From pregnancy, to childbirth, to infancy, so much of the focus in parenting books is on the mother. So who's giving advice to new dads? What started off as a letter to a dad-to-be friend turned into Ailsa Wild's book You'll Be A Wonderful Dad. Cam and Ali chat to Ailsa about letting dads feel the joy of meeting a child's needs, the mental load, and why Mother's Day and Father's Day is BS. LINKS  Buy You'll Be A Wonderful Dad https://www.hardiegrant.com/au/publishing/bookfinder/book/you_ll-be-a-wonderful-dad-by-ailsa-wild/9781743798485. Follow Ailsa on Instagram @ailsawild. Follow Ailsa on Twitter @ailsawild. Follow Ailsa on Facebook @ailsa.wild. Learn more about Ailsa on her website https://www.ailsawild.com/. Follow Cam on Instagram @camerondaddo.  Follow Ali on Instagram @alidaddo.  Follow Nova Podcasts @novapodcastsofficial.  Got a question for Cam & Ali? You can email them at separatebathrooms@novapodcasts.com.au.  CREDITS  Hosts: Cameron Daddo and Alison Brahe-Daddo. Guest: Ailsa WildManaging Producer: Elle Beattie. Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball.  Find more great podcasts like this at novapodcasts.com.au.  Nova Entertainment acknowledges the traditional custodians of the land on which we recorded this podcast, the Gadigal People of the Eora Nation. We pay our respect to Elders past and present. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.