:53 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:02:03
Come see us live in Houston! Visit www.gayishpodcast.com/live for tour dates, details and tickets. We can’t wait to see you!
On the Patreon bonus segment, Mike shares more about the (misunderstood) history of The Black Cat in LA. If you want to support our show while getti
Gayish: 350 Q&A
Per tradition, Mike and Kyle A listener Qs.
In this episode: News- 3:08 || Main Topic (Q&A)- 12:29 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:20:19
Come see us live in Houston! Visit www.gayishpodcast.com/live for tour dates, details and tickets. We can’t wait to see you!
On the Patreon bonus segment, we A even more of your Qs. If you want to support our show while getting ad-free episodes a day early, go to www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 349 Neopronouns
What are neopronouns? Are they actually “neo”? Or are they werewolves? Mike and Kyle talk about words that take the place of nouns.
In this episode: News- 3:38 || Main Topic (Neopronouns)- 18:39 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:09:43
Come see us live in Houston! Visit www.gayishpodcast.com/live for tour dates, details and tickets. We can’t wait to see you!
On the Patreon bonus segment, we talk about nounself pronouns, a specific type of neopronoun you may not have heard of before. If you want to s
Gayish: 348 Overachieving
Are you the Best Little Boy in the World? Mike and Kyle talk about why they want gay boys to achieve less in school.
In this episode: News- 3:25 || Main Topic (Overachieving)- 16:41 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:13:19
Come see us live in LA and Houston. Visit www.gayishpodcast.com/live for tour dates, details and tickets. We can’t wait to see you!
On the Patreon bonus segment, Mike and Kyle talk about overachievers in the sciences. If you want to support our show while getting ad-free episodes
Gayish: 347 Bowling
Finger your balls gently, because Mike and Kyle are trying to get to the bottom (and the top) of whether bowling is gay or straight.
In this episode: News- 2:59 || Main Topic (Bowling)- 15:21 || Gayest & Straightest- 53:31
Come see us live in LA and Houston. Visit www.gayishpodcast.com/live for tour dates, details and tickets. We can’t wait to see you!
On the Patreon bonus segment, Kyle shares ways to figure out if someone is gay. If you want to support our show while getting ad-free episode
Gayish: 346 Dinosaurs (w/ Fossil Daddy)
Little boys are supposed to be obsessed with dinosaurs, but we’re not. So, we bring on an expert to share more about dinosaurs, fossils, and thirst traps.
In this episode: News- 4:42 || Main Topic (Dinosaurs)- 14:20 || Guest (Fossil Daddy)- 20:56 || Gayest & Straightest- 55:39
Follow Fossil Daddy on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/fossildaddy/) or on YouTube (https://www.youtube.com/@fossildaddy).
Come see us live in LA and Houston. Visit www.gayishpodcast.com/live for tour dates, deta
Gayish: 345 Boners: Live in Chicago
Our favorite topic! We talk about the evolution of boners, the length of boners, types of boners, and whether 10 inch boners exist.
In this episode: News- 6:16 || Main Topic (Boners)- 12:46 || Gayest & Straightest- 58:13
Come see us live in San Francisco, LA, and Houston. Visit www.gayishpodcast.com/live for tour dates, details and tickets. We can’t wait to see you!
If you want to support our show while getting ad-free episodes a day early, join Patreon! See all the tiers and benefits at www
Gayish: 344 Guncles
Guncles. No, it’s not gunky ankles. It’s gay uncles! Mike and Kyle talk famous guncles, guncles throughout history, Beyoncé and Mariah Carey’s guncles, and the gay uncle theory.
In this episode: News- 3:21 || Main Topic (Guncles)- 14:51 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:00:05
Come see us live in Chicago, San Francisco, LA, and Houston. Visit www.gayishpodcast.com/live for tour dates, details and tickets. We can’t wait to see you!
On the Patreon bonus segment, Kyle covers more of the stereotypes of
Gayish: 343 Cisgender
Mike and Kyle talk about the word that’s in no way a slur: cisgender.
In this episode: News- 8:12 || Main Topic (Cisgender)- 18:25 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:06:41
Come see us live in Chicago, San Francisco, LA, and Houston. Visit www.gayishpodcast.com/live for tour dates, details and tickets. We can’t wait to see you!
On the Patreon bonus segment, we talk about cisgender gayta, personal experiences, and more. Get bonus segments, episodes, and lots of other great perks by joining Patreon at
Gayish: 342 Single (w/ Chris Haigy)
Guest co-host Chris Haigy from the We Read Movies podcast joins Kyle to talk about being single, dating yourself, soul mates, and Donna Meagle from Parks & Recreation.
In this episode: News-2:49 || Main Topic (Single)-18:16 || Gayest & Straightest-1:15:59
Find Chris on the We Read Movies podcast or @lighterfandago on Instagram, Twitter, Blue Sky, and Threads.
Come see us live in Chicago, San Francisco, LA, and Houston. Visit www.gayishpodcast.com/live for tour dates, details and tickets.
Gayish: 341 Queer News (w/ Anna DeShawn)
“We are in this constant fight with something that is very invisible.” Anna DeShawn from the Queer News podcast joins us to talk about the complex state of queer news today.
In this episode: News-4:33 || Main Topic (Queer News)-12:27 || Guest (Anna DeShawn)-14:35 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:07:12
Come see us live in Chicago, San Francisco, LA, and Houston. Visit www.gayishpodcast.com/live for tour dates, details and tickets. We can’t wait to see you!
On the Patreon bonus segment, Kyle interviews
Gayish: 340 Boobs: Live in Seattle (w/ Derek and Romaine)
In our joint Seattle live show with Derek and Romaine, we talk about 80085! Why do gay men love boobs? What do boobs feel like? Why did Kyle bite one? We explore these and other feel-good boob-related topics live during Seattle Pride.
In this episode: Main Topic (Boobs)- 6:27 || Gayest & Straightest- 53:48
Come see us live in Chicago, San Francisco, LA, and Houston. Visit www.gayishpodcast.com/live for tour dates, details and tickets. We can’t wait to see you!
Gayish: 339 Heteroflexible
Get bent with Mike and Kyle as they talk about the origins of the term ‘heteroflexible’, the difference between identity and behavior, bisexual stereotypes, and why people identify as heteroflexible.
In this episode: News- 3:04 || Main Topic (Heteroflexible)- 14:14 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:01:12
Come see us live in Seattle, Chicago, San Francisco, LA, and Houston. Visit www.gayishpodcast.com/live for tour dates, details and tickets. We can’t wait to see you!
On the Patreon bonus segment, a
Gayish: 338 The Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence [Shrinkage]
Two of The Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence, Rev. Sister Christiana Metroform and Sister Daya Reckoning, join us to talk about who the Sisters are, whether they’re mocking religion, and their feelings about the LA Dodgers controversy. Learn more about the local Seattle chapter at theabbey.org.
Gayish: 337 The Bible (w/ Joseph Peters-Mathews)
Rev. Joseph Peters-Mathews, gay married priest and father of two, joins us to explain the importance of the Bible, what it says about gay stuff, religious fundamentalists, and shrimp rules.
In this episode: News- 2:28 || Main Topic (The Bible)- 14:07 || Guest (Joseph Peters-Mathews)- 19:25 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:02:06
If you want to see us live, tickets are still available for our stops in Seattle, Chicago, San Francisco, LA, and Houston. Visit www.gayishpodcast.com/live for dates, detai
Gayish: 336 Bathhouses: Live in New York City
On the first stop of our 6-city tour, Mike and Kyle cruise the topic of bathhouses live from The Spot in New York City. We cover bathhouse etiquette, the history of bathhouses, bathhouse gayta, priests in bathhouses, and bathhouse closures during AIDS.
In this episode: News- 6:08 || Main Topic (Bathhouses)- 12:55 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:09:55
If you want to see us live, tickets are still available for our stops in Seattle, Chicago, San Francisco, LA, and Houston. Visit www.gayishpodcast.c
Gayish: 335 Condoms
Wrap up your heart. Wrap up your dick. Mike and Kyle talk about the etymology, the history, the gayta, the tips, and the tricks of using condoms. You scumbag.
In this episode: News- 1:47 || Main Topic (Condoms)- 18:30 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:21:19
Tickets for our 6th anniversary live show mini-tour are available NOW for NYC, Seattle, Chicago, San Francisco, LA, and Houston. Visit www.gayishpodcast.com/live for details and tickets. We can’t wait to see you!
On the Patreon bonus segment, we
Gayish: 334 New York City
NYC has been gayer for longer than you realize. Then again, it’s not as gay as you’d expect. We cover George Chauncey, Liza Minnelli, Greenwich Village, sip-ins, and myths about gay New York.
In this episode: News- 1:39 || Main Topic (New York City)- 17:07 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:01:20
Tickets for our 6th anniversary live show mini-tour are available NOW for NYC, Seattle, Chicago, San Francisco, LA, and Houston. Visit www.gayishpodcast.com/live for details and tickets. We can’t wait to se
Gayish: 333 Masking (w/ Minoritea Report)
Masking and code-switching are extra burdens placed on minoritized communities, including queer, Black, brown, and disabled communities, to fit in with the expectations of a straight, white, neurotypical society. The aunties from the podcast Minoritea Report join us to talk about their experiences.
In this episode: News- 1:52 || Main Topic (Masking)- 14:53 || Guests (Minoritea Report)- 24:10 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:14:31
We love Minoritea Report! You can find their podcast, follow them on
Gayish: 332 Ketamine
Mike and Kyle talk about ketamine’s use as an anesthetic, as a recreational drug, and as a treatment for depression. Plus, Azealia Banks?!
In this episode: News- 2:57 || Main Topic (Ketamine)- 19:00 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:10:15
Tickets for our 6th anniversary live show mini-tour go on pre-sale starting May 1 (except NYC, which is already in pre-sale). Visit www.gayishpodcast.com/live for details and tickets. We can’t wait to see you!
On the Patreon bonus segment, Mike talks about k-holes
Gayish: 331 Bestiality
Homophobes often include bestiality in their slippery slope arguments as to why LGBTQ people don’t deserve equal rights. Well, let’s talk about it.
In this episode: News- 3:27 || Main Topic (Bestiality)- 13:18 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:12:08
Tickets for our 6th anniversary live show mini-tour go on pre-sale starting May 1 (except NYC, which is already in pre-sale). Visit www.gayishpodcast.com/live for details and tickets. We can’t wait to see you!
Join Patreon! Available benefits include gettin
Gayish: 330 Transgender II (w/ Ezra Michel)
Ezra Michel (@ezramichelmusic) joins us to talk about everything: the word “pussyboy,” bisexuality, Grindr, male privilege, chasers, HRT, addiction, gender dysphoria, self-harm, big clits, t4t, and more.
In this episode: News- 4:30 || Main Topic (Transgender)- 15:37 || Guest (Ezra Michel)- 21:21 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:01:37
Follow Ezra on:
- @ezramichelmusic on IG & TikTok
- @p_ssyboyapparel on IG, or visit pussyboyapparel.com
- @welcomehomehair on IG
Tickets for our 6th anniversary live sh
Gayish: 329 420
Bro. It’s 4/20. We’re high. You can find out what this is about by listening, probably. Have fun. Party on.
In this episode: News- 1:35 || Main Topic (4/20)- 13:18 || Gayest & Straightest- 55:32
Donate to the Last Prisoner Project by visiting https://www.lastprisonerproject.org/donate. It’s a non-profit working to free the tens of thousands of individuals still unjustly imprisoned for cannabis.
See our 6th anniversary live show tour dates, venues and tickets at www.gayishpodcast.com/live.
On the
Gayish: 328 Farming
In this surprisingly deep episode, we talk about the stories of queer farmers, sustainable farming, lesbian farmers, why there’s no farming gayta, and how to date as a farmer.
In this episode: News- 1:13 || Main Topic (Farming)- 13:04 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:12:03
We’re doing a 6-city live show tour! This year, we’ll be going to New York City, Seattle, Chicago, San Francisco, Los Angeles, and Houston. See the tour dates and buy tickets at www.gayishpodcast.com/live.
On the weekly bonus Patreo
Gayish: 327 666
Happy birthday!!! For the 6th anniversary of Gayish, Mike and Kyle talk about why 666 is actually lucky, the apocalypse, the Satanic Panic, why the gay rainbow flag is evil, gematria, and the self-fulfilling nature of stereotypes.
In this episode: News- 2:58 || Main Topic (666)- 17:11 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:13:44
We’re doing a 6-city live show tour! This year, we’ll be going to New York City, Seattle, Chicago, San Francisco, Los Angeles, and Houston. See the tour dates and buy tickets at www
Gayish: 326 Assholes: Live from Treefort in Boise
Assholes. Where do they come from? Why do we love them? How do we take care of them? And who are they, really? We get the hole truth live from Boise for Podfort, part of the Treefort Music Festival.
In this episode: News- 10:46 || Main Topic (Assholes)- 19:41 || Gayest & Straightest- 56:07
On the weekly bonus Patreon segment, Mike and Kyle discuss a few more Am I The (Gay) Asshole questions from Reddit. Get bonus audio, video, and other great benefits by joining our Patreon at www.patreon.com/ga
Gayish: 325 Gay Leagues
He’s out of my gay league! Are gay rec and sports leagues necessary? And, if so, who should be able to join them? What’s the drama behind the Gay Olympics? And how about the tribunal at the Seattle Gay Softball World Series of 2008? LET’S! GO! SPORTS!
In this episode: News- 2:23 || Main Topic (Gay Leagues)- 16:35 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:11:36
On the weekly bonus Patreon segment, Mike and Kyle re-visit the gay origins of the high five with spunky new details. Get bonus audio, video, and other
Gayish: 324 Whiskey
Turns out, whiskey isn’t actually that straight. We talk about masculinity, gayta, Fireball, why gogo boys are thanks to whiskey, and homophobia in the whisky industry, especially within Bulleit.
In this episode: News- 4:10 || Main Topic (Whiskey)- 18:45 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:07:32
On the weekly bonus Patreon segment, Mike makes Kyle do a whiskey taste test while Kyle tries to convince him that whiskey and BDSM are connected. Get bonus audio, video, and other great benefits by joining our P
Gayish: 323 MBMBaM
In this episode of My (Gayish) Brother, My Brother and Me, Mike’s straight brothers Marty and Murph join us to answer listener and Quora questions. (If you have no idea what’s going on, don’t worry. We’ll be back with a regular episode next week.)
Suggested talking points: Selena Gomez, sweater ass, gay bear bars, Goofy’s species, Imagine Dragon, slut jorts
Gayish: 322 Roller Coasters
Wheeeee! This episode is a roller coaster in and of itself as we talk about Britney Spears, Catherine the Great, Moulin Rouge, Australian daddy bears, euthanasia, and arrested development. Remember, never be a roller coaster!
In this episode: News- 1:10 || Main Topic (Roller Coasters)- 11:54 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:02:29
On the weekly bonus Patreon segment, we talk about gender stereotypes in roller coaster and how Polly Pocket helped to break them. Get lots of great perks and support the sho
Gayish: 321 Queer Jews (w/ Rachael Fried)
Rachael Fried, Executive Director of JQY (Jewish Queer Youth), joins us to talk about the challenges of being Jewish in LGBTQ+ spaces, older singles, actions vs. identity, Leviticus, Yeshiva University, the rise in anti-Semitism.
In this episode: News- 1:59 || Main Topic (Queer Jews)- 13:26 || Guest (Rachael Fried)-19:27 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:05:26
On the weekly bonus Patreon segment, we talk with Rachael about her love life, her upcoming wedding, and whether we can say “Jews.” Get lots of
Gayish: 320 Astrology
Let’s pass judgements on people based on their sign! If that’s not the cornerstone of astrology, what is? Mike and Kyle talk about why (and if) astrology is so queer.
In this episode: News- 2:01 || Main Topic (Astrology)- 16:06 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:07:27
On the weekly bonus Patreon segment, Mike and Kyle delve into their partnership, how it started, and how they feel about it. Bonus audio, video, and lots of other perks available on Patreon at www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
If you missed o
Gayish: 319 Partners (w/ Two Bad Tourists)
How do you feel about the word ‘partner’? Is it ambiguous? Is ambiguity a good thing? We talk partners with the Two Bad Tourists as they take us on a wild journey through their relationship from boyfriends to husbands to ex-husbands… ish.
In this episode: News- 7:38 || Main Topic (Partners)- 16:56 || Guests (Two Bad Tourists)- 19:43 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:04:47
Mike and Kyle will be LIVE on the Two Bad Tourists’ podcast on Feb. 15 @ 10am Pacific / 1pm Eastern, so look out for more info soon.
Gayish: 318 Ghosting
We talk about ghosting at 20:15 if you want to skip ahead to conversations about where the term came from, studies on who gets ghosted and why, and the actual impact on your brain of getting ghosted. But first, the news (starting at 4:29) includes M&Ms/Maya Rudolph, Pete Buttigieg, and the FDA’s new blood donation rules for MSM.
In this episode: News- 4:29 || Main Topic (Ghosting)- 20:15 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:17:05
On the bonus Patreon segment, we look and answer AskReddit questions about g
Gayish: 317 Artificial Intelligence
This is what AI came up with as an episode description: Lisa talks to a gay millennial named Will who loves the idea of dating AI. Find it on Apple Podcasts or search for "Gayish" on your podcast app.
(Human editor’s Note: that is not actually what this episode is about. It’s about ChatGPT, homophobia in AI, Alan Turing, the Mechanical Turk, and more.)
In this episode: News- 6:40 || Main Topic (Artificial Intelligence)- 25:23 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:12:53
Patreon reminder! Gaytrons of all lev
Gayish: 316 Rainbow Elders (w/ Dr. Linda Marchesani)
When was the last time you interacted with someone outside of your generation in the LGBTQ+ community? We have a conversation with our guest, Dr. Linda Marchesani, to talk about the experiences of rainbow elders, gayta on their unique needs, and the importance of connection.
In this episode: News- 2:48 || Main Topic (Rainbow Elders)- 15:31 || Guest (Linda Marchesani from GenPride)-21:13 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:01:19
To learn more about GenPride:
Visit https://genprideseattle.org/
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Gayish: 315 Sex Tourism
Mike and Kyle take a tour through the world of sex tourism, including stops at Thailand; the Temple of Aphrodite in Cypress; Puerto Vallarta, Mexico; Tangiers, Morocco; and Mike’s recent trip to Palm Springs.
In this episode: News- 8:18 || Main Topic (Sex Tourism)- 22:15 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:27:55
On the bonus segment, we get into more of the origins of sex tourism research and the results of the gayta of what sex workers from Puerto Vallarta said. Get ad-free episodes 1 day early by joini
Gayish: 314 Twins (w/ The Zakar Twins)
The Zakar twins, Michael and Zak, join us to talk about coming out to their Catholic-Iraqi mom and stoner dad, being gay and Middle Eastern, their experience with sexual assault while modeling, and their feelings on getting *that* question as a twin (you know the one).
In this episode: News- 7:14 || Main Topic (Twins)- 21:41 || Guests (Michael and Zak Zakar)- 25:52 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:00:39
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Gayish: 313 Traditions
Black eyed peas in the South. Assorted New Years Eve traditions. Traditional marriage. Gayish traditions. Are traditions helpful or harmful?
In this episode: News- 1:17 || Main Topic (Traditions)- 15:37 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:06:00
On the bonus segment, Mike explains how the tradition of Pride was almost on New Year's Eve instead of June. Get ad-free episodes 1 day early by joining Patreon at any level at www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 312 Merry XXX-Ma’ (w/ Ma Johnson)
Yo Saturnalia! Does “X-mas” take the Christ out of Christmas? What do Paganism and Saturnalia have to do with Christmas? Does it harm kids to perpetuate the lie of Santa? We celebrate A Very Special Christmas Episode with Ma Johnson.
In this episode: News- 9:10 || Main Topic (Christmas)- 21:49 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:13:35
As a special holiday gift, all Patreon members will get access to this week’s bonus video (which is normally only for the $10+/mo tiers) where Ma Johnson makes her famous c
Gayish: 311 Feet (w/ Ma Johnson)
More than just a fetish, feet can be used to walk (and other things)!
In this episode: News- 3:57|| Main Topic (Feet)- 15:46 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:09:44
On the bonus Patreon segment, we read the earliest known poem about foot stuff written in like, 5 AD. Support Gayish by joining our Patreon at www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Full episode transcript: www.gayishpodcast.com/gayish-311-feet-w-ma-johnson/.
Gayish: 310 Qatar
As the FIFA World Cup 2022 continues, claims of homophobia are dismissed and deprioritized. Are the criticisms justified, or do we need to simply respect the culture of Qatar?
In this episode: News- 4:38 || Main Topic (Qatar)- 22:58 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:21:52
Donate to Dr. Nasser Mohamed’s non-profit to advance LGBT rights in the Middle East (with a focus on the Gulf region) at www.alwanfoundation.org.
On the bonus Patreon segment, we discuss brand ambassador to the World Cup 2022, known
Gayish: 309 Selfies
Are people who take selfies narcissist? Why do gays love selfies? Are we willing to die for selfies?
In this episode: News- 2:35 || Main Topic (Selfies)- 17:11 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:15:35
On the bonus segment, Mike and Kyle learn tips to improve their selfie game, and they take some selfies to see if it worked. Get bonus segments every Friday and other great benefits by joining at www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Full episode transcript: www.gayishpodcast.com/gayish-309-selfies/.
Gayish: 308 Unemployment (w/ Sarah Ray)
Capitalism, productivity, and self-worth. Sarah joins as a guest co-host to talk with Kyle about LGBTQ+ unemployment and our personal experiences being out of work.
In this episode: News- 5:29 || Main Topic (Unemployment)- 24:06 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:23:40
Find all about Sarah and the work she does at www.callmesarah.com. Also, take a listen to her podcasts, SarahTalk and Humanist Trek.
On the bonus segment, Sarah and Kyle commiserate on the topic of “productivity guilt,” and Kyle helps Sar
Gayish: 307 Hairdressers
Other than Jonathan van Ness, why are so many famous hairdressers straight?! We talk about the hairdressing history, stereotypes, research and French people.
In this episode: News- 6:15 || Main Topic (Hairdressers)- 19:39 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:15:52
This episode topic was voted on by our wonderful Patreon Gap Bridgers! If you want to vote, either in the main poll or the tie-breaker, check out the levels and benefits at patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 306 Gay Republicans (w/ Rep. Dan Zwonitzer)
Why is gay Republicans? Rep. Dan Zwonitzer, a gay Republican Party member of the Wyoming House of Representatives joins to help us understand.
In this episode: News- 7:48 || Main Topic (Gay Republicans)- 19:34 || Guest (Rep. Dan Zwonitzer)- 32:59 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:15:41
Gayish: 305 Anime
Topics include: anime, manga, hentai, otaku, emakimono, hāremumono, Ouran High School Host Club, Spirited Away, Hayao Miyazaki, Attack on Titan, Pokémon, censorship in Sailor Moon, Usagi Tsukino’s bisexuality, LGBTQ representation in Japan, and horrific murder. Thanks to Gap Bridger Mike Cubbington for requesting this episode!
In this episode: News- 3:08 || Main Topic (Anime)- 18:45 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:24:12
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Gayish: 304 Old White Ladies
Old white ladies are revered as gay icons, but should they be?
How was Angela Lansbury’s divorce gayish? How did Queen Elizabeth II really feel about gays? What about the original lady who lunches? And is Jessica Walter the Patron Saint of Shitty Mothers?
In this episode: News- 7:39 || Main Topic (Old White Ladies)- 16:45 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:10:55
In the Patreon bonus segment. Judy. Fucking. Garland. Get bonus segments every Friday by joining at the $5/mo level. Or, support us for as lit
Gayish: 303 Furries
What’s a furry? What’s a fursona? Are furries part of the LGBTQ+ community? From sex, fursuits, fursonas, and Sonic the Hedgehog, which stereotypes are true and which are misconceptions? Also, Disney, Zootopia, furbaiting, and yiffing.
Get the FurScience (i.e. the International Anthropomorphic Research Project) book and research.
In this episode: News- 2:58 || Main Topic (Furries)- 15:34 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:41:33
In the Patreon bonus segment, Mike and Kyle delve into therians and otherkin
Gayish: 302 Gambling
Mike and Kyle explore the parallels between gay and gambling by talking about religious views, the DSM-5 on gambling disorders, the conflicting studies, and Gamblers Anonymous. We also get into Jason Somerville, the only openly gay competitor in the World Series of Poker, and Brian Christopher, the most popular slot machine YouTuber.
In this episode: News- 2:03 || Main Topic (Gambling)- 16:45 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:22:01
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Gayish: 301 MTV Gays (w/ Danny Roberts)
Danny Roberts from The Real World: New Orleans joins us to discuss the how he feels about his role in gay history today, other MTV gays like Norm Korpi, stalkers, parasocial relationships, his military ex-boyfriend Paul, PTSD, shrooms, and his HIV diagnosis.
In this episode: News- 1:37 || Main Topic (MTV Gays)- 17:14 || Guest (Danny Roberts)- 22:22 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:05:59
Follow Danny on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jdannyroberts/. Danny’s New Orleans Halloween event is on Sunda
Gayish: 300 Q&A
Mike & Kyle answer questions from listeners, Ma Johnson, and the internet. We talk about whether Kyle was ever into Mike, getting hit on by straight women, and which hole is bigger.
In this episode: Main Topic (Q&A)- 7:56 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:34:27
In the Patreon bonus segment, Mike and Kyle ask questions they have come up with for each other, including topics like shrooms, dogs, and Have A Nice Gay. Join our Patreon for tons of great content and perks at www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 299 Songwriting (w/ GALXARA)
Singer/songwriter/space lesbian GALXARA joins us to talk about her journey from local singing competitions to signing with Atlantic Records at age 15. She shares the ups and downs, including coming out, being diagnosed with bipolar disorder, and creating the single “Sway with Me” with Saweetie for the Birds of Prey soundtrack.
In this episode: News- 3:15 || Main Topic (Songwriting)- 15:32 || Guest (GALXARA)- 19:01 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:01:55
Our 300th episode livestream will be THIS Sunday,
Gayish: 298 Tantra (w/ Joel Benjamin)
Guest Joel Benjamin joins to help us understand and improve our relationship with sexual energy through tantra. Joel has worked with both Griffin Barrows and our very own Mike Johnson, so we get to hear the first-hand ;) experience of his tantric massage and edging sessions.
Our 300th episode livestream will be on Sunday, Sept. 18, 2022 @ 2pm Pacific. Mark your calendars, send us your questions, and submit your merch designs! Event invite: https://fb.me/e/1M1tAez1g.
In this episode: New
Gayish: 297 Demi
This one gets REAL personal, y’all. Demisexual. Demiromantic. Demigender. Demiboy. Mike and Kyle explore whether they fit any of the demi labels.
Our 300th episode livestream will be on Sunday, Sept. 18, 2022 @ 2pm Pacific. Mark your calendars, send us your questions, and submit your merch designs! Event invite: https://fb.me/e/1M1tAez1g.
In this episode: News- 2:28 || Main Topic (Demi)- 16:10 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:22:28
On the Patreon bonus segment, the conversation we had about Demi Lovat
Gayish: 296 Singapore
Singapore ends their ban on gay sex by repealing the colonial-era Section 377A of their penal code!
In a coincidence that we’re going to pretend is good planning, we’re discussing LGBTQ rights in Singapore, the recent change in their penal code, the history of how queer Singapore was before colonialization, and their annual Pink Dot celebrations.
Our 300th episode livestream will be on Sunday, Sept. 18, 2022 @ 2pm Pacific. Mark your calendars, send us your questions, and submit your merch design
Gayish: 295 Gay & Lesbian Friendship (w/ Derek and Romaine)
Can gays and lesbians be friends? A lesbian and her friend join to help us figure out the answer.
In this episode: News- 1:22 || Main Topic (Gay & Lesbian Friendship)- 12:35 || Guests (Derek and Romaine)- 22:48 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:00:46
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Gayish: 294 Camping
Camping. It’s a straight people thing, right? It’s dirty, has no amenities, no bars…. but then again, it’s always been kinda homoerotic. And more and more queer people are doing it. And there are gay campgrounds. So maybe it’s gayer than we think?
In this episode: News- 8:09 || Main Topic (Camping)- 18:20 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:15:57
Our bonus segment will be delayed this week, but that’s because we’ll be bringing you an interview with someone who works at TRC, a gay campground in the Pacifi
Gayish: 293 Pegging
From the Pride48 live-streaming weekend, Mike and Kyle get into pegging! While its modern incarnation was from Dan Savage’s Savage Love column, it has historical roots that go way back before that. How as the definition evolved? Who is the #PrinceOfPegging? And how do we destigmatize butt stuff among straight guys?
In this episode: Main Topic (Pegging)- 4:09 || Gayest & Straightest- 53:13
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Gayish: 292 Gay Porn Stars (w/ Cade Maddox)
Gay porn star Cade Maddox joins us to talk about the low-budget studio that baited him into the industry, how he does scenes with guys he’s not into, his relationship with his extremely religious mom, and drugs in the porn industry. See more of Cade (and how to sext him?!?) at https://www.cademaddox.com/.
Last reminder to vote for us for Best LGBTQ Podcast at the Podcast Awards at www.podcastawards.com! Deadline is July 31.
In this episode: News- 5:44 || Main Topic (Gay Porn Star)- 19:4
Gayish: 291 Lavender
Lavender is the herb of love. It’s also a prominent LGBTQ symbol. We break down why it’s associated with gays, the Lavender Scare, Lavender Graduation, and the famous anti-gay person from history that used lavender instead of bathing.
Vote for us for Best LGBTQ Podcast at the Podcast Awards at www.podcastawards.com!
In this episode: News- 4:00 || Main Topic (Lavender)- 12:33 || Gayest & Straightest- 59:01
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Gayish: 290 Katy Perry
Is Katy Perry a gay icon? What has she actually said about her sexual orientation? Is her apology for “I Kissed a Girl” too little too late? We take on the KatyCats when we discuss the American Idol herself, Katy Hudson. I mean, Katy Perry.
Vote for us for Best LGBTQ Podcast at the Podcast Awards at www.podcastawards.com!
In this episode: News- 6:10 || Main Topic (Katy Perry)- 18:31 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:21:03
On the bonus Patreon segment, we break down the Katy Perry vs. Taylor Swift feud
Gayish: 289 Snakes
We talk queer snakes! Snake orgies! Estrogen-infused snakes! Disney villan snakes! Lil Nas X as a snake! Trouser snakes! Hammaconda! Freud’s dream snake interpretation! Also, the post-Stonewall raid of the Snake Pit. The trauma of testing negative for HIV.
In this episode: News- 3:48 || Main Topic (Snakes)- 14:17 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:02:58
On the bonus Patreon segment, we get into the trouser snake field guide and Jung's psychoanalytical view of snakes. Support the show and get great benef
Gayish: 288 Queer Joy
Heartstopper. MUNA. Lil Nas X. Going to queer bars. Queer art. Queer anthems. Learning queer history. There’s lots of queer joy in this world, so we make like legs and spread it.
In this episode: News- 4:01 || Main Topic (Queer Joy)- 12:24 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:20:47
On the bonus Patreon segment, Kyle shares gayta on religion, gayness, and happiness. Is it possible for them to coexist? See all the levels and benefits of Patreon membership at www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 287 Roe v. Wade [Shrinkage]
Mike breaks down the recent US Supreme Court decision that overturned Roe v. Wade. We discuss the impact of Dobbs v. Jackson Women's Health Organization, the role of due process in granting rights, and the similar decisions that are now at risk: Lawrence v. Texas, Griswold v. Connecticut, Obergefell v. Hodges, and (the noticeably absent) Loving v. Virginia.
Gayish: 286 Queer Spaces
Do we still need queer spaces? We explore the history (including Greek bathhouses, molly houses, and Mother Clap) the failure of social media sites to protect queer people (focused on GLAAD’s Social Media Safety Index), and whether allies belong in queer spaces.
This episode was sponsored by Spaces, a new group chat app for queer communities. Join our Gayish space on iOS: https://queerspaces.com/s/BqN4x27HMh6L74WW8.
Our Pride Happy Hour, open to everyone and anyone, is tonight (June 23) at 6pm P
Gayish: 285 Queer as Folk
Is Queer as Folk good or bad for the gay community? Is it okay to release an episode with a shooting at a gay club during the anniversary of the Pulse nightclub shooting? Where did Queer as Folk get its name? What did the new series improve upon, and what mistakes did they keep making? We get right into the feelz on the old and new versions. YES WE KNOW IT WAS A BRITISH SHOW FIRST SO DON’T WRITE IN ABOUT THAT.
In this episode: News- 2:39 || Main Topic (Queer as Folk)- 19:23 || Gayest & Straighte
Gayish: 284 Queer Cinema (w/ Chris Haigy from We Read Movies)
Chris Haigy from the We Read Movies podcast join us to talk about the very first gay film, the first same-sex kiss in a movie (during an orgy?!), the Hays Code, the Queer New Wave of cinema, and the (bad) lessons we learn from gay movies. Plus, tons and tons of queer movie recommendations if you’re looking for some new queer content to consume!
In this episode: News- 6:25 || Main Topic (Queer Cinema)- 20:56 || Guest (Chris Haigy)- 22:46 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:17:03
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Gayish: 283 Queer
Happy Pride!! Love it or hate it, you probably recognize that the word Queer is here to stay. For Pride month we're kicking off an entire month of episodes that have to do with the Q-slur. But that word is not without controversy, and in this surprisingly serious episode we break it all down.
In this episode: News- 4:24 || Main Topic (Queer)- 22:53 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:20:10
On the bonus Patreon segment, how should journalists use the words "dyke" and "fag"? Also, the LGTBQs that did
Gayish: 282 Virtual Reality
Topics covered on this episode: VPL Research, betacucks, Jesse Williams’ dick, Tommy Lee and Pamela Anderson sex tape, VR porn, the “plot” of gay VR porn, treatment for gender dysphoria, Metaverse, the pros (and cons) of virtual reality for the LGBTQ+ community, Google’s virtual Pride #PrideForEveryone, World of Warcraft, whether Jamiroquai is the QAnon Shaman, the ethics of fucking virtual likenesses.
In this episode: News- 5:13 || Main Topic (Virtual Reality)- 17:51 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:
Gayish: 281 Left-Handedness
Left-handed? That’s how daddy rolls. Partially inspired by this tweet, we expand on the apt comparisons between LGBTQ people and left-handedness. Also, are left-handed people more likely to be queer? Are they smarter? Are they more talented? Why does society hate them? We do the right thing by talking left.
(The history of left-handedness chart Kyle refers to early in the episode is in that tweet, if you want the visual.)
In this episode: News- 2:32 || Main Topic (Left-Handedness)- 16:06 || Gaye
Gayish: 280 Gay Sex (w/ Dave Quantic from Fruitbowl podcast)
Most of us had to learn about gay sex alone, without anyone’s help. Dave Quantic from the podcast Fruitbowl joins us to talk about his sexual coming of age, like cruising when underage, what he’s learned from 60+ sex interviews, and his goal of normalizing conversations about queer sex.
In this episode: News- 2:51 || Main Topic (Gay Sex)- 19:22 || Guest (Dave Quantic from Fruitbowl)- 24:21 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:03:06
On the bonus Patreon segment, we all share one (or two) of our first times
Gayish: 279 Madison Cawthorn [Shrinkage]
In this mini episode, the on-going saga of Rep. Madison Cawthorn. Mike talks through his ethics investigation and his “roommate,” Stephen Smith. Kyle had never heard most of this, but especially not the honeymoon part!
(Note: we'll still have a new, full-length episode coming out Wednesday for Patreon members and Thursday for everyone, so this is just a fun surprise bonus!)
Gayish: 278 Grilling
When you think about it, grilling is the culmination of so many straight, masculine stereotypes: fire, meat, providing for the family. And, as we discover in this episode, it has a combination patriarchal, racist, and heteronormative roots. But still, a huge metal spatula is a great Gift for Him!
TODAY, the day this episode comes out (May 5, 2022), is the last day to vote for us for best gay sex podcast in the Cybersocket Award! Vote at cybersocketawards.com (NSFW)!
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Gayish: 277 Pirates
Pirates are so bisexual, we’re officially proposing renaming them birates. We talk about all the wonderful gay, bi, and poly things that go down on the Island of Tortuga, the historical gender-bending bisexual female pirates that formed a throuple with John “Calico Jack” Rackham, butt pirates, matelotage, Our Flag Means Death, and the terrifying reality of modern-day pirates (and what that has in common with gay stereotypes).
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Gayish: 276 Flight Attendants
Flight attendant is the stereotypically gayest job, but does the data (I mean, gayta) say the stereotype is true? We talk about where the stereotype came from, the very first flight attendant (who was a dude and maybe gay?), the Supreme Court decision that paved the way for gay flight attendants (Diaz v. Pan American World Airways), and the most infamous gay flight attendant of all: AIDS/HIV Patient Zero, aka Gaétan Dugas.
In this episode: News- 5:35 || Main Topic (Flight Attendants)- 20:24 ||
Gayish: 275 Foreskin: Live in Seattle
This is the episode that gets us formally kicked out of the Catholic Church. For the last live show of our mini tour, we bring the foreskin to Seattle! We talk about a lot of topics, but the only ones you’ll remember are face cream and Jesus’ foreskin.
In this episode: News- 6:49 || Main Topic (Foreskin)- 15:12 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:18:47
Starting next month, we're going to be doing short, monthly Momsplaining episodes for the $5+/mo Patreon members! Join at patreon.com/gayishpodcast, and b
Gayish: 274 Blondes: Live in Portland
For our 5th anniversary celebration, we talk about (and drink) blondes! We taste the Gayish blonde ale beer live, analyze the gay stereotype “Legally Blonde” hinged on, talk about the gay moment that got “Gentlemen Prefer Blondes” author Anita Loos kicked off TV, and use research to answer whether blondes really are dumb. Our final live show is in Seattle THIS SUNDAY, April 10! Details at gayishpodcast.com/live.
Note about the audio: we had some technical difficulties, so the audio is a little r
Gayish: 273 Frat Guys: Live from Treefort in Boise
Are the stereotypes of frat guys fair? Have fraternities been getting better for gay members? Is frat guy porn any good? What does Mike’s frattoo say? And how does Nick Jonas fit in? We talk about one of Kyle’s favorite topics, frat bros, live at the Treefort Music Festival in Boise, ID.
Remember to email audio or written entries for the theme song contest by Friday, April 1. Also, come see us live at our upcoming Portland or Seattle shows! Details at gayishpodcast.com/live.
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Gayish: 272 Incest
Whatever consenting adults do behind closed doors is their own business… right? While we often hear this refrain to support gay issues, we test the boundaries of its truth by discussing the uncomfortable topic of incest. We cover worldwide societal norms; the Bible; the Westermarck Effect; the theory of Genetic Sexual Attraction; step-dad, step-son, and step-brother incest porn; consanguineous relationships; and, of course, the TV show Private Practice.
Remember to submit audio or written entrie
Gayish: 271 Pageants (w/ Sable Jones St. James)
“I would name drop, but I’ve already been in their DMs.” Sable Jones St. James, the reining Miss Gay Virginia United States At Large, joins us to talk everything pageant: pageant queens vs. drag queens, Southern drag, competing in the “big girl” division, the fourth wall of drag, RuPaul’s Drag Race’s affect on the drag world, and whether drag queens bang each other. Sable’s contact: IG @sablejones_stjames and Venmo @sablejonesusa.
Plus, we announce the Gayish theme music contest! Written or audi
Gayish: 270 Arrests
We talk about LGBT arrests, including some of the largest mass LGBT arrests, the misunderstood three article law, “walking while trans” laws, online misgendering/harassment, and the arrest of a famous closeted ‘90s singer.
In this episode: News- 4:38 || Main Topic (Arrests)- 19:35 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:24:39
On the bonus Patreon segment, we become a true crime podcast when a naked body is found at the bottom of a cliff. Get bonus segments for $5/mo at patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 269 Star Trek (w/ Callie Wright)
Star Trek superfan, Klingon speaker, and host of the podcast Queersplaining Callie Wright joins us to nerd out with Mike. YES, there is a lot of Star Trek talk, but we also talk about the queer and trans experience, the importance of non-binary actors playing non-binary characters, and whether bad representation is actually bad. Oh, and gay horny space whales.
In this episode: News- 7:01 || Main Topic (Star Trek)- 24:26 || Guest (Callie Wright)- 32:02 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:20:17
On the bonu
Gayish: 268 Lip Gloss
Men’s makeup has made strides in availability and acceptability, but lip gloss is a perfect example of how, even in makeup, men’s products are expected to be practical, subtle, and, of course, not too feminine. We talk about stereotypes we’re ashamed to have and the rules we wish we could break.
In this episode: News- 4:17 || Main Topic (Lip Gloss)- 13:47 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:00:51
On the Patreon bonus segment, Mike shares the lip gloss drama of Kylie Jenner v. Trixie Mattel. Get bonus aud
Gayish: 267 Cum
How much cum do you think you can handle in one episode? Because there is so much cum. We said cum SO many times. We say cum far more than the number of times you should cum per month to help avoid prostate cancer. We say at least 4 pizzas worth of cum, but that will only make sense if you listen.
In this episode: News- 2:55 || Main Topic (Cum)- 14:15 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:12:47
Coming to the Patreon bonus segment, we answer the question "What does cum smell like?" and Mike shares 100 e
Gayish: 266 Love
Unlike my hole, the word love is overloaded. We break down love the Greek way, how straight people’s view of gay love affects our rights, love languages (and the shithead that created them), and what queer love can teach straight people.
In this episode: News- 3:13 || Main Topic (Love)- 19:24 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:29:52
Coming to the Patreon bonus segment, Mike share gay love letters from history, and everyone melts. Get tons of bonus content for $5/mo at patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 265 Younger Guys (w/ Davey Wavey)
Davey Wavey, 38, often dates 20-year-old and 21-year-old guys. He joins us to share why he dates younger guys, his pros and cons list of dating younger, and his response to those that think it’s weird or gross. Known-younger-guy-dater Mike commiserates while Kyle gets to hang back and play armchair psychologist.
In this episode: News- 3:51 || Main Topic (Younger Guys)- 19:30 || Guest (Davey Wavey)- 23:26 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:08:24
Join Patreon to get episodes a day early and support the sh
Gayish: 264 UFC
What do Rosie O’Donnell’s brother, John McCain, GLAAD, and submission holds have in common? Surprisingly, it’s the UFC. We talk about the explicitly gay parts (like the engaged lesbian UFC fighter couple), the homoerotic parts (which inspired our game of “MMA move or sex act”), and the straight parts (like how there are no out gay male UFC fighters), and we confront the serious question: is it okay to joke about how homoerotic the UFC is?
In this episode: News- 5:51 || Main Topic (UFC)- 21:20 ||
Gayish: 263 Sides (w/ Dr. Joe Kort)
Anal schmanal. Sexologist, psychotherapist, and host of the podcast “Smart Sex, Smart Love” Dr. Joe Kort joins us to talk about sides, the term he coined in 2013 to describe gay men who don’t have anal sex. We also dip into straight guys, MSM (men who have sex with men), and Mike gets a little therapy about demisexuality.
In this episode: News- 1:53 || Main Topic (Sides)- 16:56 || Guest (Dr. Joe Kort)- 21:02 || Gayest & Straightest- 52:10
Links:
Dr. Kort's 2013 Huffington Post article about side
Gayish: 262 Decluttering
As voted on by our Gap Bridgers, we talk about a common New Year’s resolution, decluttering, including the “science” of straight men vs. gay men’s organizational skills, Tim Gunn vs. Marie Kondo, decluttering Mike’s dildo collection, and Truman Capote.
In this episode: News- 2:03 || Main Topic (Decluttering)- 12:36 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:00:37
Coming soon on the Patreon bonus segment, Fucking Dan talks about hoarding tendencies, both his own and the diagnosis. Get bonus segments every week f
Gayish: 261 Betty White
Betty White said, “The gay community seems to like old ladies. They always have.” And yes, Betty, it’s true, but we loved you.
In this episode: News- 3:42 || Main Topic (Betty White)- 15:15 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:05:52
Coming soon to the bonus Patreon segment, who's next????? Get bonus content at patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 260 Champagne 🍾
We cover the creation of champagne (hint: it’s not Dom Pérignon), Mike’s new favorite god, why champagne is associated with New Year’s Eve, bottomless mimosas, champagne songs by mostly straight artists (incl. Taylor Swift, Nick Jonas, Drake, Lin Manuel Miranda, Jessica Hammond, Malia Civetz, Queer Rocket, and Amanda Lepore), the “gay” cava True Colours and their iffy LGBT support, and the champagne of beer.
In this episode: News- 1:27 || Main Topic (Champagne)- 14:49 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:
Gayish: 259 Queer Dads II (w/ the Peters-Mathews Family)
In this chaotic re-do of the topic “queer dads” for Redo-cember, we check in once again with gay dads Joseph and Brandon Peters-Mathews and their two-year-old, Topher.
In this episode: News- 1:46 || Main Topic (Queer Dads)- 16:41 || Gayest & Straightest- 57:19
Coming soon on the Patreon bonus segment, Mike and Kyle update each other on if they want kids. Get tons of bonus content and support the show by joining at patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 258 Butt Plugs II (w/ Happy Hole Toys)
Erik and Emmett from the Seattle-based Happy Hole Toys join us to talk about the process of making butt plugs, coming out to grandma about making butt plugs, DongTwitter™, gooey duck and Sasquatch toys, and tech support for Mike’s prostate.
Check out happyholetoys.com and get 10% off through the end of Dec. 2021 by using the code GAYISH at checkout. (Patreon members get 20% off, so check our Patreon posts for the code.)
In this episode: News- 1:33 || Main Topic (Butt Plugs)- 18:27 || Gayest & St
Gayish: 257 Gingers
Can stereotypes be fun without being harmful? Is the Red Hot calendar good, bad, or fetish? What about Jesse Tyler Ferguson, Lindsay Lohan, Elton John, Willow, and that dude who hosts ‘RISK!’? Bring on the gingers (and the lesbian bars)!
In this episode: News- 3:16 || Main Topic (Ginger)- 13:10 || Gayest & Straightest- 59:49
Our Patreon members voted for us to talk about this episode! If you want to help decide the episode topics, check out this and other benefits at patreon.com/gayishpodcast. J
Gayish: 256 Dungeons & Dragons II
As part of Redo-cember, we’re talking about Dungeons & Dragons! Again! But for real this time. We’ll talk about Gary Gygax’s problematic son, LGBTQ representation in The Adventure Zone, and surprisingly personal experiences of the joys and sorrows of playing D&D. Thanks to Gap Bridger Zackery Cochran for requesting this topic!
In this episode: News- 5:55 || Main Topic (Dungeons & Dragons)- 14:24 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:20:14
Instead of our usual Patreon bonus segment, listen in for t
Gayish: 255 Things Kyle Likes
As a counterpoint to episode 244, we're talking all about things Kyle likes, including: a popular hazelnut spread, the phrase “no homo,” a less-but-not-completely-non-homophobic pizza chain, and taking the attention off himself. Thanks to Gap Bridger Steve Douglas for requesting this topic!
In this episode: News- 2:15 || Main Topic (Things Kyle Likes)- 14:53 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:09:36
Because of the US Thanksgiving holiday, we're posting a day early for everyone. But did you know our Patre
Gayish: 254 Laundry
We’ll wear this episode for two weeks, work out and sweat in it, then mail it to you in a plastic bag.
In this episode: News- 9:49 || Main Topic (Laundry)- 26:17 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:17:07
If you want to vote on episode topics, join our Patreon! Gap Bridgers get to vote monthly, and all $5+/mo members get to vote just in case there’s a tie. patreon.com/gayishpodcast
Gayish: 253 World War II
Gay Nazis, the good things (?1?!!?) that came out of WWII for gay people, the creation of the Castro and gayborhoods, US’s abuse of discharged gay military members, the belles of WWII, and the first trans man’s phalloplasty. These are just some of the things we talk about when we discuss World War 2, as requested by Gap Bridger Mark Wolcott.
In this episode: News- 5:51 || Main Topic (World War II)- 16:28 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:04:21
If you want to come up with your own episode topic that we’
Gayish: 252 Cher
In an alternate universe, the title of this episode is “Bonnie Jo Mason.”
In this episode: News- 3:29 || Main Topic (Cher)- 18:23 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:17:00
On the Patreon bonus segment, Mike talks about the only other Cher that's important.
Gayish: 251 Chastity
Lock up your ears and submit to… our discussion about chastity. Happy Locktober, everyone!
In this episode: News- 4:46 || Main Topic (Chastity)- 16:02 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:17:52
Coming soon to the bonus Patreon segment, Fucking Dan shares his personal experience locking his junk. Join at www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 250 Q&A
IT’S BEEN 250 EPISODES! Who knew gays could commit to something for that long? We celebrate with a livestream featuring Q&As, announcements, and gifts.
In this episode: News- 2:12 || Main Topic (Q&A)- 15:31 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:56:10
Coming to the Patreon segment, a really fun lightning round of questions, including questions for Fucking Dan!
Gayish: 249 Twinks
BUT REALLY, WHAT IS A TWINK? We explore twinks hard and deep with the etymology of twinks, twink tops, the twink lifecycle, Tyler Oakley, twink erasure, twinking in video games, twink erasure, and the Twink Buttle Royal. Can you even handle that much twink!? (Yes. Yes you can.)
Send in your questions for our Q&A episode, livestreaming on Sunday, Oct. 17 @ 2pm Pacific. https://www.facebook.com/events/299375832019454
In this episode: News- 5:39 || Main Topic (Twinks)- 25:24 || Gayest & Straightest
Gayish: 248 Biting
Thanks to our Gap Bridgers, we talk about everything biting has to offer: rough sex, love bites, the etymology of “bite me,” nipple biting, dick biting, queer vampires, and so much more.
In this episode: News- 0:58 || Main Topic (Biting)- 15:43 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:08:30
On Monday's bonus Patreon segment, Fucking Dan will talk about the various uses of snake biting kits that could help both Kyles and trans people alike. patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 247 Fragrances
From the new trends of unisex fragrances, man musk, and Cumming to the old classics of whale poop, beaver goo, and musk taint, we hit all the top (and bottom) notes when we talk about fragrances, as requested by Gap Bridger Thomas B.
In this episode: News- 1:16 || Main Topic (Fragrances)- 16:14 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:12:09
On Monday's bonus Patreon segment, werewolf balls. I mean, there's more to it, but all I remember is werewolf balls. Get bonus content like this by joining at patreon.com/
Gayish: 246 Hometown: Live from Yakima Pride
Mike and Kyle return to where Mike grew up for Yakima Pride to talk about their hometowns and the often-ignored US LGBT rural population. Plus, Joshua Hastings, VP of Yakima Pride, shares what it’s been like moving away, then back to, Yakima and planning the local Pride.
In this episode: News- 4:54 || Main Topic (Hometown)- 14:32 || Guest (Joshua Hastings)- 45:50 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:06:45
Coming Monday, a rollercoaster ride of a Patreon segment where Fucking Dan gets Mike and Kyle to act
Gayish: 245 Diana Ross
As voted on by our Gap Bridgers, Mike and Kyle talk about The Boss herself, Diana Ross. We cover her gayest song (not the one you’d think), the surprising story of “I’m Coming Out,” the weird Diana-Ross-inspired subgenre, and Archer vs. Diana.
In this episode: News- 7:11 || Main Topic (Diana Ross)- 20:03 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:12:01
If you want to help us decide a topic to discuss once a month, support us as a Gap Bridger at patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish 244: Things Kyle Hates (w/ Donna Suggarz)
Kyle is in Hawaii, so Mike is joined by drag queen podcaster extraordinaire Donna Suggarz! Since Kyle is away we're taking this opportunity to talk about all the things he hates with a fiery passion.
Basically it's finding a beer drinking Klingon that will DP you while you eat a pickle. Assuming you can do all that while playing WoW. (Kyle's probably OK with the DP part, maybe...)
In this episode: News- 4:14 || Main Topic (Things Kyle Hates)- 16:06 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:07:55
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Gayish: 243 First Dates II: Live in Yakima
As voted on by our Facebook group, Mike and Kyle re-do our topic from the very first episode: first dates. Coming to you live from Hop Capital Brewing (instagram.com/hopcapitalbrewofficial) in Yakima, WA.
In this episode: News- 8:16 || Main Topic (First Dates)- 17:30 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:03:07a
Coming soon, our bonus Patreon segment features Ma Johnson talking about cruising in Yakima, and she reprises her hit song, “My Thighs,” live.
Gayish 242: Armpits (w/ Chris Haigy)
As voted on by our Gap Bridgers this month, dive right in there and get a whiff of armpits! Mike is joined this week by guest co-host Chris Haigy, of the We Read Movies Podcast, to talk all things pits. From pit crystals to vagina dentata pits to the terrible lives of some paleolithic oysters... we cover a lot of ground.
In this episode: News- 6:26 || Main Topic (Armpits)- 18:52 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:26:21
On Monday's bonus Patreon segment, Fucking Dan tells us about a San Francisco
Gayish 241: Superstition (w/ Frigay the 13th)
This week we're talking about superstition with Matty and Andrew from the Frigay the 13th Podcast.
What are the chances a Ouija board will make you come out of the closet? Is Mister Rogers a bisexual Satanist? Is the number 24 why there are no Brazilian soccer players in our bedrooms?
In this episode: News- 1:26 || Main Topic (Superstition)- 10:56 || Guests (Matty and Andrew from Frigay the 13th)- 14:11 || Gayest & Straightest- 58:45
For ad-free episodes 1 day early, plus tons of other benefit
Gayish 240: Representation (w/ Max Currie)
This week we're talking about representation, both LGBT+ and beyond. We were very lucky to sit down with Max Currie, director and co-showrunner of Rurangi (now streaming on Hulu), an amazing new trans drama out of New Zealand. The fact he was a member of the pit crew on RuPaul's Drag Race Down Under also means he is very easy on the eyes, which was great for Mike and Kyle but doesn't really help you out much. Anyway, Rurangi is amazing, check it out.
In this episode: News- 0:42 || Main Topic
Gayish: 239 Felching
The title of the episode is felching, and you’re reading the description? What more do you need????
Gayish: 238 Cheating
What counts as cheating? How does it feel to be cheated on? Should you tell? When Mike and Kyle get personal, Mike shares a surprising story.
In this episode: News- 2:30 || Main Topic (Cheating)- 14:41 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:13:32
For ad-free episodes 1 day early, plus tons of other benefits, support us at patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 237 Bears (w/ Bear Back)
As requested by Gap Bridger James Barrow, Mike and Kyle finally talk about bears! Bear stereotypes (bear-eotypes?), who invented bears, whether Mike or Kyle consider themselves to be bears. Plus, guests Ben and Benja from the Bear Back podcast share their exbearience, the good, the bad, and the hairy.
In this episode: News- 8:13 || Main Topic (Bears)- 20:51 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:20:41
On the bonus Patreon segment, you'll get more bear stories from Ben and Benja, including the time they felt
Gayish: 236 Nails
Painting fingernails has a long history of being associated with masculinity. When did it change? In this lesbian-heavy episode, we explore nail history, the nail hanky code, fingering tips, and men’s nail trends.
In this episode: News- 3:17 || Main Topic (Nails)- 13:21 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:00:38
On our bonus Patreon segment, Fucking Dan creates a "Nailed It"-style competition that pits Mike against Kyle to create a gay cupcake: patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 235 Canada
Fuck 4th of July. Happy Canada Day!
Operation SOAP. Canadian bottoms. Residential school system. Two-spirit. Toronto vs. Montreal. Buggery. Tim Horton’s. PornHub. Ted Cruz. Canadian circumcision statistics. Just like Alexander Wood, we touch on a little bit of everything.
In this episode: News- 5:07 || Main Topic (Canada)- 17:06 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:22:55
On Monday's bonus Patreon segment, Fucking Dan shares the deets of the hottest spot in Canada. patreon.com/gayishpodcast
Gayish: 234 Allies (w/ A Gay and A NonGay)
In this highly anticipated collaboration with A Gay and A NonGay, we answer the important questions: Why doesn’t Dan think he’s an ally? What are James’ stereotypes of American gays? Should Dan should come out? Why does ordering coffee scare James? Should Taylor Swift win the Performative Ally Award? Special guests James Barr and Dan Hudson join us to discuss allies.
In this episode: News- 1:13 || Main Topic (Allies)- 14:11 || Guests (James Barr & Dan Hudson)- 19:21 || Gayest & NonGayest- 1
Gayish: 233 Thighs
Sky’s out, thighs out. Thigh guy summer. Whatever you want to call it, get your weekend plans ready because it’s thigh day. Plus, a very special guest appearance by Ma Johnson that—trust me—you won’t want to miss.
In this episode: News- 1:59 || Main Topic (Thighs)- 14:04 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:11:43
Articles mentioned during the 'thicc'/cultural appropriation discussion:
Diop: https://weardiop.com/pages/whocanwearthis
Them.us article: https://www.them.us/story/dear-instagays-stop-calling-you
Gayish: 232 Sex at Pride
Kink and fetish. Corporate sponsorship. Straight perception. Family-friendly. Rainbow-washing. What is the true meaning of Pride? Mike and Kyle have the conversation the internet has been having for years.
In this episode: News- 2:04 || Main Topic (Sex and Kink at Pride)- 15:31 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:24:18
Kyle’s Pride Playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/0HoDZVQY7wkSg6n9ImUcI2?si=e4f0bc78a1594d21
Fucking Dan’s Pride Playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/1quyYDF6RzYYQ1LonvrL0Q?s
Gayish: 231 Bottoms 🥺
Who was the first to bottom? Was Oscar Wilde a bottom? Should you teach your kids to bottom? Is anal vaping a thing? We get to the bottom of all of it.
In this episode: News- 1:39 || Main Topic (Bottoms)- 12:59 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:24:37
Coming soon on the Patreon segment, Fucking Dan shares his tips for cleaning out, and Mike and Kyle... react. patreon.com/gayishpodcast
Gayish: 230 Listeners' Recovery Stories [Shrinkage]
When we decided to do Episode 229 Recovery, we asked our listeners for their stories. We had so many people write and call in, we couldn't possibly fit them in the main episode. This shrinkage is a compilation of those stories.
Thank you to everyone who participated and sent in material. We appreciate you and your willingness to share.
Gayish: 229 Recovery (w/ Boyfriend Bobby, Dani F., and Honey Bucket)
The road to recovery is long, and so is this episode.
We are joined by three LGBTQIA+ people in recovery to tell us about their struggle with substance abuse, their experiences with treatment programs, and in one case what Fucking Dan feels like on the inside.
A special thank you to Boyfriend Bobby, Dani F., and Honey Bucket (@mizzhoneybucket) for stopping by and sharing such a vulnerable part of themselves with us.
Also a big thinks to all of you that sent in your own stories! This episode
Gayish: 228 Gaydar
Is gaydar real? By the end of this episode, you’ll know the answer.
In this episode: News- 1:13 || Main Topic (Gaydar)- 13:50 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:29:27
On Monday, Fucking Dan talks about straight-passing and flying under the gaydar.
Gayish: 227 John Waters
John Waters. Gay icon. The pope of trash. We do our best to talk about him, even though we don’t revere him like other gays. Topics include Female Trouble, A Dirty Shame, Hairspray, Pink Flamingos, Divine, Mink Stole, Little Richard, Craig Ferguson, camp, the Met Gala, Trump, and tr*nnies.
In this episode: News- 3:39 || Main Topic (John Waters)- 14:14 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:22:37
This topic was selected by our Gap Bridgers. If you want to help pick episodes each month (and pick one all on yo
Gayish: 226 Horses
Look, this one gets weird. We talk about everything from the gay straightness of the Kentucky Derby, racing horse or porn star, etymology of “hung like a horse,” the comparative size of animal penises, how porn star dicks aren’t real, and bronies.
In this episode: News- 2:05 || Main Topic (Horses)- 13:38 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:06:52
Join Patreon to get access to the bonus segment for this episode, which is Fucking Dan talking about that one guy that got fucked to death by a horse. Bonus segm
Gayish: 225 Transgender (w/ Sarah Ray from SarahTalk Podcast)
Caitlyn Jenner. Bulges and tucking. Peeing standing up. Topping when trans. Crossdressers.com. “The surgery.” Richard Dawkins. We ask special guest Sarah Ray all the things you’re not supposed to ask a trans person.
In this episode: News- 3:18 || Main Topic (Transgender)- 16:54 || Guest (Sarah Ray)- 19:35 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:14:50
On Monday's Patreon segment, Fucking Dan asks Sarah "a doozy of a question." Sign up for bonus content at patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 224 Socks
Socks can be a fetish, clean-up tool, FTM packer, puppet, and a way to prove you're not gay. Yes, this is our most sockual episode yet.
In this episode: News- 1:10 || Main Topic (Socks)- 16:41 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:11:43
On Monday's Patreon segment, Fucking Dan tells us about Socks the Cat. Join for more sockful content at patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 223 News Theme Song Contest [Shrinkage]
Mike & Kyle listen to a few of the submissions we loved from the news theme song contest, including the winner!
Gayish: 222 (Iced) Coffee
Why is iced coffee a gay stereotype? Also, coffee gays from history, coffee news from ChristianPost.com, decaf coffee guilt, and São Paulo.
In this episode: News- 4:25 || Main Topic (Coffee)- 17:45 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:11:00
On Monday's Patreon segment, Fucking Dan talks about his experience ingesting coffee non-mouthily the morning before recording.
Gayish: 221 Foreplay
HAPPY FOURTH BIRTHDAY TO US! Mike and Kyle celebrate with a livestream and foreplay.
In this episode: News- 3:57 || Main Topic (Foreplay)- 22:01 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:17:01
On Monday's Patreon segment, Fucking Dan talks about the after-play to complement your 'fore-play. Get access at patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 220 Republicans
Are you a Republican't or a Republican? We talk about LGBT Republicans, and Mike tries not to yell while Kyle tries to keep the peace.
In this episode: News- 1:40 || Main Topic (Republicans)- 17:40 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:25:33
Thank you to Kevin Henderson for requesting this topic! If you want to help produce an episode of Gayish, sign up as a Gap Bridger on our Patreon, www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 219 Auto Racing (w/ Charlie Martin)
“Things had to get really bad before they got worse.” Race car driver, trans activist, and Ninja Warrior champion Charlie Martin shares her very personal experience of transitioning (and thriving) in the male-dominated world of auto racing. Plus, Mike and Kyle try their best to remember to talk about racing.
In this episode: News- 1:53 || Main Topic (Auto Racing)- 17:39 || Guest (Charlie Martin)- 23:18 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:21:05
For bonus episodes and segments, join us at patreon.com/gayis
Gayish: 218 Scissoring (w/ Kris & Shana from Bad Queers)
What’s the truth behind scissoring? Do all people achieve the goal that scissoring has to give? What’s the sound of two vulvas rubbing together?
In this episode: News- 1:17 || Main Topic (Scissoring)- 14:08 || Guests (Bad Queers)- 15:35 || Gayest & Straightest- 55:14
For bonus content, support us at patreon.com/gayishpodcast!
Gayish: 217 Jealousy
What do Mike’s ex-wife and Nick Jonas have in common? They both get jealous. (To be fair, it’s their right to be hellish.) Thanks to our Patreon Gap Bridgers for voting on this topic.
In this episode: News- 5:30 || Main Topic (Jealousy)- 17:38 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:15:42
On Monday’s Patreon bonus segment, Fucking Dan administers a jealously quiz to Mike and Kyle to see where their jealousy line is when in a relationship.
Gayish: 216 Butterflies 🦋
Butterflies can be a million things, like named after poop, a big ol' bottom, Kylie Jenner's love language, a good (or bad?) trans metaphor, a super lesbian Hong Kong film, or a song that DJ AM raps in. No matter what, we know LeVar Burton is down. 🤜🦋
In this episode: News- 9:50 || Main Topic (Butterflies)- 20:49 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:15:06
Get weekly bonus segments and monthly bonus episodes at patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 215 Limp Wrists
The stereotype of the limp-wristed faggot goes back to the Romans (no, for real), and it’s one example of how gay men are trained to hate themselves from a young age. We get surprisingly personal when we talk about our experience with limp wrists.
In this episode: News- 8:58 || Main Topic (Limp Wrists)- 21:05 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:13:43
Coming soon on the Patreon bonus segment, Fucking Dan swerves on us and talks about queercore metal bands. Oh, and he cries. Get bonus segments every week f
Gayish: 214 Backwards Hats
Our most drool-worthy episode yet!
In this episode: News- 1:24 || Main Topic (Backwards Hats)- 13:41 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:06:22
I'll be honest. The bonus segment (coming soon) is just gonna be us talking about hot guys with backwards hats. Get this and more bonus content at www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 213 Florists
This episode will be known only as the originator of the Rough Fuck Me Daddy Bouquet. And what more reason do you need to listen?
In this episode: News- 1:29 || Main Topic (Florists)- 12:03 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:04:10
On Monday's bonus segment, Dan shares floral-inspired gay history about Hibiscus and The Cockettes. Bonus content at www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 212 Tattoos
Tattoos are sexy, and so is this episode. We have surprising gatya about gay men’s opinion of guys with tattoos, the meaning of biohazard tattoos, and insight from Reddit user PM_ME_UR_GAY_COCK.
In this episode: News- 3:00 || Main Topic (Tattoos)- 14:04 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:03:43
On Monday, Fucking Dan shares the meaning behind tattoos, including the forearm one Kyle wants.
Gayish: 211 Vacuums
Are vacuums gay? We figure out if there’s truth to Mike’s personal gay stereotype by talking about vacuum fucking, the division of household chores, a vacuum coming out story, and vacuum-based sex toys.
In this episode: News- 1:12 || Main Topic (Vacuums)- 13:56 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:10:15
Gayish: 210 Tops
Total tops. Oral tops. Short tops. Poor tops. Lesbian tops. Stone tops. Mike’s topness. Timid turtle tops. There are so many different tops inside this episode!
In this episode: News- 1:17 || Main Topic (Tops)- 18:12 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:06:22
And coming on Monday, Fucking Dan's bonus segment featuring tip top top tips from his top tops! www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast
Gayish: 209 Musicals
Here’s the deal. We both like musicals. We really like musicals. But we’re not, like, super all about them. We talked about musicals. And sing some. And talk about how gay they are. Look, we did our best, okay?
Also, stick around ’til the end for a trailer of our brand new podcast, Have A Nice Gay!
In this episode: News- 3:35 || Main Topic (Musicals)- 25:08 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:09:05
Learn more about and subscribe to Have A Nice Gay:
Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/
Gayish: 208 Sobriety (w/ Davey Wavey)
THIS IS NOT AN INTERVENTION. Drinking issues are pervasive in the gay community, and Mike and Kyle explore them with special guest Davey Wavey, who has never had a drink in his life. BUT THIS IS NOT AN INTERVENTION.
In this episode: News- 2:07 || Main Topic (Sobriety)- 11:15 || Guest (Davey Wavey)- 26:15 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:08:03
On Monday's Patreon bonus segment, more with Davey Wavey, who called this segment more interesting than the regular episode.
Gayish: 207 New Years
Mike and Kyle celebrate New Years with our UK listeners!
In this episode: News- 7:27 || Main Topic (New Years)- 22:09 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:18:55
Gayish: 206 Holiday Specials (w/ BenDeLaCreme and Jinkx Monsoon)
Mike fucks up, there’s a gayta throw down, and we have legit famous people on. This episode IS special! BenDeLaCreme and Jinkx Monsoon join us to talk about Drag Race fans, drag as an art form, intolerance within the LGBTQ+ community, and The Jinkx and Dela Holiday Special, available on now on Hulu or jinkxanddela.com.
In this episode: News- 1:39 || Main Topic (Holiday Specials)- 10:43 || Guests (BenDeLaCreme and Jinkx Monsoon)- 24:41 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:02:08
Gayish is a weekly podcast a
Gayish: 205 Alone
You are not alone in feeling alone. Whether it’s not dating, having no roommates, being socially isolated, or general gay singleness, we talk about all the ways gays are experiencing aloneness. And why it’s important to talk about.
In this episode: News- 2:18 || Main Topic (Alone)- 13:19 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:27:26
On Monday, Fucking Dan's Patreon bonus segment sheds some like on solo polyamory and how it's not the paradox you might think it is.
Gayish: 204 Sitcoms (w/ Gayest Episode Ever)
Do you at least LIKE Lucy? The boys are joined by Drew Mackie and Glen Lakin from the podcast Gayest Episode Ever to talk about sitcoms. From the old classics like Golden Girls and Cheers, to the new Saved by the Bell, we take a look at the lasting impact sitcoms have had on television, gay culture, and our hearts.
In this episode: News- 4:29 || Main Topic (Sitcoms)- 17:44 || Guests (Gayest Episode Ever)- 30:25 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:09:51
More with Gayest Episode Ever will be posted on Mon
Gayish: 203 Hunting
We blame you, Gap Bridgers, for this episode. Our genuine discussion of hunting leads to conversations about daddy issues, Pink Pistols, lesbian bars, and farms.
In this episode: News- 2:08 || Main Topic (Hunting)- 15:49 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:17:02
On Monday, Patreon members will get to hear(?) our weird segment about gay porn hunting. Join at www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 202 Chosen Family (w/ Minoritea Report)
Chosen Family is important to LGBTQ people year-round, but especially during holidays like Thanksgiving. We invite the guys from the podcast Minoritea Report to join our chosen family this episode.
In this episode: News- 2:11 || Main Topic (Chosen Family)- 13:13 || Guests (Minoritea Report)- 20:21 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:04:04
For ad-free episodes a day early, visit www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 201 Bukkake
Welcome to Splash Mountain! It’s time for bukkakes! Featuring the most uncomfortable Mike has ever been on a Momsplaining. Thank you to Patreon member Keith Zeller for requesting this topic.
In this episode: News- 1:27 || Main Topic (Bukkake)- 16:14 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:04:29
For more info on the Gap Bridger tier, where one of the benefits is selecting your own episode topic, go to patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 200! The Reunion Special!
It’s our 200th Episode Reunion Special with a Mike and Kyle Q&A, fun announcements, and special guests like Davey Wavey, Pup Amp, Ma Johnson, and many more!
In this episode: Welcome & Surprises- 1:30 || Main Topic (Q&A, Announcements & Guests)- 10:21 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:40:05
See the new Patreon benefits and tiers we announced during the episode at patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 199 Reality TV (w/ David Yontef)
Lisa Rinna has lost it. Dorinda is disgusting. No one likes Lisa Vanderpump. We get into some hot, juicy goss, but in a way that you don’t have to know the deets of reality TV or the Real Housewives of Cityname to understand. Guest David Yontef from the podcast Behind the Velvet Rope joins us to dish on the stereotypes.
In this episode: News- 3:37 || Main Topic (Reality TV)- 17:00 || Guest (David Yontef)- 25:10 || Gayest & Straightest- 56:12
To get some dish that was too hot for the regular epis
Gayish: 198 Election Night [Shrinkage]
Mike and Kyle talk/drink their anxieties/innuendos on the night of the 2020 U.S. presidential election in what turns out to be a not-so-shrinked Shrinkage.
Gayish: 197 Florida
The gayest city in Florida. The Florida man (but make it gay). Florida’s importance in the US presidential election. Top surgery. These are some of the many exciting, Florida-specific topics Mike and Kyle talk about on this swing-worthy episode.
In this episode: News- 1:31 || Main Topic (Florida)- 19:30 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:04:26
On Monday, Fucking Dan will tell us about the horrifying Purple Pamphlet that was put out by the government in Florida. www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 196 Debt (w/ The Debt Free Guys from Queer Money)
The Debt Free Guys from the Queer Money podcast join us to talk about how, unfortunately, gay culture and debt go hand in hand, and some tips on what to do about it.
In this episode: News- 2:29 || Main Topic (Debt)- 13:13 || Guests (David and John from Queer Money)- 21:17 || Gayest & Straightest- 57:41
To support us while getting early, ad-free episodes, go to patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 195 Masculinity
Thanks to Patreon member Jamie Pugh for requesting this episode topic. What is masculinity? How much of it is societally constructed vs. inherent in nature? We give our take on masculinity and talk about our experiences with gendered expectations.
In this episode: News- 3:55 || Main Topic (Masculinity)- 16:35 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:16:58
For details on how you can pick an episode topic, go to patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 194 Documentaries (w/ David France and Daniel Karslake)
Documentarians David France (Oscar-nominated for “How to Survive a Plague”) and Daniel Karslake (“For the Bible Tells Me So”) each share what their films can teach us about today.
We also discuss their latest films: France’s “Welcome to Chechnya” (www.welcometochechnya.com) and Karslake’s “For They Know Not What They Do" (www.fortheyknow.org).
In this episode: News- 4:40 || Main Topic (Documentaries)- 15:54 || Guest #1 (Daniel Karslake)- 20:14 || Guest #2 (David France)- 45:02 || Gayest & Straig
Gayish: 193 Lube
It gets wet & wild & slippery & history & condoms & spit & Heath Ledger & backwards hat kinda crazy on our last livestream of 2020.
In this episode: News- 12:30 || Main Topic (Lube)- 23:42 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:13:58
On Monday's bonus segment.... well, just wait. It's going to be a Gayish first, and we can't wait for you to see it. Make sure you go to www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast for access.
Gayish: 192 Bisexuals
We asked our bisexual listeners to share their stories, and you delivered! This episode features some of the voicemails and emails we received, plus our usual rigamarole talking about topics like gayta (bita???), history, and stereotypes about bisexuals.
In this episode: News- 4:30 || Main Topic (Bisexuals)- 15:10 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:08:02
If you want to support us (and also get ad-free episodes a day early), go to www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 191 Coaches (w/ Brian Falduto)
Coaches are sexy/terrifying for gay kids. Mike and Kyle talk about all aspects of coaches, from childhood P. E. to gay coaches in sports. Plus, we’re joined by Brian Falduto, host of The Gay Life Coach Podcast, to give Kyle a much-needed life coaching session.
In this episode: News- 5:37 || Main Topic (Coaches)- 18:03 || Guest (Brian Falduto)- 56:28 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:16:02
On Monday, you can hear the Patreon bonus segment about a completely different kind of coach: a poppers coach. Go
Gayish: 190 Poker
Y’know, poker is actually kinda gay.
In this episode: News- 5:58 || Main Topic (Poker)- 17:59 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:12:39
Gayish: 189 Prostate
Booping the snoop. Hitting the he-spot. Wailing on the walnut. Whatever you want to call it, we’re talking about prostates in all their splendor.
In this episode: News- 8:16 || Main Topic (Prostate)- 20:27 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:19:34
In the bonus Patreon segment, Fucking Dan tells us that maybe everyone has a prostate. Kinda. For this plus hours and hours of other bonus content, go to patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 188 Celebrity
Is Selena Gomez an A-list celebrity? The war between Mike and Kyle begins.
In this episode: News- 5:25 || Main Topic (Celebrity)- 14:48 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:25:10
On what may be the longest and most enjoyable Patreon segment to date, we talk about when gay celebrities came out, including our coming out-birthday twins.
Gayish: 187 Interracial Relationships (w/ the Critelli's from Relationsh!t)
Interracial gay couples have two strikes against them before the leave their home in the morning. We talk race and relationships with Marko and Tony Critelli, an interracial married gay couple and hosts of the podcast Relationsh!t.
In this episode: News- 4:34 || Main Topic (Interracial Relationships)- 26:27 || Guests (Marko and Tony Critelli from Relationsh!t)- 31:21 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:15:23
On Monday's bonus episode, the actual, genuine conversation with had with Marko and Tony during
Gayish: 186 Swingers
Are there gay swingers? We sure hope so, although per usual we have no idea. Suggested to us by a Patreon supporter, we take a look at "the lifestyle" in typical Gayish fashion.
In this episode: News- 1:22 || Main Topic (Swingers)- 17:04 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:03:01
On the bonus segment coming Monday, Fucking Dan gives us an update on the Palm Springs Sex Hotel we went to with Davey Wavey in Episode 144.
Gayish: 185 Football (w/ Butz from My Gay Life)
We talk American football with Cyndi Butz-Houghton aka Butz from the podcast My Gay Life. She shares her thoughts on football lesbians, lingerie football, being bad at softball, and trans women in sports.
In this episode: News- 3:44 || Main Topic (Football)- 17:25 || Guest (Butz)- 28:27 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:00:51
On the bonus segment coming Monday, we'll have more with Butz on why women's football mascots are better than men's and other topics we didn't get to on the main episode.
Gayish: 184 Sexting
Eggplant. Water spurts. Peach, peach, peach. Devil emoji. We talk about the studies on sexters vs. non-sexters, the bizarre history of sexting, and emoji misunderstandings.
In this episode: News- 2:34 || Main Topic (Sexting)- 14:49 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:12:20
On the bonus segment, coming soon, we'll read tips from the internet on sexting and debate their efficacy.
A Short Teaser of Gayish
Get to know us! Take a listen to some of our favorite clips and guests so you can hear what the podcast is all about.
We bring research studies, news stories, history, personal experience and expert guests to the table when we discuss our topics. Episodes come out weekly on Thursdays (we rarely miss a week). Join the Gayish Agenda!
Gayish: 183 Rodeo
Ma Johnson joins us to play a game of “Rodeo Term or Sex Act.” Also, the gay rodeo, bareback, Willie Nelson, Lil Nas X, and lots of talk about gay cowboys.
In this episode: News- 1:31 || Main Topic (Rodeo)- 17:31 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:01:30
Gayish: 182 Intersectionality (w/ Kris & Shana from Bad Queers)
Kris & Shana from the Bad Queers podcast join us to talk about intersectionality, the sassy black woman affectation, and their experience of racism and sexism within the queer community.
In this episode: News- 2:42 || Main Topic (Intersectionality)- 20:52 || Guests (Kris & Shana)- 27:00 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:11:47
Gayish: 181 Asexual
Asexuals! This is the moment you’ve been waiting for! We talk about the meaning, the history, the studies, and the made-up stereotypes about asexual people. Ace, aro, gray, demi; we love all of you (in a predominantly non-sexual way).
In this episode: News- 8:25 || Main Topic (Asexual)- 25:07 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:04:03
If you're able, please support the victims of a brutal vehicular attack through Go Fund Me. Both were non-binary people protesting for BLM in Seattle.
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Gayish: 180 Freeballing
In this live streamed episode, we talk about all the celebrities and synonyms and orgasms you need to know about associated with #thatfreeballinglife.
In this episode: News- 3:05 || Main Topic (Freeballing)- 9:30 || Gayest & Straightest- 50:00
In the Patreon bonus segment, Fucking Dan tells us about the origins of the phrase "going commando." For all the bonus content we have to offer, go to patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 179 Gay Baiting
As requested by Patreon member Tipsy McStumbles (obvi a Gayish listener), we talk about gay baiting, i.e. queerbaiting. What is it? Does Nick Jonas qualify? What does Urban Dictionary think? And what does it have to do with breast cancer?
In this episode: News- 5:19 || Main Topic (Gay Baiting)- 23:35 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:06:52
If you want some gayish rewards, including the opportunity to pick your own episode topic, go to www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast
Gayish: 178 Fathers' Day (w/ the Peters-Mathews Family)
We follow up on episode 139 (Surrogacy) to see what it’s like so far for gay dads raising their newborn baby. Joseph, Brandon, and baby Topher Peters-Mathews join us to talk about Fathers’ Day.
In this episode: News- 2:33 || Main Topic (Fathers' Day)- 22:21 || Guests (the Peters-Mathews Family)- 35:49 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:06:00
On the Patreon bonus segment, you'll hear how Joseph felt about his sermon being used in the Gay White Privilege episode. Support us and get bonus stuff at the same
Gayish: 177 Fat (w/ @gayfatfriend aka Todd Masterson)
Todd Masterson, known on Instagram as @gayfatfriend, shares how Instagays like Matt Dempsey feel about his account. Plus, Mike and Kyle get uncomfortably personal.
In this episode: News- 2:33 || Main Topic (Fat)- 19:34 || Guest (Todd Masterson)- 1:13:09 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:31:01
On Monday's bonus segment, fat shaming. To access this segment, plus tons of bonus content, go to www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 176 Gay White Privilege
You are not exempt from white privilege just because you’re gay.
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Gayish: 175 Aliens
This episode has everything: anal probes, Marvin the Martian, Britney Spears, Chuck Tingle, and we reveal which of the hosts is most likely to be an alien.
In this episode: News- 3:44 || Main Topic (Aliens)- 14:13 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:07:07
On Monday's bonus segment, Fucking Dan shares the details of his new favorite competition and life goal, Intergalactic Power Bottom. For other fun bonus things, go to www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 174 Versatile
Move over tops, bottoms, and sides. We finally talk about that #VersLife.
In this episode: News- 5:55 || Main Topic (Versatile)- 19:01 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:01:17
On Monday's bonus segment, Fucking Dan talks about the many definitions of "switch," and it's not the same as versatile.
Gayish: 173 Disability (w/ Andrew Gurza)
Special. Sex Education. Glee. We talk about these shows and more when we discuss disability representation in the media with Andrew Gurza from the podcast Disability After Dark. #PP4CP
In this episode: News- 3:10 || Main Topic (Disability)- 19:30 || Guest (Andrew Gurza)- 26:10 || Gayest & Straightest- 55:30
Coming Monday on our Patreon bonus segment, Fucking Dan shares his personal experiences. For bonus content, go to patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 172 Little Richard [Shrinkage]
The many sexual orientations of Little Richard.
Gayish: 171 How Are You Doing?
No, really. How are you doing?
Gayish: 170 Monster Trucks
On this supes butch livestream, we talk about monster trucks! But no really. We really talk about monster trucks. Like, the history of monster truck rallies, famous monster trucks, personal monster truck experiences. It’s so str8. (Sorry this is a day late!)
In this episode: News- 1:33 || Main Topic (Monster Trucks)- 17:44 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:14:40
In one of Kyle’s favorite Patreon segments, fucking Dan talks about gendered kids’ toys and Friends. For bonus content, go to patreon.com/gayi
Gayish: 169 Camming
In these difficult times, so many ads and articles start with the phrase “in these difficult times,” and it really bums me out. Instead, let’s talk about the fun you can have with camming, even in these difficult times.
In this episode: News- 3:08 || Main Topic (Camming)- 15:04 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:04:23
Thank you to our sponsor, Taimi! Download the Taimi app for LGBTQ chatting, hanging out (virtually), and dating.
Gayish: 168 AIDS
We do our best to cover the monumental topic of AIDS and end up calling Mike’s Mom for reinforcement. Thank you to Patreon member Steve Hartman for requesting this topic.
In this episode: News- 1:50 || Main Topic (AIDS)- 13:40 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:09:49
To see how you can pick an episode topic, visit our Patreon page for levels and rewards: www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 167 Rubber (w/ Amp Somers from Watts Your Safeword)
Special guest, Amp Somers (aka Pup Amp) from the podcast Watts Your Safeword, shares the basics of rubber as a kink. Bring your lube and a couple of friends, because we’re getting into it.
In this episode: News- 1:40 || Main Topic (Rubber)- 21:19 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:01:24
On Monday, we'll post the pop culture references (mainly KimK) that didn't make the cut to the final episode. Bonus content, episode, and other cool shit at patreon.com/gayishpodcast
Gayish: 166 Threesomes II
“How did we fuck this up so much?” asks Mike during this monumental Gayish first. But whatever, it’s our THIRD BIRTHDAY so we re-talk about threesomes!
In this episode: News- 11:28 || Main Topic (Threesomes)- 25:47 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:05:30
Monday’s bonus segment is FREE as our birthday gift to you. I don’t know what to say about it other than idk y’all. Check it out at www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 165 Cocktails
It’s a hot mess of a quarantined livestream where we talk about, and (regrettably) make each other, cocktails.
In this episode: News- 7:19 || Main Topic (Cocktails)- 20:03 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:23:53
On Monday, you'll get to hear the Q&A we did after the livestream where we answer your gayish questions! Go to patreon.com/gayishpodcast for bonus content and more stuff.
Gayish: 164 Open Relationships (w/ Keegan & Tom)
Open up, it’s time for open relationships! Mike and Kyle share gayta and our personal experiences with open relationships. Plus, our married friends Keegan and Tom talk about opening up their relationship after 12 years of monogamy.
In this episode: News- 2:54 || Main Topic (Open Relationships)- 13:36 || Guests (Keegan & Tom)- 37:51 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:06:17
On Monday, get ready, because Keegan and Tom talk about hooking up with one of the Gayish people... but which one? This bonus segme
Gayish: 163 Leprechauns
A magically delicious episode about gay leprechauns and leprechaun dicks.
In this episode: News- 4:22 || Main Topic (Leprechauns)- 19:14 || Gayest & Straightest- 59:45
On Monday's Patreon segment, surprise, surprise, we talk about dicks again. Bonus content and other fun things available at patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 162 Dolly Parton (w/ Patty Johnson)
Ma Johnson joins us to talk about gay icon Dolly Parton. Why is she a gay icon? Do we care?
In this episode: News- 9:06 || Main Topic (Dolly Parton)- 23:38 || Guest (Ma Johnson)- 25:41 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:05:09
On Monday, you'll get to hear the unedited version of Ma Johnson's life update, which I cut down heavily for the main episode. Get it at www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 161 The Closet (w/ Kevin Gerdes)
Guest Kevin Gerdes from the podcast LGBT Stories joins us to talk about the closet and the pressure to come out.
In this episode: News- 1:00 || Main Topic (The Closet)- 10:24 || Guest (Kevin Gerdes)- 21:12 || Gayest & Straightest- 56:46.
On Monday's bonus segment, Mike explains where the phrase "coming out of the closet" came from, and Kyle is actually interested.
Gayish: 160 Butt Plugs
Butt plugs: a hole new world.
In this episode: News- 5:37 || Main Topic (Butt Plugs)- 17:38 || Gayest & Straightest- 59:31.
Coming Monday on our Patreon bonus segment... well, you don't wanna miss it. Trust us. www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 159 Meditation (w/ Justin Michael Williams)
Who is your authentic self? Justin Michael Williams joins us to help us uncover a different style of meditation and figure out what is going on with that neuronal orgy in our heads.
In this episode: News- 1:10 || Main Topic (Meditation)- 15:43 || Justin Michael Williams- 23:13 || Gayest & Straightest- 58:26
On Monday, Mike and Kyle talk gay meditation retreats. Are they sexy? Are they cool? Are we going to speculate due to lack of first-hand knowledge? Find out on the bonus segment, which will b
Gayish: 158 Sci Fi
In this episode about Star Trek—er, I mean, science fiction, we cover Orson Scott Card, Star Trek, LGBT representation in sci-fi, Star Trek, the characters of Star Trek, and lots of specific references to Star Trek.
In this episode: News- 6:51 || Main Topic (Sci Fi)- 19:25 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:12:22
Then, on the bonus segment, Fucking Dan tells us about sci fi sex workers (comes out Monday!). Go to www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast to get access to that segment and all the other bonus segments
Gayish: 157 Ovaries (w/ If These Ovaries Could Talk)
This episode is like a kick to the ovaries. Robin Hopkins and Jaimie Kelton from the podcast If These Ovaries Could Talk join us to talk ovaries, alternative families, and eating pussy.
In this episode: News- 6:17 || Main Topic (Ovaries)- 14:01 || Guests (Robin Hopkins and Jaimie Kelton)- 20:16 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:05:27
Plus, on Monday's bonus segment, you'll get to listen to more of our hilarious conversation with Robin and Jaimie. Go to patreon.com/gayishpodcast for early access to epis
Gayish: 156 Fetish Night
What is it about fetishes that irks Mike? It’s not monkeys. Or The Eagle. Or balloons. Or feet. Let’s just say, if your fetish is strict denotative adherence, you’re in for a treat.
In this episode: News- 2:31 || Main Topic (Fetish Night)- 14:32 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:06:28
On the Monday bonus segment, Fucking Dan tells us about Bettie Page, the Queen of Pinups, and her connection to a Fetish Night Dan used to go to.
Gayish: 155 App Makeover (w/ Tiffany Troiano and Nicole Firestone)
Mike’s Scruff game is... wanting. Kyle tears his profile apart with the help of two experts, Tiffany Troiano and Nicole Firestone, to help his online persona reflect the amazing person we know that he is.
In this episode: News- 6:44 || Main Topic (App Makeover)- 16:23 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:14:53
On Monday, Dan will flip the script by giving Scruff a makeover on the bonus Patreon segment, which will be available at www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast
Gayish: 154 Cigars
Are cigars #TotesMasc or are they pseudo-penises for your mouth? We check in on the science when we talk about the stereotypes of cigars.
In this episode: News- 1:43 || Main Topic (Cigars)- 13:30 || Gayest & Straightest- 57:46
On the Monday bonus segment, Fucking Dan talks about cigar fetishes, including his cigar fetish fantasies. Get early access to episodes an bonus content at www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 153 Polari Primer [Shrinkage]
To kick off our goal of learning Polari, we introduce you to Polari Word of the Week, refresh you on the words we've already learned, and tell you how you can learn along with us.
Gayish: 152 Fitness
You may be setting fitness goals for the new year, and we have some advice for you (and for ourselves). Also, Richard Simmons.
In this episode: News- 5:41 || Main Topic (Fitness)- 16:37 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:16:58
Coming Monday (spell "coming"), Fucking Dan talks about his own fitness journey. To get early access to episodes, plus lots of bonus content, go to www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 151 Fruit
Why does fruit mean gay? Mike explains its origin in connection to a secret gay language. Plus, Urban Dictionary, Skittles, fruit booty, and more.
In this episode: News- 7:00 || Main Topic (Fruit)- 12:54 || Gayest & Straightest- 59:33
Also, Fucking Dan tells us whether pineapple really makes your cum taste better in the bonus Patreon segment, coming on Monday. Support us & get bonus content at patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 150 Q&Gay
You have gayish questions. We have gayish answers. We celebrate our 150th episode with a very special Q&A from you, the gayish listeners! What are Mike and Kyle's favorite episodes? How much math did you all ask us to do? How many notches are on Mike's bedpost for his lifetime, and is it more or less than Kyle's number this week?
Gayish: 149 Jerking Off
Mike goes to a jerk-off club and talks about meeting the love of his life. Plus, jerk-off related gayta, euphemisms, and religious teachings.
In this episode: News- 8:21 || Main Topic (Jerking Off)- 14:08 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:20:15
This Monday, we’ll release our bonus Patreon segment from Fucking Dan about how he cured his premature ejaculation. Bonus content and more available at www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 148 Jocks (w/ Brock McGillis)
We cover everything from jocks, jockstraps, straight guys, and Grindr to self-hatred and suicide with our guest Brock McGillis, the first openly gay professional hockey player. Check out his upcoming TV show, This Is Shit, with RuPaul’s Drag Race alumni and star Mrs. Kasha Davis, at www.wowpresentsplus.com/this-is-shit.
In this episode: News- 6:49 || Main Topic (Jocks)- 17:32 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:05:38
Coming soon to Patreon, a bonus segment from Dan covering jockstrap mystery. Get bonus s
Gayish: 147 Anxiety
Kyle either has anxiety or just an extreme case of anxiety about whether he has anxiety or not. Mike only has anxiety sometimes, but when he does apparently it makes life difficult in the bedroom. Try not to bite your nails as we talk about the all too common issue of anxiety, something that everyone deals with but especially gay people.
Gayish: 146 Daddies
Are you my Daddy? We rev up our BDE (Big Daddy Energy) to answer the all-important question of whether Mike is Daddy.
In this episode: News- 2:52 || Main Topic (Daddies)- 17:02 || Gayest & Straightest- 59:12
To get a bonus segment with Fucking Dan’s real-life daddy, who is also 12 years younger than him, go to www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 145 Hate Crimes
While Mike selfishly celebrates his birthday in Scotland, Fucking Dan steps in as co-host so he and Kyle can tell each other horribly sad hate crime stories, including the shooting at gay bar Backstreet Cafe by Ronald Gay and the murders of Michelle Abdill, Roxanne Ellis, and Scott George by Robert Acremant.
In this episode: News(ish)- 4:12 || Main Topic (Hate Crimes)- 5:39 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:06:43
To get a bonus segment with gayta about hate crimes, go to www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 144 Sex Hotel (w/ Davey Wavey)
We face our body image issues head on when we consider getting naked at a “sex hotel” with Davey Wavey, creator of Himeros.tv. And yes, one of us gets naked. :O
In this episode: News- 4:42 || Main Topic (Sex Hotel)- 15:30 || Davey Wavey- 27:40 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:18:32
Plus, more of our discussion with Davey Wavey, including how to hook up at a bathhouse, self esteem when using sex apps, and waiting in a room ass up, all available in our bonus segment available at www.patreon.com/gayishpo
Gayish: 143 Fantasies
What are your fantasies? Do gay men have nastier fantasies than the straights? Where does Mike get his erotic fiction? Plus Mike/Kyle slash fiction that makes everyone deeply uncomfortable. If you'd prefer not to hear us talk sexy to each other, skip the "Slash fiction performance" section from the timestamps below.
In this episode: News- 2:30 News || Main Topic (Fantasies)- 16:36 || Slash fiction performance- 1:03:28 || Slash fiction discussion- 1:18:17 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:23:19
Plus, Fu
Gayish: 142 Gogo Boys (w/ Steve Rodriguez from Talk About Gay Sex)
Steve V. Rodriguez from Talk About Gay Sex Podcast shares his experiences as a gogo boyand the sketchy producer that lived up to the Hollywood reputation.
In this episode: News- 5:22 || Main Topic (Gogo Boys)- 11:55 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:00:40
Plus, Fucking Dan recounts a gogo-boy-related murder in our bonus segment, available at www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 141 Spirit(s)
Mike and Kyle talk about Spirit Day, spirits, spirits, spirit animals, and the Holy Spirit.
In this episode: News- 6:23 || Main Topic [Spirit(s)]- 18:06 || Gayest & Straightest- 42:03
Also, Dan shares his sometimes terrifying experiences of being bullied growing up in our bonus segment at www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 140 Britney Spears
IT’S BRITNEY, BITCH! In spite of his resistance, Mike remembers several moments where Britney had a major impact on his life.
In this episode: News- 3:54 || Main Topic (BRITNEY SPEARS)- 14:40 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:13:15
Also, Kyle launches into full defense mode when Fucking Dan tells him why Britney is homophobic in our bonus segment available at www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 139 Surrogacy (w/ Joseph and Brandon Peters-Mathews)
Mike and Kyle talk to a married gay couple about their baby, who is due in just a couple of weeks, and the journey they took to get there. Guests: Husbands Joseph Peters-Mathews (from Episode 37 about gay priests) and Brandon Peters-Mathews.
In this episode: News- 3:22 || Main Topic (Surrogacy)- 12:27 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:11:31
Bonus segment with more datums about same-sex couples with children available at www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 138 Vulnerability (w/ Davey Wavey)
YouTuber Davey Wavey joins us to talk about (and practice) vulnerability by getting really, really, really personal.
In this episode: News- 2:45 || Main Topic (Vulnerability)- 13:59 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:07:09
Bonus segment with a different spin on vulnerability at www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 137 Dykes (w/ Hot Takes with Hot Dykes)
Astrology, the top shortage, lesbian bed death, and astrology. We talk about lesbian stereotypes with Clara Pluton and Val Nigro of the Hot Takes with Hot Dykes podcast. Oh, we also talk about astrology.
In this episode: Corrections- 2:29 || Guests Clara Pluton and Val Nigro join us to talk about dykes- 7:35 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:04:40
Bonus segment from Fucking Dan about the origin of the word "dyke" at www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 136 Rimming
Eat Ass. Love Ass. Pray Ass.
In this episode: News - 4:35 | Main Topic (Rimming) - 14:15 | Gayest & Straightest - 1:04:49
Bonus segment from Fucking Dan about his top-secret homemade lube product is available at www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 135 The Gay Bechdel Test [Shrinkage]
After a long hiatus, we're back with a new Shrinkage! Kyle talks about the gay version of the Bechdel Test and LGBT representation in movies.
Gayish: 134 Harry Potter
Oh Merlin! We talk about Dumbledore's gayness, JK Rowling's TERFness, and who is Rebecca Salt? Thank you to Cian and Javier for requesting this topic as part of their Patreon benefits!
In this episode: News - 2:21 | Main Topic (Harry Potter) - 12:44 | Gayest & Straightest - 51:41
If you want to decide a future episode topic, go to www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast to take a look at the benefits and levels!
Gayish: 133 Non-Binary (w/ Tuck Woodstock from Gender Reveal)
Tuck Woodstock, host of the Gender Reveal podcast, joins us to answer inappropriate questions about being non-binary. [UPDATE: Since recording this episode, Tuck has updated their name. In the episode, you'll hear all of us use their (now) dead name, which has been preserved as-is given the importance to our conversation.]
In this episode: News - 4:13 | Main Topic (Non-Binary) - 12:44 | Gayest & Straightest - 56:45
Bonus segment about the singular they/them pronouns available at www.patreon.com/
Gayish: 132 Poppers: Live from Pride48 in New Orleans
So... what exactly are poppers? Is it Kyle or Mike that basically has no idea? What will it be like when we find out in front of a live audience? Get ready to clean your VCR!
Gayish: 131 Cars
The only cars we really care about are muscle cars, minus the cars part. But I guess we’ll talk about them anyway.
In this episode: News - 9:23 | Main Topic (Cars) - 19:44 | Gayest & Straightest - 1:04:48
Bonus segment about rainbow stickers on cars available at www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 130 Strippers
One of makes friends with them, the other can’t handle them. Get your ones ready, it’s strippers!
In this episode: 4:37 - News | 14:42 - Main Topic (Strippers) | 1:00:30 - Gayest & Straightest
Bonus segment about whether go-go boys are straight or gay available at www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 129 Breakups
I hate this part right here.
In this episode: 5:23 - News | 24:16 - Main Topic (Breakups) | 1:29:09 - Gayest & Straightest
Gayish: 128 Sailors
A special thank you to A.É. Coleman for requesting this topic as part of his Patreon benefits. Is the Navy really all that gay? Plus, the return of Momsplaining.
In this episode-- 1:19 - News | 10:19 - Main Topic (Sailors) | 1:03:02 - Gayest & Straightest
Check out the Patreon benefits, including bonus episodes and segments, at www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 127 White Claw Challenge
Why are gay people expected to be on the forefront of trends? Also, we delve into White Claw, if it's good or bad, and the hard seltzer water craze.
6:34 - News
16:55 - Main Topic (White Claw)
1:02:15 - Gayest & Straightest
Check out the Gayish YouTube video with our actual blind taste taste.
Bonus segment for some Patreon members: what your La Croix flavor means about your sexual interests.
Thanks to our friend Doug Antkowiak for the idea for this episode!
Gayish: 126 STIs
What is the difference between STI and STD? And what deep dark secret has Mike been hiding that turns out is not that dark after all? Kyle asks "what about straight guys"? Take a listen for a typically Gayish look at sexually transmitted infection.
Gayish: 125 Rainbows
For our Pride48 live stream, we delve into the mystery and science of rainbows.
Gayish: 124 Pups (w/ Pup Kero)
Sit. Stay. Now, play!...this episode. Our guest Pup Kero teaches Mike and Kyle that pup play is more than just a kink.
Full transcript available at http://www.gayishpodcast.com/index.php/2019/06/27/gayish-124-pups-w-pup-kero/.
Support us on Patreon: https://patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Gayish: 123 People of Color (w/ Kevin Toovey, Jake Leon-Guerrero, and Xander Hurley)
Like an open gay couple, we celebrate Pride month with even more guests. Kevin Toovey, Jake Leon-Guerrero, and Xander Hurley join us to talk about their experiences as LGBT people of color.
Gayish: 122 Atheism (w/ Sarah Austin from SarahTalk Podcast)
Is Kyle religious? God, no! Guest Sarah Austin from the SarahTalk podcast joins us to talk about how she went from attending a First Christian church on the road to becoming a preacher to an atheist.
Gayish: 121 Late Bloomers (w/ Mark Traphagen)
It’s never too late to be gay! Guest Mark Traphagen joins us to talk about what it has been like to come out in his 60s.
More with Mark available for select Patreon members at https://www.patreon.com/posts/more-late-bonus-27427820.
Gayish: 120 Boobs
How did it take us this long to talk about boobs? Get out your sports bra, and get ready to hear all about the complicated relationship between gay guys and breasts. Also, a very personal and disturbing true crime segment that will leave you wondering why you listen (even more than usual).
Gayish: 119 Therapy
At the request of our Facebook Group, we discuss an important mental health topic, therapy. And yes, Gayish counts as therapy. You’ll pretty much be totally not crazy after listening to this.
Gayish: 118 Spain
¡Cojan las orejas! Hablamos de España (in English, claro). Spain is super gay-friendly… or is it? Send this episode to your Spanish friend! We’re trying to get more Spain cred.
Gayish: 117 Beyoncé
Let me sit this podcaaaaaaaast on ya, show you how we feel.... about Beyoncé.
Gayish: 116 Circumcision
What started as an episode about foreskin turned into a full episode trying to answer the question, “should we circumcise babies with penises?”
Gayish: 115 Fashion
We are gay and don't care about fashion. (If you say you're going to take our gay cards, we'll lose our shit.)
Gayish: 114 Beards
A special thank you to Chris Sanders for requesting this topic as part of his Patreon benefits. Or if you hate it, blame him because we did not choose this he did. Mike and Kyle look at the fascinating world of beards. Come find out why Mike and Kyle were both screwed up by their childhood despite being on opposite ends of the hirsute spectrum.
Gayish: 113 The Matrix [Shrinkage]
On the 20th anniversary of The Matrix, people have been re-evaluating the Oscar-winning movie from a new lens of trans-ness given, unlike when it was released, the Wachowskis are now out trans women.
Gayish: 112 Double
Celebrate our 2 year anniversary with doubles: double dass, double penetration, double entendres, and more. Plus, announcements about live shows, t-shirts, Patreon, and more! (Yes, I said “and more” twice. It’s double.)
Episode 112 Teaser
EXCITING GAY THINGS are coming up next week. It’ll be our two year anniversary, and we have fun surprises for you. This isn't a new episode, just a tease.
Gayish: 111 Ma Johnson's Birthday (w/ Patty Johnson)
Mike's Mom, the infamous Ma Johnson, answers your questions, including what she thinks of Mike's exes, whether she's a top or bottom, and what she likes least about Mike.
Gayish: 110 St. Patrick's Day
This Irish celebration is a battle ground for queer inclusion. But when it comes to St. Patrick himself, maybe there's more to the story.
Gayish: 109 Voyeurism
Lend us your voy-ears because we get off on knowing you're listening to us talk about voyeurism, both consensual and non-consensual.
Gayish: 108 Mardi Gras
Is Mardi Gras straight or gay? We cover New Orleans, Southern Decadence, Sydney Gay and Lesbian Mardi Gras, and beeeeeeeads! Plus, an appearance from one of our favorite guests.
Gayish: 107 YouTube Censorship (w/ Calvin Banks and Davey Wavey)
Gay porn star Calvin Banks and YouTuber Davey Wavey talk about how Calvin’s very personal story of abuse was removed by YouTube and how censorship is impacting LGBT YouTubers.
Gayish: 106 Romance
Obviously the two best people to give relationship advice, Mike and Kyle discuss aromantics, romantic literature, and why straight people should avoid chocolate. Happy VD!
Gayish: 105 Gay at Work
Gay death penalty, Jussie Smollett, a correction, the formula for group sex, and all before we get to the topic of being gay in the workplace. If you want to jump right to the topic, start at 35:45.
Gayish 104: Threesomes
Threesomes are a thing we should talk about, right? Come be our third or fourth wheel as we look at the rich tapestry that is sex between three people. At the same time. In the same place. Probably.
Gayish: 103 Gaymers (w/ Matt Baume)
Queer representation in video games is getting better! Special guest Matt Baume joins us to get into the nitty gritty nerdy queerity of gaming.
Topics: Kamala Harris, Star Trek, Graham Linehan, mermaids, hbomberguy, Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez
Gayish: 102 Gay Friends
How do gays make gay friends? Does the ‘f’ in friend stand for ‘fuck first’?
Gayish: 101 The Gym
The question that splits our community - have you ever hooked up at the gym? Plus, hear about the gym's gay history, locker room fun and flops, and if straight guys need to be worried.
Gayish: 100 Q&Gay, Hung for the 1st (w/Fucking Dan Garlington)
After 100 episodes, and 100 shots of beer, we recorded this trainwreck. Enjoy the questions and answers, well wishes from our friends, and hear us generally be a sloppy mess. Plus meet Fucking Dan!
Gayish: 099 Superheroes
So, Batman and Robin are gay, right? The answer, plus homophobia in comics, tight nipple-suits, gay superpowers, and other LGBT superheroes.
Gayish: 098 Nipples (w/ Davey Wavey)
Special guest Davey Wavey, owner of the second and third most famous nipples (after Janet), joins us to teach us how to pleasure our nipples.
Gayish: 097 Gay Dreams
What does it mean if you·re a straight guy that has a gay sex dream? Or vice versa? Wet or dry, gay or straight, most of us have sex dreams. We take a look at what actual science says about your dreams to figure out what dreams say about us.
Gayish: 096 Santa
Santa comes down your chimney early this year! Mike and Kyle talk about every possible Santa: gay Santa, black Santa, Russian Santa, and underwear-clad Santa. Happy Holigays!
Gayish: 095 Sluts: Live(ish) in Portland
Live (kinda) from the Portland Podcast Festival, Mike and Kyle talk sluts, gay sex, and streetcars.
Gayish: 094 Turkey
There are at least 101 reasons not to listen to this episode. One of them is the Thanksgiving food Kyle loves to hate, Turkey. Join us as we take a look at the strange world of Turkey, and somehow stumble into the list of the most offensive things on the internet.
Gayish: 093 Vaginas
What are gold star gays, and why do we hate them? Who knew Mike and Kyle would come out in such strong support of vaginas and all they stand for.
Gayish: 092 Gay Virginity (w/ He Said He Said)
What does losing your virginity mean to gay men? We invited Ray and Jay from the He Said He Said podcast to help us blow a hole in the traditional ideas of what virginity means.
Gayish: 091 Freddie Mercury
Freddie Mercury, because Freddie Saturn canceled on us. Mike and Kyle talk about Freddie, Queen, HIV/AIDS, the new Rami Malek movie Bohemian Rhapsody, the song Bohemian Rhapsody, and straightwashing. Plus, the potentially rich nuances of Fat Bottomed Girls.
Gayish: 090 Gay Taxonomy
Twink, twank, twunk. Mike and Kyle examine the sub-categories of gays, such as twinks, twunks, bears, otters, and peacocks?
Gayish: 089 LA Gays (w/ Justin Michael Williams)
Artist Justin Michael Williams shares the good, the bad, and the black of LA gay culture, including his struggles with an eating disorder. Download his free meditation guide at www.meditationkingdom.com.
Gayish: 088 Pumpkin Spice
Grab your Uggs and your butt hookah, and get ready to decide if you like your PSL with or without mace. Join us as we take a fascinating look at the pumpkin spice phenomenon!
Gayish: 087 PrEP
There’s a lot of False-vadas out there, so we tell the Truvada. We talk about the magic pill that prevents HIV. Plus, Mike confronts Kyle.
Gayish: 086 Fairies
Why are gay men called fairies? Mike and Kyle explore fairies, faeries, and even ferries in the temporary autonomous zone we co-created to record this episode.
Topics: radical faeries, gay head, fairy godmothers, gay mentors, alaska thunderfuck, chechnya, vietnamese bachelor
Gayish: 085 Cruising
Parks, bathhouses, public bathrooms, and more! We chat with Matt Fisher and Ryan Weadon from the Ex Rated Movies podcast about what cruising means to us and how our experiences don’t always live up to what you see in Queer As Folk.
Topics: Eminem, Karamo, bathhouses, trough urinals, hookups, anonymous sex, adult classified ads, Squirt.org
Gayish: 084 Protests
Take a knee, open up, and let us gush all inside you… about protests.
Topics: Colin Kaepernick, sip-in, Stonewall, Russia Day, Queer Nation, drag queens
Gayish: 083 Gay Porn (w/ Davey Wavey)
Davey Wavey, founder of the erotic gay site Himeros.tv, joins us to talk about the good and the bad of gay porn. If you want a hot, steamy, arousing conversation about porn, sorry ‘bout it because we mostly talk about the ways it fucked us up.
Topics: sex education, Blake Mitchell, sexual health, gay porn studios, Bianca Del Rio, Alex Jones
Gayish: 082 Handjobs: Live in New Orleans
Give me a hand, won't you? This is our live recording from the Pride48 event in New Orleans.
Gayish: 081 Pedophiles
Are gay men more likely to be pedophiles? We reached into the very back of the pedophiling cabinet to pull out this risqué topic.
Topics: child abuse, Anita Bryant, NAMBLA, LGBTP, #droptheb
Gayish: 080 Dogs
Gays love their dogs, but why? We talk about the stereotypes, the ups, the downs, and all the in-betweens (literally) of dogs.
Gayish: 079 Instagays
Instagays are hot, but is there more to them? Also, what’s up with Ma Johnson’s crotch? The answer to both questions: probably.
Topics: Instagays, Instagram, Khalid El Khatib, Logan Fletcher, Antoni, Queer Eye
Gayish: 078 Passing
Mike returns from Russia! We share our personal experiences and some research about the damaging consequences of passing for straight. #downer
Topics: passing, mental health, closeted, Russia, gay
Gayish: 077 Homophobes (w/ Josh Galassi)
We welcome our first ever guest co-host, Josh Galassi, to talk homophobes with Kyle. Also, an update from Mike in Russia.
Topics: homophobes, homophobia, Josh Galassi, Dorothy Hajdys, Allen Schindler Jr., Bill Clinton, Don’t Ask Don’t Tell
Gayish: 076 Wine (w/ Chris Bolla)
Wines aren’t gay or straight, but the people that order them are. Chris Bolla, manager of the Wines of Washington Tasting Room, shares the stereotypes of who orders different types of wine. Also, BROSÉ Y’ALL!
Topics: Justice Kennedy, gay-friendly wines, Two-Buck Chuck, wine tasting
Gayish: 075 Russia
Russia may have anti-LGBT laws, but it has a pretty queer history. They might as send us to jail now because we get all Gayish on its ass, right before Mike gets inside it.
Topics: gay propaganda law, World Cup 2018, Apple, Chechnya, Tchaikovsky, face control
Gayish: 074 Soccer
In celebration of the World Cup, we talk soccer guys, putos, and talk about real soccer phrases that sound real gay.
Topics: 2018 World Cup, Russia, Mexico, FIFA, Robbie Rogers, Collin Martin
Gayish: 073 Watersports
Our live streaming (in more ways than one) broadcast for Pride48 2018. Topic: watersports, golden shower, pornhub, ricky martin, annie sprinkle, albert fish
Gayish: 072 Queer Dads
As a belated Father’s Day gift, we are celebrating dads of all shapes and sizes. Sorry daddies and daddy enthusiasts, this is about actual fathers.
Gayish: 071 Queer Eye [Shrinkage]
Queer Eye. Season Two. Netflix. We talk about it. The good and the bad. You know the drill.
Gayish: 070 Amtrak Deaths
Why do Amtrak passengers keep dying? After recent news of Aaron Salazar’s mysterious coma-inducing injuries, Mike and Kyle dig in to other unexplained Amtrak deaths (or are they murders?).
Gayish: 069
What do you expect from episode 69?
Gayish: 068 SCOTUS
Legalese? Legal please! Let’s dig into cake like Rihanna on her not birthday, and other important gay cases. Topics: Masterpiece Cakeshop v. Colorado Civil Rights Commission, Ruth Bader Ginsburg, Supreme Court, Lawrence v. Texas, Loving v. Virginia, Obergefell v. Hodges
Gayish: 067 Hockey
To celebrate the Stanley Cup, we talk about hockey (of the ice, not of tonsils). Strap on your helmet and get your curvy stick ready, it’s going to be a weird three periods. Topics: hockey rules, hockey terms, Voight Demeester, Howard Bloom, 1999, Brad Marchand
Gayish: 066 Dicks
Are you as shocked as we are it took this long for us to do this episode? This week is all about dicks! So many dicks! All the dicks! It seems appropriate that it is an extra-long episode too. Enjoy.
Gayish: 065 Unicorns
OK, so this episode is about unicorns. Why? We have no idea. I mean, they are pretty gay. But we also talk about millenials, pooping ice cream, and Kyle says something that Mike says is his favorite thing that has ever been said on the podcast.
Gayish: 064 Gay Dating
It’s not all brunch dates and morning blow jobs. Gay dating in a straight world can be tricky. Topics: Colton Haynes, psychology of dating, gay dating vs. straight dating, how to lie on the first date, dating Kyle
Gayish: 063 Interview with Josh Galassi [Shrinkage]
Gayish interviews Josh Galassi about his Queerty article, “I’m gay and disabled and no one in Seattle will have sex with me.”
Gayish: 062 Gay Bars (w/ Josh Galassi)
By listener request, we talk about the ups and downs (and rinse and repeat as desired) of gay bars. We are joined by our guest, Queerty writer and potential Kyle replacement, Josh Galassi. Topics: dos and don’ts of gay bars, Cafe Lafitte in Exile, gay bar assault
Gayish: 061 BDSM (w/ Max Cameron)
THIS EPISODE IS A SHOCKER NO NOT THAT KIND OF SHOCKER. Special Guest: Max Cameron (bondagelessons.com). Topics: BDSM, kink, polyamorous, Max Cameron, bondage Skippers: BDSM discussion starts at 15:50
Gayish: 060 Ally Steinfeld
The murder of Ally Steinfeld. We try to record an edit-free podcast this time. It didn’t work. Topics: Ally Steinfeld, murder, true crime, trans, transgender, transphobia Skippers: Ally’s story starts at 13:09
Gayish: 059 Age
Mike and Kyle discuss our top listener-requested topic: age. Is it true that gay relationships have greater age gaps than straight relationships? Let’s talk about our weird feelings about age! Topics: age gaps, Age Gap Love on Netflix, grandparents’ STDs, gay age gap formula Skippers: age discussion starts at 13:35
Gayish: 058 Weed
Momsplaining returns to define ‘highsexual’. Plus: “Jeff Session. Marijuana. Legal. Maybe won’t be. Um, stockpile. We talked about the stockpiling.” – Mike. Other Topics: Momsplaining, Mike Pence, Marlon Bundo, John Oliver, Weed, Marijuana. Skippers: weed conversation starts at 9:01.
Gayish: 057 Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell (w/ Jeffrey Masters)
If you want to hear Jeffrey Masters, host of the podcast LGBTQ&A, talk about the countless interviews he’s done with notable people in the queer community, maybe listen to his podcast? Because in this episode, Jeffrey joins our discussion about Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell. Follow Jeffrey on Twitter @jeffmasters1 and his podcast @lgbtqpod.
Gayish: 056 RuPaul [Shrinkage]
RuPaul says trans girls are not allowed to be drag queens. Mike is very confused. Kyle does his best to sort it all out.
Gayish 055: Self-harm
Phew. What a roller coaster ride. We talk about how it is impossible to get HIV from chocolate, how Mike has judgy feelings about the straight guy Kyle hooked up with, and that one of us struggles with self harm from time to time. Typical Gayish, we bring you up, bring you down, and bring …
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Gayish 054: Guns
More gays have been arming themselves with guns, and we delve into the reasons why. Plus, we talk to a gay Texan gun-owner, Michael Buss. Put the safety on before listening! Topics: Pulse Nightclub shooting, Omar Mateen, LGBTQ homicide. Skippers: gun conversation starts at 17:54
Gayish: 053 Oral: Live in Seattle
In our first ever live show, Mike and Kyle do oral in front of an audience. Topics: Gus Kenworthy, brojobs, autoblow, spit or swallow Skippers: 7:24 is the start of the oral discussion
Gayish: 052 Hanky Code
Before Grindr or Scruff, gays used handkerchiefs to proclaim what (or who) they were looking for that night. We delve into origins and analysis of the hanky code. Plus, the return of Momsplaining with Ma Johnson. Skippers: 14:54 is the start of the hanky code discussion
Gayish: 051 Figure Skating
Weir going to talk figure skating and Rippon its gayness. And then learn one more gay figure skater’s name to make a third pun. Topics: hockey, Adam Rippon, Mike Pence, The Eagle, Tonya Harding, Nancy Kerrigan, John Curry Skippers: 12:40 is the start of figure skating discussion
Gayish: 050 Q&Gay
You have gayish questions. We have gayish answers. We celebrate our 50th episode with a very special Q&A from you, the gayish listeners!
Gayish: 049 Disney (w/ Doug Antkowiak)
Mike and Kyle uncover the disturbing history Disney has with the LGBTQ community in their parks and characters. Queer mafia: we may need your help defending us from the secret Disney mafia! Guest: our favorite fag stag and Disney expert, Doug Antkowiak.
Gayish: 048 Power Dynamics (w/ Andrew Gurza)
The best recap of this episode is: tops, bottoms, power bottoms, Gay’s Anatomy, age differences, findom, pups, God Jayden, and a whole lotta bro. Our guest is Andrew Gurza from DisabilityAfterDark, the podcast that shines a bright light on sex and disability.
Gayish: 047 Aziz Ansari [Shrinkage]
Mike and Kyle talk about how the Aziz Ansari story and the #metoo movement relate to their own experience in the gay community.
Gayish: 046 The Versace Murder
Ryan Murphy’s upcoming show, “American Crime Story: The Assassination of Gianni Versace,” has the gays in a tizzy with Criss-citement. We talk about gay murderer Andrew Cunanan’s killing spree and how his experience is reflection of our own.
Gayish: 045 Gay Divorce
Mike opens up about his second divorce. Unplanned but important sub-topic: bi erasure. Unplanned but trivial sub-topic: what’s in Jesus’ butt?
Gayish: 044 Clip Show
Our interview with Mary Berry, the time we tried noseblasting, and the hookup that almost destroyed the podcast. These are just some of the highlights from Gayish in 2017.
Gayish: 043 Sex Toys
We introduce a new segment, “Momsplaining with Ma Johnson.” Plus, which sex toy did Mike use incorrectly and end in a messy puddle on the ground?
Gayish: 042 Glitter [Shrinkage]
All that glitters isn’t so gold these day, so suck my cod, Smash Mouth.
Gayish: 041 G0ys [Shrinkage]
Mike and Kyle talk about the phenomenon of g0ys, why “preferences” are really just racism, and we learn Mike definitely does not speak Hebrew.
Gayish: 040 Fisting
We look at fisting from every angle: fisting by the numbers, fisting for dummies, fisting laws in Australia, and fisting stories. (Yes, that covers 100% of the angles.) Our audio got weird during Mike’s story about Double Dick Dude, but it only lasts for a few minutes. We apologize to Mr. Dude.
Gayish: 039 Body Image
Let’s talk about our body image issues and then cry for long enough to get slim, sleek tear ducts!
Gayish: 038 Thanksgiving
A very special Thanksgiving episode, filled with laughter, Two-Spirit, gay pilgrim orgies, horrifying deaths, and more laughter! Thank you to all of our listeners, but especially the effeminate ones.
Gayish: 037 Priests (w/ Joseph Peters-Mathews)
Kyle gets blasphemous when we have a gay priest on to talk about the intersection of religion and sexuality. Guest: Joseph Peters-Mathews.
Gayish: 036 Vermont
We’ve crunched the numbers, and Vermont is a unique state for one reason. Send a link to this podcast to your Vermont-residing friends, and ask them if REM really is on TV.
Gayish: 035 Deadish
Mike explains why ghosts are more likely to be queer in this episode that is supposed to be about LGBTQ ghosts. However a word cloud of the transcript of the episode suggests it’s actually about ‘like’, ‘f— you’, and ‘dan’, in that order.
Gayish: 034 Weddings (w/ Carly Dykes and Matt Eaton)
We’re splitting up! We take the OutKast approach to this episode and let you dive head-first deep inside our gay minds to hear what we think as we attend our (straight) friends’ wedding. Special guests: Matt Eaton and Carly Dykes.
Gayish: 033 Butt Stuff
It’s time for butt stuff, y’all!
Gayish: 032 Coming Out
Kyle’s coming out didn’t go so well. Plus, things not to do when someone comes out to you. Celebrate National Coming Out Day (October 11) with us!
Gayish: 031 Straight Porn
Mike and Kyle get butch AF when they reveal whether or not they watch straight porn in yet another hard-hitting, potentially award-winning episode of Gayish.
Gayish: 030 Drag Queens (w/ Honey Bucket)
We must be tired female monarchs because, in this episode, Mike and Kyle are drag queens! Special guest: Honey Bucket.
Gayish: 029 Trans Murders [Shrinkage]
Why do trans people get murdered more than cis-gendered people?
Gayish: 028 My Favorite Gayish Murder
As a tribute to My Favorite Murder, Mike and Kyle get into some gay homo-cide. Mike recounts the Trick or Treat murder, and Kyle covers the serial killer known as The Wolf Man of London, aka Michael Lupo. Stay gayish, and dont get murdered!
Gayish: 027 Dream Daddy
What starts as a lighthearted review of a gay video game, Dream Daddy, turns into the realization that Mike and Kyle are manipulative, are partially sociopathic, and shouldn’t have friends or relationships. Watch us playing Dream Daddy by searching “gayish podcast” on YouTube, and play Dream Daddy for yourself at dreamdaddy.biz.
Gayish: 026 Hookup Apps
Its not gay if you never learn his name. Mike and Kyle explore the ups and downs of gay hookup apps like Scruff and Grindr.
Gayish: 025 Boxing (w/ Murph Johnson)
Mike and Kyle know nothing about boxing, yet these two gay dudes sophisticatingly anal-yze the Mayweather vs. McGregor fight. That’s why we bring in reinforcements in the form of Mike’s least good brother, Murph Johnson.
Gayish: 024 Ghosts [Shrinkage]
Mike and Kyle try to figure out if their gayness is caused by something otherworldly.
Gayish: 023 Baseball
Why are there no out gay players in the MLB? And are high-fives gay or straight? We turn baseball terms into dirty gay sex acts as we try to talk about a sport we don’t know about.
Gayish: 022 Animals
Dolphins and bonobos and bestiality, oh my!
Gayish: 021 Gender (w/ Zipporah Jarmon and Michelle Janayea)
Can periods be genderless? And more importantly, can society accept those who don’t adhere to conventional gender norms? Guests Zipporah Jarmon and Michelle Janayea, co-owners of Pyramid Seven, share the role clothes, underwear, and periods have played in their lives.
Gayish: 020 Music
Do you know Sia’s sexual orientation? Or who k.d. lang is? Or the song ‘Ur So Gay’? Just admit it. You need this, or you’ll be in treble. Special thanks to Charlie Finn for our new theme song. More info about the music in this episode available at GayishPodcast.com/index.php/music.
Gayish: 019 Consent
Mike and Kyle share stories that blur the lines of consent.
Gayish: 018 Underwear
A non-stop thrill ride of underwear-related facts, stories, and observations. Apologies in advance to anyone who likes Jesus.
Gayish: 017 Andrew Garfield [Shrinkage]
Is Andrew Garfield gay? Does Andrew Garfield hate gay people? Is Andrew Garfield a sexy AIDS time traveler? Are all these questions indefensible click-bate? Listen to find out! You won’t believe minute 21!
Gayish: 016 Mormon (w/ Derek Flora)
Are there gay Mormons? Our friend Derek Flora fills us in on the honest, and sometimes naked (literally), truth of what it was like growing up gay and Mormon.
Gayish: 015 Subaru
Why are Subarus associated with lesbians? We delve into the world of LGBT marketing. Plus, Mike says smart things about current events while Kyle tries to say the word Obergeflet.
Gayish: 014 Blood
Can gay men donate blood? Mike gives Kyle some surprising info on blood and HIV. Plus, a gay football player who almost committed suicide rather than come out.
Gayish: 013 Pride Flag [Shrinkage]
In our first mini episode (for the gays on the go), we talk about the controversial new stripes on the gay pride flag.
Gayish: 012 Gay Pride
Mike and Kyle become better gays by learning where Pride comes from. Then, they become worse gays by questioning if it should exist. Also, whats up Mikes butt?
Gayish: 011 Exes
We welcome our first ever gay guests, Matt and Ryan from the Ex Rated Movies podcast, who are also real life exes. We talk about their sordid romantic history, acceptable age gaps, and the f word. Guests: Matt Fisher and Ryan Weadon.
Gayish: 010 Dungeons & Dragons
Mike and Kyle talk to their friends about their experiences being out Dungeons & Dragons nerds. Special guests: Matt Eaton, Carly Dykes, and Sharayah Lewis.
Gayish: 009 Ball(s)
Mikes fraternity brother, Dan Patzer, stops by to talk about his testicular cancer and bust the misconceptions about having one ball.
Gayish: 008 Safe Space
In this (belated) episode, we talk about where safe spaces came from and what they mean to the gay community. Also, Kyle gets slutty, and Mike yells at you.
Gayish: 007 Mother (w/ Patty Johnson)
In this special Mothers Day episode, Mikes mom stops by to drink wine with us, guess what the words twink, bear, and snowball mean, and answer your questions.
Gayish: 006 Depression
Yup. Depression.
Gayish: 005 Stags (w/ Doug Antkowiak)
Mike and Kyle talk about f*g stags (straight guys who have mostly gay friends). Plus, our favorite f*g stag, Doug Antkowiak, stops by to tell Kyle why he’s bad at being gay.
Gayish: 004 Brothers (w/ Marty and Murph Johnson)
Our first ever guests, Mikes brothers, talk about growing up with a gay brother, Mikes marriage to a woman, and whose dick is bigger. Also Mike ruins several tender family moments. Special guests Marty Johnson and Matthew (Murph) Johnson.
Gayish: 003 Beer
Mike and Kyle drink a lot of beer. We play power hour as we ask each other questions like: What is your favorite body part on a woman? What is your least favorite thing about me? Have you ever sent a dick pic? // Background music is I dunno by grapes (c) copyright 2008 Licensed under …
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Gayish: 002 Basketball
Kyle and Mike share heartbreak and some laughs about a topic they know little about, basketball. We talk about the first gay NBA player (not Jason Collins), the f-word, and how to not be an asshole.
Gayish: 001 First Date
[UPDATE: this is our original first episode, as-is. The sound quality gets continually better, so if you’re an audiophile, you should jump ahead to episode 012.]
Welcome to Gayish, the podcast where Mike and Kyle explore how they fit (and don't fit) the gay stereotypes. In the inaugural episode, Kyle gets angry talking about first dates, including dating apps, monogamy, and who should pay on a first date.